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Speaker 1: Hey, thanks so much for being here in twenty twenty six.

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Speaker 2: Wow crazy, Okay, listen, listen, all right, little housekeeping.

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Speaker 1: We do have a couple of classics, okay.

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Speaker 2: Today and Wednesday, and then our brand new Second Dates

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Speaker 2: are going to start on Friday, Friday, I think, but

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Speaker 2: I think we.

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Speaker 1: Also have a brand new episode on Thursday.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, there will be some new stuff, so just you

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Speaker 3: have to listen every day to find out.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you've been doing tons of recording and making sure

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Speaker 1: that we've got it stacked for.

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Speaker 2: You guys coming up this January, So thank you for

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Speaker 2: being here. Enjoy this classic and we always love to

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Speaker 2: start with a comment.

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Speaker 3: Yes, Liliana said, I just broke up with my boyfriend,

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Speaker 3: and as I was stressed waiting for a reply, all

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Speaker 3: I could do was listen to you guys, and all

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Speaker 3: I got was an alr, not even the full word.

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Speaker 1: All right, just short day. Okay, Well you did break

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Speaker 1: up with them via text?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I don't know what you'd expected back, like

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Speaker 2: just a thumbs up emoji?

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Speaker 1: True? But new year you guys, Liana? Okay, there going

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Speaker 1: all right? I enjoy this classic second Date.

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Speaker 4: Second Date update? Is it ever a good idea? To

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Speaker 4: talk about your other dates while you're on a date.

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Speaker 1: No, I mean, I don't know if.

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Speaker 2: You're like commiserating and sharing tenny stories back and forth.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I would say the short answer is no. The

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Speaker 4: longer answer absolutely not, unless you plan to be on

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Speaker 4: with us, because we love to hear the dirt. And

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Speaker 4: I'm just thankful that Jennifer, our listener is on the

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Speaker 4: phone with us today because apparently she talked about her

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Speaker 4: other dates on her date. Jennifer, I disagree. I admire

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Speaker 4: your class. Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 5: Thank you you are.

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Speaker 2: It's not like you're talking about like her ex boyfriend

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Speaker 2: that she's still in love with, right, Jennifer.

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Speaker 4: We don't know.

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Speaker 1: That's why I'm asking, right, Jennifer.

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Speaker 5: Right, we were just sharing like funny stories, right.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Okay, Well who are you sharing these stories with?

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Speaker 4: What's this guy's name?

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Speaker 5: His name was Joshua.

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Speaker 6: Okay.

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Speaker 5: I met him on the Coffee and Bagel app?

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Speaker 1: Oh is that still around a while?

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Speaker 4: While I know about the Bengal and the candle app,

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Speaker 4: but the coffee yeah, I like that one.

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Speaker 6: Okay.

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Speaker 5: He just looked cute. He had like a a dog

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Speaker 5: with him in his photo, and okay.

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Speaker 4: You know. Actually I've heard that guys who have dogs

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Speaker 4: in their photos get ninety more matches.

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Speaker 1: Way that makes sense.

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Speaker 4: Can I borrow your dog?

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Speaker 1: Bro?

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Speaker 2: The whole point is that you can actually keep something

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Speaker 1: The attractive point of it.

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Speaker 4: Men, women are not gonna be able to tell if

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Speaker 4: it's your dog and how well it's taken care of

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Speaker 4: as long as it's in the photo. Just photoshop one in.

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Speaker 1: They're gonna know after date one.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, Or put a little net brace on it

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Speaker 4: like it is we're trying to do. Is accomplished?

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Speaker 1: Sick?

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Speaker 2: Dog?

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Speaker 1: Dog sick?

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Speaker 4: They could you determine his dog's health from the photo.

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Speaker 5: Jennifer, It definitely looked like a healthy cute.

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Speaker 4: This is what you're talking about right here. I see

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Speaker 4: what you're saying. Okay, take us to the date with Joshua.

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Speaker 5: So I wanted to make the reservation. I said I

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Speaker 1: Is there a reason for that?

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Speaker 5: I just in particular, like I love food, I.

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Speaker 4: Love and you're like my favorites.

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Speaker 2: Let me pick thee like the certain tables, you like

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Speaker 5: Yeah, So I called and made a reservation. But when

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Speaker 1: Oh no, no.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so I guess I should have made it online.

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Speaker 5: I wasn't upset. Like they apologized, but they were just

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Speaker 4: Oh no, that sounds like it's a popular restaurant.

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Speaker 1: I know there's only two of you.

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Speaker 2: It's like, can you squeeze us in somewhere, well, sill

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Speaker 2: at the end of somebody else's table, No big deal.

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Speaker 1: Literally make a table in the.

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Speaker 4: Alley back behind the restaurant if I get the good food.

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Speaker 1: Jeff, Absolutely, totally.

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Speaker 5: It totally turned out to be a good thing because

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Speaker 5: we ended up just wandering around the city and like

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Speaker 5: just talking about our bad date experiences.

