WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: British Guy Ditched and Dismissed

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking Jewels. Second Date Update. I've said this quite a bit,

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<v Speaker 1>but this is a first for the second Date updates,

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<v Speaker 1>and I say it a lot. Sometimes I'm lying and

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes I'm serious, and this time I am actually serious

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<v Speaker 1>because I guarantee the guy that's on the phone to

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<v Speaker 1>do a second Date update today probably has not heard

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<v Speaker 1>the show very much, if at all, in his life.

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<v Speaker 1>Our first ever international second date update. Oh really, it's right.

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<v Speaker 1>The guy that wants to do a second date update

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't even live in this country. Wow, he's on vacation here.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess that's what his email said. Let's just talk

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<v Speaker 1>to him, Brian. How are you? I'm very well mate,

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<v Speaker 1>How are you not too bad? I know it's real. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's real. Thank you for emailing the show.

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<v Speaker 1>It's interesting to get an email from you since you

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<v Speaker 1>don't even live here in America. And I'm assuming aren't

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<v Speaker 1>a big listener. No, I've never listened before. Actually, um.

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<v Speaker 1>The only reason I about it's from some friends of

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<v Speaker 1>mine that I talked to over here. Okay, okay, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>can I just ask real quick. We've had a British

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<v Speaker 1>guy on the phone before, and he turned out to

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<v Speaker 1>be a total phony, and he was only doing the

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<v Speaker 1>accent to get the girl. You're legit, right, absolutely? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Well where were you born? I was born in a

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<v Speaker 1>little town called Coventry. Oh, everybody says that such a

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<v Speaker 1>standard answer, only known for being bombed in the Second

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<v Speaker 1>World War. The next thing, you know, he's gonna say,

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<v Speaker 1>and he eats bangers and mash or something. My mum

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<v Speaker 1>makes a great bangers and mash. All right, so your

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<v Speaker 1>friends recommended that you email us. Why, Well, see, I

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<v Speaker 1>met this girl named Kelly, right, okay, and she's fantastic,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, just just a brilliant girl, she really is.

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<v Speaker 1>So I met her in the park. She was walking

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<v Speaker 1>a dog, right I was. And this is just for clarification,

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<v Speaker 1>this is here in America. You met her? Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>We got to chat in you know, because she was

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<v Speaker 1>walking this Dalmatian and I mean, it's it's just as

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<v Speaker 1>it was a beautiful little puffic. So I had to,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and she's beautiful too, so I had to,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, try and try and have a little conversation

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<v Speaker 1>with her. Unless be honest, you have some major self

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<v Speaker 1>confidence being here in America with that accent, because you

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<v Speaker 1>were I'm sure killing it with the ladies. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't hurt, you know, let's put it that way.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, honestly, really, I'm only interested in Kelly's I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>she's just she's she's brilliant, she's amazing. Okay, what was

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<v Speaker 1>so brilliant about her? I think that women in America

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<v Speaker 1>are a lot more kind, you know, a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>more gentle than the average US six girl. Let's put

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<v Speaker 1>it that way. I see, and then you are you

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<v Speaker 1>and I are opposite. That's why I'm always so attracted

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<v Speaker 1>to British girls. They seem cold and kind of rude,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's what I like in a woman. I do.

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<v Speaker 1>I really love it. And then that's them in a nutshell, mate,

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<v Speaker 1>let's switch places then. So I guess it was just

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<v Speaker 1>you know, her kindness, and you know, she seems really

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<v Speaker 1>gentle and approachable. And anyway, we we got to talking

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<v Speaker 1>for about, you know, about forty five minutes, and and

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<v Speaker 1>then eventually agreed to go out on a date. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>that's awesome. So you were excited obviously about the date. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, so she picked the restaurant because I have

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<v Speaker 1>no idea about you know, where we were or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>So she took the place. I said, you know, that's

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<v Speaker 1>no problem, and everything went really well. I mean, she

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<v Speaker 1>looks beautiful from head to toe, you know, amazing. We

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<v Speaker 1>had a we had a great meal, a great conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>It was fantastic, you know. When then we agreed to

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<v Speaker 1>contact each other again, and I've tried and nothing, flat line,

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<v Speaker 1>nothing at all. Can you think of any awkward moments

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<v Speaker 1>on your date that you had with her? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>we both speak English, yes, obviously, thank you, kind of

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<v Speaker 1>there's still like a little language barrier because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you can I always call a boot of a car

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<v Speaker 1>and you know the trunk and you know all of

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<v Speaker 1>that stuff. Right. So I called her a classy bird.

