1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:05,600 Speaker 1: Now here's a highlight from Coast to Coast AM on iHeartRadio. 2 00:00:05,040 --> 00:00:07,560 Speaker 2: And welcome back to Coast to Coast George Nori with you. 3 00:00:07,760 --> 00:00:11,400 Speaker 2: Julia Gordon Bramer with US. Professional Tarot card reader, scholar, 4 00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 2: award winning writer and poet, former professor of the graduate 5 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 2: writing program at Lyndenwood University. That's where we had our 6 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:21,760 Speaker 2: live show a few years ago. By the way, She's 7 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 2: the author of several books, including Fixed Star's Governor, Life 8 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 2: Decoding Sylvia Plath and Tarot Life Lessons. Hello, Julia, Welcome. 9 00:00:30,720 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 3: Hi George. 10 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:33,440 Speaker 2: Nice to be here, looking forward to this. You're in 11 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:35,680 Speaker 2: Saint Louis. I am too, in a hidden location. 12 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:39,000 Speaker 3: Oh wonderful the weather. 13 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 2: The weather has been amazing, hasn't it. 14 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 3: Oh it's yeah, gorgeous. In fact, I'm covered with mosquito 15 00:00:45,760 --> 00:00:48,160 Speaker 3: bites for something. They just got me in the last 16 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:49,600 Speaker 3: bit of the season here. 17 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:54,960 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, their last, their last, hurrah, I think, isn't it. Hey, Julia, 18 00:00:55,000 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 2: how long have you been involved with the Tarot cards? Oh? 19 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 3: Wow? So I started reading when I was sixteen years old, 20 00:01:02,800 --> 00:01:06,160 Speaker 3: and this month I will be turning sixty, so we're 21 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 3: looking at forty five years. 22 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:10,679 Speaker 2: Well, happy birthday. How'd you get involved in this? What 23 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:11,560 Speaker 2: got you into it? 24 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:15,720 Speaker 3: You know? I tell the story in the first chapter 25 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:20,120 Speaker 3: of my book, Tara Life Lessons. I was, as I said, 26 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 3: I was sixteen. I wandered into a mall on a 27 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:26,839 Speaker 3: hot summer day and there was a magic shop there. 28 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 3: This was in the nineteen seventies, so magic shops were 29 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 3: not what they are today. You know, today we have 30 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 3: these New Age shops with crystals and pendulums and all 31 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:40,680 Speaker 3: kinds of spiritual books. They did not exist in the 32 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 3: nineteen seventies. What I walked into was gag gifts and 33 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 3: rabbits and hats and you know, foam balls that you 34 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 3: can hide up your sleeve, that sort of thing. And 35 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 3: there was this young woman behind the counter who was 36 00:01:56,120 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 3: maybe about four or five years older than me, but 37 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 3: to a teenage girl, I mean, she seemed to possess 38 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 3: all the wisdom of the universe. And she looked at 39 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 3: me and said, do you want to see some real magic? 40 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 3: And she guided me to the tarot deck and she 41 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:15,200 Speaker 3: showed me the cards and that was it. I was 42 00:02:15,240 --> 00:02:19,639 Speaker 3: spellbound and my life took a turn and I never 43 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 3: looked back. 44 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 2: What are there seventy two cards in the deck. 45 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 3: There's seventy eight cards at seventy eight uh huh. 46 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:30,240 Speaker 2: And what do you think of the death card? I mean, 47 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:32,640 Speaker 2: I've had Tarot card readers tell me it doesn't mean 48 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:33,960 Speaker 2: you're going to die. 49 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 3: No, not at all. It's a card of transformation. So 50 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 3: people see it and they get scared because of all 51 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:42,520 