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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Welcome to another episode

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Speaker 1: of Reasonably Shity. I am just elf Ryan. What's up?

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Speaker 1: What's up? Everyone? This is Robin Dixon. Thank you for

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Speaker 1: being here. Yes, thank you, thank Yeah. Everybody should be

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Speaker 1: like nice and full and happy or mad. We're mad

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Speaker 1: because they got into a fight with their family, like

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Speaker 1: happy Thanksgiving exactly like I'm never coming back again. I

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Speaker 1: love those family moments. I wish I had some like that.

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Speaker 1: You know what, I actually have had my brother, um

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Speaker 1: years ago. He would always be good for a moment

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Speaker 1: like that. Would he likes storm out the house? Um?

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Speaker 1: Has he ever stormed out? I don't know if he

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Speaker 1: ever stormed out, but he would make things just very tense. Yes,

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Speaker 1: n you can cut that into a NiFe monny who

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Speaker 1: it would like carry over for like months, where like

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Speaker 1: he stopped talking to people. Oh I love that. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So as a matter of fact, I want to ask

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Speaker 1: the folks right now, send us your crazy current like

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Speaker 1: this just this past Thanksgiving, like family drama over Thanksgiving. Yes,

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Speaker 1: give us the t we want the story. So like

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Speaker 1: email that to us. Yes, that would be fun. Yes,

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Speaker 1: and I've had plenty of those with like Wan's family

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Speaker 1: when we just yeah, my sister has stormed out a

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Speaker 1: couple of times. But anyway, or normally and sometimes when

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Speaker 1: back when I was younger and I had a very

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Speaker 1: hot temper, it was me really oh yeah, but I

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Speaker 1: mean I would eat first, of course, a hot temper

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Speaker 1: I used to Yes, anyway, we're moving on anyway, what

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Speaker 1: I did, I used to have a very hot I

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Speaker 1: mean I would get angry very quickly and then just

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Speaker 1: like say what I had to say I had and

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Speaker 1: then I didn't have a filter. Now I have a filter.

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Speaker 1: I don't get that angry, and I'm a much better person. Yes,

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Speaker 1: Like at what age did this? These were much one?

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Speaker 1: So the twenties was like rip roaring yeah yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: yeah yeah. I feel like for me, well I think

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Speaker 1: I've said this, well, I don't know. Sometimes it's still here.

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Speaker 1: But when once I had kids, I really kind of

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Speaker 1: like calmed down. Yes, absolutely, I definitely calmed down. Yeah. Yeah, Okay,

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Speaker 1: what's your shady moment? Any shady moment? I mean, okay,

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Speaker 1: so I'm talking to you right now on like less

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Speaker 1: than one hour cumulative of sleep. We're working on fumess

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Speaker 1: fumes and it is because that one Dixon one what

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Speaker 1: did he do? Has no consideration for people sleeping? So okay,

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Speaker 1: he's in his basketball season. His team is going on

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Speaker 1: a road trip, right, so they're on a two game

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Speaker 1: road trip, which means they're gonna be gone you know, one, two, three,

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Speaker 1: probably four, four or five days, right, So you know

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Speaker 1: he's he always waits till the last minute to pack.

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Speaker 1: So he comes into the bedroom midnight. Oh, I gotta pack,

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Speaker 1: but I'm tired. I'm just gonna lay down for a second. Okay,

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Speaker 1: is that like? Is that? Is that a second code

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Speaker 1: for something? That code for robbing? You pack my clothes? No, no,

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Speaker 1: I can't do it. Like he's so particular, like so particular,

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Speaker 1: so I can't help him there. But he but and

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Speaker 1: keep this in mind, he had to leave the house

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Speaker 1: by six am because they were flying out this morning. Right, Okay,

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Speaker 1: so twelve you haven't packed and you're laying down in

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Speaker 1: the bed. Not good for a few minutes with you, Okay,

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Speaker 1: So he sets he sets an alarm, Okay for like

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Speaker 1: forty five minutes. I don't yeah, I don't even know

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Speaker 1: what the time was. So, you know, a doze off

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Speaker 1: and what feels like a few minutes later he was

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Speaker 1: the alarmed that he's not turned it off. So I'm like,

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Speaker 1: turn your alarm off, or I'm like, get up. He's like,

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Speaker 1: all right, just give me a little more, give me

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Speaker 1: a little more time whatever. A few minutes later, he

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Speaker 1: doesn't get up. He doesn't get up. I swear the

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Speaker 1: whole entire night. His alarm went up, like he snoozed

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Speaker 1: his alarm the entire night we'd have been fighting. Yes,

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, so, I'm like, can you turn your alarm?

