1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,480 Speaker 1: My sister is stealing my baby, took ten thousand dollars 2 00:00:03,560 --> 00:00:06,960 Speaker 1: and is demanding more. Should I send it? Yeah? 3 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:10,400 Speaker 2: You know what happened to being kind hearted and giving 4 00:00:10,400 --> 00:00:12,520 Speaker 2: people the benefit of the doubt? You know, you only 5 00:00:12,560 --> 00:00:15,360 Speaker 2: stole my child, You only have already gotten ten k 6 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:17,560 Speaker 2: from me? Why why not give more? 7 00:00:17,680 --> 00:00:21,279 Speaker 1: To ask? And asking asks? It's like, op, he is 8 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:23,959 Speaker 1: the giving tree. That's right? You know, watch like, have 9 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:26,320 Speaker 1: you ever read The Giving Tree? That was the one? Yeah? 10 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:28,520 Speaker 1: I was, Yeah, I'm pretty sure I did. Where it's like, hey, 11 00:00:28,520 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 1: can I have an apple? And the tree gives an apple? 12 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:32,240 Speaker 1: And it's like, yo, can I have some branches? And 13 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 1: the tree gives the branches. It's like yo, can I 14 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:36,199 Speaker 1: have your trunk? And the tree gives a trunk, and 15 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:38,400 Speaker 1: then the old man is just like, yo, can I 16 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 1: sit on your trunk? And then it's just the stump 17 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:45,600 Speaker 1: and the old man. And basically it's like the kid 18 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:48,240 Speaker 1: just keeps demanding more of the tree until the tree 19 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:50,319 Speaker 1: is just a stump and it's said, you. 20 00:00:50,240 --> 00:00:52,480 Speaker 2: Know what, I just realized I was thinking of the giver, 21 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 2: which was no, not that the giving tree? The giving tree. 22 00:00:55,920 --> 00:00:59,040 Speaker 1: You want if you want a short, little cute. Read 23 00:00:59,600 --> 00:01:03,320 Speaker 1: that's extremely sad. Yeah, that's it. The good news is 24 00:01:03,360 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 1: I love sadness. Okay, then you should read. If you've 25 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:08,320 Speaker 1: read The Giving Tree, you know what I'm talking about. Ooh. 26 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:10,959 Speaker 1: My thirty four female wife thirty six female and I 27 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:13,319 Speaker 1: have been together for over seven years and have been 28 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:16,600 Speaker 1: trying to conceive via IVF and sperm banks for the 29 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:19,760 Speaker 1: last three years. My wife originally wanted to be the 30 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 1: one to carry our child, but after two failed IVF attempts, 31 00:01:24,080 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 1: I tried the treatment. We got no luck and both 32 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:31,480 Speaker 1: had to suffer the consequences of miscarriages. This was a 33 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:34,759 Speaker 1: traumatic time for us and we finally decided to adopt 34 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 1: last year. Unfortunately, there is a bias against same sex 35 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 1: couples from adopting and fostering, so we always had a 36 00:01:43,720 --> 00:01:46,520 Speaker 1: hard time talking to the agency. We were open to 37 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 1: fostering and we're going to give it a try. During 38 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:51,800 Speaker 1: this time, my sister in law fell pregnant with a 39 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:54,680 Speaker 1: one night stand and when we were talking about adoption 40 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 1: in fostering parenting, she approached us and told us she 41 00:01:58,040 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 1: wanted to give birth because of religion just reasons, but 42 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 1: had no desire to be a single parent. She asked 43 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 1: whether we would consider adopting her child. 