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Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all back a suit, looking back to back down,

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Speaker 1: giving them like amazing bus things and it's not good.

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Speaker 1: Steve to mother Stuart Joy. You gotta use that turn arm.

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Speaker 1: You gotta turn to turn them out. Got to turn

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Speaker 1: Everybody listening to the voice. Come on dig me now,

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Speaker 1: one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show, man, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I do. Man. God been good to me. Man, He's

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Speaker 1: been so good to me. Wow. You know why I

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Speaker 1: say it like that. What makes it amazing is because

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Speaker 1: it's been in spite of myself. I mean, you know

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Speaker 1: he's been good to me in spite of all the

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Speaker 1: craziness I've done, all the foolishness I've gotten myself involved with,

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Speaker 1: all of the stupid decisions I've made. Put all that

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Speaker 1: Bring it all and put it on the plate, and

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Speaker 1: I'm sure there's a lot of people that can say

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Speaker 1: We've all done it. So when all that said and done,

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Speaker 1: God still loves you, man, God still loves you, still

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Speaker 1: wants you the best for you, still considers you his child.

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Speaker 1: And it's willing. It's willing man to show you your future.

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Speaker 1: That's an amazing God right there, because I don't I know,

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Speaker 1: it's him, you know. Today, Man, I want to encourage

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Speaker 1: matter of fact. Sometimes when you get to discussing races,

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Speaker 1: If if you ain't doing it all, if you're feeling empty, man,

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show on and cracking, full of life, vitality,

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Speaker 1: heard me? You hear me? Yo, hear Happy Friday, Steve

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Speaker 1: all Day calling for real, never mad on a Friday.

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Speaker 1: And Happy Father's Day to the fellows on the Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All the days I want to see

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Speaker 1: Yah the morning up Man, best mentor ever Morning Family,

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Speaker 1: Morning Everybody, Janathany Brown, Good morning, mister Harvey. Happy Father's Day.

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Speaker 1: That's everyday. That's it. That's all we're gonna get to say.

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Speaker 1: Mother's Day thing. We understand why giving birth is way

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Speaker 1: no no what you know? It's just you never use

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Speaker 1: I don't fix nothing, work around the house? Okay, say something?

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Speaker 1: for Father's Day. Ain't all the cards section it don't

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Speaker 1: next whatever you're listening to show? All right, guys, it

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Speaker 1: is time now for I asked the Cello chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey in the building. This one, Steve is from

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Speaker 1: Civil War had ended and they would be set free.

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Speaker 1: The news was brought to them by The news was

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Speaker 1: brought to them more than two years after President Lincoln

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Speaker 1: signed the Emancipation Proclamation, which freed all slaves in the

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Speaker 1: Confederate States. So there you have it. What happens on

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Speaker 1: this federal holiday? Yeah? Is it a day off? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's gonna be yeah. Thanks close, government closes yeah yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So I have a not a problem. It's just that,

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Speaker 1: like miss miss Harris was saying, how can we have

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Speaker 1: a holiday for something that we can celebrate, But they

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Speaker 1: don't want us to teach it to the kids in

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Speaker 1: school about the damn day. That to me, that'll make sense.

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Speaker 1: They don't want to talk about slavery. Well, they want

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Speaker 1: to take slavery out of the history books they want

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Speaker 1: to see. I want you to understand something. This is

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Speaker 1: my opinion of it. This country doesn't like to admit

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Speaker 1: that it's racist. The biggest racial s car they have

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Speaker 1: it is slavery. So if we get rid of that, see,

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Speaker 1: and you stop teaching it, this younger generation won't know

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Speaker 1: nothing about it. And so now that is all this

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00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 1: conversation of what y'all did to us, and then it

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Speaker 1: doesn't allow young people to know the history of this country.

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Speaker 1: It will remove our contribution to this country and in

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Speaker 1: the first place, and then it will lessen the guilt

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Speaker 1: that a lot of these people feel that part right

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Speaker 1: and reparations that we might want to talk about. They

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Speaker 1: get rid of all of that. Why is it okay

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Speaker 1: to talk about the Holocaust but not slavery? Well, listen

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Speaker 1: to me. The two shouldn't be pitted against one Jewish people.

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00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:54,640
Speaker 1: Jewish people not feel to let you play them, period,

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00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 1: and we shouldn't let them play us. The two greatest

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Speaker 1: atrocities in world history his slavery and the Holocaust. Those

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Speaker 1: are two of the greatest atrocities, atrocities against human kind.

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Speaker 1: Those two things cannot be forgotten. Now the Jewish culture

452
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:16,440
Speaker 1: not gonna let you play him. It's still people walking

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Speaker 1: around with numbers on them. But it's still those of

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Speaker 1: us walking around suffering from the Act the math of

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Speaker 1: slavery because we live in a country that keeps inflicting

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Speaker 1: policies as if we were. You won't pass to George

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Speaker 1: Floyd Bill. You have an act that you've introduced over

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Speaker 1: four hundred bills recently for voter suppression since Biden one.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, look man, what else you want? You know,

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Speaker 1: you're trying to tell us that you've been that that

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00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:50,480
Speaker 1: is really raining. You've been paying on us the whole time,

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Speaker 1: and then you got the vice presidents, as the former

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Speaker 1: vice president says that this systemic racism is a left

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Speaker 1: wing myth. Man, get out. You're talking about Mike Pitts,

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Speaker 1: the formal president behind these people. So full of racist

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Speaker 1: all right, Steve, come on, um, it's before you get

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Speaker 1: too mad, right, ladies and gentlemen, Miss An Tripp, thank

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Speaker 1: you very much. Yeah, this is Anne tripping. Yes, they

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Speaker 1: called it the Northern War of Aggression instead of slavery

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Speaker 1: and the Civil War. As expected, President Biden signed a

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Speaker 1: measure into law yesterday. Yes, we just talked about it

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Speaker 1: creating a new federal holiday honoring the other Independence Day, Juneteenth,

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Speaker 1: but to his credit, to his credit, mister Biden at

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Speaker 1: least acknowledged the bigger picture. Today also marks the sixth

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Speaker 1: anniversary the tragic deaths at Mother Emmanuel Church in Charleston,

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Speaker 1: South Carolina. A killer motivated by hate, intending to start

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Speaker 1: a race war in South Carolina, joined his victims in

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Speaker 1: the Bible study class, and he took their lives in

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Speaker 1: the House of Worship to reminder that our work to

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Speaker 1: root out hate never ends because he only hides, and

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00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:05,719
Speaker 1: when you're breathe oxygen under that rock, it comes out.

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Speaker 1: In short, this day doesn't just celebrate the past, it

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Speaker 1: calls for action today. I wish all Americans happy Juneteenth.

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Speaker 1: How Speaker Nancy Pelosi sees it as a very important

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Speaker 1: continuum in light of this month's reveal about Black Wall

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Speaker 1: Street and other lies and omissions in the history book

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Speaker 1: concerning American Blacks and American history, this is an important

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Speaker 1: step for America. One of the most momentous events in

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Speaker 1: our history finally takes its official place of honor in

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Speaker 1: our nation. That was Nancy Pelosi. Well, the Republicans gave

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Speaker 1: it another try, but at they lost again. Yesterday, the

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Speaker 1: Supreme Court turned back a challenge by Republican led states

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Speaker 1: to abolish Obamacare, or the Affordable Care Act, but they failed.

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Speaker 1: The justices decide there was nothing wrong with the health

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Speaker 1: program as it is, and Santa Charles Schumer says he's

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Speaker 1: hoping the Republican Obamacare challenges finally get life. The ACA

497
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Speaker 1: is here to stay, and now we're going to try

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Speaker 1: to make it bigger and better, establish one sin for all,

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Speaker 1: affordable healthcare as a basic right of every American citizen.

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Speaker 1: Right now, about thirty one million Americans have healthcare covers

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Speaker 1: directly connected to Obamacare, and this is the third time

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Speaker 1: that the High Court has upheld it well. Finally, a

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Speaker 1: lot was made of the numbers of people leaving on

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Speaker 1: the cities, especially New York City, last year to get

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00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:28,879
Speaker 1: away from COVID, but a recent survey shows that's still

506
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:31,719
Speaker 1: another exodus is about to happen. This is called recovery

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00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:37,160
Speaker 1: into resignation, take this job and shoving. Yeah, apparently corn

508
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Speaker 1: to axios. As many as forty percent of workers are

509
00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:41,640
Speaker 1: now thinking about quitting their jobs. A lot of them

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00:35:41,680 --> 00:35:44,600
Speaker 1: also thinking about changing careers. A lot of folks gott

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Speaker 1: were working at home. They want they don't want to

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Speaker 1: go to the office anymore. And a lot of others

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Speaker 1: just want a different life. Now back to the Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to show? All right, Steve,

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Speaker 1: come on, introduce your boy. Let's see what's going on

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Speaker 1: in that crazy MG Anthony Brown, Well, I found like

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Speaker 1: it's going down Saturday night. The whole in yours truly

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Speaker 1: will be there Raleigh, North Carolina. Your boy would be

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Speaker 1: an out. I have a list of gifts. If you

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Speaker 1: haven't got daddy a gift yet, These some gifts. If

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00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:22,719
Speaker 1: you see them, damn it, don't get them. Okay, this

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00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:28,520
Speaker 1: is what daddy don't want. Okay, or wool lime green

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00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:33,400
Speaker 1: housecoat and says do it daddy on the back. He

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00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:39,879
Speaker 1: don't want that. If you see it, a gold too

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00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:42,600
Speaker 1: with a light in it. Naw, that might be big

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00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:46,799
Speaker 1: in Atlanta, but the average daddy don't want that. Okay.

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Speaker 1: Wooden shoes with daddy's name in it. Damn it, he

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00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:55,680
Speaker 1: don't want that. Don't matter. No wooden ass shoes, all right?

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Speaker 1: A chicken feathers nobody, Hell, what got your chicken? Got

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00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:09,040
Speaker 1: your chicken feather vest, Daddy, which you think? How about

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00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:12,960
Speaker 1: this one? This is something Daddy definitely don't want. LaToya

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00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:18,280
Speaker 1: Jackson's greatest hits on download, which is one damn song?

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Speaker 1: I know it's one song, all right, one song. Don't

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00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:26,239
Speaker 1: you come in that room? Say, daddy, guess what I

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00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:33,759
Speaker 1: got you? Fifty five pound bag or barbecue skin? Huh No,

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00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:40,719
Speaker 1: fifty five pounds? How about beard gum? Who the hell

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00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:45,920
Speaker 1: won't beard gum? Don't do no damn beard gum, beard gum?