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Speaker 1: Can you get up? Turn your alarm off? He's he

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Speaker 1: has a nerve to say, Robin, I'm cool, I said,

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Speaker 1: but I'm nuts. Yes, you're literally sleeping through this freaking alarm.

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Speaker 1: Not I'm cool, Like I'm fine, Yes, okay, you don't

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Speaker 1: not the only one in the room. Sorry, I said,

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Speaker 1: But I'm not. What then that's right, Actually that's actually

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Speaker 1: that's actually absurd. But we love so we won't like trash.

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Speaker 1: It's insane, he said. He had the nerve so so so,

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Speaker 1: and I'm the type like I can't just fall back

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Speaker 1: So it's like I will finally fall back to sleep

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Speaker 1: and then and I'm like, y'all get I would have

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Speaker 1: like once he does get up and starts packing, he's

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Speaker 1: all talking and has the light on, and you know,

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Speaker 1: the light fine, I put I put a little eye

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Speaker 1: mask on that ship was annoying, Like I don't really

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Speaker 1: That was uncomfortable. So I'm all tossing and turning it.

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Speaker 1: It's just it's just a mask. It's a mask. Then

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Speaker 1: on top of that, right, so his um convoluted story.

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Speaker 1: But my brother in law and the baby, we're here.

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Speaker 1: Are they still here? No? No um in January? Right,

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Speaker 1: But he spent the night because my brother in law

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Speaker 1: was on the coaching staff and they were both going

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Speaker 1: to the you know, the airport together. But his wife

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Speaker 1: was on a trip, not coming back till tonight. So

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Speaker 1: where's the bank? So then I had to wake up

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Speaker 1: extra early to get the baby ready for daycare. Okay,

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Speaker 1: this is this is a mess. Okay, so basically you

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Speaker 1: had thirty minutes of sleep, okay, per the baby, wand

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Speaker 1: Dixon and your brother in law. This is a which

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Speaker 1: is And I'm like the whole night, I'm like, oh

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Speaker 1: my gosh, i gotta work tomorrow. We're going to podcast.

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Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna know what I'm saying. We got right,

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Speaker 1: so right now is disclaimer. Whatever comes out of Robin's mouth,

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Speaker 1: just blame it on the lack of sleep. Okay, I'm

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Speaker 1: present or extra cranky, yes, blame it on that. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So let me give you my reasonably shading moment of

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Speaker 1: the week. Okay, Okay, so you don't have three girls.

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Speaker 1: They're in high school. This week is spirit week, right,

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Speaker 1: so every day they have to dress up at something.

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Speaker 1: So first day, they two days ago, and they participate. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: full at the whole school, full on participate because it's

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Speaker 1: like all girls. They all get into it. I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: so she's like, okay, making sure they're all into She's

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Speaker 1: first day was be your favorite celebrity. Grace decided she

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Speaker 1: Housewives of Potomach. Okay, fine, she was made okay, and

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Speaker 1: I thought that was so cute, right untold. She started

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Speaker 1: talking and she was like right on the street and uh, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's right, that's that's what I'm talking about. Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: It was so shady and so horrible. I was so

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Speaker 1: angry with her. I was like, okay, I've had it,

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Speaker 1: Like after twenty minutes. I was like, I've had a knife,

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Speaker 1: and leave my house and stop it. And so like

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Speaker 1: I'm sure all day long, and then she she would

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Speaker 1: send me pictures of herself with like her friends all

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Speaker 1: head all days. She was so excited. And I was like,

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Speaker 1: one more time, we're gonna fight up in here. You

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Speaker 1: see what you did. You did it, I did it.

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Speaker 1: You did it. That's hilarius. Okay, wait, so did she

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Speaker 1: look like you kind of yeah, yeah, kind of sorry.

