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Speaker 1: What's up, Y'all's your girl Les Pete and it's your

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Speaker 1: girls dre and and you are tuned in to another

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Speaker 1: episode of Poor Mine.

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Speaker 2: We're a drunk mind speaks sober thought. We gotta guess today,

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Speaker 2: we gotta guess today.

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Speaker 1: I I've got the little I want.

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Speaker 3: You cutting up today. I can already tell this.

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Speaker 4: Is about to be a crazy episode, bro like with

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Speaker 4: these crazy as me.

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Speaker 1: And this has been a long time coming to what

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Speaker 1: did I lie? Before we get into that, introduce yourself

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Speaker 1: and you don't do all the little rundowns.

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Speaker 5: Okay, y'all, I'm introducing V one and the Only, the

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Speaker 5: Trap Karaoke King, the main event.

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Speaker 3: From God.

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Speaker 2: Really him stopped playing.

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Speaker 6: Also known as the King of New York mouse Jo.

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Speaker 6: Was that good enough?

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Speaker 2: Not really phenomenal?

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Speaker 6: I thought I did a good job. That was beautiful.

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Speaker 6: I'll take it from here.

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Speaker 1: This is this is what a lot of enthusiastic and

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Speaker 1: mouse don't get along.

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Speaker 3: Let's get into it.

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Speaker 6: Hey, that's right, said, thank you for having me, you yall.

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Speaker 6: You know that my dog fight for y'all, so I'm glad.

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Speaker 3: Have you ever fought for me?

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Speaker 2: He said? He would?

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Speaker 6: You know what tape the time.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to mouse is about to beat some

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Speaker 2: people up for me.

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Speaker 6: We do not. I don't play about dress, don't don't

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Speaker 6: play with it, not when I'm around.

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Speaker 2: It was in the Daly.

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Speaker 6: Fucking with Chad.

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Speaker 2: It was real ippy in it.

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Speaker 6: I gotta tell chat about his yellow ass. You want

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Speaker 6: to be me, that's what it is. You know. Those

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Speaker 6: dark skin niggas really set the tone.

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 4: There's a lot of delusional people in his room. One

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Speaker 4: of them seeing next to you as well.

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Speaker 6: Oh you.

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Speaker 1: Are mad at me because I'm a chocolate goddess and

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Speaker 1: that's why you're chocolate guys.

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Speaker 6: You're not.

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Speaker 2: I am okay.

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Speaker 6: You know what we are doing so well that I

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Speaker 6: don't want you to be on the block called colors.

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Speaker 6: So let's just move. I don't want it to happen.

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Speaker 6: They're gonna get you'll just keep it moving. Let's just

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Speaker 6: keep this ship.

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Speaker 2: I'm a chocolate god.

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Speaker 6: You know what.

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Speaker 1: I will say this though, I think it is silly.

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Speaker 1: You know that black people do that because we all

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Speaker 1: we are you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 6: But I think some of us are talking and others.

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Speaker 3: I mean, that's okay, but.

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Speaker 6: I deserve to be celebrated for.

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Speaker 1: But I think it's crazy how we do categorize like,

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Speaker 1: oh no, you're a brown skin, you're dark skin, you're

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Speaker 6: I think it's stupid, but I think it's necessary a

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Speaker 6: the same time, because everybody needs to be seen what

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Speaker 6: everybody needs to be seen that.

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Speaker 2: I mean in darker skin.

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Speaker 4: People do that to each other too, because remember Lauren

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Speaker 4: did to me when she came on the show.

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Speaker 3: What she saying.

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Speaker 2: Remember she kept saying, she was like, you're not dark skinned. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: she said, you're at the beginning of the line. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: like the dark skin girls liked is at the beginning

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Speaker 6: We're lying to get into dark skin. You might have

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Speaker 6: to call somebody go get you.

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Speaker 1: What like matter.

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Speaker 2: Is when people are like.

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Speaker 6: This, I might have to call I can see Dre

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Speaker 2: Then I'm gonna have to try to sneak in y'all lines.

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Speaker 7: I'm already I'm already in, I'm hosting, I'm kin and

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Speaker 7: I'm like this, you not in the party, child mouth,

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Speaker 7: We're not even about to do this.

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Speaker 6: But I think it's important, right, I think I think

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Speaker 2: To categorize each other, not to categorize.

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Speaker 6: I hate that term. Yeah, so that term stinks, but

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Speaker 6: I think it's important to I think it's important to

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Speaker 6: place emphasis on everyone's individuality. Right, Black people are not

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Speaker 6: So if there are brown people, they should be celebrated.

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Speaker 6: Chocolate people should be celebrated, Piss color people should be

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Speaker 6: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't know yellow color people not people.

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Speaker 6: There's some dirt, there's some like dirty yellow people like

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Speaker 2: No red is red yellow? Different?

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Speaker 1: But okay, but when you put it like that, that

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Speaker 3: But I'm just people do it the other the other way.

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Speaker 2: And for so long they said monoliths. I already kind

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Speaker 2: of sell what this episode gonna be. All Right, A

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Speaker 2: woke king period.

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Speaker 1: Big words, big mouse not Okay, before we get into

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Speaker 1: these topics, let me ask you this, what does somebody.

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Speaker 2: Want to have Whipster's Dictionary?

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Speaker 1: Because I don't know nothing. Because I can tell you

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Speaker 1: about these big words, and.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what none of that big words.

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Speaker 6: I didn't know neither. It's a glass. I got to

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Speaker 6: take the glasses off. ABC.

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Speaker 3: I'm back to nig Yes, thank you.

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Speaker 6: At least at least you don't give me one smile today,

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Speaker 6: one smile based off the thing I said one. Oh

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Speaker 6: my god, shut up.

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Speaker 2: To at least everybody give it up for at.

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Speaker 6: Least we don't understand. It's this hard. An't performing to

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Speaker 2: Said that. They about to start asking at least for

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Speaker 6: Least at least got a hive.

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Speaker 2: We talked about her. It's clean because we talk.

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Speaker 6: About I can believe it because uh we got a

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Speaker 6: even ask for a percentage, just smile when I make

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Speaker 3: He just wants you to live play Kate.

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Speaker 6: Thank you No, But that's just really I think it.

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Speaker 6: Want to come to podcast and people love to hear

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Speaker 6: all we used to Chay or the girl he used

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Speaker 6: to help us out Chay Chay hive and they used

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Speaker 3: Oh no, no, that's not what I'm thinking about.

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Speaker 6: What you're thinking about?

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Speaker 3: No, I thought it was somebody else.

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Speaker 6: But yeah, chay. But now we got Kim, our engineer,

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Speaker 6: and he's fucking nineteen twenty years old. But like they'll

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Speaker 6: just be like, what are I talking to Kim about? Right?

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Speaker 6: We want to know bring him on the show?

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Speaker 2: Not happening. They used to do that with us.

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Speaker 4: So when we used to have an engineer at our

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Speaker 4: I'm like, we're.

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Speaker 6: Gonna bring him on the show and you're gonna hear

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Speaker 2: But see, we used to let him talk though, like

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Speaker 2: a you know.

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Speaker 6: Him in nineteen years old.

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Speaker 2: I'm a third member.

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Speaker 6: I'm not trusting no nineteen year old on our platform.

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Speaker 6: I'm weak.

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Speaker 2: We know he might have something profound to say.

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Speaker 6: He don't have nothing profile to say when the acroso because.

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Speaker 3: Nothing profound to say.

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Speaker 1: Okay, wait before we get into it, I have to

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Speaker 1: time and I've never asked you this, where does the

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Speaker 1: name mouse come from?

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Speaker 6: First of all, that's a very that that the question

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Speaker 6: you just asked me. The build up was not there.

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Speaker 6: I'm sorry, We're gonna get something else.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, all right, but I've never asked you that.

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Speaker 6: So mouse comes from. So growing up I had I

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Speaker 6: so when I was born, the doctor, the nurse, and

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Speaker 6: And then my mom started calling me my government name

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Speaker 6: he would always call me mousie, m o U s y.

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Speaker 2: It was just mouse show, So you went from mouseie

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Speaker 3: I like it.

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Speaker 4: I thought she was gonna say some ship like because

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Speaker 6: I thought, I mean, it probably all played into it. Sneaky.

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Speaker 6: I'm sneaky.

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Speaker 4: I used to rob niggas, but like, I think, you

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Speaker 4: I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 3: I thought I was going for the more of the

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Speaker 6: You come on?

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Speaker 6: I had to ask you, thought that's all gonna say

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Speaker 3: I ain't gonna lie on snitching.

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Speaker 2: It's different nowadays niggas is snitching and walking around.

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Speaker 4: They're good, but I don't think they They're not in

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Speaker 6: Certain niggas, certain niggas in this I don't even like

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Speaker 6: talking about. But there certain niggas who who snitch, and

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Speaker 6: you know whos snitch and they'll tell you they snitch. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: And I'm not talking about a civilian who told like

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Speaker 6: do your tax pay customer. If you do something to him,

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Speaker 6: I don't play with civilians. But I never played with civilians.

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Speaker 6: I never robbed no civilian never did. That's fucked up.

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Speaker 6: They don't play by the same rules. So then what happened.

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Speaker 6: So when they go tell I'm supposed to I'm supposed

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Speaker 6: But that's dumb. You did something to a civilian. They

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Speaker 2: No? You don't pay Taxis.

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Speaker 2: It was a period of time, you know, I was

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Speaker 6: Oh wait, once again, I'm a tax paying citizen. Do

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Speaker 6: is there more compass of the show from when I

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Speaker 6: gathered you know what.

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Speaker 1: I'm a I'm a good pay my taxes, my ties. Okay, I'm.

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Speaker 2: Single.

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Speaker 4: Ain't even know the song the President of the Presidence

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Speaker 4: of the Lord. You didn't even know the song?

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Speaker 3: I sing it again?

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Speaker 2: Know you sing because we know we were singing it.

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Speaker 3: God is good.

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Speaker 1: All right, okay, all right, man, let's get into these topics.

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Speaker 3: Mine, come on on, mine.

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Speaker 4: Of this first topic, we wanted to talk about. The

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Speaker 4: main reason why most men are singles. It's because the

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Speaker 2: The body shape that they want.

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Speaker 6: Oh, y'all appreciate today, Doc, Yeah, that's good. Actually a

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Speaker 2: So we want your thoughts.

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Speaker 6: Oh, that's one thousand percent correct. It's one of the

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Speaker 2: Like a lot of.

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Speaker 6: Niggas it's a it's a more a number of us

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Speaker 6: you ran the game. You know that term we use

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Speaker 6: this game, you've played nice or you you know, you

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Speaker 1: So we feel like women are a little smarter now too.

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Speaker 1: So that's why kind of a lot of men are single.

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Speaker 6: I don't think they're smarter. I think they've always had

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Speaker 4: I think what you said that's an interesting philosophy though,

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Speaker 4: Like I know, as a woman, I'm not going to

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Speaker 6: So women choose when we have sex. A man chooses

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Speaker 4: Right, And I might put the I might, you know,

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Speaker 4: little hints. But we're not going to get in a

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Speaker 6: Like I said, I think there's a multitude of reason,

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Speaker 6: I think right under that. It's something I spoke about

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Speaker 6: with all the success that black women are achieving, right,

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Speaker 6: I only date black women, So that's what I'm talking.

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Speaker 2: About, so big mouse.

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Speaker 6: So I think with the level of success, unprecedented success,

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Speaker 6: Like you guys could have easily just been pretty girls.

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Speaker 6: But there's a business acumen that you guys have that

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Speaker 6: level of success. That's gonna make it very hard for

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Speaker 6: a good or bad thing. It makes it a thing,

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Speaker 6: right because if you're not careful, and I'm talking about

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Speaker 6: you'll allow your dvantage point to affect your perspective. So

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Speaker 6: what does that mean? That means because you're now at

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Speaker 6: an elevated level of success. Now you're around different things,

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Speaker 6: I was saying was, don't allow your vantage point to

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Speaker 6: So he might be a UPS worker and he might

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Speaker 6: I don't know the chain of come in, but like

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Speaker 6: you might you don't want to see a nigga in

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Speaker 6: I don't want to see no nigga, no brown shoe.

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Speaker 6: I need nigga to do that. But that nigga is

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Speaker 6: still a good nigga. He can still provide for you,

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Speaker 6: But your vantage point now says I'm up here, I

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Speaker 1: But you know, because of what he just said, how

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Speaker 1: feel like if you meet a nigga like that and

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Speaker 2: More you do that.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't see the problem with it, because

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Speaker 1: I feel like when you're in a relationship, we're supposed

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Speaker 2: But but you got to get in a relationship with

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Speaker 1: I work hard to get here, so it's not my

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Speaker 3: But it's like if we're really.

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Speaker 6: Also we got to be very careful as men and women,

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Speaker 6: we have to be very careful when it comes to

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Speaker 2: Like I know people are going to.

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Speaker 6: Do that, right, So what I'm saying is when it

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Speaker 6: when it comes to putting your men on or putting

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Speaker 6: Sometimes they are very comfortable where they're at, and there's

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Speaker 6: They are still gonna pour it. See what we're not

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Speaker 2: I don't want nobody that's comfortable.

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Speaker 6: They don't want they don't want to be put on.

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Speaker 6: They don't want your They want to be they want

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Speaker 6: They don't want to get into our world, and we're.

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Speaker 4: I mean putting them on, respectively, with whatever it is

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Speaker 6: So you know what I call that Instead of putting

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Speaker 6: I'm pouring into you. I'm so super supportive. I got

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Speaker 2: Trying to bring her into your world, you know.

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Speaker 1: But let me ask you this though, because I feel

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Speaker 4: I mean, it's growing, it's growing.

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Speaker 6: They are, but I don't feel like I don't know

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Speaker 6: But unfortunately a lot of those men, all right here,

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Speaker 2: We love a good word.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, A lot of those men end up in

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Speaker 6: Or I'm so inundated with fucking, fucking antiquated thoughts that no,

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Speaker 4: Big word, bring back lex Just pull out your phone

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Speaker 4: next time.

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Speaker 2: Crow.

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Speaker 6: Mine both got like college degrees and shit, I don't

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Speaker 4: That's why nigga thing out of jail be very entitating.

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Speaker 4: Y'all didn't work out.

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Speaker 6: I spent eight twelve hours in jail my entire life.

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Speaker 6: I've spent twelve hours.

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Speaker 2: And you talk about what I'm saying why I get

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Speaker 6: I'm like a nigga in jail would say, you win.

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Speaker 6: I was raised by a jail niggas, so that's why.

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Speaker 2: That's probably why I got in trouble.

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Speaker 2: that too, and write a report. She didn't make me

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00:20:22,520 --> 00:20:23,879
Speaker 2: write a report, but she did used to make me

446
00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:24,800
Speaker 2: read the encyclopedia.

447
00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:26,480
Speaker 4: And my mom was a nurse, so she had like

448
00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:29,080
Speaker 4: all of these medical journals when I was ring, and

449
00:20:29,119 --> 00:20:31,159
Speaker 4: she used to make me read the medical journals, and

450
00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:33,679
Speaker 4: she that's why I was scared the club a while.

451
00:20:35,040 --> 00:20:36,680
Speaker 4: I've seen all type of sheeting mood.

452
00:20:37,040 --> 00:20:38,880
Speaker 6: I do think, like I said, I do think those

453
00:20:38,920 --> 00:20:41,760
Speaker 6: men should be experiencing like an epidemic of being single

454
00:20:41,760 --> 00:20:43,959
Speaker 6: and be like, I can't find nobody. But the problem

455
00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:47,280
Speaker 6: is that type of thought price That type of man

456
00:20:47,880 --> 00:20:51,680
Speaker 6: is an abusive man nine times out of ten, and

457
00:20:51,760 --> 00:20:54,080
Speaker 6: it leads to putting that woman in a cycle of

458
00:20:54,119 --> 00:20:57,600
Speaker 6: abuse to where he may not physically abuseful, but he's

459
00:20:57,600 --> 00:21:01,840
Speaker 6: emotionally and mentally inverbally abused at her. So he find like,

460
00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:05,040
Speaker 6: I never understood this, this thought process where men have

461
00:21:05,119 --> 00:21:08,880
Speaker 6: to like break a bitch down. I never understood that, right,

462
00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:11,280
Speaker 6: So that is the type of man you're talking about.

463
00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:13,960
Speaker 6: I never understood that because I don't. I don't get

464
00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:16,520
Speaker 6: anything out of my bitch not feeling when she walk

465
00:21:16,560 --> 00:21:18,280
Speaker 6: in the door. She don't feel like the baddest bitch

466
00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:20,840
Speaker 6: in the room. Then I don't. I feel I did something.

467
00:21:20,680 --> 00:21:23,320
Speaker 4: Wrong, but I feel like because what it comes from,

468
00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:25,960
Speaker 4: Because if you break somebody down and they no longer

469
00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:28,320
Speaker 4: feel that way, then they feel like they need you,

470
00:21:28,760 --> 00:21:30,800
Speaker 4: And I think that's all. And then you also it's

471
00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:34,240
Speaker 4: an ego thing. You also don't have to match up, right.

472
00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:38,000
Speaker 4: I like, there's nothing more inspiring.

473
00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:40,000
Speaker 6: Than meeting a woman that am attracted you and I

474
00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:43,080
Speaker 6: want and I want to love it. Then she's on

475
00:21:43,240 --> 00:21:45,320
Speaker 6: her ship. I gotta get on my shit because I

476
00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:47,480
Speaker 6: don't want to waste her time. I don't want to

477
00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:51,000
Speaker 6: just be here holding space. You know what I'm saying.

478
00:21:51,040 --> 00:21:54,480
Speaker 6: I want to feel, like I said earlier. If I

479
00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:56,959
Speaker 6: show up and you already got a good job, and

480
00:21:57,000 --> 00:21:58,879
Speaker 6: you already got a house, and you already got your

481
00:21:58,880 --> 00:22:01,560
Speaker 6: credit together, you you listening to earn your least, you

482
00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:04,000
Speaker 6: got stocks and bonds and all of this. Well, when

483
00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:07,679
Speaker 6: I show up, I'm most men are like, fuck, you

484
00:22:07,720 --> 00:22:12,720
Speaker 6: don't need me. That's a lie. You just can't. You

485
00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:16,680
Speaker 6: just can't enact the void that she needs filled, which

486
00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:21,040
Speaker 6: is typically an emotional one, but security one, a one

487
00:22:21,080 --> 00:22:24,679
Speaker 6: of that doesn't have sometimes you need a nigga that

488
00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:27,560
Speaker 6: could say, bitch, that outfit looks stupid, But you can't

489
00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:30,119
Speaker 6: even get to that point because you're so caught up

490
00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:32,439
Speaker 6: in my money. She don't need me for my money.

491
00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:36,440
Speaker 6: That's what them niggas is going through. So so yeah,

492
00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:39,119
Speaker 6: when you're jealous of a woman, it's because you're not

493
00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:39,879
Speaker 6: pouring into her.

494
00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:42,720
Speaker 4: And the crazy thing is it be niggas sometimes will

495
00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:45,359
Speaker 4: be having the money, like they already got the money,

496
00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:47,800
Speaker 4: and they still be jealous because I think, I think

497
00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:50,080
Speaker 4: a normal perspective that most people look at it from.

498
00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:52,199
Speaker 4: It's like, Okay, you're doing better than the niggas, so

499
00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:53,040
Speaker 4: that's why he's jealous.

500
00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:57,560
Speaker 1: But sometimes is beyond this. It's beyond it.

501
00:22:57,280 --> 00:23:01,400
Speaker 6: Because you're still doing better than them. We you mean men. Yeah,

502
00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:06,080
Speaker 6: sometimes you like me. I'll say it about y'all. The

503
00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:08,520
Speaker 6: reason I love y'all so much is because y'all are

504
00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:10,080
Speaker 6: just I'm When I'm in a room with y'all, I

505
00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:13,040
Speaker 6: just feel better. I just feel better like y'all are

506
00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:18,560
Speaker 6: just so y'all are literally great spirits. Energy. Yeah, a

507
00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:21,199
Speaker 6: nigga who don't got good energy? If you know how

508
00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:24,400
Speaker 6: many niggas with money we know.

509
00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:27,520
Speaker 4: I mean that's why I can agree with a lot

510
00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:29,720
Speaker 4: of the ship that you're saying because coming from a

511
00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:32,960
Speaker 4: perspective of somebody who I like, I feel like most

512
00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:35,680
Speaker 4: of the guys that I've dated that were me and

513
00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:36,960
Speaker 4: of a certain caliber.

514
00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:41,240
Speaker 2: However you know about yeah, like how most.

515
00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:44,960
Speaker 4: People would you know, define it like them niggas was

516
00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:45,639
Speaker 4: not good people.

517
00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:50,560
Speaker 2: They weren't. They were trash ass people. But that's all

518
00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:51,040
Speaker 2: you need.

519
00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:53,840
Speaker 4: But I feel like like, if you start dating somebody

520
00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:56,400
Speaker 4: and they are trash ass person, but in that specific

521
00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:58,639
Speaker 4: time in your life you need the money or you

522
00:23:58,680 --> 00:24:01,400
Speaker 4: need the financial security, you will put up with those things.

523
00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:03,240
Speaker 4: And I think that that's how those type of men

524
00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:05,320
Speaker 4: are so able to get away with those things, because

525
00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:08,040
Speaker 4: let's be honest, it's so many beautiful women who they

526
00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:09,679
Speaker 4: really don't be having nothing going on.

527
00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:11,639
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not trying to be funny. That was

528
00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:13,640
Speaker 1: us that one Yeah, when we first started this show.

529
00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:15,560
Speaker 1: I think that's why the show has changed so much.

530
00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:17,239
Speaker 1: And that's what I love about I say this all

531
00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:19,520
Speaker 1: the time because when we started the show, it was

532
00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:22,120
Speaker 1: get you a BDB girl, get you a nigga with money.

533
00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:23,359
Speaker 2: Gets you But and it's still there.

534
00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:26,080
Speaker 1: I mean, it's still that very much want a man

535
00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:29,320
Speaker 1: who has money, who's ambitious, but it's not that's not

536
00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:30,240
Speaker 1: my first problem.

537
00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:31,720
Speaker 2: It's not the first priority.

538
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:33,080
Speaker 3: Does he have money or not?

539
00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:34,560
Speaker 1: That used to be like the first thing I would

540
00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:36,879
Speaker 1: search for and like a man, and now it's like

541
00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:38,000
Speaker 1: now making money.

542
00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:39,880
Speaker 6: Y'all, y'all, don't y'all women.

543
00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:40,879
Speaker 3: It's beyond that.

544
00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:44,800
Speaker 6: My job to understand that I don't understand women, and

545
00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:47,160
Speaker 6: like it's like my superpower. It'll be like, I don't

546
00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:50,200
Speaker 6: understand women, and I know I don't understand women because

547
00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:54,080
Speaker 6: like to a man, to a man like me, right

548
00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:58,680
Speaker 6: who I've always engaged with my attractiveness. I've always from

549
00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:01,040
Speaker 6: a very early early, from a very early age, I

550
00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:04,359
Speaker 6: knew I was attractive, and I've seen how women and

551
00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:07,439
Speaker 6: girls would act around me, and I knew how to

552
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:10,000
Speaker 6: sure if that's what we're gonna call it.

553
00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:14,360
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is he's a maddie period.

554
00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:19,760
Speaker 6: I like that, but so so being able to interact

555
00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:21,600
Speaker 6: with that, I've been able to move a different way.

556
00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:23,560
Speaker 6: So when I look at it, so I kind of

557
00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:25,600
Speaker 6: look at ship the same way women look at it

558
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:27,840
Speaker 6: when they see when like when you see a fine

559
00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:30,960
Speaker 6: nigga with a girl, like the fuck is financing? I'm

560
00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:33,520
Speaker 6: always I'm like what or like when I pull up

561
00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:35,480
Speaker 6: on a girl and you start dating, I'd be like

562
00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 6: that nigga was ugly at ship? Why are you here?

563
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:41,399
Speaker 8: Do you think I'm not your type?

564
00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:47,399
Speaker 6: Don't care about I'm not y'all. Don't care about women.

565
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:50,399
Speaker 6: Most women that I experienced don't care about looks. And

566
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 6: I don't think like I can't survive you.

567
00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:58,000
Speaker 2: I care about certain things. I do things that are

568
00:25:58,000 --> 00:25:59,359
Speaker 2: not negotiable for me.

569
00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:02,520
Speaker 4: You don't have to be traditionally attractive, but like to

570
00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:05,600
Speaker 4: be but.

571
00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:13,760
Speaker 8: No, traditionally you can traditionally no, but.

572
00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:15,399
Speaker 1: No, I don't feel that way. I don't feel like

573
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:17,920
Speaker 1: I've ever dated nobody that was but asked ugly.

574
00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 2: I don't dated a few. I don't dated a few.

575
00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:23,920
Speaker 2: I can kind of on to end.

576
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, she had like literally going on dates like interact,

577
00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:30,159
Speaker 1: so you getting to know them, Like he.

578
00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:33,439
Speaker 6: Texted you where you're at, You're gonna answer where you at? Okay,

579
00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:35,000
Speaker 6: that is some fine niggas.

580
00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:36,760
Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like it's equal for me though

581
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:37,720
Speaker 1: it's to be good.

582
00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:40,440
Speaker 2: I feel like traditionally.

583
00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:46,400
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, she said, I'm not getting not the European.

584
00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:50,199
Speaker 6: It's not getting answered. Let's go got that make up,

585
00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:51,600
Speaker 6: you're not fucking stuff.

586
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:53,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm not gonna lie.

587
00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:55,840
Speaker 1: I feel like if people try to pull Drea's car,

588
00:26:56,080 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 1: I agree with her because what about they're not they're

589
00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:04,680
Speaker 1: not dead ass ugly that.

590
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:06,560
Speaker 6: They might not be subjectively ugly.

591
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:09,400
Speaker 2: Yes, who you asking?

592
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:12,359
Speaker 4: It depends on who you're asking, because I got friends

593
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:15,280
Speaker 4: where it's like certain niggas that I've dated, they would

594
00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:17,520
Speaker 4: never date to me, they would never look.

595
00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:21,200
Speaker 2: You can like me and you're dating and you.

596
00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:26,760
Speaker 6: Will never ever question. It can be always they've said.

