WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Pink Doesn't Stink

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update. You know those axe body spray commercials

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<v Speaker 1>where some lanky guy sprays a little bit of axe

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<v Speaker 1>on his shirt and then immediately thousands of gorgeous women

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<v Speaker 1>start flocking to him from miles around.

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<v Speaker 2>You made the axe documentaries that you watch.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, yeah, I tried that and didn't get any hot

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<v Speaker 1>models running up. But a few sick cats did come

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<v Speaker 1>by and cough hairballs onto my doorsteps, So that's something.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, were.

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<v Speaker 1>But apparently there is a trick that men can do

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<v Speaker 1>to make random women want to come up and approach

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<v Speaker 1>you out in public.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't want to talk to him, You just want

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<v Speaker 3>the free drink.

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<v Speaker 1>One of our listeners tried it out. His name is Mark,

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<v Speaker 1>so let's talk to him about it. Mark, Welcome to

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<v Speaker 1>the show.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, thank you for having me.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, you got quite the voice.

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<v Speaker 5>Mark.

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<v Speaker 2>What's going on?

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<v Speaker 4>Man? Your trick? Mark?

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<v Speaker 1>You just talk?

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<v Speaker 4>No, No, there's a little bit more to it than that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to take all the credit for this one,

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<v Speaker 4>but I was let in on a little secret, and

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<v Speaker 4>believe it or not, it actually worked in my experience.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So even you were skeptical before you did.

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<v Speaker 4>It, I was. I didn't think it was going to

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<v Speaker 4>be that easy.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, easy. Well, we have to know what this is.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you tell us about it?

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<v Speaker 4>A friend of mine, a female co worker, she's given

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<v Speaker 4>me some advice. She said, the secret to get them

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<v Speaker 4>to approach you is to just wear a pink shirt.

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<v Speaker 2>I could see this.

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<v Speaker 4>And apparently it's just enough of a warmth color that

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<v Speaker 4>it gives off approachability. I don't know what it is.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, met immediately say secure masculine guys.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's funny. Every time I'm working shirt, I always

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<v Speaker 1>get that compliment. BA says, You're doesn't count as somebody

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<v Speaker 1>that should be taking each other for Alexis, would this

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<v Speaker 1>work for you?

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<v Speaker 4>Is?

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<v Speaker 1>If you saw a guy in pink, would you be

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<v Speaker 1>wanting to talk to him?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, even if I want to talk to him

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<v Speaker 3>in like a flirty way. I could see myself drunkenly

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<v Speaker 3>walking by being like, hey, I like your outfit.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to steal his clothes?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's a sweatshirt I'm going to take.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So Mark, this is something that you actually tried.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, first off, I realized I didn't own anything pink,

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<v Speaker 4>so I had to go yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Of course you did okay, and it's a flattering color.

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<v Speaker 1>So how did this work when you were like trying

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<v Speaker 1>to meet women?

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<v Speaker 4>So I went to the bar with a couple of

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<v Speaker 4>my friends, just regular night, nothing crazy, and I wasn't

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<v Speaker 4>saying anything to anybody. Me and my guy friends were

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<v Speaker 4>just talking and the girls, oh wow, nice shirt. Yes,

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<v Speaker 4>and they're ignoring all my friends and my friends. They

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<v Speaker 4>were looking at me like I was a jock.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a little bit surprised that it was this effective

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<v Speaker 1>the first time that you tried it. But that's cool.

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<v Speaker 1>You're wanting us to call one woman in particular, right,

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<v Speaker 1>not every woman that you met that definitely not all

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<v Speaker 1>of them.

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<v Speaker 2>Is a woman. We're calling someone who approached you.

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<v Speaker 4>She is her name is Tamara, and we were both

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<v Speaker 4>waiting online for the UNISX bathroom and of course she

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<v Speaker 4>saw my shirt.

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<v Speaker 1>Y Amara, what's I love it? What did she say?

