WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: High Stakes Higher Stacks

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, thanks so much for being here in twenty twenty six.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow crazy, Okay, listen, listen, all right, little housekeeping.

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<v Speaker 1>We do have a couple of classics, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Today and Wednesday, and then our brand new Second Dates

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<v Speaker 2>are going to start on Friday, Friday, I think, but

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<v Speaker 2>I think we.

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<v Speaker 1>Also have a brand new episode on Thursday.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, there will be some new stuff, so just you

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<v Speaker 3>have to listen every day to find out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, you've been doing tons of recording and making sure

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<v Speaker 1>that we've got it stacked for.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys coming up this January, So thank you for

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<v Speaker 2>being here. Enjoy this classic and we always love to

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<v Speaker 2>start with a comment.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, Liliana said, I just broke up with my boyfriend,

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<v Speaker 3>and as I was stressed waiting for a reply, all

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<v Speaker 3>I could do was listen to you guys, and all

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<v Speaker 3>I got was an alr, not even the full word.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, just short day. Okay, Well you did break

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<v Speaker 1>up with them via text?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so I don't know what you'd expected back, like

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<v Speaker 2>just a thumbs up emoji?

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<v Speaker 1>True? But new year you guys, Liana? Okay, there going

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<v Speaker 1>all right? I enjoy this classic second Date.

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<v Speaker 4>Second Date update? Is it ever a good idea? To

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<v Speaker 4>talk about your other dates while you're on a date.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I mean, I don't know if.

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<v Speaker 2>You're like commiserating and sharing tenny stories back and forth.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I would say the short answer is no. The

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<v Speaker 4>longer answer absolutely not, unless you plan to be on

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<v Speaker 4>with us, because we love to hear the dirt. And

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just thankful that Jennifer, our listener is on the

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<v Speaker 4>phone with us today because apparently she talked about her

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<v Speaker 4>other dates on her date. Jennifer, I disagree. I admire

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<v Speaker 4>your class. Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you you are.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not like you're talking about like her ex boyfriend

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<v Speaker 2>that she's still in love with, right, Jennifer.

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<v Speaker 4>We don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I'm asking, right, Jennifer.

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<v Speaker 5>Right, we were just sharing like funny stories, right.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Okay, Well who are you sharing these stories with?

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<v Speaker 4>What's this guy's name?

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<v Speaker 5>His name was Joshua.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>I met him on the Coffee and Bagel app?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh is that still around a while?

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<v Speaker 4>While I know about the Bengal and the candle app,

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<v Speaker 4>but the coffee yeah, I like that one.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>He just looked cute. He had like a a dog

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<v Speaker 5>with him in his photo, and okay.

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<v Speaker 4>You know. Actually I've heard that guys who have dogs

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<v Speaker 4>in their photos get ninety more matches.

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<v Speaker 1>Way that makes sense.

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<v Speaker 4>Can I borrow your dog?

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<v Speaker 1>Bro?

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<v Speaker 2>The whole point is that you can actually keep something

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<v Speaker 2>alive and care for something outside of yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>The attractive point of it.

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<v Speaker 4>Men, women are not gonna be able to tell if

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<v Speaker 4>it's your dog and how well it's taken care of

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<v Speaker 4>as long as it's in the photo. Just photoshop one in.

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<v Speaker 1>They're gonna know after date one.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay, Or put a little net brace on it

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<v Speaker 4>like it is we're trying to do. Is accomplished?

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<v Speaker 1>Sick?

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<v Speaker 2>Dog?

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<v Speaker 1>Dog sick?

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<v Speaker 4>They could you determine his dog's health from the photo.

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<v Speaker 5>Jennifer, It definitely looked like a healthy cute.

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<v Speaker 4>This is what you're talking about right here. I see

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<v Speaker 4>what you're saying. Okay, take us to the date with Joshua.

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<v Speaker 5>So I wanted to make the reservation. I said I

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<v Speaker 5>would make it.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there a reason for that?

