WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Apple Picking For The 1 Percent 0:00:00.030 --> 0:00:02.150 All right, we got your brand new episode. Thank you 0:00:02.170 --> 0:00:03.780 for being here. It's Brooke and Jeffrey on your second 0:00:03.820 --> 0:00:07.220 day podcast. But apparently we need a little time to reflect. 0:00:07.560 --> 0:00:12.470 Yeah, and yesterday's awkward Thursday because mentioning the HOA, people triggered. 0:00:12.730 --> 0:00:15.370 I don't think anybody was in defense of the HOA. 0:00:15.390 --> 0:00:15.470 No. 0:00:16.950 --> 0:00:20.800 In the entire comments and text board, nothing. We got 0:00:20.820 --> 0:00:23.480 some comments, let's be honest, that freaking lady is using 0:00:23.520 --> 0:00:26.260 that 250 bucks to buy her own Halloween candy. 0:00:26.500 --> 0:00:29.200 I need to think about that. 0:00:29.220 --> 0:00:31.730 HOAs appear to be the preferred job of peeping toms 0:00:31.790 --> 0:00:34.390 and busybodies. 0:00:35.170 --> 0:00:35.849 I would play the. 0:00:35.810 --> 0:00:38.410 Petty gray area and go the extra mile by getting 0:00:38.490 --> 0:00:41.330 regular sized bars, vacuum sealing multiple of them into the 0:00:41.390 --> 0:00:43.530 shape and size of a king size or even bigger. 0:00:43.659 --> 0:00:44.239 Yeah. 0:00:44.280 --> 0:00:48.120 Yeah. So anyway, there was plenty more of that HOA hate. 0:00:48.159 --> 0:00:50.320 Some people were saying that this could be illegal, what 0:00:50.340 --> 0:00:51.260 the HOA is doing. 0:00:51.479 --> 0:00:53.239 I didn't even realize that. 0:00:53.400 --> 0:00:56.480 I'm sure our listener is just scanning all the comments, 0:00:56.620 --> 0:01:00.240 getting all of the, you know, everything he needs. 0:01:00.260 --> 0:01:02.840 All the tea, all the comments. King size for the kids. Yeah, 0:01:02.860 --> 0:01:03.380 for sure. 0:01:03.400 --> 0:01:05.220 All right, we're going to get to it. Your brand 0:01:05.260 --> 0:01:08.120 new second date update starts right now. Oh, and a 0:01:08.160 --> 0:01:11.480 quick reminder, next week it is Halloweek. on our show 0:01:11.500 --> 0:01:14.709 yeah it's a full week of halloween just fun and 0:01:14.750 --> 0:01:17.690 second date so definitely stick around here uh but here 0:01:17.890 --> 0:01:21.410 enjoy this episode brooke and jeffrey in the morning second 0:01:21.450 --> 0:01:23.429 date update we. 0:01:23.390 --> 0:01:25.869 Don't get this a lot where a guy emails the 0:01:25.930 --> 0:01:29.209 show and just flat out says i don't get why 0:01:29.270 --> 0:01:31.990 this girl isn't calling me back i have a ton of. 0:01:32.030 --> 0:01:32.870 Money what. 0:01:34.300 --> 0:01:34.679 Wow. 0:01:34.840 --> 0:01:37.240 I mean, I could say that maybe that sentence has 0:01:37.280 --> 0:01:38.130 something to do with it. 0:01:38.140 --> 0:01:40.800 I'm not sure what you mean, Brooke. 0:01:40.819 --> 0:01:44.429 I mean, how important is that to the modern woman, really? 0:01:44.450 --> 0:01:46.890 Because I know we joke with you, Alexis, a lot 0:01:46.930 --> 0:01:49.850 about this, but if a guy is financially well off, 0:01:50.230 --> 0:01:53.160 does it actually make a difference or not really? 