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Speaker 1: Good morning everybody. You are listening to the voice, Come

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Speaker 1: on dig me now. One and only. Steve Harvey got

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Speaker 1: Trying to do something with it too, man. Uh you know, um,

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Speaker 1: That one of the things about making a list about

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Speaker 1: It's Monday, it's on. It's cracking Steve Harvey Morning Show

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Speaker 1: for your listening pleasure. Shirley Strawberry, Good morning, Steve, Happy Monday.

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Speaker 1: Colin Farrell, Good morning. What's up Steve? Hey Crow, and

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Speaker 1: welcome back that dog gone Junior? Whose new name? And

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Speaker 1: I will explain it at the proper time. It's Jay Rap.

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Speaker 1: You better tell a mark. Kids, that's who I'm is. Chamber,

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Speaker 1: Jathan Brown, what up? Steve? Happy? Watch out there? And

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Speaker 1: now are you doing? Man? One time? One time? Nephew

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Speaker 1: Let's do it. Bumps, you slackers, y'all got people on

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Speaker 1: So I'm still here for a few more days, a

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Speaker 1: It really isn't just discover something new. Steve um Well,

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Speaker 1: appropriate that I remained in joe Burg. All right, take

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Speaker 1: Let's go Shirley. All right, here we go, coming up

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Speaker 1: in thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll have asked

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Speaker 1: horrible body odor. Her office and her car smell bad too.

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Speaker 1: church complaints with Reverend Motown and Deacon deaf Jam. Let's

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Speaker 1: go oh, I'm so happy having back Deacon, thank you Path.

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Speaker 1: The last week we had all young deacon substituted city

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Speaker 1: Why that chard path? I never understood that? Now? Who did?

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Speaker 1: Who thought that? Was it? The only thing I can

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Speaker 1: Later on, Carl and I will talk about Oscar highlights

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Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: The Celebration of Life memorial service was held for DMX

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Speaker 1: It was a two hour service for friends and family.

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Speaker 1: and people being there for X when he was alive.

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Speaker 1: You know, he was saying, everybody was here now, but

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Speaker 1: he needed y'all, you know, when he was alive. And

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Speaker 1: so he did a stern message about loyalty and honoring

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Speaker 1: people while they're still here. And yeah, yeah I saw

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Speaker 1: piece on social media too, Yeah yeah, yeah, um and

427
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:56,920
Speaker 1: other sad hip hop news. On Friday, we were all

428
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Speaker 1: shocked and sattened by the news that shocked g one

429
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Speaker 1: of the co founders of Digital Underground, passed away according

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Speaker 1: to his father, Yes Tommy. According to his father, Edward Racker,

431
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:11,840
Speaker 1: the fifty seven year old was found unresponsive in a

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00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:15,520
Speaker 1: hotel room in Tampa. The cause of death is still

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Speaker 1: unclear at this point, and authorities are set to conduct

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Speaker 1: an autopsy. The first person I thought of when I

435
00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 1: saw that was, of course Tommy. It was like, man,

436
00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:28,280
Speaker 1: one of my favorites. Man, yeah, I know that's your song.

437
00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:32,440
Speaker 1: Such a that's your favorite song. I mean that came out.

438
00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 1: The song came out in the nineties, Humpty Dance. I

439
00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:39,880
Speaker 1: think it was actually nineteen ninety and it would just say, Junior,

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Speaker 1: I think it's ninety five and three of you at

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Speaker 1: the Baby Dome doing the Humpty Dance. Let me see

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Speaker 1: you doing that. I remember, I remember, I remember, I

443
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Speaker 1: remember when he came over. When he came over to

444
00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:57,200
Speaker 1: our Geneo, people camped out because you know, they would

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Speaker 1: know a day advance who was gonna be on this show.

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Speaker 1: I mean camped out when that group came over. The

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00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:08,080
Speaker 1: mane Yeah, I mean yeah, it was quite a shock,

448
00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:14,160
Speaker 1: was in that group in Yeah. Yeah, on the ground. Man,

449
00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:17,040
Speaker 1: we're losing a lot of things. We really really are,

450
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Speaker 1: unexpectedly too. I mean, you look out from one day

451
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Speaker 1: they're doing them because I'm about to ruin used to

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Speaker 1: and he did that for sure, or what I looked funny,

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Speaker 1: But you'll want making money. But yeah, I'm making money. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I looked it was fun though. That was Yeah, it

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Speaker 1: was fun exactly. That's that's a good girl. Yeah. I

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00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:54,000
Speaker 1: called your fat me I'm skinny. Never stopped me from

457
00:32:54,040 --> 00:33:00,960
Speaker 1: getting busy. Yeah, it will be men, music lives on.

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Speaker 1: Stop because I'm about to ruin the image and astoun

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Speaker 1: that used to a look funny. But yeah, I'm making money.

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Speaker 1: See yeah, absolutely, rest in peace and condolences to his family.

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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, time now for a headline, ladies, a gentleman,

462
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Speaker 1: miss Anne Trip. Well, thank you very much, everybody, Good

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Speaker 1: Monday morning everyone. According to the Washington Post, get this

464
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Speaker 1: one of the experts that Derek Chauvin's lawyer used to

465
00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:32,520
Speaker 1: claim that Jerk Chauvin wasn't guilty murdering George Floyd. Well,

466
00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:35,520
Speaker 1: that doctor is under investigation. I tell you a little

467
00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 1: bit about him. A couple of weeks ago, doctor David

468
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:43,000
Speaker 1: follow Fowler testified that carbon monoxide from an idling police

469
00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:46,360
Speaker 1: car is what killed mister Floyd, and that testimony enraged

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Speaker 1: hundreds of doctors, apparently, who signed on to a letter

471
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Speaker 1: calling for an independent review of Fowler's handling of in

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Speaker 1: police custody deaths. Generally Fowler, as I told you a

473
00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:58,320
Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago, was born in the former Rhodesia

474
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Speaker 1: which is now Zimbabwe, and he was educated in Aparthei rule,

475
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Speaker 1: South Africa. This guy ended up Chief Medical Examined of Maryland,

476
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Speaker 1: overseeing a number of high profile cases, including that of

477
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Speaker 1: Freddy Gray, who died after a riding a police van

478
00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:14,080
Speaker 1: and where cops involve exonerated they say he might have

479
00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:17,840
Speaker 1: done it before. Federal prosecutors are now considering more charges

480
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Speaker 1: against Derek Chauvin over an incident that took place back

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Speaker 1: in twenty seventeen, when a black teenager says Chauvin need

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Speaker 1: him in the back, pressing down for seventeen minutes, making

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Speaker 1: it hard for him to barely breathe. Prosecutors stay The

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Speaker 1: video shows Chauvin striking nun armed black teenager in the

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00:34:32,719 --> 00:34:34,680
Speaker 1: back of the head and then pinning him to the

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Speaker 1: ground with his knee for about seventeen minutes, ignoring complaints

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00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:41,080
Speaker 1: that the kid couldn't Breathe eventually got up and no

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00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:45,439
Speaker 1: charges wherever filed against him. A North Carolina sheriff whose

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Speaker 1: deputy shot and killed an unarmed black man last week

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Speaker 1: says he'll petition for the release of body camp a

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Speaker 1: video of that shooting. Later on today, Elizabeth City Sheriff

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Speaker 1: of Tommy Wootton says that forty two year old Andrew

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Speaker 1: Brown Junior was shot and killed by deputies as they

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Speaker 1: attempted to serve of a warrant last Wednesday. Volume a

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Speaker 1: process that protects the investigation to ensure fairness for all.

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Speaker 1: First responders are heard on radio traffic saying that Brown

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Speaker 1: was shot in the back. The Brown family attorneys have

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Speaker 1: been told that no weapons or drugs were found at

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Speaker 1: the scene. Here we go again. A white woman has

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Speaker 1: lost her job at a Virginia food bank after she

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00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:26,120
Speaker 1: went on a racist tirade against a black neighbor, using

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Speaker 1: slurs and telling the woman that she was the wrong

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Speaker 1: color so she didn't qualify. Finally, a two day memorial

504
00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:35,399
Speaker 1: service was held over the weekend in New York City

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Speaker 1: for Earl Simmons, better known as DMX. The ceremony was

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Speaker 1: live streamed on DMX's YouTube channel. As you would expect,

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Speaker 1: the stars came out, among them hip hop legends like

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Speaker 1: Eve and Kanye Westbuster Rhymes, and DMX's old friend Jada Kiss.

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Speaker 1: I've seen a dog in all kinds of different phases

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Speaker 1: of his life and anybody I've seen him in his

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Speaker 1: last year or two he was the app do you

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Speaker 1: see ever was in life? I mean dogs life. Now

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Speaker 1: back to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening, all right,

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Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, introduce your man fit the grand ladies

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Speaker 1: and gentlemen. He is here, Jake Anthony Brown. These are

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Speaker 1: not jokes, These are not deeper. These are just smoking thoughts.

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Speaker 1: Everywhere here we go. They're starting to the greatest material.

