Speaker 1: Not for another Sunday sampler.
Speaker 2: Sore Losers coming up and they'll talk about the Walker
Speaker 2: Hayes Charity golf tournament. Caroline Hobby sat down with Christian
Speaker 2: singer and former American Idol alum Danny Goki and on
Speaker 2: the Bobby Cast, Litt was on fasing that song.
Speaker 3: Can't We Forget About Things?
Speaker 1: I said when I was drunk it did mean to
Speaker 1: call you that.
Speaker 2: So here they are talking about Woodstock ninety nine. Let's
Speaker 2: kick off the sampler with Litt. It's been twenty five
Speaker 2: years since My ow Worst Enemy. I did not know that.
Speaker 2: It feels like it feels like fifty years but also
Speaker 2: like three years at the same time, totally like that songs.
Speaker 1: Was it in a was it in a movie first?
Speaker 2: Or was it just a straight radio single that they
Speaker 2: just put out as itself?
Speaker 1: Did it then exist in every movie after that?
Speaker 4: Yeah? It was a radio off quickly?
Speaker 2: Y Yeah, okay, because for a while it was in
Speaker 2: everything and then it like five years ago it started
Speaker 2: popping up in everything again, which is really cool, cool
Speaker 2: life of a song to have. So was that the
Speaker 2: first single from lit My Own Worst Enemy?
Speaker 1: First?
Speaker 3: First?
Speaker 4: That was the first song that went to radio with us.
Speaker 5: So the album that was called you know Lit whatever
Speaker 5: that was before A Place in the Sun got it.
Speaker 5: So A Place in the Sun was our first major
Speaker 5: label record.
Speaker 4: Yea enemy was on that.
Speaker 6: We might have got a little bit of like college
Speaker 6: radio love on the album before A Place in the Sun,
Speaker 6: but yeah, I was it was minor.
Speaker 4: It was like it was building block.
Speaker 2: So Lit the record still stayed the name Lit. It
Speaker 2: was self titled. Right at that point we.
Speaker 4: Changed it to Tripping the Light Fantastic.
Speaker 2: Yep, Okay, that's a lot different than Lit. And yeah,
Speaker 2: so is that the one though that was heard that
Speaker 2: got you guys the big looks that then created A
Speaker 2: Place in the Sun? Or was it all the music
Speaker 2: from A Place in the Sun that somebody heard and
Speaker 2: that really was it?
Speaker 4: Yeah? It was the new batch of songs?
Speaker 1: Who hear's those? How does that work?
Speaker 5: We had a manager and we we were shopping and
Speaker 5: just getting turned down by everybody, even my owners. Sentiment
Speaker 5: got turned down by everybody, including our CAA who ended
Speaker 5: up signing us.
Speaker 4: They turned it down the first.
Speaker 1: Time, What with what reason? Or did they not even
Speaker 1: give one? All you got back was in it?
Speaker 5: I mean back then they would just say we don't
Speaker 5: hear a hit, we don't hear a single or whatever.
Speaker 5: And two of the four songs on that demo that
Speaker 5: everyone passed on ended up being huge hits.
Speaker 1: So who heard it as it later? Was it somebody
Speaker 1: different that worked.
Speaker 4: With the radio guy at RCAA Records heard it?
Speaker 2: And at the time what was on the radio? Was it?
Speaker 2: Was it other rock stuff or what? Because my years
Speaker 2: get blittery at this point, was that sound a lot
Speaker 2: different or was that sound just a growth of what
Speaker 2: was already starting to be popular because it was after
Speaker 2: the nineties grunge stuff.
Speaker 5: Yep, it was a lot different at the time. It
Speaker 5: was really mixed up and you know, like Blink was
Speaker 5: getting big around the same time. We would tour together
Speaker 5: like a warped tour and all that. We were both
Speaker 5: kind of bubbling over. We were sort of the first,
Speaker 5: I guess alternative rock band to start kicking doors open
Speaker 5: at like pop radio.
Speaker 1: Was it boy band time?
Speaker 4: But then that was pretty huge then too.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, But on alternative radio and rock radio, it
Speaker 5: was a lot of you know, it.
Speaker 4: Was creed and corn or chili peppers, biscuit biscuit corn.
Speaker 4: Those guys wimp Biscuit was coming up.
Speaker 1: Moby Oh yeah, Moby dang mobe in a long time.
Speaker 6: I mean that's when Minem was like an alternative Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 6: you know why because it was white.
Speaker 1: Yeah, crazy, I mean so.
Speaker 2: And I worked in pop radio forever, worked in alternative radio.
Speaker 2: So did you guys get we'll say service to alternative
Speaker 2: radio first? Were they like, you're a rock band, we're
Speaker 2: taking the rock band to the rock stations, or were
Speaker 2: they going, this is so universal, like we believe we're
Speaker 2: going to pop.
Speaker 1: Where did that go?
Speaker 2: Well, pop wasn't really messing with a lot of rock,
Speaker 2: so it wasn't so it killed it at rock first,
Speaker 2: alternative before.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it kind of went to pop because it was
Speaker 5: so big and it didn't have anywhere else to go.
Speaker 5: But at first it was it was alternative rock and
Speaker 5: like whatever they called the other one active rock.
Speaker 2: Sure, it was all rock at first, and so you
Speaker 2: would be on those festivals. Did you guys ever play
Speaker 2: in it?
Speaker 7: You're right?
Speaker 1: You good?
Speaker 7: You know?
Speaker 2: Oh no, you're good, You're good. Even if you are,
Speaker 2: we'll enjoy the noise together. Did you guys do any
Speaker 2: of those the Woodstocks.
Speaker 4: We did ninety nine? You know, the one everyone's talking about.
Speaker 2: Now, the one that all the crap went wrong? Well,
Speaker 2: what was it as bad as the documentary shows.
Speaker 1: With what you guys saw, No we saw because there.
Speaker 3: Was no water.
Speaker 2: I mean from what I saw, it was like everybody
Speaker 2: was like dying of thirst and everything was burning down.
Speaker 1: That wasn't your experience.
Speaker 6: We got in and out first day, so we just
Speaker 6: I mean it was it was awesome for us.
Speaker 5: We were on tour with Offspring at the time, and
Speaker 5: so both bands played day one and then we kind
Speaker 5: of when all hell broke loose at Woodstock, we were
Speaker 5: already like two shows later, you know, playing amphitheaters.
Speaker 2: And in this subject that would have been good for
Speaker 2: the documentary. You got the stories kind of fun and boring.
Speaker 2: You're like, yeah, we had a great time.
Speaker 1: It was awesome.