597
00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:31,760
Speaker 2: Somebody everybody thinks was made the same way. There's always

598
00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:34,159
Speaker 2: somebody who be like, okay, she I are he alright?

599
00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:38,360
Speaker 1: Oh no, I mean but some niggas hidden there's somebody

600
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:39,720
Speaker 1: out that is like mouse's.

601
00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:41,240
Speaker 2: A I think me and that judge of the men

602
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:42,880
Speaker 2: looks it's kind of weird.

603
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:45,119
Speaker 3: Is that weird judge you.

604
00:27:46,600 --> 00:27:49,399
Speaker 6: Ugly? Because you know, but then I'd be like I

605
00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:54,160
Speaker 6: told you, but you say that even if he got

606
00:27:54,320 --> 00:28:00,760
Speaker 6: like certain characteristics, like if he not breaking.

607
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 2: Like nigga got nice tea. I've said that okay ugly,

608
00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:09,320
Speaker 2: but he got nice.

609
00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:11,680
Speaker 6: So I'm good, Like like I'm gonna tell you the truth.

610
00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:13,960
Speaker 6: I'm also a nigga who's when it comes to that

611
00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 6: ship you.

612
00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:17,840
Speaker 2: Like, there's some niggas who are just like universally fine

613
00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:20,280
Speaker 2: and there's some niggas who are universally ugly.

614
00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:25,560
Speaker 6: Like that remote you know how to remote turn on

615
00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:31,240
Speaker 6: any TV? That nigga turned off any bit unbiversally was good.

616
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:39,880
Speaker 6: Damn it. I can't get at least nothing, I mean,

617
00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:43,680
Speaker 6: at least at least own a company boy. Sear God,

618
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:45,360
Speaker 6: she got a real poker.

619
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 2: But like I said, I feel like, you know, I

620
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:50,520
Speaker 2: have never cared about looks.

621
00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:52,880
Speaker 3: Like I said, when I'm an, I feel.

622
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:54,960
Speaker 2: Like your nigga like fine niggas back in the day.

623
00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:55,960
Speaker 2: I feel like you back.

624
00:28:55,880 --> 00:28:56,320
Speaker 6: In the day.

625
00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:59,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, well no, I'm not saying it.

626
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:02,200
Speaker 2: I'm not saying I'm.

627
00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:02,600
Speaker 6: The only one.

628
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:06,200
Speaker 3: Okay, You're my only fine nigga, Okay whatever.

629
00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:09,400
Speaker 4: I ain't saying that you've lost your touch, but I

630
00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:12,560
Speaker 4: just think that's not like one of your top qualifiers anymore.

631
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:14,800
Speaker 4: But I feel I think that it used to be though,

632
00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:17,240
Speaker 4: like you used to be like bitch, Yes, a fine.

633
00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:20,479
Speaker 1: Think you be shocked when a girl is kind of

634
00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:23,000
Speaker 1: like because you'd be like, I'm fine and I'm mouse.

635
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:26,800
Speaker 6: No, you don't know that gets hung up like no,

636
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:27,440
Speaker 6: absolutely not.

637
00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:29,000
Speaker 2: That's not your pro not at all.

638
00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:32,880
Speaker 6: You can ask anyone. I'm not.

639
00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:36,520
Speaker 3: Because a lot of men in your position that are fine.

640
00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:38,960
Speaker 6: Yeah, but I have more to offer than that. I

641
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 6: just that is just you just lead with that.

642
00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:43,360
Speaker 2: It's face and its body is just the plug.

643
00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:47,480
Speaker 6: Buddy, body is still covid. I'm gonna have to go

644
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:49,520
Speaker 6: see one of your doctors. I'm about I'm about tired

645
00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:50,920
Speaker 6: of this work.

646
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:52,200
Speaker 3: Because this is all natural.

647
00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:54,480
Speaker 2: I was about to say, we'll see thank you.

648
00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:59,360
Speaker 6: You know post childish.

649
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:00,880
Speaker 2: I don't know.

650
00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:05,000
Speaker 1: It was said, why when we every time I post

651
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:06,880
Speaker 1: the picture, niggas be under my pictures.

652
00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:09,960
Speaker 2: Like natural, Just do it post.

653
00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:13,760
Speaker 6: I'll be like natural? Why do I said?

654
00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:13,960
Speaker 9: God?

655
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:16,040
Speaker 6: I said, boy, I beat you up. I played with

656
00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:23,160
Speaker 6: what he says, just like bitch nigga, Like okay.

657
00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:26,120
Speaker 2: There was somebody from the pork room. They're not playing about.

658
00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:29,080
Speaker 6: All right. I love them in real life.

659
00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:31,280
Speaker 3: With your looks. But you know you're track.

660
00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:34,640
Speaker 6: But it's because you shouldn't a qualifier, bro, like I

661
00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 6: just looks a qualifier Like it's like with me, I

662
00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 6: know if it's one thing you ain't ever because dating me, I.

663
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:44,080
Speaker 2: Get it's like for lightly, yeah, I get it.

664
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Speaker 6: When you're dating me, it's like a roller coaster. This

665
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Speaker 6: is so at least they need to shut the funk up.

666
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Speaker 6: Whoever is telling you that they said about you? Yeah,

667
00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:59,600
Speaker 6: roller coaster said about I said the niggas. I can't

668
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Speaker 6: see it though we get along so well.

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Speaker 2: Now he thought somebody told me girl damn mouse is like.

670
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Speaker 6: But I'm just saying, I get it, dm me. It's

671
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Speaker 6: a lot of ups and damn, it's a lot of damn.

672
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Speaker 6: But what I'm saying is one thing about me you'll

673
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Speaker 6: never have to question, is if you find because you

674
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Speaker 6: know I ain't gonna be here again. I know that

675
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Speaker 6: I'm very you.

676
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Speaker 2: Might have to question that about me. That's what we did.

677
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Speaker 6: I can't do that. I can't one one. I'm just

678
00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:28,440
Speaker 6: too vain. I'm too vaine. So you already know you

679
00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:30,040
Speaker 6: No woman with me is gonna be ugly.

680
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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie no one.

681
00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:34,680
Speaker 6: No one's eyes.

682
00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:40,080
Speaker 4: Like, so you feel like every single woman, every day,

683
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Speaker 4: every like you ain't got no little ug mugs that

684
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Speaker 4: you hit don't lie prior my prim They could be

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Speaker 4: like yeah.

686
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Speaker 6: My oldest daughter.

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Speaker 2: Oh fuck, that could be like yeah, fucked with my mouse.

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Speaker 2: No not ugly, okay, but but even given your meat out.

689
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Speaker 6: Material for who plastic barriers, like did it really happen?

690
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Speaker 2: Oh my god. That's why.

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Speaker 6: Some sixes and five. Nothing below a five.

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Speaker 4: It's I fee like anything below a five you just

693
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Speaker 4: being mean because can you really be lower than.

694
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Speaker 2: The five.

695
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Speaker 6: Ring in this podcast?

696
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Speaker 2: You feel like somebody could be lower than a five.

697
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Speaker 2: I feel like a five is like the if you

698
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Speaker 2: find somebody everybody in the world is five.

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Speaker 6: In the bus you are trying to sell something that

700
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Speaker 6: trying to get sold, y'all.

701
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Speaker 1: I feel like I ain't never just seen nobody where

702
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Speaker 1: I was like, I can't find nothing cute about you.

703
00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:53,760
Speaker 4: If you have to, everybody got something cute about It

704
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Speaker 4: might even be your pinky toe, but it's something pink is.

705
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Speaker 6: Probably that's why you can't nobody be attendant now with

706
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:02,080
Speaker 6: me because I have that pinky to be ugly.

707
00:33:04,560 --> 00:33:05,320
Speaker 2: On that pinky toad.

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Speaker 6: That's wild. That brings you down two points.

709
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Speaker 2: So you feel like woman. But if you don't got

710
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Speaker 2: a people.

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Speaker 6: I don't believe in tens because the pinky toad tells

712
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Speaker 6: the truth.

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Speaker 1: But let me ask you this, So you feel like

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Speaker 1: every woman that you have dealt with, like emotionally and

715
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Speaker 1: dated has been a bad bitch?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, like serious.

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Speaker 6: Relationships, they might not feel that about each other because

718
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Speaker 6: you know how they get. Yeah, yeah, but you know

719
00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:30,640
Speaker 6: every woman's like that bitch doesn't even like, yes, you

720
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:33,120
Speaker 6: was stop, what are we doing? Yes, she was fine.

721
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Speaker 1: But that's I think it's very important. I think all

722
00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:40,560
Speaker 1: men need to hear that that are listening. It's very important.

723
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Speaker 1: Even if you have the baddest bitch in the world,

724
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Speaker 1: she's posting pictures and getting twenty thousand likes and five

725
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Speaker 1: hundred comments, you still better compliment her every fucking day

726
00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:52,600
Speaker 1: because guess what out of all those likes, in all

727
00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:54,240
Speaker 1: those comments, I don't care because I.

728
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Speaker 3: Want to hear it from you.

729
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Speaker 6: And that's that's that's a shame.

730
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Speaker 2: We even got tell niggas that that's a shame.

731
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Speaker 6: If you know what, if we have to tell the

732
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Speaker 6: nigga that that is the type of nigga he was

733
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Speaker 6: talking about earlier, he's not doing it by accident. It's

734
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Speaker 6: not like he's jealous. He's upset. He wants her to

735
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Speaker 6: want He's doing that to.

736
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Speaker 2: Break the bitch down.

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Speaker 6: That's really what he's doing. He's that's really what you

738
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Speaker 6: he's That's really what every nigga doing. And I'll take

739
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Speaker 6: that one. I'll stand on that one. Any nigga that

740
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Speaker 6: know his bitch bad. She got a bunch of followers

741
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Speaker 6: and all that. If you on Instagram, no, I'm not

742
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Speaker 6: telling my nigga. Wi't be on Instagram like that. If

743
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Speaker 6: you want Instagram like everybody else, picture, but you can't

744
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Speaker 6: tell you a bit. She find you trying to break

745
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Speaker 6: her down, and that's corny. That's corny. That's that's a

746
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Speaker 6: weak nigga.

747
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Speaker 3: That is corny.

748
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Speaker 6: Now now I'm the first one tell you, I don't

749
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Speaker 6: care how many followers you got a lot or a little.

750
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Speaker 6: Once I start liking you, I'm not liking ship. I'm

751
00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:50,839
Speaker 6: not not common well, I don't comment anyway, but once

752
00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:55,160
Speaker 6: I start liking it, because it's like, nouse, bitch, you

753
00:34:55,400 --> 00:35:00,960
Speaker 6: make me mad. What that caption means when you when

754
00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:02,799
Speaker 6: we get home, we got talked for me.

755
00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:04,440
Speaker 4: It's not like that. I just feel like when we

756
00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:06,480
Speaker 4: started dating, I don't really want to.

757
00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:10,080
Speaker 6: Like, yeah, I know, that's why we like get serious.

758
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Speaker 2: That's wild.

759
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Speaker 4: She don't fuck with you because she when I say,

760
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Speaker 4: looks like everybody pictures.

761
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Speaker 3: Oh, I do like everybody pictures anytime.

762
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Speaker 2: I mean on the timeline.

763
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Speaker 4: Because I rarely ever scrawled through Instagram, you ain't gonna

764
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Speaker 4: never really see me like nobody pictures.

765
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Speaker 2: I never really look check checked on.

766
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Speaker 6: She didn't respond for days later. And that's why I like,

767
00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:30,160
Speaker 6: here's my number. I was being a good friend. I'm

768
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Speaker 6: checking all.

769
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Speaker 2: I never checked nothing.

770
00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:35,520
Speaker 4: I literally get on Instagram, post pictures, look at people stories,

771
00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:36,320
Speaker 4: and then I get.

772
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Speaker 3: Off like my pictures and her best other friends pictures.

773
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Speaker 4: And that because I never because I don't scrawl my timeline,

774
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Speaker 4: so I never see the other people that I follow pictures.

775
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:48,759
Speaker 4: But yeah, like, so let's don't like your pictures. She

776
00:35:48,760 --> 00:35:50,040
Speaker 4: don't fuck with you because when I.

777
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Speaker 2: Say everything everybody, me and mouse, I'm playing.

778
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Speaker 6: I know you, let's pack it. What the mouse done

779
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Speaker 6: to piss you off?

780
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Speaker 3: It's just sing. You know, we're not gonna get too

781
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:06,680
Speaker 3: deep into it. But you know, I.

782
00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:09,640
Speaker 2: Don't know, you know, I don't know.

783
00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:11,359
Speaker 6: I don't know ship. It's two people want to getting

784
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:12,279
Speaker 6: no ship. You want to feel.

785
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:13,200
Speaker 2: I don't want to feel.

786
00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:18,000
Speaker 3: We're not gonna get into my legs. Well we'll discuss.

787
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Speaker 4: We're gonna unpack after the show. We don't have at

788
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789
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Speaker 1: Not everybody about to be comments mouth.

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Speaker 6: It is it is? It's that I want you to know.

791
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Speaker 6: Is that which one of mine right here? It's that.

792
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Speaker 6: It's that, It's really that and she's playing on on

793
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Speaker 6: your internet.

794
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Speaker 2: Okay, So the conclusion was these niggas ship get curious.

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Speaker 2: Uh, we're not there yet, we're out there yet, but

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Speaker 6: That was four play.

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Speaker 2: So we wanted to know, you know, shoult me in

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Speaker 6: Motherfucking versus because okay, so let me explain situation. My

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Speaker 6: kids situation is a little different than everybody else's. So

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Speaker 6: I had my oldest daughter at seventeen, I was not

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Speaker 6: with her mother. Her mother was somebody's girlfriend who I

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Speaker 6: didn't like. So that was God getting me back. That's

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Speaker 6: what you get. So that was and then I've had

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Speaker 6: custy of us since she was three. The next time

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Speaker 6: I had a child, five years later, I was married

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Speaker 6: to my baby mother. Me and her were together. So

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Speaker 6: when my child was one month, was her mama. So

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Speaker 6: and then we didn't we didn't get divorced. So well,

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Speaker 6: my Sonny was five four or five five six man

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Speaker 6: six one when we broke up. So I don't know

867
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Speaker 6: about that life. But do I think they should?

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00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:22,239
Speaker 9: Uh?

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00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:26,279
Speaker 6: Baby father is not a relationship title. So if a

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Speaker 6: nigga has a baby but he's not with the baby mother,

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Speaker 6: I don't see why he shouldn't be.

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Speaker 1: There's too much going father that is there all the

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Speaker 1: time and helping. You really don't have time because let

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Speaker 1: me tell you, a newborn with a mom, you don't

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Speaker 1: have time.

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Speaker 6: Today if they're not together. Yeah, if they're not together.

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Speaker 6: See this would y'all have to stop payting ship with

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Speaker 6: b brushes and a lot of that is these niggas

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00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:56,560
Speaker 6: fought for fucking it up for the rest of us.

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00:40:56,800 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 6: But like I said, baby father is not a relationship.

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00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:05,760
Speaker 6: If we've all seen it, it's unfortunately it's the norm

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00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:14,799
Speaker 6: now niggas be together that baby.

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00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:19,080
Speaker 2: I want to talk about that. It doesn't work.

884
00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:22,800
Speaker 1: It doesn't work because when you're like, if you're dating

885
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:25,600
Speaker 1: like a woman like me, I require time and attention.

886
00:41:25,800 --> 00:41:28,319
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie ship if I want you.

887
00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:31,799
Speaker 1: If I have a show in fucking Ohio and I

888
00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:33,640
Speaker 1: want you to be there, nigga, come out and.

889
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:37,160
Speaker 3: Support me and let's do you always.

890
00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:41,359
Speaker 2: I'm just saying we got we beefed up right now.

891
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:42,480
Speaker 2: That's another topic.

892
00:41:42,520 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 1: But anyways, I feel like if you have a newborn

893
00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:49,560
Speaker 1: child and you're dating a woman like me to talk

894
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:52,600
Speaker 1: about these I require time and attention. If you have

895
00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:54,399
Speaker 1: a newborn you're not going to be able to give

896
00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:56,520
Speaker 1: that to me. I like to get up and go.

897
00:41:56,600 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 1: I like to get up and do things. So if

898
00:41:58,120 --> 00:41:59,760
Speaker 1: you have a newborn child, you can.

899
00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:02,640
Speaker 6: True, especially in those early months, that baby gotta be

900
00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:04,120
Speaker 6: up under the mama all the time.

901
00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:06,120
Speaker 3: Okay, I mean times.

902
00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:08,319
Speaker 6: You should see a nigga with a two week oldr Now,

903
00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:08,879
Speaker 6: you know I'm going.

904
00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:13,560
Speaker 2: To need breaks. Mothers need.

905
00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:14,680
Speaker 6: Big mama.

906
00:42:15,840 --> 00:42:21,920
Speaker 1: I'm with mothers. No, but this is why women they go.

907
00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:26,000
Speaker 1: Postpartum depression happens because you, I mean, yeah, a baby

908
00:42:26,080 --> 00:42:28,080
Speaker 1: is supposed to be under the mom a lot when

909
00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:31,160
Speaker 1: they're first born, but that woman needs a fucking break

910
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:33,640
Speaker 1: and you're nowhere to be found because you want a rule,

911
00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:34,840
Speaker 1: but with a bad bitch like me.

912
00:42:37,080 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 6: So you may not be able to date a man

913
00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:42,240
Speaker 6: with children or have sex with the men I'm saying someone,

914
00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:45,279
Speaker 6: I'm saying that men like painting it with this bro

915
00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:49,239
Speaker 6: brush as if all men are like shackle to the

916
00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:50,719
Speaker 6: baby mother. No matter wouldn't be.

917
00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:52,520
Speaker 1: You need to be shackled to your baby, and you

918
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:54,640
Speaker 1: need to be available at all times. So if your

919
00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:57,239
Speaker 1: baby mama calls you, you need to be available to

920
00:42:57,320 --> 00:42:59,000
Speaker 1: go and do whatever you have to do for your

921
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:00,120
Speaker 1: child because it's a new.

922
00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:02,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, but you put provisions in order, like, hey, listen,

923
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:04,560
Speaker 6: I'm going out of town for a few days if

924
00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:04,839
Speaker 6: you need.

925
00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:09,920
Speaker 2: Let people don't do that. I'm dated a person with

926
00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:11,840
Speaker 2: a kid, Well, you dated the wrong.

927
00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 6: With a kid, because that's one of the first things

928
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:16,760
Speaker 6: that me and my baby always.

929
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:18,880
Speaker 1: Do because I'd a few dudes who have told me

930
00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:21,160
Speaker 1: like I gotta do some stuff with my kids. I

931
00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:23,759
Speaker 1: gotta do stuff with my kids. That's people that are

932
00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:28,200
Speaker 1: properly communicating. Let's not act like majority of people.

933
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:32,600
Speaker 2: Can dating somebody who can't properly communicate with you about

934
00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:35,239
Speaker 2: what they got going on with they maybe mama are

935
00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:37,320
Speaker 2: with their child when y'all are together.

936
00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:39,480
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying is a lot of people don't

937
00:43:39,480 --> 00:43:40,640
Speaker 1: know how to properly co parent.

938
00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:42,759
Speaker 3: That's all I'm saying. I'm just playing Devil's aking. I'm

939
00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:43,240
Speaker 3: being honest.

940
00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:48,880
Speaker 1: But most relationships are not healthy co parenting situations.

941
00:43:48,960 --> 00:43:50,399
Speaker 3: Let's be honest like they're not.

942
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 2: So the things that y'all are saying.

943
00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:55,360
Speaker 1: Mouse, One thing I know about mouse and I have

944
00:43:55,680 --> 00:43:56,840
Speaker 1: I date men with kids.

945
00:43:56,840 --> 00:43:58,200
Speaker 2: We all date men with kids.

946
00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:01,600
Speaker 1: If you're not a good farther, it's not even a

947
00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:06,800
Speaker 1: question that I'm talking like that because so you're talking

948
00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:09,520
Speaker 1: about that's one of the first things that you pay

949
00:44:09,560 --> 00:44:11,600
Speaker 1: attention to is if the man is a good day. Right,

950
00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:14,680
Speaker 1: So your situations are unicorn situations.

951
00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:15,440
Speaker 3: Let's keep it one hand.

952
00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:19,160
Speaker 6: How when we say that unicorn, I mean a lot

953
00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:19,960
Speaker 6: of good fathers.

954
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:24,040
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, when we say unicorns, definition of a lot? Right,

955
00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:24,680
Speaker 2: a lot?

956
00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:27,239
Speaker 6: My definition is that we have you too have not

957
00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:30,960
Speaker 6: experienced all the men in America just say that is

958
00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:34,080
Speaker 6: a lot of no. So I think a better preference.

959
00:44:34,320 --> 00:44:36,319
Speaker 6: And I'm not telling black women how to speak. I'm

960
00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:42,839
Speaker 6: just saying a better a bit more well received. A

961
00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:47,440
Speaker 6: comment would be the men I experienced, Okay, the men, well, no,

962
00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:50,600
Speaker 6: because the men I experienced a good father, you know

963
00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:52,799
Speaker 6: what I'm talking about, Because I have a lot of.

964
00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:58,120
Speaker 1: Unicorn No, but weated a lot of a lot of.

965
00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:02,880
Speaker 4: Because also for me, I'm not also just speaking on

966
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:04,680
Speaker 4: people that I've dated.

967
00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:06,120
Speaker 2: I'm speaking on street that.

968
00:45:06,120 --> 00:45:11,239
Speaker 1: I've seen, my children and talk about friends, listen, talking

969
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:12,280
Speaker 1: about associates.

970
00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:15,040
Speaker 6: Like just one thing I will continue to say my

971
00:45:15,080 --> 00:45:17,600
Speaker 6: whole life, my whole career in this entire podcast is

972
00:45:17,600 --> 00:45:20,560
Speaker 6: if there's one thing niggas gonna do, it's embarrass me. Okay,

973
00:45:20,760 --> 00:45:24,120
Speaker 6: niggas are gonna be embarrassing. They embarrassed, all right, and

974
00:45:24,160 --> 00:45:27,440
Speaker 6: they're gonna make it hard to defend them. But if

975
00:45:27,480 --> 00:45:30,399
Speaker 6: the truth is the truth, there's a lot of men

976
00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:33,360
Speaker 6: out here take care of their kids, take care of

977
00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:36,600
Speaker 6: their responsibilities. And I would if we just look at

978
00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:39,439
Speaker 6: the numbers the men are at home, the men at

979
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:42,359
Speaker 6: home with the family staining. So I don't know if

980
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:44,720
Speaker 6: they're I don't know if we need to do like another.

981
00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:46,759
Speaker 3: We need a census going on another sens.

982
00:45:48,160 --> 00:45:50,400
Speaker 6: Yeah, but these niggas.

983
00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:53,320
Speaker 4: All right, and I know from a different perspective because

984
00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:56,080
Speaker 4: you have custody on one of your kids, right, niggas not.

985
00:45:58,680 --> 00:46:00,640
Speaker 6: Guess would they would let me say that, and let

986
00:46:00,680 --> 00:46:02,000
Speaker 6: me say this, Let me say this, let me say this,

987
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:08,040
Speaker 6: let me say this judicial system is so fucked. I've

988
00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:09,719
Speaker 6: never spoken about anyway. This is be the only place

989
00:46:09,760 --> 00:46:12,160
Speaker 6: I've spoken about it. Well, I'm about to say, poor

990
00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:15,920
Speaker 6: mind exclusive, this is what I'll say.

991
00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:18,000
Speaker 2: Y'all have to put some music.

992
00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:27,720
Speaker 6: I didn't music. I'm being so serious. I've never spoken

993
00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:29,960
Speaker 6: about anyway. And y'all know I'm very proud of with

994
00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:33,040
Speaker 6: my family. When it comes to that child right there,

995
00:46:33,040 --> 00:46:35,359
Speaker 6: my oldest. She was three or three years old when

996
00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:38,640
Speaker 6: I got cussy of her. The fight, the fight I

997
00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:42,080
Speaker 6: had to fight to get cutty of that child from

998
00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:47,160
Speaker 6: a terrible fucking home they were willing to put my daughter.

999
00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:49,440
Speaker 6: At one point they did. At one point I had

1000
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:52,520
Speaker 6: cutty of my child. They took her from me, put

1001
00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:56,600
Speaker 6: her in a shelter with her mother, just to say

1002
00:46:56,640 --> 00:47:01,160
Speaker 6: the child was her mother. I I can count on

1003
00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:03,839
Speaker 6: two hands how many times I've cried in my entire life.

1004
00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:05,520
Speaker 6: It's not a healthy thing I get about or whatever.

1005
00:47:05,560 --> 00:47:08,360
Speaker 6: I'm not going to therapy, whatever. But when they took that,

1006
00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:14,080
Speaker 6: when they took my baby and took her to that shelter,

1007
00:47:15,360 --> 00:47:21,040
Speaker 6: I wailed like a dying child because I just fought

1008
00:47:21,120 --> 00:47:24,320
Speaker 6: to get her. Just to get her, I had to fight.

1009
00:47:24,920 --> 00:47:27,239
Speaker 6: I have been paying child support, this child has been.

1010
00:47:28,520 --> 00:47:31,600
Speaker 6: I put it like this because don't do nothing anywhere.

1011
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:36,480
Speaker 6: So my daughter, my oldest daughter, has a younger sibling

1012
00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:39,680
Speaker 6: from her mother. Now I'm a painter's picture for you.

1013
00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:42,280
Speaker 6: The mother has never been able to afford an apartment,

1014
00:47:42,680 --> 00:47:46,160
Speaker 6: afford clothes anything. My child support was floating her in

1015
00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:52,880
Speaker 6: her raggedy ass nigga life. Now that child that she

1016
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:58,560
Speaker 6: has a sibling, that that child is only let's say

1017
00:47:58,560 --> 00:48:01,600
Speaker 6: two years maybe three years younger than my oldest child.

1018
00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:06,760
Speaker 6: They were living in one bedroom in that nigga mama house.

1019
00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:11,240
Speaker 6: Everybody was in his room. Where was that child made

1020
00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:16,960
Speaker 6: on the bed next to my child? When he get mad,

1021
00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:19,520
Speaker 6: When I ain't gonna talk too deep about that part.