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<v Speaker 1>She just said she liked it.

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<v Speaker 4>She was just said, wow, that's a really nice shirt.

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<v Speaker 4>You wear it well not, you know, she just called

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<v Speaker 4>me out on it, like as if she was surprised

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<v Speaker 4>I was even okay with wearing a shirt like most

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<v Speaker 4>guys would never like thing.

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<v Speaker 1>And how do you reply?

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<v Speaker 4>To that. Well, at this point I had heard it

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<v Speaker 4>so many times in the night. I was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>gonna I'm gonna let her in on a little secret.

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<v Speaker 4>And I said, to be honest, I'm actually wearing this

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<v Speaker 4>shirt to meet women.

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<v Speaker 3>What was her reponse, Why would you say that?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know. I wasn't trying to sabotage myself. I

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<v Speaker 4>thought I was trying to be honest and transparent.

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<v Speaker 1>Women do actually.

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<v Speaker 5>Laughed laughed, Yeah, she thought, she laughed.

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<v Speaker 2>That's kind of like saying she felt for your track.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, she's not probably not as uptight and skeptical as

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<v Speaker 1>you guys are. This is one of those kind women

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<v Speaker 1>you meet out in the world.

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<v Speaker 2>You know us. Wait, did you turn that into a

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<v Speaker 2>hag out?

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, later on in the night she ended up

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<v Speaker 4>finding me again.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, she's a little drunker.

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<v Speaker 4>A little more exactly. We both had a little bit

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<v Speaker 4>more influence going on at this point, and we found

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<v Speaker 4>a spot where we could sit down by ourselves and

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<v Speaker 4>actually talk, not have to shout over everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, an intimate sit down. How did that go?

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<v Speaker 4>It was great. We got to know each other. We

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<v Speaker 4>talked about travel, we talked about our families, we even

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<v Speaker 4>got to our childhood what into our childhood?

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, had a whole therapy session.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know if it was the color, if it

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<v Speaker 4>was the pink bringing it out in me, but you know,

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<v Speaker 4>I just felt very sensitive, like yeah, fourth trade and

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<v Speaker 4>I got it could have been that to I won't lie.

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<v Speaker 1>So after you got done crying in each other's arms,

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<v Speaker 1>then how did you leave it?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, eventually she had to go. I found my friends,

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<v Speaker 4>and then she hasn't really been replying my text. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>we exchanged numbers and stuff, and I didn't know what

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<v Speaker 4>to do. So I asked my coworker, a female gave

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<v Speaker 4>me the advice in the first place, and she was like,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, just send her a question mark like the symbol. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>It's actually not the worst.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of passive aggressive.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I need more. Yeah, Like it does feel passive.

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<v Speaker 1>You're a married woman, Brook, You're not allowed to be

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<v Speaker 1>a part of that. She shouldn't be asking for it.

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<v Speaker 2>Just feels angry a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe question totally did it work? Did she respond?

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<v Speaker 4>All she did was.

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<v Speaker 2>Question it isikes, that's really bad.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well that's not a good sign. We need to

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<v Speaker 1>get to the bottom of this, We're gonna call Tamara

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<v Speaker 1>and try and get you a pink themed edition of

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<v Speaker 1>a Second Date update when we do it right after

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<v Speaker 1>this Second Date update. Today we learned about the seductive

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<v Speaker 1>magic of the pink shirt. So it's a man's secret

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<v Speaker 1>weapon to get random women to approach you out in

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<v Speaker 1>public and say flirty things to you like huh nice shirt,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah hold out. I know turned up the heat with

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<v Speaker 1>that one, and it worked for our listener Mark, not

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<v Speaker 1>just on Brook in her low standards, but on actual

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<v Speaker 1>women out in the real world. It's amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>The second part, that's how.

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<v Speaker 1>He met a woman named Tamara at a bar. They

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<v Speaker 1>ended up hanging out the entire night after that.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh it's so cute.