Speaker 5: I mean, there was a lot of shenanigans going on,
Speaker 5: but it was like.
Speaker 2: Yeah, from what the theme of that that documentary was,
Speaker 2: because I remember it part and again, I was a
Speaker 2: big alternative kid. I was like country of marketsas so
Speaker 2: country music talked about where I was from, but alternative
Speaker 2: music talked about what I felt. And I was the
Speaker 2: first generation of napster so when Napster hit, like I
Speaker 2: would just hit the letter L, download every song on
Speaker 2: that started the letter L in every format and just
Speaker 2: have the ability. At the time, I thought was my
Speaker 2: rightful I deserved every song for free. I mean idiot,
Speaker 2: because we all thought that, or least I thought that.
Speaker 2: But you know, it was a a download streaming kid.
Speaker 1: It was also a CD kid.
Speaker 2: I was also a tape kid, so I was able
Speaker 2: to have really all of that type of culture. I
Speaker 2: guess the only thing I missed was vinyl. But was
Speaker 2: a big alternative kid. And so when they showed that
Speaker 2: festival and they would the front like all the bands
Speaker 2: playing it, it seemed like a pretty aggressive, harder rock
Speaker 2: festival than maybe what the original was. Did you guys
Speaker 2: feel that at all? Or was that just the music
Speaker 2: at the time. Was it just like this is ninety
Speaker 2: nine or ninety six, this is just what's popular right
Speaker 2: now more than it is we're trying to create some
Speaker 2: rock fest version two.
Speaker 7: Yeah, it was.
Speaker 6: I feel like a lot of the heavier stuff came
Speaker 6: out at night, but there were some you know, Elvis
Speaker 6: Costell actually played, I didn't get to see him.
Speaker 1: Like Jewel played too.
Speaker 5: I think there were Noel and like Cheryl Crow and
Speaker 5: it was like g Love and Special Saw. I mean
Speaker 5: it was but the big ones where you know, your
Speaker 5: Corn and Limp Biscuit and Chili Peppers and and in
Speaker 5: Offspring and you know, we were playing a lot of
Speaker 5: big radio festivals in those days, and they were all
Speaker 5: kind of like they all had a lot of those
Speaker 5: same bands, which really is kind of hasn't been like
Speaker 5: that since there was massive, massive artists on these radio
Speaker 5: festivals back then and still probably now more so in pop,
Speaker 5: but I mean just an alternative.
Speaker 4: Back then, it was wild.
Speaker 5: The bands that we got to play with we were
Speaker 5: huge fans of, and it was it was pretty cool.
Speaker 8: Yeah, you're listening to in the Vets Office with doctor
Speaker 8: Josie Horschak.
Speaker 9: Today we're going to have the beautiful and incredibly talented
Speaker 9: Mackenzie Porter in the Vets office. Not only is she
Speaker 9: our friend, but you also probably know her from her
Speaker 9: lead role on the Netflix series The Travelers or her
Speaker 9: booming music career. Her and Dustin Lynch spent many weeks
Speaker 9: in the number one spot on country music radio for
Speaker 9: their song think About You. I still love that song too.
Speaker 9: I'm super excited to have her on today. Coming up next,
Speaker 9: Mackenzie Porter with doctor Josie. Welcome to in the Vets Office,
Speaker 9: Mackenzie Porter. I'm know holligannurferd you as Mac this entire episode.
Speaker 9: And for the listeners out there that can't see us,
Speaker 9: we are twinning today. We came pretty much in the
Speaker 9: exact same outfit and this was not planned.
Speaker 10: I know.
Speaker 8: This means we're good friends and we're on the same
Speaker 8: waveleg exactly.
Speaker 9: So we got your intro out of the way, and
Speaker 9: now we need to get to the real star of
Speaker 9: the show. Here we have on this podcast. We call
Speaker 9: it b Yo D Bring your Own Dog. So tell
Speaker 9: us a little bit about miss Willa, this little beast,
Speaker 9: we call her the Beast. She her name's Willa. Her
Speaker 9: name's Willa Bean. Okay Porter Ethridge. She has the full
Speaker 9: name Willa Bean Porter Ethrick.
Speaker 8: Yes, a star, a star, and she is almost five
Speaker 8: year old multi poo poo, which is like very uncle like.
Speaker 11: I remember my husband when I was like, we're getting
Speaker 11: a multipoopoo.
Speaker 8: He's like any other dog, any other like there's no
Speaker 8: there's nothing cool about that dog.
Speaker 11: And now he's obsessed with her.
Speaker 9: So she's like palling at me a multi poopoo. So
Speaker 9: we've got a Maltese and a poodle or a stumble poodle.
Speaker 12: I see.
Speaker 8: I think she was like bread a multipoo uh huh,
Speaker 8: and then a multeese and then with another.
Speaker 11: Poodle, maybe with another heard the poo poo.
Speaker 9: Yes, okay, I love that. And how old is Willebane?
Speaker 8: So she's almost five August she'll be five almost five?
Speaker 13: Love that?
Speaker 9: And you have recently announced that you are expecting a
Speaker 9: baby girl? Do you think that she knows?
Speaker 8: So it's funny, like I feel like the very beginning,
Speaker 8: I was like she has to know because she kept
Speaker 8: kind of cuddling my tummy and like wanting to be
Speaker 8: near me.
Speaker 11: And now I don't know, Like.
Speaker 8: It's you know, it's hard hard to say, like she
Speaker 8: definitely smells my tummy a lot, okay, because I feel
Speaker 8: like you, I mean, dogs obviously can sense that kind
Speaker 8: of thing. I think she's I wouldn't say she's the
Speaker 8: sharpest tool in the shed, but she is very cuddly,
Speaker 8: improtective of me. Like even the other day Jake was
Speaker 8: like tickling me or I can't remember, he wasn't tickling
Speaker 8: me like he went to grab me for a hug
Speaker 8: or something, and she would start barking at him. So
Speaker 8: she's more protective. And I think that's since the pregnancy.
Speaker 9: I hear a lot of women and say that that
Speaker 9: they become more protective when they're pregnant, So you're not
Speaker 9: the first time, which is.
Speaker 11: Kind of the most like beautiful thing.
Speaker 8: I love that so much, Like that a dog can
Speaker 8: just sense like a new family member.
Speaker 11: Yeah, I don't know that, they're just they're so aware.
Speaker 9: How do you think she'll do when you bring the
Speaker 9: baby home?
Speaker 8: So we we always talk about this, like I think
Speaker 8: she loves kids. We have neighbors that have kids, so
Speaker 8: I feel really confident about that. We've also just been
Speaker 8: like we have to make sure we get her attention. Still, yes,
Speaker 8: but I think i'd be fine, Like we're gonna do
Speaker 8: the whole like let the baby lay in the blanket
Speaker 8: and then let her smell the blanket and then introduce
Speaker 8: her to the baby.