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Speaker 1: but she was. It was actually nice because she was

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Speaker 1: that thing got she got so do you think she

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Speaker 1: was she saying that at school to her friends. I'm

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Speaker 1: sure I am. She said all of her teachers loved it,

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Speaker 1: to do it, but she was super shady anyway. But

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Speaker 1: we have a super exciting special guest to day, y'all

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Speaker 1: get ready, get ready to get ready to get rud

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Speaker 1: Who is it? Okay? So, like I said, we have

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Speaker 1: this super special sing guest on this show, y'all. Okay,

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Speaker 1: let me give him his his first his credentials. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so he's a more house grad. He is um a

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Speaker 1: pastor extraordinaire. Actually, he's the best pastor preacher on the planet,

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Speaker 1: on the planet, on the planet. Put all your money

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Speaker 1: on it. I will put all my money on it.

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Speaker 1: He is. He's actually the senior pastor of New Birth

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Speaker 1: Missionary Baptist Church in Atlanta, Georgia. He's the only guy

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Speaker 1: I've ever married, the only one, Yes, the only one.

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Speaker 1: And he is the father to all three of my kids.

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Speaker 1: Do you say he will continue to be the only

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Speaker 1: but he is. He is the father to all three

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Speaker 1: of my kids. Y'all know him as passed to Jamal Harrison, right,

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Speaker 1: he is in the bel ding. What is going on?

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Speaker 1: Past up? Oh girl robbing answers. I made a promise

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Speaker 1: to her about some ice chips. She'll explain. Oh what

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Speaker 1: is that with the ice chips? He said, when we

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Speaker 1: As I'm laying in the bed like an invalid, he's

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Speaker 1: feeding me like I don't know if that's a good

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Speaker 1: is that a compliment? And what is that that's a

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Speaker 1: high compliment. Yes, that means you are He is with

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Speaker 1: you forever, forever. Want Look, let me tell you what

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Speaker 1: Want asked me the other day. It's a little graphic.

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Speaker 1: He said, are you going to wipe my butts? So

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Speaker 1: let me say this to you, Robert. Let me say

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Speaker 1: to this, do you Robin? I wouldn't even have my

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Speaker 1: feelings hurt to answer to that question. I already know

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Speaker 1: the answer. That nurse just in five second said, well,

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Speaker 1: you're a white man. I mean right, Jamal white mane

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Speaker 1: you got the ice chip? You just that's that's your limit. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So we have some first, we have some get to

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Speaker 1: know you rapid fire questions. Are you ready? I'm ready?

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Speaker 1: Tupac Are Biggie Big Fantasia or Jennifer Hudson Fantasia, Kobe

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Speaker 1: Bryant or Michael Jordan's I gotta go to Michael Christmas

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Speaker 1: or Thanksgiving? Christmas? Atlanta or Baltimore? What you got? Who's listening?

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Speaker 1: Everyone's listening. Baltimore in Atlanta are listening. Yes, yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: with Atlanta. Okay, you're in Atlanta? Okay? Reasonable or shady?

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Speaker 1: Mm hmm? Reasonable? Okay, you're lying? Do you agree with that.

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't agree with that because I just

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Speaker 1: want y'all to know I've known this man for a

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Speaker 1: very long time. Half of my shadiness I get from

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Speaker 1: think of one major blow up that we've had with

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Speaker 1: the girls present. And I'm just thankful on the God

423
00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:49,240
Speaker 1: on uh that you have been mindful of my presence

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00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 1: and how it is that you have navigated co parenting

425
00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:56,879
Speaker 1: long distance, which is a whole different all the wax,

426
00:25:57,240 --> 00:25:59,920
Speaker 1: but it's been great and so every day as mother's

427
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:06,080
Speaker 1: and that's really why I'm nice to you. Okay, I

428
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:08,320
Speaker 1: appreciate that. And this is for people that are going

429
00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:11,879
Speaker 1: through a divorce right now, I um said to Jamal,

430
00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:14,560
Speaker 1: because Jamal travels a lot. You know, I don't know

431
00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:16,560
Speaker 1: what your your calendar and your schedule is now, but

432
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:19,200
Speaker 1: at the time Jamal would be booked a year out

433
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:21,879
Speaker 1: for you know, going around the world. He's he's a

434
00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:24,280
Speaker 1: preacher international. He wants me to say that he's a

435
00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:29,679
Speaker 1: globe trotting preacher. Um. And I knew because of his

436
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:33,639
Speaker 1: schedule that he couldn't have a consistent schedule with the

437
00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:35,480
Speaker 1: girl like he we couldn't do every other weekend or

438
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:39,360
Speaker 1: anything like that. So I said to him, look, anytime

439
00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:42,800
Speaker 1: it is has something, anytime there is a moment that

440
00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:45,680
Speaker 1: has something to do with the girls, if it's a vacation,

441
00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:50,879
Speaker 1: if it's a dinner, if it's or whatever, you are invited, okay, um.

442
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:53,720
Speaker 1: And so I always left the window open for him

443
00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:56,800
Speaker 1: to jump in whenever he could, and and he does.

444
00:26:56,880 --> 00:27:00,000
Speaker 1: He jumps in all the time. That's beautiful. I mean, unfortunately,

445
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:04,880
Speaker 1: so many relationships are they can't get along and they

446
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:07,560
Speaker 1: can't look at the bigger picture, which is the children

447
00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:10,160
Speaker 1: when they go through a divorce. And so I definitely

448
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:12,400
Speaker 1: think you all are an example for so many people

449
00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:14,919
Speaker 1: in this world, because people hold on the bitterness and

450
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:17,879
Speaker 1: anger and it's like, you know, it's just like you

451
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:20,040
Speaker 1: just gotta let that go and look at the big picture,

452
00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:22,320
Speaker 1: which is the kids. I love my kids more than

453
00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:24,439
Speaker 1: I will ever be mad at that. Man. And now

454
00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:27,680
Speaker 1: I'm not mad at him, no more so anty way. Okay,

455
00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:34,280
Speaker 1: so a couple of things, oh he said this week.

456
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:41,240
Speaker 1: You know, Jamal is good about not bragging on himself,

457
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:44,239
Speaker 1: but there's a little bragg I want to do you

458
00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:47,520
Speaker 1: feed the community. When the COVID first started, new Birth

459
00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:50,560
Speaker 1: was very intentional about feeding the community. You have fed

460
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 1: how many I'm saying it wrong, You have done how many?

461
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:58,480
Speaker 1: How many? So in the in the pandemic, we started

462
00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:01,600
Speaker 1: giving out grow trees that saying. And uh, just a

463
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 1: month ago we hit one million families that we give

464
00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 1: groceries to in the last few years. And it is

465
00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:14,680
Speaker 1: great and it is embarrassing to know that food insecurity

466
00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:19,119
Speaker 1: is that dire. And we're just talking about one metropolitan area.

467
00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:25,400
Speaker 1: For Thanksgiving, we're given our five thousand turkeys. Uh. While

468
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 1: that sounds good in one way, in another way, it's

469
00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:31,800
Speaker 1: saying that it has to be done. Yeah. Now we

470
00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:38,960
Speaker 1: said one million groceries two years, families, one million families,

471
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:44,080
Speaker 1: one million bags of groceries in two years. Yeah, that's

472
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 1: fantast that's I remember when I was when we were

473
00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:48,720
Speaker 1: married and I was the first lady of the Parami Temple.

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00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:55,600
Speaker 1: Um the Women's Ministry that look, you know what, I

475
00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:59,800
Speaker 1: know my next question, the Women's ministry would decided tomorrow

476
00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 1: has his hands over his face, right, it's covering his face.

477
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:06,200
Speaker 1: We decided to feed as many families as we could

478
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:08,720
Speaker 1: and literally go to their house, knock on the door

479
00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:11,360
Speaker 1: and give them the food. So I had like a

480
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:13,680
Speaker 1: bus I had security. I was pregnant the time with

481
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:16,840
Speaker 1: one of them kids I have and um, and I

482
00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:18,440
Speaker 1: was going knocking on doors. So it's like I was

483
00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:21,000
Speaker 1: in the hood of Baltimore knocking on doors. You did

484
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:25,000
Speaker 1: not know what was gonna open the door. All kinds

485
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:29,200
Speaker 1: of things was opening the door as I was. Yes,

486
00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 1: I mean obviously we were blessing them, but it was

487
00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:35,000
Speaker 1: such a blessing to me to be able to give

488
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:37,600
Speaker 1: them what the Church gave them. And for me, like

489
00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:39,840
Speaker 1: they would invite me in. It would be like a

490
00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:42,440
Speaker 1: weed infestive smelling house, and they would invite me in,

491
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:44,080
Speaker 1: and I would pray with him a little bit and

492
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 1: I would say Happy Thanksgiving. But we made sure that

493
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 1: we gave them food from Thanksgiving to Christmas. Wow, so right,

494
00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:53,480
Speaker 1: enough food for for to last at least a month.