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Speaker 1: The greatest material known to women is spandex. The greatest

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Speaker 1: material known to men is latex. Smoke thoughts. These are

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Speaker 1: smoke thoughts. Show if Jesus came back, would you try

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Speaker 1: to get a selfie with him? These are smoke There,

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Speaker 1: he's a He's are thoughts. There are no proppologists with

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Speaker 1: small hands. They don't exist. There are no They don't

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Speaker 1: how which small they do not exist? I've never found one.

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Speaker 1: If you smoke weed, what you cook taste good to you.

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Speaker 1: If you smoke weed, what you cook taste good to you.

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Speaker 1: Every time you've never seen him. You've never seen him

528
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Speaker 1: put fresh hot dogs out at the seven eleven. You've

529
00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:29,759
Speaker 1: never seen fresh wood set out. You never have seen it,

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Speaker 1: just it just there. You don't know how lone they've

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Speaker 1: been there. These are smoke Thus, these are smoke thuts.

532
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Speaker 1: You never seen them clean out the baptismal pool. You've

533
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Speaker 1: never seen it. You seen him fill it up with water.

534
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:52,359
Speaker 1: You see people get in there. You ain't never seen

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Speaker 1: him cleaning. These are smoke thoughts. If she says, let

536
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Speaker 1: steward doggie style so I can do some checks, so

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00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:07,120
Speaker 1: I can fill out some checks, you ain't working with nothing.

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00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:10,600
Speaker 1: If she says, let's do it doggie style so I

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00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:15,880
Speaker 1: can fill out some checks, you ain't working with nothing,

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Speaker 1: he's he's a smoke thoughts. When you make love, the

541
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Speaker 1: man should never be louder than the woman ever, and

542
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:30,800
Speaker 1: it never should. You don't being here out holling me,

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Speaker 1: don't be in here. Out here we go, Ladies, ladies.

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Speaker 1: If you put a sweater on a big butt, you

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Speaker 1: still have a big butt. Okay, if you put a

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Speaker 1: sweater over a big button, last the nine leies. The

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Speaker 1: best biscuits are at red laughter, better than your mama's,

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Speaker 1: damn right, the best biscuits I had read laughs, These

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Speaker 1: have been smoke thoughts by yours truly. J Three Brown,

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Speaker 1: need to let that go. Thank you Jay. Coming up

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Speaker 1: at thirty four minutes after the hour, we're gonna tell

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00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:15,319
Speaker 1: you about this is really something big, you guys, wait

553
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:19,279
Speaker 1: till you hear this quest Love Summer of Soul acclaimed documentary.

554
00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:22,520
Speaker 1: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Okay, so Steve. In nineteen

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00:39:27,640 --> 00:39:34,600
Speaker 1: sixty nine, the Harlem Cultural Festival celebrated Black history, music, culture,

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00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:40,520
Speaker 1: pride and fashion. Okay. Also in nineteen sixty nine, during

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00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:44,600
Speaker 1: the same summer as Woodstock, a different music festival took

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00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:48,760
Speaker 1: place one hundred miles away. However, more than three hundred

560
00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:52,120
Speaker 1: thousand people attended the summer concert series known as the

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00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:57,840
Speaker 1: Harlem Cultural Festival. Artists like Stevie Wonder, Nina Simons, Lying

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Speaker 1: the Family Stone, Gladys Night in the Pips, BB King,

563
00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:05,239
Speaker 1: Mahalia Jackson was even there, and many many more. It

564
00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:09,200
Speaker 1: was filmed, but after that summer, the footage sat an

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00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:14,239
Speaker 1: abasement for fifty years. Fifty years so the footage from

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Speaker 1: the festival was never seen, largely forgotten until now. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So last night, during the Oscars, the movie trailer for

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Speaker 1: the documentary Summer of Soul dropped and it's directed by

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Speaker 1: Quest Love, whose real name is a mere quest Love Thompson.

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Speaker 1: Even though Summer of Soul centers around an amazing I

571
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Speaker 1: mean amazing concert, this really isn't a concert film. It's

572
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:42,080
Speaker 1: not a concert film. This film is a celebration of

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Speaker 1: black pride, culture and music. We're so proud of Quest

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Speaker 1: Love and his directorial debut. Summer of Soul will be

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Speaker 1: in theaters and on Hulu July second, so we'll all

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00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:58,439
Speaker 1: get a chance to share it and see it. Definitely great,

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Speaker 1: you know, man, I guess because Woodstock may have overshadowed

578
00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:08,919
Speaker 1: it because you know, Woodstock was first of all white,

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Speaker 1: and we talk of nineteen sixty nine, Yes, yes, I mean,

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Speaker 1: if you all really knew culturally what all was done

581
00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:26,880
Speaker 1: that Blacks never got pressed for, never got any recognition for.

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Speaker 1: It was crazy. And I'm not comparing this to the

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00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:32,920
Speaker 1: to the Kings of comedy to that, but for the

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00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:36,359
Speaker 1: first two years, they never wrote a story about us.

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Speaker 1: So I can only imagine in nineteen sixty nine, in

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Speaker 1: sixty nine, oh man, to have that line up Stevie Wonder,

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Speaker 1: Nina Salone Simone Slide, The Family Stone, Gladys Knight in

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Speaker 1: the Pill, bb King, Mahaya Jackson. Wow, you know, and

589
00:41:57,680 --> 00:42:03,000
Speaker 1: don't nobody know. You gotta understand. Back, like in sixty nine,

590
00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:05,680
Speaker 1: theaters weren't showing a lot of black movies unless they

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Speaker 1: were black exploitation movies. So something like this, and I

592
00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:13,920
Speaker 1: don't even know, I don't even know black exploitation was

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00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:21,040
Speaker 1: out in sixty eight. I think they hit like that.

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Speaker 1: Seventies those things, yea. The theaters were segregated in a

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Speaker 1: lot of black people, major theaters, so that that's one reason.

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00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:34,359
Speaker 1: And even the Watch the Watch Um Festival wasn't as

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00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:38,239
Speaker 1: big as it should have been. It was in the seventies, yea,

598
00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:42,640
Speaker 1: when it could stay in the basement that long, right, Look,

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00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:45,760
Speaker 1: black people didn't get on MTV to Michael Jackson released

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00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:52,440
Speaker 1: them thriller that thank you. That's crazy. So yeah, I

601
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Speaker 1: can't wait to see it. I think it'd be crazy.

602
00:42:55,320 --> 00:42:58,040
Speaker 1: I definitely want to see it. Yeah. So again, it's

603
00:42:58,040 --> 00:43:00,920
Speaker 1: gonna be in theaters and on Hulu July seconds. So

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00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:03,080
Speaker 1: we have this to look forward to. And let me

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00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:06,800
Speaker 1: say something man to young people about stuff like this.

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00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:13,560
Speaker 1: Oh that's old it's all it was. It's all it was.

607
00:43:14,200 --> 00:43:17,600
Speaker 1: Hip hop is new. Yeah, it may have been here

608
00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:20,560
Speaker 1: your whole life, but hip hop is new. Hip Hop

609
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:25,440
Speaker 1: wasn't born until the seventies and and we went crazy

610
00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:30,040
Speaker 1: when somebody black was on television. It wasn't the black groups.

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00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:32,640
Speaker 1: I mean, there's only one outlet maybe, like you know

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00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:40,120
Speaker 1: history this Ed Sullivan. Sullivan was the only person putting

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Speaker 1: black people on TV. What Johnny Carson came out and

614
00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:49,799
Speaker 1: did it too, you know. Yeah, but so so yeah,

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00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:55,879
Speaker 1: up again to quest Love. Yeah, last night musical check

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Speaker 1: it out? Yeah, yeah, July second, we'll look forward to

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Speaker 1: Summer of Soul. All right, coming up next, the Nephew

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Speaker 1: is here with today's prank phone call. Right after this,

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Speaker 1: you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at

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Speaker 1: the top of the hour, about four minutes after. It's

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Speaker 1: my strawberry letter for today. The subject you ain't my

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Speaker 1: step mama. You ain't my step mama. We'll get into

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Speaker 1: that in a little bit, but right now, the nephew

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Speaker 1: is here with today's prank phone call. What you got

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Speaker 1: for his? Next? The Postman? All weeds rings, tway, what's

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Speaker 1: a movie? M hm, a movie? The postman always rings.

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Speaker 1: Why are this? Okay? God dog if you hood it's wood. Hello, Hello,

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Carlos. My name Benny Man, Benny Phipps.

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Speaker 1: Hey you. I want to make sure I got the

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Speaker 1: right person. You You you work for a post office, right? Uh? Yeah? Okay?

