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Speaker 2: think straight. Hey, welcome to the Black Guy Tills Podcast

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Speaker 2: Warmth of other Sons by Isabelle Wilkerson, and that one

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Speaker 2: as a black business owner, definitely with something I thought

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Speaker 4: Big problem, and it has a for anybody that's in

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Speaker 2: What is the truth?

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Speaker 2: It's just very eye opening, very very good. Uh and

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Speaker 2: one that you know, they're not fucking with, and it's

432
00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:59,480
Speaker 2: like we never had a bad interaction. I don't think

433
00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:02,399
Speaker 2: anything negative about them, and then boom, all of a sudden,

434
00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:06,840
Speaker 2: it's this shit. So I've dealt with this before, you know.

435
00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:09,240
Speaker 2: I've also had the opposite that I've had people that

436
00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:12,560
Speaker 2: clung on and clung on to me in ways that

437
00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:14,919
Speaker 2: I didn't understand. I'm still figuring this shit out at

438
00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:16,560
Speaker 2: forty one years old, to be like, why does this

439
00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:20,000
Speaker 2: person feel so affected by my opinions? Why does this

440
00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:23,560
Speaker 2: person feel like they need me to express their opinions.

441
00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:25,200
Speaker 2: Why do they feel like we need to share the

442
00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:28,200
Speaker 2: same opinions all the time and that my approach needs

443
00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:30,000
Speaker 2: to be the exact same as what they would do.

444
00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:32,720
Speaker 2: Why are they putting so much weight on me? Because

445
00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:35,840
Speaker 2: I'm not putting the weight on them, Like I understand

446
00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:40,080
Speaker 2: and respect their individuality, you know, but I'll finish the thing.

447
00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:40,480
Speaker 3: But I.

448
00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:45,320
Speaker 2: Know, like people have told me before that they feel

449
00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:48,240
Speaker 2: intimidated by me, or they or their actions have shown

450
00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:50,560
Speaker 2: they feel intimidated or like they can't approach me right,

451
00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:54,480
Speaker 2: And like I said, I it's funny because they're approaching

452
00:23:54,520 --> 00:23:58,000
Speaker 2: me when they say it, you know. But I hope people,

453
00:23:58,080 --> 00:23:59,920
Speaker 2: I hope what that really is is that y'all feel

454
00:23:59,920 --> 00:24:02,080
Speaker 2: like y'all can't approach me with no bullshit. And if

455
00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:05,800
Speaker 2: that's the case, cool, I hope that's the truth. Yeah, Like,

456
00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:08,119
Speaker 2: come come correct, man, because I try to come correct

457
00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:10,840
Speaker 2: when I come at people, you know, in any light,

458
00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:13,159
Speaker 2: like I try to at least have thought about their

459
00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:15,560
Speaker 2: position and think about mine and try to reach out

460
00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:18,760
Speaker 2: to them on some connecting level that's not just me,

461
00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:22,920
Speaker 2: you know, starting some shit you know anyway, or maybe

462
00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:27,760
Speaker 2: they have and he doesn't care. I mean, look, I'll

463
00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:29,600
Speaker 2: be caring when I care, you know, I care more

464
00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:31,879
Speaker 2: about the people that love me and invest in my

465
00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:35,600
Speaker 2: life and take time out because those are the people

466
00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:39,000
Speaker 2: who count. So, you know, I make sure that the

467
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:42,720
Speaker 2: people around me have that freedom and feel that freedom

468
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:45,480
Speaker 2: to like to challenge me or to talk to me

469
00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:49,240
Speaker 2: directly about shit and the ones that are real. Do

470
00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:53,200
Speaker 2: you know anyone that has taken the time to listen

471
00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:58,520
Speaker 2: to this show, listen to how me and justin connect,

472
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:01,520
Speaker 2: you know? And then of course in my private life,

473
00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:03,960
Speaker 2: y'all will never know all the stuff that I do there.

474
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:06,840
Speaker 2: But you know, I don't think I have anyone in

475
00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:09,600
Speaker 2: my life that we don't have. As long as we

476
00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 2: keep it respectful, we don't have the ability to disagree

477
00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:14,960
Speaker 2: or to say, hey, what about the way you challenge this,

478
00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:17,040
Speaker 2: Oh the way you took this or you did this.

479
00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:19,080
Speaker 2: And then also, I mean, because a lot of the

480
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:22,640
Speaker 2: shit is humor. Some of this stuff is jokes, Yes, sir,

481
00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:25,879
Speaker 2: and so will like even when we mean it, you

482
00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:27,720
Speaker 2: can approach me and we make a joking way and

483
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:29,800
Speaker 2: it's like I'm still taking it in. But we also

484
00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:34,480
Speaker 2: aren't becoming, you know, enemies or whatever. But I know

485
00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:37,399
Speaker 2: he won't read this on the show because it's not

486
00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:41,000
Speaker 2: necessarily nice and it's cool. Okay, maybe this is just

487
00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:44,920
Speaker 2: that same troll just using the alien stuff. Yeah, you know,

488
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:46,800
Speaker 2: I'm not even sure it's a real person now, because

489
00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:50,200
Speaker 2: that's what that same troll does. Like I know what

490
00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:52,320
Speaker 2: you're gonna do, and it's like, you don't know me.

491
00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:55,440
Speaker 2: I still love it. That's my only complaint. No one's perfect,

492
00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:58,000
Speaker 2: but it can be judgment or hope he works on that. Yeah,

493
00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:00,720
Speaker 2: here's my only thing I would say after I read

494
00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:04,680
Speaker 2: all the shit, when you can write something like this

495
00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:08,680
Speaker 2: into the show without making me feel judged, I'll do

496
00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:12,080
Speaker 2: my show that apparently makes no one else feel judged.

497
00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:15,040
Speaker 2: Like what we do is a high wire act and

498
00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:18,080
Speaker 2: it's fucking impossible to talk about this many topics, this

499
00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:21,440
Speaker 2: many ways, with this many things, and never once make

500
00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:25,480
Speaker 2: people feel judged, Never once make people feel inadequate, or

501
00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:28,680
Speaker 2: to never be annoyed with other people, to never point

502
00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:31,800
Speaker 2: out the hypocrisy of other shit. You don't have to

503
00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:33,880
Speaker 2: take it in. This is just my experience through life.

504
00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:36,280
Speaker 2: I love that you pointed out when I said I've

505
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:39,040
Speaker 2: always done this or I feel this way, because I'm

506
00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:42,960
Speaker 2: speaking for myself. I not we not a bunch of

507
00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:46,960
Speaker 2: other motherfuckers for blackness, right, So you know, I think

508
00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:51,360
Speaker 2: that that that's kind of that's really important to note there,

509
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:55,760
Speaker 2: because I do feel like you're never gonna be able

510
00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:58,560
Speaker 2: to find an example of any podcast that does anything

511
00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:02,119
Speaker 2: about pop culture and politics and shit that doesn't make

512
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:06,080
Speaker 2: people feel judged. You're never gonna find it. And if

513
00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:08,199
Speaker 2: you do write me that email, let me know who

514
00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:11,400
Speaker 2: it is, who the special person that's figured this shit out,

515
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:13,840
Speaker 2: and you can listen to it and go, yeah, they've

516
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:17,119
Speaker 2: never made anyone ever feel a certain way. That's what

517
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,440
Speaker 2: we do for a living. Somebody gonna feel a way

518
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:21,640
Speaker 2: about it. You know, we talk about it and we're

519
00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 2: not scared. So it's gonna be impossible for me to say,

520
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:27,560
Speaker 2: you know, I think people are tripping over this lizo

521
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 2: shit and then be like, but I validate their opinions

522
00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:33,879
Speaker 2: and shit, I no, I don't. I actually think they

523
00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:36,639
Speaker 2: kind of tripping and it's just they gonna have to

524
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:39,720
Speaker 2: feel that way, you know. And there's twenty other topics

525
00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:42,280
Speaker 2: throughout the week. I'm sure we talked about that. There's

526
00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:45,320
Speaker 2: somebody that felt like, you know, man, why didn't you

527
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:48,439
Speaker 2: make me feel I don't know, appreciate it in your

528
00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:51,720
Speaker 2: disagreement of me or whatever, but it is what it is.

529
00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:57,520
Speaker 2: And also the other truth is I have been own

530
00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:02,800
Speaker 2: shit before other folks, and whenever you are, there's like,

531
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:05,000
Speaker 2: especially with social media, there's like a cost to it.

532
00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:09,159
Speaker 2: It is everybody. Well, if you're active, you've done it

533
00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:12,000
Speaker 2: like hey, I like this thing, and then people are like,

534
00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:14,480
Speaker 2: fuck you ballied whack And then later they start liking

535
00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:16,800
Speaker 2: a thing too, and it's like, you know, we I

536
00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:19,399
Speaker 2: would like to hope that all of you can relate

537
00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:22,359
Speaker 2: to that experience, even if it's not on the individual

538
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:25,280
Speaker 2: topic that we're talking about. We've all had those moments,

539
00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:27,720
Speaker 2: and I'm just sharing with you my human moments. I'm

540
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:30,600
Speaker 2: not an avatar for all black people. I'm not the

541
00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:37,400
Speaker 2: stand in for, like, you know, some some omnipotent being

542
00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:40,720
Speaker 2: who can speak to every experience. I'm only me and

543
00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:43,960
Speaker 2: these are my experiences, and you are listening because our

544
00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:47,400
Speaker 2: shouit is dope. And I know you said, do I

545
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:51,400
Speaker 2: think I'm better than everybody? No, I don't, but I

546
00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:53,960
Speaker 2: do think our podcast is better than everybody's.

547
00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:58,720
Speaker 4: So that, you know, that's a lot of self love,

548
00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:01,320
Speaker 4: a lot of ego, then a lot of it's all

549
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:03,560
Speaker 4: about us because it is on our platform.

550
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I do. And I hope everybody doing their podcast

551
00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:08,960
Speaker 2: at the time that they doing their podcast, there's a

552
00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:10,240
Speaker 2: motherfucking same way.

553
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:10,680
Speaker 1: You know.

554
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:13,360
Speaker 2: I hope you feel like your shit is valid and

555
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:16,920
Speaker 2: worth it and perfect and great and getting better and

556
00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:19,760
Speaker 2: all the things that I feel when we do this show,

557
00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:21,360
Speaker 2: you know, Yeah, Because that's the thing.

558
00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:24,040
Speaker 4: You have to have a certain type of ego and

559
00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:27,840
Speaker 4: a certain type of arrogance to even click on the

560
00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:30,440
Speaker 4: click record, like like a lot of people to realize

561
00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:33,640
Speaker 4: that a lot of people who has never had their

562
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:36,880
Speaker 4: opinion judged, who has never had their opinion put out

563
00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 4: there for people to scrutinize and tell them what's wrong

564
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:42,720
Speaker 4: with it and how they didn't voice their Well.

565
00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:44,480
Speaker 2: First of all, can't you just a sidekick so you

566
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:47,960
Speaker 2: can got to shut that down. Okay, they talking to me. Okay,

567
00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 2: I don't know why you're trying and get involved in

568
00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 2: our discussion. Okay, they wrote in to the main host.

569
00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:59,040
Speaker 4: Okay, see see see well I'm about to bust up

570
00:29:59,080 --> 00:29:59,920
Speaker 4: the goddamn discussion.

571
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:03,920
Speaker 3: Go here what I got to say as I was saying,

572
00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:06,120
Speaker 3: I know you.

573
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:08,680
Speaker 4: Was talking to Roy, but excuse me. I'm in the

574
00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:10,760
Speaker 4: background too, and I got some mistake. Can I raise

575
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:11,160
Speaker 4: my hand?

576
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:15,600
Speaker 3: Can I? But it don't matter. I'm gonna do it anyway.

577
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:19,520
Speaker 3: But I do feel like for real dough for people

578
00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:25,120
Speaker 3: who have never had that spotlight on them sometimes put

579
00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:25,320
Speaker 3: out this.

580
00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:28,800
Speaker 4: A lot of times they really don't understand everything that

581
00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:31,760
Speaker 4: goes along with that. So it's real easy to make

582
00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:36,600
Speaker 4: sweeping statements or say things when in reality that's actually

583
00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:38,480
Speaker 4: not how work once you get on the other side.

584
00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:43,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's I mean, you know, it is what it is.

585
00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 2: I think we're in the fishbowl and we're chosen to

586
00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:50,640
Speaker 2: be yes, and you know, we're doing good at it.

587
00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:54,840
Speaker 2: You know, it's not like, uh, it's not like we

588
00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:57,640
Speaker 2: suck at this. It's not like we're not you know,

589
00:30:57,960 --> 00:31:01,360
Speaker 2: getting money doing this. It's not like we're not popular.

590
00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 2: Doing this. I mean, so it's that thing where it's

591
00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:07,480
Speaker 2: just like, you know, it's not gonna be for everybody,

592
00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:10,320
Speaker 2: or they're gonna have their issues with it. But if

593
00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:12,920
Speaker 2: you can do it better, I do challenge you and

594
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:14,720
Speaker 2: hope that you find a way to do it better

595
00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:18,080
Speaker 2: and maybe your shit even like blow up even more

596
00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:20,080
Speaker 2: and I'll be like, damn, so that's how you do it,

597
00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:20,360
Speaker 2: you know.

598
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 4: So yeah, And and I tell people a lot of times,

599
00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:27,680
Speaker 4: you know, when people complain, complain, plain, plan complain, like, well,

600
00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:29,040
Speaker 4: then you try it.

601
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:30,040
Speaker 2: But that's the thing.

602
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:32,680
Speaker 4: Nobody ever wants to try it because the average person

603
00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:35,800
Speaker 4: is scared. It's easier to come at somebody that's actually

604
00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:37,440
Speaker 4: making the effort then for you to put the effort

605
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:39,320
Speaker 4: because of the reality you don't.

606
00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:39,760
Speaker 3: Have the the the.

607
00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna say it in reality, you don't have

608
00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:45,880
Speaker 4: what it takes to actually do it. Because if you

609
00:31:45,960 --> 00:31:48,200
Speaker 4: did it, and you begin to be on the side,

610
00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:49,840
Speaker 4: but oh, this shit is worked.

611
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:51,440
Speaker 3: Old people are coming at me.

612
00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:54,840
Speaker 4: Oh this is a lot like like as you grow,

613
00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:58,080
Speaker 4: if you standing long enough to grow, there's a lot

614
00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:01,400
Speaker 4: more that comes to this than on a mic. Just

615
00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:03,760
Speaker 4: because people make it look easy, it doesn't mean that

616
00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:05,680
Speaker 4: it's easy, you know, like people say, you make sure

617
00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:07,120
Speaker 4: the shit look easy, so I can do.

618
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:09,280
Speaker 3: It too, and a lot of people, but I won't.

619
00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:11,760
Speaker 3: Start of podcasts and I'm like, oh shit, motherfucker, this work. Yes,

620
00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:12,800
Speaker 3: bitches work, you know.

621
00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:15,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, And that's shit we've been on. I don't know

622
00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:17,280
Speaker 2: what to tell you. I know, we was one of

623
00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:20,840
Speaker 2: the first podcasts doing the skype shit. Yeah, building community

624
00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:23,160
Speaker 2: with other shows instead of treating them like fucking rivals

625
00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:25,480
Speaker 2: and telling them they can't be on our show or

626
00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:28,200
Speaker 2: like talking shit about them because they're doing better than us,

627
00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:32,040
Speaker 2: or you know, like we we did that, you know,

628
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:35,840
Speaker 2: especially being like low key pioneers in this black podcast

629
00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:38,960
Speaker 2: and shit we've been around, like I'm gonna always feel

630
00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:41,360
Speaker 2: good about that, and I'm always point it out, you know.

631
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:44,440
Speaker 2: And and in addition to other shit, you know, and

632
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:47,840
Speaker 2: I would advise or guess, not even advise, I would

633
00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:51,320
Speaker 2: guess everybody has something like that, you know, everybody has

634
00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:52,960
Speaker 2: their things, so they're like, oh, no, I used to

635
00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:56,280
Speaker 2: love I've been like, I don't know some artists that

636
00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:58,680
Speaker 2: nobody had heard of until a year ago, and everybody

637
00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:01,360
Speaker 2: likes something. We always pointed out you know, now, some

638
00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:02,720
Speaker 2: of the shit, I just don't think it's true. I

639
00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 2: don't call people pick mes and shit like that, So

640
00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:07,720
Speaker 2: get the fuck out of here with that. But you know,

641
00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:10,800
Speaker 2: everybody's entitled to their own opinion and stuff. But the

642
00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:11,640
Speaker 2: way you're gonna make.

643
00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:14,240
Speaker 6: My mom so proud, you guys are not doing anything

644
00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 6: with your life. You may not see it, but I'm

645
00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:20,840
Speaker 6: trying to do I'm trying to accomplish something, and you

646
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:24,120
Speaker 6: guys are preventing me from that. All y'all haters like

647
00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 6: I'm trying to accomplish my dreams.

648
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:30,640
Speaker 3: If you don't like me, just block me. I didn't

649
00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:31,560
Speaker 3: do anything to you.

650
00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:37,600
Speaker 2: Let's get into our comments. We have episode. We have

651
00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:42,680
Speaker 2: episode two thousand and four slept on Rego. It was

652
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:46,000
Speaker 2: a feedback show. Rego eighteen nineteen says, my family celebrates Christmas,

653
00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:48,720
Speaker 2: but we're a bunch. We're a fun bunch of capitalist pigs.

654
00:33:48,800 --> 00:33:50,680
Speaker 2: But I like to think I'm just celebrating the winter

655
00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 2: solstice with my indigenous ancestors. Catries two six says, I'm

656
00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:59,880
Speaker 2: probably in the minority, but I'm enjoying the Jankie don

657
00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 2: shout outs lol and add to the comedy of the show.

658
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:06,360
Speaker 2: I'm just listening if you can understand the amount of

659
00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:08,560
Speaker 2: praying I was doing with my phone. I was doing

660
00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:10,759
Speaker 2: my phone today. I was like please, cause it was

661
00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 2: taking a second to load each one. I was like, please,

662
00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:14,839
Speaker 2: you please with the Lord. Okay, it's going all right,

663
00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:16,440
Speaker 2: and I knew we had two weeks of them to

664
00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:19,320
Speaker 2: get to. I was like, please, please, don't do this

665
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:23,040
Speaker 2: bullshit like last week. Anonymous says, Karen is so hilarious

666
00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:25,080
Speaker 2: every time she talks about creating sketches. I need to

667
00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:26,799
Speaker 2: see her ideas on the next season of A Black

668
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:29,440
Speaker 2: Lady's Sketch Show. Karen, you would be such a funny

669
00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:33,120
Speaker 2: addition to the cast Sydney. Thank you, Oh, thank you baby. No,

670
00:34:33,520 --> 00:34:36,120
Speaker 2: that's great. You know I can see Karen, you know,

671
00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:40,279
Speaker 2: on there getting hated because she know she up pick me.

672
00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:44,120
Speaker 3: Hey. You know we been on this pro blackness.

673
00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:47,120
Speaker 4: I am a pigmy honey. They'd be like, you ain't

674
00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:50,359
Speaker 4: black enough, how damn you? Let though you over there

675
00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 4: being no white man's.

676
00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:55,320
Speaker 2: Beaten balls, they called her the white man's Come on,

677
00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:57,839
Speaker 2: they were replace my picture with some white man and shit,

678
00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:00,720
Speaker 2: be like, look at her. She got a white husband. Okay,

679
00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:02,359
Speaker 2: I don't want care and not have to go through

680
00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:08,160
Speaker 2: all that hate. US says, but we ever get a

681
00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:11,000
Speaker 2: blackout who tips us sketch show.

682
00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:12,759
Speaker 3: I should will y'all just gonna have to hate?

683
00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:15,960
Speaker 2: Anonymous says, it's just curious do you consider Ebro Hot

684
00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:19,600
Speaker 2: ninety seven a black man? Because I think if there

685
00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:22,120
Speaker 2: was a man who would challenge and possibly out to ya,

686
00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:25,080
Speaker 2: it would be him. I don't be real with you, Anonymous.

687
00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:29,400
Speaker 2: I don't watch I don't listen to Hot ninety seven,

688
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:35,319
Speaker 2: so you know, I can't really speak on that. I'm

689
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:38,840
Speaker 2: not really familiar with Ebro exactly.

690
00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:40,800
Speaker 3: I hate to say it. I hope by those soundary

691
00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:43,279
Speaker 3: because I don't know who this man is. I mean,

692
00:35:43,320 --> 00:35:45,640
Speaker 3: he could be walking down the street. I wouldn't I

693
00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:48,200
Speaker 3: wouldn't know what thing sorry to this man.

694
00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:51,200
Speaker 2: What I will say is this, with your question being,

695
00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:55,239
Speaker 2: do you consider Ebro a black man? Right there, I'm

696
00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:57,840
Speaker 2: gonna have to go ahead and say whatever it is,

697
00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:02,840
Speaker 2: it can't possibly be like it's gonna be people that

698
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:04,680
Speaker 2: discount what you said. You see what I'm saying, So

699
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:07,440
Speaker 2: like it's like saying you consider Sean King a black man,

700
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:09,080
Speaker 2: So that means there's a bunch of people out there

701
00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:11,759
Speaker 2: that say this man's not black or doesn't consider him black.

702
00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:14,960
Speaker 2: So I don't know that that counts for a person willing,

703
00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:17,320
Speaker 2: a black person from the community willing to call to

704
00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 2: you out to the table. Now, I'm not questioning this

705
00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:24,560
Speaker 2: man's blackness. You submitted the question with his blackness in

706
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:25,879
Speaker 2: question already, if.

707
00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:28,719
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. So, yeah, I don't know.

708
00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:32,000
Speaker 3: I'm telling you. I hear the name, but I don't

709
00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:32,480
Speaker 3: know that man.

710
00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:34,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've heard that name before. I think it's like

711
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:37,080
Speaker 2: Ero in the morning. Maybe I don't know. Man, I

712
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:39,080
Speaker 2: don't listen to nothing. Don't a lot of hip hop

713
00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:40,080
Speaker 2: radio shows like.

714
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 4: That ever since I've been all ever since i've been

715
00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:45,480
Speaker 4: doing podcasts. I literally don't listen to the radio period.

716
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:48,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I'm so like, man, you know it's just

717
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:50,759
Speaker 2: gonna sound shady. So I'm not gonna say it. Uh,

718
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:53,239
Speaker 2: do you celebrate? Because you know what, I'm trying not

719
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:55,759
Speaker 2: to judge people. You know what I'm saying, Denise, we

720
00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:58,440
Speaker 2: in this together, boo. I'm trying to find a way

721
00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:01,200
Speaker 2: not to make anyone feel bad. So I'm not gonna

722
00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:04,680
Speaker 2: say the entertaining funny yet shady thing that you know

723
00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:07,440
Speaker 2: you want to hear me say that. I just tease

724
00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:11,480
Speaker 2: about how I feel about all all hip hop morning

725
00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:14,680
Speaker 2: radio shows? How do I? How does Ron feel about them?

726
00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:19,000
Speaker 2: What was he gonna say? That was so like controversial

727
00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:20,840
Speaker 2: that he said, No, I'm not gonna do that because

728
00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:24,160
Speaker 2: y'all niggas ain't on it the way I've been on it.

729
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:26,879
Speaker 2: So let me stop because I'm not I'm gonna sound

730
00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 2: not nice. I don't want to be a mean person.

731
00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:35,200
Speaker 2: I want everyone to Deel Gray and ebro and Charlemagne.

732
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:38,319
Speaker 2: You are all valid to me. You are all the same.

733
00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:41,600
Speaker 2: You're pot It's all love, don't you know. You'll come

734
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:43,840
Speaker 2: to it when you come to it. And I respect

735
00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:46,239
Speaker 2: your humanity and your soul no matter what you say,

736
00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:49,320
Speaker 2: no matter what you do, it's no all opinions the

737
00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:51,359
Speaker 2: same to me. Hey, you know, you know we all

738
00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:55,200
Speaker 2: are living, just breathing, all right. So I'm not even

739
00:37:55,200 --> 00:37:58,520
Speaker 2: gonna say, you know, matter of fact, why would I

740
00:37:58,600 --> 00:37:59,520
Speaker 2: even be mad at y'all?

741
00:37:59,680 --> 00:37:59,839
Speaker 3: Hey?

742
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:02,319
Speaker 2: He just a man like to check his daughter's time.

743
00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:03,040
Speaker 2: Man who cares?

744
00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:03,439
Speaker 4: Really?

745
00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:05,880
Speaker 2: I mean, hey, that's just his life, you know what

746
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:08,200
Speaker 2: I'm saying? In her life they just hey, she might

747
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:10,319
Speaker 2: love it fall I know her, her doctor. They may

748
00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:13,239
Speaker 2: high five on the way out, you know. So hey,

749
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:15,080
Speaker 2: you know, no opinion's over here. Guys. You ain't got

750
00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:16,800
Speaker 2: to worry about that anymore. No one's gonna ever have

751
00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:21,040
Speaker 2: to feel bad. Listen to our show. Uh, the poe was,

752
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:24,279
Speaker 2: do you celebrate the holidays in December? Yes, but just

753
00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:28,719
Speaker 2: one of them? Yes, I'm generally festive in December or nope.

754
00:38:29,239 --> 00:38:34,279
Speaker 3: Care I'm genuinely festive. Particularly I'm a new job.

755
00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:36,000
Speaker 2: I'm generally festive in December.

756
00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:39,640
Speaker 4: Because we actually, uh decorated yesterday, which was actually a

757
00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:40,719
Speaker 4: lot of fucking fun.

758
00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:42,680
Speaker 3: I didn't realize how much fun that was because I

759
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:44,960
Speaker 3: normally don't decorate because.

760
00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:46,279
Speaker 2: I'd be like, I don't get fuck.

761
00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:47,799
Speaker 3: But yeah, we degreed it was fun.

762
00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 2: You are having so much fun at that job. I'm

763
00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:50,920
Speaker 2: so glad you took it.

764
00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:52,240
Speaker 3: Nigga.

765
00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:55,360
Speaker 4: I am when I tell you, I am nigga. I

766
00:38:55,640 --> 00:39:00,560
Speaker 4: have literally been having a motherfucking ball. You know, it's

767
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:02,719
Speaker 4: rare that you get up for work every day you're

768
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:04,000
Speaker 4: going to work, and you'll be like, you know what

769
00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:06,680
Speaker 4: it is, work and y'all paying me to be here.

770
00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:11,440
Speaker 3: But nigga, I wouldn't rather be anywhere else. Like I really,

771
00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:13,600
Speaker 3: it's not stressful.

772
00:39:14,120 --> 00:39:18,640
Speaker 4: I'm not stressed, and it's laid back, and you know,

773
00:39:18,719 --> 00:39:20,919
Speaker 4: it's one of the few times in my life when

774
00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:22,319
Speaker 4: you get opportunities like this that you.

775
00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:24,840
Speaker 3: Just enjoy the ride. So I'm just gonna enjoy.

776
00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 2: The ride right now. But yes, we was.