Speaker 11: But I feel like she'll be totally fine.
Speaker 9: Yeah, I think so. I mean, I know her, so
Speaker 9: I think so. But I do think that's really important
Speaker 9: for listeners out there. If you know you're gonna want
Speaker 9: a family. Exposing your dog and getting them desensitized and
Speaker 9: socialized with kids is so important because yeah, I mean,
Speaker 9: it's going to be a huge part of your life.
Speaker 9: And I will be interested to hear your feedback on
Speaker 9: the age old question of do you love your human
Speaker 9: children more than your for children, because I'm convinced I won't.
Speaker 11: I mean too that makes me like crying.
Speaker 8: Like I've heard people be like, oh, you won't even
Speaker 8: care about your dog anymore?
Speaker 11: Yeah, And I'm like that breaks my heart right now.
Speaker 9: It's not possible.
Speaker 8: It's not I mean, I think you know, we have
Speaker 8: enough love to go around, and I'm sure like there
Speaker 8: will be times where it's annoying if she's barking, the
Speaker 8: baby wakes up or whatever, or like taking her out
Speaker 8: and we're just kind of like swamped be a challenge.
Speaker 11: But I just don't think I could love her, no,
Speaker 11: any of us.
Speaker 9: No, I don't think so either. So you know, you're
Speaker 9: a musician, you're on tour a lot. Has she gone
Speaker 9: on tour with you? And how does she do?
Speaker 8: She does so well. I'm like so impressed with her.
Speaker 8: I'm just a proud mom. She does so well, so
Speaker 8: we her big tour was We did like a run
Speaker 8: with Dan and Shay and you know, I feel like those.
Speaker 11: Guys are like dog people too, totally.
Speaker 8: So it was amphitheaters and she loved it, and like
Speaker 8: everybody loved her backstage and of course, like when the
Speaker 8: show's going her sound check, that's like loud and scary
Speaker 8: for her, but we would just throw her back on
Speaker 8: the bus and she was fine.
Speaker 11: She was totally fine, and she's flown. She's a really
Speaker 11: good traveler.
Speaker 8: She loves car rides, so I think because we did
Speaker 8: that like very early on in her life that she's pretty.
Speaker 11: Used to them.
Speaker 9: She's such a like an entertainer's dog.
Speaker 8: She is, Yeah, she is, and she loves music and
Speaker 8: she loves like I mean, she is in Jake studio
Speaker 8: with him recording every single day and that's just her life.
Speaker 11: She's a studio pup.
Speaker 9: So Max's husband, Jake is also a very talented musician.
Speaker 9: Have either you or Jake written a song about her?
Speaker 11: Or we definitely have written like joke songs, Yeah, like
Speaker 11: nothing's making my.
Speaker 9: Record like at home that you'll sing to her.
Speaker 11: Yes, she's a theme song.
Speaker 9: Will you maybe give us one little hint of what
Speaker 9: that sounds.
Speaker 11: Like do you remember the show Pepraham?
Speaker 12: Yeah?
Speaker 11: Do you remember it?
Speaker 9: Yeah?
Speaker 11: So her theme song is will Lev will Leby. She's
Speaker 11: still cool for seventh grade, Willa Bean. It's like a million.
Speaker 14: Amazing.
Speaker 11: She's like ready for her, She's like, who we.
Speaker 12: Le cass up little food for yourself life ain't Oh
Speaker 12: it's pretty Bay, It's pretty beautiful man, beautiful laughs a
Speaker 12: little more exciting, said, he can't he You're kicking it
Speaker 12: with Full Thing with Amy Brown.
Speaker 15: Hey, it's Amy Brown from Four Things with Amy Brown.
Speaker 9: And here's what.
Speaker 15: We talked about this week on my podcast.
Speaker 10: One piece of advice that you gave me recently was
Speaker 10: mom got engaged her senior year and that's something that
Speaker 10: some of my friends have done, and that's great. But
Speaker 10: your advice to me was, don't rush to the next
Speaker 10: season while a really good season is already happening. Don't
Speaker 10: rush to the season of being engaged. Be present, be
Speaker 10: where my feet are, and then that will come if
Speaker 10: its meant to be in God's timing. And I really
Speaker 10: liked that advice and it made me feel like it
Speaker 10: is okay to take things slow and there's no need
Speaker 10: to rush to get engaged.
Speaker 11: Or to get married.
Speaker 16: Yeah, well, everybody's on their own timeline. But I was
Speaker 16: just giving you my perspective, even though that's how we
Speaker 16: did do things. And I did get engaged my senior year,
Speaker 16: and then we got married right after I graduated. I
Speaker 16: really realized that I felt like planning for the wedding
Speaker 16: and planning for the marriage overlapped with me enjoying the
Speaker 16: very end of my senior year of college. And it's
Speaker 16: like these two seasons really overlapped. And so I was
Speaker 16: just trying to share my perspective and I liked it.
Speaker 16: No matter what's happening with your friends, you were on
Speaker 16: your own timeline, and it's okay to draw things out
Speaker 16: a little longer than maybe other people are.
Speaker 9: So Ben, you're Ben.
Speaker 15: So I was mind you had been which happened to
Speaker 15: be her beIN's bff. But what's the flower story since
Speaker 15: we were talking about flowers earlier. Oh into my head
Speaker 15: about what he did when y'all were in junior high.
Speaker 16: Yeah, well, my Ben and I, actually you're beIN and
Speaker 16: I too. We all met in middle school youth group
Speaker 16: at church. So my Bin, we actually became boyfriend girlfriend
Speaker 16: in middle school and kind of dated a little bit
Speaker 16: through high school.
Speaker 17: Then we broke up and he dated somebody else for
Speaker 17: a long time.
Speaker 16: We don't need talk, We don't really need to talk
Speaker 16: about all the details of that. But nonetheless, he had
Speaker 16: come over to my house. And I was in gymnastics
Speaker 16: and a dancer in high school. So it was like
Speaker 16: my freshman year of high school, and I had done
Speaker 16: some performances and sometimes you would get flowers.
Speaker 17: People would bring you roses. Oh, good job on your performance.
Speaker 16: Well then I would save those roses like that dozen roses,
Speaker 16: dry them, hang them upside down, dry them, and then
Speaker 16: they'd be sitting around my room really beautiful.
Speaker 17: And so Ben comes over.
