WEBVTT - SECOND DATE UPDATE- The Camp Counselors

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<v Speaker 1>You know, if you missed the show, we have a

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<v Speaker 1>Can we do a second date update? If you're dating

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<v Speaker 1>right now, you gotta listen this because maybe even the

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<v Speaker 1>same situation recently, or if you're not dating, to be

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<v Speaker 1>very happy you're not. So Brian is on the line here,

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<v Speaker 1>and Brian is confused. He goes out with somebody who's

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<v Speaker 1>known for a long time. They rekindled. They used to

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<v Speaker 1>know each other when they were growing up, and she

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<v Speaker 1>commented a friend's Instagram story and it turns out they

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<v Speaker 1>have mutual friends. So how did you guys rekindle? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>So I DMed her and she remembered me and I

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<v Speaker 1>asked her out. I thought it was really cool. I

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<v Speaker 1>was wondering just why she doesn't respond to my text anymore?

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<v Speaker 1>So you went out with her or not? Yeah? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we wouldn't. Okay, you did an official date right? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly exactly. Why don't you tell us about Brian? Sure? Sure?

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<v Speaker 1>So you know we went to this place in Burbank

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<v Speaker 1>called the green Room. Uh, incredible views, incredible food. M

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<v Speaker 1>oh yeah, yeah, I love it. The oysters are amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>But so, yeah, you know, I thought things went pretty well.

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<v Speaker 1>The conversation was good. I drove her home, but no kiss,

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<v Speaker 1>no talk of a second date, and no responses to

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<v Speaker 1>my text. So I'm just wondering what I did wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you tell me what you said in your text

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<v Speaker 1>after the date? Yeah, I just said that, hey, I

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<v Speaker 1>had a great time, I'm looking forward to our next date.

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<v Speaker 1>But that was it. Just ghosted after that. She didn't

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<v Speaker 1>really say anything crazy. Can you think that I don't

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<v Speaker 1>allow to go on it? Can you think back? Was

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<v Speaker 1>there any sort of hesitation or awkwardness on the date? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I think I think this was good because I mean, like,

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<v Speaker 1>like I said that the food was great, that the

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<v Speaker 1>view was awesome. Um, did you guys? I enjoy it? Yeah? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we had a couple of drinks. We didn't go crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>but I mean the cocktails they are good. Oh yes, okay, Brian,

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<v Speaker 1>Hold one second. We have her name is Marissa? Right? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we have Marissa's number. We're gonna try and get her

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<v Speaker 1>on the line and see what we can find out.

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<v Speaker 1>Why is she not responding to you after this wonderful day?

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<v Speaker 1>You say on Air with Ryan Seacrest. On Air with

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan Seacrest. All right, let's get to a second eight update.

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<v Speaker 1>So Brian rekindles with somebody met in high school. They

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<v Speaker 1>go out. He says, they had a wonderful date at

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<v Speaker 1>a place you've been to, Sycany. Yes, it's in Burbank,

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<v Speaker 1>So it's a castaway and they created they created like

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<v Speaker 1>a speak easy right next to it, and they called

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<v Speaker 1>it the green Room. And it's really really a beautiful yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's a gorgeous like loungy bar. I guess you

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<v Speaker 1>can have oysters. You've had the oysters as well. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know that I had the oysters when I was there,

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<v Speaker 1>but definitely had the cocktails. And Brian is here. Brian,

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<v Speaker 1>I need you to just be very quiet. We have Marissa.

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<v Speaker 1>She's agreed to go on the air with us next.

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<v Speaker 1>Let us find out why you think you had such

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<v Speaker 1>an amazing date. And she's not responding to you. Okay, cool, thanks,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, here we go, Marissa. Thank you for holding

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<v Speaker 1>It's Ryan Seacrest, Sity and Tanya and Kiss FM. We

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate your time. Hi Marissa, thank you. I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to jump into might be a little strange, but jump

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<v Speaker 1>into something. Did you go out meet a guy that

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<v Speaker 1>you grew up with went out with him recently named Brian? Uh? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>how was the date? Can you tell me how you

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<v Speaker 1>felt during it? Uh? It was fine. I guess why

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<v Speaker 1>are you calling me on the radio ballot? Because I

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<v Speaker 1>have I have to ask you. I'm just gonna tell you.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to ask you. We know a little about Brian,

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<v Speaker 1>we know a little bit about the date, and we'd

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<v Speaker 1>like to find out if there's any potential opportunity for

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<v Speaker 1>you to go out with Brian again, and if not,

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<v Speaker 1>why not? I mean, that's really why we're calling you. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I doubt it. I mean, am I just supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>say on the radio why I don't want to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with him again? I mean, it would make this easier,

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<v Speaker 1>It would make this easier. Okay, Um, Well, he's just

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<v Speaker 1>he's he's he's too nice. What like, He's just he's

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<v Speaker 1>over the top nice to a degree that's super annoying. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't I can't hear these words. I actually know

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<v Speaker 1>what she's talking about. That's a problem. Stories about how

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<v Speaker 1>it's so difficult to meet people and people are so

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<v Speaker 1>caught up in themselves, and then you meet the nice

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<v Speaker 1>guy and he's too nice. Can you give me an example? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I need an example, Marissa. Well, okay, So he's the

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<v Speaker 1>type of guy that when you, you know, when you

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<v Speaker 1>get up to go to the bathroom, he stands up

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<v Speaker 1>and then he does it again when you come back

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<v Speaker 1>to your seat, Like, you know, what is that? That's

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna lie? Okay, but there's probably way more than

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<v Speaker 1>just that. What else? Okay? So like, um, we we

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<v Speaker 1>sat at this table with this incredible view while we

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<v Speaker 1>were waiting for a dinner table to be ready, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know if you know the the green room,