1022
00:48:19,560 --> 00:48:22,640
Speaker 6: But when they get mad, nigga burnt up her clothes

1023
00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:25,000
Speaker 6: and my kid clothes. Yeah, you already know what time

1024
00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:27,319
Speaker 6: I was on handle that. It never happened again, but

1025
00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:30,960
Speaker 6: still that's type of nigga. Then they was left unattended.

1026
00:48:31,280 --> 00:48:34,640
Speaker 6: A dog attacked my child. Child forever got a scar

1027
00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:39,160
Speaker 6: on the forever right now, she's fifteen, dealing with that,

1028
00:48:39,520 --> 00:48:42,440
Speaker 6: the ramification of being fifteen, a beautiful girl, but she

1029
00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:44,799
Speaker 6: got this thing that think make a feel y'all girls

1030
00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:46,319
Speaker 6: y'all grew up with.

1031
00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:49,520
Speaker 2: Of course, Yeah, we could keep going on.

1032
00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:52,080
Speaker 6: We keep going on, riding in the car with no

1033
00:48:52,160 --> 00:48:56,800
Speaker 6: seat but no child, many CPS violations.

1034
00:48:57,320 --> 00:48:59,720
Speaker 2: But I want to stay with them.

1035
00:49:00,440 --> 00:49:03,600
Speaker 6: They want to keep up with so I will not

1036
00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:05,760
Speaker 6: ever say no. Nigga don't want country of his kids.

1037
00:49:05,760 --> 00:49:09,120
Speaker 6: Most men, even if it's not the best thing for

1038
00:49:09,200 --> 00:49:12,800
Speaker 6: the child, most men probably want country of their kids,

1039
00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:17,200
Speaker 6: especially as young boys. But the judicial system is so

1040
00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:22,120
Speaker 6: against us, and it's so attached to the status quo

1041
00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:25,239
Speaker 6: of keeping the child with the mom that a lot

1042
00:49:25,239 --> 00:49:27,719
Speaker 6: of children are being kept with mothers that are in

1043
00:49:27,800 --> 00:49:29,680
Speaker 6: cable of taking care of them in the way they

1044
00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:34,520
Speaker 6: should be and putting them in worse situations. So sure,

1045
00:49:34,600 --> 00:49:36,520
Speaker 6: if y'all want to clap up for me for having

1046
00:49:36,600 --> 00:49:39,000
Speaker 6: country on my child, sure, but that I'm not a unicorn.

1047
00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:41,480
Speaker 6: There's a when I was going through it, I was

1048
00:49:41,600 --> 00:49:45,000
Speaker 6: at the same time, I was twenty one years old.

1049
00:49:45,440 --> 00:49:48,719
Speaker 6: I was talking to niggas waiting in those courtrooms. Many

1050
00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:51,000
Speaker 6: courtroom days where we have to be in court at

1051
00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:53,759
Speaker 6: eight pm won't get seen till four point thirty. If

1052
00:49:53,800 --> 00:49:56,840
Speaker 6: everybody knows the court shut down at five, what are

1053
00:49:56,880 --> 00:49:58,920
Speaker 6: we really going to do? Oh, usually gonna tell me

1054
00:49:58,960 --> 00:50:00,760
Speaker 6: that there's in a German we got come back again.

1055
00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:04,200
Speaker 6: That's what we was doing, That's what was going on.

1056
00:50:04,800 --> 00:50:09,120
Speaker 6: So there's a lot of men old my age, younger

1057
00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:13,600
Speaker 6: that probably should have their kids. But the court system

1058
00:50:13,719 --> 00:50:15,319
Speaker 6: is so fucked, especially in New York.

1059
00:50:15,480 --> 00:50:18,680
Speaker 1: I mean I think, oh yeah, for sure, especially I'm

1060
00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:21,200
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. You feel like there is two sides

1061
00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:23,759
Speaker 1: of it, Like I'm not gonna take away from you,

1062
00:50:23,800 --> 00:50:26,359
Speaker 1: know the things that you said, and like your experiences,

1063
00:50:26,360 --> 00:50:29,000
Speaker 1: because I do feel like, you know, you're a good man,

1064
00:50:29,040 --> 00:50:32,000
Speaker 1: You're gonna take care of your child, and there's probably

1065
00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:32,520
Speaker 1: other men.

1066
00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:34,759
Speaker 3: Well you did say that you met other men, Like.

1067
00:50:38,719 --> 00:50:41,160
Speaker 6: Everything I can't even be around me and not be

1068
00:50:41,239 --> 00:50:42,000
Speaker 6: a good funk, right.

1069
00:50:42,040 --> 00:50:42,799
Speaker 3: But that's what I'm saying.

1070
00:50:42,800 --> 00:50:45,000
Speaker 2: I feel like that too. Though I can't date, I can't.

1071
00:50:46,640 --> 00:50:47,719
Speaker 3: Also less like.

1072
00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:52,040
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that everybody out there dad, but like

1073
00:50:52,080 --> 00:50:55,239
Speaker 1: you know, we can't take away from the women that

1074
00:50:56,280 --> 00:50:59,120
Speaker 1: that are good mothers and they don't have that support.

1075
00:50:59,360 --> 00:51:01,520
Speaker 1: And I'm not saying that you're that you are. I'm

1076
00:51:01,560 --> 00:51:03,440
Speaker 1: just saying, but I feel like, just as much as

1077
00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:05,280
Speaker 1: there are, you know, men out there that want custy

1078
00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:07,120
Speaker 1: of their child, at the end of the day, if

1079
00:51:07,160 --> 00:51:10,040
Speaker 1: I have a child right now, if something, if anything

1080
00:51:10,160 --> 00:51:15,239
Speaker 1: happens and everything be fun, the responsibility is but you're

1081
00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:18,120
Speaker 1: also in a great financial the responsibility is on me.

1082
00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:22,279
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter about the finances that I am talking

1083
00:51:22,280 --> 00:51:25,280
Speaker 1: about mentally. That's why I said for the first six months.

1084
00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:27,720
Speaker 1: I feel like if me and you have a child

1085
00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:31,360
Speaker 1: and we're not together for the first six months, it

1086
00:51:31,440 --> 00:51:33,560
Speaker 1: even I don't I don't even need to hear about

1087
00:51:33,560 --> 00:51:36,000
Speaker 1: you dating another bitch, because what if I'm having a

1088
00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:37,640
Speaker 1: bad fucking day and i just need to talk to

1089
00:51:37,719 --> 00:51:40,000
Speaker 1: my fucking baby daddy and I'm stressed out, but you

1090
00:51:40,320 --> 00:51:45,279
Speaker 1: on a date at Roots Chris with a bitch. It's

1091
00:51:45,280 --> 00:51:47,320
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff that goes on when the baby

1092
00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:51,320
Speaker 1: is first born that the baby daddy needs to be

1093
00:51:51,560 --> 00:51:53,879
Speaker 1: even romantically born.

1094
00:51:54,040 --> 00:51:56,960
Speaker 6: And I know somebody's gonna hit us and feel the way,

1095
00:51:56,960 --> 00:52:00,560
Speaker 6: But like everybody knows, when you're dating me, if my

1096
00:52:00,600 --> 00:52:05,720
Speaker 6: baby mother call, everything stops, if if if Sonny's mother called,

1097
00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:09,160
Speaker 6: everything stops, it doesn't matter. But we could be mid

1098
00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:14,399
Speaker 6: go cart Hello, what happened? She might have to curse

1099
00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:18,919
Speaker 6: me out about something I've done that I've done that

1100
00:52:19,000 --> 00:52:22,040
Speaker 6: because this is the woman raising my kid, right, yeah,

1101
00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:23,600
Speaker 6: this is a woman raising my kids.

1102
00:52:23,600 --> 00:52:25,360
Speaker 2: I mean, and that's different. I feel like it should

1103
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:26,520
Speaker 2: be that way, you know.

1104
00:52:26,880 --> 00:52:29,680
Speaker 4: But my the only the only concern that I have

1105
00:52:29,840 --> 00:52:32,520
Speaker 4: with dating dudes who have newborns is that I feel

1106
00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:36,719
Speaker 4: like the relationship can be rehatched in.

1107
00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:38,080
Speaker 6: The first place if they just you know, I.

1108
00:52:38,120 --> 00:52:41,600
Speaker 2: Mean, well, I mean that's different though, that's blue. I

1109
00:52:41,640 --> 00:52:42,360
Speaker 2: mean that's different.

1110
00:52:44,960 --> 00:52:48,239
Speaker 4: Right, Well, that's different because then that's circumstantial. Like if

1111
00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:50,720
Speaker 4: y'all weren't ever in a relationship, then yeah, the likelihood

1112
00:52:50,760 --> 00:52:54,240
Speaker 4: of y'all being together after having a kid is slim

1113
00:52:54,280 --> 00:52:57,200
Speaker 4: to none. But if we're talking about somebody who was

1114
00:52:57,200 --> 00:52:59,239
Speaker 4: in a relationship with somebody and then y'all broke up

1115
00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:01,359
Speaker 4: and you have a newborn, I just don't know if

1116
00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:03,520
Speaker 4: I want to charter into that territory. I don't know

1117
00:53:03,520 --> 00:53:06,560
Speaker 4: if I want to think about it.

1118
00:53:06,560 --> 00:53:09,520
Speaker 6: You shouldn't because then, yeah, your full into relationship. I'm

1119
00:53:09,520 --> 00:53:11,560
Speaker 6: not saying right wrong. I'm saying I'm actually saying you

1120
00:53:11,680 --> 00:53:13,480
Speaker 6: right if you have to.

1121
00:53:14,680 --> 00:53:18,000
Speaker 4: Because I feel like and then it's like, and it's

1122
00:53:18,040 --> 00:53:20,719
Speaker 4: not even just to blame it on men or blame

1123
00:53:20,760 --> 00:53:22,560
Speaker 4: it on women, but I feel like it's a sense

1124
00:53:22,600 --> 00:53:25,840
Speaker 4: of entitlement that both parties have once they have a

1125
00:53:25,920 --> 00:53:28,040
Speaker 4: child together, Like you be feeling like, oh, that's my baby,

1126
00:53:28,080 --> 00:53:30,800
Speaker 4: my mother, I can always go fuck with her whenever

1127
00:53:30,840 --> 00:53:32,600
Speaker 4: I want to, And women be feeling that way too,

1128
00:53:32,640 --> 00:53:34,480
Speaker 4: Like a nigga can't get in a relationship with another

1129
00:53:34,520 --> 00:53:36,960
Speaker 4: woman and then she'd be like, well, that's my baby daddy.

1130
00:53:37,239 --> 00:53:39,239
Speaker 4: I can still call him or you know, do little ship,

1131
00:53:39,360 --> 00:53:41,319
Speaker 4: like when a nigga come over trying to like, you know.

1132
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:51,440
Speaker 2: Seduce him and the nigga. I feel like people have

1133
00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:52,399
Speaker 2: this sense of.

1134
00:53:56,000 --> 00:53:59,680
Speaker 4: Yes, I think people have this sense of entitlement when

1135
00:53:59,680 --> 00:54:03,680
Speaker 4: it comes to like having good child with all about boundaries.

1136
00:54:03,719 --> 00:54:05,719
Speaker 6: It's all about boundaries, and that goes back to but

1137
00:54:05,840 --> 00:54:06,359
Speaker 6: that's rare.

1138
00:54:06,520 --> 00:54:08,799
Speaker 2: First thing I said community, Well, that's why I said.

1139
00:54:08,800 --> 00:54:10,120
Speaker 6: That goes back to the very first thing I said

1140
00:54:10,120 --> 00:54:15,239
Speaker 6: to you about this situation. It's all about the you said,

1141
00:54:15,440 --> 00:54:17,920
Speaker 6: why those people have made. Those are situations where people

1142
00:54:18,000 --> 00:54:20,520
Speaker 6: who should not be together are having Not only are

1143
00:54:20,560 --> 00:54:23,560
Speaker 6: they together, now they creating new life together. These niggas

1144
00:54:23,560 --> 00:54:25,840
Speaker 6: don't know how to set no boundaries. These niggas still petty,

1145
00:54:25,840 --> 00:54:29,440
Speaker 6: ain't got fucking there's there's fucking layers on layers and

1146
00:54:29,520 --> 00:54:33,640
Speaker 6: layers on top of whatever emotional trauma issues they've already had.

1147
00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:35,399
Speaker 6: And now you bring the baby into the next Now

1148
00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:37,560
Speaker 6: we go one further and now were bringing that existential

1149
00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:38,080
Speaker 6: person in.

1150
00:54:38,760 --> 00:54:41,280
Speaker 1: Come on, No, I just feel like it's a little disrespectful,

1151
00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:44,640
Speaker 1: Like if you're dating somebody with a newborn and the

1152
00:54:44,719 --> 00:54:48,120
Speaker 1: mother has to be stuck at home and you know,

1153
00:54:48,200 --> 00:54:50,359
Speaker 1: doing all she can't go on vacation and she can't

1154
00:54:50,360 --> 00:54:52,120
Speaker 1: do all this vacation.

1155
00:54:52,560 --> 00:54:53,600
Speaker 6: Niggas don't do that enough.

1156
00:54:54,960 --> 00:54:55,520
Speaker 2: Enough money.

1157
00:54:57,200 --> 00:54:59,640
Speaker 6: My child were talking about you. My child about to

1158
00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:02,360
Speaker 6: go to school in fifth grade. My oldest beout be

1159
00:55:02,400 --> 00:55:05,719
Speaker 6: in tenth grade right now. Their mother is on is

1160
00:55:05,760 --> 00:55:07,960
Speaker 6: on a vacation, and I'm and I'm good for just

1161
00:55:07,960 --> 00:55:12,680
Speaker 6: sitting on a staycation like you go.

1162
00:55:13,360 --> 00:55:18,759
Speaker 2: But that's what you're a different category of. I hear that,

1163
00:55:18,800 --> 00:55:21,239
Speaker 2: but I feel like BIS don't even care for real

1164
00:55:21,360 --> 00:55:25,520
Speaker 2: about the out of I feel like a lot of

1165
00:55:25,600 --> 00:55:28,520
Speaker 2: niggas and it's crazy as it sounds. I think they

1166
00:55:28,520 --> 00:55:31,080
Speaker 2: don't even just be carrying like the mental of the

1167
00:55:31,160 --> 00:55:34,080
Speaker 2: baby mama. It's like, just take care of my kids.

1168
00:55:34,440 --> 00:55:38,759
Speaker 6: I don't really know better. I know better, right, I

1169
00:55:38,840 --> 00:55:41,000
Speaker 6: know better. So I try and tell niggas betters why

1170
00:55:41,000 --> 00:55:43,399
Speaker 6: God next Door is the platform. It is, right, that's

1171
00:55:43,440 --> 00:55:45,680
Speaker 6: why you know. We love to me Mac and Roan,

1172
00:55:45,760 --> 00:55:48,839
Speaker 6: we love when we see the comments like, oh it's

1173
00:55:48,880 --> 00:55:51,359
Speaker 6: a it's a it's a man led podcast. But it's

1174
00:55:51,360 --> 00:55:52,480
Speaker 6: not like they're not niggas.

1175
00:55:52,480 --> 00:55:56,480
Speaker 1: It's not like it's hard for us. I think sometimes

1176
00:55:56,480 --> 00:56:00,640
Speaker 1: so either like go on male platforms or have male

1177
00:56:00,760 --> 00:56:01,839
Speaker 1: guess because.

1178
00:56:01,640 --> 00:56:02,759
Speaker 2: You know how I get it.

1179
00:56:03,160 --> 00:56:05,000
Speaker 6: I get it. I get it. And so when people

1180
00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:08,640
Speaker 6: say that's why we're so like, we have our episodes

1181
00:56:08,640 --> 00:56:11,080
Speaker 6: where it's fun and it's ignorant, it's just fun, but

1182
00:56:11,120 --> 00:56:14,640
Speaker 6: it's never dangerous, right, and we're never out there spewing

1183
00:56:14,719 --> 00:56:16,960
Speaker 6: no garbage. And if we are just saying things that

1184
00:56:17,040 --> 00:56:19,920
Speaker 6: come to our mind and it's not right, we have

1185
00:56:20,200 --> 00:56:22,319
Speaker 6: there's many a times me, Ryan and Mack can put

1186
00:56:22,360 --> 00:56:24,279
Speaker 6: our foot in our mouth and it had to and

1187
00:56:24,280 --> 00:56:26,960
Speaker 6: then we double. But the thing is, we don't apologize

1188
00:56:27,120 --> 00:56:29,879
Speaker 6: quietly or we don't fix it quietly. All right, next week,

1189
00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:32,600
Speaker 6: who's wrong with this? All right? Bet yo, can you

1190
00:56:32,640 --> 00:56:34,200
Speaker 6: come on the podcast and just let us know where

1191
00:56:34,200 --> 00:56:36,120
Speaker 6: we fucked up at Boom? Bring them on the podcast.

1192
00:56:36,160 --> 00:56:38,799
Speaker 6: Boom fucked up? Now we better for it. So that's

1193
00:56:38,840 --> 00:56:40,719
Speaker 6: why I got me and Max said all the time,

1194
00:56:40,800 --> 00:56:43,359
Speaker 6: like you gotta love the woman. There's a certain level

1195
00:56:43,400 --> 00:56:44,840
Speaker 6: of love you have to have for the woman carrying

1196
00:56:44,840 --> 00:56:47,440
Speaker 6: a child because that's the one carrying your child. But

1197
00:56:47,440 --> 00:56:49,680
Speaker 6: there's so many nigas who don't. There's so many niggas

1198
00:56:49,680 --> 00:56:52,360
Speaker 6: that don't know what postpart. You could go to Atlanta

1199
00:56:52,440 --> 00:56:54,080
Speaker 6: right now, I'm on saying it because we just know

1200
00:56:54,239 --> 00:56:56,399
Speaker 6: like the levels, right, you go to Lanta right now,

1201
00:56:56,400 --> 00:56:58,720
Speaker 6: you ask the nigga what post parliament. Niggas don't know, Nigas,

1202
00:56:59,120 --> 00:56:59,840
Speaker 6: they have no idea.

1203
00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:02,080
Speaker 2: But that's that's a new drink at blue.

1204
00:57:02,600 --> 00:57:08,000
Speaker 6: Four kids. They got four kids four different women with

1205
00:57:08,040 --> 00:57:10,480
Speaker 6: four different women. Are even worse, They got four kids

1206
00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:13,439
Speaker 6: with the same woman, that mean the same the same one.

1207
00:57:13,480 --> 00:57:15,440
Speaker 6: She never got to get over the first three, and

1208
00:57:15,480 --> 00:57:16,400
Speaker 6: you gave another one.

1209
00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:18,840
Speaker 4: I mean, it's just even from a medical standpoint, So

1210
00:57:19,000 --> 00:57:20,600
Speaker 4: you have to have a lot of respect for women

1211
00:57:20,640 --> 00:57:23,880
Speaker 4: when they bear and when they when they have a child,

1212
00:57:24,560 --> 00:57:28,240
Speaker 4: because that's the closest you ever are to dead as

1213
00:57:28,240 --> 00:57:30,680
Speaker 4: a woman without actually dying.

1214
00:57:30,760 --> 00:57:36,080
Speaker 6: Especially as a Black woman being black. Maternity mortality race.

1215
00:57:36,240 --> 00:57:39,320
Speaker 2: Yes, it's insane. It's in so like a woman.

1216
00:57:39,400 --> 00:57:41,280
Speaker 6: So like when I so now when I think about

1217
00:57:41,280 --> 00:57:43,520
Speaker 6: it past just the level of one of the babies here,

1218
00:57:43,640 --> 00:57:46,560
Speaker 6: when child's here. Like when I realized that ship, I

1219
00:57:46,640 --> 00:57:49,439
Speaker 6: kind of looked at my even differently. Yeah, already looked

1220
00:57:49,480 --> 00:57:53,360
Speaker 6: at up life. Really you really risk your life to create,

1221
00:57:53,480 --> 00:57:57,520
Speaker 6: like you really you got it? Whatever, And now going forward,

1222
00:57:57,600 --> 00:58:00,000
Speaker 6: I'm thirty three now, so now I'm not really dealing

1223
00:58:00,200 --> 00:58:03,400
Speaker 6: with nobody that I don't see myself having kids with. Right,

1224
00:58:03,600 --> 00:58:07,479
Speaker 6: So it was like saying, damn, you're willing to risk

1225
00:58:07,520 --> 00:58:09,720
Speaker 6: your life to bring life in here.

1226
00:58:10,200 --> 00:58:11,760
Speaker 3: Have you've been married before? Do you want to get

1227
00:58:11,760 --> 00:58:12,200
Speaker 3: married again?

1228
00:58:12,680 --> 00:58:16,600
Speaker 6: I don't know how I'm surviving single. I'm nobody. I

1229
00:58:16,600 --> 00:58:17,800
Speaker 6: should not be alive right now.

1230
00:58:18,520 --> 00:58:21,240
Speaker 4: Why do you place so much emphasis on being married?

1231
00:58:21,320 --> 00:58:22,919
Speaker 4: Like why is this so important to you?

1232
00:58:24,840 --> 00:58:28,000
Speaker 6: That's a good question. God damn, you know what we do.

1233
00:58:28,480 --> 00:58:29,600
Speaker 6: You're not for fun, not.

1234
00:58:32,960 --> 00:58:33,680
Speaker 2: A little fun.

1235
00:58:33,800 --> 00:58:37,400
Speaker 6: But you know the thing is, I don't think I

1236
00:58:37,440 --> 00:58:40,880
Speaker 6: put enough emphasis on being married because I've been hurt already.

1237
00:58:41,480 --> 00:58:46,160
Speaker 6: I'm I'm not allowing myself to be hurt since I

1238
00:58:46,200 --> 00:58:51,160
Speaker 6: got divorced, Like getting married at twenty one now, do

1239
00:58:51,200 --> 00:58:53,720
Speaker 6: not suggest it for anyone, but getting married at twenty

1240
00:58:53,760 --> 00:58:57,800
Speaker 6: one and all that format and think about who you be,

1241
00:58:57,880 --> 00:58:59,920
Speaker 6: keen the person are today. A lot of that was

1242
00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:02,480
Speaker 6: formed in twenties. So a lot of that for me

1243
00:59:02,840 --> 00:59:06,960
Speaker 6: was formed as a father and a husband, right and

1244
00:59:07,080 --> 00:59:09,880
Speaker 6: then it was taken away, it was ripped. I didn't

1245
00:59:09,880 --> 00:59:11,680
Speaker 6: know who the fuck I was. I was out here

1246
00:59:11,720 --> 00:59:14,840
Speaker 6: wild and for respect after that because it was like, oh,

1247
00:59:14,880 --> 00:59:17,800
Speaker 6: I'm never experiencing this hurt again. So I don't know

1248
00:59:17,800 --> 00:59:21,480
Speaker 6: if I put enough emphasis on it because I don't

1249
00:59:21,520 --> 00:59:24,320
Speaker 6: want to engage with those thoughts about being that level

1250
00:59:24,320 --> 00:59:27,200
Speaker 6: of hurt ever again, or even giving somebody the opportunity.

1251
00:59:27,200 --> 00:59:29,240
Speaker 6: I have a hard time now even giving someone the

1252
00:59:29,320 --> 00:59:33,120
Speaker 6: opportunity to hurt me. If we're in a relationship. We're

1253
00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:36,720
Speaker 6: in the relationship on my terms, agreed. There is no

1254
00:59:37,160 --> 00:59:39,480
Speaker 6: So you're not gonna hurt me. I'm not even I'm not.

1255
00:59:40,280 --> 00:59:43,160
Speaker 6: You can't even hurt me at this point. You can

1256
00:59:43,160 --> 00:59:45,840
Speaker 6: disappoint me, and if you disappoint me, it's ways.

1257
00:59:45,440 --> 00:59:48,560
Speaker 4: Done it and it's done, it's done.

1258
00:59:48,680 --> 00:59:51,480
Speaker 6: So I don't even let myself get into those situations.

1259
00:59:51,840 --> 00:59:54,400
Speaker 6: But definitely I know I want to be Mary again

1260
00:59:54,400 --> 00:59:57,040
Speaker 6: because like I said this something about just coming home

1261
00:59:57,600 --> 00:59:58,840
Speaker 6: and knowing your person is dead.

1262
00:59:59,000 --> 01:00:01,800
Speaker 2: Partners, partner, Yeah, that's that's my dog.

1263
01:00:01,960 --> 01:00:04,720
Speaker 6: I can't I can't wait to meet. I can't wait

1264
01:00:04,800 --> 01:00:07,520
Speaker 6: to be just. I just want my wife, my wife,

1265
01:00:07,560 --> 01:00:09,400
Speaker 6: my wife, everybody I'm not gonna lie to. And I

1266
01:00:09,400 --> 01:00:12,280
Speaker 6: think that's really you know, me and mag be talking

1267
01:00:12,880 --> 01:00:15,880
Speaker 6: and boy, I'll be like, nah, shait my wife liked,

1268
01:00:15,880 --> 01:00:17,800
Speaker 6: because that's's the homie. So Christian will be like, that's

1269
01:00:17,800 --> 01:00:19,560
Speaker 6: like my sister, you know, they daughter in my god child.

1270
01:00:19,600 --> 01:00:22,320
Speaker 6: So it's like he'll be like yo, and I'll be

1271
01:00:22,400 --> 01:00:24,520
Speaker 6: like you. He'll tell me something, I'll be like, boy,

1272
01:00:24,880 --> 01:00:26,200
Speaker 6: whatever you do, just don't do what I did.

1273
01:00:26,720 --> 01:00:29,040
Speaker 2: And I think that's it.

1274
01:00:29,160 --> 01:00:32,080
Speaker 4: But people don't stress the importance of like your wife,

1275
01:00:32,200 --> 01:00:34,160
Speaker 4: your husband, like really being your dogs.

1276
01:00:34,920 --> 01:00:38,439
Speaker 1: You know, what's the worst thing for me? I would say,

1277
01:00:38,640 --> 01:00:40,280
Speaker 1: And I think we can kind of. I don't know

1278
01:00:40,520 --> 01:00:43,720
Speaker 1: if y'all have experiences, but doing what we do, like

1279
01:00:43,800 --> 01:00:46,200
Speaker 1: this actually happened the other night. It's crazy because we

1280
01:00:46,240 --> 01:00:48,240
Speaker 1: had the New York Show and New York is a

1281
01:00:48,240 --> 01:00:50,320
Speaker 1: hard market. I was pretty proud of us. You know,

1282
01:00:50,400 --> 01:00:52,120
Speaker 1: we did good at the New York Show.