777
00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:32,560
Speaker 4: Putting up all types of stuff because and it's hilarious

778
00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:37,160
Speaker 4: because one part of my job we joked about it

779
00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:40,120
Speaker 4: looked like the motherfucker win on Wonderland. When you cross

780
00:39:40,239 --> 00:39:43,480
Speaker 4: over to one side of the building. Literally it's about

781
00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:47,200
Speaker 4: probably close to one hundred maybe one hundred and fifty desks,

782
00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:53,320
Speaker 4: all with fucking Christmas decorations like literally like like you

783
00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:56,480
Speaker 4: know how you bring like the wrapping paper, they put

784
00:39:56,520 --> 00:39:57,760
Speaker 4: the wrap peper on the outside.

785
00:39:57,880 --> 00:39:58,720
Speaker 3: They got bowls.

786
00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:01,239
Speaker 2: But y'all, joe, y'all job is worked too, so did

787
00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:04,319
Speaker 2: they and all that stuff too.

788
00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:07,600
Speaker 4: They probably do somebody put like this, even if they

789
00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:09,920
Speaker 4: don't do it big like that. Somebody decorates well, I

790
00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:12,120
Speaker 4: know for Halloween. Oh so they could they could choose

791
00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:13,600
Speaker 4: how to decorate each desk.

792
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:16,040
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, so people like.

793
00:40:16,120 --> 00:40:17,880
Speaker 3: Some departments just like hey, we're gonna do this for

794
00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:18,759
Speaker 3: a whole department, and.

795
00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:21,400
Speaker 4: Some people kind of individually did things, and you know,

796
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:24,120
Speaker 4: I know for Halloween they did a huge Halloween bash

797
00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:27,000
Speaker 4: and so you know, for certain holidays, it's just like

798
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:27,879
Speaker 4: a big thing.

799
00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:29,360
Speaker 3: And like I said, if you don't want to participate,

800
00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:31,279
Speaker 3: you don't have to. But it's you know, it's one

801
00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:34,879
Speaker 3: of those things where it keeps see the morale high,

802
00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:37,319
Speaker 3: and so I really do uh.

803
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:38,120
Speaker 2: I like that.

804
00:40:38,280 --> 00:40:39,920
Speaker 3: So we was looking like, hey, we can't be out

805
00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:42,200
Speaker 3: done by them. So we went and got some stuff.

806
00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:45,480
Speaker 4: So uh yeah, I'm really really, really really uh this

807
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:47,279
Speaker 4: is one of the first Christmas in a long time

808
00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:50,560
Speaker 4: where I've kind of gotten the quote unquote Christmas spirit

809
00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:52,759
Speaker 4: if that makes sense, where I'm like, you know what,

810
00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:55,160
Speaker 4: I'm actually happy.

811
00:40:55,560 --> 00:40:59,640
Speaker 3: I'm in a good place. I even plugged in our

812
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:01,759
Speaker 3: little fake Christmas tree over there with the with the

813
00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:02,719
Speaker 3: I saw you did that.

814
00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:03,600
Speaker 2: I normally do that.

815
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:07,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, with the decorations. I was like, wait a minute,

816
00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:09,680
Speaker 3: can went gotten too December? I was like I looked.

817
00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:11,480
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, it's December. Ain't plus up.

818
00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:16,960
Speaker 2: No, that's a that's a black Christmas.

819
00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:19,520
Speaker 3: Come on. That's how you know, Christmas is started.

820
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:29,719
Speaker 2: It's official when you had that, Donnie. So I'm going to.

821
00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:31,759
Speaker 3: Gather you know you that uh.

822
00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:39,960
Speaker 2: This Christmas and listen. I'm glad you enjoyed it. Though.

823
00:41:39,960 --> 00:41:42,000
Speaker 2: I'm glad you liked the new job. I remember you know,

824
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:45,520
Speaker 2: I mean I always was like, you deserve better, and

825
00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:47,560
Speaker 2: you can go ahead and get a new job. And

826
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:51,480
Speaker 2: you was like, I don't know, scared. I was miserable

827
00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:54,319
Speaker 2: on this plantation, and I said, stop being up, pick

828
00:41:54,480 --> 00:41:57,359
Speaker 2: me and get your ass this new job and get

829
00:41:57,400 --> 00:41:58,879
Speaker 2: you some love. Yeah.

830
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:01,360
Speaker 3: This one of those things where I was being in

831
00:42:01,440 --> 00:42:02,200
Speaker 3: here for creat y'all.

832
00:42:02,239 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 4: I would have to admit, Now, how am I gonna

833
00:42:05,239 --> 00:42:08,879
Speaker 4: encourage y'all to live y'all dream? I thought about that thing.

834
00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:11,239
Speaker 4: I was like, now I care you be on this microphone.

835
00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:14,200
Speaker 4: Tell the people to live their dreams. You know, go

836
00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:16,839
Speaker 4: out and do big things. You tell other people they great,

837
00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 4: they wonderful. You tell other people that use their talents.

838
00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:22,600
Speaker 4: You know, you out here telling other people to go

839
00:42:22,719 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 4: out and shake.

840
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:24,839
Speaker 3: And rock the world around them.

841
00:42:25,480 --> 00:42:28,439
Speaker 4: And you're looking around and you're going, but what about

842
00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:30,959
Speaker 4: Because that's the thing. It's easy, because.

843
00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:33,040
Speaker 3: I am a motivator, like this is what I do.

844
00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:36,040
Speaker 4: Motivating and pushing people to be their best. That's that's

845
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:40,200
Speaker 4: something that's actually within me. I do this so but

846
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:42,239
Speaker 4: it's hard to kind of take your own advice on

847
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:42,960
Speaker 4: those things.

848
00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:45,400
Speaker 3: Because then I was that becomes personal.

849
00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:47,279
Speaker 4: You begin to say how this is gonna affect me,

850
00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:52,680
Speaker 4: But in the reality of it, sometimes put like this,

851
00:42:53,160 --> 00:42:57,040
Speaker 4: it's time for you to move sometimes, and sometimes it's

852
00:42:57,120 --> 00:43:01,160
Speaker 4: best to move before you're pushed, because once you're pushed,

853
00:43:01,200 --> 00:43:02,160
Speaker 4: you're not prepared.

854
00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:06,160
Speaker 3: If you are prepared, and then you leave before you push,

855
00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:10,240
Speaker 3: whenever you land, whenever you land, the landing isn't as hard.

856
00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:12,120
Speaker 4: And you could be more prepared for You might not

857
00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:15,840
Speaker 4: be prepared for everything, but it's not as catastrophic to

858
00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:21,000
Speaker 4: what's happening around you, Versus if you're not prepared and

859
00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:24,320
Speaker 4: something happens and all of a sudden, people go, no,

860
00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:26,520
Speaker 4: we're gonna push you off because you actually should have

861
00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:29,120
Speaker 4: been gone, but now you're forced to leave. Then all

862
00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:30,640
Speaker 4: of a sudden, you feel like you're free falling and

863
00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:34,839
Speaker 4: you're not prepared. So I actually was prepared, so when

864
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:37,400
Speaker 4: I landed, it wasn't as bad. And a lot of

865
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:40,360
Speaker 4: times when you're landing is soft. You can actually adjust

866
00:43:40,480 --> 00:43:44,160
Speaker 4: better and adapt better, and you can actually recover better.

867
00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:46,440
Speaker 4: Not not that you wan't feel any bruises and bumps

868
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:49,759
Speaker 4: once you hit the ground, but you're actually better prepared,

869
00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:51,000
Speaker 4: you know for these things.

870
00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:54,440
Speaker 3: You know, it's almost like and like I said, it's

871
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:55,920
Speaker 3: almost like you have to treat it.

872
00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:56,239
Speaker 2: Like a car.

873
00:43:56,480 --> 00:43:59,319
Speaker 3: You're like your body and who you are is a car.

874
00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:00,959
Speaker 3: And people know what cars.

875
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:03,879
Speaker 4: You constantly get upgrades with your cars. Like some people

876
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:06,680
Speaker 4: have a car and every so often they constantly do

877
00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:09,120
Speaker 4: trade ins. And then some people every soft that they

878
00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:11,680
Speaker 4: constantly purchase a car. And then some people they actually

879
00:44:11,719 --> 00:44:14,160
Speaker 4: take their car the car that they have, it's an

880
00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:17,960
Speaker 4: older car, but with that car, which is themselves, they

881
00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:20,680
Speaker 4: actually take the time to actually repair the vehicles, which

882
00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:22,239
Speaker 4: means you're gonna have to get a time and built,

883
00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:24,000
Speaker 4: gota have to get your old change, You got to

884
00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:26,920
Speaker 4: get your tires bounced, rotated. These are the little things

885
00:44:26,960 --> 00:44:29,759
Speaker 4: that you constantly do own this vehicle, and so the

886
00:44:29,880 --> 00:44:32,319
Speaker 4: vehicle is you and I this is something that's really

887
00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:33,040
Speaker 4: been on my mind, so.

888
00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:34,400
Speaker 2: I got to share this with you can tell you

889
00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:37,200
Speaker 2: got a lot of metaphors going over here. Drop in

890
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:40,560
Speaker 2: we got cars. Yeah, I'm catching the bus right now,

891
00:44:40,719 --> 00:44:41,120
Speaker 2: go ahead.

892
00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:44,320
Speaker 3: Yeah. So so so for for me, you know, your

893
00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:45,080
Speaker 3: body is like a car.

894
00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:47,320
Speaker 4: So I've kind of been, you know, thinking about, you know,

895
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:49,920
Speaker 4: where I am in my life and things like that,

896
00:44:50,080 --> 00:44:52,600
Speaker 4: and and I was thinking about like with your with

897
00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:55,160
Speaker 4: your body and your personal life and your personal space

898
00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:59,320
Speaker 4: being the car. Once you uh fix this car and

899
00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:02,719
Speaker 4: repair this car and do the things to this car,

900
00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:05,919
Speaker 4: it's growth there, you know, and you have to grow

901
00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:08,200
Speaker 4: with your car. And you know, people a lot of

902
00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:10,080
Speaker 4: times people look at the car. At the cars. People

903
00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:11,920
Speaker 4: look at the exterior of the car. They don't look

904
00:45:11,960 --> 00:45:14,040
Speaker 4: at the interior of the car. And so, you know,

905
00:45:14,239 --> 00:45:16,440
Speaker 4: I've kind of worked on the xtery, but you know,

906
00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:18,400
Speaker 4: when it comes to the interior, it's hard because you

907
00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:20,319
Speaker 4: look on the inside of your car, and your car

908
00:45:20,360 --> 00:45:22,359
Speaker 4: in real life. You got food on the floor, your baby,

909
00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:25,080
Speaker 4: don't through stuff in there. It's dusty, it's dirty, all

910
00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:27,480
Speaker 4: these other things you might not your left up peeling

911
00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:29,760
Speaker 4: or whatever it is. And so I feel like, Okay,

912
00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 4: once you start looking on the interior of the car,

913
00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:34,520
Speaker 4: which is yourself, you stop fixing and repairing and cleaning up.

914
00:45:34,719 --> 00:45:36,960
Speaker 3: It will actually make the car look better, and a

915
00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:38,360
Speaker 3: lot of times you end up being.

916
00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:42,720
Speaker 4: A better person with this older model car because everybody

917
00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:45,080
Speaker 4: can't afford to get through all these upgrades and everybody

918
00:45:45,120 --> 00:45:47,040
Speaker 4: can't afford to do all these little things.

919
00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:48,520
Speaker 3: But you work with what you got.

920
00:45:48,640 --> 00:45:50,360
Speaker 4: So that's why I feel like I'm working with what

921
00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:52,719
Speaker 4: I got, and I'm growing with what I got, and

922
00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:57,720
Speaker 4: I'm realizing that it's slowly making me a better person.

923
00:45:58,360 --> 00:45:59,959
Speaker 3: Learning and growing and change.

924
00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:02,880
Speaker 4: You ain't getting repairing, you know, because when you repair stuff,

925
00:46:03,239 --> 00:46:05,399
Speaker 4: it means you take out the old and you put

926
00:46:05,480 --> 00:46:07,480
Speaker 4: in the new. So you know that, you know, with

927
00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:09,440
Speaker 4: us changing over in a new season, you need to

928
00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:11,879
Speaker 4: take out the old trash and put in something new.

929
00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:14,720
Speaker 3: Take out the old tires and get some new tires,

930
00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:15,200
Speaker 3: and you get.

931
00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:17,040
Speaker 4: A better grip on the ground, or better grip in life,

932
00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:19,319
Speaker 4: so you can actually flow into the next year better.

933
00:46:19,800 --> 00:46:22,719
Speaker 3: You know, some people need to wash their cars, wash off.

934
00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:25,000
Speaker 4: The dirt, wash off the ground, wash out the people off,

935
00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:27,560
Speaker 4: get the things that you don't need out of your life,

936
00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:29,360
Speaker 4: you know, Cause we're going into the new year, and

937
00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:31,920
Speaker 4: everybody be like new year, new you blah blah blah. Okay,

938
00:46:32,040 --> 00:46:33,960
Speaker 4: but do you actually mean it, because a lot of

939
00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:35,239
Speaker 4: people go new Year, new you, but.

940
00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:36,080
Speaker 3: They don't change shit.

941
00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:38,240
Speaker 4: They just say it because that's what people say around

942
00:46:38,360 --> 00:46:41,439
Speaker 4: Christmas time. They're not trying to morph, they're not trying

943
00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:43,239
Speaker 4: to change, they're not trying to grow, they're not trying

944
00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:45,920
Speaker 4: to challenge themselves, you know. But this is something that

945
00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:47,520
Speaker 4: I'm trying to do. And I don't know if it's

946
00:46:47,560 --> 00:46:51,960
Speaker 4: something with me, like like you said something about turning

947
00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:55,719
Speaker 4: forty that actually it was like a shift that I

948
00:46:55,800 --> 00:47:00,320
Speaker 4: didn't realize the shift and I don't know what happens

949
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:02,240
Speaker 4: and I don't know why it happens, and that everybody

950
00:47:02,560 --> 00:47:08,080
Speaker 4: is different, but for me, that shift meant there were

951
00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:10,279
Speaker 4: things that I was gonna have to let go and

952
00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:12,080
Speaker 4: people that I was gonna have to let go, and.

953
00:47:12,400 --> 00:47:16,120
Speaker 3: Learning feeling more grounded in my decision making.

954
00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:18,960
Speaker 4: And knowing that I am who I am, and learning

955
00:47:19,040 --> 00:47:22,320
Speaker 4: how it's okay to be flawed and it's okay to

956
00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:26,320
Speaker 4: be imperfect, and it's okay to be, you know, whatever

957
00:47:26,480 --> 00:47:28,600
Speaker 4: size I am, and it's okay for my face to

958
00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:31,040
Speaker 4: break out, and it's okay, you know, for my hairs

959
00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:31,840
Speaker 4: to go gray.

960
00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:33,879
Speaker 3: And it's okay for these things.

961
00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:37,320
Speaker 4: You know, I don't have to be this this perfect

962
00:47:37,520 --> 00:47:41,440
Speaker 4: thing for any and everybody to actually dictate what I

963
00:47:41,560 --> 00:47:46,000
Speaker 4: do when I'm in control of this vehicle called my life,

964
00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:50,759
Speaker 4: like I'm in control of that. And so I'm I'm

965
00:47:50,880 --> 00:47:52,760
Speaker 4: at a place where I, like you said, I'm really

966
00:47:53,239 --> 00:47:55,520
Speaker 4: I can just tell the difference. You know, in me,

967
00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:59,480
Speaker 4: you began to care less about people's opinions. I know

968
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:01,680
Speaker 4: for me when I turned for them. Because you're younger,

969
00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:04,399
Speaker 4: You're constantly caring about people's opinions and what they think

970
00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:05,840
Speaker 4: about you and trying.

971
00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:07,640
Speaker 3: To adapt in the just and one day you wake

972
00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:09,719
Speaker 3: up and you realize, oh, there's nothing I can do

973
00:48:09,880 --> 00:48:11,360
Speaker 3: to make you happy. I might as well live my

974
00:48:11,440 --> 00:48:12,960
Speaker 3: own life, you know.

975
00:48:13,120 --> 00:48:15,800
Speaker 4: And once you realize that you're gonna have that, it

976
00:48:15,840 --> 00:48:18,440
Speaker 4: is your body and your choice and your decision.

977
00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:20,400
Speaker 3: On if you get married, when you get married, who

978
00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:21,640
Speaker 3: you get married to, if.

979
00:48:21,520 --> 00:48:24,920
Speaker 4: You have kids, if you adopt all these life choices

980
00:48:25,000 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 4: and decisions are yours. And once you realize that people

981
00:48:28,600 --> 00:48:31,480
Speaker 4: aren't gonna like the decisions that you make, and you're

982
00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:34,200
Speaker 4: gonna have to be comfortable in the uncomfortableness of people

983
00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:36,160
Speaker 4: not liking the decisions and the choices that you made

984
00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:36,799
Speaker 4: about your life.

985
00:48:37,040 --> 00:48:39,000
Speaker 3: And the older you get, the more you are comfortable

986
00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:39,960
Speaker 3: with people not liking it.

987
00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:42,399
Speaker 4: And when people coming and telling you, hey, I don't

988
00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:44,720
Speaker 4: like this, you're going okay, then I ask for your opinion,

989
00:48:45,120 --> 00:48:46,680
Speaker 4: you know, because I actually didn't.

990
00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:48,600
Speaker 3: You know, this is my life.

991
00:48:48,719 --> 00:48:50,719
Speaker 4: I don't run into your life and point out the

992
00:48:50,760 --> 00:48:52,719
Speaker 4: flowers in your life and tell you what's fucked up

993
00:48:52,719 --> 00:48:54,160
Speaker 4: in your life and how to correct your life.

994
00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:56,200
Speaker 3: I don't function like that, and so since I don't

995
00:48:56,200 --> 00:48:57,719
Speaker 3: function like that, I would expect.

996
00:48:57,440 --> 00:48:59,440
Speaker 4: The same courtesy of you not to do that to

997
00:48:59,560 --> 00:49:02,080
Speaker 4: METI turn, and I think the older I get, the

998
00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:05,920
Speaker 4: more comfortable I am in who I am, in making

999
00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:09,160
Speaker 4: decisions and not allowing people to sway my decisions.

1000
00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:11,000
Speaker 3: When I know my decisions are right, and I.

1001
00:49:11,080 --> 00:49:13,759
Speaker 4: Think, like you said, gonna go piggyback into to the

1002
00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:16,360
Speaker 4: top of the we'll be talking about it makes me

1003
00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:18,680
Speaker 4: feel good knowing that it was my choice to make

1004
00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:20,880
Speaker 4: the decision to take this job, and I think it

1005
00:49:21,000 --> 00:49:21,720
Speaker 4: was the right choice.

1006
00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:24,040
Speaker 2: Oh, I know it was. I mean he's doing like

1007
00:49:24,080 --> 00:49:26,960
Speaker 2: I said, You're flourishing over there, and you know, I'm

1008
00:49:27,040 --> 00:49:30,080
Speaker 2: it's good to see you happy about not just life

1009
00:49:30,120 --> 00:49:32,239
Speaker 2: but work and stuff like that too, you know.

1010
00:49:32,600 --> 00:49:34,520
Speaker 3: And I'm smiling more as well.

1011
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:37,800
Speaker 4: Y'all know I smile a lot, but you know and

1012
00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:41,480
Speaker 4: and hudder before before we go on, I never realized

1013
00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:45,600
Speaker 4: how much, uh, the job made a difference because I

1014
00:49:45,840 --> 00:49:47,880
Speaker 4: smile a lot, like I Roger, you know me, I

1015
00:49:47,960 --> 00:49:49,919
Speaker 4: smile all the time we out in the public, I smile.

1016
00:49:50,680 --> 00:49:55,320
Speaker 4: I've had several people from all over the company just

1017
00:49:55,400 --> 00:49:58,000
Speaker 4: stop me. Don't don't know my name because because I

1018
00:49:58,080 --> 00:49:59,920
Speaker 4: feel like who I am is not important. They'd be like,

1019
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:01,279
Speaker 4: I love your smile. I like your smile.

1020
00:50:01,320 --> 00:50:02,719
Speaker 3: You always smile and keep that smile.

1021
00:50:03,160 --> 00:50:04,759
Speaker 4: And I was like, oh, I can tell I'm in

1022
00:50:04,800 --> 00:50:07,640
Speaker 4: a better spot because that that's me, that ray of sunshine.

1023
00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:07,960
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1024
00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:09,759
Speaker 2: I remember you used to talk. You used to get

1025
00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:11,920
Speaker 2: on the show and say you've been talking about how

1026
00:50:12,360 --> 00:50:14,719
Speaker 2: you go to work. You don't talk to anybody, you know,

1027
00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:17,200
Speaker 2: you just shut down and you just do your job

1028
00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:20,640
Speaker 2: and that's all it is. And you know, I you know,

1029
00:50:20,719 --> 00:50:23,160
Speaker 2: I remember telling you, like, but that's not you know.

1030
00:50:24,080 --> 00:50:25,759
Speaker 2: You know, you talked about the new job and how

1031
00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:27,680
Speaker 2: you were just gonna go there, keep your head down.

1032
00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:29,600
Speaker 2: You ain't gonna say anything. I'm like, but it's not you.

1033
00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:34,880
Speaker 2: You know, you have to be yourself and people need

1034
00:50:34,960 --> 00:50:37,520
Speaker 2: to people need to actually know you. This is one

1035
00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:40,920
Speaker 2: of the reasons that I'm not one of the reasons

1036
00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:43,880
Speaker 2: that I've kind of pushed myself off of the Internet

1037
00:50:43,960 --> 00:50:46,759
Speaker 2: and internet interactions with friends and stuff and got more

1038
00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:48,840
Speaker 2: in person or more on the phone and stuff. Correct

1039
00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:51,440
Speaker 2: because a lot of times you know the illusion of

1040
00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:54,080
Speaker 2: a person, but you don't know them and so and

1041
00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:58,040
Speaker 2: people online think validating any and everything is the same

1042
00:50:58,080 --> 00:51:02,400
Speaker 2: as support, and it's not because you know, real like

1043
00:51:02,680 --> 00:51:06,239
Speaker 2: people would I remember, you know, during the show, you

1044
00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:09,000
Speaker 2: would be like upset about like the fifty three percent

1045
00:51:09,040 --> 00:51:10,960
Speaker 2: and all the stuffy come up every episode. It didn't

1046
00:51:10,960 --> 00:51:13,080
Speaker 2: matter what happened. White woman could get slapped in the face,

1047
00:51:13,120 --> 00:51:15,319
Speaker 2: you'd be like three percent and shit, I was like, I.

1048
00:51:15,520 --> 00:51:17,680
Speaker 3: Wanted to burn the world down. I'm not even gonna lie,

1049
00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:18,400
Speaker 3: y'all right, And.

1050
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:20,600
Speaker 2: I remember like you know that, And it went on

1051
00:51:20,719 --> 00:51:22,120
Speaker 2: for a while because I was like, you know, it's

1052
00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:24,359
Speaker 2: got a everyone has to work through it a day

1053
00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:27,080
Speaker 2: on speed blah blah. And at that time, we also

1054
00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:30,520
Speaker 2: had people surrounding us that I feel like to a

1055
00:51:30,680 --> 00:51:33,960
Speaker 2: large extent, they like either hate white women or hate

1056
00:51:33,960 --> 00:51:36,640
Speaker 2: white people. And then it was kind of like, let's

1057
00:51:36,680 --> 00:51:38,759
Speaker 2: feed off of that and encourage that in you and

1058
00:51:38,840 --> 00:51:40,880
Speaker 2: to push that in you and to make you into us.

1059
00:51:41,120 --> 00:51:43,800
Speaker 2: And it's like, that's your thing. But I know my wife,

1060
00:51:43,920 --> 00:51:47,120
Speaker 2: that's not Karen's thing. That's not She's not angry all

1061
00:51:47,160 --> 00:51:49,680
Speaker 2: the time, come home, blame everything on some white folks

1062
00:51:49,800 --> 00:51:53,560
Speaker 2: that's not hers. So like, I you know, after a while,

1063
00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:55,359
Speaker 2: I was like, I remember we went out to dinner

1064
00:51:55,400 --> 00:51:56,719
Speaker 2: and we talked about it, and I was like, so,

1065
00:51:57,080 --> 00:52:00,759
Speaker 2: you know, are you okay, like because it's just something

1066
00:52:00,760 --> 00:52:03,120
Speaker 2: you've kind of been harping on. It's really been like.

1067
00:52:05,040 --> 00:52:08,200
Speaker 3: Bothering me, right, And I'm like, you know, it's not.

1068
00:52:08,400 --> 00:52:11,439
Speaker 2: Saying I didn't go you wrong. White women are great.

1069
00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:13,319
Speaker 2: This ain't about protecting I don't give a fuck about

1070
00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:15,719
Speaker 2: protecting a white woman or any of this shit. I'm

1071
00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:18,200
Speaker 2: trying to protect my wife and be like, are you okay?

1072
00:52:18,600 --> 00:52:21,040
Speaker 2: Is this a you know, this anger? Is this something

1073
00:52:21,080 --> 00:52:23,520
Speaker 2: that's gonna go away? Or is this something that's here forever?

1074
00:52:23,719 --> 00:52:28,000
Speaker 2: Is this something that you're gonna let define you? You know,

1075
00:52:28,160 --> 00:52:29,520
Speaker 2: is this something? Is this a new thing for the

1076
00:52:29,560 --> 00:52:32,080
Speaker 2: rest of your life now? Just like and so we

1077
00:52:32,239 --> 00:52:34,520
Speaker 2: end up talking because we don't even really hang out

1078
00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:36,160
Speaker 2: or know a lot of white people for us to

1079
00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:39,479
Speaker 2: even be annoyed by that's no shade to the black

1080
00:52:39,520 --> 00:52:42,240
Speaker 2: people that that that dude, like, that's not even shade.

1081
00:52:42,280 --> 00:52:43,880
Speaker 2: So you know, I just want you to know, no

1082
00:52:43,960 --> 00:52:48,800
Speaker 2: one's being just here. Everyone is equal. Any opinion is valid.

1083
00:52:48,880 --> 00:52:51,440
Speaker 2: I don't care if it's Candice Owens, I don't care

1084
00:52:51,640 --> 00:52:56,320
Speaker 2: if it's Kanye West, even if I even I agree

1085
00:52:56,360 --> 00:52:58,320
Speaker 2: with you, even if I don't agree with you, I

1086
00:52:58,440 --> 00:53:00,520
Speaker 2: agree with you because you don't need to feel and

1087
00:53:00,600 --> 00:53:03,360
Speaker 2: none of your opinions are bad or wrong. Okay, But

1088
00:53:03,840 --> 00:53:05,920
Speaker 2: in this case, I was talking to my wife and

1089
00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:11,000
Speaker 2: being like, hey, are are you okay? Because it's an uncomfortable,

1090
00:53:11,320 --> 00:53:14,920
Speaker 2: like unhealthy langer level of anger that you normally don't have,

1091
00:53:15,800 --> 00:53:18,920
Speaker 2: you know. And same thing with your job. I remember

1092
00:53:19,000 --> 00:53:22,040
Speaker 2: being like, you know you like you were like I'm

1093
00:53:22,080 --> 00:53:24,040
Speaker 2: fine doing it, and I'm like, but are you really?