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<v Speaker 1>but you can see the whole Zali and yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's right after all that rain, so there's snow on

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<v Speaker 1>all the mountains and the sun's going down. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>it's insane. And this woman comes up and she's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, would you mind being because she has a

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<v Speaker 1>family of four and it's the only table big enough,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, there's this other one that's for two

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<v Speaker 1>people that we could sit at, and Brian's just like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>of course absolutely, And we go to the new table

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<v Speaker 1>and we couldn't see anything from there. You know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>like he's he's on this day with me, and he

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<v Speaker 1>moves me to the worst table. I don't know that

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I want to feel right now. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to feel a different way, to be honest with you,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm trying to help, but I don't know that

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<v Speaker 1>I want to help. I have Brian on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Brian is listening to this, and this is the first

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<v Speaker 1>time I've heard of someone being blown off for being

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<v Speaker 1>too nice, which Tanya says she understands, which I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even want to hear, because I like the nice guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand that. No, yes you do. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>about the nice guy. You obviously want a nice guy,

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<v Speaker 1>and there are nice guys out there, and it's not

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<v Speaker 1>about the nice guy. It's the one that like is overbearingly.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, if you have a sniffle and they ask

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<v Speaker 1>you five times if you want to clean X, and

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<v Speaker 1>then like, oh are you okay? Are you sure you're

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<v Speaker 1>not cold to it? My jackie? If you say no

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<v Speaker 1>five hundred times, you know what I mean? Like that

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<v Speaker 1>type of have you never I'm gonna unhear all of this.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna unhear all of this, and I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>listen to this podcast later today for this. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I think I married the nice guy. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I like the nice guy. Yeah, you guys, you're not

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<v Speaker 1>hearing it. It's not the nice guy. It's like the

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<v Speaker 1>annoying nice guy. Yeah. I don't find extra nice annoying either. Brian.

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<v Speaker 1>We're standing up for you, bro. What do you have

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<v Speaker 1>to say for yourself? A man um m Rissa. I

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just I guess that's pretty much how the night

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<v Speaker 1>what And I I don't know. I mean, I thought

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<v Speaker 1>he they're they're a family of four, they could use

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<v Speaker 1>this spot. And I'm kind of confused that you think

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<v Speaker 1>I'm too nice. I know that, Like that's that's like

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<v Speaker 1>the guys said, it's it's hard to come by, like

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<v Speaker 1>people don't want to communicate anymore. And I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 1>do the best I can do, just make you have

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<v Speaker 1>a good time. Maybe a thing, maybe a thing with

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<v Speaker 1>that table situation, Brian, you would it would have it

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<v Speaker 1>would have gone better if you would have asked Marissa

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<v Speaker 1>first before moving, you know, and she would have been like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I would rather stay here because of the view. And

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<v Speaker 1>then that would have squashed that, you know. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>like I like nice to an extent, you know, but

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<v Speaker 1>but but not like a pushover. I want like, you know, girls,

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<v Speaker 1>like somebody who's like kind of cool and confident, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we want brizz and we want someone with

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<v Speaker 1>slagger or like we're just gonna fold you know. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>well I get it. Yeah, I just I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I felt like that was the right thing to do.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just know I'm gonna just cut to the

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<v Speaker 1>chase here because I feel a Brian, I'm on your side.

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate your candor, but the bottom line is, Marissa,

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<v Speaker 1>for whatever reason, it sounds like we know he's not

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<v Speaker 1>attracted to you. So we move on. And Brian, your

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<v Speaker 1>stock's going up. Bro, your stock's going up with everything

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<v Speaker 1>we hear you say. So I would not look back

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<v Speaker 1>and think twice about this. Can I just say something? Um,

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<v Speaker 1>some girls would be totally into that level of nice.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just not one of them. But I do believe

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<v Speaker 1>you'll make someone extremely happy someday. I mean, that's good.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I should probably keep looking. Then. Yes, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not a match. I'm Marissa. Thank you very much for

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<v Speaker 1>your honesty, take care. Yeah, thank you, Yeah, thanks. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think you should change who you are. I think

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<v Speaker 1>if you're overly nice in the long run, that is

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<v Speaker 1>fantastic and we need more of that. Brian. We're getting

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<v Speaker 1>text messages right now. We love Brian. I would love

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<v Speaker 1>to day Brian. So there are women out there that

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<v Speaker 1>love you. Yeah, keep it up, bright and good luck. Okay, buddy,

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<v Speaker 1>not a match there. I've heard it all. Now, I've

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<v Speaker 1>heard it all. Guy pulls out my chair. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>like it. She kind of set because he stood up

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<v Speaker 1>when she went into the bathroom. Was so good. I

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<v Speaker 1>love so cool and that doesn't coast forever manners. That's

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<v Speaker 1>so cool. And then he got it. Doesn't laugh. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it's like first material. I do it on holidays

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<v Speaker 1>if your parents are there and my parents around it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you taught me to do this, right, what's the points points?

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<v Speaker 1>I've never had a guy do that on a day ever, really,

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<v Speaker 1>not once. I'm sorry, would you like it? I'm okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let me text Robbie stand. Can you stand the next time?

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<v Speaker 1>It's just I don't know, it's respectful to stay for

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<v Speaker 1>anybody comes to the table to be honest. With you,

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<v Speaker 1>Like when someone comes up to the table to say

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<v Speaker 1>hello to me, I will stand as well. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>stay I don't usually stay seated, right, well, yeah, somebody

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<v Speaker 1>comes over to your table to talk to you, or

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<v Speaker 1>someone joining us like late, right, I'll still. I'm up

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<v Speaker 1>and down. I'm up and down. I'm up and down.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a lot of fun at time.