Speaker 1: Hey, thanks so much for being here in twenty twenty six.
Speaker 2: Wow crazy, Okay, listen, listen, all right, little housekeeping.
Speaker 1: We do have a couple of classics, okay.
Speaker 2: Today and Wednesday, and then our brand new Second Dates
Speaker 2: are going to start on Friday, Friday, I think, but
Speaker 2: I think we.
Speaker 1: Also have a brand new episode on Thursday.
Speaker 3: Yeah, there will be some new stuff, so just you
Speaker 3: have to listen every day to find out.
Speaker 1: Yes, you've been doing tons of recording and making sure
Speaker 1: that we've got it stacked for.
Speaker 2: You guys coming up this January, So thank you for
Speaker 2: being here. Enjoy this classic and we always love to
Speaker 2: start with a comment.
Speaker 3: Yes, Liliana said, I just broke up with my boyfriend,
Speaker 3: and as I was stressed waiting for a reply, all
Speaker 3: I could do was listen to you guys, and all
Speaker 3: I got was an alr, not even the full word.
Speaker 1: All right, just short day. Okay, Well you did break
Speaker 1: up with them via text?
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I don't know what you'd expected back, like
Speaker 2: just a thumbs up emoji?
Speaker 1: True? But new year you guys, Liana? Okay, there going
Speaker 1: all right? I enjoy this classic second Date.
Speaker 4: Second Date update? Is it ever a good idea? To
Speaker 4: talk about your other dates while you're on a date.
Speaker 1: No, I mean, I don't know if.
Speaker 2: You're like commiserating and sharing tenny stories back and forth.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I would say the short answer is no. The
Speaker 4: longer answer absolutely not, unless you plan to be on
Speaker 4: with us, because we love to hear the dirt. And
Speaker 4: I'm just thankful that Jennifer, our listener is on the
Speaker 4: phone with us today because apparently she talked about her
Speaker 4: other dates on her date. Jennifer, I disagree. I admire
Speaker 4: your class. Welcome to the show.
Speaker 5: Thank you you are.
Speaker 2: It's not like you're talking about like her ex boyfriend
Speaker 2: that she's still in love with, right, Jennifer.
Speaker 4: We don't know.
Speaker 1: That's why I'm asking, right, Jennifer.
Speaker 5: Right, we were just sharing like funny stories, right.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Okay, Well who are you sharing these stories with?
Speaker 4: What's this guy's name?
Speaker 5: His name was Joshua.
Speaker 6: Okay.
Speaker 5: I met him on the Coffee and Bagel app?
Speaker 1: Oh is that still around a while?
Speaker 4: While I know about the Bengal and the candle app,
Speaker 4: but the coffee yeah, I like that one.
Speaker 6: Okay.
Speaker 5: He just looked cute. He had like a a dog
Speaker 5: with him in his photo, and okay.
Speaker 4: You know. Actually I've heard that guys who have dogs
Speaker 4: in their photos get ninety more matches.
Speaker 1: Way that makes sense.
Speaker 4: Can I borrow your dog?
Speaker 1: Bro?
Speaker 2: The whole point is that you can actually keep something
Speaker 2: alive and care for something outside of yourself.
Speaker 1: The attractive point of it.
Speaker 4: Men, women are not gonna be able to tell if
Speaker 4: it's your dog and how well it's taken care of
Speaker 4: as long as it's in the photo. Just photoshop one in.
Speaker 1: They're gonna know after date one.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, Or put a little net brace on it
Speaker 4: like it is we're trying to do. Is accomplished?
Speaker 1: Sick?
Speaker 2: Dog?
Speaker 1: Dog sick?
Speaker 4: They could you determine his dog's health from the photo.
Speaker 5: Jennifer, It definitely looked like a healthy cute.
Speaker 4: This is what you're talking about right here. I see
Speaker 4: what you're saying. Okay, take us to the date with Joshua.
Speaker 5: So I wanted to make the reservation. I said I
Speaker 5: would make it.
