1 00:00:01,840 --> 00:00:06,840 Speaker 1: You don't hear me confession I can't take back out 2 00:00:07,360 --> 00:00:13,399 Speaker 1: armed mouth speak text into seven eighty five nine two 3 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 1: says I secretly love seeing someone else's kid have a 4 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:19,640 Speaker 1: meltdown in public because I know it's not my kid. 5 00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:23,639 Speaker 2: Oh, I feel that joy. It feels bad, you feel 6 00:00:23,640 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 2: guilty about it. 7 00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 1: But also, I mean, everybody at some point is said 8 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 1: under their breath, thank God, that's not me. Yeah, and 9 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 1: that's what our listeners usually say when they hear people 10 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 1: on this segment confessing to all sorts of unsavory things. 11 00:00:35,600 --> 00:00:37,520 Speaker 1: In fact, we have somebody on the line right now, 12 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:40,640 Speaker 1: ready to make us feel better about our life decisions, 13 00:00:40,920 --> 00:00:43,600 Speaker 1: and she's chosen to use the fake name Claire. So Claire, 14 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:46,800 Speaker 1: thank you for joining us and letting us smile inwardly 15 00:00:46,880 --> 00:00:48,000 Speaker 1: at your questionable choices. 16 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:49,600 Speaker 2: How wow wow. 17 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:54,280 Speaker 1: Throw Okay, Okay, well, we're here for voice changers on. 18 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:56,760 Speaker 1: You are now the mass speaker. Whenever you're ready, go ahead, 19 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:58,520 Speaker 1: tell us your confession out. 20 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:02,440 Speaker 3: I'm a full look out. Two years we lived together, okay, 21 00:01:02,560 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 3: and as I'm cleaning out our closet, something falls from 22 00:01:05,720 --> 00:01:07,640 Speaker 3: the top shop and hit me in the heat. I 23 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 3: thank much of it. But when I look down at 24 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 3: the floor. It was a box. A ring box. Wait? 25 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:14,840 Speaker 1: What a ring box? 26 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:16,520 Speaker 2: Like an engagement ring box? 27 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:18,479 Speaker 3: Yeah, like the one you see in the movie. 28 00:01:18,800 --> 00:01:22,920 Speaker 4: Oh, and you guys aren't engaged yet. 29 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 3: No, speakless Like I didn't know what to do. I 30 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:30,399 Speaker 3: kind of stay out for at least a couple of minutes, 31 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:32,760 Speaker 3: and I knew I shouldn't open it. Oh my god, 32 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:34,320 Speaker 3: my god. 33 00:01:34,280 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 1: I'm exciting. 34 00:01:35,319 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 2: You've been living together for two years. Aren't you expecting this? 35 00:01:38,920 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 3: I mean, I've been hoping for it. I didn't think 36 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:43,679 Speaker 3: I was gonna find it myself, you know, like it 37 00:01:43,720 --> 00:01:44,199 Speaker 3: was okay? 38 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 1: So what do you do? Do you look at it 39 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 1: or do you not look at it? As a woman? 40 00:01:47,600 --> 00:01:48,279 Speaker 1: What do you do? 41 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 2: I don't what. 42 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: It's supposed to be a surprise right when you first see. 43 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 2: It, when they propose it's not a woman or a 44 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:57,040 Speaker 2: male thing. It's like, do you like surprises or do 45 00:01:57,120 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 2: you not? Yeah, I don't care. 46 00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 1: If it's my ring and it's just a band, I'm 47 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 1: not looking. So Claire, what do you do? Do you 48 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:04,680 Speaker 1: look or no? 49 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 3: I'll tell you what I did. 50 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 4: Oh my god. 51 00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:12,960 Speaker 1: If you're disappointed, oh my goodness. 52 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:15,600 Speaker 4: But then you're that it's easier to mask your disappointment 53 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 4: if you know that it's not going to be what 54 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:19,280 Speaker 4: you want exactly. 55 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 3: And I'm glad I did because I wasn't a little 56 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:22,560 Speaker 3: disappointed when I say it. 57 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:26,639 Speaker 4: Okay, what were you disappointed about? 58 00:02:26,919 --> 00:02:29,120 Speaker 3: Okay? Because I think I noticed as a guy with 59 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 3: like smile, and I imagine it would be. 60 00:02:33,480 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 1: But it's understandable. So the ring isn't the way you 61 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:38,320 Speaker 1: were thinking or hoping it would. Look, what do you 62 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:40,839 Speaker 1: do at that point? Garbage can no. 63 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 3: Lost, It's salvageable. So I took it to the jeweler. 64 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:54,480 Speaker 2: Wait what you didn't just put it back in the 65 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:56,799 Speaker 2: I how it looks like? 66 00:02:56,919 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 3: Hold the jeweler that night? Yeah? Day, Okay, getting you? 67 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:03,440 Speaker 3: You said? 68 00:03:03,480 --> 00:03:05,000 Speaker 2: He already asked, and. 69 00:03:04,919 --> 00:03:06,680 Speaker 1: Then you are going to get in her ring with 70 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:08,799 Speaker 1: his permission. That is like multiple lives. 