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Speaker 1: Can we do a second date update? If you're dating
Speaker 1: right now, you gotta listen this because maybe even the
Speaker 1: same situation recently, or if you're not dating, to be
Speaker 1: very happy you're not. So Brian is on the line here,
Speaker 1: and Brian is confused. He goes out with somebody who's
Speaker 1: known for a long time. They rekindled. They used to
Speaker 1: know each other when they were growing up, and she
Speaker 1: commented a friend's Instagram story and it turns out they
Speaker 1: have mutual friends. So how did you guys rekindle? Yeah?
Speaker 1: So I DMed her and she remembered me and I
Speaker 1: asked her out. I thought it was really cool. I
Speaker 1: was wondering just why she doesn't respond to my text anymore?
Speaker 1: So you went out with her or not? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: we wouldn't. Okay, you did an official date right? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Exactly exactly. Why don't you tell us about Brian? Sure? Sure?
Speaker 1: So you know we went to this place in Burbank
Speaker 1: called the green Room. Uh, incredible views, incredible food. M
Speaker 1: oh yeah, yeah, I love it. The oysters are amazing.
Speaker 1: But so, yeah, you know, I thought things went pretty well.
Speaker 1: The conversation was good. I drove her home, but no kiss,
Speaker 1: no talk of a second date, and no responses to
Speaker 1: my text. So I'm just wondering what I did wrong.
Speaker 1: Can you tell me what you said in your text
Speaker 1: after the date? Yeah, I just said that, hey, I
Speaker 1: had a great time, I'm looking forward to our next date.
Speaker 1: But that was it. Just ghosted after that. She didn't
Speaker 1: really say anything crazy. Can you think that I don't
Speaker 1: allow to go on it? Can you think back? Was
Speaker 1: there any sort of hesitation or awkwardness on the date? No?
Speaker 1: I think I think this was good because I mean, like,
Speaker 1: like I said that the food was great, that the
Speaker 1: view was awesome. Um, did you guys? I enjoy it? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: we had a couple of drinks. We didn't go crazy,
Speaker 1: but I mean the cocktails they are good. Oh yes, okay, Brian,
Speaker 1: Hold one second. We have her name is Marissa? Right? Yeah,
Speaker 1: we have Marissa's number. We're gonna try and get her
Speaker 1: on the line and see what we can find out.
Speaker 1: Why is she not responding to you after this wonderful day?
Speaker 1: You say on Air with Ryan Seacrest. On Air with
Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest. All right, let's get to a second eight update.
Speaker 1: So Brian rekindles with somebody met in high school. They
Speaker 1: go out. He says, they had a wonderful date at
Speaker 1: a place you've been to, Sycany. Yes, it's in Burbank,
Speaker 1: So it's a castaway and they created they created like
Speaker 1: a speak easy right next to it, and they called
Speaker 1: it the green Room. And it's really really a beautiful yeah,
Speaker 1: and it's a gorgeous like loungy bar. I guess you
Speaker 1: can have oysters. You've had the oysters as well. I
Speaker 1: don't know that I had the oysters when I was there,
Speaker 1: but definitely had the cocktails. And Brian is here. Brian,
Speaker 1: I need you to just be very quiet. We have Marissa.
Speaker 1: She's agreed to go on the air with us next.
Speaker 1: Let us find out why you think you had such
Speaker 1: an amazing date. And she's not responding to you. Okay, cool, thanks,
Speaker 1: all right, here we go, Marissa. Thank you for holding
Speaker 1: It's Ryan Seacrest, Sity and Tanya and Kiss FM. We
Speaker 1: appreciate your time. Hi Marissa, thank you. I just want
Speaker 1: to jump into might be a little strange, but jump
Speaker 1: into something. Did you go out meet a guy that
Speaker 1: you grew up with went out with him recently named Brian? Uh? Yeah,
Speaker 1: how was the date? Can you tell me how you
Speaker 1: felt during it? Uh? It was fine. I guess why
Speaker 1: are you calling me on the radio ballot? Because I
Speaker 1: have I have to ask you. I'm just gonna tell you.
