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Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network.

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Speaker 2: So we're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion

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Speaker 2: who talks back.

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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all, it's your grade a bay a j holiday.

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Speaker 1: Let's start tandem, y'all.

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Speaker 2: It's me Tammam. I love y'all so very very much.

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Speaker 2: How was your weekend?

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Speaker 1: I don't do much. Do y'all feel like fall came

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Speaker 1: fucking early? Because why is it like extra breezy outside?

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Speaker 1: It was kind of warm this weekend, but it was

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Speaker 1: definitely cool. I probably could have flown my kite my kites,

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Speaker 1: but yeah, I ain't do much for the Labor Day weekend, relaxed,

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Speaker 1: chill shop, some deals, fashion over half fifty percent off.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a lot of good sales this weekend.

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Speaker 2: It was Raquel's birthday. Shout out to my friend.

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Speaker 1: Cow with cal so many years.

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Speaker 2: She had like a little cookout. So I went over

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Speaker 2: to that and that was a good time. We was

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Speaker 2: playing past the ox. Nobody liked none of my music

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Speaker 2: except for maybe like once or twice.

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Speaker 1: Happened into me too. I'm like, y'all just ratchet. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I like I got old school ship.

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Speaker 2: No, we were doing a lot of old school stuff,

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Speaker 2: but they just didn't want to hear what I wanted

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Speaker 2: to hear. And then I played one song that just

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Speaker 2: came out by Big X the Plug on his new album,

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Speaker 2: and they was like, yeah, that's some ship. You need

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Speaker 2: to listen it to the car by yourself.

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Speaker 1: So wait, what what what was you trying to play

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Speaker 1: aside from now? Because I haven't heard that song?

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Speaker 2: I hope you're happy by Big EXT the Club it's

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Speaker 2: country and Big X it's Luke Kohm's in Big Club.

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Speaker 1: Hard.

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Speaker 2: They didn't want to hear that shit. But yeah, we

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Speaker 2: had a good time drinking and eating and talking shit. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and we drank some rare Lee bray. You know, everybody

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Speaker 2: really enjoyed it. So I posted that on the story

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Speaker 2: everybody had. That's a nice shotow rare Lee Bray. Y'all

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Speaker 2: try it when you get a chance. But that was

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Speaker 2: my weekend.

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Speaker 1: It sounds good. I don't do much again, same shit,

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Speaker 1: you know. I just feel like I didn't get no

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Speaker 1: sleep this weekend either, Like I was up.

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Speaker 2: Your boo was in town y.

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Speaker 1: We're not gonna be mentioned in my boo every episode okay, well, okay,

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Speaker 1: I'll let you know offline if he is. No. I

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Speaker 1: was very upset about it.

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Speaker 2: All right, let's get in the sands.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, Now I know everybody has been seeing not

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Speaker 1: even the back and forth. Cam Newton is like almost

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Speaker 1: like he specializes in embarrassing Jasmine Brown. You know, I

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Speaker 1: just feel like he does. I don't know how everybody

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Speaker 1: else feels, but it just every time he opens his

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Speaker 1: mouth up. Anytime somebody asked him about his relationship recently,

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Speaker 1: I forgot who was on the show who he was interviewing,

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Speaker 1: but they or maybe he was on somebody else's show,

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Speaker 1: but they asked him basically like, are y'all even dating?

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Speaker 1: Imagine somebody asking your baby daddy, you're pregnant with his

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Speaker 1: second child, with your second child with him, because he

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Speaker 1: technically this is his eighth kid on the way, right,

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Speaker 1: and I think he has two kids that he raised,

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Speaker 1: you know, from his ex from his ex child, right exactly, Chah,

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Speaker 1: But imagine somebody asking, like, are y'all like at least dating? Like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: she lives there, but why won't you put a title

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Speaker 1: on it?

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Speaker 2: I think she knew what she signed up for with

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Speaker 2: that nigga though, especially with kid Too.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I really think she thought she was gonna

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Speaker 1: get a different type of treatment. I really think, because

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Speaker 1: do you remember do you remember, like do you were

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Speaker 1: you ever watching Jazzmine Brown, like back before Cam Newton.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she was like funny. She was like funny, right,

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Speaker 2: And a.

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Speaker 1: Lot of her commentary was like anti Pygneicia. You know

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying, basically making fun of women in this

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Speaker 1: same type of situation. You signing up for it, and

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Speaker 1: you do ran into the fucking thanos of modern women,

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Speaker 1: and he'd turned you into a Pygneicia.

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Speaker 2: Damn, that's crazy. I don't know. I don't but their

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Speaker 2: post that she made is a bit telling, or we

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Speaker 2: would assume. So Jasmine Brown made a post that said

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Speaker 2: transparency moment, and she says, if God gave me a son,

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Speaker 2: I'd be so nervous because I feel like I subconsciously

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Speaker 2: raise him to be a man I can only dream

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Speaker 2: of but never experience. And that's traumatic.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So a lot of people have been reading into

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Speaker 1: that and feel like it suggests that she is now

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Speaker 1: like having a come to moment and realizing the depths

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Speaker 1: of what she has got herself. Involved with. And I

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Speaker 1: also saw some people ripping her like, oh, I don't

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Speaker 1: feel bad for her. And I saw one comment say,

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Speaker 1: while she's worrying about the type of man she is raising,

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Speaker 1: she needs to be concerned about the type of woman

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Speaker 1: she's raising too, mm hmm, because your daughter gonna get

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Speaker 1: the same type of treatment you receive essentially whatever they see.

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Speaker 2: Right. That makes me think of Yah Yah Mayweather and

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Speaker 2: Floyd Mayweather, you know, because she seemed like she like

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Speaker 2: settles with NBA boy a lot. Perhaps I don't want to,

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Speaker 2: you know, speak out a turn because I really don't

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Speaker 2: know their relationship, but I always wonder what type of

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Speaker 2: woman she would turn out to be, with her father

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Speaker 2: being someone who seemingly was a womanizer, and out of

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Speaker 2: all the men that she could have fell in love with,

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Speaker 2: young boy seems like he's very you know, lost lost

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Speaker 2: out here, so mental health issues and all kinds of

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Speaker 2: things going on. But that's just me speculating. I don't

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Speaker 2: know what they got going.

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Speaker 1: And I mean I think also a part of it

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Speaker 1: is just like who he is, right, he's one of

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Speaker 1: the biggest rap artists out here. I'm saying, your dad

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Speaker 1: is one of the biggest athlete athletes out here. And

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Speaker 1: I don't know if that's the type of lifestyle she chasing,

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Speaker 1: that's the type of man you're gonna end up with.

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Speaker 1: I would think that. I mean, her mom seems like

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Speaker 1: a well drownded person, but I don't know. Maybe they

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Speaker 1: didn't raise her right.

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Speaker 2: Well. More power to all those people, you know, hopefully

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Speaker 2: it didn't work out in their favor. That's all I

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Speaker 2: can say. Shit, I ain't got no niggas, so I

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Speaker 2: can't even talk. That's how I feeling like we Remimedy man,

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Speaker 2: a good man in the name of Jesus say man,

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Speaker 2: speaking of having a man in marriage and things like that.

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Speaker 2: Offset was on the Philsen podcast and he said that

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Speaker 2: he thinks that other men should not be married. So

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Speaker 2: the thirty one year old podcast host asked him what

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Speaker 2: advice did he have for him. Did well, he suggests

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Speaker 2: that he not be married, and he said, don't do it.

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Speaker 2: You know, it's just not he said. At first, he said,

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Speaker 2: I mean, you can try it out, but really, honestly,

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Speaker 2: you shouldn't do it. And he was like, you just

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Speaker 2: lose yourself in a marriage, basically is what he said.

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Speaker 2: You have to prioritize in a commedary. Else Yeah, other people,

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Speaker 2: and I guess it's just bad.

