WEBVTT - Introducing: Decisions, Decisions

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed

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<v Speaker 1>and conversations get candid. Join your favorite hosts, Me WEEZYWTF

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<v Speaker 1>and me Mandy Bee as we dive deep into the

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<v Speaker 1>world of non traditional relationships and explore the often taboo

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<v Speaker 1>topics surrounding dating, sex and love. Figured you should talk

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<v Speaker 1>about the history of the sex parties.

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<v Speaker 2>Whenever I think of swingers parties, the first thing that

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<v Speaker 2>comes to mind is like the fish bowls. What's the

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<v Speaker 2>fishbowl where they throw the keys and the fish bowl

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<v Speaker 2>and then they would pull it. Well, these couples would

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<v Speaker 2>go and they would throw their keys into the fish bowl.

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<v Speaker 3>You man, you picked keys? Whoever the key is your wife?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So it literally says in here they were called

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<v Speaker 1>key parties before they were called swinger parties. Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, and they do it a lot in movies. So

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<v Speaker 2>you look at some of the children's movies, that's what

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<v Speaker 2>it's a reference too. So whenever you see there is

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<v Speaker 2>a little scene where they're throwing the keys in the bowl,

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<v Speaker 2>and that's what it's alluding to.

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<v Speaker 1>You have never been nickcaused.

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<v Speaker 3>Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn

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<v Speaker 3>the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a

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<v Speaker 3>blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, we share our personal

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<v Speaker 3>journeys navigating our thirties, tackling the complexities of modern relationships,

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<v Speaker 3>and engage in thought provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I gave my ex enough ways to

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<v Speaker 1>show up for me other than finance, maybe like to

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<v Speaker 1>pay for something like. I never let him really do

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<v Speaker 1>things for me. Alled you, I'm ordered.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to see you redonstructions and use them hands.

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<v Speaker 3>That's the interview process. I ain't got no bark plugs

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<v Speaker 3>because I ain't got a car, but I want to see.

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<v Speaker 1>You build some from groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to

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<v Speaker 1>relatable stories that will resonate with your experiences. Decisions Decisions

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<v Speaker 1>is going to be your go to source for the

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<v Speaker 1>open dialogue about what it truly means to love and

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<v Speaker 1>connect in today's world.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think I realized what I didn't really need intimacy.

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<v Speaker 3>On the flip side, I didn't realize how much I

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<v Speaker 3>needed and craved until my last relationship. I was cool

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<v Speaker 3>with being flown out.

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<v Speaker 2>Baby.

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<v Speaker 3>We got twenty four hours and that just being the exchange.

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<v Speaker 3>And now I was like, I'm good because it's I

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<v Speaker 3>want to cuddle, I want to lay, I want.

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<v Speaker 1>To You're getting fulfillment from somewhere else now, and it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like it's you get.

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<v Speaker 3>Ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the

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<v Speaker 3>freedom of authentic connections. Tune in and enjoying the conversation.

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