631
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Speaker 1: Do you deliver mail off of Murphy Road? Uh? Sometimes? Yeah? Yeah, okay,

632
00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:10,480
Speaker 1: I live it. First of all, I wanted to make

633
00:45:10,480 --> 00:45:13,480
Speaker 1: sure I had to write postman. Nah. It's been brought

634
00:45:13,560 --> 00:45:16,520
Speaker 1: to my attention that there's a postman that has been

635
00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 1: stopping by my house and I'm what I'm not understanding

636
00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:22,719
Speaker 1: is why are you bringing mail to my door? A

637
00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:25,800
Speaker 1: post to just putting mail in the mailboxes on the

638
00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:28,640
Speaker 1: street where everybody got their mailboxes at What you say,

639
00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:33,640
Speaker 1: is that again? I live in Murphy Road. Murphy Road, Yeah,

640
00:45:33,680 --> 00:45:37,800
Speaker 1: I deliver over there. Uh. But he's ain't delivering package

641
00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:40,840
Speaker 1: at your house. No, I said, you've been bringing mail

642
00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:43,560
Speaker 1: to my house and the post Here's what I'm trying

643
00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:46,440
Speaker 1: to tell you, Carlos. My wife is at home all day,

644
00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:49,840
Speaker 1: she don't work. And my understanding is you've been stopping

645
00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:53,440
Speaker 1: by there on more than one occasion, on a daily basis,

646
00:45:53,480 --> 00:45:56,000
Speaker 1: you're coming by there two three times, you know. But

647
00:45:56,080 --> 00:45:58,640
Speaker 1: what I'm understanding it ain't no mail being brought over that.

648
00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:01,040
Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out, what are you doing at

649
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:04,759
Speaker 1: my house? Now? What really? Then brought all this to

650
00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:06,680
Speaker 1: a head because you already know what's going on. Let

651
00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:08,560
Speaker 1: me go on, let you know that call O. I

652
00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:11,360
Speaker 1: do know what's going on. I picked up the clothes

653
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:14,560
Speaker 1: from the cleaner's this morning, and to my attention, it's

654
00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:17,799
Speaker 1: a man's post office shirt in my pack. What color

655
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:21,840
Speaker 1: was it? It's blue light blue and I got a blue. Okay,

656
00:46:22,200 --> 00:46:25,000
Speaker 1: but explain this to the me. How your shirt get

657
00:46:25,080 --> 00:46:27,239
Speaker 1: in my house? Do you have my name on it?

658
00:46:27,280 --> 00:46:30,880
Speaker 1: Because that can mean anybody's shirt. Okay, So so hold on.

659
00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:33,200
Speaker 1: What you're trying to say, it's some it's mo post

660
00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:36,200
Speaker 1: me and stopping by my home. Yeah, man, sometimes sometimes

661
00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:38,840
Speaker 1: you know, we do have different guys in that in

662
00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:42,040
Speaker 1: that neighborhood, you know, because I here's my problem, man.

663
00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:44,680
Speaker 1: My problem is this is that my wife is at

664
00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:47,680
Speaker 1: home all day every day, and my understanding is that

665
00:46:47,760 --> 00:46:52,680
Speaker 1: you stopping body springing morning. First of all, you can

666
00:46:52,760 --> 00:46:55,360
Speaker 1: call you can call the one one hundred numbers because

667
00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:57,239
Speaker 1: how do you get my number to? Hey, I don't

668
00:46:57,239 --> 00:47:00,279
Speaker 1: worry about that. I find ways. It's how you? How you?

669
00:47:00,400 --> 00:47:02,440
Speaker 1: How you getting my address that you're stopping by that

670
00:47:02,600 --> 00:47:06,440
Speaker 1: every morning? I just deliver what they give me to deliver,

671
00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:08,440
Speaker 1: and do I put another in a box. And this

672
00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:11,160
Speaker 1: is a package I don't get out. Excuse me, I

673
00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:15,640
Speaker 1: don't do that. That wasn't me, dude. I just this

674
00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:18,280
Speaker 1: morning and pick up clothes. And it is a post

675
00:47:18,400 --> 00:47:21,080
Speaker 1: office shirt in there that belong ever done. It belonged

676
00:47:21,080 --> 00:47:23,480
Speaker 1: to a man. That's got to be it must be yours.

677
00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:25,880
Speaker 1: That's none of mine. Man, that's not mine. I have

678
00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:28,160
Speaker 1: all mine. Okay, okay, okay, I'll tell you what. This

679
00:47:28,200 --> 00:47:30,719
Speaker 1: is what we're gonna do, Carlos, Carlos, see what, let

680
00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:32,560
Speaker 1: me tell you something. I know you're lying. See and

681
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:35,319
Speaker 1: what you're doing is you're delivering more than mails at

682
00:47:35,400 --> 00:47:37,719
Speaker 1: my house and I know it. Carlos, you understand me,

683
00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:41,239
Speaker 1: So listen to excuse me. That's not me. It can't

684
00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:42,960
Speaker 1: be men. Let me let me tell you something. When

685
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:46,800
Speaker 1: you come on Murphy Road tomorrow, okay, I'm gonna be

686
00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:50,120
Speaker 1: out there at them at the mailboxes, waiting on you

687
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:55,040
Speaker 1: for what for what whenas me and you gonna have

688
00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:57,879
Speaker 1: this problem that we got tomorrow morning when you bring

689
00:47:57,960 --> 00:48:01,720
Speaker 1: the mail. So when you bring the mail, bring too, Okay, Carlos,

690
00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:05,520
Speaker 1: hold of me. Can you threatening me? I'm telling you,

691
00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:09,360
Speaker 1: when you bring the mail, bring you to dude, Dude,

692
00:48:09,480 --> 00:48:11,040
Speaker 1: I didn't come at you like that. You ain't gonna

693
00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:13,359
Speaker 1: come to me like that. Dude. Hey man, you came

694
00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:16,799
Speaker 1: up in my house and I know you said off

695
00:48:16,800 --> 00:48:19,400
Speaker 1: his shirts in my house. Dude, that was not me.

696
00:48:19,560 --> 00:48:21,000
Speaker 1: I don't know where you live, I don't know who

697
00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 1: you are, but you're threatening me. Dude, dude, Hey man,

698
00:48:24,480 --> 00:48:26,880
Speaker 1: I'll see you in the morning at the mail boxing.

699
00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:29,600
Speaker 1: Bring your Carlos. I'm out tomorrow, but I would come

700
00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:32,080
Speaker 1: to your house with playing clothes on it. Whoop you'all?

701
00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:37,480
Speaker 1: What you for me? Hey you? It's own where ring Road.

702
00:48:37,920 --> 00:48:41,520
Speaker 1: I will roads bring your because what you're not gonna

703
00:48:41,600 --> 00:48:43,839
Speaker 1: keep doing it's running up in my house while I'm

704
00:48:43,880 --> 00:48:46,160
Speaker 1: out at work trying to earn a living for my family,

705
00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:48,239
Speaker 1: and you up in my house laying up and you're

706
00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:51,080
Speaker 1: leaving your clothes. I found some mason now, I guess

707
00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:52,880
Speaker 1: that's what you use when you spray on them dogs.

708
00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:55,759
Speaker 1: I found that too. I'm gonna bring some extra mames.

709
00:48:55,880 --> 00:48:58,319
Speaker 1: I'm gonna spray you with that mad I will knock

710
00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:01,279
Speaker 1: you out. So you're this, I tell I'm gonna be

711
00:49:01,360 --> 00:49:04,680
Speaker 1: wanting car I can't wait till the morrow. Excuse me.

712
00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:08,360
Speaker 1: I told you I wasn't the one. But if you

713
00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:13,080
Speaker 1: want to put me ron for real, okay, cool. When

714
00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:17,959
Speaker 1: I see your office when I see you tomorrow, it's old.

715
00:49:18,080 --> 00:49:21,200
Speaker 1: It's whatever. Hey, you send to me all that. I

716
00:49:21,320 --> 00:49:23,439
Speaker 1: tell you what. I will come over there some playing

717
00:49:23,480 --> 00:49:26,440
Speaker 1: clothes and because you're not gonna make me lose my job, dogs,

718
00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:29,360
Speaker 1: but whatever, it's got to be. I don't care if

719
00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:31,680
Speaker 1: you if you're in the post office uniform, I don't

720
00:49:31,680 --> 00:49:33,640
Speaker 1: give a damn off you and your put jobs, Carlos.

721
00:49:33,760 --> 00:49:35,560
Speaker 1: But when you come to that mail box and I

722
00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:38,279
Speaker 1: find you out there by the mail boxing, that's your man.

723
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:40,359
Speaker 1: Because I know you've been in my house, Carlos. I'm

724
00:49:40,400 --> 00:49:43,919
Speaker 1: telling you I'm there, okay, so be it there, So bear,

725
00:49:44,120 --> 00:49:46,040
Speaker 1: I got I got one more thing else. I want

726
00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:48,000
Speaker 1: to tell you when you before you get there, tell

727
00:49:48,040 --> 00:49:50,480
Speaker 1: me what you know I recalled me? What is you

728
00:49:50,640 --> 00:49:54,200
Speaker 1: listening to me? Yeah? Is nephew, Timmy from the Steve

729
00:49:54,320 --> 00:49:57,360
Speaker 1: Harby Morning Show. You just got pranked by your co workers.

730
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Speaker 1: You you ain't this? Ain't this my road scowlers you

731
00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:14,200
Speaker 1: all right, man, dude, I'm driving. Put on to the

732
00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:18,359
Speaker 1: side of the road. I'm hanging out the trump I'm

733
00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:19,880
Speaker 1: about to go cray. I don't know my way to

734
00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:23,479
Speaker 1: your house right now. Put on my way to your house.