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Speaker 1: Apparently offset he was on a podcast called Philson Podcast, right,

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Speaker 1: and then there was a red car, but I don't

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Speaker 1: know where that was, what event that wasn't that was?

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Speaker 1: I think it was the either the Shade Room or

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Speaker 1: maybe Hollywood unlocked people. They were asking different men in

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Speaker 1: the industry. You had Tie Dollar Sign.

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Speaker 2: Anthony Hamila married for twenty.

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Speaker 1: Years, Anthony Hamilton a grown ass man with adult children

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Speaker 1: lot of them had a lot of positive things to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they all supported marriage, even even when his eyes

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Speaker 2: looking all black, was like, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 2: he married a good thing, and sh.

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Speaker 1: I just think you know, Tie dollar Sign made a

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Speaker 1: very good point and uh he said that, you know,

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Speaker 1: people don't realize like how like the we don't have

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Speaker 1: any money in the black community, the black dollar last

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Speaker 1: one second, mm hmm, And I say, we don't have money.

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Speaker 1: We make lots of money, but we are the consumers, right,

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Speaker 1: so we we are not We're not gonna We're gonna

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Speaker 1: continue to be in the position we are in society

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Speaker 1: until we put back the emphasis that needs to be

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Speaker 1: on family.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that was vic Mensa was like you know the

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Speaker 2: uh oh right, okay, yeah, yeah, the.

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Speaker 1: No Actually it was tied at a sign, but they

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Speaker 1: had the captions wrong at the top. Remember I said

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Speaker 1: that when we were looking at it, they had the

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Speaker 2: But that's the Oh so that wasn't him talking when

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Speaker 2: he said that.

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Speaker 1: That was tied out of shang so and that and

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Speaker 1: that's just the truth because I think that a lot

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Speaker 1: of black men don't realize and like Anthony Hamilton, Hamilton said,

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Speaker 1: the type the covering you get when you're in a

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Speaker 1: marriage women a good woman like men think they have

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Speaker 1: to wait until they get their bag together and all

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Speaker 1: that shit to get married. That shit will come once

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Speaker 1: you get a wife. Like if y'all want to pull

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Speaker 1: anything else out the Bible, it says he who finds

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Speaker 1: come from. You gotta get a woman. You gotta get

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Speaker 1: a wife. You got to start a family, because that's

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Speaker 1: life is built off of double occupancy. Yep, you know

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I agree, So I don't agree with

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Speaker 1: all said. So you basically you got three kids with

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Speaker 1: Cardi B. At this point, he's just a man's scorn

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Speaker 2: That's what I think. He's a man scorn. He's hurt

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Speaker 2: and he don't have nothing positive to say about marriage

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Speaker 2: because he just you know, he just went through it.

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Speaker 1: We'd be saying a lot of positive things about Cardi B.

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Speaker 1: A lot of times he'd be like, yeah, I fucked up,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying when somebody actually ask him.

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Speaker 1: But you know, if he's behind the phone, eating and ship,

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Speaker 1: he'd be saying a lot of.

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Speaker 2: Rat You know, he bitter right now. You know he

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Speaker 2: bitter about it.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I.

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Speaker 2: Don't know the picture of Mari the other day.

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Speaker 1: He just like might be a major band, right he

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Speaker 1: likes taunting her?

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Speaker 2: Who do that? But a bitter nigga? Who want to talk? Taunt?

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Speaker 1: Mean person? Just a mean person? He don't necessarily have

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Speaker 1: to be bitter. I really don't feel like he liked

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Speaker 1: Cardi b from the beginning because I remember an interview

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Speaker 1: when they first started dating and somebody asked him if

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Speaker 1: he loved her, and he basically basically alluded to the

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Speaker 1: fact that he got with her because he saw where

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Speaker 1: he was saying, Like she hard working, like it was

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Speaker 1: nothing about love, it was nothing about wanting a family

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Speaker 1: with him. I remember Cardi be being on the Breakfast Club,

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Speaker 1: and she knew exactly when she wanted children, and she

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Speaker 1: knew exactly when when she wanted to be married, right,

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Speaker 1: and she did those things. She chose a man and

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Speaker 1: I think women be tricking themselves and they thinking that

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Speaker 2: No, I agree. Did you see Cardi B was leaving

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't think that's a good idea to hit

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Speaker 2: going around, buzzing around lately. The streets is dead? Is

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Speaker 2: No, they made a statement, They asked a question. They said,

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Speaker 2: Is it really true?

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Speaker 1: It been there as far as I'm concerning. We'll talk

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Speaker 1: Okay, did y'all follow the young Thug trial at all?

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Speaker 1: Did you followed it all?

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Speaker 2: I did a little bit just for Woody. Woody was

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Speaker 1: He just recently got into accident on the motorcycles.

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Speaker 2: Yeah he did. I saw that. But he's okay, so

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Speaker 1: One of my cousins, man, she was watching this ship

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Speaker 1: get involved in other people's legal issues. Yeah, okay, most

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Speaker 1: now it's public, and now there's the great debate about

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Speaker 1: hip hop they've always upheld this no snitch and shit,

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Speaker 1: which eighty percent of people in prison snitched?

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Speaker 2: All right, so let's define the word, like what is

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Speaker 2: a snitch to you?

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Speaker 1: Can I finished my talking?

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, go ahead, I'm sorry, I didn't.

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Speaker 1: Forgot what I was trying to say. Okay, eighty percent

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's what I was trying to say, and I

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Speaker 2: Okay. So what is a snitch to you?

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Speaker 1: Uh? Personally? To me, a snitch? This is my personal

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Speaker 1: So now you're cooperating, you're giving out names and situations

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 1: I got arrested when I was twenty for driving or

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Speaker 1: driving with a suspended license, right, and I'm in what's

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Speaker 1: the jail in Columbia, Alvin? Yeah, Yes, I was there.

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Speaker 1: very very interesting experience. And I distinctively remember a guy

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Speaker 1: I'm giving your son twenty four hours to come down

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 1: I feel like the person on the outside, come free me.

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Speaker 1: You know I don't do that shit, So why are

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Speaker 1: you gonna let me take twenty years for you, years

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Speaker 1: of my whole life for you. Like the no snitching

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Speaker 1: shit never made sense to me, And I feel like

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Speaker 1: snitching is only okay when you need one. Like if

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Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, I don't know if that remember.

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Speaker 1: Murder somebody else, they don't want nobody snitching, right.

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Speaker 2: Snitching is to me is like if you're involved in

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Speaker 2: But if you are a law biding citizen, and you

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Speaker 1: You're a civilian.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's it, you know. I don't think that's snitching.

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Speaker 2: So like, please, if you see somebody kill my cousin,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, everybody hate a snitch until they need one. I

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Speaker 1: remember when Gunnar first had gotten out and everybody was

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Speaker 1: like this thing called alf Alfred plea. Basically, it's like,

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Speaker 1: Alfred Alfred Please, that's what he I remember watching, like

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Speaker 1: So the Alphord plea allows the defendant to enter a

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Speaker 1: You don't know what you will do if you were

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Speaker 2: I know exactly what I would mean. I know exactly

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Speaker 2: I don't participate in crime. If I'm thinking, what a nigga,

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Speaker 2: I don't want to know shit about nothing you're doing.

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Speaker 2: Don't tell me how you do it, don't tell me

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Speaker 1: The Orange.

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Speaker 2: I'm not going to jail. I'm not the girl, and

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Speaker 2: I saw this thing. Me and my friend was talking

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Speaker 2: you could do three for his crime, would you do

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Speaker 2: to three so he don't do twenty? No? Hell no,

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Speaker 2: I'm not doing it. My best friend said she would

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Speaker 2: first of all, I don't encourage no man to be

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Speaker 2: to do. There's a lot of legitiate you can be doing.