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<v Speaker 1>But following their bar meetup, she's been almost completely avoiding

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<v Speaker 1>his texts other than the question mark that he sent

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<v Speaker 1>to her and she just liked it.

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<v Speaker 3>Is that the only communication is that the only text

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<v Speaker 3>you sent to her?

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<v Speaker 1>What mark are you willing to every day for the

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<v Speaker 1>rest of your life?

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<v Speaker 2>If this works, he needs a text in pink.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, can you change.

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<v Speaker 1>The bubble to a pink bubble?

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<v Speaker 5>People really want it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why he's turned to us for some radio helps.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're going to do our best here. I'm about

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<v Speaker 1>to dial to Maara.

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<v Speaker 3>If our low bar is just a question mark, I

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<v Speaker 3>think we've got this.

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<v Speaker 1>You never know with us, though, So here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm dialing your number right now.

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<v Speaker 4>Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, is this Tamara?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? The sense is this.

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<v Speaker 1>We are a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 2>On the show.

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<v Speaker 5>Good morning, Hi, thanks, good morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry to surprise you like this, but we're doing a

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<v Speaker 1>segment called a second Date update, and one of our

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<v Speaker 1>listeners asked us to reach out to you.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, okay, who was it that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like yes, And then it just dawned on me

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<v Speaker 2>what you just said.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you don't realize what you're getting yourself into here.

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<v Speaker 1>But a guy named Mark met you the other night

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<v Speaker 1>out at the bar.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, yeah, what what did he tell you?

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<v Speaker 1>So far? Good reaction. He told us a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>about your guys' night that you complimented him on his

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<v Speaker 1>nice pink shirt. I'm sorry, I'm sorry to stop. Is

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<v Speaker 1>are you in a construction zone or are you in

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<v Speaker 1>a stairwell? Are you building a staircase?

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<v Speaker 5>There actually is contractors working underneath me in the apartment.

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<v Speaker 5>I think you're streaking the popcorn feelings underneath me.

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<v Speaker 2>That's good. Nobody wants those anymore. We're not HGTV.

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<v Speaker 5>But now it's been days of this noise.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you get I assumed that you had met somebody

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<v Speaker 1>else that night and brought him home and locked him

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<v Speaker 1>in a room, and now he's trying to.

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<v Speaker 2>I think Mark would still be open that he jealous,

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<v Speaker 2>that he wasn't the guy locked in the room.

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<v Speaker 4>Yea.

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<v Speaker 1>The whole reason that we're calling is Mark told us

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<v Speaker 1>he felt like he had a connection with you.

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<v Speaker 5>Is that all that he told you?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean he said that you guys talked about a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of stuff, like you talked about your childhood and

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<v Speaker 3>travel and.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, did he tell you about our discussion about families?

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<v Speaker 1>He said childhood. I mean he said, you guys talked

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<v Speaker 1>about family stuff, but not you didn't get into detail.

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<v Speaker 3>But the way you're saying it right now, it sounds

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<v Speaker 3>like something bad.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, well Mark, he definitely tried to get into detail.

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<v Speaker 5>So we were talking about families and he asked to

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<v Speaker 5>see a photo of my family, So I pulled one

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<v Speaker 5>up from Christmas when we were all together, and it

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<v Speaker 5>got really weird, and actually, honestly it got really rude.

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<v Speaker 5>He like honed in on my sister from the picture yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>and was like his immediate reaction was, Wow, your sister

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<v Speaker 5>are so gorgeous, yeah, which I mean would have been

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<v Speaker 5>would have been okay, But then he kept going.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, maybe if anything, you compliment her mother? Did

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<v Speaker 2>you say beautiful family?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, yeah, And I'm telling you that's not a lot.

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<v Speaker 4>You know.

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<v Speaker 5>He was asking a ton of questions, like he wanted

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<v Speaker 5>to know how old she was, where she lived, Like

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<v Speaker 5>are you going to try to find her on Instagram?