Speaker 3: the movie stuff, you know, sure, but the death card 52 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:45,840 Speaker 3: is saying the old life is behind you and you're 53 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:47,960 Speaker 3: in a whole new life. So you may see the 54 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 3: death card when you graduate, or when you get married, 55 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 3: or when you have children, you know, anything, when you retire, 56 00:02:55,480 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 3: anything that everything's changed. And the thing about the change 57 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 3: is that it is scary because we don't know what 58 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 3: the new life looks like, right, So you've got just 59 00:03:07,400 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 3: that fear of the unknown. But it can also be 60 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:17,079 Speaker 3: very exciting. So the death card is usually considered positive, 61 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:18,639 Speaker 3: a card of transformation. 62 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 2: Julia, do you find that more and more people are 63 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:24,720 Speaker 2: getting interested in serialt cards and readings? 64 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:29,839 Speaker 3: Well, what I know from my clients is that these 65 00:03:29,880 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 3: are very dark times and people need something, you know, 66 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 3: whether we want to say faith. I mean I was 67 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 3: telling some clients at a festival I worked this weekend. 68 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 3: You know, every day I start my day and I 69 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:50,120 Speaker 3: ask Spirit, God, whatever you'd like to call it, to 70 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:53,119 Speaker 3: let me be a channel of love and life and 71 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:57,080 Speaker 3: to you know, just to be something positive in these 72 00:03:57,160 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 3: dark times. And I think people need that. And the 73 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:03,560 Speaker 3: other thing I think is that in all of this 74 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 3: world chaos, people tend to diminish their own problems and 75 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 3: they tend to say, well this is you know, I'm 76 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 3: not important, you know, not compared to Israel and Gaza, 77 00:04:14,320 --> 00:04:20,280 Speaker 3: you know. And so I through the Taro am away 78 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:24,599 Speaker 3: to see them and hear them and acknowledge what, you know, 79 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 3: what people go through on personal levels, because our day 80 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:32,040 Speaker 3: to day stuff does not change. We still have it 81 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:34,799 Speaker 3: even in these really hard times. 82 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:39,039 Speaker 2: From the book Taro Life Lessons the subtitle Living Wisdom 83 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 2: from the Major Arcana. What is the major Arcana? 84 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:46,719 Speaker 3: So, as you mentioned, the Taro has seventy eight cards. 85 00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:50,719 Speaker 3: Twenty two of those cards are the major arkana and 86 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 3: those are the milestones. Those are the famous tarot cards 87 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:59,280 Speaker 3: that you do see in the movies, like the Fool, 88 00:04:59,360 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 3: like the Love, like the Death Card, the Hermit that 89 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:06,480 Speaker 3: we've all we probably all know the Hermit best from 90 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 3: the Led Zeppelin four album. If if you're of a 91 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 3: certain age and you know it's uh, those are they're 92 00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:21,839 Speaker 3: the the big deals. The every culture has these milestones. 93 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:25,840 Speaker 3: We have a card for the mother figure, the fathers, uh, 94 00:05:26,320 --> 00:05:29,240 Speaker 3: the elders. We have a cards for money, we have 95 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:33,640 Speaker 3: a cards for you know, cards for temptation and uh 96 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:36,800 Speaker 3: and and collapse. You know, we've all had our dark 97 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 3: nights of the soul. So there's a Tarot card for 98 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:45,479 Speaker 3: what Carl Jung would call the process of individual individually 99 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:53,479 Speaker 3: and individualization, what Joseph Campbell would call the hero's journey, uh, 100 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:56,640 Speaker 3: the sort of process of life that we all go through. 