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Speaker 3: I refuse to cover up in front of my roommates.

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Speaker 3: Gross I twenty one female live with two male roommates.

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Speaker 3: I get it's kind of a weird dynamic for most people,

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Speaker 3: but it works for us.

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Speaker 2: Not if you're not putting your clothes on. Babe.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, I live with two male roommates.

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Speaker 2: She keeps your clothes on.

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Speaker 3: Well, I don't think that's what o'p he's saying. Really,

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Speaker 3: we had been living together before both of them got girlfriends. Also,

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Speaker 3: I've had a boyfriend for four years who is a

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Speaker 3: good friend with my roommates. By the way, this comes

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Speaker 3: We're here to give good advice goofly, but we don't

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Speaker 3: have all the answers. We only know what we do.

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Speaker 3: Please let us know what you would do before it's

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Speaker 3: too late, and oh Pie says, I have never had

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Speaker 3: issues with their girlfriends, even though they are at my

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Speaker 3: place at least five days a week. But they mostly

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Speaker 3: keep to their boyfriend's room and they are truly nice people,

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Speaker 3: so it doesn't really bother me that much. The problem

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Speaker 3: started about five months after we had been living together.

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Speaker 3: I guess at some point both their girlfriends got together

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Speaker 3: to discuss what I have been wearing around the apartment.

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Speaker 3: They confronted me without my roommates one afternoon, saying they

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Speaker 3: would prefer I cover up when I leave my room

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Speaker 3: because it makes everyone in the house really uncomfortable. I

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Speaker 3: ask them to explain what I'm wearing that makes them uncomfortable,

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Speaker 3: to which they responded that they have yet to see

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Speaker 3: me in an appropriate outfit.

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Speaker 2: All right, well they can screw off. We don't care.

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Speaker 2: That's crazy, So what.

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Speaker 3: Are you wearing? They've never seen you in an appropriate outfit.

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Speaker 4: If they've never seen you in an appropriate outfit, can

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Speaker 4: you just tell us what.

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Speaker 3: You were wearing now? Valid concerns for the most part.

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Speaker 3: But let me give some context. I never wear anything

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Speaker 3: inappropriate out of my room. I get changed in the

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Speaker 3: bathroom after showers, and I'm always fully clothed when I

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Speaker 3: leave my room. I wear baggy t shirts and hoodies

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Speaker 3: with sweatpants ninety percent of the time. The most scandalous

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Speaker 3: thing I have worn is a tank top and shorts

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Speaker 3: not see through at all, and with a bra. If

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Speaker 3: that matters there, it.

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Speaker 5: Is you wear those, you wear the baggy you wear

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Speaker 5: the baggy hoodie, you wear the baggy clothes, but you

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Speaker 5: don't get a bra.

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Speaker 2: And that's what she does.

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Speaker 5: Have a brass wearing a bra, she said, in the

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Speaker 5: tank top, You're never.

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Speaker 4: Gonna be able to tell if someone is or isn't

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Speaker 4: wearing a bra under a hoodie like that, you can't tell.

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Speaker 5: I'm just trying to point to why these women are

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Speaker 5: like uncomfortable with the way you're dressing around their boyfriends

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Speaker 5: because and it might be because you're not wearing a bra.

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Speaker 5: I think it's And that's which, by the way, the

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Speaker 5: dumbest thing ever she's talking about.

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Speaker 2: Just with the tank tops, she.

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Speaker 4: Was maybe she's brawless with the long t shirts.

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Speaker 5: But yes, I think I'm almost positive this is what

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Speaker 3: My shorts cover my butt completely and go to about

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Speaker 3: outfits would pass a high school dress code. Not to

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Speaker 3: which I genuinely think is the biggest problem. The first

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Speaker 3: front of other men? This is where I was confused.

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Speaker 3: I explained that I thought I was being respectful and

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Speaker 3: They said I was not a true girl's girl and

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Speaker 3: that I was just waiting to snatch their boyfriends. I

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Speaker 2: I think it means a girl's girl.

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Speaker 3: And these women aren't girls girls, they're men girls.

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Speaker 2: I think they're just girls.

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Speaker 5: You're attractive, Yes, they're jealous of hope, but also devil's advocate.

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Speaker 5: When you say sweatpants talking about talking about swatpants? What

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Speaker 3: I think she's talking about sweatpants.

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Speaker 2: Some people might get trying to get away. You know,

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Speaker 2: I'm saying attracted to sweatpants, but it could be yoga pants.

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Speaker 3: I replied with it is not my fault. You guys

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Speaker 3: are insecure about your relationships, and I have done more

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Speaker 2: That is a really great point in that this has

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Speaker 2: nothing to do with me.

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Speaker 5: If you're so insecure that your boyfriends are gonna leave

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Speaker 5: you for me, like you're just not built for a relationship.

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Speaker 3: Nope, your boyfriends have said nothing to me, So I

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Speaker 3: think you're being over dramatic. This is my apartment. You

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Speaker 3: guys aren't on the lease. You are already here significantly

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Speaker 3: more than what is allowed according to our lease. So

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Speaker 3: I would spread lightly about making demands about how I

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Speaker 3: sign a lease with me.

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Speaker 2: Again, Oh oh, are you their power of attorney to talk?

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Speaker 3: Actually, I'm his lawyer. I'm his lawya girlfriend. He said

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Speaker 2: I'm his loyal mother, asset manager.

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Speaker 3: Funny though, after I talked to their boyfriends alone, they

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Speaker 3: to resign, the least with me. I think it's crazy

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Speaker 3: that they felt the need to gang up on me

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Speaker 3: and try to dictate what I can wear in my

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Speaker 3: little scandalous, but I truly am not. How do I

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Speaker 2: And am I the a hole?

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Speaker 3: There isn't Edit. No, no, you are not, especially if

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Speaker 3: these boyfriends have literally no issue, and presumably you guys

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Speaker 3: are somewhat close if you're living together.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean sounded like it was going to be

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Speaker 4: Start dressing inappropriate, do it for real, Be like, hey,

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Speaker 4: they've been doing this the whole time.

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Speaker 5: I think you should actually go so far the other

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Speaker 5: way that you just wear like a sheet over yourself.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, every time you come out, you're just wearing a sheet.

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Speaker 2: It'd be like a big, big sheet poncho.

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Speaker 4: Edit.

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Speaker 3: Since way more people saw than I thought it would,

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Speaker 3: and this is easier than answering comments. First, my roommates

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Speaker 3: are angels, and since I introduced them, they have become

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Speaker 3: really close to my boyfriend, who does not live with us.