44 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:10,639 Speaker 2: Okay, so this might be like, you know, right, real. 45 00:02:10,560 --> 00:02:20,800 Speaker 1: Right, trashes a couple of ladies treasure, that's correct. My 46 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:23,800 Speaker 1: wife was ecstatic, and so was I. I brought up 47 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:26,720 Speaker 1: the possibility of a written contract, but my wife told 48 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:30,080 Speaker 1: me she trusted her sister. We paid for every pregnancy 49 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:33,639 Speaker 1: related expense. My sister in law had the doctor's appointments, 50 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 1: genetic tests, she requested lab works, ultrasounds, her random cravings 51 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 1: at three a m. We even paid her rent for 52 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 1: the third trimester. She decided on c section because she 53 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:48,080 Speaker 1: was scared, so we paid for the livery and hospital stay. 54 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 1: Just after she gave birth, we came to visit her 55 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: to talk about rights transferring to us. She told us 56 00:02:55,000 --> 00:03:01,079 Speaker 1: she was keeping the baby and giving it to us 57 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 1: because because she didn't believe we were ready for a baby. Yet, 58 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:07,520 Speaker 1: weren't you. 59 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:09,440 Speaker 2: The one wasn't ready. 60 00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:09,959 Speaker 1: For the baby? 61 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:10,560 Speaker 2: I don't know. 62 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 1: It seems like all this wishy washiness is not uh, 63 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:19,399 Speaker 1: the steadfastest needed of a true parents. Are you sure 64 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:23,840 Speaker 1: you weren't talking too of your fear? Yeah? My wife 65 00:03:24,160 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 1: was devastated. She cried herself to sleep, for several days 66 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 1: because we put the adoption on hold and had everything 67 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 1: ready for the baby to come. Her nursery was ready, 68 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 1: and my wife painted the walls herself. Oh there's something 69 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:41,880 Speaker 1: about having walls painted for a baby that's just super 70 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:42,840 Speaker 1: sad when it doesn't come. 71 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 2: I mean an empty room that you like room you 72 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:47,880 Speaker 2: just have had so much hope and expectation. 73 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:50,480 Speaker 1: For it done. God. We understood that the sister in 74 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 1: law probably felt the maternal instincts kicking and decided to 75 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:57,080 Speaker 1: give everything we purchased for the baby to her because 76 00:03:57,120 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 1: she was a single mom with no ready needs. It 77 00:04:00,440 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 1: seems like someone's unprepared to be right here, kindly, seems 78 00:04:04,160 --> 00:04:07,600 Speaker 1: like someone's prepared a lot. We also decided to pay 79 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 1: the remainder of the birth expenses as a gift to her. 80 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:13,480 Speaker 1: My wife insisted that she needed all the help she 81 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:18,159 Speaker 1: could for the new baby. Again, it seems like this 82 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 1: person is not ready for a baby. No, just because 83 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:24,520 Speaker 1: you have a baby doesn't mean you're ready, that's right. 