Speaker 16: He sees, oh, she likes dead flowers, okay, And so
Speaker 16: his stepmom and dad had a recent anniversary. His dad
Speaker 16: had given some flowers. The flowers were about to be
Speaker 16: thrown out because they were wilty and gross and ugly,
Speaker 16: and Ben's like, oh no, no, no, don't throw them out.
Speaker 16: Christie loves dead flowers. So then he brought me his
Speaker 16: parents old used dying that anniversary flowers because he thought
Speaker 16: I would love them. And so the differences they weren't
Speaker 16: the flowers given to me, they were.
Speaker 11: Given to somebody else.
Speaker 16: So I think that's the sentiment of keeping dried flowers
Speaker 16: is typically that's because they were given to you alive and.
Speaker 17: Beautiful, and then you saved them.
Speaker 11: I think it's cute.
Speaker 9: That is thirteen or fourteen year old brain.
Speaker 16: I thought, Oh, she loves dead Wait a second, Christie
Speaker 16: loves dead flowers.
Speaker 17: That's a cute story. I love that.
Speaker 15: So do you have any thoughts on dating even though
Speaker 15: you haven't dated since your twenties, or what you would
Speaker 15: hope that I look for in my next relationship. Not
Speaker 15: the qualities in the person, because I know that you
Speaker 15: love my former Bin. Yes we've known him forever, so
Speaker 15: it's not I do about that be very special to me,
Speaker 15: but more so that what you hope for me and
Speaker 15: maybe what I look for, like traveling or being spontaneous.
Speaker 17: Spontaneous spin could be that, but.
Speaker 9: I'm you know, working on that.
Speaker 15: Or are you and Ben looking for pickleball people to
Speaker 15: like play with y'all something like that?
Speaker 17: Or people to sit around the campfire?
Speaker 9: Would you like them?
Speaker 15: Him to want to hike in the mountains with us
Speaker 15: and ski, which you know my Bin did all Wait,
Speaker 15: why did I get to wait?
Speaker 10: No?
Speaker 16: No, I mean, all of those things would be wonderful,
Speaker 16: but I think the main thing I want to see
Speaker 16: is I just want to see you really light up
Speaker 16: when you're with them, And I honestly don't care about
Speaker 16: anything else. So it makes me cry to say that
Speaker 16: out loud, But I just think, whoever it is, and
Speaker 16: I believe that he's out there, that he will walk
Speaker 16: into your life with a force and.
Speaker 11: It can happen.
Speaker 16: It can happen, and nothing's perfect and no one's perfect.
Speaker 16: You know, it's not going to be like some type
Speaker 16: of fairy tale situation because that's not real life, but
Speaker 16: just something where you'll definitely compliment each other and light
Speaker 16: each other up vice versa. That I see he lights
Speaker 16: you up as well, So that's the most important thing.
Speaker 17: Thank you for sharing that. I would like that too.
Speaker 16: And if he likes to ski and hike and enjoys
Speaker 16: the mountains and wants to come to Pugosa all the time,
Speaker 16: that would be awesome.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 15: If he wants to move to Colorado and Colorado, yeah,
Speaker 15: that would be great.
Speaker 16: And well come see you Heredo, anyone know anyone, So we.
Speaker 17: Will be taking applications.
Speaker 15: Adelin just made a reference to last week's The water
Speaker 15: Hoose podcasts and the water Hose spraying spraying water.
Speaker 17: As a quirky squirty, I.
Speaker 9: Don't say that.
Speaker 15: Yeah, this is more just me looking forward. It doesn't
Speaker 15: mean what I didn't have for anything. Like I loved
Speaker 15: my marriage. I love that we got two kids out
Speaker 15: of it from Haiti and they have a whole new
Speaker 15: life here and they're adjusting well to their time with
Speaker 15: their mom and their time with their dad. And Ben
Speaker 15: is dating, and clearly that's the thing, and I know
Speaker 15: they're enjoying that, and they're getting to experience someone that's
Speaker 15: pouring into their life. And I just too want if
Speaker 15: I meet somebody, I need to make sure that they'll
Speaker 15: pour into my kids as well.
Speaker 17: That would be.
Speaker 16: Part of you lighting up around them because you're not
Speaker 16: having to dim any part of yourself to accommodate.
Speaker 17: And you know, Ben is wonderful. You're Ben is wonderful, You're.
Speaker 16: Been a lot, been, They're all they're just great Ben. No,
Speaker 16: But what I was just saying is you you you're
Speaker 16: a Ben.
Speaker 17: You have a hen.
Speaker 15: I know, but weird to now say your beIN or
Speaker 15: my bin because he's not my beIN anymore. And he
Speaker 15: probably always say you're been I know which I'm and
Speaker 15: I will refer to him that way sometimes too, and
Speaker 15: then I still call him uncle Ben.
Speaker 17: Yeah, and you should. Yeah, he is your own beIN.
Speaker 15: I just think out of respect for how how he's
Speaker 15: progressed in his life right for me to say my
Speaker 15: bin right, it's weird because he's in a relationship.
Speaker 17: Which is great.
Speaker 16: You know, you'll both have so much to offer people,
Speaker 16: and you as a couple had lost your way with
Speaker 16: each other because of a lot of factors. And so
Speaker 16: I really hope it for both of you that as
Speaker 16: you move on, because y'all are co parenting, you've got
Speaker 16: these children. Of course, I love him and will always
Speaker 16: be family, but I would like to see for both
Speaker 16: of you that spark in whoever your partners are in
Speaker 16: the future.
Speaker 4: We're going to do it live.
Speaker 13: We are the one, two, three sore losers.
Speaker 18: What up, everybody? I am lunchbox. I know the most
Speaker 18: about sports. I'll give you the sports facts, my sports opinions,
Speaker 18: because I'm pretty much a sports genius.
Speaker 4: Y'all.
Speaker 1: It's Sison.
Speaker 3: I'm from the North.
Speaker 1: I'm an alpha male. I live on the.
Speaker 13: North side of Nashville. With Bayser my wife. We do
Speaker 13: have a farm. It's beautiful, a lot of acreage, no animals,
Speaker 13: a lot of crops hopefully soon corn pumpkins, rye. I
Speaker 13: believe maybe a little fescue to be determined.
Speaker 18: Over to you, coach, And here's a clip from this
Speaker 18: week's episode of The Sore Losers.
Speaker 13: It's like, you deposit, I deposit let's say, last Friday,
Speaker 13: and then it puts the date of this Wednesday, so
Speaker 13: then it looks like I just gambled on Wednesday. And
Speaker 13: then Beazer goes, oh, oh, I just saw the checking account.
