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Speaker 1: Terrible timing, that's not what we want. So I twenty

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Speaker 1: My pregnancy went especially fine, besides some physical accidents that

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Speaker 1: left the baby completely unharmed. It was and still is

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Speaker 1: the happiest time in my entire life. We did a

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Speaker 1: lot of stuff together, like dining out, hiking, and strolling

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Speaker 1: Down a bit, detached my mind and started not caring

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Speaker 1: It, but only because he thought that I would have

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Speaker 1: two days ago I had bought a concert ticket for

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Speaker 1: a band he really liked a month before, and he

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Speaker 1: that day, exhausted from work, he was really tired and

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Speaker 1: the internet. More as I talked to him about it,

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Speaker 1: because it had been a pain to get the ticket

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Speaker 2: He would stay with me, et cetera, et cetera.

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Speaker 1: I told him that I didn't need that, that if

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Speaker 3: Is she not going to the concert?

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Speaker 2: Wait?

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Speaker 3: She got tickets for him to go to the concert.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So I believe running it back here to catch

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Speaker 2: Ope.

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Speaker 1: He had bought concert tickets for a band that he

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Speaker 2: And he was like all excited. He was like ready

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Speaker 3: Come some work, is like I don't want to go,

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Speaker 3: but I'm just wondering is she going like, was she

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Speaker 3: supposed to go with them? Or was she like, this

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Speaker 1: I think yeah, she had bought I believe for the

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Speaker 1: both of them. And as I talked to him about it,

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Speaker 2: He would stay with me, et cetera, et cetera. Ye,

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Speaker 2: so I think it is just for him. Yes, I

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Speaker 2: I told him that I didn't need that.

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Speaker 1: Then if I suddenly went to labor, I would still

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Speaker 2: Oh what will?

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Speaker 1: I kept his phone that can only be called right

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Speaker 3: I think you sh I mean, I understand, you know,

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Speaker 3: maybe financial difficulties, but I think we could maybe maybe

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Speaker 2: It does seem like a very important I guess with

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Speaker 1: Honestly, this sounds like us today with our tech problems.

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Speaker 1: It's like, all right, we've got one this phone in

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Speaker 3: Call me crazy, But should the person who's pregnant have

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Speaker 2: Yes? Why did they do that?

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Speaker 1: This is a little bit Uh. I don't know if

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Speaker 1: I'm following logic here, Sophia. Okay, so he went to

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Speaker 1: So we got through the whole concert. No, no emergency labor,

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Speaker 3: Have you ever gone to a concert alone?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: If I'm alone, concert kind of go.

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Speaker 1: I would highly suggest it, especially if you have an

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Speaker 2: I would do it.

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Speaker 3: Just go.

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Speaker 2: Highly suggest you make friends there, and you make friends

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Speaker 1: The next day he had planned to go to a

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Speaker 1: cultural events that one distant front of ours hosts. Those

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Speaker 2: View life and they're in their thirty twenty one and

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Speaker 1: Okay, sounds he's so mature literally potentially possibly highly pretentious.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, like, I don't know, I feel like

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Speaker 3: you should get those credits on your phone.

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Speaker 2: We just kind of fixed the phone. Does whut?

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Speaker 3: I don't know if you judge, everyone.

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Speaker 2: Is yeah, right, come on.

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Speaker 1: But although he wants to go, he never ends up

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Speaker 1: or he's too tire quote unquote or whatnot. Most of

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Speaker 1: knew he wouldn't go again. The second he entered our apartment,

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Speaker 1: he told me that he felt a bit sick. So

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Speaker 1: started staring into Facebook and declined all my approaches, I

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Speaker 2: Now onto what made me mad?

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Speaker 3: I like the breakdown?

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Speaker 2: Right, this is great, great section titles.

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Speaker 1: About an hour later he told me that he was

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Speaker 1: considering going over to let's call her Elle's place. Hmmm, No,

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Speaker 1: he's going to is going to El's? No, He's like,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to go out. I don't want to

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Speaker 1: How about no, oh, go to Know's place. Yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: where you stay. Where you're at with your pregnant freakin' wife.

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Speaker 1: You can't call anybody.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Now, a bit of backstory might be needed here. We

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Speaker 1: are both in a circle of friends who, to shortly

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Speaker 1: explain it, occasionally meet up and perform freeform shows or plays. Sophia,

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Speaker 1: did one of your friends secretly submit a story to

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Speaker 1: the subreddit this is Riley? No, Riley? Can we scan

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Speaker 1: our Slasha? Okay, story time to expose the identity of

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Speaker 1: one of his friends?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I find it. There we go easy. He's on

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Speaker 2: the case. The hobbit guy seventies hobbit Yep, that's there.

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Speaker 3: We go, we found it Riley pulled a mean trick

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Speaker 3: on me.

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Speaker 1: Uh oh okay. Storytime later. Elle joined at about the

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Speaker 1: This boyfriend is currently on tour. My husband has lately

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Speaker 1: Most of the time, I end up going anyway once

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Speaker 1: I've already noticed that he had been chatting with Ellen

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Speaker 1: She had also at some point recommended a book about

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Speaker 1: gory perverted unaliverse, fitting exactly into the dark Gothic stereotype

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Speaker 1: But they really seem to get along well.

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Speaker 3: Dude, when someone's buying a book that someone recommended, immediately rush.

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Speaker 3: They're into him, They're into those.

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Speaker 3: I've bought many books that people I like recommended me.

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Speaker 3: I truly think like, I don't think that you always

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Speaker 3: I think it's pretty explicitly Uninviting them is very weird.

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Speaker 1: Little crazy, very weird. So he thought about visiting her.

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Speaker 1: all of his friendships over the last few months. But

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Speaker 1: I also was somewhat skeptical because, well, he had just

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Speaker 1: wanting to leave me alone. Yeah, He's like, yeah, oh,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to go to the culture been. Oh Elle,

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Speaker 1: let's say, oh my god, I have to go.

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Speaker 3: Love to be there.

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Speaker 2: I want to see El. She's so great. I want

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Speaker 3: Her and read all those books.

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Speaker 1: I want to abandon my pregnant wife of thirty nine

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Speaker 3: That's about to pop, pregnant one big belly, big belly

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Speaker 2: Mm hmm, that's right.

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Speaker 1: But I thought nothing about it and said, yeah, why

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Speaker 1: don't you go? In not even five minutes, he was

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Speaker 2: We have lived here together. Yikes.

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Speaker 2: Again, opis you know callless?

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Speaker 3: I also think it's kind of wild that Opie's his

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Speaker 2: Yes, I guess they only have one car.

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Speaker 3: But big belly much bait. What did you say?

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Speaker 1: Big belly full of baby, big belly full of baby, lady,

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Speaker 1: no no, don't do that now. First I played some

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I've been waiting for you, big belly oil a baby,

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Speaker 1: I thought I could just seek in and you wouldn't

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Speaker 2: You're still awake?

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Speaker 3: Elle was just here for book club?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh god, i'd be reading something and it's not

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Speaker 2: Oh god? The first thing I heard from him was,

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Speaker 1: It turned out that he had called, but the phone

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they really need to fix his ponus. They got up.

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Speaker 2: Why they got U she's about?

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Speaker 3: I don't know, Like they didn't say specifically that they

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Speaker 3: can't afford it. They just said he didn't buy the credits. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: you gotta buy the credit A big belly full of baby,

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Speaker 1: Buy the credits bare minimum. If you want to see

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Speaker 2: Buying the credits. That's the fairest of minimum. Not that

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he had to walk home half an hour, which

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Speaker 1: I absolutely expected since he had stayed longer than any

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Speaker 1: why it may be mad and how he described it.

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Speaker 2: So it got worse Jopter three. It turned out that

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, I'm just talking to you.

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Speaker 2: No, no, you're not I'm not touching you. I'm just

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Speaker 2: talking to you. Touch me, I'm not touching, just talking

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Speaker 3: Sure, I was doing a stitch impression.

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Speaker 5: Do it?

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Speaker 2: We can't do this.

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Speaker 1: He told me that they had such a good talk

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Speaker 3: Well, maybe you should occur these fists.

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Speaker 2: Ooh oh no, oh, no, Sophia hold her back.

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Speaker 1: He obviously tried to call me in between, but since

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Speaker 2: After that messed up.

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Speaker 1: Please note that I had no idea how long he

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Speaker 1: was fine and all right. I, however, think that if

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Speaker 1: tears for quite a few reasons. First, I cannot remember

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Speaker 2: There it is. I was waiting for that one.

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Speaker 1: Sure we might have done things together for six hours

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Speaker 1: flaming the place we go to or the people who

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Speaker 1: me that doesn't quite fit, and explaining to me in

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Speaker 2: What I do and how I'm doing it. I mean,

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Speaker 2: when do we just.

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Speaker 1: Call it wow? Just like you know, not call it.

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Speaker 1: I'd be like, hey, we need to have a sea

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Speaker 3: Now, yeah, I don't think you call it because obviously,

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Speaker 3: you know, I need to figure out, figure it out,

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Speaker 3: figure out what's going on, figure out like why he's

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Speaker 3: And also I'm sure like he's sensing like he's seeing

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Speaker 3: because it's gonna get infinitely harder, you know.

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Speaker 1: Or or we could take our phone with milk credits. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: toss that bad boy into the into the trams so

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Speaker 1: you run over. Now, we really have to be closer together, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean like it forces us to everywhere together, to communicate,

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Speaker 3: You because I got no phone. I can't I can't

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Speaker 3: go on Facebook. I have to talk to you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Screen agers?

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Speaker 2: Screen agers? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Op?

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Speaker 2: And that's old? Is that? Teenagers?

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Speaker 3: So people?

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Speaker 4: He said screen because screen has two e's in it,

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Speaker 4: replacing the.

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Speaker 3: Teen basically is a thing where like when you know

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Speaker 3: him a screenager. But the joke now is that like

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Speaker 3: you screenager.

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Speaker 1: I knew by context clues, but but you still ask.

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Speaker 2: But I still asked.

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Speaker 1: I am sad now And if we sit at home

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Speaker 1: talk looks like him diving up from the computer screen

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Speaker 1: that he's been glued to for quite some time, explaining

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Speaker 3: So it sounds like he's talking at you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, doesn't sound like a conversation, the babe I just

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Speaker 1: saw it was funny meme and it was like pretty cool.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, so and he's back, babe.

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Speaker 3: So I went on to this white website that talked

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Like why why do you get an issue when

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Speaker 2: Why?

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Speaker 3: That's cool babe today And he's like, okay, I'm done,

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Speaker 3: Like I was just gonna tell you about my day.

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Speaker 2: And he's like, I sorry, way more memes.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh, God forbid I say something he doesn't expect

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Speaker 1: that requires further discussion about the subject. Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Oh actual exchange of conversation. Then he usually just gets

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Speaker 1: they just talked. They just talked together, Like he told

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Speaker 1: don't surprise him anymore. In a conversation, he can understand

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Speaker 3: What is he talking about?

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Speaker 2: This man?

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Speaker 1: I I guessed before that he was a pompous, a

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Speaker 3: Oh my goodness, I'm sorry to say to your pregnant wife. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I just don't like talking to you anymore because you

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Speaker 1: You're just like, like did your words are like so

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Speaker 1: simple that my big fat freaking brain is just like

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Speaker 3: He already freaking said, Oh, yeah, like, I just don't

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Speaker 3: I'm sure if OPI's twenty one and he's twenty five,

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Speaker 3: he probably also thinks that she's like less mature, not

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Speaker 2: And buddy, why did you marry her and have a

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Speaker 1: If you believe it? Come on, I think that's exactly

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Speaker 1: what's happening here. He's like, oh, you know, I'm so sophisticated. Uh,

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Speaker 1: this will be, you know, an easy get for me. This,

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Speaker 3: Elle's probably his aid or around.

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Speaker 2: Is it? Yep? Guys, yoicks now that I'm sharper than.

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Speaker 3: Ever, John also a little bit bigger than me.

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Speaker 1: You This girl obviously manages to catch his interest for

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Speaker 1: glad to hear that a random girl whose interest he

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: I asked him how they even got the idea to

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Speaker 1: questioned that way. He told me that Elle was describing

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Speaker 1: to him how she didn't feel well to him over

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Speaker 2: Oh I'm you're not feeling well. I'm not feeling well.