84 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:27,080 Speaker 1: A few days after the incident, I went to my 85 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:30,000 Speaker 1: mother in law's house, and this is where my sister 86 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:32,920 Speaker 1: in law currently lives. She was on the phone, probably 87 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 1: talking to a friend of mine when I heard the 88 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:39,600 Speaker 1: baby mentioned, and my eavesdropped. Hmm, I shouldn't have done it, 89 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 1: but I just couldn't help myself. She was talking to 90 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:45,400 Speaker 1: her friend about how she knew from the beginning that 91 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 1: she wasn't going to give the baby to us sisters, 92 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:51,479 Speaker 1: and that her sister was an idiot to think that 93 00:04:51,520 --> 00:04:55,600 Speaker 1: she would allow her baby to be brainwashed by us. 94 00:04:56,120 --> 00:04:58,200 Speaker 2: Oh God, is this going where I think it's going? 95 00:04:58,720 --> 00:05:01,840 Speaker 1: I was, honestly s My sister in law was never 96 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:05,119 Speaker 1: really close to me personally, but my wife always thought 97 00:05:05,160 --> 00:05:09,120 Speaker 1: she was her best friend. Oh. I never knew that 98 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:11,720 Speaker 1: she was against our marriage because she never voiced her 99 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 1: opinion about it. Honestly, when I heard about the religious 100 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:20,480 Speaker 1: reasons like having the baby, I was like a little suspicious. Right, 101 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:23,600 Speaker 1: here's where I may have been the asshole. I left 102 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 1: my mother in law's house and got home, got everything 103 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:29,520 Speaker 1: I could fit inside our suv, and donated it to 104 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:32,840 Speaker 1: a homeless shelter. I made three trips in total to 105 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:36,839 Speaker 1: give everything away. I was honestly so mad. My wife 106 00:05:36,839 --> 00:05:39,039 Speaker 1: came home to an empty room and asked me what 107 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:41,520 Speaker 1: was going on. I told her the whole story while 108 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:44,599 Speaker 1: She was shocked at her sister's reactions. She told me 109 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 1: I had no right to give away the baby stuff, 110 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:50,599 Speaker 1: and her sister really needed it. I couldn't understand after 111 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 1: what she said about her, my wife could still protect her, 112 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:56,320 Speaker 1: which I guess. It's like, you know, it's your sister, 113 00:05:56,640 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 1: even if she's a massive dick. Yeah. 114 00:05:59,760 --> 00:06:01,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a really that's a rock and a hard 115 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:03,279 Speaker 2: place type situation right there. 116 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:07,560 Speaker 1: When my sister in law found out, all hell broke loose. 117 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:10,440 Speaker 1: She berated me on how she was a single mom 118 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 1: to a baby now, how she needed these things, how 119 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:16,240 Speaker 1: she didn't prepare for the baby's arrival because she depended 120 00:06:16,279 --> 00:06:19,479 Speaker 1: on us. Sounds like sounds like someone's not ready to 121 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:19,960 Speaker 1: be a mom. 122 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:23,480 Speaker 2: Someone's very not ready to be a parent, you know, 123 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:25,400 Speaker 2: depending on someone else. 124 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:32,200 Speaker 1: Weird. I told her to kick rocks. Yeah, after spending 125 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:35,679 Speaker 1: over ten thousand dollars on her expenses, I was beyond 126 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:38,919 Speaker 1: frustrated to allow her to continue. She told me that 127 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:41,760 Speaker 1: these things were meant for this baby and I was 128 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:45,119 Speaker 1: wrong for giving her things away. My mother in law 129 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 1: has called my wife to tell her how selfish I 130 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 1: was being for my actions and that we should at 131 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:53,400 Speaker 1: least help sister in law with the upcoming expenses, because 132 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:56,800 