1094
00:53:24,080 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 2: Because you don't that's.

1095
00:53:25,080 --> 00:53:27,960
Speaker 3: Not you very aggressively about to be fine.

1096
00:53:28,120 --> 00:53:31,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, anytime we go out to some fucking restaurant, I'm

1097
00:53:31,480 --> 00:53:34,279
Speaker 2: always like, oh, we gotta go through the whole thing

1098
00:53:34,360 --> 00:53:35,799
Speaker 2: the way they're gonna come over and talk to us

1099
00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:39,359
Speaker 2: for twenty fucking minutes without taking out goddamn order. That's now,

1100
00:53:39,440 --> 00:53:41,600
Speaker 2: that's me. That's how I always am.

1101
00:53:42,160 --> 00:53:44,279
Speaker 3: But I think I would talk them to death.

1102
00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:47,320
Speaker 2: But Karen's the one who does that thing where she's like,

1103
00:53:47,320 --> 00:53:50,520
Speaker 2: I'm gonna talk to this person about you know whatever.

1104
00:53:51,120 --> 00:53:53,120
Speaker 2: Like last night it was Star Wars. She talked about

1105
00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:55,399
Speaker 2: the woman couldn't even take our orders. She talked about

1106
00:53:55,440 --> 00:53:57,759
Speaker 2: start us for fifteen minutes at our table. But I've

1107
00:53:57,760 --> 00:54:00,000
Speaker 2: gotten accustomed to that because that is Karen. She's gonna

1108
00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:02,320
Speaker 2: the smile, she's gonna be nice, she's gonna talk to you,

1109
00:54:02,400 --> 00:54:05,799
Speaker 2: she's gonna be approachable. People love her when they go out.

1110
00:54:06,320 --> 00:54:09,600
Speaker 2: When I go out, they they associate me with her.

1111
00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:12,600
Speaker 2: If I go out by myself without me, what, well,

1112
00:54:12,640 --> 00:54:14,480
Speaker 2: what's your wife? I'm like, right, because you notice, And

1113
00:54:14,520 --> 00:54:16,560
Speaker 2: it's a lot less fucking talking when it's me, isn't it.

1114
00:54:17,160 --> 00:54:21,040
Speaker 2: But But like that's you. That's how you naturally are.

1115
00:54:21,160 --> 00:54:23,319
Speaker 2: And so I'm glad to know that, like your job

1116
00:54:23,480 --> 00:54:26,720
Speaker 2: is treating you good like that because we all everybody

1117
00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:29,480
Speaker 2: deserve a job to make them feel valid I until

1118
00:54:29,719 --> 00:54:32,960
Speaker 2: this is the only job I feel validated at doing

1119
00:54:33,040 --> 00:54:36,759
Speaker 2: this podcast, so you know, you know it's beautiful to

1120
00:54:36,840 --> 00:54:39,560
Speaker 2: get there. The other thing I was gonna say is

1121
00:54:39,600 --> 00:54:42,600
Speaker 2: you talked for a long time as a sidekick. I'm

1122
00:54:42,600 --> 00:54:48,480
Speaker 2: gonna need you to because I'm the main host. Okay,

1123
00:54:48,960 --> 00:54:52,759
Speaker 2: this is I'm the house. No, you the Robin to

1124
00:54:52,840 --> 00:54:55,279
Speaker 2: my Howard Stern, I'm the house, un and I'm gonna

1125
00:54:55,320 --> 00:54:57,279
Speaker 2: need you to just it's not about your life, Okay,

1126
00:54:57,520 --> 00:54:59,400
Speaker 2: it's about my life. It's not about me and how

1127
00:54:59,480 --> 00:55:02,040
Speaker 2: I feel and how these other niggas ain't never gonna

1128
00:55:02,040 --> 00:55:06,760
Speaker 2: get like this. Okay, you wish you picked me, couldn't

1129
00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:09,759
Speaker 2: fuck with this, but you can't hear you because I'm

1130
00:55:09,840 --> 00:55:13,000
Speaker 2: the greatest and I've never had any opinions ever changed.

1131
00:55:13,400 --> 00:55:16,200
Speaker 2: And I've never been a hypocrite my whole life. I'm perfect.

1132
00:55:16,960 --> 00:55:20,120
Speaker 2: I wish you niggas could, but I know you niggas

1133
00:55:20,160 --> 00:55:25,719
Speaker 2: came all right. De cleerate the holidays of December. I

1134
00:55:25,800 --> 00:55:29,520
Speaker 2: feel like I'm generally festive in December, like I do

1135
00:55:29,719 --> 00:55:32,040
Speaker 2: make it a point to be one of these old

1136
00:55:34,160 --> 00:55:36,359
Speaker 2: what do you call these these like fucking hippie ass

1137
00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:39,520
Speaker 2: people that are like I celebrate, you know, it's all

1138
00:55:39,719 --> 00:55:44,399
Speaker 2: just holidays and me Kwanza, Honkah Solstice. I don't give

1139
00:55:44,440 --> 00:55:47,920
Speaker 2: a fuck Christmas. I just like that people are nicer now.

1140
00:55:48,200 --> 00:55:52,200
Speaker 2: Everybody's smiling people, They're letting people across the parking line

1141
00:55:52,239 --> 00:55:54,600
Speaker 2: in front of them. I like them. I wish it

1142
00:55:54,640 --> 00:55:56,120
Speaker 2: could be like that all year. I don't know why

1143
00:55:56,160 --> 00:55:57,960
Speaker 2: people have to be dicks for eleven months to have

1144
00:55:58,120 --> 00:56:00,600
Speaker 2: one nice orgasm at the end of the year. But

1145
00:56:01,440 --> 00:56:03,440
Speaker 2: I'm gonna enjoy this shit while it's here. So I

1146
00:56:03,719 --> 00:56:07,160
Speaker 2: like it. And that's why we do holiday cars and

1147
00:56:07,200 --> 00:56:08,920
Speaker 2: stuff in which we just got them in so it's

1148
00:56:08,960 --> 00:56:10,160
Speaker 2: trying to mail them out yay.

1149
00:56:11,320 --> 00:56:12,400
Speaker 3: And something else I like too.

1150
00:56:12,440 --> 00:56:15,320
Speaker 4: It's say people actually walk around hum and Christmas tunes

1151
00:56:15,320 --> 00:56:16,799
Speaker 4: and shit like that, like I was doing.

1152
00:56:16,880 --> 00:56:18,799
Speaker 3: It was decorating and people just walking around just hum.

1153
00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:23,640
Speaker 3: I was like, this is actually really relaxing. Like you say,

1154
00:56:23,719 --> 00:56:25,440
Speaker 3: I didn't. You don't realize the bulk of the year,

1155
00:56:25,480 --> 00:56:26,160
Speaker 3: it's not like that.

1156
00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:28,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, And so like you say, it is, people like

1157
00:56:29,080 --> 00:56:32,040
Speaker 4: extra nice, extra friendly, and so I really.

1158
00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:33,040
Speaker 3: Do, uh you know.

1159
00:56:33,120 --> 00:56:34,879
Speaker 4: And it's odd because since I guess since we don't

1160
00:56:34,880 --> 00:56:37,640
Speaker 4: have no kids. I've never really that's how fun. Never

1161
00:56:37,880 --> 00:56:39,960
Speaker 4: was like, ooh about Christmas, you know, this time of

1162
00:56:39,960 --> 00:56:40,239
Speaker 4: the year.

1163
00:56:41,160 --> 00:56:42,279
Speaker 3: But did you know this is one of the.

1164
00:56:42,239 --> 00:56:44,440
Speaker 4: First time in a long time. I'm actually really excited.

1165
00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:46,920
Speaker 4: And I actually been thinking about what to get Laylock.

1166
00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:49,279
Speaker 4: Like that's been on my mind too, since you's Christmas baby,

1167
00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:52,200
Speaker 4: so I don't know what to get her because we

1168
00:56:52,280 --> 00:56:54,759
Speaker 4: normally get her something, right, So I was thinking about

1169
00:56:55,719 --> 00:56:58,000
Speaker 4: bad and what to get her, you know, before you know,

1170
00:56:58,040 --> 00:56:59,000
Speaker 4: everything sells out.

1171
00:56:59,640 --> 00:57:05,160
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I've been going around singing uh Christmas carols

1172
00:57:05,200 --> 00:57:08,359
Speaker 2: and stuff like that too. Right, it's begetting to look

1173
00:57:08,360 --> 00:57:10,560
Speaker 2: a lot like what follow on my every step take

1174
00:57:10,640 --> 00:57:12,680
Speaker 2: notes on Howard crap. I'm about to go with depth.

1175
00:57:12,760 --> 00:57:14,640
Speaker 2: Oh y'all didn't know that was a Christmas song, sir,

1176
00:57:14,800 --> 00:57:19,360
Speaker 2: look up the lyrics it is, y'all. Anyway, forty only

1177
00:57:19,400 --> 00:57:22,800
Speaker 2: celebrate one, thirty four percent get festive just generally, and

1178
00:57:23,200 --> 00:57:26,480
Speaker 2: twenty five percent say nope, they don't celebrate nothing. In December,

1179
00:57:27,240 --> 00:57:29,560
Speaker 2: we got so much hope Witnesses listen to the show.

1180
00:57:30,000 --> 00:57:31,960
Speaker 3: I hope you enjoy your day off then, because you.

1181
00:57:31,960 --> 00:57:34,280
Speaker 2: Know, if you don't celebrate. You gotta go to work.

1182
00:57:34,320 --> 00:57:36,600
Speaker 2: That's a new rule. That should make that a rule

1183
00:57:37,880 --> 00:57:40,760
Speaker 2: that'll stop all the woke people and shit. Uh, you

1184
00:57:40,840 --> 00:57:44,040
Speaker 2: mean Indigenous people's week. Well, ain't no Indigenous People's day, baby,

1185
00:57:44,040 --> 00:57:46,680
Speaker 2: you gotta work Thursday and Friday. Wait a minute, hold up, now,

1186
00:57:46,800 --> 00:57:50,000
Speaker 2: hold up. I will eat one piece of turkey if

1187
00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:52,760
Speaker 2: y'all niggas just let us go home, give us I

1188
00:57:52,880 --> 00:57:55,320
Speaker 2: have a day. We can at least go home earlier.

1189
00:57:55,400 --> 00:57:59,440
Speaker 2: I will fucking try some dressing. Jesus Christ, who I

1190
00:57:59,520 --> 00:58:01,600
Speaker 2: don't believe even or what support, but I will take

1191
00:58:01,680 --> 00:58:02,360
Speaker 2: Christmas off.

1192
00:58:02,320 --> 00:58:04,520
Speaker 3: To give me some I will try the greens and

1193
00:58:04,560 --> 00:58:05,120
Speaker 3: the yams.

1194
00:58:05,320 --> 00:58:07,200
Speaker 2: Alicia says, not related to the poe, but I just

1195
00:58:07,240 --> 00:58:09,440
Speaker 2: wanted to say, Okay, Oprah, I love these books you

1196
00:58:09,480 --> 00:58:16,640
Speaker 2: are recommending. Okay, these are my favorite things, y'all. I

1197
00:58:16,760 --> 00:58:20,080
Speaker 2: love these books you are recommending and reading and wonder

1198
00:58:20,200 --> 00:58:22,080
Speaker 2: what the sales look like after you announce it here

1199
00:58:22,120 --> 00:58:24,880
Speaker 2: on the podcast. Adding this, I'm finding neither are you

1200
00:58:25,040 --> 00:58:26,200
Speaker 2: to my Amazon basket?

1201
00:58:26,360 --> 00:58:26,520
Speaker 3: Now?

1202
00:58:27,480 --> 00:58:27,600
Speaker 1: Uh?

1203
00:58:27,760 --> 00:58:30,200
Speaker 2: You know what, I don't know how we affect the sales.

1204
00:58:30,280 --> 00:58:32,600
Speaker 2: I will take all the credit for Boss's book being

1205
00:58:32,640 --> 00:58:35,680
Speaker 2: a new York bestseller We will. I'll take all the credit.

1206
00:58:35,720 --> 00:58:39,040
Speaker 2: It's not her hard word, it's not her life, it's

1207
00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:42,680
Speaker 2: not her like her own poetry is success and the

1208
00:58:43,200 --> 00:58:47,080
Speaker 2: ability to like, you know, to like promote for herself.

1209
00:58:48,000 --> 00:58:52,439
Speaker 2: It's not the talent. It was me, baby. Okay, I'm

1210
00:58:52,560 --> 00:58:56,160
Speaker 2: the man behind the puppet that is boys. Uh nah.

1211
00:58:56,200 --> 00:58:59,440
Speaker 2: But seriously, I don't know what what impact we have

1212
00:58:59,600 --> 00:59:00,840
Speaker 2: on people buying books.

1213
00:59:01,040 --> 00:59:01,120
Speaker 4: MS.

1214
00:59:01,280 --> 00:59:03,600
Speaker 2: Barn seventy two says, when you work retail, I feel

1215
00:59:03,640 --> 00:59:06,400
Speaker 2: that you totally you really can't celebrate the holidays too much.

1216
00:59:06,720 --> 00:59:08,440
Speaker 2: I just quit my part time job at Target this

1217
00:59:08,520 --> 00:59:10,640
Speaker 2: year after sacrifice of my sanity for the past two

1218
00:59:10,960 --> 00:59:14,080
Speaker 2: holiday seasons. All I say is free and last. If

1219
00:59:14,120 --> 00:59:18,000
Speaker 2: you want to measure umanity work retail, come on, miss Barnes.

1220
00:59:18,040 --> 00:59:18,480
Speaker 2: That's the truth.

1221
00:59:18,640 --> 00:59:20,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what a lot of people think.

1222
00:59:21,320 --> 00:59:23,320
Speaker 4: You can tell people who haven't worked any form of

1223
00:59:23,360 --> 00:59:25,840
Speaker 4: retail when I men retail, anything dealing with the general public,

1224
00:59:26,080 --> 00:59:31,240
Speaker 4: no matter if it's cashier behind the counter, no matter

1225
00:59:31,280 --> 00:59:33,240
Speaker 4: if it's like working the floor at like a Belks

1226
00:59:33,320 --> 00:59:35,680
Speaker 4: or dealers or something like that, working at the mall,

1227
00:59:36,000 --> 00:59:40,640
Speaker 4: fast food sever you know, people's attitude is very different

1228
00:59:40,640 --> 00:59:42,400
Speaker 4: than when you're on the other end and not really funny.

1229
00:59:42,400 --> 00:59:43,640
Speaker 3: You realize how shitty people are.

1230
00:59:44,080 --> 00:59:47,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I don't say this much, man, I remember

1231
00:59:47,520 --> 00:59:51,240
Speaker 2: working in that media Play for Christmas holiday season. Now,

1232
00:59:51,360 --> 00:59:54,480
Speaker 2: many of you have never heard of media Play because

1233
00:59:54,520 --> 00:59:57,640
Speaker 2: it's a defunct old store, and also because y'all ain't

1234
00:59:57,720 --> 01:00:00,760
Speaker 2: woke as me. Okay, I've been on on media Play.

1235
01:00:01,000 --> 01:00:03,439
Speaker 2: The rest of you pick me ass go the best

1236
01:00:03,520 --> 01:00:06,680
Speaker 2: Buy motherfuckers just now getting the hip to the game.

1237
01:00:06,920 --> 01:00:11,880
Speaker 2: But I've been playing with electronic toys and selling CDs

1238
01:00:12,000 --> 01:00:16,480
Speaker 2: and DVDs. Oh, I've been on that ship before Blu Rays. Okay,

1239
01:00:16,640 --> 01:00:21,720
Speaker 2: get like this, hypocrites, Okay, you wish you was like me.

1240
01:00:21,840 --> 01:00:24,680
Speaker 2: It's the main host of this show. You know you

1241
01:00:24,840 --> 01:00:28,800
Speaker 2: niggas would could never Okay, and I hope you feel

1242
01:00:29,000 --> 01:00:32,880
Speaker 2: judged for not ever going to me to play.

1243
01:00:34,960 --> 01:00:35,000
Speaker 3: That.

1244
01:00:35,080 --> 01:00:36,920
Speaker 2: It's all two thousand. Why do we be ever right

1245
01:00:36,960 --> 01:00:38,479
Speaker 2: in there? Probably with anything, it's.

1246
01:00:38,400 --> 01:00:41,240
Speaker 3: Always it's turning the junk time. I hate to tell

1247
01:00:41,320 --> 01:00:41,600
Speaker 3: y'all that.

1248
01:00:41,640 --> 01:00:43,680
Speaker 2: I always gonna end up jokes. I'm so sorry.

1249
01:00:43,920 --> 01:00:46,560
Speaker 4: I'm sorry and put like this and if I just

1250
01:00:46,600 --> 01:00:48,120
Speaker 4: don't do the joke, depend on what it is.

1251
01:00:48,440 --> 01:00:50,440
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be like, oh, it's joke time, and it's

1252
01:00:50,440 --> 01:00:51,240
Speaker 3: gonna be jokes.

1253
01:00:51,000 --> 01:00:53,280
Speaker 2: On my side. Yeah, I know, y'all write them things,

1254
01:00:53,400 --> 01:00:55,200
Speaker 2: y'all whole chest, and I'll just be sitting here like

1255
01:00:56,040 --> 01:01:01,120
Speaker 2: it's just funny. Yeah, Brooklyn shoe Ba says being The

1256
01:01:01,200 --> 01:01:03,840
Speaker 2: first and only time was when I was eighteen, first

1257
01:01:03,920 --> 01:01:06,080
Speaker 2: month of college in New York City. I was crossing

1258
01:01:06,120 --> 01:01:08,360
Speaker 2: the Washington Square Park and at seven forty five in

1259
01:01:08,400 --> 01:01:10,440
Speaker 2: the morning on my way to an eight thirty lecture,

1260
01:01:10,520 --> 01:01:12,320
Speaker 2: and while how you can remember the time and place,

1261
01:01:12,560 --> 01:01:15,240
Speaker 2: an older white man was walking in the opposite direction

1262
01:01:15,440 --> 01:01:19,240
Speaker 2: of me, and he kind of did that who was

1263
01:01:19,320 --> 01:01:21,680
Speaker 2: going to move out the way tango? I let him pass,

1264
01:01:21,720 --> 01:01:24,400
Speaker 2: and he called me a stupid nigger. I frozen stare.

1265
01:01:24,560 --> 01:01:27,120
Speaker 2: He said, yes, I said it. I didn't get mad.

1266
01:01:27,200 --> 01:01:30,440
Speaker 2: I was in off. What upset me though, was at

1267
01:01:30,480 --> 01:01:32,760
Speaker 2: the time during the freshman year, white boys kept saying

1268
01:01:32,840 --> 01:01:34,880
Speaker 2: I only made it the NYU because of Ferm thevaction,

1269
01:01:35,040 --> 01:01:39,360
Speaker 2: shaking my head, racism. Yeah, that's wild, he hit that. Yes,

1270
01:01:39,440 --> 01:01:41,360
Speaker 2: I said it, white and crazy.

1271
01:01:41,200 --> 01:01:42,840
Speaker 4: Right, because you know you're not gonna do shit like

1272
01:01:43,120 --> 01:01:45,880
Speaker 4: like if they actually knew that, and he did you

1273
01:01:45,920 --> 01:01:48,360
Speaker 4: the woman not a man, right, you know, And if

1274
01:01:48,400 --> 01:01:50,120
Speaker 4: he thought you was going to be a danger, he

1275
01:01:50,160 --> 01:01:51,360
Speaker 4: wouldn't have did say that if it was shit?

1276
01:01:51,640 --> 01:01:56,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, I said it, oh okayan.

1277
01:01:54,720 --> 01:01:56,680
Speaker 3: Which means you do this shit often two black women.

1278
01:01:56,960 --> 01:01:59,520
Speaker 2: Kim doc says, if you ever noticed them polls on

1279
01:01:59,640 --> 01:02:03,320
Speaker 2: NBC CNN, there's always fine print underneath the Poland data.

1280
01:02:03,360 --> 01:02:05,400
Speaker 2: Typically they post somewhere between eight hundred to or thirteen

1281
01:02:05,480 --> 01:02:07,800
Speaker 2: hundred voters and there's always some plus minus value to

1282
01:02:07,800 --> 01:02:10,720
Speaker 2: signify as a marginal error. So we know that there's

1283
01:02:10,760 --> 01:02:13,160
Speaker 2: a three point one six million people in Iowa. According

1284
01:02:13,200 --> 01:02:15,600
Speaker 2: to the State of Iowa voter registration totals by a

1285
01:02:15,680 --> 01:02:18,880
Speaker 2: county affair available from the Secretary of State's website, there

1286
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Speaker 2: are two point one six million Iowa voters. But they'll

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Speaker 2: ask a thousand voters out of two point one six

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Speaker 2: million who they favor and put the poll out there.

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Speaker 2: I no longer take stocking these posts. The same type

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Speaker 2: of pos had Andrew Gillan winning about four points in Florida,

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Speaker 2: and we saw white people go for the races the

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Speaker 2: statists on election day, as all three of y'all have stated,

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Speaker 2: they definitely aren't polling us.

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Speaker 4: And I've never been a part of an exit pos same.

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Speaker 4: I ain't been a part of exit poll. I ain't

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Speaker 4: been a part of the thing they do for the TV.

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Speaker 3: What is that.

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Speaker 2: I pay attention to these polls for a different reason though,

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Speaker 2: because the polls are dictating the media courage, and that's

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01:02:50,440 --> 01:02:53,240
Speaker 2: dictating who the fuck stays in the race. Kamala Harris

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01:02:53,320 --> 01:02:55,920
Speaker 2: is out of the race because of them polls, So

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01:02:56,120 --> 01:02:58,600
Speaker 2: we can be like they're not real. They're real enough,

1303
01:02:59,280 --> 01:03:01,440
Speaker 2: you know. The other thing too, is people will say, well,

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01:03:01,480 --> 01:03:04,560
Speaker 2: them polls had Hillary winning them, polls were right in

1305
01:03:04,640 --> 01:03:07,400
Speaker 2: the popular vote. But the polls aren't the electoral college.

1306
01:03:07,400 --> 01:03:10,600
Speaker 2: They're the polls, you know. So I don't. It's like

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Speaker 2: I don't know how much we can And also, the

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Speaker 2: other reason I hope these Democratic candidates are paying attention

1309
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Speaker 2: to these fucking polls is because Biden is consistently in

1310
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Speaker 2: the lead. Yes, and as much as I am willing

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01:03:22,680 --> 01:03:25,960
Speaker 2: to vote for Biden, I am not. He's not my

1312
01:03:26,120 --> 01:03:29,760
Speaker 2: number one pick, and so I would like to see

1313
01:03:30,920 --> 01:03:35,800
Speaker 2: like people attack his poll numbers somehow by engaging the

1314
01:03:35,840 --> 01:03:37,960
Speaker 2: people who are planning to vote for him. That's not

1315
01:03:38,080 --> 01:03:39,680
Speaker 2: gonna happen if we all sit around and be like,

1316
01:03:39,760 --> 01:03:41,960
Speaker 2: these numbers aren't really real. I've never had a poll

1317
01:03:42,040 --> 01:03:44,959
Speaker 2: like I don't know that it's worked. Somehow, it's working,

1318
01:03:45,200 --> 01:03:48,480
Speaker 2: like Barack Obama got his game ground tight in two

1319
01:03:48,520 --> 01:03:52,200
Speaker 2: thousand and eight when Hillary was ahead of them, polls like, well,

1320
01:03:52,240 --> 01:03:54,280
Speaker 2: then fuck it, we going door to door. I wonder

1321
01:03:54,320 --> 01:03:56,400
Speaker 2: if any of these candidates are even able to do that,

1322
01:03:56,840 --> 01:03:58,960
Speaker 2: if they even have the money to do that. Because

1323
01:03:59,000 --> 01:04:01,920
Speaker 2: one of the things, one of the things that all

1324
01:04:02,000 --> 01:04:06,040
Speaker 2: these altruistic guys, liberal motherfuckers think is so smart is

1325
01:04:06,400 --> 01:04:11,520
Speaker 2: turning down the money from bigger institutions and private donors

1326
01:04:11,560 --> 01:04:14,200
Speaker 2: and stuff like that, like turn it down, don't take

1327
01:04:14,240 --> 01:04:18,640
Speaker 2: the money, and then just go with small donations directly

1328
01:04:18,680 --> 01:04:21,520
Speaker 2: from the people. I hear you. But what happens when

1329
01:04:21,600 --> 01:04:23,680
Speaker 2: some of the politicians don't play by those rules and

1330
01:04:23,760 --> 01:04:25,360
Speaker 2: the only way you're gonna make up ground is what

1331
01:04:25,560 --> 01:04:28,800
Speaker 2: literal money you have to pay money to these campaign

1332
01:04:28,840 --> 01:04:31,680
Speaker 2: workers to go door to door. They're not just gonna

1333
01:04:31,720 --> 01:04:33,400
Speaker 2: do it out the goodness of their heart. And there's

1334
01:04:33,480 --> 01:04:36,600
Speaker 2: twenty of y'all, so y'all don't even have the consolidated

1335
01:04:36,760 --> 01:04:40,480
Speaker 2: resources to just have one person flood the ground. You

1336
01:04:40,640 --> 01:04:44,240
Speaker 2: need these workers and there's not any since there's so

1337
01:04:44,400 --> 01:04:50,240
Speaker 2: many of these people except for Joe Biden Bernie Sanders. Yeah,

1338
01:04:50,320 --> 01:04:53,000
Speaker 2: I'm only gonna give it to them too. Except for

1339
01:04:53,120 --> 01:04:56,960
Speaker 2: those two, you don't have the base for a lot

1340
01:04:57,040 --> 01:05:00,480
Speaker 2: of these other politicians and the money. It's a big

1341
01:05:00,600 --> 01:05:04,160
Speaker 2: part of the base, you know. So I don't know, man,

1342
01:05:04,400 --> 01:05:06,440
Speaker 2: I just know them polls. It's like, I agree with

1343
01:05:06,520 --> 01:05:09,960
Speaker 2: you the polls, like we know they aren't one hundred percent.

