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Speaker 1: Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed

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Speaker 1: and conversations get candid. Join your favorite hosts, Me WEEZYWTF

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Speaker 1: and me Mandy Bee as we dive deep into the

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Speaker 1: world of non traditional relationships and explore the often taboo

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Speaker 1: topics surrounding dating, sex and love. Figured you should talk

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Speaker 1: about the history of the sex parties.

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Speaker 2: Whenever I think of swingers parties, the first thing that

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Speaker 2: comes to mind is like the fish bowls. What's the

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Speaker 2: fishbowl where they throw the keys and the fish bowl

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Speaker 2: and then they would pull it. Well, these couples would

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Speaker 2: go and they would throw their keys into the fish bowl.

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Speaker 3: You man, you picked keys? Whoever the key is your wife?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So it literally says in here they were called

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Speaker 1: key parties before they were called swinger parties. Wow.

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Speaker 2: Wait, and they do it a lot in movies. So

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Speaker 2: you look at some of the children's movies, that's what

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Speaker 2: it's a reference too. So whenever you see there is

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Speaker 2: a little scene where they're throwing the keys in the bowl,

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Speaker 2: and that's what it's alluding to.

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Speaker 1: You have never been nickcaused.

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Speaker 3: Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn

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Speaker 3: the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a

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Speaker 3: blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, we share our personal

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Speaker 3: journeys navigating our thirties, tackling the complexities of modern relationships,

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Speaker 3: and engage in thought provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I gave my ex enough ways to

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Speaker 1: show up for me other than finance, maybe like to

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Speaker 1: pay for something like. I never let him really do

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Speaker 1: things for me. Alled you, I'm ordered.

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Speaker 3: I want to see you redonstructions and use them hands.

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Speaker 3: That's the interview process. I ain't got no bark plugs

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Speaker 3: because I ain't got a car, but I want to see.

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Speaker 1: You build some from groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to

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Speaker 3: I don't think I realized what I didn't really need intimacy.

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Speaker 3: On the flip side, I didn't realize how much I

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Speaker 3: needed and craved until my last relationship. I was cool

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Speaker 3: with being flown out.

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Speaker 2: Baby.

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Speaker 3: We got twenty four hours and that just being the exchange.

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Speaker 3: And now I was like, I'm good because it's I

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Speaker 3: want to cuddle, I want to lay, I want.

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Speaker 1: To You're getting fulfillment from somewhere else now, and it

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Speaker 3: Ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the

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