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Speaker 1: Oh, I've ever been left waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show, Adam, good morning, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: How are you good?

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Speaker 3: How you doing?

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Speaker 2: We're doing?

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Speaker 1: Okay, man, what's going on with this woman Julia in

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Speaker 1: waiting by the phone. We got to know how you met,

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Speaker 1: about any dates that you've been on, and kind of

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Speaker 4: So I'm freaking out this girl Julia, Like we met

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Speaker 4: on a dating apps, like regular kind of meeting, and

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Speaker 4: we ended up going out.

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Speaker 3: I didn't think much of it, but we ended up

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Speaker 3: having the perfect first date.

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Speaker 5: And I know this segment waiting by the phone, and

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Speaker 5: I know, like a lot of times people are like clueless,

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Speaker 5: they don't know what they did wrong, but I swear

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Speaker 5: that's like not me. I definitely know that I didn't

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Speaker 3: And I know that she had fun too. We texted

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Speaker 3: after and she was saying how she wanted to go

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Speaker 3: out again, and then she started ghosting me so like

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Speaker 3: and all that was really genuine, like I could tell

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Speaker 3: you know what I mean. So it's really weird.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I don't know what's going on?

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Speaker 1: Okay, So really like and people say this every single time,

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Speaker 1: they say nothing weird happen, But you're saying nothing weird happen.

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Speaker 1: You even texted afterwards, and then the ghosting happened. So

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Speaker 1: I mean normally people if they were that off put

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Speaker 1: text you afterwards. That's when they ghost. But you're saying

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Speaker 1: there was talk after the date and then she disappeared.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so like that's what's so weird.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well, let's see if we can figure

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Speaker 1: this out for you. We're gonna call Julian in just

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Speaker 1: a second. You'll be on the phone. We'll ask some questions,

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Speaker 1: you know, hopefully we can straighten things out. Sounds like

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Speaker 1: maybe I don't know who she got busy or who knows.

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Speaker 1: pay for. Okay, Okay, let's see.

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Speaker 2: What's going on.

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Speaker 1: Part two of waiting on the phone after a DOCI

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Speaker 1: back in two minutes, the Fred Show's on.

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Speaker 2: Don't move doc, it's.

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Speaker 1: A fread show commercial free for the next forty minutes.

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Speaker 1: You don't have to go anywhere, Adam. Yes, all right,

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Speaker 1: welcome back, man. Let's call Julia. You guys, met you

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Speaker 1: met on one of the apps, you chatted for a

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Speaker 1: date went great, you texted after the date even and

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Speaker 1: that was all normal. And then out of nowhere, this

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Speaker 1: her now, and you want to know why. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: let's call her now. Good luck, Adam, thank you so much. Hello,

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Julia? Hey Julia, good morning. My name

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Speaker 1: is Fred. The whole crew is here from the Fred Show,

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Speaker 1: the morning radio show, and I have to tell you

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Speaker 2: That okay, if we chat for just a little bit, okay, sure, yeah, I.

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Speaker 1: Know it's a little bit weird, but thank you so

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Speaker 1: much for your time. We're calling on behalf of a

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Speaker 1: guy named Adam says he met you one one of

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Speaker 1: the apps and you, guys, okay, so you remember.

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Speaker 2: Adam, you went on a date with this guy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So what happened because he called us and

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Speaker 1: he said that he really enjoyed meeting you and thought

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Speaker 1: I mean, we didn't have any trouble, so what's the deal.

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Speaker 6: I was just trying to avoid this conversation, but I

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Speaker 6: guess I have to face it at this point. I

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Speaker 6: did have fun on the date, like I really like Adam.

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Speaker 2: But when we were out on the.

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Speaker 6: Date, a friend of my ex saw us together sent

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Speaker 6: a photo to my ex of us and when I

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Speaker 6: got home, he was waiting for me at my house.

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Speaker 2: You at your house?

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Speaker 6: Yes, yeah, And he said how much he loved me

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Speaker 6: and wanted me back, and we ended up getting back.

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Speaker 1: To stop it right now, that trick, Julia, I know,

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Speaker 1: I know, I feel bad.

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Speaker 6: I didn't know how to handle it, so I just

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Speaker 1: But wait a minute, So this dude, how long have

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Speaker 6: I just about a month.

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Speaker 1: And and so in a month you couldn't fix it,

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Speaker 1: of a sudden, now he wants to make up. Like

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Speaker 1: that's that's just tail so old as time, Paulina, as.

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Speaker 2: Old as time, Excel. Yes, you're supposed.

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Speaker 1: To stand on my business, girl, He's supposed to be

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Speaker 2: How did you give in?

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's obvious he sees you with somebody else

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Speaker 2: Yes, fall for it.

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Speaker 4: But you did?

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Speaker 1: I know you don't even happy about it?

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Speaker 2: Blink twice if you needn't help.

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Speaker 6: I just felt bad about this whole situation and Adam

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Speaker 6: and I shouldn't have ghosted him. And but I am

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Speaker 2: Sounds still thought I was going to say, I don't

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like I feel like this is a prison video,

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Speaker 1: like like a hostage video or those things. Right, Okay, exactly.

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Speaker 1: Let me bring Adam in Juliet. Finally you get to

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Speaker 2: All it took was for you to come along.

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Speaker 3: I can't believe it. I mean that at least makes

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Speaker 3: I just that's just so crazy. I'm really bummed. I

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Speaker 3: what's terrible timing.

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Speaker 2: Juliet, you don't sound that enthusiam Is it.

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Speaker 1: Is it just that you have to talk about it,

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Speaker 6: No, I'm very sure about my decision. I just feel

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Speaker 2: Then I go to Adam.

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Speaker 6: I shouldn't have done it, and now I'm seeing called

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Speaker 1: We love a situation, Julie where everybody gets their act

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Speaker 1: together only when another man comes along. Yeah, that always

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Speaker 1: works out. Well, it's fundamental change. I can assure you

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Speaker 6: Strong, what are we doing.

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Speaker 2: We're standing on business?

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, well Kicky said do that. But

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Speaker 1: there's nothing we can do to Well, I'm not trying

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Speaker 1: to convince you to break up with Hibody anyway, she's

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Speaker 3: Yeah that I mean, honestly, I really like to go

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Speaker 1: Now, when she calls you in about let's say, sixty

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Speaker 2: not betting against you, Julia.

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Speaker 1: I just I just don't like it when people can

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Speaker 2: I don't. I don't like that. But anyway, that's just

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Speaker 2: that's my personal.

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Speaker 6: We got a segment, okay, yeah, whatever happens, we got a.

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Speaker 1: Segment, right, that's my personal opinion. But Adam, if she

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Speaker 1: I don't.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well if that happens, let us know. Okay, we'll

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Speaker 1: do And Julia, I'm sorry. I really don't mean to

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Speaker 1: it and I've had it done to me where they

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Speaker 2: We'll talk to her soon. Good luck to you guys.

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Speaker 6: All right, thank you,