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Speaker 4: Wait, you lumped this experience as to one of the

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Speaker 5: No, this was just like a little bump in the

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Speaker 5: like two dollars and forty seven cents for half of

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Speaker 2: Oh my goshno requested you.

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Speaker 7: Wow, Yeah, I was.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, So you shared stories like that with him.

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Speaker 1: Did he share stories back with you? Joshua did so.

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Speaker 5: He said he had like a date who brought her

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Speaker 5: mom and the mom was like critiquing his posture on

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Speaker 1: Straight.

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Speaker 4: I actually think that's some nice feedback. You'd be doing

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Speaker 6: You're slouching a little.

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Speaker 4: So okay, now this is a way to be like,

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Speaker 4: you're actually way better than a lot of the dates

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Speaker 4: that I go on. It's supposed to make him feel good.

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Speaker 5: Yes, Like we were having a great time, just like

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Speaker 2: And anytime you have like a shared experience, whether it's

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Speaker 4: But this wasn't.

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Speaker 2: Yeah no, I know, but they're both commiserating over the

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Speaker 4: Okay, gotcha? So how long did this go on?

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Speaker 5: For like a couple hours? And neither of us had

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Speaker 2: It was just like you expected the dates to go

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Speaker 1: Like what are your expectations there?

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Speaker 5: I don't know about that. It's just like the vibe

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's a bar or something.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe it's just plain it cool. You know, like

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Speaker 1: It on a high note.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it obviously leaves you want anymore. So he did

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he's playing it so cool that he's not even

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Speaker 2: So I guess that is planet coldly.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we're crazy, We're beyond the cool apart. We just

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Speaker 4: want to help you figure out what happened. Okay, Jennifer,

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Speaker 4: maybe the burger was bad that he ate it wasn't

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Speaker 4: all it was a street burger, so yeah, but it

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Speaker 4: is risky. So let's just call him and we'll get

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Speaker 4: your second date update right after this second date update,

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Speaker 4: our listener, Jennifer is the perfect example of when life

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Speaker 4: gives you lemons, turn them into lemon drops.

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, I don't think they I mean, well, yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 7: whatever it is because her dinner reservation fell through the

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Speaker 7: into a fun night of wandering the city searching for

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Speaker 7: street burgers and talking about previous bad dates that went

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Speaker 7: even worse than this one did, and her date Joshua

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Speaker 7: shared his worst dates too, so it.

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Speaker 4: Really actually bonded them together. But Jennifer, how long has

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's been like a week okay, and you haven't

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Speaker 5: No, And I've sent like some text messages and nothing

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Speaker 1: Okay, So you're definitely being ignored.

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Speaker 4: Have you tried sending him a photo because if he

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Speaker 1: Photo of what?

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Speaker 4: Jack of anything?

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Speaker 1: Don't do that? Do that, don't listen to their advice.

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Speaker 4: You could send him a photo of me. No, if

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Speaker 4: he's a fan of our show, he would definitely respond

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Speaker 2: Wait, think he's mad that she.

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Speaker 1: Was talking about an other dates. Now you want her

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Speaker 4: then you really know something.

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Speaker 1: So that's the fire. I think she knows before the picture, Jeff. Okay,

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Speaker 1: she's not.

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Speaker 4: An idiot, Brooks saying we're not at rock bottom yet.

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Speaker 4: Let's wait till this call happens and see where we

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Speaker 4: end up today. Jennifer, any last words before I dial

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Speaker 2: Or any last pictures, so Jeff that you want to

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Speaker 5: I just can't believe I have to do this.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I have to do this. We call us the

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Speaker 4: last resort for people. That being said, with Jeff being

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Speaker 4: in a weird mood, you want to call back tomorrow.

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Speaker 4: This may not be a good call.

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Speaker 5: Well, we'll see, we'll find out.

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Speaker 6: We're here.

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Speaker 4: Let's just go through with it. How bad could it get?

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Speaker 4: All right, let's do it.

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Speaker 1: You tell us.

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Speaker 4: I'll tell you about some of the worst second date

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Speaker 4: updates we've ever done, and that'll make you feel better

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Speaker 4: about it. Hold on, just okay, here we go.

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Speaker 6: Hello.

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Speaker 4: Hey is this Joshua?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Hey man, this is a whole radio show is calling

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Speaker 4: you right now. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 4: Good morning.

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Speaker 5: Uh came in real.

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Speaker 1: Hot there, josh How are you doing?

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Speaker 6: It's Joshua.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, sorry, I'm married to a Michael who hates Mike.

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Speaker 1: I get it. I apologize.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry that my host is trying to make this

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Speaker 4: segment all about her and her marriage. But we say,

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Speaker 4: I understand, okay, we get it. The real thing that

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Speaker 4: we're interested in, though, Joshua, is you and the date

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Speaker 4: that you went on the other night with one of

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Speaker 4: our listeners named Jennifer. Okay, do you remember her? You

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Speaker 4: know what I'm talking about?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I remember her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it sounds like you guys had a really fun

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Speaker 6: Why do you know that?