735
00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:29,440
Speaker 1: I don't go for work, damn. Man. I got one

736
00:50:29,480 --> 00:50:32,000
Speaker 1: more thing to ask you, man, what is what is

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738
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739
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Speaker 1: outstanding about it. Really, Tommy, he shooting up, I feel

741
00:50:52,680 --> 00:50:56,480
Speaker 1: wonderful about you did that. In other ways, you delivered

742
00:50:56,560 --> 00:51:01,800
Speaker 1: on that one. He brought it, Jay, he brought it.

743
00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:11,000
Speaker 1: I seal delivered ring bring bring you behind to the

744
00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:13,160
Speaker 1: mail box pod? Yeah. Like I said, I mean, how

745
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Speaker 1: many times in a prank phone call do you hear

746
00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:25,319
Speaker 1: him get threatened? You don't think that somebody ain't gonna

747
00:51:25,360 --> 00:51:29,239
Speaker 1: care one of these threads out times a week. Ain't.

748
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Speaker 1: But he was cool because it wasn't him. But then

749
00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:34,640
Speaker 1: but I'm coming by there and playing clothes because you can't.

750
00:51:35,280 --> 00:51:37,080
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna let you mess up my job. Man,

751
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Speaker 1: The Nephew is back. Yeah, and I'll never take off

759
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Speaker 1: that long again. Help well like your decision? Yeah? Yeah,

760
00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:22,640
Speaker 1: I didn't have a choice. Yes. And the plot thickens

761
00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:24,759
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766
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Speaker 1: Award TV Award. I didn't tell you, Jay, Wow, I

767
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Speaker 1: had no idea. Congratulations manner gratulations, it's yours considered, yours.

768
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Speaker 1: Just go get it down, leave down, go get it,

769
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771
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Speaker 1: I've been in that spot a lot of time. Watch

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773
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00:53:20,560 --> 00:53:24,080
Speaker 1: coming up, you ain't my stepmama. We'll get into the

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Speaker 1: here right now. Muggle up, hold on tight, we got

783
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Speaker 1: it for you. Draw up every letter. Thank you enough.

784
00:53:57,080 --> 00:54:00,799
Speaker 1: Subject you ain't my stepmama. Dear Stephen. Sure, I've been

785
00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:04,799
Speaker 1: dating a man for eight years and he proposed last month.

786
00:54:05,160 --> 00:54:07,640
Speaker 1: Shortly after we met. He found out about a two

787
00:54:07,719 --> 00:54:09,560
Speaker 1: year old daughter by a woman he had a one

788
00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:12,960
Speaker 1: night stand with the child's mother was messing with two guys,

789
00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:16,080
Speaker 1: so of course he took a paternity test. I drove

790
00:54:16,239 --> 00:54:19,120
Speaker 1: him back and forth to visit his child, which was

791
00:54:19,200 --> 00:54:22,680
Speaker 1: over three hours away. I was friendly with a child's mother,

792
00:54:22,760 --> 00:54:25,640
Speaker 1: and his daughter and I became besties. When she came

793
00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:27,719
Speaker 1: to visit. She stayed at my house and we did

794
00:54:27,760 --> 00:54:31,120
Speaker 1: our nails and other girly things the whole weekend. She

795
00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:34,800
Speaker 1: was a sweetheart. As she got older, her dad visited

796
00:54:34,840 --> 00:54:38,359
Speaker 1: her more often to attend her soccer games. We were

797
00:54:38,440 --> 00:54:41,040
Speaker 1: still very close and she called me all the time

798
00:54:41,080 --> 00:54:43,920
Speaker 1: to check in and chat with me. Last month, she

799
00:54:44,120 --> 00:54:46,480
Speaker 1: was at her dad's house when he proposed to me.

800
00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:49,800
Speaker 1: After he asked me to marry him. She yelled no

801
00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:53,600
Speaker 1: and ran from the room. I want to talk to her,

802
00:54:53,760 --> 00:54:56,120
Speaker 1: and she said that she loves me as a friend,

803
00:54:56,600 --> 00:54:59,200
Speaker 1: but she does not want me to marry her dad.

804
00:54:59,560 --> 00:55:02,520
Speaker 1: She's a eleven years old now, so I figured she's

805
00:55:02,600 --> 00:55:05,279
Speaker 1: old enough to know that marriage was always in the

806
00:55:05,360 --> 00:55:08,279
Speaker 1: plan for her dad and I. She said, you ain't

807
00:55:08,320 --> 00:55:12,440
Speaker 1: my stepmama, and you won't ever be my stepmama. I

808
00:55:12,640 --> 00:55:17,120
Speaker 1: was shocked by her reaction and what came next. She

809
00:55:17,400 --> 00:55:20,120
Speaker 1: said that her dad spends the night at her house

810
00:55:20,200 --> 00:55:22,680
Speaker 1: when he comes to visit her, and he stays in

811
00:55:22,800 --> 00:55:25,600
Speaker 1: her mom's room. I want to ask my man, and

812
00:55:25,719 --> 00:55:29,240
Speaker 1: he put his head in his hands and started crying.

813
00:55:30,120 --> 00:55:32,320
Speaker 1: I FaceTime the mom and she told me that my

814
00:55:32,440 --> 00:55:36,480
Speaker 1: man's been sending mixed signals. She would not confirm or

815
00:55:36,640 --> 00:55:39,880
Speaker 1: deny that they had sex. He swears that he sleeps

816
00:55:39,920 --> 00:55:42,880
Speaker 1: on the couch. And I know his daughter knows a

817
00:55:42,960 --> 00:55:45,560
Speaker 1: lot more, but he told me to leave her out

818
00:55:45,600 --> 00:55:48,399
Speaker 1: of it. She started all of this, So why can't

819
00:55:48,440 --> 00:55:53,560
Speaker 1: I ask her? You can't ask her crazy because she's

820
00:55:53,600 --> 00:55:56,840
Speaker 1: a child. Okay, you're an adult. Talk to the adults

821
00:55:56,880 --> 00:56:00,440
Speaker 1: in this situation. Sorry, this eleven year old told you

822
00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:02,480
Speaker 1: all that because of course she doesn't want you to

823
00:56:02,600 --> 00:56:06,960
Speaker 1: marry her dad. You have enough information. You have a

824
00:56:07,040 --> 00:56:12,439
Speaker 1: lot of information. Your fiance sleeps at his mom's house,

825
00:56:12,920 --> 00:56:16,759
Speaker 1: at her mom's house, in her mom's room, according to her,

826
00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:21,520
Speaker 1: when he's there, and the one night stand mother of

827
00:56:21,600 --> 00:56:24,360
Speaker 1: the child, the baby mama may not tell you. She

828
00:56:24,520 --> 00:56:27,640
Speaker 1: may not confirm or deny that they're having sex. She's

829
00:56:27,719 --> 00:56:30,440
Speaker 1: tricky like that, But they probably are if he's sleeping

830
00:56:30,480 --> 00:56:32,359
Speaker 1: in the room. He says, he's sleeping in the couch,

831
00:56:32,560 --> 00:56:34,520
Speaker 1: but he's still sleeping in her house. Why couldn't he

832
00:56:34,560 --> 00:56:37,080
Speaker 1: get a hotel room, you know, if there's nothing going

833
00:56:37,160 --> 00:56:40,439
Speaker 1: on otherwise, I don't understand why he's sleeping in a room.

834
00:56:40,920 --> 00:56:44,680
Speaker 1: So again, talk to the grown folks. Leave this baby

835
00:56:44,760 --> 00:56:47,560
Speaker 1: out of it. Yeah, you know, she said that, and

836
00:56:47,680 --> 00:56:51,160
Speaker 1: she's upset and everything, and that's where you should leave it.

837
00:56:51,280 --> 00:56:53,960
Speaker 1: Don't bother her with this. She's only eleven years old,

838
00:56:54,080 --> 00:56:56,000
Speaker 1: she's not grown. You don't need to be talking to

839
00:56:56,040 --> 00:56:59,040
Speaker 1: her about this. Your man said leave her out of it.

840
00:56:59,160 --> 00:57:01,920
Speaker 1: That's his daughter. I think you should take his advice

841
00:57:02,080 --> 00:57:04,120
Speaker 1: and leave her out of it. Find out what you

842
00:57:04,239 --> 00:57:08,560
Speaker 1: know from him and the baby. Mama, Steve, you ain't

843
00:57:08,719 --> 00:57:16,000
Speaker 1: my step mama? Always something little smart mouth kids somewhere

844
00:57:16,640 --> 00:57:21,479
Speaker 1: calling shots. Two adults that's trying to make their life better.

845
00:57:25,240 --> 00:57:34,320
Speaker 1: Another letter like this, Well, your man after he proposed

846
00:57:34,400 --> 00:57:36,520
Speaker 1: found out he had a baby from a woman he

847
00:57:36,600 --> 00:57:40,200
Speaker 1: had a one night stand with, took oppaternity test. Is

848
00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:43,080
Speaker 1: his you. We used to drive him down there, three

849
00:57:43,160 --> 00:57:48,680
Speaker 1: hours away to see the baby, wonderful child, and he

850
00:57:48,840 --> 00:57:52,520
Speaker 1: was friendly with the child's mother. I don't know why,

851
00:57:52,680 --> 00:57:54,560
Speaker 1: but I guess since you're going down there, might as

852
00:57:54,600 --> 00:57:58,040
Speaker 1: well trying to be friends. You know these things almost

853
00:57:58,160 --> 00:58:02,200
Speaker 1: never work out, but you know, relations for trying, and

854
00:58:02,880 --> 00:58:09,800
Speaker 1: the daughter and you became besties. I don't really become

855
00:58:10,000 --> 00:58:15,760
Speaker 1: friends with kids because they fickle, And the main reason

856
00:58:15,920 --> 00:58:18,640
Speaker 1: is we ain't got nothing incoming. I'll give it. Damn.

