1 00:00:08,880 --> 00:00:10,039 Speaker 1: I don't want to ask your question real. 2 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:11,880 Speaker 2: Let's just keep it real straight shout with no Chase. 3 00:00:12,080 --> 00:00:13,240 Speaker 2: So I'm gonna get a little bit rougher. 4 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:18,440 Speaker 3: I'm here for those who really believed in the American process, 5 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:22,040 Speaker 3: all of us Street shot No Chase with your girl 6 00:00:22,160 --> 00:00:25,400 Speaker 3: testing figure out on the Black Effect podcasting at where 7 00:00:25,480 --> 00:00:27,640 Speaker 3: at work? So Mike, speaking of that, I want to 8 00:00:27,720 --> 00:00:30,320 Speaker 3: chime into pardon me by chiming and ask this questions 9 00:00:30,320 --> 00:00:35,480 Speaker 3: perfect transition to Motherless. Yeah, and about being a product 10 00:00:36,080 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 3: and a product of where you came. And you know 11 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:41,720 Speaker 3: that's my favorite track. You know, I called you in 12 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:44,880 Speaker 3: tears like multiple times. I lost both my parents. Gary 13 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:47,720 Speaker 3: Chambers since his love he said that's the track for him. 14 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:50,599 Speaker 2: That just broke him down. And I don't know how 15 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:51,240 Speaker 2: many in the room. 16 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 3: I don't want to give the movie away, but it's 17 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 3: critically important. How many of you saw Clone Tyrone? 18 00:00:57,200 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 2: Anybody seen that? Yeah? 19 00:00:59,600 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 3: You gotta watching. Yeah you've been on the bus. But 20 00:01:02,560 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 3: there's a part in. 21 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:10,479 Speaker 1: The gott I ain't got talked to no pro. 22 00:01:10,480 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 2: So there's a part in the movie. And I encourage 23 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 2: you guys. 24 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:13,480 Speaker 4: Uh. 25 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 3: We just interviewed the guy who funded the movie on 26 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 3: the Breakfast Club and he talked about the most powerful 27 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:22,640 Speaker 3: scene in the movie was and it was for me 28 00:01:22,959 --> 00:01:24,560 Speaker 3: when he went back, I don't want to get away, but. 29 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:26,680 Speaker 2: I gotta give it away. Guys, Yeah, I got to 30 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:27,199 Speaker 2: do it. Spoiler. 31 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:30,640 Speaker 3: But there was a recording of the mother. You know 32 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:32,240 Speaker 3: how you knock on the door, and we all have 33 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:34,440 Speaker 3: dealt with this in inner city. You don't know somebody, 34 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 3: somebody you always not gonna do it. My mother worked 35 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 3: ten professions, so she worked at Channel four when she 36 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 3: came home. 37 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:41,040 Speaker 2: She had a type in business. 38 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:43,840 Speaker 3: She was a cosmetologist, she was a notary, she was 39 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 3: real estate. Just hustle all the way through. And I remember, 40 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 3: for those who seen the movie, you know, you're always 41 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 3: knocking on the door and saying, you know, hey mom, 42 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 3: this or that, and so there was a recording on 43 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 3: the back. Now, my mother wasn't the one to say, hey, 44 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 3: I'm watching my stories or I'm getting ready to do this. 45 00:01:58,560 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 3: So they kept showing the guy, you know, asking It 46 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 3: was a recording of excuses on why she couldn't open 47 00:02:03,360 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 3: the door, and he was just accustomed to it. You know, hey, 48 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 3: you want something to eat? Oh no, I'm fine, Are 49 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 3: you gonna go up the street. 50 00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:09,119 Speaker 2: Oh no, I'm fine. 51 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 3: And there was a scene in the movie Mike that's 52 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 3: so powerful, you just have to watch it where he 53 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:15,679 Speaker 3: found out that it was a recording and for those 54 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 3: who saw it, you got it on and he just 55 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 3: broke down crying and said, I need my mother. And 56 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:23,840 Speaker 3: so when you go watch it, I want to ask 57 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 3: the men, particularly in the row, I want you to 58 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 3: explain why you did that track. And Gary told me 59 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 3: he said, after hearing your track, it was the first 60 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 3: time he said, my mom is dead. 61 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 2: And so I just on the way over here. I 62 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 2: was in my girlfriend lives in Dallas. 63 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:37,800 Speaker 3: She said, you know, pull my mom's dead, but just 64 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 3: just buried her mother last weekend, and it was even 65 00:02:40,080 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 3: hard for her to express it. So whether that's men 66 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 3: or women, that's sometimes hard for suspress. You know, I 67 00:02:46,160 --> 00:02:48,519 Speaker 3: lost my mom on the campaign trail, I was explaining 68 00:02:48,560 --> 00:02:51,640 Speaker 3: to the brothers. One weekend, I'm organized for Bernie Sanders. 69 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:54,000 Speaker 3: The next weekend, I'm keemo with my mother. Had to 70 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 3: bury my mother three days, hold her hand. Burier come 71 00:02:56,760 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 3: back on the campaign trail to see a fight for 72 00:02:58,880 --> 00:03:01,080 Speaker 3: those people in Flint, Michigan, and she told me to 73 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 3: do that. She said it was your time. So I 74 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 3: laid all that out because I want you to talk 75 00:03:06,200 --> 00:03:08,240 Speaker 3: about why it was important. You know, I've challenged you 76 00:03:08,280 --> 00:03:11,520 Speaker 3: on things saying, Mike, is your time? Well you sounded 77 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 3: like my mama and how our mothers come back and 78 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 3: speak to us. And then I do you know, I 79 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:21,359 Speaker 3: want to see if anybody here listening to mother made 80 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 3: that connection. 81 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:23,840 Speaker 1: Man, I think I second verse. 82 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 4: My mother had me sixteen years old, and my grandmother 83 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 4: can only have one child. National she had miscarriacter, or 84 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:32,960 Speaker 4: she had worked at a farm, she she was a girl. Well, 85 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:35,800 Speaker 4: I really, I really realized my grandmother Benny, I called 86 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 4: it Beatrice. 87 00:03:36,720 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 1: She loved it. 88 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 4: When her sister told me, she said, your grandather Di 89 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 4: ain't like being in the kitchen in the house. 