WEBVTT - Healthy Jealousy

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<v Speaker 1>Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>I think Kristen is going to be joining us via zoom,

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<v Speaker 2>but it might.

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<v Speaker 3>Just be you and me.

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<v Speaker 2>Kat.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, let's go.

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<v Speaker 3>So we don't have a guest today.

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<v Speaker 2>We just have a few host chat ideas and pop culture,

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<v Speaker 2>so we can just go from there. But little life update, Cat,

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<v Speaker 2>How you doing.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good. I'm just you know, I don't know. Just

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<v Speaker 1>in the full swing of all the madness kid stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>End of the school year.

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<v Speaker 3>You just celebrate an anniversary.

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<v Speaker 1>I did seventeen years, which is crazy. That makes me

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<v Speaker 1>feel so old. It does seem, yeah, like it was

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<v Speaker 1>like wow, yeah, I mean I was a baby when

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<v Speaker 1>I got married, but still like that's a long time.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a long time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we did nothing for our anniversary, so that's exciting.

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<v Speaker 2>It doesn't really shock me though, because a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>the anniversary, like you spent your one anniversary with.

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<v Speaker 1>I spent too around that time with you. I think

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<v Speaker 1>the first year, something was going on on the anniversary

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<v Speaker 1>and so I had to stayed or something. And then

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<v Speaker 1>the next year you filed on my anniversary, so I

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<v Speaker 1>had to stay there that night. It's okay, it's like

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<v Speaker 1>it's fine. Yeah, now, so what's up with you?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, when I hear the baby cry just really

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<v Speaker 2>just gets my gets my heart just like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I just wanted to nap, you know, go to sleep baby.

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<v Speaker 2>So there's some life updates that said you got your dress?

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<v Speaker 3>What is next? Have you sent out invites?

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<v Speaker 2>So we got the dress in New York, the wedding dress,

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<v Speaker 2>but we're working on getting because it says Kat and Kat,

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<v Speaker 2>do you have your maid of honor dresses yet?

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<v Speaker 1>Working on that.

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<v Speaker 4>It's hard to find a dress well because you're kind

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<v Speaker 4>of like whatever, which is awesome, but like I also

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<v Speaker 4>am terrible at this, so it's hard.

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<v Speaker 2>Well I think it's hard to because yeah, I mean yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like yeah, whatever, but also it has to still

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<v Speaker 2>kind of look uniform too.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah for sure, and I don't know how to

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<v Speaker 1>do that.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm not the best with that. Usually.

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<v Speaker 2>It's what I've been used to is everybody matches right, right,

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<v Speaker 2>and so when it's not, which is I'm fine, Like

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<v Speaker 2>I genuinely don't care. It's just at that kind of

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<v Speaker 2>I have that like older school, but I just would

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<v Speaker 2>think that everyone looks the same or same dress, but

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<v Speaker 2>I also know not everyone would feel good in the

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<v Speaker 2>same dress. Yeah, and I don't care, right, And I

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<v Speaker 2>truly don't care. So I'm like, yeah, where wouldever you want?

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<v Speaker 2>But then you know, Kbie comes in, It's like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>if one's were in this and if sleeven, you gotta

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<v Speaker 2>wear that. And I'm just like, you girls figure it

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<v Speaker 2>out because I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Think for her because I don't know, and she's like,

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<v Speaker 1>am I A this week? So I'm like, I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to need you to tell me if these options are

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<v Speaker 1>good or bad because she's the fashion girl of the group.

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<v Speaker 1>But but we're working on it. We've narrowed some things down.

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<v Speaker 2>There is how big will the wedding be? So it's

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<v Speaker 2>going to be very small, like super super super duper small.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like I'm really doing the wedding for Jolie

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<v Speaker 2>in a sense.

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<v Speaker 1>Hmm, she is.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if she would get it, Like if

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<v Speaker 2>we didn't have a wedding, she'd be like, are you

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<v Speaker 2>guys not married?

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<v Speaker 3>Easily.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think she'd understand the marriage thing because she's like,

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<v Speaker 2>you get you have a wedding and then you're married,

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<v Speaker 2>so to watch the whole.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, No, that's a good point. I haven't thought about that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so I really because we've had many conversations about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I was like, well, I think because that's her

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<v Speaker 2>big thing, Like when we got engaged, she's like, Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>the wedding, I'm so excited. And in my mind, I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm fine just going down to the courthouse too, Like

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<v Speaker 2>I would be fine with that as well. But she

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<v Speaker 2>was very much of like, but then you wouldn't be married.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's like I think, in her, I in her

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<v Speaker 2>sweet little brain, it's you have to have the a

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<v Speaker 2>wedding and that's sweet.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so I really want that for her.

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<v Speaker 2>I just picked out her little bridesmaids and let bridesmaids

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<v Speaker 2>her little flower girl dress. So I can't wait to

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<v Speaker 2>see them and so cute. Yeah, I'm so excited.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, so you don't have to answer this because I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. But I don't know the answer to this.

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<v Speaker 1>Will Roman be like in the wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I don't know how he I mean, I mean

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<v Speaker 2>he'll obviously be in all the photos and with us

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<v Speaker 2>there and everything, but he can't walk or there's no like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if we can really like cart him

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<v Speaker 2>down in a wagon if he would. The kid ain't

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<v Speaker 2>moving like, he's not rolling over, and he's not sitting

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<v Speaker 2>like he's he's got a couple.

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<v Speaker 3>On him.

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<v Speaker 2>Then he can't. He can't sit up by himself. So

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even know if he'll be able to do then.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean he should be, but he also should be

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<v Speaker 2>rolling right now and eat close and that's okay. That's

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<v Speaker 2>like he lays there like a brick. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I literally talked to my sister in law about this yesterday.

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<v Speaker 1>She asked how he was doing and I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she can't he doing this? No, Debbie, who does my hair?

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, He's like, is he doing this?

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<v Speaker 1>You're doing that? I was like, no, he's not. And

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<v Speaker 1>she's like, I mean, do you remember Peyton because like

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<v Speaker 1>our kids were so big, like they didn't do those

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<v Speaker 1>things till waigh late to because they had extra wait.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, the doctor was saying, hey, kb hi. So the

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<v Speaker 2>doctor was saying when we won the last time, because

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<v Speaker 2>he knew the old check marks or whatever, and she's like,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, bye, you know the five months they should

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<v Speaker 2>be rolling over so and I'm like, yeah, I know,

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<v Speaker 2>he ain't going anywhere, Like he's just he's just staying there.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, Okay, well by six weeks, like he should,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean six hours, six months, he should absolutely, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>then will need to figure something out. It's his six

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<v Speaker 2>months is two weeks away. So I'm like, I am,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, all right, buddy, it's roll time. Like let's

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<v Speaker 2>like let's get it rolling. But I don't know like

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<v Speaker 2>what she means by we'll have to figure like like

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<v Speaker 2>what like I'm doing everything possible and she's like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like third baby, you're probably holding him a

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<v Speaker 2>lot like no, No, I am like have him on

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<v Speaker 2>the ground. I'm like putting him on the side, trying

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<v Speaker 2>to put his little leg over to be like all right,

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<v Speaker 2>roll buddy, but his weight just pulls him right back

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<v Speaker 2>onto his back.

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<v Speaker 1>Well and he naps in his crib, not swaddled right.

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<v Speaker 3>No, he's not swattled. Well, I have the Merlin suit.

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<v Speaker 1>Hard to to flip, but.