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Speaker 3: By the way, I know that seems weird, but it's

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Speaker 3: just how things work out. Lol. It's not weird to

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Speaker 3: me at all, Opie, That's exactly my living situation. So no,

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Speaker 3: I'm not looking for new roommates. As for my roommates

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Speaker 3: apparently not resigning the lease with me according to their girlfriends,

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Speaker 3: my roommates had no idea why their girlfriends would say that,

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Speaker 3: and we are literally in the process of resigning our

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Speaker 3: lease right now. The girlfriends have not been over since

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Speaker 3: the last conversation I have had with them, so about

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Speaker 3: five days, which is very abnormal for them. According to

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Speaker 3: one of my roommates, I scared his girlfriend a little

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Speaker 3: up for myself and not caving into their delusions scared

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Speaker 3: them a little bit.

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Speaker 2: That's crazy.

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Speaker 5: It's like you were just like, no, I'm actually I'm fine,

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Speaker 5: and you guys are a little over the line in terms.

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Speaker 2: Of I was scared. I was scared for my life.

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Speaker 3: She came out in sweppianth and I thought I was

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Speaker 3: another interaction with them, but apparently they're both coming over tonight.

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Speaker 3: People wondering about what the girlfriends wear. Significantly less clothing

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Speaker 3: than I do, that's for sure, but they're basically supermodel thins,

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Speaker 3: so societally it is more acceptable for them to dress

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Speaker 3: less modestly. Not that I agree, but society is messed up, okay.

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Speaker 3: So here is how the conversation with my roommates went yesterday.

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Speaker 3: I asked them if they were re signing the LAE

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Speaker 3: and they said yes. They also did not know why

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Speaker 3: their girlfriends talked to me instead of talking to them.

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Speaker 3: I asked if they had problems with how I dress

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Speaker 3: around the house, to which they replied, you look homeless. Thanks,

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Speaker 3: that's our humor. I also mentioned how much their girlfriends

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Speaker 3: were at our apartment for context, our rent includes everything

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Speaker 3: it more expensive for me. I said that I don't

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Speaker 3: no issues with anything I said. They're planning on talking

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Speaker 3: And we've got some comments. But do you have any thoughts?

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Speaker 2: Oh boy, we do. Yeah, I think we're right where

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Speaker 2: we want to be. Yeah, the people's whose thoughts are matter.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, your roommates are on your page. Sure, we're good,

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Speaker 3: We're fine.

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Speaker 3: Jeram eleven oh two says, not the a hole. You're

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Speaker 3: comment to them summed it up perfectly. Just ignore them

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Speaker 3: from now on and if they continue this, PS tell

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Speaker 3: your roommates. And Op says, I did talk to my

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Speaker 3: their girlfriends talk to me about it. Cronklasorda says, not

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Speaker 3: the a hole. Even if you were wearing booty shorts

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Speaker 3: and sports bras all day every day, you'd.

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Speaker 2: Still be not the ale as it's.

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Speaker 3: Your home too. They can get over themselves. Oh Pie says,

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Speaker 3: I personally think I have been more than respectful, and

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Speaker 3: you're right. I should be able to wear whatever I

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Speaker 3: Cotton XC says, I live near one of the big

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Speaker 3: state schools. The only rule I'd go with is would

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Speaker 3: it be unusual for someone walking around this campus by

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Speaker 3: that standard? Everything you've described is actually fairly modest. The

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Speaker 3: situation may not work as well as it used to,

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Speaker 3: but not the ale. Oh Pie says, I dress very

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Speaker 3: about my affits to the gym or class. God forbid.

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Speaker 3: Joe Thrilling says, I'm just wondering, what are they expecting

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Speaker 3: you to wear? Oh p says, great question. I think

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Speaker 3: a non costume might fix their concerns. And there's an

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Speaker 3: update two days later. Yeah, oh, let's go into it.

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Speaker 3: I made the post because I knew the girlfriends would

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Speaker 3: I was simply trying to point out that me, being

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Speaker 3: the main point. One of the girlfriends came over first.

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Speaker 3: For simplicity, let's call her Maya.

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Speaker 5: What if that was actually the post to me nah yah,

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Speaker 5: where Simplicity would call.

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Speaker 3: Her nah, it's just short To the point. She approached

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Speaker 3: her Sarah, came over, but I'm not sure when. So

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Speaker 3: I went to the living room wearing my extra large

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Speaker 3: was no way I could be dressing provocatively. My roommates

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Speaker 5: Girlfriends are like you know how boyfriends seek be super

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Speaker 3: He loves the Grinch. Every time for Christmas he makes

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Speaker 2: Do the voice, bab, please do the voice.

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Speaker 3: We all sat down for a conversation. It was very awkward, hellowel.

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Speaker 3: I started off by saying that it is not fair

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Speaker 3: if they are not Penguin facts playing that if Maya

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Speaker 3: for their girlfriends not necessary, but nice gesture. Both girlfriends

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Speaker 3: every time I talked. I'd be like, girl, why are

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Speaker 3: Your boyfriends are being very nice. Why are you rolling

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Speaker 3: your eyes? I'm calling her out? You got are you

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Speaker 3: looking up at something? Something on the ceiling. I addressed

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Speaker 3: that I prance around on my high hoars and skimpy clothes.

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Speaker 3: I asked her what I could possibly be wearing that

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Speaker 2: Bruh, I'm breaking up with her genuinely. If this is

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Speaker 2: her behavior, it is insane.

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Speaker 3: She's trying to dictate what goes on in my house.

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Speaker 2: Also, yeah, she.

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Speaker 5: Goes, you're too obsessive about cleaning and buying things for

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Speaker 2: I'm like, cool, you don't.

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Speaker 3: You live here? Is your boyfriend complaining about that? Because

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Speaker 2: Sorry, I didn't realize you were moving in. I guess

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Speaker 2: you can buy all this stuff. What are you talking about?

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Speaker 3: As for Yeah, she just broke down crying, saying she

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, I'm breaking up with her too, Yeah,

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Speaker 5: because that reads so fake to me. Reads is like

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Speaker 2: I thought, uh uh, it just put them away, put

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Speaker 3: And there is a little teeny weeny bit left to

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Speaker 3: this Storyey, do you.

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Speaker 6: Have any thoughts?

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Speaker 3: These girls suck, these girls stink pee you mee?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, noah.

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Speaker 3: I think I imagine these boyfriends are not going to

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Speaker 2: They're jealous because she got grinch booty, grench booty.

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Speaker 3: Maya was overall not a huge issue from the start.

