WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Bang N Bounce

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking jewels. Second day. What's the old adage about a

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<v Speaker 1>woman scorned? Like a woman scorned is like really angry

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<v Speaker 1>all the time. They get mad. Sounds like a proverb.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how it goes, right, Yeah, they're they're obviously pregnant

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<v Speaker 1>or something. Yeah, yeah, I think that's it. It's obviously PMS.

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<v Speaker 1>I just bring it up because the email that we

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<v Speaker 1>got from the second day or today, Angela, she's pissed, really, right, Angela? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's interesting because usually people are just confused. Yeah. Usually

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<v Speaker 1>people call up and they're like, oh, he was so sweet,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just I want to find out why you

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<v Speaker 1>won't go out with me again or why I won't

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<v Speaker 1>get back me because I really want to see it again.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't really have any interest in seeing the dude

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<v Speaker 1>that you went out with again, right, You just want

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<v Speaker 1>to know what happened? No? No, I have no interest

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<v Speaker 1>in seeing ever again. It's a combag, like what did

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<v Speaker 1>this dude? Dude? What's his name? Jack? Jack? Was? Jack

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<v Speaker 1>said with hatred? So Jack? Yeah, how did you meet Jack?

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<v Speaker 1>I got him at a bookstore, actually, and I was

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<v Speaker 1>looking at cookbooks for idiots and like the dummies Guide

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<v Speaker 1>kind of thing, and we started to make jokes about

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<v Speaker 1>how we both couldn't cook, and do you know how

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<v Speaker 1>there's like a chemistry immediately when you meet somebody. Yeah yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so before you hated him, you thought it might be

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<v Speaker 1>a cool guy, right, Yeah? No, I thought it was

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<v Speaker 1>totally cool. He was like really laid back and like

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<v Speaker 1>just cracking jokes. Did he ask you out on a date?

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<v Speaker 1>We had this little email change, like what did he

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<v Speaker 1>banter about? Like what crappy recipe we were gonna make?

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<v Speaker 1>Or like what recue we were gonna make him like

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<v Speaker 1>burn or whatever? You know what I mean? Yeah, that's cute.

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<v Speaker 1>So we started to say like how we should like

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<v Speaker 1>cook together. I have a really nice kitchen, but you

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<v Speaker 1>know I never use it. And I said, well, why

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<v Speaker 1>don't you come over to my place and we'll make

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<v Speaker 1>something together. We'll try to come together. Okay, this all

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<v Speaker 1>sounds positive so far. What a jerk? Yeah? Now, what

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<v Speaker 1>happened at dinner that made you so pissed off? No? Dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>He was a perfect gentleman. He was amazing. He pulled

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<v Speaker 1>out my chair and he like lift the candles, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>these compliments hooks and beautiful and all the food just

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<v Speaker 1>so that you could sleep with me and then do

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<v Speaker 1>the freaking old bang and bounces and like never called

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<v Speaker 1>me again. Okay, it sounds like it. Man word out

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<v Speaker 1>for him, if that's really what happened. I just I'm

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<v Speaker 1>mad because I feel like an idiot. I feel totally

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<v Speaker 1>freaking duped by this ef. So you're mad because he

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<v Speaker 1>hooked up with you, left and never called you back,

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<v Speaker 1>and you feel like he lied to you, and that

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<v Speaker 1>he wanted more than that. Feel like you like me,

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<v Speaker 1>He did lie to me, Yeah, he totally lied to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Did he make any promises to you that night that

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<v Speaker 1>made you believe that this was the start of something

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<v Speaker 1>more long term? Yes, he made a reservation for our

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<v Speaker 1>next dinner, so I thought, for sure, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>have this second date. It's like he has pledged his

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<v Speaker 1>love with a dinner reseration. I mean, I can understand

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<v Speaker 1>where you're said, but I'm worried that because you're so upset,

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<v Speaker 1>you've already called and left him a message where you

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<v Speaker 1>read him the Riot Act. Have you a little bit?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I've left him too angry voicemails, called the

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant to see It's right, he still had the reservation.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't even call a restaurant to cancel the reservation.

