1 00:00:02,040 --> 00:00:05,400 Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to Bachler Happy Hour Part two 2 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:07,240 Speaker 1: with Zach and Katy. 3 00:00:07,280 --> 00:00:08,920 Speaker 2: Do you prefer Kate because he called you Kate? 4 00:00:09,640 --> 00:00:11,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, you want Kate. 5 00:00:11,360 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 4: Those people to me call me Kate, but you guys, 6 00:00:13,960 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 4: you guys can. 7 00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:15,000 Speaker 5: Call me Kate. 8 00:00:15,360 --> 00:00:16,800 Speaker 2: Okay, Yes, we're close to you. 9 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:19,759 Speaker 5: I'm Joe, I'm Strina, and we're here with Zach. 10 00:00:19,600 --> 00:00:24,160 Speaker 2: And Kate for part two Happy Hour. 11 00:00:24,280 --> 00:00:26,800 Speaker 5: And you did not listen to part one. Go back 12 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:28,960 Speaker 5: and listen, or at least listen to like the last 13 00:00:29,040 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 5: five minutes, because we're about to have Zach and Kate 14 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:36,960 Speaker 5: finish a story about their terrible travel to Canada, more specifically, 15 00:00:37,040 --> 00:00:38,680 Speaker 5: Zach's terrible travel. 16 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:41,720 Speaker 2: Zach's first trip to Canada. So it continues, Zach. 17 00:00:42,040 --> 00:00:46,839 Speaker 6: Yeah, so I booked a flight. I get on the 18 00:00:46,840 --> 00:00:50,080 Speaker 6: flight to Toronto, and at this point, I'm still so 19 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 6: upset because I missed the opportunity to see Kate's grandma again. 20 00:00:55,120 --> 00:00:58,520 Speaker 2: You also are on no sleep. I'm assuming, oh no sleep. 21 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 6: Yeah, like I did, and even like I couldn't fathom 22 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:03,120 Speaker 6: going to sleep then because I was just so in 23 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:04,959 Speaker 6: my own head. I was beating myself up about it 24 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:07,560 Speaker 6: and like just seeing her her grandma. I've seen I've 25 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:10,120 Speaker 6: met her grandma quite a few times, and she's lovely. 26 00:01:11,360 --> 00:01:17,480 Speaker 6: But I get to Toronto and fortunately the airline finds 27 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:20,319 Speaker 6: my luggage like a day or two later ships it 28 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 6: to her brother's house. All is starting to shape up 29 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:27,440 Speaker 6: really well. I am meeting the friends, I mean the family. 30 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 6: I'm checking out Toronto, Burlington, all these places. 31 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:35,520 Speaker 5: Wait to throw Burlington in there, Okay, nice? 32 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 4: Nice? 33 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:37,320 Speaker 5: I was like, where'd you go the co Factory? 34 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 4: Wait? 35 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 5: Is it actually the thing co factory? 36 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:43,559 Speaker 2: Where it started? 37 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know, started in Victoria. 38 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 4: Vancouver, Vancouver. 39 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I thought the first one was Victoria. Maybe yeah, 40 00:01:53,080 --> 00:01:53,919 Speaker 2: love Lululemon. 41 00:01:54,040 --> 00:01:57,680 Speaker 5: Anyway, you're seeing all the places, seeing all the places, 42 00:01:57,680 --> 00:02:00,800 Speaker 5: and the trips going great, like we're kind of moving on, 43 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 5: We're getting through it. 44 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 4: And now it's time to go to Kingston. 45 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 6: Now it's time to go to Kingston, Toronto, Kingston to 46 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 6: go to her best friend or one of her best 47 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:13,799 Speaker 6: friend's weddings and the rehearsal dinners. Kate's in the wedding. 48 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 6: I'm along for the ride. But this is the first 49 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 6: time I'm meeting her in person, her best friend, So 50 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 6: there's a lot on you know, at stake right and 51 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:22,080 Speaker 6: going to Kingston. 52 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:25,440 Speaker 4: Zach's duty to book the train tickets to Kingston. 53 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I booked the tickets like a couple of weeks. 54 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:31,040 Speaker 5: How were you taking the Go train from Tronto? Okay? 55 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 7: Yeah? 56 00:02:31,560 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 6: And Kate calls me one day she was gone and 57 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:35,160 Speaker 6: she's like, hey, can you book these for us on 58 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:37,280 Speaker 6: this state we got to go? I was like, yeah, sure, 59 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:39,119 Speaker 6: made whatever, Like, let me do it. After this call, 60 00:02:40,639 --> 00:02:43,880 Speaker 6: I'm on via rail six forty five. That's enough time, 61 00:02:43,960 --> 00:02:48,120 Speaker 6: do book two tickets. We're good to go. We get dropped, 62 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 6: but you take this part because I had a fuzzy 63 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:55,639 Speaker 6: with who dropped us off? Like how we got there? 64 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 4: Okay, So we basically get on the Go train. We 65 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:04,520 Speaker 4: and U going into Union Station and it's kind of 66 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:07,800 Speaker 4: like cleared out a little bit, and we go to 67 00:03:07,800 --> 00:03:10,680 Speaker 4: scan our tickets and the bar code is not scanning, 68 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:12,959 Speaker 4: and we're like, oh, what the heck's going on with? 69 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:20,959 Speaker 4: The girl goes this was for six forty am, sir no, yeah, 70 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 4: and the girls like yeah, it's military time. So anyways, 71 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:28,639 Speaker 4: luckily my friend Sam, she came to the rescue and 72 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:30,919 Speaker 4: she drove us to Kingston. 73 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:31,480 Speaker 3: That night. 74 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:35,680 Speaker 4: So we were in the clear there and that was. 75 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:38,440 Speaker 3: A thing, a good time. The wedding was. 76 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:43,240 Speaker 4: Great, all my best friends, it was. It was a 77 00:03:43,280 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 4: really good, good wedding. 