90 00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 1: She preferred working in the fields. She's a tomboy sorts, 91 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? And I didn't. 92 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 4: I didn't understand, like cause I asked what I said, 93 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 4: why you don't never say bumm you all of us? 94 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:55,240 Speaker 4: She's how I feed you. Don't your clothes, Clay, I 95 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 4: ain't nobody touching thebutes that God that you don't know. 96 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:02,560 Speaker 1: I love you and I said, oh loves Yeah, I 97 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:02,800 Speaker 1: love you. 98 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:06,200 Speaker 4: I love you, so she I realized she really do 99 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 4: love you. But with that said, she raised me. She 100 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 4: was my mama, took my mama was in my mind 101 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 4: like a big sister. She was my mommy. I loved 102 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:16,360 Speaker 4: her to death. But I was at her house on weekends, 103 00:04:16,520 --> 00:04:20,279 Speaker 4: my grandma house. But my grandmother dies, we at the funeral, 104 00:04:20,400 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 4: it's me, my mama, my autistic uncle, my sister, and 105 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:26,839 Speaker 4: my mama is like, she died in your arms. That 106 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 4: wasn't felt, And I'm like, what, Like I didn't want 107 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 4: the fucking job of escorting her to the other side, 108 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 4: and said, selflessly, not understanding. I had heard my grandmother 109 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:40,200 Speaker 4: missed her mother to the day she died. Her mother 110 00:04:40,279 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 4: died in eighty four. I was about nineteen years old, 111 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 4: and I didn't understand the depth of the pay my 112 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:48,839 Speaker 4: mama was going to so selfish, I think my paid 113 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:50,040 Speaker 4: match up just like. 114 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:51,680 Speaker 1: You know my mama did too. 115 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:54,560 Speaker 4: And she said, you don't understand the sacrifice it took 116 00:04:54,560 --> 00:04:58,360 Speaker 4: for me to give you to my mother. And she said, 117 00:04:58,360 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 4: but when I go you and I didn't understand. She 118 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 4: was speaking from a place that she finally had to 119 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:09,120 Speaker 4: contend with the fact that her mother was gone. And 120 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:11,720 Speaker 4: when I wrote the second verse, I said, my mama dead, 121 00:05:11,920 --> 00:05:15,159 Speaker 4: My her mama dead. Her mama died in my my 122 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:17,640 Speaker 4: mama said that wasn't felt her mama raised. 123 00:05:17,760 --> 00:05:18,960 Speaker 1: I told her she crazy. 124 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 4: She told me, I'm gonna be gonna one day, Michael, 125 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:24,040 Speaker 4: you gonna see that my mama wanted you, but you 126 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:28,479 Speaker 4: belong to me. Don't understanding sacrifice that took me? And 127 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 4: I really did. And I say, man, sometimes I feel 128 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:34,240 Speaker 4: like pulling up on Sunday nights just to tell your mama, 129 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 4: I apologize you. 130 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:37,440 Speaker 1: Right. Sometimes I feel. 131 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:39,120 Speaker 4: Like a hole in my heart and I want to 132 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:41,640 Speaker 4: call the lawd but I don't know what's starting was 133 00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:44,800 Speaker 4: because she was she would dying as I was on 134 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:47,839 Speaker 4: a play on the way back from Europe and my wife, 135 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:51,479 Speaker 4: I had stayed for a business men and I just 136 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:52,480 Speaker 4: made my best friend. 137 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:54,799 Speaker 1: I made my papa sleeping. I never forget. 138 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 4: He went to the hospital and he facetimed. I asked 139 00:05:57,560 --> 00:06:02,280 Speaker 4: the FaceTime fight and she was going, but she was smiling. 140 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:03,040 Speaker 1: I was talking to her. 141 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:05,599 Speaker 4: My sister said, you know, you know how she felt 142 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 4: about you know, she wasn't never happy and when she 143 00:06:08,320 --> 00:06:12,839 Speaker 4: was talking to you. But man, every everything slipped life 144 00:06:12,880 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 4: them up out of her. I felt her more and 145 00:06:16,520 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 4: more like, like you right. I wish I just I 146 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 4: wish I had more time to tell you you're right. 147 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:27,280 Speaker 4: But you you yo, you was right. 148 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:27,800 Speaker 1: You know. 149 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:29,680 Speaker 4: It's so many times I wake up out my all 150 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:31,760 Speaker 4: to her and my grandmother, you know, and I'll do 151 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:34,400 Speaker 4: my meditation and prayers in the morning, and I just say, man, 152 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:36,359 Speaker 4: I hope, I hope you can hear me on the side, 153 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 4: not kidd, I get it, though I hear it. 154 00:06:39,279 --> 00:06:40,800 Speaker 1: You ain't. You ain't coming back. 155 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:42,480 Speaker 4: And I don't mean it in a mean spirited way, 156 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:44,400 Speaker 4: like like you told me, you punishing me. 157 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:46,279 Speaker 1: But I get it. Yeah, I get it. 158 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:49,200 Speaker 4: And her voice never leaves my head. My wife kept 159 00:06:49,200 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 4: her voicemail that still up that I get to listen 160 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:54,280 Speaker 4: to you for the beast man. For a sixteen year 161 00:06:54,279 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 4: old girl that they told when she got pregnant with you. 162 00:06:57,680 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 4: Fred June's high school, they say, drop out of school, 163 00:07:00,760 --> 00:07:02,920 Speaker 4: have him and come back you can finish. A year later, 164 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:06,240 Speaker 4: she finished high school to seventeen. She graduated the next year. 165 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:08,919 Speaker 4: Graduated brought across the stage on the back of words 166 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:09,480 Speaker 4: me on the hill. 167 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:13,880 Speaker 1: That girl said it was amazing because the teacher. 168 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:17,040 Speaker 4: Rather said about her that after they saw me come 169 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:19,400 Speaker 4: up and be a successful student, a trick late Moore 170 00:07:19,440 --> 00:07:22,760 Speaker 4: House is going to be something, they said. You see 171 00:07:22,760 --> 00:07:25,400 Speaker 4: the shake of their head, like God, damn, she was right, 172 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 4: they say, They say, man, that was determined. 173 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 1: They said, she was determined, and she was determined. 174 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:34,600 Speaker 4: That the worst whoopan I ever got from her, I 175 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:37,600 Speaker 4: brought in all seats in the sixth grade. She got 176 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:39,680 Speaker 4: pissed and I told her that average. She beat the 177 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 4: shit out and she told me I didn't have nothing average. 