1 00:00:01,920 --> 00:00:05,359 Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio podcast. 2 00:00:06,920 --> 00:00:10,080 Speaker 2: I think Kristen is going to be joining us via zoom, 3 00:00:10,760 --> 00:00:11,400 Speaker 2: but it might. 4 00:00:11,280 --> 00:00:11,879 Speaker 3: Just be you and me. 5 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 2: Kat. 6 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 1: All right, let's go. 7 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:16,919 Speaker 3: So we don't have a guest today. 8 00:00:17,040 --> 00:00:21,880 Speaker 2: We just have a few host chat ideas and pop culture, 9 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:28,440 Speaker 2: so we can just go from there. But little life update, Cat, 10 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:29,200 Speaker 2: How you doing. 11 00:00:30,480 --> 00:00:34,519 Speaker 1: I'm good. I'm just you know, I don't know. Just 12 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:38,680 Speaker 1: in the full swing of all the madness kid stuff. 13 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 1: End of the school year. 14 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:41,920 Speaker 3: You just celebrate an anniversary. 15 00:00:42,159 --> 00:00:46,680 Speaker 1: I did seventeen years, which is crazy. That makes me 16 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:50,880 Speaker 1: feel so old. It does seem, yeah, like it was 17 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 1: like wow, yeah, I mean I was a baby when 18 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:56,880 Speaker 1: I got married, but still like that's a long time. 19 00:00:56,960 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 3: It's a long time. 20 00:00:57,760 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, we did nothing for our anniversary, so that's exciting. 21 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:04,679 Speaker 2: It doesn't really shock me though, because a lot of 22 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:07,399 Speaker 2: the anniversary, like you spent your one anniversary with. 23 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:10,959 Speaker 1: I spent too around that time with you. I think 24 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:15,080 Speaker 1: the first year, something was going on on the anniversary 25 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:18,920 Speaker 1: and so I had to stayed or something. And then 26 00:01:18,959 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 1: the next year you filed on my anniversary, so I 27 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 1: had to stay there that night. It's okay, it's like 28 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:31,560 Speaker 1: it's fine. Yeah, now, so what's up with you? 29 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 2: You know, when I hear the baby cry just really 30 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 2: just gets my gets my heart just like you know, 31 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:43,320 Speaker 2: I just wanted to nap, you know, go to sleep baby. 32 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 2: So there's some life updates that said you got your dress? 33 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:48,760 Speaker 3: What is next? Have you sent out invites? 34 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 2: So we got the dress in New York, the wedding dress, 35 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 2: but we're working on getting because it says Kat and Kat, 36 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:58,720 Speaker 2: do you have your maid of honor dresses yet? 37 00:01:59,120 --> 00:01:59,880 Speaker 1: Working on that. 38 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 4: It's hard to find a dress well because you're kind 39 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 4: of like whatever, which is awesome, but like I also 40 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 4: am terrible at this, so it's hard. 41 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:15,839 Speaker 2: Well I think it's hard to because yeah, I mean yeah, 42 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:19,799 Speaker 2: I'm like yeah, whatever, but also it has to still 43 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 2: kind of look uniform too. 44 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 1: Oh yeah for sure, and I don't know how to 45 00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 1: do that. 46 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:25,080 Speaker 3: And I'm not the best with that. Usually. 47 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:28,560 Speaker 2: It's what I've been used to is everybody matches right, right, 48 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:30,600 Speaker 2: and so when it's not, which is I'm fine, Like 49 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:34,200 Speaker 2: I genuinely don't care. It's just at that kind of 50 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 2: I have that like older school, but I just would 51 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 2: think that everyone looks the same or same dress, but 52 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:44,280 Speaker 2: I also know not everyone would feel good in the 53 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:47,080 Speaker 2: same dress. Yeah, and I don't care, right, And I 54 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 2: truly don't care. So I'm like, yeah, where wouldever you want? 55 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:51,400 Speaker 2: But then you know, Kbie comes in, It's like, well, 56 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 2: if one's were in this and if sleeven, you gotta 57 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:56,000 Speaker 2: wear that. And I'm just like, you girls figure it 58 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:57,040 Speaker 2: out because I don't. 59 00:02:56,760 --> 00:02:59,240 Speaker 1: Think for her because I don't know, and she's like, 60 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 1: am I A this week? So I'm like, I'm going 61 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 1: to need you to tell me if these options are 62 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:06,520 Speaker 1: good or bad because she's the fashion girl of the group. 63 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 1: But but we're working on it. We've narrowed some things down. 64 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 2: There is how big will the wedding be? So it's 65 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:18,480 Speaker 2: going to be very small, like super super super duper small. 66 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:22,960 Speaker 2: I feel like I'm really doing the wedding for Jolie 67 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:23,519 Speaker 2: in a sense. 68 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:26,160 Speaker 1: Hmm, she is. 69 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:29,520 Speaker 2: I don't know if she would get it, Like if 70 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:32,680 Speaker 2: we didn't have a wedding, she'd be like, are you 71 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 2: guys not married? 72 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:33,640 Speaker 3: Easily. 73 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 2: I don't think she'd understand the marriage thing because she's like, 74 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 2: you get you have a wedding and then you're married, 75 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 2: so to watch the whole. 76 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:43,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, No, that's a good point. I haven't thought about that. 77 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:45,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I really because we've had many conversations about it. 78 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 2: Like I was like, well, I think because that's her 79 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 2: big thing, Like when we got engaged, she's like, Oh, 80 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 2: the wedding, I'm so excited. And in my mind, I'm like, oh, 81 00:03:54,960 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 2: I'm fine just going down to the courthouse too, Like 82 00:03:58,280 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 2: I would be fine with that as well. But she 83 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 2: was very much of like, but then you wouldn't be married. 84 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:06,880 Speaker 2: So it's like I think, in her, I in her 85 00:04:07,040 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 2: sweet little brain, it's you have to have the a 86 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:11,520 Speaker 2: wedding and that's sweet. 87 00:04:11,600 --> 00:04:13,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I really want that for her. 88 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:16,520 Speaker 2: I just picked out her little bridesmaids and let bridesmaids 89 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:21,919 Speaker 2: her little flower girl dress. So I can't wait to 90 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 2: see them and so cute. Yeah, I'm so excited. 91 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:29,040 Speaker 1: Wait, so you don't have to answer this because I 92 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 1: don't know. But I don't know the answer to this. 93 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 1: Will Roman be like in the wedding. 94 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 2: Well, I don't know how he I mean, I mean 95 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 2: he'll obviously be in all the photos and with us 96 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:46,279 Speaker 2: there and everything, but he can't walk or there's no like, 97 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:49,240 Speaker 2: I don't know if we can really like cart him 98 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:53,720 Speaker 2: down in a wagon if he would. The kid ain't 99 00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:55,919 Speaker 2: moving like, he's not rolling over, and he's not sitting 100 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:59,159 Speaker 2: like he's he's got a couple. 101 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 3: On him. 102 00:05:00,680 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 2: Then he can't. He can't sit up by himself. So 103 00:05:03,640 --> 00:05:05,440 Speaker 2: I don't even know if he'll be able to do then. 104 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 2: I mean he should be, but he also should be 105 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 2: rolling right now and eat close and that's okay. That's 106 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 2: like he lays there like a brick. Yeah. 107 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:14,120 Speaker 1: I literally talked to my sister in law about this yesterday. 