78 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 2: It was so much fun. And there was a conversation 79 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:48,040 Speaker 2: starter for me. 80 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 5: You know what's so funny is I and maybe this 81 00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:56,480 Speaker 5: is because maybe this is a Canadian thing. I don't know, 82 00:03:56,800 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 5: and because we travel outside of the country more freak 83 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 5: only I would say that Americans do. I never travel 84 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 5: without my passport, even if I'm traveling within Canada. I 85 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 5: never traveled at my passport. I have it on me 86 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 5: at all times. 87 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 1: And that's that's a Canadian thing. It's not an American. Yeah, 88 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:14,960 Speaker 1: I never traveled at my passport unless I'm leaving the country. 89 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 2: I hope. 90 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:19,279 Speaker 5: Well, when we are going to Canada, be like, don't 91 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:21,920 Speaker 5: fret your passport. And I'm like, I bring my passport 92 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 5: to l A, I bring it to Chicago, I bring 93 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 5: it everywhere with me. 94 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 1: When I first went on spring break to Mexico, there 95 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:30,200 Speaker 1: was no passports required. 96 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 5: Oh that's crazy. 97 00:04:32,240 --> 00:04:35,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm dating myself, but yeah, pretty crazy. 98 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:39,320 Speaker 5: Okay, it was required just an id ID Mexico. 99 00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:41,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, as a kid. 100 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:43,160 Speaker 5: See, I still would have brought my passport. 101 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:48,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so we saw on Instagram you and your 102 00:04:48,279 --> 00:04:49,360 Speaker 1: girls from your season. 103 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:50,279 Speaker 2: I'll did another trip. 104 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:52,720 Speaker 5: You guys are travelers. You're always doing trips together. I 105 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:53,479 Speaker 5: feel like, I. 106 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 4: Think it's amazing because we all are from different states, 107 00:04:56,279 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 4: so we always try to pick a different state to 108 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:01,600 Speaker 4: experience altoge. Like nobody had been to Tuloom. 109 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 5: That's fun. So that's nice too because then one person 110 00:05:03,760 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 5: doesn't have to be like the tour guide for the 111 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:07,159 Speaker 5: whole weekend and like planned the whol itendery. Like if 112 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:09,039 Speaker 5: everyone's going to Austin, they'd probably be like, Katie, what 113 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:10,040 Speaker 5: do we do? Where do we eat? 114 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:11,080 Speaker 4: Which we did do that too. 115 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 5: Okay. 116 00:05:12,440 --> 00:05:17,920 Speaker 4: I think there was twelve of us and that was January. Yeah, 117 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:20,120 Speaker 4: that was in January. That was our first trip. Yeah, 118 00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:22,960 Speaker 4: and that was in Airbnb with all the girls. Like 119 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:25,560 Speaker 4: that was just that's a lot. It was crazy, Yeah, 120 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:27,400 Speaker 4: but it was a lot of fun. And we all 121 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:28,400 Speaker 4: watched the premiere together. 122 00:05:28,600 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 5: Oh that's really fun. 123 00:05:30,200 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, and then we've been to Miami together. We've been 124 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:38,839 Speaker 4: to Fort Lauderdale, Tuloom, and our next trip is Montana. 125 00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 4: Oh random, No, that's with not my best friend. 126 00:05:43,160 --> 00:05:44,680 Speaker 3: How many how many of these trips are you guys 127 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 3: going to take a year? 128 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 5: I don't know. I think just do you have a 129 00:05:48,320 --> 00:05:49,240 Speaker 5: favorite one so far? 130 00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:53,400 Speaker 4: I would say tu loom Okay, Yeah, are you guys 131 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:57,800 Speaker 4: getting influencer deals on these trips or no? Yes, but 132 00:05:58,040 --> 00:06:00,800 Speaker 4: like we're not getting paid to show up to places. 133 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:03,279 Speaker 3: It's kind of like a yeah, you're staying for free 134 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:03,880 Speaker 3: kind of thing. 135 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 4: Yeah exactly, yeah, yeah, and then there's like some free 136 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 4: meals if we post a story or things whatever, stuff 137 00:06:13,120 --> 00:06:13,520 Speaker 4: like that. 138 00:06:14,080 --> 00:06:16,800 Speaker 3: You're getting you're getting deal, You're getting a deal. 139 00:06:17,160 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, but it's really nice. They're a great group 140 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:23,760 Speaker 4: group of girls, and I'm so fortunate. And the great 141 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:26,159 Speaker 4: thing is is we we all had this bond on 142 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 4: the show, and we continue to have that. We continue 143 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:33,919 Speaker 4: to just like build that grow and with new memories too. 144 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:36,120 Speaker 5: Who's like the planner out of the group, Like who's 145 00:06:36,160 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 5: the one that's like, okay, like booking the next trip, 146 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:40,640 Speaker 5: Like who's initiading it? 147 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:45,719 Speaker 4: We all kind of chip in. Like the Tulom trip, 148 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:49,279 Speaker 4: I would say I probably did most of the trip 149 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:53,920 Speaker 4: for that. Yeah, yeah, we all kind of share, Okay, 150 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 4: we all kind of chip in and we'll all kind 151 00:06:55,520 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 4: of like reach out to different companies restaurants to see 152 00:06:58,440 --> 00:07:01,400 Speaker 4: what we can get, divide and conquer basically. But the 153 00:07:01,440 --> 00:07:06,400 Speaker 4: next trip, I believe Jess and Mercedes is taking that one. 154 00:07:06,560 --> 00:07:08,720 Speaker 5: Okay, did you guys watch Paradise? 155 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:10,960 Speaker 4: Yes, we watched Paradise. 156 00:07:11,480 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 5: Okay, and wait, so it was a lot of the 157 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 5: girls from your guys' season. So how has that been 158 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:22,320 Speaker 5: watching it all unfold? I mean a lot of the 159 00:07:22,360 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 5: girls from your season are very entangled in some major storylines. 