Speaker 1: my mother in law is on a fixed income, unable 133 00:06:56,839 --> 00:06:59,240 Speaker 1: to help, and sister in law wants to focus on 134 00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:03,680 Speaker 1: raising the baby rather than working. From my understanding, we 135 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 1: owe her nothing and we have already helped her tremendously, 136 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:11,120 Speaker 1: but my wife feels incredibly guilty and wants me to 137 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:14,440 Speaker 1: help a new mom. I understand that she is in 138 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:17,560 Speaker 1: a bad place, but how she acted is way beyond 139 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:21,560 Speaker 1: what I'm comfortable with feeling. Although I also feel incredibly 140 00:07:21,560 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 1: bad because I may have put the baby in a 141 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:26,280 Speaker 1: bad situation. I am starting to think maybe I was 142 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:28,360 Speaker 1: the asshole to donate the stuff meant for the baby, 143 00:07:28,560 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 1: maybe because it's like already there the donation was down 144 00:07:31,880 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 1: out of spite, so. 145 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 2: Like the baby does kind of get a little stick. 146 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:41,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, so redda am I the asshole for not wanting 147 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:43,440 Speaker 1: to help my sister a lot with her baby expenses 148 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 1: and for donating this stuff meant for a baby. There 149 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:49,280 Speaker 1: is an edit, but I want to hear what you 150 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:50,520 Speaker 1: think John is op the. 151 00:07:50,560 --> 00:07:54,520 Speaker 2: Asshole I I am. I am very curious on the 152 00:07:54,640 --> 00:07:59,440 Speaker 2: edit because at first I was like, you know, like 153 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 2: how how what an asshole move of the sister in 154 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:05,800 Speaker 2: law to basically bait them into thinking like, oh, you're 155 00:08:05,840 --> 00:08:07,800 Speaker 2: going to give them this baby, when in reality I'm 156 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 2: just like siphoning from the start of the whole start, 157 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 2: like literally that was her intentions from the beginning, Like 158 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 2: that is in such an asshole move. But also like 159 00:08:17,080 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 2: the only thing is like the baby does I guess 160 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:28,679 Speaker 2: get hurt by this stuff, So you know, maybe maybe 161 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 2: they're both the asshole. Maybe Op's asshole a little bit 162 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:34,440 Speaker 2: for returning the stuff, and definitely the suchon law is 163 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:37,200 Speaker 2: the is she the asshole too to the baby? To 164 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:38,360 Speaker 2: the baby, I would say the. 165 00:08:38,760 --> 00:08:44,240 Speaker 1: Ope, maybe the maybe her wife because it's like that 166 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:46,960 Speaker 1: stuff is probably hers too, like I mean they're sharing it. 167 00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:49,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, totally. So it's like, hey, that's basically like 168 00:08:49,280 --> 00:08:51,640 Speaker 2: you know, taking five grand out of my pocket and 169 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:53,240 Speaker 2: you know getting it back. 170 00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:56,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. So edit, thank you for your kind response to 171 00:08:56,120 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 1: some of your answers. Really made me think about how 172 00:08:57,800 --> 00:09:00,320 Speaker 1: I should approach the topic. I will apologize to my 173 00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:02,839 Speaker 1: wife because I didn't have her approval getting rid of 174 00:09:02,880 --> 00:09:05,600 Speaker 1: the things that were also hers. I didn't consider her feelings, 175 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:08,360 Speaker 1: which I agree with. I will also discuss the option 176 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 1: of therapy with her. This all feels surreal and it 177 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:14,439 Speaker 1: will be taking time to digest some of the responses 178 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 1: and think on everything. Also huge thanks to some of 179 00:09:17,800 --> 00:09:21,400 Speaker 1: you guys suggesting to look for LGBT friendly adoption centers. 