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00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:49,800
Speaker 1: How about this one? Daddy, open the box? Look at that.

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00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:56,319
Speaker 1: I got your pilgrim hat. Here's something Daddy don't want.

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00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:59,960
Speaker 1: He don't want to lap dance from a knock knee

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00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:05,719
Speaker 1: gods stripper. Okay, now you save a lot of them. Yeah,

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00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:08,880
Speaker 1: you gonna. You're gonna save money on that, But he

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00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 1: don't want it. Tell you what daddy really won't What

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00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 1: he won't Daddy won't these nuts gonna hot it in

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00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:19,760
Speaker 1: the MOFO dot com or the daddy some of these

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00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:28,680
Speaker 1: nuts that in I did that yet, Daddy, some nuts,

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00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:32,879
Speaker 1: these nuts hotter than the MOFO dot com for all

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00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:38,600
Speaker 1: your nuts needs, watch your damn that well, you can't

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00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:49,280
Speaker 1: tell my kids something I don't want. What I don't want?

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00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:53,799
Speaker 1: Got them all up this one right here. You gotta

551
00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:56,000
Speaker 1: being over that. You can just stand up. I can

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00:38:56,080 --> 00:39:00,360
Speaker 1: being over put my damns. All right, we gotta go, guys.

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Speaker 1: Happy Father's Day. Thank you Jay. Coming up at thirty

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Speaker 1: four minutes after the hour, we're gonna talk to Steve

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Speaker 1: about being a dad and a granddad. This is sponsored

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Speaker 1: by Fatherhood, which stars Kevin Hart. It's out on Netflix

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00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:16,200
Speaker 1: today and we'll talk about it right after this. You're

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Speaker 1: listening to the Steven Show. Fatherhood is Kevin Hart's new

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00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:26,160
Speaker 1: movie that premieres today on Netflix. You don't want to

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00:39:26,200 --> 00:39:29,480
Speaker 1: miss it. This is a Kevin Hart that we've never seen.

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00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:35,320
Speaker 1: He is excellent in this role. It's about an emotional journey.

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Speaker 1: He's a single dad. He's trying to connect with his daughter.

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Speaker 1: I mean, what a really really good movie. You're gonna laugh,

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00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:44,360
Speaker 1: but you're gonna really cry in this movie because it

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00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 1: tugs at your heart and you're gonna laugh a lot

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Speaker 1: because it's Kevin Hart. But he's in a really dramatic

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00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:54,160
Speaker 1: role and you know it's just about him and his

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Speaker 1: beautiful little daughter. It's a collection of just dad's and

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Speaker 1: father figures and just a beautiful portrayal of black fatherhood.

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Speaker 1: I feel good movie. It goes through all of the emotions.

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Speaker 1: Like I said, You're gonna laugh, you're gonna cry, You're

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00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:14,200
Speaker 1: gonna feel lost, you're gonna feel doubt, you're gonna feel love, grief,

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Speaker 1: all of that determination, all of that wrapped up into

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Speaker 1: this movie called Fatherhood, which premieres today on Netflix. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so Steve, yeah, you're a father. You know, one of

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Speaker 1: the best we know. Not only do you father your

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Speaker 1: own biological children, but you mentor many, many millions of

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Speaker 1: boys around the world. So I want you to tell

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Speaker 1: us about the first time you became a father. You

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00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:45,240
Speaker 1: didn't just have one baby. You had a set of twins,

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Speaker 1: Brandy and Curly. Now, let's just be honest about my

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Speaker 1: role as a father. Every last one of my children,

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Speaker 1: every last one of them, wasn't complete. Damn surprised. They

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Speaker 1: weren't expect you to look for that really pass them

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Speaker 1: was a woman came in and said to me, I'm pregnant.

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Speaker 1: You are crazy. Okay, so we haven't. The babies have conde,

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Speaker 1: so you know what I mean. But I'll tell you though,

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Speaker 1: it's been I think being a grandfather that's been even

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Speaker 1: a little bit more special because I have, you know,

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Speaker 1: some way of seeing my name continue through my grandsons.

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Speaker 1: The granddaughters are a lot more, you know, precious. You know,

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Speaker 1: I never get angry at my grandkids. I'm always in

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Speaker 1: a good mood with them because, you know, thing that mine,

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Speaker 1: So I don't really care. But I think the most

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Speaker 1: gratified thing for me it's watching my children get it

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Speaker 1: right now. They've all made a lot of mistakes, but

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Speaker 1: I have to realize that, Boy, I look back at

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Speaker 1: the mistakes I made, and nobody could keep judging me

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Speaker 1: over and over for my mistakes because there was no cyberspace,

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Speaker 1: you know, there's no Internet, was no Instagram. My children

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Speaker 1: sometimes their mistakes get broadcast and they have to deal

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Speaker 1: with it. And then they had the extra burden of

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Speaker 1: being my child. So now here comes some most spotlight

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Speaker 1: and so it's been kind of it's a tough spot

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Speaker 1: to put them in, but they all have made the

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Speaker 1: necessary adjustments and they've turned out to be some really

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Speaker 1: really good young people man, and you know, proud of

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Speaker 1: a lot of the accomplishments. Any advice you can give

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Speaker 1: to people who are dealing with blended families because you

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Speaker 1: have experience in that as well. I mean, it's not easy,

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Speaker 1: it's difficult. If you think parenting is difficult, blending has

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Speaker 1: an own set of challenges. I just the only thing

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Speaker 1: that Marjorne I did was we removed the term step Okay,

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Speaker 1: we don't have step children. We removed children, and they

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Speaker 1: just saw kids not And you know, if you won't

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Speaker 1: into that party, you welcome if you want to step

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Speaker 1: outside of it because you're feeling some kind of way,

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Speaker 1: they're gonna get to stepping. But me and Marjorie we

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Speaker 1: saw it all right. Thank you, Steve. Happy Father's Day.

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Speaker 1: Coming up next, Junior is in for the nephew with

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Speaker 1: today's prank phone call. Right after this, you're listening to

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top of

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Speaker 1: the hour. Right about four minutes after, it's my strawberry

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Speaker 1: letter for today. The subject is three years later, we're

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Speaker 1: still friends. We'll get into that in just a little bit,

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Speaker 1: but right now the junior, the junior is here for

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Speaker 1: the nephew with today's prank phone call. What you got

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Speaker 1: for us? The junior, Tommy would have said like this,

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Speaker 1: but it's mister Wiggins. Mister Wiggins, you got that right, Wiggins,

630
00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:16,680
Speaker 1: none of that running. Hello. Hello, Hi, my name is George.

631
00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:19,319
Speaker 1: I'm with Green Lawn Services. We came out and gave

632
00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:22,160
Speaker 1: you a cut your yard yesterday, and uh, we're trying

633
00:44:22,160 --> 00:44:24,840
Speaker 1: to make sure that you liked everything thoroughly. That we

634
00:44:24,920 --> 00:44:27,080
Speaker 1: cut the front, the back. We also did your hedges,

635
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:29,600
Speaker 1: put some mulch in the flybds, the weed eating in

636
00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:32,240
Speaker 1: the whole nine yards, and we also left an invoice

637
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:33,759
Speaker 1: on your doorstep. Want to make sure you got that

638
00:44:33,840 --> 00:44:39,359
Speaker 1: as well, My man, I'm around man, look damn good,

639
00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:42,879
Speaker 1: But I was trying to forget who cut it, sir, Yeah,

640
00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:44,520
Speaker 1: we cut it as of yesterday. You were actually on

641
00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:48,520
Speaker 1: our schedule and we did everything thoroughly. I'm actually just

642
00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:52,839
Speaker 1: calling as a follow up, all right, I get sir.

643
00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:56,640
Speaker 1: Are you mister Malone at fifty three oh one Zimmerman?

644
00:44:57,360 --> 00:45:00,719
Speaker 1: Hell no, man, I'm Wiggins from three three man, you

645
00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:05,279
Speaker 1: cut the wrong house. That's next, dough man. I guess

646
00:45:05,280 --> 00:45:08,440
Speaker 1: you need to put your inboards on there though, so

647
00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:12,040
Speaker 1: so you you're not mister Malone at fifty three oh

648
00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:15,359
Speaker 1: one Zimmerman. Say man, I've just told you. I'm gonna

649
00:45:15,360 --> 00:45:17,920
Speaker 1: sit to three h three and I'm mister wiggers. You

650
00:45:17,920 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 1: don't cut the wrong du it. Y'all need to go

651
00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:22,759
Speaker 1: and miss listen alone, how to get you one because

652
00:45:22,760 --> 00:45:25,960
Speaker 1: you ain't cut. You got the wrong house. No, sir,

653
00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:29,520
Speaker 1: y'all ain't coming over here trying to collect no money. Well, sir,

654
00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:31,880
Speaker 1: hold on just a second, head. You're saying we didn't.

655
00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:34,719
Speaker 1: You don't cut the wrong yard, so I don't don't

656
00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:37,799
Speaker 1: know schedule. I ain't tell you come over here and cut.

657
00:45:38,440 --> 00:45:41,400
Speaker 1: And you go there and talking Malone get your money.

658
00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:43,560
Speaker 1: You can't ain't So there's no way we can charge

659
00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:46,279
Speaker 1: mister Malone if we haven't cut his yard. Now, let's

660
00:45:46,320 --> 00:45:49,120
Speaker 1: let's just you need to take the cut mister Malone

661
00:45:49,520 --> 00:45:52,520
Speaker 1: yard and put the member us and here you you

662
00:45:52,560 --> 00:45:58,960
Speaker 1: didn't cut, And at this sir, nothing want to cut

663
00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:01,960
Speaker 1: the room. You go cut the right yard and get

664
00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:06,520
Speaker 1: right that you ain't got. You ain't getting Okay, sir,

665
00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:09,600
Speaker 1: I say that now, I didn't call no out of

666
00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:14,279
Speaker 1: the cut. You go there, I haven't cut his right

667
00:46:14,520 --> 00:46:19,359
Speaker 1: and get him boys, you can't get I understand that, sir. Listen.

668
00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:21,759
Speaker 1: What I want to say is, uh, well we'll go

669
00:46:21,800 --> 00:46:23,759
Speaker 1: over and we'll take care of mister Malone's yard. I

670
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:26,800
Speaker 1: understand that we've made a mistake, but I understand. I understood.