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<v Speaker 3>I have him on his back all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>He's always in that. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but KB, when did h I said Tiger? Sorry?

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<v Speaker 3>When when Dido when sorry? And I'm not trying to

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<v Speaker 3>laugh about it.

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<v Speaker 5>I was just I was like I was gonna say

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<v Speaker 5>this first of all, on behalf of my I think

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<v Speaker 5>he's doing his very best to roll himself over. He's

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<v Speaker 5>really working hard. I think so lying girl rolled over fast.

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<v Speaker 5>But Legend was literally a full hearted meatball. We used

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<v Speaker 5>to call it how to Dress the Meatball was the series.

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<v Speaker 5>He was so thick that everything was delayed. So I

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<v Speaker 5>think he's the best to compare it to.

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<v Speaker 3>And he was a little later, like six months late.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, My niece literally was like eight or nine months

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<v Speaker 1>old when she rolled over, So don't freak out about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, what are they going to do?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I'm like, is there like baby pet or like.

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<v Speaker 1>And maybe they want to check and make sure like

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<v Speaker 1>muscles are okay and like all that stuff. But I'm

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<v Speaker 1>telling you, when you have that added weight, like, it's.

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<v Speaker 3>Hard to do the size have thighs.

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<v Speaker 1>That's ow kay. It was all of mine were actually.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, it's fine, it's so cute and I love him

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<v Speaker 2>to death.

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<v Speaker 3>He's just such a fun baby.

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<v Speaker 2>But I got him a kilt for the wedding, but

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think the kill fits him anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, probably not.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I just wasn't because he was such a tiny baby.

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<v Speaker 2>He was, so I kind of based off yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but that thing is not I know, I think I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna try too. But we did pick out, yeah, the

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<v Speaker 2>outfits for them, and they're just gonna be It's just

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<v Speaker 2>it's so cute.

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<v Speaker 1>So ill I was to say he probably won't be

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<v Speaker 1>in the wedding because it would be hard to like, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he'd probably eat the ring. Right.

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<v Speaker 5>How did Alan do with you filming a movie, a

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<v Speaker 5>romantic movie. This is your first movie together, it's your

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<v Speaker 5>first movie since you and Alan have been together.

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<v Speaker 2>Correct, No, the movie in Arizona was like that member, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>this is.

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<v Speaker 5>Like oh that's right, Okay, that was.

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<v Speaker 2>Love we had like the first sexy for a lifetime

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<v Speaker 2>Christmas movie. This was way different this movie. I mean

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<v Speaker 2>this movie, Austin was trying to kill me. So there

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<v Speaker 2>was a lovey dovey like anything did he do?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay? Like it was? Was it good with Alan? Like?

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<v Speaker 2>Was he?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean that's also I guess that's another that's I

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<v Speaker 5>suppose that is another like protective thing that would come

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<v Speaker 5>out too. So even if it isn't like the sexy stuff,

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<v Speaker 5>then it's like you're filming a movie where you're like

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<v Speaker 5>put in this position. Does Alan's protective Scotland side come

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<v Speaker 5>out in this at all? During filming?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, he is a very listen. We all know

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<v Speaker 2>he's very old school, right, Like he's very put he's

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<v Speaker 2>very protective. He loves me like so much, and he's

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<v Speaker 2>just in the kind of mind frame you know, he's

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<v Speaker 2>he doesn't love another male being around me all day,

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<v Speaker 2>every day for fourteen plus hours. Like he's like, that's

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<v Speaker 2>never going to make me feel good, whether you I

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<v Speaker 2>like the person or I don't. He's like, it's just

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<v Speaker 2>my male, My love for you, my protection over you,

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<v Speaker 2>is always going to not love the fact that you're

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<v Speaker 2>around someone that much during the day.

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<v Speaker 5>Right, That's how Preston would be. That's why I ask.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but he is not jealous.

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<v Speaker 3>He's not.

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<v Speaker 2>He's here's the difference. Like my ex was never jealous,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was always like, well that kind of stinks,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, because he would not care if I was

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<v Speaker 2>being flirty, maybe in Instagram videos or not. I'm saying flirt,

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<v Speaker 2>but you know, just like being free and fun and whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>He wouldn't care. And I look back sometimes and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>was I trying to be that way to then get

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<v Speaker 2>attention to want him to be jealous because I want

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<v Speaker 2>him to want me and not the other women. So

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<v Speaker 2>I think maybe there was a subconscious layer where I

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<v Speaker 2>would maybe do that to try to get his attention,

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<v Speaker 2>but I never got his attention. He would just say

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<v Speaker 2>he didn't care. But then also I realized he wanted

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<v Speaker 2>me to even the score, which is something he said

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<v Speaker 2>when we got divorced. He's like, I wish you would

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<v Speaker 2>have cheated so that I wouldn't have been the only one.

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<v Speaker 3>And I was like, and that's.

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<v Speaker 2>Why I never would because I don't want you to

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<v Speaker 2>have that over me exactly. Even though yeah, but so

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<v Speaker 2>with and I brought that to therapy one time because

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<v Speaker 2>when we were I was still married to him because

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I told Amy that, I was like, it

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<v Speaker 2>kind of bums me out that he doesn't care at

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<v Speaker 2>all or it doesn't seem jealous. And it's not that

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<v Speaker 2>I want jealous, because I've been with those jealous guys

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<v Speaker 2>and it's not fun, you know, But with him, it

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<v Speaker 2>was nothing. And she's like, there's it's a thing called

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<v Speaker 2>healthy jealousy. And I think that's what Alan has. It's

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<v Speaker 2>what I have with him, it's just healthy jealousy.

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<v Speaker 3>Sure what, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Wouldn't love him being all day with a female. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>he was coaching a women's team. I actually had zero

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<v Speaker 2>jealousy around that, but you know, if it was maybe

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<v Speaker 2>one on one, I don't know, I'd probably have healthy

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<v Speaker 2>jealousy around it. But I wouldn't have been psycho or

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<v Speaker 2>controlling like I was in the past. So with him,

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<v Speaker 2>he's so respectful, like he was amazing with Austin. He

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<v Speaker 2>also knows my history with Austin where you know Austin

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<v Speaker 2>and I we were roommates together in One Tree Hill.

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<v Speaker 2>We have been friends you know, post show as well,

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<v Speaker 2>and I respect Austin a lot like Austin, And we

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<v Speaker 2>were just talking about this when we wrapped, like he

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<v Speaker 2>is my favorite scene study partner ever, Like how amazing

0:12:46.920 --> 0:12:50.440
<v Speaker 2>he is as an actor, and how giving he is

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<v Speaker 2>in a scene and how present we both are together.

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<v Speaker 2>Because again, like we talked about it when we wrapped,

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<v Speaker 2>He's like, we have something that's so great together on

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<v Speaker 2>screen that you don't get with a lot of people,

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<v Speaker 2>and I've never had that with any other person. Like

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<v Speaker 2>we just are so in it together that we forget

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<v Speaker 2>that we're almost like acting. And so you know, he

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<v Speaker 2>met I know, I'm always making sure too, Like before

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, all right here, like I want you to

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<v Speaker 2>meet Alan, and so I just I want Alan to

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<v Speaker 2>feel so comfortable and safe. So I always make sure

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<v Speaker 2>to do you know, a good job with that. And

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a different person now with Alan, so like my

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<v Speaker 2>boundaries are very different on set now, how I interact,

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<v Speaker 2>how I you know, how I would have in the past,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't do now, Like I'm just way more respectful

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<v Speaker 2>to my situation and to other situations.