857
00:58:18,640 --> 00:58:22,000
Speaker 1: If you do need your nails done, that don't make

858
00:58:22,040 --> 00:58:26,280
Speaker 1: her friends. So you went on. You got your nails

859
00:58:26,320 --> 00:58:31,720
Speaker 1: and girly things. She was a sweetheart, and as she

860
00:58:31,880 --> 00:58:34,920
Speaker 1: got older, the dad visited her more often to go

861
00:58:35,080 --> 00:58:39,280
Speaker 1: to soccer games and stuff. Y'all still close, called ya

862
00:58:39,320 --> 00:58:45,320
Speaker 1: all the time to talk. Now here's where it got tricky.

863
00:58:46,040 --> 00:58:49,360
Speaker 1: Last month she was at her dad's house. Now, the

864
00:58:49,480 --> 00:58:51,760
Speaker 1: guy at them proposed to you. You all obviously have

865
00:58:51,920 --> 00:58:56,480
Speaker 1: separate places. So she was at her dad's house when

866
00:58:56,520 --> 00:58:59,920
Speaker 1: he proposed to me. Then he asked you to marry him.

867
00:59:00,120 --> 00:59:06,720
Speaker 1: She yelled no and ran from the room. Then you

868
00:59:06,760 --> 00:59:08,600
Speaker 1: went to talk to you, and she said, she loves

869
00:59:08,680 --> 00:59:12,160
Speaker 1: me as a friend, but she does not want me

870
00:59:12,400 --> 00:59:16,760
Speaker 1: to marry her dad. Do you know why she don't

871
00:59:16,840 --> 00:59:21,960
Speaker 1: want you to marry her dad? Because she has aspirations

872
00:59:23,240 --> 00:59:28,360
Speaker 1: of your dad, her dad marrying her mother, and she'll

873
00:59:28,400 --> 00:59:32,120
Speaker 1: have her two favorite people, which are her parents in

874
00:59:32,320 --> 00:59:37,520
Speaker 1: one house. Kids have delusional thoughts like this all the time.

875
00:59:39,360 --> 00:59:43,400
Speaker 1: So you figured she eleven years old, she old enough

876
00:59:43,440 --> 00:59:46,600
Speaker 1: to know that marriage is always in the plan for

877
00:59:46,760 --> 00:59:49,840
Speaker 1: her dad or not. Well, but you didn't know what

878
00:59:50,040 --> 00:59:55,600
Speaker 1: was in her plans, her plans, and she figured, you know,

879
00:59:55,760 --> 00:59:58,400
Speaker 1: her daddy would give it her mama. Now she dropped

880
00:59:58,440 --> 01:00:01,600
Speaker 1: a bomb on you and told you that Danny stay

881
01:00:01,720 --> 01:00:04,520
Speaker 1: in the room with her mama. When we come back,

882
01:00:04,600 --> 01:00:07,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you why this letter is. Can all

883
01:00:07,240 --> 01:00:11,640
Speaker 1: go to hell from this point on? All right, we'll

884
01:00:11,720 --> 01:00:14,160
Speaker 1: have heard two of Steve's response coming up at twenty

885
01:00:14,200 --> 01:00:17,400
Speaker 1: three minutes after the hour, Today's Strawberry Letters, subject you

886
01:00:17,480 --> 01:00:20,280
Speaker 1: Ain't my Stepmama. We'll get back into it right after this.

887
01:00:20,920 --> 01:00:25,120
Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Come on, Steve,

888
01:00:25,240 --> 01:00:29,880
Speaker 1: let's recap today's Strawberry Letters subject you ain't my Stepmama.

889
01:00:31,120 --> 01:00:33,560
Speaker 1: This man has a that has proposed to the letter

890
01:00:33,640 --> 01:00:37,520
Speaker 1: writer has a daughter from a one night stand turns

891
01:00:37,520 --> 01:00:41,800
Speaker 1: out as his. They had started traveling to visit his child.

892
01:00:41,880 --> 01:00:43,920
Speaker 1: The woman that wrote this letter would take him three

893
01:00:43,960 --> 01:00:46,840
Speaker 1: hours away. Has had a friendly relationship with the mother,

894
01:00:46,920 --> 01:00:49,160
Speaker 1: and her and the daughter became besties, and they get

895
01:00:49,240 --> 01:00:51,520
Speaker 1: their nails done. They had wonderful weekends. The girl has

896
01:00:51,560 --> 01:00:55,960
Speaker 1: been a sweetheart. Well, time goes on. He's been spending

897
01:00:56,040 --> 01:00:58,560
Speaker 1: more time with the daughter because going to a soccer

898
01:00:58,680 --> 01:01:02,200
Speaker 1: games and stuff. And so he proposed to the letter

899
01:01:02,280 --> 01:01:06,720
Speaker 1: writer at his house. The letter writer and the man

900
01:01:06,880 --> 01:01:10,240
Speaker 1: who are engaged, living separate home. She proposed in front

901
01:01:10,280 --> 01:01:13,919
Speaker 1: of the girl, will you marry me? The girl said

902
01:01:14,080 --> 01:01:18,080
Speaker 1: no and ran out the room and said, she does

903
01:01:18,200 --> 01:01:21,920
Speaker 1: not want me to marry her dad. So she's and

904
01:01:22,040 --> 01:01:24,160
Speaker 1: then I'm telling you the reason she don't want you

905
01:01:24,200 --> 01:01:27,360
Speaker 1: to marry a daddish because she has plans for her

906
01:01:27,520 --> 01:01:32,080
Speaker 1: dad and her mama to be married. That's all it is.

907
01:01:33,480 --> 01:01:37,800
Speaker 1: So now you go in there and try to reason

908
01:01:37,880 --> 01:01:40,120
Speaker 1: with her, telling her the marriage has always been in

909
01:01:40,160 --> 01:01:42,880
Speaker 1: the plan for her dad. Now she said, you ain't

910
01:01:42,960 --> 01:01:46,960
Speaker 1: my stepmama, and you won't ever be my stepmoma. Well

911
01:01:47,120 --> 01:01:49,840
Speaker 1: she's being certain about that, because how you gonna be

912
01:01:50,000 --> 01:01:53,640
Speaker 1: my stepmama if my dadda and my mama get married. See,

913
01:01:53,680 --> 01:01:55,920
Speaker 1: she Levin, So she don't know how to tell you

914
01:01:56,040 --> 01:01:58,680
Speaker 1: the whole story. She just told you you ain't gonna

915
01:01:58,680 --> 01:02:02,960
Speaker 1: ever be And then you got shocked by her reaction

916
01:02:03,040 --> 01:02:05,360
Speaker 1: where it came up. She said, now let me tell

917
01:02:05,400 --> 01:02:09,160
Speaker 1: you why I'm saying all this. Hell. My daddy spends

918
01:02:09,200 --> 01:02:11,320
Speaker 1: the night at our house when he comes to visit,

919
01:02:11,560 --> 01:02:14,840
Speaker 1: and he's staying my mom's room. Now, he would have

920
01:02:15,000 --> 01:02:19,040
Speaker 1: let her take a dump turn. I went and asked

921
01:02:19,160 --> 01:02:23,120
Speaker 1: my man, and he put his head in his hands

922
01:02:23,520 --> 01:02:31,760
Speaker 1: and started crying. I be dog, why did you do that?

923
01:02:32,440 --> 01:02:35,800
Speaker 1: You're disappointed? Dog. You couldn't have held it together until

924
01:02:35,880 --> 01:02:39,160
Speaker 1: later on that night in the bathroom by yourself. You

925
01:02:39,200 --> 01:02:41,439
Speaker 1: could have went out in the Carnie garage and head

926
01:02:41,520 --> 01:02:44,360
Speaker 1: that moment. I understand we had all done some things

927
01:02:44,400 --> 01:02:48,520
Speaker 1: and made ourselves cry. Ain't that right? J Man? Hallelujah? Yeah,

928
01:02:50,280 --> 01:02:54,560
Speaker 1: they don't ever cry, But you don't cry in front

929
01:02:54,640 --> 01:02:58,920
Speaker 1: of him when they come to you with just an accusation,

930
01:02:59,560 --> 01:03:02,320
Speaker 1: damn what you're doing in here? They room sleeping? And

931
01:03:02,400 --> 01:03:05,600
Speaker 1: then he put his head and started crying. Then she

932
01:03:05,920 --> 01:03:10,120
Speaker 1: FaceTime the woman and she told me that my man

933
01:03:10,280 --> 01:03:14,680
Speaker 1: has been sending mixed signals. She wouldn't confirm or deny

934
01:03:14,800 --> 01:03:17,880
Speaker 1: that they had sex. Now he tried to fix it.