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Speaker 3: Feeling well either, we should not feel well together.

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Speaker 1: So she asked him if he would like some tea.

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Speaker 1: This obviously was exciting enough to jump out of his

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Speaker 3: Dude, emotional cheating at the very least.

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Speaker 2: Ooh, great point.

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Speaker 1: Great point contrary to the countless, countless times in the

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Speaker 1: several huge parks in our immediate proximity. No, either he

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Speaker 1: go as far. He kindly informed me that for her,

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Speaker 1: driving to the next district with two tram lines was

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Speaker 1: not at all a huge deal, while going four stations

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Speaker 1: too much of a hassle to put up with. Once

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Speaker 3: Not interested in you right now, which saw it's awful

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Speaker 3: like he's just he's completely emotionally invested in l right now,

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Speaker 3: and so nothing you do is good enough.

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Speaker 1: You just have to wait and see if he'll ever

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Speaker 1: be interested in you. He won't, but you'll just wait

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Speaker 1: and see for eternity and then he never will be.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's all good. Just waits.

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Speaker 1: Your kids are fifty, because then you will not be

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Speaker 1: you'll be so old that it just happens anyways, yep,

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Speaker 3: Or conversation, either one of those.

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Speaker 2: Or you could wait, you know, one hundred years. So

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying nothing. Yeah, cheap the same phone with

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Speaker 2: no credit.

447
00:19:10,119 --> 00:19:12,240
Speaker 3: Or you can wait until the heat death of the universe.

448
00:19:12,359 --> 00:19:15,760
Speaker 1: There we go, we can all burnt together without getting

449
00:19:15,760 --> 00:19:17,560
Speaker 1: to the root, cause there we go. And it was

450
00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:20,200
Speaker 1: just so uncomfortable sitting on the sofa the whole time,

451
00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:22,760
Speaker 1: because we have no sofa. Not sure what that means,

452
00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:25,840
Speaker 1: I asked sarcastically. We indeed don't have one, but we

453
00:19:25,920 --> 00:19:28,479
Speaker 1: have a comfy bed, lots of sitting pillows, and an

454
00:19:28,520 --> 00:19:30,679
Speaker 1: awesome dining table we bought in order to make our

455
00:19:30,720 --> 00:19:33,600
Speaker 1: home look all nice and classy for being a family. Well,

456
00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:36,760
Speaker 1: a sofa could be good to And yes, that was

457
00:19:36,760 --> 00:19:39,399
Speaker 1: indeed the reason. It had not occurred to him once

458
00:19:39,440 --> 00:19:42,000
Speaker 1: in the entire time that he could look into the

459
00:19:42,040 --> 00:19:45,119
Speaker 1: Internet or into a book, something that he seems hooked

460
00:19:45,160 --> 00:19:47,840
Speaker 1: to do when sitting around here. If he isn't really

461
00:19:47,840 --> 00:19:50,159
Speaker 1: immersed in one book. He runs back to the Internet

462
00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:53,760
Speaker 1: almost every idle moment to check Facebook, read things and whatnot.

463
00:19:54,080 --> 00:19:57,000
Speaker 1: But here he talked to a person he didn't know,

464
00:19:57,359 --> 00:19:59,800
Speaker 1: and so had to listen intensely. Listen, I, babe, I

465
00:19:59,800 --> 00:20:02,199
Speaker 1: don't here, so I gotta be I gotta be locked in.

466
00:20:02,240 --> 00:20:03,520
Speaker 1: I gotta gotta open.

467
00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:05,960
Speaker 3: I know everything about you and everything else I don't

468
00:20:05,960 --> 00:20:08,080
Speaker 3: want to know about you so exact perfect.

469
00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:11,359
Speaker 1: You're so simple and so basic, and there's there there's

470
00:20:11,640 --> 00:20:12,760
Speaker 1: zero complexity to you.

471
00:20:12,800 --> 00:20:14,879
Speaker 2: There's I know everything there is to know. Come on.

472
00:20:15,200 --> 00:20:17,920
Speaker 1: He had bought some adult sodas because he didn't want

473
00:20:17,960 --> 00:20:21,760
Speaker 1: to appear empty handed, of course, you know, to the

474
00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:23,560
Speaker 1: tea that she was offering him.

475
00:20:23,840 --> 00:20:26,720
Speaker 3: You know, I'm sorry she she said, come over for tea,

476
00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:27,720
Speaker 3: and he brought beer.

477
00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:30,240
Speaker 1: Yep, I don't want to peer empty handed to the

478
00:20:30,280 --> 00:20:33,080
Speaker 1: place that already has the beverage will be consumed.

479
00:20:32,760 --> 00:20:36,359
Speaker 3: Beverage that we talked about. So I'm gonna bring another beverage.

480
00:20:35,880 --> 00:20:39,120
Speaker 2: The one without booze. By the way. Yeah, waits, come on.

481
00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:41,600
Speaker 1: After they had finished their tea, they drank two of

482
00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:43,960
Speaker 1: those each. It's not that I'm angry at him. Drinking

483
00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:46,920
Speaker 1: booze when I can't. That's why I bought the adult soda.

484
00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:49,240
Speaker 1: It bothers me that he takes them as a gift

485
00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:52,560
Speaker 1: when visiting a lonely bored goth girl, and they decide

486
00:20:52,560 --> 00:20:54,959
Speaker 1: to drink them both together in an atmosphere of extreme

487
00:20:55,000 --> 00:20:59,480
Speaker 1: comfort that miraculously removes all worries about his pregnant wife.

488
00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:02,360
Speaker 3: I forgot she bought him the drinks, and then he

489
00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:04,440
Speaker 3: takes them to go drink them with another girl.

490
00:21:04,560 --> 00:21:07,640
Speaker 2: Yep, yep. Oh.

491
00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:10,560
Speaker 1: I hate this man, and Nobey says, I've done nothing wrong.

492
00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:13,000
Speaker 1: You just don't interest me. So I go on Facebook

493
00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:15,840
Speaker 1: and read because I hate you and should be married

494
00:21:15,840 --> 00:21:17,879
Speaker 1: to you, but I am. Anyways, we're having a baby.

495
00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:22,000
Speaker 3: Yikes. Song of the day, Song of the summer. Maybe beer.

496
00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:25,119
Speaker 1: I would have left earlier if I had reached you

497
00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:27,440
Speaker 1: on the phone, but since he didn't, he just decided

498
00:21:27,480 --> 00:21:30,320
Speaker 1: to stay even longer. I asked him if he had

499
00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:32,720
Speaker 1: least talked to her about the play that I had planned.

500
00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:34,800
Speaker 1: I remember they're part of that friend circle that were

501
00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:35,560
Speaker 1: going to place.

502
00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:36,679
Speaker 2: Howe we forget that.

503
00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:40,120
Speaker 1: I have until now sent three emails about and received

504
00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:41,159
Speaker 1: only one answer.

505
00:21:41,200 --> 00:21:43,080
Speaker 2: On the second one saying, oh, we don't have much

506
00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:43,600
Speaker 2: time at.

507
00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:46,160
Speaker 1: The moment, but you keep doing what you're doing, as

508
00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:49,080
Speaker 1: he previously had told me he would. No, But instead

509
00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:52,879
Speaker 1: they listened to a forty minute recording of their activity

510
00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:56,600
Speaker 1: that happened a month ago and pondered about the details

511
00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:56,840
Speaker 1: of it.

512
00:21:57,119 --> 00:21:58,600
Speaker 2: Wild let's play.

513
00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:01,479
Speaker 1: Back, Sophia, you're telling me you don't play back up

514
00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:06,440
Speaker 1: an hour of tape from your play performances? Oh, and

515
00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:09,240
Speaker 1: and analyze what you've done?

516
00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:11,680
Speaker 2: Do you do that? Not an hour?

517
00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:14,919
Speaker 3: But we do watch ours? No, I don't think I've

518
00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:15,960
Speaker 3: ever done forty minutes?

519
00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:18,560
Speaker 1: Do you do forty minutes when your pregnant wife is

520
00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:22,600
Speaker 1: at home and you're out with someone who you secretly

521
00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:23,960
Speaker 1: find so much.

522
00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:26,679
Speaker 2: More more interesting interesting? And oh my gosh, I can

523
00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:27,919
Speaker 2: hold a conversation with you.

524
00:22:28,359 --> 00:22:29,720
Speaker 3: I don't do that. Gotta be honest.

525
00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:32,240
Speaker 1: She doesn't do it. That's the key, ladies and gentlemen,

526
00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 1: So my stance on things. What's bothering me the most

527
00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:39,440
Speaker 1: about the oh so effing important and interesting thing they

528
00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:44,000
Speaker 1: do is that she elle impersonates some kind of goddess

529
00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:46,960
Speaker 1: of lust. I think in this play that they're reviewing.

530
00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:50,640
Speaker 1: Oh okay, there are also other girls who had impersonated

531
00:22:50,880 --> 00:22:54,000
Speaker 1: that very goddess of lust, experienced ones that can do

532
00:22:54,040 --> 00:22:57,959
Speaker 1: this very well. But somehow Elle doing it sparked interest

533
00:22:57,960 --> 00:23:00,679
Speaker 1: in my husband because he feels that he is unresolved

534
00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:03,560
Speaker 1: issues and he wants to tap tap into that sort

535
00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:06,960
Speaker 1: of consciousness to find out more about himself.

536
00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:11,520
Speaker 3: What I'm sorry. He's telling you that, oh, L is

537
00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:15,119
Speaker 3: playing a Goddess of Lust and that actually awoke something

538
00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:17,720
Speaker 3: at me. And he didn't think you'd connect the dots

539
00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:20,200
Speaker 3: that he meant he was attracted to her.

540
00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:21,640
Speaker 2: The other girls. I did.

541
00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:24,160
Speaker 3: But it's not as smart as he thinks.

542
00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:27,040
Speaker 1: This guy, is he The way he looks at other

543
00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:28,359
Speaker 1: people is how he actually is.

544
00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:31,919
Speaker 2: He's like, oh, I'm amongst all these imbeciles and the plebeians.

545
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:34,440
Speaker 3: Yeahs brother.

546
00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:39,160
Speaker 2: Level, it's called a mirror. Yeah.

547
00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:42,040
Speaker 3: Amy Lenz says, Oh no, he wants to tap into L.

548
00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:46,600
Speaker 2: That's exactly correct. Wants to tap that that's exactly correct.

549
00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:48,719
Speaker 1: He had already told me this and asked me if

550
00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:52,000
Speaker 1: I had problems if he would repeat that impersonation.

551
00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:52,880
Speaker 2: With her alone.

552
00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:59,520
Speaker 1: What I'm Sophia, He needs to perfect his character alone

553
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:00,640
Speaker 1: with her, with the Godess of lust.

554
00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:03,160
Speaker 2: Alone before he brings it to the public theater.

555
00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:05,639
Speaker 3: That second kids in high school who had to do

556
00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 3: a kiss Steine in our plays would be like, yeah,

557
00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:12,040
Speaker 3: we're gonna rehearse alone. We all knew they wanted.

558
00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:14,920
Speaker 2: To kiss practice alone. Come on, big deal.

559
00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:18,560
Speaker 1: I don't have any problems with that. I even encouraged it, dude.

560
00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:22,880
Speaker 1: But the only reason I did that maybe that experienced

561
00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:26,320
Speaker 1: girl or probably me could also do it for him.

562
00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:28,879
Speaker 1: Could you know practice as this goddess of lust was

563
00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:32,000
Speaker 1: that they both agreed on doing the dark Gothy Lust

564
00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:36,440
Speaker 1: impersonation together up until the point where she told her

565
00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:39,160
Speaker 1: boyfriend that they would be doing this and he said

566
00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:41,760
Speaker 1: that it was not a good idea, essentially forbidding it.

567
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:44,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, So what makes me effing mad about that.