Speaker 13: Oh you've been gambling. No, I mean actually technically I
Speaker 13: deposited a week ago, but the stupid site decides to
Speaker 13: delay it. It takes it from my account immediately. Yeah
Speaker 13: it's small soapbox. But then it puts it that it
Speaker 13: the transaction happened two days ago. Nope, I'm pretty sure
Speaker 13: I haven't bet in like five days.
Speaker 3: Okay, arrest my kids.
Speaker 18: It's sort of like when you charge your credit card
Speaker 18: in the uber. You wrote in the uber on Wednesday
Speaker 18: thank you, and the charge doesn't show up till Friday,
Speaker 18: and it's like, well, why were you taking an uber
Speaker 18: on Friday. No no, no, I took an uber on
Speaker 18: Wednesday from the airport, but it doesn't show up till Friday.
Speaker 18: I didn't actually get in the uber on Friday.
Speaker 4: Thank you.
Speaker 13: I rest my case, but not fully. Also, when you
Speaker 13: go to a restaurant or a bar, it puts fifty
Speaker 13: five dollars charge, but it won't put the tip on
Speaker 13: there for four days later. But the tip was factored
Speaker 13: in immediately. Why can I not see that total that
Speaker 13: next morning when I wake up hungover?
Speaker 18: Also question, why does sometimes you look at your bank account,
Speaker 18: it's like, okay, you spent fifty four dollars at this restaurant.
Speaker 18: Then the next line is twelve dollars from that restaurant.
Speaker 18: They don't do it in one transaction. Sometimes they do
Speaker 18: it in two transactions, so they put the tip separately.
Speaker 18: Explain it to me.
Speaker 3: That I can't.
Speaker 13: The other one is, so say we see in the
Speaker 13: this is a pretty close to example. You see in
Speaker 13: the account eight hundred dollars. Baserwell pay a couple of
Speaker 13: things electricity, water, sewage, still says eight hundred dollars. Then
Speaker 13: she'll pay garbage eight hundred dollars. So then I log
Speaker 13: in we've got eight hundred dollars. Oh yeah, I'm gambling, baby.
Speaker 13: Oh no, no, no, no, There's five things I've paid
Speaker 13: for that hasn't gotten removed yet from the checking account.
Speaker 13: So the system in our checking account isn't advanced enough
Speaker 13: the second you pay for something to subtract it from
Speaker 13: that total, so I know the exact amount of money
Speaker 13: in my account.
Speaker 3: They're setting you up to overdraft. I don't know why
Speaker 3: they do that.
Speaker 18: I don't understand because sometimes I'll submit a reimbursement for
Speaker 18: work and I will say, okay, yeah, blah blah blah.
Speaker 18: We went to iHeart and Austin and I'm like, all right, yeah,
Speaker 18: this is the weekend I put the dates were there,
Speaker 18: and then I put my Uber receipt and they're like,
Speaker 18: that is not in the dates that you were there.
Speaker 18: And I'm like, dude, I can't help what the like
Speaker 18: how it comes through the transaction two days later like
Speaker 18: it was obviously in Austin. I live in Nashville. It
Speaker 18: was like, you can tell that I didn't go down
Speaker 18: there for a separate trip like a day later after
Speaker 18: I came back.
Speaker 3: And then I have to fill.
Speaker 18: Out a form that says this is why it says
Speaker 18: that it's like guys common sense.
Speaker 13: And also why to never share an account guys, this
Speaker 13: should be the explanation. So I don't get to see
Speaker 13: the savings account. The account is in both of our names,
Speaker 13: Raymonds Sisson and Laura Sison, and she sees our checking account.
Speaker 13: I see our checking account, she sees our savings account.
Speaker 13: I don't see our savings account. For all I know,
Speaker 13: we don't even have a savings account.
Speaker 3: So when you.
Speaker 18: Log in, the savings account doesn't show up when you
Speaker 18: log in.
Speaker 13: Correct, And we went to the banker and we said, hey,
Speaker 13: it doesn't show up that I have a savings account.
Speaker 17: I don't know.
Speaker 13: There's some glitch in the system. So you're probably gonna
Speaker 13: have to start a new account. Okay, So then we
Speaker 13: would cancel this entire thing, transfer our small amount of money.
Speaker 13: It probably pretty easy. You can do it in one transaction,
Speaker 13: and then the savings account's got to get transferred over
Speaker 13: all because there's a glitch in the system. To this day,
Speaker 13: I still don't see the savings account. So I send
Speaker 13: her a text, Hey, how's the savings account looking. I
Speaker 13: don't have access to it. I coach technology and sometimes
Speaker 13: there's advancements and sometimes we regress. I'm blown away by
Speaker 13: it right now.
Speaker 18: Takecare, dude. We have a little code box. You type
Speaker 18: in a code. Boom boom boom, check your kid in.
Speaker 18: And we have three kids. Boom boom boom, check them in,
Speaker 18: and when you go to get them out, hit your code.
Speaker 3: Check out, check out, check out.
Speaker 18: About a month ago, I go and I type in
Speaker 18: my code to check them out, and only two of.
Speaker 3: Their names are on there. Thought I had three.
Speaker 18: I said, I don't know if it's a big deal
Speaker 18: because I figured this is how you keep your numbers.
Speaker 18: But it only has two of my kids here, So
Speaker 18: can I check the third one out? And they're like, yeah,
Speaker 18: it's kind of a glitch. We're working on it. We'll
Speaker 18: get it back up and run out. I'm like, cool, yeah,
Speaker 18: glitches or bitches. Well guess what I went yesterday. It's
Speaker 18: been over a month. I still only got two kids
Speaker 18: on there, so their numbers are off every single day.
Speaker 18: There is no way they know what how many kids
Speaker 18: are at that school. Because one of my kids is
Speaker 18: unaccounted for every time I drop him off at school.
Speaker 13: Well, you just wan up me. That's actually terrifying. But
Speaker 13: if something happens, blame it on a glitch and they're
Speaker 13: just like, oh, we're working on it. Well a month later,
Speaker 13: guess what, we haven't fixed it. Yeah, banker, If my
Speaker 13: wife leaves me and just fy, I have no access
Speaker 13: so I can't even see the savings account.
Speaker 4: It's just a glitch.
Speaker 13: So what happens when my wife runs to Mexico and
Speaker 13: I'm trying to get access to the savings account that
Speaker 13: I don't ever see or it doesn't even exist in
Speaker 13: my account?
Speaker 3: Oh, it's just a glitch.
Speaker 18: Hey, go to the divorce lawyer. So do you guys
Speaker 18: have any accounts? Yeah, we have a savings account. We
Speaker 18: why don't you pull me up the pull.
Speaker 3: That up for me, coach, Sorry sir, Well, actually I.
