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Speaker 1: All Right, Tommy, this story isn't for you, but it

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Speaker 1: kind of is. But it isn't, but it kind of is.

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Speaker 2: About this.

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Speaker 1: You might, you might, you might. All I gotta say

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Speaker 1: is today, if you didn't know, Tommy, is National let

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Speaker 1: it Go Day. Let not National hothead Day.

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Speaker 2: Hear that too? All Right?

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Speaker 1: Today is the day to let go of the things

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Speaker 1: from your past that you've been that have been troubling you,

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Speaker 1: These things that are dragging you down and keeping you

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Speaker 1: from moving forward. Okay, all of those things that you

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Speaker 1: guys hold grudges? Do you, guys hope grudges or are

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Speaker 1: you able to easily let things go and move on

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Speaker 1: as real?

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Speaker 2: Witch as I can't.

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Speaker 3: I don't hold grudges like I used to know anymore, anyway,

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Speaker 3: I don't. I've gotten past it to a certain extent.

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Speaker 3: Let me say this. I don't hold them.

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Speaker 2: I don't hold grudges anymore, but but I don't forget either, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I mean, and I think that's just a good learning

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Speaker 2: experience that you know.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm not feeling the whole list against you, but

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Speaker 3: at least I know how to deal with you from

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Speaker 3: now on, And so it's just a learning experience, especially

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Speaker 3: when it's your close friends. That's when it's really really hard. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and you really like okay, because because.

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Speaker 1: That's what I was going to ask you. Have you

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Speaker 1: lost friends over a petty grudge?

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Speaker 3: Not over no? No, okay, you know what, it's crazy.

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Speaker 3: Certainly me and my boys was talking about this. So

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Speaker 3: with the friends you have, are the ones that you've got,

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Speaker 3: you got to ride it out. So hopefully you know

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Speaker 3: you guys do right by you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it doesn't matter the relationship though, of the person

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Speaker 4: that that you have with the person that you felt

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Speaker 4: did you wrong.

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Speaker 1: And they hurt more if they're closer to you, your

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Speaker 1: heart more.

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Speaker 2: You know, I'm not letting it go. I'm not letting go.

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Speaker 2: I'm not.

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Speaker 4: I have why for forty six years, I haven't lived

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Speaker 4: to go the way my parents beat me. I'm not

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Speaker 4: looking your parents time.

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Speaker 2: It hurts more.

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Speaker 4: It showed you shirt every time, every time. Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 4: not no, not letting that go.

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Speaker 2: You know, they didn't want to talk about like this.

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Speaker 4: They want to try to make you feel good by

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Speaker 4: time about we did the best we could, We raised

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Speaker 4: you the baby, We'll do better because you beat.

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Speaker 2: The hell out me. It's the best you got.

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Speaker 3: Keep that.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes your best isn't good enough.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, keep that. Come tell you right now that you go.

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Speaker 4: If if the statue of lipertations wasn't up, they going

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Speaker 4: to jail.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to hell. I'm sitting straight to jail. Watch

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Speaker 2: watch me send them to jail. Please let me testify.

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Speaker 1: But you turned out fine though, yes.

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Speaker 4: Anybody, No, I'm scarred emotionally.

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Speaker 2: Shirt you brother. The spend Christmas in jail, and they said,

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Speaker 2: I would I go down there and pick that phone up?

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Speaker 2: Or how it's going in there?

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Speaker 4: You did this to you, You did this.

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Speaker 2: You was angry at twenty seven. You beat me, you wrong.

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Speaker 4: I was a sickly child, and you did it anyway.

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Speaker 2: You shouldn't be in here.

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Speaker 4: I ain't got time for this guard.

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Speaker 2: Merry Christmas. I'm leaving.

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Speaker 3: I'll leave him in there.

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Speaker 2: I have no idea all that waking.

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Speaker 4: Me up in the middle of the NiFe for some

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Speaker 4: dishes for.

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Speaker 2: Some sport and a knife for a forging the night.

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Speaker 4: Wasn't even a plate in the scene. I didn't put

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Speaker 4: that up. Well, we all had it through that shower curtain.

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Speaker 4: Back beat me in the shower. I wasn't even arrested.

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Speaker 4: When you get beat wet, when you get beat wet.

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Speaker 2: I'm not letting it go. I'm like, have you tried therapy?

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Speaker 2: Try it?

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Speaker 4: They tried to go into act like I don't know

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Speaker 4: what he's talking about.

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Speaker 2: Yes you do. I got the dates down. Okay, you

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Speaker 2: don't remember that. You remember June tenth, nineteen eighty eight.

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Speaker 2: You don't remember that what happened. You don't remember how

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Speaker 2: you beat me in you you.

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Speaker 4: Don't remember nothing in ninety five when I broke the window.

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Speaker 2: You don't remember that.

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Speaker 1: Were you journaling?

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Speaker 2: When you get beat you need documentation.

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Speaker 1: I just write them down the paper tray.

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Speaker 2: You need a paper trail. But dog, you got beat

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Speaker 2: wet in this.

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Speaker 4: Because dog, because I didn't cut the grass. I'm trying

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Speaker 4: to take a shower, and my daddy came in and

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Speaker 4: slid that curtain back. Didn't I tell you to get it.

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Speaker 2: It's hot water and a hot belt. Just don't make

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Speaker 2: no sense.

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Speaker 4: I'm not letting it go.

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Speaker 2: No, not, no, junior. This is national letting go.

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Speaker 4: When I go to their funeral, I kick that castle

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Speaker 4: and make sure they're gone, because if you knock come back,

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Speaker 4: we'll come back and beat you they got. I got

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Speaker 4: to watch them disassembled. I need to see that body

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Speaker 4: fall apart. Okay, and I believe it.

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Speaker 1: Now you're listening to The Steve Harvey Morning Show