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<v Speaker 3>So but I like it.

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<v Speaker 2>He still doesn't love it, you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>Like he's not gonna love the idea. Like if we

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<v Speaker 2>were watching something the other day where there was like

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<v Speaker 2>a heavy simulated scene, He's like, I would not like that,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like I wouldn't either, you know. And

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<v Speaker 2>it's also not like that when you're filming, like when

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<v Speaker 2>we do do kissing scenes, like when Austin and I

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<v Speaker 2>did have a kiss, it's not like there's people staring

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<v Speaker 2>at you. It's not there isn't a connection. The problem

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<v Speaker 2>and I will always say, this is the connection that

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<v Speaker 2>you have off screen with the person. So it's whether

0:14:11.760 --> 0:14:15.000
<v Speaker 2>you spend time with them, you know, in the trailer

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<v Speaker 2>or running lines, like that's the stuff that gets shady

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<v Speaker 2>and not good, Like you have to have really good

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<v Speaker 2>boundaries off screen. That's when people get messed up in

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<v Speaker 2>movies and stuff. It's never truly the on screen because

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<v Speaker 2>there's so many people watching. It isn't like there's no emotions.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, but I just like I love his his

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<v Speaker 2>balance because I do. I feel protected, I feel safe,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel I feel like he cares, but he's not

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<v Speaker 2>controlling or psycho like other people that I've been with

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<v Speaker 2>as well.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and I think, honestly, like I think it is

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<v Speaker 5>so special. Well, I think what you do is special.

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<v Speaker 5>I've always admired like the actress part of you, but

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<v Speaker 5>also just I think it is would be red flaggy

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<v Speaker 5>to me if he was like cool, go make out

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<v Speaker 5>with that dude.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>So I think it's like incredible that he cares enough.

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<v Speaker 5>But I always do wonder because Alan is he's just

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<v Speaker 5>such a different guy for you. He's different than anyone

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<v Speaker 5>you've ever dated or been with. And it was I

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<v Speaker 5>remember the minute I thought it the first time, and

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, I really like this guy because he

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<v Speaker 5>isn't going to give you like he's he held the line,

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<v Speaker 5>which was really interesting to watch.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he held the line.

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<v Speaker 2>But also because he respects me, I respect him, right,

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<v Speaker 2>And that's the difference. I didn't respect Mike because he

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<v Speaker 2>didn't respect me. So that was like then how I

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<v Speaker 2>acted reflected how he acted reflected. So with this situation

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<v Speaker 2>is like, he respects me so much, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 2>respect him as well. And the relationship.

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<v Speaker 5>But that's the first time I had seen that out

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<v Speaker 5>of you with a person you had been with, and

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<v Speaker 5>that's what I loved the most.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so Preston wouldn't be a fan.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh there's a zero percent chance I'd be on set

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<v Speaker 5>with somebody.

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<v Speaker 2>But yet it's okay for him to be on music

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<v Speaker 2>videos with listens and every night with girls throwing their

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<v Speaker 2>bras on stage to them listen.

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<v Speaker 5>The younger that front row gets, the better for downloads.

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<v Speaker 5>I will say that. Yeah, it is a really interesting thing.

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<v Speaker 5>Like even like we've had this talk before, right, because

0:16:28.440 --> 0:16:30.840
<v Speaker 5>our industry is a hot mess a lot of times

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<v Speaker 5>in marriage, and I think for we have dealt with

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<v Speaker 5>our own stuff in our own marriage just because it

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<v Speaker 5>is wild, Like he's away from me two hundred nights

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<v Speaker 5>a year. That's a lot, and it gets lonely on

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<v Speaker 5>both sides. Even if lonely looks different, it gets lonely,

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<v Speaker 5>you know. But we have talked about that too, because

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, you don't even know how like blessed

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<v Speaker 5>you are. When I leave you, I go and sit

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<v Speaker 5>with like Jana and kat if I go do anything

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<v Speaker 5>for work and air quotes, which I don't consider what

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<v Speaker 5>we do work. It's like so much fun out there.

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<v Speaker 5>But like if we do wind down on the road,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like our demographic like ninety nine percent women with

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<v Speaker 5>their girlfriends or somebody brought their husband, Like you don't

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<v Speaker 5>You'll never know.

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<v Speaker 1>There's literally no single man really at these besides Osama.

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<v Speaker 2>We love it, that's true, and they're amazing, but Ryan

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<v Speaker 2>Osama Matt, yeah, sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know what's interesting about that, KB though, don't

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<v Speaker 1>you feel like Janna being kind of the preston of

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<v Speaker 1>the group in your relationship that you've always been kind

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<v Speaker 1>of the more jealous one. Maybe not this time around,

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<v Speaker 1>but like, for instance, you go do movies and you're

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<v Speaker 1>rolling around with men, but if you were any man

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<v Speaker 1>that you were with at the time was doing the same.

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<v Speaker 2>If he was so here's here's the difference to that

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<v Speaker 2>if he was an actor. Zero jealousy, like for real, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>because it's not like again, you have to like like

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care when I was dating that one actor

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<v Speaker 2>at all. It does it because it interesting. I know,

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<v Speaker 2>it's nothing. It's again all how they.

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<v Speaker 1>Know the boundaries outside of it. Yeah, and you have

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<v Speaker 1>to be like to beuper careful. I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>just feel like there's a part of you that would

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<v Speaker 1>be a little bit more jealous as same as Preston.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I thought i'd be jealous when he was

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<v Speaker 2>coaching all like thirty freaking soccer girls, and I wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>at all.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, go have fun.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean even last night when we were talking and

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<v Speaker 1>you mentioned something about him doing something, You're like, great,

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<v Speaker 1>I won't be there have fun. I was like, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just Jane. I would have been like I'll

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<v Speaker 1>be there with you every second. No, but no, totally totally.

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<v Speaker 1>But I didn't trust the person. I was like, right,

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<v Speaker 1>of course I would be there because I would felt

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<v Speaker 1>like I had to control it. Now I'm like yeah, bye, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm true. Go have fun for the ten days out

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<v Speaker 1>of the month. I don't like, you know what I mean, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I trust him and if he did anything again I

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<v Speaker 1>met that place too, I'm like, you're an idiot, right true,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm okay alone and you've messed up, but we're here.

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<v Speaker 2>But I I don't think he ever would you know that.

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<v Speaker 2>I trust him so much, so that's why I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>go go for it. I don't know the acting things like,

0:19:10.240 --> 0:19:13.359
<v Speaker 2>for example, this actually pissed my ax off, which I

0:19:13.359 --> 0:19:16.280
<v Speaker 2>thought was kind of funny. Well, the motorcycle THINGKI pissed

0:19:16.280 --> 0:19:18.760
<v Speaker 2>my ax off, but also I.

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<v Speaker 1>Can only imagine how much that pissed him off.

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<v Speaker 2>He walked in the garage and goes, what the is

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<v Speaker 2>what I was like, cat, catch your tongue. I'm not

0:19:29.800 --> 0:19:33.399
<v Speaker 2>gonna say that, but I was like, I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>yeah what and I knew exactly what he was staring

0:19:36.520 --> 0:19:41.639
<v Speaker 2>at that was and he goes, did an is this

0:19:41.720 --> 0:19:45.600
<v Speaker 2>sounds bike? And I was like yeah, He's like are

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<v Speaker 2>you kidding me? And I was like what.

0:19:47.520 --> 0:19:50.960
<v Speaker 3>We all have choices that we can make. We can

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<v Speaker 3>all make our own choices.