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Speaker 2: But what I'm not gonna do is be away from

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Speaker 1: I think most women are in prison because they cover

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Speaker 1: They did not do being a real bitch, down bottom bitch,

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Speaker 1: I know you've seen that theory, right, And and Tory

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Speaker 2: I've seen her like that. I literally saw this shit

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00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:32,840
Speaker 2: today about this woman. She was talking about how she

436
00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:35,320
Speaker 2: was in love with this man. They were in love

437
00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:39,880
Speaker 2: with each other and she got in trouble, they got

438
00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:42,960
Speaker 2: pulled over. If he got the charge, he was gonna

439
00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:44,960
Speaker 2: do a whole bunch of time because he had he

440
00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:47,080
Speaker 2: was a third would have been a third time of

441
00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:50,520
Speaker 2: fit like that. But she never had no charges, so

442
00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:52,040
Speaker 2: she was like, I'm gonna take the charge for you.

443
00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:54,680
Speaker 2: And she was like she was thinking, because I never

444
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:57,359
Speaker 2: had no charge, I wasn't gonna do no time. She

445
00:23:57,400 --> 00:23:59,479
Speaker 2: said no, the judge and was like, I'm gonna make

446
00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:03,840
Speaker 2: an example of you. And she got eight years eight

447
00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:07,560
Speaker 2: years in prison, and then she said, after two years

448
00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:13,040
Speaker 2: of serving time, the nigga stopped taking her calls, stop

449
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:15,280
Speaker 2: sending her money, stop putting money on her boat, stop

450
00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:17,639
Speaker 2: taking her caws, and then end up working with a

451
00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:21,320
Speaker 2: homegirl of hers and they had a baby together. So

452
00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:24,280
Speaker 2: she came home and the niggas she said, before the

453
00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:27,160
Speaker 2: baby was born. He ended up getting in trouble again

454
00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:29,679
Speaker 2: for the same shit. But and he got ten years.

455
00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:31,920
Speaker 2: But she had to sit down for eight whole years.

456
00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:33,560
Speaker 2: She had to do the whole eight before she could

457
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:34,119
Speaker 2: come home.

458
00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:38,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's that's best bullshit. That is a lot

459
00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:41,520
Speaker 1: of women's stories in prison. So men have community of

460
00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:44,200
Speaker 1: holes to take care of them, to take phone calls

461
00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:46,880
Speaker 1: depending on what type of money you had on the streets, right,

462
00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:49,720
Speaker 1: you're gonna and then not even that, they get on

463
00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:52,040
Speaker 1: those dating links and stuff like that, and they want

464
00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:53,760
Speaker 1: be the fat white lady to take care of them.

465
00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:56,199
Speaker 1: Like men be having shit set up. Women really be

466
00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:57,480
Speaker 1: in prison with nobody.

467
00:24:57,720 --> 00:24:58,800
Speaker 2: Me and mama.

468
00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:01,320
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I used to always be.

469
00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:06,760
Speaker 1: I was enamored at one point. I just always want

470
00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:08,440
Speaker 1: to know the reason why people were going to jail,

471
00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:12,280
Speaker 1: like the psychology of this, So I would sit for hours.

472
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:15,240
Speaker 1: Like Houston, if you go on their website, they actually

473
00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:18,200
Speaker 1: have like the last words for like people they execute

474
00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:21,000
Speaker 1: and shit like that their last statements. It's real airy

475
00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:24,160
Speaker 1: and I just always would just go through to see

476
00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 1: what are people going to jail for, like what's the

477
00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 1: most like what's happening? And women a lot of times

478
00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:32,639
Speaker 1: if in Texas in particular, they'll have like the whole

479
00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:36,040
Speaker 1: we can read the whole case. These women be going

480
00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:40,159
Speaker 1: to jail for men, So the women don't snitch. Women

481
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:44,800
Speaker 1: are way more loyal than men are. It's just facts.

482
00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:49,080
Speaker 1: So snitching has always been a thing. Like I think,

483
00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:51,480
Speaker 1: like the no snitching rule, I should probably started with

484
00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:55,080
Speaker 1: the mob, right. You know, black men love to name

485
00:25:55,119 --> 00:26:01,440
Speaker 1: themself after some mob boss, right, and like Lucci, Gucci,

486
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:06,240
Speaker 1: whoever else? You know what I'm saying. Like, and now

487
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:11,200
Speaker 1: I was so like confused researcher trying to figure out

488
00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:12,800
Speaker 1: what the fuck was going on with Young the Gun

489
00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:21,200
Speaker 1: and all these people you got p on following on Instagram.

490
00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:26,119
Speaker 1: There are white people with a million views on YouTube

491
00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:31,280
Speaker 1: talking about this ship calling Atlanta rat Atlanta. Like, imagine,

492
00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:33,399
Speaker 1: y'all are not off the culture. Y'all ain't even in

493
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:37,120
Speaker 1: the streets. So this is the bullshit y'all trying to uphold.

494
00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:39,480
Speaker 1: And you got people making, you know how much money

495
00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:44,960
Speaker 1: they making off a million views? We can't even capitalize

496
00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:50,240
Speaker 1: off of snitcheon snitching or not snitching. That's not ship,

497
00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:54,560
Speaker 1: Like what are y'all doing it for at this point?

498
00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:56,919
Speaker 1: So to me, the streets been there, and I just

499
00:26:56,960 --> 00:27:00,320
Speaker 1: really want to redefine what a real nigga is. Real

500
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:03,920
Speaker 1: nigga is somebody who takes care of their fucking family,

501
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:08,400
Speaker 1: who's not about to crash out one second spliting motion,

502
00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:12,320
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, and leave children behind, leave

503
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:14,879
Speaker 1: their woman behind, lead their whole family behind, or just

504
00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:17,440
Speaker 1: even just getting murdered in the street, murdering somebody else.

505
00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:20,439
Speaker 1: You take our two niggas at one time when somebody

506
00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:24,440
Speaker 1: kills another, when a black man kills another black man, right,

507
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:26,359
Speaker 1: so one going to prison one dad?

508
00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:31,240
Speaker 2: Right? Uh? At one point, so real nigga meant something

509
00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:34,280
Speaker 2: like someone solid, respecting in the streets and lived what

510
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:37,119
Speaker 2: they wrapped and upheld the quote and I put that

511
00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:40,320
Speaker 2: in quotations the code. But I think the standard for

512
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:44,360
Speaker 2: a real nigga has evolved very much in our today's society.

513
00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 2: So now it's not about crime or street times, it's

514
00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:50,919
Speaker 2: about authenticity of self for real, Like you got like

515
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:56,560
Speaker 2: people like Kendrick Lamar and Jake Cole and even drink

516
00:27:56,600 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 2: at times, Like who pushed vulnerability and healing and emotional honesty.

517
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:03,159
Speaker 2: And I think that's a different kind of real that

518
00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:08,160
Speaker 2: really stands out now versus just being on some street

519
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 2: cred ship.

520
00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:12,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think young Thug this is the this

521
00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 1: is the I think what he represents the young thug

522
00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:19,760
Speaker 1: archaeotype of a black man, of a real nigga. I

523
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:23,480
Speaker 1: believe this is an end. This has always been a facade.

524
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:27,080
Speaker 1: Nigga's been snitching. There has really never been any street code,

525
00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:30,840
Speaker 1: no principles. These young guys, the skinny jean wearing niggas

526
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:33,879
Speaker 1: like they they've been on this type of time, Young Thug.

527
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:37,679
Speaker 1: All of all these phone calls was with Maria the scientist,

528
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:41,080
Speaker 1: him like venting to her about other niggas, like just

529
00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 1: real real chatty patty shit.

530
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:44,920
Speaker 2: You on the phone with the scienceist talking about.

531
00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 1: All probably just sitting there like yes, baby like her

532
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:54,680
Speaker 1: baby like she listens to all that. Daddy, am I

533
00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:55,680
Speaker 1: her baby.

534
00:28:58,840 --> 00:28:59,960
Speaker 2: Red she cleared her through.

