1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:07,080 Speaker 1: You don't hear me confession I can't take better earl arms. 2 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:13,160 Speaker 2: Mouth speak text into seventy five nine to two says 3 00:00:13,400 --> 00:00:15,360 Speaker 2: I just did a social media deep dive on my 4 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:18,440 Speaker 2: boyfriend of three months and found he has a Pinterest 5 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:23,119 Speaker 2: board dedicated to his future wedding. Should I be excited 6 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:23,799 Speaker 2: or scared? 7 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:26,440 Speaker 3: I don't know. I've never met a guy with I 8 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:29,400 Speaker 3: don't know. It depends depends on what the aesthetic as 9 00:00:29,440 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 3: yours or not. 10 00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:33,159 Speaker 2: You know, I think snooping on your boyfriend that's the 11 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:37,720 Speaker 2: red flag you're already to get. You're supposed to snoop 12 00:00:37,720 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 2: before you agree to be single. 13 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 3: Only three months in Jeff, Okay, you're still snoopy. 14 00:00:43,040 --> 00:00:44,920 Speaker 2: But look, we're not here to judge you. We're here 15 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:48,160 Speaker 2: to listen to your confessions and then secretly feel better 16 00:00:48,159 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 2: about ourselves. So let's bring on one of our listeners 17 00:00:50,800 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 2: who's ready to make us feel a little bit better. 18 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 2: She's chosen the fake name Sandra Today. Sandra, welcome to 19 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:56,080 Speaker 2: the show. 20 00:00:56,720 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 3: He HOI, Oh good, Sandra, how you feel? 21 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 4: I'm okay, I have a little start to share this 22 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 4: with you guys, but thanks for listening. 23 00:01:07,400 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, I mean maybe it'll make you feel better. 24 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, we promised not to judge you until the microphones 25 00:01:11,600 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 2: are off, So is on. You are now the mass 26 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 2: speaker whenever you're ready to go ahead. 27 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 4: So, my mom has been married twice okay. 28 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 3: Was the first time to your dad. 29 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 4: Or well, to my dad and then my stepdad okay, 30 00:01:26,800 --> 00:01:29,280 Speaker 4: and then the second marriage. I got two steps and 31 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:32,120 Speaker 4: rings was born a girl, and we were around the 32 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:34,840 Speaker 4: same age when it happened. I was like thirteen fourteen, 33 00:01:35,800 --> 00:01:39,800 Speaker 4: and we were like best friends, like everything was great okay, 34 00:01:39,959 --> 00:01:43,959 Speaker 4: and the marriage lasted a few years. But ultimately, you know, 35 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:46,360 Speaker 4: my stepdad and my mom divorced. 36 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 3: That must have been hard because you were so close 37 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 3: with your step siblings too. Are you so close to them? 38 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 4: Well, we weren't even home when that happened, Like we'd 39 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 4: all gone to college at that time. 40 00:01:56,600 --> 00:01:59,559 Speaker 2: Oh that's weird. Do you like still stay in touch 41 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 2: with your step siblings after that happens, or like, once 42 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:04,480 Speaker 2: the marriage ends, do you also win. 43 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 4: That Well, we were trying to like figure out that 44 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 4: dynamics for a while, but six months ago I met 45 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:15,240 Speaker 4: back up with them. 46 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:17,800 Speaker 1: With your step siblings, yeah, my step siblings, Yeah, okay, 47 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 1: we went to a bar head drinks and like caught 48 00:02:19,800 --> 00:02:22,800 Speaker 1: up in our lives and tax met old memories, like 49 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 1: we were best friends when we were younger. 50 00:02:25,240 --> 00:02:29,520 Speaker 4: So you know, so that my step sister had been 51 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 4: to had to leave before my stepbrother and. 52 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:41,280 Speaker 1: I okay, I watched too many video I think. Okay, 53 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 1: so nothing happened. 54 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:47,400 Speaker 4: Nothing happened, okay, okay. After we all hung out, I 55 00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:51,359 Speaker 4: started texting him, and when we were texting, the text 56 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:52,680 Speaker 4: started getting really flirty. 57 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:56,280 Speaker 2: It's hard not to be flirty in a text, though, 58 00:02:56,400 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 2: I mean morning, Yeah, it just naturally happened. 59 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:06,840 Speaker 3: I don't get my brother, but you know, but technically 60 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:11,840 Speaker 3: you're not doing anything wrong. It just feels a little exactly. 