Speaker 1: Is there a reason for that?
Speaker 5: I just in particular, like I love food, I.
Speaker 4: Love and you're like my favorites.
Speaker 2: Let me pick thee like the certain tables, you like
Speaker 2: all the things.
Speaker 5: Yeah, So I called and made a reservation. But when
Speaker 5: we got there, they had lost our reservation.
Speaker 1: Oh no, no.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I guess I should have made it online.
Speaker 1: Did that like throw the night off? Did it make
Speaker 1: you upset?
Speaker 5: I wasn't upset. Like they apologized, but they were just
Speaker 5: like over books.
Speaker 4: Oh no, that sounds like it's a popular restaurant.
Speaker 1: I know there's only two of you.
Speaker 2: It's like, can you squeeze us in somewhere, well, sill
Speaker 2: at the end of somebody else's table, No big deal.
Speaker 1: Literally make a table in the.
Speaker 4: Alley back behind the restaurant if I get the good food.
Speaker 1: Jeff, Absolutely, totally.
Speaker 5: It totally turned out to be a good thing because
Speaker 5: we ended up just wandering around the city and like
Speaker 5: we ended up getting burgers at a takeout place and
Speaker 5: just talking about our bad date experiences.
Speaker 4: Wait, you lumped this experience as to one of the
Speaker 4: many bad date experiences that you've gone on.
Speaker 5: No, this was just like a little bump in the
Speaker 5: road compared to like one time this guy venmowed me
Speaker 5: like two dollars and forty seven cents for half of
Speaker 5: his appetizer.
Speaker 2: Oh my goshno requested you.
Speaker 7: Wow, Yeah, I was.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, So you shared stories like that with him.
Speaker 1: Did he share stories back with you? Joshua did so.
Speaker 5: He said he had like a date who brought her
Speaker 5: mom and the mom was like critiquing his posture on
Speaker 5: the door.
Speaker 1: Straight.
Speaker 4: I actually think that's some nice feedback. You'd be doing
Speaker 4: that on the date.
Speaker 6: You're slouching a little.
Speaker 4: So okay, now this is a way to be like,
Speaker 4: you're actually way better than a lot of the dates
Speaker 4: that I go on. It's supposed to make him feel good.
Speaker 5: Yes, Like we were having a great time, just like
Speaker 5: laughing a lot, and it was just like fun.
Speaker 2: And anytime you have like a shared experience, whether it's
Speaker 2: like a bad date or anything, it can bring you
Speaker 2: closer to somebody.
Speaker 4: But this wasn't.
Speaker 2: Yeah no, I know, but they're both commiserating over the
Speaker 2: same thing.
Speaker 4: Okay, gotcha? So how long did this go on?
Speaker 5: For like a couple hours? And neither of us had
Speaker 5: like planned anything after so he just like walked me
Speaker 5: back to my car And I'm not used to like
Speaker 5: a short date like that, or.
Speaker 2: It was just like you expected the dates to go
Speaker 2: on longer, Like did you want him to invite you
Speaker 2: back to his place?
Speaker 1: Like what are your expectations there?
Speaker 5: I don't know about that. It's just like the vibe
Speaker 5: was so good. He just didn't even attempt to do
Speaker 5: anything else.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's a bar or something.
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe it's just plain it cool. You know, like
Speaker 2: sometimes if you go out on top, you end.
Speaker 1: It on a high note.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it obviously leaves you want anymore. So he did
Speaker 2: something right.
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's playing it so cool that he's not even
Speaker 4: calling her back anymore.
Speaker 2: So I guess that is planet coldly.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we're crazy, We're beyond the cool apart. We just
Speaker 4: want to help you figure out what happened. Okay, Jennifer,
Speaker 4: maybe the burger was bad that he ate it wasn't
Speaker 4: all it was a street burger, so yeah, but it
Speaker 4: is risky. So let's just call him and we'll get
Speaker 4: your second date update right after this second date update,
Speaker 4: our listener, Jennifer is the perfect example of when life
Speaker 4: gives you lemons, turn them into lemon drops.