535
00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 1: I'd be doing that shit randomly on the phone sometimes, Daddy,

536
00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:13,960
Speaker 1: am I your baby girl? I know she probably sitting

537
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:16,000
Speaker 1: lay like how you laying next to this nigga? Hein't

538
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:18,400
Speaker 1: no real nigga, Like, why you laying next to him now?

539
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:21,040
Speaker 1: How you feel about him right now?

540
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:23,880
Speaker 2: But I don't think she probably think he's the realist

541
00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 2: nigga living. If she's in love with him, she doesn't

542
00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:27,720
Speaker 2: care what nobody say. You know how that be when

543
00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 2: you're in love with a man.

544
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:33,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, So is that tweet real? The tweet where he

545
00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:36,520
Speaker 1: was saying like, can't nobody like basically saying everybody gay

546
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:39,000
Speaker 1: in Atlanta and can't nobody come around little baby with

547
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:40,840
Speaker 1: skinny jeans on? Did somebody create that?

548
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:47,080
Speaker 2: I don't know if that was real. It was funny, though, I.

549
00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:51,000
Speaker 1: Want to know if that was real. So in one

550
00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:55,719
Speaker 1: of the phone calls, she was talking shit about about PE,

551
00:29:56,320 --> 00:30:00,080
Speaker 1: basically saying like he you know p is P and

552
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:03,960
Speaker 1: coach K they were the owners of Quality Control. I

553
00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:05,960
Speaker 1: believe they sold that shit for like three hundred m's

554
00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:10,560
Speaker 1: one hundred million dollars in twenty twenty three. So young

555
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 1: Thugs basically saying like he's a snitch. Also right, so

556
00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:20,760
Speaker 1: qc P he uh went to Instagram, he said imagine

557
00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:24,000
Speaker 1: some broke ass rats like and he actually at young

558
00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:29,200
Speaker 1: thug pee wee rat skull trying to run a rat

559
00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:32,600
Speaker 1: narrative on me and all my niggas that I love

560
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:35,680
Speaker 1: running with. These whole ass whole Let me back up,

561
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:39,200
Speaker 1: trying to run a rat narrative on me and all

562
00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:43,640
Speaker 1: my niggas that I love running with.

563
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:46,400
Speaker 2: I couldn't understand that shit.

564
00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:49,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think there's no periods, no no punk.

565
00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:51,440
Speaker 2: No punk punctuation whatsoever.

566
00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:55,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, so he said, these whole ass niggas. Knowing how

567
00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:58,520
Speaker 1: these niggas talk about me, I'm going to say this

568
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:01,680
Speaker 1: for the last time. I'm not a street nigga, Okay.

569
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:05,560
Speaker 1: I'm a tax paying citizen that's running a business and

570
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:09,320
Speaker 1: taking care of my family. All the street niggas is broke,

571
00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 1: dead and in jail. Why do y'all continue to glorify

572
00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:16,840
Speaker 1: this shit? Street's been dead, y'all niggas gave the city

573
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 1: a bad name. Now, this is a real street.

574
00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:23,360
Speaker 2: Nigga, right, he said, he ain't no street nigga, he said,

575
00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:27,320
Speaker 2: I'm a He said he is a real nigga. I'll

576
00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:28,720
Speaker 2: say that this is a real.

577
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 1: Nigga, okay, because, like I said, real men take care

578
00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:34,160
Speaker 1: of their families m hm. And they're not out here

579
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:37,840
Speaker 1: crashing out like young thug has ruined the city of Atlanta,

580
00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:40,160
Speaker 1: for sure. He had a lot of young men that

581
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:44,240
Speaker 1: went to prison, got a lot of time. He was

582
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:50,560
Speaker 1: definitely the given direction. A lot of niggas crashed out,

583
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:52,680
Speaker 1: a lot of young boys, a lot of young guys

584
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:56,880
Speaker 1: were murdered. Like even though they they couldn't pinpoint everything

585
00:31:56,880 --> 00:32:00,600
Speaker 1: on him. He's not innocent, He's not this and at all.

586
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:02,320
Speaker 1: He took a plea deal because he had the money

587
00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:05,680
Speaker 1: to do so. But what about goddamn tyrone who grandma,

588
00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:07,720
Speaker 1: who was raised by his grandma, His grandma don't got

589
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:08,719
Speaker 1: no money for his defense.

590
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:15,200
Speaker 2: Right, there's one hundred years and then you get enough

591
00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:25,040
Speaker 2: pussy on money outside and you are Yeah, and there's

592
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:27,880
Speaker 2: just consequences of street rap. We see it. You know,

593
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:32,000
Speaker 2: it's been consequences for over a decade. You're gonna end

594
00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:33,800
Speaker 2: up dead, You're gonna end up jail. You're gonna be

595
00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:37,600
Speaker 2: fighting rico cases like mm hmm, let's let that go,

596
00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:41,720
Speaker 2: you know, let's let that and then all right, so no.

597
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:44,800
Speaker 1: Money, you're not making any money Like that's that's really

598
00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 1: the mind boggling part. Like y'all haven't even lived enough,

599
00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:51,719
Speaker 1: you haven't had enough experiences for real, most of these guys,

600
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:55,160
Speaker 1: and they just crash out real young, real early. And

601
00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:57,760
Speaker 1: I do blame some of the older men, the older guys,

602
00:32:57,800 --> 00:33:00,680
Speaker 1: because they'll they'll employ the young boys to crash out

603
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:01,040
Speaker 1: for them.

604
00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:01,600
Speaker 2: M h.

605
00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:05,560
Speaker 1: That's terrible. So that that archetype needs to die as well.

606
00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:09,520
Speaker 2: And with the globalization of hip hop, like hip hop

607
00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:12,280
Speaker 2: is the biggest genre in the world right now, you

608
00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:17,480
Speaker 2: got Asian rappers, Latin American United Kingdom doing anything, and

609
00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:21,440
Speaker 2: none of them like even understand or have not indocrinated

610
00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:24,240
Speaker 2: the street rules. That's no longer a thing. These niggas

611
00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:26,680
Speaker 2: want to have. They want to fly luxury and lifestyle,

612
00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:27,600
Speaker 2: you know.

613
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:31,200
Speaker 1: Living vicuriously through these crash dummies, so they can rap

614
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 1: and have you know, they can actually rap about the

615
00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:36,720
Speaker 1: same shit, but they're not actually doing it because they're

616
00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:37,640
Speaker 1: smarter than that.

617
00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 2: Or they rapping about what wealth and love and shit

618
00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:44,240
Speaker 2: like that. They're not even rapping about those street shit.

619
00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:50,040
Speaker 2: It's terrible, and they're and those and that type of

620
00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:53,200
Speaker 2: music is outperforming drill music. Let's be clear, you know

621
00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 2: they are performing. You know, the.

622
00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:00,640
Speaker 1: Drill music really didn't only lasted like what a summer or.

623
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 2: Two it's still drilling out terrible. The all the drill

624
00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:08,960
Speaker 2: used to be dying so fast, you know, like the

625
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:12,600
Speaker 2: turnover rate is high. The turnover rate is very high

626
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:15,960
Speaker 2: for this ship, or not even just dying. They going

627
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:17,439
Speaker 2: to jail. What's the dirt?

628
00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:21,120
Speaker 1: I'm not even talking about Dirk. I really feel like

629
00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:23,719
Speaker 1: young Thum might have something to do with why he

630
00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:28,200
Speaker 1: handed him up right now, because remember he beats some

631
00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:31,120
Speaker 1: charges like twenty two to twenty three and basically he

632
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:36,279
Speaker 1: uh blamed everything on what's the one that passed away?

633
00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:39,840
Speaker 2: Girl?

634
00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:41,480
Speaker 1: Listen, I don't know all these drill.

635
00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:46,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know Auntie the nigga who I know what

636
00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:50,719
Speaker 2: you're talking about. Yeah, but I can't put my finger

637
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 2: on his name right now if I wanted to.