1344
01:05:10,480 --> 01:05:12,680
Speaker 2: But at the same time, I hope they're not ignoring

1345
01:05:12,760 --> 01:05:14,520
Speaker 2: these poles. And then we all gonna act shocked when

1346
01:05:14,560 --> 01:05:16,680
Speaker 2: it's like, well, I'll be damned, but I didn't really

1347
01:05:16,920 --> 01:05:19,520
Speaker 2: was people really were on a vote for him, Yes

1348
01:05:19,600 --> 01:05:23,880
Speaker 2: they were, Alan says, being from South Carolina. Mysteriously, I've

1349
01:05:23,920 --> 01:05:25,840
Speaker 2: never been called a nigga in my face. The first

1350
01:05:25,880 --> 01:05:28,200
Speaker 2: and only time was when I moved to Northern Minnesota

1351
01:05:28,280 --> 01:05:29,880
Speaker 2: at the college and was at a bar with of

1352
01:05:29,920 --> 01:05:32,960
Speaker 2: course the white people. This guy took my chair while

1353
01:05:32,960 --> 01:05:34,400
Speaker 2: I went to get a drink. The group I was

1354
01:05:34,440 --> 01:05:36,720
Speaker 2: told with told the guy he took my chair, and

1355
01:05:36,880 --> 01:05:38,800
Speaker 2: not knowing I was standing right behind him. He said,

1356
01:05:38,800 --> 01:05:41,160
Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck about that nigga. Didn't know

1357
01:05:41,320 --> 01:05:43,120
Speaker 2: this guy from a can of paignt But I hit

1358
01:05:43,280 --> 01:05:45,720
Speaker 2: him with one of the one headed quitter And that

1359
01:05:45,840 --> 01:05:47,040
Speaker 2: was the day I knew I couldn't go out with

1360
01:05:47,080 --> 01:05:50,280
Speaker 2: these white folks by myself. Yeah, damn, you hit that

1361
01:05:50,400 --> 01:05:53,200
Speaker 2: nigga too. By the way, y'all need to make a

1362
01:05:53,280 --> 01:05:56,360
Speaker 2: shirt that says, hey, Twitter world, because I don't want

1363
01:05:56,400 --> 01:05:58,720
Speaker 2: OJ try to get these roysies, you know they you

1364
01:05:58,760 --> 01:06:00,840
Speaker 2: know them? Goldman's on his ass. He might want some

1365
01:06:00,920 --> 01:06:06,320
Speaker 2: of this money, sir, Hey Twitter World. The OJ ridiculous. Anyway,

1366
01:06:07,280 --> 01:06:10,280
Speaker 2: y'all have me crying about the OJ. Loved this podcast

1367
01:06:10,880 --> 01:06:13,280
Speaker 2: and appreciate all that you and Karen do. So glad

1368
01:06:13,320 --> 01:06:14,960
Speaker 2: I went premium last MORNK because I'm enjoined all the

1369
01:06:14,960 --> 01:06:18,480
Speaker 2: extra content. Yeah, thank you, thank you. And yeah, we

1370
01:06:18,600 --> 01:06:21,160
Speaker 2: started noticing that OJ shit over at Balls Deep. So

1371
01:06:21,240 --> 01:06:23,760
Speaker 2: that was actually how it started, was me and justin

1372
01:06:23,800 --> 01:06:26,560
Speaker 2: being like, yo, you noticed this nigig you be making

1373
01:06:26,640 --> 01:06:27,400
Speaker 2: them videos?

1374
01:06:27,720 --> 01:06:30,960
Speaker 4: Hey, Twitter World, We're talking to the third person who's

1375
01:06:31,040 --> 01:06:33,640
Speaker 4: recording that shit somebody and they just buffloaded.

1376
01:06:34,880 --> 01:06:35,000
Speaker 3: Uh.

1377
01:06:35,120 --> 01:06:38,200
Speaker 2: Do you think offset was hacked? Yes or no? He lined,

1378
01:06:40,800 --> 01:06:41,960
Speaker 2: that's a good question.

1379
01:06:43,000 --> 01:06:43,760
Speaker 3: I would say.

1380
01:06:44,400 --> 01:06:46,640
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say yes, I think it was hacked too.

1381
01:06:46,960 --> 01:06:49,560
Speaker 2: Twenty seven cent say yes, seventy three percent say no.

1382
01:06:49,720 --> 01:06:52,000
Speaker 2: He lines on me and Karen getting food. Hey, you

1383
01:06:52,120 --> 01:06:54,880
Speaker 2: know what, guys, we feel judged. Okay, y'all also has

1384
01:06:54,880 --> 01:06:57,760
Speaker 2: to agree with us at all times and make us

1385
01:06:57,840 --> 01:07:01,280
Speaker 2: feel good about when we disagree. And I don't see

1386
01:07:01,360 --> 01:07:04,240
Speaker 2: enough of that happening right now. So where's y'all responsibility

1387
01:07:04,280 --> 01:07:08,120
Speaker 2: in all this? A mom says, I believe all said

1388
01:07:08,200 --> 01:07:10,920
Speaker 2: more than I believe to y'all, well that much I

1389
01:07:11,000 --> 01:07:15,000
Speaker 2: do agree with. I mean, I think t I was

1390
01:07:15,040 --> 01:07:17,400
Speaker 2: just straight up line. I don't even know have a

1391
01:07:17,440 --> 01:07:21,840
Speaker 2: good way to put it. Two thousand and six was

1392
01:07:23,160 --> 01:07:29,160
Speaker 2: episode I'm Dreaming of a White's Only Christmas. We had

1393
01:07:29,240 --> 01:07:33,200
Speaker 2: one comment. This is from a mom who says, y'all

1394
01:07:33,360 --> 01:07:36,600
Speaker 2: made me laugh so hard I drooled. I love the

1395
01:07:36,680 --> 01:07:39,760
Speaker 2: White's Only Christmas song. That's why y'all let these Confederate

1396
01:07:39,840 --> 01:07:42,760
Speaker 2: cosplayers enjoy the parade so they can praise Lily White

1397
01:07:42,800 --> 01:07:46,800
Speaker 2: baby Jesus like all good white Americans. I mean, here's

1398
01:07:46,800 --> 01:07:49,480
Speaker 2: the truth in the way and the light, okay, and

1399
01:07:49,600 --> 01:07:51,720
Speaker 2: the black capitalist right the nail on the head when

1400
01:07:51,760 --> 01:07:54,400
Speaker 2: he said capitalist activism is what I feel it is,

1401
01:07:54,920 --> 01:08:01,800
Speaker 2: and I feel jealous, rolling love, y'all. I just just asking,

1402
01:08:01,920 --> 01:08:04,920
Speaker 2: But are y'all gonna recap the mid season finale when

1403
01:08:04,960 --> 01:08:07,160
Speaker 2: the show comes back next year? Oh, we're gonna recap

1404
01:08:07,240 --> 01:08:12,800
Speaker 2: it next week sometime. You know, this is a habit

1405
01:08:12,880 --> 01:08:16,920
Speaker 2: of ours with these walking down Miss season finales. I

1406
01:08:17,120 --> 01:08:19,400
Speaker 2: noticed it when I was chopping up the walking there

1407
01:08:19,760 --> 01:08:23,439
Speaker 2: recaps for the premium feed. I was like, oh, I

1408
01:08:23,560 --> 01:08:26,000
Speaker 2: have a habit of being like, okay, Miss season finale,

1409
01:08:26,040 --> 01:08:28,320
Speaker 2: all right, cool, we'll get to that whenever, because now

1410
01:08:28,360 --> 01:08:31,640
Speaker 2: we got too much to take a break. But I

1411
01:08:31,720 --> 01:08:33,800
Speaker 2: didn't mean, but what happened was this time we literally

1412
01:08:33,840 --> 01:08:36,200
Speaker 2: were taking a week off. Then we came back and

1413
01:08:36,240 --> 01:08:40,040
Speaker 2: our schedule was hella swamped, so we just didn't have

1414
01:08:40,200 --> 01:08:43,360
Speaker 2: time to do it. But this week we will find

1415
01:08:43,400 --> 01:08:45,800
Speaker 2: the time to do it. Whether it's tomorrow or Wednesday,

1416
01:08:46,000 --> 01:08:48,800
Speaker 2: it'll happen. I promise you guys. No Hornets games for

1417
01:08:49,000 --> 01:08:53,000
Speaker 2: like two weeks, so oh wait, no a week all right,

1418
01:08:54,200 --> 01:08:56,840
Speaker 2: let's see. I realized I really missed a recap show

1419
01:08:56,920 --> 01:09:00,160
Speaker 2: last week. Wednesday came and all day. I felt I

1420
01:09:00,240 --> 01:09:02,080
Speaker 2: was forgetting something I just couldn't figure out until I

1421
01:09:02,120 --> 01:09:04,320
Speaker 2: sat down to catch up on Watchman. Then it hit me, oh,

1422
01:09:04,439 --> 01:09:06,360
Speaker 2: there was no Walking Dead recap today, but I've been

1423
01:09:06,439 --> 01:09:08,559
Speaker 2: enjoying the premium shows. Can't wait until the show comes

1424
01:09:08,600 --> 01:09:11,160
Speaker 2: back on. Yeah, we had that was the only day

1425
01:09:11,200 --> 01:09:15,040
Speaker 2: we could do Bolls Deep and pregame. I believe, so,

1426
01:09:15,960 --> 01:09:17,760
Speaker 2: you know it just that was just the way the

1427
01:09:17,800 --> 01:09:21,640
Speaker 2: schedule broke last week. And then the day that we

1428
01:09:21,760 --> 01:09:25,760
Speaker 2: were gonna do the Walking Dead recap was a day

1429
01:09:25,800 --> 01:09:27,479
Speaker 2: with Janelle James Is supposed to be on it, but

1430
01:09:27,560 --> 01:09:29,519
Speaker 2: she had schedule mixed up. It couldn't be on the show.

1431
01:09:29,960 --> 01:09:33,080
Speaker 2: So then it was like, Okay, I haven't prepared to

1432
01:09:33,120 --> 01:09:34,880
Speaker 2: do Walking Dead. We just gotta do a regular show.

1433
01:09:35,000 --> 01:09:36,240
Speaker 3: I think we did a recap show.

1434
01:09:37,880 --> 01:09:38,760
Speaker 2: We did a feedback show.

1435
01:09:39,080 --> 01:09:40,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, make feedback.

1436
01:09:41,000 --> 01:09:43,080
Speaker 2: Have you ever caught someone cheating on you? Yes or no?

1437
01:09:43,240 --> 01:09:46,160
Speaker 2: Fifty six percent of our audience has caught someone cheating

1438
01:09:46,200 --> 01:09:51,560
Speaker 2: on them, forty four percent have not. Alicia says his

1439
01:09:51,760 --> 01:09:53,920
Speaker 2: dumb ass texted me instead of the other chick that

1440
01:09:54,040 --> 01:09:56,720
Speaker 2: though next morning talking about what a wonderful time he

1441
01:09:56,800 --> 01:09:59,680
Speaker 2: had last night at this time. I was away at

1442
01:09:59,760 --> 01:10:02,640
Speaker 2: cop hadn't seen him all week. It's funny how I

1443
01:10:02,800 --> 01:10:05,800
Speaker 2: never go snooping and relationships, but somehow find out their mess.

1444
01:10:06,000 --> 01:10:11,559
Speaker 2: Damn uhu, baby, I know, text the wrong chick, shady

1445
01:10:11,680 --> 01:10:15,559
Speaker 2: dame says, I, sure as hell did. I had been

1446
01:10:15,640 --> 01:10:17,640
Speaker 2: dating a guy for two years, and one night at

1447
01:10:17,680 --> 01:10:19,880
Speaker 2: one am, I got a call from his phone. It

1448
01:10:20,040 --> 01:10:22,599
Speaker 2: was his actual girlfriend, who had been he had been

1449
01:10:22,680 --> 01:10:27,120
Speaker 2: with for three years. I was obviously mortified because I

1450
01:10:27,160 --> 01:10:29,120
Speaker 2: was under the impression that we were all in a

1451
01:10:29,160 --> 01:10:31,879
Speaker 2: committed relationship. Oh wait, that we were in a committed relationship,

1452
01:10:32,000 --> 01:10:33,920
Speaker 2: but that all changed everything then, not even say that

1453
01:10:34,240 --> 01:10:35,040
Speaker 2: that we were in a relation.

1454
01:10:35,240 --> 01:10:36,920
Speaker 3: I know, it was like we were all in the relationship.

1455
01:10:36,960 --> 01:10:40,400
Speaker 4: Well yeah, y'all, actually all was only only one person

1456
01:10:40,479 --> 01:10:41,759
Speaker 4: knew about the entire relationship.

1457
01:10:41,840 --> 01:10:44,040
Speaker 2: He was in an open relationship, but y'all weren't.

1458
01:10:44,080 --> 01:10:45,240
Speaker 3: Yours was closed.

1459
01:10:45,520 --> 01:10:47,719
Speaker 2: I was obviously mortified because I was under the impression

1460
01:10:47,760 --> 01:10:50,719
Speaker 2: that we were in a committed relationship. Apparently she knew

1461
01:10:50,760 --> 01:10:54,120
Speaker 2: he was up to something. Well duh uh. He would

1462
01:10:54,120 --> 01:10:57,439
Speaker 2: spend most weekends at my house and use his fingerprint

1463
01:10:57,479 --> 01:10:59,639
Speaker 2: to I use his fingerprint to unlike his phone after

1464
01:10:59,720 --> 01:11:02,479
Speaker 2: he was knocked out on Ambient Boy. Ain't tell how

1465
01:11:02,600 --> 01:11:04,640
Speaker 2: it is these days. That's why they switched to the

1466
01:11:04,680 --> 01:11:05,559
Speaker 2: face app thing.

1467
01:11:06,320 --> 01:11:08,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, now you've got a program. It's like your eyes

1468
01:11:08,200 --> 01:11:10,800
Speaker 4: got to be open. Yeah, because they knew, they said,

1469
01:11:10,840 --> 01:11:14,000
Speaker 4: these are me. I don't motherfuckers, We're talking about a

1470
01:11:14,080 --> 01:11:15,559
Speaker 4: die over an Apple phone.

1471
01:11:15,680 --> 01:11:18,120
Speaker 2: Apple got too many one star reviews from cheetahs. They said, no,

1472
01:11:18,240 --> 01:11:18,920
Speaker 2: we got to stop this.

1473
01:11:19,400 --> 01:11:21,080
Speaker 3: We got upbraided oh.

1474
01:11:22,439 --> 01:11:25,000
Speaker 2: H and he having reading through all of our texts.

1475
01:11:25,280 --> 01:11:27,080
Speaker 2: Two of the two of us were on the phone

1476
01:11:27,200 --> 01:11:29,360
Speaker 2: for about an hour, and after about fifteen minutes, it

1477
01:11:29,400 --> 01:11:31,920
Speaker 2: turned into me playing therapist for her ass because she

1478
01:11:32,320 --> 01:11:37,320
Speaker 2: was under the oh continue, she said, Oh, she accidentally

1479
01:11:37,360 --> 01:11:40,000
Speaker 2: submitted comment too fast because she was under the same

1480
01:11:40,040 --> 01:11:42,360
Speaker 2: impression that we were in a relationship. Also, while I

1481
01:11:42,520 --> 01:11:44,240
Speaker 2: was on the phone with her, I sent text to

1482
01:11:44,320 --> 01:11:46,600
Speaker 2: him on the phone that she was using to call me,

1483
01:11:47,080 --> 01:11:49,120
Speaker 2: telling him that we were over blocked. His ass de

1484
01:11:49,200 --> 01:11:51,760
Speaker 2: leaded him, though I still talk to his girlfriend every

1485
01:11:51,800 --> 01:11:54,280
Speaker 2: now and then. What I'm glad y'all became friends and

1486
01:11:54,400 --> 01:11:56,840
Speaker 2: she's good people and deserves better. But not everyone has

1487
01:11:56,880 --> 01:11:59,280
Speaker 2: the strength to leave. Oh she's still with his ass. Wow.

1488
01:12:00,240 --> 01:12:02,080
Speaker 2: He told her that I was a crazy chick and

1489
01:12:02,280 --> 01:12:04,840
Speaker 2: was stalking him, never mind one hundreds of stupid texts

1490
01:12:04,840 --> 01:12:07,320
Speaker 2: that you seeing when you're in a relationship, and she

1491
01:12:07,880 --> 01:12:11,200
Speaker 2: she wanted to believe that. Mm hmm, no way, because

1492
01:12:11,240 --> 01:12:14,960
Speaker 2: it's no way that it's no fucking way. She believes that.

1493
01:12:15,080 --> 01:12:17,560
Speaker 2: She wants to believe that. She's like, just give me

1494
01:12:17,640 --> 01:12:20,680
Speaker 2: any excuse and our stay. They were still together when

1495
01:12:20,680 --> 01:12:23,040
Speaker 2: she sent me a congrats Instagram message for my wedding

1496
01:12:23,080 --> 01:12:25,280
Speaker 2: a few months ago. At this point, they've been together

1497
01:12:25,360 --> 01:12:27,000
Speaker 2: for at least seven years, so she told me that

1498
01:12:27,160 --> 01:12:30,000
Speaker 2: there they're at the point of no return. Could not

1499
01:12:30,160 --> 01:12:30,880
Speaker 2: be me, baby.

1500
01:12:31,080 --> 01:12:34,320
Speaker 4: I know that's sad, Yeah, because for some people, and

1501
01:12:34,400 --> 01:12:37,320
Speaker 4: I completely understand it, it could be hard to leave

1502
01:12:37,560 --> 01:12:40,400
Speaker 4: and they're like, I will. It's one of them things

1503
01:12:40,439 --> 01:12:43,320
Speaker 4: where people go some women just want a man, just

1504
01:12:43,360 --> 01:12:44,479
Speaker 4: to say I got a man.

1505
01:12:44,640 --> 01:12:45,679
Speaker 3: He can be anything.

1506
01:12:45,920 --> 01:12:47,840
Speaker 4: I just got a man, and I don't a lot

1507
01:12:47,920 --> 01:12:50,360
Speaker 4: of for a lot of people being quote unquote alone,

1508
01:12:50,600 --> 01:12:52,760
Speaker 4: you could be single and not be lonely, and that's

1509
01:12:52,840 --> 01:12:55,000
Speaker 4: a hard concept to wrap your mind around.

1510
01:12:55,120 --> 01:12:56,479
Speaker 3: But there are a lot of single people that are

1511
01:12:56,479 --> 01:12:58,000
Speaker 3: happy being single and then not lonely.

1512
01:12:58,320 --> 01:13:00,719
Speaker 2: Well, I just had this to say. I'm not judging

1513
01:13:00,840 --> 01:13:04,200
Speaker 2: anyone's decisions. I don't want anybody feel judged. If you

1514
01:13:04,360 --> 01:13:07,439
Speaker 2: with this man that's cheating on you, you caught him cheating,

1515
01:13:07,840 --> 01:13:10,599
Speaker 2: had a whole other relationship on you could be having

1516
01:13:10,680 --> 01:13:13,240
Speaker 2: advertake the sex with people, maybe bring home STD or

1517
01:13:13,320 --> 01:13:16,439
Speaker 2: some baby or something like. That's a valid choice that

1518
01:13:16,560 --> 01:13:20,120
Speaker 2: you made. Because here the blackout tips as the main host,

1519
01:13:20,439 --> 01:13:22,160
Speaker 2: I don't judge anyone.

1520
01:13:22,680 --> 01:13:26,479
Speaker 3: Everything is okay, Well that's their co host. You mean

1521
01:13:26,520 --> 01:13:31,559
Speaker 3: a sidekick? Oh shit, I done got downbraded from co hosts.

1522
01:13:31,600 --> 01:13:34,719
Speaker 2: The side co host implies that there are two people

1523
01:13:34,760 --> 01:13:37,160
Speaker 2: of equal hosting ability. Karen, I don't know if you

1524
01:13:37,280 --> 01:13:40,240
Speaker 2: understand I was the main host, so you would be

1525
01:13:40,320 --> 01:13:43,479
Speaker 2: the side host at best, okay, like the side check

1526
01:13:43,600 --> 01:13:45,680
Speaker 2: you the side host. Yes, I'm the main host, you

1527
01:13:45,800 --> 01:13:50,400
Speaker 2: the side host. Okay. So yeah, I'm just saying, I

1528
01:13:50,600 --> 01:13:55,240
Speaker 2: personally will never be I personally would never judge her

1529
01:13:55,439 --> 01:13:57,479
Speaker 2: for that. You know, I understand you said it could

1530
01:13:57,560 --> 01:13:59,600
Speaker 2: not be you, But see that's how you treat it.

1531
01:13:59,800 --> 01:14:02,519
Speaker 2: Make her be a pig me because you by saying

1532
01:14:02,600 --> 01:14:05,120
Speaker 2: it couldn't be you. You essentially saying I being on

1533
01:14:05,320 --> 01:14:08,479
Speaker 2: this and you just not getting on this. No, we

1534
01:14:08,560 --> 01:14:11,560
Speaker 2: don't do that anymore. I was told, okay, in a

1535
01:14:11,720 --> 01:14:15,160
Speaker 2: non judgment a way, that I was too righteous over here.

1536
01:14:16,479 --> 01:14:18,320
Speaker 2: So we're not doing that no more. This is my

1537
01:14:18,800 --> 01:14:24,280
Speaker 2: opinion free zone, no judgment. Everything's okay. You stay with

1538
01:14:24,400 --> 01:14:26,960
Speaker 2: that man, Okay. People call him trifling. I say, he

1539
01:14:27,160 --> 01:14:31,320
Speaker 2: just is an indecisive man. He just loves too much.

1540
01:14:31,600 --> 01:14:33,519
Speaker 3: Okay, indecisive, trifling man.

1541
01:14:33,720 --> 01:14:35,880
Speaker 2: You just have to deal with it because that you know,

1542
01:14:36,200 --> 01:14:38,880
Speaker 2: other people been there before, and it can't ever make

1543
01:14:39,000 --> 01:14:42,160
Speaker 2: anyone feel bad for any decisions or their rolls in anything.

1544
01:14:42,479 --> 01:14:46,680
Speaker 2: Everything's fine, guys. Brooklyn Shoe says kinda. I pieced it

1545
01:14:46,760 --> 01:14:49,599
Speaker 2: together and forced a confession. I'm glad I didn't walk

1546
01:14:49,640 --> 01:14:53,599
Speaker 2: in on anything untoward because I be in jail. Wow. Yeah,

1547
01:14:53,760 --> 01:14:54,160
Speaker 2: sound like.

1548
01:14:56,120 --> 01:14:58,080
Speaker 3: Everybody can't you know, No, people don't function.

1549
01:14:58,240 --> 01:15:00,960
Speaker 2: Well, she's gonna hit that wake up, caught you in

1550
01:15:01,040 --> 01:15:03,320
Speaker 2: the morning with another one in my bed?

1551
01:15:04,479 --> 01:15:06,519
Speaker 3: No, she was gonna hit you with that ship.

1552
01:15:07,520 --> 01:15:16,360
Speaker 2: Damn motherfucker, whow are you sleeping with? My husband? Come on?

1553
01:15:17,240 --> 01:15:18,960
Speaker 3: And that wouldn't go end with But I'm glad you

1554
01:15:19,000 --> 01:15:20,240
Speaker 3: because I don't't see you locked up.

1555
01:15:20,400 --> 01:15:22,439
Speaker 2: No comments on the last episode because it was being

1556
01:15:22,520 --> 01:15:28,040
Speaker 2: way too judgment on and making these people feel like,

1557
01:15:28,200 --> 01:15:30,679
Speaker 2: you know, they needed to not defend with liz own Ship.

1558
01:15:31,360 --> 01:15:34,439
Speaker 2: The poe was does Brent John addressing the police change

1559
01:15:34,479 --> 01:15:35,080
Speaker 2: anything for you?

1560
01:15:36,000 --> 01:15:36,040
Speaker 3: No?

1561
01:15:36,400 --> 01:15:39,639
Speaker 2: I still dislike him. Yes, I was wrong about him,

1562
01:15:40,360 --> 01:15:41,840
Speaker 2: or I never had an issue with him in the

1563
01:15:41,880 --> 01:15:47,640
Speaker 2: first place, Karen, Brent John the one who hugged and

1564
01:15:47,760 --> 01:15:50,520
Speaker 2: Regatta and then you get addressed the police.

1565
01:15:50,200 --> 01:15:51,679
Speaker 3: Force him personally.

1566
01:15:51,800 --> 01:15:54,800
Speaker 2: Don't got a problem with Okay, so calm with him.

1567
01:15:56,560 --> 01:16:00,560
Speaker 4: So you never had a problem with him with him, yeah, no,

1568
01:16:00,720 --> 01:16:04,400
Speaker 4: because I'm of the understanding that he's young.

1569
01:16:04,640 --> 01:16:08,160
Speaker 3: So I'm like, Okay, you're young. I'm allowing you the

1570
01:16:08,200 --> 01:16:10,160
Speaker 3: opportunity to grow the mature.

1571
01:16:10,560 --> 01:16:14,360
Speaker 4: I'm allowing you the choices that everybody say we have choices,

1572
01:16:14,400 --> 01:16:16,320
Speaker 4: but then you make a choice and nobody agrees with

1573
01:16:16,360 --> 01:16:17,519
Speaker 4: your choice, so now you ain't shit.

1574
01:16:17,560 --> 01:16:18,880
Speaker 3: I'm allowing him the opportunity.

1575
01:16:18,920 --> 01:16:21,040
Speaker 2: So no, I don't have a problem with because we

1576
01:16:21,160 --> 01:16:24,360
Speaker 2: see his humanity, correct, and we have always seen his humanity,

1577
01:16:24,600 --> 01:16:26,880
Speaker 2: unlike these other niggas who's humanity. I don't see who

1578
01:16:26,920 --> 01:16:28,600
Speaker 2: didn't see his humanity in the first place, So now

1579
01:16:28,680 --> 01:16:30,560
Speaker 2: they want me to see they humanity. But I'm not

1580
01:16:30,640 --> 01:16:33,280
Speaker 2: giving you the choice of seeing your humanity, no, nigga.

1581
01:16:33,320 --> 01:16:39,320
Speaker 2: I was on thissu pick means anyway. At the poll results,

1582
01:16:39,400 --> 01:16:44,160
Speaker 2: eighty three people listening that voted in the poll never

1583
01:16:44,200 --> 01:16:46,360
Speaker 2: had an issue with him in the first place, and

1584
01:16:46,479 --> 01:16:48,519
Speaker 2: then among those who did have an issue with him,

1585
01:16:49,080 --> 01:16:51,599
Speaker 2: twelve percent of people say yes, I was wrong about him,

1586
01:16:52,080 --> 01:16:56,320
Speaker 2: which yo, that is very big of y'all. You know,

1587
01:16:56,479 --> 01:16:58,280
Speaker 2: I know it's just anonymous voting the pole. No one

1588
01:16:58,360 --> 01:17:01,880
Speaker 2: left any comments, but like real talk man, that I

1589
01:17:02,040 --> 01:17:05,600
Speaker 2: love to see stuff like that, because you know, we

1590
01:17:05,760 --> 01:17:09,280
Speaker 2: were talking about that from the beginning. I was always

1591
01:17:09,520 --> 01:17:13,360
Speaker 2: on this and you niggas wasn't hypocristian. I was always

1592
01:17:13,439 --> 01:17:16,120
Speaker 2: saying I could see that that boy's humanity, and I

1593
01:17:16,280 --> 01:17:21,000
Speaker 2: just didn't feel like that moment was a good moment

1594
01:17:21,120 --> 01:17:25,160
Speaker 2: to just completely judge everything about him. And it's good

1595
01:17:25,240 --> 01:17:27,080
Speaker 2: to see that there were some people that said, yeah, man,

1596
01:17:27,160 --> 01:17:29,120
Speaker 2: I felt that way, you know, because I think it

1597
01:17:29,680 --> 01:17:32,120
Speaker 2: was triggering to see that shit. People was very upset,

1598
01:17:32,320 --> 01:17:34,640
Speaker 2: you know, and I completely understand it. And then his

1599
01:17:34,960 --> 01:17:37,120
Speaker 2: image was being used by white people to talk about

1600
01:17:37,160 --> 01:17:39,040
Speaker 2: what we need to be doing as black people, and

1601
01:17:39,120 --> 01:17:41,720
Speaker 2: so of course people got upset. But I love that

1602
01:17:41,880 --> 01:17:45,320
Speaker 2: some of y'all were like, nah, man, I disagree, Like

1603
01:17:45,520 --> 01:17:47,800
Speaker 2: I mean, I changed my mind. I was wrong about that.