108 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:17,159 Speaker 1: She asked how he was doing and I was like, yeah, 109 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:19,839 Speaker 1: she can't he doing this? No, Debbie, who does my hair? 110 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:21,440 Speaker 1: And I was like, He's like, is he doing this? 111 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:22,840 Speaker 1: You're doing that? I was like, no, he's not. And 112 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 1: she's like, I mean, do you remember Peyton because like 113 00:05:25,080 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 1: our kids were so big, like they didn't do those 114 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:29,920 Speaker 1: things till waigh late to because they had extra wait. 115 00:05:30,279 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 2: Well, the doctor was saying, hey, kb hi. So the 116 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:38,920 Speaker 2: doctor was saying when we won the last time, because 117 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 2: he knew the old check marks or whatever, and she's like, 118 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:43,559 Speaker 2: all right, bye, you know the five months they should 119 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:46,920 Speaker 2: be rolling over so and I'm like, yeah, I know, 120 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:50,240 Speaker 2: he ain't going anywhere, Like he's just he's just staying there. 121 00:05:50,440 --> 00:05:52,839 Speaker 2: She's like, Okay, well by six weeks, like he should, 122 00:05:52,839 --> 00:05:55,159 Speaker 2: I mean six hours, six months, he should absolutely, you know, 123 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:58,719 Speaker 2: then will need to figure something out. It's his six 124 00:05:58,760 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 2: months is two weeks away. So I'm like, I am, 125 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:04,120 Speaker 2: I'm like, all right, buddy, it's roll time. Like let's 126 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:06,680 Speaker 2: like let's get it rolling. But I don't know like 127 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:09,960 Speaker 2: what she means by we'll have to figure like like 128 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:13,160 Speaker 2: what like I'm doing everything possible and she's like, well, 129 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:14,680 Speaker 2: you know, like third baby, you're probably holding him a 130 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:16,880 Speaker 2: lot like no, No, I am like have him on 131 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:18,920 Speaker 2: the ground. I'm like putting him on the side, trying 132 00:06:18,920 --> 00:06:20,480 Speaker 2: to put his little leg over to be like all right, 133 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:23,320 Speaker 2: roll buddy, but his weight just pulls him right back 134 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:24,000 Speaker 2: onto his back. 135 00:06:24,120 --> 00:06:27,800 Speaker 1: Well and he naps in his crib, not swaddled right. 136 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:31,280 Speaker 3: No, he's not swattled. Well, I have the Merlin suit. 137 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 1: Hard to to flip, but. 138 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:36,240 Speaker 3: I have him on his back all the time. 139 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:37,479 Speaker 1: He's always in that. Yeah. 140 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, but KB, when did h I said Tiger? Sorry? 141 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:54,120 Speaker 3: When when Dido when sorry? And I'm not trying to 142 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 3: laugh about it. 143 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 5: I was just I was like I was gonna say 144 00:06:57,680 --> 00:07:00,560 Speaker 5: this first of all, on behalf of my I think 145 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:04,000 Speaker 5: he's doing his very best to roll himself over. He's 146 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 5: really working hard. I think so lying girl rolled over fast. 147 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:14,120 Speaker 5: But Legend was literally a full hearted meatball. We used 148 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 5: to call it how to Dress the Meatball was the series. 149 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 5: He was so thick that everything was delayed. So I 150 00:07:21,040 --> 00:07:22,680 Speaker 5: think he's the best to compare it to. 151 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:26,200 Speaker 3: And he was a little later, like six months late. 152 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:29,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, My niece literally was like eight or nine months 153 00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 1: old when she rolled over, So don't freak out about it. 154 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:33,240 Speaker 1: I mean, what are they going to do? 155 00:07:33,800 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 3: I mean, I'm like, is there like baby pet or like. 156 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:40,240 Speaker 1: And maybe they want to check and make sure like 157 00:07:40,720 --> 00:07:43,120 Speaker 1: muscles are okay and like all that stuff. But I'm 158 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 1: telling you, when you have that added weight, like, it's. 159 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:47,360 Speaker 3: Hard to do the size have thighs. 160 00:07:48,560 --> 00:07:51,480 Speaker 1: That's ow kay. It was all of mine were actually. 161 00:07:51,800 --> 00:07:55,320 Speaker 2: Like, it's fine, it's so cute and I love him 162 00:07:55,360 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 2: to death. 163 00:07:55,960 --> 00:07:57,280 Speaker 3: He's just such a fun baby. 164 00:07:57,320 --> 00:08:01,600 Speaker 2: But I got him a kilt for the wedding, but 165 00:08:01,840 --> 00:08:03,679 Speaker 2: I don't think the kill fits him anymore. 166 00:08:04,960 --> 00:08:05,880 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, probably not. 167 00:08:06,120 --> 00:08:08,920 Speaker 2: No, I just wasn't because he was such a tiny baby. 168 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:12,239 Speaker 2: He was, so I kind of based off yeah, yeah, 169 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:14,840 Speaker 2: but that thing is not I know, I think I'm 170 00:08:14,880 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 2: gonna try too. But we did pick out, yeah, the 171 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:22,480 Speaker 2: outfits for them, and they're just gonna be It's just 172 00:08:22,600 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 2: it's so cute. 173 00:08:23,680 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 1: So ill I was to say he probably won't be 174 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:28,720 Speaker 1: in the wedding because it would be hard to like, yeah, yeah, 175 00:08:28,760 --> 00:08:30,360 Speaker 1: he'd probably eat the ring. Right. 176 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:46,600 Speaker 5: How did Alan do with you filming a movie, a 177 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:51,000 Speaker 5: romantic movie. This is your first movie together, it's your 178 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:53,040 Speaker 5: first movie since you and Alan have been together. 179 00:08:53,080 --> 00:08:59,600 Speaker 2: Correct, No, the movie in Arizona was like that member, Yeah, 180 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:00,320 Speaker 2: this is. 181 00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:02,839 Speaker 5: Like oh that's right, Okay, that was. 182 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:06,599 Speaker 2: Love we had like the first sexy for a lifetime 183 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:10,839 Speaker 2: Christmas movie. This was way different this movie. I mean 184 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:15,679 Speaker 2: this movie, Austin was trying to kill me. So there 185 00:09:15,760 --> 00:09:19,440 Speaker 2: was a lovey dovey like anything did he do? 186 00:09:19,559 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 5: Okay? Like it was? Was it good with Alan? Like? 187 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:22,800 Speaker 2: Was he? 188 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:25,600 Speaker 5: I mean that's also I guess that's another that's I 189 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:28,440 Speaker 5: suppose that is another like protective thing that would come 190 00:09:28,440 --> 00:09:30,640 Speaker 5: out too. So even if it isn't like the sexy stuff, 191 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:33,360 Speaker 5: then it's like you're filming a movie where you're like 192 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:38,360 Speaker 5: put in this position. Does Alan's protective Scotland side come 193 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:40,480 Speaker 5: out in this at all? During filming? 194 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:44,560 Speaker 2: You know, he is a very listen. We all know 195 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:47,960 Speaker 2: he's very old school, right, Like he's very put he's 196 00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:55,000 Speaker 2: very protective. He loves me like so much, and he's 197 00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:57,640 Speaker 2: just in the kind of mind frame you know, he's 198 00:09:57,760 --> 00:10:01,520 Speaker 2: he doesn't love another male being around me all day, 199 00:10:01,559 --> 00:10:05,120 Speaker 2: every day for fourteen plus hours. Like he's like, that's 200 00:10:05,240 --> 00:10:08,960 Speaker 2: never going to make me feel good, whether you I 201 00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:11,040 Speaker 2: like the person or I don't. He's like, it's just 202 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:16,160 Speaker 2: my male, My love for you, my protection over you, 203 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:21,600 Speaker 2: is always going to not love the fact that you're 204 00:10:21,640 --> 00:10:23,480 Speaker 2: around someone that much during the day. 205 00:10:24,320 --> 00:10:27,080 Speaker 5: Right, That's how Preston would be. That's why I ask. 206 00:10:28,160 --> 00:10:32,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, but he is not jealous. 207 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:32,560 Speaker 3: He's not. 208 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 2: He's here's the difference. Like my ex was never jealous, 209 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:40,600 Speaker 2: and I was always like, well that kind of stinks, 210 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 2: you know, because he would not care if I was 211 00:10:46,080 --> 00:10:50,480 Speaker 2: being flirty, maybe in Instagram videos or not. I'm saying flirt, 212 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:55,560 Speaker 2: but you know, just like being free and fun and whatever. 