638
00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:57,920
Speaker 1: Turn Yeah, this conversation is definitely just coming from grown

639
00:34:57,960 --> 00:35:01,080
Speaker 1: women who will be raising children in this fucking world.

640
00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:03,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, like if you talked to twenty two year olds,

641
00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:06,880
Speaker 2: the conversation might be very different, you know. Like, but

642
00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:07,920
Speaker 2: you niggas.

643
00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:10,520
Speaker 1: I'm sick of you niggas. There are black people and

644
00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:14,920
Speaker 1: there are niggas, You niggas. Okay, everybody ain't gonna make

645
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:18,120
Speaker 1: it right. Everybody ain't gonna make it, and the real

646
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:21,160
Speaker 1: black people need to stand up. This is we cannot

647
00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 1: keep going after other other groups of people like we

648
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:27,479
Speaker 1: can't keep blaming them man, right when we are doing

649
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:31,239
Speaker 1: this to our own people. At some point we got

650
00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:33,879
Speaker 1: to take accountability because really it's always been us. Even

651
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:36,919
Speaker 1: the things that they do, they would would have never

652
00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:40,759
Speaker 1: been able to infiltrate our communities and the way they

653
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:43,040
Speaker 1: do if they didn't have the help of a black

654
00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 1: person of a black.

655
00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:49,719
Speaker 2: Man, right and the support. Yeah, so the.

656
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:54,319
Speaker 1: Blame and then why you So they're snitching like in

657
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:58,000
Speaker 1: the streets, and then there's like whistle blowing, whistle blowing

658
00:35:58,000 --> 00:36:00,840
Speaker 1: in corporate like which whistleblowers are selling braided Often that

659
00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:03,200
Speaker 1: is a snitch? Is it not a bitch tailing on

660
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:03,799
Speaker 1: you at work?

661
00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:09,000
Speaker 2: But no, it depends. It depends because it's not snitching,

662
00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 2: because it's only snitching in if you were involved in

663
00:36:12,160 --> 00:36:15,080
Speaker 2: the activity and then you started telling to save yourself.

664
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:19,280
Speaker 2: If you see some practices that are being violated, especially

665
00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:22,960
Speaker 2: ones that can affect everybody, and you tell, are you

666
00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:23,560
Speaker 2: a snitch?

667
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:29,719
Speaker 1: These white YouTubers stick to the whistle blowing conversations, y'all

668
00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:32,360
Speaker 1: are y'all are not in the streets to be calling

669
00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:37,239
Speaker 1: a black person a snitch, right, I should rub me

670
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:40,799
Speaker 1: the wrong way. Even though these niggas is snitching. It

671
00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 1: just rubs me the wrong way that these people are

672
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:45,719
Speaker 1: monetizing this conversation.

673
00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:52,880
Speaker 2: But snitches do not, in fact get stitches six nine

674
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 2: his name. He walking around perfectly fine, you know, So

675
00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:00,879
Speaker 2: where are the stitches that everybody he was saying all

676
00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:04,160
Speaker 2: these years that people were gonna get It was a lie.

677
00:37:04,239 --> 00:37:11,080
Speaker 1: Whack one hundred Takashi sixty nine. Academics, Lord and somebody

678
00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 1: else was like going on alive, like talking about the

679
00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:15,239
Speaker 1: shit that's going I don't know how to fuck. Academics

680
00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:16,920
Speaker 1: stays in the midst of all us because the nigga

681
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:19,760
Speaker 1: doesn't leave his home like he's in the basement streaming,

682
00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:22,160
Speaker 1: so he too is just not a street nigga. But

683
00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:25,160
Speaker 1: for whatever reason, he just always has like commentary for

684
00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:27,360
Speaker 1: whatever is going on, and a lot of people tune

685
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:28,640
Speaker 1: in to hear.

686
00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:31,760
Speaker 2: We done did the research and got all the information.

687
00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:33,359
Speaker 2: I think that's why they enjoyed it.

688
00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:36,760
Speaker 1: But no, he put he actually also then feeds information

689
00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:39,680
Speaker 1: like as far as I'm concerned, DJ Academics is an

690
00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:43,359
Speaker 1: agent of the state, like some of the like him

691
00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:47,359
Speaker 1: h Vlied TV, like all of these characters. They are

692
00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:51,640
Speaker 1: employed by by these people, the man, as far as

693
00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:58,880
Speaker 1: I'm concerned, and they have in our community.

694
00:37:56,760 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 2: Non day plans. See, I don't know. I don't follow

695
00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:03,600
Speaker 2: none of these motherfucking people. I'll be over here waiting

696
00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:07,080
Speaker 2: for Devilware's product you to come out. That's where I'm at.

697
00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:13,279
Speaker 1: This is a life lifestyle podcast, right we gotta be

698
00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:15,600
Speaker 1: a brisk aware of some of the shit that be

699
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:19,480
Speaker 1: going on so we can have conversations about these things,

700
00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:21,279
Speaker 1: anxiety and lifestyle.

701
00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:25,920
Speaker 2: I agree, but this ain't my wheelhouse right here, all

702
00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:29,759
Speaker 2: these reco cases and crime. I'm so far If you

703
00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 2: would have asked me this about ten years ago, I

704
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:34,279
Speaker 2: probably would have known more about it. But at this

705
00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:39,040
Speaker 2: state in my life, this ship is not on my

706
00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:42,719
Speaker 2: It don't come across my desk at all. I'm so

707
00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:46,160
Speaker 2: far removed from that. I be in a car listening

708
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:55,120
Speaker 2: to R Kelly. Y'all don't judge me, let do So

709
00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:56,359
Speaker 2: there's that.

710
00:38:57,080 --> 00:38:58,960
Speaker 1: What did he do? Now? I don't know. It's a

711
00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:02,800
Speaker 1: I don't know. I do discriminate, okay, like I don't.

712
00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:05,200
Speaker 1: It's certain brands I don't funk with after I hear

713
00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:08,080
Speaker 1: you do certain things. You know what I'm saying, Like, Uh,

714
00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:11,040
Speaker 1: it's people, I don't I stop sucking with. I haven't

715
00:39:11,080 --> 00:39:13,479
Speaker 1: drunk Starbucks ever since they hemmed up those two black

716
00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:16,319
Speaker 1: boys and they're uh how many years ago was that

717
00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:19,520
Speaker 1: that they racially profiley, And it's I don't fuck with you.

718
00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:22,399
Speaker 1: I don't fuck with waffle House, So I.

719
00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:24,640
Speaker 2: Don't fuck with like I don't funk with what R.

720
00:39:24,719 --> 00:39:27,400
Speaker 2: Kelly did or his behavior, but I do fuck with

721
00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:28,799
Speaker 2: his music. Why do I have to?

722
00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 1: Like, I don't separate?

723
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:34,640
Speaker 2: How why do I have to? Yeah, like, you don't separate?

724
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:36,319
Speaker 1: No, he is?

725
00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:36,880
Speaker 2: He is.

726
00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:39,520
Speaker 1: Listen you listen to some of the lyrics and those songs.

727
00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:44,880
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, seems like you're read at girl?

728
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:48,360
Speaker 2: Are you ready? I was listening to the greatest sex,

729
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 2: the greatest you, the greatest he that's a oh my god,

730
00:39:55,280 --> 00:39:56,600
Speaker 2: Like I cannot put it down.

731
00:39:56,600 --> 00:40:00,040
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. I want I might smash on that

732
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 1: this weekend.

733
00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:05,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sorry, Like I wouldn't let out of the

734
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:08,480
Speaker 2: world like just because it might fend to other people,

735
00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:10,480
Speaker 2: But can I listen to it about myself? You know?

736
00:40:10,520 --> 00:40:10,919
Speaker 1: What I'm saying.

737
00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:14,399
Speaker 2: It's still on iTunes. Apple ain't taking down.

