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Speaker 1: It's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. How long should a normal

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Speaker 1: really big fight? What was it for you?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 1: Six minutes?

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Speaker 4: I actually don't remember our first fight. Yeah, I'm sure

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Speaker 4: is that we're setting stupid though.

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Speaker 1: A lot of times you're.

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Speaker 5: Going so well the first month or two that you're like, oh,

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Speaker 5: we haven't fought yet, and then all of a sudden

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Speaker 5: you start fighting a lot.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it's hard to know it. I guess

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Speaker 1: it depends on the couple. But one of our listeners, Sammy,

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Speaker 1: wants to have a difficult conversation with her boyfriend, and

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Speaker 1: she's worried that this could lead to their first really

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Speaker 1: big fight together.

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Speaker 4: She's anticipating a fight, okay, she's hoping that she doesn't

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Speaker 4: get into one.

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Speaker 1: That's why she wants some advice. So, Sammy, are you

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Speaker 1: sure you emailed the right radio station about this?

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Speaker 2: I think?

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Speaker 3: So?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well tell us about your boyfriend and the situation

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Speaker 1: you got going on.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So I've been dating this guy, Cody. We were

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Speaker 2: dating for three months and my old apartment lease ended

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Speaker 2: and my roommate was going to move out, and so

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Speaker 2: I couldn't afford the place on my own.

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Speaker 4: Uh huh, okay, one of those romantic we moved in

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, so I was skeptical because we you know,

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Speaker 2: three months, like, but right then it really did seem

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Speaker 2: living together for three months now.

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Speaker 4: And how's that? Because you really get to know somebody

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Speaker 4: when you live with them, like way different.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, okay, so I really really like him. He's

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Speaker 1: But but.

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Speaker 4: And we're not even dropping that. We're not even saying love,

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Speaker 4: you're saying light huh.

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Speaker 2: Are you it's been six months, like okay anyway.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so not quite the.

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Speaker 2: No. So it's kind of a smaller space like my

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Speaker 2: other place was bigger, and I don't know, it's just

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Speaker 2: causing some friction.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you guys are sharing a bedroom too.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's not the problem now, Okay, like.

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Speaker 1: You think that he would go sleep on the couch

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Speaker 4: I don't know. It's just nice to have like two

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Speaker 4: even if you sleep in the same room. It's just

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Speaker 4: like I'm just judging how much space, how much on

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Speaker 4: top of each other they are her.

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Speaker 1: What's causing the friction between you guys, Well.

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Speaker 2: It's kind of what she's saying. It's the small space.

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Speaker 2: And you know, he's just a typical guy, like little dirty.

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Speaker 4: He has a different idea of clean than you do.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean, so he's not currently working right now,

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Speaker 2: so it's not a his deal. But like he's just

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Speaker 3: No.

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Speaker 4: I get it though, Like you went from having your

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And so when I first moved in with him, it

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Speaker 4: The floor, yeah, milk crate for the bedstand.

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Speaker 1: It's a typical bachelor path.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah yeah.

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Speaker 2: And so like I came in and I liked that

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Speaker 1: And I separated all the silverware in the drawers into

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Speaker 2: He had silverware, I think he had like a floor.

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Speaker 4: So what's what's your specific issue?

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Speaker 2: Well, I just I feel like this isn't great for

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Speaker 5: And yeah, I mean that always happens.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I feel like it usually doesn't happen this fast.

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Speaker 2: And it's partly to do with us sharing the shiny space.

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Speaker 4: Absolutely, Yeah, you seem absolutely. I mean that's what you

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Speaker 4: get when you move in with so unch.

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Speaker 1: So what do you look at you? Are you thinking

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Speaker 1: that maybe it's time that you get your own place?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think we should live apart again. But here's

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Speaker 2: it's perfect leat, and I kind of want to stay.

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Speaker 4: It was his first he invited you in, and now

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Speaker 4: you want to kick him out of the spot.

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Speaker 1: Kick him out of his own apartment.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean he's not really pain for it.

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Speaker 1: Really.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like I've sort of made it into

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Speaker 1: And Okay, so that's what this call is all about.

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Speaker 1: You actually want to call your boyfriend and tell him

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Speaker 1: I think you should move out to kick him out.

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Speaker 2: I just think we should have space away from each other.

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Speaker 2: And I'm not sure how to ask him to do

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Speaker 4: I mean, this could honestly, like it's a big question.

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Speaker 4: It could end your relationship. I mean, do you have

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Speaker 2: Well, so recently one of his buddies that he needed

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Speaker 1: And if that guy doesn't want to take him, there's

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Speaker 5: I just I'm scared because you always see people moving in.