180 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:23,760 Speaker 1: I can't believe I didn't think of that. The adoption 181 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:26,400 Speaker 1: topic will be put on hold while we process all 182 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:28,880 Speaker 1: of these events. I will probably post an update after 183 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:32,120 Speaker 1: things have settled. In a small clarification, apparently, my sister 184 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:34,800 Speaker 1: in law became a born again Christian when she moved 185 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:37,040 Speaker 1: to my mother in law's house, and acquaintance told us 186 00:09:37,080 --> 00:09:39,319 Speaker 1: that she basically believed this baby was a sign from 187 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:42,600 Speaker 1: God to change her ways, warn everyone against sin and 188 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 1: becoming sinners. All the power to her for her beliefs. 189 00:09:46,600 --> 00:09:50,120 Speaker 1: I didn't expect her to deem us sinners. I'm not 190 00:09:50,120 --> 00:09:52,360 Speaker 1: given her power to her beliefs. If that's how she 191 00:09:52,400 --> 00:09:53,960 Speaker 1: treats people based on her religious place. 192 00:09:54,040 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 2: You know, it's kind of funny when it's like, uh, hey, everyone, 193 00:09:58,280 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 2: don't sin, I'm going to go have this one night 194 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:03,600 Speaker 2: staying over here, and you know, it's like, bruh. Not 195 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 2: that I think that's even a sin, but come on now, 196 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:07,640 Speaker 2: like double standard. 197 00:10:07,679 --> 00:10:10,280 Speaker 1: Come on, double standard. But let us know what you 198 00:10:10,280 --> 00:10:13,280 Speaker 1: guys think. What would you do if someone basically stole 199 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:21,480 Speaker 1: the baby that you paid for? It's different, all right, 200 00:10:21,640 --> 00:10:22,600 Speaker 1: we'll see in the next one. 201 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:26,880 Speaker 2: I just drove through a drag race and decided to 202 00:10:26,920 --> 00:10:30,080 Speaker 2: crash their party. I called the police to shut them down. 203 00:10:30,320 --> 00:10:32,920 Speaker 1: Am I the a hole I always pick up? I 204 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:35,920 Speaker 1: always mix up drag races and drag shows? You know. 205 00:10:36,200 --> 00:10:39,600 Speaker 2: I had the exact same thing when I was reading 206 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:42,440 Speaker 2: this and a title initial was like, oh drag no 207 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:45,440 Speaker 2: drag race, the. 208 00:10:44,520 --> 00:10:47,680 Speaker 1: Drag show race. That's what I want. I want race 209 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:49,960 Speaker 1: car drivers in drag drag racing. 210 00:10:50,280 --> 00:10:53,960 Speaker 2: Ru Paul five hundred. Can we make this happen? Yes, 211 00:10:55,240 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 2: Tildo's flying out the window. 212 00:10:59,040 --> 00:10:59,520 Speaker 1: All right. 213 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:05,760 Speaker 2: So I am a pizza delivery driver. Nice, Hey, congrats 214 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:07,560 Speaker 2: O pee delivery your boys and pizza. 215 00:11:07,559 --> 00:11:08,679 Speaker 1: Because we're hungry. 216 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:11,840 Speaker 2: We need some snacks, so we really actually do. I 217 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:13,920 Speaker 2: was on my way home an hour and a half 218 00:11:14,080 --> 00:11:17,360 Speaker 2: later than usual after an extremely busy night where I 219 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:20,000 Speaker 2: didn't get back from my last delivery until forty five 220 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:23,120 Speaker 2: minutes after closing time. About halfway home, I get to 221 00:11:23,160 --> 00:11:26,719 Speaker 2: an intersection that is unavoidable for me. That has been 222 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:30,079 Speaker 2: taken over by a large crowd of teenagers with cars 223 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 2: all decked out for street racing, holding some kind of 224 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:35,000 Speaker 2: drifting competition or exhibition. 