738
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:16,040
Speaker 1: He's still making money.

739
00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:21,800
Speaker 2: So I don't know kills one of the best to

740
00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:24,319
Speaker 2: ever do it, y'all. I'm sorry to forgive me.

741
00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:29,319
Speaker 1: I swear let's do some hypothetical situations, and you do

742
00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:32,680
Speaker 1: in the situation. So, uh, you're riding.

743
00:40:32,840 --> 00:40:41,160
Speaker 2: I'm telling you, go ahead, go ahead, go ahead.

744
00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:43,680
Speaker 1: You're riding with your cousin. There's a gun in the car.

745
00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:48,480
Speaker 1: You didn't know about it. Police pull y'all over what

746
00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:49,000
Speaker 1: you're doing.

747
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:54,000
Speaker 2: I'm staying quiet. I ain't saying she like, does she do?

748
00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:54,720
Speaker 2: Can't she speak?

749
00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:55,600
Speaker 1: No?

750
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 2: She got autius on a song. She don't talk.

751
00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:00,360
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be staying with that lady in the court

752
00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:03,319
Speaker 1: on the court episode. But you're staring off in the here.

753
00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:05,759
Speaker 2: But that's me, bitch. I can't speak. I don't talk.

754
00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:07,319
Speaker 2: She don't talk. She don't talk. She don't know how

755
00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:11,960
Speaker 2: to talk. That's my cousin. She don't talk. I'm quiet.

756
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:15,200
Speaker 1: How everybody, if there's like a recal situation, if everybody

757
00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:19,319
Speaker 1: really for real, if everybody just be quiet, like oftentimes

758
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:21,840
Speaker 1: they don't even have a case. The case is built

759
00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:23,600
Speaker 1: off of what people tell.

760
00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:26,239
Speaker 2: Me saying yeah, I'm not saying shit. I'm deaf, mute.

761
00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:28,200
Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't I don't speak, I don't

762
00:41:28,200 --> 00:41:31,520
Speaker 2: do I can't talk right, I have the words out

763
00:41:31,560 --> 00:41:31,719
Speaker 2: of me.

764
00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 1: Uh, your co worker is stealing checks and payroll is short?

765
00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:38,680
Speaker 1: You know your co worker is stealing checks?

766
00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:41,960
Speaker 2: Are we cool? Is this my cool coworker?

767
00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:46,400
Speaker 1: Cause y'all cannot pick and choose. Bitch, you are actually

768
00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:49,080
Speaker 1: an accomplice if you know this person is doing this

769
00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:50,200
Speaker 1: thing and you don't report it.

770
00:41:50,600 --> 00:41:52,360
Speaker 2: How I know? How can you prove? I know?

771
00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:55,680
Speaker 1: I just asked the question. I said, your co worker

772
00:41:55,760 --> 00:41:59,240
Speaker 1: is stealing checks and payroll is short. Your co worker

773
00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:01,680
Speaker 1: is stealing checks? You know your co workers stealing checks?

774
00:42:02,120 --> 00:42:03,799
Speaker 2: I don't know. Shit, I don't know what the fuck

775
00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:06,760
Speaker 2: you're talking about. Whatever.

776
00:42:06,800 --> 00:42:08,279
Speaker 1: When they pull her in HR, they be like, well,

777
00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:08,839
Speaker 1: Tammy knew.

778
00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:11,839
Speaker 2: Tammy didn't know shit. Tammy was at her desk minding

779
00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:14,279
Speaker 2: her business. Hi, I knew if I didn't get no

780
00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:16,120
Speaker 2: check from her? How I knew where my check in

781
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:17,000
Speaker 2: while we in here.

782
00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:19,960
Speaker 1: Let me tell y'all in the story. Y'all, in high school,

783
00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:22,520
Speaker 1: I had this teacher. I'm gonna say his name to

784
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:25,040
Speaker 1: his name is mister Sheely. You missed it. I don't

785
00:42:25,040 --> 00:42:26,719
Speaker 1: know if he's alive now. I don't know if it's

786
00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:31,799
Speaker 1: social studies, no science, it was actually science. I had

787
00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 1: an a in the class. Mister Sheely would do and

788
00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:38,040
Speaker 1: say some questionable shit. I remember one day I was like,

789
00:42:38,080 --> 00:42:39,600
Speaker 1: mister Sheeley, man, you need to go ahead and cut

790
00:42:39,600 --> 00:42:41,520
Speaker 1: that hair off because he was a playful teacher. You

791
00:42:41,520 --> 00:42:43,879
Speaker 1: know you got some cool teachers. I said, you need

792
00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:46,000
Speaker 1: to go ahead and go ahead and go completely bad

793
00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:49,960
Speaker 1: man what you're doing? And he said, I bet I

794
00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:51,919
Speaker 1: got more hair on Mike than you got on your

795
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:56,600
Speaker 1: He didn't say the words, but like he nod like down.

796
00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:01,520
Speaker 1: I got an a in the cl maybe a couple of

797
00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:04,440
Speaker 1: weeks later, did you was failing the class?

798
00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:05,560
Speaker 2: Hold on? Bitches?

799
00:43:05,600 --> 00:43:09,799
Speaker 1: Who was failing the class went to the went to

800
00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:14,759
Speaker 1: the principal right saying that he had been sexually harassing him. Right,

801
00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:17,160
Speaker 1: y'all fail in the class though?

802
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:18,000
Speaker 2: Right?

803
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:20,560
Speaker 1: So now everybody getting together? Who failing? And now all

804
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:24,040
Speaker 1: of a sudden, he's like sexually harassing people. I put

805
00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:27,080
Speaker 1: my name on the list to come and testify. Essentially, girl,

806
00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:30,640
Speaker 1: I got up now nothing, never heard of anything.

807
00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:37,600
Speaker 2: I got an a bitch. But if you saw a

808
00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:41,080
Speaker 2: teacher sexually harassing young students, I never seen it.

809
00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:43,960
Speaker 1: Happen to anybody else. I knew what I experienced, but

810
00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:46,720
Speaker 1: I never saw him do or say anything else sideway

811
00:43:46,760 --> 00:43:47,560
Speaker 1: as anybody else.

812
00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:50,160
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, just mind your business man, Yeah.

813
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:52,520
Speaker 1: I mind my fucking business one because I got an

814
00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:54,839
Speaker 1: A and two of y'all, bitch, I know some.

815
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:56,719
Speaker 2: Of you, but if you had as would you have

816
00:43:56,840 --> 00:43:57,239
Speaker 2: joined in.

817
00:43:58,920 --> 00:44:03,760
Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna be failing anyway. Y'all know I probably

818
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:05,719
Speaker 1: still wouldn't up joining if I had an f I

819
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:06,279
Speaker 1: deserved it.

820
00:44:06,760 --> 00:44:07,080
Speaker 2: M hm.

821
00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:09,880
Speaker 1: Okay, but these is motherfuckers who ain't doing shit in

822
00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:11,480
Speaker 1: the class anyway. And now you want to say that

823
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:12,040
Speaker 1: you want to.

824
00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:15,040
Speaker 2: But he still was inappropriate and he don't need to

825
00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:16,360
Speaker 2: be around young children.

826
00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:21,080
Speaker 1: It is so crazy. Like maybe three or four years

827
00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:22,960
Speaker 1: after I got out of high school, I went to

828
00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:25,960
Speaker 1: my one of my best friend's high school graduation. So

829
00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:27,960
Speaker 1: now I'm like, I don't know, twenty two twenty three

830
00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:33,760
Speaker 1: and one of our and this was actually the social

831
00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:35,879
Speaker 1: studies teach, and I can now remember his name, mister

832
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:39,880
Speaker 1: Polliard mister motherfucking Pollard. He had like this red knot

833
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:41,279
Speaker 1: on this. Hey, you know, white people be having all

834
00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 1: these little weird growths on him. But I'm at her graduation.

