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Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous. It's Lala Kent. Welcome to untraditionally. Lala.

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Speaker 2: Hi babes, it's Lala, Welcome back to untraditionally, Lala. I'm

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Speaker 2: here with Michelle Sonnai Sonnai.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I have fan questions for you. Are you ready?

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Speaker 3: I'm ready?

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Speaker 1: All right.

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Speaker 2: How is your mental health after losing your mom and

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Speaker 2: going through a divorce.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, my mental health has a lot of ups

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Speaker 3: and downs. I'm overall in a much better place because

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Speaker 3: I know my mom is enjoying heaven. But I have

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Speaker 3: my sad moments where I miss her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's totally normal. And you know what, you and

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Speaker 1: I have a lot of good cries.

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Speaker 2: I'm a weirdo and I think that you know, people say,

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Speaker 2: you know you should laugh every day.

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Speaker 1: I think you should also cry every day.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I am learning from you.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: Definitely cried a lot more since becoming your closer friend.

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Speaker 2: You also are fine hanging out with your boobs out

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Speaker 2: in front of me, which I also like.

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Speaker 1: What happened with Aaron.

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Speaker 2: You're a fucking savage. By the way, I will say,

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Speaker 2: when she's done with someone, you, guys, she is done.

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Speaker 3: There is no talking to an ex unless you have

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Speaker 3: to share a child with them. What happened to us,

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Speaker 3: I don't know. It was just I moved in, and

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Speaker 3: as soon as I moved in, you kind of realize,

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Speaker 3: like he was a single guy before dating a bunch

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Speaker 3: of girls, and then you bring me and a daughter

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Speaker 3: into a picture, and it just kind of like, I

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Speaker 3: don't know, he just woke up and realized it was

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Speaker 3: a lot for him, and I think that was one

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Speaker 3: of the things. There was a combination of things. He

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Speaker 3: was looking for a perfectionist and like the perfect wife,

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Speaker 3: and I think I didn't hit a lot of those boxes.

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Speaker 1: No one ever will. That's a hey issue.

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Speaker 3: That's highly and I know that. So I'm actually really

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Speaker 3: happy that we are no longer together.

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Speaker 2: I am too, because I thoroughly enjoy looking at the

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Speaker 2: men that you've been talking to.

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Speaker 1: You're very good looking. Are you dating anyone?

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Speaker 3: I am casually dating somebody, but nothing serious. I am

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Speaker 3: focusing on myself and I'm my number one priority right now.

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Speaker 1: God, I fucking love you. Amen to that. Do you

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Speaker 1: want more kids?

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Speaker 3: I'm open to it, but as of right now, I do.

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Speaker 2: Not, is Isabella, and I don't mean this to be insensitive.

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Speaker 2: Is she a lot? Because Sosa for me is a lot.

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Speaker 2: She's making me. She's like dealing with me all the time,

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Speaker 2: which now I feel badly for people.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I'm always tired. Also because she has so much energy.

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Speaker 3: She still wakes up at eight. I'm sorry, she still

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Speaker 3: wakes up at six in the morning every day and

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Speaker 3: she goes on and we do about ten activities outside.

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Speaker 3: We go on walks, to the parks, gymnastics, ballet are like.

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Speaker 3: I'm I can't just keep her at home and chill

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Speaker 3: and watch TV. We don't do that, So she is

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Speaker 3: by the time I put her to sleep, I'm exhausted.

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Speaker 3: And that's why I can't imagine having an.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so if you found a man who was like

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Speaker 2: the perfect guy.

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Speaker 3: It depends if he was a perfect guy, really wanted

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Speaker 3: an another child, had family, you know, we could get

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Speaker 3: some help. Yes, of course that would consider it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it just depends the biggest part. Yeah, I feel

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Speaker 2: bad that I talked about Sosa that way. I adore Sosa.

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Speaker 3: And I adore Isabella, but I get yeah, it's some

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Speaker 3: kids are harder than other others.

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Speaker 2: Oshan, I would put her in the bed and she

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Speaker 2: could just chill there. Sosa is all over the place,

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Speaker 2: and she's particular and temperamental and high strung. She is

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Speaker 2: everything that I am. Yeah, so yeah, it's a lot.

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Speaker 1: How are you navigating being being a single parent?