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Speaker 5: I've never seen people move out unless they were breaking up.

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't want to break up with him. I

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Speaker 2: just I think this would be better for me and

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Speaker 2: better for us to have Tuesday.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it sounds healthy.

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Speaker 5: It's probably not gonna work.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is going to be definitely an awkward one.

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Speaker 1: We're going to play a song, we'll come back, we'll

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Speaker 1: let you call your boyfriend and tell him you gotta go.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but I'm gonna stay.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, we'll do it next. Hold on, it's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday. I'm curious. Has anybody here actually asked

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Speaker 1: To move out? Yeah? I know I did it once.

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Speaker 1: You did yeah to my parents back when I was nine.

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Speaker 1: working for me. You guys gotta go.

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Speaker 1: That did not work out so well for me. I

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Speaker 1: to the tennis courts for a while, and the TV

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Speaker 1: it a long time to not go the way I

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Speaker 1: It was one of our listeners. Sammy is about to

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Speaker 1: call her boyfriend to tell him, I know that you

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Speaker 1: asked me to move in, but I think you should

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Speaker 1: be the one to move out and we should continue

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Speaker 1: dating still. Yeah, so she's hoping to get a little

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Speaker 1: bit of advice. Brook, What do you think I mean?

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Speaker 4: Have you thought about making this just a breakup call instead?

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Speaker 1: Come on, I'm just asking her.

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Speaker 2: No, I really like him, I just you know, it's

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Speaker 2: too little space.

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Speaker 4: Okay, all right, Jose, Hopefully it's something better than consider

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Speaker 1: What do you think I was going to say, murdering?

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Speaker 1: Oh like that more, no's messy.

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Speaker 5: I think that if you frame it to make it

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Speaker 5: sound like a great fun opportunity for him, then it'll

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Speaker 5: be better. So, like you mentioned, his friend needs a roommate,

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Speaker 5: I would say, you know, we're all getting older. This

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Speaker 5: with one of your best friends.

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Speaker 1: Okay, because once you're married, you're never going to have

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Speaker 4: I think he's saying, speak to his inner child, Yeah

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Speaker 4: to the thirteen year old immature boy that it sounds

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Speaker 2: What do you think, Sammy, Yeah, I think that's a

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Speaker 2: good tactic.

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Speaker 1: I did good mind, Hey, you earned your paycheck for

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Speaker 4: I still worked. Yet I still think mine is not

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Speaker 4: a bad option.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we'll call breakup option B. I'm going to dial

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Speaker 1: Tuesday phone call. All right, good luck, we'll be here

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Speaker 1: if you need us, we go, Thank you?

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Speaker 3: All right? Could you please take me after calls? Please you?

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Speaker 2: No? No, please, Dave, it's me, It's me. What see

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Speaker 2: I mean?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the numbers the numbers has blocked.

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Speaker 2: Oh weird, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Let's yeah, okay, that's up.

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Speaker 2: Nothing, Where do your drink?

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Speaker 3: I'll just waved up to the bagel bites and I

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Speaker 3: am watching Succession?

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Speaker 2: Oh again, Yeah, it's good.

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Speaker 3: You should watch it with me. It's incredible.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm pretty the hindsight, I don't know, but I uh,

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Speaker 2: I sort of need to ask you something.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, sure, what's up?

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Speaker 2: Okay? Do I like ever get on your nerves?

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, this's a Dirk question.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm just wondering.

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Speaker 3: Mm no, No, I love kicking with you. It's awesome. No,

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Speaker 3: but why why would you ask me?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, okay, but do you ever wish you had

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Speaker 2: more space, like so you could have more privacy or

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Speaker 3: I mean, you go out to work, so I get

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Speaker 3: more than enough space there, so it's not a big deal. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: let's go on.

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Speaker 2: Well, okay, look, first of all, don't get me wrong.

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Speaker 2: I still I love you. I love being your girlfriend.

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Speaker 2: I love hanging out and having fun and laughing with you,

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Speaker 2: like I don't want any of that to change. Okay,

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Speaker 2: but but I need a space to myself at least

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Speaker 2: right now.

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Speaker 3: Oh, okay, are you bringing up with me? No?

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, I just think my money situation isn't

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Speaker 2: the greatest. And your buddy Chad he was he was

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Speaker 2: talking about he needs a roommate and maybe you could

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Speaker 2: move them with him and I could make this my

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Speaker 3: Oh wait, what you want to kick me out?