568
00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:47,320
Speaker 1: Just hanging out on the couch along with listening to

569
00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:50,320
Speaker 1: the recording and discussing it, is that there was pension

570
00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:53,960
Speaker 1: between them in the first place. Kank, Holy crap. I

571
00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:56,560
Speaker 1: would even be okay if he took her home and

572
00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:59,640
Speaker 1: eft her silly if he told me. I have reassured

573
00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:03,240
Speaker 1: him that several times. But instead he goes over to

574
00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:05,520
Speaker 1: her place and just feels so f and comfortable just

575
00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:08,000
Speaker 1: talking to her, leaving me alone. Let me make sure

576
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:09,800
Speaker 1: I understand this because.

577
00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:12,320
Speaker 2: I'm going to read this back. Okay, I'm gonna read

578
00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:12,640
Speaker 2: this back.

579
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:15,800
Speaker 1: What holy crap? I would even be okay if he

580
00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:19,320
Speaker 1: took her home and fed her silly, if he told

581
00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:23,280
Speaker 1: me I have reassured him of that several times. But

582
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:27,240
Speaker 1: instead he just goes over to their place and feels

583
00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:31,040
Speaker 1: so f and comfortable just talking to her while leaving

584
00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:36,359
Speaker 1: me alone. So I think op is saying that maybe

585
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:41,320
Speaker 1: there's some polyamorous leanings or a full blown locked in

586
00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:44,680
Speaker 1: nature to their relationship. I guess so where she's okay

587
00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:48,119
Speaker 1: with you know, physical intimacy, but it seems the emotional

588
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:50,320
Speaker 1: part of like, hey here, I am like carrying all

589
00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:52,440
Speaker 1: this yeah, litter, your baby in all this emotional weight,

590
00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:54,200
Speaker 1: and you don't even care about me.

591
00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:58,200
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, he can, he can f her silly. Okay,

592
00:25:58,200 --> 00:25:59,960
Speaker 2: it's all good, it's fine.

593
00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:00,840
Speaker 3: I'm sure he will.

594
00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:03,480
Speaker 2: It's okay, Riley, all right, it's okay.

595
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:06,440
Speaker 4: Why why why are we giving people permission to do this?

596
00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:08,360
Speaker 4: It's all why?

597
00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:11,320
Speaker 2: Now Here's when it all crashed down on me.

598
00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:15,240
Speaker 3: Wow, yeah, no one could have seen that coming.

599
00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:18,520
Speaker 1: The thing is that he didn't do anything wrong. He

600
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:20,880
Speaker 1: visited her, they had a good talk. He came back

601
00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:24,880
Speaker 1: not violating any agreement on the schedule because there wasn't any.

602
00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:26,800
Speaker 1: And that's when it occurred to me that it was

603
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,680
Speaker 1: actually me who had a problem, because I pretty much

604
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:33,679
Speaker 1: ruined my evening when he wasn't even back. I pretty

605
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:37,040
Speaker 1: much incited a furnace of hate and anger that I

606
00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:39,520
Speaker 1: kept feeling with every detail that he told me about

607
00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:42,240
Speaker 1: his evening. I can't deny that I am boring.

608
00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:42,600
Speaker 2: Girl.

609
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:46,880
Speaker 3: You're pregnant. No you you don't. You're not doing much

610
00:26:46,880 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 3: because you're pregnant.

611
00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:52,280
Speaker 2: No you're not. Wait why why say this? It's okay,

612
00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:53,040
Speaker 2: You're not boring.

613
00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:55,360
Speaker 3: Everyone is a little bit interesting.

614
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:55,720
Speaker 2: Come on.

615
00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:58,679
Speaker 1: I might know a lotch, but most of it is

616
00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:02,119
Speaker 1: factual knowledge, and I am a very introverted person, so

617
00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:03,600
Speaker 1: I don't speak with much emotion.

618
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:05,600
Speaker 2: I also like to keep myself short.

619
00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:07,760
Speaker 1: He always tells me that I show nothing of my

620
00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:10,320
Speaker 1: thoughts and feelings, which might be true, but I'm used

621
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:13,040
Speaker 1: to just not flaunting them around, especially when I'm not

622
00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 1: being listened to some goth girl. OPI he's really honing

623
00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:18,959
Speaker 1: in all this goth things got she happens to be

624
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:23,479
Speaker 1: everything my husband likes that I am not, like small girly,

625
00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:28,240
Speaker 1: quirky rock styled covered in tattoos who obviously either disdains

626
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:31,560
Speaker 1: or flat out despises me, catches his attention with one

627
00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:34,239
Speaker 1: half hearted tentence something that I didn't manage to do

628
00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:38,200
Speaker 1: with countless more creative suggestions for things he actually liked

629
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 1: over the past two weeks. Again, remember she would be

630
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:43,480
Speaker 1: suggesting going out to the park, doing some activities together,

631
00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:45,960
Speaker 1: flying the kite, rubbing his back, running him showers when

632
00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:49,160
Speaker 1: he says he's too tired, like oh op, pregnant. AF

633
00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:51,560
Speaker 1: is tending to this man, Yeah, like big time. There

634
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:54,320
Speaker 1: must be something in my way to suggest things that's

635
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:58,119
Speaker 1: even more unappealing than a written want some tea opie.

636
00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:02,359
Speaker 1: You've done, You've truly done everything, you have done your

637
00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:06,719
Speaker 1: part of the bargain. Absolutely, Then he just sucks and

638
00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:09,600
Speaker 1: is not interested in you, and and doesn't quite frankly,

639
00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:11,520
Speaker 1: it doesn't give a dang about you.

640
00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:14,679
Speaker 2: No, doesn't care about you at all. From where I'm sitting,

641
00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:16,800
Speaker 2: nor from where I'm sitting on from where.

642
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:18,760
Speaker 1: Both of us are sitting, this efing girl sits at

643
00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:21,359
Speaker 1: home while her boyfriend is on tour, complaining to a

644
00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 1: married man how she doesn't feel well, and directly reacts

645
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:29,480
Speaker 1: he's got a boyfriend too, he's on tour. Oh, Sophie,

646
00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 1: she's lonely.

647
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 3: Slnely, and she's sick and she needs some tea and

648
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:34,400
Speaker 3: some company.

649
00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:37,040
Speaker 1: Have some tay, may I want to talk to you

650
00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:39,840
Speaker 1: because like my boy he's a rocker, he's on tour.

651
00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:44,200
Speaker 3: You know when to talk to. I mean, oh my god, girl,

652
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:44,800
Speaker 3: and I know.

653
00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 2: One to talk to. Oh my goodness.

654
00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:49,400
Speaker 1: Yes, she asked how I was quote unquote, but it

655
00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:51,920
Speaker 1: would have been pretty rude towards my husband himself a

656
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:54,800
Speaker 1: father to be not to be interested in his offspring.

657
00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:57,719
Speaker 1: I don't count that as niceness towards me. She obviously

658
00:28:57,800 --> 00:28:59,840
Speaker 1: didn't care that I sat at home without any idea

659
00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:01,840
Speaker 1: of how along my husband might be away, and also

660
00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:04,360
Speaker 1: didn't care that he fruitlessly tried to reach me. It

661
00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:06,480
Speaker 1: also did not occur to them to try and reach

662
00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:09,000
Speaker 1: me over Facebook. I mentioned I'd be on the computer

663
00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 1: all evening, So we do have one method of communication,

664
00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:16,840
Speaker 1: one line of talking. The way of communication both seem

665
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:20,000
Speaker 1: to follow all day long when they're not currently hanging

666
00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:22,200
Speaker 1: out on the couch with each other. I hate that

667
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 1: girl with a passion, although I tried my best to

668
00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:26,840
Speaker 1: be nice to her, but instead she rubs me with

669
00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:30,040
Speaker 1: her disdain and ignorance in the face about what I

670
00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:32,080
Speaker 1: took my time to do. That if I trust her,

671
00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:35,360
Speaker 1: actually interested her, and instead finds the time to just

672
00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:38,040
Speaker 1: chat with my husband for hours, And I hate me

673
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 1: for obviously being some sort of boring slob who can't

674
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:43,640
Speaker 1: even make the very same thing remotely interesting for my husband.

675
00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:46,200
Speaker 2: Man, I must suck. We talked about this, No you don't.

676
00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:49,360
Speaker 1: And then I hate me for drifting off into a

677
00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 1: rage when he finally came home.

678
00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:52,520
Speaker 2: Do not hate yourself with that.

679
00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 3: Don't blame yourself.

680
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:54,720
Speaker 2: Don't blame yourself.

681
00:29:54,720 --> 00:29:57,800
Speaker 3: Communicate And if he communicates that he doesn't like you,

682
00:29:57,880 --> 00:29:59,920
Speaker 3: then maybe we explore other men.

683
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:05,160
Speaker 1: Mar If someone does something to us, Sophia that is frustrating,

684
00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:07,240
Speaker 1: is it bad that we're frustrated?

685
00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:08,920
Speaker 3: No, John, No, it's not.

686
00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:11,120
Speaker 2: In fact, it is human.

687
00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:11,840
Speaker 3: It's human.

688
00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:12,840
Speaker 2: Dare I say?

689
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:15,720
Speaker 1: I didn't even have actual accusations for him. It was

690
00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:18,480
Speaker 1: more or less an empty rant about how I'm envious

691
00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:20,960
Speaker 1: of her because she manages to keep his interest. I

692
00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:25,240
Speaker 1: felt and feel like the stereotypical jealous wife one doesn't.

693
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:27,200
Speaker 2: Want to come home to. What made me cry.

694
00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:30,120
Speaker 1: Even more in despair was the realization that Elle would

695
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:33,480
Speaker 1: either get to know from my anger sending her the

696
00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:36,320
Speaker 1: message that I am indeed jealous of her, although they

697
00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:39,320
Speaker 1: just decided to hang out together like two befriended adults,

698
00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 1: and thus essentially dragging me into the position of the

699
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 1: crazy wife who already is much less interesting than her husband.

700
00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 3: Dude, if your husband's saying that you're done, yep, you're dye,

701
00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:53,480
Speaker 3: it's he can't be saying that that's not okay.

702
00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:57,160
Speaker 1: Correct, or not to hear about my anger sending her

703
00:30:57,240 --> 00:30:59,560
Speaker 1: the message that it's totally looking fine to invite a

704
00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 1: married man and for tea and then hang with him

705
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:04,200
Speaker 1: until one am in the morning. I didn't even want

706
00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:06,239
Speaker 1: to talk about it that evening because I knew it

707
00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 1: was futile. My husband obviously had noticed that I was

708
00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:10,960
Speaker 1: sobbing into my pillow and kept asking me what my

709
00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:14,960
Speaker 1: problem was. Buddy, Buddy, Buddy, buddy, dude, buddy.

710
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:18,360
Speaker 3: The self awareness of a piece of toast.

711
00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:21,479
Speaker 1: Truly, but I'm just imagining like it's It's like a

712
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 1: cartoon and it goes, you know, and then it pops

713
00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:26,920
Speaker 1: up to his brain and it's just a piece of

714
00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:30,280
Speaker 1: to It's like SpongeBob style. When I told him to

715
00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:33,560
Speaker 1: put myself himself in my situation, he did not manage

716
00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:36,840
Speaker 1: to find out what was okay.

717
00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:41,040
Speaker 3: So I'm you and my husband has just told me

718
00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:44,440
Speaker 3: that he finds me boring. I'm not seeing the problem here.

719
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:48,440
Speaker 1: You know, Sophia, he's not the hottest toaster on the shelf.

720
00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:52,640
Speaker 2: Let's just say that his settings don't go very far.

721
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:53,160
Speaker 5: Nope.

722
00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 1: And on top of that, we have plan to go

723
00:31:56,120 --> 00:31:59,120
Speaker 1: to the zoo today and take some photos. So you're

724
00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:00,520
Speaker 1: telling me you did it plans and.

725
00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 3: You literally made plans. You're making plans and he's like,

726
00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:05,440
Speaker 3: oh no, I.

727
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:07,440
Speaker 2: Want to go have tea for her with six hours

728
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 2: to want to.

729
00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:10,320
Speaker 3: I'm sorry he's calling you boring. You're the one making

730
00:32:10,360 --> 00:32:13,120
Speaker 3: plans and every time you made plans, so I'm tired.

731
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:14,000
Speaker 3: I don't want to do that.

732
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:16,120
Speaker 2: Key Boring is the boring one.

733
00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:16,720
Speaker 3: He's boring.

