Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show.
Speaker 3: Evan is on the phone today for to Catch a
Speaker 3: Cheater and he's been dating his girlfriend Marcy for about
Speaker 3: six months, and now he thinks she might be cheating.
Speaker 3: So let's see if we can figure it out for you. Evan, Sorry, man,
Speaker 3: but what's going on.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we've been together about six months. Like we met
Speaker 2: at a bar one night. I thought it was just
Speaker 2: a one night stand, but it just kind of progressed
Speaker 2: from there.
Speaker 4: Okay, we kind of weren't looking for a relationship.
Speaker 2: Per Sae.
Speaker 4: We just got out of a long relationship.
Speaker 2: Both of us and are like, yeah, our mindset wasn't
Speaker 2: in that direction, but it's just, uh, you know, I got.
Speaker 4: To have a long relationship.
Speaker 2: She was seeing a married guy that she would hope
Speaker 2: would leave his wife or her, and we were just
Speaker 2: talking to bonding about like how screwed up our lives were,
Speaker 2: and we just started expressing our connection another ways, like
Speaker 2: you know, basically bedroom.
Speaker 5: One.
Speaker 2: Yeah, one one night stand, lets another one night stand,
Speaker 2: and then it just turned into this thing, you know,
Speaker 2: and then I just started to kind of care for her,
Speaker 2: you know, I don't know it We've always tried to
Speaker 2: level up with one another. I always try to be honest.
Speaker 2: You know, we've had enough drama to last a lifetime.
Speaker 2: And I was like, if we're gonna do a relationship
Speaker 2: type of thing, then we need to be upfront about
Speaker 2: things nobs, and she said she wanted.
Speaker 4: The same thing.
Speaker 2: I don't know. It's like we kind of saved each
Speaker 2: other from like launching ourselves off a bridge or using
Speaker 2: our mind.
Speaker 6: So you definitely play a very key role in both
Speaker 6: of each other's lives. And she feels the same way
Speaker 6: you do.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I guess, I guess. Sorry thought, So.
Speaker 6: What's been going on that makes you feel like things
Speaker 6: are changing?
Speaker 2: So probably within the last month or so, I don't know,
Speaker 2: she's like like a different woman. Like she's always been busy,
Speaker 2: you know, she's need to go get her you know,
Speaker 2: but she's becoming like more scarce than normal. Like we
Speaker 2: don't live together, but we always made some type of
Speaker 2: effort kind of see each other, and like lately she
Speaker 2: would do this thing where she said she would call
Speaker 2: and then we could meet up, but then she never calls.
Speaker 2: Then she'll just start fights for no reason and like
Speaker 2: make them bigger than like they need to be. And
Speaker 2: then then there was a there was a client party.
Speaker 3: Okay, what happened that?
Speaker 2: With that? She had a client party thing and she
Speaker 2: she mentioned like, hey, do you want to come? And
Speaker 2: then she decided to downplay, like it's not really that
Speaker 2: big a deal. You can stay home if you want to,
Speaker 2: And I was like, no, I want to. I want
Speaker 2: to go, like you know, on the stressful legs out
Speaker 2: what's that open bar is free? I was like, yeah,
Speaker 2: that sounds like a fun night, you know, So I
Speaker 2: tagged along. That's when I noticed the Mary guy. Oh
Speaker 2: he was there. I was across the room talking to
Speaker 2: someone and I noticed them. I knew they worked together,
Speaker 2: but like she seemed really really really really comfortable talking
Speaker 2: to him, and you could pick up on body language
Speaker 2: like when do you want to go with somebody? And
Speaker 2: that's kind of the vibe I was getting. And then
Speaker 2: later I made a comment about it, and then she
Speaker 2: kind of shut it down and did she She made
Speaker 2: the comment of like, jealousies is a good color on you.
Speaker 7: Okay, you know, yeah, I mean you know, she got
Speaker 7: a point a little bit, like we never really put
Speaker 7: strong parameters on our relationship, but I don't know, Man,
Speaker 7: Marcie's smarter than this man, Like, yeah, she should be
Speaker 7: over being strung along with someone.
Speaker 4: That's like fake promises that.
Speaker 2: He's going to leave his wife and he's not. I
Speaker 2: don't know. I just want her to do what she
Speaker 2: needs to do, you know.
Speaker 6: I hope it's not that. But those types of relationships
Speaker 6: kind of turn into it drug, you know, and you
Speaker 6: have so many high highs and low lows that you
Speaker 6: get on these crazy rides. So you probably served as
Speaker 6: a wonderful distraction and showed her that life could be wonderful.