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<v Speaker 1>Class bird. It is like she's really classy. I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Kelly, you are one classy bird. And she,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, she looked to me like she's a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit confused, you know, And and then I tried to

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<v Speaker 1>explain that that was a good thing, and then she's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't really think it is. But so

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't like being called a classy bird, huh. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think she did. No, I think she's too classy

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<v Speaker 1>to be called a class in America. Just let you know,

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<v Speaker 1>classy bird you replace it with stupid dame. No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't. That would have won her over, man. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I think that's unfair. You haven't. I mean, you've

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<v Speaker 1>called her brilliant, you've called her beautiful, you've called her classy.

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<v Speaker 1>What more could a girl? What? Those are like dream compliments?

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<v Speaker 1>See now when you list them like that, maybe I

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<v Speaker 1>was just overdoing it, you know, like overcomplimented over no,

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<v Speaker 1>no way. Women here are used to nice rack and

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<v Speaker 1>like that's it. Yeah, yeah, well that's a compliment. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't so all right, and let me ask you this.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you interested in actually dating her because you said

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<v Speaker 1>you're on vacation, right, yeah, but I mean I traveled

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<v Speaker 1>to America about three or four time a year, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, I mean she can always come and

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<v Speaker 1>visit me, all right. You might be interested in the

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<v Speaker 1>long distance thing with that, But maybe that's it. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she fell so hard for you that night that she

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't want to call again because she can't see herself

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<v Speaker 1>in a long distance relationship and she doesn't wanter heartbroken.

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<v Speaker 1>I think Brooke fell in love with you or something.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want more time with her. You know, who

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<v Speaker 1>knows where it's going to go, right, But at this

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<v Speaker 1>point in time, I know that I would like to

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<v Speaker 1>find out, you know, I'd like I'd like to be

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<v Speaker 1>with us some more. All right, well let's see if

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<v Speaker 1>we can help you. We're gonna play a song, come back,

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<v Speaker 1>call her and get your second date update. Okay, sounds good,

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<v Speaker 1>All right, hang on maybe okay, that's pretty close, right, No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>not really, hang on, we'll do it right out brooking

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<v Speaker 1>jubil in the morning. If you're just joining us for

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<v Speaker 1>today's second date update. Brian is on the phone with

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<v Speaker 1>us and Brian, I've come to one conclusion, of course,

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<v Speaker 1>that mate, that you are the worst dater on the planet.

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<v Speaker 1>WHOA I hate to break it to you. How'd you

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<v Speaker 1>come to that? Well, you're an englishman visiting America and

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<v Speaker 1>you got a date with an American girl and now

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<v Speaker 1>she's not giving you a call back. That's it, because

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<v Speaker 1>any English dude who goes out with an American girl

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<v Speaker 1>always going to get a call back every single time.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you would think so, you know, it's almost

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<v Speaker 1>like shooting fishing a barrel. That's why it's so weird.

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<v Speaker 1>To me that you're not getting a call back out.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me just refresh everybody's memory. So Brian met Kelly

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<v Speaker 1>out at the park. They went out to go grab

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<v Speaker 1>some dinner. He says that everything went pretty smoothly, except

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<v Speaker 1>for one moment where he called her a classy bird

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<v Speaker 1>and she didn't understand that was a compliment. And now

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<v Speaker 1>she's not calling him back. He's in town for how long?

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<v Speaker 1>You in town for nother? Nine days? Another nine days

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<v Speaker 1>and he would like to see her again before he

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<v Speaker 1>heads back to England. So we're going to call her

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<v Speaker 1>and find out why she's not calling him back. And Brian,

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<v Speaker 1>we never heard. How did the date end? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it ended with a little kiss and we agreed to

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<v Speaker 1>call each other. We agreed to see each other again.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I'm a little miffed. OK. I hate it

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<v Speaker 1>when British men are miffed. Yeah, I am missed. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm dialing her phon number right now here we go. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>Hi is this Kelly? Yeah? This is Kelly. Hey Kelly,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? This is jew Bil from Brooke and

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel in the Morning. I'm sorry, I don't know who

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<v Speaker 1>that is. Jew Bil from Brooke and it's a radio show. No,

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<v Speaker 1>not believe it is a radio show. I promise you, Kelly,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have to disagree with Sorry, guys, I really

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what's going on. All right, Well I'll explain

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<v Speaker 1>it to you. A guy that you went out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with emailed us and asked if we could

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<v Speaker 1>call you. Oh really, Yeah. His name is Brian. Brian. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>British Brian. Yeah, you can't forget British Brian. Why is

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<v Speaker 1>he emailing you, guys? Because he told us that you

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<v Speaker 1>guys went out on a date and he really liked you,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's only in town a little while longer and

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<v Speaker 1>he wanted to see you again. But you're not responding

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<v Speaker 1>to any of his phone calls or text messages, and

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<v Speaker 1>he had to call the radio station. Apparently his friends

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<v Speaker 1>thought it would be a good idea to get a

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<v Speaker 1>hold of us to see if we could find out

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<v Speaker 1>why you won't call him back. That's really weird. Why

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<v Speaker 1>would anybody do there? We actually a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>do it. We have a segment on our show called

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<v Speaker 1>the Second Date Update, and that's exactly what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>Brian's friends told him that it might be a good

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<v Speaker 1>idea to have us call you and find out what

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<v Speaker 1>went wrong. That's not weird at all. You mind telling

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<v Speaker 1>us what it is then? I mean he was nice.