734
00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 1: Here's gaslighting you and projecting you're basic and you're boring.

735
00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:21,040
Speaker 2: Colley.

736
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:23,440
Speaker 1: I still feel like crap even after sleeping. But it

737
00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:26,000
Speaker 1: was a most wonderful and warm, sunny day, and I

738
00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:29,000
Speaker 1: managed to actually feel fine up to the point we

739
00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:31,200
Speaker 1: went our own way. Once out of the door, he

740
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:34,240
Speaker 1: already started dropping vague hints about how the day was

741
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 1: perfect and his mood would have been perfect to what

742
00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:40,520
Speaker 1: I would have had the perfect day if it weren't

743
00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:44,720
Speaker 1: for my annoying, evil pregnant wife who keeping me from

744
00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 1: enjoying this amazing life I would have if it weren't

745
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:48,920
Speaker 1: for my pregnant wife.

746
00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:51,400
Speaker 3: Was he saying like she had op made plans And

747
00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:53,080
Speaker 3: then he's like, well, if I had been able to

748
00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 3: do my my other plans, it would have been perfect,

749
00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:58,000
Speaker 3: Like I had this perfect day all planned out, and

750
00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 3: now you've ruined by like making me to the zoo.

751
00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:02,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I think, yeah, his mood would have been

752
00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:04,640
Speaker 1: perfectly if they hadn't had that. I think this whole

753
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:09,200
Speaker 1: perfuffle and I've decided not to react to such vague

754
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 1: drama sturing long ago, but you deserve to because he's

755
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:14,600
Speaker 1: clearly not respecting you.

756
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:17,080
Speaker 3: Well, I just think that I understand that you might

757
00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:19,880
Speaker 3: not want to like break up or leave him right

758
00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:22,240
Speaker 3: now because you're about to have a baby, like literally

759
00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:25,440
Speaker 3: about to yes, but I do think as of right now,

760
00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:28,600
Speaker 3: if you're not going to do that, literally, just not

761
00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:31,280
Speaker 3: ignore him, but live your life. If you want to

762
00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:32,800
Speaker 3: go to the park, yeah, go to the park. Like,

763
00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 3: obviously there are things that you can't do right now

764
00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:36,440
Speaker 3: because you're pregnant, but like, if there's something that you

765
00:33:36,480 --> 00:33:38,440
Speaker 3: want to do that you know you can do, don't

766
00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 3: wait for him. If he's going to be off hanging

767
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:43,560
Speaker 3: out with some other girl, do what you want to do. Yeah,

768
00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:46,520
Speaker 3: have fun, I have the baby. Hopefully you have an

769
00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:49,400
Speaker 3: extended family like support system kind of thing, and then

770
00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:50,440
Speaker 3: leave him because he sucks.

771
00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:53,840
Speaker 1: Run a marathon, yeah, do an iron man, become the

772
00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:55,200
Speaker 1: world squatting champion.

773
00:33:55,320 --> 00:33:56,080
Speaker 3: Yeah. Pregnant.

774
00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:58,240
Speaker 2: All things you can do while you're pregnant, exactly.

775
00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:01,520
Speaker 1: So, later he suggested he felt very hurt and torn

776
00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:04,720
Speaker 1: because of yesterday. Obviously he had a problem with the

777
00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:07,320
Speaker 1: fact that I got angry. This pissed me off so

778
00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:10,200
Speaker 1: much that I decided not to say anything because we were

779
00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:12,200
Speaker 1: in public, and when we arrived at the zoo, it

780
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:15,080
Speaker 1: slowly slipped into a normal mood between us, but it

781
00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:17,600
Speaker 1: was not resolved. That is correct, That's what happens when

782
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:19,799
Speaker 1: you don't address the things that bother you.

783
00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:20,319
Speaker 3: Mm hmm.

784
00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:22,799
Speaker 1: It wasn't resolved at all. When we came home, he

785
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:24,560
Speaker 1: conveniently fell asleep right away.

786
00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:28,759
Speaker 3: Dude, that's so annoying. I was so annoying. You want

787
00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:30,200
Speaker 3: to try and hang out with the person and.

788
00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:33,160
Speaker 1: They just sleep right And we have an update. He's

789
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:35,160
Speaker 1: John og Host. We're gonna get back to the stories,

790
00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:36,640
Speaker 1: but a quick three minute break of ads.

791
00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 2: From our sponsors.

792
00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:39,400
Speaker 1: So if we've kind of are give you give me,

793
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:42,400
Speaker 1: could you tell me what you would I think you

794
00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:45,520
Speaker 1: gave the brilliant solution of like, hey, go live your life.

795
00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:47,960
Speaker 1: Go like do what fulfills you, it makes you happy,

796
00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:50,319
Speaker 1: especially in this interim time where we're still, you know,

797
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:52,200
Speaker 1: kind of need each other with the baby coming and

798
00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:55,000
Speaker 1: all this like pre and post a birth time period.

799
00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:57,400
Speaker 1: But what would you if you had the chance to

800
00:34:57,440 --> 00:35:00,280
Speaker 1: sit down with this husband, what would you say to.

801
00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:03,799
Speaker 3: I would say, look after your pregnant wife doing that,

802
00:35:04,560 --> 00:35:08,680
Speaker 3: stop talking to a lady in a relationship, and uh,

803
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:12,239
Speaker 3: be more interesting, Yes, I said it.

804
00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:13,600
Speaker 2: Be more interesting yourself, buddy.

805
00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:16,719
Speaker 1: Amy Lynn says, Opie is growing a whole human and

806
00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:19,319
Speaker 1: this man thinks that he is tired yeah, come on,

807
00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:24,719
Speaker 1: come on, nice, try buddy, nice, try well updates. So

808
00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:27,960
Speaker 1: today my husband was skyping with his sister, my bridesmaid,

809
00:35:28,080 --> 00:35:30,400
Speaker 1: and since I like her very much and they don't

810
00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:32,560
Speaker 1: happen to be online at the same time very often,

811
00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:35,160
Speaker 1: I didn't want to mope around gaming in another room

812
00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:38,120
Speaker 1: and unplug my laptop. Moving into his desk. At some point,

813
00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:40,279
Speaker 1: he gave me the mic so to speak to talk

814
00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:42,600
Speaker 1: to her. I had noticed earlier that he was reading

815
00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:45,680
Speaker 1: other things meanwhile, like he always does when talking to

816
00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:48,120
Speaker 1: his family. So he's reading a book while he's talking

817
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:53,240
Speaker 1: to his family. He sounds so boring, insufferable. Oh my goodness,

818
00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:56,520
Speaker 1: he sounds boring with his mom. I can understand that

819
00:35:56,760 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 1: very well, although I still find it uncourteous.

820
00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:01,960
Speaker 2: It is with his sister. I feel kind of sorry

821
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:02,160
Speaker 2: for her.

822
00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:04,719
Speaker 3: I'm sorry to be talking to someone and then.

823
00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:07,719
Speaker 2: Be like, and you know what book he's reading, the

824
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:08,360
Speaker 2: one that.

825
00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:12,440
Speaker 3: Uh, oh, you're so right, you're so right whatever.

826
00:36:12,640 --> 00:36:14,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's all right.

827
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:17,719
Speaker 1: As I looked up because his sister had her webcam activated,

828
00:36:17,760 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 1: I noticed that he was not only reading but Facebook.

829
00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:24,400
Speaker 1: He's doing this, he's pulling the Yes, he's pulling the no, No,

830
00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:25,760
Speaker 1: he's pulling the I'm in school.

831
00:36:26,040 --> 00:36:29,600
Speaker 3: Oh he's got that, You're right, yeah, And she's like,

832
00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:33,200
Speaker 3: I know on that page a really long time.

833
00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:35,920
Speaker 1: And you're really reading, reading really thoroughly there. Now, guess

834
00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:38,960
Speaker 1: with whom was he on Facebook chat with? It was

835
00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 1: the goth girl with the goth girl. I had enough

836
00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:45,160
Speaker 1: decency not to read their text to while talking to

837
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:47,839
Speaker 1: my sister in law just one time. The talk had

838
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:50,040
Speaker 1: shifted to him again, and his sister had noticed that

839
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:53,399
Speaker 1: he wasn't reacting to her question and obviously heard him

840
00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:54,400
Speaker 1: typing and ash.

841
00:36:54,360 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 3: Doing it silent.

842
00:36:55,840 --> 00:36:57,960
Speaker 2: Stay what he's not even doing it on silence?

843
00:36:58,239 --> 00:37:01,319
Speaker 3: Right, If you're gonna talk text other people while you're

844
00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:03,160
Speaker 3: talking to someone, least put it on silent.

845
00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:05,279
Speaker 1: Man, bro has the audacity. And it's not even hit

846
00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:07,280
Speaker 1: just his wife, like it's his family.

847
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:09,520
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, this guy stucks, he sucks. Oh.

848
00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:12,320
Speaker 1: So his sister asked, Hey, are you chatting with someone

849
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:14,960
Speaker 1: else too? I looked at the conversation they were currently

850
00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:18,080
Speaker 1: chatting about how the goth girls cleavage was judged in

851
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 1: one situation, whether by photo or live.

852
00:37:24,600 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 3: Leave him and with your sister, it's.

853
00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:32,239
Speaker 1: Part of the goddess of lust.

854
00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:34,680
Speaker 2: No reviewing the footage.

855
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:37,959
Speaker 3: I forgot about that.

856
00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:40,239
Speaker 1: We're viewing the footage. Okay, we need to be the

857
00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:45,480
Speaker 1: best actors and actresses. We can be the best thespians.

858
00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:48,120
Speaker 1: I decided I did not exactly want to know what

859
00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:52,239
Speaker 1: kind of situation they were talking about. Well, the rest

860
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:54,919
Speaker 1: of the evening went kind of nice, except for one

861
00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:57,840
Speaker 1: situation later where I was back at my usual laptop

862
00:37:57,880 --> 00:38:00,120
Speaker 1: place because it had a run out of electricity, and

863
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:02,560
Speaker 1: was writing a message to a fellow pregnant lady when

864
00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:06,120
Speaker 1: he asked, well, why are you writing that much? Why

865
00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:07,880
Speaker 1: are you typing that much over there, to which I

866
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 1: promptly answered. But until going to bed, he was really

867
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:12,400
Speaker 1: nice and loving, not in a usual way, it just

868
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 1: felt great as ever, And since he hasn't been exactly

869
00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:18,600
Speaker 1: suspicious or secretive earlier, I nearly decided to drop the issue.

870
00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:21,040
Speaker 1: I mean, there was the very suspicious thing of him

871
00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:25,319
Speaker 1: talking about Elle's cleavage. Yeah, with her that was, you

872
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:26,040
Speaker 1: know a little.

873
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:26,560
Speaker 2: Bit so fine.

874
00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:29,680
Speaker 3: It's fine because she's okay with them hooking up.

875
00:38:29,680 --> 00:38:32,240
Speaker 2: I guess right, f and her silly, as I hope

876
00:38:32,239 --> 00:38:32,920
Speaker 2: he put it.

877
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 1: But it bugged me too much, and so after cuddling

878
00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 1: up in bed and turning off the lights. I told

879
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:39,880
Speaker 1: him that the situation with the girl bothered me.

880
00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, we finally got there, Hope. He's like, I'm putting

881
00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 3: my foot down. Yes, you hang it out with lle bothers.

882
00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:52,600
Speaker 1: Me since I wanted things to stay nice. I told

883
00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:54,640
Speaker 1: him that it bothered me. And then she obviously hates

884
00:38:54,680 --> 00:38:57,160
Speaker 1: my guts but still chooses to hang around with him

885
00:38:57,320 --> 00:39:00,160
Speaker 1: that much. The conversation promptly took a turn to well,

886
00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:02,239
Speaker 1: if she doesn't like you, do you expect her to

887
00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:04,439
Speaker 1: still talk to you exactly as much as she talks

888
00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:04,680
Speaker 1: to me?

889
00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:07,879
Speaker 2: Is she just hates you? So it makes sense, right, Hope.

890
00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:09,920
Speaker 3: He was like, yeah, she's really nasty to me. And

891
00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:12,359
Speaker 3: he's like, well, why would she talk to you? Then

892
00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:14,480
Speaker 3: it's like, no, you shouldn't be talking to her.