0:01:53.470 --> 0:01:53.970 I don't know. 0:01:54.110 --> 0:01:55.230 I mean, I feel like it's just more about how 0:01:55.270 --> 0:01:57.610 he spends, like, have his own place, have his. 0:01:57.550 --> 0:01:58.430 Own, I don't know. 0:01:58.450 --> 0:01:59.990 Oh, like have his own private jet. 0:02:00.050 --> 0:02:00.250 Yeah. 0:02:00.590 --> 0:02:01.870 That he can fly you places. 0:02:01.950 --> 0:02:03.330 I don't think that would hurt you. 0:02:03.630 --> 0:02:06.090 Okay. So, okay, it helps a little bit. 0:02:06.370 --> 0:02:09.210 But I am curious to speak with this loaded gentleman 0:02:09.450 --> 0:02:10.310 who reached out to us. 0:02:10.370 --> 0:02:13.329 His name is Daniel. So, Daniel, welcome to the show, man. 0:02:13.790 --> 0:02:14.820 Thank you. Appreciate it. 0:02:14.950 --> 0:02:17.440 Yeah, your email says that you've been frustrated with the 0:02:17.480 --> 0:02:20.299 dating scene lately because apparently whenever a woman finds out 0:02:20.340 --> 0:02:22.799 that you're wealthy, it changes the conversation. 0:02:23.290 --> 0:02:24.870 That's what you said. Tell us about that. 0:02:25.410 --> 0:02:25.790 Yeah. 0:02:25.910 --> 0:02:28.030 I mean, it's just kind of been hurting recently because 0:02:29.030 --> 0:02:31.169 I'm in a part of my life right now where 0:02:31.190 --> 0:02:33.710 I'm looking for, like, a real relationship. But I feel 0:02:33.730 --> 0:02:36.450 like I just attract, like, I'm not trying to offend anyone, like, 0:02:36.490 --> 0:02:37.930 sugar babies. Oh. 0:02:38.930 --> 0:02:40.950 Could it be that you list your salary on your 0:02:40.970 --> 0:02:41.850 dating profile? 0:02:42.060 --> 0:02:45.429 I mean, it's... No, I mean, I'm not up front 0:02:45.470 --> 0:02:47.570 about it every time, but I feel like as soon 0:02:47.610 --> 0:02:50.290 as they find out, they're just looking at me as 0:02:50.610 --> 0:02:52.370 a bank account instead of trying to get to know 0:02:52.389 --> 0:02:52.750 me more. 0:02:52.910 --> 0:02:54.910 Okay, and that's not what you're looking for. 0:02:54.970 --> 0:02:57.620 But today, are we calling one of those sugar babies, 0:02:57.720 --> 0:02:59.680 or is this going to be a real love interest? 0:03:00.020 --> 0:03:02.000 No, it's not a sugar baby. I'm hoping it's a 0:03:02.000 --> 0:03:05.239 real love interest. Her name is Lily. 0:03:05.700 --> 0:03:06.580 How'd you meet Lily? 0:03:06.600 --> 0:03:09.480 On a dating app, like a regular one, not like 0:03:09.540 --> 0:03:10.220 Raya or whatever. 0:03:10.240 --> 0:03:10.900 Oh, nice. 0:03:11.240 --> 0:03:12.299 And what's your ATM pin? 0:03:14.960 --> 0:03:15.540 I don't remember. 0:03:15.560 --> 0:03:17.399 I haven't used that in decades. 0:03:18.660 --> 0:03:18.980 Oh, yeah. 0:03:19.020 --> 0:03:20.220 Was Lily a type of person? 0:03:20.260 --> 0:03:21.840 I mean, I assume if you're looking for a real 0:03:22.020 --> 0:03:25.440 relationship with a woman who doesn't care about your money, 0:03:25.490 --> 0:03:27.690 you're going to want to look for somebody who's successful 0:03:27.770 --> 0:03:28.290 on their own. 0:03:28.850 --> 0:03:29.150 Right. 0:03:29.250 --> 0:03:29.650 Yeah. 0:03:29.730 --> 0:03:31.590 Like what about Lily said that to you? 0:03:32.700 --> 0:03:34.980 I mean, she just seemed very confident in her profile. 