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<v Speaker 1>So what if something happened to him, Like if you

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<v Speaker 1>ever thought of like, oh, he's in the hospital or something,

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<v Speaker 1>I highly doubt it. I mean, come on, it's what

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<v Speaker 1>a week and a half he hasn't called me. Listen, girls,

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<v Speaker 1>we know when we know men are dogs, like, we

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<v Speaker 1>know that's going to happen. You know, that's the reason

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<v Speaker 1>why it couldn't possibly be anything else. You know what,

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<v Speaker 1>I hope he's dead. Kay? Did you say you hope

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<v Speaker 1>he's dead? So you basically you just want us to

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<v Speaker 1>call him and find out why he didn't call you

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<v Speaker 1>back and why he felt the need to just basically

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<v Speaker 1>use you like that. Yeah, I think I deserve that. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you need to take a deep breath. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>where we gotta play a song and then we'll come

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<v Speaker 1>back and get your second day update. So you got

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<v Speaker 1>about three and a half minutes to kind of calm

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<v Speaker 1>down a little bit and then we'll call him. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>or or hey, don't calm down. Just sit there for

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<v Speaker 1>three and a half minutes and let this stew aveny more.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm okay with that as well. All right, hang on, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you're looking jubil in the morning supdate. All right, Angela,

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<v Speaker 1>you've had about four minutes to sit there and think

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<v Speaker 1>about what you're gonna say when we get Jack on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone. Are you still as fired up before as

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<v Speaker 1>you were when you just talk to you? Actually? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm actually more fired up more I think about it.

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<v Speaker 1>He picks up the phone, like not seeing my number,

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<v Speaker 1>I am going to be more pissed off, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>the coward. If people are just listening and just tuning

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<v Speaker 1>into the second day update, Angela got kind of wine

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<v Speaker 1>and dine by a dude. He ended up hooking up

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<v Speaker 1>with her, leaving and never called her back, and she's

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<v Speaker 1>pissed off about it. And she doesn't even really care

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<v Speaker 1>if she gets a second date. She just wants to

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<v Speaker 1>know why he would do that to her. But you

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<v Speaker 1>have to remember, Angela, when we call him, I need

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<v Speaker 1>you to be quiet and wait until so I can

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<v Speaker 1>get the answer from him. I have the feeling with

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<v Speaker 1>where you're at right now emotionally. As soon as he

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<v Speaker 1>picks up, you're gonna be like you're a di and Angela,

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<v Speaker 1>you slept with him the first night do you regret

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<v Speaker 1>that you have no idea? The bush that was coming

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<v Speaker 1>out of his mouth, how he loved my body, how

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<v Speaker 1>he'd never met someone he felt so connected to the

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<v Speaker 1>first time he ever met. Yeah, all right, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>call him right now, but I remember, Wait, okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on, Hello, Hey, can I speak to Jack please? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Check, Hey Jack. How are you? This is

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel from brook and Jewel in the morning. I'm moving

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<v Speaker 1>ninety two point five. Have you heard of us? Yeah? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but why are you calling me? Well? Because you went

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<v Speaker 1>on a date recently with a girl. Her name's Angela. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I went on a date with her. You met her

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<v Speaker 1>at a bookstore, you at dinner and some dessert, if

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean? Yeah, how do you? And listen.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that she's called you and left you like

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<v Speaker 1>a couple upset voicemails. But it's all good now. She's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>She just is really curious as to why you would

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<v Speaker 1>go over there and like hang out with her and

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<v Speaker 1>then not call her back, that's all. And I said,

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<v Speaker 1>we'd call you and try to get an answer. I

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<v Speaker 1>just I went on a date with her. We had fun,

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<v Speaker 1>and that was that. I mean, I didn't, I wasn't looking.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you serious, Jack? Yeah, you're an ass. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>it's no secret that Angela is on the phone with us.