893
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:17,360
Speaker 2: That's that's the solution, my brother in Christ.

894
00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:19,960
Speaker 1: This already alerted me a bit, hadn't He stated a

895
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:22,719
Speaker 1: few days ago that he wouldn't even consider her as

896
00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:23,160
Speaker 1: a friend.

897
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:26,319
Speaker 3: Wait, I'm sorry. Someone in the chat said, uh, now

898
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:30,920
Speaker 3: we gotta judge John's cleavage too because of the Oh no,

899
00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:33,280
Speaker 3: because of the thing in the story.

900
00:39:33,440 --> 00:39:37,360
Speaker 2: Oh no, that was funny. It twas a giggle.

901
00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:40,160
Speaker 1: Of course, I did not expect this, I explained calmly,

902
00:39:40,239 --> 00:39:42,480
Speaker 1: and then actually told him about my feelings how I

903
00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:44,759
Speaker 1: felt that she chose to ignore my emails where I

904
00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:47,560
Speaker 1: actually tried to do something for her for her, I

905
00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:49,960
Speaker 1: thought you were doing this for yourself. True, but I

906
00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:51,520
Speaker 1: was going out of my way to share it with

907
00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:54,080
Speaker 1: her and get next to no reaction, but still find

908
00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:56,000
Speaker 1: time enough to chat with him about.

909
00:39:55,719 --> 00:39:57,520
Speaker 2: Obviously a relevant thing. I told him.

910
00:39:57,560 --> 00:39:59,319
Speaker 1: I was offended by the fact that she chose to

911
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:01,880
Speaker 1: spend so much time I'm talking to him while simultaneously

912
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:05,400
Speaker 1: deciding to do so dedicatedly and not give an f

913
00:40:05,480 --> 00:40:08,520
Speaker 1: about me and the fact that we are married. After

914
00:40:08,560 --> 00:40:11,000
Speaker 1: this explanation, and I really made an effort to use

915
00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:14,200
Speaker 1: lots of eye messages to make my feelings clear, says

916
00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:16,239
Speaker 1: I've often been accused of talking like.

917
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:17,920
Speaker 2: A log book or a lawyer.

918
00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 1: I got surprisingly little to almost no reaction at all.

919
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:27,080
Speaker 1: Mostly I don't know, huh uh, what the F do

920
00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:30,480
Speaker 1: you not know that I am currently not telling you about?

921
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:34,759
Speaker 1: I am telling you the information? What isn't computing?

922
00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:36,840
Speaker 2: How are you not receiving? How do you not know

923
00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:37,880
Speaker 2: what I literally just told you.

924
00:40:38,120 --> 00:40:40,200
Speaker 1: So I told him, with a bit more urgency, that

925
00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:42,560
Speaker 1: I still don't like that behavior of hers at all,

926
00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:44,799
Speaker 1: and that I expected more respect from her.

927
00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:45,480
Speaker 2: No reaction.

928
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:48,840
Speaker 1: Well, I guess I can't really expect respect from someone

929
00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:53,400
Speaker 1: just like that, I almost asked, promptly, getting a yeah, indeed, concerned,

930
00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:56,040
Speaker 1: I steered over to then I have to make obvious

931
00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:58,520
Speaker 1: assumptions that do not please me at all if she

932
00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:01,839
Speaker 1: chooses to disrespect and disregard your wife just like that

933
00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:04,760
Speaker 1: while intentionally approaching you that much. And then he says,

934
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:07,040
Speaker 1: maybe it isn't intentional, he said.

935
00:41:07,040 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 3: Guy is dumb, Maybe he's a toast.

936
00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:13,319
Speaker 2: You've got it all wrong, pregnant wife. No, I don't.

937
00:41:13,320 --> 00:41:16,479
Speaker 3: You don't understand the wheels that are churning because you're

938
00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:20,480
Speaker 3: just a silly twenty one year old. I'm old for

939
00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:22,719
Speaker 3: my age. I'm mature.

940
00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:26,840
Speaker 1: You see, babe, your brain doesn't stop like freaking developing

941
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:29,920
Speaker 1: to your like twenty four, like twenty five like, and my.

942
00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:33,960
Speaker 3: Brain is so fully developed you wouldn't. It's not even funny.

943
00:41:34,160 --> 00:41:36,879
Speaker 2: That brain, big brain, that's what I am.

944
00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:41,440
Speaker 3: Your big belly full of baby, big man full.

945
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:42,280
Speaker 2: Of brains.

946
00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:46,759
Speaker 1: Got him so on my notion that it would bother

947
00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:50,120
Speaker 1: me even more if it wasn't unintentional, I again got

948
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:52,399
Speaker 1: no reaction. At that point, I already felt like crap

949
00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:54,880
Speaker 1: because I decided to speak about how I feel freely

950
00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 1: and openly, just one time, like he always does to me,

951
00:41:58,320 --> 00:42:01,759
Speaker 1: and I got basically ignored but definitely not confirmed. So

952
00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:03,960
Speaker 1: I decided to end that talk because maybe he was

953
00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:06,880
Speaker 1: tired and therefore not answering anymore. He's tired of being

954
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:09,600
Speaker 1: married to you because he sucks rocks, I thought, which

955
00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:14,000
Speaker 1: actually seems incredibly naive even to me right now, and said, well,

956
00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:16,440
Speaker 1: I only know that I have a really bad feeling

957
00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:18,600
Speaker 1: about this whole situation that I don't want to just

958
00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:22,400
Speaker 1: ignore it, especially since I even have some factual reasons

959
00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:24,600
Speaker 1: for it, like the fact that you two were talking

960
00:42:24,640 --> 00:42:28,240
Speaker 1: about her cleavage. Yeah, and there's silence. There's no response,

961
00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:30,640
Speaker 1: just a few minutes of silence. Later, the driyer had

962
00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:33,759
Speaker 1: finished his cycle, creating an even heavier silence in the room.

963
00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 3: She was like, Duomo, and she's like, you just don't

964
00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:43,520
Speaker 3: realize anything. It's like, dude, yeah, the dryer going off.

965
00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:48,600
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go get that babe. Upon this my husband

966
00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:49,680
Speaker 2: said good night.

967
00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:52,399
Speaker 3: No, he said it quietly John upon that as I.

968
00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:56,600
Speaker 1: Said good night, quietly, friendly and happily, as nothing had happened.

969
00:42:56,719 --> 00:42:59,360
Speaker 3: Dude, I think he's got like that fifty first states,

970
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:03,120
Speaker 3: Like he doesn't remember anything, you know, like the except

971
00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:05,799
Speaker 3: instead of it happening every time the day ends, it

972
00:43:05,840 --> 00:43:08,920
Speaker 3: happens every time the tryer finishes. He just forgets everything.

973
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:12,399
Speaker 1: It's just yeah, wow, and he's ready to go to sleep, yeah,

974
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:13,560
Speaker 1: like we always.

975
00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:15,960
Speaker 2: Is whenever something yep, dude.

976
00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:18,560
Speaker 1: I replied good night and turned away, upon which he

977
00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:20,960
Speaker 1: said some kind of nice stuff that actually managed to

978
00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:21,560
Speaker 1: make me smile.

979
00:43:21,640 --> 00:43:24,560
Speaker 2: I don't care. Yeah, no, And soon he fell asleep.

980
00:43:24,600 --> 00:43:27,520
Speaker 1: But I couldn't because that whole talk was so awful,

981
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:30,360
Speaker 1: and this extended not talking was so unlike him. He

982
00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:32,560
Speaker 1: didn't even try to start a discussion like he always

983
00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:35,279
Speaker 1: does when I criticize something, because he's usually good at them.

984
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:38,120
Speaker 1: That every moment I spent thinking about how it went

985
00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:41,720
Speaker 1: and how I felt, I felt more and more like crap.

986
00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:45,720
Speaker 1: My obvious conclusion is that this woman is never going

987
00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:47,000
Speaker 1: to babysit my son ever.

988
00:43:47,440 --> 00:43:52,520
Speaker 3: Dude, what what that was the conclusion? Why was that

989
00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:53,280
Speaker 3: on the table.

990
00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:57,520
Speaker 1: Hopefully there's a million other conclusions that draw the line

991
00:43:57,760 --> 00:44:00,200
Speaker 1: way further than that. We we just need to this

992
00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:02,160
Speaker 1: at this point. Yes, we need to talk and understand

993
00:44:02,200 --> 00:44:03,759
Speaker 1: all this stuff, but we just need to leave him.

994
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:05,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sorry, he's gotta go.

995
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:06,279
Speaker 3: You gotta go.

996
00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:09,960
Speaker 1: Let's reach a point he needs to understand how royally

997
00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:12,040
Speaker 1: he has aft up here. And I still have hope

998
00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:15,480
Speaker 1: that my dearest husband is only so disgustingly friendly towards

999
00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:18,560
Speaker 1: her because he seemed really excited about the idea to

1000
00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:20,440
Speaker 1: have free babysitting available.

1001
00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:23,080
Speaker 3: Babe, come on, babe, you're smarter than this.

1002
00:44:23,480 --> 00:44:26,040
Speaker 2: Dang, but what did I read in r slash parenting?

1003
00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:29,600
Speaker 1: No one ever offers free babysitting just because he's that

1004
00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:31,920
Speaker 1: good of a person, So be aware the things I

1005
00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:34,200
Speaker 1: definitely want to avoid are approaching him with all the

1006
00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:36,200
Speaker 1: blame I can muster up. I still believe that this

1007
00:44:36,239 --> 00:44:38,280
Speaker 1: goth girl is a huge witch, and I hate her guts.

1008
00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:40,719
Speaker 1: I know that my husband plays a part in enabling her,

1009
00:44:40,880 --> 00:44:43,160
Speaker 1: but technically he does nothing wrong, and I think I

1010
00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:45,160
Speaker 1: would have noticed if he was hiding something.

1011
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:47,880
Speaker 3: He's not hiding anything. He's doing it very blatantly.

1012
00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:50,920
Speaker 1: He's doing it very blatantly, and I think he is

1013
00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:54,160
Speaker 1: doing things wrongs, namely, most importantly not caring or having

1014
00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:55,240
Speaker 1: any concern.

1015
00:44:55,120 --> 00:44:57,359
Speaker 3: For his pregnant why he's pregnant wife?

1016
00:44:57,360 --> 00:44:59,120
Speaker 1: And I definitely don't want to turn into the jealous

1017
00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:02,160
Speaker 1: housewife demand to know everything they talk about. That's so

1018
00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:04,440
Speaker 1: interesting even I am boring.

1019
00:45:04,600 --> 00:45:08,280
Speaker 2: No, he's not. He is interested in psychology. In the mind.

1020
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:09,480
Speaker 3: He sounds like a night.

1021
00:45:09,640 --> 00:45:11,880
Speaker 2: And he's a pedagogue. What is that?

1022
00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:12,480
Speaker 3: Uh?

1023
00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:27,080
Speaker 1: Pedagogue? Can we sue that is that? Ped I am

1024
00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:28,480
Speaker 1: a lover of feet.

1025
00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:31,000
Speaker 2: Maybe he paints them, not children and.

1026
00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:37,360
Speaker 3: A log I don't know. He's organic, yes, a pedagogue.

1027
00:45:37,719 --> 00:45:40,880
Speaker 5: A pedagogue is a teacher, often with the connotation of

1028
00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:44,160
Speaker 5: being a strict, formal, old fashioned one. The word can

1029
00:45:44,160 --> 00:45:48,280
Speaker 5: also refer to someone who is pedantic, dogmatic, or narrow minded.

1030
00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:50,759
Speaker 3: Did he call himself a pedagogue?

1031
00:45:50,760 --> 00:45:54,040
Speaker 1: I think that's wow. I think he got the dictionary

1032
00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:55,040
Speaker 1: dot com word of the day.

1033
00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:59,120
Speaker 3: And I'm a pedagogue And she said, oh wow, that

1034
00:45:59,320 --> 00:45:59,919
Speaker 3: sounds fair.

1035
00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:01,279
Speaker 2: I see who is it?

1036
00:46:01,400 --> 00:46:01,440
Speaker 5: Me?