Speaker 18: Can't pull it up. So you're telling me that she's
Speaker 18: the only one that has access to that account.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, that's her account.
Speaker 18: Then, yeah, that's bad news. It looks like she's only
Speaker 18: one that can get money from that account. That's gonna
Speaker 18: be hard to prove in court.
Speaker 13: And then don't even get me started on our payment
Speaker 13: system here at work. If you want to log in
Speaker 13: to see a pay stub, Oh, my god, I've told
Speaker 13: Laura this course. She goes, She goes, hey, why can't
Speaker 13: you just pull it up on your phone? You don't understand.
Speaker 13: At work, we have to go through about eight different logins.
Speaker 13: Now they have it on a separate portal. You click
Speaker 13: on that portal, you click five times to finally reveal
Speaker 13: your pay stub, and then it's in Morris code.
Speaker 18: You can't freaking code. I go, hey, regular, pre post update, downsize?
Speaker 18: What held all these categories?
Speaker 13: What are you.
Speaker 3: Getting paid for?
Speaker 18: Ray?
Speaker 13: I also get one.
Speaker 3: Cold no uh endorsement.
Speaker 18: But then they don't tell you which endorsements you're getting
Speaker 18: paid for, so you don't even know if you got
Speaker 18: paid what you're supposed to get paid, because if you're
Speaker 18: doing a commercial for this place or this place, the
Speaker 18: salespeople just put it in there and you don't know.
Speaker 3: Okay, then I get paid all of them. I don't know.
Speaker 13: But then the thing that really got me was a
Speaker 13: separate portal from the portal. So we go into one portal,
Speaker 13: then we have to teleport to another portal, and then
Speaker 13: finally to a third portal to finally once we portalize.
Speaker 13: But if you need something from a year before typically
Speaker 13: from taxes. You then have to de portal to another portal.
Speaker 13: Sometimes technology bends you over, takes a two by four
Speaker 13: and sticks it.
Speaker 3: Rock You want to hear another technology story, And I
Speaker 3: tell her, Honey, I'm sore.
Speaker 13: Why do you think I'm walking weird?
Speaker 18: That two by four didn't feel good. I went to
Speaker 18: a home improvement store the other day.
Speaker 3: Oh, welcome man, happy to do it? How happy and healthy?
Speaker 3: And that's a different store.
Speaker 7: That's that's shuddering.
Speaker 18: Yeah, I saw they're shuddering a lot of locations. That's
Speaker 18: not happy and healthy. That is just depressing and sad.
Speaker 18: And I am looking for this new I need a
Speaker 18: new faucet for the sink. And I find it on
Speaker 18: the website and it says it it's seventy four dollars.
Speaker 18: That's a good price. I find it on the aisle
Speaker 18: r it's made of gold, and it tells you it's
Speaker 18: on aisle five bend ten cool, perfect, go get it there.
Speaker 18: It's one hundred and ten dollars.
Speaker 3: It's a damn good drink.
Speaker 18: And I'm like, well, that doesn't make much sense. So
Speaker 18: I walk up to the customer service desk and I
Speaker 18: mean I literally type in the UPC code off the
Speaker 18: box and it pulls up exactly, so it's the same one.
Speaker 18: I know it's the same one. I do it twice
Speaker 18: to double check my work. And I go up to
Speaker 18: the count and I said, man, I'm a little confused.
Speaker 18: I said, on the website it says it's seventy four dollars.
Speaker 18: Now in the aisle says it's one hundred and ten dollars.
Speaker 18: She goes, let me take a look at that.
Speaker 4: Sure.
Speaker 18: She grabs a box, looks at my phone. She goes
Speaker 18: other different products, and I said said, no, no, no,
Speaker 18: I typed in the UPC code. She goes, no, she
Speaker 18: looks at it. She goes, no, it's definitely a different product.
Speaker 18: This one's different than the one you have on your phone.
Speaker 18: And I said, okay, we'll tell me the difference. She's well,
Speaker 18: I don't know what the difference is, but they're obviously different.
Speaker 18: That was the answer. I mean, I can't tell you
Speaker 18: why they're different, but they're different.
Speaker 19: Hey, it's Mike d And this week a movie Mike's
Speaker 19: Movie Podcast, I shared what I think are the top
Speaker 19: five final lines in film of all time. I did
Speaker 19: my research, so I'm going to share a few picks
Speaker 19: of mine with you here, but be sure to subscribe
Speaker 19: to my podcast to hear this entire episode. Here what
Speaker 19: took the top spots in all the honorable mentions. But
Speaker 19: right now, here's a little bit of movie Mike's movie podcast.
Speaker 19: So at number five from nineteen eighty five, Back to
Speaker 19: the Future, Doc played by Christopher Lloyd, has this final
Speaker 19: line in response to Marty.
Speaker 4: Hey, Doc, we've better back up.
Speaker 1: We don't have enough road to get up to eighty.
Speaker 19: Eight ROAs where we're going.
Speaker 15: We don't need roads.
Speaker 19: To have such an epic movie like Back to the Future,
Speaker 19: you need a great ending, and Back to the Future's
Speaker 19: final line completely nails it and sums up all the
Speaker 19: adventure in this film. I believe Back to the Future
Speaker 19: is a perfect film. I have a lot of movies
Speaker 19: I believe are perfect films for me that I would
Speaker 19: rate a five out of five. But maybe if I
Speaker 19: had to make a list, there are just ten perfect
Speaker 19: films of all time.
Speaker 3: Back to the.
Speaker 4: Future is one of those movies.
Speaker 19: If aliens came down on this planet and had no
Speaker 19: idea what a movie was, I would show them Back
Speaker 19: to the Future because it has action, it has adventure.
Speaker 19: It has sci fi, although if you are showing this
Speaker 19: movie to an alien, they would be like, what is
Speaker 19: this ancient technology? You stupid humans? And then it has romance,
Speaker 19: It has some weirdness between guy and his mom. Yeah,
Speaker 19: it gets into every category you can imagine. I feel
Speaker 19: it is a perfect film and it embodies everything that
Speaker 19: I love about movies. For the most part, when I
Speaker 19: go back and think about this movie, this is always
Speaker 19: the quote that sticks out to me. And while putting
Speaker 19: together this list, I almost forgot that this was the
Speaker 19: fact final scene in the movie.
Speaker 4: What a great quote. That is why back to the
Speaker 4: future Rhodes, We're going.
Speaker 19: We don't need rhads is at number five at number
Speaker 19: four from two thousand and two Spider Man, who was
Speaker 19: played by Toby maguire. He is Peter Parker, he is
Speaker 19: Spider Man, and this is the final line of dialogue
Speaker 19: in that movie.