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Speaker 3: Sarah did most of the confronting, and Maya just backed

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Speaker 4: I can see Sarah's like elbowing her every once in

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Speaker 3: Ah, maybe I don't break up yah, Yeah, but didn't

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Speaker 3: really add to the conversations. I told her that she

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Speaker 3: she didn't see a problem. She said, you want to

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Speaker 3: but I guess it's the thought that counts. Sarah and

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Speaker 3: my roommate had a huge argument that lasted almost an hour.

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Speaker 3: Then she left the apartment completely with all her stuff.

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Speaker 3: I asked my roommate what was going on, and he

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Speaker 3: said he thinks things are over with Sarah, but nothing

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Speaker 3: official yet. Anyway, it's not sure if that's how you

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Speaker 3: all thought it would go down. Overall, I feel much

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Speaker 3: to deal with Sarah again. Thanks for the support and advice.

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Speaker 3: And that's the end of that story, folks. Seems like

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Speaker 3: you got all the important people on your side, so

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Speaker 3: we're good.

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Speaker 2: That's right. And Sarah's gone, Sarah's gone praying on me.

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Speaker 5: Sarah's gone, Colleluji, shes gone.

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Speaker 3: But we've got another story, folks, that were gonna pull

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Speaker 3: up in just a moment.

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Speaker 2: Correct.

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Speaker 5: My roommate caught me washing her mug and I had

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Speaker 5: to lie about it.

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Speaker 3: Why did you have to lie?

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Speaker 2: Why?

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Speaker 5: I thirty male chair an apartment with my friend, thirty female.

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Speaker 2: I'll call her Gwen.

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Speaker 5: Gwen has a lot of mugs, more than we'll fit

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Speaker 5: in the cupboard all at once, so she rotates them seasonally.

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Speaker 2: Okay, she loves swapping them out.

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Speaker 5: I asked why, and she says, it's like getting new

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Speaker 5: mugs every couple of months. But there are two mugs

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Speaker 5: in your collection that never leave the kitchen. They are

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Speaker 5: rarely in the cupboard because the second they are washed,

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Speaker 5: she uses them again. By the way, this comes from user,

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Speaker 5: We are just roomies and if you want to submit

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Speaker 5: your own stories, go to our slash Okay story time

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Speaker 5: severed it.

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Speaker 3: I'm Dakota, I'm Sophia, I'm Carly, and.

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Speaker 2: We are here to give you good advice because we

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Speaker 2: don't have all answers. We just know what we would do.

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Speaker 5: So if you would do something out different, put it

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Speaker 5: down comments, put it down, put now, no right out now.

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Speaker 5: In a comment there, he says, we have a dishwasher,

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Speaker 5: but it's broken. Part of our chore division is that

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Speaker 5: we each take care of our own dishes. The thing is,

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Speaker 5: I know she doesn't like doing her dishes. It's a

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Speaker 5: and I thought that was pretty fair. I also know

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Speaker 5: that Gwen's favorite is her spider man mugs.

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Speaker 3: Is that why you called her in this story? I

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Speaker 3: love the spy. You have a spider man mug. I

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Speaker 3: have a spider Man mug. I freaking love spiderman mug.

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Speaker 2: She has never told me this mug is her favorite.

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Speaker 5: I can just tell because the Spider Man mug gets

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Speaker 2: What the hell's gonna happen to this mug man?

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Speaker 3: Hurt her mug?

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Speaker 2: What's gonna happen in this mug man?

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Speaker 5: I know this because I see it in the sink

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Speaker 5: every day for her to wash before bed with her

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Speaker 5: other dishes from the day. There were times that her

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Speaker 2: For any dishes she left over. I truly didn't mind

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Speaker 5: I understand the sensory issues, and I'm proud of her

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Speaker 5: Now comes apart, I need to get off my chest.

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Speaker 5: The background in Foe was important, I promise. Every time

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Speaker 5: Gwen realizes she can use her Spider Man mug, she

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Speaker 5: dances an adorable happy dance while making her tea for

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Speaker 3: Wait, this is just gonna be really cute, This might

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Speaker 3: just be really wholesome, gonna so are you guys gonna

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Speaker 2: Just doing an adorable happy dance.

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Speaker 5: She doesn't seem to realize she's dancing, or doesn't realize

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Speaker 5: I noticed her dancing. Either way, it's my favorite part

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Speaker 2: And she dances a happy little dance while.

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Speaker 5: Getting her breakfast because she gets to use her Spider

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Speaker 5: Man mug every single morning.

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Speaker 3: This is so sweet.

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Speaker 2: Guys.

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Speaker 5: Their user name was We're just Roomies.

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Speaker 4: Weird yea, And as the story goes on, his name's

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Speaker 3: Boyfriend was just my friend.

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Speaker 6: Ah.

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Speaker 5: It's seriously cheering her up, and she's been a lot

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Speaker 2: Wait what did she just think the mug was being

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Speaker 2: like washed by a fairy? Wait? Oh, okay, let's keep going.

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Speaker 5: This is about to get insane because you're so right, Like,

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Speaker 5: what did she think? Gwen found me washing her dishes

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Speaker 5: last week. I had been doing them for a while,

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Speaker 5: but this was the first time she walked in and

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Speaker 5: gonna lie, I panicked. She thanked me for helping her

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Speaker 5: and then asked why I started to do her dishes too.

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Speaker 5: She even asked if I was annoyed by her dishes

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Speaker 5: when she left them. This was absolutely not the case,

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Speaker 5: but I couldn't tell her. I watch her happy dances.

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Speaker 5: That's creepy, right, but it's so cute. It makes me

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Speaker 5: so happy to see her so happy.

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Speaker 3: You have love, you love you, guys.

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Speaker 2: You're not just roomage. They're just womage like.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and you and key On are just roommates too,

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00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:00,160
Speaker 4: But I know you guys, kid.

441
00:20:00,520 --> 00:20:07,200
Speaker 2: No, no, no, okay.

442
00:20:07,800 --> 00:20:10,120
Speaker 5: If she knew I would watch her dance, she would

443
00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:13,200
Speaker 5: feel self conscious and stop doing them. She's pretty shy

444
00:20:13,240 --> 00:20:15,879
Speaker 5: about stuff like that. She won't sing in front of anyone,

445
00:20:15,920 --> 00:20:18,200
Speaker 5: but singing is one of her favorite things. Okay, Zoey

446
00:20:18,280 --> 00:20:19,840
Speaker 5: Deschanel from Elf.

447
00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:24,919
Speaker 3: Okay, but the mom from the end of it baby cool.

448
00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:35,320
Speaker 2: So what is the line that she sings?