1283
01:00:52,200 --> 01:00:53,960
Speaker 2: It was live, but.

1284
01:00:54,000 --> 01:00:56,360
Speaker 1: This was the most showing. We had people coming up

1285
01:00:56,400 --> 01:00:59,680
Speaker 1: to us crying, Lily in tears, like you changed my life.

1286
01:00:59,760 --> 01:01:01,960
Speaker 1: I'm going through depression. I'm going through this. I'm going

1287
01:01:02,000 --> 01:01:05,840
Speaker 1: through that. Yeah, like they are, like they were so passionate.

1288
01:01:05,880 --> 01:01:07,560
Speaker 1: And it's crazy because like, you know, the end of

1289
01:01:07,560 --> 01:01:10,640
Speaker 1: the night, we had some dreams, you know, and I

1290
01:01:10,680 --> 01:01:12,640
Speaker 1: went to my hotel room and I'm like by myself,

1291
01:01:12,720 --> 01:01:14,640
Speaker 1: and then I'm like, damn, like this.

1292
01:01:14,440 --> 01:01:16,040
Speaker 2: It's gonna be nice to celebrate this.

1293
01:01:18,120 --> 01:01:18,760
Speaker 6: You do.

1294
01:01:20,960 --> 01:01:27,120
Speaker 4: Called big Daddy, Big Mousey's right here.

1295
01:01:27,960 --> 01:01:32,040
Speaker 2: She tried it, tried me, she tried the boy.

1296
01:01:32,640 --> 01:01:33,640
Speaker 3: I said, we're not doing this.

1297
01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:37,120
Speaker 2: You tried your boy.

1298
01:01:37,760 --> 01:01:39,440
Speaker 1: But I said, at the end of the day, it's like,

1299
01:01:39,560 --> 01:01:43,560
Speaker 1: you know, when so many people are looking at you.

1300
01:01:42,960 --> 01:01:45,640
Speaker 6: Hope y'all, I hope y'all really love doing yourselves for

1301
01:01:45,680 --> 01:01:47,680
Speaker 6: that in New York because that same.

1302
01:01:47,600 --> 01:01:52,240
Speaker 4: Song, everybody that came that's like in the podcast, you know,

1303
01:01:52,400 --> 01:01:53,200
Speaker 4: market or whatever.

1304
01:01:53,840 --> 01:01:57,840
Speaker 2: Everybody was saying it. Everybody everybody went.

1305
01:01:57,760 --> 01:02:03,120
Speaker 6: To income House, not see power Couple. Period. Okay, you

1306
01:02:03,200 --> 01:02:04,000
Speaker 6: just want to put me on.

1307
01:02:05,480 --> 01:02:06,480
Speaker 2: But yes, everybody.

1308
01:02:06,520 --> 01:02:08,800
Speaker 4: So everybody that came to the show that's like this

1309
01:02:09,120 --> 01:02:11,120
Speaker 4: podcast and stuff out here in New York, they all

1310
01:02:11,160 --> 01:02:11,480
Speaker 4: said that.

1311
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Speaker 2: They was like, this is crazy. But I knew y'all

1312
01:02:13,920 --> 01:02:16,120
Speaker 2: was doing y'all things, but like not like I.

1313
01:02:16,120 --> 01:02:18,920
Speaker 6: Know y'all are affecting women in a different way.

1314
01:02:18,880 --> 01:02:23,080
Speaker 4: Yes, and we say our shows are like a black

1315
01:02:23,160 --> 01:02:27,800
Speaker 4: women love And now I think niggas be wanting to

1316
01:02:27,840 --> 01:02:29,080
Speaker 4: come to because you know, we'll be able.

1317
01:02:28,960 --> 01:02:32,040
Speaker 1: To work and it'd be a lot of beautiful women.

1318
01:02:32,440 --> 01:02:40,000
Speaker 1: I always said this, like niggas listen to podcast buy

1319
01:02:40,000 --> 01:02:41,280
Speaker 1: an you.

1320
01:02:41,240 --> 01:02:43,560
Speaker 6: Don't let niggas. Do not let niggas in the show.

1321
01:02:44,480 --> 01:02:47,400
Speaker 6: There should be spaces just for women to be able.

1322
01:02:47,280 --> 01:02:48,160
Speaker 2: To agree with them.

1323
01:02:48,200 --> 01:02:51,440
Speaker 1: But I will say, but it's never been like niggas

1324
01:02:51,440 --> 01:02:54,000
Speaker 1: that be there on some weird type of it would.

1325
01:02:54,040 --> 01:02:55,560
Speaker 6: But I just feel like the presence of the men.

1326
01:02:55,680 --> 01:02:56,720
Speaker 6: Sometimes we have.

1327
01:02:56,640 --> 01:02:57,720
Speaker 3: A lot of male listeners.

1328
01:02:57,760 --> 01:03:00,680
Speaker 1: We do like men that they're gonna love, they gonna

1329
01:03:00,680 --> 01:03:03,640
Speaker 1: feel like, finally we got somebody that we can relate

1330
01:03:03,680 --> 01:03:06,560
Speaker 1: to because there's niggas out there like you that want

1331
01:03:06,560 --> 01:03:07,920
Speaker 1: to hear you on our platform.

1332
01:03:07,960 --> 01:03:08,680
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

1333
01:03:08,760 --> 01:03:10,880
Speaker 4: Well, I kind of wanted to talk about this because

1334
01:03:10,920 --> 01:03:13,720
Speaker 4: I feel like the kind of segues into another topic.

1335
01:03:15,280 --> 01:03:18,120
Speaker 4: So when you got it so okay, when you got divorced,

1336
01:03:18,120 --> 01:03:19,880
Speaker 4: like it's one of the reasons why you feel like

1337
01:03:19,920 --> 01:03:21,960
Speaker 4: you got divorced. Do you think it was like financial

1338
01:03:22,240 --> 01:03:23,640
Speaker 4: reasons or financial ability?

1339
01:03:23,800 --> 01:03:28,160
Speaker 6: It was two kids illiquipped to be married, okay, and

1340
01:03:28,520 --> 01:03:32,320
Speaker 6: we didn't have we didn't all right everybody to get biblical,

1341
01:03:32,440 --> 01:03:35,760
Speaker 6: we didn't have wise counsel, and we weren't able to

1342
01:03:35,840 --> 01:03:39,800
Speaker 6: appreciate the blessings of what A helped meate. Was. Yeah,

1343
01:03:39,840 --> 01:03:42,120
Speaker 6: the Bible says, and the fees in the Bible, I'm sorry.

1344
01:03:42,160 --> 01:03:44,240
Speaker 6: In proverb, the Bible says, a man who finds a

1345
01:03:44,320 --> 01:03:47,040
Speaker 6: wife find it a good thing and obtained favor of

1346
01:03:47,080 --> 01:03:49,960
Speaker 6: the Lord. And as a young man, who were so

1347
01:03:50,040 --> 01:03:52,360
Speaker 6: caught up in my ego and I was so caught

1348
01:03:52,440 --> 01:03:55,840
Speaker 6: up in trying to figure out who I was that

1349
01:03:56,760 --> 01:03:59,000
Speaker 6: I was so focused on that, and I wasn't focused

1350
01:03:59,000 --> 01:04:03,440
Speaker 6: on my wife. So we begin to engage in a

1351
01:04:03,640 --> 01:04:08,120
Speaker 6: toxic uh interaction between each other, where it was the

1352
01:04:08,200 --> 01:04:11,040
Speaker 6: norm to be pushing on each other and hitting on

1353
01:04:11,120 --> 01:04:15,120
Speaker 6: each other, and there was just certain things that once

1354
01:04:15,160 --> 01:04:18,000
Speaker 6: you kind of open that I'm not gonna say you

1355
01:04:18,640 --> 01:04:23,640
Speaker 6: can't close that lid, because we did eventually, But it's hard,

1356
01:04:23,680 --> 01:04:25,400
Speaker 6: and especially if you don't put the time and effort

1357
01:04:25,480 --> 01:04:27,560
Speaker 6: in right, if you're not if you're not really looking

1358
01:04:27,600 --> 01:04:30,480
Speaker 6: at yourself, like man, I fucked up. I didn't. I

1359
01:04:30,520 --> 01:04:33,520
Speaker 6: obtained favor of the Lord and did not appreciate it,

1360
01:04:33,560 --> 01:04:37,760
Speaker 6: which then caused that woman, like most women have to do,

1361
01:04:37,920 --> 01:04:42,920
Speaker 6: to now have to find herself by herself. So if

1362
01:04:42,960 --> 01:04:45,440
Speaker 6: you if you allow someone to find themselves by themselves,

1363
01:04:45,480 --> 01:04:46,560
Speaker 6: then there's really no need for.

1364
01:04:46,520 --> 01:04:48,600
Speaker 1: You, right, that's the worst thing you can let a

1365
01:04:48,600 --> 01:04:51,400
Speaker 1: woman do, honestly, when she's in a relationship with you too,

1366
01:04:51,560 --> 01:04:53,760
Speaker 1: because then once she finds herself.

1367
01:04:53,680 --> 01:04:56,000
Speaker 6: She's many times I feel like, why.

1368
01:04:55,800 --> 01:04:56,320
Speaker 2: Are you here?

1369
01:04:56,680 --> 01:04:59,000
Speaker 4: I mean, and that was that was a great explanation

1370
01:04:59,200 --> 01:05:01,520
Speaker 4: for the topic, because it's like I really had wanted

1371
01:05:01,560 --> 01:05:04,600
Speaker 4: to talk about, like giving women. The world doesn't have

1372
01:05:04,600 --> 01:05:09,200
Speaker 4: sheet to do with given, given, doesn't have sheet to do.

1373
01:05:09,160 --> 01:05:11,480
Speaker 6: With Money's not the world. That's that's what we have

1374
01:05:11,560 --> 01:05:14,960
Speaker 6: to remember. Book. It comes and goes. There's other things

1375
01:05:14,960 --> 01:05:17,880
Speaker 6: that are way more time effort. I can't tell you,

1376
01:05:17,920 --> 01:05:19,720
Speaker 6: and I'm only thirty three. This is a crazy part,

1377
01:05:19,960 --> 01:05:22,240
Speaker 6: so I can't imagine what other older niggas think about

1378
01:05:22,240 --> 01:05:24,000
Speaker 6: it like this in a situations like this, But there's

1379
01:05:24,040 --> 01:05:27,360
Speaker 6: so many times I look back and be like, damn, well,

1380
01:05:27,400 --> 01:05:29,000
Speaker 6: I wish I was there when Sunny said this so

1381
01:05:29,200 --> 01:05:31,080
Speaker 6: the first time she did that, but I wasn't because

1382
01:05:31,120 --> 01:05:34,120
Speaker 6: I was busy finding myself and we were busy being

1383
01:05:34,280 --> 01:05:37,360
Speaker 6: upset of each other and allowing time efforts. Damn, I

1384
01:05:37,440 --> 01:05:40,320
Speaker 6: wish I wouldn't known how It's just you know how

1385
01:05:41,440 --> 01:05:42,560
Speaker 6: y'all watch this is us?

1386
01:05:42,960 --> 01:05:45,920
Speaker 3: Yes, the first two Okay.

1387
01:05:45,600 --> 01:05:48,520
Speaker 6: So there's this scene I want to say, two seasons ago,

1388
01:05:48,680 --> 01:05:53,919
Speaker 6: when Rebecca learned that she had the the disease, that

1389
01:05:53,920 --> 01:05:58,800
Speaker 6: that she was getting dementia, and she said to uh,

1390
01:05:58,920 --> 01:06:01,360
Speaker 6: she had one of the kids, or maybe Miguel. She says,

1391
01:06:01,680 --> 01:06:06,160
Speaker 6: I don't want to forget just the random Saturday in Pittsburgh.

1392
01:06:06,440 --> 01:06:08,600
Speaker 6: And then and then the flashback of the show is

1393
01:06:08,680 --> 01:06:13,240
Speaker 6: literally just a random Saturday that they were in the house, playing,

1394
01:06:13,400 --> 01:06:18,520
Speaker 6: having fun. You know how many times that happens. You

1395
01:06:18,520 --> 01:06:21,320
Speaker 6: know what, I meantime that happens in our lives with

1396
01:06:21,480 --> 01:06:26,560
Speaker 6: our significant other. Now, just imagine removing yourself now you're

1397
01:06:26,600 --> 01:06:29,600
Speaker 6: not there how many of those times and I can't

1398
01:06:29,640 --> 01:06:32,880
Speaker 6: go there and insert myself. Those memories are forever heard

1399
01:06:32,920 --> 01:06:36,600
Speaker 6: by herself. She might have took the kids to, you know,

1400
01:06:36,920 --> 01:06:39,600
Speaker 6: a white post farm and they did the farm thing

1401
01:06:39,760 --> 01:06:45,200
Speaker 6: or cinema on the lawn, whatever, and I wasn't there

1402
01:06:45,440 --> 01:06:48,320
Speaker 6: because I was so busy trying to be shown. I'm

1403
01:06:48,360 --> 01:06:52,200
Speaker 6: so busy trying to be the best opinion in you know,

1404
01:06:52,240 --> 01:06:54,080
Speaker 6: I want to have the best opinion in the game.

1405
01:06:54,160 --> 01:06:55,960
Speaker 6: I wanted to have the you know, I had to

1406
01:06:56,000 --> 01:07:00,000
Speaker 6: go do that, and it's like that's not the world brouse.

1407
01:07:00,120 --> 01:07:05,840
Speaker 6: I can think now can bring you all the ship back, Like.

1408
01:07:03,960 --> 01:07:06,080
Speaker 2: But where do you find that balance?

1409
01:07:06,120 --> 01:07:08,400
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying the most about to say that

1410
01:07:08,480 --> 01:07:11,600
Speaker 1: the most important thing is balance, Like you have to

1411
01:07:11,640 --> 01:07:14,000
Speaker 1: find that balance, because let me tell you, I can't

1412
01:07:14,040 --> 01:07:17,240
Speaker 1: speak for all women, but I can say the most

1413
01:07:17,280 --> 01:07:19,800
Speaker 1: important thing that I want to feel in a relationship.

1414
01:07:20,080 --> 01:07:25,480
Speaker 1: I just want to feel appreciated and loved genuinely with me.

1415
01:07:25,920 --> 01:07:29,200
Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying right that I could have said, listen,

1416
01:07:29,440 --> 01:07:31,840
Speaker 6: it's gonna sound it's gonna sound bad. I love my kids.

1417
01:07:32,280 --> 01:07:34,880
Speaker 6: We can make new kids. Then kids gonna have their

1418
01:07:34,920 --> 01:07:37,360
Speaker 6: own memories and have their own life to live. I

1419
01:07:37,400 --> 01:07:40,960
Speaker 6: could have got We could have said, hey, hey, mom,

1420
01:07:41,440 --> 01:07:43,960
Speaker 6: can you keep an eye on the girls. We're gonna go.

1421
01:07:44,000 --> 01:07:45,960
Speaker 6: I gotta go do the show on me and hug

1422
01:07:46,000 --> 01:07:48,560
Speaker 6: and go boom. That's the memory we got forever.

1423
01:07:49,280 --> 01:07:51,840
Speaker 4: Because it's different if you don't have those options, like

1424
01:07:51,880 --> 01:07:53,880
Speaker 4: if you don't have somebody, they can take care.

1425
01:07:54,120 --> 01:07:56,120
Speaker 6: So if you have that, you have the village. You

1426
01:07:56,120 --> 01:07:58,600
Speaker 6: could utilize the village. And you don't, you don't even

1427
01:07:58,680 --> 01:08:02,800
Speaker 6: think and boyd wow, Okay, so now even having this

1428
01:08:02,840 --> 01:08:07,680
Speaker 6: conversation now, I'm even remembering certain contentations like you didn't

1429
01:08:07,680 --> 01:08:09,720
Speaker 6: even think, You didn't even think to do it, Like

1430
01:08:10,000 --> 01:08:12,080
Speaker 6: I didn't. I just I knew you was gonna be home,

1431
01:08:12,120 --> 01:08:13,600
Speaker 6: so I said I could do this because you'll be

1432
01:08:13,600 --> 01:08:16,519
Speaker 6: home with the kids. Why didn't I think to say

1433
01:08:16,640 --> 01:08:19,400
Speaker 6: you'll come with me? And we always say it on Instagram? Right?

1434
01:08:19,479 --> 01:08:21,439
Speaker 6: I love a woman that I don't even got to

1435
01:08:21,680 --> 01:08:25,439
Speaker 6: you want before I'm even done taping you want? Yep, Yeah,

1436
01:08:25,439 --> 01:08:25,920
Speaker 6: I gotta go.

1437
01:08:26,280 --> 01:08:28,280
Speaker 2: I gotta is there a hope.

1438
01:08:28,120 --> 01:08:30,960
Speaker 4: For you and your And don't get me wrong, because

1439
01:08:30,960 --> 01:08:35,040
Speaker 4: I feel like lack of financials does matter.

1440
01:08:36,479 --> 01:08:38,680
Speaker 6: Sometimes you can't even get to it, but there's so

1441
01:08:38,760 --> 01:08:40,559
Speaker 6: much sh it on top of it you can't even

1442
01:08:40,560 --> 01:08:44,920
Speaker 6: get to the look financial. I think, if I'm being honest,

1443
01:08:44,920 --> 01:08:47,840
Speaker 6: I think people that this is me. I think the

1444
01:08:47,840 --> 01:08:50,840
Speaker 6: people that get divorced due to finances, they just don't

1445
01:08:50,840 --> 01:08:52,960
Speaker 6: want to talk about the uglier situations for.

1446
01:08:53,080 --> 01:08:56,439
Speaker 4: Sure, because if everything straight financially, you know, Like I

1447
01:08:56,439 --> 01:08:58,519
Speaker 4: feel like I've been in situations where I dated people

1448
01:08:58,520 --> 01:09:01,000
Speaker 4: where it's like, Okay, I really got to worry about

1449
01:09:01,040 --> 01:09:04,560
Speaker 4: paying for sheet, But it's still a lot of other voids,

1450
01:09:04,760 --> 01:09:06,759
Speaker 4: you know what I mean, Like you don't really seem

1451
01:09:06,800 --> 01:09:08,920
Speaker 4: like you appreciate me, or it sometimes seem like you

1452
01:09:08,920 --> 01:09:11,280
Speaker 4: don't really fuck with me like that just because you're

1453
01:09:11,760 --> 01:09:19,320
Speaker 4: everything and everything that doesn't because and like my earlier relationships,

1454
01:09:19,360 --> 01:09:21,840
Speaker 4: you know, we were young and it's passionate and it's love,

1455
01:09:21,920 --> 01:09:24,120
Speaker 4: and then it's like once I started kind of moving

1456
01:09:24,160 --> 01:09:26,280
Speaker 4: in a different space and I realized the type of

1457
01:09:26,320 --> 01:09:28,479
Speaker 4: woman I wanted to become and what I.

1458
01:09:28,439 --> 01:09:31,320
Speaker 3: Was joining, shut the fuck up.

1459
01:09:32,320 --> 01:09:36,400
Speaker 1: But it was like I want I wanted to be

1460
01:09:36,479 --> 01:09:39,599
Speaker 1: complete though, because I felt like, Okay, I'm a good person,

1461
01:09:39,680 --> 01:09:41,920
Speaker 1: I have a great personality. I bring all this to

1462
01:09:41,960 --> 01:09:44,599
Speaker 1: the table. But I was like one thing that's missing

1463
01:09:44,600 --> 01:09:46,640
Speaker 1: and maybe low on somebody's list, but I want to

1464
01:09:46,720 --> 01:09:49,280
Speaker 1: check that off. I want to be financially free. So

1465
01:09:49,920 --> 01:09:52,360
Speaker 1: I was in a bad relationship. But one thing I

1466
01:09:52,360 --> 01:09:54,400
Speaker 1: got out of the relationship he paid off my student loans.

1467
01:09:54,479 --> 01:09:56,360
Speaker 1: I was able to pay off my car, you know.

1468
01:09:56,439 --> 01:09:58,160
Speaker 2: I but you still wasn't happy.

1469
01:09:58,320 --> 01:10:00,519
Speaker 1: But yeah, I wasn't happy, but I was what I

1470
01:10:00,520 --> 01:10:03,680
Speaker 1: had to do. Program It was the long p It

1471
01:10:03,680 --> 01:10:04,519
Speaker 1: was a different wrong it was.

1472
01:10:06,120 --> 01:10:10,240
Speaker 3: It was it was a grand Christy.

1473
01:10:10,000 --> 01:10:12,280
Speaker 1: Because in that moment, you know when girls usually get

1474
01:10:12,280 --> 01:10:14,559
Speaker 1: money from niggas, they go get their hair done, they

1475
01:10:14,560 --> 01:10:17,680
Speaker 1: go buy persies, they go buy bags. Me what I

1476
01:10:17,720 --> 01:10:21,720
Speaker 1: was paying off things. I was paying what I was

1477
01:10:21,840 --> 01:10:23,400
Speaker 1: saying with you, whatever.

1478
01:10:23,080 --> 01:10:25,439
Speaker 6: You do with your grant. I'm not one of these

1479
01:10:25,520 --> 01:10:28,760
Speaker 6: niggas telling women, oh you usually I can't look at

1480
01:10:28,760 --> 01:10:31,000
Speaker 6: my friends. I got look my friend. But I'm just

1481
01:10:31,000 --> 01:10:33,960
Speaker 6: saying like, I'm not one of those niggas, like if

1482
01:10:34,200 --> 01:10:35,800
Speaker 6: like I said when I heard that Tim, I'm like,

1483
01:10:36,640 --> 01:10:38,840
Speaker 6: that's a grant program. You get on that shaft away

1484
01:10:38,880 --> 01:10:40,920
Speaker 6: and then you can find it. Then you can find saying.

1485
01:10:40,960 --> 01:10:43,160
Speaker 1: So that's I was emphasizing on like now because I

1486
01:10:43,200 --> 01:10:45,320
Speaker 1: felt like I don't want to go into a relationship

1487
01:10:45,320 --> 01:10:46,920
Speaker 1: and I get married to man, I'm like, oh, by

1488
01:10:46,960 --> 01:10:50,200
Speaker 1: the way, I'm three hundred thousand dollars in debt.

1489
01:10:50,320 --> 01:10:52,360
Speaker 2: Like and we say this all the time, you know,

1490
01:10:52,400 --> 01:10:53,040
Speaker 2: I say it all the time.

1491
01:10:53,320 --> 01:10:57,240
Speaker 6: I'm did free, period. But I felt like people relationship

1492
01:10:57,680 --> 01:10:59,920
Speaker 6: freeing it like to be like I'm debt free. Yeah,

1493
01:11:00,800 --> 01:11:02,719
Speaker 6: but that's also I didn't go to college, so.

1494
01:11:03,520 --> 01:11:06,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I ain't gonna I still got my twenty thous

1495
01:11:06,280 --> 01:11:09,120
Speaker 2: and don't. I'm just saying I felt like.

1496
01:11:09,400 --> 01:11:10,160
Speaker 6: But it's so free.

1497
01:11:10,479 --> 01:11:11,920
Speaker 3: I want to be in a relationship.

1498
01:11:12,120 --> 01:11:15,840
Speaker 2: But I've been freeing myself. I didn't want finances to

1499
01:11:15,920 --> 01:11:19,120
Speaker 2: be not even finances should be not good.

1500
01:11:19,640 --> 01:11:21,960
Speaker 6: Whatever you gotta do, Joe, you figure it out. But

1501
01:11:22,080 --> 01:11:26,600
Speaker 6: I'm good. I'm good. I d half. I feel like

1502
01:11:26,640 --> 01:11:28,040
Speaker 6: I have been giving myself, you.

1503
01:11:28,080 --> 01:11:31,280
Speaker 1: Know, giving Like divorce lawyer is saying the number one

1504
01:11:31,400 --> 01:11:35,160
Speaker 1: reason why people get divorces because of finances, and I said, well,

1505
01:11:35,240 --> 01:11:37,519
Speaker 1: let me eliminate this, because when a nigga with me,

1506
01:11:37,680 --> 01:11:38,800
Speaker 1: finance is not an issue.

1507
01:11:38,800 --> 01:11:40,920
Speaker 6: It's finances every You got to think about it. When

1508
01:11:40,920 --> 01:11:43,840
Speaker 6: you don't like somebody everything.

1509
01:11:43,520 --> 01:11:47,680
Speaker 2: They do bothers, you say it's about money too.

1510
01:11:47,840 --> 01:11:50,439
Speaker 6: No, it's the other way around, right, So if I

1511
01:11:50,479 --> 01:11:54,600
Speaker 6: don't like you, then yes, finances is the issue. I

1512
01:11:55,040 --> 01:11:56,920
Speaker 6: don't know because I didn't do a whole bunch of research.

1513
01:11:57,600 --> 01:11:59,479
Speaker 6: I'm pretty sure if I spend the next two weeks

1514
01:12:00,240 --> 01:12:02,840
Speaker 6: month doing a whole bunch of research about divorces for years,

1515
01:12:03,000 --> 01:12:05,200
Speaker 6: fifty years, I will go back and you allow me

1516
01:12:05,320 --> 01:12:08,439
Speaker 6: to look over each case. I don't think anybody was

1517
01:12:08,520 --> 01:12:11,200
Speaker 6: sitting in front of the judge like and.

1518
01:12:11,280 --> 01:12:12,240
Speaker 2: See, I forgot that.

1519
01:12:15,960 --> 01:12:16,080
Speaker 6: Right.

1520
01:12:17,840 --> 01:12:20,799
Speaker 4: And if I don't like you, finances are the reason

1521
01:12:20,880 --> 01:12:22,720
Speaker 4: that a lot of the time people stay. If I

1522
01:12:22,760 --> 01:12:24,840
Speaker 4: don't like you, and you up and you good like,

1523
01:12:25,080 --> 01:12:27,960
Speaker 4: finances the reason why people stay in the relationship.

1524
01:12:30,560 --> 01:12:32,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, but that's important.

1525
01:12:33,080 --> 01:12:35,800
Speaker 4: I feel like, Yeah, when you're young, you definitely tell

1526
01:12:35,800 --> 01:12:38,400
Speaker 4: yourself that finances should be the number one thing.