213 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:58,640 Speaker 2: He wouldn't care. And I look back sometimes and I'm like, 214 00:10:58,760 --> 00:11:01,080 Speaker 2: was I trying to be that way to then get 215 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:03,640 Speaker 2: attention to want him to be jealous because I want 216 00:11:03,720 --> 00:11:07,320 Speaker 2: him to want me and not the other women. So 217 00:11:08,080 --> 00:11:10,440 Speaker 2: I think maybe there was a subconscious layer where I 218 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:12,760 Speaker 2: would maybe do that to try to get his attention, 219 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:15,319 Speaker 2: but I never got his attention. He would just say 220 00:11:15,400 --> 00:11:17,840 Speaker 2: he didn't care. But then also I realized he wanted 221 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:19,880 Speaker 2: me to even the score, which is something he said 222 00:11:19,880 --> 00:11:21,640 Speaker 2: when we got divorced. He's like, I wish you would 223 00:11:21,679 --> 00:11:24,400 Speaker 2: have cheated so that I wouldn't have been the only one. 224 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 3: And I was like, and that's. 225 00:11:25,600 --> 00:11:28,080 Speaker 2: Why I never would because I don't want you to 226 00:11:28,120 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 2: have that over me exactly. Even though yeah, but so 227 00:11:34,080 --> 00:11:37,120 Speaker 2: with and I brought that to therapy one time because 228 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:39,360 Speaker 2: when we were I was still married to him because 229 00:11:39,360 --> 00:11:42,559 Speaker 2: I'm like, I told Amy that, I was like, it 230 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:44,960 Speaker 2: kind of bums me out that he doesn't care at 231 00:11:44,960 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 2: all or it doesn't seem jealous. And it's not that 232 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 2: I want jealous, because I've been with those jealous guys 233 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:55,080 Speaker 2: and it's not fun, you know, But with him, it 234 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:57,080 Speaker 2: was nothing. And she's like, there's it's a thing called 235 00:11:57,120 --> 00:11:59,400 Speaker 2: healthy jealousy. And I think that's what Alan has. It's 236 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 2: what I have with him, it's just healthy jealousy. 237 00:12:01,559 --> 00:12:02,040 Speaker 3: Sure what, I. 238 00:12:02,559 --> 00:12:06,199 Speaker 2: Wouldn't love him being all day with a female. You know, 239 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:09,840 Speaker 2: he was coaching a women's team. I actually had zero 240 00:12:09,880 --> 00:12:12,560 Speaker 2: jealousy around that, but you know, if it was maybe 241 00:12:12,559 --> 00:12:14,760 Speaker 2: one on one, I don't know, I'd probably have healthy 242 00:12:14,840 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 2: jealousy around it. But I wouldn't have been psycho or 243 00:12:17,520 --> 00:12:20,960 Speaker 2: controlling like I was in the past. So with him, 244 00:12:21,559 --> 00:12:24,160 Speaker 2: he's so respectful, like he was amazing with Austin. He 245 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:27,640 Speaker 2: also knows my history with Austin where you know Austin 246 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:30,520 Speaker 2: and I we were roommates together in One Tree Hill. 247 00:12:30,840 --> 00:12:34,880 Speaker 2: We have been friends you know, post show as well, 248 00:12:35,440 --> 00:12:38,679 Speaker 2: and I respect Austin a lot like Austin, And we 249 00:12:38,679 --> 00:12:41,800 Speaker 2: were just talking about this when we wrapped, like he 250 00:12:41,920 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 2: is my favorite scene study partner ever, Like how amazing 251 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:50,440 Speaker 2: he is as an actor, and how giving he is 252 00:12:50,480 --> 00:12:52,600 Speaker 2: in a scene and how present we both are together. 253 00:12:52,800 --> 00:12:54,720 Speaker 2: Because again, like we talked about it when we wrapped, 254 00:12:54,760 --> 00:12:58,160 Speaker 2: He's like, we have something that's so great together on 255 00:12:58,280 --> 00:13:00,400 Speaker 2: screen that you don't get with a lot of people, 256 00:13:00,400 --> 00:13:02,680 Speaker 2: and I've never had that with any other person. Like 257 00:13:02,720 --> 00:13:07,120 Speaker 2: we just are so in it together that we forget 258 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 2: that we're almost like acting. And so you know, he 259 00:13:11,760 --> 00:13:15,000 Speaker 2: met I know, I'm always making sure too, Like before 260 00:13:15,080 --> 00:13:16,520 Speaker 2: I'm like, all right here, like I want you to 261 00:13:16,520 --> 00:13:18,960 Speaker 2: meet Alan, and so I just I want Alan to 262 00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:23,000 Speaker 2: feel so comfortable and safe. So I always make sure 263 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:24,920 Speaker 2: to do you know, a good job with that. And 264 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:27,880 Speaker 2: I'm a different person now with Alan, so like my 265 00:13:28,040 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 2: boundaries are very different on set now, how I interact, 266 00:13:32,240 --> 00:13:35,840 Speaker 2: how I you know, how I would have in the past, 267 00:13:35,880 --> 00:13:38,840 Speaker 2: I don't do now, Like I'm just way more respectful 268 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 2: to my situation and to other situations. 269 00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:44,440 Speaker 3: So but I like it. 270 00:13:44,800 --> 00:13:46,800 Speaker 2: He still doesn't love it, you know what I mean, 271 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:48,600 Speaker 2: Like he's not gonna love the idea. Like if we 272 00:13:48,640 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 2: were watching something the other day where there was like 273 00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:54,040 Speaker 2: a heavy simulated scene, He's like, I would not like that, 274 00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:56,240 Speaker 2: and I was like I wouldn't either, you know. And 275 00:13:56,320 --> 00:13:58,880 Speaker 2: it's also not like that when you're filming, like when 276 00:13:58,920 --> 00:14:00,840 Speaker 2: we do do kissing scenes, like when Austin and I 277 00:14:00,880 --> 00:14:03,959 Speaker 2: did have a kiss, it's not like there's people staring 278 00:14:04,000 --> 00:14:07,320 Speaker 2: at you. It's not there isn't a connection. The problem 279 00:14:07,320 --> 00:14:09,240 Speaker 2: and I will always say, this is the connection that 280 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:11,720 Speaker 2: you have off screen with the person. So it's whether 281 00:14:11,760 --> 00:14:15,000 Speaker 2: you spend time with them, you know, in the trailer 282 00:14:15,400 --> 00:14:18,280 Speaker 2: or running lines, like that's the stuff that gets shady 283 00:14:18,440 --> 00:14:21,360 Speaker 2: and not good, Like you have to have really good 284 00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:26,280 Speaker 2: boundaries off screen. That's when people get messed up in 285 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:29,560 Speaker 2: movies and stuff. It's never truly the on screen because 286 00:14:29,560 --> 00:14:32,640 Speaker 2: there's so many people watching. It isn't like there's no emotions. 287 00:14:33,600 --> 00:14:35,920 Speaker 2: But yeah, but I just like I love his his 288 00:14:36,040 --> 00:14:38,360 Speaker 2: balance because I do. I feel protected, I feel safe, 289 00:14:38,400 --> 00:14:41,280 Speaker 2: I feel I feel like he cares, but he's not 290 00:14:41,520 --> 00:14:45,560 Speaker 2: controlling or psycho like other people that I've been with 291 00:14:45,880 --> 00:14:46,160 Speaker 2: as well. 292 00:14:46,240 --> 00:14:49,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, and I think, honestly, like I think it is 293 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:53,800 Speaker 5: so special. Well, I think what you do is special. 294 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:56,840 Speaker 5: I've always admired like the actress part of you, but 295 00:14:57,880 --> 00:15:03,040 Speaker 5: also just I think it is would be red flaggy 296 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:04,880 Speaker 5: to me if he was like cool, go make out 297 00:15:04,880 --> 00:15:06,520 Speaker 5: with that dude. 298 00:15:06,920 --> 00:15:07,479 Speaker 3: Yeah. 299 00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:10,320 Speaker 5: So I think it's like incredible that he cares enough. 300 00:15:10,360 --> 00:15:13,320 Speaker 5: But I always do wonder because Alan is he's just 301 00:15:13,640 --> 00:15:17,080 Speaker 5: such a different guy for you. He's different than anyone 302 00:15:17,120 --> 00:15:21,040 Speaker 5: you've ever dated or been with. And it was I 303 00:15:21,520 --> 00:15:23,440 Speaker 5: remember the minute I thought it the first time, and 304 00:15:23,480 --> 00:15:25,520 Speaker 5: I was like, I really like this guy because he 305 00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:28,840 Speaker 5: isn't going to give you like he's he held the line, 306 00:15:29,320 --> 00:15:32,120 Speaker 5: which was really interesting to watch. 307 00:15:32,480 --> 00:15:33,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, he held the line. 308 00:15:33,600 --> 00:15:37,120 Speaker 2: But also because he respects me, I respect him, right, 309 00:15:37,160 --> 00:15:40,720 Speaker 2: And that's the difference. I didn't respect Mike because he 310 00:15:40,760 --> 00:15:43,800 Speaker 2: didn't respect me. So that was like then how I 311 00:15:43,840 --> 00:15:47,960 Speaker 2: acted reflected how he acted reflected. So with this situation 312 00:15:48,120 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 2: is like, he respects me so much, I'm going to 313 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:52,600 Speaker 2: respect him as well. And the relationship. 314 00:15:52,880 --> 00:15:54,880 Speaker 5: But that's the first time I had seen that out 315 00:15:54,920 --> 00:15:58,320 Speaker 5: of you with a person you had been with, and 316 00:15:58,360 --> 00:15:59,440 Speaker 5: that's what I loved the most. 317 00:16:00,200 --> 00:16:02,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, so Preston wouldn't be a fan. 318 00:16:03,160 --> 00:16:05,400 Speaker 5: Oh there's a zero percent chance I'd be on set 319 00:16:05,440 --> 00:16:05,960 Speaker 5: with somebody. 320 00:16:07,000 --> 00:16:09,760 Speaker 2: But yet it's okay for him to be on music 321 00:16:09,880 --> 00:16:14,760 Speaker 2: videos with listens and every night with girls throwing their 322 00:16:14,960 --> 00:16:17,440 Speaker 2: bras on stage to them listen. 323 00:16:17,520 --> 00:16:19,760 Speaker 5: The younger that front row gets, the better for downloads. 324 00:16:19,800 --> 00:16:25,280 Speaker 5: I will say that. Yeah, it is a really interesting thing. 325 00:16:25,400 --> 00:16:28,280 Speaker 5: Like even like we've had this talk before, right, because 326 00:16:28,440 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 5: our industry is a hot mess a lot of times 327 00:16:30,840 --> 00:16:35,840 Speaker 5: in marriage, and I think for we have dealt with 328 00:16:35,880 --> 00:16:38,080 Speaker 5: our own stuff in our own marriage just because it 329 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:40,400 Speaker 5: is wild, Like he's away from me two hundred nights 330 00:16:40,440 --> 00:16:42,880 Speaker 5: a year. That's a lot, and it gets lonely on 331 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:45,920 Speaker 5: both sides. Even if lonely looks different, it gets lonely, 332 00:16:46,080 --> 00:16:49,240 Speaker 5: you know. But we have talked about that too, because 333 00:16:49,240 --> 00:16:51,720 Speaker 5: I was like, you don't even know how like blessed 334 00:16:51,760 --> 00:16:53,840 Speaker 5: you are. When I leave you, I go and sit 335 00:16:53,920 --> 00:16:56,000 Speaker 5: with like Jana and kat if I go do anything 336 00:16:56,320 --> 00:16:58,920 Speaker 5: for work and air quotes, which I don't consider what 337 00:16:58,960 --> 00:17:00,920 Speaker 5: we do work. It's like so much fun out there. 