160 00:07:26,400 --> 00:07:28,840 Speaker 4: No, I love watching it back and I love seeing 161 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 4: how they deal with things because like, for example, Mercedes, 162 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:36,840 Speaker 4: like I didn't see her a lot on our season 163 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:41,520 Speaker 4: like airtime wise and see like her build connections. So 164 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:45,400 Speaker 4: to see her with Tyler and see her with Will 165 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 4: like that was amazing that she had those moments and 166 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:51,920 Speaker 4: unfortunately it didn't work out, but it's beautiful to see 167 00:07:51,920 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 4: that and see how happy they are. Obviously, sometimes it 168 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:55,840 Speaker 4: does go south. 169 00:07:56,840 --> 00:08:01,720 Speaker 5: It seems like a lot of the time it's God. 170 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:01,960 Speaker 3: Say to you on this trip. 171 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:06,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, you guys know you were. Did the girls tell 172 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:11,240 Speaker 5: you about for. 173 00:08:11,320 --> 00:08:13,800 Speaker 3: Our listeners, who was on this tomb trip? 174 00:08:13,880 --> 00:08:21,880 Speaker 4: Mercedes, Jazz, Kylie, Kylie Buriel and Gabby was on. 175 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 5: Chat was not on this trip, but she's been on 176 00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:28,760 Speaker 5: past trips. Correct, Yes, okay, okay. 177 00:08:28,760 --> 00:08:31,760 Speaker 1: So the girls that were on this trip, the girls 178 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:35,280 Speaker 1: that were on this trip, what are they saying about Paradise? 179 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:39,760 Speaker 4: Yes, I think I think collectively, I think it was 180 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:43,600 Speaker 4: just a good experience for them. Would they do it again? 181 00:08:44,040 --> 00:08:46,560 Speaker 4: I think different girls are going to say different things. 182 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:49,679 Speaker 5: I also think the answer changes a lot, like give 183 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:51,000 Speaker 5: it a year, and their answer might be. 184 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:53,800 Speaker 4: Very true, very true, but truly like even out of 185 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:56,960 Speaker 4: Mercedes mouth, like verbatim, she said, it was a great experience. 186 00:08:56,960 --> 00:09:00,400 Speaker 4: I had a lot of fun. Yeah, and so that 187 00:09:00,400 --> 00:09:01,080 Speaker 4: that's amazing. 188 00:09:01,320 --> 00:09:04,080 Speaker 5: Well, it does seem like because we can compare to 189 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:07,280 Speaker 5: our season. I don't know what it was our season, 190 00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:09,640 Speaker 5: but like people were like, I want to go Like 191 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:13,079 Speaker 5: if I'm not in a strong relationship and basically have 192 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 5: to be here for the sake of this relationship, I 193 00:09:15,280 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 5: want to go home. And I feel like it's like 194 00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:21,640 Speaker 5: the opposite with this past season, where there's not a 195 00:09:21,679 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 5: lot of strong relationships, but they all want to stay 196 00:09:24,040 --> 00:09:26,120 Speaker 5: and they're all jumping around trying to find I do 197 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:29,040 Speaker 5: think they want to find relationships I don't think everyone's 198 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 5: just like being phony, but like it's just like there 199 00:09:31,880 --> 00:09:34,160 Speaker 5: were so many strong couples in our season and if 200 00:09:34,240 --> 00:09:36,920 Speaker 5: you weren't, like I have to say, are the wise. 201 00:09:36,920 --> 00:09:39,840 Speaker 5: I can't be in this relationship right now. I'm getting 202 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:41,800 Speaker 5: off this beach. And though they were like the opposite. 203 00:09:41,880 --> 00:09:44,679 Speaker 3: It's not a vacation though, that's the thing, like Paradise 204 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:44,920 Speaker 3: is not. 205 00:09:45,080 --> 00:09:46,600 Speaker 5: It didn't feel like it when we were there, but 206 00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:48,880 Speaker 5: it's a vacation. 207 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:55,240 Speaker 3: Did Mercedes does she think Tyler Plater still? Is that 208 00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 3: still a thing? 209 00:09:56,600 --> 00:10:01,520 Speaker 4: I would say, yeah, yeah. 210 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:02,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, it came across like that for sure. 211 00:10:02,679 --> 00:10:09,439 Speaker 4: Yeah. 212 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:11,040 Speaker 2: Would you ever do Paradise? 213 00:10:11,640 --> 00:10:12,280 Speaker 4: Would I ever? 214 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:14,320 Speaker 2: Well? 215 00:10:15,440 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 3: No? 216 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:18,000 Speaker 2: What about? What about? 217 00:10:18,600 --> 00:10:21,920 Speaker 5: What a weird question? We're buying a home the other 218 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 5: next year. He's like, so. 219 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:27,120 Speaker 1: You guys, way, my next question was. 220 00:10:27,160 --> 00:10:28,600 Speaker 3: Setting myself off. 221 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 1: And you're not going to do because you guys are 222 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:34,520 Speaker 1: planning on getting married, are you? 223 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:37,160 Speaker 3: Did you start any wedding plans yet? 224 00:10:37,880 --> 00:10:43,640 Speaker 4: Nope, we have decided. Thank you twenty twenty five. But realistically, 225 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:46,760 Speaker 4: like you know, the drill two months on a show 226 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 4: on the Bachelor, everything's expedited. You really don't get to 227 00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:52,360 Speaker 4: know the entirety of somebody in two months, I knew 228 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:55,000 Speaker 4: Gabby and Ariel more than I knew Zach at the 229 00:10:55,080 --> 00:10:56,680 Speaker 4: end of the day. But I knew his heart, and 230 00:10:56,679 --> 00:10:58,320 Speaker 4: I knew his morals and values, and I knew I 231 00:10:58,320 --> 00:11:00,960 Speaker 4: wanted to be with this man. I think you'd make 232 00:11:01,000 --> 00:11:03,120 Speaker 4: a great father and husband, and that's what sprung me 233 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:08,280 Speaker 4: into this relationship. But I lost my train of thought. 