61 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 3: I mean, how does it feel to you? 62 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:16,080 Speaker 4: Well, if I had, I felt awkward and I was 63 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:19,200 Speaker 4: wrong and like, at the same time, she's not accept 64 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 4: that anymore, you know. 65 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 3: And it's not like you have to see him family 66 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:24,640 Speaker 3: like things because your parents are divorced. 67 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:24,839 Speaker 4: Still. 68 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, he looks from Idaho, so she knows 69 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:28,920 Speaker 2: all about how this stuff works. 70 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:31,679 Speaker 3: It's not even a joke. I not even a joke. 71 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 3: I had a friend whose parents were step brother and 72 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 3: step sister. I mean, I know to their credit, the 73 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 3: parents that got married met at the kids. What it's 74 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:48,000 Speaker 3: a mess. It's tricky man. 75 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 2: Sorry, Sandra. So you said that you were texting with 76 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 2: your former step brother and it was starting to get 77 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:54,279 Speaker 2: a little flirty. 78 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:59,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's flirty, and you know we said it is 79 00:03:59,160 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 4: it kind of hangouty and so yes, neither the hockey game. 80 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 3: Oh my god, I'm so nervous. What were you I'd 81 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 3: be freaking out. 82 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 4: Well, it was really fun and then at think we 83 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:17,600 Speaker 4: ended up kissing. It was good. It was like it 84 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 4: was nice. 85 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 2: You guys already have so much chemistry and history. Oh god, okay, 86 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 2: so where are you at? 87 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 3: Like you kissed your stepbrother and then what Yeah, well, you. 88 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:32,760 Speaker 4: Know, obviously we can't tell our parents and sister. 89 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:39,359 Speaker 1: We started to date in secret, kept it going. 90 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:42,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, and it's. 91 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:44,599 Speaker 3: Was so great. You know we're still dating. 92 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:48,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, okay, look at grats. 93 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:50,919 Speaker 3: I mean, are you excited about it or are you 94 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:54,040 Speaker 3: planning on telling the family, Like, what's the goal of 95 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:54,880 Speaker 3: your next step? 96 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:57,680 Speaker 4: I don't think we can tell a family, but we 97 00:04:57,680 --> 00:05:00,280 Speaker 4: were talking about it and we can definitely see us 98 00:05:00,279 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 4: going along town that night. Mat case, we would have 99 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 4: to change our names and from a different country or something. 100 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 3: I think, let it play out. Like if you go 101 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:13,599 Speaker 3: to your family and you're in a serious relationship where 102 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:15,320 Speaker 3: you really think it's going to be long term, and 103 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:17,840 Speaker 3: like you hit a year mark or something, then it 104 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:19,880 Speaker 3: would be freaked out at first, but maybe they'll come 105 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:20,400 Speaker 3: around to it. 106 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:21,520 Speaker 1: I say the end of the day. 107 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:23,920 Speaker 2: Honestly, if you love somebody, you love somebody. You never 108 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:25,560 Speaker 2: know who the love of your life is gonna be. 109 00:05:25,640 --> 00:05:26,760 Speaker 2: At the end of the day. We have to remember 110 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 2: you guys are not blood related anyway, unless that's your 111 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 2: next secret. 112 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:36,080 Speaker 4: No, we were not related. I poised you. 113 00:05:36,400 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, all right, No what sansra, Good luck to you. 114 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:41,920 Speaker 2: Keep us updated on how it goes. And if you 115 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:43,920 Speaker 2: ever need any help, but text into seven eighty five 116 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 2: nine to two if you have a confession that you 117 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:48,359 Speaker 2: want to share. We can mask your voice and you 118 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 2: can become the next mass speaker. Phone taps coming up 119 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:51,920 Speaker 2: next 120 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:54,800 Speaker 3: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.