338 00:17:01,120 --> 00:17:02,800 Speaker 5: But like if we do wind down on the road, 339 00:17:02,920 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 5: I'm like our demographic like ninety nine percent women with 340 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:11,520 Speaker 5: their girlfriends or somebody brought their husband, Like you don't 341 00:17:11,680 --> 00:17:12,439 Speaker 5: You'll never know. 342 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 1: There's literally no single man really at these besides Osama. 343 00:17:18,800 --> 00:17:23,240 Speaker 2: We love it, that's true, and they're amazing, but Ryan 344 00:17:23,280 --> 00:17:26,719 Speaker 2: Osama Matt, yeah, sweet. 345 00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:30,120 Speaker 1: But you know what's interesting about that, KB though, don't 346 00:17:30,160 --> 00:17:33,480 Speaker 1: you feel like Janna being kind of the preston of 347 00:17:33,600 --> 00:17:38,080 Speaker 1: the group in your relationship that you've always been kind 348 00:17:38,119 --> 00:17:41,080 Speaker 1: of the more jealous one. Maybe not this time around, 349 00:17:41,800 --> 00:17:44,640 Speaker 1: but like, for instance, you go do movies and you're 350 00:17:44,680 --> 00:17:47,920 Speaker 1: rolling around with men, but if you were any man 351 00:17:48,040 --> 00:17:50,040 Speaker 1: that you were with at the time was doing the same. 352 00:17:50,359 --> 00:17:52,280 Speaker 2: If he was so here's here's the difference to that 353 00:17:52,359 --> 00:17:56,800 Speaker 2: if he was an actor. Zero jealousy, like for real, yeah, 354 00:17:57,040 --> 00:17:59,680 Speaker 2: because it's not like again, you have to like like 355 00:17:59,720 --> 00:18:01,720 Speaker 2: I don't care when I was dating that one actor 356 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:03,960 Speaker 2: at all. It does it because it interesting. I know, 357 00:18:04,119 --> 00:18:07,000 Speaker 2: it's nothing. It's again all how they. 358 00:18:06,960 --> 00:18:10,320 Speaker 1: Know the boundaries outside of it. Yeah, and you have 359 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:13,040 Speaker 1: to be like to beuper careful. I don't know. I 360 00:18:13,200 --> 00:18:14,840 Speaker 1: just feel like there's a part of you that would 361 00:18:14,840 --> 00:18:17,640 Speaker 1: be a little bit more jealous as same as Preston. 362 00:18:19,280 --> 00:18:21,240 Speaker 2: I mean I thought i'd be jealous when he was 363 00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:24,440 Speaker 2: coaching all like thirty freaking soccer girls, and I wasn't 364 00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:24,719 Speaker 2: at all. 365 00:18:24,800 --> 00:18:25,680 Speaker 3: I was like, go have fun. 366 00:18:26,280 --> 00:18:28,439 Speaker 1: I mean even last night when we were talking and 367 00:18:28,520 --> 00:18:30,440 Speaker 1: you mentioned something about him doing something, You're like, great, 368 00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:32,240 Speaker 1: I won't be there have fun. I was like, wow, 369 00:18:33,600 --> 00:18:35,240 Speaker 1: but I just Jane. I would have been like I'll 370 00:18:35,240 --> 00:18:39,000 Speaker 1: be there with you every second. No, but no, totally totally. 371 00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:41,399 Speaker 1: But I didn't trust the person. I was like, right, 372 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:43,400 Speaker 1: of course I would be there because I would felt 373 00:18:43,400 --> 00:18:46,120 Speaker 1: like I had to control it. Now I'm like yeah, bye, yeah, yeah, 374 00:18:46,200 --> 00:18:48,840 Speaker 1: I'm true. Go have fun for the ten days out 375 00:18:48,880 --> 00:18:50,239 Speaker 1: of the month. I don't like, you know what I mean, like, 376 00:18:51,560 --> 00:18:53,560 Speaker 1: I trust him and if he did anything again I 377 00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:56,600 Speaker 1: met that place too, I'm like, you're an idiot, right true, 378 00:18:56,640 --> 00:18:59,640 Speaker 1: and I'm okay alone and you've messed up, but we're here. 379 00:18:59,680 --> 00:19:01,240 Speaker 2: But I I don't think he ever would you know that. 380 00:19:02,280 --> 00:19:06,040 Speaker 2: I trust him so much, so that's why I'm like, 381 00:19:07,359 --> 00:19:10,240 Speaker 2: go go for it. I don't know the acting things like, 382 00:19:10,240 --> 00:19:13,359 Speaker 2: for example, this actually pissed my ax off, which I 383 00:19:13,359 --> 00:19:16,280 Speaker 2: thought was kind of funny. Well, the motorcycle THINGKI pissed 384 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:18,760 Speaker 2: my ax off, but also I. 385 00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:22,360 Speaker 1: Can only imagine how much that pissed him off. 386 00:19:22,520 --> 00:19:26,280 Speaker 2: He walked in the garage and goes, what the is 387 00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:29,760 Speaker 2: what I was like, cat, catch your tongue. I'm not 388 00:19:29,800 --> 00:19:33,399 Speaker 2: gonna say that, but I was like, I was like, 389 00:19:34,359 --> 00:19:36,480 Speaker 2: yeah what and I knew exactly what he was staring 390 00:19:36,520 --> 00:19:41,639 Speaker 2: at that was and he goes, did an is this 391 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:45,600 Speaker 2: sounds bike? And I was like yeah, He's like are 392 00:19:45,600 --> 00:19:47,400 Speaker 2: you kidding me? And I was like what. 393 00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:50,960 Speaker 3: We all have choices that we can make. We can 394 00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:51,919 Speaker 3: all make our own choices. 395 00:19:53,800 --> 00:19:57,440 Speaker 2: So there was that and then the second one, which 396 00:19:57,480 --> 00:19:59,160 Speaker 2: by the way, to add salt to it. 397 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:01,639 Speaker 3: He's like, you can take it up for a spec. 398 00:20:05,520 --> 00:20:09,720 Speaker 2: But besides that, So the second thing was he had 399 00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:14,520 Speaker 2: come to pick up Jolie had left her softball bag 400 00:20:14,600 --> 00:20:16,080 Speaker 2: whatever at the house and so he came to pick 401 00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:17,520 Speaker 2: it up and he's like, oh, where's Allan. I'm like, oh, 402 00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:19,600 Speaker 2: you want to have a drink at Bricktops. He's like 403 00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:24,160 Speaker 2: by himself. I was like yeah, He's like wow, and 404 00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:26,160 Speaker 2: I will say he gave me a compliment. He goes, 405 00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:28,879 Speaker 2: he goes, I'm really proud of you, And I go 406 00:20:29,200 --> 00:20:32,239 Speaker 2: for what and he goes, well, like I know that 407 00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:35,320 Speaker 2: that must have been like hard for you to get there. 408 00:20:35,359 --> 00:20:37,600 Speaker 2: And I'm like, well, I trust him, So if he 409 00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:41,480 Speaker 2: wants to go to have a drink somewhere, I trust 410 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:44,560 Speaker 2: that he's not going to be sitting there then meeting 411 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:47,040 Speaker 2: another woe, right, you know what I mean? Or like, 412 00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:48,760 Speaker 2: But I'm like, I didn't and I didn't go into 413 00:20:48,800 --> 00:20:50,960 Speaker 2: all that, but I'm like, I trust him, so I 414 00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:55,320 Speaker 2: have no problem with it, Like, and that's where situations 415 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:57,680 Speaker 2: like that, I'm like, oh yeah, no, Like I genuinely 416 00:20:57,680 --> 00:21:01,120 Speaker 2: am fine. If there was ever a reason to not 417 00:21:01,200 --> 00:21:03,080 Speaker 2: trust him, then I probably wouldn't be fine, but I 418 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:04,760 Speaker 2: wouldn't be in the relationship right. 419 00:21:04,880 --> 00:21:06,440 Speaker 1: Well, you've just changed so much since. 420 00:21:06,440 --> 00:21:08,080 Speaker 2: So that's why when you say that, I'm like, no, 421 00:21:08,119 --> 00:21:10,880 Speaker 2: I'd actually like I'm fine, Like I don't have any 422 00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:14,639 Speaker 2: worries when he goes to Chicago. I genuinely don't like, go, 423 00:21:14,920 --> 00:21:17,840 Speaker 2: yeah go. But because I used to not even let 424 00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:20,320 Speaker 2: Mike when he would travel, because he would meet women 425 00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:24,600 Speaker 2: when he traveled. I wouldn't let him sit at a 426 00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:28,480 Speaker 2: bar in the hotel. Yeah, like I would lose my mind. 427 00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:32,440 Speaker 2: Well granted he still did, and like, cheaters will always 428 00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:34,280 Speaker 2: find a way, right, So that's why I'm like, it 429 00:21:34,320 --> 00:21:35,800 Speaker 2: doesn't even Well. 430 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:39,600 Speaker 1: The more you tried to control control it and grasp you, 431 00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:42,240 Speaker 1: there was no controlling that situation. He was always going 432 00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:43,560 Speaker 1: to figure it out exactly. 433 00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:45,879 Speaker 2: And so with this, I'm like, I don't I trust 434 00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:49,120 Speaker 2: you because you show up and yeah, you. 435 00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:50,920 Speaker 3: Are so well. 436 00:21:50,920 --> 00:21:53,040 Speaker 5: This was my fear with this one because the connection 437 00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:56,320 Speaker 5: here is so lousy. I'm in NAPA worse places to be, 438 00:21:56,560 --> 00:21:59,240 Speaker 5: but I can hear y'all. I just have to like 439 00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:01,879 Speaker 5: really super super listen because it gets really really quiet, 440 00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:02,520 Speaker 5: really fast. 441 00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:09,359 Speaker 1: So, hey, are you gonna have a bachelorette party, well bridesmaids, Hey, KB, 442 00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:11,240 Speaker 1: are we planning a bachelorette party? 443 00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:12,000 Speaker 2: Yeah? 444 00:22:12,040 --> 00:22:13,360 Speaker 5: I think it's going to be in London. 