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<v Speaker 2>So there was that and then the second one, which

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<v Speaker 2>by the way, to add salt to it.

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<v Speaker 3>He's like, you can take it up for a spec.

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<v Speaker 2>But besides that, So the second thing was he had

0:20:09.760 --> 0:20:14.520
<v Speaker 2>come to pick up Jolie had left her softball bag

0:20:14.600 --> 0:20:16.080
<v Speaker 2>whatever at the house and so he came to pick

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<v Speaker 2>it up and he's like, oh, where's Allan. I'm like, oh,

0:20:17.520 --> 0:20:19.600
<v Speaker 2>you want to have a drink at Bricktops. He's like

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<v Speaker 2>by himself. I was like yeah, He's like wow, and

0:20:24.280 --> 0:20:26.160
<v Speaker 2>I will say he gave me a compliment. He goes,

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<v Speaker 2>he goes, I'm really proud of you, And I go

0:20:29.200 --> 0:20:32.239
<v Speaker 2>for what and he goes, well, like I know that

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<v Speaker 2>that must have been like hard for you to get there.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, well, I trust him, So if he

0:20:37.680 --> 0:20:41.480
<v Speaker 2>wants to go to have a drink somewhere, I trust

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<v Speaker 2>that he's not going to be sitting there then meeting

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<v Speaker 2>another woe, right, you know what I mean? Or like,

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm like, I didn't and I didn't go into

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<v Speaker 2>all that, but I'm like, I trust him, so I

0:20:51.000 --> 0:20:55.320
<v Speaker 2>have no problem with it, Like, and that's where situations

0:20:55.359 --> 0:20:57.680
<v Speaker 2>like that, I'm like, oh yeah, no, Like I genuinely

0:20:57.680 --> 0:21:01.120
<v Speaker 2>am fine. If there was ever a reason to not

0:21:01.200 --> 0:21:03.080
<v Speaker 2>trust him, then I probably wouldn't be fine, but I

0:21:03.119 --> 0:21:04.760
<v Speaker 2>wouldn't be in the relationship right.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you've just changed so much since.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's why when you say that, I'm like, no,

0:21:08.119 --> 0:21:10.880
<v Speaker 2>I'd actually like I'm fine, Like I don't have any

0:21:10.880 --> 0:21:14.639
<v Speaker 2>worries when he goes to Chicago. I genuinely don't like, go,

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<v Speaker 2>yeah go. But because I used to not even let

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<v Speaker 2>Mike when he would travel, because he would meet women

0:21:20.440 --> 0:21:24.600
<v Speaker 2>when he traveled. I wouldn't let him sit at a

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<v Speaker 2>bar in the hotel. Yeah, like I would lose my mind.

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<v Speaker 2>Well granted he still did, and like, cheaters will always

0:21:32.440 --> 0:21:34.280
<v Speaker 2>find a way, right, So that's why I'm like, it

0:21:34.320 --> 0:21:35.800
<v Speaker 2>doesn't even Well.

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<v Speaker 1>The more you tried to control control it and grasp you,

0:21:39.640 --> 0:21:42.240
<v Speaker 1>there was no controlling that situation. He was always going

0:21:42.240 --> 0:21:43.560
<v Speaker 1>to figure it out exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>And so with this, I'm like, I don't I trust

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<v Speaker 2>you because you show up and yeah, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Are so well.

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<v Speaker 5>This was my fear with this one because the connection

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<v Speaker 5>here is so lousy. I'm in NAPA worse places to be,

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<v Speaker 5>but I can hear y'all. I just have to like

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<v Speaker 5>really super super listen because it gets really really quiet,

0:22:01.920 --> 0:22:02.520
<v Speaker 5>really fast.

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<v Speaker 1>So, hey, are you gonna have a bachelorette party, well bridesmaids, Hey, KB,

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<v Speaker 1>are we planning a bachelorette party?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>I think it's going to be in London.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I think it's I think it's hosted by iHeartRadio.

0:22:17.880 --> 0:22:19.080
<v Speaker 3>I think they want to put out there.

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<v Speaker 5>Can we do it on Broadway? Can I grab some matching?

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<v Speaker 5>Can I grab some matching cowboy hats? And we can

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<v Speaker 5>just do it on Broadway?

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely not.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I thought you were about to have abs.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that though queendom on Broadway would be kind

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<v Speaker 2>of fun, so fun, that actually would be fun because

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, nobody honestly can travel.

0:22:38.680 --> 0:22:39.960
<v Speaker 1>Because no one's going anywhere.

0:22:40.080 --> 0:22:45.199
<v Speaker 2>Everyone has soccer, baseball, cheerleading. So my absolutely no. Just

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<v Speaker 2>went to let's do it. Let's go get a hot

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<v Speaker 2>tub time machine and go watch the time machine.

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<v Speaker 5>It's what it's like, the splitsh slash the hot tubs,

0:22:54.520 --> 0:22:55.040
<v Speaker 5>they go around.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I draw a line at that, but that's fine.

0:22:57.920 --> 0:22:58.840
<v Speaker 1>I'll meet y'all at the bar.

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<v Speaker 5>It doesn't see Jeremy at all. Cat, I think it's

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<v Speaker 5>gonna be perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>That is awful. I don't know if that's worse. They're

0:23:05.320 --> 0:23:10.840
<v Speaker 1>actually peddling while I'm drinking. It all sounds awful. But okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so we're gonna plan that. Thank you. iHeart that's great.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, no, now it's not hard.

0:23:15.160 --> 0:23:16.320
<v Speaker 1>Now, it's sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, question for you guys, this is interesting. It's a

0:23:22.960 --> 0:23:26.040
<v Speaker 2>pop culture one for you. Oh, by the way, has

0:23:26.080 --> 0:23:27.960
<v Speaker 2>anyone heard the new Taylor Swift album.

0:23:28.280 --> 0:23:29.399
<v Speaker 1>I went through it a little bit.

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<v Speaker 5>I have listened a little bit.

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<v Speaker 3>Thoughts.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I would say that the reason I'm listening is

0:23:34.880 --> 0:23:38.800
<v Speaker 5>to screen for love because she's a Swift tie and

0:23:38.880 --> 0:23:41.160
<v Speaker 5>so it's got it's a little bit tricky. This album's

0:23:41.240 --> 0:23:43.840
<v Speaker 5>a bit tricky, and she listens to her albums on vinyl,

0:23:44.080 --> 0:23:47.280
<v Speaker 5>and so I'm just not sure how I can because

0:23:47.320 --> 0:23:49.159
<v Speaker 5>there's certainly songs she's not going to be able to

0:23:49.200 --> 0:23:49.600
<v Speaker 5>listen to.

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<v Speaker 3>What are your thoughts?

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<v Speaker 1>You know that this is like the most controversial thing

0:23:56.240 --> 0:23:58.879
<v Speaker 1>to talk about, Like you start talking about Taylor Swift

0:23:58.920 --> 0:24:02.280
<v Speaker 1>and people are like, I angree, Well, they're very passionate

0:24:02.320 --> 0:24:05.480
<v Speaker 1>about some Taylor Swift. But I also can't say anything

0:24:05.480 --> 0:24:09.040
<v Speaker 1>because I took my kids to know Lavia Rodrigo week,

0:24:10.400 --> 0:24:15.119
<v Speaker 1>so I'm already judging myself. That's fine. I am not

0:24:15.160 --> 0:24:17.720
<v Speaker 1>a huge Taylor Swift fan, just come at me. That's fine.