234 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:10,719 Speaker 6: But like what you were saying, which very kind and 235 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:14,880 Speaker 6: sweet of you, pay but where we now finally get 236 00:11:14,920 --> 00:11:16,920 Speaker 6: to go on our own time and our own pace. 237 00:11:17,040 --> 00:11:19,440 Speaker 6: And we get asked all the time, like when's the 238 00:11:19,440 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 6: wedding date, like hurry it up, like all this kind 239 00:11:21,760 --> 00:11:24,320 Speaker 6: of stuff, and it's like, nope, chill, Like we're finally 240 00:11:24,320 --> 00:11:28,719 Speaker 6: getting to date, spend time together, build our relationship that 241 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:32,200 Speaker 6: is growing. And no, we don't have like a specific 242 00:11:32,320 --> 00:11:36,560 Speaker 6: date because our entire relationship was leading up to a date. 243 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:39,920 Speaker 4: Learning so much about each other every day, Like after 244 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 4: the show. Didn't know how we treated his family, his mom, 245 00:11:42,559 --> 00:11:45,400 Speaker 4: how he treated a server. Does he tip twenty percent? 246 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:53,319 Speaker 1: I don't know you are you Are you a tipper 247 00:11:53,520 --> 00:11:57,120 Speaker 1: after tax? Or oh yeah, okay, good, So you guys 248 00:11:57,120 --> 00:11:59,599 Speaker 1: both tip, but you don't know, no wedding. 249 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:04,720 Speaker 4: Plans well, honestly, just enjoying this so much this stage 250 00:12:04,760 --> 00:12:05,959 Speaker 4: in our relationship. 251 00:12:06,400 --> 00:12:08,320 Speaker 2: Sure, yeah, I hope you guys do. 252 00:12:08,400 --> 00:12:11,320 Speaker 1: But have you thought at all about where you would 253 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:12,880 Speaker 1: where it would be your dream. 254 00:12:12,679 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 4: Wedding Turks and cacos on the beach? Okay five, probably Mayweather. 255 00:12:20,840 --> 00:12:21,520 Speaker 2: I've heard this all. 256 00:12:21,559 --> 00:12:23,720 Speaker 6: I'm like, I'm cool with the courthouse and like, let's 257 00:12:23,720 --> 00:12:24,920 Speaker 6: have it a big ceremony. 258 00:12:24,960 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 4: So and I'm cool with that too, I'm all for. 259 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:30,120 Speaker 6: And we talked about like ideally when we actually you know, 260 00:12:30,160 --> 00:12:32,400 Speaker 6: put pen on paper and we get it set up, 261 00:12:32,800 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 6: we want to do like a destination wedding, very small, 262 00:12:36,559 --> 00:12:41,240 Speaker 6: very intimate, close family and friends, like very intimate, but 263 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:42,880 Speaker 6: make it fun for everyone. So we want to go 264 00:12:42,920 --> 00:12:45,880 Speaker 6: somewhere cool and leave it at that, make it a 265 00:12:45,960 --> 00:12:47,280 Speaker 6: vacation kind of everyone. 266 00:12:47,640 --> 00:12:51,240 Speaker 4: It's also really hard to justify spending thousands and thousands 267 00:12:51,240 --> 00:12:54,640 Speaker 4: and thousands of dollars toward a day, a very special day, 268 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:57,480 Speaker 4: mind you, or put that money towards a house that's 269 00:12:57,559 --> 00:13:00,720 Speaker 4: going to be ours for the rest of our lives, 270 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:03,280 Speaker 4: or were we turn into like a rental property or that. 271 00:13:03,440 --> 00:13:05,240 Speaker 4: But do you know what you mean, like it's not 272 00:13:05,280 --> 00:13:10,040 Speaker 4: a smart wedding. Yeah, really it really is. But it's 273 00:13:10,080 --> 00:13:11,080 Speaker 4: such a special thing. 274 00:13:11,520 --> 00:13:11,760 Speaker 1: I know. 275 00:13:11,880 --> 00:13:14,280 Speaker 5: It's so hard because we did both right, Like we 276 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:17,360 Speaker 5: did the courthouse and we did the wedding, and I 277 00:13:17,400 --> 00:13:20,880 Speaker 5: would I recommend the courthouse too. The courthouse is great. 278 00:13:21,760 --> 00:13:24,840 Speaker 5: But I wish I could sit here and say, like, no, 279 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:27,280 Speaker 5: like the courthouse is enough, you don't need the big 280 00:13:27,320 --> 00:13:31,600 Speaker 5: wedding because obviously financially that is like would be the 281 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 5: best answer ever to be like, you don't need a wedding. 282 00:13:33,760 --> 00:13:37,120 Speaker 5: The courthouse is you know, the day, But like the 283 00:13:37,160 --> 00:13:40,440 Speaker 5: wedding was the best day of our lives, the number 284 00:13:40,480 --> 00:13:41,880 Speaker 5: one recommendation. 285 00:13:41,440 --> 00:13:42,440 Speaker 2: Wedding week, it was. 286 00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:45,640 Speaker 1: And that's what's nice about doing a destination wedding is 287 00:13:45,679 --> 00:13:47,559 Speaker 1: because all your friends and family come in and it's 288 00:13:47,600 --> 00:13:48,720 Speaker 1: like a vacation forever. 289 00:13:49,200 --> 00:13:53,000 Speaker 5: Highly recommend that. Like Charleston was so fun. We had 290 00:13:53,120 --> 00:13:55,720 Speaker 5: days to see people and spend with them versus like 291 00:13:55,800 --> 00:13:58,880 Speaker 5: a few hours where you're like fighting for time with everyone. 292 00:13:59,240 --> 00:14:02,080 Speaker 5: The biggest have we got to keep costs down, which 293 00:14:02,080 --> 00:14:05,400 Speaker 5: we didn't follow was small, small wedding, like the less. 294 00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:08,240 Speaker 4: I think it's I think it's going to grow. I 295 00:14:08,240 --> 00:14:09,720 Speaker 4: think at the end of the day, it's just kind 296 00:14:09,760 --> 00:14:12,480 Speaker 4: of like, yeah, that they've got this person. Yeah, they're 297 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:14,120 Speaker 4: getting married, so kind of you know what I mean. 298 00:14:14,200 --> 00:14:15,400 Speaker 5: I think it grows, not that I've been in the 299 00:14:15,400 --> 00:14:17,680 Speaker 5: wedding plane it does grow, but totally. 300 00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:18,840 Speaker 3: How about honeymoon? 301 00:14:19,320 --> 00:14:27,400 Speaker 2: What would you want to do? Like tropical beaches? 302 00:14:27,400 --> 00:14:29,760 Speaker 4: I love being outside. I love palm trees, love dolphins, 303 00:14:29,760 --> 00:14:31,520 Speaker 4: all things. Let's go. 304 00:14:31,760 --> 00:14:36,360 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I'm like all four. I love tropical, always have, 305 00:14:36,560 --> 00:14:40,240 Speaker 6: but like unique countries, like going somewhere where you typically 306 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:43,040 Speaker 6: wouldn't go and just have a vacation, like I would 307 00:14:43,040 --> 00:14:45,560 Speaker 6: love to do it, like Tokyo or or have. 308 00:14:45,520 --> 00:14:46,200 Speaker 3: You been in Tokyo? 309 00:14:46,400 --> 00:14:50,120 Speaker 2: No? No, not honeymoon. Are we talking only about honeymoon? 310 00:14:51,640 --> 00:14:53,520 Speaker 3: You guys planning a trip anytime soon? 311 00:14:53,560 --> 00:14:57,080 Speaker 4: We really our Christmas presents to each other. We're going 312 00:14:57,120 --> 00:14:57,600 Speaker 4: to Hawaii. 313 00:14:58,440 --> 00:15:01,520 Speaker 5: I'm so justus. Always wanted to go there. I feel 314 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:03,800 Speaker 5: so called to go see Hawaii. 315 00:15:04,120 --> 00:15:06,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, we are so proper. We're going to Kowhai. Am 316 00:15:06,600 --> 00:15:07,240 Speaker 4: I seeing that right? 317 00:15:07,360 --> 00:15:07,640 Speaker 5: I mean? 318 00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:09,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, super excited. 319 00:15:09,880 --> 00:15:10,560 Speaker 3: When you guys go. 320 00:15:11,840 --> 00:15:14,080 Speaker 2: May third for like two weeks to thirteenth. 321 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:15,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's so excited. 322 00:15:16,040 --> 00:15:20,440 Speaker 6: I did find out for Christmas, instead of you know, 323 00:15:20,520 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 6: maybe just getting a bunch of gifts here and there, 324 00:15:22,240 --> 00:15:23,920 Speaker 6: let's get something for us experience. 