1037
00:46:01,920 --> 00:46:02,640
Speaker 3: Is a teacher?

1038
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:06,920
Speaker 1: You wouldn't know it, all right, Dand it is of

1039
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:08,400
Speaker 1: a high intelligence.

1040
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:09,720
Speaker 2: Then you possess my DearS.

1041
00:46:09,760 --> 00:46:12,799
Speaker 3: Okay, gosh, he stands like a nightmare.

1042
00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:14,000
Speaker 2: Hey, it's John here.

1043
00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:15,719
Speaker 1: We're gonna get back to this episode, but a quick

1044
00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:19,120
Speaker 1: three minute break with Asrama sponsors. His sister is about

1045
00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:21,200
Speaker 1: to become a grade school teacher and currently has an

1046
00:46:21,200 --> 00:46:24,680
Speaker 1: internship in a school for mentally challenged ill or otherwise

1047
00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:28,400
Speaker 1: quote unquote special students, and she chose to write nonsense

1048
00:46:28,400 --> 00:46:31,800
Speaker 1: with that goth girl because his sister only speaks about

1049
00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:32,560
Speaker 1: the children.

1050
00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:35,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, and you only speak about l though.

1051
00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:39,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, in her cleavage and her freaking cleavage. We'll stop that, weirdo.

1052
00:46:39,840 --> 00:46:41,320
Speaker 2: But let's get into the end of the story.

1053
00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:42,000
Speaker 3: Let's do it.

1054
00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:43,080
Speaker 2: But what can I do?

1055
00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:45,279
Speaker 1: I think I will go into the zen mode and

1056
00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:47,239
Speaker 1: continue doing what makes me happy as long as he

1057
00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:49,799
Speaker 1: treats me nice Incorrectly, he has done none of those things.

1058
00:46:50,080 --> 00:46:52,200
Speaker 2: He will not ever do this, and yeah, he's not

1059
00:46:52,239 --> 00:46:52,800
Speaker 2: gonna change.

1060
00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:54,839
Speaker 1: But then again, there's that little voice in my head

1061
00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:57,560
Speaker 1: telling me that I am a huge butt hat for

1062
00:46:57,760 --> 00:47:01,239
Speaker 1: even considering that you're not at all. Still, I feel

1063
00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:03,440
Speaker 1: strangely calm, even though I think I should be crying

1064
00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:06,719
Speaker 1: uncontrollably right now. I only feel a slight clenching of

1065
00:47:06,719 --> 00:47:09,640
Speaker 1: my teeth as an expression of my discomfort with that girl.

1066
00:47:09,840 --> 00:47:11,560
Speaker 2: No, seriously, I'm at a loss of what to do.

1067
00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:13,920
Speaker 1: I fear that with every mention of her, and especially

1068
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:16,359
Speaker 1: if I turn into she's stealing you and you let

1069
00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:19,440
Speaker 1: it happen, I create an atmosphere of you're crazy, I

1070
00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:22,000
Speaker 1: would never do that, which I firmly believe, as well

1071
00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:24,520
Speaker 1: as heightened the chance that he starts thinking about her

1072
00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:27,560
Speaker 1: that way and discovers that she's actually able to provide

1073
00:47:27,640 --> 00:47:31,000
Speaker 1: him with more support or other means of recognition than

1074
00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:33,880
Speaker 1: I am able to, which is obviously also true.

1075
00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:38,320
Speaker 3: Girl. Huh, girl, girl, girl, girl girl, little.

1076
00:47:38,080 --> 00:47:39,200
Speaker 2: Girl, talk to me, Sophia.

1077
00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:43,719
Speaker 3: Oh, he needs to divorce him? Yes, Like, he's not

1078
00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:47,279
Speaker 3: no saving this, He's gone not he like the op

1079
00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:50,000
Speaker 3: seems to think. Oh, like, I'll push him further into

1080
00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:53,520
Speaker 3: our arms. He's in her arms, he's cuddling in. They're

1081
00:47:53,719 --> 00:47:57,040
Speaker 3: discussing our cleavage. It's too late, and it's nothing that

1082
00:47:57,120 --> 00:48:00,920
Speaker 3: you did or have done, or you know, can change.

1083
00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:02,960
Speaker 3: It's not on you, it's on him.

1084
00:48:03,120 --> 00:48:03,880
Speaker 2: That is boring.

1085
00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:05,000
Speaker 3: Boring.

1086
00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:06,880
Speaker 2: Yes, I couldn't agree more.

1087
00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:09,960
Speaker 3: Any manic pixie dreamgirling. This goth girl.

1088
00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:15,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, this is let them have each other. It could happen. Huh,

1089
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:16,600
Speaker 4: it could happen to anybody.

1090
00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:19,240
Speaker 1: It can, I would hope not. But ladies and gentlemen,

1091
00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:21,920
Speaker 1: that is the Internet saga. Butts, I have a treat

1092
00:48:21,920 --> 00:48:25,719
Speaker 1: for you. That's one more story before we leave this episode.

1093
00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:31,160
Speaker 3: Let's hit it. But let's get into this next story. Okay,

1094
00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:34,080
Speaker 3: my wife's hobby is destroying our marriage.

1095
00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:37,280
Speaker 2: Don't let it. I think as of last.

1096
00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:39,960
Speaker 3: Night, it looks like my thirty eight male marriage is

1097
00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:43,560
Speaker 3: headed towards divorce, largely in part due to my wife's

1098
00:48:43,640 --> 00:48:45,880
Speaker 3: thirty five female hobby of running.

1099
00:48:46,200 --> 00:48:48,280
Speaker 2: Oh no, run away.

1100
00:48:49,080 --> 00:48:51,120
Speaker 3: As a bit of background, we have been married for

1101
00:48:51,160 --> 00:48:53,439
Speaker 3: eleven years and have a few kids under tent. When

1102
00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:56,319
Speaker 3: we met years ago, my main hobbies were yoga and

1103
00:48:56,520 --> 00:49:02,120
Speaker 3: casually participating in triathlons. My wife enjoyed fitness activities at

1104
00:49:02,120 --> 00:49:05,080
Speaker 3: the time, but didn't do anything in particular. Over time,

1105
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:08,000
Speaker 3: she started to get involved in both yoga and triathlon

1106
00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:10,080
Speaker 3: so that we could spend time together doing it. By

1107
00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:13,319
Speaker 3: the way, this comes from analysis own six point eight

1108
00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:15,319
Speaker 3: and if you want to submit your own stories, go

1109
00:49:15,320 --> 00:49:18,160
Speaker 3: to the r slash. Okay, storytime separate it. So this

1110
00:49:18,400 --> 00:49:20,920
Speaker 3: morphed here and there as we got married and had kids,

1111
00:49:21,000 --> 00:49:23,960
Speaker 3: and time marched on, but we were always doing something.

1112
00:49:24,080 --> 00:49:26,680
Speaker 3: When my wife became pregnant with our second child, she

1113
00:49:26,760 --> 00:49:29,600
Speaker 3: decided that she liked yoga so much that she would

1114
00:49:29,640 --> 00:49:32,920
Speaker 3: like to pursue being an instructor. This was time intensive

1115
00:49:33,000 --> 00:49:35,160
Speaker 3: and costly. What did that say?

1116
00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:40,440
Speaker 2: Nothing did say? Set? Did you say anything? John? What

1117
00:49:40,640 --> 00:49:41,239
Speaker 2: did I say?

1118
00:49:41,360 --> 00:49:41,600
Speaker 5: John?

1119
00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:43,920
Speaker 2: What did that say? He took his fingers and he

1120
00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:46,720
Speaker 2: typed out the words. Tell Sophia her hair stuck.

1121
00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:50,640
Speaker 3: That wasn't me. I'm coming for you.

1122
00:49:50,920 --> 00:49:53,640
Speaker 2: Get him. You have full permission to.

1123
00:49:53,719 --> 00:50:00,640
Speaker 3: Thank This was time intensive and costly. We did it.

1124
00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:03,359
Speaker 3: After our second was born, she left her office job

1125
00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:05,440
Speaker 3: to be a stay at home mom and to start

1126
00:50:05,440 --> 00:50:08,160
Speaker 3: teaching yoga on the side. She loved this so much

1127
00:50:08,200 --> 00:50:10,680
Speaker 3: she decided she wanted to do fitness full time when

1128
00:50:10,680 --> 00:50:13,400
Speaker 3: the kids were both in school, so in preparation, she

1129
00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:17,520
Speaker 3: picked up multiple other certifications to teach many different things,

1130
00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:21,520
Speaker 3: including personal training. As our kids got older, she started

1131
00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:24,080
Speaker 3: teaching more and more, but quickly realized that this was

1132
00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:26,640
Speaker 3: taking a toll on her body and burning her out.

1133
00:50:26,960 --> 00:50:29,440
Speaker 3: It just wasn't possible to do this full time for

1134
00:50:30,080 --> 00:50:32,319
Speaker 3: It was about this time four years ago that she

1135
00:50:32,400 --> 00:50:35,160
Speaker 3: thought maybe it was just the wrong fitness path and

1136
00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:38,239
Speaker 3: maybe she should pursue running coaching. I supported this, as

1137
00:50:38,280 --> 00:50:40,319
Speaker 3: we were both running together at the time and doing

1138
00:50:40,360 --> 00:50:44,160
Speaker 3: small races. At this point, she is teaching multiple types

1139
00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:47,160
Speaker 3: of fitness classes and working on her running certification. She

1140
00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:50,440
Speaker 3: also starts putting significant effort into her personal running.

1141
00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:52,080
Speaker 2: I didn't know you could be certified and.

1142
00:50:52,120 --> 00:50:54,399
Speaker 3: Running certified certified?

1143
00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:57,200
Speaker 2: Is it certified? Runner? Boys?

1144
00:50:57,200 --> 00:50:59,000
Speaker 3: Certified running coach?

1145
00:51:01,200 --> 00:51:02,320
Speaker 2: Run Run, Run, Run.

1146
00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:06,080
Speaker 4: You're getting certified to walking really fast? Like, how does

1147
00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:06,760
Speaker 4: that even work?

1148
00:51:06,960 --> 00:51:10,000
Speaker 3: She started preparing for her first marathon when the VID hit.

1149
00:51:10,400 --> 00:51:13,240
Speaker 3: Instead of backing off the training since there were no races,

1150
00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:16,280
Speaker 3: she decided to stay in marathon shape just in Kates,

1151
00:51:16,560 --> 00:51:18,600
Speaker 3: never know when you need a run a marathon, that's right.

1152
00:51:18,880 --> 00:51:22,160
Speaker 3: For two years she spent significant time every week on running,

1153
00:51:22,200 --> 00:51:24,440
Speaker 3: which I fully supported, although I thought that level of

1154
00:51:24,440 --> 00:51:27,040
Speaker 3: training with no down season was not a great idea.

1155
00:51:27,239 --> 00:51:29,719
Speaker 3: During this time, she started running with different groups and

1156
00:51:29,760 --> 00:51:30,600
Speaker 3: got to know many.

1157
00:51:30,520 --> 00:51:31,440
Speaker 2: Of the local runners.

1158
00:51:31,640 --> 00:51:35,000
Speaker 3: Eventually, the VID ends and she can do her first marathon.

1159
00:51:35,200 --> 00:51:38,200
Speaker 3: She's looked, our kids are now in school full time

1160
00:51:38,239 --> 00:51:40,600
Speaker 3: as well. Through her relationship, she gets offered a part

1161
00:51:40,600 --> 00:51:43,480
Speaker 3: time job doing small running programs for a local store.

1162
00:51:43,640 --> 00:51:46,640
Speaker 3: This new job paid just over three thousand dollars in

1163
00:51:46,640 --> 00:51:49,480
Speaker 3: twenty twenty two, and that was before tax was taken out.

1164
00:51:49,600 --> 00:51:51,680
Speaker 3: In exchange for this, she gives up two to three

1165
00:51:51,719 --> 00:51:53,320
Speaker 3: week nights and one weekend morning.

1166
00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:55,680
Speaker 2: Is it three thousand a year or I don't know.

1167
00:51:56,000 --> 00:51:57,279
Speaker 3: I'm really wondering that.