0:24:17.760 --> 0:24:20.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm just not and my kids are already kind of

0:24:20.800 --> 0:24:23.720
<v Speaker 1>over her, luckily, so I don't really have to deal

0:24:23.760 --> 0:24:24.000
<v Speaker 1>with it.

0:24:24.560 --> 0:24:26.800
<v Speaker 2>So Jolie is not a fan, which is so interesting

0:24:26.800 --> 0:24:28.639
<v Speaker 2>because I didn't know this. She was at a birthday

0:24:28.640 --> 0:24:30.680
<v Speaker 2>party and she's like, Mom, is it okay that I

0:24:30.720 --> 0:24:32.919
<v Speaker 2>don't like Taylor Swift? And I was like, this is

0:24:32.960 --> 0:24:36.280
<v Speaker 2>so crazy because we've never had this conversation. I go, Honey,

0:24:36.440 --> 0:24:39.320
<v Speaker 2>one thousand percent, you can like whoever you want. I

0:24:39.359 --> 0:24:43.280
<v Speaker 2>was like, it's just because she's super famous, you know,

0:24:43.520 --> 0:24:45.919
<v Speaker 2>and everyone loves her, does not mean that you have

0:24:45.960 --> 0:24:47.879
<v Speaker 2>to love her too. Just you know the Beatles, It's like,

0:24:48.560 --> 0:24:51.119
<v Speaker 2>you don't have to like that. Like and sometimes like

0:24:51.240 --> 0:24:53.560
<v Speaker 2>I didn't like the Beatles because everyone loved the Beatles,

0:24:53.600 --> 0:24:57.359
<v Speaker 2>so I always kind of go opposite. Now do I

0:24:57.520 --> 0:24:59.800
<v Speaker 2>rock out? So Alan always makes fun of me. He's like,

0:24:59.800 --> 0:25:02.240
<v Speaker 2>you're Sessa Taylor Swift. I was like, I do like

0:25:02.720 --> 0:25:04.879
<v Speaker 2>some of her songs one hundred percent. I'm not going

0:25:04.960 --> 0:25:09.080
<v Speaker 2>to deny that. I think she's an insane entertainer. Like

0:25:09.640 --> 0:25:11.880
<v Speaker 2>I didn't see your concert. I wanted to, tickets were

0:25:11.880 --> 0:25:13.640
<v Speaker 2>too expensive, so I didn't.

0:25:13.680 --> 0:25:15.119
<v Speaker 3>I didn't go. I'd still love to go.

0:25:15.200 --> 0:25:18.800
<v Speaker 2>I watched the movie on whatever, like she's she's she's

0:25:19.000 --> 0:25:23.000
<v Speaker 2>very calculated all that. I don't love the new album.

0:25:23.560 --> 0:25:26.000
<v Speaker 2>I've listened just for a couple songs. I kind of

0:25:26.040 --> 0:25:30.040
<v Speaker 2>got a little bored. But you know, but again, you know,

0:25:30.119 --> 0:25:33.520
<v Speaker 2>I still like respect her as an artist. The thing

0:25:33.680 --> 0:25:37.639
<v Speaker 2>that so interesting to me is I do feel like

0:25:37.720 --> 0:25:41.240
<v Speaker 2>she's above if this song which I get it, the

0:25:41.320 --> 0:25:45.840
<v Speaker 2>thank You Amy song, which is the Kim Kardashian for me,

0:25:46.160 --> 0:25:47.480
<v Speaker 2>like when I kind of look at it from like

0:25:47.520 --> 0:25:50.680
<v Speaker 2>an outsider's point of view, I just think she's better

0:25:50.720 --> 0:25:54.280
<v Speaker 2>than that to like come up with like it just

0:25:54.280 --> 0:26:01.240
<v Speaker 2>seems so like I don't know, I just think she's better.

0:26:01.440 --> 0:26:04.600
<v Speaker 2>She's better than that to like to have a dig

0:26:04.640 --> 0:26:07.960
<v Speaker 2>song like you know you kind of won, But I

0:26:07.960 --> 0:26:08.400
<v Speaker 2>don't know.

0:26:08.760 --> 0:26:12.439
<v Speaker 1>I think that that's kind of all she does is

0:26:12.560 --> 0:26:16.640
<v Speaker 1>dig songs. Taylor Swift, I mean, right.

0:26:16.840 --> 0:26:18.600
<v Speaker 2>Well, it is a lot of you know, but I mean,

0:26:18.600 --> 0:26:20.240
<v Speaker 2>I can't say anything I write. I wrote like a

0:26:20.280 --> 0:26:21.119
<v Speaker 2>million cheating.

0:26:20.880 --> 0:26:21.719
<v Speaker 3>Songs, you know what I mean?

0:26:23.520 --> 0:26:27.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know, I mean, I mean not that she's

0:26:27.160 --> 0:26:30.159
<v Speaker 1>every man. She's ever dated, well, that's true, literally, and

0:26:30.200 --> 0:26:32.760
<v Speaker 1>it's they're very specific. Again, I don't listen to all

0:26:32.800 --> 0:26:37.040
<v Speaker 1>her stuff, but yes, the Kim thing, I'm like, when

0:26:37.119 --> 0:26:37.919
<v Speaker 1>did this happen?

0:26:38.880 --> 0:26:40.880
<v Speaker 3>This was the Kanye West thing?

0:26:40.920 --> 0:26:42.760
<v Speaker 1>No, I know what it was, but it was what

0:26:43.800 --> 0:26:44.680
<v Speaker 1>seven years ago?

0:26:44.760 --> 0:26:46.800
<v Speaker 2>It was a long time ago, but but I do

0:26:46.920 --> 0:26:49.480
<v Speaker 2>believe that that took her in a tailspin and was

0:26:49.480 --> 0:26:53.480
<v Speaker 2>like a I could see how Kim Kardashian is a force.

0:26:53.680 --> 0:26:56.200
<v Speaker 2>She's so freaking famous, and at that time, I think

0:26:56.280 --> 0:27:01.919
<v Speaker 2>she was probably more famous if yeah, and so a

0:27:01.960 --> 0:27:05.760
<v Speaker 2>lot of people I think jumped on Kim's bandwagon of yeah,

0:27:05.800 --> 0:27:09.320
<v Speaker 2>screw Taylor. You know she she's lying or making up

0:27:09.359 --> 0:27:13.680
<v Speaker 2>the situation. So I can only imagine how that affected Taylor.

0:27:14.320 --> 0:27:18.280
<v Speaker 2>But now I feel like Taylor's bigger of a star

0:27:18.440 --> 0:27:20.199
<v Speaker 2>that I don't. So I look at it as like,

0:27:20.280 --> 0:27:23.680
<v Speaker 2>you know what, you kind of why bring it back

0:27:23.720 --> 0:27:26.479
<v Speaker 2>up again? And you've lessened your power a little bit.

0:27:26.560 --> 0:27:27.600
<v Speaker 2>It's how I perceive it.

0:27:27.760 --> 0:27:30.639
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And with the lyrics to the song yeah, it

0:27:30.840 --> 0:27:33.639
<v Speaker 1>makes it. I always kind of felt like then in

0:27:33.680 --> 0:27:35.800
<v Speaker 1>that situation, she was kind of playing the victim, and

0:27:35.840 --> 0:27:37.560
<v Speaker 1>I felt that a lot with her. If I'm being

0:27:37.560 --> 0:27:39.359
<v Speaker 1>honest and again I'll get attacked for this, I know,

0:27:39.880 --> 0:27:42.639
<v Speaker 1>but it's kind of felt like a victim mentality.