935
01:03:18,040 --> 01:03:20,600
Speaker 1: Now that's too late. Now you had your hand in

936
01:03:20,720 --> 01:03:23,640
Speaker 1: your head in your hand, crying, and she then FaceTime

937
01:03:23,720 --> 01:03:26,400
Speaker 1: your damn girl. And now here he goes, this is

938
01:03:26,440 --> 01:03:29,240
Speaker 1: this is fixed right here? He swears he sleeps on

939
01:03:29,360 --> 01:03:36,320
Speaker 1: the couch. It's too late for that. And after you cried,

940
01:03:37,440 --> 01:03:44,200
Speaker 1: that's like a boy. What is it? No? Why he

941
01:03:44,360 --> 01:03:46,920
Speaker 1: can't crying? And the eleven year old don't have a

942
01:03:47,160 --> 01:03:53,120
Speaker 1: fact straight? The couch is in the bedroom whatever they

943
01:03:53,320 --> 01:03:58,560
Speaker 1: liveing in a one bedroom and it's in. Now, work

944
01:03:58,640 --> 01:04:01,120
Speaker 1: it out, Steve, I love and you know I sleep

945
01:04:01,160 --> 01:04:03,000
Speaker 1: in my drawers and I don't want my daughter to

946
01:04:03,080 --> 01:04:05,640
Speaker 1: come out and see me legs all over sleeping on

947
01:04:05,760 --> 01:04:08,960
Speaker 1: the couch out in Now, that's why I'm in Now.

948
01:04:10,600 --> 01:04:13,560
Speaker 1: I can't stand huh. She was number the one night

949
01:04:13,680 --> 01:04:21,720
Speaker 1: stand for me learn how to hold yourself together. And

950
01:04:21,880 --> 01:04:24,760
Speaker 1: then she says, I know his daughter knows a whole

951
01:04:24,840 --> 01:04:26,680
Speaker 1: lot more, but he told me to leave her out

952
01:04:26,720 --> 01:04:29,120
Speaker 1: of it. She started all this? Or why can't I

953
01:04:29,280 --> 01:04:33,840
Speaker 1: ask her? Shelley told you, why are you talking to

954
01:04:34,040 --> 01:04:37,960
Speaker 1: any eleven year old? Ain't she told you enough. She

955
01:04:38,120 --> 01:04:43,680
Speaker 1: got enough information, You got all the information. He cried

956
01:04:44,760 --> 01:04:48,720
Speaker 1: with his head and his head were gonna be. This

957
01:04:48,840 --> 01:04:52,360
Speaker 1: ain't the time for that. Do you cry when you

958
01:04:52,480 --> 01:05:09,760
Speaker 1: buy yourself? Come on, I love it with what I

959
01:05:10,040 --> 01:05:17,720
Speaker 1: was wanted to go that fall. You're laying that shout

960
01:05:19,200 --> 01:05:24,440
Speaker 1: kissing me on my deck. She but my shirt on

961
01:05:24,600 --> 01:05:26,640
Speaker 1: my chest and I ain't know what to do, so

962
01:05:26,840 --> 01:05:31,800
Speaker 1: I you know, wasn't she nicked me on my chest.

963
01:05:31,880 --> 01:05:36,520
Speaker 1: I didn't know what to do. I was holding her

964
01:05:36,560 --> 01:05:43,840
Speaker 1: about it back of her head, kissing me hard. He

965
01:05:44,160 --> 01:05:47,160
Speaker 1: did just kissing too hard. It was kissing just way,

966
01:05:47,160 --> 01:05:50,880
Speaker 1: ain't too hard and nickname you know, I was just oh, no, Jesus.

967
01:05:52,880 --> 01:05:59,120
Speaker 1: I had my clothes off and I couldn't find my

968
01:05:59,280 --> 01:06:06,160
Speaker 1: shoeing them on the night when I'm trying to late

969
01:06:06,240 --> 01:06:09,240
Speaker 1: coming home the next day because I couldn't find my shoe.

970
01:06:11,480 --> 01:06:13,400
Speaker 1: And then she got a dog, and next day I

971
01:06:13,560 --> 01:06:16,280
Speaker 1: got the dog, had ticket house and bearded with your

972
01:06:16,320 --> 01:06:20,200
Speaker 1: bo That's why I had to take crediconted boy the

973
01:06:20,360 --> 01:06:23,720
Speaker 1: new shoes, because I had a weight go hold. Because

974
01:06:23,760 --> 01:06:27,360
Speaker 1: I drive back what it calls the gas pedal. Get

975
01:06:27,440 --> 01:06:33,760
Speaker 1: caught tweets. My total all right, thank you Steve for

976
01:06:33,920 --> 01:06:37,800
Speaker 1: that re enactment. Uh poster comments in today's Druwberry Letter

977
01:06:38,600 --> 01:06:41,800
Speaker 1: at Steve Harvey FM. Okay on Instagram and Facebook. Coming

978
01:06:41,880 --> 01:06:45,000
Speaker 1: up at forty six minutes after, Junior with Sports Talk.

979
01:06:45,120 --> 01:06:50,320
Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys,

980
01:06:50,560 --> 01:06:53,200
Speaker 1: let's give it up. Junior is here with Sports Talk.

981
01:06:53,320 --> 01:06:56,840
Speaker 1: What you got, Junior? What you got then? But before

982
01:06:56,840 --> 01:06:58,480
Speaker 1: I get to that, Jay, let me just tell everybody

983
01:06:58,600 --> 01:07:02,040
Speaker 1: June fifth is going down. The third annual Curious Hope

984
01:07:02,080 --> 01:07:04,840
Speaker 1: Sickle Cell Walk will be happening. We're in Dallas, Texas

985
01:07:05,000 --> 01:07:08,120
Speaker 1: downtown at the Market Hunt Hill Bridge were back. We

986
01:07:08,280 --> 01:07:10,880
Speaker 1: are back. Last year we took off and thanked uck

987
01:07:10,960 --> 01:07:13,320
Speaker 1: Steve for the ten thousand because that's how we got

988
01:07:13,360 --> 01:07:17,560
Speaker 1: the race back home. I appreciate your Hunt. I appreciate that.

989
01:07:18,040 --> 01:07:20,760
Speaker 1: But you know what, it was a weekend. It's a

990
01:07:20,840 --> 01:07:23,160
Speaker 1: great cause, but you know this weekend, man, I saw it.

991
01:07:23,480 --> 01:07:26,840
Speaker 1: Did you see the did anybody see shout out to hell? Yeah?

992
01:07:26,880 --> 01:07:29,440
Speaker 1: I saw that. I can take no listen to me.

993
01:07:29,600 --> 01:07:31,840
Speaker 1: It came on a four m in the morning over here.

994
01:07:32,280 --> 01:07:35,240
Speaker 1: You were like, yeah, I'm up. I can't go to

995
01:07:35,280 --> 01:07:39,440
Speaker 1: sleep over here for some reason. Man, I've been here

996
01:07:39,480 --> 01:07:42,600
Speaker 1: two weeks. Man, I'm so tired. I don't know what

997
01:07:42,800 --> 01:07:50,560
Speaker 1: to do. Man, I was like that, man, just just cray. Man,

998
01:07:50,680 --> 01:07:53,320
Speaker 1: I am a fan of UFC fighting down was mad.

999
01:07:53,400 --> 01:07:56,360
Speaker 1: I've never seen that. And then listen hit the replay,

1000
01:07:56,440 --> 01:08:11,480
Speaker 1: go ahead, Dan, that was the second round. That was

1001
01:08:12,360 --> 01:08:17,639
Speaker 1: first person ever, Junior. I've seen somebody replay a fight

1002
01:08:17,840 --> 01:08:20,800
Speaker 1: on the radio that can't nobody to see. Let that

1003
01:08:21,000 --> 01:08:23,800
Speaker 1: be a first. Yeah, that's the first. But that's how

1004
01:08:23,880 --> 01:08:26,680
Speaker 1: we reacted though, when we saw him get knocked out.

1005
01:08:26,800 --> 01:08:30,680
Speaker 1: Great reaction. That sounds crazy, man, Because I know a

1006
01:08:30,800 --> 01:08:33,280
Speaker 1: guy that lives in Miami that sent me a picture

1007
01:08:33,360 --> 01:08:38,120
Speaker 1: of him and mess or mess fordal whatever his name is,

1008
01:08:39,520 --> 01:08:42,200
Speaker 1: a picture of him and her. I mean him and him,

1009
01:08:42,280 --> 01:08:44,479
Speaker 1: because you know both of the Cuba two Cuba kids

1010
01:08:44,520 --> 01:08:47,360
Speaker 1: grow up in Miami. I know you're gonna watch your fight, Steve.