Speaker 6: But if this guy started popping back up, I mean
Speaker 6: there's a chance that she could she could be kind
Speaker 6: of playing around in that area again, or she's using
Speaker 6: the opportunity to have you to make Kim jealous. So
Speaker 6: either way, there's still going to be some type of
Speaker 6: poking at that. Man. I feel, Oh, I hate this
Speaker 6: for you and I hate this for her.
Speaker 2: That sucks.
Speaker 3: Well, let's see if we can figure it out. You
Speaker 3: already told us what grocery store she's a rewards card
Speaker 3: member at, So we'll play a song, come back, and
Speaker 3: then call her and pretend to be from the grocery store.
Speaker 3: And say that she's this month's lucky winner of free
Speaker 3: flowers delivered to whoever she wants to send them to,
Speaker 3: and we'll see if she sends them to you or
Speaker 3: to somebody else. Okay, okay, okay, we'll play a song
Speaker 3: come back and get your to catch a teeter next.
Speaker 3: Right in the middle of to Catch Acheeter, if you're
Speaker 3: just joining us, Evan is on the phone and he
Speaker 3: thinks that his girlfriend of six months named Marcy might
Speaker 3: be cheating. So in a second, we're going to call
Speaker 3: her and pretend to be from the grocery store that
Speaker 3: she's a rewards member at and say that she's this
Speaker 3: month's a big winner of free flowers delivered from our
Speaker 3: floral department. We'll see if she sends those to her
Speaker 3: boyfriend or to somebody else. All right, Evan. Before we
Speaker 3: do that, though, why don't you remind us of your situation?
Speaker 2: Okay, Me and Marcy met one night's stan turned to
Speaker 2: a relationship thing, always very honest. Lately she's been goin
Speaker 2: a sneaky and then it looks like she at a
Speaker 2: work function and kind of awfully reconnected with a guy
Speaker 2: that she was interested in before me.
Speaker 6: Who's married.
Speaker 2: Yeah, married, stringer her along. She deserves better than this.
Speaker 6: You know what's married guy's name?
Speaker 2: It's Charlie, Charlie the married guy. Are you ready for
Speaker 2: us to call her? Oh? Yeah, yeah, let's get let's
Speaker 2: pull that bandate off.
Speaker 3: Hello, Hi, this is horrible calling from grocers. I was
Speaker 3: looking for a rewards card member named Marcy.
Speaker 5: Oh hey, this is she.
Speaker 3: Hi Marcy, Please don't hang up. This is not a
Speaker 3: marketing phone call. I'm actually calling to say congratulations. Here
Speaker 3: this month's big winner. Thank you for shopping with us.
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, well, thank you so much. That's awesome.
Speaker 5: Of what did I win?
Speaker 3: Oh, you've just won thirty six long sim red Roses,
Speaker 3: box of candy or chocolates and a card to be
Speaker 3: delivered to anybody that you want within the fifty United States.
Speaker 3: It's the three hundred sixteen dollar value. Actually, oh my gosh, congratulations.
Speaker 1: Thank you. That's insane.
Speaker 5: What do I need to do?
Speaker 2: Well?
Speaker 3: How it works is I can take down the information
Speaker 3: in just a matter of minutes over the phone, and.
Speaker 5: Weah, we could definitely do it over the phone.
Speaker 3: Then great, Do you want me to set up a
Speaker 3: time to call you back? Or do you know who
Speaker 3: you'd like to send him to.
Speaker 1: I definitely have somebody i'd want to send it to.
Speaker 1: It's a guy, though, Is there anything else like it?
Speaker 5: Maybe send him?
Speaker 3: Yes, we can send a bottle of it, like alcohol, whatever, wine.
Speaker 3: We have some whiskeys.
Speaker 1: Perfect, Yeah, I know he definitely like whiskey, so that
Speaker 1: would be perfect.
Speaker 3: Okay, how does that Woodford reserve sound?
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, she loves that. That'll do just fine.
Speaker 3: Okay, we'll do a bottle of that and it will
Speaker 3: still come with flowers and then a card.
Speaker 5: Awesome.
Speaker 1: Well, thank you so much.
Speaker 5: What do I need to do?
Speaker 3: Well, I'm prepared to take the information right now. If
Speaker 3: you just if you give me the first and last
Speaker 3: name of the person you want to send them to,
Speaker 3: we can start there.
Speaker 5: Sure, his name is Charlie.
Speaker 3: Is there anything you want to put on a card?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Actually, could we put just wanted to send something
Speaker 1: small to celebrate. I'm so excited to see what the
Speaker 1: future holds.
Speaker 2: Great AKA a married guy.
Speaker 3: Hello, Mary Evan your boyfriend on the phone. This is
Speaker 3: actually the Jubil Show. Name's Jubal Yeah, Nina, Hi, I'm Victoria,
Speaker 3: and we do a segment called to catch a teeter
Speaker 3: and Evan thought you might be messing around with a
Speaker 3: guy named Charlie.