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<v Speaker 5>I just in particular, like I love food, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Love and you're like my favorites.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me pick thee like the certain tables, you like

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<v Speaker 2>all the things.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, So I called and made a reservation. But when

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<v Speaker 5>we got there, they had lost our reservation.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, no.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so I guess I should have made it online.

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<v Speaker 1>Did that like throw the night off? Did it make

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<v Speaker 1>you upset?

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<v Speaker 5>I wasn't upset. Like they apologized, but they were just

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<v Speaker 5>like over books.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh no, that sounds like it's a popular restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>I know there's only two of you.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, can you squeeze us in somewhere, well, sill

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<v Speaker 2>at the end of somebody else's table, No big deal.

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<v Speaker 1>Literally make a table in the.

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<v Speaker 4>Alley back behind the restaurant if I get the good food.

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff, Absolutely, totally.

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<v Speaker 5>It totally turned out to be a good thing because

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<v Speaker 5>we ended up just wandering around the city and like

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<v Speaker 5>we ended up getting burgers at a takeout place and

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<v Speaker 5>just talking about our bad date experiences.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, you lumped this experience as to one of the

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<v Speaker 4>many bad date experiences that you've gone on.

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<v Speaker 5>No, this was just like a little bump in the

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<v Speaker 5>road compared to like one time this guy venmowed me

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<v Speaker 5>like two dollars and forty seven cents for half of

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<v Speaker 5>his appetizer.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my goshno requested you.

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<v Speaker 7>Wow, Yeah, I was.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, So you shared stories like that with him.

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<v Speaker 1>Did he share stories back with you? Joshua did so.

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<v Speaker 5>He said he had like a date who brought her

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<v Speaker 5>mom and the mom was like critiquing his posture on

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<v Speaker 5>the door.

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<v Speaker 1>Straight.

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<v Speaker 4>I actually think that's some nice feedback. You'd be doing

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<v Speaker 4>that on the date.

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<v Speaker 6>You're slouching a little.

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<v Speaker 4>So okay, now this is a way to be like,

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<v Speaker 4>you're actually way better than a lot of the dates

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<v Speaker 4>that I go on. It's supposed to make him feel good.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, Like we were having a great time, just like

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<v Speaker 5>laughing a lot, and it was just like fun.

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<v Speaker 2>And anytime you have like a shared experience, whether it's

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<v Speaker 2>like a bad date or anything, it can bring you

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<v Speaker 2>closer to somebody.

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<v Speaker 4>But this wasn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah no, I know, but they're both commiserating over the

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<v Speaker 2>same thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, gotcha? So how long did this go on?

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<v Speaker 5>For like a couple hours? And neither of us had

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<v Speaker 5>like planned anything after so he just like walked me

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<v Speaker 5>back to my car And I'm not used to like

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<v Speaker 5>a short date like that, or.

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<v Speaker 2>It was just like you expected the dates to go

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<v Speaker 2>on longer, Like did you want him to invite you

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<v Speaker 2>back to his place?

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<v Speaker 1>Like what are your expectations there?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know about that. It's just like the vibe

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<v Speaker 5>was so good. He just didn't even attempt to do

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<v Speaker 5>anything else.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's a bar or something.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, maybe it's just plain it cool. You know, like

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes if you go out on top, you end.

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<v Speaker 1>It on a high note.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it obviously leaves you want anymore. So he did

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<v Speaker 2>something right.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he's playing it so cool that he's not even

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<v Speaker 4>calling her back anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>So I guess that is planet coldly.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we're crazy, We're beyond the cool apart. We just

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<v Speaker 4>want to help you figure out what happened. Okay, Jennifer,

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<v Speaker 4>maybe the burger was bad that he ate it wasn't

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<v Speaker 4>all it was a street burger, so yeah, but it

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<v Speaker 4>is risky. So let's just call him and we'll get

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<v Speaker 4>your second date update right after this second date update,

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<v Speaker 4>our listener, Jennifer is the perfect example of when life

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<v Speaker 4>gives you lemons, turn them into lemon drops.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh yeah, I don't think they I mean, well, yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 7>whatever it is because her dinner reservation fell through the

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<v Speaker 7>restaurant over books, so she took that and turned it

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<v Speaker 7>into a fun night of wandering the city searching for

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<v Speaker 7>street burgers and talking about previous bad dates that went

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<v Speaker 7>even worse than this one did, and her date Joshua

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<v Speaker 7>shared his worst dates too, so it.