1604
01:17:48,800 --> 01:17:52,439
Speaker 2: And then of course four percent one person basically says

1605
01:17:52,640 --> 01:17:56,400
Speaker 2: they still dislike him, so they can't win over. Everybody's

1606
01:17:56,400 --> 01:17:59,280
Speaker 2: gotta be live your life. And you know, if it

1607
01:17:59,320 --> 01:18:02,320
Speaker 2: makes you feel good God disliking the brother of a

1608
01:18:02,400 --> 01:18:05,479
Speaker 2: man who was killed by the cops in his own

1609
01:18:05,520 --> 01:18:08,000
Speaker 2: fucking house, minding his goddamn business, and now his brother

1610
01:18:08,080 --> 01:18:10,320
Speaker 2: got to be a standing in for all of the

1611
01:18:11,040 --> 01:18:14,040
Speaker 2: black people, then good for you. You in the Walkers

1612
01:18:14,080 --> 01:18:14,639
Speaker 2: other week.

1613
01:18:14,640 --> 01:18:17,679
Speaker 4: And apparently so. And it's also one of those things

1614
01:18:17,720 --> 01:18:20,320
Speaker 4: where I can't tell anybody how.

1615
01:18:20,240 --> 01:18:22,680
Speaker 3: They should grieve over their family member. That's not my job.

1616
01:18:22,760 --> 01:18:26,160
Speaker 4: I place on my responsibility because grief hits everybody differently.

1617
01:18:26,240 --> 01:18:29,680
Speaker 4: Group people deal with grief very differently, you know, And

1618
01:18:29,840 --> 01:18:32,880
Speaker 4: so you know you're gonna when you do that, in

1619
01:18:33,240 --> 01:18:36,320
Speaker 4: my opinion, you're going, well, you're not doing the things.

1620
01:18:36,120 --> 01:18:37,439
Speaker 3: That I think you should do with grief.

1621
01:18:37,479 --> 01:18:40,439
Speaker 4: And sometimes people talk about this and they've never experienced

1622
01:18:40,439 --> 01:18:43,519
Speaker 4: a personal grief like to the like like somebody like

1623
01:18:43,760 --> 01:18:45,040
Speaker 4: personally has left them.

1624
01:18:45,120 --> 01:18:47,360
Speaker 3: Some people have. But a lot of times when people.

1625
01:18:47,200 --> 01:18:50,280
Speaker 4: Go hard on grief, I mean like super hard, you go, oh,

1626
01:18:50,479 --> 01:18:53,120
Speaker 4: you've never lost a mother, brother, or sister, like somebody

1627
01:18:53,160 --> 01:18:55,320
Speaker 4: close to your heart, So you can't understand having a

1628
01:18:55,360 --> 01:18:56,840
Speaker 4: compassion and allowing.

1629
01:18:56,439 --> 01:18:58,320
Speaker 3: People to work through their grief. However, you work through

1630
01:18:58,320 --> 01:19:00,680
Speaker 3: your grief because I think about grief, grief believes you

1631
01:19:00,840 --> 01:19:01,920
Speaker 3: learn how to live with it.

1632
01:19:02,000 --> 01:19:04,479
Speaker 4: It will never leave you, just learn how to adapt

1633
01:19:04,600 --> 01:19:06,439
Speaker 4: in life with it always being there.

1634
01:19:06,960 --> 01:19:10,200
Speaker 2: All right, let's take the voicemails we got. It was

1635
01:19:10,280 --> 01:19:15,880
Speaker 2: like three voicemails by the same person on Skype. You can,

1636
01:19:15,960 --> 01:19:18,320
Speaker 2: of course leave voicemails by going to seven O four

1637
01:19:18,680 --> 01:19:21,840
Speaker 2: uh colin seven O four five five seven zero one

1638
01:19:21,920 --> 01:19:24,280
Speaker 2: eighty six. Make it two minutes or less. It will

1639
01:19:24,360 --> 01:19:26,920
Speaker 2: cut you off if not, and then you'll be one

1640
01:19:26,920 --> 01:19:29,280
Speaker 2: of these people that leaves three voicemails because you got

1641
01:19:29,439 --> 01:19:31,639
Speaker 2: cut off and shit and there. It will look weird

1642
01:19:31,680 --> 01:19:33,360
Speaker 2: and you'll feel awkward when we listen to it on

1643
01:19:33,400 --> 01:19:35,719
Speaker 2: the air, and it's not good.

1644
01:19:35,880 --> 01:19:41,160
Speaker 1: So hey, Karen, Hey, queen, Karen two messages. I just

1645
01:19:41,240 --> 01:19:45,000
Speaker 1: want to let you know that Lizzo is a danger

1646
01:19:45,439 --> 01:19:47,560
Speaker 1: not only to the black community, to all the Americans,

1647
01:19:48,280 --> 01:19:53,599
Speaker 1: because well, actually I saw some tities at a Knicks game,

1648
01:19:53,800 --> 01:19:57,479
Speaker 1: and that's how I became addicted to crack. Although my

1649
01:19:58,640 --> 01:20:01,040
Speaker 1: drug counselor stuff is possib because the Nicks have been

1650
01:20:01,080 --> 01:20:03,720
Speaker 1: sorry all my life, but I disagree. I think it's

1651
01:20:03,720 --> 01:20:05,479
Speaker 1: because of those titties. Just want to let you know that.

1652
01:20:05,560 --> 01:20:12,400
Speaker 1: I also, if Rod I see you, know, you start

1653
01:20:12,479 --> 01:20:15,920
Speaker 1: to make more and more allowances, you know, for a

1654
01:20:16,000 --> 01:20:20,240
Speaker 1: lot of these practics out here, if you do turntly

1655
01:20:20,439 --> 01:20:24,160
Speaker 1: into the white women and go beyond the ugwoots and

1656
01:20:24,520 --> 01:20:29,760
Speaker 1: the pumpkin spike lottes, although they are delicious. I must say, Kara,

1657
01:20:29,880 --> 01:20:32,960
Speaker 1: you can always come back home. I'm a hood red

1658
01:20:32,960 --> 01:20:35,120
Speaker 1: fee through originally from the Bronx Escape in New Jersey.

1659
01:20:35,680 --> 01:20:38,120
Speaker 1: I'm also in aries, so you can always come back home.

1660
01:20:38,200 --> 01:20:40,040
Speaker 1: We have a place for you, okay, just in case

1661
01:20:40,080 --> 01:20:43,800
Speaker 1: where I complete his transformation all right, in terms of

1662
01:20:43,840 --> 01:20:46,559
Speaker 1: times in twe and fifty seventh decient. Just jokes, y'all.

1663
01:20:46,600 --> 01:20:49,360
Speaker 7: I love y'all so much, Thank you so much. I'll

1664
01:20:49,360 --> 01:20:51,640
Speaker 7: talk to y'all soon shout out to everybody, to the

1665
01:20:51,680 --> 01:20:54,280
Speaker 7: whole teach of these family. All right, take care.

1666
01:20:55,920 --> 01:20:58,720
Speaker 2: First of all, if I turned all the way to

1667
01:20:58,800 --> 01:21:04,080
Speaker 2: a white woman of color, me and Karen are just

1668
01:21:04,160 --> 01:21:08,800
Speaker 2: gonna be in an interracial relationship. She's gonna be one

1669
01:21:08,800 --> 01:21:10,679
Speaker 2: of these people that you don't have pompkin pie.

1670
01:21:11,360 --> 01:21:11,639
Speaker 3: The pie.

1671
01:21:11,840 --> 01:21:15,160
Speaker 2: She's just gonna be coming my Thanksgiving with my family

1672
01:21:15,439 --> 01:21:19,200
Speaker 2: and sitting outside waiting on some food. Because it is

1673
01:21:19,320 --> 01:21:21,000
Speaker 2: what it is. This is in it for the long haul.

1674
01:21:21,360 --> 01:21:24,040
Speaker 3: We're gonna have dressing and stuffing. That's it.

1675
01:21:25,760 --> 01:21:27,240
Speaker 2: I don't know where all this is coming from.

1676
01:21:27,640 --> 01:21:29,519
Speaker 3: Have greens with porking, veig and greens.

1677
01:21:30,560 --> 01:21:32,240
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna have to deal with it. I ain't

1678
01:21:32,240 --> 01:21:39,599
Speaker 2: gonna nowhere Crazy Super said and calling back.

1679
01:21:39,760 --> 01:21:43,320
Speaker 7: I just had to say that in all honesty, I

1680
01:21:43,439 --> 01:21:47,720
Speaker 7: advocate for anyone who advocates for big asses. So big

1681
01:21:47,800 --> 01:21:51,720
Speaker 7: butts are very very important to the Fabrica, not just

1682
01:21:51,760 --> 01:21:55,519
Speaker 7: the America's cyber world society. So please take on my

1683
01:21:55,600 --> 01:22:00,759
Speaker 7: previous contexts and chests. Okay, And even though she Aans

1684
01:22:00,840 --> 01:22:04,560
Speaker 7: will be the vice president until twenty when she does it,

1685
01:22:04,640 --> 01:22:08,000
Speaker 7: vent you run for president in twenty twenty four, twenty

1686
01:22:08,080 --> 01:22:10,640
Speaker 7: twenty eight. I will nominate you by Okay, ask for

1687
01:22:10,760 --> 01:22:11,080
Speaker 7: running me.

1688
01:22:11,520 --> 01:22:13,519
Speaker 1: I just wanted to let you guys know once again,

1689
01:22:13,560 --> 01:22:17,679
Speaker 1: shout out to everybody. Peace of love. Okay, stay black, stay.

1690
01:22:17,560 --> 01:22:20,680
Speaker 2: Strong, talk to you all living well. I do appreciate you,

1691
01:22:20,920 --> 01:22:24,040
Speaker 2: uh you know. Also being a fellow advocate for Big Buds.

1692
01:22:24,080 --> 01:22:27,280
Speaker 2: I feel like we're not getting enough and not getting

1693
01:22:27,360 --> 01:22:29,960
Speaker 2: enough love these days. You know, you would think it

1694
01:22:30,160 --> 01:22:32,560
Speaker 2: is with everybody getting the fake ashes and stuff on

1695
01:22:33,240 --> 01:22:35,599
Speaker 2: the Instagram and all the people following the Instagram models.

1696
01:22:35,880 --> 01:22:38,080
Speaker 2: But soon as Lizzo flash of Thong, it was all

1697
01:22:38,160 --> 01:22:40,599
Speaker 2: hell breaks lose it. It was too much for these people.

1698
01:22:40,640 --> 01:22:43,280
Speaker 2: I'm I'm like, that's my pleasure. That's what I came

1699
01:22:43,560 --> 01:22:43,880
Speaker 2: here for.

1700
01:22:44,800 --> 01:22:45,679
Speaker 3: You know what I game.

1701
01:22:45,920 --> 01:22:48,040
Speaker 2: Okay. They say people don't come to the Lakers games

1702
01:22:48,080 --> 01:22:51,120
Speaker 2: for that. Excuse me, some of us do. Don't speak

1703
01:22:51,160 --> 01:22:53,599
Speaker 2: for yourself. He he left one more voicemail.

1704
01:22:53,840 --> 01:22:59,400
Speaker 1: Hey Karen, Hey, rob my brother and sister from Charge Game.

1705
01:23:00,360 --> 01:23:03,559
Speaker 1: I was listening to the pregame show and he got

1706
01:23:03,640 --> 01:23:06,799
Speaker 1: was talking about the election and one of the reasons

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01:23:07,000 --> 01:23:11,120
Speaker 1: that the Republican strategy is hilly mannering is one of

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01:23:11,160 --> 01:23:15,360
Speaker 1: the perfinents because they can't win on sir numbers. Way

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01:23:15,520 --> 01:23:19,280
Speaker 1: back in I want to say, this was twenty sixteen,

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01:23:19,320 --> 01:23:22,640
Speaker 1: and I've been somewhere twenty fifty. Twenty sixteen, I was

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01:23:22,680 --> 01:23:25,280
Speaker 1: listening to Keeping His sixteen hundred, which is now pod

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01:23:25,360 --> 01:23:28,600
Speaker 1: save in America. I listened to Cricket Media podcasts and

1713
01:23:29,360 --> 01:23:35,120
Speaker 1: they had Mitt Romney's campaign manager on there, and they're

1714
01:23:35,120 --> 01:23:38,160
Speaker 1: asking why shouldn't you know why when Mitt Romney going

1715
01:23:38,200 --> 01:23:39,880
Speaker 1: back into the race seeming to get rid of trunk

1716
01:23:39,960 --> 01:23:42,439
Speaker 1: the truck was you know, jerk, and he was like,

1717
01:23:42,640 --> 01:23:44,240
Speaker 1: he's not going to commit because he can't win. As

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01:23:44,280 --> 01:23:46,800
Speaker 1: I pie, I lookt in that podcast three times because

1719
01:23:46,800 --> 01:23:48,000
Speaker 1: the next thing listening blew of mind.

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01:23:48,320 --> 01:23:48,679
Speaker 3: He said.

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01:23:48,760 --> 01:23:51,080
Speaker 1: Mitt Romney lost the electionends of Barack Obama to don

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01:23:51,080 --> 01:23:54,880
Speaker 1: a total fifty percent of the white votes. Fifty of

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01:23:54,920 --> 01:23:58,679
Speaker 1: the white vote. So Stacy Abram's strategy of just reaching

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01:23:58,720 --> 01:24:02,879
Speaker 1: out to people's color a Latinos, black people and caviating

1725
01:24:02,960 --> 01:24:08,160
Speaker 1: to some white people is what brought people out. Democrats

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01:24:08,360 --> 01:24:12,920
Speaker 1: win when they bring people out to vote. Okay, Republicans

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01:24:12,960 --> 01:24:15,920
Speaker 1: have to jerrymander voter suppressed because by numbers they win,

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01:24:16,080 --> 01:24:18,760
Speaker 1: win so I think with people you guys walize other

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01:24:18,800 --> 01:24:20,880
Speaker 1: people trying to appeal to the white quote unquote white

1730
01:24:20,880 --> 01:24:24,320
Speaker 1: working class, it's doomed to fail. People that inspire people

1731
01:24:24,360 --> 01:24:26,680
Speaker 1: to come out to vote are gonna win. That's why

1732
01:24:26,680 --> 01:24:29,920
Speaker 1: I feel will be lost in a few crucial states

1733
01:24:29,960 --> 01:24:33,400
Speaker 1: because those black people people of color weren't really motivated

1734
01:24:33,479 --> 01:24:36,320
Speaker 1: to come out in Wisconsin and other places which are

1735
01:24:36,360 --> 01:24:40,040
Speaker 1: already victim in Pennsylvania, which are already victims of jerrymandering.

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01:24:40,640 --> 01:24:45,000
Speaker 1: But I love you guys, guys are the best. Please

1737
01:24:45,080 --> 01:24:47,840
Speaker 1: keep keeping on you guys. Give me hope because a

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01:24:47,880 --> 01:24:50,160
Speaker 1: lot of us see to a lot of the Nanticans.

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01:24:50,320 --> 01:24:51,720
Speaker 1: Thank you peace.

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01:24:52,800 --> 01:24:55,960
Speaker 2: Please, And uh yeah, I agree with that. I think

1741
01:24:56,040 --> 01:24:58,439
Speaker 2: the only thing I'm trying to add to it is

1742
01:25:00,920 --> 01:25:04,599
Speaker 2: when people say, well, you win because you have voter

1743
01:25:04,720 --> 01:25:08,520
Speaker 2: turnout from more than just white people. Obviously, the Democratic

1744
01:25:08,560 --> 01:25:11,479
Speaker 2: Party is a big tent. The Republican Party is one

1745
01:25:11,520 --> 01:25:14,720
Speaker 2: of only white people essentially, and the pigmies. Oh did

1746
01:25:14,800 --> 01:25:18,559
Speaker 2: I say that? Of the other races?

1747
01:25:18,680 --> 01:25:18,800
Speaker 3: Right?

1748
01:25:19,000 --> 01:25:20,720
Speaker 2: So you have your gay people that are like, but

1749
01:25:20,800 --> 01:25:24,080
Speaker 2: I'm okay with white supremacy because I'm gay, you know,

1750
01:25:24,400 --> 01:25:27,320
Speaker 2: But I'm over here. You know I'm representing the gays,

1751
01:25:27,320 --> 01:25:29,680
Speaker 2: and it's like, yeah, but you know that most gay

1752
01:25:29,760 --> 01:25:32,920
Speaker 2: people will be hurt by the policies. Hey, I'm over

1753
01:25:32,960 --> 01:25:35,120
Speaker 2: here because we can be Republicans too, and that you

1754
01:25:35,200 --> 01:25:37,160
Speaker 2: go down to chain, you know, black or whatever. Right,

1755
01:25:38,560 --> 01:25:42,280
Speaker 2: here's the thing though, We'll say, well, most of the

1756
01:25:42,360 --> 01:25:45,760
Speaker 2: white people voted for me Romney and even when Obama ran, Yeah,

1757
01:25:45,840 --> 01:25:51,320
Speaker 2: that's true, but some of them did vote for the Democrats.

1758
01:25:52,080 --> 01:25:55,000
Speaker 2: The assumption is that that number will stay static, and

1759
01:25:55,120 --> 01:25:57,840
Speaker 2: I'm not sure that it will, you know, And I

1760
01:25:57,920 --> 01:26:04,160
Speaker 2: think there's something reasonable about questioning that. I don't think

1761
01:26:04,240 --> 01:26:06,840
Speaker 2: it's wrong. I think when you're talking about people's lives,

1762
01:26:07,080 --> 01:26:09,240
Speaker 2: you're talking about policies that will affect the entire country.

1763
01:26:10,120 --> 01:26:13,600
Speaker 2: It's kind of weird to say only the most progressive

1764
01:26:13,640 --> 01:26:17,280
Speaker 2: policies and candidates are and issues are the ones that

1765
01:26:17,400 --> 01:26:20,880
Speaker 2: people want. We don't have proof of that. They're like,

1766
01:26:21,040 --> 01:26:26,040
Speaker 2: we like, we do know that that we like even

1767
01:26:26,120 --> 01:26:28,240
Speaker 2: with the stuff where you say like, well Hillary lost

1768
01:26:28,280 --> 01:26:31,120
Speaker 2: because black people didn't turn out and da da da, Well,

1769
01:26:31,160 --> 01:26:34,440
Speaker 2: also those states have voter suppression. Also, those states had jerrymandering,

1770
01:26:34,560 --> 01:26:37,360
Speaker 2: so like, it's not just simply one thing, you know,

1771
01:26:38,720 --> 01:26:40,639
Speaker 2: I think, and then when you look at what Black

1772
01:26:40,640 --> 01:26:43,800
Speaker 2: people turned out, it was basically like they didn't turn

1773
01:26:43,880 --> 01:26:46,479
Speaker 2: out for her as much as they did for Obama.

1774
01:26:47,120 --> 01:26:49,320
Speaker 2: They still turned out for her more than anybody else

1775
01:26:49,400 --> 01:26:51,640
Speaker 2: before or after that, you know what I'm saying, So

1776
01:26:51,760 --> 01:26:55,000
Speaker 2: that like they still gave more turnout. But I think

1777
01:26:55,040 --> 01:26:57,840
Speaker 2: people thought black people would give Obama level support. Now,

1778
01:26:58,160 --> 01:27:01,040
Speaker 2: I mean, any black person within the know was like,

1779
01:27:01,360 --> 01:27:05,080
Speaker 2: that's not even in the car part of listen with

1780
01:27:05,240 --> 01:27:07,200
Speaker 2: sophistically as black people are and all that shit, we're

1781
01:27:07,200 --> 01:27:09,479
Speaker 2: still human. Part of the reason black Barack Obama got

1782
01:27:09,560 --> 01:27:12,759
Speaker 2: so much of our vote two times because he's black period,

1783
01:27:13,640 --> 01:27:15,840
Speaker 2: you know, like he's black and he's a Democrat. He

1784
01:27:16,040 --> 01:27:18,960
Speaker 2: was getting those votes. Some niggas was like, I'm not

1785
01:27:19,080 --> 01:27:21,560
Speaker 2: doing this for Hillary. And I think one of the

1786
01:27:21,680 --> 01:27:24,400
Speaker 2: things that people haven't reckoned with and may never reckon with,

1787
01:27:24,640 --> 01:27:29,280
Speaker 2: is the fact that Barack Obama was so excellent that

1788
01:27:29,520 --> 01:27:34,600
Speaker 2: there's a lot of liberal anger left over from his candidacy.

1789
01:27:34,920 --> 01:27:37,559
Speaker 2: It is because and they don't realize it. It's sub

1790
01:27:37,720 --> 01:27:39,640
Speaker 2: I think it's this is my own belief system, but

1791
01:27:39,720 --> 01:27:43,920
Speaker 2: I think that it's sub conscious. They don't realize a

1792
01:27:44,040 --> 01:27:46,839
Speaker 2: lot of the demands of the next candidate are honestly

1793
01:27:47,120 --> 01:27:50,080
Speaker 2: just about the fact that they don't feel the same

1794
01:27:50,120 --> 01:27:53,599
Speaker 2: way they felt when Barack Obama was speaking. Right, even

1795
01:27:53,640 --> 01:27:57,240
Speaker 2: when those even those handful of black people and progressive

1796
01:27:57,240 --> 01:28:00,599
Speaker 2: people that just like shit on Obama and stuff, they

1797
01:28:00,720 --> 01:28:04,240
Speaker 2: would they they would never they will never get the

1798
01:28:04,360 --> 01:28:09,120
Speaker 2: candidate that lives up to their online ordeals, their ideals.

1799
01:28:09,160 --> 01:28:12,280
Speaker 2: They'll never get that person. That person doesn't exist, that's

1800
01:28:12,360 --> 01:28:14,360
Speaker 2: just a Twitter profile, that's just a pie in the sky,

1801
01:28:14,520 --> 01:28:17,160
Speaker 2: person that's never made a mistake, has no history of

1802
01:28:17,240 --> 01:28:21,000
Speaker 2: this always pushes the most leftist for liberal policy, and

1803
01:28:21,040 --> 01:28:24,200
Speaker 2: everyone always agrees with them. They think that that that

1804
01:28:24,600 --> 01:28:27,280
Speaker 2: that's what Obama was and he never was that. They

1805
01:28:27,320 --> 01:28:29,920
Speaker 2: think that's what he campaigned on. He didn't, you know.

1806
01:28:30,479 --> 01:28:33,240
Speaker 2: But anyway, all that stuff to say that, Yet I'm

1807
01:28:33,320 --> 01:28:36,960
Speaker 2: not saying that these politicians that keep pushing for the

1808
01:28:37,080 --> 01:28:41,160
Speaker 2: middle and centrics centri shit and we need white people.

1809
01:28:41,240 --> 01:28:42,720
Speaker 2: We don't want them to feel too bad. I'm not

1810
01:28:42,800 --> 01:28:45,639
Speaker 2: saying those people are the future or even the people

1811
01:28:45,680 --> 01:28:47,439
Speaker 2: that make me want to vote for them, because it

1812
01:28:47,520 --> 01:28:49,280
Speaker 2: does it when they do that. To be honest, I

1813
01:28:49,320 --> 01:28:52,400
Speaker 2: think I think most of them go too farward that

1814
01:28:52,479 --> 01:28:55,679
Speaker 2: ship to be frank. All that being said, I don't

1815
01:28:55,720 --> 01:28:58,559
Speaker 2: want anyone to think that you don't need white people

1816
01:28:58,560 --> 01:29:00,760
Speaker 2: to win these fucking elections, because you fucking do, yes,

1817
01:29:00,840 --> 01:29:02,799
Speaker 2: you do. If you tall white people out the equations,

1818
01:29:02,880 --> 01:29:06,120
Speaker 2: you actually don't have the numbers. And white people ain't

1819
01:29:06,160 --> 01:29:09,080
Speaker 2: that woke. Even the ones who vote Democrat are. They

1820
01:29:09,160 --> 01:29:11,160
Speaker 2: all have a limit to the ship that they willing

1821
01:29:11,240 --> 01:29:13,479
Speaker 2: to put up with, all of them because they white

1822
01:29:13,520 --> 01:29:15,720
Speaker 2: and they have white privilege. So even while you keep

1823
01:29:15,760 --> 01:29:17,800
Speaker 2: pushing them and pushing them and pushing them, there's a

1824
01:29:17,880 --> 01:29:19,840
Speaker 2: point where they go, emn, I'm not doing this shit

1825
01:29:19,920 --> 01:29:22,800
Speaker 2: no more. I gave it a shot, but now there's

1826
01:29:22,840 --> 01:29:24,960
Speaker 2: nothing I can do right. Everything is my fault. I'm

1827
01:29:25,000 --> 01:29:25,840
Speaker 2: fucking out right.

1828
01:29:25,920 --> 01:29:28,280
Speaker 3: And that's why the ball we go forward, we go back.

1829
01:29:28,479 --> 01:29:30,040
Speaker 3: That's why we go forward and we go back. We

1830
01:29:30,120 --> 01:29:31,000
Speaker 3: go forward, we go back.

1831
01:29:31,360 --> 01:29:35,160
Speaker 4: And the thing is, but like this, I understand that

1832
01:29:36,080 --> 01:29:38,840
Speaker 4: when it comes to white people in a totality, I

1833
01:29:39,000 --> 01:29:41,880
Speaker 4: understand I'm even like this to an extent, Why people go, well,

1834
01:29:41,880 --> 01:29:43,000
Speaker 4: why do we got to explain?

1835
01:29:43,120 --> 01:29:45,559
Speaker 3: And don't I don't want to be in your your

1836
01:29:45,680 --> 01:29:46,479
Speaker 3: mule and all that stuff.

1837
01:29:46,520 --> 01:29:48,439
Speaker 4: I understand that, but guess what, that's fucking work that

1838
01:29:48,520 --> 01:29:50,600
Speaker 4: needs to be done, and we need to admit that

1839
01:29:50,800 --> 01:29:54,519
Speaker 4: work needs to be done by some by the it

1840
01:29:54,640 --> 01:29:57,240
Speaker 4: has got to be done. Be it about white people,

1841
01:29:57,439 --> 01:29:59,400
Speaker 4: be it about black people. I don't give a fuck.

1842
01:29:59,479 --> 01:30:01,439
Speaker 4: The work is have to be done. You don't have

1843
01:30:01,520 --> 01:30:03,479
Speaker 4: to do it, but it needs to be done in

1844
01:30:03,680 --> 01:30:07,200
Speaker 4: order to fishing forward because nobody, not even black people,

1845
01:30:07,200 --> 01:30:08,760
Speaker 4: want to be shitting on all the time. That's why

1846
01:30:08,760 --> 01:30:10,479
Speaker 4: we're angry because we go y'all keep shitting on us.