0:03:35.000 --> 0:03:37.000 And then we were like texting back and forth and 0:03:37.020 --> 0:03:40.000 she just seemed like a real person. And we went out. 0:03:39.920 --> 0:03:41.160 For a date. 0:03:41.300 --> 0:03:44.060 You know, I tried to keep it pretty simple. Something 0:03:44.090 --> 0:03:45.750 where we can like talk and get to know each other. 0:03:45.770 --> 0:03:47.070 So we went apple picking. 0:03:47.090 --> 0:03:49.150 Apple picking is a great date. 0:03:49.230 --> 0:03:50.110 Yeah. Yeah. 0:03:50.230 --> 0:03:52.230 And she didn't know from my dating profile like what 0:03:52.270 --> 0:03:54.510 I did really because I, you know, I didn't say 0:03:54.570 --> 0:03:54.990 it in there. 0:03:55.010 --> 0:03:57.470 Good. You don't put. 0:03:56.830 --> 0:03:59.480 Like CEO or... Yeah, that's smart. 0:03:59.520 --> 0:04:01.400 This is kind of fun because then they find out 0:04:01.620 --> 0:04:04.420 later that you're wealthy and they already are in love 0:04:04.460 --> 0:04:04.780 with you. 0:04:05.080 --> 0:04:06.280 Like the show Joe Millionaire. 0:04:06.580 --> 0:04:09.140 He wants to find someone who doesn't care, Jeff. Yeah, 0:04:09.280 --> 0:04:11.360 and then tell her. That's the whole point. There's a lot. 0:04:11.520 --> 0:04:14.820 I would say the majority of women, it's not important 0:04:14.860 --> 0:04:17.140 to them. It's great to find a successful person. 0:04:17.160 --> 0:04:19.380 Yeah, it's a bonus. Alexis rolled your eyes when you 0:04:19.400 --> 0:04:20.300 said it wasn't important. 0:04:20.480 --> 0:04:21.979 I mean, I'm serious, though. 0:04:22.060 --> 0:04:24.760 Did it ever come out on the date with her? Daniel? 0:04:25.060 --> 0:04:26.429 Oh, yes. Yeah. 0:04:26.510 --> 0:04:28.110 I mean, we, you know, we're hanging out for a 0:04:28.130 --> 0:04:30.230 while and eventually, you know, she was like, what do 0:04:30.250 --> 0:04:30.490 you do? 0:04:30.490 --> 0:04:32.640 Which, I mean, I knew that question would come up. 0:04:33.810 --> 0:04:35.890 I was honest with her. I was like, look, I'm 0:04:35.920 --> 0:04:39.339 retired at this point, more or less. 0:04:39.380 --> 0:04:41.320 That's why you can go apple picking on a Wednesday. 0:04:41.339 --> 0:04:45.180 What did you tell her about your previous work? 0:04:46.000 --> 0:04:48.670 Well, I was honest. I was, I'm a flavorist. 0:04:49.270 --> 0:04:50.510 Flavor, sorry, what? 0:04:50.529 --> 0:04:53.339 What is that? Yeah, it's like a food spice chemist. 0:04:53.779 --> 0:04:54.779 Food spice chemist. 0:04:54.800 --> 0:04:56.099 You could retire doing that, huh? 0:04:56.339 --> 0:04:57.660 I don't even know what that means. 0:04:58.160 --> 0:05:00.760 Well, as part of my work, I came up with 0:05:00.820 --> 0:05:02.150 some signature spices. 0:05:02.170 --> 0:05:05.489 Did you invent lemon pepper for Wingstone? 0:05:05.570 --> 0:05:07.609 No, we're actually talking to Colonel Sanders. 0:05:08.430 --> 0:05:10.029 Oh, you invented original. 0:05:10.050 --> 0:05:10.190 Yeah. 0:05:10.990 --> 0:05:11.950 Okay, that's interesting. 0:05:11.970 --> 0:05:14.310 Yeah, that's a cool job to talk about, though. Like, 0:05:14.350 --> 0:05:17.210 I don't think anyone would think that's pretentious. I think 0:05:17.240 --> 0:05:19.740 they would think that's fascinating. What was her reaction? 