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, I don't think they I mean, well, yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 7: whatever it is because her dinner reservation fell through the
Speaker 7: restaurant over books, so she took that and turned it
Speaker 7: into a fun night of wandering the city searching for
Speaker 7: street burgers and talking about previous bad dates that went
Speaker 7: even worse than this one did, and her date Joshua
Speaker 7: shared his worst dates too, so it.
Speaker 4: Really actually bonded them together. But Jennifer, how long has
Speaker 4: it been since that night?
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's been like a week okay, and you haven't
Speaker 2: heard anything.
Speaker 5: No, And I've sent like some text messages and nothing
Speaker 5: radio silence.
Speaker 1: Okay, So you're definitely being ignored.
Speaker 4: Have you tried sending him a photo because if he
Speaker 4: doesn't respond to that, then you know you're in trouble.
Speaker 1: Photo of what?
Speaker 4: Jack of anything?
Speaker 1: Don't do that? Do that, don't listen to their advice.
Speaker 4: You could send him a photo of me. No, if
Speaker 4: he's a fan of our show, he would definitely respond
Speaker 4: to that.
Speaker 2: Wait, think he's mad that she.
Speaker 1: Was talking about an other dates. Now you want her
Speaker 1: sending pictures of other guys to him?
Speaker 4: Jeff, I'm saying, if she does and he doesn't respond,
Speaker 4: then you really know something.
Speaker 1: So that's the fire. I think she knows before the picture, Jeff. Okay,
Speaker 1: she's not.
Speaker 4: An idiot, Brooks saying we're not at rock bottom yet.
Speaker 4: Let's wait till this call happens and see where we
Speaker 4: end up today. Jennifer, any last words before I dial
Speaker 4: these numbers.
Speaker 2: Or any last pictures, so Jeff that you want to
Speaker 2: send either way.
Speaker 5: I just can't believe I have to do this.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I have to do this. We call us the
Speaker 4: last resort for people. That being said, with Jeff being
Speaker 4: in a weird mood, you want to call back tomorrow.
Speaker 4: This may not be a good call.
Speaker 5: Well, we'll see, we'll find out.
Speaker 6: We're here.
Speaker 4: Let's just go through with it. How bad could it get?
Speaker 4: All right, let's do it.
Speaker 1: You tell us.
Speaker 4: I'll tell you about some of the worst second date
Speaker 4: updates we've ever done, and that'll make you feel better
Speaker 4: about it. Hold on, just okay, here we go.
Speaker 6: Hello.
Speaker 4: Hey is this Joshua?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Hey man, this is a whole radio show is calling
Speaker 4: you right now. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: Good morning.
Speaker 5: Uh came in real.
Speaker 1: Hot there, josh How are you doing?
Speaker 6: It's Joshua.
Speaker 1: Sorry, sorry, I'm married to a Michael who hates Mike.
Speaker 1: I get it. I apologize.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry that my host is trying to make this
Speaker 4: segment all about her and her marriage. But we say,
Speaker 4: I understand, okay, we get it. The real thing that
Speaker 4: we're interested in, though, Joshua, is you and the date
Speaker 4: that you went on the other night with one of
Speaker 4: our listeners named Jennifer. Okay, do you remember her? You
Speaker 4: know what I'm talking about?
Speaker 6: Yeah, I remember her.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it sounds like you guys had a really fun
Speaker 1: night together.
Speaker 6: Why do you know that?
Speaker 1: Great question?
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, because that's how this segment works. It's called
Speaker 4: second Date Update. And we spoke to her about your date.
Speaker 4: And she's a little bit confused about why she's not
Speaker 4: getting a callback for a second meet up.
Speaker 6: Really, but yeah, she said that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, she said that she had a great time
Speaker 2: with you.
Speaker 1: It sounds like you guys laugh together a lot.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Is that not accurate?
Speaker 6: No, it's accurate. She's like a really nice person, She's
Speaker 6: cute and everything.