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Speaker 1: Great question?

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, because that's how this segment works. It's called

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Speaker 4: second Date Update. And we spoke to her about your date.

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Speaker 6: Really, but yeah, she said that.

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Speaker 8: I don't I don't think I know how to say this,

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Speaker 2: Uh uh, we don't know because she I mean, you

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Speaker 4: Choose who you win.

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Speaker 6: You don't get a choice.

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Speaker 2: That's her choice, right, and she obviously thinks that there's

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Speaker 8: I don't know, man, Like we're we're wanting different things.

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Speaker 6: I don't know if you know what she's she's like

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Speaker 2: Stacking stack, like the cups thing where you do it

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Ann Kendrick song. Yeah, no, okay, so we don't

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Speaker 6: She said she used to stack, which means like have

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Speaker 4: Oh she said she misses it.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, she literally said she misses it.

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Speaker 2: I mean I could see like I would interpret that as, oh,

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Speaker 1: Out with someone else right after me. That was good

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Speaker 6: Why I took her to her car when we finished

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Speaker 6: No, I don't think I did. He was like looking

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Speaker 2: Tell, Okay, I can totally understand that she's doing anything wrong,

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Speaker 4: We kind of all see where you're coming from. I

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Speaker 7: I'm going to be mad.

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Speaker 1: That's just right after us. She's good at timing.

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Speaker 5: Heysha. I didn't think you would be so offended by

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Speaker 6: You like, you said this whole thing up like you're

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Speaker 5: Yeah, because I was so confused. I was like, I

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Speaker 6: Yes, it was fun.

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Speaker 5: It was a fun time.

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Speaker 2: It just feels like maybe that's a conversation you have

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that sounds like someone who's never stacked before things well, because.

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Speaker 5: I hear you guys talk about this all the time,

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Speaker 5: and book you said it's okay to date multiple people

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Speaker 4: Contradictory to what your advice always is, she means, like

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Speaker 1: It's not what I've said, but I think that dating

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Speaker 2: It's just like, if you're gonna ask someone to give

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Speaker 4: Well said, you should have brought her presence, dude.

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Speaker 5: I gave every guy I was with an hour and

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Speaker 1: I almost missed my next I mean it worked for her.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, I mean that's how you see a Jennifer.

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Speaker 4: But clearly Joshua sees it a different way, right, josh

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Speaker 4: I don't want to mess that up.

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Speaker 6: I see it like that's your default setting.

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Speaker 8: I think the anomaly is you having a long term relationship,

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Speaker 5: I mean that we're looking for the same things. That's

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Speaker 5: And by no means did I stacked that night when

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Speaker 3: Said, not makes me think she did, Yes, exactly.

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Speaker 4: Not that night, but the next five nights.

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Speaker 1: That's different.

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Speaker 5: You're supposed to be on my side.

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Speaker 1: You said dumb things on the date. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I mean the thing is, the thing is, Joshua, she's

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Speaker 1: She's put in.

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Speaker 2: A lot of effort to see you again. So I

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Speaker 4: And that's why I would like to ask you, Joshua,

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Speaker 4: if you'd be willing to meet up with Jennifer one

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Speaker 8: Though, No, I got the I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: I can't fix that.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Joshua, do you realize no one says no to me?

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Speaker 2: Oh God, that's not true anymore.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's fine, it's his choice.

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Speaker 7: Whatever.

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Speaker 5: I'll just keep stacking.

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Speaker 1: Wait, that's the weekend.

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Speaker 4: You didn't want to do that anymore?

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Speaker 5: All right, Well, it makes me happy, it's fun. I'm

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Speaker 4: Back to back to back to fey. Yes, that's where

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Speaker 4: true happiness comes from. Looking Jeffrey in the morning. All right,

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Speaker 4: So no second date there. Jennifer has hung up. She's

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Speaker 4: not on the line with us anymore. But Jennifer, if

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Speaker 1: I know you're looking at me, jeff I'm fault.

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Speaker 2: She's like, I just really missdating lots of men at

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Speaker 1: I mean, no one would feel special that to that.

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Speaker 4: But you understand where she's coming from right, Brooks.

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Speaker 1: I have never had multiple dates in one night. Wow,

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Speaker 4: Remember how good of a liar she was, brook Unstackable

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Speaker 4: is the definition at a time, Fox good news is

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Speaker 4: DT yes and down to stack whenever. So Jennifer, you

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Speaker 4: stay positive. Yeah yeah, we don't know. That means that's weird.

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Speaker 4: It don't happen for you, jen And if you're into

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Speaker 4: on YouTube. Got all of our second date updates on there.

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Speaker 4: You can like, share, and subscribe all of it at

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Speaker 4: Brook and Jeffrey