671
00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:30,240
Speaker 1: You say that you didn't like the services. So wouldn't

672
00:46:30,280 --> 00:46:33,920
Speaker 1: it be even right for you to actually go ahead

673
00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:35,839
Speaker 1: and send the invoice in along with the check since

674
00:46:35,880 --> 00:46:39,000
Speaker 1: you did like the services? Well? Ever did listening like

675
00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:43,000
Speaker 1: yo retarded? Because then I just tell you cut the

676
00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:46,560
Speaker 1: wrong or want to cut the right yard and get

677
00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:49,439
Speaker 1: you money. You ain't got nothing but practice here. You're done.

678
00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:53,839
Speaker 1: I understand that we cut the wrong yard, sir, I

679
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:56,799
Speaker 1: understand that, but you got the services, and you like

680
00:46:56,920 --> 00:46:59,080
Speaker 1: the services. I don't want to have to come out

681
00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:02,360
Speaker 1: there and get the money from you. We'll come on it, decuming,

682
00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:06,000
Speaker 1: Come on it, decumbing. I got something. Come on over

683
00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:08,480
Speaker 1: here and get you what you said you like. I

684
00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:11,360
Speaker 1: wouldn't give them if I said the moon was green.

685
00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:14,640
Speaker 1: You cut the wrong yard. You go get you money

686
00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:17,680
Speaker 1: from the right one. You ain't getting charge you I

687
00:47:17,760 --> 00:47:20,279
Speaker 1: got something. You come on over here. You see what

688
00:47:20,360 --> 00:47:25,120
Speaker 1: you get. So I put them cut the room trying

689
00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:28,680
Speaker 1: to get money. Money you ain't getting. Now you you

690
00:47:28,680 --> 00:47:31,279
Speaker 1: can go get you from the right you're either right

691
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:34,319
Speaker 1: next door, go cut that. You leave that paper over there.

692
00:47:34,760 --> 00:47:37,759
Speaker 1: I'm coming over there. You want to leave startsome, I'm

693
00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:42,240
Speaker 1: starts ain't some come onund and do and be charging

694
00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:45,279
Speaker 1: me no money? Now? Yeah, I got more heathen theil

695
00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:49,520
Speaker 1: get if you want to come get it. You got

696
00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:51,840
Speaker 1: your yard cut and we deserve to get all the

697
00:47:52,000 --> 00:47:55,640
Speaker 1: money back to get to what. You come around here

698
00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:57,680
Speaker 1: time and get some money. Now, I tell you don't

699
00:47:57,719 --> 00:47:59,960
Speaker 1: cut come on yard like you know. I'm gonna tell

700
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:02,960
Speaker 1: how you don't make me whoop y'all behind this yard

701
00:48:03,160 --> 00:48:08,839
Speaker 1: you come, I will whoop yall behind in the front

702
00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:14,160
Speaker 1: yard that just got caught you mammy, ain't your path

703
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:18,040
Speaker 1: and you come trying to get the money. I'm hello,

704
00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:20,919
Speaker 1: you don't you? I check? I got one more thing

705
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:26,560
Speaker 1: to tell you. Is you're listing? Are you can't standing now?

706
00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:29,879
Speaker 1: I'm you took the rope? I've got one more thing

707
00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:35,040
Speaker 1: to tell you. Is you listening? Mister Wickens. I'm look,

708
00:48:35,280 --> 00:48:38,800
Speaker 1: this is Nephew timing from the Steve Harving Morning Show.

709
00:48:39,160 --> 00:48:52,800
Speaker 1: You just got prank? Hello? What you listen listen to

710
00:48:52,880 --> 00:49:00,960
Speaker 1: this morning? Yall? Look at your boy? Gary just brankd

711
00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:11,960
Speaker 1: you man, Oh we la. Now I'm gonna go get hey.

712
00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:14,120
Speaker 1: Let me ask something. Did they cut your yard? They

713
00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:22,120
Speaker 1: cut the wrong yard? Man, y'all about to get Wiggs

714
00:49:22,160 --> 00:49:31,719
Speaker 1: started in the blaxp Let me ask you something though, Man,

715
00:49:32,239 --> 00:49:36,920
Speaker 1: what is the baddest radio show in the land? Man,

716
00:49:37,000 --> 00:49:44,480
Speaker 1: it's the Steve Harvard Morning Here it is mister Wiggins,

717
00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:55,680
Speaker 1: Miss Wiggins. You could say, you're I got all mister Wiggins.

718
00:49:55,760 --> 00:50:00,440
Speaker 1: Mister Wiggins maybe comes on his vacation, gone on this

719
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:06,520
Speaker 1: w's who knows? That's probably don't tell them flunked out

720
00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:13,520
Speaker 1: of class. Coolie Jay, I'm still tripping off when you

721
00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:19,720
Speaker 1: said earlier, Yeah, in a mental institute. I've had. I've

722
00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:22,320
Speaker 1: had all types of weird jobs. I am. I was

723
00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:27,040
Speaker 1: a shag boy. Anybody golfers know what a shag boy is. Now,

724
00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:29,400
Speaker 1: if you ever go into a golf course and scene

725
00:50:29,440 --> 00:50:31,919
Speaker 1: where they have the tractor pick up the balls where

726
00:50:31,960 --> 00:50:36,080
Speaker 1: guys hit them out field, okay, yeah yeah, But before

727
00:50:36,120 --> 00:50:38,960
Speaker 1: they had the tractor, they had a little negro out there,

728
00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:45,480
Speaker 1: which was me. Yeah. So you go back as far

729
00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:48,640
Speaker 1: as you can and you wait till you hit the balls,

730
00:50:48,719 --> 00:50:51,040
Speaker 1: and then you pick them up and then you get

731
00:50:51,080 --> 00:50:53,879
Speaker 1: a bucket of balls, and each bucket you fill up,

732
00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:59,359
Speaker 1: you get five dollars, and it's called shagging balls. Shagging balls. Now, wow,

733
00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:01,880
Speaker 1: you have to wait to they hit all the balls

734
00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:04,480
Speaker 1: out of the bucket because you could go up to

735
00:51:04,560 --> 00:51:07,239
Speaker 1: pick up a ball which has happened and you get

736
00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:10,279
Speaker 1: hit in the head with the ball and you don't

737
00:51:10,320 --> 00:51:18,080
Speaker 1: get anything extra if you get hit. Job like that,

738
00:51:18,160 --> 00:51:24,240
Speaker 1: pay five dollars a bucket. Five you get a bucket ball.

739
00:51:25,840 --> 00:51:28,480
Speaker 1: And how many buckets would you get on an average day?

740
00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:30,880
Speaker 1: Well in the day, if you got two or three buckets,

741
00:51:30,880 --> 00:51:32,759
Speaker 1: you go home with that fifteen dollars. And you know,

742
00:51:32,880 --> 00:51:35,200
Speaker 1: you're a young kid, that's a lot of money, forty dollars.

743
00:51:36,160 --> 00:51:38,920
Speaker 1: But there's a lot of cheer, there's a lot of dodging,

744
00:51:39,400 --> 00:51:44,200
Speaker 1: lot of dodging. Go home exhausted. And that's why you

745
00:51:44,239 --> 00:51:49,960
Speaker 1: don't like golf. Huh, that's why he going to All right,

746
00:51:50,600 --> 00:51:53,719
Speaker 1: thank you guys, Coming up next Strawberry Letters, subject three

747
00:51:53,840 --> 00:51:56,520
Speaker 1: years later, we're still friends. We'll get into it right

748
00:51:56,520 --> 00:52:02,680
Speaker 1: after this. You're listening Morning show time now for today's

749
00:52:02,719 --> 00:52:07,160
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, on dating, work, sex,

750
00:52:07,239 --> 00:52:10,239
Speaker 1: parenting and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve

751
00:52:10,280 --> 00:52:14,920
Speaker 1: HARVEYFM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could

752
00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:18,600
Speaker 1: be reading your letter live. It's just like we're gonna

753
00:52:18,920 --> 00:52:22,000
Speaker 1: read this one right here. Who knows it could be

754
00:52:22,120 --> 00:52:25,440
Speaker 1: your letter? You just never know. All right, ladies and gentlemen,

755
00:52:25,480 --> 00:52:28,360
Speaker 1: Just time for the Strawberry Letter with my good friends.

756
00:52:28,440 --> 00:52:32,040
Speaker 1: Shirley straw Berry, Thank you my good friend Junior. Subject

757
00:52:32,120 --> 00:52:37,720
Speaker 1: three years later and we're only friends. Dear Stephen, Shirley,

758
00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:41,000
Speaker 1: I'm thirty four years old and my significant other is

759
00:52:41,040 --> 00:52:44,319
Speaker 1: thirty nine and we've been together for three years. I

760
00:52:44,520 --> 00:52:47,279
Speaker 1: call him my significant other because he is yet to

761
00:52:47,360 --> 00:52:50,839
Speaker 1: define our relationship. We started as friends, just like most

762
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:54,120
Speaker 1: couples do, and we got closer. He told me that

763
00:52:54,200 --> 00:52:57,320
Speaker 1: he didn't want anything serious, but he enjoyed spending time

764
00:52:57,320 --> 00:53:01,360
Speaker 1: with me. We started having sex a month after we met,

765
00:53:01,560 --> 00:53:04,080
Speaker 1: and at that time I was very busy at work

766
00:53:04,120 --> 00:53:06,839
Speaker 1: and helping my sister with her new baby, so I

767
00:53:06,880 --> 00:53:10,640
Speaker 1: was not ready for anything serious either. Then my guy

768
00:53:10,920 --> 00:53:15,080
Speaker 1: tore his acl and he needed something someone to help

769
00:53:15,160 --> 00:53:17,520
Speaker 1: him out, so he came to stay with me for

770
00:53:17,600 --> 00:53:20,839
Speaker 1: a week. I was crazy about him, so taking care

771
00:53:20,840 --> 00:53:25,080
Speaker 1: of him came naturally. Whenever we're together and his phone rang,

772
00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:27,640
Speaker 1: he'd tell the caller he was with me, and he'd

773
00:53:27,640 --> 00:53:31,080
Speaker 1: call them back. This made me confident about the direction

774
00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:34,239
Speaker 1: our relationship was going in, so I never asked him

775
00:53:34,320 --> 00:53:38,160
Speaker 1: if we were boyfriend slash girlfriend. After two years, we

776
00:53:38,160 --> 00:53:41,560
Speaker 1: were stuck together like glue. If you saw him, you

777
00:53:41,560 --> 00:53:45,200
Speaker 1: saw me. That all changed last week when we double

778
00:53:45,320 --> 00:53:48,640
Speaker 1: dated with one of my girlfriends and her fiance. They

779
00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:52,000
Speaker 1: got engaged recently and they are so in love you

780
00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:55,600
Speaker 1: can feel it. My friend asked my guy if he'd

781
00:53:55,600 --> 00:53:58,840
Speaker 1: been thinking about marriage, and my guy spoke up and

782
00:53:58,880 --> 00:54:03,720
Speaker 1: embarrassed me so bad. He said, we're not that serious yet.