325 00:15:24,200 --> 00:15:25,960 Speaker 5: My sister and I are doing that. We've said we 326 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:28,720 Speaker 5: want to like do some sort of trip together in February. 327 00:15:28,760 --> 00:15:30,400 Speaker 5: We haven't like booked anything, but just let's just get 328 00:15:30,400 --> 00:15:32,360 Speaker 5: something like really small for each other and then we'll 329 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:34,040 Speaker 5: go away and do something fun. 330 00:15:34,160 --> 00:15:36,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly we're doing for Christmas. 331 00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:41,200 Speaker 1: For Christmas month, we wrote out a big calendar and 332 00:15:41,280 --> 00:15:43,479 Speaker 1: we are watching a different Christmas. 333 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:43,640 Speaker 2: Movie every night. 334 00:15:43,680 --> 00:15:45,480 Speaker 5: We made like a calendar schedule. 335 00:15:45,720 --> 00:15:46,240 Speaker 2: I like that. 336 00:15:46,440 --> 00:15:48,640 Speaker 5: So Tony is Bad Santa, I think, which we neither 337 00:15:48,640 --> 00:15:49,440 Speaker 5: of us have ever seen? 338 00:15:50,040 --> 00:15:50,200 Speaker 2: Is it? 339 00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:51,320 Speaker 5: Okay? We haven't seen that one. 340 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:54,760 Speaker 1: So my question to you guys is what would be 341 00:15:55,360 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 1: on your list? Three movies Christmas movies that would have 342 00:16:00,360 --> 00:16:01,520 Speaker 1: to be on your list? 343 00:16:01,880 --> 00:16:05,400 Speaker 2: Christmas movie whoever wants to go? Okay home alone? One 344 00:16:05,440 --> 00:16:05,680 Speaker 2: or two? 345 00:16:06,080 --> 00:16:06,760 Speaker 4: One? 346 00:16:07,520 --> 00:16:11,840 Speaker 2: Okay? My favorite Christmas movie National Christmas. 347 00:16:11,640 --> 00:16:13,240 Speaker 5: Vacation on the Plane. 348 00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:16,840 Speaker 4: Only thoughts my thoughts. 349 00:16:17,120 --> 00:16:19,320 Speaker 5: No, he loves it on our calendar. 350 00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:20,880 Speaker 3: He watched it early, to be honest. 351 00:16:21,200 --> 00:16:25,840 Speaker 1: To be honest, I watched it today and thought it's 352 00:16:25,880 --> 00:16:26,480 Speaker 1: not that great. 353 00:16:26,800 --> 00:16:28,760 Speaker 2: Whoa, It's really not. 354 00:16:29,360 --> 00:16:32,960 Speaker 5: It's just not so maybe we can replace it. Could 355 00:16:34,440 --> 00:16:37,840 Speaker 5: Christmas Time Watch? I love Ellis a Christmas Time. I 356 00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:39,840 Speaker 5: don't think it's an underrated Christmas movie. 357 00:16:40,200 --> 00:16:42,000 Speaker 1: And I really love Chevy Chase and I love like 358 00:16:42,120 --> 00:16:47,120 Speaker 1: Caddy Shack. But Christmas vacation is probably the weakest vacation. 359 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:48,400 Speaker 2: Like Vegas, all of them. 360 00:16:48,440 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, Vegas vacations are going okay, but keep going so 361 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:52,200 Speaker 1: home alone. 362 00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:54,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's my christmasication for Zach. 363 00:16:55,000 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 5: Okay, number two. 364 00:16:56,320 --> 00:17:06,800 Speaker 7: We're going back okay, Oh my goodness, I don't know. 365 00:17:07,080 --> 00:17:15,960 Speaker 4: Uh uh. The Santa Claus movies one, okay, one and 366 00:17:16,040 --> 00:17:16,640 Speaker 4: two are great. 367 00:17:16,880 --> 00:17:19,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, what's your third movie? 368 00:17:20,480 --> 00:17:22,400 Speaker 2: Is it Santa Claus two? Or is it something like Elf? 369 00:17:23,440 --> 00:17:24,880 Speaker 3: Oh? 370 00:17:24,880 --> 00:17:27,440 Speaker 4: Okay, we'll do alf awesome. 371 00:17:28,280 --> 00:17:29,800 Speaker 2: I love I would say. 372 00:17:30,040 --> 00:17:31,920 Speaker 6: You know what's in a kind of underrated movie that's 373 00:17:31,960 --> 00:17:35,280 Speaker 6: not talked about a lot is Fred Klaus Vince Vaughn. 374 00:17:35,600 --> 00:17:38,160 Speaker 5: I haven't seen that too, have you seen it? 375 00:17:38,280 --> 00:17:39,480 Speaker 2: I think Vince. 376 00:17:40,760 --> 00:17:46,119 Speaker 4: Is so funny, pretty funny for Christmases kind of I 377 00:17:46,160 --> 00:17:47,840 Speaker 4: love everything is. 378 00:17:48,600 --> 00:17:50,199 Speaker 6: He's a dirt bag in the beginning, and then he 379 00:17:50,280 --> 00:17:52,919 Speaker 6: turns pretty great by the end yet I don't know. 380 00:17:52,960 --> 00:17:55,800 Speaker 5: He has figured out his thing and he's just rolled 381 00:17:55,800 --> 00:17:58,520 Speaker 5: with that for forever. And I'm not mad about it 382 00:17:58,560 --> 00:18:00,880 Speaker 5: at all. I don't want to see him do anything else. 383 00:18:01,400 --> 00:18:04,040 Speaker 5: I want him as that character in every movie. Just yeah, 384 00:18:04,200 --> 00:18:04,720 Speaker 5: just do that. 385 00:18:04,920 --> 00:18:08,800 Speaker 1: So Christmasfication, Fred Claus and then your third one, the 386 00:18:09,520 --> 00:18:09,760 Speaker 1: kind of. 387 00:18:09,760 --> 00:18:17,880 Speaker 5: Random that was in my vows love. Actually that's a 388 00:18:17,880 --> 00:18:20,320 Speaker 5: controversial moment a Christmas movie. 389 00:18:20,520 --> 00:18:22,480 Speaker 2: I don't think that. Yeah, I love actually the Christmas 390 00:18:22,520 --> 00:18:25,440 Speaker 2: movie for Christmases. Yeah, An. 391 00:18:27,840 --> 00:18:31,560 Speaker 5: That's on our calendar. That's on our Christmas calendar. Yeah, 392 00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:36,040 Speaker 5: I think so that's okay. 393 00:18:36,280 --> 00:18:38,880 Speaker 4: I love with Adam Sandler. His style is on. 394 00:18:38,880 --> 00:18:41,359 Speaker 2: Point with Adam Sandler. 395 00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:46,159 Speaker 4: No movie that you're talkingbou Leonards number one trending on 396 00:18:46,200 --> 00:18:51,200 Speaker 4: Netflix right now, real Adam Sandler animated, animated, and it's 397 00:18:51,200 --> 00:18:55,440 Speaker 4: also musical, which I'm not crazy about musicals. 398 00:18:55,440 --> 00:19:00,320 Speaker 5: Spirited the Ryan Reynolds, What was this Ryan Reynold and 399 00:19:01,600 --> 00:19:02,639 Speaker 5: watch that Will fare All. 400 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:04,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, we watched it. 401 00:19:04,040 --> 00:19:04,840 Speaker 3: Wasn't it was. 402 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:06,760 Speaker 5: You turned it on. It was a musical they were 403 00:19:06,760 --> 00:19:08,719 Speaker 5: seeing the whole time. I was like, this is not 404 00:19:08,760 --> 00:19:10,119 Speaker 5: what I expected. 405 00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:10,480 Speaker 4: No. 406 00:19:12,080 --> 00:19:12,520 Speaker 3: Or anything. 407 00:19:12,960 --> 00:19:20,200 Speaker 1: Sorry, Place Place play watch go to a plaut Cracker holiday. 408 00:19:20,920 --> 00:19:23,919 Speaker 5: Like the Rockets, the Nutcracker Ballet. 409 00:19:24,160 --> 00:19:26,440 Speaker 4: I don't see the Nutcracker, but I don't I have 410 00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:27,359 Speaker 4: been to a play. 411 00:19:27,440 --> 00:19:31,399 Speaker 2: Do we have that New York? Yeah, we don't have. 412 00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:34,720 Speaker 5: Guy, You guys don't have Broadway. 413 00:19:34,760 --> 00:19:36,760 Speaker 3: How about New Year's Eve? Are you guys New York's people? 414 00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:37,560 Speaker 3: We're not. 415 00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:38,639 Speaker 4: I'll be working. 416 00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:40,720 Speaker 5: When do you start. 417 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:42,359 Speaker 4: Monday? 