71 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 3: The engagement ring that you can be bought for me 72 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:14,519 Speaker 3: and I don't like it. 73 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:18,960 Speaker 2: I think you just say you just say yes. I 74 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 2: can't wait to spend my life with you. 75 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:23,040 Speaker 4: I don't care if the ring isn't exactly what I want, 76 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:26,119 Speaker 4: because relationships don't work out exactly like I expect. 77 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 1: Either didn't change her engagement ring until after the proposal. 78 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:33,080 Speaker 2: I don't change my engagement a wedding band. 79 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 1: Oh that's why it looks different. Okay, you just don't 80 00:03:36,120 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 1: wear in public anymore. But I do like let him ask, 81 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 1: act surprise, and then later you can say, hey, honey, 82 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 1: do you mind if I make some alterations while it 83 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 1: becomes a wedding band or something like that? 84 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:51,440 Speaker 4: You have upset you spent that much on a girl 85 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 4: and then she says she doesn't like it. 86 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:55,960 Speaker 1: I would be hurt. You're right, I would. 87 00:03:56,160 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 2: I don't think this is a good idea. So did 88 00:03:58,240 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 2: you go through with it? 89 00:03:59,360 --> 00:03:59,920 Speaker 1: What happened? 90 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 3: I did go through it, and you know, after speaking 91 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 3: with the tour I decided probably did best go if 92 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:07,320 Speaker 3: you just add it like a half tire. 93 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 2: Like what do you mean, like on the side or something. 94 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:16,279 Speaker 3: Well, he took the spenter stone and replaced it with 95 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 3: a stone that was a half kick. 96 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:21,480 Speaker 2: Oh wow, so it's like a solitarire. I don't know. 97 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:27,040 Speaker 4: I'm not a diamond person, as I don't know enough sounds. 98 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:29,159 Speaker 1: Any upgrade sounds good to be thousand dollars? 99 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 2: Did you pay for that? 100 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:31,839 Speaker 4: No? 101 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:33,240 Speaker 1: Wait? 102 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:36,599 Speaker 3: What I did was I just added a couple of 103 00:04:36,600 --> 00:04:39,239 Speaker 3: months to the pemant plan that took out. 104 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 1: Without permission. 105 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:44,359 Speaker 3: It worked more like something I was imagining. 106 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 1: Okay, so then what do you do now you have 107 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:47,360 Speaker 1: the new ring? 108 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:50,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I took him home and I put it 109 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:51,280 Speaker 3: back in the closet. 110 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:55,159 Speaker 1: Are you still waitings? 111 00:04:55,760 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 3: So in January he proposed. 112 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 4: Is it? 113 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:03,520 Speaker 1: It's a happy thing. She really likes the ring. 114 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:05,120 Speaker 2: Now a lot of red flags? 115 00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:07,120 Speaker 1: Did you say? Yes? 116 00:05:07,720 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 2: I did? 117 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:11,240 Speaker 3: I did. I'm so happy that it wasn't the surprising. 118 00:05:13,839 --> 00:05:16,240 Speaker 1: What about his reaction when he saw the new ring? 119 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:20,720 Speaker 3: So you know when you booked out, tiny face. She 120 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:23,320 Speaker 3: said it look bigger than he remembered. 121 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:25,599 Speaker 2: Patting himself on the back. 122 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:29,840 Speaker 3: But you know, he's been so happy since, and everybody's 123 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:31,599 Speaker 3: seen the ring has been commentating him. 124 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 2: So, I mean at least it too. 125 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:38,599 Speaker 4: Yeah, but don't you regret it, because it sounds like 126 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:41,160 Speaker 4: you ruined your proposal moment for yourself. 127 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:43,360 Speaker 2: Like it sounds like he loved it, but it sounds 128 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 2: like for you it was kind of not as fun. 129 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 3: You know, I don't really feel that bad because I 130 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 3: have what I want and she's been in. 131 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:57,400 Speaker 2: Everything's perfect and all the secrets. He doesn't know about. 132 00:05:58,760 --> 00:05:59,920 Speaker 1: On the surface, Imber. 133 00:06:01,080 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what we've learned in life. 134 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:11,240 Speaker 1: Fine, yes, but we also can't swim, so let's stay afloat. 135 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:15,279 Speaker 1: Good LuFe, congratulations on your engagement, Claire. 136 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 2: Thanks, Okay, let's line in the future, all right, Claire. 137 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:20,599 Speaker 3: Let's keep it from. 138 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:24,080 Speaker 1: In text into seventy five nine too. If you have 139 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:26,280 Speaker 1: a confession you've been holding on to, we can hide 140 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 1: your identity by masking your voice, and you could become 141 00:06:28,480 --> 00:06:31,159 Speaker 1: the next mass speaker phone taps coming up next.