Speaker 1: I have to ask you. We know a little about Brian,
Speaker 1: we know a little bit about the date, and we'd
Speaker 1: like to find out if there's any potential opportunity for
Speaker 1: you to go out with Brian again, and if not,
Speaker 1: why not? I mean, that's really why we're calling you. Um,
Speaker 1: I doubt it. I mean, am I just supposed to
Speaker 1: say on the radio why I don't want to go
Speaker 1: out with him again? I mean, it would make this easier,
Speaker 1: It would make this easier. Okay, Um, Well, he's just
Speaker 1: he's he's he's too nice. What like, He's just he's
Speaker 1: over the top nice to a degree that's super annoying. Okay,
Speaker 1: I can't I can't hear these words. I actually know
Speaker 1: what she's talking about. That's a problem. Stories about how
Speaker 1: it's so difficult to meet people and people are so
Speaker 1: caught up in themselves, and then you meet the nice
Speaker 1: guy and he's too nice. Can you give me an example? Yes,
Speaker 1: I need an example, Marissa. Well, okay, So he's the
Speaker 1: type of guy that when you, you know, when you
Speaker 1: get up to go to the bathroom, he stands up
Speaker 1: and then he does it again when you come back
Speaker 1: to your seat, Like, you know, what is that? That's
Speaker 1: not gonna lie? Okay, but there's probably way more than
Speaker 1: just that. What else? Okay? So like, um, we we
Speaker 1: sat at this table with this incredible view while we
Speaker 1: were waiting for a dinner table to be ready, you know,
Speaker 1: and I don't know if you know the the green room,
Speaker 1: but you can see the whole Zali and yeah, it's
Speaker 1: it's right after all that rain, so there's snow on
Speaker 1: all the mountains and the sun's going down. It's just
Speaker 1: it's insane. And this woman comes up and she's like, oh,
Speaker 1: you know, would you mind being because she has a
Speaker 1: family of four and it's the only table big enough,
Speaker 1: and you know, there's this other one that's for two
Speaker 1: people that we could sit at, and Brian's just like, oh,
Speaker 1: of course absolutely, And we go to the new table
Speaker 1: and we couldn't see anything from there. You know, it's
Speaker 1: like he's he's on this day with me, and he
Speaker 1: moves me to the worst table. I don't know that
Speaker 1: I feel like I want to feel right now. I
Speaker 1: want to feel a different way, to be honest with you,
Speaker 1: like I'm trying to help, but I don't know that
Speaker 1: I want to help. I have Brian on the phone.
Speaker 1: Brian is listening to this, and this is the first
Speaker 1: time I've heard of someone being blown off for being
Speaker 1: too nice, which Tanya says she understands, which I don't
Speaker 1: even want to hear, because I like the nice guy.
Speaker 1: I don't understand that. No, yes you do. It's not
Speaker 1: about the nice guy. You obviously want a nice guy,
Speaker 1: and there are nice guys out there, and it's not
Speaker 1: about the nice guy. It's the one that like is overbearingly.
Speaker 1: You know, if you have a sniffle and they ask
Speaker 1: you five times if you want to clean X, and
Speaker 1: then like, oh are you okay? Are you sure you're
Speaker 1: not cold to it? My jackie? If you say no
Speaker 1: five hundred times, you know what I mean? Like that
Speaker 1: type of have you never I'm gonna unhear all of this.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna unhear all of this, and I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: listen to this podcast later today for this. I'm not
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think I married the nice guy. No,
Speaker 1: I like the nice guy. Yeah, you guys, you're not
Speaker 1: hearing it. It's not the nice guy. It's like the
Speaker 1: annoying nice guy. Yeah. I don't find extra nice annoying either. Brian.