418 00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:45,600 Speaker 5: Oh? Coming up? 419 00:19:47,320 --> 00:19:49,160 Speaker 2: No, I'm not like Anick New Yors person either, I'll 420 00:19:49,200 --> 00:19:50,560 Speaker 2: just probably be chilling. 421 00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:53,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, we were invited to like some parties. 422 00:19:53,440 --> 00:19:57,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, are you working Eve and day or just day? 423 00:19:58,400 --> 00:20:02,600 Speaker 5: I don't know forever? Will this? Do you think your 424 00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:04,080 Speaker 5: last contract that you do? 425 00:20:04,640 --> 00:20:09,080 Speaker 4: So? So I'm actually not even on a contract. Okay, 426 00:20:09,160 --> 00:20:11,280 Speaker 4: I'm just part time at the hospital on the floor 427 00:20:11,359 --> 00:20:14,800 Speaker 4: that I was previously for my previous two contracts. I 428 00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:16,760 Speaker 4: love the people, I'm comfortable. I know the charting systems, 429 00:20:16,760 --> 00:20:20,040 Speaker 4: I know everything, so I know everything. Should not have 430 00:20:20,080 --> 00:20:24,160 Speaker 4: said that I do not know. Yeah you do, but yeah, 431 00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:25,639 Speaker 4: it's just what I'm comfortable with. So I'm going to 432 00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:26,240 Speaker 4: go back there. 433 00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 5: But yes, and then TVD, TVD, let's get this. 434 00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:34,960 Speaker 4: Cosmetic thing rolling, which it's kind of in the works, right, Okay, yeah, 435 00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:36,239 Speaker 4: they kind of poached me out. 436 00:20:36,359 --> 00:20:39,800 Speaker 5: Actually, oh no, way, that's awesome, really exciting. Yeah, it's 437 00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:48,399 Speaker 5: very exciting. Did you guys watch for a Bachelor? 438 00:20:49,280 --> 00:20:53,800 Speaker 6: Yes, okay, so I was really gung ho watching Gary. 439 00:20:54,119 --> 00:20:56,800 Speaker 6: We were so excited for the first episode of Gary's 440 00:20:56,920 --> 00:21:00,600 Speaker 6: season and we just got so involved with Paradise that 441 00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:02,479 Speaker 6: had kind of dropped off here and there, but I 442 00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:06,000 Speaker 6: kind of stayed in the loop, understanderstood what was going on. 443 00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:11,760 Speaker 6: But I recently just like watched the overnights the Fantasy, 444 00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:13,880 Speaker 6: and that's I missed basically the whole middle chunk. 445 00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:17,160 Speaker 5: Was that a triggering episode for you, Zach, not for him? 446 00:21:17,200 --> 00:21:17,480 Speaker 2: For me? 447 00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:20,159 Speaker 4: That's there always. 448 00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:22,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's triggering, triggering for all of us. 449 00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:27,520 Speaker 1: It's is it rough watching watching Fantasy? 450 00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:29,800 Speaker 4: We actually had this conversation not too long ago. It 451 00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:32,280 Speaker 4: was a it was a phone call because he was 452 00:21:32,320 --> 00:21:35,280 Speaker 4: in California and I was just I was just expressing 453 00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:40,439 Speaker 4: that sometimes it just brings up old emotions kind of 454 00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:42,399 Speaker 4: just like puts me back in that place of everything 455 00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:45,480 Speaker 4: I was feeling. And then sometimes I get mad at 456 00:21:45,480 --> 00:21:48,400 Speaker 4: myself that I didn't say more to you in that 457 00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:52,879 Speaker 4: situation or you know, I did something differently, But I 458 00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:55,320 Speaker 4: also can't beat myself up over that because yeah, in 459 00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:57,560 Speaker 4: that moment, that's what I was feeling exactly. You can't 460 00:21:57,640 --> 00:22:00,680 Speaker 4: change anything, and. 461 00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:02,919 Speaker 5: And you're trying to process so much more than you 462 00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:06,560 Speaker 5: usually would, like, yeah, I'm sure you probably went to 463 00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:07,840 Speaker 5: bed that I'd be like I should have said this, 464 00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:08,760 Speaker 5: and I wish I said this. 465 00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:12,239 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, no, yeah, I still do. But he's but 466 00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:14,119 Speaker 4: the great thing is is when I did bring that up, 467 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:16,359 Speaker 4: he's like, let's talk about it. What do you would 468 00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:18,560 Speaker 4: you want to like, like, what do you wish, what 469 00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:19,800 Speaker 4: do you want to address? What do you want to 470 00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:21,880 Speaker 4: say to me? And I'm like, I don't even know. 471 00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:28,440 Speaker 4: I don't even know, and it's you're just great. You try, 472 00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:30,919 Speaker 4: you try your best to like help me through it. 473 00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:32,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, well it's it's tough. 474 00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:36,320 Speaker 6: And I obviously like I had my. 475 00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:36,840 Speaker 2: My wrongs on the show. 476 00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:40,480 Speaker 6: What I could have done better, and and like looking back, 477 00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:44,879 Speaker 6: there's so much I could have handled it differently, but 478 00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:48,200 Speaker 6: like right now and for a future, like what's important 479 00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:50,200 Speaker 6: is her and like how she feels and I don't 480 00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:52,760 Speaker 6: want her to have any sliver of doubt And I 481 00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:56,120 Speaker 6: know how. I actually can't say I know how traumatizing 482 00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:59,040 Speaker 6: it was for her because I not, I'm not her, 483 00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:02,440 Speaker 6: But if I can as supportive as I can, Yeah, 484 00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:06,320 Speaker 6: because I'll love her through it all regardless, no matter 485 00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:08,800 Speaker 6: how pissed off you are about it or want to 486 00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:10,879 Speaker 6: say something to me like I'm here for you, Like 487 00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:13,000 Speaker 6: I'm here for it, Like you have every right to 488 00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:16,080 Speaker 6: feel that, like talk to me about it. So I 489 00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:17,800 Speaker 6: always try to be there for that. And it's tough 490 00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:19,720 Speaker 6: to talk about though, So I don't blame her. Yeah, 491 00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:21,879 Speaker 6: it's something you have to kind of inch towards. 