0:05:19.760 --> 0:05:21.349 She seemed into it. 0:05:22.160 --> 0:05:24.020 You know, the retired thing threw her for a loop. 0:05:24.320 --> 0:05:25.700 I mean, she had the same questions you do. 0:05:25.740 --> 0:05:26.680 Like, what is that? 0:05:27.420 --> 0:05:28.220 What's retirement? 0:05:28.420 --> 0:05:30.220 Well, I don't get it, though, because you told Jeff, 0:05:30.480 --> 0:05:32.660 I guess, in your email that when you told the 0:05:32.680 --> 0:05:36.200 girl that it was your job that changed everything. 0:05:36.230 --> 0:05:36.620 Yeah. 0:05:37.140 --> 0:05:39.060 Well, I mean, it was kind of at that point 0:05:39.440 --> 0:05:42.020 when things did change. Like, you know, we're getting to 0:05:42.060 --> 0:05:42.840 know each other. 0:05:42.860 --> 0:05:46.620 It's kind of exciting. But then after that, like the conversation. 0:05:46.050 --> 0:05:49.570 Just felt like hard, you know, like things were just 0:05:49.850 --> 0:05:52.730 not coming as easy. And you know, we're in an 0:05:52.790 --> 0:05:53.469 apple orchard, right? 0:05:53.490 --> 0:05:55.390 Like it was a pretty big space. Yeah. 0:05:55.430 --> 0:05:58.050 But it felt like she was trying to like keep 0:05:58.089 --> 0:05:58.930 a distance from me. 0:05:58.950 --> 0:06:02.320 Oh. Or maybe I'm reading into it, but it just 0:06:02.339 --> 0:06:02.979 felt like. 0:06:02.860 --> 0:06:03.979 She's like, you pick this tree. 0:06:04.040 --> 0:06:07.770 I'm going to go pick this tree over here. 0:06:07.830 --> 0:06:08.270 Yeah. 0:06:08.670 --> 0:06:09.810 What else happened on the date? 0:06:10.370 --> 0:06:12.650 I mean, toward the end when I, cause I drove 0:06:12.710 --> 0:06:14.130 us there cause it's a little bit out of town. 0:06:14.310 --> 0:06:14.670 Yeah. 0:06:14.750 --> 0:06:16.150 You mean your chauffeur drove you, but yeah. 0:06:17.700 --> 0:06:19.580 He's retired. He's got to watch his money a little bit. 0:06:19.700 --> 0:06:20.340 Oh, that's fair. 0:06:20.360 --> 0:06:21.779 The helicopter picks us up. 0:06:22.100 --> 0:06:24.099 And then just like, there was no vibe. 0:06:24.120 --> 0:06:26.900 I mean, as much as I liked her and I 0:06:26.900 --> 0:06:28.770 was feeling it, I didn't even go for a kiss. 0:06:28.890 --> 0:06:30.330 I just was like, you know, I didn't shake her 0:06:30.350 --> 0:06:30.890 hand or anything. 0:06:31.170 --> 0:06:32.730 It's good you didn't shake her hand. That's a friend 0:06:32.750 --> 0:06:34.570 zone activity. Yeah, but it is weird. 0:06:34.670 --> 0:06:38.150 Every time I've saw someone do an apple press, immediately 0:06:38.180 --> 0:06:39.120 I feel turned on. 0:06:39.660 --> 0:06:41.440 So I think it's odd that she's not. 0:06:41.540 --> 0:06:42.440 Cider gets him going. 0:06:42.460 --> 0:06:45.120 That's the non-alcoholic one. 0:06:45.240 --> 0:06:46.919 Squeeze that juice out, baby. 0:06:47.560 --> 0:06:50.580 Do you think that it can be revived, though, your 0:06:50.600 --> 0:06:51.719 chemistry at this point? 0:06:52.180 --> 0:06:55.359 I mean, I hope so, because she does feel different. 0:06:55.400 --> 0:06:57.580 She feels not like the people that are just looking 0:06:57.600 --> 0:06:58.400 to me for my money. 