Speaker 20: Whatever life holds in store for me, I will never
Speaker 20: forget these words. With great power comes great responsibility. This
Speaker 20: is my gift, my curse. Who am I? I'm Spider Man.
Speaker 19: There are so many reasons why that is such a
Speaker 19: great final line. If you rewatch Spider Man from two
Speaker 19: thousand and two. The movie starts with him saying, who
Speaker 19: am I? Are you sure you want to know? And
Speaker 19: he goes into this little monologue setting up the entire
Speaker 19: story to come, and then it ends with that answering
Speaker 19: that question, stating it again, who am I?
Speaker 1: I am?
Speaker 4: Spider Man?
Speaker 19: I love Out of every superhero, I think he has
Speaker 19: the best hero journey and struggle of what it takes
Speaker 19: to be a superhero, all that he sacrifices of wanting
Speaker 19: to have love in his life, wanting to be with
Speaker 19: MJ but then also knowing his responsibility to the city
Speaker 19: of New York to be that friendly neighborhood Spider Man.
Speaker 19: I think that is such a great struggle. And director
Speaker 19: Sam Raimi did such a fantastic job with the storytelling
Speaker 19: in this movie to bookend it like that, to open
Speaker 19: asking that question and close it up by answering the
Speaker 19: question and then cutting to some great Spider Man swinging footage.
Speaker 4: And then you also.
Speaker 19: Work in one of the most memorable superhero quotes of time,
Speaker 19: one of the best mantras, with great power comes great responsibility,
Speaker 19: which we heard earlier in the movie spoken to him
Speaker 19: by his uncle Ben as he was passing away. So
Speaker 19: to bring that quote into this it is so perfect.
Speaker 19: It tells you exactly who Peter Parker and Spider Man
Speaker 19: is and also is foreshadowing of what's to come in
Speaker 19: two and how his story will be wrapped up in
Speaker 19: spider Man three. So I think that is such a
Speaker 19: great ending. And you think, with Spider Man being my
Speaker 19: favorite character, that would be number one, but you'd probably
Speaker 19: think that is where I would go, but not putting
Speaker 19: that one at number four.
Speaker 3: At number three.
Speaker 19: From nineteen ninety it is Goodfellas Henry Hill played by
Speaker 19: ray Leota. I just love it when movies and with
Speaker 19: a really big, important monologue, and that is exactly what
Speaker 19: happens in this movie. This is my favorite Martin Scorsese movie.
Speaker 19: It's the movie that turned Rayle Oda into a superstar.
Speaker 19: He played real life goodfella Henry Hill, and this you
Speaker 19: really everything you need to know about this character, who
Speaker 19: throughout the entire movie is doing everything in order not
Speaker 19: to live a normal life. It is what he hates
Speaker 19: the most in life. He doesn't want to wait in
Speaker 19: line like everybody else. He wants the best treatment, he
Speaker 19: wants to eat at the best restaurants, he wants to
Speaker 19: have the money, drive the car, live in the fancy house.
Speaker 19: And the worst thing you could do to a person
Speaker 19: like that is put him into witness protection where he
Speaker 19: has to be just a normal citizen. So I'll get
Speaker 19: into more of why I love this final line, but
Speaker 19: here it is from Goodfellas.
Speaker 12: Right after I got here, I ordered some spaghetti with
Speaker 12: Marinara sauce, and I got egg noodles and ketchup.
Speaker 1: An average nobody.
Speaker 17: Get to live the rest of my life like a shnook.
Speaker 19: I love the touch that Scorsese put on the ending
Speaker 19: of this movie when well, first it flashes back to
Speaker 19: some things that happened in the movie. You have Joe
Speaker 19: Peshi shooting a gun at the screen, but right is
Speaker 19: Raliotic closes the door, you hear the sound of a
Speaker 19: jail celle closing. And I think that's such a fine
Speaker 19: little touch to add to this scene, because him going
Speaker 19: back into his house in the suburbs is basically him
Speaker 19: being in prison. Because at the time that this scene happens,
Speaker 19: he rat it on everybody in exchange for not having
Speaker 19: to go to prison, and even though he didn't go
Speaker 19: into a real physical prison, his home has now become
Speaker 19: that exact same thing, and like you said, he wanted
Speaker 19: fancy spaghetti instead he got egg noodles in Ketchup. I
Speaker 19: would always find myself saying that line. And this movie
Speaker 19: also starts with one of the best opening lines of
Speaker 19: all time, which is an episode for another day, but
Speaker 19: it embodies everything I love about a crime movie. The rise,
Speaker 19: Oh and then the fall when they fall so hard
Speaker 19: and you see him just standing there in his robes,
Speaker 19: so defeated. What a great line, What a great delivery
Speaker 19: from Ray Liota rip from nineteen ninety eight, number three.
Speaker 4: I have a good fellas.
Speaker 3: Carl Line.
Speaker 4: She's a queen and talking with a song.
Speaker 5: She's getting really not afraid to fings episode, so just
Speaker 5: let it flow.
Speaker 19: No one can do we quiet, Cary Line, It is
Speaker 19: sounding Caroline.
Speaker 21: Hey, y'all, it's Caroline Hobby from Get Real with Caroline Hobby.
Speaker 21: And here is a clip from this week's episode. You
Speaker 21: are really wonderful at sharing your story because like you're
Speaker 21: you have such a testimony for your life. But like
Speaker 21: you were married and your wife died four weeks before
Speaker 21: you went on American Idol, How did you must have
Speaker 21: the courage to do that?
Speaker 22: Well, there was a few things because quite honestly, I
Speaker 22: didn't want to go after that. I just when you
Speaker 22: lose someone, you feel like you amputate a part of
Speaker 22: your soul. And I don't know, you know, I know
Speaker 22: that we've all went through losses.
Speaker 14: Their wife. I mean that's like, that's serious.
Speaker 22: And if you think about, like the scriptures talk about that,
Speaker 22: you are one, right, so they're really the amputation felt
Speaker 22: so real. I didn't want to do it. I did
Speaker 22: want to do it because she's the one that got
Speaker 22: me to want to do it. But then the try
Speaker 22: was four.
Speaker 7: Weeks after her being so raw.
Speaker 9: Oh, it was absolutely and it was unexpected.
Speaker 21: Right, she went in for like her heart was beating
Speaker 21: really fast and like she had heart issues, but like
Speaker 21: nobody was expecting it.
Speaker 22: Hurt past her surgery had a ninety percent success rate,
Speaker 22: and I remember saying goodbye to her.
Speaker 7: I went to work that day.