Speaker 4: But you, yeah, your words are saying nice things, but
Speaker 4: your tone is saying something else. Yeah, it's like, h
Speaker 4: wasn't very good.
Speaker 8: I don't I don't think I know how to say this,
Speaker 8: but I just don't think I'm the right person for her,
Speaker 8: you know.
Speaker 2: Uh uh, we don't know because she I mean, you
Speaker 2: don't get to decide that, right, that's what she gets
Speaker 2: to decide, gets to.
Speaker 4: Choose who you win.
Speaker 6: You don't get a choice.
Speaker 2: That's her choice, right, and she obviously thinks that there's
Speaker 2: definitely something in between you two if she's calling.
Speaker 6: Us, Yeah, definitely her choice.
Speaker 4: Okay, is going on? Like can we get your take
Speaker 4: on the date? Did you feel a connection with her?
Speaker 8: I don't know, man, Like we're we're wanting different things.
Speaker 6: I don't know if you know what she's she's like
Speaker 6: into what's called.
Speaker 2: Stacking stack, like the cups thing where you do it
Speaker 2: in competition.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Ann Kendrick song. Yeah, no, okay, so we don't
Speaker 4: know what that is. Yeah, what is stacking?
Speaker 6: She said she used to stack, which means like have
Speaker 6: three to four days tonight.
Speaker 1: Exhaust.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Is it back to back to back to back or
Speaker 4: all at the same time.
Speaker 8: I don't think it was like at the same we
Speaker 8: didn't really get into it, but like, I don't know.
Speaker 8: To me, I just think it's kind of rude to say, like,
Speaker 8: I'm miss stacking.
Speaker 4: Oh she said she misses it.
Speaker 6: Yeah, she literally said she misses it.
Speaker 2: I mean I could see like I would interpret that as, oh,
Speaker 2: you you wish that you were.
Speaker 1: Out with someone else right after me. That was good
Speaker 1: to hear I could understand that, and that's.
Speaker 6: Why I took her to her car when we finished
Speaker 6: her burgers.
Speaker 1: Is there any way kind of like misunderstood her.
Speaker 6: No, I don't think I did. He was like looking
Speaker 6: back at it fondly, and it was very real to her,
Speaker 6: and she was she very you could.
Speaker 2: Tell, Okay, I can totally understand that she's doing anything wrong,
Speaker 2: But it doesn't seem like she likes you a lot.
Speaker 4: We kind of all see where you're coming from. I
Speaker 4: wonder if Jennifer sees it the same way, because she
Speaker 4: is on the other line listening to this Jennifer line
Speaker 4: with a show right now.
Speaker 7: I'm going to be mad.
Speaker 1: That's just right after us. She's good at timing.
Speaker 5: Heysha. I didn't think you would be so offended by
Speaker 5: what I said.
Speaker 6: You like, you said this whole thing up like you're
Speaker 6: on the phone here and called them.
Speaker 5: Yeah, because I was so confused. I was like, I
Speaker 5: thought we had such a good time. But I guess
Speaker 5: it's because I said I missed stacking, which I was
Speaker 5: just I mean, that was just a fun time in
Speaker 5: my life, Like it's not something I do anymore. I
Speaker 5: want the same thing you want, which is a relationship.
Speaker 6: Yes, it was fun.
Speaker 5: It was a fun time.
Speaker 2: It just feels like maybe that's a conversation you have
Speaker 2: with your like best friends. Yeah.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that sounds like someone who's never stacked before things well, because.
Speaker 2: How could you ever like be invested enough to find
Speaker 2: out if you were interested in someone if you were
Speaker 2: just constantly thinking of the next person you were going
Speaker 2: to see.
Speaker 5: I hear you guys talk about this all the time,
Speaker 5: and book you said it's okay to date multiple people
Speaker 5: to find out who you like.
Speaker 4: Contradictory to what your advice always is, she means, like
Speaker 4: you said, get it in as many times as possible
Speaker 4: before it's gone forever.