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<v Speaker 4>Really actually bonded them together. But Jennifer, how long has

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<v Speaker 4>it been since that night?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's been like a week okay, and you haven't

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<v Speaker 2>heard anything.

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<v Speaker 5>No, And I've sent like some text messages and nothing

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<v Speaker 5>radio silence.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So you're definitely being ignored.

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<v Speaker 4>Have you tried sending him a photo because if he

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<v Speaker 4>doesn't respond to that, then you know you're in trouble.

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<v Speaker 1>Photo of what?

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<v Speaker 4>Jack of anything?

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<v Speaker 1>Don't do that? Do that, don't listen to their advice.

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<v Speaker 4>You could send him a photo of me. No, if

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<v Speaker 4>he's a fan of our show, he would definitely respond

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<v Speaker 4>to that.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, think he's mad that she.

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<v Speaker 1>Was talking about an other dates. Now you want her

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<v Speaker 1>sending pictures of other guys to him?

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<v Speaker 4>Jeff, I'm saying, if she does and he doesn't respond,

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<v Speaker 4>then you really know something.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's the fire. I think she knows before the picture, Jeff. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>she's not.

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<v Speaker 4>An idiot, Brooks saying we're not at rock bottom yet.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's wait till this call happens and see where we

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<v Speaker 4>end up today. Jennifer, any last words before I dial

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<v Speaker 4>these numbers.

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<v Speaker 2>Or any last pictures, so Jeff that you want to

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<v Speaker 2>send either way.

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<v Speaker 5>I just can't believe I have to do this.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I have to do this. We call us the

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<v Speaker 4>last resort for people. That being said, with Jeff being

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<v Speaker 4>in a weird mood, you want to call back tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 4>This may not be a good call.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, we'll see, we'll find out.

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<v Speaker 6>We're here.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's just go through with it. How bad could it get?

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<v Speaker 4>All right, let's do it.

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<v Speaker 1>You tell us.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll tell you about some of the worst second date

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<v Speaker 4>updates we've ever done, and that'll make you feel better

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<v Speaker 4>about it. Hold on, just okay, here we go.

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<v Speaker 6>Hello.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey is this Joshua?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Hey man, this is a whole radio show is calling

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<v Speaker 4>you right now. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Good morning.

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<v Speaker 5>Uh came in real.

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<v Speaker 1>Hot there, josh How are you doing?

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<v Speaker 6>It's Joshua.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, sorry, I'm married to a Michael who hates Mike.

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<v Speaker 1>I get it. I apologize.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry that my host is trying to make this

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<v Speaker 4>segment all about her and her marriage. But we say,

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<v Speaker 4>I understand, okay, we get it. The real thing that

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<v Speaker 4>we're interested in, though, Joshua, is you and the date

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<v Speaker 4>that you went on the other night with one of

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<v Speaker 4>our listeners named Jennifer. Okay, do you remember her? You

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<v Speaker 4>know what I'm talking about?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I remember her.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it sounds like you guys had a really fun

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<v Speaker 1>night together.

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<v Speaker 6>Why do you know that?

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<v Speaker 1>Great question?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, because that's how this segment works. It's called

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<v Speaker 4>second Date Update. And we spoke to her about your date.

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<v Speaker 4>And she's a little bit confused about why she's not

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<v Speaker 4>getting a callback for a second meet up.

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<v Speaker 6>Really, but yeah, she said that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Yeah, she said that she had a great time

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<v Speaker 2>with you.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like you guys laugh together a lot.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that not accurate?

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<v Speaker 6>No, it's accurate. She's like a really nice person, She's

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<v Speaker 6>cute and everything.