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Speaker 2: No? No, I I want you to leave by your

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Speaker 3: What? No? No? Are you joking? Like I lived here

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Speaker 3: first and then invited you in?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 3: What is that happen?

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Speaker 3: But this, okay, this really feels like a break of

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Speaker 3: Sammy Not it's not.

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Speaker 2: Can you just please consider it? It would mean a

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Speaker 3: Look, I can't like what all right? How do I

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Speaker 3: before we met, I got an inheritance from my grandmother

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Speaker 3: What yeah, so you can't really kick me out of

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Speaker 3: my own house? O? Lord, Oh my god, what's what

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Speaker 3: was that? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: That was the sound effect that we played. Because you're

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Speaker 3: Sorry, who are you?

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Speaker 4: What the hell is having where we congratulate homeowners?

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Speaker 1: You're You're on with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,

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Speaker 1: that's the show, and we're doing something called an awkward

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Speaker 1: Tuesday phone call with you and your girlfriend Sammy.

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Speaker 3: Okay, what the hell is going on? Tommy?

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Speaker 5: That's what I want to know?

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I just didn't know how to have this conversation, and.

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Speaker 3: So you go to the radio station.

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Speaker 4: Well we're helpful sometimes, are you.

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Speaker 3: I'm not sure if this is helping. What's what's going on?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 2: Okay, so what do you mean you own the place?

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Speaker 3: It's not okay, it's not an apartment unit. It's technically

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Speaker 3: still paying a monst of mortgage and I don't like

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Speaker 3: five other places as well.

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Speaker 4: Oh so you have options, I'm hearing he's rich. So wait,

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Speaker 4: why didn't you tell her that before?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I didn't want her to think I'm some I don't

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Speaker 3: I just wanted to wanted her to like me for me.

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Speaker 4: So that's why you've been able to like not work.

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Speaker 3: I mean partially. Yeah. Yeah, so like and now she

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Speaker 1: That's no, that's not what she said. She said she

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Speaker 3: Oh, I see, I see, never mind, I take it back.

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Speaker 4: I do think you're concentrating on the wrong thing. Like,

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Speaker 4: she definitely wants a relationship with you. I even had

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Speaker 4: she was very adamant that that is not what she wanted,

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Speaker 4: right Sammy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I don't want to break that.

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Speaker 1: But she is saying to you that she feels like

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Speaker 1: you guys are kind of on top of each other

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Speaker 3: A little bit. I mean, I don't deny that, but like,

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Speaker 3: if we are compatible together in a situation like that, yeah,

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Speaker 4: Guys have only been together for three months. I mean,

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Speaker 4: like when you moved in only three months together, that's

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I agree, that's not conventional and it's it is

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Speaker 3: a bit fast. But at the same one two, I

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Speaker 1: After it, well, she knows what she likes, and it's

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Speaker 1: hopefully you'll leave.

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Speaker 3: Okay, let's think about this. This is my place and

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Speaker 3: I own it. I can't really move out. She needs

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Speaker 2: Yeah, think no, no, your friend. I don't I don't want.

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Speaker 2: I mean like it was more the idea of, like,

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Speaker 3: Okay, look, look Sammy, I really like you. Okay, but

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Speaker 3: if you feel this strongly that we need to you know,

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Speaker 3: then maybe I was wrong. Maybe this isn't a long

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Speaker 2: Okay, on friends, we can maybe I overreacted, and you know,

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Speaker 2: we can probably live together a little more and just

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Speaker 4: Maybe Cody, you could just spend more time out of

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Speaker 4: now bes place. I've just tried to come up with

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Speaker 4: a compromise. She just needs a little alone time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what if you split custody of the apartment. He

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Speaker 1: gets to live there Monday through Wednesday and you get

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Speaker 1: to live there like Thursday through Sunday.

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Speaker 3: Sure, sure, Why don't we just put a piece of

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Speaker 4: You're a logical guy, like, you know, you could work

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Speaker 4: newness right.

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Speaker 3: All right, Okay, I'm done with that. I didn't think

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Speaker 1: Just get used to being wrong in your relationship a lot.

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Speaker 3: I'm biting that out now. Does the radio station call

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Speaker 3: every time we can do an argument or.

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Speaker 1: Will be there for the big arguments whenever you need it? Okay?

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Speaker 1: It sounds like you guys are good though, you guys

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Speaker 1: are going to stick together.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just need to get used to it more.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: That didn't sound like defeat.

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Speaker 1: That sounds like love Brooks and I'm just I'm just

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Speaker 1: gonna deal with it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I apologize for living in my own home.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, now you're sounding like a real boyfriend.

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Speaker 4: Job.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning