1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,400 Speaker 1: Buckle up, hold on tight. We got it for you here. 2 00:00:02,400 --> 00:00:06,760 Speaker 1: It is the Strawberry Letter. A subject a stepmom that 3 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 1: may need to step away. Dear Stephen Shirley, My husband 4 00:00:11,080 --> 00:00:14,040 Speaker 1: and I have been married for eleven years. My husband 5 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:17,599 Speaker 1: has three grown children from his previous marriage, two sons 6 00:00:17,680 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 1: and a daughter. His sons are happily married, but his 7 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:25,560 Speaker 1: daughter is not. My husband's ex wife constantly intrudes in 8 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:28,840 Speaker 1: our marriage and in her daughter's marriage. The daughter will 9 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:31,080 Speaker 1: not keep her mom out of her business and it 10 00:00:31,160 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 1: upsets her husband. The ex wife has also made my 11 00:00:34,840 --> 00:00:37,920 Speaker 1: husband's life miserable, but I can deal with that. It's 12 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:41,040 Speaker 1: my stepdaughter that is the problem. I am not welcome 13 00:00:41,080 --> 00:00:44,160 Speaker 1: at any of the grandchildren's birthday parties or family get 14 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:47,320 Speaker 1: togethers because of her. I have tried for many years 15 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:51,240 Speaker 1: to have a relationship with my stepdaughter, but she's not interested. 16 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 1: I run around and buy things for her children and 17 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:56,360 Speaker 1: help her father get gifts for her children, and she 18 00:00:56,440 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 1: will only thank my husband. She has never told me 19 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 1: thank you. She refers to our home as her dad's house. 20 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:06,480 Speaker 1: It hurts my feelings that she does not respect my 21 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 1: marriage to her dad. My husband always defends his daughter's 22 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:12,960 Speaker 1: actions and how he treats me. He tries to make 23 00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:15,479 Speaker 1: it better by making up lies about how his daughter 24 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:18,640 Speaker 1: says to tell me hi when they talk. Steve, how 25 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:21,000 Speaker 1: can I get my husband to realize that his actions 26 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:23,920 Speaker 1: are just as bad as his daughter's attitude. I'm not 27 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 1: worried about the ex wife, but I have to spend 28 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:29,800 Speaker 1: time with his daughter, so I need to fix this situation. 29 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:33,120 Speaker 1: My family life is falling apart, and I am the 30 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 1: only one who seems to notice. What should I do? 31 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:42,319 Speaker 1: What should you do? You ask? Well, first of all, 32 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 1: I think you're doing way too much. I think you 33 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 1: should stop doing everything. Okay, Stop going to places with them. 34 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 1: They don't want you there anyway, so stop going, Stop 35 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:56,200 Speaker 1: buying stuff for them, stop trying to make them like you. 36 00:01:56,480 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 1: Stop you know, wanting to thank you from the daughter 37 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 1: and going and helping you know, buy stuff and get 38 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:06,760 Speaker 1: gifts and all of that. And please stop letting this 39 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 1: woman disrespect you like this. Okay, you deserve much better. 40 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:15,640 Speaker 1: You know. It's not about them, it's about you. And 41 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:19,959 Speaker 1: your husband really needs to grow up here. He needs 42 00:02:19,960 --> 00:02:23,239 Speaker 1: to speak up for you on your behalf. You're his wife. 43 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 1: You should come first Okay, he shouldn't let anyone. I 44 00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 1: don't care who it is. I don't care if it's 45 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:31,400 Speaker 1: this crazy daughter that he has his meddling ex wife, 46 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 1: anyone come before you and treat you this way. My 47 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 1: husband always defends his daughter's actions and how he treats me. 48 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:42,639 Speaker 1: Why is he defending her? Why isn't he defending you? 49 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 1: His wife, that's who, and you need to let him 50 00:02:45,200 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 1: know what is going on here. I'm your wife. He 51 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:51,800 Speaker 1: knows that, but you haven't spoken up for yourself. You 52 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:53,680 Speaker 1: need to let your husband know how it's going to 53 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 1: be from this day forward. He needs to You all 54 00:02:56,080 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 1: need to be a unit, present that unit to the family, 55 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:02,359 Speaker 1: and with it that way. Okay, maybe the daughter will 56 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 1: back down once she sees that the husband respects you 57 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 1: and sticks up for you, But you gotta stick up 58 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 1: for yourself to your husband first. Steve, Well, this is 59 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 1: a complete mess. Yeah. Blended families are always difficult. I've 60 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 1: had my share of difficulties with it myself, especially when 61 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 1: you're dealing with these grown kids because they have their 62 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:29,360 Speaker 1: own ideas of what they think should be. Had I 63 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 1: listened to our grown kids, Marjorie, and I probably wouldn't 64 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 1: have got married because they went bowling and decided since 65 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 1: we're just informing them that they don't think we should 66 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 1: get married. I call him a bunch of stupid, blanketed 67 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:49,680 Speaker 1: blanks and walked out the room simply because how y'all 68 00:03:49,720 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 1: ignorant ass gonna tell me something. Ain't none of y'all 69 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 1: got a husband, a wife, or a child. Now you're 70 00:03:56,360 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 1: gonna tell me how to behave So I can understand 71 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 1: that it's gotten way better since then, but that's still 72 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 1: friction every now and then. Your problem is that the 73 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:13,480 Speaker 1: daughter has sided with the mother who is his ex wife. 74 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 1: She's totally taking her side. That's something wrong with his 75 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:20,919 Speaker 1: ex wife, because if it wasn't, it wouldn't be his 76 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 1: ex wife, it would be his current wife. My husband's 77 00:04:25,080 --> 00:04:27,960 Speaker 1: ex wife constantly intrudes in our marriage and in her 78 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:32,160 Speaker 1: daughter's marriage. Well I thought you said his sons are 79 00:04:32,160 --> 00:04:34,520 Speaker 1: happily married, but his daughter is not. Oh that means 80 00:04:34,560 --> 00:04:39,120 Speaker 1: she's married but not Okay. Well, see, first of all, 81 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 1: his ex wife doesn't know how to have a successful marriage, 82 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:46,239 Speaker 1: so any information that she's intruding on with her daughter's 83 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:49,200 Speaker 1: marriage ain't gonna be helpful to his daughter. Her daughter 84 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:51,680 Speaker 1: because she don't know how to have a healthy marriage, 85 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:56,040 Speaker 1: and spreading dissension is her way. So now the daughter 86 00:04:56,440 --> 00:05:01,200 Speaker 1: can't stand you. Now, what you're do artis is is 87 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 1: you are not welcome at any of the grandchildren's birthday 88 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 1: parties or family get togethers because of her. I've tried 89 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:11,359 Speaker 1: for many years to have relationship with my stepdaughter, but 90 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:14,320 Speaker 1: she's not interested. I run around and buy things for 91 00:05:14,360 --> 00:05:17,600 Speaker 1: her children and help her father get gifts for her children. 92 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:21,159 Speaker 1: She would only thank her husband. She would only think 93 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:25,359 Speaker 1: my husband the lady. She's never told me thank you. 94 00:05:25,440 --> 00:05:28,039 Speaker 1: She refers to our home as her dad's house. It 95 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:30,680 Speaker 1: hurts my feeling that she does not respect my marriage 96 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:34,279 Speaker 1: to her dad, and you have every right to be hurt. 97 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 1: So what do you do? At one point, it takes 98 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 1: two to tangle, if the other person, it takes two 99 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:44,040 Speaker 1: people to tangle. It takes two people to have a relationship. 100 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 1: Relationship is two people. She don't want a relationship. I 101 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:52,840 Speaker 1: agree with Shirley. Stop stop buying stuff for the grandkids 102 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 1: and all this. Stop shopping for your husband. Now, if 103 00:05:57,400 --> 00:06:00,719 Speaker 1: you can't get respected, she don't talk to you, she 104 00:06:00,839 --> 00:06:04,440 Speaker 1: don't thank you, then see let him go buy stuff 105 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 1: for the grandkids. Now, he caught between the rock and 106 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 1: a hard place, and we're gonna get to that after 107 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:12,919 Speaker 1: the break. But he caught between the heart rock and 108 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:15,040 Speaker 1: hard play because I know what he's tried to He 109 00:06:15,080 --> 00:06:17,360 Speaker 1: tries to make it better by making up lies about 110 00:06:17,400 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 1: the highest. Daughter says to tell me high when they talk. 111 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 1: She already knows that's not even you know, good wills. 112 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:28,840 Speaker 1: He ain't saying high to me. She ain't ever said 113 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:31,840 Speaker 1: high to me, and I've been right here, So when 114 00:06:31,880 --> 00:06:35,359 Speaker 1: the hell she started sending a message? So you already 115 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:38,279 Speaker 1: noticed crazy, But old dude, he don't want you hurting. 116 00:06:39,120 --> 00:06:42,039 Speaker 1: The guy ain't bad, He don't want you hurting, But 117 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:45,520 Speaker 1: at one point in time, a decision's got to be made. 118 00:06:46,440 --> 00:06:52,440 Speaker 1: His loyalty is to you, period. But he's suffering from 119 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:56,360 Speaker 1: guilt though. You gotta understand his daughter is making him 120 00:06:56,400 --> 00:07:03,160 Speaker 1: feel guilty over the mom's condition mental stability. Oh, he 121 00:07:03,880 --> 00:07:07,440 Speaker 1: pulled in all this, man, and so you gotta you 122 00:07:07,480 --> 00:07:10,840 Speaker 1: gotta understand that. But I'll tell you what I think 123 00:07:10,840 --> 00:07:12,760 Speaker 1: you should do when we come all right, Steve, So 124 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:15,240 Speaker 1: when we come back, we'll have part two of your 125 00:07:15,280 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 1: response to a stepmom that may need to step away. 126 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:23,160 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, we're back with part two of today's 127 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. A stepmom that may need to step away 128 00:07:26,680 --> 00:07:29,560 Speaker 1: is the subject. Let's recap, shall we. Well? You know 129 00:07:29,720 --> 00:07:32,760 Speaker 1: this woman is married his husband. They've been married for 130 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 1: eleven years. He got three grown children from his previous marriage, 131 00:07:36,480 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 1: two sons and a daughter. His sons are happily married, 132 00:07:39,240 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 1: but his daughter's not. My husband's ex wife constantly intrudes 133 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:45,920 Speaker 1: in our marriage and then her daughter's marriage. The daughter 134 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:48,480 Speaker 1: will not keep her mom out of her business, and 135 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:52,560 Speaker 1: it upsets her husband. The ex wife also made my 136 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 1: husband's life miserable. Oh I know what that is right there? 137 00:07:57,080 --> 00:08:03,120 Speaker 1: What that ex wife trying to make your husband's life? Oh? Lord, 138 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:09,520 Speaker 1: been there? Um Um, I tightened up right there. I 139 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 1: got tight because Lord, I know that your ex wife 140 00:08:13,440 --> 00:08:19,680 Speaker 1: make your life miserable. Why won't she go sit hertail 141 00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:25,800 Speaker 1: down some damn where, Get your ass off the internet, 142 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:35,760 Speaker 1: quit selling stories to the inquiry, to stop about me 143 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:38,760 Speaker 1: all the damn time. Okay, this is not about you. 144 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 1: I have to, you know, remind you of that, Steve. 145 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:45,600 Speaker 1: I think now it's a good place. Well, but when 146 00:08:45,600 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 1: he said the ex wife has also made my husband's 147 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:54,440 Speaker 1: life miserable. That was directed. You don't see Steve in 148 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:59,560 Speaker 1: that sentence. I know I do no dog two different 149 00:08:59,559 --> 00:09:07,240 Speaker 1: people to say situation with you. First of all, I 150 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:11,079 Speaker 1: don't know what that means. We'll take yourself out of it. 151 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:14,360 Speaker 1: Take yourself out of it, take yourself out of it. 152 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:17,560 Speaker 1: I wasn't in it until she said the ex wife 153 00:09:17,760 --> 00:09:20,920 Speaker 1: has also made my husband's life miserable. Now if that 154 00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 1: don't sound like she talked to me, and I see, 155 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:28,760 Speaker 1: when God gives you a guilt, you got to look 156 00:09:28,760 --> 00:09:30,960 Speaker 1: at the gift for what it is and appreciate it. 157 00:09:31,640 --> 00:09:35,079 Speaker 1: So now here's what you got to do. Step away. 158 00:09:36,080 --> 00:09:39,400 Speaker 1: You should step away. Ain't no need to trying to 159 00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:42,600 Speaker 1: be kind and keep getting ribuffed. You don't have to 160 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:46,000 Speaker 1: just have a person keep spitting on you in your face, 161 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:50,480 Speaker 1: stay out their face. That's all you got to do. 162 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:55,560 Speaker 1: Remove yourself from all this shopping and buying and trying 163 00:09:55,600 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 1: to go to get togethers and stuff. You know, I 164 00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:05,040 Speaker 1: don't understand they having family events and then someone calling 165 00:10:05,080 --> 00:10:14,880 Speaker 1: you right now I hear your phone. I'm properly somebody 166 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:18,760 Speaker 1: calling me when they hearing you. I wish that wasn't 167 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:25,600 Speaker 1: Is that who you're thinking? Yeah, I hear you talking 168 00:10:25,600 --> 00:10:29,840 Speaker 1: about I'm I got so many blocks and stuff you 169 00:10:29,880 --> 00:10:32,240 Speaker 1: don't even want to stand up. Okay, back to the letter, 170 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:34,760 Speaker 1: because you will get to stop at X. Don't ask 171 00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:40,240 Speaker 1: me how I know. I just know Shirley's right. I 172 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:43,480 Speaker 1: would remove myself from the situation. I'm not worried about 173 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:45,440 Speaker 1: the ex wife, but I have to spend time with 174 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:48,440 Speaker 1: his daughter, so I need to fix this situation. But 175 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:52,000 Speaker 1: his daughter don't want to fix the situation. Have you 176 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:56,480 Speaker 1: ever just said, hey, listen, I love your father. Your 177 00:10:56,520 --> 00:10:59,760 Speaker 1: father loves me. I have nothing to do with your 178 00:10:59,800 --> 00:11:04,079 Speaker 1: father all this breakup. I'm tired of being blamed for it. 179 00:11:04,200 --> 00:11:07,679 Speaker 1: I've been nothing but kind to you and these grandchildren 180 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:11,280 Speaker 1: I want us to have Huh. She says that I 181 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:13,719 Speaker 1: have tried for many years to have a relationship with 182 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:16,440 