178 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:46,320 Speaker 4: And I understood that her love for me and her 179 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 4: her esteem that she wanted, that she was in plant, 180 00:07:49,800 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 4: that fatning me was this deed. And so I did 181 00:07:52,440 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 4: the world no favor. 182 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:56,840 Speaker 1: I playing this small man. I appreciate it. 183 00:07:57,280 --> 00:08:00,360 Speaker 3: Cannot can I can? I give a all of that 184 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 3: and then I'll be done. I'll get at you way. 185 00:08:01,840 --> 00:08:08,239 Speaker 3: But Mike, I never knew that story. And when they called, 186 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 3: when my mom went to the emergency room, I was 187 00:08:11,200 --> 00:08:13,840 Speaker 3: on the plane and I and I cried the whole time. 188 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:16,840 Speaker 2: Just let my mama make it so I can get there. 189 00:08:17,400 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 3: Just hold on to and I didn't know that, and 190 00:08:19,160 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 3: I cried and cried and cried, and the stewardess came 191 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 3: up and said, I don't know what you're going through, 192 00:08:23,560 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 3: but I'm here for you. And I got there and 193 00:08:27,080 --> 00:08:29,000 Speaker 3: this is gonna show you how awesome God is. And 194 00:08:29,040 --> 00:08:31,560 Speaker 3: I know we connect, but I didn't know that. And 195 00:08:31,600 --> 00:08:33,679 Speaker 3: I got there by that time she was already comatose, 196 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:36,319 Speaker 3: and I just wanted to I want, I want. I 197 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 3: kept telling my grandmother, did you tell her I was 198 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 3: on the way? Did she just at least know I 199 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:43,080 Speaker 3: was on the way? And that's so powerful that you 200 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:45,280 Speaker 3: I don't mean, I just didn't know that that was 201 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:48,199 Speaker 3: that we had that connection, they know, And I just 202 00:08:48,280 --> 00:08:50,280 Speaker 3: kept saying, did you know I'm Do you know I'm here? 203 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:54,360 Speaker 2: And so for God to allow we'll talk about it. 204 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:55,040 Speaker 2: Lay that's deep. 205 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 3: I didn't know that we had. I know we got 206 00:08:56,520 --> 00:08:58,200 Speaker 3: a lot of connection, but I didn't know the plane 207 00:08:58,240 --> 00:09:01,200 Speaker 3: thing and being there, just saying, dude, do you hear me? 208 00:09:01,320 --> 00:09:03,560 Speaker 3: You know I'm here? And she sent me a text saying, 209 00:09:03,640 --> 00:09:05,840 Speaker 3: you know, don't worry about me. I'm with the Lord 210 00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:07,880 Speaker 3: and I look, you know, I'll share that with you 211 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:09,959 Speaker 3: all the time. Look, at keep organized and keep doing 212 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 3: what you're doing, keep fighting, keep pushing, because I'm with 213 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 3: the Lord. 214 00:09:13,600 --> 00:09:15,760 Speaker 2: And so you know I didn't know that. 215 00:09:15,840 --> 00:09:18,240 Speaker 4: Yeah you know, yeah, yeah you got to peak over 216 00:09:18,320 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 4: and see her. But they know they didn't got us way. 217 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:24,559 Speaker 4: When my grandmother died, all right, cow conversation we'll probably 218 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:28,920 Speaker 4: have and she I have our daughter named Michael. And 219 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 4: I asked white people, you know black boy, I said, 220 00:09:30,600 --> 00:09:34,760 Speaker 4: I've been married seventeen years, Michael sixteen. She got two marmas. 221 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:38,280 Speaker 4: I'm talking with mama, that's what. But we were walking, well, 222 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:40,320 Speaker 4: we were driving. I had picked up my wife said, well, 223 00:09:40,320 --> 00:09:43,440 Speaker 4: I'm not god a black history that it was doing 224 00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 4: leap here. So it's on the twenty ninth February and 225 00:09:46,800 --> 00:09:50,680 Speaker 4: my grandmother I was taking her to Michael's head my 226 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:51,280 Speaker 4: white children. 227 00:09:51,760 --> 00:09:53,959 Speaker 1: She was like, I'm not gonna you just don't go there. 228 00:09:54,240 --> 00:09:57,320 Speaker 4: And man were going out and my grandmother said, you know, 229 00:09:57,640 --> 00:09:58,960 Speaker 4: Michael's mama got married. 230 00:09:59,040 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 1: I said, yeah, I got it. 231 00:10:00,360 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 4: Good guy, solid football coach, country guy, got good morals. 232 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:06,160 Speaker 4: Whatever you know, you know, say so she got two dance. 233 00:10:06,240 --> 00:10:08,400 Speaker 4: I grew up too dances, so I get to know me. 234 00:10:09,120 --> 00:10:13,559 Speaker 1: Well, why don't you just let him a doctor. Oh 235 00:10:14,040 --> 00:10:15,200 Speaker 1: that ship is. 236 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:19,480 Speaker 4: Anybody who know anything about my children? I'm like, I 237 00:10:19,920 --> 00:10:27,000 Speaker 4: literally scared. I also got him had and she said, mom, 238 00:10:27,080 --> 00:10:29,199 Speaker 4: what you said? I went on a rant like it's 239 00:10:29,240 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 4: my child, and she she she she seen me just 240 00:10:33,320 --> 00:10:36,079 Speaker 4: tear up, and she looked at me. She was a gentleman, 241 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:38,840 Speaker 4: she could be hot caught. She wasn't in the middle. 242 00:10:38,920 --> 00:10:43,600 Speaker 4: But I ended up marrying somebody like and uh, she 243 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:44,120 Speaker 4: looked over. 244 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:47,000 Speaker 1: She said, I hurt your feelings. I said, yeah, what 245 00:10:47,080 --> 00:10:48,679 Speaker 1: you going? This is my child. I'm raised my time. 246 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 4: She said, I'm sorry, and she had never said she 247 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:54,600 Speaker 4: she wasn't big on sorry. She said, I beg your partner, 248 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:57,240 Speaker 4: which means I still might not be wrong, right, but 249 00:10:57,280 --> 00:10:58,920 Speaker 4: if I stepped there, you sh I beg your partner. 250 00:10:59,320 --> 00:11:01,760 Speaker 1: But she she. 251 00:11:01,280 --> 00:11:04,840 Speaker 4: She in that moment, realized that I had matriculated to 252 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:09,280 Speaker 4: what she wanted me to be, an adult, responsible man, 253 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:13,280 Speaker 4: willing to take care of all my responsibilities beyond finance. 254 00:11:13,480 --> 00:11:15,440 Speaker 4: I'd already been taking care of my children financially, but 255 00:11:15,800 --> 00:11:18,199 Speaker 4: she wanted to normal, to be in this little girl's 256 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:20,600 Speaker 4: life in a way that I hadn't been able to 257 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:22,080 Speaker 4: owners because I was chasing the dream. 258 00:11:22,160 --> 00:11:23,560 Speaker 1: I was touring out, running around. 259 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:26,360 Speaker 4: But she wanted to make sure you were in this 260 00:11:26,679 --> 00:11:28,800 Speaker 4: child's life like she was going earl. I was at 261 00:11:28,800 --> 00:11:31,120 Speaker 4: the hospital, me and her, she in the insubator. Nurse 262 00:11:31,240 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 4: knew I was let me and I'm sitting there next 263 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:35,679 Speaker 4: to her. We would she would be in my grandmother's house. 264 00:11:35,679 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 4: I deal, but would have My grandmother wanted. 265 00:11:36,960 --> 00:11:38,400 Speaker 1: To make sure that Dad was going to stay intact, 266 00:11:38,520 --> 00:11:41,000 Speaker 1: because I honestly understood. She had a sense that I'm 267 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:41,680 Speaker 1: gonna get out of here. 268 00:11:41,760 --> 00:11:44,080 Speaker 4: And we were walking up a hill to her school 269 00:11:44,640 --> 00:11:47,160 Speaker 4: as she looked at me, and she looked past me, 270 00:11:47,480 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 4: and she saw something, and she looked back at me 271 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:54,719 Speaker 4: and she smiled and she hugged me, so that in 272 00:11:54,840 --> 00:11:57,439 Speaker 4: that day not only a figm for me that she 273 00:11:57,600 --> 00:11:59,360 Speaker 4: saw I had grown to the man she wanted me 274 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:01,240 Speaker 4: to beat, but it reafferred. 