1168
00:51:57,440 --> 00:51:59,560
Speaker 2: That is a space change. Important question.

1169
00:51:59,600 --> 00:52:03,680
Speaker 3: She stopped being in full marathon training mode since she started.

1170
00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:06,920
Speaker 3: Between personal running and her running group, she spends a

1171
00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:10,000
Speaker 3: little over twenty hours a week on running. Around eight

1172
00:52:10,040 --> 00:52:12,600
Speaker 3: months ago, she decides she is fully burnt out on

1173
00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:16,239
Speaker 3: her other endeavors and quits teaching classes entirely. That's the

1174
00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:18,840
Speaker 3: background and now the issues. In order to fit this

1175
00:52:18,920 --> 00:52:21,240
Speaker 3: all in and to run with her personal running buddies,

1176
00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:23,479
Speaker 3: even though she's home during the day when the kids

1177
00:52:23,480 --> 00:52:26,439
Speaker 3: are in school, she has moved her schedule. Most days

1178
00:52:26,440 --> 00:52:28,680
Speaker 3: of the week. She gets up at four am to

1179
00:52:28,760 --> 00:52:31,040
Speaker 3: do her run. This is when her friends meet. In

1180
00:52:31,120 --> 00:52:33,160
Speaker 3: her mind, this is getting her running in when it

1181
00:52:33,200 --> 00:52:35,640
Speaker 3: doesn't impact me or the family. The problem is that

1182
00:52:35,680 --> 00:52:38,719
Speaker 3: all she has done is shift waking hours. My day

1183
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:41,040
Speaker 3: with her is essentially waking up and getting the kids

1184
00:52:41,040 --> 00:52:43,120
Speaker 3: ready for school while I get ready for work. She'll

1185
00:52:43,160 --> 00:52:44,719
Speaker 3: get home in the middle of this, and I'll leave

1186
00:52:44,719 --> 00:52:46,720
Speaker 3: for work. I get home and either we eat dinner,

1187
00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:49,600
Speaker 3: have a kids sport event, or she leaves for training group.

1188
00:52:49,719 --> 00:52:51,960
Speaker 3: On a good day, I will have two hours with

1189
00:52:52,000 --> 00:52:54,600
Speaker 3: her until she's asleep just after the kids around eight.

1190
00:52:54,760 --> 00:52:56,800
Speaker 3: On a bad day, she walks in the door around

1191
00:52:56,800 --> 00:53:01,000
Speaker 3: eight and falls asleep. Girl, you're going too hard. You're obsessed.

1192
00:53:01,480 --> 00:53:02,280
Speaker 3: This is an addiction.

1193
00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:05,680
Speaker 2: Let me run till I can't run anymore.

1194
00:53:05,880 --> 00:53:07,879
Speaker 3: Kimberly Holly docks a little army, says, what the hell

1195
00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:09,040
Speaker 3: is Op's wife running from?

1196
00:53:09,280 --> 00:53:11,120
Speaker 2: Oh hot, take doctor.

1197
00:53:11,360 --> 00:53:13,160
Speaker 4: We read a story about a chick that was doing

1198
00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:14,960
Speaker 4: a lot of gym and she would just always go

1199
00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:16,760
Speaker 4: to the gym, always go to the gym, and we thought.

1200
00:53:16,600 --> 00:53:17,320
Speaker 2: She was addicted.

1201
00:53:17,400 --> 00:53:19,120
Speaker 3: She was cheating. She was cheating.

1202
00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:23,239
Speaker 2: Fuck, just my pee? Is she cheating at four am

1203
00:53:23,239 --> 00:53:23,720
Speaker 2: in the morning.

1204
00:53:24,600 --> 00:53:26,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, you gotta get it in early.

1205
00:53:27,000 --> 00:53:29,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, if some people are running at four am in

1206
00:53:29,280 --> 00:53:31,920
Speaker 4: the morning, what's the difference between running and running?

1207
00:53:32,040 --> 00:53:33,680
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, is that how people are

1208
00:53:33,680 --> 00:53:34,600
Speaker 2: trying to start their day.

1209
00:53:34,719 --> 00:53:38,080
Speaker 3: I guess so disgusting God. I then sit alone in

1210
00:53:38,120 --> 00:53:40,120
Speaker 3: the living room for a few hours before I head

1211
00:53:40,120 --> 00:53:43,080
Speaker 3: to bed. The next day, the whole thing starts over again.

1212
00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:46,560
Speaker 3: Around three months ago, things got even more complicated. She

1213
00:53:46,640 --> 00:53:49,160
Speaker 3: decided that three thousand dollars a year was not enough

1214
00:53:49,160 --> 00:53:52,120
Speaker 3: for her to contribute financially, and fitness just wasn't gonna

1215
00:53:52,120 --> 00:53:54,440
Speaker 3: be a full time career. She decided to get a

1216
00:53:54,480 --> 00:53:57,399
Speaker 3: full time office job. This girl's gotta have no time

1217
00:53:57,440 --> 00:54:01,120
Speaker 3: with anyone, Okay. This was a difficult emotional decision for

1218
00:54:01,320 --> 00:54:03,200
Speaker 3: as she felt she was giving up on what she

1219
00:54:03,360 --> 00:54:06,400
Speaker 3: was passionate about. Now, the day looks the same, except

1220
00:54:06,400 --> 00:54:08,480
Speaker 3: she's working during the day and then running out the

1221
00:54:08,480 --> 00:54:10,480
Speaker 3: door to go to her running roots, which she is

1222
00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:13,719
Speaker 3: now calling a hobby. She's fully unable to step away

1223
00:54:13,719 --> 00:54:16,319
Speaker 3: from this unless it is a fully scheduled off day.

1224
00:54:16,560 --> 00:54:19,400
Speaker 3: She will not miss running if we're on a family vacation.

1225
00:54:19,560 --> 00:54:20,920
Speaker 3: She's got to find a way to get a run

1226
00:54:20,920 --> 00:54:23,399
Speaker 3: in every day. I feel like this is like who

1227
00:54:23,440 --> 00:54:25,840
Speaker 3: runners are. I feel like every runner I know is

1228
00:54:25,880 --> 00:54:27,399
Speaker 3: this intense and crazy, Like.

1229
00:54:27,400 --> 00:54:29,080
Speaker 2: I need to wake up a farm every day.

1230
00:54:29,200 --> 00:54:29,920
Speaker 3: I need a run.

1231
00:54:30,120 --> 00:54:30,759
Speaker 2: I need to run.

1232
00:54:31,080 --> 00:54:35,719
Speaker 3: Yeah. I have become so unbearably lonely, and I work

1233
00:54:35,719 --> 00:54:38,320
Speaker 3: a high stress job that pays well but is always

1234
00:54:38,360 --> 00:54:40,400
Speaker 3: weighing on me. In some way. I feel that I'm

1235
00:54:40,440 --> 00:54:43,160
Speaker 3: a pretty good husband. I'm involved with the kids. I

1236
00:54:43,200 --> 00:54:45,239
Speaker 3: help with their school projects and take them to their

1237
00:54:45,280 --> 00:54:47,759
Speaker 3: sporting events. I practice with them in the yard all

1238
00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:49,600
Speaker 3: the time. I do at least my fair share of

1239
00:54:49,600 --> 00:54:52,640
Speaker 3: the housework, including dishes and laundry and other cleaning. I

1240
00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:55,040
Speaker 3: take care of myself physically by working out on my

1241
00:54:55,120 --> 00:54:57,000
Speaker 3: lunch hour, so you don't have to take more time

1242
00:54:57,040 --> 00:55:00,200
Speaker 3: from the family. Dude, Oh my gosh, this poor.

1243
00:55:00,440 --> 00:55:03,200
Speaker 1: I love how he's like, Yeah, I squeeze in my

1244
00:55:03,239 --> 00:55:05,960
Speaker 1: fitness during lunch so it doesn't interfere with all of

1245
00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:08,560
Speaker 1: the other twenty hours of fitness that she's got going on.

1246
00:55:08,800 --> 00:55:11,200
Speaker 3: I just have no relationship with my wife since she's

1247
00:55:11,239 --> 00:55:14,480
Speaker 3: always gone or sleeping. This has been an ongoing discussion

1248
00:55:14,520 --> 00:55:17,160
Speaker 3: for months now. I have expressed how lonely I am.

1249
00:55:17,360 --> 00:55:19,160
Speaker 3: I have told her that I don't need much, but

1250
00:55:19,200 --> 00:55:21,600
Speaker 3: I do need some affection from her. I would love

1251
00:55:21,640 --> 00:55:23,560
Speaker 3: to just sit on the couch and cuddle and watch

1252
00:55:23,560 --> 00:55:24,239
Speaker 3: a movie.

1253
00:55:24,000 --> 00:55:26,640
Speaker 2: Sometimes, are you kidding me? It's too much? You're respecting

1254
00:55:26,719 --> 00:55:28,600
Speaker 2: too much? That is, that is way too much. She's

1255
00:55:28,600 --> 00:55:29,160
Speaker 2: got a run.

1256
00:55:29,320 --> 00:55:31,719
Speaker 3: Maybe you can watch a movie while she runs.

1257
00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:34,920
Speaker 1: You can buy a couch that could be planted on

1258
00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:36,719
Speaker 1: her shoulders, so that o.

1259
00:55:38,280 --> 00:55:41,160
Speaker 4: And you're like, I've also seen some couples like one

1260
00:55:41,160 --> 00:55:42,560
Speaker 4: will be running and the other one.

1261
00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:43,560
Speaker 2: Will be like on a bike.

1262
00:55:43,880 --> 00:55:47,800
Speaker 3: You know, I've expressed my needs directly and multiple times,

1263
00:55:47,840 --> 00:55:50,200
Speaker 3: but nothing has changed. This all came to a head

1264
00:55:50,280 --> 00:55:53,520
Speaker 3: last weekend. It started with a rare date night. She

1265
00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:55,879
Speaker 3: ran a race Saturday morning, so I spent the morning

1266
00:55:55,960 --> 00:55:58,319
Speaker 3: with the kids, getting the house cleaned, yard mode and

1267
00:55:58,360 --> 00:56:00,640
Speaker 3: everything taken care of. I have cool ordinated to have

1268
00:56:00,640 --> 00:56:03,440
Speaker 3: a sitter watch the kids and make dinner reservation. The

1269
00:56:03,520 --> 00:56:06,000
Speaker 3: night went well, but when we got home around eight thirty,

1270
00:56:06,120 --> 00:56:09,799
Speaker 3: she fell asleep right away without saying a word to me. Later,

1271
00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:12,239
Speaker 3: a while talking about a family vacation this year, do

1272
00:56:12,239 --> 00:56:14,120
Speaker 3: you let me know that she has been planning two

1273
00:56:14,200 --> 00:56:17,120
Speaker 3: destination marathons in early spring. I had heard her mention

1274
00:56:17,280 --> 00:56:18,880
Speaker 3: she was wishing she could do one of them, but

1275
00:56:19,000 --> 00:56:21,120
Speaker 3: due to timing, I cannot go with her. Since the

1276
00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:23,120
Speaker 3: kids are in school. I thought this meant it was

1277
00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:26,239
Speaker 3: still a discussion. One of these will cost thousands of

1278
00:56:26,280 --> 00:56:27,560
Speaker 3: dollars to attend.

1279
00:56:27,320 --> 00:56:28,960
Speaker 2: Good Things. She makes two thousand dollars a year.

1280
00:56:29,080 --> 00:56:30,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, thank goodness.

1281
00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:31,840
Speaker 2: That will cover one we hopefully.

1282
00:56:31,840 --> 00:56:33,840
Speaker 3: I think she makes that a month or she was

1283
00:56:33,840 --> 00:56:34,440
Speaker 3: making it a month.

1284
00:56:34,600 --> 00:56:35,400
Speaker 2: No, sa a year.

1285
00:56:35,520 --> 00:56:38,799
Speaker 1: It said three go back, go back. I was surprised. Yeah,

1286
00:56:38,840 --> 00:56:40,279
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I surprise you did comment.

1287
00:56:40,480 --> 00:56:41,560
Speaker 3: I like, totally did.

1288
00:56:41,520 --> 00:56:43,520
Speaker 4: It's three thousand a year. Check it out dingus. But

1289
00:56:43,880 --> 00:56:45,920
Speaker 4: how much money does a wife make a year.