0:27:42.200 --> 0:27:43.760
<v Speaker 3>Making a friend the victim.

0:27:44.320 --> 0:27:48.520
<v Speaker 1>Oh god. But and I'm not standing up for Kim

0:27:48.560 --> 0:27:52.919
<v Speaker 1>Kardashian by any means. I mean, geez, but this is

0:27:52.960 --> 0:27:55.359
<v Speaker 1>like just playing into that again. For me, I'm like,

0:27:55.400 --> 0:27:57.800
<v Speaker 1>are we going back to being the victim of this situation?

0:27:58.119 --> 0:28:01.159
<v Speaker 1>Like I understand, like you are huge, like you said, like,

0:28:01.359 --> 0:28:04.439
<v Speaker 1>you're huge, and I hate that it affected her. Obviously

0:28:04.480 --> 0:28:07.600
<v Speaker 1>it affected her more than anyone realized. But I don't know.

0:28:07.760 --> 0:28:10.000
<v Speaker 2>I just think it like, if it affected you, write

0:28:10.040 --> 0:28:12.240
<v Speaker 2>it in a way where it's not a caddy way. Yeah,

0:28:12.520 --> 0:28:14.280
<v Speaker 2>is like you want to write a song about that,

0:28:14.320 --> 0:28:17.040
<v Speaker 2>then yeah, then write it where it's like but this

0:28:17.200 --> 0:28:20.040
<v Speaker 2>just feels like you're just you're better than that, like

0:28:20.119 --> 0:28:24.240
<v Speaker 2>you're and you guys are both I don't know, now, both.

0:28:24.000 --> 0:28:26.440
<v Speaker 1>Are huge like no one you know, and.

0:28:26.520 --> 0:28:29.119
<v Speaker 2>I think I think bigger. And this is such a moment,

0:28:29.240 --> 0:28:30.080
<v Speaker 2>like why bring that.

0:28:30.119 --> 0:28:32.840
<v Speaker 1>Up again because we're all talking about it.

0:28:33.480 --> 0:28:36.040
<v Speaker 3>Oh, Ei, there you are. It's true.

0:28:36.240 --> 0:28:38.720
<v Speaker 2>But I like the fact that she says Kim Kardashian

0:28:38.720 --> 0:28:41.520
<v Speaker 2>doesn't want to add fuel to the fire and people

0:28:41.520 --> 0:28:44.920
<v Speaker 2>are like, oh, she lost one hundred thousand followers. Kim

0:28:44.960 --> 0:28:47.920
<v Speaker 2>did Kim did yeah after the after the song. But

0:28:49.120 --> 0:28:53.240
<v Speaker 2>I think again, if she doesn't respond Kim, I think

0:28:53.280 --> 0:28:54.600
<v Speaker 2>that's again, good on her.

0:28:55.120 --> 0:28:55.480
<v Speaker 3>Let it go.

0:28:56.400 --> 0:28:58.720
<v Speaker 1>The last thing you want is just like a caddy

0:28:58.840 --> 0:28:59.400
<v Speaker 1>back and forth.

0:28:59.480 --> 0:29:02.080
<v Speaker 5>Last thing I would want to do is resurrect any

0:29:02.120 --> 0:29:04.920
<v Speaker 5>beef with Kim Kardashian or anyone.

0:29:05.280 --> 0:29:06.080
<v Speaker 3>What is like that?

0:29:06.280 --> 0:29:08.080
<v Speaker 5>What's the point? Yeah?

0:29:08.240 --> 0:29:11.320
<v Speaker 2>My thing is like I'd rather just have a solid like, Hey,

0:29:11.480 --> 0:29:16.240
<v Speaker 2>this hurt sorry, or I hurt you, I'm sorry. Like

0:29:16.280 --> 0:29:17.960
<v Speaker 2>I've done a lot of that behind the scenes, where

0:29:17.960 --> 0:29:20.200
<v Speaker 2>I've reached out someone had been like, hey, I'm really

0:29:20.240 --> 0:29:22.120
<v Speaker 2>sorry I was I was a dick to you and

0:29:22.160 --> 0:29:24.320
<v Speaker 2>I apologize, or I was a bitch to you and

0:29:24.320 --> 0:29:25.160
<v Speaker 2>I apologize.

0:29:25.200 --> 0:29:27.800
<v Speaker 1>Like I don't think there's gonna be any apologizing in

0:29:27.840 --> 0:29:28.440
<v Speaker 1>this situation.

0:29:28.600 --> 0:29:30.320
<v Speaker 2>No, But it's like I would love for them to

0:29:30.320 --> 0:29:33.040
<v Speaker 2>be friends. Yeah, I just want everyone to be happy.

0:29:33.800 --> 0:29:37.280
<v Speaker 2>It's such a but you friend, are not a tortured poet.

0:29:37.320 --> 0:29:39.080
<v Speaker 2>You're not a tortured poet. So I just don't know

0:29:39.120 --> 0:29:40.640
<v Speaker 2>if that is done. I don't know if that's the

0:29:40.680 --> 0:29:45.720
<v Speaker 2>same on her side. But I'm also saying all this

0:29:45.760 --> 0:29:48.400
<v Speaker 2>and then was like talking about my ex just twenty

0:29:48.440 --> 0:29:52.840
<v Speaker 2>minutes ago. So but it's all in relation to topics.

0:29:53.040 --> 0:29:56.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it wasn't like you're like I have like.

0:29:56.320 --> 0:29:57.880
<v Speaker 2>No, my ex and I are great, you know what

0:29:57.960 --> 0:30:02.840
<v Speaker 2>I mean, We have our moments, but I mean, so

0:30:02.920 --> 0:30:03.680
<v Speaker 2>far we've been great.

0:30:03.720 --> 0:30:05.880
<v Speaker 1>I mean, he's getting soccer balls off your roof, he's

0:30:05.920 --> 0:30:09.520
<v Speaker 1>climbing on roof.

0:30:09.800 --> 0:30:12.040
<v Speaker 3>But so that.

0:30:12.560 --> 0:30:14.720
<v Speaker 2>But it's like when you go back to relating, and

0:30:14.800 --> 0:30:18.720
<v Speaker 2>that's right when I unfortunately is the past and comes up.

0:30:18.800 --> 0:30:20.880
<v Speaker 1>And that's when people were like, oh, she's not over it,

0:30:20.960 --> 0:30:24.480
<v Speaker 1>she's da da dah because we will relate topics on here. Heck,

0:30:24.520 --> 0:30:27.360
<v Speaker 1>I'll still relate topics to my ex boyfriend when I

0:30:27.400 --> 0:30:30.880
<v Speaker 1>was nineteen, you know, like, and I can promise you

0:30:30.920 --> 0:30:33.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm over that. But I just think people take that.

0:30:33.720 --> 0:30:36.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, maybe not, but I think people take

0:30:36.960 --> 0:30:40.440
<v Speaker 1>when you relate things to it. But it is who

0:30:40.520 --> 0:30:42.640
<v Speaker 1>how it makes you. It makes you into the person

0:30:42.680 --> 0:30:45.040
<v Speaker 1>you are now. That does not mean that you're not over.

0:30:44.920 --> 0:30:49.840
<v Speaker 2>It, right, but it is the capitalization of the K

0:30:50.000 --> 0:30:50.960
<v Speaker 2>and the I and the M.