275 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:09,360 Speaker 1: I ran for God for some one. I ran guard 276 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:09,720 Speaker 1: so long. 277 00:12:09,800 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 4: My manager told me, I thought you was Athens, And 278 00:12:12,400 --> 00:12:15,040 Speaker 4: most of the time I said I was agnostic. I 279 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:18,880 Speaker 4: was probably questioning, But in that moment, I know in 280 00:12:19,040 --> 00:12:22,080 Speaker 4: her eyes when I saw it and I saw something 281 00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:26,320 Speaker 4: that was different, she saw something and she looked at 282 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:29,599 Speaker 4: me and she let go. And I remember trying to 283 00:12:29,640 --> 00:12:32,319 Speaker 4: give a CPR and I saved two people like to 284 00:12:32,320 --> 00:12:32,720 Speaker 4: see guard. 285 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:34,080 Speaker 1: So I know I knew I'm doing it right now. 286 00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:37,920 Speaker 4: And then when I realized, I just sat there in 287 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:40,880 Speaker 4: the grass with me and then my prayers off. Somebody 288 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:44,319 Speaker 4: came up and said, those two women man have affected me. 289 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:46,720 Speaker 1: I never leave without this, I. 290 00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:48,720 Speaker 4: Tell them, even Robbie, just let me keep the picture, 291 00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:50,760 Speaker 4: take the die, you take the divers a go. 292 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna give it. You take these pictures. 293 00:12:52,679 --> 00:12:55,720 Speaker 4: Niggamna hurt somebody down there, you know. But these women 294 00:12:55,840 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 4: have they poured so much to me. Even though this 295 00:12:58,720 --> 00:13:01,120 Speaker 4: album is very massive, naorient in terms of it's a 296 00:13:01,160 --> 00:13:01,800 Speaker 4: story that's little. 297 00:13:01,840 --> 00:13:02,800 Speaker 1: Now you're all boy. 298 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:05,240 Speaker 4: From Adamsville and in the city he grew up here, 299 00:13:05,640 --> 00:13:07,679 Speaker 4: It's about the women that afford him to her, from 300 00:13:07,720 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 4: his mama and his grandmother, his baby's mother's, his daughters, 301 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:12,400 Speaker 4: the women that afford me from the neighborhood. 302 00:13:12,640 --> 00:13:17,080 Speaker 1: I don't think that you have a complete Michael without 303 00:13:17,120 --> 00:13:17,559 Speaker 1: the women. 304 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:22,599 Speaker 5: The boss. But that goes you know, that speaks to 305 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:26,640 Speaker 5: everything in our community and all as far as our. 306 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:28,480 Speaker 1: Movements. 307 00:13:28,600 --> 00:13:31,800 Speaker 5: We as black people who all those things are generated 308 00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:32,960 Speaker 5: by the dower of women. 309 00:13:33,080 --> 00:13:35,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, and not by themself though, that's all. It's like 310 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:37,480 Speaker 1: we've always worked in Tannis and teamwork. 311 00:13:37,520 --> 00:13:41,120 Speaker 4: I if you listen to Summer Summer, I'm talking about 312 00:13:41,160 --> 00:13:42,680 Speaker 4: being a teena and you're having to have an abortion. 313 00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:44,760 Speaker 4: But if you really listen to the story, it's a 314 00:13:44,840 --> 00:13:47,560 Speaker 4: love story because the girl understands that she had this baby, 315 00:13:48,080 --> 00:13:50,719 Speaker 4: that I'm gonna be tied to the trap and I'm 316 00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:52,240 Speaker 4: gonna be tied to it now in a. 317 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:55,760 Speaker 1: Way i'd never be freaking. She sacrificed that, and she 318 00:13:55,880 --> 00:13:59,120 Speaker 1: told me, you have places to go, and I don't 319 00:13:59,160 --> 00:14:02,079 Speaker 1: want to travel. I don't want to you know, you know, 320 00:14:02,240 --> 00:14:04,040 Speaker 1: wrap up wife. But you know, as a kid, you 321 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:06,160 Speaker 1: think I'm gonna blow up. You know. She's like, man, 322 00:14:06,240 --> 00:14:08,280 Speaker 1: you guys have things. And she went on and got married, 323 00:14:08,400 --> 00:14:11,559 Speaker 1: paying a great monther, you know. But her breaking my 324 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:14,480 Speaker 1: heart released me to be footy. Who I am? Her 325 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:17,800 Speaker 1: telling me, hey, you be trapping, but you be reading 326 00:14:17,920 --> 00:14:18,880 Speaker 1: books like like me. 327 00:14:19,040 --> 00:14:20,520 Speaker 4: I just see you cut up a thousand dollars of 328 00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:22,440 Speaker 4: a dope and you read all the body from Bath 329 00:14:22,520 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 4: of Back. 330 00:14:22,720 --> 00:14:24,200 Speaker 1: It's like, what which one you go. 331 00:14:24,560 --> 00:14:28,320 Speaker 3: You know I always had this, but ship that's right, right, 332 00:14:28,400 --> 00:14:32,200 Speaker 3: right that the right a woman. 333 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:36,760 Speaker 4: To let you know being intelligent is cool. Y. It 334 00:14:36,880 --> 00:14:39,520 Speaker 4: takes a woman to affirm that because the papasa just 335 00:14:39,680 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 4: let you do the dump shit. Y'all laugh at each 336 00:14:41,200 --> 00:14:42,880 Speaker 4: other and somebody and then you don't get it telling 337 00:14:42,880 --> 00:14:45,120 Speaker 4: if somebody get a life sentence, then here tells. 338 00:14:44,920 --> 00:14:45,520 Speaker 5: Me he calling you. 339 00:14:45,640 --> 00:14:47,760 Speaker 1: But a woman sees it than you and encourages you. 340 00:14:47,920 --> 00:14:50,360 Speaker 1: So all the women I bothered, I said on. 341 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:53,320 Speaker 4: The Salt High Holder, you know, calm, I said, Man, 342 00:14:54,280 --> 00:14:57,080 Speaker 4: I get respect, you know, real niggas and all their 343 00:14:57,120 --> 00:14:57,800 Speaker 4: baby mamas. 344 00:14:57,840 --> 00:14:59,840 Speaker 1: You know what I mean, like because I want it. 345 00:15:00,240 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 1: I don't. 346 00:15:00,680 --> 00:15:03,880 Speaker 4: I don't respect your wife over your baby mama and 347 00:15:03,920 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 4: your baby. All these women have had children at you. 348 00:15:06,320 --> 00:15:09,200 Speaker 4: I have to have respect for them all. I don't 349 00:15:09,200 --> 00:15:12,080 Speaker 4: want your wife, I don't want your baby mama's right, 350 00:15:12,120 --> 00:15:14,280 Speaker 4: I don't want your other baby mama because all of 351 00:15:14,360 --> 00:15:16,960 Speaker 4: them are other in some way your jurisdiction and I'm 352 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:20,680 Speaker 4: not gonna disrespect that. So for me, I just man, 353 00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:23,600 Speaker 4: what I've learned is I brown, is that the principles 354 00:15:23,640 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 4: that are given to you, even if. 355 00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:26,360 Speaker 1: You don't live them early enough. 356 00:15:26,760 --> 00:15:30,360 Speaker 4: Eventually, when you that they're gonna they're gonna, Mary, you 357 00:15:30,400 --> 00:15:32,240 Speaker 4: know you're gonna act like you thug it for so long? 358 00:15:32,720 --> 00:15:35,840 Speaker 5: That right, and that that that is me. That is 359 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:40,680 Speaker 5: because of the relationship that I share with Ara there 360 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:45,600 Speaker 5: and our our child. Again absolutely and hour important that 361 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:49,720 Speaker 5: that relationship is absolute me, even even with standing in 362 00:15:49,800 --> 00:15:51,360 Speaker 5: my current marriage. 