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<v Speaker 1>We had a really good date, not just a sun

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't really want to see him making you.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it because he lives in England? Oh yeah, a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit, Okay, I can understand that. I mean, he

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<v Speaker 1>said he comes to America a lot, but a long

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<v Speaker 1>distance relationship will be tough. I mean it's not so

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<v Speaker 1>much the distance, um, but it's the other part about

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<v Speaker 1>being from England. What what's the other other part? The drinking?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you what do you mean the drinking Like

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<v Speaker 1>all the movies I've seen, all the English guys go

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<v Speaker 1>to the pub after work and just slam beer after

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<v Speaker 1>beer and get crazy drunken. I'm not No, that's not

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<v Speaker 1>for me. Wait wait wait, wait wait, you're basing your

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<v Speaker 1>opinion on someone based on movies you've seen. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>just movies, it's the TV shows, is the dudes reports,

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<v Speaker 1>It's like the whole English cultures just is pretty much

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<v Speaker 1>how they do things. Did he get drunk on your date? No,

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't get drunk on our date. He was probably

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<v Speaker 1>just trying to be on his best behavior. So you're

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<v Speaker 1>telling me that you think that he gets hammered all

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<v Speaker 1>the time, and that's why you don't want to call

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<v Speaker 1>him back. Absolutely. I know English guys, like I've seen everything,

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<v Speaker 1>and they go out to the bars after the pubs,

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<v Speaker 1>and they get drunk with the guys and they sing

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<v Speaker 1>all of British songs and they make up stuff, and

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<v Speaker 1>I've seen it all. You think that's kind of generalizing

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<v Speaker 1>him being British a little bit. No what I'm saying, No,

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<v Speaker 1>that's such a stereotype. That's like saying he should have

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<v Speaker 1>bad teeth? Does he have bad teeth? Not only doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>have a bad teeth. But I've seen English culture, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>have you been to England? Have you ever visited England? No?

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<v Speaker 1>But I've seen plenty of TV shows. All right, So

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<v Speaker 1>you're convinced that if you were to date this dude,

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<v Speaker 1>he would just be getting drunk all the time. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys keep asking me the same question. I'm telling you.

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<v Speaker 1>For me, that's not gonna work for me. That's not

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<v Speaker 1>my lifestyle. I don't want a guy that's going out

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<v Speaker 1>to the pub every single day with his guys get

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<v Speaker 1>drunk arrested. Phone calls from the police side that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not doing it jumped. Well, phone calls from the police.

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<v Speaker 1>He's getting arrested and getting drunk. Did he seem like

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<v Speaker 1>he was that type of dude on your date? He

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<v Speaker 1>didn't seem that way. But I mean English, did you?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you ever like? I don't know, ask him if

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<v Speaker 1>that's what he does every night? I didn't ask. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to ask. I heard him. No, All right,

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<v Speaker 1>well i'd like to ask him. Well, go ahead, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't care. Okay, Well, I'll ask him right now because Kelly,

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<v Speaker 1>he's actually on the other line listening to this phone

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<v Speaker 1>call wants to talk. What do you mean he's on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone. I mean he's listening in and wants to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you, Brian. Are you still there? Yeah? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>still here. Okay, good. You haven't gone to the pub yet? Nice? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, hello, Kelly. Ever had when you learn

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<v Speaker 1>these mythical things about English boys? What what's going through

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<v Speaker 1>the ahead of yours? I know English culture, Brian. I've

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<v Speaker 1>seen all the movies. I've seen everything. You guys like

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<v Speaker 1>soccer after every soccer game is a brawls, always fighting,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm not. I don't want that kind of lifestyle.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, like I just don't want to. Have you

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<v Speaker 1>ever been to a football match. I've been to American

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<v Speaker 1>football games, and I know there's not like a ton

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<v Speaker 1>and gang of people fighting after the game. We don't

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<v Speaker 1>have fights after the games. It's I mean, there's only

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<v Speaker 1>the you know, the louts and the hooligans and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's only like every so often. It's not it's

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<v Speaker 1>not like every day he was it. You know. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even drink. I have a beer like once

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<v Speaker 1>in a while. I don't even I don't even drink

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<v Speaker 1>that much. Oh so just one beer. So one beer

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<v Speaker 1>for breakfast, one beer for lunch, one beer, one beer

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<v Speaker 1>for a nightcas. I don't know. I don't know who

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<v Speaker 1>you've been, what movies you've been watching, and what English

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<v Speaker 1>English blokes have been portrayed like this. But it's not me.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not me, Love Brand You're really a good guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate you staying sober on a date for me.