445 00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:17,640 Speaker 2: Okay, I think it's I think it's hosted by iHeartRadio. 446 00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:19,080 Speaker 3: I think they want to put out there. 447 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:21,640 Speaker 5: Can we do it on Broadway? Can I grab some matching? 448 00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:24,879 Speaker 5: Can I grab some matching cowboy hats? And we can 449 00:22:24,920 --> 00:22:25,800 Speaker 5: just do it on Broadway? 450 00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:27,960 Speaker 3: Absolutely not. 451 00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:30,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I thought you were about to have abs. 452 00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:33,680 Speaker 2: I think that though queendom on Broadway would be kind 453 00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:36,400 Speaker 2: of fun, so fun, that actually would be fun because 454 00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:38,520 Speaker 2: I mean, nobody honestly can travel. 455 00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:39,960 Speaker 1: Because no one's going anywhere. 456 00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:45,199 Speaker 2: Everyone has soccer, baseball, cheerleading. So my absolutely no. Just 457 00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:47,680 Speaker 2: went to let's do it. Let's go get a hot 458 00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:51,679 Speaker 2: tub time machine and go watch the time machine. 459 00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:54,520 Speaker 5: It's what it's like, the splitsh slash the hot tubs, 460 00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:55,040 Speaker 5: they go around. 461 00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:57,880 Speaker 1: Okay, I draw a line at that, but that's fine. 462 00:22:57,920 --> 00:22:58,840 Speaker 1: I'll meet y'all at the bar. 463 00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:01,320 Speaker 5: It doesn't see Jeremy at all. Cat, I think it's 464 00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:02,040 Speaker 5: gonna be perfect. 465 00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:05,280 Speaker 1: That is awful. I don't know if that's worse. They're 466 00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:10,840 Speaker 1: actually peddling while I'm drinking. It all sounds awful. But okay, 467 00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:13,000 Speaker 1: so we're gonna plan that. Thank you. iHeart that's great. 468 00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:15,160 Speaker 3: Well, no, now it's not hard. 469 00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:16,320 Speaker 1: Now, it's sure. 470 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:22,920 Speaker 2: Okay, question for you guys, this is interesting. It's a 471 00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:26,040 Speaker 2: pop culture one for you. Oh, by the way, has 472 00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:27,960 Speaker 2: anyone heard the new Taylor Swift album. 473 00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:29,399 Speaker 1: I went through it a little bit. 474 00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:31,160 Speaker 5: I have listened a little bit. 475 00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:31,840 Speaker 3: Thoughts. 476 00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:34,840 Speaker 5: Well, I would say that the reason I'm listening is 477 00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:38,800 Speaker 5: to screen for love because she's a Swift tie and 478 00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:41,160 Speaker 5: so it's got it's a little bit tricky. This album's 479 00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:43,840 Speaker 5: a bit tricky, and she listens to her albums on vinyl, 480 00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:47,280 Speaker 5: and so I'm just not sure how I can because 481 00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:49,159 Speaker 5: there's certainly songs she's not going to be able to 482 00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:49,600 Speaker 5: listen to. 483 00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:52,080 Speaker 3: What are your thoughts? 484 00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:56,160 Speaker 1: You know that this is like the most controversial thing 485 00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:58,879 Speaker 1: to talk about, Like you start talking about Taylor Swift 486 00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:02,280 Speaker 1: and people are like, I angree, Well, they're very passionate 487 00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:05,480 Speaker 1: about some Taylor Swift. But I also can't say anything 488 00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:09,040 Speaker 1: because I took my kids to know Lavia Rodrigo week, 489 00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:15,119 Speaker 1: so I'm already judging myself. That's fine. I am not 490 00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:17,720 Speaker 1: a huge Taylor Swift fan, just come at me. That's fine. 491 00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:20,800 Speaker 1: I'm just not and my kids are already kind of 492 00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:23,720 Speaker 1: over her, luckily, so I don't really have to deal 493 00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:24,000 Speaker 1: with it. 494 00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:26,800 Speaker 2: So Jolie is not a fan, which is so interesting 495 00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:28,639 Speaker 2: because I didn't know this. She was at a birthday 496 00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:30,680 Speaker 2: party and she's like, Mom, is it okay that I 497 00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:32,919 Speaker 2: don't like Taylor Swift? And I was like, this is 498 00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:36,280 Speaker 2: so crazy because we've never had this conversation. I go, Honey, 499 00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:39,320 Speaker 2: one thousand percent, you can like whoever you want. I 500 00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:43,280 Speaker 2: was like, it's just because she's super famous, you know, 501 00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:45,919 Speaker 2: and everyone loves her, does not mean that you have 502 00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:47,879 Speaker 2: to love her too. Just you know the Beatles, It's like, 503 00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:51,119 Speaker 2: you don't have to like that. Like and sometimes like 504 00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:53,560 Speaker 2: I didn't like the Beatles because everyone loved the Beatles, 505 00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:57,359 Speaker 2: so I always kind of go opposite. Now do I 506 00:24:57,520 --> 00:24:59,800 Speaker 2: rock out? So Alan always makes fun of me. He's like, 507 00:24:59,800 --> 00:25:02,240 Speaker 2: you're Sessa Taylor Swift. I was like, I do like 508 00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:04,879 Speaker 2: some of her songs one hundred percent. I'm not going 509 00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:09,080 Speaker 2: to deny that. I think she's an insane entertainer. Like 510 00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:11,880 Speaker 2: I didn't see your concert. I wanted to, tickets were 511 00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:13,640 Speaker 2: too expensive, so I didn't. 512 00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:15,119 Speaker 3: I didn't go. I'd still love to go. 513 00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:18,800 Speaker 2: I watched the movie on whatever, like she's she's she's 514 00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:23,000 Speaker 2: very calculated all that. I don't love the new album. 515 00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:26,000 Speaker 2: I've listened just for a couple songs. I kind of 516 00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:30,040 Speaker 2: got a little bored. But you know, but again, you know, 517 00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:33,520 Speaker 2: I still like respect her as an artist. The thing 518 00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:37,639 Speaker 2: that so interesting to me is I do feel like 519 00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:41,240 Speaker 2: she's above if this song which I get it, the 520 00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:45,840 Speaker 2: thank You Amy song, which is the Kim Kardashian for me, 521 00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:47,480 Speaker 2: like when I kind of look at it from like 522 00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:50,680 Speaker 2: an outsider's point of view, I just think she's better 523 00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:54,280 Speaker 2: than that to like come up with like it just 524 00:25:54,280 --> 00:26:01,240 Speaker 2: seems so like I don't know, I just think she's better. 525 00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:04,600 Speaker 2: She's better than that to like to have a dig 526 00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:07,960 Speaker 2: song like you know you kind of won, But I 527 00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:08,400 Speaker 2: don't know. 528 00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:12,439 Speaker 1: I think that that's kind of all she does is 529 00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:16,640 Speaker 1: dig songs. Taylor Swift, I mean, right. 530 00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:18,600 Speaker 2: Well, it is a lot of you know, but I mean, 531 00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:20,240 Speaker 2: I can't say anything I write. I wrote like a 532 00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:21,119 Speaker 2: million cheating. 533 00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:21,719 Speaker 3: Songs, you know what I mean? 534 00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:27,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I mean, I mean not that she's 535 00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:30,159 Speaker 1: every man. She's ever dated, well, that's true, literally, and 536 00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:32,760 Speaker 1: it's they're very specific. Again, I don't listen to all 537 00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:37,040 Speaker 1: her stuff, but yes, the Kim thing, I'm like, when 538 00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:37,919 Speaker 1: did this happen? 539 00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:40,880 Speaker 3: This was the Kanye West thing? 540 00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:42,760 Speaker 1: No, I know what it was, but it was what 541 00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:44,680 Speaker 1: seven years ago? 542 00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:46,800 Speaker 2: It was a long time ago, but but I do 543 00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:49,480 Speaker 2: believe that that took her in a tailspin and was 544 00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:53,480 Speaker 2: like a I could see how Kim Kardashian is a force. 