101 00:05:57,279 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 3: And I so the major Hannah is especially meaningful. The 102 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 3: minor Arkhana is also very helpful. That aligns more along 103 00:06:08,920 --> 00:06:11,720 Speaker 3: with a regular deck of playing cards, and that the 104 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:14,080 Speaker 3: minor Arkhana is thought to be the more day to 105 00:06:14,160 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 3: day stuff. But the major Kana are those those big issues. 106 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:22,599 Speaker 2: It's fascinating, indeed, And you use a lot of stories 107 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:26,880 Speaker 2: in the Terror Life Lessons book from real life episodes 108 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:27,640 Speaker 2: tell us about that. 109 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:31,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, so these all came from my journals over 110 00:06:31,880 --> 00:06:36,000 Speaker 3: the years. And you know, my husband has always said, 111 00:06:36,160 --> 00:06:38,040 Speaker 3: you know, you got a lot of good stories you 112 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 3: should write about that. And I never really thought about 113 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:45,520 Speaker 3: it until COVID, honestly, and they were they were all 114 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:49,159 Speaker 3: written because I had journaled them, and so during COVID, 115 00:06:49,200 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 3: I just put it all together and I had very 116 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:54,400 Speaker 3: much of what I would call a god moment where 117 00:06:54,480 --> 00:06:58,000 Speaker 3: I had a fan letter on Instagram about some of 118 00:06:58,040 --> 00:07:03,039 Speaker 3: my I'm also with Sylvia play a scholar and a 119 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:07,280 Speaker 3: young woman had read my other three books on Plath 120 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:10,760 Speaker 3: and her mysticism, which a lot of people don't know about, 121 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:14,440 Speaker 3: and she said that, you know, she was really interested 122 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 3: in that. And I told her about this project that 123 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 3: I was kind of working on during quarantine, and she said, oh, 124 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 3: I want you to talk to my editor friend over 125 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:28,040 Speaker 3: at Inner Traditions, and she connected us and they just 126 00:07:28,200 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 3: snapped it up on the spot and they are also 127 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 3: going to be publishing via Cult Sylvia Plath next year. 128 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 3: So I am just so blessed and could not be 129 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:44,120 Speaker 3: more pleased with my publisher, honestly. But as far as 130 00:07:44,160 --> 00:07:49,320 Speaker 3: these stories go, yeah, they're real life stories of clients 131 00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:54,640 Speaker 3: that have had especially interesting, you know, situations with me. 132 00:07:55,920 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 3: I'm not just dishing. It's not just gossip because I 133 00:08:00,320 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 3: process my end of it. So you're going to see 134 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:05,920 Speaker 3: how human I am as a Tarot card reader. I 135 00:08:06,240 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 3: am not the guru who's sitting up on a mountaintop, 136 00:08:09,840 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 3: you know, telling everybody how to live. You're going to 137 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:19,160 Speaker 3: see me wrestling with boundaries and insecurities and occasionally being 138 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:24,640 Speaker 3: a bit intimidated. Every story is different. There are there 139 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 3: are murders, there are scam artists. There are people who 140 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:35,760 Speaker 3: are so very desperate for love, and you know, and 141 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:39,040 Speaker 3: I think we know all of these people. I think 142 00:08:39,080 --> 00:08:43,840 Speaker 3: they're universal stories. There are gold diggers, there are people 143 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:50,360 Speaker 3: struggling with children who have died. And so I've matched 144 00:08:50,400 --> 00:08:54,439 Speaker 3: each story to one of the major Arkana tarot cards, 145 00:08:54,480 --> 00:08:58,280 Speaker 3: just a sort of the overriding theme. That's an idea 146 00:08:58,320 --> 00:09:03,560 Speaker 3: I got from Sylvia Plath, my literary mentor, and it 147 00:09:03,559 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 3: gives it a nice flow. If you are a tarot 148 00:09:07,160 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 3: card reader, you will see and understand how I read 149 00:09:11,200 --> 00:09:14,720 Speaker 3: the cards. Also helpful for people who are interested in 150 00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:17,600 Speaker 3: the taro. But if you are just looking for a 151 00:09:17,640 --> 00:09:21,360 Speaker 3: good story, you know you can. You don't have to 152 00:09:21,440 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 3: focus on the tarot details that it's not overloaded with those. 