835
00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:51,239
Speaker 1: They do, they do be having like weird notts and

836
00:44:51,320 --> 00:44:55,040
Speaker 1: lumps and stuff. I'm at her graduation. He hugs everybody,

837
00:44:56,360 --> 00:44:58,440
Speaker 1: and when he gets to me, he kisses me on

838
00:44:58,640 --> 00:45:03,040
Speaker 1: my fucking and I'm standing there like and everybody looking

839
00:45:03,040 --> 00:45:06,080
Speaker 1: at me like, and you know what he's said. I

840
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:06,799
Speaker 1: always wanted to.

841
00:45:06,800 --> 00:45:11,480
Speaker 2: Do that inappropriate, Go to jail. Go to jail.

842
00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:15,640
Speaker 1: You always wanted to do that. I just got to

843
00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:17,680
Speaker 1: a high school a couple of years ago. You were

844
00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 1: my teacher. What the fuck is happening?

845
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:22,640
Speaker 2: But you've grown now? I don't heard that, Oh you've

846
00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:24,239
Speaker 2: grown now. Yes.

847
00:45:24,360 --> 00:45:26,520
Speaker 1: I have actually had like a school resource office to

848
00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:28,160
Speaker 1: try to haul at me, like a couple of years

849
00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:30,640
Speaker 1: out of high school for sure. At the mall.

850
00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:33,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't listen. I got some stories about them

851
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:38,920
Speaker 2: resource offices. Yeah. But anyway, but here's the back to

852
00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:45,680
Speaker 2: your scenariotion scenario though, because if I was employed by

853
00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:48,000
Speaker 2: a company, and y'all might be mad at me by this,

854
00:45:48,440 --> 00:45:51,040
Speaker 2: but if it was a black girl stealing the chicks.

855
00:45:51,040 --> 00:45:52,759
Speaker 2: I would just be like, bitch, you better stop. You

856
00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:55,839
Speaker 2: about to get in trouble. But it was a white

857
00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:58,560
Speaker 2: man stealing the chicks. I'm telling I don't know why

858
00:45:58,600 --> 00:46:02,480
Speaker 2: I would do that. What why pay roll is short? Bitch?

859
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:06,319
Speaker 1: Payroll? That mean other employee checks are short because she's

860
00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:10,400
Speaker 1: stealing the checks. I'm telling you, taking money out of

861
00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:11,480
Speaker 1: everybody else's pocket.

862
00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:13,240
Speaker 2: I don't want to tell on a black woman.

863
00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:15,839
Speaker 1: She might be taking your check.

864
00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:16,200
Speaker 2: Girl.

865
00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:19,200
Speaker 1: So now in order for it has to affect you directly. See,

866
00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:22,600
Speaker 1: that's where the street no snitch shit never makes sense

867
00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:25,719
Speaker 1: to me. People going to snitch when it's affecting them directly,

868
00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:28,560
Speaker 1: But if it's somebody else's family, they don't see the

869
00:46:28,600 --> 00:46:30,880
Speaker 1: need to snitch. All stop snitching. Free my nigga, Like

870
00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:32,600
Speaker 1: your nigga is a demon out here.

871
00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:35,440
Speaker 2: Okay, no, I get it, But I'm just saying, like,

872
00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:40,160
Speaker 2: what y'all doing that y'all can't find out how I know,

873
00:46:40,239 --> 00:46:42,439
Speaker 2: And y'all don't know, y'all somebody up here not doing

874
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:46,200
Speaker 2: their job, you know what I'm saying, Like, and I

875
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:46,680
Speaker 2: know if I.

876
00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:50,760
Speaker 1: Know, other people know, right, So this is the last one.

877
00:46:51,160 --> 00:46:55,120
Speaker 1: The cops come to you with an ultimatum, talk or

878
00:46:55,280 --> 00:46:56,480
Speaker 1: take the charge.

879
00:46:57,520 --> 00:47:03,560
Speaker 2: An ultimatum. I need to hear it charge. I'm never

880
00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:07,080
Speaker 2: taking the charge. I don't care what happened. I'm never

881
00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:09,799
Speaker 2: taking no charge. If it don't belong to me, I'm

882
00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:13,719
Speaker 2: not taking it. If it's mine, I'll own it, but

883
00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:16,080
Speaker 2: it's never gonna be mine. Because I am a law body,

884
00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:20,640
Speaker 2: I am terrified to be in anybody's jail. So yes, no,

885
00:47:20,719 --> 00:47:24,000
Speaker 2: I'm not taking no charge. I can't think of a

886
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:25,760
Speaker 2: scenario where I would need to take.

887
00:47:25,600 --> 00:47:27,320
Speaker 1: A charge your child.

888
00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:30,920
Speaker 2: I can't think of a scenario where I would need

889
00:47:30,920 --> 00:47:34,239
Speaker 2: to because that's exactly why I'm not If I have

890
00:47:34,280 --> 00:47:36,200
Speaker 2: a kid, I'm not tattooing my kid's name on me

891
00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:38,759
Speaker 2: like these motherfuckers grow up and disappointing you and.

892
00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:44,600
Speaker 1: Now like I'm everybody is their own individual person. I'm

893
00:47:44,600 --> 00:47:46,680
Speaker 1: not taking a charge. You know right from wrong.

894
00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 2: I raised you. I'm you're going to jail. I'm gonna

895
00:47:50,640 --> 00:47:52,400
Speaker 2: take it like I'm gonna put money on your books

896
00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:54,360
Speaker 2: and I'm gonna come see you. But I'm not taking

897
00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:58,399
Speaker 2: no charge for you. Hell No, I am not fair

898
00:47:58,480 --> 00:48:02,520
Speaker 2: kind of mother. Why would you work? Why would you

899
00:48:02,520 --> 00:48:06,799
Speaker 2: want your mama in jail for you? You are sick. What

900
00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:09,120
Speaker 2: kind of nigga gonna let their mama go to jail

901
00:48:09,160 --> 00:48:09,920
Speaker 2: for them?

902
00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:12,480
Speaker 1: That's what I'm trying to understand. Like even older men

903
00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:15,440
Speaker 1: letting young boys take charges for them too, because they

904
00:48:15,440 --> 00:48:17,640
Speaker 1: think because they're younger, you're not gonna get as much time.

905
00:48:18,440 --> 00:48:21,759
Speaker 1: It's just like, to me, that's that's not love. No, y'all,

906
00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:23,480
Speaker 1: don't give a fuck about it. Any That's a lot,

907
00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:26,680
Speaker 1: a whole lot of selfishness in the streets. Yea, that's

908
00:48:26,719 --> 00:48:31,560
Speaker 1: all it is. Everybody's for themselves, Okay, so be for yourself.

909
00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:34,920
Speaker 1: Do what's best for you. You'll be out here crashing out

910
00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:37,440
Speaker 1: for the next nigga because they will not crash out

911
00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:39,600
Speaker 1: for you. Women, don't be out here waiting for these

912
00:48:39,680 --> 00:48:42,640
Speaker 1: niggas to come home, especially if they ain't your husband. Okays,

913
00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:44,840
Speaker 1: they're gonna come home. They're gonna get somebody pregnant the

914
00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:51,520
Speaker 1: same fucking year they get out of jail. Yeah do

915
00:48:51,640 --> 00:48:57,720
Speaker 1: I I'm always speaking from experience, Okay, it's not current

916
00:48:57,920 --> 00:49:01,800
Speaker 1: right because I learned from my lessons, right, But don't

917
00:49:02,239 --> 00:49:06,040
Speaker 1: don't don't do it's best for you.