495
00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:56,440
Speaker 1: So yes, as that's what I did as first lady

496
00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 1: at a pome that it's fantastic. So look, speaking of

497
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:03,160
Speaker 1: Gazelle being first lady at Empowerment Temple, tell us, jamalro

498
00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:09,640
Speaker 1: how was gall as a first lady? There's a pause.

499
00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:16,120
Speaker 1: No, no no, no, So Gazelle was not a Mother Teresa

500
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:19,800
Speaker 1: first lady. Hit her head. She was a Michelle Obama

501
00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:28,200
Speaker 1: first lady. Yes, yes, she was coming in waving Abama

502
00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:33,400
Speaker 1: before I was not waving to the it she was.

503
00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:38,200
Speaker 1: She was the Black Princess due. She did a great job. Okay, well,

504
00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 1: while we're on that that note, she did our first

505
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:46,320
Speaker 1: women's conference. Yes, um, she did a whole lot of mentoring.

506
00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:49,719
Speaker 1: A lot of the young girls came to her from

507
00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:52,600
Speaker 1: mentoring a lot of the young ladies who had come

508
00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:57,080
Speaker 1: to Baltimore to go to either Copping or Morgan really

509
00:30:57,360 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 1: pulled on her. She wrote a whole lot of a

510
00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:06,880
Speaker 1: k letters half for the Aks in Baltimore, letters from Gazelle. Listen,

511
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 1: I was the bomb, okay even back then. Now now

512
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:12,840
Speaker 1: I want to say, there's some things that I missed

513
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:16,480
Speaker 1: not being married to Jamal Bran Okay, okay, which is

514
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:19,000
Speaker 1: one of the things I used to complain about. I

515
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:23,000
Speaker 1: think I now message. Okay, So you know, like I said,

516
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:25,640
Speaker 1: Jamal travels a lot, so he would have to get

517
00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:28,520
Speaker 1: his his suits and his ties and his shirts together

518
00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:32,560
Speaker 1: before he would go on his trips. So he would

519
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:35,080
Speaker 1: always be like, wake me up out of my sleep.

520
00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:37,640
Speaker 1: Now you want to be sleep, and when you sleep,

521
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:40,040
Speaker 1: leave me alone. But he would wake me up, turn

522
00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:44,480
Speaker 1: on all the lights. He would say, Gazelle, does this

523
00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:47,000
Speaker 1: suit go with this time? But does this shirt go

524
00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 1: with this tie? In this suit? Okay, wait a minute,

525
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 1: wait a minute, wait a minute, let me get three

526
00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:55,640
Speaker 1: other ties. Okay, these three ties go with this five shirts.

527
00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:57,880
Speaker 1: I mean it was like, so you missed this. Now

528
00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:01,720
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, Robert, she's as given you half her store.

529
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:05,920
Speaker 1: What she misses that I was picking her clothes out,

530
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:11,280
Speaker 1: That's what she misses. When I was picking her clothes

531
00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:16,760
Speaker 1: out robbing. She wasn't in no blog only time when

532
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 1: I don't pick it out. Oh my god. Okay, the

533
00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:22,960
Speaker 1: same we brought us off robing. I need you to

534
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:26,440
Speaker 1: be robbing. You gotta be up with was my first

535
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 1: stylist of truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth, robbing.

536
00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:35,160
Speaker 1: When I first met you, where did I meet you.

537
00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:40,920
Speaker 1: You met me at the where did I first meet you? Rob? Yes?

538
00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 1: It as Sacks, yes, true, yes, Sacks yes, yes. So

539
00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 1: she does not miss picking out my ties. She misses

540
00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:53,920
Speaker 1: me dressing her. That's what she's not going to give

541
00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:58,600
Speaker 1: confession to. Okay, this is this is a breaking moment. Yes,

542
00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:01,960
Speaker 1: Jamal Bryant was my first style list really, yes, okay

543
00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:08,479
Speaker 1: my last right and you're only my only yes. Okay.