153 00:09:26,120 --> 00:09:29,000 Speaker 3: This is not a how to read tarot book, because 154 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:32,120 Speaker 3: there are way too many of those already. I wanted 155 00:09:32,320 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 3: real life application of taro. I wanted people to see 156 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 3: how taro is used in real life with real people. 157 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:42,800 Speaker 2: And you don't hold back to you. I mean, if 158 00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:47,240 Speaker 2: you see something strange and unusual and maybe even sad 159 00:09:47,320 --> 00:09:49,800 Speaker 2: and dangerous, you've let it go, don't you. 160 00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:54,880 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, And because these are my journals, George, I 161 00:09:54,920 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 3: really felt, you know, as I was coming to look 162 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:02,240 Speaker 3: at seriously publishing this, I really questioned, do I want 163 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:05,720 Speaker 3: to put all this stuff in there about me? But 164 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:09,559 Speaker 3: I decided, yeah, you know, let's be real and vulnerable. 165 00:10:09,760 --> 00:10:13,360 Speaker 3: And I am a believer that your heart has to 166 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:17,600 Speaker 3: be open to touch other people. And some people may 167 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:20,040 Speaker 3: laugh at me, you know, I talk about some visions 168 00:10:20,080 --> 00:10:23,960 Speaker 3: I had, I talk about, you know, as I said, 169 00:10:24,040 --> 00:10:29,200 Speaker 3: just some of my insecurities and just how I deal 170 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:33,120 Speaker 3: with this stuff. I think you'll come out of the 171 00:10:33,160 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 3: books knowing I am, you know, for one of Saint 172 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 3: Louis's top ten psychics, and all the labels they put 173 00:10:40,559 --> 00:10:45,439 Speaker 3: on me, I am very very human, and so yeah, 174 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:50,360 Speaker 3: there I have not held back maybe two embarrassing amounts 175 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:53,319 Speaker 3: of truth telling take. 176 00:10:53,200 --> 00:10:57,080 Speaker 2: Us through a hypothetical tarot card reading and just explain 177 00:10:57,200 --> 00:11:02,560 Speaker 2: to us visually what you're doing. Somebody comes to you 178 00:11:02,760 --> 00:11:03,559 Speaker 2: what happens. 179 00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:09,000 Speaker 3: So I usually say, first of all that Taro puts 180 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 3: Taro shows you the path that you're on. I am 181 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:17,480 Speaker 3: showing you what you already know on a higher subconscious level, 182 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:22,560 Speaker 3: and I am mirroring it back to you. So there 183 00:11:22,600 --> 00:11:26,520 Speaker 3: is a validation in taro. A lot of times people 184 00:11:27,120 --> 00:11:29,000 Speaker 3: think they know what's going to happen, or they may 185 00:11:29,040 --> 00:11:31,560 Speaker 3: have a lot of anxiety or a lot of excitement 186 00:11:31,760 --> 00:11:35,080 Speaker 3: or something, and the tarot will bring clarity to that. 187 00:11:35,440 --> 00:11:38,560 Speaker 3: But that said, if we see something coming up in 188 00:11:38,600 --> 00:11:42,559 Speaker 3: the future that you don't like, it is an opportunity 189 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:45,200 Speaker 3: to do it differently. So I'm never going to tell 190 00:11:45,280 --> 00:11:48,680 Speaker 3: someone that they're doomed. As I said, these are energies 191 00:11:48,679 --> 00:11:51,959 Speaker 3: and so we can say, okay, this hasn't happened yet, 192 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:55,959 Speaker 3: and let's let's change that energy. And so the tarot 193 00:11:55,960 --> 00:11:59,960 Speaker 3: card's very good for giving advice, very good for you know, 194 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:02,800 Speaker 3: I'm showing you the path that you're on if you 195 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:06,800 Speaker 3: don't do anything different. So usually for a new client, 196 00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:12,120 Speaker 3: I begin with a very traditional spread called the Celtic Cross, 197 00:12:12,679 --> 00:12:15,920 Speaker 3: and some