449
00:20:36,400 --> 00:20:45,600
Speaker 5: He knows, he lowsly young way Okay. I'm looking in

450
00:20:45,800 --> 00:20:50,480
Speaker 5: oh boy, so and I've caught her singing along to

451
00:20:50,560 --> 00:20:52,480
Speaker 5: her music before she realizes I'm home.

452
00:20:53,000 --> 00:20:54,359
Speaker 2: More than she realizes.

453
00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:56,919
Speaker 3: In love with her, You're in love with her, literally

454
00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:58,800
Speaker 3: in love, literally in love with her.

455
00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:00,480
Speaker 5: Sounded like something from Like the Hot. It sounds like

456
00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:02,840
Speaker 5: something that like Bilbo Baggins would have said. And I've

457
00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:05,080
Speaker 5: caught her singing along to her music before she realizes

458
00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:07,600
Speaker 5: I'm home more than she realizes. Now there needs to

459
00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:09,800
Speaker 5: be one more realizing there for it to be Bilbo Baggins.

460
00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:12,080
Speaker 2: Realize, realize, realize.

461
00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:15,760
Speaker 5: I also pretend not to notice when that happens. She

462
00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:17,560
Speaker 5: has a really pretty boy.

463
00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:21,439
Speaker 3: You like her, you like her?

464
00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:22,199
Speaker 2: Like her?

465
00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:27,520
Speaker 3: Your freaking little user name says, we're just remis doesn't

466
00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:29,160
Speaker 3: mean it's true personally.

467
00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:30,959
Speaker 2: I don't think you like her. I think you're gay.

468
00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:33,439
Speaker 2: What I'm just trying to take his side.

469
00:21:33,840 --> 00:21:36,800
Speaker 3: It's a male roommate and a female roommate. This whole

470
00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:39,240
Speaker 3: time I thought they were both women, which is why

471
00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:41,480
Speaker 3: when you said I don't think you like her, you're.

472
00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:42,000
Speaker 2: Just a gay?

473
00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:53,240
Speaker 5: Like, what are we talking about? I just said he

474
00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:55,439
Speaker 5: was gay, because that is the thing that is farthest

475
00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:57,240
Speaker 5: away from having a crush on this girl.

476
00:21:57,400 --> 00:21:58,320
Speaker 3: Or he could be a priest.

477
00:21:59,400 --> 00:22:03,600
Speaker 5: Okay, so yeah, I couldn't tell her why I'm really

478
00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:06,280
Speaker 5: doing her dishes, or I would lose my favorite part

479
00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:07,160
Speaker 5: of my day.

480
00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:11,000
Speaker 2: You like her, I told her.

481
00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:13,280
Speaker 5: I like to get mine done every night. It's something

482
00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:14,400
Speaker 5: my mom always told.

483
00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:16,480
Speaker 2: Me to do. I was already there, so it wasn't

484
00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:17,119
Speaker 2: a big deal to do.

485
00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:20,280
Speaker 5: Hers, too, saves water, and so she does a few

486
00:22:20,320 --> 00:22:22,840
Speaker 5: of the household chores that I hate because she likes them,

487
00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:25,680
Speaker 5: So I don't mind doing this one tiny extra chore

488
00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:26,719
Speaker 5: that she doesn't like.

489
00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:29,480
Speaker 3: I know, otherwise you could say water, take showers to

490
00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:29,840
Speaker 3: the other.

491
00:22:30,240 --> 00:22:33,800
Speaker 5: I feel like I was pretty obviously not telling the truth,

492
00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:35,280
Speaker 5: but I think she believed me.

493
00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:39,520
Speaker 3: Lol, Liar, liar, you knows you like her because she

494
00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:40,199
Speaker 3: loves you too.

495
00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:42,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, I think I just summoned I summoned the voice

496
00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:44,119
Speaker 5: from Dune for a second.

497
00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:49,080
Speaker 1: Hey it's Sam. We're gonna get back to the stories.

498
00:22:49,080 --> 00:22:51,080
Speaker 1: But here's three minutes SPADs from her sponsors.

499
00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:53,800
Speaker 5: She didn't tell me to stop, and she hasn't brought

500
00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:56,400
Speaker 5: it up since she caught me, So I still get

501
00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:58,280
Speaker 5: to see her happy dances when she goes into the

502
00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:00,639
Speaker 5: kitchen and sees her spider man uh ready for her

503
00:23:00,680 --> 00:23:01,600
Speaker 5: to start the day.

504
00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:08,440
Speaker 2: And there's an update update marriage. We already know.

505
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:12,200
Speaker 4: I proposed to her with a spider man ring marriage.

506
00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:14,440
Speaker 2: You like her, that's funny.

507
00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:17,960
Speaker 3: You like her, you want to kiss her, to kiss

508
00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:21,320
Speaker 3: you want to kiss your kids. You really like her.

509
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:25,119
Speaker 2: Guys, that's kind of disrespectful. Maybe he just realized to

510
00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:27,679
Speaker 2: see his friend happy. Maybe just maybe you really like

511
00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:29,760
Speaker 2: why we have to kiss all friends?

512
00:23:29,920 --> 00:23:31,200
Speaker 4: You kiss your friends all the time.

513
00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:40,359
Speaker 5: No, no, my girlfriend, I imagine that in this story.

514
00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:46,120
Speaker 3: It's the end of the story. It's New Year's.

515
00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:50,000
Speaker 2: The camera like, yeah together.

516
00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:59,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, what are they saying that it's New Year's. They're

517
00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:02,480
Speaker 3: at a lodge. He sees her across the water.

518
00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:03,800
Speaker 2: There's at the water.

519
00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:05,480
Speaker 3: It's frozen.

520
00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:11,720
Speaker 2: There's a lake. They make out. Whoa that's skipping them?

521
00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:16,879
Speaker 2: Pages sing their karaoke do it? It's all okay. Update.

522
00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:19,080
Speaker 5: A couple of days ago, I made a post at

523
00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:22,760
Speaker 5: three in the morning to confess to doing my roommate's

524
00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:28,560
Speaker 5: dishes because I secretly loved to watch her do a

525
00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:31,680
Speaker 5: happy dance when she sees her favorite mug is clean

526
00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:32,520
Speaker 5: for her to use again.

527
00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:35,359
Speaker 2: That post changed our lives.

528
00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:39,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, married, You're married, And I'm only being a little

529
00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:43,400
Speaker 5: dramatic by saying that. I'm still shook at just how

530
00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:46,919
Speaker 5: many people read about me and my mug's happy best

531
00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:50,840
Speaker 5: friend The number of people saying my post made them

532
00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:54,040
Speaker 5: smile or reminded them of their own friendships or significant

533
00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:58,560
Speaker 5: others has kept me smiling for days. I'm kind of

534
00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:02,399
Speaker 5: into making people happy, if that wasn't already obvious, so

535
00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:04,879
Speaker 5: the fact that so many people had even a moment

536
00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 5: of positiveness because of me has been awesome.