1847
01:30:10,520 --> 01:30:12,960
Speaker 4: Y'all keep shitting on us. White people don't human too,

1848
01:30:13,240 --> 01:30:15,120
Speaker 4: So you can't be like you ain't shit. There's nothing

1849
01:30:15,160 --> 01:30:16,720
Speaker 4: you can do is write fuck you, fuck you, fuck you,

1850
01:30:16,800 --> 01:30:18,120
Speaker 4: fuck you, fuck you, fuck you and.

1851
01:30:18,280 --> 01:30:21,360
Speaker 3: Not expect them to turn. That's unrealistic.

1852
01:30:22,280 --> 01:30:25,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, And so all this to say, I don't want

1853
01:30:25,520 --> 01:30:29,519
Speaker 2: or expect politicians to cater their entire message towards white people.

1854
01:30:29,680 --> 01:30:33,960
Speaker 2: I don't like Bernie Sanders white working class bullshit. At

1855
01:30:34,000 --> 01:30:36,280
Speaker 2: the same time, I just do understand that there's a

1856
01:30:36,400 --> 01:30:38,439
Speaker 2: certain level of shit. I can say on my Twitter

1857
01:30:38,520 --> 01:30:41,000
Speaker 2: account that I don't expect any of these politicians to

1858
01:30:41,000 --> 01:30:43,439
Speaker 2: be able to fucking say it's just like, this is

1859
01:30:43,479 --> 01:30:46,320
Speaker 2: the reality of the shit, you know, And there is

1860
01:30:46,400 --> 01:30:48,080
Speaker 2: a level you can go to the where you can

1861
01:30:48,160 --> 01:30:51,720
Speaker 2: be so Twitter popular that you're unpopular when it comes

1862
01:30:51,720 --> 01:30:54,479
Speaker 2: to actual getting votes in real life. Yes, and some

1863
01:30:54,640 --> 01:30:57,120
Speaker 2: of these politicians are starting to run up against that shit,

1864
01:30:57,240 --> 01:30:59,720
Speaker 2: and y'all gonna see how it works out, man, Like.

1865
01:31:00,040 --> 01:31:02,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, because we it's gonna be bidden and Sanders is

1866
01:31:02,680 --> 01:31:03,720
Speaker 3: going to be who we're voting for.

1867
01:31:04,280 --> 01:31:06,160
Speaker 2: I'd love to be wrong, by the way. I love

1868
01:31:06,240 --> 01:31:09,000
Speaker 2: to be like, you know, there's a politician out here

1869
01:31:09,080 --> 01:31:11,320
Speaker 2: being like, fuck these white people, and white people are

1870
01:31:11,360 --> 01:31:13,360
Speaker 2: still gonna vote for them at the same clip that

1871
01:31:13,400 --> 01:31:16,960
Speaker 2: they voted for the other people. I love to But

1872
01:31:17,080 --> 01:31:19,000
Speaker 2: I don't think anything about the history of this country

1873
01:31:19,400 --> 01:31:22,000
Speaker 2: has proven that I should feel confident in that. And

1874
01:31:22,080 --> 01:31:27,599
Speaker 2: if you feel differently, man, you know, then I feel

1875
01:31:27,640 --> 01:31:30,720
Speaker 2: you're operating on three which is fine. But I don't

1876
01:31:30,720 --> 01:31:32,639
Speaker 2: think we've made it there as a country yet.

1877
01:31:32,960 --> 01:31:35,160
Speaker 4: No, we're not progressive as a country as people think

1878
01:31:35,240 --> 01:31:38,160
Speaker 4: we are, Like they're living it own bubbles. I'm progressive, okay,

1879
01:31:38,360 --> 01:31:41,040
Speaker 4: You individual person are progressive and the people you hang

1880
01:31:41,120 --> 01:31:42,400
Speaker 4: around are progressive.

1881
01:31:42,439 --> 01:31:44,640
Speaker 3: But if you pop that bubble and step outside.

1882
01:31:44,320 --> 01:31:47,439
Speaker 4: To the real world, the average person, even the average

1883
01:31:47,439 --> 01:31:49,880
Speaker 4: black person, ain't that progressive. They won't changes, but they

1884
01:31:49,920 --> 01:31:54,320
Speaker 4: want small changes. They don't want these big, slend sweeping

1885
01:31:54,479 --> 01:31:57,120
Speaker 4: changes that you want a lot of times in these bubbles.

1886
01:31:57,720 --> 01:32:00,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just know that. You know, I was reading

1887
01:32:00,600 --> 01:32:03,719
Speaker 2: somebody I cannot remember who said it, but I agree

1888
01:32:03,760 --> 01:32:06,679
Speaker 2: with it. When I saw it. It was they said,

1889
01:32:08,640 --> 01:32:11,680
Speaker 2: don't mistake your country for your Twitter feed. Come on,

1890
01:32:12,200 --> 01:32:14,240
Speaker 2: And I say that cautionary because I feel like I

1891
01:32:14,400 --> 01:32:17,360
Speaker 2: was doing that not so long ago, where I was like, oh, no,

1892
01:32:17,520 --> 01:32:19,439
Speaker 2: this is what people want, and then I look at

1893
01:32:19,520 --> 01:32:20,960
Speaker 2: real life and I'm like, why the fuck is in

1894
01:32:21,000 --> 01:32:25,040
Speaker 2: it matching up? Everyone I know wants this thing. Everyone

1895
01:32:25,120 --> 01:32:27,920
Speaker 2: I know cares about this topic. And then when I go,

1896
01:32:28,479 --> 01:32:30,880
Speaker 2: you know, when I'm not online, no one cares about

1897
01:32:30,920 --> 01:32:35,920
Speaker 2: that topic. I'll give you a perfect example, sex worker rights. Right.

1898
01:32:36,240 --> 01:32:38,640
Speaker 2: This is something that to me, I'm like, yeah, we

1899
01:32:38,680 --> 01:32:44,640
Speaker 2: should legalize prostitution. Sex work should be we have to

1900
01:32:44,680 --> 01:32:48,240
Speaker 2: protect the people within that industry, and it's gonna happen anyway,

1901
01:32:48,600 --> 01:32:51,519
Speaker 2: so we might as well regulate it because we're actually

1902
01:32:51,640 --> 01:32:55,799
Speaker 2: killing more people and causing more ability to traffic victims

1903
01:32:55,840 --> 01:32:58,120
Speaker 2: and shit like this because we don't regulate it, sir,

1904
01:32:58,200 --> 01:33:00,360
Speaker 2: and because we just like to turn our turn our

1905
01:33:00,520 --> 01:33:02,800
Speaker 2: odds to it like it's not happening. And we also

1906
01:33:02,960 --> 01:33:10,040
Speaker 2: know that being harshly punitive on the sex workers or

1907
01:33:10,120 --> 01:33:12,879
Speaker 2: the giants doesn't actually stop it. People have an impulse

1908
01:33:12,960 --> 01:33:15,320
Speaker 2: to have sex and there are people that need money,

1909
01:33:15,360 --> 01:33:18,839
Speaker 2: and it's gonna always exist in every single country this exists.

1910
01:33:19,600 --> 01:33:22,160
Speaker 2: This isn't a moral issue, this isn't a religious issue.

1911
01:33:22,760 --> 01:33:24,679
Speaker 2: None of that stuff can fix the fact that it's

1912
01:33:24,760 --> 01:33:26,519
Speaker 2: going to happen. So we can either be denied and

1913
01:33:26,600 --> 01:33:29,400
Speaker 2: denial about it and create a criminal justice system that

1914
01:33:29,520 --> 01:33:31,919
Speaker 2: is fed by the fact that people have this impulse

1915
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Speaker 2: and we'll pay this money and we've made it illegal,

1916
01:33:34,680 --> 01:33:36,680
Speaker 2: or we can do like Reno, Nevada and you just

1917
01:33:36,760 --> 01:33:38,880
Speaker 2: go ahead and say, listen, here's these places that are

1918
01:33:39,000 --> 01:33:42,080
Speaker 2: like license areas where you can have sex. And this

1919
01:33:42,240 --> 01:33:44,320
Speaker 2: is how we regulate things. Where we can make sure

1920
01:33:44,360 --> 01:33:46,920
Speaker 2: people are using protection. We can make sure people are

1921
01:33:47,040 --> 01:33:49,400
Speaker 2: not being violent, we can make sure that people aren't

1922
01:33:49,400 --> 01:33:51,799
Speaker 2: getting killed, we can make sure that people aren't being trafficked,

1923
01:33:52,960 --> 01:33:55,720
Speaker 2: right like we can regulate these things, and now it's

1924
01:33:55,760 --> 01:33:59,000
Speaker 2: a lot healthier it exists. Yeah, if you're some moral

1925
01:33:59,080 --> 01:34:01,880
Speaker 2: puritandor person and whatever, it's sure you'll feel bad about it,

1926
01:34:02,120 --> 01:34:04,280
Speaker 2: but be happy now you have more shit to rail against,

1927
01:34:04,360 --> 01:34:07,280
Speaker 2: like you fucking always do about abortion and whatever other

1928
01:34:07,400 --> 01:34:09,320
Speaker 2: things that you know you get mad at. Like now

1929
01:34:09,360 --> 01:34:11,760
Speaker 2: you get to fucking feel persecuted because you didn't get

1930
01:34:11,800 --> 01:34:14,160
Speaker 2: to dictate to the rest of the fucking country how

1931
01:34:14,200 --> 01:34:18,240
Speaker 2: to live. But the point is, these things are gonna happen,

1932
01:34:18,760 --> 01:34:22,040
Speaker 2: and that's a huge issue online. Like a lot of

1933
01:34:22,080 --> 01:34:24,040
Speaker 2: people I know that didn't fuck with Kamala Harris will

1934
01:34:24,240 --> 01:34:27,839
Speaker 2: decite like her work with you know, she wasn't progressive

1935
01:34:27,960 --> 01:34:31,160
Speaker 2: enough when it comes to sex trafficking work da da dah. Right, Okay, cool.

1936
01:34:32,439 --> 01:34:34,519
Speaker 2: No one asked her about that in the debate, Mmm,

1937
01:34:35,360 --> 01:34:37,560
Speaker 2: no one. They don't even really ask her about it

1938
01:34:37,640 --> 01:34:42,120
Speaker 2: in interviews. Nope, because no one really cares outside of

1939
01:34:42,200 --> 01:34:44,920
Speaker 2: the people are following on social media. That is not

1940
01:34:45,120 --> 01:34:47,599
Speaker 2: to tell them they're not important, that is to say

1941
01:34:47,720 --> 01:34:50,560
Speaker 2: that in my mind, I'm like, well, this is a

1942
01:34:50,920 --> 01:34:52,880
Speaker 2: this is a big issue. She's never gonna get out

1943
01:34:52,880 --> 01:34:56,120
Speaker 2: of the gate. That was that's not what happened. She

1944
01:34:56,360 --> 01:34:59,120
Speaker 2: was fine, And there's a ton of other shit like that.

1945
01:34:59,640 --> 01:35:02,880
Speaker 2: That is the political minutia that these fucking policy want

1946
01:35:03,000 --> 01:35:06,000
Speaker 2: people get, or these single issue people they get like

1947
01:35:06,320 --> 01:35:09,120
Speaker 2: this is the problem, and then you look and you

1948
01:35:09,280 --> 01:35:12,120
Speaker 2: go all these politicians had the same fucking policy as

1949
01:35:12,160 --> 01:35:16,160
Speaker 2: Kamala Harris. So you were just literally shitting only on

1950
01:35:16,320 --> 01:35:18,880
Speaker 2: her when the other people won't come out and be like,

1951
01:35:19,000 --> 01:35:22,000
Speaker 2: we need to decriminalize sex work either, you know, like

1952
01:35:22,560 --> 01:35:24,560
Speaker 2: maybe one or two of them have now, but not

1953
01:35:24,760 --> 01:35:28,080
Speaker 2: over the years that y'all been shitting on. Like there's

1954
01:35:28,160 --> 01:35:30,960
Speaker 2: something to the fact that this isn't congruent with the

1955
01:35:31,040 --> 01:35:35,080
Speaker 2: real world, and I think people need to accept that. Anyway,

1956
01:35:35,160 --> 01:35:37,559
Speaker 2: Let's get into the emails blackout tips at gmail dot com.

1957
01:35:39,160 --> 01:35:44,479
Speaker 2: First of all, I got a gift, okay, Michelle went

1958
01:35:44,560 --> 01:35:48,679
Speaker 2: to our Amazon wish list. Ye because listen, guys, Okay,

1959
01:35:48,880 --> 01:35:50,479
Speaker 2: this is a feedback show so that you are the

1960
01:35:50,560 --> 01:35:53,519
Speaker 2: real important fans. Most of these niggas don't listen. Not most.

1961
01:35:53,600 --> 01:35:55,360
Speaker 2: There's some niggas that don't listen to this, and I'm

1962
01:35:55,439 --> 01:35:58,639
Speaker 2: glad they're not gonna hear this. Okay, we are sending

1963
01:35:58,680 --> 01:36:03,680
Speaker 2: people Christmas cards. Okay, we got holiday cards right here.

1964
01:36:04,439 --> 01:36:06,519
Speaker 2: We will send them you one. What do you have

1965
01:36:06,600 --> 01:36:08,280
Speaker 2: to do to get it? Do I have to send

1966
01:36:08,280 --> 01:36:11,720
Speaker 2: yourself addressed up envelope? Not even all you have to do.

1967
01:36:11,800 --> 01:36:14,240
Speaker 2: If you want a holiday card from me and Karen is,

1968
01:36:14,360 --> 01:36:16,760
Speaker 2: email us to black guy who tips at gmail dot com.

1969
01:36:17,280 --> 01:36:21,360
Speaker 2: Put your mailing address in the email. Please put your

1970
01:36:21,439 --> 01:36:23,320
Speaker 2: name with the melon address because some of y'all be

1971
01:36:23,479 --> 01:36:26,760
Speaker 2: emailing me from like you know, swagger Stank sixty nine

1972
01:36:27,200 --> 01:36:29,880
Speaker 2: and here's my meiling address with no name. I need

1973
01:36:29,960 --> 01:36:31,880
Speaker 2: your name too. I would like to put your name

1974
01:36:31,960 --> 01:36:34,120
Speaker 2: on it, but I have to put this out the

1975
01:36:34,240 --> 01:36:36,240
Speaker 2: big Tenny twelve. You know what I'm saying. When I

1976
01:36:36,320 --> 01:36:37,160
Speaker 2: go to the post.

1977
01:36:37,040 --> 01:36:38,920
Speaker 3: Office, you look at it and it's just been like

1978
01:36:39,000 --> 01:36:40,639
Speaker 3: your your Twitter name.

1979
01:36:41,080 --> 01:36:45,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, but email us your mailing address. We'll mail you

1980
01:36:45,200 --> 01:36:47,840
Speaker 2: the cards. Okay. We like to we you know, this

1981
01:36:48,040 --> 01:36:53,200
Speaker 2: costs us money. It doesn't do anything really, It is

1982
01:36:53,240 --> 01:36:56,759
Speaker 2: a loss of money for us Jim to do this, Okay,

1983
01:36:57,000 --> 01:36:59,560
Speaker 2: but we like to spread the chair. We like to

1984
01:36:59,720 --> 01:37:03,080
Speaker 2: let you guys know we're appreciative, we're thankful, and we

1985
01:37:03,200 --> 01:37:05,680
Speaker 2: wish you happy holiday. So if you would like the

1986
01:37:05,800 --> 01:37:08,759
Speaker 2: holiday card from US, and it's a very beautiful card

1987
01:37:08,880 --> 01:37:11,759
Speaker 2: this year, and there's all kinds of little cute stickers

1988
01:37:11,800 --> 01:37:15,679
Speaker 2: and stuff on it and this year and limited quality,

1989
01:37:15,880 --> 01:37:19,760
Speaker 2: limited quantities only. I also have some stickers, so the

1990
01:37:19,840 --> 01:37:23,200
Speaker 2: first I don't know how many stickers until I run out.

1991
01:37:23,280 --> 01:37:27,400
Speaker 2: You guys will get stickers in your in your envelope

1992
01:37:27,400 --> 01:37:29,679
Speaker 2: and you can love. You can stick it on something,

1993
01:37:29,800 --> 01:37:32,679
Speaker 2: stick it on your cubicles, stick it on your car,

1994
01:37:33,000 --> 01:37:35,920
Speaker 2: stick it on wherever the fuck you want to stick things. Okay,

1995
01:37:36,840 --> 01:37:39,960
Speaker 2: and just and then we'll you know, take pictures of

1996
01:37:40,000 --> 01:37:41,400
Speaker 2: it and send it to us on Twitter and stuff.

1997
01:37:41,400 --> 01:37:44,599
Speaker 2: We love that kind of stuff. So anyway, we also

1998
01:37:44,640 --> 01:37:46,960
Speaker 2: have an Amazon wish list. I'll put all this stuff

1999
01:37:46,960 --> 01:37:49,200
Speaker 2: in the show notes, meiling the dress, Amazon wishless stuff

2000
01:37:49,280 --> 01:37:53,040
Speaker 2: like that. And someone, Nachelle bought me a book on

2001
01:37:53,120 --> 01:37:55,720
Speaker 2: the wish list. You're Rod and Karen. I saw this

2002
01:37:55,840 --> 01:37:57,560
Speaker 2: book on your wish list and wanted to pay to

2003
01:37:57,600 --> 01:37:59,519
Speaker 2: purchase it for you. Thank you for all that you do.

2004
01:38:00,000 --> 01:38:01,800
Speaker 2: I hope you enjoyed the book, Nachelle. And it's I

2005
01:38:01,920 --> 01:38:06,800
Speaker 2: Can't Date Jesus by Michael Arsenal. I saw him on

2006
01:38:08,280 --> 01:38:10,680
Speaker 2: I saw him on Deesus and Meryl back when they

2007
01:38:10,760 --> 01:38:12,880
Speaker 2: was on Vice okay, and they interview him and he

2008
01:38:13,040 --> 01:38:17,599
Speaker 2: was very funny. And also because I want to add

2009
01:38:17,720 --> 01:38:20,120
Speaker 2: a little bit more funny and humor books to my

2010
01:38:20,439 --> 01:38:22,400
Speaker 2: reading Rainbow segments, so I was like, oh, I should

2011
01:38:22,439 --> 01:38:25,400
Speaker 2: probably add some funny shit. And I noticed that there's

2012
01:38:25,520 --> 01:38:28,280
Speaker 2: not a lot of funny shit on that black people

2013
01:38:28,320 --> 01:38:31,280
Speaker 2: are writing on these on the at least not on

2014
01:38:31,360 --> 01:38:33,360
Speaker 2: Amazon and stuff. There's a lot of serious shit, a

2015
01:38:33,400 --> 01:38:35,840
Speaker 2: lot of race stuff, a lot of like let me

2016
01:38:35,920 --> 01:38:38,640
Speaker 2: explain to you black feminism or something. But I'm like,

2017
01:38:38,720 --> 01:38:42,599
Speaker 2: what about fun you know, like by people that aren't

2018
01:38:42,640 --> 01:38:44,120
Speaker 2: like comedians and stuff right now?

2019
01:38:44,200 --> 01:38:45,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the thing you're finding bout comedians.

2020
01:38:45,880 --> 01:38:49,240
Speaker 2: Yes, So yeah, I would ahead and thank you so much.

2021
01:38:49,479 --> 01:38:52,960
Speaker 2: It's on the list I'm at. Brandon says, love y'all,

2022
01:38:53,000 --> 01:38:55,160
Speaker 2: how y'all doing? Just want to show some love and appreciation.

2023
01:38:55,520 --> 01:38:57,680
Speaker 2: You guys are very thought provoking, the inspirational. I've been

2024
01:38:57,720 --> 01:38:59,960
Speaker 2: married three years. I only hope to have the lone

2025
01:39:00,040 --> 01:39:02,599
Speaker 2: jet you guys have. You guys give me great debating

2026
01:39:02,640 --> 01:39:04,280
Speaker 2: points for my weekly cigar group.

2027
01:39:04,640 --> 01:39:04,840
Speaker 3: Rod.

2028
01:39:04,920 --> 01:39:07,519
Speaker 2: I'm also a lefty left handers U night. Yes, sir,

2029
01:39:08,160 --> 01:39:10,960
Speaker 2: I would love to hear you guys link up with

2030
01:39:11,160 --> 01:39:14,439
Speaker 2: wear my forty acres podcast. Happy holidays, Thanks again, Brandon.

2031
01:39:15,080 --> 01:39:17,840
Speaker 2: You know, I will see what I can do about that.

2032
01:39:18,000 --> 01:39:18,200
Speaker 4: I know.

2033
01:39:19,000 --> 01:39:21,439
Speaker 2: You know, we all kind of came up together at

2034
01:39:21,439 --> 01:39:23,160
Speaker 2: the same time back in the day when it was

2035
01:39:23,160 --> 01:39:24,519
Speaker 2: a wild while West. So we used to always go

2036
01:39:24,600 --> 01:39:28,559
Speaker 2: on each other shows and shit. But busy and yeah, yeah,

2037
01:39:28,720 --> 01:39:31,880
Speaker 2: now we always end up we.

2038
01:39:31,960 --> 01:39:33,200
Speaker 3: Were called on fairs days.

2039
01:39:33,640 --> 01:39:36,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, we always end up recording at different times and shit.

2040
01:39:36,520 --> 01:39:38,280
Speaker 2: So I'll see what I can do. We can figure

2041
01:39:38,360 --> 01:39:44,040
Speaker 2: something out. So yeah, let's get to the next email. Uh,

2042
01:39:44,280 --> 01:39:46,519
Speaker 2: this is mega late. This is by Amber, who says

2043
01:39:46,600 --> 01:39:48,400
Speaker 2: I meant to send this when y'all were talking about

2044
01:39:48,400 --> 01:39:51,400
Speaker 2: Steven A. Smith and that white guy. That white guy.

2045
01:39:51,600 --> 01:39:54,200
Speaker 2: Is that what we're doing to our God? Max Kellerman,

2046
01:39:55,040 --> 01:39:59,240
Speaker 2: mister the gotta be leading the league and the concurrent

2047
01:39:59,320 --> 01:40:02,200
Speaker 2: invites to the to the cookout come on now, and

2048
01:40:02,320 --> 01:40:04,519
Speaker 2: that white guy. I hope it's still funny. Miss you guys,

2049
01:40:04,600 --> 01:40:07,800
Speaker 2: and hope you enjoy your well deserved break. Yeah, and

2050
01:40:07,920 --> 01:40:10,439
Speaker 2: it was someone took Steven A. Smith's picture.

2051
01:40:10,560 --> 01:40:11,599
Speaker 3: Oh what is happening here?

2052
01:40:12,320 --> 01:40:15,920
Speaker 2: And basically photoshopped me to being a white man and

2053
01:40:16,120 --> 01:40:19,519
Speaker 2: photoshop Max Keller me into a black man. That says

2054
01:40:19,640 --> 01:40:22,080
Speaker 2: after watching Kaepernick debate, this is what I see when

2055
01:40:22,080 --> 01:40:26,040
Speaker 2: I watch first take. Oh man, I feel so. I

2056
01:40:26,200 --> 01:40:28,439
Speaker 2: know I'm not supposed to, but man, I feel bad

2057
01:40:28,479 --> 01:40:33,000
Speaker 2: for Steven A. I know I shouldn't, but here I am, Guys,

2058
01:40:33,640 --> 01:40:34,720
Speaker 2: I'm being understanding.

2059
01:40:35,800 --> 01:40:36,840
Speaker 3: How dare you, sir?

2060
01:40:37,439 --> 01:40:39,599
Speaker 2: Yeah? The thing I want to say about Stephen A Man,

2061
01:40:39,760 --> 01:40:44,759
Speaker 2: there's an episode of the podcast called It's a podcast

2062
01:40:44,840 --> 01:40:47,959
Speaker 2: called All the Smoke. Karen put me on this podcast.

2063
01:40:48,040 --> 01:40:51,799
Speaker 2: It's got Matt Barnes and Steven Jackson doing a podcast

2064
01:40:51,880 --> 01:40:55,479
Speaker 2: and have different guests on the latest episode has Stephen A.

2065
01:40:55,600 --> 01:41:00,160
Speaker 2: Smith on it. And I would hope the people go

2066
01:41:00,320 --> 01:41:03,280
Speaker 2: listen to that because I saw on Twitter where they

2067
01:41:03,320 --> 01:41:08,880
Speaker 2: were that resist Programming account, which I'm still not I know,

2068
01:41:09,080 --> 01:41:11,679
Speaker 2: I know, I know if you probably think I'm trimming,

2069
01:41:11,760 --> 01:41:14,120
Speaker 2: but I'm not sure that some on that account is

2070
01:41:14,160 --> 01:41:17,559
Speaker 2: not right. Some on that account is not right. I'm

2071
01:41:17,600 --> 01:41:20,400
Speaker 2: not saying it's not real, but something about it's not

2072
01:41:22,600 --> 01:41:25,680
Speaker 2: it's not all the way real, you know what I'm saying. Like, So,

2073
01:41:25,840 --> 01:41:29,880
Speaker 2: I hope people you know, I hope people check it out.

2074
01:41:29,960 --> 01:41:34,160
Speaker 2: But yeah, on Stephenatesmith on first take, uh t O

2075
01:41:34,280 --> 01:41:36,960
Speaker 2: went on there and he said something to the fact

2076
01:41:37,040 --> 01:41:39,200
Speaker 2: and him and him and Steven Nate Smith a really

2077
01:41:39,600 --> 01:41:43,400
Speaker 2: long term relationship, good friends, but they disagree on this,

2078
01:41:44,040 --> 01:41:47,479
Speaker 2: and he basically implied that Max is the black guy

2079
01:41:47,640 --> 01:41:50,640
Speaker 2: and Steven Aatesmith is the white guy in this, and

2080
01:41:51,120 --> 01:41:53,719
Speaker 2: I mean, one, that's what That's kind of what happens

2081
01:41:53,720 --> 01:41:55,719
Speaker 2: when you have a guy like Terrell Owens as your friend.

2082
01:41:56,360 --> 01:41:58,240
Speaker 2: He's kind of he can be a snake in the

2083
01:41:58,280 --> 01:42:02,920
Speaker 2: grass like that, and it's kind of you know, and

2084
01:42:03,080 --> 01:42:05,280
Speaker 2: so people started running with that and shit, and I'm like,

2085
01:42:05,360 --> 01:42:07,479
Speaker 2: y'all don't even really like too most of the time anyway,

2086
01:42:07,560 --> 01:42:10,559
Speaker 2: but okay, he's agreeing with y'all on this, and we're all,

2087
01:42:10,800 --> 01:42:12,880
Speaker 2: you know, shitting on stephen A. So it's okay. But

2088
01:42:13,920 --> 01:42:16,840
Speaker 2: on the podcast, it was like a thirty second clip

2089
01:42:17,000 --> 01:42:19,479
Speaker 2: or so that was put on the Resist program and

2090
01:42:19,520 --> 01:42:22,320
Speaker 2: Twitter account, and people have been retweeting in and sharing

2091
01:42:22,400 --> 01:42:24,960
Speaker 2: it to be like, see Stephen A. Smith, this proves,

2092
01:42:25,200 --> 01:42:27,240
Speaker 2: you know, he was on the wrong side and collusion

2093
01:42:27,360 --> 01:42:30,080
Speaker 2: with the NFL and stuff. And so when I see

2094
01:42:30,080 --> 01:42:32,160
Speaker 2: stuff like that a lot of times. It makes me

2095
01:42:32,240 --> 01:42:33,960
Speaker 2: want to go see the whole thing. Now, I know

2096
01:42:34,080 --> 01:42:37,080
Speaker 2: most people never will. You know, it's just the nature.