225 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:41,240 Speaker 1: Teenagers O God funously burning their tires with their next 226 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:44,480 Speaker 1: I mean, if you go to around to Venice where 227 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:48,679 Speaker 1: like Venice Breakwater Escape Park is, there's just massive donuts 228 00:11:49,200 --> 00:11:51,240 Speaker 1: in the middle of like where the Venice sign is. 229 00:11:51,760 --> 00:11:54,280 Speaker 1: I think teenagers are up to no good. Oh God, 230 00:11:54,559 --> 00:11:55,920 Speaker 1: got in trouble in my neighborhood. 231 00:11:57,800 --> 00:11:59,319 Speaker 2: I got a one little race on. My mom got 232 00:11:59,320 --> 00:12:02,160 Speaker 2: scared and said you driving to your auntie and uncle 233 00:12:02,200 --> 00:12:02,760 Speaker 2: umbel air. 234 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:05,120 Speaker 1: Yeah. Oh and then we're impounding your car. 235 00:12:05,280 --> 00:12:08,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, no more cars for you taking the bus yeah. 236 00:12:08,880 --> 00:12:13,200 Speaker 1: Then he starts drifting the bus. Yeah. It's like that 237 00:12:13,240 --> 00:12:15,400 Speaker 1: one movie where the bus can't stop with a colleague 238 00:12:15,480 --> 00:12:16,360 Speaker 1: drive fast. 239 00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:19,959 Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't drive. I don't know movie, but I've 240 00:12:19,960 --> 00:12:20,480 Speaker 2: heard of drive. 241 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:23,320 Speaker 1: I feel like, yeah, where it's just like you can't stop. 242 00:12:23,720 --> 00:12:25,199 Speaker 1: You just don't think it's called drive. I think it's 243 00:12:25,200 --> 00:12:25,800 Speaker 1: called something else. 244 00:12:26,040 --> 00:12:27,680 Speaker 2: Maybe there's no there's another movie called Drive. 245 00:12:28,040 --> 00:12:31,079 Speaker 1: The point is the bus can't stop and he has 246 00:12:31,080 --> 00:12:31,720 Speaker 1: to keep driving. 247 00:12:32,800 --> 00:12:37,600 Speaker 2: Suspense is real. Nobody in the crowd looks to be 248 00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:39,959 Speaker 2: over twenty years old, but there was at least one 249 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:42,440 Speaker 2: hundred to one hundred and fifty people there. 250 00:12:42,679 --> 00:12:43,120 Speaker 1: Wow. 251 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:45,520 Speaker 2: I felt like I was in a Fast and Furious 252 00:12:45,559 --> 00:12:47,319 Speaker 2: movie and I was with Dom. 253 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:51,840 Speaker 1: One hundred and fifty people. It's a lot big events. 254 00:12:51,960 --> 00:12:55,280 Speaker 1: That's a big event. Sick to go? Yeah? Where is 255 00:12:55,360 --> 00:12:56,920 Speaker 1: the drop your addy? 256 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:59,480 Speaker 2: Dude, we're drifting our way over there? 257 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:03,280 Speaker 1: Old car? Can I can? I preas center you can. 258 00:13:03,520 --> 00:13:06,720 Speaker 1: I'm gonna drift my Prius car. I've drifted a car before, 259 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:08,679 Speaker 1: not my Prius, but I've drifted a car. Yeah. Yeah, 260 00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:12,559 Speaker 1: I drifted Christian's truck on some salt flats. Oh, that's 261 00:13:12,840 --> 00:13:14,560 Speaker 1: that's fun. I have some sick videos. 262 00:13:14,559 --> 00:13:15,800 Speaker 2: Oh I would love to see that. 263 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:20,360 Speaker 1: Actually invite me teenagers to your drifting competition, please, yeah. 264 00:13:19,960 --> 00:13:23,920 Speaker 2: Sam, Sam just becomes the Prius drifting king out of nowhere. 265 00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:26,760 Speaker 1: Formally request to be part of your drifting community. 266 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:31,000 Speaker 2: I felt like I was in a Fast and Furious 267 00:13:31,080 --> 00:13:33,800 Speaker 2: movie and I was with Dom's whole crew, but I 268 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:39,400 Speaker 2: wasn't part of the family. Big sad sad. Yeah. In 269 00:13:39,440 --> 00:13:43,200 Speaker 2: my defense, I did call the cops first and was 270 00:13:43,240 --> 00:13:46,280 Speaker 2: informed they had already been called and were about forty 271 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:49,760 Speaker 2: five minutes out. If someone stitching five minutes away, yeah, 272 00:13:49,760 --> 00:13:52,560 Speaker 2: that is pretty far car. Maybe they're they're there? 