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<v Speaker 5>Why are you asking so many questions about my sister?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, yeah, we didn't hear any of that stuff from him.

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<v Speaker 2>But he did want to call you and your sister.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, her phone number.

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<v Speaker 5>Otherwise you probably want why.

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<v Speaker 1>We're trying to help here, Remember, and I need to

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<v Speaker 1>tell you at this point that Mark is on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening to this call.

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<v Speaker 2>I think he needs great.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he wants to talk to you unless your sister

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<v Speaker 1>is there right now, in which days put her off.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, Mark, you had to have read my reaction

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<v Speaker 5>when you kept asking about my sister, Like I pretty

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<v Speaker 5>much stopped talking to you all together once you wouldn't

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<v Speaker 5>leave it alone.

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<v Speaker 4>I think you seriously misconstrued everything I was saying. Why

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think I don't think.

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<v Speaker 1>So what did she misunderstand? Mark?

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<v Speaker 4>If you'd seen her and her family, It's like when

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<v Speaker 4>you go buy a picture frame and there's like a

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<v Speaker 4>stock photo in there. I mean, she's her moms knockout

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<v Speaker 4>for like, you would never think she was a mom,

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<v Speaker 4>that's for sure.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, now you're talking about my mom too, and now

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<v Speaker 5>it's my sister and my mom would have wanted to

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<v Speaker 5>base the whole family.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Move on to a male sitting figure in the family. Please.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, well that's easy too, both of the dad and

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<v Speaker 4>her older brother or I don't know if he was

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<v Speaker 4>older or not, but he looked like he kicked my butt.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>You were impressed by her family and it just came

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<v Speaker 3>off from.

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<v Speaker 4>Jeans. That's the word I should have used, But I

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<v Speaker 4>was drunk. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Tamara said that she had a problem with you complementing

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<v Speaker 1>the physical attractiveness of her sister.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and it wasn't. You weren't going on and on

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<v Speaker 5>about my whole family. It was specifically just my sister

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<v Speaker 5>for several minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>What would tamara be something that he should have said

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<v Speaker 1>that would have come off as a better reaction to

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<v Speaker 1>seeing the photo.

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<v Speaker 5>I wannestly anything else, but you could have said, oh

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<v Speaker 5>my gosh, your family is so good looking. No one

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<v Speaker 5>know you're so beautiful, Like you could have given me

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<v Speaker 5>out of that.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you hear that? Mark? Does that click for you?

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<v Speaker 4>Totally? Sorry, it's clicking for me now. I was just

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<v Speaker 4>in the moment, I was star struck by your sister's like,

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<v Speaker 4>she's beautiful.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay again, now he's on it again. This is insane, okay,

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<v Speaker 5>but learning.

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<v Speaker 4>To be honest here and tell you what was going

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<v Speaker 4>on in the moment. And you never even told me

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<v Speaker 4>is she older or younger than you? Too? Like I

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<v Speaker 4>have been thinking about that, You've.

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<v Speaker 5>Been thinking about it, You've been okay, so you've been

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<v Speaker 5>trying to do want but honestly, not really a question.

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<v Speaker 5>Mark isn't really trying to test me. That's like the

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<v Speaker 5>bare minimum. But you've been thinking about my sister and

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<v Speaker 5>her age since then. This is creepy.

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<v Speaker 1>He's just trying to get to know your family. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure I'm.

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<v Speaker 4>Trying to avoid being creepy because I want to make

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<v Speaker 4>sure she's not like super young or something. What a question?

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<v Speaker 2>You shut your mouth.

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<v Speaker 5>You don't need to make sure of that because you're

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<v Speaker 5>never going to meet her.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, that's because she's not invited on their next day.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Mark, you need to just be quiet. Let me

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<v Speaker 1>try and help you here for a second if I can.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think you can Tamara. As a guy, it's

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<v Speaker 1>difficult to be in a situation where you're meeting somebody

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<v Speaker 1>new and they show you a picture of a gorgeous

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<v Speaker 1>woman and it happens to be your sister like that,

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<v Speaker 1>It's a trap. It's a trap. It's hard to know

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<v Speaker 1>the right thing when you're drinking. That is the right

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<v Speaker 1>compliment to give you?