918
00:49:06,239 --> 00:49:11,120
Speaker 2: Always yeah. Make And you know what, if you think

919
00:49:11,160 --> 00:49:12,960
Speaker 2: waiting on the nigga to come home from jail is

920
00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:14,840
Speaker 2: best for you, then do that too, but just be

921
00:49:14,960 --> 00:49:17,600
Speaker 2: willing to suffer the consequences of that, to live with

922
00:49:17,680 --> 00:49:20,319
Speaker 2: the consequences of that, whatever that is. It might turn

923
00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:25,160
Speaker 2: out to be fair. Not likely, but it might. You know,

924
00:49:25,320 --> 00:49:29,880
Speaker 2: you love giving hose hope. I do. I listen because

925
00:49:29,920 --> 00:49:38,680
Speaker 2: I romantic, because I have to keep hope alive. You

926
00:49:38,760 --> 00:49:41,120
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, That's my job out here.

927
00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:45,560
Speaker 1: I would say, more often than not, things are not

928
00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:48,520
Speaker 1: going to go the way you would like them to go, right,

929
00:49:48,600 --> 00:49:51,440
Speaker 1: So do what's best for you. That is my last

930
00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:53,560
Speaker 1: last Or if taking the charge for a nigga is

931
00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:57,880
Speaker 1: what's best for you, so be it. Don't cry. I

932
00:49:57,880 --> 00:50:01,680
Speaker 1: don't even think people realize like the toll it takes

933
00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:05,719
Speaker 1: on a family when somebody goes to prison, especially the mother,

934
00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:09,160
Speaker 1: and everybody's in jail with you, you call you become

935
00:50:09,200 --> 00:50:12,080
Speaker 1: a bill. You know what I'm saying, Like, people stop answering,

936
00:50:12,200 --> 00:50:16,600
Speaker 1: people stop writing. I don't know why we glorify as shit.

937
00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:20,520
Speaker 1: I remember my ex, one of his homeboys said basically

938
00:50:20,600 --> 00:50:23,240
Speaker 1: like he wished he had like the type of clout

939
00:50:23,600 --> 00:50:26,799
Speaker 1: my ex had without having to go to prison. Why

940
00:50:26,800 --> 00:50:29,520
Speaker 1: are we glorifying niggas who spent a quarter they fucking

941
00:50:29,520 --> 00:50:30,799
Speaker 1: life in jail anyway?

942
00:50:31,200 --> 00:50:36,920
Speaker 2: Just not cool. Oh let me say that. I'm sorry, Millennium.

943
00:50:38,000 --> 00:50:40,600
Speaker 1: It's not cool. It's not okay. The cool thing is

944
00:50:40,600 --> 00:50:43,759
Speaker 1: to get money, get a fine woman, take care of

945
00:50:43,800 --> 00:50:49,280
Speaker 1: your children. Uh, start building some generational wealth, get some property,

946
00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:52,680
Speaker 1: Like just relax, get a porch, get a house with

947
00:50:52,760 --> 00:50:57,520
Speaker 1: a porch and sit outside. You know, like y'all missing

948
00:50:57,560 --> 00:51:00,400
Speaker 1: out on life and you locked in a cage. What

949
00:51:00,480 --> 00:51:03,640
Speaker 1: a bunch of other men? Do you really like women?

950
00:51:05,120 --> 00:51:08,880
Speaker 1: It's that your comfort zone, right.

951
00:51:10,160 --> 00:51:12,600
Speaker 2: But you know sometimes they like women until they get

952
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:14,279
Speaker 2: in there and they find out they like some other

953
00:51:14,320 --> 00:51:14,839
Speaker 2: shit too.

954
00:51:17,239 --> 00:51:19,759
Speaker 1: I understand that, but I really feel like those men

955
00:51:20,160 --> 00:51:24,160
Speaker 1: are already have already Uh, they have predisposed gayness.

956
00:51:25,160 --> 00:51:27,799
Speaker 2: But I think you got if you got life in

957
00:51:27,840 --> 00:51:31,080
Speaker 2: prison without the possibility of parole, I would just go

958
00:51:31,120 --> 00:51:32,239
Speaker 2: ahead and be a gay gay.

959
00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:35,160
Speaker 1: Right, You don't need sex for survival, So you're just

960
00:51:35,200 --> 00:51:40,040
Speaker 1: gonna go against everything you are, right because I don't know, you.

961
00:51:40,040 --> 00:51:40,640
Speaker 2: Beat your dick.

962
00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:42,879
Speaker 1: You don't have to have sex with a man because

963
00:51:42,920 --> 00:51:45,440
Speaker 1: you went to prison. That's a choice. Those men are

964
00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:47,719
Speaker 1: already gay as far as I'm concerned. If you are

965
00:51:47,760 --> 00:51:49,719
Speaker 1: willing to partake in that type of shit just because

966
00:51:49,719 --> 00:51:53,440
Speaker 1: you go do some time you're a gay man, it's okay, though.

967
00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:55,839
Speaker 2: Shit, I be a gay man. Fuck it then, cause

968
00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:57,840
Speaker 2: I mean like, I ain't never gonna get no. You know,

969
00:51:57,840 --> 00:52:01,719
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna get no. I'm gonna get some boosy now.

970
00:52:01,719 --> 00:52:02,600
Speaker 2: I'm a bussy lover.

971
00:52:02,719 --> 00:52:10,480
Speaker 1: Now the last last food.

972
00:52:11,480 --> 00:52:15,880
Speaker 2: I would be happy if the streets did die and

973
00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:20,720
Speaker 2: people started being more focused on the things that bring

974
00:52:20,800 --> 00:52:26,480
Speaker 2: black community back. You know. Yeah, so yeah, my last

975
00:52:26,520 --> 00:52:29,200
Speaker 2: last is let the streets die, Let me die, Let

976
00:52:29,200 --> 00:52:32,359
Speaker 2: that era be over. You know, for us, we need

977
00:52:32,360 --> 00:52:34,840
Speaker 2: bigger and better things. We're onto bigger and better things.

978
00:52:34,840 --> 00:52:45,399
Speaker 1: Amen, Lrip my niggas. M I love you Black people, y'all.

979
00:52:45,840 --> 00:52:50,680
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982
00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:57,799
Speaker 1: host aj Holiday on two point uh, I mean two

983
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Speaker 1: point zero on.

984
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985
00:53:04,239 --> 00:53:08,440
Speaker 2: Talk Back Podcast on Instagram. Uh, send us your dumbitch

986
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Speaker 2: stories and what else? Send us? Oh, we want to

987
00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:17,600
Speaker 2: have a conversation about motherhood. You made a post requesting

988
00:53:17,640 --> 00:53:20,480
Speaker 2: what was your post? You made a post request I wanted.

989
00:53:20,120 --> 00:53:24,120
Speaker 1: To know, right, this is the this is the judgment Olympics?

990
00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:27,560
Speaker 1: Was the post I put up? Tell me a time?

991
00:53:28,000 --> 00:53:28,360
Speaker 2: Uh?

992
00:53:28,480 --> 00:53:30,359
Speaker 1: We want to see who's who gets judged the most,

993
00:53:30,440 --> 00:53:33,920
Speaker 1: essentially women with no children or single moms.

994
00:53:35,120 --> 00:53:39,120
Speaker 2: Mmm. So y'all send us a DM with your information

995
00:53:39,200 --> 00:53:41,000
Speaker 2: on that, or you can call what's the number you

996
00:53:41,000 --> 00:53:41,560
Speaker 2: know about heart?

997
00:53:42,080 --> 00:53:44,040
Speaker 1: I don't y'all look at the posts?

998
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:49,520
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, go look at that We Talked Back Podcast page, y'all,

999
00:53:49,880 --> 00:53:52,640
Speaker 2: and we love y'all for chiming in and sharing your

1000
00:53:52,640 --> 00:53:53,560
Speaker 2: life with us.

1001
00:53:53,800 --> 00:53:56,960
Speaker 1: All right, kick it, Remember y'all speak now.

1002
00:53:57,840 --> 00:54:00,680
Speaker 2: Oh that's not your line, that's my name, but ever

1003
00:54:00,800 --> 00:54:03,520
Speaker 2: hold them streets period.

1004
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