545 00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:56,200 Speaker 2: She's so freaking famous, and at that time, I think 546 00:26:56,280 --> 00:27:01,919 Speaker 2: she was probably more famous if yeah, and so a 547 00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:05,760 Speaker 2: lot of people I think jumped on Kim's bandwagon of yeah, 548 00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:09,320 Speaker 2: screw Taylor. You know she she's lying or making up 549 00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:13,680 Speaker 2: the situation. So I can only imagine how that affected Taylor. 550 00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:18,280 Speaker 2: But now I feel like Taylor's bigger of a star 551 00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:20,199 Speaker 2: that I don't. So I look at it as like, 552 00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:23,680 Speaker 2: you know what, you kind of why bring it back 553 00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:26,479 Speaker 2: up again? And you've lessened your power a little bit. 554 00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:27,600 Speaker 2: It's how I perceive it. 555 00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:30,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, And with the lyrics to the song yeah, it 556 00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:33,639 Speaker 1: makes it. I always kind of felt like then in 557 00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:35,800 Speaker 1: that situation, she was kind of playing the victim, and 558 00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:37,560 Speaker 1: I felt that a lot with her. If I'm being 559 00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:39,359 Speaker 1: honest and again I'll get attacked for this, I know, 560 00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:42,639 Speaker 1: but it's kind of felt like a victim mentality. 561 00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:43,760 Speaker 3: Making a friend the victim. 562 00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:48,520 Speaker 1: Oh god. But and I'm not standing up for Kim 563 00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:52,919 Speaker 1: Kardashian by any means. I mean, geez, but this is 564 00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:55,359 Speaker 1: like just playing into that again. For me, I'm like, 565 00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:57,800 Speaker 1: are we going back to being the victim of this situation? 566 00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:01,159 Speaker 1: Like I understand, like you are huge, like you said, like, 567 00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:04,439 Speaker 1: you're huge, and I hate that it affected her. Obviously 568 00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:07,600 Speaker 1: it affected her more than anyone realized. But I don't know. 569 00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:10,000 Speaker 2: I just think it like, if it affected you, write 570 00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:12,240 Speaker 2: it in a way where it's not a caddy way. Yeah, 571 00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:14,280 Speaker 2: is like you want to write a song about that, 572 00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:17,040 Speaker 2: then yeah, then write it where it's like but this 573 00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:20,040 Speaker 2: just feels like you're just you're better than that, like 574 00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:24,240 Speaker 2: you're and you guys are both I don't know, now, both. 575 00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:26,440 Speaker 1: Are huge like no one you know, and. 576 00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:29,119 Speaker 2: I think I think bigger. And this is such a moment, 577 00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:30,080 Speaker 2: like why bring that. 578 00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:32,840 Speaker 1: Up again because we're all talking about it. 579 00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:36,040 Speaker 3: Oh, Ei, there you are. It's true. 580 00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:38,720 Speaker 2: But I like the fact that she says Kim Kardashian 581 00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:41,520 Speaker 2: doesn't want to add fuel to the fire and people 582 00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:44,920 Speaker 2: are like, oh, she lost one hundred thousand followers. Kim 583 00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:47,920 Speaker 2: did Kim did yeah after the after the song. But 584 00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:53,240 Speaker 2: I think again, if she doesn't respond Kim, I think 585 00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:54,600 Speaker 2: that's again, good on her. 586 00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:55,480 Speaker 3: Let it go. 587 00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:58,720 Speaker 1: The last thing you want is just like a caddy 588 00:28:58,840 --> 00:28:59,400 Speaker 1: back and forth. 589 00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:02,080 Speaker 5: Last thing I would want to do is resurrect any 590 00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:04,920 Speaker 5: beef with Kim Kardashian or anyone. 591 00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:06,080 Speaker 3: What is like that? 592 00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:08,080 Speaker 5: What's the point? Yeah? 593 00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:11,320 Speaker 2: My thing is like I'd rather just have a solid like, Hey, 594 00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:16,240 Speaker 2: this hurt sorry, or I hurt you, I'm sorry. Like 595 00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:17,960 Speaker 2: I've done a lot of that behind the scenes, where 596 00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:20,200 Speaker 2: I've reached out someone had been like, hey, I'm really 597 00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:22,120 Speaker 2: sorry I was I was a dick to you and 598 00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:24,320 Speaker 2: I apologize, or I was a bitch to you and 599 00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:25,160 Speaker 2: I apologize. 600 00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:27,800 Speaker 1: Like I don't think there's gonna be any apologizing in 601 00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:28,440 Speaker 1: this situation. 602 00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:30,320 Speaker 2: No, But it's like I would love for them to 603 00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:33,040 Speaker 2: be friends. Yeah, I just want everyone to be happy. 604 00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:37,280 Speaker 2: It's such a but you friend, are not a tortured poet. 605 00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:39,080 Speaker 2: You're not a tortured poet. So I just don't know 606 00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:40,640 Speaker 2: if that is done. I don't know if that's the 607 00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:45,720 Speaker 2: same on her side. But I'm also saying all this 608 00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:48,400 Speaker 2: and then was like talking about my ex just twenty 609 00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:52,840 Speaker 2: minutes ago. So but it's all in relation to topics. 610 00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:56,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, it wasn't like you're like I have like. 611 00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:57,880 Speaker 2: No, my ex and I are great, you know what 612 00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:02,840 Speaker 2: I mean, We have our moments, but I mean, so 613 00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:03,680 Speaker 2: far we've been great. 614 00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:05,880 Speaker 1: I mean, he's getting soccer balls off your roof, he's 615 00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:09,520 Speaker 1: climbing on roof. 616 00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:12,040 Speaker 3: But so that. 617 00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:14,720 Speaker 2: But it's like when you go back to relating, and 618 00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:18,720 Speaker 2: that's right when I unfortunately is the past and comes up. 619 00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:20,880 Speaker 1: And that's when people were like, oh, she's not over it, 620 00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:24,480 Speaker 1: she's da da dah because we will relate topics on here. Heck, 621 00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:27,360 Speaker 1: I'll still relate topics to my ex boyfriend when I 622 00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:30,880 Speaker 1: was nineteen, you know, like, and I can promise you 623 00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:33,400 Speaker 1: I'm over that. But I just think people take that. 624 00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:36,920 Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe not, but I think people take 625 00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:40,440 Speaker 1: when you relate things to it. But it is who 626 00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:42,640 Speaker 1: how it makes you. It makes you into the person 627 00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:45,040 Speaker 1: you are now. That does not mean that you're not over. 628 00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:49,840 Speaker 2: It, right, but it is the capitalization of the K 629 00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:50,960 Speaker 2: and the I and the M. 630 00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:54,640 Speaker 1: That was like making sure everybody knew yep. 631 00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:57,560 Speaker 5: It's also tricky though, because you know, Taylor is so 632 00:30:57,760 --> 00:31:01,480 Speaker 5: artistic when it comes to music. I hate it because 633 00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:04,880 Speaker 5: you know, we know on our side, like the music side, 634 00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:07,880 Speaker 5: she wasn't. She didn't just start this project like last year. 635 00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:09,840 Speaker 5: This has probably been a compilation of like things that 636 00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:12,200 Speaker 5: she's written for like the last since her last album 637 00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:14,800 Speaker 5: or whatever, or even before that. You know, songs always 638 00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:16,960 Speaker 5: make a way, like you can you can create a 639 00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:18,520 Speaker 5: song and you can leave it for forever and then 640 00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:23,200 Speaker 5: you decide it fits somewhere. So I think artistically, maybe 641 00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:26,200 Speaker 5: this fits for her, or it feels like you know, 642 00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:29,320 Speaker 5: like I try to go. I try to just go 643 00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:30,880 Speaker 5: to like the artist side of things where it's like 644 00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:33,400 Speaker 5: redemptive or it feels like it fits or like to 645 00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:36,360 Speaker 5: her it all of those songs meant something and they 646 00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:39,120 Speaker 5: all go into a certain season, or like like when 647 00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:43,680 Speaker 5: an author writes a book. So I don't I just 648 00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:48,440 Speaker 5: feel like sometimes her artistic display of it, like we're like, 649 00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:50,280 Speaker 5: well why would she do that? But for her, she's 650 00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:51,880 Speaker 5: like if I didn't put it on here, it would 651 00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:54,640 Speaker 5: be like being complete to myself or true to myself 652 00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:57,800 Speaker 5: or whatever. You know, or it doesn't maybe tell the 653 00:31:57,840 --> 00:32:00,080 Speaker 5: whole story if she doesn't have that song in there 654 00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:01,680 Speaker 5: in her artistic brain. 