783
00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:07,360
Speaker 1: We're best friends and we love each other, but we

784
00:54:07,440 --> 00:54:11,600
Speaker 1: are not exclusive. He told my friend that I'm aware

785
00:54:11,600 --> 00:54:14,400
Speaker 1: of our status and I'm not pressuring him for a title.

786
00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:19,560
Speaker 1: I sat there, looking stupid and holding back tears. He

787
00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:22,439
Speaker 1: said he does plan to get married one day, when

788
00:54:22,640 --> 00:54:25,759
Speaker 1: the time is right. What I heard is that I'm

789
00:54:25,800 --> 00:54:29,080
Speaker 1: not the one. Is he wasting my time or is

790
00:54:29,120 --> 00:54:31,760
Speaker 1: he dating others to get it out of his system

791
00:54:31,920 --> 00:54:37,640
Speaker 1: before he proposes. I'm so confused. Okay, come on, now,

792
00:54:38,320 --> 00:54:41,040
Speaker 1: I really do not want you to be confused right now.

793
00:54:41,160 --> 00:54:43,720
Speaker 1: I don't want that. I need you to be good

794
00:54:43,960 --> 00:54:48,799
Speaker 1: and woke, okay, because this man just told your good

795
00:54:48,880 --> 00:54:52,879
Speaker 1: friends and you what he really thinks of you in

796
00:54:52,920 --> 00:54:56,560
Speaker 1: no uncertain terms, and you heard him tell them, so

797
00:54:56,640 --> 00:55:01,239
Speaker 1: please be clear. He said you're not a exclusive You

798
00:55:01,280 --> 00:55:06,920
Speaker 1: are not exclusive, which means yes, he's seeing other people, okay,

799
00:55:07,600 --> 00:55:10,280
Speaker 1: and that marriage will happen one day when the time

800
00:55:10,400 --> 00:55:14,080
Speaker 1: is right. Well, if it's marriage you want with him,

801
00:55:14,280 --> 00:55:16,880
Speaker 1: you can no longer sit back and allow him and

802
00:55:17,040 --> 00:55:20,879
Speaker 1: him only to define this relationship. You have a say

803
00:55:20,920 --> 00:55:24,919
Speaker 1: in this too. You're in it. Your feelings matter, and

804
00:55:24,960 --> 00:55:27,400
Speaker 1: if you've changed and you want more, you have to

805
00:55:27,480 --> 00:55:30,879
Speaker 1: let him know. It's been three years, and after three

806
00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:35,759
Speaker 1: years you should feel extremely comfortable in expressing yourself to him,

807
00:55:36,080 --> 00:55:39,080
Speaker 1: and with a lot of confidence. I might add, remember

808
00:55:39,120 --> 00:55:42,120
Speaker 1: he had no shame, no trepidation when he spoke his

809
00:55:42,200 --> 00:55:45,000
Speaker 1: mind to your friends, and you should do the same.

810
00:55:45,160 --> 00:55:47,920
Speaker 1: You should do the same, otherwise you could be spending

811
00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:52,879
Speaker 1: another three years in this holding pattern of a relationship,

812
00:55:52,960 --> 00:55:55,000
Speaker 1: not know where it's going. And I know you don't

813
00:55:55,000 --> 00:56:02,720
Speaker 1: want that. Steve, Speak up, girl, Steve, Well, this letter

814
00:56:02,960 --> 00:56:08,000
Speaker 1: you've explained your situation thoroughly, So what you want our

815
00:56:08,040 --> 00:56:13,479
Speaker 1: advice for? I don't understand. You're thirty four, he's thirty nine.

816
00:56:15,000 --> 00:56:22,800
Speaker 1: I call him my significant other. He don't call you nothing.

817
00:56:25,280 --> 00:56:31,719
Speaker 1: I call him my significant other. And then you justify

818
00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:34,640
Speaker 1: by saying because he has yet to define our relationship.

819
00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:40,040
Speaker 1: Oh no, that's because you ain't defined it. You just

820
00:56:40,239 --> 00:56:42,120
Speaker 1: you just what what you ain't on him to do,

821
00:56:42,920 --> 00:56:44,840
Speaker 1: because all throughout the letter he showed you what he

822
00:56:44,920 --> 00:56:48,919
Speaker 1: gonna do, which ain't pretty much. Ain't about nothing. Well

823
00:56:51,440 --> 00:56:54,960
Speaker 1: you say we started as friends just like most couples.

824
00:56:55,280 --> 00:56:59,600
Speaker 1: That's not how usually works. But okay, as we got closer,

825
00:57:01,719 --> 00:57:08,680
Speaker 1: he told me he didn't want anything serious. Dude, Okay,

826
00:57:08,719 --> 00:57:13,880
Speaker 1: you typed this, so obviously you heard it. He told

827
00:57:14,800 --> 00:57:20,440
Speaker 1: you he didn't want nothing serious, but he enjoyed spending

828
00:57:20,480 --> 00:57:24,439
Speaker 1: time with me. We started having sex a month after

829
00:57:24,440 --> 00:57:28,680
Speaker 1: we met. Well that's when he really enjoyed it spending

830
00:57:28,720 --> 00:57:34,440
Speaker 1: time with you, because y'all was having sex and I

831
00:57:34,520 --> 00:57:36,680
Speaker 1: was very busy at work helping my sister were her

832
00:57:36,720 --> 00:57:40,840
Speaker 1: new baby, so I wasn't really ready for anything serious either. Well, see,

833
00:57:40,880 --> 00:57:44,440
Speaker 1: you got into the relationship like a lot of people do.

834
00:57:45,680 --> 00:57:49,800
Speaker 1: And you you was wanting something, but you're talking about

835
00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:51,760
Speaker 1: you ain't want nothing either. Well, it don't sound like

836
00:57:51,760 --> 00:57:53,560
Speaker 1: that in the letter, because all through what you had

837
00:57:53,600 --> 00:57:56,400
Speaker 1: the table crying for later on if you ain't want nothing.

838
00:57:57,200 --> 00:58:01,320
Speaker 1: See then my guy tore his ACL and he needed

839
00:58:01,360 --> 00:58:03,280
Speaker 1: someone to help him out, so he came to stay

840
00:58:03,320 --> 00:58:06,000
Speaker 1: with me for a week. I was crazy about taking

841
00:58:06,040 --> 00:58:13,480
Speaker 1: care of him naturally. So now when he needs you

842
00:58:14,200 --> 00:58:17,840
Speaker 1: for convenience, here he comes. Now he need a woman. Now,

843
00:58:18,120 --> 00:58:21,240
Speaker 1: see he need nothing sious, but that see that torn ACL.

844
00:58:21,520 --> 00:58:25,880
Speaker 1: That's a serious injury. So now let me cozy own

845
00:58:26,040 --> 00:58:28,680
Speaker 1: up to this girl that I'm using, and I'm gonna

846
00:58:28,720 --> 00:58:32,040
Speaker 1: stay at her house for a week. Called this serious now,

847
00:58:32,280 --> 00:58:34,440
Speaker 1: But a minute ago he told you don't want nothing seious,

848
00:58:34,440 --> 00:58:36,280
Speaker 1: But that injury didn't tip him up, So now he

849
00:58:36,280 --> 00:58:39,040
Speaker 1: ain't come. All right, I'll tell you the rest every

850
00:58:39,120 --> 00:58:42,200
Speaker 1: when we come back. All right, you heard him. We'll

851
00:58:42,240 --> 00:58:44,680
Speaker 1: have part two of Steve's response coming up at twenty

852
00:58:44,720 --> 00:58:48,280
Speaker 1: three minutes after the hour. Today's subject three years later,

853
00:58:48,360 --> 00:58:51,520
Speaker 1: we're still friends, will get back into it right after this.

854
00:58:52,120 --> 00:58:57,360
Speaker 1: You're listening show, all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap

855
00:58:57,400 --> 00:59:03,960
Speaker 1: today's Strawberry letter, the subject three years later, we're still friends? Well, lady,

856
00:59:04,720 --> 00:59:07,640
Speaker 1: you're dating the man. You were just friends, you say,

857
00:59:07,720 --> 00:59:11,200
Speaker 1: like most couples. Then are y'all got closer? And he

858
00:59:11,360 --> 00:59:15,880
Speaker 1: told you I don't want nothing serious. He told you

859
00:59:15,960 --> 00:59:19,160
Speaker 1: that top of the letter. But he said he enjoyed

860
00:59:19,200 --> 00:59:22,160
Speaker 1: spending time with me. Well you know why because right

861
00:59:22,200 --> 00:59:25,080
Speaker 1: after that, y'all said, y'all started having the sex a

862
00:59:25,200 --> 00:59:27,040
Speaker 1: month after we met. Well, I know it was gonna

863
00:59:27,040 --> 00:59:31,120
Speaker 1: hear will he enjoying this time? But you now now

864
00:59:31,480 --> 00:59:33,320
Speaker 1: you was okay with that? You say, because you was

865
00:59:33,360 --> 00:59:35,120
Speaker 1: busy at working. You was helping your sister with a

866
00:59:35,240 --> 00:59:41,360
Speaker 1: new baby, So I was not ready for anything serious either. Ah,

867
00:59:43,080 --> 00:59:46,120
Speaker 1: well that ain't what this letter say because you wrote

868
00:59:46,320 --> 00:59:48,880
Speaker 1: the whole time in the letter you sound like you

869
00:59:48,960 --> 00:59:54,280
Speaker 1: was thinking someone's gonna get serious. Right, Well, then you

870
00:59:54,320 --> 00:59:58,440
Speaker 1: got towards acl He needed somebody to help him out,

871
00:59:58,480 --> 00:59:59,880
Speaker 1: so he came to stay with me for a week.

872
01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:02,520
Speaker 1: Because you know why it calls at l is a

873
01:00:02,560 --> 01:00:06,600
Speaker 1: serious injury. So now he over your house for a week.