537
00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:11,639
Speaker 2: Okay, buddy, you're pim from smiling friends.

538
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:13,760
Speaker 3: That's crazy. What happens next?

539
00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:16,679
Speaker 2: When I made that original post, it was because I

540
00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:19,600
Speaker 2: just wanted to tell someone about the mug dancing, but

541
00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:21,760
Speaker 2: I knew Gwen wouldn't like it if I told anyone

542
00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:25,280
Speaker 2: we knew, So I came to Red dut to shout

543
00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:28,679
Speaker 2: to the void, and oh boy, did the void shout

544
00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:32,480
Speaker 2: back is what happens next? And sounded like, oh you

545
00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:37,000
Speaker 2: like her this? Please do me? What happen's next?

546
00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:40,880
Speaker 5: There was so many comments asking if I really thought

547
00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:42,160
Speaker 5: we were just friends.

548
00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:44,359
Speaker 2: And I'll be honest. When I made my post, we

549
00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:46,879
Speaker 2: absolutely were just friends.

550
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:47,399
Speaker 4: Oh you were?

551
00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:49,040
Speaker 2: You just thought you were.

552
00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:53,399
Speaker 5: We had never talked about being more than friends, and

553
00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:55,560
Speaker 5: I was happy being friends.

554
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:58,359
Speaker 2: Because we have an amazing friendship.

555
00:25:58,480 --> 00:25:59,160
Speaker 3: I've been there.

556
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:03,600
Speaker 5: I hadn't really thought about there being a possibility for more.

557
00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:05,959
Speaker 5: Because dating was always something I planned to do when

558
00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:08,959
Speaker 5: I had my life together or when I had more money,

559
00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:12,800
Speaker 5: no time like the present, I never let myself consider

560
00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:14,919
Speaker 5: what I was missing out on by waiting for the

561
00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:19,680
Speaker 5: right time. Her finding my post opened up the chess

562
00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:22,080
Speaker 5: for Gwen and I to talk about things that we

563
00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:26,480
Speaker 5: hadn't before, and over breakfast that morning, we found where

564
00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:28,880
Speaker 5: we stood with each other and what we thought things

565
00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:32,000
Speaker 5: could look like moving forward, depending on what we both

566
00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:37,480
Speaker 5: agreed was the best course. That's such a roundabout way

567
00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:38,000
Speaker 5: of being like.

568
00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:40,280
Speaker 2: We sat down and I was like, I like I

569
00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:42,560
Speaker 2: like you, I like you. I like you too?

570
00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:46,720
Speaker 3: But we lived together. How should we work that out? Kiss?

571
00:26:46,880 --> 00:26:47,679
Speaker 3: Should we kiss?

572
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 5: We didn't make any solid plans or decisions and didn't

573
00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:55,159
Speaker 5: want to rush into something that would ruin the good

574
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:58,040
Speaker 5: we already had going for us, but I'll admit I

575
00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:01,320
Speaker 5: was hoping for a specific out up. There was one

576
00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:04,320
Speaker 5: comment on that first post that had really caught my attention,

577
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:07,439
Speaker 5: the paraphrase They told me to think about how I

578
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:09,960
Speaker 5: would feel if someone else got to see Gwen do

579
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:11,840
Speaker 5: her happy mug dance instead of me.

580
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:14,440
Speaker 2: And it hit me so hard.

581
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:19,200
Speaker 5: I didn't mind the idea of someone else seeing her

582
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:22,119
Speaker 5: so happy. I just don't know if anyone she dates

583
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:25,080
Speaker 5: wouldn't notice what I did and decide to do what

584
00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:25,600
Speaker 5: I did.

585
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:30,520
Speaker 2: Well, they certainly would if that person.

586
00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:38,360
Speaker 4: Was you.

587
00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:49,359
Speaker 2: Just gonna go grab your guys and smash it andgether okay, hope,

588
00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:52,880
Speaker 2: he continues. What if they didn't care or didn't think it.

589
00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:55,720
Speaker 5: Was that important, or any of the other things I

590
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:58,639
Speaker 5: do to make her laugh or a smile. I really

591
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:00,560
Speaker 5: didn't like the thought of not being there to make

592
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:03,040
Speaker 5: sure she has that extra reason to smile in the morning.

593
00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:06,159
Speaker 5: Gwen wants me to admit that I'm a sappy moron

594
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 5: because I teared up writing this. I am a sensitive man,

595
00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 5: in touch with my emotions, and you know you love it.

596
00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:17,320
Speaker 5: To shut up, bro, I know, but I said, bro

597
00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:21,440
Speaker 5: to all the people saying it's possible for platonic relationships

598
00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:22,399
Speaker 5: to be like ours.

599
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:24,359
Speaker 2: You are absolutely.

600
00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:34,679
Speaker 6: Correct enough, and you're gonna get married have baby unless

601
00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:35,639
Speaker 6: you don't want children.

602
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:45,560
Speaker 3: Good dog, I'm allergic. I don't think any wants.

603
00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:53,680
Speaker 5: Our group is very open with physical and verbal affection,

604
00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:56,280
Speaker 5: and we help each other all the time with big

605
00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:57,280
Speaker 5: and small things.

606
00:28:57,600 --> 00:28:59,120
Speaker 2: We all say I love you to each other.

607
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:02,160
Speaker 5: It's just amo communication for us as a group, not

608
00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 5: just between Gwen and me. Honestly, if I hadn't made

609
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:08,000
Speaker 5: my original post, I'm not sure when or if we

610
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:10,520
Speaker 5: would have gotten to the point we are now. Maybe

611
00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:12,480
Speaker 5: we would have continued as we were, and that would

612
00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:15,680
Speaker 5: have been just as happy with an outcome, just a

613
00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:18,160
Speaker 5: different one, like choosing your own adventure.

614
00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:21,560
Speaker 2: With multiple options for a good resolution. How are we feeling, Sophia,

615
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:26,040
Speaker 2: I love love. I don't think they're in love though

616
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:29,560
Speaker 2: they're just roomies love platonically in love.

617
00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:30,320
Speaker 3: They're in love.

618
00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:34,560
Speaker 2: They love each other, so platonically they're in love. What

619
00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 2: does her dance look like? You think I do?

620
00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:43,479
Speaker 5: It seems pretty subdued. Yeah, that's that's probably a little closer.

621
00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:46,920
Speaker 5: What she makes I feel like she does kons thing

622
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:47,360
Speaker 5: where he does.