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<v Speaker 1>It was really nice. But I don't want you to

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<v Speaker 1>change who you are for me at all. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>know who I am. Just be who you are. I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know where are you getting all of this from?

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<v Speaker 1>If this is this is infuriating, I mean that's like

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<v Speaker 1>me saying that you know that all Americans like to

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<v Speaker 1>get out out there on the whole season and hunt

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<v Speaker 1>them some pigs and and eight thysen teageburgers. It's no

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<v Speaker 1>the same is I mean? Well, I do have to

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<v Speaker 1>say a lot of US Americans like getting on our

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<v Speaker 1>horses and hunting pigs and eating burgers. So you might

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<v Speaker 1>have got you might have got it right there, Brian. Well, hattie, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>this is getting really ridiculous. Are we done here? No, Kelly,

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<v Speaker 1>We're not done yet. I do have a question for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you like to go on a second date with Brian?

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<v Speaker 1>We will pay for it one more date before he

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<v Speaker 1>leaves to go back to London. It's just a culture thinking.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't really think I've been in with

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<v Speaker 1>his ways. Oh my god, Kelly, you are listening out

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<v Speaker 1>on a good guy. You're ignorant stereotype that you have,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to drop it. I don't thinking my stereotypes

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<v Speaker 1>are ignorant or stupid at all. Like, what don't you

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<v Speaker 1>know about my stereotypes. That's why they're my stereotypes. That's

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<v Speaker 1>how I feel. Alright, that's my pa. I'm not that guy, Kelly.

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<v Speaker 1>Give me a chance at least to prove to you

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm not the you know, football shorts hooligan that

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<v Speaker 1>goes out and sings all the loud songs and smashes

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<v Speaker 1>windows and you know, and and cut people from trom

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<v Speaker 1>cheek to cheek. But I'm not. I'm not one of those,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. I'm not one of those guys. I'm not. See,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I'm talking about. I didn't even know you

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<v Speaker 1>did all that, so that he wasn't admitting to doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>He was staying he doesn't do those things. Kelly. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry to you know, just pop this phone call

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<v Speaker 1>on you and thank you for being honest with us.

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<v Speaker 1>At least I appreciate it. Guys, but I really don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk to him anymore. Okay, that's fine. I

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<v Speaker 1>have a good one, Kelly, goodbye, all right, see it, Hey, Brian, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome to American Buddy. Yea in the morning texted and

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<v Speaker 1>at seven eight five nine two that says I'm a redhead.

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder if that Kelly girl thinks that I'm evil

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<v Speaker 1>and will steal her Soul's talking about today's second Date update,

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<v Speaker 1>Brian wanted to call a girl named Kelly that he

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<v Speaker 1>went out with. He's an English dude who's actually in

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<v Speaker 1>town on vacation, and his friends recommended that he called

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<v Speaker 1>to do a second day update. He's obviously never heard

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<v Speaker 1>the show before. We're not huge in London, I know yet,

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<v Speaker 1>So he called and tried to get in contact with

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<v Speaker 1>this girl, Kelly, who he went out with. We got

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<v Speaker 1>her on the phone and the reason why she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to go out with him again before he left town.

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<v Speaker 1>He's English and she assumes that means he just drinks

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<v Speaker 1>all day long and he's like a soccer who again

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<v Speaker 1>he's getting in fights and getting drunk all day long,

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<v Speaker 1>and she just didn't want to deal with that in

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<v Speaker 1>her life. You know, I feel disappointed because the time

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<v Speaker 1>I've been to England, the only out of control drunk

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<v Speaker 1>people I saw were other American tourists, right. I know,

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<v Speaker 1>that's kind of a bummer. I'm missed out on that one.

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<v Speaker 1>He made his case over and over again, like I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not how I am. I barely even drink, but

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<v Speaker 1>she did not believe him. She's like, yeah, right date,

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<v Speaker 1>they are not going out again, but still he's getting

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<v Speaker 1>lots of text in its eight five nine two of

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<v Speaker 1>many people who are interested in going out with an Englishman.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think he'll be all right. Remember you want

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<v Speaker 1>to do a second at update. All you have to

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<v Speaker 1>do is email the show and we will call the

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<v Speaker 1>person who didn't call you back ninety two point five

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<v Speaker 1>five