655 00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:04,320 Speaker 3: Mm hmm, yeah, I could see that. 656 00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:07,120 Speaker 1: I think this album will be interesting because I think 657 00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:12,280 Speaker 1: there's a lot of moms who last year idol kids 658 00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:14,480 Speaker 1: are obsessed blah blah, and now there's a lot of 659 00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:17,280 Speaker 1: moms going wha, wha what is she saying in these songs? 660 00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:21,000 Speaker 1: And I'm you know, I'm one of It wasn't there before, 661 00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:23,440 Speaker 1: but people are really paying attention to it now, and 662 00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:25,320 Speaker 1: it's going to be interesting to see because she was 663 00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:28,440 Speaker 1: just such an idol for so many young kids, and 664 00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:31,800 Speaker 1: now this album is bringing out this whole side of 665 00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:34,680 Speaker 1: wait a minute, what are what are we listening to? 666 00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:37,080 Speaker 1: And is this good for our kids? It's going to 667 00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:37,880 Speaker 1: be interesting to watch. 668 00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:40,360 Speaker 5: That's the tricky part for me, is like love is 669 00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:43,120 Speaker 5: such a swiftie and she you know, and I also 670 00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:45,400 Speaker 5: get like, you can't Taylor's not going to stay the 671 00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:48,120 Speaker 5: same right She's because she's she's a woman, she has 672 00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:50,520 Speaker 5: a boyfriend and all the things. But it is a 673 00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:52,680 Speaker 5: little tricky. I'm not I just don't know how to 674 00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:54,800 Speaker 5: quite navigate because we haven't I haven't listened to the 675 00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:56,920 Speaker 5: whole album. It is hard for me to listen to 676 00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:59,640 Speaker 5: to Jana's point, honestly, it's just I'm kind of my 677 00:32:59,720 --> 00:33:01,440 Speaker 5: jam which is whatever. 678 00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:03,600 Speaker 2: Well like folklore like that wasn't my jam either at 679 00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:06,040 Speaker 2: that album. So I like them more like Speak Now 680 00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:07,480 Speaker 2: Red And that's. 681 00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:09,560 Speaker 1: Not like the kid's favorites albums either, you know what 682 00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:11,360 Speaker 1: I mean. So I don't even know if they would gravitate. 683 00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:14,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I like I like one song from with the Yeah, 684 00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:17,000 Speaker 2: I can't even say it, but like there's one or 685 00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:19,160 Speaker 2: two songs I like from that album, you know, so 686 00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:21,960 Speaker 2: I just rotate the other ones, like Yeah, me and 687 00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:23,200 Speaker 2: Jace love bad Blood. 688 00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:24,640 Speaker 3: That's our that's our vibe. 689 00:33:25,040 --> 00:33:28,560 Speaker 5: Yeah you do, That's that's that Michigan mom, and. 690 00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:44,640 Speaker 2: You I know, hey, guys, what are your thoughts? A 691 00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:48,560 Speaker 2: mom defends asking guests a daughter's birthday to bring five 692 00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:51,560 Speaker 2: dollars for backyard renovation in lieu of gifts. 693 00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:56,560 Speaker 3: What it says? 694 00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:59,280 Speaker 2: A mom of too opened up about how she's doing 695 00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:03,880 Speaker 2: things differently her second baby's first birthday party, and her 696 00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:07,520 Speaker 2: approach raised some eyebrows online. Rachel Gibbs, she's a known 697 00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:10,080 Speaker 2: on TikTok Rachel on Life opened about how she's handling 698 00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:14,520 Speaker 2: her daughter Harry Potter theme first birthday party, so she 699 00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:17,439 Speaker 2: decided to just have an hour and a half long 700 00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:20,440 Speaker 2: party at nine thirty am. I don't want you at 701 00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:22,759 Speaker 2: my house all day. I'm giving you your day. I 702 00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:25,719 Speaker 2: do not expect you to sacrifice your entire Saturday for 703 00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:28,719 Speaker 2: a child's birthday who's not even going to remember it. 704 00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:32,280 Speaker 2: There and the time, please leave my house. My child 705 00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:34,799 Speaker 2: needs to nap, and anybody who's coming to a one 706 00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:37,040 Speaker 2: year old's birthday party is already up at nine thirty, 707 00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:38,680 Speaker 2: or they can suck it up for one day because 708 00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:39,560 Speaker 2: it's over at eleven. 709 00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:40,640 Speaker 3: You have your entire day. 710 00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:47,320 Speaker 5: Chicknut friends to invite because it sounds a little sounds 711 00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:48,759 Speaker 5: a little harsh, I'm not so sure. I have a 712 00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:50,120 Speaker 5: matching best friend bracelet with her. 713 00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:51,960 Speaker 1: Is this all on the invite? 714 00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:55,200 Speaker 2: Then, she said, I specifically, very clearly put on the limitations. 715 00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:58,319 Speaker 2: Please do not bring gifts, which fine a lot of us. 716 00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:00,239 Speaker 2: I mean, I still gotta give you ram these, she said, 717 00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:02,919 Speaker 2: explain that she put a cute rhyme about her little 718 00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:06,080 Speaker 2: girl being far from a house elf and needed nothing 719 00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:08,080 Speaker 2: from her gifts and then I said, if you feel 720 00:35:08,080 --> 00:35:10,799 Speaker 2: inclined to bring something, consider five dollars because we're trying 721 00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:13,960 Speaker 2: to remodel, redo our yard. Our backyard is a train wreck. 722 00:35:14,040 --> 00:35:16,160 Speaker 2: Bring us five bucks to help us redo our backyard. 723 00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:19,000 Speaker 2: That's what we're asking. The mom admitted, I'm very picky. 724 00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:21,400 Speaker 2: I don't want to buy shit for my kids. I 725 00:35:21,400 --> 00:35:28,279 Speaker 2: don't want you to buy for my kids. So I 726 00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:30,600 Speaker 2: think she's just trying to be funny and people are 727 00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:33,120 Speaker 2: taking offense to it. I think it's funny, like I 728 00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:35,440 Speaker 2: don't want you guys also to bring like the kids 729 00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:38,719 Speaker 2: have enough toys. But I hope she's not being serious 730 00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:40,759 Speaker 2: about the five dollars things she has to be like 731 00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:41,560 Speaker 2: she's taking a piss. 732 00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:44,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I would think she's being funny. 733 00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:45,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, because I think it's funny. 734 00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:47,560 Speaker 1: But I could see where it's kind of like, wait, 735 00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:48,320 Speaker 1: is this funny? 