1290
00:56:46,000 --> 00:56:47,000
Speaker 3: In twenty twenty?

1291
00:56:47,160 --> 00:56:49,600
Speaker 2: Wow? No, no, it is.

1292
00:56:49,680 --> 00:56:50,440
Speaker 3: It doesn't specify.

1293
00:56:50,560 --> 00:56:53,520
Speaker 2: Watch it literally it literally said that did come on,

1294
00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:56,719
Speaker 2: you decided that three thousand dollars a year? Yeah, you're right.

1295
00:56:57,040 --> 00:57:00,440
Speaker 3: That's insane. That's insane. I'm totally miss thought.

1296
00:57:00,640 --> 00:57:05,040
Speaker 4: Wow, wow, Wow, she's running away from a job application

1297
00:57:05,440 --> 00:57:09,000
Speaker 4: fa okay, and her marriage.

1298
00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:11,680
Speaker 3: One of these will cost thousands of dollars to attend.

1299
00:57:11,840 --> 00:57:14,080
Speaker 3: She has made up her mind that she's going to both,

1300
00:57:14,160 --> 00:57:16,280
Speaker 3: since one is for a Boston qualifier and the other

1301
00:57:16,400 --> 00:57:19,320
Speaker 3: was offered for free. Does she even make money from these? No,

1302
00:57:19,880 --> 00:57:21,640
Speaker 3: she didn't want to tell me about these, since she

1303
00:57:21,680 --> 00:57:24,600
Speaker 3: thought it would upset me. Yeah, although she claims she

1304
00:57:24,680 --> 00:57:27,040
Speaker 3: dropped hints. Then she has a new job, this will

1305
00:57:27,080 --> 00:57:29,120
Speaker 3: take nearly all of her time off, and we will

1306
00:57:29,120 --> 00:57:31,280
Speaker 3: not be able to have a family vacation. She's not

1307
00:57:31,440 --> 00:57:34,400
Speaker 3: willing to miss either of these. Top it all off,

1308
00:57:34,440 --> 00:57:36,120
Speaker 3: she then told me that she will be gone on

1309
00:57:36,160 --> 00:57:39,520
Speaker 3: our anniversary in two weeks. Yeah, because she was invited

1310
00:57:39,560 --> 00:57:41,560
Speaker 3: to be a pacer for a race coming up and

1311
00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:43,880
Speaker 3: was offered a free hotel to do it.

1312
00:57:44,080 --> 00:57:46,560
Speaker 4: A free hotel is going to make you freaking miss

1313
00:57:46,560 --> 00:57:48,360
Speaker 4: your wedding anniversary.

1314
00:57:47,880 --> 00:57:48,320
Speaker 2: Of course.

1315
00:57:48,560 --> 00:57:50,640
Speaker 3: Honestly, Like, if you've had these convers I think you

1316
00:57:50,640 --> 00:57:53,480
Speaker 3: sit her down and you say like, hey, it's not working.

1317
00:57:53,720 --> 00:57:56,640
Speaker 3: If nothing changes, it's this relationship doesn't exist.

1318
00:57:56,720 --> 00:57:57,520
Speaker 2: But I got a run.

1319
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Speaker 3: I got a run, babe, I got her run.

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Speaker 2: What do you expect me to do? Not run all

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Speaker 2: the time.

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Speaker 3: She has never done this before and is excited to

1323
00:58:07,120 --> 00:58:09,440
Speaker 3: try it. She claims she hasn't committed to this already

1324
00:58:09,480 --> 00:58:12,440
Speaker 3: and is still deciding, but I'm pretty sure she already

1325
00:58:12,440 --> 00:58:14,720
Speaker 3: said yes and just hasn't told me yet. I was

1326
00:58:14,840 --> 00:58:16,840
Speaker 3: very hurt by this, since I already feel like I

1327
00:58:16,880 --> 00:58:19,280
Speaker 3: am a much lower priority than running to her. This

1328
00:58:19,400 --> 00:58:22,040
Speaker 3: all broke me. I dumped and told her how this

1329
00:58:22,120 --> 00:58:24,640
Speaker 3: made me feel. There were tears on both sides. She

1330
00:58:24,720 --> 00:58:26,720
Speaker 3: claims that she feels I am always mad at her

1331
00:58:26,720 --> 00:58:29,040
Speaker 3: and not supportive of her, and she has to keep

1332
00:58:29,040 --> 00:58:31,320
Speaker 3: her running life from me. This is what leads the

1333
00:58:31,400 --> 00:58:34,400
Speaker 3: lack of affection and explain my feelings and reiterated how

1334
00:58:34,520 --> 00:58:36,840
Speaker 3: lonely I am. I asked her if she would be

1335
00:58:36,920 --> 00:58:40,000
Speaker 3: willing to find a compromise and maybe focus on shorter races,

1336
00:58:40,040 --> 00:58:41,680
Speaker 3: and she told me no, that if I made her

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00:58:41,720 --> 00:58:43,600
Speaker 3: do that, then she would resent me, and this is

1338
00:58:43,640 --> 00:58:45,920
Speaker 3: what makes her happy. There's a little bit left to

1339
00:58:45,960 --> 00:58:46,400
Speaker 3: the story.

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Speaker 1: Hmmm, what is opie do OPI? I think you know

1341
00:58:50,200 --> 00:58:53,240
Speaker 1: it is already pretty clear. But the answer she just

1342
00:58:53,360 --> 00:58:55,840
Speaker 1: gave when he said, he's not saying, oh my gosh,

1343
00:58:55,840 --> 00:58:57,880
Speaker 1: you can't run to it. He's like, okay, how can

1344
00:58:57,960 --> 00:59:02,360
Speaker 1: you still get what you clear and enjoy and us

1345
00:59:02,440 --> 00:59:05,880
Speaker 1: still have some modicum of a relationship, us still have

1346
00:59:06,080 --> 00:59:07,200
Speaker 1: family time together.

1347
00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:11,680
Speaker 2: And she's like absolutely not. Yeah, well then I literally.

1348
00:59:11,440 --> 00:59:14,120
Speaker 3: Don't think that you can continue the relationship if your

1349
00:59:14,120 --> 00:59:17,240
Speaker 3: partner is unwilling to compromise At all, and here's that

1350
00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:19,880
Speaker 3: you're lonely and doesn't care. Yes, doesn't work, like if

1351
00:59:19,920 --> 00:59:22,000
Speaker 3: she wants to focus on running full time, then she

1352
00:59:22,480 --> 00:59:23,680
Speaker 3: can't have the relationship too.

1353
00:59:23,960 --> 00:59:24,200
Speaker 2: Yep.

1354
00:59:24,520 --> 00:59:27,160
Speaker 3: I asked if she would try couples therapy, and while open,

1355
00:59:27,240 --> 00:59:29,400
Speaker 3: there isn't a time that would work based on her

1356
00:59:29,440 --> 00:59:31,240
Speaker 3: new job. Yeah, how is she going to fit couple's

1357
00:59:31,280 --> 00:59:32,160
Speaker 3: therapy in.

1358
00:59:32,240 --> 00:59:33,320
Speaker 2: That doesn't on a run?

1359
00:59:33,600 --> 00:59:35,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's like, if we're doing it while I'm running? Sure?

1360
00:59:36,240 --> 00:59:36,640
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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00:59:36,680 --> 00:59:38,760
Speaker 3: There was one small win when I asked her if

1362
00:59:38,760 --> 00:59:41,960
Speaker 3: I hypothetically asked her to take one week off from running,

1363
00:59:41,960 --> 00:59:42,960
Speaker 3: would she'd be able to do it?

1364
00:59:43,160 --> 00:59:46,640
Speaker 2: She said no. Well, uh huh that was the small win.

1365
00:59:46,760 --> 00:59:47,919
Speaker 2: I thought she's gonna say yes.

1366
00:59:48,600 --> 00:59:50,880
Speaker 3: She said no, she would be mad if I asked,

1367
00:59:50,920 --> 00:59:54,160
Speaker 3: and unable to actually do it anyway. Huh. Upon saying this,

1368
00:59:54,240 --> 00:59:56,160
Speaker 3: she said that it makes it sound like she's addicted

1369
00:59:56,160 --> 00:59:56,640
Speaker 3: to running.

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Speaker 2: Girl, you said it. I don't believe that's wrong.

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Speaker 3: You said that she will consider individual's therapy, but we

1372
01:00:02,920 --> 01:00:04,920
Speaker 3: will see what she does there. For my part, I

1373
01:00:04,960 --> 01:00:07,960
Speaker 3: came into work and scheduled the psychologists appointment for tomorrow.

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01:00:08,000 --> 01:00:09,960
Speaker 3: It's virtual, but I'll see if it helps me work

1375
01:00:10,000 --> 01:00:11,919
Speaker 3: through this. On my end, I do want to say

1376
01:00:12,040 --> 01:00:14,800
Speaker 3: I am proud of her, and she's doing amazing. She's

1377
01:00:14,800 --> 01:00:17,080
Speaker 3: not on a level where she wins races or at

1378
01:00:17,080 --> 01:00:19,040
Speaker 3: the very least her age group, but has come at

1379
01:00:19,120 --> 01:00:21,320
Speaker 3: such a huge cost. I love her, but don't know

1380
01:00:21,360 --> 01:00:23,720
Speaker 3: how much longer I can reasonably keep this up. I'm

1381
01:00:23,720 --> 01:00:26,480
Speaker 3: sure I come across as an unsupportive monster, and that

1382
01:00:26,600 --> 01:00:28,920
Speaker 3: this is also one sided. I have seen how the

1383
01:00:29,000 --> 01:00:31,920
Speaker 3: running community rallies around itself, and I'm somewhat worried I'll

1384
01:00:31,920 --> 01:00:34,640
Speaker 3: get torn apart on that level as well. I'm just lonely.

1385
01:00:35,080 --> 01:00:36,080
Speaker 3: I miss my wife.

1386
01:00:36,120 --> 01:00:39,360
Speaker 4: Oh man thang and I'm like reading one of his

1387
01:00:39,520 --> 01:00:42,320
Speaker 4: posts and he's talking about how one of the groups

1388
01:00:42,640 --> 01:00:44,760
Speaker 4: has two ladies in it, and another group that she

1389
01:00:44,800 --> 01:00:46,560
Speaker 4: goes to is just entirely full of men.

1390
01:00:46,960 --> 01:00:48,880
Speaker 2: Dude, I think she has time, she man.

1391
01:00:49,320 --> 01:00:51,280
Speaker 3: I literally don't think. I don't think she's thinking about

1392
01:00:51,320 --> 01:00:53,200
Speaker 3: other men at all. I don't think. I don't think

1393
01:00:53,240 --> 01:00:56,320
Speaker 3: she's thinking about anybody but running. That's it. I don't

1394
01:00:56,320 --> 01:00:57,200
Speaker 3: think she's it cable.

1395
01:00:57,280 --> 01:00:59,800
Speaker 2: That's fair, that's fair. Yeah, I mean this ain't gonna work.

1396
01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:02,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, Unfortunately, I do think this relationship is over If

1397
01:01:02,480 --> 01:01:04,840
Speaker 3: she's not even willing to consider taking a week off,

1398
01:01:05,000 --> 01:01:07,880
Speaker 3: going to your anniversary, getting therapy, not much else you

1399
01:01:07,880 --> 01:01:11,720
Speaker 3: can do. I agree, But unfortunately we don't know what

1400
01:01:11,840 --> 01:01:14,600
Speaker 3: happens after that, because that's the end of the story

1401
01:01:14,840 --> 01:01:17,360
Speaker 3: and the end of this episode and the end of

1402
01:01:17,360 --> 01:01:18,160
Speaker 3: this stream.

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01:01:18,360 --> 01:01:21,680
Speaker 1: Oh my three for one. No no, no, no no.

1404
01:01:22,040 --> 01:01:23,880
Speaker 3: You hate to hear it, you hate to hear it.

1405
01:01:23,960 --> 01:01:26,680
Speaker 1: Well, if you love us, make sure to subscribe. We

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01:01:26,760 --> 01:01:28,800
Speaker 1: love you and Seamo