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<v Speaker 1>She is she heard what you just said. Angela, you

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<v Speaker 1>were supposed to wait until I'm saying, I just I can't.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't. I couldn't hold it. That was not that,

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<v Speaker 1>there was no indication that this was like a night

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<v Speaker 1>of like banging bounds at all. Sorry, bro, not know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. Yeah, something thick yourself? Why are you guys

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<v Speaker 1>having this crazy on the line the entire time? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you guys tell you so? Are you serious? Did you

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<v Speaker 1>actually just call me that where you are? You couldn't,

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<v Speaker 1>you couldn't tell it. Just looked into my eyes and

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<v Speaker 1>you told me you never felt so connected to someone

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<v Speaker 1>the first time you ever met them. You but that's

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<v Speaker 1>different you. That's what we do. That's what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>It was it was a one time you and yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you you are unique. Every woman is unique in their

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<v Speaker 1>own way. Wow, were you so like the real app?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what you mean? Angela? Just take a deep breath.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you're really upset, but he's not even being

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<v Speaker 1>able to understand what you're saying right now to just

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<v Speaker 1>calm down so that you can really honestly get your

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<v Speaker 1>point across. I just want to know what that was about, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>why did it have to tell me all this? I

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<v Speaker 1>was bored, I was a little horny, and I thought

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<v Speaker 1>you were too, so so you know, we played the

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<v Speaker 1>game because the game is fun. I thought that was understood. Hey, Jack,

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<v Speaker 1>at least you're honest man, now, I mean, come on,

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<v Speaker 1>we met at a bookstore over cookbooks, Like that's a

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<v Speaker 1>perfectly legitimate place to meet someone. Like you're trying to

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<v Speaker 1>play this off like I'm the crazy one. You are

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<v Speaker 1>the wire, You're the one who it was one date

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<v Speaker 1>though we slept together one Yeah, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>I've got to call you back. That's that. I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>agree with Jack here. It's not like he strung you

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<v Speaker 1>along for months, Like he went on one date with

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<v Speaker 1>you and his ultimate goal was to do it, and

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<v Speaker 1>he did it, and that's he's gone. And why does

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<v Speaker 1>he have to lie to get her in? Yes he did.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't. He told her that he has an amazing

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<v Speaker 1>connection to her. Why doesn't he just say this is

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<v Speaker 1>really fun. I really like having this night with you.

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<v Speaker 1>It was fun, but it wasn't like I want to

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<v Speaker 1>marry you fun. But you made her believe that, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying, Well, you shouldn't believe that after

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<v Speaker 1>one date. I mean that could go back on her too. No,

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<v Speaker 1>don't leave her down that road. If you only want

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<v Speaker 1>one night of fun, be honest with her, right I mean, Angela,

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<v Speaker 1>you could have decided to wait and sleep with him, right, No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>she could. The guy says something nice to you, you

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<v Speaker 1>jump right in the sack. Every girl knows that. That's

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<v Speaker 1>so what I'm saying. There's a difference between something nice

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<v Speaker 1>and honestly making someone believe and toying with her heart.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know that difference. Jack, Do not tell me

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<v Speaker 1>that you don't know the difference between being nice to

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<v Speaker 1>the woman and toying with her emotions. I know the

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<v Speaker 1>difference was. I know the difference is just maybe she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't really know the difference. You're just a dirt bag

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<v Speaker 1>at your court and you just go around mind to women.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to make it weird and say like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I'll call you. You know what I mean is

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<v Speaker 1>that would kill my chances right away. I didn't think

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<v Speaker 1>about it to think about it. Hey, at this point,

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to offer you guys a second day. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll pay for it. Would you guys want to go

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<v Speaker 1>out again Jack? You're interested in another? She had to

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<v Speaker 1>die with Angela? Really, she's crazy, Angela. Would you like

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<v Speaker 1>to go out with Jack again? We'll pay for it. No.

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<v Speaker 1>I never want to see that disgusting dirt bag ever again. No.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, sounds like it's another successful second date match.

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<v Speaker 1>Here on moving ninety two point five, bringing people together

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<v Speaker 1>broken up in the morning,