273 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:54,000 Speaker 1: Are they in the middle of nowhere? 274 00:13:54,360 --> 00:13:57,280 Speaker 2: Maybe intentionally right to like get a good drifting spot 275 00:13:57,280 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 2: where it's like forty five minutes part you're easily out 276 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:03,440 Speaker 2: of there. They floor of the gas and be out 277 00:14:03,480 --> 00:14:05,120 Speaker 2: of there probably like ten minutes tossed. 278 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:09,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, easy easy. I don't Also, I don't know, like 279 00:14:09,160 --> 00:14:11,440 Speaker 1: like if it's forty five minutes out of the way 280 00:14:11,480 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 1: of cops, then like are they really causing any harm? 281 00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:20,280 Speaker 2: That's the questions the question I assume. I assume they 282 00:14:20,280 --> 00:14:22,840 Speaker 2: needed to gather enough officers to deal with the crow. 283 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:25,840 Speaker 1: I see, I can't just get one. Yeah. 284 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:29,320 Speaker 2: After this disheartening news, I saw that I had room 285 00:14:29,400 --> 00:14:32,480 Speaker 2: to weave through the cars parked of the intersection and 286 00:14:32,520 --> 00:14:34,840 Speaker 2: get right up to the front of it, since the 287 00:14:34,880 --> 00:14:37,960 Speaker 2: car that had been there had taken its turn drifting 288 00:14:38,200 --> 00:14:41,360 Speaker 2: more like doing regular donuts. I guarantee not a single 289 00:14:41,360 --> 00:14:45,120 Speaker 2: one of these cars had better than a stock for banger, 290 00:14:45,920 --> 00:14:48,960 Speaker 2: I guess up or banger? 291 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:49,880 Speaker 1: Wow? 292 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:50,680 Speaker 2: Wow? 293 00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:54,760 Speaker 1: Nice nice try children? 294 00:14:54,880 --> 00:14:59,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, really he's uh he's not even gonna disrespecting your engine. Yeah, 295 00:14:59,520 --> 00:15:01,640 Speaker 2: you can't even and lick the ass ball or something 296 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:07,320 Speaker 2: like that. For Banger, it's embarrassing. I'm embarrassed for him, honestly. God. 297 00:15:08,640 --> 00:15:13,080 Speaker 2: So I moved up, started short rapid honks, and drove 298 00:15:13,160 --> 00:15:15,680 Speaker 2: slowly into the crowd. So that is the deal. Basically, 299 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:20,240 Speaker 2: OPI can't get home, Yeah, which that is annoying, pretty annoying, Like, yeah, 300 00:15:20,360 --> 00:15:22,560 Speaker 2: so OPI would have to weigh like forty five minutes 301 00:15:22,600 --> 00:15:25,120 Speaker 2: like they like, OPI hassed across this intersection. 302 00:15:25,320 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, can you go around? Like? 303 00:15:27,680 --> 00:15:29,440 Speaker 2: I don't know, I would just straight up drive on 304 00:15:29,520 --> 00:15:31,640 Speaker 2: the grass or something like if that's an option. 305 00:15:31,720 --> 00:15:32,440 Speaker 1: I don't know if there's like. 306 00:15:34,560 --> 00:15:39,480 Speaker 2: Imagine the irony. They mostly parted in front of me. 307 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:43,000 Speaker 2: Some tough guy types tried to intimidate me by standing there, 308 00:15:43,040 --> 00:15:44,720 Speaker 2: like they would move ten feet in front of me, 309 00:15:45,040 --> 00:15:46,440 Speaker 2: but they all got out of the way by the 310 00:15:46,480 --> 00:15:49,160 Speaker 2: time I was within five feet. Kids, I'm in my 311 00:15:49,240 --> 00:15:52,120 Speaker 2: mid thirties. Anything under twenty is a kid to me. 312 00:15:52,160 --> 00:15:55,080 Speaker 2: At this point, We're banging on my car, but I 313 00:15:55,160 --> 00:15:59,640 Speaker 2: kept going, oh yeah, a second, I had a pizza 314 00:15:59,680 --> 00:16:04,720 Speaker 2: tune A liver dude he's delivering a breaking pizza. 315 00:16:04,600 --> 00:16:07,280 Speaker 1: Through this crowd. Wait, it would be funny if it 316 00:16:07,320 --> 00:16:12,040 Speaker 1: was like delivered to the drifting would be hilarious. 317 00:16:12,080 --> 00:16:13,920 Speaker 2: He's like, wait a second, GPS says. 318 00:16:13,760 --> 00:16:17,400 Speaker 1: I'm right here, right here, right here. Yeah, oh my god. 319 00:16:17,520 --> 00:16:19,080 Speaker 1: And then I'm not getting out of the way. This 320 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:20,080 Speaker 1: is my pizza. 