Speaker 6: So the married guy.
Speaker 1: Okay, Hi, Evan, I'm so sorry you heard that.
Speaker 6: So you are with the married guy.
Speaker 5: So it's it's kind of complicated.
Speaker 1: He you know, I've been with Evan for several months
Speaker 1: and I given up on Charlie.
Speaker 5: You guys are calling married guy.
Speaker 1: That's that's actually kind of funny.
Speaker 5: And he was.
Speaker 1: Still seeing his wife and I that's why it's kind
Speaker 1: of stepped away for a while. And then I had
Speaker 1: kind of heard through the great line at work that
Speaker 1: things maybe weren't going so well with the wife.
Speaker 5: And I spoke to him at this work party that.
Speaker 1: I did have Evan with me at. I kind of
Speaker 1: discouraged Evan for coming, but he wanted to come, and
Speaker 1: I felt like I kind of needed to say yes, and.
Speaker 5: He came, and I spoke to Charlie for a while.
Speaker 5: Turns out him and his wife's path completely separated.
Speaker 1: He has left, and at one point I stepped away,
Speaker 1: and I did see Evan actually approach him and tell him,
Speaker 1: you know, he better not hurt her, you better not
Speaker 1: mess with her.
Speaker 8: And why does this seem so nonchalant and funny to you,
Speaker 8: like you're just like it's like, oh yeah, and then
Speaker 8: you know, I've been dating Evan, but whatever the dude
Speaker 8: was seeing is right, Like, that's that's crazy to me.
Speaker 2: I mean, I mean, I understand that the situation is
Speaker 2: kind of weird, but it does sound very assay about it, like,
Speaker 2: you know, like you kind of don't care like I
Speaker 2: care about you. I just want you happy. I don't
Speaker 2: want to be strong along yet either, and so this
Speaker 2: is I don't know, this is this is proof that
Speaker 2: I kind of have been strong along and I thought
Speaker 2: we were more honest than that. You are.
Speaker 5: You're totally right, and I am. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I know we never really labeled things in the relationship,
Speaker 1: and sometimes I felt like maybe you were still hung
Speaker 1: up on your ex, but that's that's not an excuse.
Speaker 1: So I genuinely am very sorry, Evan. I didn't think
Speaker 1: this was going to happen. So, yes, Evan, I can
Speaker 1: confirm I was cheating on you.
Speaker 3: Oh wow, at least you're honest.
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, I mean that's the type.
Speaker 2: Of honesty I'm used to. I just wish you were
Speaker 2: more honest in the lead up because you know.
Speaker 3: Like sound very upset of it.
Speaker 2: I am. It's weird because I'm upset and in a
Speaker 2: lot of ways that can't be, you know, because I
Speaker 2: still have feelings for my ex, but like that's not
Speaker 2: a thing. And we were dating and I started caring about.
Speaker 5: Marson, So wait, you still have feelings for your ex? Really?
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, we weren't. I mean that's how we
Speaker 2: met was we were pining over people that at the
Speaker 2: particular moment didn't want us. So yeah, I still have feelings,
Speaker 2: but like that's not a thing that's gonna happen because
Speaker 2: she doesn't want to be with me.
Speaker 4: I started caring about you.
Speaker 2: I thought we were more honest than this.
Speaker 4: That's why I'm upset, but I.
Speaker 5: Feel like I can't be but now I know wait what,
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, do it.
Speaker 2: I'm baffled, all right, Like, wait, you've been geating on me.
Speaker 2: Why is this getting turned around on me? I?
Speaker 4: Uh, this is this is ridiculous.
Speaker 2: This is the most like mental gymnastics I've ever heard
Speaker 2: from somebody to try to turn around on me like this.
Speaker 5: This is everything I needed to hear. I am so done.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Evan, she hung up.
Speaker 3: I think you just got broken up with by the
Speaker 3: person who cheated on you, but you didn't cheat.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I think I didn't.
Speaker 2: Do anything wrong.
Speaker 4: That's that's the I don't know what's happening.
Speaker 6: You know what, Now you know that you guys both
Speaker 6: served a purpose. You helped each other get past or
Speaker 6: at least she helped you get past a little bit
Speaker 6: somebody else that you could open up to. Now, the
Speaker 6: key is going to be, don't take her back when
Speaker 6: married man decides he's going to stay married.
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, I don't think you've lived it anyway.
Speaker 4: So after I told her, I saw a feelings for
Speaker 4: my act.
Speaker 2: I'm so right now, But now I know, now that
Speaker 2: I know, I have a clear answer. That was not
Speaker 2: where I needed to put my energy at.
Speaker 3: Sorry that happened, but yeah, I bet that there's somewhere
Speaker 3: elsewhere your energy is going to be better.
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