Speaker 1: We're standing up for you, bro. What do you have
Speaker 1: to say for yourself? A man um m Rissa. I
Speaker 1: I'm just I guess that's pretty much how the night
Speaker 1: what And I I don't know. I mean, I thought
Speaker 1: he they're they're a family of four, they could use
Speaker 1: this spot. And I'm kind of confused that you think
Speaker 1: I'm too nice. I know that, Like that's that's like
Speaker 1: the guys said, it's it's hard to come by, like
Speaker 1: people don't want to communicate anymore. And I'm trying to
Speaker 1: do the best I can do, just make you have
Speaker 1: a good time. Maybe a thing, maybe a thing with
Speaker 1: that table situation, Brian, you would it would have it
Speaker 1: would have gone better if you would have asked Marissa
Speaker 1: first before moving, you know, and she would have been like, no,
Speaker 1: I would rather stay here because of the view. And
Speaker 1: then that would have squashed that, you know. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: like I like nice to an extent, you know, but
Speaker 1: but but not like a pushover. I want like, you know, girls,
Speaker 1: like somebody who's like kind of cool and confident, and
Speaker 1: you know, we want brizz and we want someone with
Speaker 1: slagger or like we're just gonna fold you know. Well,
Speaker 1: well I get it. Yeah, I just I don't know.
Speaker 1: I felt like that was the right thing to do.
Speaker 1: So I just know I'm gonna just cut to the
Speaker 1: chase here because I feel a Brian, I'm on your side.
Speaker 1: I appreciate your candor, but the bottom line is, Marissa,
Speaker 1: for whatever reason, it sounds like we know he's not
Speaker 1: attracted to you. So we move on. And Brian, your
Speaker 1: stock's going up. Bro, your stock's going up with everything
Speaker 1: we hear you say. So I would not look back
Speaker 1: and think twice about this. Can I just say something? Um,
Speaker 1: some girls would be totally into that level of nice.
Speaker 1: I'm just not one of them. But I do believe
Speaker 1: you'll make someone extremely happy someday. I mean, that's good.
Speaker 1: I guess I should probably keep looking. Then. Yes, it's
Speaker 1: not a match. I'm Marissa. Thank you very much for
Speaker 1: your honesty, take care. Yeah, thank you, Yeah, thanks. I
Speaker 1: don't think you should change who you are. I think
Speaker 1: if you're overly nice in the long run, that is
Speaker 1: fantastic and we need more of that. Brian. We're getting
Speaker 1: text messages right now. We love Brian. I would love
Speaker 1: to day Brian. So there are women out there that
Speaker 1: love you. Yeah, keep it up, bright and good luck. Okay, buddy,
Speaker 1: not a match there. I've heard it all. Now, I've
Speaker 1: heard it all. Guy pulls out my chair. I don't
Speaker 1: like it. She kind of set because he stood up
Speaker 1: when she went into the bathroom. Was so good. I
Speaker 1: love so cool and that doesn't coast forever manners. That's
Speaker 1: so cool. And then he got it. Doesn't laugh. I
Speaker 1: mean it's like first material. I do it on holidays
Speaker 1: if your parents are there and my parents around it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you taught me to do this, right, what's the points points?
Speaker 1: I've never had a guy do that on a day ever, really,
Speaker 1: not once. I'm sorry, would you like it? I'm okay,
Speaker 1: let me text Robbie stand. Can you stand the next time?
Speaker 1: It's just I don't know, it's respectful to stay for
Speaker 1: anybody comes to the table to be honest. With you,
Speaker 1: Like when someone comes up to the table to say
Speaker 1: hello to me, I will stand as well. I don't
Speaker 1: stay I don't usually stay seated, right, well, yeah, somebody
Speaker 1: comes over to your table to talk to you, or
Speaker 1: someone joining us like late, right, I'll still. I'm up
Speaker 1: and down. I'm up and down. I'm up and down.
Speaker 1: I have a lot of fun at time.