Speaker 1: my stepdaughter. Well, I just told them what to say. Yeah, okay, 183 00:11:16,600 --> 00:11:20,200 Speaker 1: if quit trying to have it right or be held 184 00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:25,040 Speaker 1: at you, let's live your life by yes and don't 185 00:11:25,040 --> 00:11:29,319 Speaker 1: bring them damn kids over here now less Christmas shop. 186 00:11:29,320 --> 00:11:33,560 Speaker 1: You ain't about that's right, I'm gonna stingle, So wait, 187 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:36,199 Speaker 1: say that one more time. Don't come over here no more, 188 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:39,480 Speaker 1: and don't bring them damn kids. You can talk about 189 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:43,199 Speaker 1: the kids to make them feel bad. No, okay, no, no, 190 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:45,840 Speaker 1: they're innocent. Don't bring them over I'll tell you what. 191 00:11:45,880 --> 00:11:47,760 Speaker 1: If you want the kids to come over here from now, 192 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:51,720 Speaker 1: send them over here by your husband. You don't bring 193 00:11:51,720 --> 00:11:54,480 Speaker 1: your ass over here no more. But she's miserable in 194 00:11:54,480 --> 00:11:58,120 Speaker 1: her marriage. She's in an unhappy marriage. So misery loves company. Right. Well, 195 00:11:58,160 --> 00:12:00,000 Speaker 1: that's why I say send them over here by the hood, 196 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:06,840 Speaker 1: because he probably need a break. I'm pretty sure he 197 00:12:06,920 --> 00:12:09,640 Speaker 1: loved to come over here to be killed, wash the 198 00:12:09,720 --> 00:12:13,280 Speaker 1: game with us and everything. Yeah, he loved to come 199 00:12:13,280 --> 00:12:15,199 Speaker 1: over that by himself, just to get away from y'all. 200 00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:23,520 Speaker 1: Ain't if I just stopped buying sit down, I ain't 201 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:26,840 Speaker 1: got I sit in the driveway. I just come over. 202 00:12:28,280 --> 00:12:30,640 Speaker 1: I just swing by Chrispy Krean. The light was on, 203 00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:33,880 Speaker 1: y'all wants don't know that. Don't really make her mad 204 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:37,440 Speaker 1: if she, you know, develops the relationship with the husband 205 00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:43,160 Speaker 1: and they become good friends. Yeah, so it's really no 206 00:12:43,240 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 1: way to help people like that. It's no terrible how 207 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 1: long this ex white thing can last? Trust me, another 208 00:12:54,880 --> 00:12:58,880 Speaker 1: day'n shot over here if you want, I forgot what 209 00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:06,839 Speaker 1: I was gonna ask you out. He can't, yeah, answer 210 00:13:06,920 --> 00:13:10,439 Speaker 1: this question what it was? I don't you think the 211 00:13:10,600 --> 00:13:14,200 Speaker 1: husband should say something? Don't you think the husband he's 212 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:17,120 Speaker 1: trying to say something what he needs to get them 213 00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:21,040 Speaker 1: off his wife? You don't think that you know what what? 214 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:26,040 Speaker 1: He's got a delicate line because he don't want it's 215 00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:29,199 Speaker 1: his daughter, right. He doesn't want to lose a relationship 216 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 1: with his daughter. He doesn't want the daughter to think 217 00:13:32,360 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 1: he's picking the wife over her, and he don't want 218 00:13:36,320 --> 00:13:39,200 Speaker 1: the wife to think that he's picking the daughter over her. 219 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:42,040 Speaker 1: He's caught between the rock and hard place. This is 220 00:13:42,160 --> 00:13:44,200 Speaker 1: really tough position to be, especially when it comes to 221 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:47,160 Speaker 1: the women and boys. Boys get on with a lot quicker. 222 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:50,200 Speaker 1: All right, well, listen, guys, we do have to go 223 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:53,760 Speaker 1: email us or instagram us your thoughts on today's Strawberry letter, 224 00:13:53,800 --> 00:14:00,280 Speaker 1: which was not about Steve, No, it wasn't. Ja song 225 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:02,760 Speaker 1: has actually told me Dan, I know my mom crazy? 226 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:10,240 Speaker 1: Goodis Steve Harvey f M or go to My Girls, Shirley. 227 00:14:10,280 --> 00:14:13,440 Speaker 1: At My Girls Shirley, you're listening to the Dave Harvey 228 00:14:13,520 --> 00:14:14,120 Speaker 1: Morning Show.