492 00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:24,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's one of those things that happens every season 493 00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:30,040 Speaker 5: and maybe you step that episode season back that Watching this, 494 00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:31,639 Speaker 5: I'm just like, well. 495 00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:34,959 Speaker 1: It's just it's just it's it's it's just inevitable, Like 496 00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:38,639 Speaker 1: there's you know, the lead is falling for multiple people 497 00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:42,159 Speaker 1: at the end, there's fantasy suits and things are going 498 00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:43,240 Speaker 1: to get a little messy. 499 00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:44,400 Speaker 2: It's every time. 500 00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:47,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's always a messy episode, very very rarely is 501 00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:50,360 Speaker 5: it not a messy episode? Do you have any advice then? 502 00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:52,240 Speaker 5: Going for Joey, Well. 503 00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:54,560 Speaker 2: I was going to say, did you did you give Joey? Yeah, 504 00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:56,320 Speaker 2: did you give him advice because you met him, right. 505 00:23:56,480 --> 00:24:01,480 Speaker 6: Yeah, So I met Joey real briefly at Charity's after 506 00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:05,439 Speaker 6: the final rowse, and you know, I told him, I 507 00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:07,560 Speaker 6: was like, just enjoy the ride, have so much fun, 508 00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:09,840 Speaker 6: Like there's nothing I can tell you that you know 509 00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:15,120 Speaker 6: it's gonna make everything just so great, and just have 510 00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:17,199 Speaker 6: fun with it. Live in the moment when I told him, 511 00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:19,760 Speaker 6: And then I could just see it in him like 512 00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:23,120 Speaker 6: he's gonna be just fine, Like he'll be totally fine. 513 00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:26,480 Speaker 4: You can even see at when he got announced how 514 00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:30,040 Speaker 4: he was just like he did really well. 515 00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:32,080 Speaker 5: He's a very poised person. Yeah, that's a good word 516 00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:35,520 Speaker 5: to describe. He very much reminds me of Jason. 517 00:24:36,119 --> 00:24:38,680 Speaker 3: He reminds me a lot of Yeah. 518 00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:41,160 Speaker 5: Like even just like the way they speak, the way 519 00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:44,920 Speaker 5: they carry themselves, Like there's really something about Yeah, a lot. 520 00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:47,520 Speaker 4: Of people have heard a bad thing about Joey, No 521 00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:50,440 Speaker 4: me either at all. But yeah, I think the Golden 522 00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:53,760 Speaker 4: Bachelor just circling back to that is really It's cool. 523 00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:56,080 Speaker 4: It's I think this was just like a cool new 524 00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:59,840 Speaker 4: perspective on love and for the viewers to watch, and 525 00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:03,320 Speaker 4: and I think it's also inspiring to for people in 526 00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:07,280 Speaker 4: that age bracket that are watching and they're seeing that 527 00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:11,160 Speaker 4: women say, you know, there is hope for me, even 528 00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:13,159 Speaker 4: at this age, I still can fall in love and 529 00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:17,560 Speaker 4: there's you know, still that person that's out there for me. 530 00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:18,960 Speaker 4: So I think it's beautiful. 531 00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:21,359 Speaker 5: I think, is there anyone you guys want to see 532 00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:23,760 Speaker 5: as the Golden Bachelorette if they do do one? 533 00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:26,920 Speaker 4: Kate Zach asked me this like a few hours ago, 534 00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:31,160 Speaker 4: and I said, I think all would be All would 535 00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:35,200 Speaker 4: be good, But I think my so diplomatic. 536 00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:44,159 Speaker 1: Sixteen seasons, you have the tune in every week, who 537 00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:44,960 Speaker 1: do you want to watch? 538 00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:49,240 Speaker 4: I would say Kate, I forget her name, what's her name? Nancy, 539 00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:52,159 Speaker 4: the one that was crying in the wedding? 540 00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:55,680 Speaker 5: We love her? 541 00:25:56,480 --> 00:26:01,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, pray for Nancy. She's great the Bachelor. Like, I 542 00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:01,720 Speaker 4: think she's cool. 543 00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:05,960 Speaker 5: She is cool. She's like, she's like, you're like cool, Aunt. 544 00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:08,880 Speaker 5: I don't know. She's so pretty, she's beautiful. She looked 545 00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:09,960 Speaker 5: amazing at the woman tall. 546 00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:13,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, Kathy. 547 00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:16,080 Speaker 2: I think I haven't even met Kathy yet. 548 00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:18,560 Speaker 5: Girl, Kathy, she how could you? 549 00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:26,240 Speaker 6: I would say, my votes for Kathy really or Joan Joan. 550 00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:29,080 Speaker 5: She literally looks like a supermodel, Like she's super tall, 551 00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:33,879 Speaker 5: long blonde hands. She's making a lot of oh is 552 00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:36,679 Speaker 5: she Jon's getting on TikTok get a girl. But she 553 00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:39,080 Speaker 5: went home because her daughter was dealing with severe post 554 00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:42,480 Speaker 5: part impression and talked about, Yeah, she would also be 555 00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:44,680 Speaker 5: a great one. There's a lot of really good They've 556 00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:46,040 Speaker 5: got a lot of good options to choose from. 557 00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:48,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, a lot of green women. 