363 00:15:52,400 --> 00:15:59,560 Speaker 1: Erica was the doula's beautiful I recalled. Doctor Johnny Clark said. 364 00:16:00,920 --> 00:16:04,400 Speaker 4: At a time and after pre colonization, colonization, if a 365 00:16:04,480 --> 00:16:06,880 Speaker 4: woman had a baby by different me and that didn't matter, 366 00:16:06,920 --> 00:16:08,840 Speaker 4: it wasn't it wasn't no shame on her. 367 00:16:09,360 --> 00:16:13,120 Speaker 1: It was worth a men of respect. Well, you know 368 00:16:13,240 --> 00:16:14,840 Speaker 1: you think by air who I was like, God, there 369 00:16:14,920 --> 00:16:15,800 Speaker 1: was three of them runs. 370 00:16:15,640 --> 00:16:23,280 Speaker 4: Niggers upstabbing brothers. I'm like, man, that's that's that's why 371 00:16:23,360 --> 00:16:26,120 Speaker 4: our women. My sixteen year old daughter two weeks ago, Hey, 372 00:16:26,360 --> 00:16:27,960 Speaker 4: I got to go to the air because I do concert. 373 00:16:28,360 --> 00:16:30,320 Speaker 4: I send her and six on populas, you know, like, 374 00:16:30,760 --> 00:16:33,920 Speaker 4: because I want her to to elevate how I want 375 00:16:33,960 --> 00:16:35,240 Speaker 4: her to be a woman of respect. 376 00:16:35,840 --> 00:16:37,880 Speaker 1: You know, it doesn't matter to me. It doesn't matter 377 00:16:37,960 --> 00:16:38,120 Speaker 1: to me. 378 00:16:38,200 --> 00:16:40,640 Speaker 4: A lot of the slip slups that's perceived or how 379 00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:43,200 Speaker 4: people look at a judge black people. It matters to 380 00:16:43,280 --> 00:16:45,400 Speaker 4: me that we love us. You know, I'm for one 381 00:16:45,400 --> 00:16:47,680 Speaker 4: of them families. Well we a big country family, were 382 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:50,200 Speaker 4: from Tuskiga. Well, you know, my nephew just got a 383 00:16:50,280 --> 00:16:53,520 Speaker 4: girl pregnant, and my my my sisters, and I told 384 00:16:53,560 --> 00:16:54,480 Speaker 4: him the same that I told him. 385 00:16:54,480 --> 00:16:54,920 Speaker 1: He told me. 386 00:16:55,000 --> 00:16:57,360 Speaker 4: I say, now, I'm not gonna hold his secret for 387 00:16:57,480 --> 00:16:59,480 Speaker 4: too long because you this, this is my sister. But 388 00:16:59,560 --> 00:17:01,840 Speaker 4: you got to know, I'm feel talking with my sister, 389 00:17:01,920 --> 00:17:04,320 Speaker 4: so you better tell her or I'm you know, I 390 00:17:04,640 --> 00:17:05,720 Speaker 4: got both my sisters. 391 00:17:05,480 --> 00:17:06,440 Speaker 1: You know, and I got five sisters. 392 00:17:06,480 --> 00:17:08,359 Speaker 4: Told her, But the two I grew up with, I say, hey, 393 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:10,639 Speaker 4: you know, he got a girl pregnant. You know, I 394 00:17:10,680 --> 00:17:12,119 Speaker 4: don't I don't know what the deal is, and you 395 00:17:12,200 --> 00:17:13,680 Speaker 4: know how it go, they probably not gonna make it 396 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:15,600 Speaker 4: the whole way. And my other sister say, well, I 397 00:17:15,680 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 4: hope he. I hope he get a firm understanding now 398 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 4: because once she had his baby, she and the family 399 00:17:21,480 --> 00:17:23,240 Speaker 4: And that's the truth. You have a baby in my family, 400 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:25,600 Speaker 4: you and you and the fashion and we love your 401 00:17:25,640 --> 00:17:28,160 Speaker 4: baby and you. So when you got a new girlfriend. 402 00:17:28,280 --> 00:17:31,119 Speaker 4: That's fine, she's gonna see your old girlfriend. Oh gir 403 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:33,080 Speaker 4: gonna be there to baby, and she's gonna be treated 404 00:17:33,240 --> 00:17:36,080 Speaker 4: with the same about of respect and reverence for bringing 405 00:17:36,080 --> 00:17:38,600 Speaker 4: a baby to this family. I look at sometimes, man, 406 00:17:39,080 --> 00:17:41,520 Speaker 4: the grace that my wife cares with my mother, the 407 00:17:41,600 --> 00:17:43,199 Speaker 4: children and my mother around, you know. 408 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:44,520 Speaker 1: What I mean. It's just it's it is. 409 00:17:44,640 --> 00:17:47,680 Speaker 4: It is all for the benefit of those children. That's right, Aaron, 410 00:17:47,760 --> 00:17:51,760 Speaker 4: cept President. And that's what that's what we have to job. 411 00:17:51,960 --> 00:17:54,080 Speaker 1: That's that's how we have to do that job. 412 00:17:54,160 --> 00:17:55,000 Speaker 5: That's that's. 413 00:18:05,560 --> 00:18:07,320 Speaker 2: How do y'all do that? How do the men set 414 00:18:07,359 --> 00:18:07,760 Speaker 2: that tone? 415 00:18:07,800 --> 00:18:07,960 Speaker 5: Though? 416 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:11,680 Speaker 3: Because we although we want women to naturally do that 417 00:18:11,720 --> 00:18:13,240 Speaker 3: shut out to all the real women that get that, 418 00:18:13,359 --> 00:18:15,680 Speaker 3: the old school women like us, the Betty Rights, the 419 00:18:16,200 --> 00:18:18,680 Speaker 3: Miller Jackson's of the world. But how do the men 420 00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:22,119 Speaker 3: set that tone? Because men encourage that food can encourage 421 00:18:22,160 --> 00:18:24,680 Speaker 3: that foolish as well, talking about their baby mama talking 422 00:18:24,680 --> 00:18:26,280 Speaker 3: about one thing I always respected by my mother. She 423 00:18:26,400 --> 00:18:28,480 Speaker 3: never talked about my dad, and I never talked about 424 00:18:28,520 --> 00:18:30,520 Speaker 3: my ex husband in a negative way. How do y'all 425 00:18:30,600 --> 00:18:33,760 Speaker 3: set that tone as the leaders of your household? 426 00:18:34,520 --> 00:18:35,000 Speaker 1: Yeah? 427 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:37,720 Speaker 5: Any example like the brother said, I mean, but that 428 00:18:37,920 --> 00:18:40,440 Speaker 5: goes father than just your household. 429 00:18:40,560 --> 00:18:40,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. 430 00:18:40,960 --> 00:18:43,120 Speaker 1: Now we've allowed ourselves. 431 00:18:42,680 --> 00:18:46,639 Speaker 5: As a community to fall into all world whether music 432 00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:50,440 Speaker 5: leads us on the pathway where we are disrespectful to 433 00:18:50,520 --> 00:18:54,119 Speaker 5: one another in a myriad of different ways, and we 434 00:18:54,280 --> 00:18:56,119 Speaker 5: have to go back in there and correct that. We 435 00:18:56,240 --> 00:18:58,640 Speaker 5: have to go back and there as men and talk 436 00:18:58,720 --> 00:19:02,360 Speaker 5: to these young men and men, correct and correct. That's 437 00:19:02,359 --> 00:19:03,600 Speaker 5: sort of of course. 438 00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:06,600 Speaker 4: Our music has never not done that. Listen to the Blue, 439 00:19:07,280 --> 00:19:09,680 Speaker 4: Hold the Blues, but the Blue by Rodin Greg and 440 00:19:09,720 --> 00:19:10,119 Speaker 4: my grand. 441 00:19:10,040 --> 00:19:11,480 Speaker 1: Lif Turkey dollar doubts. 442 00:19:11,520 --> 00:19:14,920 Speaker 4: For Jesus, help how I got when the blue made 443 00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:17,320 Speaker 4: the blue? She left bit she fuck for Bes friend, 444 00:19:17,720 --> 00:19:18,920 Speaker 4: she took the dog. 445 00:19:20,560 --> 00:19:23,000 Speaker 1: Mistle. But what what I what I what I saw? 446 00:19:23,359 --> 00:19:27,880 Speaker 4: What what I saw was my my bio and none 447 00:19:27,960 --> 00:19:31,280 Speaker 4: byo dad. They were both my dad. When they was 448 00:19:31,359 --> 00:19:33,920 Speaker 4: in a room together, it wasn't about them and their egos. 449 00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 4: They loved it, this little choppling woman. It was about 450 00:19:36,119 --> 00:19:38,680 Speaker 4: his little chopping daf the head childs. So they showed 451 00:19:38,760 --> 00:19:40,639 Speaker 4: up to the Bes. Hey, hey Toty, hey Mike, how 452 00:19:40,720 --> 00:19:44,040 Speaker 4: y'all doing life? You know when when my daughter's mother 453 00:19:44,160 --> 00:19:44,720 Speaker 4: got married. 454 00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:46,600 Speaker 1: I told him. I said, hey, man, let me give 455 00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:48,240 Speaker 1: you my number. I'm giving out. He said, what you 456 00:19:48,320 --> 00:19:50,360 Speaker 1: need for I say, nigga, because youre gonna be my daughter. 457 00:19:50,359 --> 00:19:52,760 Speaker 1: And they day talking about I say, hey, I said, 458 00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:54,920 Speaker 1: I'm a son playing on your team. Nigga. 459 00:19:55,160 --> 00:19:56,560 Speaker 4: I said, we we might not be friends, but you 460 00:19:56,600 --> 00:19:59,040 Speaker 4: don't hear from you. I got, I got to call 461 00:19:59,119 --> 00:20:00,479 Speaker 4: you dog. I got the you know what I mean 462 00:20:01,440 --> 00:20:03,399 Speaker 4: like I got, I got the fuck with you because 463 00:20:03,400 --> 00:20:05,760 Speaker 4: you got the folks, because we got a job. You 464 00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:07,920 Speaker 4: got to make sure this little girl make it and 465 00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:10,520 Speaker 4: know she loved the confidence. So one of the greatest 466 00:20:10,560 --> 00:20:13,800 Speaker 4: things I see that off. I had three sisters, three 467 00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:16,720 Speaker 4: sisters by my father, two by my mother. They all 468 00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:19,679 Speaker 4: be a communion together, you know, at my events at 469 00:20:19,760 --> 00:20:23,440 Speaker 4: my house. But my grandfather wanted that. Thirty forty years ago. 470 00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:26,679 Speaker 4: My grandfather would tell my dad Mike. He say, hey, 471 00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:29,320 Speaker 4: you need to bring your other girls over here, because 472 00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:31,000 Speaker 4: all these girls need to know each other because it's 473 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:31,720 Speaker 4: all these brothers. 474 00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:33,359 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, and you know. 475 00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:35,920 Speaker 3: You know so, but you would agree to Hip hop 476 00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:38,200 Speaker 3: doesn't necessarily promote that though. I mean, if we have 477 00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:39,240 Speaker 3: an honest conversation. 478 00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:42,879 Speaker 1: What I was trying to say, even though the music doesn't, 479 00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:43,920 Speaker 1: the being have to. 480 00:20:44,080 --> 00:20:46,080 Speaker 2: That's what and that's that's the point that I'm Yeah, 481 00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:47,720 Speaker 2: my father, my father. 482 00:20:47,560 --> 00:20:49,480 Speaker 4: Will say to me and I don't hit on my mother. 483 00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:51,800 Speaker 4: Man would give us some brutal arguments. They be so 484 00:20:51,920 --> 00:20:54,080 Speaker 4: young when they had me. He say, hey, I don't 485 00:20:54,119 --> 00:20:56,480 Speaker 4: care how you feel about it, that steal your mother. 486 00:20:57,320 --> 00:20:59,720 Speaker 4: Still don't have to respect your mother. He never down 487 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:02,440 Speaker 4: to degraded by other dad, you know what I'm saying. 488 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:03,120 Speaker 1: Told me he never. 489 00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:06,159 Speaker 4: He always my father had a certain integrity, both of 490 00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:09,240 Speaker 4: my dad having tegrity and black ben that you you 491 00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:11,159 Speaker 4: don't have to have the most money. He might have 492 00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:13,359 Speaker 4: more money than you. He might have more cause that 493 00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:15,439 Speaker 4: might intimidate you. She might tell your nigga, he got 494 00:21:15,520 --> 00:21:17,520 Speaker 4: a bigger dick, but ship now you got a baby 495 00:21:17,520 --> 00:21:18,320 Speaker 4: out of mind first. 496 00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:19,120 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. 497 00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:23,399 Speaker 4: We're not gonna do allow ourself to get to a 498 00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:26,280 Speaker 4: level where we're so separate that this child is affected 499 00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:28,760 Speaker 4: by Yeah, what do you think the disconnect came from? 500 00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:33,840 Speaker 1: What the disc connect? Yes, but insecurity and ego. 501 00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:37,840 Speaker 4: In the insecurity, we we be insecured as people as 502 00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:41,160 Speaker 4: being at women and our egos allowed allowed to leave. 503 00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:47,960 Speaker 5: Sure, I'm not sure understanding and solonarity with you assolving 504 00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:48,600 Speaker 5: the music. 505 00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:50,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not. 506 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:53,440 Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm saying it's never not being true. 507 00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:56,320 Speaker 2: But it is though, That's why I want to hear 508 00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:58,399 Speaker 2: we just start talking bad about it, right, but we 509 00:21:58,560 --> 00:21:59,320 Speaker 2: wasn't in the blues. 510 00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:02,320 Speaker 1: I'm a bit blues like, same thing is different, right, 511 00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:03,080 Speaker 1: ship right? 512 00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:03,600 Speaker 4: Right? 513 00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:05,680 Speaker 1: But hold dollar is not a good thing to be 514 00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:06,359 Speaker 1: called unto you. 515 00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:07,280 Speaker 2: But yeah, but. 516 00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:09,359 Speaker 3: Bitches and her, I mean there are levels to it, 517 00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:13,160 Speaker 3: those so so so dealse what the world has got worse? 518 00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:13,600 Speaker 2: Sure? 519 00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:16,719 Speaker 1: Sure, Sure, I'm just saying. What makes it better are 520 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:19,520 Speaker 1: the actions after the song? Right? 521 00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:21,960 Speaker 4: What makes it better is if you're off a bread 522 00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:24,920 Speaker 4: saying about your unt barber, he hater, does he still 523 00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:26,080 Speaker 4: open the door for you? 524 00:22:26,600 --> 00:22:29,679 Speaker 5: Be aware of that going into the song, right, because 525 00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:32,560 Speaker 5: if you if you, if what you're saying that song 526 00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:36,040 Speaker 5: is something you feel tru leading you, then that's a distance. 527 00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:39,040 Speaker 1: That's but it's up for the bear to show that 528 00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:41,199 Speaker 1: the difference from him. 529 00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:44,120 Speaker 4: I can't tell you sixty to y'all change your mentality 530 00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:45,879 Speaker 4: the twenty six or thirty six. 531 00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:48,640 Speaker 1: Y'all have to show him, you know. That's what I'm saying. 532 00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:50,640 Speaker 4: I don't care how much n w A, y'all listen 533 00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:53,040 Speaker 4: to how much visits, how much off a loop. I 534 00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:56,480 Speaker 4: saw my dad's both treat my mom, who would be 535 00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:59,640 Speaker 4: a fiery woman. Both treat my mom with a level 536 00:22:59,800 --> 00:23:02,119 Speaker 4: like like somebody gonna get you. 537 00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:04,479 Speaker 1: Just act of the food. I'm all walk away. They 538 00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:06,920 Speaker 1: I didn't see them slap my mom. Hit my mother. 539 00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:08,479 Speaker 1: I didn't see that, you know what I mean. 540 00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:11,200 Speaker 4: What I saw was a man saying I'm not gonna 541 00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:12,960 Speaker 4: I'm not gonna take off my integrity. 542 00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:15,000 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna let my ego get me to the point. 543 00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:16,119 Speaker 1: And that's what we gotta teach you. 544 00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:19,200 Speaker 3: But but some but not even just young men, even 545 00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:22,040 Speaker 3: men you know your age. We were talking about this 546 00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:24,760 Speaker 3: morning with Boosie. You know, he made a comment about 547 00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:27,959 Speaker 3: him going to get anger management, and uh huh uh. 548 00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:30,320 Speaker 3: That was on the Room report today, and he said 549 00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:33,120 Speaker 3: that he didn't hit he doesn't hit his women because 550 00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:33,840 Speaker 3: he watched. 