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Speaker 3: I think I do a really good job. The days

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Speaker 3: I have Isabella, I just put all my focus and

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Speaker 3: energy onto her, and then the days I don't have her,

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Speaker 3: I focus on work. Those are the nights I go

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Speaker 3: out with my friends. So I really try to like

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Speaker 3: divide time when I'm alone and when I have her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you feel like you've conquered it.

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Speaker 3: I think so.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, You're like a well oiled machine at this point.

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Speaker 2: Michelle and Laala describe your friendship?

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Speaker 3: You go first, How do I describe our friendship?

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Speaker 1: She's like a fucking nightmare.

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Speaker 3: My favorite thing about Laala is like how comfortable I

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Speaker 3: feel sleeping next to you. I really do. It's just

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Speaker 3: so cozy our pj's. I watch you do your whole

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Speaker 3: night routine. It's very interesting. We like the same temperature

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Speaker 3: and I sleep amazing next to you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we are like a match made in heaven. I

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Speaker 2: feel I love being I just I feel comfortable around you.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I don't have to censor myself.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I can be just who I am

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Speaker 2: at all times, and I feel zero judgment from you.

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Speaker 1: And I also feel like you're not.

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Speaker 2: Going to take that and go talk behind my back,

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Speaker 2: because you would just bring it to my face anyway. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and I also think we're epic roommates because we have

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Speaker 2: the same pooping schedule.

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Speaker 1: She won't she's.

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Speaker 2: Not gonna talk about it. I'll talk about it. We

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Speaker 2: like our coffee at the same time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we have a lot of same a lot of similarities. Yes,

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Speaker 3: And I do think you bring out like this silliness

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Speaker 3: in me, Like I laugh a lot with you.

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Speaker 1: Oh that makes me really happy. I laugh a lot

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Speaker 1: with you too.

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Speaker 2: Tips or advice on how to help your child adjust

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Speaker 2: to a two parent household more easily.

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Speaker 3: That's a hard one to adjust. I mean we we

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Speaker 3: were always very strict with you know, bedtime, schedule, bad time,

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Speaker 3: So we just make sure that even if she's at

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Speaker 3: his house, like the routine never really changes.

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Speaker 2: So the consistency at both households absolutely. You know, there's

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Speaker 2: one thing because like now knowing Jesse a little bit better,

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Speaker 2: he's like someone who I can't stand, but also have

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Speaker 2: so much love for at the same time, am I

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Speaker 2: allowed to say that? Like, I feel like we can

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Speaker 2: go toes and then totally be fine five minutes later.

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Speaker 2: And I know that that probably seems like unhealthy to

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Speaker 2: some people, but I'm like, I actually thrive in friendships

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Speaker 2: like that. Yeah. But I do like the fact that

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Speaker 2: when it comes to your daughter that you guys are

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Speaker 2: both honest with each other. Yeah, which is something I

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Speaker 2: don't have. So my co parenting situation is so much

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Speaker 2: different and watching you guys, I'm like, I know it

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Speaker 2: gets tough, but I do admire you both for always.

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Speaker 1: Putting her first.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we always do.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: My last question for you is there anything you've learned

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Speaker 2: about yourself from being on TV?

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Speaker 3: What have I learned about myself on TV? That's a

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Speaker 3: hard question. I've learned to well, I've learned to be

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Speaker 3: I'm very private. I've learned to like open myself up

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Speaker 3: and be vulnerable, and I don't know, it's just like

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Speaker 3: a work in progress.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I will co sign on that. I feel

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Speaker 2: like just watching you and again, I'm really excited for

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Speaker 2: people to see you in season three because I do

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Speaker 2: feel that the cameras were like non existent to you,

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Speaker 2: and you were very open about everything you were feeling.

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Speaker 2: And you and I, in my eyes, got very very

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Speaker 2: close like we did.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I consider you like one of my dearest friends.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. And I've learned it's okay to be happy and

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Speaker 3: sad and like show emotion and tears and stuff like

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Speaker 3: that when you feel it instead of just like holding

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Speaker 3: on to it.

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Speaker 2: See reality TV does teach you something. Guys, feel the feels.

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Speaker 2: I love you, guys, Thank you for listening to another

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Speaker 2: bonus episode of Untraditionally La La. I'm gonna catch you

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Speaker 2: on Wednesday for a regular episode and a good next week.

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Speaker 1: Bye,