1011
01:08:47,479 --> 01:08:49,320
Speaker 1: I didn't want to hurt his feelings when he sent

1012
01:08:49,400 --> 01:08:51,760
Speaker 1: me the picture of the dude. Yeah, but I was

1013
01:08:51,840 --> 01:08:58,000
Speaker 1: pulling for the night Man man, and he showed Julian

1014
01:08:58,360 --> 01:09:02,760
Speaker 1: night Man and so his corner was the board that

1015
01:09:02,880 --> 01:09:07,479
Speaker 1: just won the heavyweight title. From Cameroon. The Africans is

1016
01:09:07,520 --> 01:09:13,760
Speaker 1: over here in the UFC Hutton Hutton. They have a

1017
01:09:13,800 --> 01:09:17,360
Speaker 1: girl's fight on the car. Yeah, oh my god that

1018
01:09:18,120 --> 01:09:22,599
Speaker 1: the rose were waysaying it wasn't even don't pretty much

1019
01:09:22,720 --> 01:09:25,280
Speaker 1: know that ain't her name. But you know that ain't

1020
01:09:25,320 --> 01:09:28,840
Speaker 1: her name. You clearly know that you already know that

1021
01:09:28,880 --> 01:09:31,599
Speaker 1: ain't her name. But the fights was little man. I'm

1022
01:09:31,640 --> 01:09:34,960
Speaker 1: a fan. I'm at UFC fan. I watch it all

1023
01:09:35,000 --> 01:09:38,160
Speaker 1: the time. I didn't even know you. It's crazy. It's

1024
01:09:38,240 --> 01:09:42,720
Speaker 1: better than boxing. It is, Oh my gosh, it is.

1025
01:09:43,040 --> 01:09:45,160
Speaker 1: It is better than boxing. Man, I'm telling you, I

1026
01:09:45,240 --> 01:09:48,960
Speaker 1: can't wait for you. Ain't two sixty two. It's better

1027
01:09:49,000 --> 01:09:52,800
Speaker 1: than boxing. S all right, all right, junior, you made

1028
01:09:52,840 --> 01:09:56,200
Speaker 1: a believer out of me. Thank you for that. I'm

1029
01:09:56,280 --> 01:09:59,000
Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour comedy Roulette

1030
01:09:59,080 --> 01:10:04,040
Speaker 1: with the guys right after this you're listening to show.

1031
01:10:06,160 --> 01:10:10,360
Speaker 1: All right, guys, time now for comedy Roulette. Quick disclaimer please,

1032
01:10:10,520 --> 01:10:15,200
Speaker 1: jay or explanation. Here's how it go. We take three subjects,

1033
01:10:15,240 --> 01:10:17,759
Speaker 1: We put them on a wheel. We spund the wheel

1034
01:10:18,120 --> 01:10:21,400
Speaker 1: where it stopped because we comedians will make it funny.

1035
01:10:21,600 --> 01:10:24,080
Speaker 1: Watch us do it. Watch what we do all right,

1036
01:10:24,160 --> 01:10:27,639
Speaker 1: thank you, Jay. And today's categories are things you say

1037
01:10:28,000 --> 01:10:34,360
Speaker 1: because the check is late, dumb conversations neighbors come up with.

1038
01:10:36,800 --> 01:10:41,120
Speaker 1: Or things losers say to congratulate winners at the Academy Awards,

1039
01:10:41,479 --> 01:10:45,360
Speaker 1: which of course we're last night. Okay, yeah, all right,

1040
01:10:46,160 --> 01:10:57,879
Speaker 1: let's spend the wheel. Neighbors, I love neighbors, I love oh, okay,

1041
01:10:59,200 --> 01:11:03,120
Speaker 1: and honor of the Academy Awards. Things losers say to

1042
01:11:03,320 --> 01:11:09,120
Speaker 1: congratulate winners at the Academy Awards. Let's go guy, all right,

1043
01:11:09,320 --> 01:11:12,120
Speaker 1: here we go, comedy. Let things losers say, you know

1044
01:11:12,240 --> 01:11:14,360
Speaker 1: he only one because you black. That's the only reason

1045
01:11:14,439 --> 01:11:23,439
Speaker 1: you want. He went there at the gate. The gate,

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Speaker 1: they say, when you losing the Academy Wards, you know

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Speaker 1: God headed in the plans for you, just beautiful, than

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Speaker 1: bring the Lord in the junior. I like this, say

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Speaker 1: to the winner's Academy Awards, you know what they gave

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Speaker 1: it because they gave it you because they thank you

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Speaker 1: for to die. So that's really what this was all about.

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Speaker 1: I mean, he's just trying to give you your trophy

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Speaker 1: while you living. That's all this was man's things. Losers

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Speaker 1: safe to congratulate winners at the Academy Awards, Steve, you

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Speaker 1: won that thing, didn't you? Yeah, I ain't happy enough

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Speaker 1: you won that thing, didn't you? Comedy let Things losers

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Speaker 1: say to people who won, well, you know I already

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Speaker 1: got two of them. Is by time you win something,

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Speaker 1: you lose every damn thing. Wow, people say these things.

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Speaker 1: When you lose. You're talking to the winners, you say, hey,

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Speaker 1: you know what your suit was better than mine. That's

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Speaker 1: why you got it, don't you know what? You know

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Speaker 1: what he is. If we'd have had Martin Scorse directed Alan,

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Speaker 1: we'd have wanted to you know what I'm saying, Just hey,

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Speaker 1: no your owner on your own film, daddy people. Things

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Speaker 1: losers say to congratulate winners at the Academy Awards, Steve Harvey,

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Speaker 1: We just moved so I ain't got nowhere to put

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Speaker 1: it in no house, like ye. Things losers say to

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Speaker 1: the winners and when they don't win your movie, it

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Speaker 1: still suck. Okay, in my opinion, your movie it still sucks.

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Speaker 1: How about that? Things losing say to the winners at

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Speaker 1: the Academy Award. You know when I cried, I knew

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Speaker 1: you was gonna win. When I cried. When I cried,

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Speaker 1: I think he was gonna win. You know what it is, man,

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Speaker 1: They they they met the quota, they weren't given up

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Speaker 1: and moment black people this year, that's what I won

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01:14:08,439 --> 01:14:17,759
Speaker 1: because they were fine. Okay, that's what she said. Things

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Speaker 1: that losers say to congratulate winners at the Academy Awards.

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Speaker 1: Let's close it out, just the last war. Huh. You

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Speaker 1: know they called me for that role, but I was

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Speaker 1: I was taping Ready for Love that note. Okay, we'll

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Speaker 1: up Morning show coming up in twenty minutes after the hour.

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Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to Morning show. Trending news

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Speaker 1: from Louisville, Kentucky. Judge and Bailey Smith has pushed back

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Speaker 1: the trial of ex police officer Brett Hankinson. If that

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Speaker 1: name sounds familiar, it should. Hankinson was the only officer

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Speaker 1: charged and that botched raid back in March of last

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Speaker 1: year that caused Brianna Taylor's murder. Judge Smith said, because

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Speaker 1: of a lack of a backlog of cases, I should

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Speaker 1: say due to COVID nineteen the pandemic, well, the case

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Speaker 1: has been pushed back from August to now February of

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Speaker 1: next year. Hankinson was one of the officers who fired

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Speaker 1: his weapon, and Hankinson was charged with wanton endangerment for

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Speaker 1: firing into a neighbor's apartment. None of the officers involved

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Speaker 1: were charged directly for Brianna Taylor's death. Hankinson and Miles

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Speaker 1: Cosgrove were fired. However, Sergeant John matten Lee, the third

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Speaker 1: officer who fired his weapon that night, still remains on

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Speaker 1: the force. So the other two officers got fired. If

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Speaker 1: you take the bullet that was in Brianna Taylor's body

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Speaker 1: and compare it to the muzzle prints on the shell casings,

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Speaker 1: you could determine which gun fired that bullet that's in

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Speaker 1: that woman's body. Yeah, that's a fact, right, well, right,

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Speaker 1: because each mule very unique, right. The black dude that

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Speaker 1: was hired by McConnell, Daniel Cameron, Yes, that's married to

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Speaker 1: his daughter some missing. All right, we gotta go, and

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Speaker 1: we'll have more of a Steve Harvey Morning Show coming

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Speaker 1: up at thirty three minutes after. Right after this. You're

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Speaker 1: listening to show, all right, Carla, let's talk oscars. The

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Speaker 1: oscars were last night, right, yes, yes, yes, yes, you

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Speaker 1: know you and I we gotta watch all right. The

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Speaker 1: movie Nomad Land was the big winner. Uh it won

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Speaker 1: for Best Picture. Congratulations to um Francis McDermott and and

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Speaker 1: Anthony Hopkins. They won Best Actor and Best Actress, so congratulations.

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Speaker 1: I wanted Andrew Day to win for United States versus

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Speaker 1: Billy Holliday, but that's okay. I did too. I was

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Speaker 1: rooting for my girl, yes, and Yola Davis, I was,

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Speaker 1: but my girls. Daniel Khaluya went home for Best Supporting

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Speaker 1: Actor for Judas and the Black Messiah, so congratulations to him.

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Speaker 1: His speech was crazy, fun, all right. He said thank

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Speaker 1: you to my mom and dad for having sex, for

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Speaker 1: having me. His mom and sister were there and they

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Speaker 1: just both put their heads down, like did he really

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Speaker 1: say that same? Yes, congratulations to her for a fight

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Speaker 1: for you from Judas and the Black Messiah. That one

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Speaker 1: for Best Song, and congratulations. We love Tyler Perry so much.