321 00:16:20,160 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, And then they all just like become big heavy, 322 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:26,760 Speaker 2: big heavy family. I had to stop to let someone 323 00:16:26,760 --> 00:16:29,800 Speaker 2: who was waiting for his turn to drift facing. 324 00:16:29,480 --> 00:16:33,280 Speaker 1: The wrong way. Drift is in quote, yeah, drift drift? 325 00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:35,800 Speaker 1: Yeah nice, try to stock four engines. 326 00:16:35,880 --> 00:16:39,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, come on now, he was waiting his turn to 327 00:16:39,280 --> 00:16:41,600 Speaker 2: drift facing the wrong way down the street to get 328 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:44,400 Speaker 2: out of my way, and they kept banging on my car. 329 00:16:44,840 --> 00:16:46,960 Speaker 2: Thought they were going to break a window or one 330 00:16:46,960 --> 00:16:49,840 Speaker 2: of my mirrors. But when I finally got home and checked, 331 00:16:50,240 --> 00:16:51,280 Speaker 2: there was no damage. 332 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:52,160 Speaker 1: Nice. 333 00:16:52,440 --> 00:16:55,080 Speaker 2: So am I the a hole for not just waiting 334 00:16:55,120 --> 00:16:56,840 Speaker 2: for the cops to break everything up? 335 00:16:56,920 --> 00:16:59,600 Speaker 1: And if so, by how much? So? 336 00:16:59,640 --> 00:17:01,200 Speaker 2: I think we have a little bit of a two layer? 337 00:17:01,240 --> 00:17:02,000 Speaker 2: Am I the a hole? 338 00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:02,240 Speaker 1: Here? 339 00:17:02,360 --> 00:17:05,320 Speaker 2: There's calling the cops in the first place, and then 340 00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:07,520 Speaker 2: ultimately like driving through the crowd. 341 00:17:07,680 --> 00:17:09,479 Speaker 1: I mean they're doing something illegal. I don't think it's 342 00:17:09,520 --> 00:17:12,000 Speaker 1: the a hole for moving through an illegal yeah, thing 343 00:17:12,080 --> 00:17:13,800 Speaker 1: to do a non illegal activity. 344 00:17:13,880 --> 00:17:16,680 Speaker 2: And to me, it's also like because some things aren't 345 00:17:16,680 --> 00:17:19,440 Speaker 2: illegal but kind of fun and cool or whatever, which 346 00:17:19,520 --> 00:17:20,239 Speaker 2: this kind of is. 347 00:17:20,280 --> 00:17:22,919 Speaker 1: But it's like in his way. Yeah, it would be 348 00:17:22,920 --> 00:17:25,320 Speaker 1: one thing if they were like, why it's illegal because 349 00:17:25,320 --> 00:17:29,040 Speaker 1: it's literally stopping traffic. Yeah, Like if I'm on the 350 00:17:29,040 --> 00:17:33,879 Speaker 1: freeway and the cars decide to like block off the 351 00:17:33,920 --> 00:17:37,080 Speaker 1: freeway so they can do some race, I'm gonna be 352 00:17:37,080 --> 00:17:38,400 Speaker 1: pissed and I'm gonna try to make it through. 353 00:17:38,600 --> 00:17:38,959 Speaker 2: Totally. 354 00:17:39,720 --> 00:17:43,280 Speaker 1: I'm not an asshole for stopping their illegal activity. That's 355 00:17:43,359 --> 00:17:47,239 Speaker 1: actively inconveniencing me one hundred percent. Like, I uh, there 356 00:17:47,320 --> 00:17:50,200 Speaker 1: used to be a drag race drag races where me 357 00:17:50,240 --> 00:17:52,840 Speaker 1: and my girlfriend met, but it was like basically like 358 00:17:52,880 --> 00:17:55,639 Speaker 1: a cold bed at a drag race. That would be 359 00:17:55,680 --> 00:17:59,040 Speaker 1: the dopest story, but unfortunately, no. It was just like 360 00:17:59,240 --> 00:18:01,879 Speaker 1: a long road with like a circle at the end. 361 00:18:01,960 --> 00:18:03,879 Speaker 1: But it wasn't even like houses or anything. 362 00:18:04,280 --> 00:18:06,240 Speaker 2: But it was perfect because they could go and then 363 00:18:06,280 --> 00:18:09,000 Speaker 2: like hit a donut and then like spin out of it, 364 00:18:09,080 --> 00:18:11,600 Speaker 2: so that was great. We would sit and watch it like, oh, 365 00:18:11,640 --> 00:18:13,399 Speaker 2: this is this is the yea, yeah, it was like 366 00:18:13,440 --> 00:18:16,840 Speaker 2: the same thing, like a hundred people, like so many people, 367 00:18:18,560 --> 00:18:20,640 Speaker 2: but they were kind of like out of everyone's way 368 00:18:20,680 --> 00:18:21,240 Speaker 2: pretty much. 369 00:18:21,440 --> 00:18:24,440 Speaker 1: So this sounds exactly an o Pece way. So I 370 00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:26,960 Speaker 1: don't think Op's the ahole at all, and I don't 371 00:18:26,960 --> 00:18:28,520 Speaker 1: think he's able for calling the cops either. 372 00:18:29,200 --> 00:18:31,240 Speaker 2: My man is dedicated to his piece of delivery. 373 00:18:31,280 --> 00:18:34,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, man is going to deliver in thirty minutes 374 00:18:34,200 --> 00:18:35,320 Speaker 1: or less, but for sure. 375 00:18:35,400 --> 00:18:37,600 Speaker 2: But Sam, maybe we should have delivered this next story. 376 00:18:37,720 --> 00:18:38,200 Speaker 1: Let's do it.