Speaker 1: It's not what I've said, but I think that dating
Speaker 1: lots of people is great.
Speaker 2: It's just like, if you're gonna ask someone to give
Speaker 2: you their evening, you also have to invest not just
Speaker 2: being there, but like your presence, Like how can you
Speaker 2: be present?
Speaker 4: Well said, you should have brought her presence, dude.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 5: I gave every guy I was with an hour and
Speaker 5: a half. I was fully present in the moment and
Speaker 5: I was not thinking about the next guy. I gave
Speaker 5: him that time fully.
Speaker 1: I almost missed my next I mean it worked for her.
Speaker 1: She had a boyfriend after that for years.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, I mean that's how you see a Jennifer.
Speaker 4: But clearly Joshua sees it a different way, right, josh
Speaker 4: I don't want to mess that up.
Speaker 6: I see it like that's your default setting.
Speaker 8: I think the anomaly is you having a long term relationship,
Speaker 8: and that's what I'm looking for.
Speaker 5: I mean that we're looking for the same things. That's
Speaker 5: what I want. That's just something that's in the past.
Speaker 5: And by no means did I stacked that night when
Speaker 5: you took me to my car. I was not seeing
Speaker 5: another person after you, she.
Speaker 3: Said, not makes me think she did, Yes, exactly.
Speaker 4: Not that night, but the next five nights.
Speaker 1: That's different.
Speaker 5: You're supposed to be on my side.
Speaker 1: You said dumb things on the date. I don't know.
Speaker 2: I mean the thing is, the thing is, Joshua, she's
Speaker 2: on the phone with us.
Speaker 1: She's put in.
Speaker 2: A lot of effort to see you again. So I
Speaker 2: mean maybe that's proof enough that she's over her old ways.
Speaker 4: And that's why I would like to ask you, Joshua,
Speaker 4: if you'd be willing to meet up with Jennifer one
Speaker 4: more time and we would pay for it, and the
Speaker 4: next date, and the next date and all the stack
Speaker 4: dates after that. We forgot just you.
Speaker 8: Though, No, I got the I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I can't fix that.
Speaker 5: Okay, Joshua, do you realize no one says no to me?
Speaker 2: Oh God, that's not true anymore.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's fine, it's his choice.
Speaker 7: Whatever.
Speaker 5: I'll just keep stacking.
Speaker 1: Wait, that's the weekend.
Speaker 4: You didn't want to do that anymore?
Speaker 5: All right, Well, it makes me happy, it's fun. I'm
Speaker 5: feeling sad now. It's going to get me out of funk.
Speaker 4: Back to back to back to fey. Yes, that's where
Speaker 4: true happiness comes from. Looking Jeffrey in the morning. All right,
Speaker 4: So no second date there. Jennifer has hung up. She's
Speaker 4: not on the line with us anymore. But Jennifer, if
Speaker 4: you're listening out there, I just want to say, I
Speaker 4: know you're probably disappointed with one person on this show
Speaker 4: who didn't support you, but the rest of us here
Speaker 4: have your back.
Speaker 1: I know you're looking at me, jeff I'm fault.
Speaker 2: She's like, I just really missdating lots of men at
Speaker 2: the same night.
Speaker 1: I mean, no one would feel special that to that.
Speaker 4: But you understand where she's coming from right, Brooks.
Speaker 1: I have never had multiple dates in one night. Wow,
Speaker 1: I could not pull that off.
Speaker 4: Remember how good of a liar she was, brook Unstackable
Speaker 4: is the definition at a time, Fox good news is
Speaker 4: we've got dozens of guys on the textboard who are
Speaker 4: DT yes and down to stack whenever. So Jennifer, you
Speaker 4: stay positive. Yeah yeah, we don't know. That means that's weird.
Speaker 4: It don't happen for you, jen And if you're into
Speaker 4: stacking videos, you can always watch a bunch of ours
Speaker 4: on YouTube. Got all of our second date updates on there.
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