0:06:58.540 --> 0:06:58.920 You're right. 0:06:58.980 --> 0:07:01.020 From the sounds of it, she's not even into you 0:07:01.120 --> 0:07:03.970 at all. And I understand that you may not be 0:07:04.010 --> 0:07:06.470 willing to bribe your way to love, but we are 0:07:06.570 --> 0:07:07.330 not above that. 0:07:07.670 --> 0:07:09.950 We will throw all of the gift cards that we 0:07:10.010 --> 0:07:10.750 have in her direction. 0:07:10.770 --> 0:07:12.590 I was going to say, we don't have cash. We 0:07:12.610 --> 0:07:14.230 may have a BOGO coupon in the back. 0:07:14.270 --> 0:07:16.430 But we do have another rich person, Brooke Kimberly. 0:07:17.090 --> 0:07:20.030 So we'll call Lily and see if there's a reason 0:07:20.090 --> 0:07:23.210 why after your apple picking date, she suddenly. 0:07:22.910 --> 0:07:23.890 Isn't picking you. 0:07:23.910 --> 0:07:25.790 Is he the bad apple? 0:07:25.830 --> 0:07:28.110 We'll change her mind when we do your second date 0:07:28.210 --> 0:07:29.370 update right after this. 0:07:29.410 --> 0:07:29.720 Hold on. 0:07:29.870 --> 0:07:31.390 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:07:31.440 --> 0:07:32.540 Second date update. 0:07:32.580 --> 0:07:38.300 If you're just joining us, super quick recap. Our listener Daniel, 0:07:38.840 --> 0:07:41.160 retired food spice chemist. 0:07:41.540 --> 0:07:43.050 That's a good way to put it. 0:07:43.500 --> 0:07:44.070 I like that. 0:07:44.130 --> 0:07:47.630 He meets Lily, cool girl next door type. 0:07:48.190 --> 0:07:52.350 They go apple picking, chemistry's there, till he brings up 0:07:52.410 --> 0:07:54.010 retirement and suddenly. 0:07:54.510 --> 0:07:55.870 chemistry. 0:07:55.250 --> 0:07:57.860 Gone and you know we didn't ask him if he 0:07:57.900 --> 0:08:01.300 flashes aarp card and maybe that was part of the problem. 0:08:00.900 --> 0:08:04.060 It's possible but no amount of honey crisps or golden 0:08:04.120 --> 0:08:08.060 delicious apples could get that early spark back so she's 0:08:08.100 --> 0:08:11.760 definitely not acting like a typical sugar baby who's only 0:08:11.860 --> 0:08:15.040 after him for his money but something is definitely giving 0:08:15.120 --> 0:08:17.980 her pause and we need to find out what that 0:08:18.120 --> 0:08:19.580 is Brooke, any theories? 0:08:19.740 --> 0:08:22.970 I feel like next time, instead of saying retired, because 0:08:23.150 --> 0:08:24.470 it's not a very sexy word. 0:08:24.590 --> 0:08:24.850 No. 0:08:24.870 --> 0:08:26.470 If I'm going to be honest. It's not sexy. 0:08:26.590 --> 0:08:28.270 You say you're financially independent. 0:08:28.300 --> 0:08:28.510 Oh. 0:08:30.590 --> 0:08:32.650 You just moved out of your mom's place, and I'm 0:08:32.990 --> 0:08:34.710 out on my own, finally. 0:08:35.170 --> 0:08:37.030 I mean, you don't need to rely on a job. 0:08:36.790 --> 0:08:40.640 For money, right? That's like the doordash people that say entrepreneur. 0:08:40.800 --> 0:08:42.240 They're still working a. 0:08:42.220 --> 0:08:42.960 Lot, though. 0:08:42.980 --> 0:08:45.800 I mean, I think anyone wants a partner who has 0:08:45.900 --> 0:08:49.120 ambitions and goals, and I'm sure you have those, but 0:08:49.140 --> 0:08:52.750 when you say retired, it doesn't give that vibe. 0:08:52.770 --> 0:08:54.490 What do you think about that, Daniel? 