0:30:51.480 --> 0:30:54.640
<v Speaker 1>That was like making sure everybody knew yep.

0:30:55.040 --> 0:30:57.560
<v Speaker 5>It's also tricky though, because you know, Taylor is so

0:30:57.760 --> 0:31:01.480
<v Speaker 5>artistic when it comes to music. I hate it because

0:31:01.520 --> 0:31:04.880
<v Speaker 5>you know, we know on our side, like the music side,

0:31:04.920 --> 0:31:07.880
<v Speaker 5>she wasn't. She didn't just start this project like last year.

0:31:07.920 --> 0:31:09.840
<v Speaker 5>This has probably been a compilation of like things that

0:31:09.880 --> 0:31:12.200
<v Speaker 5>she's written for like the last since her last album

0:31:12.280 --> 0:31:14.800
<v Speaker 5>or whatever, or even before that. You know, songs always

0:31:14.800 --> 0:31:16.960
<v Speaker 5>make a way, like you can you can create a

0:31:16.960 --> 0:31:18.520
<v Speaker 5>song and you can leave it for forever and then

0:31:18.560 --> 0:31:23.200
<v Speaker 5>you decide it fits somewhere. So I think artistically, maybe

0:31:23.240 --> 0:31:26.200
<v Speaker 5>this fits for her, or it feels like you know,

0:31:26.280 --> 0:31:29.320
<v Speaker 5>like I try to go. I try to just go

0:31:29.400 --> 0:31:30.880
<v Speaker 5>to like the artist side of things where it's like

0:31:30.920 --> 0:31:33.400
<v Speaker 5>redemptive or it feels like it fits or like to

0:31:33.520 --> 0:31:36.360
<v Speaker 5>her it all of those songs meant something and they

0:31:36.360 --> 0:31:39.120
<v Speaker 5>all go into a certain season, or like like when

0:31:39.120 --> 0:31:43.680
<v Speaker 5>an author writes a book. So I don't I just

0:31:43.840 --> 0:31:48.440
<v Speaker 5>feel like sometimes her artistic display of it, like we're like,

0:31:48.440 --> 0:31:50.280
<v Speaker 5>well why would she do that? But for her, she's

0:31:50.320 --> 0:31:51.880
<v Speaker 5>like if I didn't put it on here, it would

0:31:51.880 --> 0:31:54.640
<v Speaker 5>be like being complete to myself or true to myself

0:31:54.720 --> 0:31:57.800
<v Speaker 5>or whatever. You know, or it doesn't maybe tell the

0:31:57.840 --> 0:32:00.080
<v Speaker 5>whole story if she doesn't have that song in there

0:32:00.120 --> 0:32:01.680
<v Speaker 5>in her artistic brain.

0:32:02.320 --> 0:32:04.320
<v Speaker 3>Mm hmm, yeah, I could see that.

0:32:04.400 --> 0:32:07.120
<v Speaker 1>I think this album will be interesting because I think

0:32:07.120 --> 0:32:12.280
<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of moms who last year idol kids

0:32:12.320 --> 0:32:14.480
<v Speaker 1>are obsessed blah blah, and now there's a lot of

0:32:14.480 --> 0:32:17.280
<v Speaker 1>moms going wha, wha what is she saying in these songs?

0:32:17.440 --> 0:32:21.000
<v Speaker 1>And I'm you know, I'm one of It wasn't there before,

0:32:21.200 --> 0:32:23.440
<v Speaker 1>but people are really paying attention to it now, and

0:32:23.480 --> 0:32:25.320
<v Speaker 1>it's going to be interesting to see because she was

0:32:25.400 --> 0:32:28.440
<v Speaker 1>just such an idol for so many young kids, and

0:32:28.480 --> 0:32:31.800
<v Speaker 1>now this album is bringing out this whole side of

0:32:31.880 --> 0:32:34.680
<v Speaker 1>wait a minute, what are what are we listening to?

0:32:34.760 --> 0:32:37.080
<v Speaker 1>And is this good for our kids? It's going to

0:32:37.120 --> 0:32:37.880
<v Speaker 1>be interesting to watch.

0:32:38.440 --> 0:32:40.360
<v Speaker 5>That's the tricky part for me, is like love is

0:32:40.400 --> 0:32:43.120
<v Speaker 5>such a swiftie and she you know, and I also

0:32:43.240 --> 0:32:45.400
<v Speaker 5>get like, you can't Taylor's not going to stay the

0:32:45.400 --> 0:32:48.120
<v Speaker 5>same right She's because she's she's a woman, she has

0:32:48.160 --> 0:32:50.520
<v Speaker 5>a boyfriend and all the things. But it is a

0:32:50.520 --> 0:32:52.680
<v Speaker 5>little tricky. I'm not I just don't know how to

0:32:52.760 --> 0:32:54.800
<v Speaker 5>quite navigate because we haven't I haven't listened to the

0:32:54.800 --> 0:32:56.920
<v Speaker 5>whole album. It is hard for me to listen to

0:32:56.920 --> 0:32:59.640
<v Speaker 5>to Jana's point, honestly, it's just I'm kind of my

0:32:59.720 --> 0:33:01.440
<v Speaker 5>jam which is whatever.

0:33:01.280 --> 0:33:03.600
<v Speaker 2>Well like folklore like that wasn't my jam either at

0:33:03.640 --> 0:33:06.040
<v Speaker 2>that album. So I like them more like Speak Now

0:33:06.400 --> 0:33:07.480
<v Speaker 2>Red And that's.

0:33:07.280 --> 0:33:09.560
<v Speaker 1>Not like the kid's favorites albums either, you know what

0:33:09.560 --> 0:33:11.360
<v Speaker 1>I mean. So I don't even know if they would gravitate.

0:33:11.520 --> 0:33:14.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I like I like one song from with the Yeah,

0:33:14.960 --> 0:33:17.000
<v Speaker 2>I can't even say it, but like there's one or

0:33:17.040 --> 0:33:19.160
<v Speaker 2>two songs I like from that album, you know, so

0:33:19.200 --> 0:33:21.960
<v Speaker 2>I just rotate the other ones, like Yeah, me and

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<v Speaker 2>Jace love bad Blood.

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<v Speaker 3>That's our that's our vibe.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah you do, That's that's that Michigan mom, and.

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<v Speaker 2>You I know, hey, guys, what are your thoughts? A

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<v Speaker 2>mom defends asking guests a daughter's birthday to bring five

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<v Speaker 2>dollars for backyard renovation in lieu of gifts.

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<v Speaker 3>What it says?

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<v Speaker 2>A mom of too opened up about how she's doing

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<v Speaker 2>things differently her second baby's first birthday party, and her

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<v Speaker 2>approach raised some eyebrows online. Rachel Gibbs, she's a known

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<v Speaker 2>on TikTok Rachel on Life opened about how she's handling

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<v Speaker 2>her daughter Harry Potter theme first birthday party, so she

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<v Speaker 2>decided to just have an hour and a half long

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<v Speaker 2>party at nine thirty am. I don't want you at

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<v Speaker 2>my house all day. I'm giving you your day. I

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<v Speaker 2>do not expect you to sacrifice your entire Saturday for

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<v Speaker 2>a child's birthday who's not even going to remember it.

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<v Speaker 2>There and the time, please leave my house. My child

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<v Speaker 2>needs to nap, and anybody who's coming to a one

0:34:34.880 --> 0:34:37.040
<v Speaker 2>year old's birthday party is already up at nine thirty,

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<v Speaker 2>or they can suck it up for one day because

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<v Speaker 2>it's over at eleven.