558 00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:49,400 Speaker 3: Who's your number one? 559 00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:53,560 Speaker 5: My number one? Oh that's so hard. Faith was like 560 00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:55,200 Speaker 5: one of our first guess. She got the first impression 561 00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:57,200 Speaker 5: rose from the season. So I just feel like I 562 00:26:57,280 --> 00:26:59,000 Speaker 5: had like a soft swat for her the whole time, 563 00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:02,280 Speaker 5: and and she like made me cry because she's just 564 00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:03,960 Speaker 5: like so like the way she speaks is just like 565 00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:06,200 Speaker 5: so emotional. I really like her. I think she'd be great. 566 00:27:06,240 --> 00:27:07,280 Speaker 2: Was the motor second one. 567 00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:10,520 Speaker 5: Giving that out. 568 00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:15,120 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm gonna say Leslie, all right, let's yeah, well, yeah, 569 00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:16,000 Speaker 1: of course, Leslie. 570 00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:17,000 Speaker 5: Very cool. 571 00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:19,840 Speaker 1: Let's get into uh, I know it's getting hot in here, 572 00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:21,480 Speaker 1: and you guys gotta go, so let's get into some 573 00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:24,320 Speaker 1: rapid fire questions, quick game. 574 00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:24,920 Speaker 4: Let's go. 575 00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:27,320 Speaker 3: Oh, I asked him, you guys name you guys go 576 00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:29,200 Speaker 3: at the same time you ready? Wait? 577 00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:30,840 Speaker 4: Are we going to get a countdown? 578 00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:34,080 Speaker 5: I mean we'll just say the question and then just 579 00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:35,560 Speaker 5: go in your head. 580 00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:37,080 Speaker 4: Okay, okay, let's go. 581 00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:38,280 Speaker 2: Who's more romantic? 582 00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:38,840 Speaker 4: Exactly? 583 00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:41,000 Speaker 2: Okay? Who's more organized? 584 00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:44,399 Speaker 4: Me? Oh what, babe? 585 00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:46,320 Speaker 2: I got all these organized panicked? 586 00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:50,640 Speaker 5: Really? 587 00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:51,200 Speaker 7: Is it? 588 00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:51,719 Speaker 5: Is it her? 589 00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:52,159 Speaker 4: No? 590 00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:53,080 Speaker 2: It actually is her? 591 00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:55,000 Speaker 6: But it was because I was talking about like I 592 00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:57,359 Speaker 6: like to keep my office clean, but I honestly I 593 00:27:57,440 --> 00:27:57,920 Speaker 6: just stay. 594 00:27:57,760 --> 00:27:58,200 Speaker 2: In my office. 595 00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:00,399 Speaker 4: I guess I keep our house more organ You do? 596 00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:00,840 Speaker 5: You do? 597 00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:01,200 Speaker 4: Okay? 598 00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:05,560 Speaker 2: And thank you so much. Who's more stubborn? Yeah? I 599 00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:06,240 Speaker 2: picked up on that. 600 00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:11,720 Speaker 3: Who spends who spends more time on social media? 601 00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:13,840 Speaker 2: Who's a pick your eater? 602 00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:14,800 Speaker 4: Neither? 603 00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:16,240 Speaker 2: Neither everything. 604 00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:18,080 Speaker 4: I don't like spice, so maybe me. 605 00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:21,080 Speaker 3: You guys? Are a favorite restaurant in Austin? 606 00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:21,600 Speaker 4: Laura? 607 00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:28,560 Speaker 2: Yes, Laura is that? I've been there? That's awesome. 608 00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:30,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's one of the few Russians I've been to it. 609 00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:31,359 Speaker 5: I really want to go. 610 00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:32,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. 611 00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,760 Speaker 1: I just feel like it's an Asian barbecue spot, right, 612 00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:35,840 Speaker 1: it's all wood inside. 613 00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:36,920 Speaker 2: Been there? 614 00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:37,240 Speaker 7: Yeah? 615 00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:37,880 Speaker 2: Very cool? 616 00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:42,680 Speaker 3: Who takes longer to get ready? Who's a better dancer? Zach? 617 00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:43,760 Speaker 5: Wow? 618 00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:45,760 Speaker 2: Move? Who's the better driver? 619 00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:51,800 Speaker 4: Yes, are you about good driver? 620 00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:52,760 Speaker 2: She's a great driver. 621 00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:55,720 Speaker 4: Okay, Joe and I parallettle parker than you. 622 00:28:57,080 --> 00:28:58,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'll get us home safe. 623 00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:02,640 Speaker 4: Ship handle, always holding on to it. 624 00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:08,400 Speaker 2: Who's the who's better at pickleball? For our listeners, these 625 00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:09,760 Speaker 2: are questions for Gary. 626 00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:13,640 Speaker 4: But you guys know we're both good. 627 00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:18,520 Speaker 2: We're both make a great team. Who's the funny one? 628 00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:23,480 Speaker 1: Who's the better cook? Would you say who's a better cook? 629 00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:28,360 Speaker 1: Who is going to take the lead on the wedding planning? 630 00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:29,760 Speaker 2: Okay? 631 00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:32,440 Speaker 5: Great, Well, sounds like it's doing a lot of docu 632 00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:35,520 Speaker 5: step up. She's bringing the last she's bringing the cooking. 633 00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:41,760 Speaker 5: One lucky guy organizing the lucky guy. She's the total package. 634 00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:45,600 Speaker 1: You guys did a lovely job. Thank you for coming 635 00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:48,560 Speaker 1: on two parts of Bacheler Happy Hour. I really appreciate 636 00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:52,360 Speaker 1: it us, of course, and thank you to all our 637 00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:55,760 Speaker 1: listeners for tuning in. 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