people do it with ten cards. I learned 198 00:12:15,960 --> 00:12:20,800 Speaker 3: with eleven cards, and the Celtic Cross is a basic past, present, 199 00:12:20,880 --> 00:12:25,400 Speaker 3: and future with three core cards that are kind of 200 00:12:25,400 --> 00:12:28,920 Speaker 3: a snapshot of who you are today, and so it'll 201 00:12:28,960 --> 00:12:32,600 Speaker 3: talk about your core issues and the things you're struggling 202 00:12:32,679 --> 00:12:35,760 Speaker 3: with and how people see you. Those are those first 203 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:40,120 Speaker 3: three core cards. The card above at the very top 204 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:42,760 Speaker 3: of the spread is sort of where all your attention 205 00:12:42,920 --> 00:12:46,800 Speaker 3: and energy is going. The card below tends to be 206 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:51,320 Speaker 3: the present day. The card to the left the far 207 00:12:51,480 --> 00:12:54,840 Speaker 3: left is your recent past, and to the far right 208 00:12:55,520 --> 00:12:58,959 Speaker 3: is your near future, usually within the next six months. 209 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:02,160 Speaker 3: And then there are this column of cards that runs 210 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:05,360 Speaker 3: up the side. Some Tarot card readers will say that 211 00:13:05,360 --> 00:13:08,800 Speaker 3: that column is sort of the direction of your entire life. 212 00:13:09,440 --> 00:13:12,960 Speaker 3: I personally think that's ridiculous. I don't think any of 213 00:13:13,040 --> 00:13:16,720 Speaker 3: us have any sense of our entire lives. I read 214 00:13:16,760 --> 00:13:20,680 Speaker 3: that is the next two years, So my reading tends 215 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:24,280 Speaker 3: to be about two years out. Where you're going, where 216 00:13:24,320 --> 00:13:27,719 Speaker 3: your attention is, what might be tripping you up, what 217 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:31,400 Speaker 3: you might want to focus on to build and grow 218 00:13:31,960 --> 00:13:34,160 Speaker 3: and you know, and what you might want to change. 219 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:39,040 Speaker 2: Interesting now when you're with a person physically and they're 220 00:13:39,040 --> 00:13:41,720 Speaker 2: there with you, who picks the card? You were them? 221 00:13:42,360 --> 00:13:45,720 Speaker 3: If they're with me physically, I'll usually have them pick 222 00:13:46,200 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 3: and they have the added option of choosing what deck 223 00:13:50,480 --> 00:13:53,920 Speaker 3: to use. And I'm a little different from a lot 224 00:13:53,960 --> 00:13:56,280 Speaker 3: of Tarot card readers because I do like to offer 225 00:13:56,320 --> 00:13:59,720 Speaker 3: a selection of decks I have found and I have 226 00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:02,160 Speaker 3: hosted some of these on my Instagram. By the way, 227 00:14:02,760 --> 00:14:05,920 Speaker 3: I have found that people choose the exact right deck 228 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:10,240 Speaker 3: they need, and time and time again, cards will show 229 00:14:10,320 --> 00:14:14,520 Speaker 3: up that look exactly like them. So it's very interesting 230 00:14:14,640 --> 00:14:19,120 Speaker 3: that the artwork really calls to people and that they 231 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:23,320 Speaker 3: are right there in it, you know, And how does 232 00:14:23,360 --> 00:14:27,960 Speaker 3: that happen? That's part of the magic, right But I 233 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:32,920 Speaker 3: have so they choose the deck in person, over the 234 00:14:32,960 --> 00:14:35,720 Speaker 3: phone or video readings, and I do readings for people 235 00:14:35,800 --> 00:14:40,400 Speaker 3: all over the world, you know, lots of international callers 236 00:14:40,440 --> 00:14:43,520 Speaker 3: will will get me on WhatsApp and we'll do phone 237 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:48,200 Speaker 3: and video readings that way, and I will show them 238 00:14:48,240 --> 00:14:51,440 Speaker 3: the cards and I pull the cards for them. But 239 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:55,280 Speaker 3: some people like the phone because there's just a little 240 00:14:55,280 --> 00:14:59,320 Speaker 3: bit more anonymity. Some people feel very you know, they 241 00:14:59,320 --> 00:15:02,120 Speaker 3: don't want me to to see them, or you know, 242 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:06,720 Speaker 3: they feel just exposed for people who are very very 243 00:15:06,760 --> 00:15:11,840 Speaker 3: guarded on their privacy. I have regular email clients, and 244 00:15:12,200 --> 00:15:15,200 Speaker 3: email works a little bit differently. I just have them 245 00:15:15,240 --> 00:15:17,680 Speaker 3: send me all the questions that they want me to 246 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:21,160 Speaker 3: look at, and then I figure out what the time 247 00:15:21,280 --> 00:15:24,560 Speaker 3: is going to take and what that will cost. There's 248 00:15:24,600 --> 00:15:26,640 Speaker 3: a little extra time because of course I have to 249 00:15:26,680 --> 00:15:29,400 Speaker 3: type it all out, but I am a fast typist 250 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:34,880 Speaker 3: because I'm also a writer, so I you know, I 251 00:15:34,960 --> 00:15:38,840 Speaker 3: will give a price for that that's not just the 252 00:15:38,880 --> 00:15:42,880 Speaker 3: standard three dollars a minute that my my regular phone 253 00:15:43,160 --> 00:15:47,080 Speaker 3: and video clients and in personal clients pay. And then 254 00:15:47,160 --> 00:15:49,440 Speaker 3: I also come to events for parties, and that's a 255 00:15:49,480 --> 00:15:50,200 Speaker 3: whole other thing. 