551 00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:36,960 Speaker 2: His dad hit his women. But he never knew where 552 00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:37,920 Speaker 2: that anger came from. 553 00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:39,880 Speaker 3: So here he is in his forties, and so that's 554 00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:41,880 Speaker 3: what I'm saying, just as o G's in the game 555 00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:45,440 Speaker 3: icons in the game, like how do we really name that? 556 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:47,680 Speaker 3: Like you're saying, like, no, this is another way to 557 00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:49,760 Speaker 3: go and not just for the youth before somebody grown 558 00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:52,239 Speaker 3: ass homies, like how do y'all what? The reason why 559 00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:54,879 Speaker 3: I started saying y'all couples goals is because I'm always 560 00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:58,760 Speaker 3: talking about, you know, your relationship with your wife, like how. 561 00:23:58,680 --> 00:24:01,240 Speaker 2: Do we Yeah? But of course, but I can still 562 00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:01,760 Speaker 2: point to that. 563 00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:05,560 Speaker 3: I could point to, Yeah, I could point to when 564 00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:08,840 Speaker 3: DC when they was talking about his daughter online and 565 00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:11,639 Speaker 3: Erica Badu and how many baby daddies and all of that, 566 00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:14,360 Speaker 3: and I watched him as a man stand up and say, 567 00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:16,560 Speaker 3: this is my family, this is my baby mama, this 568 00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:17,040 Speaker 3: is a woman. 569 00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:19,280 Speaker 2: I love you. You're gonna respect it, nigga. 570 00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:22,680 Speaker 3: Like so I'm saying it's gonna be a problem, and 571 00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:23,560 Speaker 3: that's what I'm saying. 572 00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:25,359 Speaker 2: I don't I don't want to just skate over it. 573 00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:27,440 Speaker 3: And I know what you're saying, but I want people 574 00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:29,880 Speaker 3: to know, like what we gotta start pointing the leadership 575 00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:31,639 Speaker 3: like this is what this is supposed to look like. 576 00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:33,760 Speaker 2: If it ain't looking like this, then that ain't what 577 00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:34,119 Speaker 2: it is. 578 00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:39,680 Speaker 1: I'm saying, we defeated it, we beat it before we 579 00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:40,440 Speaker 1: can beat it again. 580 00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:43,200 Speaker 3: But I want to know who to point to that. 581 00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:45,240 Speaker 3: I want biggas to know who watching this. This is 582 00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:47,800 Speaker 3: how it's supposed to be, this supposed to be. You 583 00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:51,879 Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, Yeah, point to the men to 584 00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:56,159 Speaker 3: lead us and women gotta know and you know, then 585 00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:57,160 Speaker 3: you gotta let them leave. 586 00:24:57,440 --> 00:24:58,960 Speaker 2: I can show you text them at ten minutes ago. 587 00:24:59,000 --> 00:24:59,960 Speaker 2: You gotta let him leave. 588 00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:03,040 Speaker 3: And I even say that I'm not gonna talk because 589 00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:05,000 Speaker 3: I want the man to talk, but I do want 590 00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:07,360 Speaker 3: women to get something out of this, Mike, because that's 591 00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:09,000 Speaker 3: the reason why we want to have a conversation with men. 592 00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:12,720 Speaker 3: We are We need your leadership. And there's always a 593 00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:13,840 Speaker 3: what tells you strong? 594 00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:16,520 Speaker 2: You got it? You know the other? Oh yeah, I know, 595 00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:17,960 Speaker 2: I told him you got it? How you know I 596 00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:18,359 Speaker 2: got it? 597 00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:21,119 Speaker 3: You don't know if I'm weak, if I need your encouragement, 598 00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:23,720 Speaker 3: if I need your support, if I need We need 599 00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:27,160 Speaker 3: y'all to leave and not just assume that everybody's treating 600 00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:29,320 Speaker 3: us right now. So man, I salute if you can 601 00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:31,760 Speaker 3: leave me someone we following, and we got to stop 602 00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:35,760 Speaker 3: that that mindset. When I talk positive about my ex husband, 603 00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:37,800 Speaker 3: men say, oh, well, you must not have. You didn't 604 00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:39,600 Speaker 3: hear the positive I just said, I've never talked down 605 00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:40,440 Speaker 3: about him on the radio. 606 00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:40,760 Speaker 2: None there. 607 00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:43,520 Speaker 3: They skate past it because we're so lout accustomed to 608 00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:46,480 Speaker 3: hearing us a whole reverence to men saying they're good 609 00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:48,320 Speaker 3: men to do that's right. 610 00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:50,560 Speaker 2: But so I want to know, how do we point? 611 00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:55,400 Speaker 1: How do y'all you know gods curt Of like man, 612 00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:56,879 Speaker 1: my holy their lost, my. 613 00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:00,840 Speaker 4: Hoiees, Mike, Mike Allen, my positive g Davis, my man, 614 00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:03,960 Speaker 4: man Jerry, Like, I got a group of guys around 615 00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:05,639 Speaker 4: me that a lot. I didn't grew up with brothers, 616 00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:08,119 Speaker 4: so I got I'm like, I saw a spiritual brothers, 617 00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:10,240 Speaker 4: brothers and spirits, you know what I'm beyond like and 618 00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:13,400 Speaker 4: we will constantly encouraging one another mind spirited body. 619 00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:16,159 Speaker 1: We Hey Jared, chiy me, Hey man, how y'all just 620 00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:17,920 Speaker 1: checking on y'all mental health to day? How you doing? 621 00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:20,600 Speaker 1: It's there? You know what I'm saying. They're there. 622 00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:24,240 Speaker 4: Brother, you know, one of the one of the realest 623 00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:26,399 Speaker 4: brothers on the street I ever met, but he's constantly like, 624 00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:28,600 Speaker 4: how's your spirit you need to rest, You need to 625 00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:31,320 Speaker 4: you know what I mean. My little brother Mike Allen, 626 00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:33,960 Speaker 4: I didn't. I never want to know little brothers. Mike 627 00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:37,200 Speaker 4: does my videography work, but it's a hell of cimar. 628 00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:40,840 Speaker 4: Talk with Mike is constantly a part me. I'm growing 629 00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:43,280 Speaker 4: because this relationship. I didn't look at it like that. 630 00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:45,320 Speaker 4: Bro Anam called me, like, bro, I want you to 631 00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:47,520 Speaker 4: look at something this way. So men have to be 632 00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:50,320 Speaker 4: encouraged of one another to you know, you gotta move 633 00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:53,360 Speaker 4: like Jesus. It's like, you know, they had some conversations 634 00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:56,720 Speaker 4: amongst that twelve thirteen people that weren't. 635 00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:58,520 Speaker 1: Heard a boy the dances. But you gotta have a 636 00:26:58,640 --> 00:26:59,680 Speaker 1: hard conversation. 