2097
01:42:37,240 --> 01:42:40,479
Speaker 2: We don't have time. It's a short clip. It goes

2098
01:42:40,560 --> 01:42:42,800
Speaker 2: right into what you think about the guy already, so

2099
01:42:42,920 --> 01:42:46,479
Speaker 2: you just share it with no other no other context,

2100
01:42:46,560 --> 01:42:48,680
Speaker 2: and you just go see, he's a bad person, right.

2101
01:42:48,960 --> 01:42:50,920
Speaker 2: So I went and listen to it, and it was

2102
01:42:51,000 --> 01:42:53,200
Speaker 2: one of the better interviews I've heard in a long time.

2103
01:42:54,720 --> 01:42:56,720
Speaker 2: It wasn't just about the Kaepernick shit, but it was

2104
01:42:56,720 --> 01:43:00,960
Speaker 2: a lot about just his life and his life, his

2105
01:43:01,120 --> 01:43:04,639
Speaker 2: own belief system and how, you know, how he operates

2106
01:43:04,680 --> 01:43:08,439
Speaker 2: in the world. And I'm telling you, man it. I

2107
01:43:08,479 --> 01:43:11,960
Speaker 2: don't know if everyone's gonna get there or whatever. I

2108
01:43:12,000 --> 01:43:15,519
Speaker 2: don't expect everyone to agree, but there is a certain

2109
01:43:15,800 --> 01:43:20,599
Speaker 2: level of deference that I do show to older black

2110
01:43:20,680 --> 01:43:24,160
Speaker 2: people who are trying to mentor younger people on the

2111
01:43:24,200 --> 01:43:27,040
Speaker 2: ways of the world. And it's not coming from the

2112
01:43:27,120 --> 01:43:31,000
Speaker 2: coon place that people call it right there, And it's

2113
01:43:31,120 --> 01:43:34,960
Speaker 2: like only when I go online is it like that

2114
01:43:35,120 --> 01:43:38,960
Speaker 2: doesn't exist. But in real life, we do know these people.

2115
01:43:39,000 --> 01:43:41,720
Speaker 2: They're are elders. We respect them. We don't have to

2116
01:43:41,800 --> 01:43:44,880
Speaker 2: do what they say. But we understand that they watch

2117
01:43:45,000 --> 01:43:48,479
Speaker 2: us make their mistakes and we and we watch them

2118
01:43:48,680 --> 01:43:50,880
Speaker 2: give us advice that work for them that wouldn't work

2119
01:43:50,920 --> 01:43:53,280
Speaker 2: for us. It's just part of the it's part of

2120
01:43:53,360 --> 01:43:56,960
Speaker 2: the diaspora. It's part of the process. And you don't

2121
01:43:57,120 --> 01:44:00,240
Speaker 2: like necessarily throw those people out or disown them because

2122
01:44:00,280 --> 01:44:04,640
Speaker 2: y'all disagreed about something. But the imposts that we have

2123
01:44:04,920 --> 01:44:08,679
Speaker 2: now to just like completely throw everything about a person

2124
01:44:08,760 --> 01:44:12,080
Speaker 2: out because of one area where we just don't see

2125
01:44:12,120 --> 01:44:15,560
Speaker 2: out of eye. It's not something about It is not

2126
01:44:15,880 --> 01:44:19,759
Speaker 2: healthy and it's very artificial, especially because it's an illusion

2127
01:44:19,800 --> 01:44:23,040
Speaker 2: of power that we don't really have because these people

2128
01:44:23,200 --> 01:44:26,160
Speaker 2: exist around your fucking Thanksgiving table too, and you're not.

2129
01:44:26,800 --> 01:44:28,720
Speaker 2: You can't stop that, you know what I mean. Like,

2130
01:44:29,160 --> 01:44:32,280
Speaker 2: I'm not talking about some antiquated, like bigoted point of view.

2131
01:44:32,280 --> 01:44:35,000
Speaker 2: I'm talking about shit like that one uncle that tells you,

2132
01:44:35,080 --> 01:44:36,519
Speaker 2: now you know you ain't gonna be getting no jobs

2133
01:44:36,600 --> 01:44:39,160
Speaker 2: he cut them dreads off. Yeah, you might get annoyed,

2134
01:44:39,200 --> 01:44:41,120
Speaker 2: you might bristle every time you see the nigga, But

2135
01:44:41,240 --> 01:44:44,680
Speaker 2: at the same time, Unk loves you. He's not just

2136
01:44:45,280 --> 01:44:48,880
Speaker 2: he's not saying that to fucking like belittle you as

2137
01:44:48,920 --> 01:44:51,640
Speaker 2: a black person. He's not even saying that. When a

2138
01:44:51,720 --> 01:44:53,920
Speaker 2: white person says cut your dress, and when unk says

2139
01:44:54,000 --> 01:44:56,599
Speaker 2: cut your dreads, we know that those come from two

2140
01:44:56,680 --> 01:44:59,080
Speaker 2: different places because the white person could give a fuck

2141
01:44:59,120 --> 01:45:01,320
Speaker 2: about you. White person's like, don't cut your dreads. I

2142
01:45:01,320 --> 01:45:02,960
Speaker 2: don't give a fuck. You get a job, And your

2143
01:45:03,080 --> 01:45:04,960
Speaker 2: uncle's like, man, if you have a hard time getting

2144
01:45:05,000 --> 01:45:07,560
Speaker 2: a job, you know you should consider that you know

2145
01:45:07,800 --> 01:45:09,920
Speaker 2: or whatever, you know your uncle that that shit's on

2146
01:45:10,040 --> 01:45:13,200
Speaker 2: you for wearing tight pants or whatever, like yes, online

2147
01:45:13,280 --> 01:45:15,360
Speaker 2: you can do the like, well, listen, I'm for the

2148
01:45:16,000 --> 01:45:18,400
Speaker 2: you know this is just I don't know something whatever

2149
01:45:18,520 --> 01:45:20,400
Speaker 2: words that we got, you know, this is just another

2150
01:45:20,479 --> 01:45:22,679
Speaker 2: form of blah blah blah. But then in real life,

2151
01:45:22,800 --> 01:45:25,360
Speaker 2: you know, you cut up with uncles like hey boy,

2152
01:45:25,400 --> 01:45:27,760
Speaker 2: you wearing them tight jeans? Watch see you with them?

2153
01:45:28,080 --> 01:45:30,200
Speaker 2: What you're wearing some leggings And it's like he has

2154
01:45:30,320 --> 01:45:32,519
Speaker 2: stay with you, laugh at it. You know what I'm saying.

2155
01:45:32,600 --> 01:45:35,960
Speaker 2: And I think that, And I'm not trying to make

2156
01:45:35,960 --> 01:45:38,640
Speaker 2: Steve A the hell I'm a down, but I just

2157
01:45:38,720 --> 01:45:41,599
Speaker 2: feel like there's something being missed into Steven A shit,

2158
01:45:41,720 --> 01:45:45,800
Speaker 2: because I saw, like Jamel Hill shared the tweet where

2159
01:45:45,920 --> 01:45:49,280
Speaker 2: like you had the biggest person in on ESPN saying

2160
01:45:49,360 --> 01:45:52,400
Speaker 2: that he tried to help the league coordinate this Da

2161
01:45:52,479 --> 01:45:56,320
Speaker 2: da da da, And I'm like, wow, that's a colleague

2162
01:45:56,400 --> 01:45:59,160
Speaker 2: and you know, maybe former colleague and friend or whatever.

2163
01:45:59,200 --> 01:46:02,000
Speaker 2: I don't know that relation, but I was like, damn,

2164
01:46:02,320 --> 01:46:05,920
Speaker 2: Like you would hope that Jamel Hill's gonna go listen

2165
01:46:06,000 --> 01:46:07,640
Speaker 2: to the whole hour and at least have it with

2166
01:46:07,680 --> 01:46:10,640
Speaker 2: their contact. Maybe she does disagree, but you know, I

2167
01:46:10,720 --> 01:46:13,360
Speaker 2: think now that you have this kind of black civil

2168
01:46:13,400 --> 01:46:15,720
Speaker 2: warshit over Kaepernick, you got a lot of people like

2169
01:46:16,160 --> 01:46:18,920
Speaker 2: getting off their head pieces. So it's like, I'm writing

2170
01:46:18,960 --> 01:46:22,439
Speaker 2: my piece on how everything with Kyla Kaepernick is is

2171
01:46:22,520 --> 01:46:24,519
Speaker 2: fucked up and faulty and none of it's his fault.

2172
01:46:24,560 --> 01:46:26,280
Speaker 2: And then you got the people that are writing, you know,

2173
01:46:26,560 --> 01:46:29,000
Speaker 2: or saying like, well, this is how he contributes to

2174
01:46:29,120 --> 01:46:32,120
Speaker 2: the fact that he ain't got a job, and there's

2175
01:46:32,200 --> 01:46:34,559
Speaker 2: no middle ground, and there's and people are throwing each

2176
01:46:34,600 --> 01:46:35,040
Speaker 2: other away.

2177
01:46:35,240 --> 01:46:36,839
Speaker 3: You don't allow for that middle ground anymore.

2178
01:46:37,000 --> 01:46:39,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, like people throwing each other away for likes and

2179
01:46:39,360 --> 01:46:43,320
Speaker 2: retweets and attension and clicks, and shit, and so it's

2180
01:46:43,360 --> 01:46:45,240
Speaker 2: just very treacherous ground out here. It's kind of it's

2181
01:46:45,280 --> 01:46:47,920
Speaker 2: kind of I don't know, it's kind of But anyway,

2182
01:46:47,960 --> 01:46:51,320
Speaker 2: I enjoyed listening to the interview with him because you know,

2183
01:46:51,680 --> 01:46:54,040
Speaker 2: and I get the jokes, so I'm not knocking up

2184
01:46:54,640 --> 01:46:57,360
Speaker 2: Max's black, He's white, joke like whatever. I don't care.

2185
01:46:57,840 --> 01:47:00,560
Speaker 2: But I don't know there's more to that situation on

2186
01:47:00,680 --> 01:47:05,640
Speaker 2: people's ability or inability to really like fully evaluate that

2187
01:47:05,760 --> 01:47:09,640
Speaker 2: conversation is. I don't know. I'm very watchful of it

2188
01:47:09,760 --> 01:47:12,519
Speaker 2: right now. I'm like, oh, huh, so you just see

2189
01:47:12,520 --> 01:47:15,880
Speaker 2: it as simply this, there's no nuance to it, Okay, cool,

2190
01:47:16,160 --> 01:47:18,840
Speaker 2: Like to me, it just lets me know who I

2191
01:47:18,880 --> 01:47:20,680
Speaker 2: can be real with and who you have to just

2192
01:47:21,200 --> 01:47:24,479
Speaker 2: be like, Okay, you're always on because there's a level

2193
01:47:24,520 --> 01:47:26,800
Speaker 2: of this to where there's some reality here that people

2194
01:47:26,800 --> 01:47:32,000
Speaker 2: don't want to face true Caretha Wright said, episode two

2195
01:47:32,000 --> 01:47:35,040
Speaker 2: thousand and six, Dear Roddy Karen. For the past few weeks,

2196
01:47:35,080 --> 01:47:36,960
Speaker 2: I've been jotting down things I want to comment on,

2197
01:47:37,120 --> 01:47:39,519
Speaker 2: but I keep not finding time to actually send an

2198
01:47:39,520 --> 01:47:41,760
Speaker 2: email or leave a voicemail. So I decided to just

2199
01:47:41,800 --> 01:47:44,679
Speaker 2: stop and drop this note real quick. The reading rainbow

2200
01:47:44,760 --> 01:47:48,480
Speaker 2: excerpt from Monday Show was from Brittany Cooper's Beyond Respectability.

2201
01:47:48,920 --> 01:47:51,840
Speaker 2: I love her work. I met her while she was

2202
01:47:51,920 --> 01:47:54,000
Speaker 2: making a name for herself with her colum at Salon

2203
01:47:54,120 --> 01:47:56,759
Speaker 2: and started and working on Beyond Respectability, so I eagerly

2204
01:47:56,800 --> 01:47:59,880
Speaker 2: awaited this publication. She let me read the book early,

2205
01:48:00,120 --> 01:48:02,439
Speaker 2: so I wrote a proposal for an author meets Critics

2206
01:48:02,520 --> 01:48:05,240
Speaker 2: session so that the book might be featured at the

2207
01:48:05,280 --> 01:48:09,160
Speaker 2: twenty seventeen conference at the National Women's Studies Association. The

2208
01:48:09,280 --> 01:48:11,920
Speaker 2: proposal was accepted, so a panel was devoted to her

2209
01:48:11,960 --> 01:48:14,320
Speaker 2: book that year. Below is a picture from that panel,

2210
01:48:14,400 --> 01:48:17,320
Speaker 2: and she does have a picture with her and they

2211
01:48:17,360 --> 01:48:20,559
Speaker 2: all out there looking like having a great time. Martha

2212
01:48:20,640 --> 01:48:23,600
Speaker 2: Jones helped the audience understand Beyond Respectabilities contributions to the

2213
01:48:23,720 --> 01:48:26,599
Speaker 2: term of black terms of black women's history, intellectual history,

2214
01:48:26,640 --> 01:48:29,400
Speaker 2: and the law. Christy Ditson helped the audience appreciate its

2215
01:48:29,439 --> 01:48:35,440
Speaker 2: contributions to philosophy, especially in terms of black feminists, epistemi epistemologies,

2216
01:48:35,840 --> 01:48:39,920
Speaker 2: and I highlighted how it contributes to literary STU studies,

2217
01:48:40,200 --> 01:48:44,040
Speaker 2: performance studies, and rhetorical analysis. It was so much fun.

2218
01:48:44,560 --> 01:48:48,240
Speaker 2: You guys are nerves. Look at all the words, all

2219
01:48:48,280 --> 01:48:51,360
Speaker 2: those big words in their last paragraph. I don't understood

2220
01:48:51,479 --> 01:48:55,320
Speaker 2: like three of them. Thesaurus, y'all nerves. Nah. I love

2221
01:48:55,400 --> 01:48:58,240
Speaker 2: to see people like this is like, I love to

2222
01:48:58,240 --> 01:49:01,040
Speaker 2: see these race nerves out here having this. Ain't nothing

2223
01:49:01,080 --> 01:49:03,400
Speaker 2: but comic con for race nerves. That's all it is.

2224
01:49:03,600 --> 01:49:05,720
Speaker 3: That's it, diversion of comic con.

2225
01:49:05,840 --> 01:49:08,400
Speaker 2: I was on a comic con pandle for race nerds

2226
01:49:08,640 --> 01:49:11,840
Speaker 2: and we had all. I devoured her Eloquent Rage, her

2227
01:49:11,880 --> 01:49:14,160
Speaker 2: book Eloquent Rage when it came out, and I'm excited

2228
01:49:14,160 --> 01:49:16,559
Speaker 2: about the two books's finishing right now. She's the real

2229
01:49:16,640 --> 01:49:18,479
Speaker 2: deal and it's been a delight to watch her move

2230
01:49:18,560 --> 01:49:20,320
Speaker 2: in the world. I'm a little older than she is,

2231
01:49:20,720 --> 01:49:22,960
Speaker 2: and she says I've mentored her, but I but I

2232
01:49:23,080 --> 01:49:24,840
Speaker 2: learned at least as much from her. She claims, I've

2233
01:49:24,880 --> 01:49:27,320
Speaker 2: learned from me over the years. All right, let me

2234
01:49:27,360 --> 01:49:30,040
Speaker 2: get back on task, lol. Seneya get Energies always career,

2235
01:49:30,240 --> 01:49:33,280
Speaker 2: thank you? Yeah they are. They like to having so

2236
01:49:33,360 --> 01:49:37,200
Speaker 2: much fun. And the other thing too, because I also

2237
01:49:37,240 --> 01:49:39,439
Speaker 2: am a person that is worried up to her as

2238
01:49:39,479 --> 01:49:42,200
Speaker 2: a term and as a thing. I know in academia

2239
01:49:42,800 --> 01:49:45,120
Speaker 2: it's kind of a thing you can't avoid, like it's

2240
01:49:45,160 --> 01:49:48,280
Speaker 2: built into to it. But yeah, I don't like that

2241
01:49:48,439 --> 01:49:50,600
Speaker 2: term as well. I kind of bristlect because I like

2242
01:49:50,720 --> 01:49:56,240
Speaker 2: to be like, all right, right, you have no idea

2243
01:49:56,280 --> 01:49:58,880
Speaker 2: they talking about race and these white folks right there.

2244
01:49:58,920 --> 01:50:02,960
Speaker 2: You have no idea, no idea. But yeah, well, I

2245
01:50:03,040 --> 01:50:06,160
Speaker 2: was gonna say, though, is because I think I've realized

2246
01:50:06,680 --> 01:50:10,960
Speaker 2: this last few years is because to me, mentorship and

2247
01:50:11,240 --> 01:50:14,400
Speaker 2: certain type of internships, certain type of things have been

2248
01:50:14,479 --> 01:50:18,120
Speaker 2: relationships that are rife for the ability to abuse power. Agreed,

2249
01:50:18,240 --> 01:50:20,560
Speaker 2: And so I think I reject that and I like

2250
01:50:20,640 --> 01:50:23,200
Speaker 2: to think of it more like she said, where it's like, nah,

2251
01:50:23,320 --> 01:50:26,200
Speaker 2: we are sharing knowledge. I'm learning from you, We're learning

2252
01:50:26,240 --> 01:50:28,600
Speaker 2: from each other. This isn't like you might hit me

2253
01:50:28,760 --> 01:50:31,160
Speaker 2: up to say, hey, can you teach me how to?

2254
01:50:31,439 --> 01:50:31,600
Speaker 3: You know?

2255
01:50:31,720 --> 01:50:33,400
Speaker 2: Do you know how I want to? I'm thinking about

2256
01:50:33,400 --> 01:50:35,360
Speaker 2: starting a podcast. Can you do this that and the other?

2257
01:50:35,439 --> 01:50:37,240
Speaker 2: What do you think about this idea and that idea.

2258
01:50:37,720 --> 01:50:39,080
Speaker 2: I'm willing to talk to you about it and have

2259
01:50:39,160 --> 01:50:42,439
Speaker 2: a conversation. But I don't like the term mentor not mentor,

2260
01:50:42,479 --> 01:50:45,479
Speaker 2: because hey man, we're just having conversations. If you're younger

2261
01:50:45,520 --> 01:50:46,880
Speaker 2: than me, you just having me younger than me and

2262
01:50:46,920 --> 01:50:50,800
Speaker 2: we having a conversation, you know. So anyway, last one,

2263
01:50:51,080 --> 01:50:52,280
Speaker 2: I believe it's for me.

2264
01:50:52,400 --> 01:50:52,439
Speaker 4: Me.

2265
01:50:52,760 --> 01:50:55,080
Speaker 2: Sorry in advance, I haven't written in for a while,

2266
01:50:55,520 --> 01:51:00,160
Speaker 2: and the title of this is butts, butts, butts. I've

2267
01:51:00,160 --> 01:51:03,280
Speaker 2: been overwhelmed with all this ass attention. Thanks liz O.

2268
01:51:03,640 --> 01:51:06,880
Speaker 2: Side note the sanitary thing she had enough fabric to

2269
01:51:06,920 --> 01:51:09,320
Speaker 2: sit on as she had on tights. People are the

2270
01:51:09,400 --> 01:51:13,280
Speaker 2: worst kind of people. Oh so she had on tights. Anyway,

2271
01:51:14,280 --> 01:51:17,400
Speaker 2: these niggas, they was mad bout nothing. I wouldn't sit

2272
01:51:17,560 --> 01:51:20,439
Speaker 2: my bare ass on the seat. I appreciate that was

2273
01:51:20,520 --> 01:51:22,320
Speaker 2: just that way of trying to like slide that in

2274
01:51:22,520 --> 01:51:25,680
Speaker 2: though I was. I mean, it's not that I'm just

2275
01:51:25,840 --> 01:51:28,160
Speaker 2: upset she sat on the seat without know we else

2276
01:51:28,160 --> 01:51:32,040
Speaker 2: she had on tights. I mean, I'm still upset. That's

2277
01:51:32,160 --> 01:51:35,040
Speaker 2: not enough cluse like they're gonna they just wanna be upset.

2278
01:51:35,680 --> 01:51:38,080
Speaker 2: I appreciate the cavalier where you addressed her people acting

2279
01:51:38,160 --> 01:51:39,439
Speaker 2: like she ran out on the floor and made her

2280
01:51:39,520 --> 01:51:42,160
Speaker 2: cheek clap for eighteen minutes straight. Why are people, ah,

2281
01:51:42,800 --> 01:51:45,960
Speaker 2: why are people so anti butt? Why do people really

2282
01:51:46,000 --> 01:51:48,760
Speaker 2: act like children are so adversely affected by butts? The

2283
01:51:48,880 --> 01:51:51,720
Speaker 2: time and place arguments strikes the chord and nerve in me.

2284
01:51:52,280 --> 01:51:55,160
Speaker 2: I just feel like it's contrived and it's okay at

2285
01:51:55,200 --> 01:51:58,280
Speaker 2: the beach public but not the Lakers game because the

2286
01:51:58,400 --> 01:52:02,400
Speaker 2: kids either it's okay or it's not. Yeah, I don't, man,

2287
01:52:02,840 --> 01:52:06,200
Speaker 2: Like I don't. And I don't even mean this in

2288
01:52:06,280 --> 01:52:09,160
Speaker 2: a bad way because I like Lizo, but like ca,

2289
01:52:09,720 --> 01:52:12,559
Speaker 2: can't everybody just not care? You know what I mean?

2290
01:52:12,680 --> 01:52:15,439
Speaker 2: Like do you have to be so angry or upset

2291
01:52:15,720 --> 01:52:20,160
Speaker 2: or like shit? Like, can't you just not care that

2292
01:52:20,280 --> 01:52:24,000
Speaker 2: she did it? Like if it's really away it was

2293
01:52:24,240 --> 01:52:28,000
Speaker 2: five seconds of life that no one gives a fuck about.

2294
01:52:28,280 --> 01:52:31,519
Speaker 2: And yet like it's like you, like, we know she's

2295
01:52:31,560 --> 01:52:35,519
Speaker 2: being sensationalistic, we know she's being provocative. Do you have

2296
01:52:35,760 --> 01:52:38,920
Speaker 2: to be provoked? Do you have to be? I mean,

2297
01:52:38,960 --> 01:52:41,280
Speaker 2: I get it if you. I don't know, man, that

2298
01:52:41,360 --> 01:52:45,200
Speaker 2: shit dominated the conversations online for a week straight, maybe

2299
01:52:45,240 --> 01:52:47,519
Speaker 2: two weeks. That was a lot.

2300
01:52:47,680 --> 01:52:47,880
Speaker 3: Man.

2301
01:52:48,240 --> 01:52:53,439
Speaker 2: Just it's all right okay me personally, I like, but

2302
01:52:53,920 --> 01:52:56,720
Speaker 2: it was fine for me. But if you but if

2303
01:52:56,720 --> 01:52:59,439
Speaker 2: it's not your type of hype it's cool. You know

2304
01:52:59,640 --> 01:53:03,240
Speaker 2: people things. I will say, it would be different if

2305
01:53:03,479 --> 01:53:06,559
Speaker 2: the genitalia were exposed and engaging in actual sex acting public.

2306
01:53:06,640 --> 01:53:08,839
Speaker 2: But the line we draw is based on human expression

2307
01:53:09,200 --> 01:53:12,080
Speaker 2: left over from the Victorian age. Also, people who are

2308
01:53:12,160 --> 01:53:14,600
Speaker 2: making a distinction between thongs and booty shorts like it.

2309
01:53:15,160 --> 01:53:18,240
Speaker 2: It's so different in booty shorts on gyrating cheerleaders are

2310
01:53:18,240 --> 01:53:20,960
Speaker 2: so different. Is the top of the booty? Is it

2311
01:53:21,040 --> 01:53:23,280
Speaker 2: the top of the booty the issue? I mean, I

2312
01:53:23,360 --> 01:53:23,640
Speaker 2: don't know.

2313
01:53:24,000 --> 01:53:25,479
Speaker 3: I might be the bomb of the booty. I don't know.

2314
01:53:25,640 --> 01:53:27,960
Speaker 2: As you can tell, I have not participated in these conversations.

2315
01:53:28,600 --> 01:53:30,639
Speaker 2: I've only seen motherfuckers going back and forth.

2316
01:53:32,560 --> 01:53:33,160
Speaker 3: To bottom.

2317
01:53:33,760 --> 01:53:35,200
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, let me click on this gift for

2318
01:53:35,240 --> 01:53:37,320
Speaker 2: her shaking the ass and all right, I'm out of here.

2319
01:53:37,360 --> 01:53:40,960
Speaker 2: You guys have a great argument. Fat phobia is really

2320
01:53:41,240 --> 01:53:44,160
Speaker 2: is real, But apparently so it's butt phobia unless it

2321
01:53:44,280 --> 01:53:48,360
Speaker 2: is ya ya abdulah ma team. The second everyone loves

2322
01:53:48,439 --> 01:53:51,479
Speaker 2: his man cakes. Yeah, they do love his man cakes.

2323
01:53:51,880 --> 01:53:54,479
Speaker 2: But that was in the show at the right time

2324
01:53:54,600 --> 01:53:58,880
Speaker 2: and place. Who the dude on You don't watch the show,

2325
01:53:58,960 --> 01:54:02,880
Speaker 2: but watchman, the black dude that plays the husband of

2326
01:54:03,800 --> 01:54:06,800
Speaker 2: Virgina King. They have a lot of scenes with his ass.

2327
01:54:09,080 --> 01:54:11,640
Speaker 2: I don't know. People just get I don't know. I

2328
01:54:11,680 --> 01:54:13,680
Speaker 2: don't know because I watch porn. I'll just be like

2329
01:54:13,800 --> 01:54:19,000
Speaker 2: this ain't a big deal and goor and find obesity.

2330
01:54:19,080 --> 01:54:21,759
Speaker 2: That level of health people choose to be is their choice.

2331
01:54:21,840 --> 01:54:24,800
Speaker 2: No one owes being healthy to anyone else. Additionally, some

2332
01:54:24,920 --> 01:54:28,960
Speaker 2: people are just bigger and the judge judging mc juggerton's

2333
01:54:29,000 --> 01:54:33,360
Speaker 2: jump out with his health patrolling people really think they

2334
01:54:33,400 --> 01:54:36,879
Speaker 2: can know your whole health dot based solely on side shameful.