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<v Speaker 2>Would you say the right thing?

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<v Speaker 3>When he was sober on the phone, Jes, you can't

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<v Speaker 3>use alcohol as.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure that he's pounding alcohol right now. He's totally

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<v Speaker 1>nervous and fluster because the truth is, to Mara, the

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<v Speaker 1>reason why he reached out to us is because he

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<v Speaker 1>likes you that much that he's willing to do whatever

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<v Speaker 1>it takes to see you again.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I I think at this point, I don't trust

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<v Speaker 5>that he just wants to get to my sister through me,

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<v Speaker 5>So there's no way that that's happening.

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<v Speaker 1>If you don't trust what I say. Let Mark tell you, Mark,

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<v Speaker 1>this is your a chance.

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<v Speaker 4>I bluff? Do I fold?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know man, Mark, Are you texting the

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<v Speaker 1>girl that told you to wear that pink shirt for advice?

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<v Speaker 1>I want what to say here.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think she would help. You probably did this whole.

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<v Speaker 5>Deeper for me now you've dug it deep enough on

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<v Speaker 5>your own.

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<v Speaker 3>It is It is, honestly like one big pink grave honesty.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there another color that can fix a yellow where

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<v Speaker 1>it feels like the moment has come and gone?

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<v Speaker 2>So it's a valiant effort. Jeffrey to Mary.

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<v Speaker 1>We were going to offer to send you out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date, but it sounds like it's a no.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I think all right, okay, So in that case, are

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<v Speaker 1>you cool if you just give him your sister's Instagram now,

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<v Speaker 1>so you just text me to it.

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<v Speaker 5>You know he's already found shocked if he had not

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<v Speaker 5>found her at all.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, well, good, I'm glad you shipped them. Congratulations. It's

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<v Speaker 1>looking Jeffrey in the morning. If we ever get an update,

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<v Speaker 1>update email from Mark saying, Hey, I found her sister

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<v Speaker 1>and it way better. Do I reply to that email, Brook,

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<v Speaker 1>or pretend like I didn't see it?

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<v Speaker 2>You reply because you love it.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what to do if someone shows you

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<v Speaker 3>a hot woman.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, if you're drinking as a guy and you're

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<v Speaker 1>presented with a hot woman and you're in the moment,

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<v Speaker 1>you might say the wrong thing. As a dude, we

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<v Speaker 1>tend to make those mistakes.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, but you don't say the wrong thing over and

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<v Speaker 3>over and over and.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he doubled down. So it's whatever. That relationship is

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<v Speaker 1>probably never gonna happen. It wouldn't it be interesting if

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<v Speaker 1>Tamara like found somebody in Mark's family he had a

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<v Speaker 1>secret brother. Tamara is dating Mark's dad. Mark is dating

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<v Speaker 1>her sister. Mark's mom is with Tamara's brother.

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<v Speaker 2>Trying to feel too much like my hometown. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>think I'm here for it.

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<v Speaker 1>Talk about a weird Thanksgiving? Yeah, somehow they're like stepsisters.

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<v Speaker 2>It's actually pretty easy Thanksgiving. There'd only be like four

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<v Speaker 2>people there.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Mark, Tamara, we have her fingers crossed for your

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<v Speaker 1>Both of your family is best And all of this

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<v Speaker 1>started because of one pink shirt.

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<v Speaker 3>Everyone's going to be in pink at the bar.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you ever need help with your dating live

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<v Speaker 1>email the show. We'll call that person that's not calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back. You can check out all of our Second

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<v Speaker 1>Day podcast wherever you get yours at Brook and Jeffrey