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Speaker 1: Tyler Perry one. Yeah, the gene Her Schultz you man,

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Speaker 1: Terry an award. His speech was great. Basically he was saying,

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Speaker 1: resist hate. Did you see Holly Berry Yes peak dress

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Speaker 1: Rockley Peak, Yes, Yes, Yes, it was different, it was different.

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Speaker 1: Beautiful beautiful dress. Speaking of beautiful dresses. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: Regina King, I saw the show for me. She did

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Speaker 1: it for me as well. Carla, she opened the oscars

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Speaker 1: referred to George Floyd. I mean her, everything she did

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01:18:28,280 --> 01:18:32,960
Speaker 1: was so poignant last night. She looked beautiful, she spoke amazingly.

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Speaker 1: It was just awesome. I loved Angela Bassett's dress. I'll

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Speaker 1: take a lesson. We do have, Regina King. All right,

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Speaker 1: let's do it. It has been quite a year and

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01:18:42,720 --> 01:18:44,760
Speaker 1: we are still smack dab in the middle of it.

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01:18:45,800 --> 01:18:48,840
Speaker 1: We are mourning the loss of so many and I

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Speaker 1: have to be honest, if things had gone differently this

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01:18:51,479 --> 01:18:54,479
Speaker 1: past week in Minneapolis, I might have traded in my

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Speaker 1: heels for marching boots. Yeah. I know, oh Dad, A

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01:19:00,680 --> 01:19:03,040
Speaker 1: lot of you people at home want to reach for

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01:19:03,120 --> 01:19:05,960
Speaker 1: your remote when you feel like Hollywood is preaching to you.

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Speaker 1: But as a mother of a black son, I know

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Speaker 1: the fear that so many live with, and no amount

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01:19:13,120 --> 01:19:20,200
Speaker 1: of fame of fortune changes that. Okay, fantastic, Yeah, congratulations

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Speaker 1: again to Regina King. Honorable mention goes to Glenn Close

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Speaker 1: for doing the butt Yes with littarell alry like sex

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Speaker 1: a little dress and all baby did it. She did

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01:19:34,240 --> 01:19:38,600
Speaker 1: it was love was on point with the music. It

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Speaker 1: was just you know, I enjoyed it. I enjoyed it.

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Speaker 1: It was a good show. And shout out again like

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Speaker 1: you say it to quest Love his movie, his documentary

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01:19:47,040 --> 01:19:50,280
Speaker 1: and Summer of Soul coming out. Yeah, all right, that's

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Speaker 1: Oscar Talk coming up. At forty nine minutes after the hour,

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Speaker 1: we'll have some closing remarks from the one and only

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening to Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, guys, here we are our last break of

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Speaker 1: the day on this Monday, and time now for some

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Speaker 1: closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey. Well,

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Speaker 1: you know, I don't, I don't really all I've been

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Speaker 1: thinking about a lot of things, you know, and I

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Speaker 1: was thinking of just on a positive tip, you know,

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Speaker 1: to just kind of just always encourage people to stay

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Speaker 1: with it. You know. Oftentimes you know when you are

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Speaker 1: you know, when you have dreams and aspirations, all of us,

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Speaker 1: from time to time they get sidelined. All of our

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Speaker 1: dreams and aspiration takes a hit along the way to

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Speaker 1: attain in them. And there's always a detool on the way.

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Speaker 1: There's always some confusion, a set of barrels set up.

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Speaker 1: It's just really hard to see a vision from start

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Speaker 1: to finish scott free with no troubles. So if you're

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Speaker 1: in that position today and you're finding yourself waning in

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Speaker 1: your dreams and visions, it seems like it's just not

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Speaker 1: happening the way you want it. I want you to

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Speaker 1: understand it's not going to happen just the way you

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Speaker 1: want it. That is the way it works. And I

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Speaker 1: know that's not great news, but it's the truth. Nobody

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Speaker 1: gets where they want to be in life just the

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Speaker 1: way they want it. So if you're thinking that you're

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01:21:29,960 --> 01:21:32,280
Speaker 1: gonna get the Scott free that you will just have

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01:21:32,479 --> 01:21:35,679
Speaker 1: a smooth sailing, that's not the way it works. Life

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01:21:35,760 --> 01:21:42,960
Speaker 1: isn't designed that way. So factor in the fact that

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Speaker 1: you are going to have troubles and difficulties along the way.

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Speaker 1: And if you stopped your visions or dreams because of

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01:21:51,240 --> 01:21:57,040
Speaker 1: that reason, right there, the rule is simple. Here's the rule.

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Speaker 1: You can start again today. You can just start again

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Speaker 1: today and guess what, you don't need anybody's permission. All

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Speaker 1: you have to do is rewrite your dreams down on

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Speaker 1: your vision board, rererereclaim victory, ask God for your helping,

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Speaker 1: your strength, and get back to making your dreams and

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Speaker 1: visions come true for your life. You all, listen to me.

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Speaker 1: Stop waking up just going about the day seeing how

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Speaker 1: it's going without any projects, without any visions, without any aspirations,

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Speaker 1: without a plan to attain the things that you really

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Speaker 1: want in life. Stop waking up like that with nothing

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Speaker 1: to do. Make a plan at night, pray about it,

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Speaker 1: ask God for help. You know, no, look, when you rake,

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Speaker 1: when you make your plan, that's just the request. You're

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Speaker 1: asking God to help you come true. Now to how

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Speaker 1: you get there. It's gonna be difficult. It's going to

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01:23:08,200 --> 01:23:14,080
Speaker 1: be difficult, but once you started, that is no one

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Speaker 1: who says you can. So y'all just get back into pocket,

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01:23:19,560 --> 01:23:22,880
Speaker 1: get back up on the horse, get back to dreaming again,

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01:23:23,120 --> 01:23:27,200
Speaker 1: get back to wanting to hope and to believe in again.

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01:23:27,880 --> 01:23:32,080
Speaker 1: Don't let the setbacks and the troubles of life stop you,

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Speaker 1: because I got news for you. You're gonna always have them.

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Speaker 1: You're going to always have them. And like today, man,

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Speaker 1: even though I'm still in Africa, I just went back

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Speaker 1: through my phone because what I do is when I

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Speaker 1: see motivational phrases or scriptures that really register with me,

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01:23:49,960 --> 01:23:51,600
Speaker 1: I take my phone out and I take her the

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Speaker 1: picture of it. And then I've created this album in

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Speaker 1: my photo section called motivation, and I file all those

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01:23:59,640 --> 01:24:02,920
Speaker 1: picture is in my motivational thing. And when I find

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Speaker 1: myself wavering, feeling a little uncertain, feeling a little shaky

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01:24:07,800 --> 01:24:12,360
Speaker 1: about decisions, I go back to my motivational folder in

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Speaker 1: my photos, and I just started reading the little quotes

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Speaker 1: I got in there. I just started going down the line.

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Speaker 1: I've got some stuff in there, man, that I've had

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Speaker 1: in there for years. Man, But I can still read

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Speaker 1: from time to time, you know, like like, for example,

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Speaker 1: I was today I read this when it says I

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Speaker 1: can't cry about having a lot on my plate when

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Speaker 1: my whole goal was to eat. I can't cry about

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Speaker 1: having a whole lot on my plate when my whole

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Speaker 1: goal was to eat. And man, I find myself doing that.

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Speaker 1: Not tell my lord, I'm over burdened, Man, I'm tired.

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Speaker 1: You know, I got all this, I got all that. Hey, Steve,

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Speaker 1: did you hear yourself? You got all this and got

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Speaker 1: all that what you're tripping for? And I gathered myself,

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Speaker 1: you know, and then you know, you know, I have

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Speaker 1: a lot of stuff in there. Like. One of them

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Speaker 1: I read to day was, oh my bad, I'm sorry

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Speaker 1: for bothering you. I forgot. I only exist when you

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Speaker 1: need me for something. That's God tell me, oh my bad,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry for bothering you. I forgot. I don't exist

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Speaker 1: when you need me for something. I have all these

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01:25:31,080 --> 01:25:36,760
Speaker 1: little things, man, that always motivate me. Here's another one.

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Speaker 1: Winners are not people who never fail, but people who

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01:25:40,760 --> 01:25:46,960
Speaker 1: never quite Failure is a failure is a part of

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Speaker 1: the process. Here's another one. I have not failed. I've

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01:25:52,720 --> 01:25:58,599
Speaker 1: just found ten thousand ways that don't work. Thomas Edison.

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01:26:00,680 --> 01:26:03,880
Speaker 1: I have not failed. I just found ten thousand ways

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Speaker 1: that don't work. Do you see? Success isn't how far

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01:26:10,800 --> 01:26:16,040
Speaker 1: you got, but the distance you travel from where you started.

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Speaker 1: That's a proverb. And I just keep stuff like that,

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Speaker 1: and you know, always. And last one I read this

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Speaker 1: morning was I want to inspire people. I want someone

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Speaker 1: to look at me and say, because of you, I

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Speaker 1: didn't give up. Yeah, that's always been important to me.

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Speaker 1: So y'all, stay motivated, stay the cause, find a way

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Speaker 1: to self motivate yourself when you down, and get back

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Speaker 1: to dreaming and believe in again. Those are my clothing

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Speaker 1: and Morse. Y'all have a nice stay received them all.

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