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Speaker 1: Two teas in a pod with Teddy Melon Can't and

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Speaker 1: camera Judge. All right, here we are to cheese and

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Speaker 1: a pod with myself and Tamera and one of our

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Speaker 1: favorites with me. How's it going, Hi, it's going so well.

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Speaker 1: I'm actually in your neck of the woods down in

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Speaker 1: Sacramony right now. You are, You're like probably ten minutes

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Speaker 1: from my house. Well, why am I not at your house? Well?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Why are you at my house? Because

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Speaker 1: you have somewhere else to go today? Yes, I'm going

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Speaker 1: to Disneyland today. It is not my happiest place on Earth.

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Speaker 1: I hate Disney. It will be nice, though, because it's

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Speaker 1: not gonna be that hot today, I don't think. Yeah

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Speaker 1: it is. It is a beautiful last last week was

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Speaker 1: ninety so oh yeah, they're still You're lucky. Did you

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Speaker 1: um get a guide? A guide? Yeah? You can? You

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Speaker 1: and hire a guy with no Clark is my good? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Clark is taking our kids and I'm sitting at the

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Speaker 1: wine bar. Oh, so you're going to go to California adventure?

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Speaker 1: Well and exciting news. This episode is sponsored by twenty

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Speaker 1: three and me Um, and throughout this entire episode, we

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Speaker 1: will be sharing our results. And I have to say

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Speaker 1: thank you to Whitney for holding me accountable to actually

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Speaker 1: getting this done, because last time she was on the pod,

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Speaker 1: we talked about doing a twenty three and me and

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Speaker 1: we were both like, no, no, I feel scared, and

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Speaker 1: now more than ever now that I've done it, and

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Speaker 1: especially everything that's been going on with my melanoma results.

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Speaker 1: I think that a lot of us have done three

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Speaker 1: who were related to or how Whitney was related to

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Speaker 1: Heather and whatnot, but which I wanted if it shows

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Speaker 1: up on your twenty three and me. But for me,

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Speaker 1: the health is such an important thing that you can

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Speaker 1: learn through twenty three and me. I even spoke to

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Speaker 1: my doctor about it, and he said, this is changing

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Speaker 1: Like even for me, when I pull up my health

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Speaker 1: So okay, so I have a question, but I'm curious

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Speaker 1: for you, Whitney. In your ancestry report, did it actually

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Speaker 1: say that Heather is your second cousin? Okay, well, I don't.

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Speaker 1: It's our great grandparents that were siblings. Okay, so my

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, I mean some of some of this. The

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Speaker 1: on forgiving Lisa, like we're she's still bringing stuff up

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Speaker 1: with me, Um, because we know that's gonna be a

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Speaker 1: whole different level of ship show. And I'm gonna need

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Speaker 1: another bone collector to help me do it. I'm here

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Speaker 1: for you, girl, I'm scared. Also, I am I'm launching

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Speaker 1: a podcast, wild Rose Podcast, So I would love to

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Speaker 1: be a bone collector with you, Teddy. Yes, perfect, It's

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Speaker 1: just about telling the truth, unfiltered, uncensored. Do you have

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Speaker 1: a co host you're doing alone? Um? One of my

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Speaker 1: best friends is co hosting with me. But I don't

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Speaker 1: necessarily want it to be housewife only, like I want

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Speaker 1: to dive into the layers of me that we never

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Speaker 1: get to on the show. Is the friend Angie Harrington, No,

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Speaker 1: she's got a friend. We can probably guess. It's not Heather. No,

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Speaker 1: it's not Heather. Her name is Connie Daniels. She came

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Speaker 1: to Bravo con and she's in a lot of scenes

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Speaker 1: in the background. She's like been the most supportive friend

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Speaker 1: throughout this process to me, Like she hasn't nothing's changed,

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Speaker 1: like she and she doesn't want the spotlight, so she

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Speaker 1: just like cheers me on and has my back. You know.

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Speaker 1: It's like she's a really good friends. We congratulations, congratulations.

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Speaker 1: We can't wait to hear it. Hey, yeah, thank you,

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Speaker 1: all right, bye guy,