0:08:54.950 --> 0:08:57.390 Yeah, I mean, I don't put it on my dating profile. 0:08:57.429 --> 0:08:59.230 It's just something I say in person, but I can 0:08:59.250 --> 0:09:01.350 definitely tell them I'm like unemployed. 0:09:01.370 --> 0:09:04.100 No, that's the opposite problem. 0:09:04.270 --> 0:09:07.760 You sound like you're like literally homeless. It's more relatable though. 0:09:09.000 --> 0:09:11.720 Before we start changing how you do things and what 0:09:11.740 --> 0:09:14.040 you're saying to women, let's call Lily and find out 0:09:14.080 --> 0:09:17.120 what her reasoning is for not wanting to hang out again. 0:09:17.140 --> 0:09:18.640 Because you seem like a really nice guy. 0:09:19.200 --> 0:09:20.280 Oh, thank you. I appreciate it. 0:09:20.500 --> 0:09:22.840 And you know what? You're honest. Like, that's the good part. 0:09:22.880 --> 0:09:23.860 I mean, maybe too honest. 0:09:23.900 --> 0:09:24.300 We'll see. 0:09:25.660 --> 0:09:27.500 Maybe Lily has a different story to tell, but I'm 0:09:27.520 --> 0:09:28.750 going to dial her number right now. 0:09:29.090 --> 0:09:31.230 We'll see if she picks up. Let's go. 0:09:33.450 --> 0:09:36.130 Hello? 0:09:36.970 --> 0:09:37.730 Hey, is this Lily? 0:09:37.750 --> 0:09:39.990 Yeah, this is Lily. 0:09:40.590 --> 0:09:42.630 Hey, Lily, thank you for answering. We're a radio show 0:09:42.670 --> 0:09:44.420 that you're on right now. It's called Brooke and Jeffrey 0:09:44.440 --> 0:09:44.920 in the Morning. 0:09:45.420 --> 0:09:46.500 Hi, good morning, Lily. 0:09:48.270 --> 0:09:48.550 Hi. 0:09:48.590 --> 0:09:48.770 Hi. 0:09:49.150 --> 0:09:50.470 I like your name. 0:09:50.530 --> 0:09:51.410 That's, well, okay. 0:09:52.290 --> 0:09:54.010 It's a nice name. 0:09:54.030 --> 0:09:54.170 Yeah. 0:09:54.190 --> 0:09:56.440 Very pretty name. We know a lot of nice Lillies 0:09:56.480 --> 0:09:57.319 that are friends of Brooke's. 0:09:57.600 --> 0:09:58.940 Yeah. 0:09:59.220 --> 0:10:01.040 My best friend who always says, people say they have 0:10:01.059 --> 0:10:02.080 a dog named Lily. 0:10:02.100 --> 0:10:04.940 Well, don't say that to her. 0:10:04.960 --> 0:10:06.200 Yeah, we're not saying that to you, Lily. 0:10:06.220 --> 0:10:09.709 Oh, no, we're sorry, Lily. It's okay, yeah. I know 0:10:09.730 --> 0:10:11.130 lots of dogs named Lily, too. 0:10:11.410 --> 0:10:11.989 Oh, okay. 0:10:12.050 --> 0:10:13.170 We're all on the same page. 0:10:13.190 --> 0:10:13.730 Good, good, good. 0:10:13.750 --> 0:10:15.949 And we're trying to get on the same page for 0:10:16.010 --> 0:10:18.130 one of our listeners, a guy that you went on 0:10:18.170 --> 0:10:23.940 a date with recently named Daniel. Oh, he basically gave 0:10:23.980 --> 0:10:26.110 us a quick snapshot of the two of you hanging 0:10:26.210 --> 0:10:29.090 out at the apple orchard. And at the end, he 0:10:29.130 --> 0:10:32.470 got a vibe that maybe you weren't as interested in 0:10:32.550 --> 0:10:34.910 him as he wasn't you. 0:10:36.150 --> 0:10:36.850 Okay. 0:10:36.870 --> 0:10:39.809 Um, was that, can we just start with, is that 0:10:39.830 --> 0:10:41.670 the correct vibe? Did he read that right? 