1527
01:12:38,479 --> 01:12:40,840
Speaker 2: But as you get older, you start to realize.

1528
01:12:40,640 --> 01:12:43,360
Speaker 6: And parrots were just listening to what somebody else said.

1529
01:12:43,560 --> 01:12:45,760
Speaker 4: And after you get in certain situations to when you

1530
01:12:45,880 --> 01:12:48,160
Speaker 4: date people and you're like, okay, money not an issue.

1531
01:12:48,840 --> 01:12:51,240
Speaker 4: The finances is not an issue. We're not arguing about

1532
01:12:51,280 --> 01:12:54,679
Speaker 4: that type of shit. It's deeper things. It's deeper rooted

1533
01:12:54,760 --> 01:12:56,679
Speaker 4: things that matter, and that's more important.

1534
01:12:56,720 --> 01:12:59,400
Speaker 6: Finances was an issue when we were mad at each other. Yeah,

1535
01:12:59,400 --> 01:13:01,760
Speaker 6: I'm telling you, for somebody who was married when we

1536
01:13:01,960 --> 01:13:05,400
Speaker 6: were mad at each other, you can't get this, and

1537
01:13:05,880 --> 01:13:11,559
Speaker 6: I'm not. When we were seen take the girls shopping,

1538
01:13:12,320 --> 01:13:15,519
Speaker 6: my bitch shopping. Yeah, my big can go shopping where

1539
01:13:15,760 --> 01:13:20,360
Speaker 6: Sensibly when we go somewhere, if you go somewhere, if

1540
01:13:20,400 --> 01:13:22,920
Speaker 6: you say today I want to go to Celine. Just

1541
01:13:23,120 --> 01:13:28,480
Speaker 6: know you're getting one bag, one perfume insensibly.

1542
01:13:30,240 --> 01:13:40,639
Speaker 2: Respect. Yeah, what the going on? You ain't gotta tell

1543
01:13:40,800 --> 01:13:43,439
Speaker 2: me to say like I mean people, I like.

1544
01:13:43,439 --> 01:13:45,639
Speaker 6: Ship to y'all, but you would take all my money, bitch.

1545
01:13:46,080 --> 01:13:48,560
Speaker 6: So now you're gonna be well dressed and that I'm machine.

1546
01:13:50,680 --> 01:13:52,479
Speaker 2: And it's called she.

1547
01:13:53,240 --> 01:13:54,240
Speaker 6: I'm sorry, somebody.

1548
01:13:54,880 --> 01:13:59,120
Speaker 2: Carried away somebody I don't want to see any want

1549
01:14:00,080 --> 01:14:00,360
Speaker 2: why not?

1550
01:14:01,080 --> 01:14:06,400
Speaker 6: Why so soldn't got no chance on this podcast? Can

1551
01:14:06,760 --> 01:14:09,760
Speaker 6: read you know, you'll know she and.

1552
01:14:12,680 --> 01:14:15,519
Speaker 2: She don't do my friend because he didn't having it all.

1553
01:14:16,400 --> 01:14:22,120
Speaker 2: But it's level you me in and she and le

1554
01:14:22,439 --> 01:14:23,200
Speaker 2: one said.

1555
01:14:23,080 --> 01:14:27,920
Speaker 6: You rabon, you had the pock rabon. Oh my god,

1556
01:14:27,920 --> 01:14:30,000
Speaker 6: that she was so fire, that was so fire.

1557
01:14:31,680 --> 01:14:32,439
Speaker 3: Dragon passed that.

1558
01:14:34,240 --> 01:14:36,599
Speaker 2: You don't want this one, but but twenty one said,

1559
01:14:36,880 --> 01:14:38,760
Speaker 2: if you're you're gonna put that on a little bit.

1560
01:14:40,160 --> 01:14:43,240
Speaker 2: You know, just need a fashion over Miami no more.

1561
01:14:43,680 --> 01:14:45,439
Speaker 3: One said that if your nigga shop is al.

1562
01:14:47,439 --> 01:14:48,519
Speaker 2: But that's not nice.

1563
01:14:48,760 --> 01:14:50,200
Speaker 3: That's what twenty one says.

1564
01:14:51,280 --> 01:15:03,879
Speaker 2: Shop you can everything. Everybody cannot shop damn period.

1565
01:15:05,000 --> 01:15:10,080
Speaker 6: Baby. The e Hive loves her. The I want to drink,

1566
01:15:10,479 --> 01:15:13,080
Speaker 6: pull me out. But I'm gonna tell you every Now,

1567
01:15:13,080 --> 01:15:15,040
Speaker 6: I'm gonna tell you on some dressing ship, there's not

1568
01:15:15,160 --> 01:15:18,439
Speaker 6: many niggas that can outdress them. And when you see me,

1569
01:15:18,520 --> 01:15:20,160
Speaker 6: you know, y'all know me. So I'm not gonna be

1570
01:15:20,240 --> 01:15:26,160
Speaker 6: out here and I'm a street and I say dress.

1571
01:15:26,479 --> 01:15:28,360
Speaker 6: I say that at the street where nigga most shot.

1572
01:15:28,520 --> 01:15:30,280
Speaker 6: It's gonna be street where it's gonna be some ship

1573
01:15:30,320 --> 01:15:32,600
Speaker 6: that I'm not. You're not gonna see me in Findy.

1574
01:15:33,120 --> 01:15:34,880
Speaker 3: But you're supposed to get me on my sneaker game.

1575
01:15:35,200 --> 01:15:39,400
Speaker 2: And you never did the same size. Why do everybody

1576
01:15:39,680 --> 01:15:41,719
Speaker 2: saying that she does not wear the same size?

1577
01:15:42,400 --> 01:15:43,240
Speaker 3: You like that ship?

1578
01:15:43,360 --> 01:15:47,720
Speaker 6: I like her. The problem with niggas is niggas will

1579
01:15:47,720 --> 01:15:50,760
Speaker 6: go into sacks and immediately go to the section they

1580
01:15:50,760 --> 01:15:56,840
Speaker 6: cannot afford. When sas has just as many affordable brands.

1581
01:15:58,320 --> 01:16:01,000
Speaker 2: Have a great time, and said, I mean.

1582
01:16:01,040 --> 01:16:05,600
Speaker 4: You're not a good example because Wolford is not it's affordable.

1583
01:16:05,920 --> 01:16:08,800
Speaker 4: It's not to the average party affordable to go to

1584
01:16:09,400 --> 01:16:10,719
Speaker 4: dollars for a body suit.

1585
01:16:11,520 --> 01:16:14,400
Speaker 6: Do you gonna go to and be able for one thing?

1586
01:16:14,600 --> 01:16:16,600
Speaker 2: Exactly? I mean you could get a sports bar for

1587
01:16:16,680 --> 01:16:17,639
Speaker 2: four hundred dollars.

1588
01:16:19,479 --> 01:16:22,280
Speaker 6: I felt like I got somebody y'all the top of

1589
01:16:22,479 --> 01:16:23,280
Speaker 6: like five hundred dollars.

1590
01:16:24,080 --> 01:16:26,320
Speaker 2: I mean, Woolford is not cheap, like it's in the

1591
01:16:26,439 --> 01:16:27,040
Speaker 2: same boat.

1592
01:16:27,280 --> 01:16:29,519
Speaker 1: Like I could see if you was gonna say naked wardrobe,

1593
01:16:29,840 --> 01:16:31,759
Speaker 1: that's something that they sell sex.

1594
01:16:31,640 --> 01:16:32,680
Speaker 6: And saying it's a lot.

1595
01:16:33,960 --> 01:16:36,280
Speaker 2: Listen, you don't have to be got to Macy's.

1596
01:16:36,400 --> 01:16:38,360
Speaker 6: You gotta be all. What I'm saying is when when

1597
01:16:38,400 --> 01:16:40,400
Speaker 6: you you j.

1598
01:16:41,200 --> 01:16:46,840
Speaker 2: Open, I think they went in what does Ja Penny

1599
01:16:46,920 --> 01:16:51,639
Speaker 2: sell like? I feel like St John Sears, Tommy hillis

1600
01:16:57,640 --> 01:16:59,400
Speaker 2: used to be wearing it. They used to put that

1601
01:16:59,520 --> 01:17:01,719
Speaker 2: put more Nautica back in the day you was putting

1602
01:17:01,760 --> 01:17:02,200
Speaker 2: that ship on.

1603
01:17:02,320 --> 01:17:05,439
Speaker 6: It wasn't Wearica and Tommy.

1604
01:17:05,560 --> 01:17:07,360
Speaker 2: We forget he live in the fashion.

1605
01:17:09,280 --> 01:17:12,240
Speaker 6: Nobody else from New York. If you was wearing Nordica

1606
01:17:12,560 --> 01:17:16,560
Speaker 6: and Tommy, that's because you couldn't afford Ralph. That was

1607
01:17:16,720 --> 01:17:18,320
Speaker 6: I'm not even being funny, I'm being dead ass. You

1608
01:17:18,400 --> 01:17:21,280
Speaker 6: asked anybody or if you look at those nineties Nordica

1609
01:17:21,680 --> 01:17:24,760
Speaker 6: and Tommy Hill, figure Prince, they were copying like.

1610
01:17:24,760 --> 01:17:27,200
Speaker 3: A thing because Donica was it was happening.

1611
01:17:27,600 --> 01:17:29,680
Speaker 6: It was happening you.

1612
01:17:30,760 --> 01:17:38,639
Speaker 2: I mean, what about Sparks. Remember I remember you said

1613
01:17:38,680 --> 01:17:40,840
Speaker 2: don't I look extra slicking as Nautica and just think

1614
01:17:40,920 --> 01:17:43,080
Speaker 2: it was you that she bought it? He hat that up?

1615
01:17:43,240 --> 01:17:45,160
Speaker 2: When did he say that? And why do you remember that?

1616
01:17:46,120 --> 01:17:47,519
Speaker 3: I used to be obsessed with Timberland.

1617
01:17:47,640 --> 01:17:54,800
Speaker 4: Why it wasn't That's the only I know it's miss new.

1618
01:17:55,360 --> 01:17:57,479
Speaker 1: Song because Timoland did his own album and I know

1619
01:17:57,560 --> 01:17:59,519
Speaker 1: every single simulane song that he's ever produced.

1620
01:17:59,560 --> 01:18:01,240
Speaker 2: So you know, maybe I'm getting a little weird, but

1621
01:18:01,320 --> 01:18:03,200
Speaker 2: it was the same Kings of Leon who.

1622
01:18:04,080 --> 01:18:04,280
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1623
01:18:10,920 --> 01:18:13,599
Speaker 3: Anyways, like I said, know that one, I was good.

1624
01:18:13,920 --> 01:18:17,240
Speaker 2: Don't sleep on my girl. The catalog is very broad.

1625
01:18:17,720 --> 01:18:19,679
Speaker 3: I mean, I six it's on fire.

1626
01:18:19,960 --> 01:18:23,200
Speaker 2: Sorry, Naanica was firing the South like if a nigga

1627
01:18:23,200 --> 01:18:25,880
Speaker 2: had on like fire ladies.

1628
01:18:28,240 --> 01:18:31,040
Speaker 6: I believe it was because not everybody could afford Ralph

1629
01:18:31,720 --> 01:18:35,000
Speaker 6: and so if you route and Tommy was doing the

1630
01:18:35,080 --> 01:18:38,800
Speaker 6: same type of print that that heavy Windbreaker with that

1631
01:18:39,080 --> 01:18:41,559
Speaker 6: with those big bold red and white and blue colors,

1632
01:18:41,720 --> 01:18:44,840
Speaker 6: big boat and boast Tommy, Yeah, people and people, he

1633
01:18:44,920 --> 01:18:47,000
Speaker 6: got a crazy park. I was in New York. Niggas

1634
01:18:47,040 --> 01:18:49,840
Speaker 6: getting wrong for that. Nigga was coming taking a taking

1635
01:18:49,880 --> 01:18:51,759
Speaker 6: you out of your Ordica, take you out of your Tommy,

1636
01:18:52,280 --> 01:18:54,800
Speaker 6: even though that most flying niggas knew.

1637
01:18:55,479 --> 01:18:57,360
Speaker 1: That's not the ship that she said, you have that

1638
01:18:57,400 --> 01:19:00,240
Speaker 1: one raut? Okay, So now and today, what the us

1639
01:19:00,920 --> 01:19:01,960
Speaker 1: like a girl that you like?

1640
01:19:02,040 --> 01:19:04,639
Speaker 2: Oh? She put that ship on? What does she have on? Myles?

1641
01:19:04,680 --> 01:19:07,160
Speaker 2: Can I ask you a question real quick? Tell the truth?

1642
01:19:07,479 --> 01:19:09,360
Speaker 2: Did you store them? G you need tank tops?

1643
01:19:09,479 --> 01:19:10,240
Speaker 6: Never? In my life.

1644
01:19:10,720 --> 01:19:13,360
Speaker 2: I don't believe you used to rob nigause.

1645
01:19:13,360 --> 01:19:15,960
Speaker 6: I feel like you wanna call my parents.

1646
01:19:17,800 --> 01:19:19,280
Speaker 2: You might need to call me mouse.

1647
01:19:21,840 --> 01:19:23,120
Speaker 6: I don't call my dad right now.

1648
01:19:25,080 --> 01:19:28,599
Speaker 2: Let's see what's see what daddy gotta say? Gotta say Micky,

1649
01:19:33,120 --> 01:19:37,360
Speaker 2: Hey Dad, I'm over here on my Homegirls podcast.

1650
01:19:37,479 --> 01:19:38,479
Speaker 6: So say to the world.

1651
01:19:40,280 --> 01:19:44,439
Speaker 3: H oh he New York, my father, real world.

1652
01:19:45,240 --> 01:19:47,200
Speaker 6: No games, all right, dad, listen. They're trying to play

1653
01:19:47,240 --> 01:19:51,000
Speaker 6: with me. They asked me if I ever wore gunit

1654
01:19:51,160 --> 01:19:51,799
Speaker 6: tank tops?

1655
01:19:55,200 --> 01:19:56,640
Speaker 2: He laughed and he ain't say no.

1656
01:19:59,560 --> 01:20:01,080
Speaker 6: Never, like we didn't play that.

1657
01:20:02,600 --> 01:20:05,880
Speaker 4: Sneakers and I love fifty niggas used to wear that

1658
01:20:05,960 --> 01:20:06,679
Speaker 4: ship in the South.

1659
01:20:06,800 --> 01:20:08,360
Speaker 2: They used to love to put.

1660
01:20:08,200 --> 01:20:13,080
Speaker 6: The curson with my dad. It was I think that

1661
01:20:13,240 --> 01:20:16,439
Speaker 6: was on your your list with and one. What were

1662
01:20:16,439 --> 01:20:19,640
Speaker 6: the other things they knew I've always been fly. They

1663
01:20:19,720 --> 01:20:20,800
Speaker 6: knew not what not to bring.

1664
01:20:21,760 --> 01:20:23,320
Speaker 3: I just watched the AN one documentary.

1665
01:20:23,560 --> 01:20:25,560
Speaker 6: You'll watch it, but I'm not wearing it to go

1666
01:20:25,640 --> 01:20:26,080
Speaker 6: to school.

1667
01:20:26,320 --> 01:20:28,599
Speaker 1: I didn't know that because the N one documentary made

1668
01:20:28,640 --> 01:20:33,519
Speaker 1: it seem like everybody anybody not cussing with Daddy mouse

1669
01:20:33,600 --> 01:20:36,240
Speaker 1: on the phone, father in law.

1670
01:20:39,280 --> 01:20:40,800
Speaker 6: Respects and now when I bring you to the dinner,

1671
01:20:40,800 --> 01:20:43,720
Speaker 6: he's gonna look at you always. But no, there was

1672
01:20:43,800 --> 01:20:47,920
Speaker 6: just Dad. Matter fact, Now, Dad, we was out here

1673
01:20:47,960 --> 01:20:50,519
Speaker 6: talking about Nordica and uh and I was telling that

1674
01:20:50,600 --> 01:20:53,479
Speaker 6: Nordica and Tommy Hill figure. Although people was buying it

1675
01:20:53,560 --> 01:20:55,320
Speaker 6: in New York, the only reason you was buying it

1676
01:20:55,360 --> 01:20:58,280
Speaker 6: because you couldn't afford the ruphle L, the Raulph Laurenz

1677
01:20:58,400 --> 01:20:58,800
Speaker 6: version of that.

1678
01:20:59,680 --> 01:21:03,519
Speaker 2: Paul, Yeah, that's that kind of that kind of changed

1679
01:21:03,800 --> 01:21:04,600
Speaker 2: as time went on.

1680
01:21:05,360 --> 01:21:09,600
Speaker 6: That was more upscale, like thirty forty years ago. But

1681
01:21:10,360 --> 01:21:12,760
Speaker 6: by the time you came along, now, you're right, it was.

1682
01:21:13,360 --> 01:21:16,479
Speaker 2: More like a sea sea level.

1683
01:21:16,880 --> 01:21:20,960
Speaker 6: Oh, I didn't know my father. You see, I'll show

1684
01:21:20,960 --> 01:21:21,360
Speaker 6: you my father.

1685
01:21:21,520 --> 01:21:21,720
Speaker 1: I know.

1686
01:21:23,240 --> 01:21:24,360
Speaker 2: She used to be putting it on.

1687
01:21:24,960 --> 01:21:28,040
Speaker 6: That's what That's where I got it from my first fly,

1688
01:21:28,280 --> 01:21:30,679
Speaker 6: My first fly winner coat bed jacket. My father brought

1689
01:21:30,760 --> 01:21:33,840
Speaker 6: that taking us, taking us to Brooklyn Golden Shoping. Here

1690
01:21:33,880 --> 01:21:35,760
Speaker 6: hear the spot boom on boom, that's what it is.

1691
01:21:36,160 --> 01:21:38,640
Speaker 6: So I'm not telling you nothing wrong all damn talk

1692
01:21:38,680 --> 01:21:39,320
Speaker 6: to you when I get out.

1693
01:21:39,200 --> 01:21:44,720
Speaker 1: Of there, by dad, by dad, Okay. So like going

1694
01:21:44,760 --> 01:21:46,280
Speaker 1: back to what I said, when you see a girl

1695
01:21:46,560 --> 01:21:48,560
Speaker 1: she like got that ship on this what does she

1696
01:21:48,680 --> 01:21:48,920
Speaker 1: have on?

1697
01:21:49,600 --> 01:21:52,800
Speaker 6: And twenty a thing? Women y'all got at least with me.

1698
01:21:53,560 --> 01:21:55,519
Speaker 6: With most men, y'all got it easy. As long as

1699
01:21:55,560 --> 01:21:57,960
Speaker 6: you look good, nobody's gonna question you. Now, that's the

1700
01:21:58,000 --> 01:21:59,439
Speaker 6: serach that you can't have on it can't have no

1701
01:22:00,040 --> 01:22:04,519
Speaker 6: tsarr shoes. The shoes is very important. So if I

1702
01:22:04,560 --> 01:22:06,320
Speaker 6: see you in the zar shoes that look like botager,

1703
01:22:06,360 --> 01:22:09,960
Speaker 6: it's a dub like fake. You have to have real

1704
01:22:10,080 --> 01:22:11,799
Speaker 6: shoes on you. If I see you with the hermit

1705
01:22:12,080 --> 01:22:16,280
Speaker 6: like these, you got to earn the real joints. Joints

1706
01:22:16,280 --> 01:22:18,120
Speaker 6: that's not that. Don't got the ation. It's just like that.

1707
01:22:19,680 --> 01:22:22,960
Speaker 2: That's here, But they got the ones that are not.

1708
01:22:23,240 --> 01:22:23,719
Speaker 2: Hear mess.

1709
01:22:26,600 --> 01:22:29,320
Speaker 6: If I catch that, it's it's a dub. But I'm

1710
01:22:29,360 --> 01:22:31,920
Speaker 6: gonna be able to tell I really do this. I'm

1711
01:22:31,960 --> 01:22:34,040
Speaker 6: gonna be able to tell even the fact that just

1712
01:22:34,080 --> 01:22:37,200
Speaker 6: because I don't wear fakeses, that's what I'm saying, Even

1713
01:22:37,240 --> 01:22:39,200
Speaker 6: because I don't wear all that weird high end, I

1714
01:22:39,200 --> 01:22:41,559
Speaker 6: don't think like I don't think niggas enjoy wearing high

1715
01:22:41,640 --> 01:22:44,320
Speaker 6: end stuff. They can't. First of all, it doesn't Niggas

1716
01:22:44,360 --> 01:22:46,000
Speaker 6: don't be built for the ship they wearing. You're wearing

1717
01:22:46,040 --> 01:22:47,600
Speaker 6: the merries and you got muffin top you look with

1718
01:22:49,840 --> 01:22:52,200
Speaker 6: you got you got a Marie's skin tight and it's

1719
01:22:52,240 --> 01:22:54,639
Speaker 6: hanging over the sides. Y'all. Niggas don't know what size

1720
01:22:54,680 --> 01:22:56,920
Speaker 6: y'all really all you don't know the difference between your

1721
01:22:56,920 --> 01:22:59,719
Speaker 6: waist and your hip, Like niggas buying baked two sides

1722
01:22:59,800 --> 01:23:02,400
Speaker 6: too small. You get what I'm saying, Like there's just

1723
01:23:02,439 --> 01:23:04,640
Speaker 6: certain ship I can look and tell, like, oh, nigga fly,

1724
01:23:04,800 --> 01:23:05,360
Speaker 6: they got some.

1725
01:23:05,439 --> 01:23:06,840
Speaker 2: Money and you're just buying.

1726
01:23:07,120 --> 01:23:09,080
Speaker 6: I don't think niggas enjoy the snea because they be buying.

1727
01:23:09,240 --> 01:23:11,200
Speaker 6: I know they don't, but they're gonna buy it for

1728
01:23:11,280 --> 01:23:13,280
Speaker 6: whatever reason. Because y'all, y'all.

1729
01:23:13,120 --> 01:23:17,720
Speaker 2: Be like BDB but okay, impressed by this. Never I

1730
01:23:17,720 --> 01:23:19,400
Speaker 2: don't care what a nigga got on. Well, No, I

1731
01:23:19,560 --> 01:23:23,360
Speaker 2: did not say that. I'm talking about designer. I did

1732
01:23:23,520 --> 01:23:25,960
Speaker 2: not say that, be designer, half from tall and be

1733
01:23:26,280 --> 01:23:29,320
Speaker 2: tacky as fuck. I'm talking about I don't like.

1734
01:23:30,120 --> 01:23:33,080
Speaker 1: I want you to look nice and presentable, because it'll

1735
01:23:33,120 --> 01:23:34,160
Speaker 1: be niggas that I don't know.

1736
01:23:34,240 --> 01:23:34,720
Speaker 3: I don't even know.

1737
01:23:34,880 --> 01:23:36,840
Speaker 1: Sometimes what they have on, they look nice as fuck,

1738
01:23:37,040 --> 01:23:38,600
Speaker 1: and then it'll be a nigga. I can see what

1739
01:23:38,720 --> 01:23:40,280
Speaker 1: he has on and he TACKI like.

1740
01:23:40,840 --> 01:23:44,479
Speaker 2: But that's the difference. Nobody want no, that's but that's

1741
01:23:44,520 --> 01:23:46,000
Speaker 2: what I was saying. I don't give a fuck what

1742
01:23:46,280 --> 01:23:48,479
Speaker 2: I do. Nobody want one. I didn't say they don't.

1743
01:23:48,560 --> 01:23:51,759
Speaker 6: They them Texas girls, they be loving some tax.

1744
01:23:52,800 --> 01:23:54,960
Speaker 2: They're seeing people from Texas are taking. You think you

1745
01:23:55,040 --> 01:23:57,600
Speaker 2: agree with that, You think we all can't y'all can

1746
01:23:57,720 --> 01:23:59,880
Speaker 2: dress because y'all be saying we can't.

1747
01:24:01,160 --> 01:24:02,000
Speaker 3: They always talking about what.

1748
01:24:02,360 --> 01:24:04,920
Speaker 6: I don't care when nobody say that pop over bone

1749
01:24:04,960 --> 01:24:07,000
Speaker 6: fit you backed out. The other day, I looked at

1750
01:24:07,000 --> 01:24:10,680
Speaker 6: the phone, say I gave you a fire mojo. I

1751
01:24:10,720 --> 01:24:12,320
Speaker 6: know you won't see it for a year, but I

1752
01:24:12,439 --> 01:24:15,120
Speaker 6: gave it. I was like this your fire, bro, I said,

1753
01:24:15,200 --> 01:24:16,640
Speaker 6: I ain't know what she was on it like that,

1754
01:24:16,800 --> 01:24:19,600
Speaker 6: because like I said, like, if you're pretty.

1755
01:24:19,640 --> 01:24:23,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, and what you have on is decent, I don't care.

1756
01:24:24,320 --> 01:24:26,600
Speaker 6: I'm looking at your bag. Is your bag real? Is

1757
01:24:26,680 --> 01:24:29,000
Speaker 6: your shoes real? Is your nails done?

1758
01:24:29,280 --> 01:24:31,280
Speaker 2: I think that stuff that I always have my nails

1759
01:24:31,320 --> 01:24:33,200
Speaker 2: when I walked in, I always look at your nails.

1760
01:24:34,120 --> 01:24:36,120
Speaker 2: I think that stuff that I always typically used to

1761
01:24:36,160 --> 01:24:38,200
Speaker 2: care about. I just used to care about like bags

1762
01:24:38,280 --> 01:24:38,839
Speaker 2: and shoes.

1763
01:24:40,520 --> 01:24:42,760
Speaker 4: Well, but now I care about But now I be

1764
01:24:42,880 --> 01:24:47,640
Speaker 4: caring about like actually putting this shit on, buying quality clothes.

1765
01:24:47,520 --> 01:24:49,560
Speaker 6: And that's what nobody's doing. So when you do that

1766
01:24:49,720 --> 01:24:51,280
Speaker 6: fast fashion ship, you get a whole bunch of it

1767
01:24:51,280 --> 01:24:52,799
Speaker 6: that look nice Instagram pictures.

1768
01:24:52,920 --> 01:24:53,720
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie.

1769
01:24:54,880 --> 01:24:58,599
Speaker 1: I have never been a person like I liked Bond,

1770
01:24:58,640 --> 01:25:01,200
Speaker 1: the fast fashion stuff, and I like I cared about

1771
01:25:01,200 --> 01:25:04,040
Speaker 1: my accessories, my shoes and my bags, things like that.