637 00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:01,960 Speaker 3: And sometimes you heard about a master, like when DLC 638 00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:04,879 Speaker 3: when you called in to the radio show and said, hey, 639 00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:07,600 Speaker 3: you talk about my baby mama. We got to talk 640 00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:10,480 Speaker 3: about this as men, and it was such a respectful 641 00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:12,040 Speaker 3: cause that's when they said, oh, DLC just gave. 642 00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:12,359 Speaker 2: You a shadow. 643 00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:14,520 Speaker 3: I was all hyped up, but I was excited that 644 00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:16,440 Speaker 3: you called and said, man, you talking about this is 645 00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:17,280 Speaker 3: my baby mama. 646 00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:20,840 Speaker 2: So we're gonna talk about this as men. And I'm 647 00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:23,080 Speaker 2: just telling you, we don't see enough of that. 648 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:25,159 Speaker 3: We know what happens, because I tell you, if you 649 00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:28,040 Speaker 3: don't know good men, this alleged gender war online is fake. 650 00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:29,720 Speaker 2: I know good men. I don't know if y'all do 651 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,399 Speaker 2: we know good women? Right here? I know good men. 652 00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:33,720 Speaker 3: I don't know who y'all are men, but I know 653 00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:37,280 Speaker 3: good men. But I appreciate you know how y'all set 654 00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:40,199 Speaker 3: that tone, and it'd be great. I love like they 655 00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:42,200 Speaker 3: like talking about Ice Cuban. Let's talk about Ice Cuban 656 00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:44,680 Speaker 3: is what his wife for the last twenty five thirty years. 657 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:46,440 Speaker 2: Y'all miss over that part, you know. 658 00:27:46,600 --> 00:27:48,920 Speaker 3: So that's the kind of stuff that I just think 659 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:51,320 Speaker 3: y'all a blessing in that way to point to this. 660 00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:55,120 Speaker 3: And you talk a lot about women all throughout your album. 661 00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:57,879 Speaker 4: And some of the stuff that's symbol like a lot 662 00:27:57,880 --> 00:28:00,800 Speaker 4: of times they be, but like I say, was hyper local. 663 00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:02,719 Speaker 1: Take simple our own barber shops. 664 00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:05,720 Speaker 4: If you walk into that barber shop with your mama 665 00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:07,680 Speaker 4: and I'm in that shop and she opened that door, 666 00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:11,880 Speaker 4: Oh no, I say, saying coming, We're gonna go back 667 00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:14,280 Speaker 4: out the door, your mama, we'll close the door. 668 00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:17,160 Speaker 1: That would do you like this? Because my grandmama will 669 00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:21,040 Speaker 1: walk up to a door. She looking at me like, 670 00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:21,640 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? 671 00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:25,600 Speaker 4: And the funny thing about but I say when I 672 00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:28,240 Speaker 4: when I when I Maam got my wife man walked 673 00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:28,840 Speaker 4: up to the door. 674 00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:32,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not opening this door. 675 00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:35,280 Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. I'm not I'm not holding 676 00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:36,800 Speaker 4: no door now, you know what I mean. And I'm 677 00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:39,479 Speaker 4: just like I respect that. Now me in the door, 678 00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:41,479 Speaker 4: need open it and she gotta make the movie. It's 679 00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:43,280 Speaker 4: cold outside. She on my own door to the wasp 680 00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:44,080 Speaker 4: out thig gonna wait on. 681 00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:45,040 Speaker 1: You know what I mean. 682 00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:48,840 Speaker 4: But for me, it's about what are the hundred little 683 00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:50,800 Speaker 4: things that get done during the day that we can 684 00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:56,200 Speaker 4: comment and compliment. Big things happen, we more accepted. But man, 685 00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:59,320 Speaker 4: we just gotta they gotta be encourages of each other. 686 00:28:59,760 --> 00:29:03,760 Speaker 1: He said, what black people can do where we simply encourage. 687 00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:07,240 Speaker 1: You know, nobody said this job was gonna be easy. 688 00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:09,600 Speaker 1: But we are at a moment in time. 689 00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:12,200 Speaker 5: Boy, either we are going to accept it yea and 690 00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:15,640 Speaker 5: handle it, or it's us if all. 691 00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:16,360 Speaker 1: Of us do a little bit. 692 00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:18,880 Speaker 4: Nobody got to do a lot of That's a beautiful 693 00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:21,320 Speaker 4: part about this thing, Like nobody you know what I mean, 694 00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:23,240 Speaker 4: It's like you when you used to see somebody broke 695 00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:26,280 Speaker 4: down on the side of the highway. It ain't one 696 00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:27,840 Speaker 4: car pull over, two or three full over. 697 00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:29,920 Speaker 1: I got the jack. I gotta love that, you know 698 00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:31,960 Speaker 1: what I mean, Because the job was to get. 699 00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:35,360 Speaker 4: This woman and this child back on the back, back 700 00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:37,120 Speaker 4: in this car and on the way quickly. 701 00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:38,440 Speaker 1: It's possible, you know what I'm saying. 702 00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:40,440 Speaker 4: And for people who think this kind of shit don't happen, 703 00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:42,440 Speaker 4: me and me and Shae were driving getting on. 704 00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:44,800 Speaker 1: Twenty five ecs and die that I wrap about the 705 00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:46,000 Speaker 1: Webey vill As. 706 00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:49,240 Speaker 4: The girls had flipped the car upside that we talked 707 00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:51,560 Speaker 4: both of the ass get out this fucking car, get 708 00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:53,959 Speaker 4: your ass in this car. We're gonna drop you off 709 00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:56,160 Speaker 4: at home. Call the police in the morning so they 710 00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:57,640 Speaker 4: don't know your black ass dropped the din. 711 00:29:57,920 --> 00:29:59,720 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. And it hurt nobody else. 712 00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:02,120 Speaker 1: But that's the type of stuff I got for my grandfa. 713 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,520 Speaker 3: If you like what you heard on Straight Shot No Chaser, 714 00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:08,160 Speaker 3: please subscribe and drop a five star review and tell 715 00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:10,520 Speaker 3: a friend. 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