0:10:42.830 --> 0:10:43.270 Yeah. 0:10:43.290 --> 0:10:45.090 I mean, I guess that's true. 0:10:45.809 --> 0:10:50.330 Okay. Is there a reason why your mood towards him changed? 0:10:51.080 --> 0:10:54.740 Well, I mean, I guess he just did some weird stuff. 0:10:55.080 --> 0:10:57.280 He what? I'm sorry. He did or said? 0:10:57.300 --> 0:10:57.370 Did. 0:10:57.780 --> 0:10:58.280 What? 0:10:58.300 --> 0:11:01.080 At an apple orchard? What can you do weird at 0:11:01.100 --> 0:11:01.740 an apple orchard? 0:11:01.760 --> 0:11:04.060 Have you ever been to an apple orchard with Jeff? 0:11:04.260 --> 0:11:04.559 Yeah. 0:11:04.580 --> 0:11:08.140 They have all sorts of fun places. So can I 0:11:08.200 --> 0:11:11.540 share this with you, Lily? Daniel mentioned a particular moment 0:11:11.620 --> 0:11:14.480 from your date where he felt the vibe shift when 0:11:14.500 --> 0:11:16.839 he brought up his early retirement to you. 0:11:17.880 --> 0:11:19.570 Oh, no. I don't care. 0:11:20.740 --> 0:11:21.579 Oh, what? 0:11:21.840 --> 0:11:22.900 Okay. 0:11:23.040 --> 0:11:25.680 We, like, pinpointed that moment. He did. 0:11:25.850 --> 0:11:27.510 He did. That's true. 0:11:27.750 --> 0:11:30.210 He felt that there was a distance between you two 0:11:30.330 --> 0:11:32.510 after that, but if that's not right. 0:11:32.530 --> 0:11:37.340 I mean, the retirement thing was probably just coincidental, but, like, 0:11:37.940 --> 0:11:41.429 we were... Picking apples and like, so you have a 0:11:41.429 --> 0:11:43.530 little basket and you're carrying your basket and you're putting 0:11:43.630 --> 0:11:46.929 apples in it and to go up the step stool, 0:11:46.950 --> 0:11:48.600 I have to set my basket down. 0:11:48.620 --> 0:11:49.050 Right. 0:11:49.240 --> 0:11:53.100 And then like, I'd realized that my basket felt lighter, 0:11:53.120 --> 0:11:55.890 even though I was putting apples into it. I was like, 0:11:55.929 --> 0:11:58.900 that's weird. So then the next time I went up 0:11:58.980 --> 0:12:02.559 the ladder again, I noticed him taking apples out of 0:12:02.620 --> 0:12:03.400 my basket. 0:12:03.559 --> 0:12:08.230 What? Daniel was stealing apples from you? What do you mean? 0:12:08.330 --> 0:12:08.590 Weird. 0:12:08.670 --> 0:12:11.530 He was just getting rid of them. Sometimes he'd just 0:12:11.830 --> 0:12:12.090 toss them. 0:12:12.110 --> 0:12:12.390 That's weird. 0:12:15.150 --> 0:12:18.660 Remember he mentioned that he felt that you distanced yourself 0:12:18.760 --> 0:12:20.699 physically from him after. 0:12:20.480 --> 0:12:24.360 He talked about retirement. So you just moved so that 0:12:24.500 --> 0:12:25.840 he couldn't get your apples. 0:12:26.740 --> 0:12:27.120 Yeah. 0:12:27.620 --> 0:12:28.720 Oh, my God. 0:12:28.820 --> 0:12:29.700 Okay. 0:12:29.840 --> 0:12:30.720 Yeah. 0:12:31.020 --> 0:12:34.319 But why was he taking apples out of your basket? 0:12:34.400 --> 0:12:38.220 That's the part that requires a little more explanation. And luckily, 0:12:38.240 --> 0:12:40.280 we can get some of those answers, Lily, because you 0:12:40.300 --> 0:12:42.640 don't know this, but Daniel's been on the other line 0:12:42.720 --> 0:12:44.260 listening to this call the entire time. 0:12:44.280 --> 0:12:47.070 The little apple thief is right there. 