1772
01:25:04,439 --> 01:25:07,840
Speaker 1: But I'm not gonna lie like I've been bond little

1773
01:25:07,920 --> 01:25:10,240
Speaker 1: you know, expensive pieces, and it's definitely different.

1774
01:25:10,280 --> 01:25:13,480
Speaker 2: It's the quality, the quality that's why it's so expensive.

1775
01:25:14,000 --> 01:25:17,120
Speaker 6: The quality is different. I'm wearing some ship right now

1776
01:25:17,479 --> 01:25:20,040
Speaker 6: that I'm being able to wear this whole outfit in

1777
01:25:20,200 --> 01:25:22,800
Speaker 6: five years and five years and be able to wear

1778
01:25:22,880 --> 01:25:27,200
Speaker 6: this in five years, Gonna be able to wear everything

1779
01:25:27,200 --> 01:25:29,439
Speaker 6: I'm wearing right now. You get what I'm saying, and

1780
01:25:29,600 --> 01:25:32,240
Speaker 6: that's deep I don't like.

1781
01:25:33,000 --> 01:25:34,920
Speaker 2: All right, right, all right, we done got off topic.

1782
01:25:35,040 --> 01:25:36,200
Speaker 2: We always gonna get off topic.

1783
01:25:36,640 --> 01:25:38,040
Speaker 3: We're gone to get.

1784
01:25:38,120 --> 01:25:46,000
Speaker 1: Into the bow Bow Bow. You ain't gonna say about

1785
01:25:46,840 --> 01:25:49,880
Speaker 1: you don't what I'm saying on two, Yeah, I ain't.

1786
01:25:50,640 --> 01:25:51,280
Speaker 3: Let me ask you this.

1787
01:25:53,720 --> 01:25:56,080
Speaker 2: Ugly before we get into it. Ain't ugly because the

1788
01:25:56,120 --> 01:25:59,000
Speaker 2: girls love you and he's never been to a poor

1789
01:25:59,120 --> 01:25:59,639
Speaker 2: mind show?

1790
01:25:59,720 --> 01:26:03,040
Speaker 6: So he what topic?

1791
01:26:03,800 --> 01:26:04,040
Speaker 3: Okay?

1792
01:26:04,040 --> 01:26:05,160
Speaker 2: Cool, So stop saying it.

1793
01:26:06,560 --> 01:26:08,920
Speaker 1: Anyways, let me ask you this before we get into

1794
01:26:08,960 --> 01:26:11,240
Speaker 1: this line. Dude, do you believe are you a good man?

1795
01:26:12,520 --> 01:26:13,360
Speaker 1: Are you a good man?

1796
01:26:13,920 --> 01:26:15,400
Speaker 6: I think that's for the women to decide I'm a

1797
01:26:15,439 --> 01:26:15,840
Speaker 6: good person.

1798
01:26:16,560 --> 01:26:18,680
Speaker 2: Okay, that's not what I asked you, though.

1799
01:26:18,720 --> 01:26:20,400
Speaker 6: You would have to ask a woman my good man.

1800
01:26:20,520 --> 01:26:22,200
Speaker 6: I think that's weird when men just got out here

1801
01:26:22,200 --> 01:26:22,880
Speaker 6: and say I'm a good man.

1802
01:26:22,960 --> 01:26:23,960
Speaker 3: Cool you? Okay?

1803
01:26:24,000 --> 01:26:26,639
Speaker 6: Cool? I do that lead with my best intention.

1804
01:26:26,960 --> 01:26:31,000
Speaker 1: Okay, So that goes into our topic today. I want

1805
01:26:31,040 --> 01:26:34,479
Speaker 1: to talk about how to be a good lover in

1806
01:26:34,600 --> 01:26:35,240
Speaker 1: the bedroom.

1807
01:26:35,520 --> 01:26:37,519
Speaker 6: Can I just say this is an amazing podcast. I

1808
01:26:37,560 --> 01:26:39,640
Speaker 6: don't know how many people say it like after or

1809
01:26:39,720 --> 01:26:42,600
Speaker 6: like I'm sitting through the post. I'm sitting through this

1810
01:26:42,720 --> 01:26:50,400
Speaker 6: podcast as a podcaster. It's like, oh yeah, I'm so happy.

1811
01:26:50,960 --> 01:26:52,120
Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you.

1812
01:26:53,040 --> 01:26:55,080
Speaker 1: So I want to talk about being a good lover

1813
01:26:55,240 --> 01:26:57,040
Speaker 1: in the bedroom because I feel like, you know, we

1814
01:26:57,200 --> 01:27:00,439
Speaker 1: always talk about men gone nut no matter what, men

1815
01:27:00,560 --> 01:27:04,400
Speaker 1: can fuck semen enough. But that's what I'm saying. I

1816
01:27:04,439 --> 01:27:06,360
Speaker 1: want to talk about being a good lover, you know,

1817
01:27:06,600 --> 01:27:09,920
Speaker 1: like on both sides. I feel like Ross is a

1818
01:27:09,960 --> 01:27:13,160
Speaker 1: good lover. Yes, I'm about to tell you why. You

1819
01:27:13,200 --> 01:27:18,360
Speaker 1: want to know why he has manicured hands. I feel

1820
01:27:18,400 --> 01:27:19,519
Speaker 1: like that's very important.

1821
01:27:20,400 --> 01:27:22,880
Speaker 2: That means that he cares about how his nails looks.

1822
01:27:23,400 --> 01:27:25,720
Speaker 6: To early I said, I won't even won't even play

1823
01:27:25,760 --> 01:27:27,040
Speaker 6: with nail not done.

1824
01:27:27,160 --> 01:27:29,760
Speaker 4: Yes, they're not going to do it, but that's important,

1825
01:27:30,400 --> 01:27:33,200
Speaker 4: Like twenty extra minutes. Those are things that's important, though,

1826
01:27:33,479 --> 01:27:35,640
Speaker 4: Like let's not act like he's nic Like you're not

1827
01:27:35,680 --> 01:27:38,240
Speaker 4: giving my credit lix. You don't think that's important for

1828
01:27:38,320 --> 01:27:40,400
Speaker 4: a man to have, like nicely manicured.

1829
01:27:41,080 --> 01:27:43,760
Speaker 6: Anybody else'd be fine. Okay, if if he's one of

1830
01:27:43,840 --> 01:27:49,400
Speaker 6: these ugly bdbs, these.

1831
01:27:49,360 --> 01:27:51,560
Speaker 3: Comments about to be so crazy.

1832
01:27:53,240 --> 01:27:54,720
Speaker 6: That she loves and just can't get it right with.

1833
01:27:55,000 --> 01:27:56,240
Speaker 6: That's why, because they don't.

1834
01:27:56,120 --> 01:27:59,280
Speaker 2: Think y'all see her used to I was was one.

1835
01:28:01,280 --> 01:28:02,960
Speaker 3: Anyways, let's talk.

1836
01:28:03,000 --> 01:28:04,720
Speaker 2: You don't think that's important, though, No.

1837
01:28:04,840 --> 01:28:07,160
Speaker 3: I do think it's important. I think it's very important

1838
01:28:07,200 --> 01:28:07,719
Speaker 3: because I think.

1839
01:28:07,640 --> 01:28:09,519
Speaker 4: It's the little details that you can look at a

1840
01:28:09,560 --> 01:28:14,479
Speaker 4: man and tell, yeah, he does. He cares about his hygiene,

1841
01:28:14,640 --> 01:28:16,439
Speaker 4: he cares about his appearing.

1842
01:28:16,560 --> 01:28:18,360
Speaker 6: You have a facial regimen, have a four step.

1843
01:28:18,880 --> 01:28:20,040
Speaker 2: It ain't no bumps over here.

1844
01:28:21,160 --> 01:28:24,240
Speaker 6: Any blimses on his face is because I'm a fighter.

1845
01:28:24,439 --> 01:28:27,080
Speaker 2: But let's talk about the physical of it.

1846
01:28:27,320 --> 01:28:29,760
Speaker 6: Let's do it, which is probably like the last step though, I.

1847
01:28:29,760 --> 01:28:33,080
Speaker 1: Think that you should pay attention though, like I'm not

1848
01:28:33,160 --> 01:28:35,200
Speaker 1: gonna lie, Like the first time I have sex with

1849
01:28:35,280 --> 01:28:37,519
Speaker 1: a man, I pay attention to, like the positions that

1850
01:28:37,720 --> 01:28:41,560
Speaker 1: he most reacts to, things he kind of doesn't react to,

1851
01:28:42,160 --> 01:28:45,160
Speaker 1: and then like I'll be taking notes during the sex

1852
01:28:45,479 --> 01:28:47,600
Speaker 1: I do, and I feel like everybody should do that.

1853
01:28:47,640 --> 01:28:49,559
Speaker 1: I feel like that's important of being a good lover

1854
01:28:50,200 --> 01:28:53,880
Speaker 1: is because one thing about me, I know my body,

1855
01:28:54,000 --> 01:28:55,320
Speaker 1: I know how to have an orgasm.

1856
01:28:55,400 --> 01:28:57,519
Speaker 2: So even if your dick is not that good, I

1857
01:28:57,760 --> 01:28:59,479
Speaker 2: know what position I like.

1858
01:28:59,520 --> 01:29:01,200
Speaker 1: I know how to touch myself when I'm on the

1859
01:29:01,240 --> 01:29:03,599
Speaker 1: dick a certain way to make myself have a good time.

1860
01:29:04,439 --> 01:29:07,000
Speaker 1: So with that being said, how can I make you

1861
01:29:07,200 --> 01:29:09,639
Speaker 1: feel good? How can I make you enjoy this experience?

1862
01:29:09,720 --> 01:29:11,240
Speaker 2: But if his d trash, why are you trying to

1863
01:29:11,240 --> 01:29:11,920
Speaker 2: make him feel good?

1864
01:29:12,040 --> 01:29:13,160
Speaker 3: Because we're already in it.

1865
01:29:13,479 --> 01:29:16,560
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get my nuts. If we're already in it,

1866
01:29:16,680 --> 01:29:18,800
Speaker 1: I might as well at least get enoughts.

1867
01:29:18,600 --> 01:29:19,040
Speaker 2: Good for you.

1868
01:29:20,040 --> 01:29:22,040
Speaker 1: But I'm saying it's the first time we have sex.

1869
01:29:22,439 --> 01:29:24,080
Speaker 1: I'm talking about the first time I have sex with

1870
01:29:24,160 --> 01:29:24,439
Speaker 1: a guy.

1871
01:29:25,080 --> 01:29:25,559
Speaker 3: If it's not.

1872
01:29:25,760 --> 01:29:32,479
Speaker 2: Good, I mean I'm to make I'm not trash.

1873
01:29:32,520 --> 01:29:33,960
Speaker 3: If it's the first time we have sex.

1874
01:29:34,280 --> 01:29:34,559
Speaker 6: No, you.

1875
01:29:36,360 --> 01:29:39,360
Speaker 3: Like, actually I'm fucking we.

1876
01:29:46,720 --> 01:29:46,920
Speaker 6: Now.

1877
01:29:47,400 --> 01:29:49,080
Speaker 2: No if it gets to that point where it's like

1878
01:29:49,200 --> 01:29:55,519
Speaker 2: going on and on and on, yeah, okay, But like.

1879
01:29:59,160 --> 01:30:01,920
Speaker 3: Like I said, phone ring, I feel.

1880
01:30:03,720 --> 01:30:05,640
Speaker 2: We love to do that I used to do in

1881
01:30:05,760 --> 01:30:06,920
Speaker 2: all the shows.

1882
01:30:11,520 --> 01:30:13,360
Speaker 6: So I got said to tell you when this is do,

1883
01:30:13,479 --> 01:30:17,120
Speaker 6: I got to tell you about that. Harry got on

1884
01:30:17,200 --> 01:30:18,040
Speaker 6: that bullshit.

1885
01:30:20,520 --> 01:30:27,639
Speaker 2: She'll come down themselves Harriet was wearing some wind blows.

1886
01:30:28,040 --> 01:30:28,160
Speaker 9: Win.

1887
01:30:28,800 --> 01:30:30,600
Speaker 6: I didn't say she was ugly, she was wearing some

1888
01:30:30,720 --> 01:30:40,160
Speaker 6: bullshit like, hey, we're going that fet some bullshit. Oh

1889
01:30:40,240 --> 01:30:42,479
Speaker 6: my lord, debut that motherfucking mind.

1890
01:30:42,640 --> 01:30:44,519
Speaker 2: That fun or killed. That's when I really used to

1891
01:30:44,600 --> 01:30:44,800
Speaker 2: do it.

1892
01:30:46,320 --> 01:30:47,040
Speaker 6: The same.

1893
01:30:49,560 --> 01:30:50,600
Speaker 2: That chamber.

1894
01:30:52,920 --> 01:30:55,760
Speaker 6: You're still on the you know, my favorite part. And

1895
01:30:55,920 --> 01:30:57,200
Speaker 6: when he would take the pills.

1896
01:31:00,600 --> 01:31:02,640
Speaker 2: And he'll do a little spin, he was like.

1897
01:31:06,240 --> 01:31:07,240
Speaker 3: He took his glasses off.

1898
01:31:07,880 --> 01:31:08,920
Speaker 6: He took his glass there.

1899
01:31:08,960 --> 01:31:10,559
Speaker 2: I was like, I don't care what y'all say.

1900
01:31:10,600 --> 01:31:13,599
Speaker 4: I was definitely one of those people they used to say, yes,

1901
01:31:15,320 --> 01:31:16,479
Speaker 4: think stephan was fine.

1902
01:31:16,560 --> 01:31:20,200
Speaker 2: I had I never liked Stephane he was I did.

1903
01:31:20,400 --> 01:31:22,400
Speaker 6: I hated that way better.

1904
01:31:22,560 --> 01:31:23,120
Speaker 3: No, he wasn't.

1905
01:31:23,240 --> 01:31:25,479
Speaker 2: And the words of Kane too many arkles on your team.

1906
01:31:25,640 --> 01:31:29,320
Speaker 2: It's like a period bar. He did that. But let's

1907
01:31:29,360 --> 01:31:34,000
Speaker 2: get back into a good lover. God damn it, that

1908
01:31:34,120 --> 01:31:39,479
Speaker 2: was a fire bar. Don't the bar talking about good lovers?

1909
01:31:39,520 --> 01:31:39,800
Speaker 3: Okay.

1910
01:31:40,360 --> 01:31:43,080
Speaker 2: So to me, I feel like I'm a good talking

1911
01:31:43,080 --> 01:31:46,799
Speaker 2: about family better and winslow Okay.

1912
01:31:48,960 --> 01:31:52,439
Speaker 1: Anyways, I feel like I'm a good.

1913
01:31:53,400 --> 01:31:59,719
Speaker 6: Do you remember when they putting Niggle or Lauris one lock.

1914
01:32:05,960 --> 01:32:12,479
Speaker 4: That's what, bro, we need to bring that ship back.

1915
01:32:12,520 --> 01:32:15,560
Speaker 4: We are having people in the background. Vier you do,

1916
01:32:16,400 --> 01:32:19,200
Speaker 4: said Hober, saying he need a pay increase.

1917
01:32:18,920 --> 01:32:25,799
Speaker 3: Though, Okay, back to it. It was a lowis the saxophone.

1918
01:32:28,880 --> 01:32:29,840
Speaker 2: When they were coming back.

1919
01:32:29,760 --> 01:32:34,600
Speaker 6: From commercial that was going to commercial, be going to

1920
01:32:34,720 --> 01:32:35,240
Speaker 6: the commercial.

1921
01:32:38,520 --> 01:32:39,240
Speaker 3: Okay, listen.

1922
01:32:39,680 --> 01:32:42,720
Speaker 1: I feel like what makes me a good lover is

1923
01:32:42,800 --> 01:32:44,440
Speaker 1: that I pay attention to details.

1924
01:32:45,200 --> 01:32:47,400
Speaker 2: So and honestly, I'm not gonna lie.

1925
01:32:48,000 --> 01:32:50,519
Speaker 1: This may be annoying. I don't know, and I don't

1926
01:32:50,600 --> 01:32:53,560
Speaker 1: care if I'm doing something. I'm asking nigga, like you

1927
01:32:53,720 --> 01:32:54,200
Speaker 1: like that ship?

1928
01:32:54,520 --> 01:32:55,200
Speaker 2: Like do you like it?

1929
01:32:55,439 --> 01:32:56,080
Speaker 6: And your voice?

1930
01:32:56,479 --> 01:32:56,519
Speaker 5: No?

1931
01:32:56,880 --> 01:32:57,320
Speaker 6: Not like that?

1932
01:32:57,560 --> 01:32:58,080
Speaker 2: How you saying?

1933
01:32:59,160 --> 01:33:03,320
Speaker 6: Because if it's that boy, shut the fuck up and

1934
01:33:03,439 --> 01:33:07,320
Speaker 6: not like that. I'm like, like if she looked up

1935
01:33:07,360 --> 01:33:08,120
Speaker 6: and be like you.

1936
01:33:09,920 --> 01:33:12,240
Speaker 1: Of course I'm not using my sex voice because why

1937
01:33:12,280 --> 01:33:14,040
Speaker 1: do they need to hear my sext?

1938
01:33:14,120 --> 01:33:17,200
Speaker 2: Worried su food? That was it?

1939
01:33:17,439 --> 01:33:20,519
Speaker 6: She said, shut up all right. I just wanted to.

1940
01:33:23,280 --> 01:33:24,160
Speaker 2: A different tone.

1941
01:33:24,280 --> 01:33:28,280
Speaker 3: I heard sex before. I mean, I was there.

1942
01:33:29,640 --> 01:33:31,200
Speaker 2: You have heard my sex voice like.

1943
01:33:31,240 --> 01:33:31,920
Speaker 6: Behind the door.

1944
01:33:32,080 --> 01:33:36,400
Speaker 2: No, no, she was in the bed, big freaky.

1945
01:33:37,840 --> 01:33:40,880
Speaker 1: Good time, make freaky little anyways, Like I said, I

1946
01:33:41,120 --> 01:33:43,519
Speaker 1: do not mind asking a nigga like while we're having sex,

1947
01:33:43,640 --> 01:33:44,519
Speaker 1: like do you like this?

1948
01:33:45,000 --> 01:33:48,080
Speaker 2: Or you know, like give me direction what you want

1949
01:33:48,160 --> 01:33:50,120
Speaker 2: from me, because I'm going to do it.

1950
01:33:50,840 --> 01:33:51,559
Speaker 3: What do you want?

1951
01:33:51,680 --> 01:33:55,000
Speaker 1: What these bitches want from a nigga, Like, let me know,

1952
01:33:55,200 --> 01:33:57,400
Speaker 1: because I'm gonna do it, especially if I'm in the mood.

1953
01:33:57,439 --> 01:33:58,880
Speaker 1: So I feel like that's why I'm a good lover.

1954
01:33:59,240 --> 01:34:00,920
Speaker 1: I take notes and I want to make you feel

1955
01:34:00,920 --> 01:34:04,280
Speaker 1: as good as possible. So that's what I feel like

1956
01:34:04,360 --> 01:34:06,240
Speaker 1: makes me a good lover. So what do y'all feel like?

1957
01:34:06,320 --> 01:34:07,720
Speaker 2: Makes y'all good lover?

1958
01:34:08,280 --> 01:34:12,840
Speaker 4: I'm very sensual and sexual like naturally right, so like

1959
01:34:13,000 --> 01:34:15,400
Speaker 4: I think it just you know, flows into the bedroom

1960
01:34:15,439 --> 01:34:18,479
Speaker 4: and I'm just a very sensual person. Like I'm one

1961
01:34:18,520 --> 01:34:20,640
Speaker 4: of those people that I'm a pleaser, So I like

1962
01:34:21,240 --> 01:34:21,719
Speaker 4: do whatever.

1963
01:34:22,120 --> 01:34:22,920
Speaker 3: That's how I am.

1964
01:34:24,560 --> 01:34:28,280
Speaker 2: That's where I draw the line with no limits. That's

1965
01:34:28,360 --> 01:34:28,920
Speaker 2: my limits.

1966
01:34:29,880 --> 01:34:32,360
Speaker 3: That's no limbs. That's why I don't know.

1967
01:34:33,479 --> 01:34:37,120
Speaker 2: But everything else though, no limits.

1968
01:34:37,439 --> 01:34:40,160
Speaker 4: Whatever you want, and I might do that one day,

1969
01:34:40,200 --> 01:34:42,639
Speaker 4: but I think I'm a reserve eating ass for my husband,

1970
01:34:42,720 --> 01:34:44,640
Speaker 4: Like I mean, you know, married.

1971
01:34:45,080 --> 01:34:48,280
Speaker 2: What you mean, get divorced, then I probably eat my

1972
01:34:48,360 --> 01:34:49,320
Speaker 2: second nigga as to.

1973
01:34:52,120 --> 01:34:57,519
Speaker 6: Into the second marriage. You are not bringing into this house.

1974
01:34:57,680 --> 01:34:59,720
Speaker 6: I brush it every days the same.

1975
01:35:00,000 --> 01:35:03,880
Speaker 2: Don't get you want a virgin tongue, yes, but I

1976
01:35:03,920 --> 01:35:05,800
Speaker 2: don't want to know you got a virgin ass.

1977
01:35:06,720 --> 01:35:09,360
Speaker 6: This the whole is being saved for one person. One

1978
01:35:09,400 --> 01:35:12,439
Speaker 6: person doctor when I have to go to get that

1979
01:35:12,520 --> 01:35:15,000
Speaker 6: thumb up there as he will get a fresh bussy.

1980
01:35:15,800 --> 01:35:17,200
Speaker 6: That bush has never been touched.

1981
01:35:17,960 --> 01:35:22,160
Speaker 2: Got a busy if they wanted to be there first

1982
01:35:22,200 --> 01:35:22,879
Speaker 2: of all the girls.

1983
01:35:24,000 --> 01:35:27,040
Speaker 6: The girls be on me child, They be like you

1984
01:35:27,200 --> 01:35:28,920
Speaker 6: support us? We I like girl?

1985
01:35:29,000 --> 01:35:31,799
Speaker 2: I know, okay, so sold off this bus.

1986
01:35:31,960 --> 01:35:32,679
Speaker 6: Make a lot of money.

1987
01:35:33,040 --> 01:35:37,920
Speaker 2: I can tell is probably groom very.

1988
01:35:38,560 --> 01:35:42,960
Speaker 6: We don't play with that buthole my with my jeans

1989
01:35:42,960 --> 01:35:44,160
Speaker 6: are way too expensive. Be stinking.

1990
01:35:45,000 --> 01:35:46,080
Speaker 3: So what makes you a good lover?

1991
01:35:47,160 --> 01:35:48,120
Speaker 6: What makes me a good lover?

1992
01:35:48,760 --> 01:35:49,839
Speaker 2: I'm put my phone.

1993
01:35:49,640 --> 01:35:52,479
Speaker 6: Down so I can. I think it starts before the bedroom.

1994
01:35:53,040 --> 01:35:55,360
Speaker 6: It starts before the bedroom. You already feel like that

1995
01:35:55,479 --> 01:36:00,240
Speaker 6: bitch before just just throughout the day, I'm already text

1996
01:36:00,280 --> 01:36:02,800
Speaker 6: me I love you, yo, You're good? You need something?

1997
01:36:02,880 --> 01:36:06,439
Speaker 6: Have you eaten? I'm old? I'm right there. So it's

1998
01:36:06,600 --> 01:36:09,920
Speaker 6: never you A lot of The interaction that men find

1999
01:36:10,080 --> 01:36:12,599
Speaker 6: to be a problem with having sexual women are getting

2000
01:36:12,640 --> 01:36:17,400
Speaker 6: sex from your partner is because you're not constantly priming it.

2001
01:36:17,960 --> 01:36:19,800
Speaker 6: Is it right or is it wrong? Who knows? It's

2002
01:36:19,840 --> 01:36:21,599
Speaker 6: the life we live. Oh my god. Right. We can't

2003
01:36:21,720 --> 01:36:25,160
Speaker 6: change everything. Not everything needs to be revolutionized. Okay, if

2004
01:36:25,200 --> 01:36:29,240
Speaker 6: you want more sex from your woman, be more sexual

2005
01:36:29,760 --> 01:36:33,639
Speaker 6: without being sexual out today. Listen to what she's saying.

2006
01:36:34,760 --> 01:36:37,400
Speaker 2: If she's saying, he really putting y'all on some game

2007
01:36:37,520 --> 01:36:39,400
Speaker 2: right now, I'm if.

2008
01:36:39,360 --> 01:36:41,680
Speaker 6: She's saying that right this This is the ship that

2009
01:36:41,960 --> 01:36:43,240
Speaker 6: we were talking about this and got into it like

2010
01:36:43,320 --> 01:36:45,760
Speaker 6: last month, and I was like, niggas are the all

2011
01:36:45,840 --> 01:36:48,080
Speaker 6: word that will get you canceled. It sounds like babarred

2012
01:36:48,120 --> 01:36:53,360
Speaker 6: it right niggas. Niggas will sit there and be like,

2013
01:36:53,520 --> 01:36:56,360
Speaker 6: oh I want more sex, I need more sex, and

2014
01:36:56,439 --> 01:36:59,400
Speaker 6: then a woman will tell them exactly what would put

2015
01:36:59,439 --> 01:37:01,600
Speaker 6: them in the mood food, and instead of doing that,

2016
01:37:02,240 --> 01:37:07,880
Speaker 6: you say this, niggas cheat, m dumb mass nigga. You

2017
01:37:07,920 --> 01:37:09,640
Speaker 6: had to put that new bitch in the mood too.

2018
01:37:10,080 --> 01:37:12,519
Speaker 6: It just took a little. It was fun. It was

2019
01:37:12,600 --> 01:37:15,200
Speaker 6: more fun because you notice bitch see the niggas lose

2020
01:37:15,280 --> 01:37:17,240
Speaker 6: that for their woman. You get used to your woman,

2021
01:37:17,960 --> 01:37:20,040
Speaker 6: so you're not all that ship you're doing for that bitch.

2022
01:37:20,080 --> 01:37:21,639
Speaker 6: You could be doing for your woman. It would turn

2023
01:37:21,680 --> 01:37:23,400
Speaker 6: it on, but you want to do it because she's different.