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<v Speaker 4>But you, yeah, your words are saying nice things, but

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<v Speaker 4>your tone is saying something else. Yeah, it's like, h

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<v Speaker 4>wasn't very good.

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<v Speaker 8>I don't I don't think I know how to say this,

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<v Speaker 8>but I just don't think I'm the right person for her,

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<v Speaker 8>you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh uh, we don't know because she I mean, you

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<v Speaker 2>don't get to decide that, right, that's what she gets

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<v Speaker 2>to decide, gets to.

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<v Speaker 4>Choose who you win.

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<v Speaker 6>You don't get a choice.

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<v Speaker 2>That's her choice, right, and she obviously thinks that there's

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<v Speaker 2>definitely something in between you two if she's calling.

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<v Speaker 6>Us, Yeah, definitely her choice.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, is going on? Like can we get your take

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<v Speaker 4>on the date? Did you feel a connection with her?

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<v Speaker 8>I don't know, man, Like we're we're wanting different things.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know if you know what she's she's like

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<v Speaker 6>into what's called.

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<v Speaker 2>Stacking stack, like the cups thing where you do it

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<v Speaker 2>in competition.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Ann Kendrick song. Yeah, no, okay, so we don't

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<v Speaker 4>know what that is. Yeah, what is stacking?

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<v Speaker 6>She said she used to stack, which means like have

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<v Speaker 6>three to four days tonight.

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<v Speaker 1>Exhaust.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Is it back to back to back to back or

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<v Speaker 4>all at the same time.

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<v Speaker 8>I don't think it was like at the same we

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<v Speaker 8>didn't really get into it, but like, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 8>To me, I just think it's kind of rude to say, like,

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<v Speaker 8>I'm miss stacking.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh she said she misses it.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, she literally said she misses it.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I could see like I would interpret that as, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>you you wish that you were.

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<v Speaker 1>Out with someone else right after me. That was good

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<v Speaker 1>to hear I could understand that, and that's.

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<v Speaker 6>Why I took her to her car when we finished

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<v Speaker 6>her burgers.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there any way kind of like misunderstood her.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I don't think I did. He was like looking

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<v Speaker 6>back at it fondly, and it was very real to her,

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<v Speaker 6>and she was she very you could.

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<v Speaker 2>Tell, Okay, I can totally understand that she's doing anything wrong,

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<v Speaker 2>But it doesn't seem like she likes you a lot.

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<v Speaker 4>We kind of all see where you're coming from. I

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<v Speaker 4>wonder if Jennifer sees it the same way, because she

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<v Speaker 4>is on the other line listening to this Jennifer line

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<v Speaker 4>with a show right now.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm going to be mad.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just right after us. She's good at timing.

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<v Speaker 5>Heysha. I didn't think you would be so offended by

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<v Speaker 5>what I said.

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<v Speaker 6>You like, you said this whole thing up like you're

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<v Speaker 6>on the phone here and called them.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, because I was so confused. I was like, I

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<v Speaker 5>thought we had such a good time. But I guess

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<v Speaker 5>it's because I said I missed stacking, which I was

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<v Speaker 5>just I mean, that was just a fun time in

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<v Speaker 5>my life, Like it's not something I do anymore. I

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<v Speaker 5>want the same thing you want, which is a relationship.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, it was fun.

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<v Speaker 5>It was a fun time.

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<v Speaker 2>It just feels like maybe that's a conversation you have

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<v Speaker 2>with your like best friends. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that sounds like someone who's never stacked before things well, because.

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<v Speaker 2>How could you ever like be invested enough to find

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<v Speaker 2>out if you were interested in someone if you were

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<v Speaker 2>just constantly thinking of the next person you were going

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<v Speaker 2>to see.

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<v Speaker 5>I hear you guys talk about this all the time,

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<v Speaker 5>and book you said it's okay to date multiple people

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<v Speaker 5>to find out who you like.

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<v Speaker 4>Contradictory to what your advice always is, she means, like

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<v Speaker 4>you said, get it in as many times as possible

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<v Speaker 4>before it's gone forever.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not what I've said, but I think that dating

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<v Speaker 1>lots of people is great.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just like, if you're gonna ask someone to give

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<v Speaker 2>you their evening, you also have to invest not just

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<v Speaker 2>being there, but like your presence, Like how can you

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<v Speaker 2>be present?