623
00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:53,160
Speaker 3: He shuffles around on his legs.

624
00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:54,600
Speaker 2: Circling back though.

625
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:58,720
Speaker 5: Yeah, what did she think was happening to her mug

626
00:29:58,760 --> 00:29:59,360
Speaker 5: every night?

627
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:02,800
Speaker 3: I think she knew it was being just like, you

628
00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 3: don't have to clean my mugs, you know.

629
00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:11,160
Speaker 5: Clean her mug and she will hug you. This brings

630
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:13,760
Speaker 5: me to the actual update. Gwen and I agree that

631
00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:15,480
Speaker 5: we want to try dating.

632
00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:23,280
Speaker 3: Just roomies my butt, change your username.

633
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:28,320
Speaker 2: Ope, we're just roomies. I swear roomies in love.

634
00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:31,520
Speaker 5: We aren't putting a new label on our relationship yet,

635
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:33,400
Speaker 5: but our first date is next week.

636
00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:35,560
Speaker 2: I'm making it all a surprise.

637
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:39,440
Speaker 5: Gwen helped write this post and we'll be reading the comments,

638
00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:42,240
Speaker 5: so I can't give any voodtournals. But it's going to

639
00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:44,479
Speaker 5: be the best first date she has ever been on,

640
00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:45,400
Speaker 5: or I'll eat.

641
00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 2: My candy corn pattern.

642
00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:52,600
Speaker 5: Sucks, not the gum drop, buttons not the gun drop.

643
00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:56,840
Speaker 2: But I think she might be the one for me,

644
00:30:57,200 --> 00:30:59,160
Speaker 2: and I'm going to take every chance I can to

645
00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:01,840
Speaker 2: make sure she thinks the same about me. Y'all are

646
00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:05,280
Speaker 2: the best, and we love you. Do something kind for

647
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 2: your loved ones, for us, and everyone can and should

648
00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:13,080
Speaker 2: find something to happy dance about. It makes life more fun. Love,

649
00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:16,880
Speaker 2: Gwen and Peter, you made yourself Spider Man.

650
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:18,840
Speaker 3: Don't you knew he was gonna be Peter?

651
00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:22,719
Speaker 5: You think I didn't see that you made yourself spider Man.

652
00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:29,320
Speaker 4: This cannot end how Gwen and Peter ended now rooftops,

653
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:30,880
Speaker 4: don't grab.

654
00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 5: Her funny thing about that? Even if she didn't smack

655
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 5: the ground. He broke her back and got just brudle.

656
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:40,120
Speaker 5: That's why I said avoid the rooftops.

657
00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:43,280
Speaker 3: She didn't shack the ground. He doesn't hit the ground,

658
00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:44,960
Speaker 3: did movie? She didn't hit the ground.

659
00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:50,880
Speaker 4: She cracks her bat everything that I have, I know.

660
00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:54,680
Speaker 2: For a fact. She slams her head.

661
00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:59,280
Speaker 3: Yes, she gets no in the movie, she she her ba.

662
00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:02,480
Speaker 3: She like breaks her back because she's attached to the wet, but.

663
00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:03,960
Speaker 2: She also head slams.

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Speaker 4: I think that's just her head jolts.

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Speaker 2: I think that's head.

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Speaker 3: It's just the whiplash.

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Speaker 2: She doesn't hit me, folks.

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Speaker 3: She literally doesn't hit the floor.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I think we might actually be in a both

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Speaker 5: right situation. I think her back does break from the forest,

671
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Speaker 5: but she also her head hits the ground.

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Speaker 4: I think ultimately though she is passing from the crack.

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Speaker 4: I just we agree with you that it's not because

674
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Speaker 4: she hit the ground.

675
00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:30,080
Speaker 3: Did not hit the ground.

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Speaker 2: Also, yeah, oops, spoilers.

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00:32:32,360 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 4: Whatever that is like five Spider Man's against five.

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Speaker 2: Hundred million years ago? Awful? Yeah, she smacks her head

679
00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:42,520
Speaker 2: at a thousand miles an hour.

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Speaker 3: Let me see her head hits the floor, but none

681
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:49,080
Speaker 3: of us that her body hits the floor. And we

682
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Speaker 3: were both.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, and after watching that, now I don't know. No,

684
00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:53,960
Speaker 2: I think I might be the only right one.

685
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:55,400
Speaker 3: Now I think she dies.

686
00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:59,200
Speaker 4: She dies the final things top two comments on this

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Speaker 4: one that I found though.

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Speaker 3: But how does she actually pass? How did she pass?

689
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Speaker 4: She never hits the ground.

690
00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:04,960
Speaker 3: I still don't understand.

691
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Speaker 2: How she was bro She literally hits the spinal. They

692
00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:10,720
Speaker 2: don't even in boxing in UFC.

693
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Speaker 5: You're not allowed to punch the back of the head

694
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Speaker 5: because that will ding dong.

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Speaker 2: You're gone.

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Speaker 3: Alrighty, let's get into this next story.

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Speaker 2: Hey is John og host.

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Speaker 3: I asked my roommate to leave after he turned my

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Speaker 3: home into a dump.

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Speaker 2: Oh I'm sorry, that's my bed.

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Speaker 3: And this comes directly from the r slash Okay storytime

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Speaker 3: suppered it. I twenty four female, have a roommate who's

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Speaker 3: twenty male, his dog and occasionally his son. He's been

706
00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:45,120
Speaker 3: living in my apartment for the last three months. He

707
00:33:45,160 --> 00:33:47,840
Speaker 3: has yet to fill out paperwork to get on my lease.

708
00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:50,120
Speaker 3: When he first moved in, he was supposed to help

709
00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:52,480
Speaker 3: out with ren and clean up after himself and his dog.

710
00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:56,280
Speaker 3: He barely takes his dog out, and my entire back

711
00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:59,280
Speaker 3: of the apartment smells like pie and poop. By the way,

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Speaker 3: this comes from I'm gullible Base ninety three fifty nine,

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Speaker 3: to the r slash Okay storytime subpured it.

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Speaker 2: I'm Sofia, I'm Dakota, I'm Carly, and we're here to.

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Speaker 3: Give good advice. Goofy, but we don't have all the answers.

717
00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:15,520
Speaker 3: We're only human. But if you're not human, let us

718
00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:17,960
Speaker 3: know what you think of the comments. And Op says

719
00:34:18,239 --> 00:34:20,400
Speaker 3: he didn't clean up the kitchen and left his dishes

720
00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:23,560
Speaker 3: in the sink. I didn't clean up after him. His

721
00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:27,359
Speaker 3: dog peede and pooped where my son and I were sleeping. Genuinely,

722
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Speaker 3: I am getting him out of there.