0:12:47.309 --> 0:12:52.309 Daniel? Yes. Hello. 0:12:52.590 --> 0:12:53.650 Awfully casual. 0:12:53.670 --> 0:12:56.010 That's a guilty hello. 0:12:56.690 --> 0:12:57.770 Did you hear what she said? 0:12:57.790 --> 0:13:02.340 Yeah, I heard what she said. It's not entirely accurate. 0:13:02.960 --> 0:13:03.620 Entirely? 0:13:03.679 --> 0:13:04.239 Really? 0:13:04.300 --> 0:13:05.340 What's your side? 0:13:05.360 --> 0:13:06.180 Is Lily still there? 0:13:06.900 --> 0:13:07.559 Yeah. 0:13:08.100 --> 0:13:10.939 Why is she under the impression that you were purposefully 0:13:11.000 --> 0:13:12.480 taking apples out of her basket? 0:13:12.640 --> 0:13:13.020 Yeah. 0:13:13.179 --> 0:13:16.120 I mean, that part is true. I didn't realize that 0:13:16.179 --> 0:13:16.920 she noticed. 0:13:18.300 --> 0:13:19.650 Oh, wow. 0:13:19.710 --> 0:13:23.130 Why did you go and notice that thing? Come on. 0:13:23.270 --> 0:13:23.750 Oh, boy. 0:13:23.790 --> 0:13:26.929 Daniel, love an explanation anytime you're ready. 0:13:27.590 --> 0:13:29.750 Yeah, I mean, no, we were having fun and, you know, 0:13:29.770 --> 0:13:31.630 she can pick all the apples she wants. But when 0:13:31.670 --> 0:13:33.809 it comes time to pay for them, I thought she 0:13:33.830 --> 0:13:38.130 like had enough apples. We didn't need to buy the entire. 0:13:38.330 --> 0:13:39.550 Oh, my God. 0:13:39.670 --> 0:13:42.670 The rich guy is focused on money. 0:13:42.850 --> 0:13:44.989 Anybody who talks about how rich they are. I know 0:13:45.010 --> 0:13:46.930 they are not rich. 0:13:47.070 --> 0:13:49.429 Actually, the richest people tend to be the most frugal. 0:13:49.490 --> 0:13:49.590 No. 0:13:50.750 --> 0:13:54.850 Well, look, I'm sure I have money, but I'm also retired, which. 0:13:54.790 --> 0:13:55.590 Is honestly hard. 0:13:55.809 --> 0:13:58.870 And if I want to stay above a certain tax bracket, 0:13:59.030 --> 0:14:01.690 if you will, then I need to stay on budget. 0:14:01.750 --> 0:14:03.600 And I have a certain amount of budget for the state. 0:14:03.670 --> 0:14:06.800 I don't believe anything you say. You chose apple picking. 0:14:06.900 --> 0:14:10.040 We're three red delicious over my budget. We can't. You're 0:14:10.080 --> 0:14:10.959 going to bankrupt me. 0:14:11.140 --> 0:14:13.960 Why didn't you just tell her, like, hey, I budgeted 0:14:14.040 --> 0:14:15.319 this amount for our apples. 0:14:15.360 --> 0:14:16.479 Let's get X amount. 0:14:16.500 --> 0:14:18.600 Well, that would sound cheap. I'm not going to do that. 0:14:18.620 --> 0:14:18.860 Oh, yeah. 0:14:19.400 --> 0:14:21.830 But you are cheap. 0:14:22.730 --> 0:14:25.770 I mean, there's a huge difference between being cheap and 0:14:25.810 --> 0:14:26.690 being smart with money. 0:14:26.730 --> 0:14:29.760 I mean, like, look, I have three homes. in the state. 0:14:29.980 --> 0:14:32.500 I don't really want to hear you talk about your stuff. 0:14:32.660 --> 0:14:35.580 Three homes, that is. Three utility bills every month. 0:14:36.220 --> 0:14:38.160 Brooke, you should relate to him on that. You're a 0:14:38.230 --> 0:14:39.590 multi-property owner. 0:14:39.670 --> 0:14:41.130