874
01:00:08,280 --> 01:00:10,840
Speaker 1: You loved it because you're crazy about him. Think of

875
01:00:11,000 --> 01:00:14,720
Speaker 1: him just came naturally, as it does with a lot

876
01:00:14,760 --> 01:00:19,720
Speaker 1: of women, because a lot of women are very nurturing

877
01:00:20,080 --> 01:00:23,120
Speaker 1: by nature. Women are the best nurturers in the world.

878
01:00:23,480 --> 01:00:25,520
Speaker 1: So you had a chance to take care of somebody,

879
01:00:25,560 --> 01:00:27,600
Speaker 1: to show him how much you love him and how

880
01:00:27,680 --> 01:00:31,800
Speaker 1: serious you are. While he had that serious injury. Girl,

881
01:00:32,000 --> 01:00:38,160
Speaker 1: you're making it happen and now here going apart that

882
01:00:38,320 --> 01:00:41,280
Speaker 1: I really want you to talk about. So taking care

883
01:00:41,320 --> 01:00:43,720
Speaker 1: of him came naturally. Whenever we were together and his

884
01:00:43,920 --> 01:00:46,880
Speaker 1: phone rang, he'd tell the caller he was with me,

885
01:00:47,280 --> 01:00:50,520
Speaker 1: and he called them back. This made me confident about

886
01:00:50,560 --> 01:00:54,520
Speaker 1: the direction of our relationship was going on. Who so

887
01:00:54,760 --> 01:01:01,120
Speaker 1: you're ignoring the fact that the phone ringing, just damn

888
01:01:01,240 --> 01:01:07,800
Speaker 1: that you your takeaway? What that was? He tell everybody,

889
01:01:08,000 --> 01:01:13,640
Speaker 1: I'm I'm with huh, I'll call you back. That gave

890
01:01:13,720 --> 01:01:19,600
Speaker 1: you confidence. Girl, you forgot he told you this wasn't

891
01:01:19,600 --> 01:01:23,040
Speaker 1: nothing serious and based on the conversation, he tell that

892
01:01:23,120 --> 01:01:26,520
Speaker 1: to everybody. So now when the girls do call him

893
01:01:26,600 --> 01:01:30,680
Speaker 1: on the phone, he hadn't already told him they got

894
01:01:30,800 --> 01:01:32,800
Speaker 1: a torn a sill and he stayed with his friend.

895
01:01:33,600 --> 01:01:37,400
Speaker 1: I'm with her right now, I'll call you back, And

896
01:01:37,600 --> 01:01:40,080
Speaker 1: they cool with that because he hadn't told him they

897
01:01:40,080 --> 01:01:43,240
Speaker 1: ain't got nothing serious. But mostly he hadn't told them

898
01:01:43,560 --> 01:01:46,840
Speaker 1: you ain't serious. And if you don't think he told

899
01:01:46,920 --> 01:01:49,240
Speaker 1: him that, that's why he's so coolly answering his phone,

900
01:01:49,280 --> 01:01:51,560
Speaker 1: because why you gotta he put his phone on vibrated

901
01:01:51,560 --> 01:01:54,320
Speaker 1: if he was trying to hide something he ain't got to, though,

902
01:01:54,320 --> 01:01:57,200
Speaker 1: he can leave it open because you ain't serious. He

903
01:01:57,400 --> 01:02:01,160
Speaker 1: told you that, but he told everybody else that. So

904
01:02:01,360 --> 01:02:03,880
Speaker 1: now that made you confident about the direction your relationship

905
01:02:03,960 --> 01:02:05,760
Speaker 1: with going in. So I never asked him if we

906
01:02:05,840 --> 01:02:12,200
Speaker 1: were born for any girlfriend mistake. After two years, were

907
01:02:12,280 --> 01:02:15,960
Speaker 1: tucked together like glue. Okay, if you saw him, you

908
01:02:16,040 --> 01:02:19,080
Speaker 1: saw me. That all changed last week when we double

909
01:02:19,160 --> 01:02:22,360
Speaker 1: dated with one of my girlfriends and her fiance. They

910
01:02:22,440 --> 01:02:24,800
Speaker 1: got engaged recently and they are so in love and

911
01:02:24,880 --> 01:02:28,000
Speaker 1: you can feel it. My friend asked my guy if

912
01:02:28,000 --> 01:02:30,200
Speaker 1: he'd been thinking about marriage, and my guy spoke up

913
01:02:30,240 --> 01:02:34,040
Speaker 1: and embarrassed me so bad. He said, he's not that.

914
01:02:34,280 --> 01:02:39,800
Speaker 1: We're not that serious yet, see, because his acl fixed

915
01:02:42,560 --> 01:02:46,360
Speaker 1: and he told you two years ago he wasn't looking

916
01:02:46,400 --> 01:02:52,000
Speaker 1: for nothing serious. Sure, he said, we're best friends and

917
01:02:52,160 --> 01:02:58,600
Speaker 1: we love each other, but we're not exclusive out. Now.

918
01:02:58,600 --> 01:03:01,000
Speaker 1: I don't know why that affected you, because he'd been

919
01:03:01,040 --> 01:03:10,960
Speaker 1: asking the phone the whole time. What he told my

920
01:03:11,120 --> 01:03:13,520
Speaker 1: friend that I'm aware of our status and I'm not

921
01:03:13,640 --> 01:03:17,160
Speaker 1: pressing him for a title. He told the truth. He

922
01:03:17,360 --> 01:03:20,280
Speaker 1: told you he didn't want nothing serious. He ain't never

923
01:03:20,480 --> 01:03:23,680
Speaker 1: gave you a title, and you know you're aware of

924
01:03:23,800 --> 01:03:26,320
Speaker 1: it because he told you that, And you ain't pressing

925
01:03:26,400 --> 01:03:28,400
Speaker 1: him for a title, because you said back in the

926
01:03:28,520 --> 01:03:31,120
Speaker 1: letter you ain't never asked him if you was boyfriend

927
01:03:31,200 --> 01:03:35,960
Speaker 1: and girlfriend. You said that, so you can't get mad

928
01:03:35,960 --> 01:03:40,760
Speaker 1: at this guy in this letter at all. I sat

929
01:03:40,840 --> 01:03:43,480
Speaker 1: there looking stupid and holding back tears. He said he

930
01:03:43,600 --> 01:03:45,800
Speaker 1: does playing and get married one day when the time

931
01:03:45,960 --> 01:03:49,160
Speaker 1: is right. What I heard is I'm not the one.

932
01:03:49,920 --> 01:03:52,840
Speaker 1: Is he wasting my time? Or is he dating others

933
01:03:52,960 --> 01:03:55,400
Speaker 1: to get out of his system before he promoted? What

934
01:03:56,480 --> 01:03:58,480
Speaker 1: where do you get this stuff from that you keep

935
01:03:58,680 --> 01:04:02,560
Speaker 1: reading into this? You said, is he dating others to

936
01:04:02,680 --> 01:04:08,840
Speaker 1: get it out of his system before he proposes? He

937
01:04:09,040 --> 01:04:18,040
Speaker 1: thirty nine? Right? What he thirty nine? Lady? What do

938
01:04:18,120 --> 01:04:19,520
Speaker 1: you mean he trying to get this out of his

939
01:04:19,640 --> 01:04:23,040
Speaker 1: system before he proposes? He never told you he wanted

940
01:04:23,080 --> 01:04:27,560
Speaker 1: to marry you. He's never mentioned marriage to you. You

941
01:04:27,640 --> 01:04:31,080
Speaker 1: ain't even his girlfriend, and he told it to you

942
01:04:31,080 --> 01:04:34,440
Speaker 1: in front of your friends. Why you're still there hoping

943
01:04:34,480 --> 01:04:41,160
Speaker 1: and waiting is beyond me. What are you waiting for? Lady?

944
01:04:41,480 --> 01:04:44,080
Speaker 1: You know the answer to all of this. Stop reading

945
01:04:44,200 --> 01:04:48,120
Speaker 1: more into something that ain't there. All you need to

946
01:04:48,200 --> 01:04:50,720
Speaker 1: do is go in and say, look, I want a title.

947
01:04:50,880 --> 01:04:53,120
Speaker 1: I won't know what his relationship is or we're gonna

948
01:04:53,160 --> 01:04:56,200
Speaker 1: have to end it bye, and he's gonna just going

949
01:04:56,240 --> 01:04:59,720
Speaker 1: over there to mother girls. It's called thank you Stoster.

950
01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:02,480
Speaker 1: I'm it's done. Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM

951
01:05:02,520 --> 01:05:05,600
Speaker 1: and Instagram and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Podcast on

952
01:05:05,720 --> 01:05:08,160
Speaker 1: demand coming up at forty six minutes after the hour.

953
01:05:08,680 --> 01:05:13,200
Speaker 1: What Junior has a new poem for us right after this? Yeah,

954
01:05:14,040 --> 01:05:19,080
Speaker 1: Father's Day. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Junior,

955
01:05:19,120 --> 01:05:21,160
Speaker 1: you have so much stuff going on? Tell us what's

956
01:05:21,200 --> 01:05:27,680
Speaker 1: happening in excuse me? Yes, it's time. Credissy will be

957
01:05:28,040 --> 01:05:30,720
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961
01:05:39,640 --> 01:05:42,960
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962
01:05:43,040 --> 01:05:45,600
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965
01:05:52,320 --> 01:05:54,919
Speaker 1: Get all the info at Steve Harvey FM dot com.

966
01:05:55,440 --> 01:05:58,520
Speaker 1: Now Lucky's poem time, Ladies and gentlemen. It gives me

967
01:05:58,720 --> 01:06:01,480
Speaker 1: great pleasure to enter dud this man and Jane. You've

968
01:06:01,560 --> 01:06:06,040
Speaker 1: never heard this, so pay attention, ladies and gentlemen, please

969
01:06:06,240 --> 01:06:12,000
Speaker 1: welcome to the mic. A man who are affectionate referred

970
01:06:12,080 --> 01:06:17,280
Speaker 1: to as Jay Rapp. What does that stand for? A

971
01:06:17,360 --> 01:06:25,880
Speaker 1: step far Junior's raggedy as unsayp oh, well, here it

972
01:06:26,120 --> 01:06:29,600
Speaker 1: is then Father's Day. Fathers, you know you're pretty much

973
01:06:29,680 --> 01:06:32,240
Speaker 1: not gonna gett nothing for Father's Day. We already established

974
01:06:32,240 --> 01:06:34,440
Speaker 1: that at the beginning of the show. Also, there's some

975
01:06:34,520 --> 01:06:36,640
Speaker 1: other things you ain't gonna be getting either, So listen up,

976
01:06:36,680 --> 01:06:47,040
Speaker 1: fellows here and go. It's called Father's Day. Papa, giddies, Daddy,

977
01:06:48,240 --> 01:06:51,480
Speaker 1: you ain't getting nothing. Let's get this out the way.