Speaker 14: You thought it was going to be so routine, well
Speaker 14: not routine, but just like I knew.
Speaker 22: It was kind of a big deal because it's a
Speaker 22: heart surgery and it's always a big deal. But I
Speaker 22: didn't want to acknowledge that it was a big deal.
Speaker 22: And plus the doctor gave me enough confidence. I had
Speaker 22: my faith to stand on. You know, I think sometimes
Speaker 22: when we have our faith to stand on, you know,
Speaker 22: we can become oblivious to some situations. That's where I was.
Speaker 22: I mean, I was twenty seven. I didn't want to
Speaker 22: acknowledge that. So I went to work that day. I
Speaker 22: worked at the cheesecake factory, of all places, and I
Speaker 22: could barely.
Speaker 7: I think I was probably the worst server that day.
Speaker 22: Wasn't a good server anyways, you know, I just absent
Speaker 22: minded a lot of my mind and she I got
Speaker 22: the call and I that the surgery didn't go as well,
Speaker 22: went to the hospital, never went back to work again,
Speaker 22: stayed in the hospital. They put on an artificial heart.
Speaker 22: It was like a two week process, and when we
Speaker 22: prayed to all the tears dried up. I mean I
Speaker 22: had no tears left in my body. And she passed
Speaker 22: away unexpectedly. Going on the show for artificial heart put in.
Speaker 22: So what they do is they if your heart stop,
Speaker 22: if it stops working and it's about to lose it,
Speaker 22: to put you on a transplant list. They'll put you
Speaker 22: on an artificial heart, which is this huge machine. I
Speaker 22: forgot what they call it, and it's they put these
Speaker 22: they had these two tubes just in her chest, like
Speaker 22: doing the work of her heart for her.
Speaker 7: I think.
Speaker 14: For her it only works in the hospital.
Speaker 22: You can't like live, could never live with it because
Speaker 22: this is massive. I mean, this is back in two
Speaker 22: thousand and eight, this massive machine, and it's basically pumping
Speaker 22: blood for you. And we won on the artificial we
Speaker 22: went on the transplant list. She never made it, and
Speaker 22: I was absolutely devastated, and it was the last year
Speaker 22: I could go on American automt So now I'm kind
Speaker 22: of answering your question. I went on American out of
Speaker 22: reluctantly because it's four weeks after her passing. Because if
Speaker 22: had I not done it then, and I told her
Speaker 22: I would do it, and she was excited for me
Speaker 22: to do it, then I would have no chance afterwards.
Speaker 14: He had twenty seven was the cutoff.
Speaker 22: Twenty eight, and I was going to turn twenty eight
Speaker 22: the next year, so August two thousand and eight, it
Speaker 22: was actually August eight, two thousand and eight was my
Speaker 22: first trial date. And eight means new beginnings if you
Speaker 22: look it up, like number, like numerology in the Bible anyways,
Speaker 22: and so I was like it kind of meant something
Speaker 22: to me thinking and it was the eighth season of
Speaker 22: American Idol. Like all these things, I just kind of,
Speaker 22: you know, run with day twenty eight. All things work
Speaker 22: together for are good. You know what I'm saying, Like
Speaker 22: things work together. And so I went on the show,
Speaker 22: took third place. But here's a good thing for me. Sorry,
Speaker 22: I'm pointing my finger at you, like listen here right here.
Speaker 22: I needed something bigger than me. Yes, yeah, I needed
Speaker 22: a bigger vision because when we go through depression, when
Speaker 22: we go through you know, a loss, when we walk
Speaker 22: through unexpected situations, we're disappointed to a place that almost
Speaker 22: like a root of bitterness is on the inside of us,
Speaker 22: and it's kind of poisoning us because we're just so
Speaker 22: bitter at how life turned out. I needed a bigger vision,
Speaker 22: going to La going on a TV show, sharing my story,
Speaker 22: the possibility of a music career, something I did music.
Speaker 14: I had hope.
Speaker 21: You had hope, and you had a place to put
Speaker 21: your pain that could serve others absolutely and yourself, and honestly,
Speaker 21: talking about stuff helps so much.
Speaker 22: The thing that I think, the more that we can
Speaker 22: forget about ourselves and focus on something else is a
Speaker 22: key to finding happiness, to finding purpose and a reason
Speaker 22: to stay alive, and go on the show with this
Speaker 22: mission of if I share my story, and of course
Speaker 22: I was walking it out, maybe they'll give hope to someone.
Speaker 14: You were just as raw as you could be.
Speaker 22: I mean, one of the someone who met me at
Speaker 22: my concert and said I had the gun out that day.
Speaker 22: She said, my my fiance committed suicide months earlier and
Speaker 22: I just couldn't live anymore. The TV's on in a
Speaker 22: different room. She's in a different with the gun, getting
Speaker 22: ready to commit suicide, and she hears a man crying
Speaker 22: on a TV.
Speaker 7: That that sparked her. It just kind of.
Speaker 22: It was that they were telling my story and it
Speaker 22: asked me questions about it, and she walked out. It's
Speaker 22: just piqued her curiosity for the moment, and she saw
Speaker 22: me share my story and she said from that point,
Speaker 22: she said, if he can make it, I can make it.
Speaker 22: I mean, this is one of many. So forgetting about ourselves.
Speaker 22: You know, what's the one thing in our culture. I
Speaker 22: think that maybe is putting us in a deeper pit.
Speaker 22: I know we are thinking about ourselves too much.
Speaker 21: And our feelings and how we feel about stuff and
Speaker 21: how it affects us.
Speaker 7: The ego and you're you're artist, right you saying country music?
Speaker 14: Yeah, I've been an artist sorts for.
Speaker 22: Yes, we are the top offenders because what do we
Speaker 22: do think about?
Speaker 21: You are your brand, You are your what you're putting
Speaker 21: into the world is you.
Speaker 7: And your art's and entertainment. This is where you are,
Speaker 7: This is where I am.
Speaker 22: We constantly have to be on We constantly have to
Speaker 22: be this thing because we want to keep people's interests.
Speaker 22: Because the moment we lose people's interests is the moment
Speaker 22: that part of our identity goes.
Speaker 7: And it's so and it's.
Speaker 14: Like, do you have value anymore? Or do you have
Speaker 14: earth anymore? Who am I?
Speaker 7: And so we think about ourselves more.
Speaker 14: And then you go into the whole why don't people
Speaker 14: like me? What do I need to do? What do
Speaker 14: I need to change? How do I need to like
Speaker 14: sing a dance to perform for you? So you love Megan?
Speaker 7: Why do you think I dance? And I'm no good
Speaker 7: at it? I'm no good at it?
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