256 00:15:51,080 --> 00:15:53,640 Speaker 2: Interesting take now, when we do a phone calls next 257 00:15:53,680 --> 00:15:56,680 Speaker 2: hour and you do readings for our listeners, are you 258 00:15:56,720 --> 00:15:58,080 Speaker 2: going to pull like one card? 259 00:15:59,520 --> 00:16:02,720 Speaker 3: It depends on the question, so, you know, because I 260 00:16:02,720 --> 00:16:04,920 Speaker 3: imagine we're going to be keeping this moving and I'm 261 00:16:04,960 --> 00:16:07,480 Speaker 3: not going to be spending fifteen minutes on one person, 262 00:16:07,640 --> 00:16:11,560 Speaker 3: right a couple minutes reach, Yeah, I'll probably do. I'll 263 00:16:11,600 --> 00:16:14,760 Speaker 3: probably do one to three cards, depending on the depth 264 00:16:14,800 --> 00:16:17,520 Speaker 3: of the question. How much information I need. 265 00:16:18,120 --> 00:16:21,640 Speaker 2: Interesting, Now, if someone's Tarot cards reveal something negative, how 266 00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:23,000 Speaker 2: often do you temper it? 267 00:16:24,680 --> 00:16:28,720 Speaker 3: Almost never, because I find that that negative information is 268 00:16:28,760 --> 00:16:31,880 Speaker 3: something that they need to know. Before I start. I 269 00:16:32,000 --> 00:16:35,800 Speaker 3: usually have a short meditation which I've already done before 270 00:16:35,840 --> 00:16:39,400 Speaker 3: the show, where I ask for who I speak to 271 00:16:40,600 --> 00:16:44,680 Speaker 3: that I give the message they most need. So I 272 00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:47,640 Speaker 3: am going to trust that if that negativity comes up, 273 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:52,320 Speaker 3: they're ready to hear it and to change it. And 274 00:16:52,680 --> 00:16:58,680 Speaker 3: do they sometimes. You know, some people are really attached 275 00:16:58,840 --> 00:17:03,760 Speaker 3: to things like addictions or you know, or even feeling 276 00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:08,359 Speaker 3: like the victim, and that will keep you stuck. If 277 00:17:08,400 --> 00:17:12,840 Speaker 3: you see yourself as just going to suffer and have 278 00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:16,159 Speaker 3: hard times, you know, I can point that out, and 279 00:17:16,240 --> 00:17:18,919 Speaker 3: I can show you that you actually do have power 280 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:21,280 Speaker 3: in your life to shift out of that, and I 281 00:17:21,320 --> 00:17:23,359 Speaker 3: can show you how to shift out of it. But 282 00:17:23,440 --> 00:17:24,440 Speaker 3: you have to want to. 283 00:17:25,240 --> 00:17:27,719 Speaker 2: Interesting take. Have you ever had a client lose it 284 00:17:27,840 --> 00:17:28,439 Speaker 2: in front of you? 285 00:17:29,400 --> 00:17:34,680 Speaker 3: Oh? Yeah? Really more often, more often than not, drugs 286 00:17:34,720 --> 00:17:37,600 Speaker 3: or alcohol are involved. And I do like to say 287 00:17:37,600 --> 00:17:40,200 Speaker 3: there's a reason we call alcohol spirits. 288 00:17:40,280 --> 00:17:42,560 Speaker 2: They walk in that way. 289 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:46,840 Speaker 3: Yeah. It just you know the thing about especially a 290 00:17:46,880 --> 00:17:50,440 Speaker 3: drunk person. And this is famous for when I do parties, right, 291 00:17:50,480 --> 00:17:53,639 Speaker 3: and there's usually a lot of drinking, and so if 292 00:17:53,640 --> 00:17:56,919 Speaker 3: someone is very drunk, I've come to decide. You know, 293 00:17:57,080 --> 00:18:00,159 Speaker 3: usually I'll say that I prefer not to read for 294 00:18:00,240 --> 00:18:03,520 Speaker 3: someone who's very drunk. But if the host has bought 295 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:07,679 Speaker 3: me for the event and most people are drinking, it 296 00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:11,199 Speaker 3: can be a tough night for me. But you know, 297 00:18:11,240 --> 00:18:14,080 Speaker 3: they'll see something like the death card and they may 298 00:18:14,880 --> 00:18:18,159 Speaker 3: try and read it themselves and panic. And you know, 299 00:18:18,200 --> 00:18:21,399 Speaker 3: I remember one girl just wailing, thinking that her life 300 00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:24,119 Speaker 3: was over, and there was almost nothing I could do 301 00:18:24,200 --> 00:18:29,879 Speaker 3: to console her because she was just spiraling in her drunkenness. 302 00:18:31,040 --> 00:18:33,199 Speaker 3: The other thing about drunks, they tend to ask me 303 00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:34,400 Speaker 3: the same question. 304 00:18:34,160 --> 00:18:35,639 Speaker 2: Over an over and over again. 305 00:18:35,760 --> 00:18:40,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, holler at me, so it's not fun for me. 306 00:18:41,960 --> 00:18:45,240 Speaker 1: Listen to more Coast to Coast AM every weeknight at 307 00:18:45,280 --> 00:18:48,200 Speaker 1: one a m. Eastern and go to Coast to coastam 308 00:18:48,240 --> 00:18:49,320 Speaker 1: dot com for more