2024
01:37:23,560 --> 01:37:26,280
Speaker 6: You don't got the same, you know what I mean?

2025
01:37:26,600 --> 01:37:28,559
Speaker 6: So what makes me a good lover? Like I said,

2026
01:37:28,560 --> 01:37:30,760
Speaker 6: it starts way before the bedroom. I'm saying, you fly

2027
01:37:30,920 --> 01:37:36,599
Speaker 6: with just cauzad like I'm it's not romantic. I'm super roman.

2028
01:37:36,720 --> 01:37:37,760
Speaker 2: Giving romantic though.

2029
01:37:37,800 --> 01:37:38,479
Speaker 3: What's your sign?

2030
01:37:38,600 --> 01:37:38,880
Speaker 2: Mouse?

2031
01:37:39,400 --> 01:37:43,080
Speaker 6: I don't know. I'm my birthday April fifteenth, Arias. Oh,

2032
01:37:43,800 --> 01:37:47,320
Speaker 6: it's like so it's like, like I said, what that means?

2033
01:37:47,640 --> 01:37:51,400
Speaker 2: He wasn't expecting it. I know his birthday. He just

2034
01:37:51,479 --> 01:37:52,679
Speaker 2: never talks about his sign.

2035
01:37:52,880 --> 01:37:57,000
Speaker 6: I'm not believe he doesn't believing that shit, But it's

2036
01:37:57,080 --> 01:38:01,719
Speaker 6: just funny. Listen the plan word fire signs.

2037
01:38:01,800 --> 01:38:05,600
Speaker 2: Maybe all I know. I'm with you, Leo, right, you

2038
01:38:05,720 --> 01:38:06,799
Speaker 2: know my birthdays?

2039
01:38:07,600 --> 01:38:09,720
Speaker 6: I just know I know the fire signs. That's what

2040
01:38:09,840 --> 01:38:11,360
Speaker 6: I know. Your birthday, yes, but I.

2041
01:38:11,439 --> 01:38:14,160
Speaker 3: Know Leo, fire and desire.

2042
01:38:15,320 --> 01:38:17,840
Speaker 6: Marie and you heard what he what?

2043
01:38:18,560 --> 01:38:19,920
Speaker 3: You stupid.

2044
01:38:26,000 --> 01:38:30,000
Speaker 2: DEI okay, we have gone over time.

2045
01:38:30,280 --> 01:38:32,840
Speaker 6: And I push you like a champ. I push you

2046
01:38:32,920 --> 01:38:35,320
Speaker 6: like a lesbian. That's what we liked, oil Boy. I

2047
01:38:35,880 --> 01:38:37,599
Speaker 6: try to such the soul like you, Jane, I swear,

2048
01:38:37,680 --> 01:38:40,439
Speaker 6: Oh god, that's what you give me the opportunity to

2049
01:38:40,520 --> 01:38:43,639
Speaker 6: get face to face with that little little that little being.

2050
01:38:44,560 --> 01:38:47,040
Speaker 3: All right, let's move on, let's go. This is a

2051
01:38:47,160 --> 01:38:48,280
Speaker 3: long ass episode.

2052
01:38:48,439 --> 01:38:53,160
Speaker 2: Oh okay, cool, we didn't have We normally have a timer,

2053
01:38:53,360 --> 01:38:54,120
Speaker 2: but we didn't have one.

2054
01:38:54,320 --> 01:38:56,080
Speaker 1: Yes, So all right, so now we're gonna get into

2055
01:38:56,160 --> 01:39:04,760
Speaker 1: that about no time bowoo. He got into it that, okay,

2056
01:39:04,840 --> 01:39:07,720
Speaker 1: So my bop other week I have been listening to

2057
01:39:08,000 --> 01:39:10,240
Speaker 1: I've been put on him recently, and but he's been

2058
01:39:10,320 --> 01:39:12,400
Speaker 1: out for a while. But you know, sometimes people have

2059
01:39:12,520 --> 01:39:14,320
Speaker 1: to convince me. And I was finally convinced because he

2060
01:39:14,360 --> 01:39:18,599
Speaker 1: dropped his album jig. Oh my god, he's hard, he's amazing.

2061
01:39:18,800 --> 01:39:19,519
Speaker 1: I had no idea.

2062
01:39:19,560 --> 01:39:23,439
Speaker 2: I was super he's like I know.

2063
01:39:23,560 --> 01:39:26,000
Speaker 1: But the thing is, I just wasn't convinced because I

2064
01:39:26,080 --> 01:39:28,360
Speaker 1: heard one song by him and I didn't really like it.

2065
01:39:29,000 --> 01:39:31,799
Speaker 2: This album that he dropped is fire Fire.

2066
01:39:31,960 --> 01:39:34,240
Speaker 1: He's very, very fucking good. I'm sorry, Jid, I will

2067
01:39:34,280 --> 01:39:37,080
Speaker 1: sleep on you. He got his song with Ari Lennox,

2068
01:39:37,600 --> 01:39:40,880
Speaker 1: and I just I can relate so fucking much. So

2069
01:39:41,000 --> 01:39:43,960
Speaker 1: he has a song called Can't Make You Change, because

2070
01:39:43,960 --> 01:39:45,800
Speaker 1: I feel like I've done that.

2071
01:39:47,080 --> 01:39:50,599
Speaker 6: After my favorite songe that that brother in the record.

2072
01:39:53,840 --> 01:39:55,720
Speaker 1: But no, I'll say like can't make you Change. I

2073
01:39:55,800 --> 01:39:58,519
Speaker 1: feel like women we can relate to this. Stop trying

2074
01:39:58,520 --> 01:40:00,280
Speaker 1: to make these niggas change. Basically, at the end of

2075
01:40:00,280 --> 01:40:01,920
Speaker 1: the day, I don't want to be long winded about

2076
01:40:01,960 --> 01:40:04,080
Speaker 1: it today. Y'all know how I feel about Ari Lennox.

2077
01:40:04,120 --> 01:40:05,920
Speaker 1: I'm still looking for you, Ari, come on the show.

2078
01:40:06,680 --> 01:40:07,839
Speaker 2: But Jed.

2079
01:40:09,240 --> 01:40:12,519
Speaker 1: Ari is fucking amazing. I have never heard of r

2080
01:40:12,720 --> 01:40:14,280
Speaker 1: Linx record that I don't like.

2081
01:40:14,360 --> 01:40:15,800
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie to you. I've never heard of

2082
01:40:15,840 --> 01:40:16,559
Speaker 2: Ari record that.

2083
01:40:16,560 --> 01:40:17,000
Speaker 9: I don't like.

2084
01:40:18,280 --> 01:40:19,000
Speaker 2: We haven't yet.

2085
01:40:19,920 --> 01:40:22,000
Speaker 1: But the thing is, the reason I haven't is because

2086
01:40:22,080 --> 01:40:24,280
Speaker 1: I know something happened with an interview with her and

2087
01:40:24,400 --> 01:40:27,120
Speaker 1: somebody really yeah it was. And the thing is, though,

2088
01:40:27,280 --> 01:40:29,800
Speaker 1: when she says she's not doing any interviews for the

2089
01:40:29,880 --> 01:40:32,439
Speaker 1: time being, I like to get people space because when

2090
01:40:32,479 --> 01:40:34,000
Speaker 1: you come on, poor minds, it's about to be a

2091
01:40:34,040 --> 01:40:35,760
Speaker 1: vibe and you're about to have a good time. So

2092
01:40:35,880 --> 01:40:38,080
Speaker 1: whenever she's ready, I wanted to be the right timing

2093
01:40:38,200 --> 01:40:40,920
Speaker 1: because anybody that watches the show know that how I

2094
01:40:40,960 --> 01:40:43,360
Speaker 1: feel about Ari, I love her, So yeah, her and

2095
01:40:43,479 --> 01:40:46,920
Speaker 1: Jed Fire record I Fuck with Jed. I'm a new

2096
01:40:47,000 --> 01:40:49,240
Speaker 1: fan of his now and I think I made one

2097
01:40:49,280 --> 01:40:51,439
Speaker 1: of his songs about of the week in the past,

2098
01:40:52,000 --> 01:40:54,200
Speaker 1: but I never really sat down and listened to him

2099
01:40:54,240 --> 01:40:54,519
Speaker 1: for real.

2100
01:40:54,640 --> 01:40:57,880
Speaker 2: So I'm a fan. I'm sold, all right, So.

2101
01:40:59,320 --> 01:41:01,600
Speaker 4: Dj ain't He just came out with his twook or

2102
01:41:01,640 --> 01:41:06,080
Speaker 4: thirteenth studio album. I can't remember which one. It is thirteenth, Okay,

2103
01:41:06,640 --> 01:41:09,759
Speaker 4: he got this song, God did talk.

2104
01:41:09,640 --> 01:41:12,559
Speaker 6: About it a real one.

2105
01:41:12,840 --> 01:41:16,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, it breaks my whole. So he got this song,

2106
01:41:16,479 --> 01:41:17,000
Speaker 2: God did.

2107
01:41:19,760 --> 01:41:26,040
Speaker 6: He breaks breaks. You are the worst part of the

2108
01:41:26,120 --> 01:41:28,679
Speaker 6: song every time, every time his song.

2109
01:41:29,040 --> 01:41:32,799
Speaker 2: But it's his shade. It breaks.

2110
01:41:33,479 --> 01:41:37,439
Speaker 6: Really it did coach of the All Star teams, so

2111
01:41:38,240 --> 01:41:39,160
Speaker 6: remember you get into it.

2112
01:41:39,280 --> 01:41:40,880
Speaker 1: Let me also say he did an interview for the

2113
01:41:40,960 --> 01:41:43,720
Speaker 1: VMMs and he said the album cover, those tears were real.

2114
01:41:44,040 --> 01:41:46,040
Speaker 2: I believe we were going back and forth. The tears

2115
01:41:46,080 --> 01:41:47,040
Speaker 2: on the album cover were.

2116
01:41:49,160 --> 01:41:52,240
Speaker 1: God, it was so it's the Lil Wayne Rick, Ross,

2117
01:41:52,960 --> 01:41:55,320
Speaker 1: Uh jay Z and John Legend.

2118
01:41:55,880 --> 01:41:59,559
Speaker 2: First of all, Beach jay Z snapped y'all. First of all,

2119
01:41:59,640 --> 01:42:02,920
Speaker 2: y'all know, jay Z is my favorite rapper ever period.

2120
01:42:04,120 --> 01:42:07,240
Speaker 1: I said this nous times on Paris, I said, I

2121
01:42:07,439 --> 01:42:09,879
Speaker 1: used to tell Lexis all the time before we had Paris,

2122
01:42:09,960 --> 01:42:11,280
Speaker 1: jay Z is my favorite reppert ever.

2123
01:42:11,720 --> 01:42:15,000
Speaker 2: I love when he gets on the other and he

2124
01:42:15,120 --> 01:42:19,559
Speaker 2: started talking heavy. He was talking so crazy. He ain't

2125
01:42:19,640 --> 01:42:23,800
Speaker 2: never snapped, And I mean j guys because yeah, what.

2126
01:42:25,720 --> 01:42:28,519
Speaker 6: They singing to hymns? Because I'm him, I don't.

2127
01:42:28,800 --> 01:42:30,280
Speaker 2: But you know, let me not even say that, because

2128
01:42:30,320 --> 01:42:31,360
Speaker 2: jay Z have snapped a lot.

2129
01:42:31,439 --> 01:42:33,760
Speaker 4: But like when I say he really snapped on that

2130
01:42:34,360 --> 01:42:39,920
Speaker 4: verse he said, he said, how many billionaires could come

2131
01:42:39,960 --> 01:42:40,840
Speaker 4: from whole crib?

2132
01:42:41,479 --> 01:42:48,760
Speaker 2: I'm talking to me yay and reed, and yeah, I

2133
01:42:49,160 --> 01:42:51,080
Speaker 2: love it. I think it's like that's the real ship

2134
01:42:51,200 --> 01:42:52,920
Speaker 2: talking because how many niggas can really say that.

2135
01:42:54,880 --> 01:42:56,559
Speaker 3: Whatever they want about I.

2136
01:42:56,600 --> 01:43:04,320
Speaker 6: Got fole statues I got I'm weak, I got praying

2137
01:43:04,360 --> 01:43:08,240
Speaker 6: forgive them for every sister I played. Yeah, I got

2138
01:43:08,320 --> 01:43:13,000
Speaker 6: still nigga right here, I was about I got on

2139
01:43:13,560 --> 01:43:17,080
Speaker 6: beach chair versus about his daughter. I got one more.

2140
01:43:17,160 --> 01:43:17,759
Speaker 6: I can't remember.

2141
01:43:18,040 --> 01:43:19,479
Speaker 3: Did you say still a nigga?

2142
01:43:19,680 --> 01:43:22,439
Speaker 2: Still nigga? You don't remember that song still, Okay, Okay,

2143
01:43:22,439 --> 01:43:26,760
Speaker 2: I thought you, Okay, I was thinking, but hand down

2144
01:43:27,360 --> 01:43:32,160
Speaker 2: best song on the album, jay Z Now that's okay.

2145
01:43:32,600 --> 01:43:34,439
Speaker 3: You got the cartoon by That's fire.

2146
01:43:34,960 --> 01:43:39,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, y'all, Okay. I've been listening to that song every

2147
01:43:39,479 --> 01:43:40,840
Speaker 2: day and it's just a vibe.

2148
01:43:40,880 --> 01:43:44,639
Speaker 1: So I think when you come from like people lie,

2149
01:43:44,800 --> 01:43:47,840
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. John Legends part I could have

2150
01:43:47,920 --> 01:43:50,280
Speaker 1: done that. DJ Callen. He didn't put me on the

2151
01:43:50,360 --> 01:43:52,760
Speaker 1: Albumohn Legend has not some black lead for.

2152
01:43:55,000 --> 01:43:55,760
Speaker 3: That's all he did.

2153
01:43:56,880 --> 01:44:01,320
Speaker 2: Oh god, you didn't. You don't sound like him?

2154
01:44:03,360 --> 01:44:07,120
Speaker 6: Oh god, oh.

2155
01:44:11,680 --> 01:44:15,240
Speaker 2: God. They know that. The inky you do they.

2156
01:44:19,040 --> 01:44:22,879
Speaker 6: The vocals workshop, not just work.

2157
01:44:25,360 --> 01:44:27,320
Speaker 2: You here the week.

2158
01:44:28,160 --> 01:44:33,000
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, I know what you've been Jamine.

2159
01:44:33,360 --> 01:44:36,160
Speaker 6: I mean, be honest. Put a crack in that renaissance,

2160
01:44:36,200 --> 01:44:39,760
Speaker 6: a different, it's a little different, plastic off the sofa. Yes,

2161
01:44:40,280 --> 01:44:43,680
Speaker 6: it's been. It's been on the peatle. You know that

2162
01:44:43,880 --> 01:44:49,760
Speaker 6: you can't help but be around me, yourself, around me,

2163
01:44:52,800 --> 01:44:59,479
Speaker 6: the vocal corse word, we're here, shot that they have

2164
01:44:59,560 --> 01:45:05,439
Speaker 6: the range. I love Hoodie by Lenox has been, it

2165
01:45:05,600 --> 01:45:08,479
Speaker 6: has been on repeat. That's just so tough, that's just tough.

2166
01:45:11,000 --> 01:45:12,560
Speaker 6: Well you love R and B. Though R and B

2167
01:45:12,720 --> 01:45:16,120
Speaker 6: is my box. I'm the R and B girls Z.

2168
01:45:17,800 --> 01:45:21,639
Speaker 4: So now it's time to get into our favorite segment

2169
01:45:21,680 --> 01:45:23,240
Speaker 4: of the show, which is for your heart out. You know,

2170
01:45:23,280 --> 01:45:25,960
Speaker 4: if you have any questions that you need answered or

2171
01:45:26,000 --> 01:45:28,880
Speaker 4: you won't answered, send them to ask poor minds at

2172
01:45:29,000 --> 01:45:31,560
Speaker 4: gmail dot com. That's a s K p o U

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Speaker 4: R in my n B s at gmail dot com.

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01:45:35,479 --> 01:45:38,120
Speaker 4: We're also accepting testimonials. You know, we want to know

2175
01:45:38,160 --> 01:45:40,280
Speaker 4: if we helped you or if we fuck your lifehoud

2176
01:45:40,800 --> 01:45:44,960
Speaker 4: Either way, let us not let your worlds know. So

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01:45:45,280 --> 01:45:49,160
Speaker 4: question number one, Hatrea and Lex, My child's father recently

2178
01:45:49,240 --> 01:45:51,719
Speaker 4: confessed that he had sex with my childhood best friend

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01:45:51,840 --> 01:45:55,320
Speaker 4: multiple times unprotected. He said it happened two years ago

2180
01:45:55,680 --> 01:45:58,200
Speaker 4: while I was pregnant. One of those times, he said

2181
01:45:58,320 --> 01:46:02,040
Speaker 4: I was upstairs sleeping. My first reaction was anger, then

2182
01:46:02,120 --> 01:46:04,720
Speaker 4: it turned to her. I was really confused why they

2183
01:46:04,760 --> 01:46:07,320
Speaker 4: would do something like this to me. I'm very genuine

2184
01:46:07,400 --> 01:46:10,360
Speaker 4: and would have done anything for them. Looking back on

2185
01:46:10,439 --> 01:46:13,439
Speaker 4: the situation. He would always say she's a hole. You

2186
01:46:13,560 --> 01:46:16,720
Speaker 4: don't need to hang with her. Any other remarks anytime

2187
01:46:17,360 --> 01:46:19,600
Speaker 4: I would ran to her about how he would treat me,

2188
01:46:19,920 --> 01:46:23,639
Speaker 4: she would say, hmm, girl, or wouldn't give it any

2189
01:46:23,720 --> 01:46:27,200
Speaker 4: advice at all. I just felt so stupid. My question

2190
01:46:27,479 --> 01:46:29,880
Speaker 4: is how do I approach the situation with them. I

2191
01:46:30,000 --> 01:46:31,960
Speaker 4: want to cut them off and move on, since the

2192
01:46:32,000 --> 01:46:34,760
Speaker 4: situation happened two years ago. I know I can't cut

2193
01:46:34,840 --> 01:46:38,759
Speaker 4: my child's farther off completely since we have a child together. Girl,

2194
01:46:39,760 --> 01:46:42,960
Speaker 4: cut them off, look that whole Number one. Definitely cut

2195
01:46:43,120 --> 01:46:45,680
Speaker 4: her ass off because that's mad, fucking weird. And then

2196
01:46:45,760 --> 01:46:49,240
Speaker 4: with him, I would definitely just keep it very surface level,

2197
01:46:49,320 --> 01:46:51,679
Speaker 4: like doing everything y child.

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01:46:51,880 --> 01:46:56,439
Speaker 3: There's an app now for like co parenting apps.

2199
01:46:56,920 --> 01:47:00,400
Speaker 2: Use the app. You wouldn't speak to him? No, you

2200
01:47:00,520 --> 01:47:02,800
Speaker 2: fuck my best friend when I was downstairs.

2201
01:47:03,360 --> 01:47:06,960
Speaker 6: Best friend, Well that's what she thought. He showed you.

2202
01:47:07,120 --> 01:47:09,080
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. I don't think it's a co

2203
01:47:09,280 --> 01:47:11,160
Speaker 2: parenting apps. I think you look into that.

2204
01:47:11,320 --> 01:47:12,360
Speaker 6: Best friend was more wrong.

2205
01:47:13,200 --> 01:47:17,840
Speaker 2: The best friend was definitely, But he's a nigga wrong.

2206
01:47:17,880 --> 01:47:19,280
Speaker 6: You can forgive him. You can't know, you.

2207
01:47:19,320 --> 01:47:22,680
Speaker 2: Can't forget paused forget.

2208
01:47:24,120 --> 01:47:26,240
Speaker 6: Give a nigga is wrong. Y'all know that certain like

2209
01:47:26,680 --> 01:47:27,680
Speaker 6: forgive niggas, Like.

2210
01:47:28,040 --> 01:47:32,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, gi, my best friend, I'm not I'm not there's.

2211
01:47:33,479 --> 01:47:35,360
Speaker 6: Any other bit. What you mean?

2212
01:47:37,479 --> 01:47:40,720
Speaker 4: You probably know more intimate details about my relationship like

2213
01:47:40,760 --> 01:47:41,720
Speaker 4: you probably somebody.

2214
01:47:41,479 --> 01:47:42,080
Speaker 6: Who walked.

2215
01:47:43,880 --> 01:47:46,479
Speaker 1: She's and he is too, because I'm pretty sure I've

2216
01:47:46,479 --> 01:47:48,559
Speaker 1: been mad at her and I victed to him about her.

2217
01:47:49,280 --> 01:47:50,000
Speaker 6: Do you ever do that?

2218
01:47:50,400 --> 01:47:50,920
Speaker 2: I do that.

2219
01:47:51,280 --> 01:47:52,519
Speaker 6: I do that with my niggas.

2220
01:47:52,680 --> 01:47:54,080
Speaker 2: If my bitch make me mad.

2221
01:47:54,320 --> 01:47:55,640
Speaker 6: Be like, listen to us.

2222
01:47:56,320 --> 01:47:57,599
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter. But it doesn't matter.

2223
01:47:57,640 --> 01:47:59,719
Speaker 6: But you know I told you that she wasn't.

2224
01:48:01,600 --> 01:48:02,880
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter him.

2225
01:48:04,880 --> 01:48:06,880
Speaker 3: Talk to him on the co parenting app.

2226
01:48:08,000 --> 01:48:09,960
Speaker 2: I don't see co parents and app. To me, that's

2227
01:48:09,960 --> 01:48:11,519
Speaker 2: taking it too far, Like you should be able to

2228
01:48:11,600 --> 01:48:13,439
Speaker 2: have a cordial conversation with.

2229
01:48:14,720 --> 01:48:14,920
Speaker 3: If you.

2230
01:48:16,760 --> 01:48:21,760
Speaker 4: Absolutely, because that's child that's you want to talk about

2231
01:48:21,760 --> 01:48:22,639
Speaker 4: while we don't be working.

2232
01:48:22,960 --> 01:48:24,640
Speaker 6: I just told you because petty enough to put me

2233
01:48:24,680 --> 01:48:25,479
Speaker 6: on the co parent.

2234
01:48:25,600 --> 01:48:27,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's petty legs. I'm not gonna lie.

2235
01:48:27,400 --> 01:48:28,960
Speaker 4: The only reason I put a nigg on a co

2236
01:48:29,160 --> 01:48:31,400
Speaker 4: parenting app like he would have to like call the police,

2237
01:48:31,520 --> 01:48:33,599
Speaker 4: like some crazy ship, like call the police.

2238
01:48:35,960 --> 01:48:38,439
Speaker 6: Your friend is more wrong.

2239
01:48:38,800 --> 01:48:41,920
Speaker 2: They're both wrong. There's no nothing ain't both wrong.

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01:48:41,960 --> 01:48:44,240
Speaker 6: But it's no reason for me to not know no longer.

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01:48:46,360 --> 01:48:47,840
Speaker 2: Okay, myles, I ain't saying all that.

2242
01:48:48,280 --> 01:48:51,120
Speaker 4: All I'm saying is we got a child together as

2243
01:48:51,200 --> 01:48:53,880
Speaker 4: a as an adult, as a mature adult, I should

2244
01:48:53,880 --> 01:48:56,360
Speaker 4: be able to still have a conversation which would.

2245
01:48:56,120 --> 01:48:58,840
Speaker 2: Have my child. You can text on the co parenting app,

2246
01:48:59,200 --> 01:49:01,599
Speaker 2: you can set up the but you're still talking to him.

2247
01:49:01,800 --> 01:49:06,880
Speaker 2: So what is the difference Because there's a tip, there's

2248
01:49:06,880 --> 01:49:08,000
Speaker 2: a time frame where.

2249
01:49:07,880 --> 01:49:09,080
Speaker 3: You can call and talk to me.

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01:49:09,960 --> 01:49:12,040
Speaker 1: You don't want to answer that, nigga call it a

2251
01:49:12,280 --> 01:49:14,720
Speaker 1: I don't, but I don't even tire when I'm later

2252
01:49:14,840 --> 01:49:17,000
Speaker 1: with my niggas. No, my nigga thinking, oh while your

2253
01:49:17,040 --> 01:49:19,240
Speaker 1: baby daddy call you at two am? If you contact

2254
01:49:19,320 --> 01:49:21,960
Speaker 1: me on the co parenting app, everyone knows.

2255
01:49:21,800 --> 01:49:25,160
Speaker 3: If you're about to be like, can I have some pussy?

2256
01:49:25,960 --> 01:49:26,519
Speaker 2: Can I get some?

2257
01:49:26,880 --> 01:49:27,200
Speaker 6: Can get?

2258
01:49:27,760 --> 01:49:28,639
Speaker 2: Can I have some more?

2259
01:49:30,479 --> 01:49:31,720
Speaker 6: And I'm gonna put it and I'm gonna put it

2260
01:49:31,760 --> 01:49:33,400
Speaker 6: and I'm put it right in between the diapers, and

2261
01:49:33,560 --> 01:49:35,760
Speaker 6: be like so that so there's more dapers over there.

2262
01:49:35,760 --> 01:49:36,040
Speaker 6: I left you.

2263
01:49:38,360 --> 01:49:39,240
Speaker 2: I'm going to target.

2264
01:49:41,680 --> 01:49:43,240
Speaker 6: Look and that's how I get. That's how you get.

2265
01:49:43,640 --> 01:49:44,720
Speaker 6: I'm gonna talk you need something.

2266
01:49:46,960 --> 01:49:50,080
Speaker 2: Target the cold words y'all know, I do like aqua for.

2267
01:49:50,400 --> 01:49:52,280
Speaker 2: I love to rob aqua for on me, from top

2268
01:49:52,320 --> 01:49:58,600
Speaker 2: to bottoms of aqua. Niggas like oint me, y'all know

2269
01:49:59,240 --> 01:50:03,360
Speaker 2: I love No the thing is though first I mean

2270
01:50:03,439 --> 01:50:05,320
Speaker 2: me too, But you use it for the tattoo. But

2271
01:50:05,360 --> 01:50:08,360
Speaker 2: I'm not rubbing aqua for on me. No, I do

2272
01:50:08,479 --> 01:50:08,960
Speaker 2: it honestly.