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Speaker 5: You have a child, Yeah, he's not in any PaperWorks,

724
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:36,800
Speaker 5: he's not paying anything, he's not living there.

725
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Speaker 3: I have a child who's four years old, autistic and

726
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:43,400
Speaker 3: lactose intolerant. I buy things for my son food wise

727
00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:45,399
Speaker 3: and put it in a drawer f rihim. I told

728
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:48,000
Speaker 3: my roommate not to get into my son's snacks. He

729
00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:50,440
Speaker 3: has eaten all the food in my home multiple times,

730
00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:53,400
Speaker 3: and lets his son when he's over, get into my

731
00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:56,960
Speaker 3: son's snacks and sends me videos of his son doing it.

732
00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:59,799
Speaker 3: It's like, ah, my son's taking your son's snacks again.

733
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:03,000
Speaker 2: So the biggest question we need to ask ourselves why

734
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:03,959
Speaker 2: are we friends with this person?

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Speaker 4: So?

736
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:05,200
Speaker 3: Why are we letting this happen?

737
00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:07,520
Speaker 5: Why are we friends with this person? And maybe why

738
00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:09,319
Speaker 5: are we letting this person live here? Is it because

739
00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:10,279
Speaker 5: we feel bad for them?

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00:35:10,320 --> 00:35:12,799
Speaker 3: The only reason that I could think of would be that,

741
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:16,279
Speaker 3: like maybe op is worried about, you know, sending the

742
00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:19,040
Speaker 3: sun like this guy and his son on the streets. However,

743
00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:23,000
Speaker 3: we already know that the sun has another place because

744
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:26,680
Speaker 3: they just said when he's with him, So clearly there's

745
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:29,640
Speaker 3: another parent involved here. I have since started putting my

746
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:32,799
Speaker 3: sons and my names on all the food. Yes, this

747
00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:37,040
Speaker 3: does include writing my son's name on every single banana. Recently,

748
00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:40,160
Speaker 3: DHS was called due to my sister being mad at

749
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:43,040
Speaker 3: me for a stupid reason. Two of my friends dropped

750
00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:46,319
Speaker 3: everything to get my house spotless. I've made a chore

751
00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:49,799
Speaker 3: list so it not only keeps me accountable, but him accountable.

752
00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:51,960
Speaker 3: When I brought it to his attention. He waved it

753
00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:54,759
Speaker 3: off like it was nothing. He blames me for the house,

754
00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:57,920
Speaker 3: when he's just as much to blame whose.

755
00:35:57,719 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 2: Dog is pissing and poop and every.

756
00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:03,080
Speaker 3: My friends who came to help me are very blunt

757
00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:06,120
Speaker 3: and always tell things to my face. When my friend

758
00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:08,640
Speaker 3: told me that my roommate throws things away that are

759
00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:11,400
Speaker 3: mine when I'm not home, I called them out and

760
00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:13,399
Speaker 3: he tried to deflect and tell me my friends were

761
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:16,399
Speaker 3: talking and crap about me, which they're not. If they were,

762
00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:18,640
Speaker 3: they wouldn't have dropped everything to come and help me.

763
00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:21,480
Speaker 3: I finally had enough when he was talking crap about

764
00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:25,319
Speaker 3: my friends after everything he'd done, eating my food and

765
00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 3: not replacing it, getting mad at me because his dog

766
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:30,120
Speaker 3: got out of the room and pooped, impede in rooms

767
00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:33,440
Speaker 3: I had already cleaned, breaking one of my friend's carpet cleaners,

768
00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:35,560
Speaker 3: and trying to blame my friend who owned it. I

769
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 3: told them to get out of my apartment. He refused

770
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Speaker 3: to leave and told me to get the cops involved

771
00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:43,680
Speaker 3: to give him an eviction notice. I called the cops

772
00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:45,600
Speaker 3: and was told I could go online to get the

773
00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:48,840
Speaker 3: eviction notice. I gave him the notice and he agreed

774
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Speaker 3: to leave. There we go, this just needed to be

775
00:36:52,160 --> 00:36:55,480
Speaker 3: done the second that we noticed he was not paying

776
00:36:55,719 --> 00:36:57,360
Speaker 3: and also leaving the place.

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Speaker 2: Of mess one thousand percent.

778
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Speaker 3: Especially when you have a kid.

779
00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:03,200
Speaker 2: You gotta protect your kid.

780
00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:05,919
Speaker 3: You can't let your kid live in these conditions, which

781
00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:08,279
Speaker 3: you know now he's not. So we're good now. As

782
00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 3: of tonight. I came home from work to find my

783
00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:15,400
Speaker 3: entire house smelling of devils lettuce, I don't smoke that,

784
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:18,120
Speaker 3: and I sure as heck don't smoke in my home. Then,

785
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:20,680
Speaker 3: when my roommate asked to have a donut or two,

786
00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:24,280
Speaker 3: he had four, got into my pizza rolls and left

787
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Speaker 3: them open.

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00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:28,120
Speaker 2: How dash I love that O piece Like, yeah, he

789
00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:31,719
Speaker 2: was smoking the home, but he ate my doughnuts. Shit you, sir,

790
00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:34,600
Speaker 2: four of them? I said he could have one, sir,

791
00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 2: where does the got ugh? I'm speechless. I'm speechless.

792
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:45,640
Speaker 3: I know this because things have been moved. I also

793
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:48,520
Speaker 3: just found out they opened two bags of my chips

794
00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:51,239
Speaker 3: and my pretzels and ached a lot of my cookies.

795
00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:54,920
Speaker 3: His girlfriend left her clothes on my bathroom floor. I

796
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:57,200
Speaker 3: put her stuff on the hallway floor. I have moved

797
00:37:57,239 --> 00:37:58,880
Speaker 3: all of my food that does not need to be

798
00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:01,799
Speaker 3: frozen or in the free into my room. I sent

799
00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:05,000
Speaker 3: him text tonight regarding it. He opened them and didn't respond.

800
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:07,960
Speaker 3: I have had multiple talks with him and he does

801
00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:11,080
Speaker 3: not care at this point. Get him out.

802
00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 2: He does not care.

803
00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:14,759
Speaker 3: Get him out there. My brother also wants to have

804
00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:19,000
Speaker 3: a talk with my roommate. There is an update, any thoughts.

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00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:21,560
Speaker 2: Three months is too long, man, Once is a long

806
00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:23,600
Speaker 2: time when you have somebody move in with you.