736 00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:48,680 Speaker 5: Is it not? 737 00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:51,920 Speaker 2: But speaking of there's another one that I think is 738 00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:58,040 Speaker 2: even more controversial, which kind of makes me get a 739 00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:01,880 Speaker 2: little uh when it comes to my wedding. Is there's 740 00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:04,280 Speaker 2: there was this thing that went around the news where 741 00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:09,920 Speaker 2: the couple said, instead of gifts, don't know, gifts, no 742 00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:13,920 Speaker 2: money at the wedding, they just wanted people to pay 743 00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:23,000 Speaker 2: for their dinner. What because we know weddings are so expensive, right, so. 744 00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:24,120 Speaker 5: So you could choose to have one if you don't 745 00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:25,000 Speaker 5: want to feed people. 746 00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:34,319 Speaker 1: Well, I mean, guys, yeah, are you are you considering this? 747 00:36:34,360 --> 00:36:35,719 Speaker 1: I'm kidding. 748 00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:38,080 Speaker 2: I feel bad even being like, hey, the airbeam, you 749 00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:39,879 Speaker 2: know that the castle were staying in like you guys, 750 00:36:39,960 --> 00:36:43,120 Speaker 2: you know you guys aren't. But like you know, other people, 751 00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:45,560 Speaker 2: I'm like, I feel bad having them pay for that 752 00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:47,640 Speaker 2: because but I'm also like, well, if they were traveling 753 00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:50,160 Speaker 2: anyone's they'd need to find a hotel, right, I would 754 00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:52,000 Speaker 2: never have them pay for the food of the day 755 00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:53,359 Speaker 2: of the wedding, you know what I'm. 756 00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:56,399 Speaker 1: Saying, what hotels is normal for people to right. 757 00:36:56,920 --> 00:36:59,560 Speaker 2: So, but then I'm like, is am I asking the 758 00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:03,040 Speaker 2: same thing? Because I'm asking for the wedding dinner food money, 759 00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:04,920 Speaker 2: I'm asking for like the day before and the day after, 760 00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:06,680 Speaker 2: you know, like the breakfast and dinner. 761 00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:10,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, and at the intergral day you're also providing a 762 00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:15,719 Speaker 5: whole experience in that, like as a guest coming. What's 763 00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:17,960 Speaker 5: really cool about it? I don't know how much we're sharing, 764 00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:20,479 Speaker 5: but like I like that I know there's a full 765 00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:24,640 Speaker 5: experience in that. Like, tell me a time in my 766 00:37:24,719 --> 00:37:26,960 Speaker 5: life where someone invites me to say, hey, so all 767 00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:28,640 Speaker 5: you'll have to do is pay for the castle. That's 768 00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:33,040 Speaker 5: not a real sentence, you know what I mean. 769 00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:36,200 Speaker 2: If someone was traveling somewhere for a destination, they have 770 00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:38,200 Speaker 2: to pay for their food, hotel. 771 00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:39,000 Speaker 5: Right. 772 00:37:39,080 --> 00:37:40,840 Speaker 3: So I'm like, and let's. 773 00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:45,680 Speaker 1: Let's remember gifts of any sort for anything are an option. 774 00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:50,400 Speaker 1: If I'm if I am a guest invited to something, 775 00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:52,680 Speaker 1: I don't have to bring a gift. No, that is 776 00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:56,600 Speaker 1: an option. Is it obviously what you should do. Yes, 777 00:37:56,960 --> 00:38:01,920 Speaker 1: But you're basically saying it's not an option for you 778 00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:03,279 Speaker 1: to bring a gift. If you want to eat, you're 779 00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:05,040 Speaker 1: paying for your food, you know what I mean? Like, 780 00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:08,880 Speaker 1: that's that's not comparable in my And you're saying a 781 00:38:08,920 --> 00:38:11,600 Speaker 1: certain amount a gift, you could buy a ten dollars 782 00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:14,480 Speaker 1: gift or you could buy a five hundred dollars gift. Right, 783 00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:18,319 Speaker 1: but like you're sitting in that food. Is like what 784 00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:18,920 Speaker 1: if they can't. 785 00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:23,399 Speaker 5: It's called hosting, right, That's what that is. It's called 786 00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:25,960 Speaker 5: hosting an event. So if you're going to host something 787 00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:29,400 Speaker 5: and you invite those people then you host. 788 00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:34,759 Speaker 2: Them, yeah, or just see on the flowers, Like, I 789 00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:37,200 Speaker 2: don't get the point of flowers at a wedding. 790 00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:39,080 Speaker 3: I don't so expensive? 791 00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:42,520 Speaker 2: Why there's no point pick some like those weed flowers 792 00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:43,520 Speaker 2: from the like garden. 793 00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:44,279 Speaker 3: I'm fine with it. 794 00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:45,960 Speaker 1: I did a night wedding, so I didn't have to 795 00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:49,200 Speaker 1: really do flowers, and I just did candles. 796 00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:53,920 Speaker 2: Pretty That's what I did too, Cat, I don't, well, 797 00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:57,680 Speaker 2: I'll never understand the flower thing ever. 798 00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:00,880 Speaker 1: It's so expensive for flowers, it's. 799 00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:02,000 Speaker 5: Really expensive, but it's stunning. 800 00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:04,840 Speaker 2: I know, if I had the money, I mean, like 801 00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:07,319 Speaker 2: if you know what I mean, like if if you know. 802 00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:11,280 Speaker 3: If you weren't already over budget, yeah, yes. 803 00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:13,120 Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you. It's trying to find the words. 804 00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:16,080 Speaker 2: If I wasn't already over budget, then yes. 805 00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:18,600 Speaker 5: So you guys. What ended up happening with the Boundary 806 00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:19,720 Speaker 5: Queen birthday party? 807 00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:24,760 Speaker 2: People brought fifty dollars like it ended up being fifty 808 00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:25,480 Speaker 2: dollars in cash? 809 00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:27,560 Speaker 3: People like it was the total? 810 00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:31,640 Speaker 1: Were only ten people invited or only only some people 811 00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:35,839 Speaker 1: bring I would have wanted to go just to see 812 00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:37,840 Speaker 1: it all play out. 813 00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:42,120 Speaker 2: How are the speeches, ladies going? What the speeches for 814 00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:46,839 Speaker 2: the bridesmaids. Okay, don't let me just hear a little 815 00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:47,040 Speaker 2: bit of. 816 00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:48,680 Speaker 3: It right now. Let's just give me like a little like. 817 00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:50,440 Speaker 1: Did you just see the speech I had to do 818 00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:52,520 Speaker 1: the other day? KB had to literally hold me up. 819 00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:53,360 Speaker 1: It was awful. 820 00:39:54,440 --> 00:39:57,160 Speaker 5: I started mine out with saying, what doesn't kilt us 821 00:39:57,200 --> 00:39:58,280 Speaker 5: only makes us stronger? 822 00:39:58,840 --> 00:40:05,720 Speaker 1: Oh God, could she just be the only one I forgot? 823 00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:10,160 Speaker 3: That's so funny? But please, that's really funny. 824 00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:11,279 Speaker 1: Started that way, that's good? 825 00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:14,239 Speaker 5: Yeah, great, well good. I'm just tested it out here 826 00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:15,800 Speaker 5: to see how it would go over with the crowd. 827 00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:19,799 Speaker 2: Speaking of, if you guys want to come see us 828 00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:23,520 Speaker 2: on the Wine Down Tour, we are going to Nashville, Detroit, 829 00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:32,360 Speaker 2: and Chicago in June June, like yeah, June fifth, Nashville, 830 00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:34,719 Speaker 2: June sixth, Detroit, June seventh, Chicago. 831 00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:35,319 Speaker 3: Come see us. 832 00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:38,560 Speaker 2: It's gonna be a lot of fun and we have well, 833 00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:42,240 Speaker 2: we'll save some private snippets for y'all. 834 00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:43,719 Speaker 5: We you are really good. 835 00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:50,120 Speaker 2: I'm excited, all right. I think that's it, y'all. All right, 836 00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:53,680 Speaker 2: I really love you, love you too. Come help to us, 837 00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:54,680 Speaker 2: bring us some wine. 838 00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:57,000 Speaker 5: I was at Camis yesterday and I was telling them 839 00:40:57,000 --> 00:40:58,879 Speaker 5: all about how it's on the rider for wine down, 840 00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:02,640 Speaker 5: all right by girls 841 00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:05,640 Speaker 1: Bye bye bye