2273
01:50:09,040 --> 01:50:09,360
Speaker 1: It makes.

2274
01:50:09,439 --> 01:50:11,479
Speaker 3: It makes my like heels soft like at night.

2275
01:50:11,520 --> 01:50:15,080
Speaker 6: I just put it the women's heels. Yes, it makes.

2276
01:50:15,840 --> 01:50:16,720
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie to you.

2277
01:50:18,080 --> 01:50:21,480
Speaker 2: Jail and your like you know, you're like the basline.

2278
01:50:23,760 --> 01:50:26,320
Speaker 2: I mean your skin up. It drives your skin up

2279
01:50:26,320 --> 01:50:30,120
Speaker 2: because it's one hundred percent the same basine. Oh I

2280
01:50:30,200 --> 01:50:33,120
Speaker 2: said the oil jail. Oh, the oil jail works good.

2281
01:50:33,160 --> 01:50:37,639
Speaker 6: But whatever it is keeping them heals soft, that's that's

2282
01:50:37,640 --> 01:50:40,559
Speaker 6: a that's a big body. Try that is a big body.

2283
01:50:40,960 --> 01:50:43,040
Speaker 2: I'm telling you every girl that I put, I put

2284
01:50:43,280 --> 01:50:45,400
Speaker 2: Louren on it. I put my sister on there. Like wow.

2285
01:50:46,080 --> 01:50:48,519
Speaker 2: I'm telling you aqua for at night. It's gonna change

2286
01:50:48,560 --> 01:50:51,880
Speaker 2: your skin. Period. I don't like stuff. They don't got

2287
01:50:51,920 --> 01:50:55,599
Speaker 2: no sense, okay. Question number two, Question number damn, it's

2288
01:50:55,640 --> 01:50:56,080
Speaker 2: my turner.

2289
01:50:56,160 --> 01:51:01,479
Speaker 6: Read. I feel like you in a class. He like,

2290
01:51:01,720 --> 01:51:02,599
Speaker 6: I know she can't read.

2291
01:51:02,720 --> 01:51:05,559
Speaker 2: I'm just looking. I'm just kidding, y'all.

2292
01:51:05,720 --> 01:51:07,040
Speaker 3: Y'all know I lost the joke.

2293
01:51:07,560 --> 01:51:10,200
Speaker 2: Lexi and rols Acko forour on my Feet later. Yeah, Well,

2294
01:51:10,320 --> 01:51:13,400
Speaker 2: be in between them toes to thank you.

2295
01:51:14,080 --> 01:51:16,519
Speaker 1: Lex Andrea. I love your show. I've been watching you

2296
01:51:16,600 --> 01:51:19,800
Speaker 1: guys for months now. Your topics are very relatable. I'm

2297
01:51:19,840 --> 01:51:22,240
Speaker 1: thirty one years old. My partner is thirty eight, and

2298
01:51:22,360 --> 01:51:24,640
Speaker 1: he is in the process of a divorce, and he

2299
01:51:24,800 --> 01:51:28,360
Speaker 1: has nine children. And we have been having sex on

2300
01:51:28,600 --> 01:51:31,840
Speaker 1: and off since twenty twelve. Now that he is going

2301
01:51:31,880 --> 01:51:37,439
Speaker 1: through a divorce, we made an official stupid bitch nine

2302
01:51:37,600 --> 01:51:41,639
Speaker 1: children that we live together and we have a blended family.

2303
01:51:41,840 --> 01:51:44,439
Speaker 1: I made him aware that I want sex every night.

2304
01:51:44,880 --> 01:51:48,240
Speaker 1: He doesn't give head. I've tried giving him suggestions on

2305
01:51:48,360 --> 01:51:51,080
Speaker 1: what my love languages are. He is well aware that

2306
01:51:51,160 --> 01:51:54,280
Speaker 1: I want to make love. We literally have sex twice

2307
01:51:54,320 --> 01:51:56,519
Speaker 1: a month and I can't take it. We have been

2308
01:51:56,600 --> 01:51:59,920
Speaker 1: together for eight months. I'm truly a touchy philly type

2309
01:51:59,920 --> 01:52:03,520
Speaker 1: of person. I told him my concerns for physical contact.

2310
01:52:03,920 --> 01:52:06,360
Speaker 1: I would be satisfied if he smacks my ass from

2311
01:52:06,400 --> 01:52:08,880
Speaker 1: time to time. When the kids are not watching some

2312
01:52:09,160 --> 01:52:14,080
Speaker 1: kind of physical interaction. His response is, I'll sleep naked

2313
01:52:14,400 --> 01:52:15,120
Speaker 1: if you want to.

2314
01:52:15,120 --> 01:52:16,760
Speaker 3: Come get it. What should I do?

2315
01:52:17,280 --> 01:52:20,680
Speaker 2: I need head. I bought toys. I even leave them

2316
01:52:20,720 --> 01:52:22,639
Speaker 2: on the side of his bed to give him hints

2317
01:52:23,000 --> 01:52:25,160
Speaker 2: that I have been playing with this thing.

2318
01:52:26,000 --> 01:52:29,760
Speaker 4: Girl, So you mean to tell me not only do

2319
01:52:29,880 --> 01:52:32,960
Speaker 4: this nigga got nine kids, but he don't eat pussy either.

2320
01:52:35,720 --> 01:52:37,040
Speaker 2: It ain't letting to cut that niga.

2321
01:52:37,400 --> 01:52:37,599
Speaker 6: Girl.

2322
01:52:37,640 --> 01:52:38,200
Speaker 2: You need to leave.

2323
01:52:38,280 --> 01:52:41,400
Speaker 1: You're not happy, you're not satisfied. Why would you even

2324
01:52:41,439 --> 01:52:43,920
Speaker 1: be messing with a man that was not even fully divorced.

2325
01:52:43,920 --> 01:52:48,160
Speaker 1: When nine nine children and you're thirty one, you're young.

2326
01:52:49,080 --> 01:52:50,840
Speaker 2: Why are you dealing with a man with nine kids?

2327
01:52:50,880 --> 01:52:51,920
Speaker 6: I know you don't have nine.

2328
01:52:52,000 --> 01:52:56,479
Speaker 2: She didn't say she has a child, she said the family,

2329
01:52:57,640 --> 01:52:58,880
Speaker 2: so she got something.

2330
01:52:58,680 --> 01:53:03,040
Speaker 6: In their motherfucker love to and I'm going to somebody

2331
01:53:03,080 --> 01:53:03,760
Speaker 6: got more kids.

2332
01:53:06,800 --> 01:53:09,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, girl, it's not giving what he needs to give

2333
01:53:11,000 --> 01:53:12,760
Speaker 2: even if he didn't have nine kids. I don't want

2334
01:53:12,800 --> 01:53:16,679
Speaker 2: to be with no nigga don't pussy. I cannot believe

2335
01:53:16,720 --> 01:53:19,920
Speaker 2: that require me and y'all are dating man that don't

2336
01:53:19,960 --> 01:53:20,479
Speaker 2: eat pussy.

2337
01:53:20,600 --> 01:53:21,479
Speaker 3: That's me.

2338
01:53:21,600 --> 01:53:22,200
Speaker 2: I'm not doing it.

2339
01:53:22,479 --> 01:53:22,720
Speaker 6: I'm not.

2340
01:53:23,600 --> 01:53:25,439
Speaker 2: If you see me with a nigga, he ate the

2341
01:53:25,560 --> 01:53:31,880
Speaker 2: box and he eat booty. Period. It's right there what

2342
01:53:32,240 --> 01:53:35,240
Speaker 2: we said the last time. It's like three degrees of

2343
01:53:35,320 --> 01:53:37,160
Speaker 2: separation from the booty to the.

2344
01:53:37,200 --> 01:53:43,479
Speaker 6: Assn't I can't go to you put the middle tongue

2345
01:53:43,560 --> 01:53:46,200
Speaker 6: right there on the whole like a rocher to do

2346
01:53:46,280 --> 01:53:47,320
Speaker 6: what you know?

2347
01:53:47,439 --> 01:53:51,240
Speaker 1: Okay, question number three, High ladies. I recently got out

2348
01:53:51,240 --> 01:53:53,439
Speaker 1: of a relationship that you could say was toxic on

2349
01:53:53,600 --> 01:53:56,200
Speaker 1: both ends. But I was getting close to my ex'es

2350
01:53:56,400 --> 01:54:00,400
Speaker 1: bff girlfriend. We were becoming cool friends and we're both grown.

2351
01:54:00,520 --> 01:54:02,479
Speaker 1: But me and my ex ended up on bad terms

2352
01:54:02,520 --> 01:54:04,960
Speaker 1: and I left them at her house an hour away

2353
01:54:05,000 --> 01:54:07,080
Speaker 1: from the city where we live after a bad fight.

2354
01:54:07,640 --> 01:54:10,160
Speaker 1: I admit I was wrong, and I take full accountability

2355
01:54:10,200 --> 01:54:13,240
Speaker 1: of being an ass. What of being an ass and

2356
01:54:13,360 --> 01:54:16,320
Speaker 1: ditching I've been wanting to hit her up to smoke

2357
01:54:16,760 --> 01:54:19,599
Speaker 1: and chill and clear the air, but I'm nervous it's

2358
01:54:19,720 --> 01:54:21,600
Speaker 1: weird or it's done for me and.

2359
01:54:24,000 --> 01:54:29,400
Speaker 6: Not the worst kicking as it's not the worst. That's

2360
01:54:29,400 --> 01:54:30,240
Speaker 6: why we stopped reading.

2361
01:54:32,560 --> 01:54:33,600
Speaker 2: She says she's scared to text.

2362
01:54:33,680 --> 01:54:35,760
Speaker 4: Basically, she said she's scared to text her because she

2363
01:54:35,800 --> 01:54:37,960
Speaker 4: thinks it's gonna stir things up with her ex and

2364
01:54:38,160 --> 01:54:40,480
Speaker 4: with the friends. Should I leave the water under the

2365
01:54:40,520 --> 01:54:42,160
Speaker 4: bridge or should I go for it and make it

2366
01:54:42,320 --> 01:54:44,520
Speaker 4: known that I just want to fix my relationship and

2367
01:54:44,600 --> 01:54:45,640
Speaker 4: not get back with my ex.

2368
01:54:46,000 --> 01:54:51,920
Speaker 2: We're both studs in parent I've been overwhelmed and.

2369
01:54:51,960 --> 01:54:55,240
Speaker 4: Confused recently, and we were cool homies. I honestly just

2370
01:54:55,360 --> 01:54:56,320
Speaker 4: missed being friends.

2371
01:54:56,600 --> 01:54:58,760
Speaker 2: I hope you guys can help me out, be an

2372
01:54:58,840 --> 01:55:01,960
Speaker 2: email or something, thank you, and have a wonderful day.

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01:55:02,240 --> 01:55:04,320
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm gonna tell the funniest. The funniest part of

2374
01:55:04,360 --> 01:55:07,960
Speaker 6: this letter what At first I thought it was we

2375
01:55:08,160 --> 01:55:11,040
Speaker 6: both stud But the funniest part of this letter was

2376
01:55:11,120 --> 01:55:12,920
Speaker 6: the end when she said, I hope y'all can help

2377
01:55:13,040 --> 01:55:15,960
Speaker 6: me via email or something like. No, y'all not gonna

2378
01:55:16,000 --> 01:55:18,120
Speaker 6: help her on the show. Somebody's gonna sit there and

2379
01:55:18,200 --> 01:55:20,160
Speaker 6: take girl. What you should do?

2380
01:55:25,560 --> 01:55:28,240
Speaker 2: Nah, that's wild, lext what you think she should do?

2381
01:55:29,640 --> 01:55:32,160
Speaker 1: I think she's already done the right thing, and she's

2382
01:55:32,240 --> 01:55:36,000
Speaker 1: admitted she's taking her accountability, you know, like she admitted

2383
01:55:36,040 --> 01:55:38,520
Speaker 1: that she was wrong in this situation, like for leaving them.

2384
01:55:38,400 --> 01:55:39,200
Speaker 2: There, you know.

2385
01:55:39,400 --> 01:55:43,360
Speaker 1: So I feel like, and this situation is really not

2386
01:55:43,480 --> 01:55:46,680
Speaker 1: that bad. I feel like everybody needs to take accountability

2387
01:55:46,840 --> 01:55:48,560
Speaker 1: for what they did and y'all can move on from

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Speaker 1: this because it's not like a bad like.

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01:55:50,960 --> 01:55:54,000
Speaker 2: It ain't like somebody did something detrimental, you know, to

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01:55:54,080 --> 01:55:57,000
Speaker 2: y'all's relationship. So I feel like you took accountability, you

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01:55:57,080 --> 01:55:59,560
Speaker 2: knew you was wrong, and if y'all can move on

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01:55:59,720 --> 01:56:00,720
Speaker 2: and be friends.

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01:56:00,840 --> 01:56:01,440
Speaker 3: I don't think.

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01:56:01,320 --> 01:56:04,360
Speaker 1: Anybody needs to date in this situation because you already said.

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01:56:04,240 --> 01:56:12,560
Speaker 2: It was toxic. The situations, but I was looking at

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01:56:12,560 --> 01:56:13,280
Speaker 2: them like friends.

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01:56:13,640 --> 01:56:16,240
Speaker 6: They gotta be lesbian, like it's a lot of But then,

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01:56:16,680 --> 01:56:19,120
Speaker 6: at least from my context, I didn't know studs to

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01:56:19,160 --> 01:56:21,880
Speaker 6: day each other me neither. It must be a finance stud.

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01:56:22,400 --> 01:56:22,960
Speaker 6: Did you know that?

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01:56:23,160 --> 01:56:25,840
Speaker 2: Not for real? Double gay doesn't make them?

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01:56:26,120 --> 01:56:30,000
Speaker 6: That make them double gay? Double gay because you're already gay,

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01:56:30,120 --> 01:56:35,680
Speaker 6: but then you attracted to like a nigga. Yeah, I

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01:56:35,800 --> 01:56:36,720
Speaker 6: mean it makes sense.

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01:56:41,000 --> 01:56:42,560
Speaker 2: Did you know that the studs today?

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01:56:42,920 --> 01:56:46,600
Speaker 1: I think sometimes when people are what's it called pan sexual,

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01:56:46,640 --> 01:56:48,840
Speaker 1: they're just attracted to what they're attracted to, and it

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01:56:48,880 --> 01:56:50,000
Speaker 1: doesn't matter how or what.

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01:56:50,080 --> 01:56:52,040
Speaker 2: If you a safe sexual too.

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01:56:52,160 --> 01:56:54,360
Speaker 1: Then yeah, you could be a sex attracted somebody mine

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01:56:55,200 --> 01:56:56,240
Speaker 1: attracted like everything.

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01:56:56,280 --> 01:56:57,360
Speaker 3: It doesn't have to have a gender.

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01:56:57,480 --> 01:56:58,760
Speaker 2: But that's what a safe sexual.

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01:56:58,960 --> 01:57:01,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, safe sexual is the mind. But pan sexual was

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01:57:01,360 --> 01:57:05,400
Speaker 1: like it doesn't you know necessarily, so that could education.

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01:57:05,680 --> 01:57:06,880
Speaker 3: They could be a pan sexual.

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01:57:07,000 --> 01:57:09,960
Speaker 6: You know, y'all teaching meetya. I love this podcast.

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01:57:12,000 --> 01:57:15,040
Speaker 2: Okay, so what is our advice though? Girl, I don't

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01:57:15,080 --> 01:57:15,560
Speaker 2: give a fuck.

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01:57:15,560 --> 01:57:19,240
Speaker 6: I don't know that nigga fucking good.

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01:57:20,720 --> 01:57:23,200
Speaker 3: Period, because that's what I always do. Mouse, Let them know.

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01:57:26,400 --> 01:57:30,280
Speaker 2: What you got. Let them know where they can find you,

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01:57:30,440 --> 01:57:32,240
Speaker 2: where you got coming up on your tour day. It's

2424
01:57:32,320 --> 01:57:33,760
Speaker 2: your podcast, all that good ship.

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01:57:34,400 --> 01:57:35,960
Speaker 6: I am Mouse Jones, the man to put the jucks

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01:57:36,000 --> 01:57:39,560
Speaker 6: and juxtaposition. You can find me online. Mouse Jones on

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01:57:39,760 --> 01:57:43,360
Speaker 6: Everything The Guy next Door Podcast each and every Monday,

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01:57:46,040 --> 01:57:48,240
Speaker 6: The What Hip Hop Question legends and lists on the

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01:57:48,320 --> 01:57:51,120
Speaker 6: Black of Fact Network with myself and Naly Simone each

2430
01:57:51,160 --> 01:57:54,680
Speaker 6: and every Monday as well with mouse Jones. The interview

2431
01:57:54,760 --> 01:57:57,960
Speaker 6: series drops every first and fifteenth on YouTube. So far

2432
01:57:58,200 --> 01:58:04,640
Speaker 6: we got up, We got Clodrilla, Queen Naja, Georgium Johnson

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01:58:06,440 --> 01:58:08,000
Speaker 6: on BPS in West Side Boogie.

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01:58:08,680 --> 01:58:09,680
Speaker 2: Are you gonna have us on there?

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01:58:11,360 --> 01:58:14,160
Speaker 6: That would be fun. I could do that. Yeah, we

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01:58:14,200 --> 01:58:18,400
Speaker 6: can do that. We can do that. Yeah, that'll be

2437
01:58:18,440 --> 01:58:21,960
Speaker 6: a fun conversation. We could do that and then track

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01:58:22,040 --> 01:58:26,040
Speaker 6: karaoke already know track karaoke. Karaoke, the best party on Earth,

2439
01:58:26,360 --> 01:58:29,440
Speaker 6: Best show on Earth. I'm sorry, Uh what do We

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01:58:29,560 --> 01:58:33,000
Speaker 6: were off this week? But we are back September eighth, ninth,

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01:58:33,040 --> 01:58:38,360
Speaker 6: and tenth. We are in Philadelphia, Raleigh and and uh

2442
01:58:38,480 --> 01:58:43,200
Speaker 6: and then the tenth wearing New Orleans, Nola. And like said,

2443
01:58:43,200 --> 01:58:45,640
Speaker 6: they coming so on New Orleans one.

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01:58:45,680 --> 01:58:49,760
Speaker 2: When is it the teas of September? Oh yeah, well

2445
01:58:50,600 --> 01:58:53,200
Speaker 2: we don't have no show. We're on a break right now.

2446
01:58:53,320 --> 01:58:56,360
Speaker 6: Okay, we're gonna curse both you don't come.

2447
01:58:56,840 --> 01:59:03,080
Speaker 1: Let men episode, but Mouse like we obviously go way back.

2448
01:59:03,280 --> 01:59:06,320
Speaker 2: We love Mouse and honestly, Moles, thank you for coming out.

2449
01:59:06,480 --> 01:59:06,960
Speaker 6: You love me.

2450
01:59:07,680 --> 01:59:09,880
Speaker 3: Thank you for coming out and coming to the show.

2451
01:59:10,000 --> 01:59:13,240
Speaker 2: This has been a long time coming, and so yeah,

2452
01:59:13,280 --> 01:59:14,440
Speaker 2: we really appreciate you.

2453
01:59:14,680 --> 01:59:16,240
Speaker 3: And y'all know we have to end the show with

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01:59:16,320 --> 01:59:16,680
Speaker 3: a song.

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01:59:17,160 --> 01:59:17,960
Speaker 2: What song is it?

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01:59:18,040 --> 01:59:18,160
Speaker 1: Though?

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01:59:18,200 --> 01:59:21,200
Speaker 2: Because you ain't told me? Is there? Before I start

2458
01:59:21,280 --> 01:59:24,640
Speaker 2: to sing because I'm gonna get my notes, I.

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01:59:26,320 --> 01:59:27,440
Speaker 3: Yes, let me say shout.

2460
01:59:27,240 --> 01:59:27,879
Speaker 2: Out to mouth.

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01:59:29,760 --> 01:59:34,640
Speaker 6: The New York it was, but I mean, sure.

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01:59:37,960 --> 01:59:38,880
Speaker 2: The ear is fired.

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01:59:39,720 --> 01:59:41,800
Speaker 1: So before I start getting my notes off because I'm

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01:59:41,800 --> 01:59:43,800
Speaker 1: gonna sing what I want to sing? Do y'all is

2465
01:59:43,840 --> 01:59:46,120
Speaker 1: there anything specific that y'all want to sing? Because why

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01:59:46,160 --> 01:59:46,839
Speaker 1: are you asking?

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01:59:46,960 --> 01:59:50,800
Speaker 2: Because if y'all want to sing, because I'm gonna if y'all.

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01:59:50,680 --> 01:59:55,600
Speaker 6: Want something, just sing girl, thank you? What song is it?

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01:59:56,520 --> 02:00:00,320
Speaker 2: Y'all know this song? Andre, this is really d But

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02:00:00,440 --> 02:00:02,280
Speaker 2: why you get the head of lyrics and I don't

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02:00:02,360 --> 02:00:03,440
Speaker 2: I'm was sending to you right.

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02:00:03,320 --> 02:00:04,680
Speaker 3: Now that ain't nothing. You ain't say nothing but the

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02:00:04,760 --> 02:00:07,080
Speaker 3: word you ain't say? You got your phone?

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02:00:07,080 --> 02:00:09,200
Speaker 6: You want me to what album?

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02:00:10,040 --> 02:00:10,280
Speaker 3: Yeah?

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02:00:10,560 --> 02:00:12,840
Speaker 2: Are we gonna release the album? Jay owen want us

2477
02:00:12,880 --> 02:00:14,360
Speaker 2: to get in the studio real bad.

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02:00:15,080 --> 02:00:17,600
Speaker 6: Because we're definitely like covers.

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02:00:21,280 --> 02:00:22,640
Speaker 2: I feel you now you're taking it.

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02:00:23,560 --> 02:00:25,320
Speaker 3: You should and you should be the you should be

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02:00:25,360 --> 02:00:26,440
Speaker 3: on the album. Was like hosting that.

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02:00:26,480 --> 02:00:31,920
Speaker 6: Album so we could bring back the sex sounds. You

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02:00:31,920 --> 02:00:35,560
Speaker 6: remember sex sounds on the music? Like what is going on?

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02:00:35,760 --> 02:00:37,680
Speaker 2: I remember action? I'm from Houston.

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02:00:37,800 --> 02:00:39,760
Speaker 3: We used to anyways.

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Speaker 6: It was.

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02:00:42,200 --> 02:00:44,920
Speaker 2: From the background. Michael five thousand, Yeah.

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Speaker 6: I don't know.

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02:00:46,200 --> 02:00:53,800
Speaker 9: I'm saying with you city, wondering why you don't love

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02:00:53,920 --> 02:00:59,600
Speaker 9: me the way I love you and maybe have no.

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02:01:01,240 --> 02:01:06,840
Speaker 3: Okay, because I will never heart and you know and

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02:01:07,080 --> 02:01:09,040
Speaker 3: you know my love it my.

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02:01:11,520 --> 02:01:17,560
Speaker 10: I can love you, I can love you, I can

2494
02:01:17,800 --> 02:01:23,840
Speaker 10: love you bad and she can't. I can love you,

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02:01:25,600 --> 02:01:30,480
Speaker 10: I can love you, I can love you bad.

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02:01:36,120 --> 02:01:41,800
Speaker 2: Can get rough, willmake it. We'll make it through the

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02:01:42,000 --> 02:01:44,960
Speaker 2: storm in nine Oline will try.

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02:01:48,600 --> 02:01:50,160
Speaker 6: You can trust.

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02:01:51,680 --> 02:01:53,800
Speaker 2: And you know the reason why I.

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02:01:56,600 --> 02:01:57,320
Speaker 3: Can't love you.

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02:01:57,440 --> 02:02:07,280
Speaker 6: Everyone to the choir, I bad, I'm on the Lisa, goddamn.

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02:02:07,320 --> 02:02:08,480
Speaker 2: How come on?

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02:02:08,720 --> 02:02:13,720
Speaker 6: You know that you wi that you could be my

2504
02:02:14,000 --> 02:02:19,480
Speaker 6: man because I can't love you better than she can can.

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02:02:21,320 --> 02:02:30,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love you, Bader. I can't.

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02:02:31,240 --> 02:02:31,760
Speaker 6: I can't.

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02:02:33,000 --> 02:02:39,120
Speaker 2: I can't love you. I can love you bad. She

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02:02:39,640 --> 02:02:40,520
Speaker 2: I told you once.

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02:02:40,640 --> 02:02:44,680
Speaker 6: I told you lighte qti like a QB for my

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02:02:45,200 --> 02:02:48,920
Speaker 6: having truck, but like the busy and love with juice

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02:02:48,960 --> 02:02:51,720
Speaker 6: is today the juice sound. Now. I watch you play

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02:02:51,920 --> 02:02:58,680
Speaker 6: Colombo Picasso with all the want to be you know,

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02:03:01,360 --> 02:03:03,280
Speaker 6: I want to stop it for one minute. And you

2514
02:03:03,320 --> 02:03:07,560
Speaker 6: can tell that no one wrote Little Kim's verse. You

2515
02:03:07,640 --> 02:03:13,080
Speaker 6: can tell because what the fuck is the Ninjahanda? Those

2516
02:03:13,120 --> 02:03:21,160
Speaker 6: are two different motorcycles and they're Ninjada.

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02:03:22,040 --> 02:03:23,080
Speaker 3: Honestly, I never knew what.

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02:03:24,640 --> 02:03:26,000
Speaker 6: It's two different motorcycles.

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02:03:27,240 --> 02:03:28,000
Speaker 2: I thought it was one.

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02:03:28,320 --> 02:03:30,600
Speaker 6: She was just flustered. She was flustered, Miss.

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02:03:35,720 --> 02:03:42,320
Speaker 2: Marriage. Thank y'all so much for tuning in to one

2522
02:03:42,360 --> 02:03:43,440
Speaker 2: of the episode of Poor Minds.

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02:03:43,440 --> 02:03:44,560
Speaker 3: And we'll see y'all next weekend.

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02:03:46,320 --> 02:03:49,200
Speaker 2: Make sure y'all square to because we never think we

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02:03:49,360 --> 02:03:50,800
Speaker 2: always need to say.

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Speaker 6: We'll see you. What'll she at the gender reveal