978
01:06:52,280 --> 01:06:54,360
Speaker 1: You know, damn well, you ain't getting nothing. Each year

979
01:06:54,400 --> 01:06:57,840
Speaker 1: on Father's Day. Well you might think you're gonna get something.

980
01:06:59,040 --> 01:07:01,840
Speaker 1: You'll even take a back stand there in your draws

981
01:07:02,080 --> 01:07:04,640
Speaker 1: while she looks at you and land Daddy, you ain't

982
01:07:04,680 --> 01:07:07,880
Speaker 1: getting nothing. We do this every year. You start getting

983
01:07:07,880 --> 01:07:11,240
Speaker 1: all giddy when Father Day getting near. Daddy, you ain't

984
01:07:11,280 --> 01:07:14,160
Speaker 1: getting nothing. Let's just get this out so you're not

985
01:07:14,320 --> 01:07:18,120
Speaker 1: surprised and looking sad while your lip is all poked out. Daddy,

986
01:07:18,240 --> 01:07:20,640
Speaker 1: you're not getting nothing. Okay, So, Daddy, I hope you

987
01:07:20,720 --> 01:07:23,040
Speaker 1: made it clear with the words I had to say.

988
01:07:23,360 --> 01:07:27,560
Speaker 1: You ain't getting nothing. Zerro Goosey, not a Nathan. Don't

989
01:07:27,600 --> 01:07:31,560
Speaker 1: it hold a ball ifty box on Sunday this Father's Day,

990
01:07:31,880 --> 01:07:40,520
Speaker 1: d n z Ro naked be Father's Day, every father Day.

991
01:07:42,400 --> 01:07:46,840
Speaker 1: She didn't getting none of that either, nothing ZrO not

992
01:07:47,360 --> 01:07:52,880
Speaker 1: Jay Raps strikes again. I'm happy when you're right. See

993
01:07:53,920 --> 01:07:59,600
Speaker 1: that was a whole one right there, wall boy pee

994
01:08:00,280 --> 01:08:03,040
Speaker 1: kill Jay has nothing to say to his little protege.

995
01:08:12,360 --> 01:08:14,880
Speaker 1: All right, coming up, thank you, Junior. Coming up at

996
01:08:14,920 --> 01:08:17,400
Speaker 1: the top of the hour. Jay Rapped, coming up at

997
01:08:17,400 --> 01:08:19,000
Speaker 1: the top of the hour, we'll talk about the most

998
01:08:19,040 --> 01:08:23,600
Speaker 1: embarrassing father dad moments right after this you're listening to.

999
01:08:27,439 --> 01:08:29,719
Speaker 1: All Right, guys, we've been talking about it all morning.

1000
01:08:29,880 --> 01:08:33,439
Speaker 1: We know that Father's Day is this Sunday. So Steve,

1001
01:08:33,600 --> 01:08:38,560
Speaker 1: Jay and Junior, I gotta ask you, guys, what was

1002
01:08:38,600 --> 01:08:41,200
Speaker 1: the most embarrassing thing your father ever did to you?

1003
01:08:42,080 --> 01:08:45,519
Speaker 1: And what's the best advice your dad ever gave you?

1004
01:08:46,400 --> 01:08:51,040
Speaker 1: Call myself going to fight my father. You know, I'm Monday.

1005
01:08:51,080 --> 01:08:53,960
Speaker 1: I was gonna stand up and he hit me in

1006
01:08:54,040 --> 01:08:58,720
Speaker 1: the stomach so hard I never I mean, this went

1007
01:08:58,840 --> 01:09:01,280
Speaker 1: all the way to my back. Was like, wow, he's

1008
01:09:01,360 --> 01:09:04,439
Speaker 1: not he not me. He just one punch, you know what.

1009
01:09:04,479 --> 01:09:07,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, Let's do this. That's exactly what I said.

1010
01:09:07,800 --> 01:09:10,880
Speaker 1: I said, damn it, let's do this. And he hit

1011
01:09:10,960 --> 01:09:14,639
Speaker 1: me in my stomach so damn hard that I passed out.

1012
01:09:16,680 --> 01:09:21,400
Speaker 1: Let's do this. You said, let's do this. He said,

1013
01:09:21,400 --> 01:09:31,280
Speaker 1: all right, let's yea. He said, all right, whoa? Okay,

1014
01:09:33,840 --> 01:09:36,200
Speaker 1: my daddy going to school with me as a student.

1015
01:09:36,960 --> 01:09:40,759
Speaker 1: Because I was talking in claid man my graves was slipping.

1016
01:09:40,800 --> 01:09:42,680
Speaker 1: He said, okay, I know you don't want to learn.

1017
01:09:42,760 --> 01:09:44,559
Speaker 1: I'll say I'll be there tomorrow. And he was there

1018
01:09:44,640 --> 01:09:47,320
Speaker 1: the whole damn day class to Claid, I ain't never

1019
01:09:47,439 --> 01:09:50,040
Speaker 1: focused on trying to do some homework, and Claid, I

1020
01:09:50,240 --> 01:09:52,679
Speaker 1: was the best thing in that day because my daddy

1021
01:09:52,680 --> 01:09:54,960
Speaker 1: is sitting right behind me, his big ASSAI a dis

1022
01:09:55,479 --> 01:09:59,840
Speaker 1: sitting right knees all out. Don't you know that A

1023
01:10:00,120 --> 01:10:05,320
Speaker 1: some space? I know space though, come out. I mean

1024
01:10:05,479 --> 01:10:08,760
Speaker 1: that whole day, even going to know my friends talk

1025
01:10:08,840 --> 01:10:14,120
Speaker 1: to me that entire day. He got a pen and paper,

1026
01:10:14,160 --> 01:10:18,360
Speaker 1: tablet and everything, like I have my locker with me.

1027
01:10:18,960 --> 01:10:21,760
Speaker 1: I I can't get no girls in here today day.

1028
01:10:24,240 --> 01:10:33,200
Speaker 1: Embarrassing thing, come on, embarrassing. Yeah, I don't really know.

1029
01:10:33,439 --> 01:10:36,760
Speaker 1: I had a great father. My daddy did not do

1030
01:10:36,880 --> 01:10:41,240
Speaker 1: a lot of talking, and his was to make you

1031
01:10:41,640 --> 01:10:44,599
Speaker 1: figure it out. So every summer I had to work

1032
01:10:44,680 --> 01:10:49,560
Speaker 1: construction with him, right I got older, and so his

1033
01:10:49,800 --> 01:10:52,639
Speaker 1: thing was he would be working on the job site

1034
01:10:53,120 --> 01:10:55,160
Speaker 1: and to make sure I was looking, he would look

1035
01:10:55,200 --> 01:10:57,880
Speaker 1: at me and go, I'm fit to do this right here,

1036
01:10:58,000 --> 01:11:01,680
Speaker 1: go up there and get that thing from now. I'm

1037
01:11:01,760 --> 01:11:05,200
Speaker 1: fitting to do this right hill up there and get

1038
01:11:05,280 --> 01:11:08,760
Speaker 1: that thing. Now. I gotta walk all the way up

1039
01:11:08,840 --> 01:11:12,200
Speaker 1: this hill and it's it's just at top of the hill,

1040
01:11:12,280 --> 01:11:16,920
Speaker 1: is just full of things, and so the first time

1041
01:11:16,960 --> 01:11:19,720
Speaker 1: he's sending them. Then my youngest brother, who's eleven years

1042
01:11:19,760 --> 01:11:22,600
Speaker 1: old of me, he was working with him too. I

1043
01:11:22,800 --> 01:11:25,880
Speaker 1: came back down the hill and I didn't have the

1044
01:11:26,040 --> 01:11:31,360
Speaker 1: right thing, and he said, what's that fall? I said,

1045
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Speaker 1: I bought it down hill. He said that what the

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01:11:35,080 --> 01:11:38,000
Speaker 1: hell would you bring that down here when I'm doing

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Speaker 1: this here? And I told you to bring me that

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Speaker 1: thing down here so I can do this hill. I

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01:11:42,880 --> 01:11:45,400
Speaker 1: want it so bad to go, Daddy, do this hill?

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01:11:45,600 --> 01:11:50,800
Speaker 1: What and get what thing? Man? Damn? Come on. But

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01:11:51,040 --> 01:11:53,160
Speaker 1: my brother looking at me, like, come on, man, just

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01:11:53,320 --> 01:11:55,960
Speaker 1: do the one smart thing you got to. So I

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01:11:56,080 --> 01:12:00,200
Speaker 1: walked back up that hill, came back down with two

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Speaker 1: things in my hand. I damned wouldn't neither wanted them.

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Speaker 1: He said, boy, I raised you to be a thinking man.

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Speaker 1: Now I'm fitting to do this here. Go up there

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Speaker 1: and bring that thing down here. When I came back

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01:12:14,160 --> 01:12:16,360
Speaker 1: down that here the third time, I had that whole

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01:12:16,520 --> 01:12:22,280
Speaker 1: wheel barrel, everything that was on top of that hell.

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01:12:22,880 --> 01:12:27,160
Speaker 1: I got down there and said okay, and my brother

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01:12:27,320 --> 01:12:29,960
Speaker 1: was just laughing. He said, man, you bought all the

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01:12:30,120 --> 01:12:32,120
Speaker 1: damn too was down here. He gonna get mad. I

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01:12:32,200 --> 01:12:34,400
Speaker 1: bet I'm gonna go back up there with not I

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01:12:34,560 --> 01:12:37,600
Speaker 1: wasn't bringing the wrong thing down here, he said, all right,

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01:12:37,600 --> 01:12:42,799
Speaker 1: and then get that to me. You know. I handed

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01:12:42,880 --> 01:12:45,200
Speaker 1: him everything out there, wheel barrel until I got to

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Speaker 1: the last thing. And that's what the hell he wanted.