2335
01:54:37,360 --> 01:54:40,520
Speaker 2: Most people cannot tork with a flute because cardiovascular health

2336
01:54:40,680 --> 01:54:43,920
Speaker 2: is real. Skinny and fat, what do we want fat

2337
01:54:43,960 --> 01:54:46,320
Speaker 2: people to do? Hide, not be happy, not work out,

2338
01:54:46,720 --> 01:54:49,040
Speaker 2: not go to the gym, not hash sex, not look good,

2339
01:54:49,200 --> 01:54:51,560
Speaker 2: not wear clothing unless it's designed to hide and conceal,

2340
01:54:52,040 --> 01:54:55,280
Speaker 2: not love their bodies. You said everything they want, that's

2341
01:54:55,320 --> 01:54:58,120
Speaker 2: what they want us to do. The other thing that's

2342
01:54:58,120 --> 01:55:01,400
Speaker 2: weird about that too when it comes to uh, we

2343
01:55:01,440 --> 01:55:03,240
Speaker 2: didn't even talk about this last week, and I know

2344
01:55:03,440 --> 01:55:06,400
Speaker 2: everyone was mad about it or whatever, but uh, the

2345
01:55:06,520 --> 01:55:11,280
Speaker 2: Peloton ad with the skinny ass woman that did Peloton

2346
01:55:11,600 --> 01:55:16,120
Speaker 2: for a year and she lost two pounds and people

2347
01:55:16,200 --> 01:55:18,440
Speaker 2: were so outraged. The fucking actress had to go on

2348
01:55:18,680 --> 01:55:22,200
Speaker 2: like Good Morning America as if she wasn't a fucking actress.

2349
01:55:23,160 --> 01:55:25,000
Speaker 2: The dude that played the husband, we'll get to it.

2350
01:55:25,040 --> 01:55:27,040
Speaker 2: The white people knews at some point. The good that

2351
01:55:27,120 --> 01:55:29,000
Speaker 2: played the husband.

2352
01:55:30,320 --> 01:55:30,800
Speaker 3: Had to go.

2353
01:55:32,840 --> 01:55:34,560
Speaker 2: Like put a post out to ask people to stop

2354
01:55:34,600 --> 01:55:38,760
Speaker 2: harassing him and shit like that, Wow, it's.

2355
01:55:38,680 --> 01:55:39,920
Speaker 3: A fucking commercial.

2356
01:55:40,520 --> 01:55:43,360
Speaker 2: Well not just that, but like, if you really believe

2357
01:55:43,560 --> 01:55:47,360
Speaker 2: what y'all say, her being not being fat, her being

2358
01:55:47,400 --> 01:55:51,200
Speaker 2: skinny doesn't mean she was in great cardiovascular health, right,

2359
01:55:51,600 --> 01:55:53,600
Speaker 2: You really can't tell the same way you can't tell,

2360
01:55:53,760 --> 01:55:56,640
Speaker 2: like someone can be fat and be in like better

2361
01:55:56,680 --> 01:55:59,520
Speaker 2: shape than you think. Someone can be skinny, and it

2362
01:55:59,600 --> 01:56:01,800
Speaker 2: could be they smoke cigarettes and ship all day, or

2363
01:56:01,800 --> 01:56:04,440
Speaker 2: they just don't fucking eat. They don't eat healthy, but

2364
01:56:04,480 --> 01:56:07,720
Speaker 2: they don't eat anything, and they don't work out. There's metabolisms,

2365
01:56:07,720 --> 01:56:10,040
Speaker 2: there's a bunch of shit. We don't know what the

2366
01:56:10,080 --> 01:56:12,280
Speaker 2: fuck's happened in anyone's body unless you're that doctor. You

2367
01:56:12,480 --> 01:56:15,760
Speaker 2: just don't fucking know. So it was weird for people

2368
01:56:15,800 --> 01:56:18,800
Speaker 2: to be like this commercial is terrible. She worked out

2369
01:56:18,840 --> 01:56:21,640
Speaker 2: for a whole year and she's she didn't even lose weight.

2370
01:56:21,680 --> 01:56:23,280
Speaker 2: It's like, well, maybe she worked out for a whole

2371
01:56:23,320 --> 01:56:25,280
Speaker 2: year just because she wanted to maintain no way, or

2372
01:56:25,320 --> 01:56:27,200
Speaker 2: because she wanted to just be in better shape. Like

2373
01:56:28,640 --> 01:56:31,640
Speaker 2: it just doesn't. Just don't buy the fucking bike, right,

2374
01:56:31,800 --> 01:56:32,440
Speaker 2: And I don't know.

2375
01:56:32,840 --> 01:56:35,640
Speaker 4: And a lot of times when people work out, sometimes

2376
01:56:35,680 --> 01:56:36,760
Speaker 4: it's not always to lose weight.

2377
01:56:36,840 --> 01:56:37,960
Speaker 3: Sometimes it's to maintainer.

2378
01:56:38,320 --> 01:56:40,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's I just said it. Just don't just don't

2379
01:56:40,280 --> 01:56:43,120
Speaker 2: buy the bike. The commercial will be on in thirty

2380
01:56:43,160 --> 01:56:44,040
Speaker 2: seconds watch something.

2381
01:56:44,160 --> 01:56:45,760
Speaker 3: Most of y'all are not because I've looked.

2382
01:56:47,120 --> 01:56:48,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, we can't afford them bikes.

2383
01:56:48,600 --> 01:56:50,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was looking. I was like, oh, oh, look

2384
01:56:50,800 --> 01:56:51,320
Speaker 3: at it.

2385
01:56:51,360 --> 01:56:53,400
Speaker 2: Come on like a built in personal trainer. That's like

2386
01:56:53,840 --> 01:56:54,960
Speaker 2: like you can talk to him and shit.

2387
01:56:55,040 --> 01:56:56,560
Speaker 3: Right Therefore, I was looking at him.

2388
01:56:56,560 --> 01:56:58,680
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm not spending I heard it work

2389
01:56:58,760 --> 01:57:04,240
Speaker 2: though to anyway, we don't do this with anything else.

2390
01:57:04,360 --> 01:57:06,600
Speaker 2: These health concerns don't pop up on people who are

2391
01:57:06,680 --> 01:57:09,640
Speaker 2: drinking or smoking weed. Liquor is literally poisoned. Are we

2392
01:57:09,680 --> 01:57:12,720
Speaker 2: gonna find alcoholism? And even though the merry chains of

2393
01:57:12,760 --> 01:57:14,800
Speaker 2: the earth is not healthy to fill your lungs with smoke,

2394
01:57:14,880 --> 01:57:18,240
Speaker 2: and we actually glorify that shit, right if people just

2395
01:57:18,320 --> 01:57:21,080
Speaker 2: pick and choose man, Nobody asked about Snoop Dogg's health.

2396
01:57:21,280 --> 01:57:24,240
Speaker 2: This nigga died of lung cancer in two years, nobody

2397
01:57:24,360 --> 01:57:26,640
Speaker 2: gonna be sitting around. Well, that's when they'll sit around

2398
01:57:26,640 --> 01:57:29,000
Speaker 2: and be like, wow, you know smoking all that, we

2399
01:57:29,200 --> 01:57:31,160
Speaker 2: no wonder, But it's like we don't actually care. He

2400
01:57:31,200 --> 01:57:33,000
Speaker 2: gets to go and live his life. What's wrong with that?

2401
01:57:33,720 --> 01:57:35,200
Speaker 3: Nothing your life?

2402
01:57:35,880 --> 01:57:38,560
Speaker 2: In conclusions, the health and kids are smoke screens for

2403
01:57:38,640 --> 01:57:41,680
Speaker 2: people who are being uncomfortable with larger bodies. My favorite

2404
01:57:41,760 --> 01:57:44,680
Speaker 2: quote this week, you look like a swo swollen potato

2405
01:57:44,840 --> 01:57:47,880
Speaker 2: in your avatar? How could you say that without irony

2406
01:57:47,960 --> 01:57:50,920
Speaker 2: on larger men talking about fat women Ride twenty nineteen

2407
01:57:51,000 --> 01:57:55,040
Speaker 2: me me, yeah, I don't know. Niggas people just be

2408
01:57:55,160 --> 01:57:59,600
Speaker 2: having Nobody got more confidence than a fucking man. That's

2409
01:57:59,680 --> 01:58:03,080
Speaker 2: just how like you hear like men will literally have

2410
01:58:03,240 --> 01:58:07,560
Speaker 2: conversations about how they will not fuck somebody that was

2411
01:58:08,080 --> 01:58:12,960
Speaker 2: never ever in the wreath in the same airs them

2412
01:58:13,440 --> 01:58:18,520
Speaker 2: with absolutely just zero chants like less than zero chance

2413
01:58:19,400 --> 01:58:23,440
Speaker 2: that Megan that Meghan the stallion is gonna even let

2414
01:58:23,560 --> 01:58:28,280
Speaker 2: you sniff anything on her body and you'll you'll really

2415
01:58:28,520 --> 01:58:32,920
Speaker 2: go have the audacity the log into the whole wide

2416
01:58:32,960 --> 01:58:36,520
Speaker 2: world web where everybody can motherfucking see this ship and

2417
01:58:36,680 --> 01:58:40,200
Speaker 2: be like, I would never too much for me or

2418
01:58:40,240 --> 01:58:44,200
Speaker 2: whatever the fuck. It's like, no one asked, no one cared,

2419
01:58:44,480 --> 01:58:49,040
Speaker 2: and now let's look at you, you know, And it

2420
01:58:49,200 --> 01:58:52,160
Speaker 2: literally is the tweet that keeps on giving, because every

2421
01:58:52,280 --> 01:58:54,960
Speaker 2: nigga makes this tweet and somebody's doing it every single

2422
01:58:55,080 --> 01:58:58,840
Speaker 2: day with another woman that would never will cross the

2423
01:58:58,840 --> 01:59:03,720
Speaker 2: street they saw you coming because they and nobody was

2424
01:59:03,800 --> 01:59:07,280
Speaker 2: bothering you about the way you look. You volunteered that information.

2425
01:59:07,520 --> 01:59:12,160
Speaker 2: It happens all the time. Men are so fucking overconfident.

2426
01:59:12,280 --> 01:59:18,360
Speaker 2: It's crazy, is the best, and people like it's crazy.

2427
01:59:18,480 --> 01:59:18,680
Speaker 3: Man.

2428
01:59:19,040 --> 01:59:22,240
Speaker 2: Just shut the fuck up. Be nice to people if

2429
01:59:22,240 --> 01:59:27,120
Speaker 2: you can. But at the same time, if you feel

2430
01:59:27,160 --> 01:59:29,120
Speaker 2: that way and you want to come out and say

2431
01:59:29,360 --> 01:59:32,360
Speaker 2: these women you know you would never sleep with them

2432
01:59:32,440 --> 01:59:35,880
Speaker 2: even though you look like the hamburglar, and shit, you

2433
01:59:36,000 --> 01:59:40,120
Speaker 2: know what, dog, that's your opinion. It's a valid opinion.

2434
01:59:40,240 --> 01:59:42,560
Speaker 2: It's just the way you felt. I don't want you

2435
01:59:42,680 --> 01:59:45,600
Speaker 2: to feel judged by me just because I just because

2436
01:59:45,640 --> 01:59:47,680
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna call you a pigmy just because I

2437
01:59:47,880 --> 01:59:50,960
Speaker 2: wasn't on that and we had a disagreement, or we

2438
01:59:51,120 --> 01:59:54,360
Speaker 2: just have a difference of opinion, Hofully, one day you'll

2439
01:59:54,440 --> 01:59:57,760
Speaker 2: come around to being like, I'm not gonna call Serena

2440
01:59:57,800 --> 01:59:59,760
Speaker 2: Williams a man, and I can't hold that against you,

2441
02:00:00,160 --> 02:00:02,120
Speaker 2: for the fact that I never said that shit in

2442
02:00:02,200 --> 02:00:04,240
Speaker 2: my life and I always wanted her to sit on

2443
02:00:04,320 --> 02:00:06,760
Speaker 2: my face. I'm not gonna sit up there. I'm not

2444
02:00:06,840 --> 02:00:08,840
Speaker 2: gonna sit up there and try to make you feel

2445
02:00:08,920 --> 02:00:11,160
Speaker 2: bad about the fact that you're just now coming around

2446
02:00:11,240 --> 02:00:14,480
Speaker 2: her when it's convenient. No, because that would make me

2447
02:00:15,000 --> 02:00:18,000
Speaker 2: some type of weird hypocrite. Okay, I'm not gonna be

2448
02:00:18,160 --> 02:00:21,480
Speaker 2: like that. Okay, I'm not gonna do that. We offer

2449
02:00:21,560 --> 02:00:24,960
Speaker 2: that for the foreseeable future. Okay. Our show is now

2450
02:00:25,040 --> 02:00:29,080
Speaker 2: to the show where any opinion, no matter how harmful,

2451
02:00:29,200 --> 02:00:33,720
Speaker 2: good or bad for anyone's platform, all of it's fine.

2452
02:00:33,920 --> 02:00:34,920
Speaker 3: It's all fine.

2453
02:00:34,960 --> 02:00:38,280
Speaker 2: People tune into us just for us to read the

2454
02:00:38,400 --> 02:00:40,720
Speaker 2: news and tell them what happened and have no opinion

2455
02:00:40,840 --> 02:00:44,040
Speaker 2: on it, sir. That's what we're here for, guys.

2456
02:00:44,200 --> 02:00:46,920
Speaker 4: No, sir as a sidekick who is giving herself a

2457
02:00:47,000 --> 02:00:50,000
Speaker 4: self promotion back to her spot as the co host.

2458
02:00:50,120 --> 02:00:51,720
Speaker 3: No, we are not doing that bullshit.

2459
02:00:52,040 --> 02:00:54,720
Speaker 2: Now, listen, if you log on the Twitter looking like

2460
02:00:54,800 --> 02:00:57,560
Speaker 2: a remote control and you won't just be like, listen,

2461
02:00:58,240 --> 02:01:00,880
Speaker 2: I would never fuck Cardi b not with yo, Dick.

2462
02:01:01,640 --> 02:01:05,720
Speaker 2: I just have to say, that's fine, that's fine. Okay

2463
02:01:06,480 --> 02:01:08,880
Speaker 2: if you want to like ast somebody's child and death

2464
02:01:08,960 --> 02:01:14,520
Speaker 2: threaten them. Hey, who am I to judge? Okay, I'm

2465
02:01:14,560 --> 02:01:17,760
Speaker 2: glad someone called me out. I was getting way too judgmental.

2466
02:01:17,840 --> 02:01:20,720
Speaker 2: Care I was out here just fucking. This is wrong,

2467
02:01:21,000 --> 02:01:23,320
Speaker 2: that's wrong. While you do this, I wouldn't do that.

2468
02:01:23,600 --> 02:01:26,000
Speaker 2: As if people give a fuck about what I think.

2469
02:01:26,320 --> 02:01:30,720
Speaker 2: They clearly don't. We've only been doing twelve hundred episodes

2470
02:01:30,760 --> 02:01:33,560
Speaker 2: of this show for ten years, and we've been doing

2471
02:01:33,600 --> 02:01:37,600
Speaker 2: it wrong for ten years. We'll come on our tip

2472
02:01:37,640 --> 02:01:41,120
Speaker 2: of your anniversary and I just got it, epiphany. We

2473
02:01:41,280 --> 02:01:44,040
Speaker 2: over that, so don't worry about it, guys, y'all all right,

2474
02:01:44,280 --> 02:01:51,240
Speaker 2: all right, all right, until tomorrow, we gonna do the kiss. Wow,

2475
02:01:51,800 --> 02:01:57,800
Speaker 2: look at the side, co host correcting me. All right,

2476
02:01:57,920 --> 02:01:59,840
Speaker 2: we got some, we got some. We did get some

2477
02:02:00,160 --> 02:02:02,960
Speaker 2: arts and some and some stuff. And the mail, Uh,

2478
02:02:03,280 --> 02:02:08,080
Speaker 2: thank you, Karen for reminding me. This one from Rego,

2479
02:02:08,280 --> 02:02:13,640
Speaker 2: who says Mary everything, not not like Mary, like m

2480
02:02:13,680 --> 02:02:16,680
Speaker 2: A R R y, but you know, like Mary like holidays.

2481
02:02:17,160 --> 02:02:20,360
Speaker 2: Merry Christmas, Rod and Karen, thanks for all the last Rego.

2482
02:02:20,600 --> 02:02:22,040
Speaker 3: Thank you, Rego, thank you.

2483
02:02:22,600 --> 02:02:24,640
Speaker 4: Y'all gonna add to my car collection. I tell you

2484
02:02:24,640 --> 02:02:26,440
Speaker 4: I keep them like an old grandma, which you keep

2485
02:02:26,480 --> 02:02:27,160
Speaker 4: birthday cards?

2486
02:02:27,200 --> 02:02:30,080
Speaker 2: She does keep your cards and letters and ship I

2487
02:02:30,200 --> 02:02:36,800
Speaker 2: really do. This one's from Tanya Tanya w Yeah. She

2488
02:02:36,880 --> 02:02:40,040
Speaker 2: sent me these spices one time, and I use them

2489
02:02:40,040 --> 02:02:43,880
Speaker 2: when I cook, and uh, I ran out and I

2490
02:02:43,920 --> 02:02:48,120
Speaker 2: actually bought the spices myself this time, because that's how

2491
02:02:48,200 --> 02:02:50,560
Speaker 2: much I like. That's a Now, that's a good gift. Yes,

2492
02:02:50,960 --> 02:02:52,400
Speaker 2: you gave to me a thing that I will be

2493
02:02:52,520 --> 02:02:55,880
Speaker 2: using for the rest of my life. Peace. What is

2494
02:02:55,960 --> 02:02:58,680
Speaker 2: this a duck or a dove? I don't know. A bird?

2495
02:02:59,360 --> 02:03:02,640
Speaker 2: Rod and Caeren, May the holiday season come to you

2496
02:03:03,000 --> 02:03:06,640
Speaker 2: with wonder, with peace, with gentle gifts of joy, Merry Christmas,

2497
02:03:06,720 --> 02:03:09,120
Speaker 2: Happy quansa happy New Year to the two of the

2498
02:03:09,200 --> 02:03:13,200
Speaker 2: coolest people in podcasts and all the best Tanya w ps.

2499
02:03:13,480 --> 02:03:15,440
Speaker 2: I love the smacking good.

2500
02:03:15,600 --> 02:03:20,920
Speaker 4: Ally is and she is a very very sweet person.

2501
02:03:21,120 --> 02:03:23,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, very supportive. She goes out and see he's like

2502
02:03:23,280 --> 02:03:28,160
Speaker 2: the comedians and stuff like, very very coop. Oh, we

2503
02:03:28,240 --> 02:03:33,320
Speaker 2: got this one from toy Uh safe Space. This is

2504
02:03:33,400 --> 02:03:36,960
Speaker 2: the this is the charity, the thing that we like

2505
02:03:37,080 --> 02:03:40,520
Speaker 2: gave to Yes, thank you so much for your support

2506
02:03:40,640 --> 02:03:42,960
Speaker 2: of our mission twenty nineteen. We're excited about the future

2507
02:03:42,960 --> 02:03:44,920
Speaker 2: and grateful to have you standing with us in the

2508
02:03:45,000 --> 02:03:48,640
Speaker 2: fight against domestic violence as we supporting Uplift survivors, peace

2509
02:03:48,720 --> 02:03:54,360
Speaker 2: and blessing. Safe Space property manager, Thank you. This one

2510
02:03:54,640 --> 02:04:00,280
Speaker 2: this is oh my man. Jim Search wrote a book

2511
02:04:00,360 --> 02:04:04,480
Speaker 2: called grad School a seventy thousand dollars phone charger by

2512
02:04:04,640 --> 02:04:05,560
Speaker 2: gym Search.

2513
02:04:06,880 --> 02:04:07,000
Speaker 3: Uh.

2514
02:04:07,160 --> 02:04:09,640
Speaker 2: You may remember him from three of Negro's podcasts back

2515
02:04:09,680 --> 02:04:10,120
Speaker 2: in the day.

2516
02:04:10,800 --> 02:04:10,920
Speaker 3: Uh.

2517
02:04:11,000 --> 02:04:12,480
Speaker 2: So he sent us this book to read cause you

2518
02:04:12,520 --> 02:04:15,720
Speaker 2: know I likes to read and I'm gonna be reading it.

2519
02:04:15,880 --> 02:04:18,480
Speaker 2: So he also send me like the the PDF file

2520
02:04:18,520 --> 02:04:21,800
Speaker 2: and everything, so day, Uh, that way I can hopefully

2521
02:04:21,880 --> 02:04:26,680
Speaker 2: read it digitally as well. And then I think this

2522
02:04:26,800 --> 02:04:27,680
Speaker 2: was the last one.

2523
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Speaker 1: We got.

2524
02:04:30,360 --> 02:04:32,560
Speaker 2: Oh I got Okay, we got this gift high Rider

2525
02:04:32,640 --> 02:04:35,720
Speaker 2: care looking forward to sitting seeing more food and cooking

2526
02:04:35,800 --> 02:04:38,680
Speaker 2: picks from you both hope you enjoyed and whip up

2527
02:04:38,760 --> 02:04:42,040
Speaker 2: some Yemi food, Nachelle. And this is from our Amazon

2528
02:04:42,160 --> 02:04:45,760
Speaker 2: wish list, and it is y'all probably can't see it

2529
02:04:45,800 --> 02:04:48,520
Speaker 2: to the classic, but it's a stir I.

2530
02:04:48,600 --> 02:04:51,600
Speaker 3: Was like, ooh with the separators. Yeah, yeah, Oh, that

2531
02:04:51,760 --> 02:04:54,000
Speaker 3: mixes up a whole lot better. And this stuff don't

2532
02:04:54,040 --> 02:04:55,640
Speaker 3: get all clumped up in the bottom.

2533
02:04:55,840 --> 02:04:59,320
Speaker 2: Yeah. I had one of these and it was so cheap,

2534
02:04:59,520 --> 02:05:04,040
Speaker 2: the one that I got it on sale at the

2535
02:05:04,120 --> 02:05:09,320
Speaker 2: place that I get my aprons. And when I cooked,

2536
02:05:09,360 --> 02:05:12,760
Speaker 2: when I washed it in the dishwasher, if you put

2537
02:05:12,840 --> 02:05:16,880
Speaker 2: it down like that in a dishwasher, some about it

2538
02:05:17,000 --> 02:05:19,640
Speaker 2: made like either the glue or whatever holds these things

2539
02:05:19,720 --> 02:05:22,720
Speaker 2: in place dissolved and they started falling out. And so

2540
02:05:23,160 --> 02:05:24,960
Speaker 2: if you turned it this way, it was fine. But

2541
02:05:25,040 --> 02:05:27,040
Speaker 2: guess what it cost me wanting to learn that lesson,

2542
02:05:27,520 --> 02:05:30,520
Speaker 2: so I added it to the wish list because I

2543
02:05:30,600 --> 02:05:32,240
Speaker 2: was like, man, I like that thing.

2544
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Speaker 3: Yes, particularly when you stirn up things. Putting your drys

2545
02:05:36,560 --> 02:05:38,160
Speaker 3: and wets together mixes it up better.

2546
02:05:38,440 --> 02:05:41,000
Speaker 2: Yeah. And so the last thing is before we get

2547
02:05:41,040 --> 02:05:43,680
Speaker 2: out of here, this isn't a gift, but you know

2548
02:05:44,000 --> 02:05:45,560
Speaker 2: this is I was gonna let you guys see what

2549
02:05:45,680 --> 02:05:54,360
Speaker 2: the holiday car looked like. Give me one second. Okay,

2550
02:05:54,480 --> 02:05:57,320
Speaker 2: that's just the cover, all right, all right, So this

2551
02:05:57,440 --> 02:06:01,120
Speaker 2: is what the holiday car is gonna look like. It's

2552
02:06:01,440 --> 02:06:07,960
Speaker 2: US and then on the inside it's US as an

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02:06:07,960 --> 02:06:11,720
Speaker 2: eight bit version. Yeah, and then on the back it's

2554
02:06:11,800 --> 02:06:14,840
Speaker 2: the Heart the Heart US. I don't know if you

2555
02:06:14,880 --> 02:06:15,520
Speaker 2: guys remember that.

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02:06:16,120 --> 02:06:16,320
Speaker 3: Yeah.

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02:06:16,960 --> 02:06:20,640
Speaker 2: Oh these are pretty yeah, and it's got like little

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02:06:20,640 --> 02:06:22,760
Speaker 2: stickers and stuff on it. So you guys will be

2559
02:06:22,800 --> 02:06:24,640
Speaker 2: getting these in the mail for you to send us

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02:06:24,680 --> 02:06:25,200
Speaker 2: your address.

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02:06:25,560 --> 02:06:27,320
Speaker 3: I don't know. People be looking forward. They were like, oh,

2562
02:06:27,360 --> 02:06:28,520
Speaker 3: I know they come back next year.

2563
02:06:28,760 --> 02:06:32,080
Speaker 2: Yeah. I'll be sitting around here just like, uh, printing

2564
02:06:32,120 --> 02:06:34,400
Speaker 2: all these labels and ship and all that stuff. Like

2565
02:06:34,920 --> 02:06:37,080
Speaker 2: every year I'm printing the labels, going, why the fuck

2566
02:06:37,200 --> 02:06:39,200
Speaker 2: do I think this is a good idea? This is work.

2567
02:06:39,800 --> 02:06:42,760
Speaker 2: I always get excited about doing this extra work for myself.

2568
02:06:43,000 --> 02:06:45,400
Speaker 2: But you know what, you guys are totally fucking worth it.

2569
02:06:46,240 --> 02:06:48,000
Speaker 2: Even the one of us who think I think I'm

2570
02:06:48,040 --> 02:06:51,480
Speaker 2: better than everybody else and that I think you guys

2571
02:06:51,520 --> 02:06:55,360
Speaker 2: all pick me, and uh, you know, I'm such a

2572
02:06:55,480 --> 02:06:58,480
Speaker 2: different special negro. Even the people who right in to

2573
02:06:58,560 --> 02:07:01,800
Speaker 2: say that kind of stuff, that think reading Rainbow is

2574
02:07:01,840 --> 02:07:06,920
Speaker 2: a terrible segment, and even you motherfuckers, even you, we

2575
02:07:07,080 --> 02:07:11,240
Speaker 2: appreciate y'all so and we wish our happy holidays as well.

2576
02:07:11,360 --> 02:07:13,000
Speaker 2: And we'll be talking to you guys later on in

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02:07:13,080 --> 02:07:15,920
Speaker 2: the week, so we see you tomorrow. Until then, is

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02:07:15,920 --> 02:07:16,840
Speaker 2: there anything else I forgot?

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02:07:17,920 --> 02:07:18,120
Speaker 1: That's it?

2580
02:07:18,320 --> 02:07:19,800
Speaker 2: All right, Well, you gotta get your hair did and

2581
02:07:19,840 --> 02:07:21,640
Speaker 2: I gotta put this show up, so until then, I

2582
02:07:21,720 --> 02:07:21,960
Speaker 2: love you.

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02:07:22,760 --> 02:07:22,880
Speaker 3: Wh