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Speaker 1: Can we do a second date update? If you're dating

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Speaker 1: right now, you gotta listen this because maybe even the

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Speaker 1: same situation recently, or if you're not dating, to be

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Speaker 1: very happy you're not. So Brian is on the line here,

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Speaker 1: and Brian is confused. He goes out with somebody who's

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Speaker 1: known for a long time. They rekindled. They used to

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Speaker 1: know each other when they were growing up, and she

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Speaker 1: have mutual friends. So how did you guys rekindle? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: So I DMed her and she remembered me and I

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Speaker 1: was wondering just why she doesn't respond to my text anymore?

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Speaker 1: So you went out with her or not? Yeah? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we wouldn't. Okay, you did an official date right? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Exactly exactly. Why don't you tell us about Brian? Sure? Sure?

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Speaker 1: So you know we went to this place in Burbank

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Speaker 1: called the green Room. Uh, incredible views, incredible food. M

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Speaker 1: oh yeah, yeah, I love it. The oysters are amazing.

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Speaker 1: But so, yeah, you know, I thought things went pretty well.

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Speaker 1: The conversation was good. I drove her home, but no kiss,

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Speaker 1: Can you tell me what you said in your text

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Speaker 1: But that was it. Just ghosted after that. She didn't

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Speaker 1: really say anything crazy. Can you think that I don't

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Speaker 1: there any sort of hesitation or awkwardness on the date? No?

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Speaker 1: Hold one second. We have her name is Marissa? Right? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we have Marissa's number. We're gonna try and get her

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Speaker 1: Why is she not responding to you after this wonderful day?

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Speaker 1: You say on Air with Ryan Seacrest. On Air with

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Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest. All right, let's get to a second eight update.

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Speaker 1: So Brian rekindles with somebody met in high school. They

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Speaker 1: go out. He says, they had a wonderful date at

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Speaker 1: a place you've been to, Sycany. Yes, it's in Burbank,

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Speaker 1: So it's a castaway and they created they created like

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Speaker 1: but definitely had the cocktails. And Brian is here. Brian,

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Speaker 1: I need you to just be very quiet. We have Marissa.

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Speaker 1: She's agreed to go on the air with us next.

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Speaker 1: Let us find out why you think you had such

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Speaker 1: an amazing date. And she's not responding to you. Okay, cool, thanks,

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Speaker 1: all right, here we go, Marissa. Thank you for holding

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Speaker 1: It's Ryan Seacrest, Sity and Tanya and Kiss FM. We

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Speaker 1: appreciate your time. Hi Marissa, thank you. I just want

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Speaker 1: I don't understand that. No, yes you do. It's not

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Speaker 1: annoying nice guy. Yeah. I don't find extra nice annoying either. Brian.

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Speaker 1: We're standing up for you, bro. What do you have

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Speaker 1: that table situation, Brian, you would it would have it

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Speaker 1: stock's going up. Bro, your stock's going up with everything

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Speaker 1: I'm just not one of them. But I do believe

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Speaker 1: not a match. I'm Marissa. Thank you very much for

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Speaker 1: fantastic and we need more of that. Brian. We're getting

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Speaker 1: not a match there. I've heard it all. Now, I've

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Speaker 1: let me text Robbie stand. Can you stand the next time?

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Speaker 1: It's just I don't know, it's respectful to stay for

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Speaker 1: stay I don't usually stay seated, right, well, yeah, somebody

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Speaker 1: someone joining us like late, right, I'll still. I'm up

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