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<v Speaker 3>You have your entire day.

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<v Speaker 5>Chicknut friends to invite because it sounds a little sounds

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<v Speaker 5>a little harsh, I'm not so sure. I have a

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<v Speaker 5>matching best friend bracelet with her.

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<v Speaker 1>Is this all on the invite?

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<v Speaker 2>Then, she said, I specifically, very clearly put on the limitations.

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<v Speaker 2>Please do not bring gifts, which fine a lot of us.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I still gotta give you ram these, she said,

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<v Speaker 2>explain that she put a cute rhyme about her little

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<v Speaker 2>girl being far from a house elf and needed nothing

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<v Speaker 2>from her gifts and then I said, if you feel

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<v Speaker 2>inclined to bring something, consider five dollars because we're trying

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<v Speaker 2>to remodel, redo our yard. Our backyard is a train wreck.

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<v Speaker 2>Bring us five bucks to help us redo our backyard.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what we're asking. The mom admitted, I'm very picky.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to buy shit for my kids. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want you to buy for my kids. So I

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<v Speaker 2>think she's just trying to be funny and people are

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<v Speaker 2>taking offense to it. I think it's funny, like I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want you guys also to bring like the kids

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<v Speaker 2>have enough toys. But I hope she's not being serious

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<v Speaker 2>about the five dollars things she has to be like

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<v Speaker 2>she's taking a piss.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I would think she's being funny.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, because I think it's funny.

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<v Speaker 1>But I could see where it's kind of like, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>is this funny?

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<v Speaker 5>Is it not?

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<v Speaker 2>But speaking of there's another one that I think is

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<v Speaker 2>even more controversial, which kind of makes me get a

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<v Speaker 2>little uh when it comes to my wedding. Is there's

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<v Speaker 2>there was this thing that went around the news where

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<v Speaker 2>the couple said, instead of gifts, don't know, gifts, no

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<v Speaker 2>money at the wedding, they just wanted people to pay

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<v Speaker 2>for their dinner. What because we know weddings are so expensive, right, so.

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<v Speaker 5>So you could choose to have one if you don't

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<v Speaker 5>want to feed people.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean, guys, yeah, are you are you considering this?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm kidding.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel bad even being like, hey, the airbeam, you

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<v Speaker 2>know that the castle were staying in like you guys,

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<v Speaker 2>you know you guys aren't. But like you know, other people,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I feel bad having them pay for that

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<v Speaker 2>because but I'm also like, well, if they were traveling

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<v Speaker 2>anyone's they'd need to find a hotel, right, I would

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<v Speaker 2>never have them pay for the food of the day

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<v Speaker 2>of the wedding, you know what I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Saying, what hotels is normal for people to right.

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<v Speaker 2>So, but then I'm like, is am I asking the

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<v Speaker 2>same thing? Because I'm asking for the wedding dinner food money,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm asking for like the day before and the day after,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like the breakfast and dinner.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and at the intergral day you're also providing a

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<v Speaker 5>whole experience in that, like as a guest coming. What's

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<v Speaker 5>really cool about it? I don't know how much we're sharing,

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<v Speaker 5>but like I like that I know there's a full

0:37:20.560 --> 0:37:24.640
<v Speaker 5>experience in that. Like, tell me a time in my

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<v Speaker 5>life where someone invites me to say, hey, so all

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<v Speaker 5>you'll have to do is pay for the castle. That's

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<v Speaker 5>not a real sentence, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>If someone was traveling somewhere for a destination, they have

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<v Speaker 2>to pay for their food, hotel.

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<v Speaker 5>Right.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm like, and let's.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's remember gifts of any sort for anything are an option.

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<v Speaker 1>If I'm if I am a guest invited to something,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have to bring a gift. No, that is

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<v Speaker 1>an option. Is it obviously what you should do. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>But you're basically saying it's not an option for you

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<v Speaker 1>to bring a gift. If you want to eat, you're

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<v Speaker 1>paying for your food, you know what I mean? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's not comparable in my And you're saying a

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<v Speaker 1>certain amount a gift, you could buy a ten dollars

0:38:11.600 --> 0:38:14.480
<v Speaker 1>gift or you could buy a five hundred dollars gift. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>but like you're sitting in that food. Is like what

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<v Speaker 1>if they can't.

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<v Speaker 5>It's called hosting, right, That's what that is. It's called

0:38:23.440 --> 0:38:25.960
<v Speaker 5>hosting an event. So if you're going to host something

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<v Speaker 5>and you invite those people then you host.

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<v Speaker 2>Them, yeah, or just see on the flowers, Like, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't get the point of flowers at a wedding.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't so expensive?

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<v Speaker 2>Why there's no point pick some like those weed flowers

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<v Speaker 2>from the like garden.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm fine with it.

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<v Speaker 1>I did a night wedding, so I didn't have to

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<v Speaker 1>really do flowers, and I just did candles.

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<v Speaker 2>Pretty That's what I did too, Cat, I don't, well,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll never understand the flower thing ever.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so expensive for flowers, it's.

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<v Speaker 5>Really expensive, but it's stunning.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, if I had the money, I mean, like

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<v Speaker 2>if you know what I mean, like if if you know.

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<v Speaker 3>If you weren't already over budget, yeah, yes.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you, thank you. It's trying to find the words.

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<v Speaker 2>If I wasn't already over budget, then yes.

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<v Speaker 5>So you guys. What ended up happening with the Boundary

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<v Speaker 5>Queen birthday party?

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<v Speaker 2>People brought fifty dollars like it ended up being fifty

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<v Speaker 2>dollars in cash?

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<v Speaker 3>People like it was the total?

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<v Speaker 1>Were only ten people invited or only only some people

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<v Speaker 1>bring I would have wanted to go just to see

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<v Speaker 1>it all play out.

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<v Speaker 2>How are the speeches, ladies going? What the speeches for

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<v Speaker 2>the bridesmaids. Okay, don't let me just hear a little

0:39:46.840 --> 0:39:47.040
<v Speaker 2>bit of.

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<v Speaker 3>It right now. Let's just give me like a little like.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you just see the speech I had to do

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<v Speaker 1>the other day? KB had to literally hold me up.

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<v Speaker 1>It was awful.

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<v Speaker 5>I started mine out with saying, what doesn't kilt us

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<v Speaker 5>only makes us stronger?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh God, could she just be the only one I forgot?

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<v Speaker 3>That's so funny? But please, that's really funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Started that way, that's good?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, great, well good. I'm just tested it out here

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<v Speaker 5>to see how it would go over with the crowd.

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<v Speaker 2>Speaking of, if you guys want to come see us

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<v Speaker 2>on the Wine Down Tour, we are going to Nashville, Detroit,

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<v Speaker 2>and Chicago in June June, like yeah, June fifth, Nashville,

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<v Speaker 2>June sixth, Detroit, June seventh, Chicago.

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<v Speaker 3>Come see us.

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<v Speaker 2>It's gonna be a lot of fun and we have well,

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<v Speaker 2>we'll save some private snippets for y'all.

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<v Speaker 5>We you are really good.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm excited, all right. I think that's it, y'all. All right,

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<v Speaker 2>I really love you, love you too. Come help to us,

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<v Speaker 2>bring us some wine.

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<v Speaker 5>I was at Camis yesterday and I was telling them

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<v Speaker 5>all about how it's on the rider for wine down,

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<v Speaker 5>all right by girls

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<v Speaker 1>Bye bye bye