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Speaker 1: That's how my daddy taught us. Huh, I said, Man,

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Speaker 1: this dude right here, all right, Steve, thank you. Happy

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Speaker 1: Father's Day to all the great fathers out Therapia Smith

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Speaker 1: Harvey greatest Daddy Albanue mission Man, We'll have more of

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Speaker 1: today's trending stories on the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming

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01:13:08,400 --> 01:13:11,160
Speaker 1: up at twenty minutes after. Right after this, you're listening

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Speaker 1: to Dave Harvey Morning Show. The Steve Harvey Virtual Mentoring

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Speaker 1: Program is this Father's Day weekend. Special guests include jeez La,

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01:13:21,600 --> 01:13:25,200
Speaker 1: Lakers star Taylor Horton, Tucker, Terrence Jay, and many more.

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Speaker 1: And Steve, you said that during our mentoring sessions, you've

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01:13:28,960 --> 01:13:31,200
Speaker 1: found that the boys are dealing with so much pain

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01:13:31,800 --> 01:13:34,280
Speaker 1: because of all the deaths of these young black men.

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01:13:34,800 --> 01:13:37,680
Speaker 1: And on Saturday, You're going to be having a conversation

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Speaker 1: and a panel called Past the Pain with some of

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01:13:41,560 --> 01:13:46,960
Speaker 1: the iconic fathers Tracy Martin, father of Trayvon Martin, Aubrey Wright,

1083
01:13:47,479 --> 01:13:53,400
Speaker 1: father of Dante Wright, and Michael Brown's Michael Michael Brown's father,

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Speaker 1: and a lot of African American young men are dealing

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01:13:56,439 --> 01:13:58,880
Speaker 1: with the trauma that they see on the news. I

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01:13:59,000 --> 01:14:01,680
Speaker 1: did one campbell time at my ranch in Dallas, and

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01:14:01,760 --> 01:14:04,760
Speaker 1: I had the Little Elm Police department come and talk

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01:14:04,840 --> 01:14:08,080
Speaker 1: to the boys. And that's when I discovered it. When

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01:14:08,120 --> 01:14:10,680
Speaker 1: them police came and talk to them boys, all in

1090
01:14:10,800 --> 01:14:13,559
Speaker 1: black boys wanted to ask the police why y'all always

1091
01:14:13,680 --> 01:14:16,960
Speaker 1: kill us, killing them, and them officers was going, well,

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01:14:17,040 --> 01:14:19,360
Speaker 1: that's not all of us. That little boys stood up

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01:14:19,360 --> 01:14:21,720
Speaker 1: and said he was fifteen. He stood up and said,

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01:14:21,960 --> 01:14:25,519
Speaker 1: but it's too many. He said, officer, y'all don't never

1095
01:14:25,720 --> 01:14:31,160
Speaker 1: kill black keying us. Ever, he said, y'all just kill us.

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01:14:31,880 --> 01:14:34,240
Speaker 1: That's why we run. That's why we try to keep

1097
01:14:34,400 --> 01:14:37,160
Speaker 1: driving because if we stop, y'all gonna kill us. That's

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01:14:37,200 --> 01:14:39,479
Speaker 1: when I said, Okay, it's a level of stuff going

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01:14:39,560 --> 01:14:42,280
Speaker 1: on here that I haven't been noticing. So now we

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01:14:42,400 --> 01:14:45,000
Speaker 1: had to add some things to the program to help

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Speaker 1: the boys deal with the pain. Right So, young man,

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01:14:47,479 --> 01:14:50,040
Speaker 1: they just thirteen to eighteen. Please go to the Harvey

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Speaker 1: Foundation dot org for more details. Coming up, we'll have

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01:14:53,640 --> 01:14:56,000
Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show at thirty three

1105
01:14:56,040 --> 01:15:00,360
Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. Right after this, you're listening Harday

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01:15:00,439 --> 01:15:04,799
Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, So Juneteenth is now a federal

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01:15:05,080 --> 01:15:09,719
Speaker 1: holiday because yesterday President Biden signed into law a measure

1108
01:15:09,800 --> 01:15:13,439
Speaker 1: that makes June the nineteenth, or Juneteenth, a federal holiday

1109
01:15:13,600 --> 01:15:18,160
Speaker 1: commemorating the end of slavery in the United States. As

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01:15:18,200 --> 01:15:22,400
Speaker 1: we established Juneteenth as our newest national holiday, let us

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01:15:22,479 --> 01:15:26,160
Speaker 1: be clear about what happened on June nineteenth, eighteen sixty five,

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Speaker 1: the day we call Juneteenth. Vice President Kamala Harris said,

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01:15:30,200 --> 01:15:33,639
Speaker 1: speaking of how the enslaved people of Galveston, Texas were

1114
01:15:33,720 --> 01:15:36,400
Speaker 1: the last in the nation to be informed that the

1115
01:15:36,560 --> 01:15:39,519
Speaker 1: Civil War had ended and they would be set free.

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01:15:39,880 --> 01:15:42,920
Speaker 1: The news was brought to them by The news was

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01:15:43,000 --> 01:15:45,839
Speaker 1: brought to them more than two years after President Lincoln

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Speaker 1: signed the Emancipation Proclamation, which freed all slaves in the

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Speaker 1: Confederate States. So there you have it. So what happens

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Speaker 1: on this federal holiday? Wellday, yeah, is it a day off? Yeah,

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01:16:01,600 --> 01:16:10,479
Speaker 1: it's gonna be. Yeah. Thanks clothes, government clothes. Yeah, yeah,

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01:16:10,600 --> 01:16:12,800
Speaker 1: so I have a not a problem. It's just that,

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Speaker 1: like miss miss Harrison was saying, how can we have

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01:16:16,400 --> 01:16:19,479
Speaker 1: a holiday for something that we can celebrate, but they

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Speaker 1: don't want us to teach it to the kids in

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01:16:21,800 --> 01:16:26,679
Speaker 1: school about the damn day? To me, that will make sense.

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01:16:27,800 --> 01:16:31,320
Speaker 1: They don't want to talk about slavery. Well, if they

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Speaker 1: want to take slavery out of the history books they

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01:16:34,880 --> 01:16:37,320
Speaker 1: want to see, I want you to understand something. This

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01:16:37,560 --> 01:16:41,560
Speaker 1: is my opinion of it. This country doesn't like to

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01:16:41,680 --> 01:16:45,519
Speaker 1: admit that it's racist. The biggest racial star they have

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01:16:46,200 --> 01:16:50,080
Speaker 1: is slavery. So if we get rid of that, see,

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01:16:50,240 --> 01:16:53,400
Speaker 1: and you stop teaching it, this younger generation won't know

1134
01:16:53,520 --> 01:16:56,479
Speaker 1: nothing about it. And so now that is all this

1135
01:16:56,640 --> 01:17:00,479
Speaker 1: conversation of what y'all did to us, and then it

1136
01:17:00,680 --> 01:17:06,040
Speaker 1: doesn't allow young people to know the history of this country.

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01:17:06,640 --> 01:17:13,560
Speaker 1: It will remove our contribution to this country and in

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01:17:13,680 --> 01:17:18,320
Speaker 1: the first place, facts, and then it will lessen the

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01:17:18,640 --> 01:17:24,679
Speaker 1: guilt that a lot of these people feel that part

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01:17:24,840 --> 01:17:29,840
Speaker 1: right and reparations that we might want to talk about,

1141
01:17:31,360 --> 01:17:35,360
Speaker 1: they get rid of all of that. Why is it

1142
01:17:35,439 --> 01:17:38,679
Speaker 1: okay to talk about the Holocaust but not slavery. Well,

1143
01:17:38,840 --> 01:17:43,320
Speaker 1: listen to me. The two shouldn't be pitted against one

1144
01:17:44,720 --> 01:17:48,759
Speaker 1: Jewish people. Jewish people not feel to let you play them, period,

1145
01:17:49,680 --> 01:17:54,000
Speaker 1: and we shouldn't let them play us. The two greatest

1146
01:17:54,080 --> 01:17:59,720
Speaker 1: atrocities in world history his slavery and the Holocaust. Those

1147
01:17:59,760 --> 01:18:04,000
Speaker 1: are two of the greatest atrocities, atrocities against human kind.

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Speaker 1: Those two things cannot be forgotten. Now. The Jewish culture

1149
01:18:07,320 --> 01:18:10,599
Speaker 1: not gonna let you play him. It's still people walking

1150
01:18:10,640 --> 01:18:13,280
Speaker 1: around with numbers on them. All right, job, when we

1151
01:18:13,360 --> 01:18:16,960
Speaker 1: come back, last break of the day and Steve's closing remarks,

1152
01:18:17,000 --> 01:18:18,599
Speaker 1: you don't want to miss them. We'll be back at

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01:18:18,640 --> 01:18:23,720
Speaker 1: forty nine after you're listening show. All right, here we

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Speaker 1: are our last break of the day on this Friday

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Speaker 1: Father's Day weekend. Happy Father's Day to all the dads

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Speaker 1: out there. And I just want to say something to

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01:18:32,800 --> 01:18:35,280
Speaker 1: my kids, you know. I know sometimes you guys forget

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01:18:35,680 --> 01:18:38,960
Speaker 1: purposely about Father's Day, which is cool. I can deal

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01:18:39,040 --> 01:18:42,600
Speaker 1: with it. But the fondest memories I've had with my

1160
01:18:42,720 --> 01:18:44,680
Speaker 1: kids was when they would go on the road with me.

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01:18:45,240 --> 01:18:47,080
Speaker 1: And I don't know if Steve had this opportunity to

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01:18:47,160 --> 01:18:49,160
Speaker 1: do that. I take all of my kids on the road.

1163
01:18:50,240 --> 01:18:52,360
Speaker 1: I'm probably working at the Startdoom or something like that.

1164
01:18:52,520 --> 01:18:54,160
Speaker 1: I you know, lock them up in the room and

1165
01:18:54,200 --> 01:18:56,559
Speaker 1: then I go do my show, and then I had

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01:18:56,600 --> 01:18:58,439
Speaker 1: to take them home. Now, if you don't know my

1167
01:18:58,520 --> 01:19:01,719
Speaker 1: backstory about my kids, that got three kids, three baby mamas,

1168
01:19:01,760 --> 01:19:07,040
Speaker 1: we'll talk about that on another show. But anyway, anyway,

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01:19:07,760 --> 01:19:10,280
Speaker 1: taking my kids home, and I don't know if Steve

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01:19:10,439 --> 01:19:15,000
Speaker 1: or anybody, taking my kids home was the hardest part ever.