807
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:26,439
Speaker 5: I think, at least when it comes to like cleanliness

808
00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:29,359
Speaker 5: and expectations, all of that.

809
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:30,120
Speaker 2: Needs to be set.

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00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:34,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, the very beginning, agreed, you know. And yeah, as

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00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:37,239
Speaker 5: soon as he starts stealing food from your child, he

812
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:38,399
Speaker 5: should be.

813
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:40,160
Speaker 3: Gone, gone, gone zo.

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Speaker 2: And he goes, well I supposed to go.

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Speaker 5: I'm like, I don't know, man, you should thought about

816
00:38:44,960 --> 00:38:47,480
Speaker 5: that before you just stole my child's food.

817
00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:48,480
Speaker 2: Anywhere but here.

818
00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:51,440
Speaker 3: But there's an update. I messaged my roommates so I

819
00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:53,920
Speaker 3: could have it for my records, and what he messaged

820
00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:56,719
Speaker 3: me was rude. He gas lit me. And now not

821
00:38:56,800 --> 00:38:58,880
Speaker 3: only is my brother coming to talk to him, but

822
00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:01,560
Speaker 3: so is my baby daddy. Oh, they're gonna have a

823
00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:04,080
Speaker 3: talk with them. We're gonna have a jock with them.

824
00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:06,479
Speaker 2: You say, can I talk to you outside? They're gonna

825
00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:09,239
Speaker 2: have a talk with her, and you say leave update too.

826
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Speaker 3: I put a lock on the freezer and fridge since

827
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:13,440
Speaker 3: the food in the fridge and freezer has all my

828
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:17,400
Speaker 3: son's food. Unfortunately, I also had to install a camera

829
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:20,799
Speaker 3: in my home. My grandma came over this morning and

830
00:39:21,040 --> 00:39:24,239
Speaker 3: brought me some more stuff food wise, and even put

831
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:26,880
Speaker 3: some white Cheetohs. She put laxatives in and told me

832
00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:28,279
Speaker 3: to leave them on the counter for my room and

833
00:39:28,360 --> 00:39:32,959
Speaker 3: and his girlfriend to eat. That is illegal, it's legal, legal,

834
00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:35,560
Speaker 3: and also I'd be super worried that his kid would.

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Speaker 6: Get in that.

836
00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:37,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, that would be bad.

837
00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:38,319
Speaker 3: Don't do that. Don't do that.

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00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:39,040
Speaker 2: Stop that.

839
00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:42,320
Speaker 3: No, no, no, but that is the end of that story.

840
00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:46,239
Speaker 3: Don't do that, don't let on that. Don't do that.

841
00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 3: That's illegal. Let's not do that. Let's just get this

842
00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:50,080
Speaker 3: guy out.

843
00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:51,239
Speaker 2: Let's not do that.

844
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:51,600
Speaker 3: That's it.

845
00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:52,960
Speaker 2: Don't do that.

846
00:39:53,360 --> 00:39:56,120
Speaker 3: But we've got some comments from the video. My wife

847
00:39:56,200 --> 00:39:58,080
Speaker 3: cheated on me with my best friend.

848
00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 2: No, you should have just made your wife your bad friend.

849
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Speaker 3: And this was posted on August nineteenth, twenty twenty five

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Speaker 3: TILDR says Opi and his wife have been together since

851
00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:11,800
Speaker 3: they were teens. Their marriage seemed perfect until Opi noticed

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00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:15,560
Speaker 3: growing distance, lack of intimacy, and or closeness to his

853
00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:18,680
Speaker 3: best friend. After confronting her, he discovered she had been

854
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:22,560
Speaker 3: cheating with that friend for months. If you're curious to

855
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Speaker 3: know the full story, you can go watch the full

856
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Speaker 3: video and we've got some comments.

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Speaker 4: Comment to one by Banana me Reel with the first story,

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Speaker 4: the journal was horrific and absolutely disgusting of the wife.

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Speaker 4: I was already thinking how Opie was completely right with

860
00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:41,320
Speaker 4: that comment to the best friend, and the journal reinforced

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00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:44,680
Speaker 4: that thought. I'm actually disgusted. If you don't want to

862
00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:47,000
Speaker 4: be with Opia anymore, you should have probably broken up

863
00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:50,080
Speaker 4: with him instead of lying and going on with Opie's

864
00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:52,920
Speaker 4: plans to try making the relationship work. If you were

865
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:56,400
Speaker 4: already cheating on the side, especially with his best friend,

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Speaker 4: they're both despicable human being.

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Speaker 3: You're more to say by that.

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Speaker 2: Can't really add anything else to that. I was perfect.

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Speaker 4: Comment to Lucas five five five five t four X

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Speaker 4: her story absolutely in the right, telling that trader to

871
00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:15,840
Speaker 4: delete himself. Traders deserve no pity or sympathy whatsoever. You

872
00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:19,280
Speaker 4: saved his life and in return he destroyed yours.

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00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:23,359
Speaker 3: Mile My, then I have nothing more to say about that.

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00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:27,480
Speaker 4: One either, Okay, uh remembrance one five five. It's not

875
00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:30,359
Speaker 4: the responsibility of OP to make sure their partner isn't

876
00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:33,520
Speaker 4: cheating on them, let alone with their best friend. It's

877
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:37,080
Speaker 4: the wife's responsibility to take a step back and reevaluate

878
00:41:37,160 --> 00:41:40,239
Speaker 4: herself and her relationship with the best friend and make

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00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:42,759
Speaker 4: the choice of I no longer want to be with

880
00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:46,440
Speaker 4: my partner, let me separate before starting something new, or

881
00:41:46,520 --> 00:41:49,200
Speaker 4: I want to give my current relationship a try and

882
00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 4: have a conversation with OP about her feelings about their relationship. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: as well as if anything inappropriate is said or done

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Speaker 4: with the best friend prior to that combo, Op's responsibility

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Speaker 4: to reach out when he feels something is off as

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Speaker 4: that's just communication and set boundaries as needed. However, nobody thinks, hey,

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Speaker 4: something's gonna happen with my best friend and my wife

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Speaker 4: because those are the people you are supposed to trust

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Speaker 4: the most onto better people.

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Speaker 2: Ope.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean if the people that don't even have

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Speaker 3: the backbone to end the relationship before getting into another one.

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Speaker 3: Don't need to be around those people.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's.

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Speaker 3: The end of those comments.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah.

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Speaker 5: I just think any situation where it's like, yeah, my

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Speaker 5: ex started dating my best friend, it doesn't matter how

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Speaker 5: like respectful the breakup was, that's that's pretty despicable.

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Speaker 2: That's done forever.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no longer your best friend. But that's the end

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