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<v Speaker 4>Well said, you should have brought her presence, dude.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I gave every guy I was with an hour and

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<v Speaker 5>a half. I was fully present in the moment and

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<v Speaker 5>I was not thinking about the next guy. I gave

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<v Speaker 5>him that time fully.

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<v Speaker 1>I almost missed my next I mean it worked for her.

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<v Speaker 1>She had a boyfriend after that for years.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay, I mean that's how you see a Jennifer.

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<v Speaker 4>But clearly Joshua sees it a different way, right, josh

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to mess that up.

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<v Speaker 6>I see it like that's your default setting.

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<v Speaker 8>I think the anomaly is you having a long term relationship,

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<v Speaker 8>and that's what I'm looking for.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean that we're looking for the same things. That's

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<v Speaker 5>what I want. That's just something that's in the past.

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<v Speaker 5>And by no means did I stacked that night when

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<v Speaker 5>you took me to my car. I was not seeing

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<v Speaker 5>another person after you, she.

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<v Speaker 3>Said, not makes me think she did, Yes, exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>Not that night, but the next five nights.

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<v Speaker 1>That's different.

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<v Speaker 5>You're supposed to be on my side.

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<v Speaker 1>You said dumb things on the date. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean the thing is, the thing is, Joshua, she's

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<v Speaker 2>on the phone with us.

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<v Speaker 1>She's put in.

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<v Speaker 2>A lot of effort to see you again. So I

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<v Speaker 2>mean maybe that's proof enough that she's over her old ways.

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<v Speaker 4>And that's why I would like to ask you, Joshua,

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<v Speaker 4>if you'd be willing to meet up with Jennifer one

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<v Speaker 4>more time and we would pay for it, and the

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<v Speaker 4>next date, and the next date and all the stack

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<v Speaker 4>dates after that. We forgot just you.

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<v Speaker 8>Though, No, I got the I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't fix that.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, Joshua, do you realize no one says no to me?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh God, that's not true anymore.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's fine, it's his choice.

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<v Speaker 7>Whatever.

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<v Speaker 5>I'll just keep stacking.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, that's the weekend.

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<v Speaker 4>You didn't want to do that anymore?

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<v Speaker 5>All right, Well, it makes me happy, it's fun. I'm

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<v Speaker 5>feeling sad now. It's going to get me out of funk.

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<v Speaker 4>Back to back to back to fey. Yes, that's where

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<v Speaker 4>true happiness comes from. Looking Jeffrey in the morning. All right,

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<v Speaker 4>So no second date there. Jennifer has hung up. She's

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<v Speaker 4>not on the line with us anymore. But Jennifer, if

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<v Speaker 4>you're listening out there, I just want to say, I

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<v Speaker 4>know you're probably disappointed with one person on this show

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<v Speaker 4>who didn't support you, but the rest of us here

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<v Speaker 4>have your back.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you're looking at me, jeff I'm fault.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, I just really missdating lots of men at

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<v Speaker 2>the same night.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, no one would feel special that to that.

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<v Speaker 4>But you understand where she's coming from right, Brooks.

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<v Speaker 1>I have never had multiple dates in one night. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>I could not pull that off.

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<v Speaker 4>Remember how good of a liar she was, brook Unstackable

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<v Speaker 4>is the definition at a time, Fox good news is

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<v Speaker 4>we've got dozens of guys on the textboard who are

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<v Speaker 4>DT yes and down to stack whenever. So Jennifer, you

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<v Speaker 4>stay positive. Yeah yeah, we don't know. That means that's weird.

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<v Speaker 4>It don't happen for you, jen And if you're into

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<v Speaker 4>stacking videos, you can always watch a bunch of ours

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<v Speaker 4>on YouTube. Got all of our second date updates on there.

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<v Speaker 4>You can like, share, and subscribe all of it at

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