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01:19:15,320 --> 01:19:19,160
Speaker 1: It was the toughest part ever to drop them kids off.

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01:19:19,600 --> 01:19:22,920
Speaker 1: And it was so cool that each kid wanted to

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01:19:23,000 --> 01:19:25,160
Speaker 1: be the last one to go home, which which meant

1174
01:19:25,280 --> 01:19:27,519
Speaker 1: that's how much time they wanted to be with me.

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01:19:27,600 --> 01:19:29,760
Speaker 1: They were always trying to encourage me to take the

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01:19:29,840 --> 01:19:32,720
Speaker 1: other one home first. So it was so much fun.

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Speaker 1: I'll never forget it, you know, just to have my

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01:19:35,479 --> 01:19:38,240
Speaker 1: kids on the road with me, and any dad who's

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01:19:38,320 --> 01:19:40,639
Speaker 1: taking the kids back and dropping them off a mom

1180
01:19:41,160 --> 01:19:46,040
Speaker 1: it is really, really, really tough. So happy father says

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01:19:46,080 --> 01:19:48,360
Speaker 1: with anybody who's ever been to bit and you know,

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01:19:48,520 --> 01:19:50,840
Speaker 1: I agree with you, But I want to say something

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01:19:50,920 --> 01:19:56,560
Speaker 1: man about my father. You know, our greatest influence in

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01:19:56,720 --> 01:19:59,280
Speaker 1: my life in terms of turning me into a man,

1185
01:20:00,120 --> 01:20:02,560
Speaker 1: because my father never spent any time talking to me

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01:20:02,640 --> 01:20:06,080
Speaker 1: about nothing else. I don't ever sitting down, I don't

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01:20:06,160 --> 01:20:10,280
Speaker 1: ever remember having a conversation with my dad about prayer

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01:20:10,479 --> 01:20:14,720
Speaker 1: or faith, or going to church or nothing. That was

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01:20:14,840 --> 01:20:18,479
Speaker 1: my mother. She did all of that. My father's only

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01:20:18,600 --> 01:20:22,120
Speaker 1: mission in life was to get me to understand that

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01:20:22,479 --> 01:20:25,680
Speaker 1: one day, son, you are going to be responsible for

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Speaker 1: some people. And in order to learn how to do that,

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01:20:28,840 --> 01:20:32,120
Speaker 1: you got to start being responsible. Now. My father didn't

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01:20:32,120 --> 01:20:37,080
Speaker 1: allow me to have like goofy times and stuff like that.

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01:20:37,760 --> 01:20:40,240
Speaker 1: He was full of court pressing me man, and I

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01:20:40,360 --> 01:20:43,160
Speaker 1: tried to raise my sons like that. I didn't accomplish it,

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01:20:43,280 --> 01:20:46,560
Speaker 1: though I didn't. I didn't accomplish it because I just

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01:20:46,680 --> 01:20:49,360
Speaker 1: thought it was better to let him be a little

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Speaker 1: bit more free and stuff like that, and because my

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01:20:53,360 --> 01:20:55,400
Speaker 1: kids had a different life than I had. You know,

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01:20:55,960 --> 01:20:58,519
Speaker 1: but my father knew exactly what I needed because I

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01:20:59,080 --> 01:21:02,200
Speaker 1: had nothing, and he knew that he was gonna leave

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01:21:02,320 --> 01:21:04,800
Speaker 1: here and I was gonna have to build this nothing

1204
01:21:04,960 --> 01:21:10,120
Speaker 1: into something. My kids don't have that problem. They started

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01:21:10,240 --> 01:21:13,680
Speaker 1: with something, so I didn't have to instill in them

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01:21:13,800 --> 01:21:16,360
Speaker 1: the same thing that my father instilling me, and I

1207
01:21:16,479 --> 01:21:19,120
Speaker 1: tried to find little ways to do it. But it's

1208
01:21:19,160 --> 01:21:22,680
Speaker 1: just not the same thing because they see it right there.

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01:21:22,960 --> 01:21:26,080
Speaker 1: We have our own room. We all have computers, we

1210
01:21:26,240 --> 01:21:28,880
Speaker 1: have our own bathroom in our room. You know, that's

1211
01:21:28,880 --> 01:21:31,120
Speaker 1: how my kids grow up with. We ain't gotta fight,

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01:21:31,240 --> 01:21:33,120
Speaker 1: We don't go to the we don't go over here.

1213
01:21:33,160 --> 01:21:35,160
Speaker 1: We ain't gotta do that. We don't live in the hood,

1214
01:21:35,920 --> 01:21:39,720
Speaker 1: you know. But my father knew differently. He said, this

1215
01:21:39,880 --> 01:21:44,439
Speaker 1: boy of mine, he lives in a place man's that's

1216
01:21:44,520 --> 01:21:48,560
Speaker 1: just wickedly rough. So I gotta get him now. I

1217
01:21:48,720 --> 01:21:51,719
Speaker 1: used to come home, man, crying to my mama because

1218
01:21:51,800 --> 01:21:54,720
Speaker 1: some boy had jumped on and beat me up. Man.

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01:21:54,840 --> 01:21:57,200
Speaker 1: My father coming in and see that. Who did it?

1220
01:21:57,479 --> 01:22:00,519
Speaker 1: I say, Rickett Many going back out there. I'm be

1221
01:22:00,600 --> 01:22:02,680
Speaker 1: on the porch. You go down there, you whip rick

1222
01:22:02,720 --> 01:22:04,479
Speaker 1: and you whoop Manning. I'm be on this porch. If

1223
01:22:04,520 --> 01:22:07,080
Speaker 1: you're whoop when you come home, we'll whoop you. Well,

1224
01:22:07,120 --> 01:22:09,240
Speaker 1: now we got to go downstairs and get these hands up.

1225
01:22:09,880 --> 01:22:11,640
Speaker 1: And I know people think that, well, you know that

1226
01:22:11,800 --> 01:22:13,840
Speaker 1: was you shouldn't make a child do that. You didn't

1227
01:22:13,840 --> 01:22:16,600
Speaker 1: grow up where I grew up. You didn't know what

1228
01:22:16,760 --> 01:22:19,920
Speaker 1: my father knew about it. And then my father was

1229
01:22:20,040 --> 01:22:23,360
Speaker 1: an essence of black man. My father used to tell

1230
01:22:23,439 --> 01:22:26,000
Speaker 1: me stuff man that I thought was so hurtful to say.

1231
01:22:26,680 --> 01:22:28,439
Speaker 1: But my father grew up in the time where they

1232
01:22:28,600 --> 01:22:35,040
Speaker 1: mistreated black people in your face all the time. And

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01:22:35,240 --> 01:22:38,160
Speaker 1: I watched my father and mother cry when I came

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01:22:38,200 --> 01:22:40,120
Speaker 1: in the house and found out that Marl Luther King

1235
01:22:40,320 --> 01:22:43,400
Speaker 1: was dead. That's I seen my mother and father standing

1236
01:22:43,479 --> 01:22:46,479
Speaker 1: there hole in each other crime. I heard my father say,

1237
01:22:46,680 --> 01:22:50,639
Speaker 1: white folks don't care nothing about us. They don't want

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01:22:50,800 --> 01:22:55,080
Speaker 1: us to have nothing. All this man talked about was

1239
01:22:55,200 --> 01:22:57,280
Speaker 1: peace and love. They don't want us to hear that.

1240
01:22:58,000 --> 01:23:02,559
Speaker 1: I watched my father struggle and suffer. Man but steady,

1241
01:23:03,080 --> 01:23:08,400
Speaker 1: always embedding in me the thought process of work hard,

1242
01:23:08,840 --> 01:23:12,200
Speaker 1: don't ask nobody for nothing. God bless the child that

1243
01:23:12,320 --> 01:23:16,880
Speaker 1: has his own. Get your own. Don't ask nobody for nothing.

1244
01:23:17,479 --> 01:23:20,160
Speaker 1: Work hard, boy. Look, if they tell you to be

1245
01:23:20,280 --> 01:23:22,360
Speaker 1: there in five, you be there at quarter to five.

1246
01:23:22,920 --> 01:23:24,800
Speaker 1: If they tell you they stay in to six, you

1247
01:23:24,960 --> 01:23:28,000
Speaker 1: make sure everybody going for you. Check out. My father

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01:23:28,160 --> 01:23:30,000
Speaker 1: raised me that way. I remember when I flunked out

1249
01:23:30,040 --> 01:23:33,719
Speaker 1: of college and I started working at for a motor company.

1250
01:23:34,040 --> 01:23:36,639
Speaker 1: Whenever they needed somebody to call over time they call

1251
01:23:36,760 --> 01:23:39,400
Speaker 1: I come in earlier everything. I remember one time a

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Speaker 1: foreman called my house and asked my father was out there,

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Speaker 1: and I wasn't there, you know, and I was staying

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Speaker 1: somewhere else. And he told my father, said, mister Harvey,

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Speaker 1: can I tell you something you don't know me? Sir,

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Speaker 1: I'm a supervisor here for a motor company. You've raised

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Speaker 1: one hell of a young man. He's one of the

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Speaker 1: hardest working young man I've ever seen come through this

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Speaker 1: door for a motor company. That made my father the

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Speaker 1: proudest he's ever been. And my father told me, he says, son,

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Speaker 1: that man telling me that was bigger for me than

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Speaker 1: you told me you was going to college. He said,

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Speaker 1: I ain't know none about college, no how he said,

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Speaker 1: But when that man called and said you was one

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Speaker 1: of the hardest workers he's ever seen come through that door.

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Speaker 1: He said, that's what I raised you to be. He said,

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Speaker 1: when I die and I lead as well, you let

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Speaker 1: him always be able to say about Steve Harvey Slick's

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Speaker 1: board that they can out dress you, they can outthrow you,

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Speaker 1: they can outrun you. They can out eat you, they

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Speaker 1: can outdance you, and they can outsand you. But don't

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Speaker 1: you let no man live it say they can outwork you.

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Speaker 1: He instilled it that in me, and I would not

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Speaker 1: be who I am. It wasn't for that black man

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Speaker 1: with a third grade education who raised a boy that

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Speaker 1: turned out to be global. I thank God for him

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Speaker 1: every day. Appreciate h schlick hardy, Hope, be proud of me.

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Speaker 1: Those are my clothing remarks. See y'all Monday, Happy Father,

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Speaker 1: This day. For all Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary

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Speaker 1: void where prohibited. Participants must be legal US residents at

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Speaker 1: least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show.