544
00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:11,240
Speaker 1: See that was one of my One of my questions

545
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:13,080
Speaker 1: for Jamaal was how does he go about picking his

546
00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:16,200
Speaker 1: outfits out? Because you know, you look nice and sharp now,

547
00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:19,160
Speaker 1: but I've seen sometimes you have, like, you know, a

548
00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 1: pink tie and a pink silky shirt. Talking about them

549
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 1: Detroit Player suits you had, Okay, you had some plenty

550
00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:28,200
Speaker 1: of Detroit Player suits. Do you do you have a tailor,

551
00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:31,840
Speaker 1: and you're just like, give me one and every color,

552
00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 1: give me everything, in every color, in every print, what

553
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:41,239
Speaker 1: the shade is coming. It's a work in progress. So

554
00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 1: when I was at U Detroit, uh, that's when I

555
00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 1: started wearing gagos So when I met Gazelle, I had

556
00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:53,000
Speaker 1: different color gators for every suit. Gazelle threw my gauges out,

557
00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:56,840
Speaker 1: so I've tried to purge. I've tried to purge that

558
00:33:56,920 --> 00:34:01,560
Speaker 1: parton and walk backwards. So it's a working progress, yes,

559
00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:04,360
Speaker 1: But I mean they were like, they were like, it's

560
00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:06,920
Speaker 1: like a whole green suit with the matching green Gators

561
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:10,959
Speaker 1: orange suits with that matching. He had this one white leather.

562
00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:17,880
Speaker 1: They weren't ready. It's definitely not ready. I don't know

563
00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 1: you were killing him, but they weren't ready. White leather,

564
00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:23,000
Speaker 1: trench coade. I couldn't wait for him to go on

565
00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:25,400
Speaker 1: a trip leather. I do that thing in the trash.

566
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:27,880
Speaker 1: I said, I can't do this. It was like you

567
00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:34,520
Speaker 1: ain't never no, no, no, I was ahead of my time.

568
00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:42,560
Speaker 1: White leather cause, um okay, So where is that? I

569
00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:45,840
Speaker 1: threw it in the trash? Can Jamal Bryant's It's gone? Okay?

570
00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:49,880
Speaker 1: That thing probably costs fourteen th dollars. It is gone.

571
00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:54,279
Speaker 1: I couldn't take it. Um But no, I feel like

572
00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:57,120
Speaker 1: you have come a long way and I love you.

573
00:34:57,200 --> 00:35:00,200
Speaker 1: Do you do rock the dashiki situation? Sometimes that's see

574
00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:03,480
Speaker 1: you on the Instagram? Um? So, so do you like dashiki?

575
00:35:03,560 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 1: A suits? Get you a man that could do both?

576
00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:09,040
Speaker 1: Did you a man that can do both? Is that

577
00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:11,719
Speaker 1: what he said. But to answer your question, he has

578
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:15,040
Speaker 1: tailors upon Taylors upon Taylors. Oh yeah, yeah, okay, I

579
00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:18,799
Speaker 1: believe that. Yes see, I'm not a really good cook,

580
00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:21,200
Speaker 1: so I'm not. I don't I didn't really wine and

581
00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:25,120
Speaker 1: Dinna jamal by my home cooking. Right, But what is

582
00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:30,360
Speaker 1: your favorite part of robbing? Let me tell you that robbing, robbing.

583
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:33,400
Speaker 1: I gotta tell you this. You know what our first

584
00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:37,000
Speaker 1: fight was in marriage? What was that? I have no idea.

585
00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:44,000
Speaker 1: When are you going to the supermarket? You didn't know

586
00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:54,160
Speaker 1: before robbing she was coming back with chips and started

587
00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:56,799
Speaker 1: getting the home cooked meals to the girls. Was oh

588
00:35:56,840 --> 00:36:02,600
Speaker 1: my god. Okay, but yeah, in my defense, in my defense,

589
00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:05,319
Speaker 1: amount you like to go to restaurants to eat, you

590
00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:07,719
Speaker 1: like to do that, but when we're sitting in the

591
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:10,960
Speaker 1: same house, you gotta go down the state. Robin, this

592
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:14,360
Speaker 1: is two thousand one, no uber eating. No, there was

593
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:18,120
Speaker 1: no brother. This is the one just got off a

594
00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:22,960
Speaker 1: motor rolling two way pages something. Okay, this was actually

595
00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:25,480
Speaker 1: gonna be my last question to you, and and we

596
00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 1: might finish it just for what he just said. But anyway, okay,

597
00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:30,520
Speaker 1: so what was the best part about being married to Chisel,

598
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:33,600
Speaker 1: because you're the only person on this planet that has

599
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:44,279
Speaker 1: been married to me. There's a reason there would be

600
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 1: a whole another show. Give it to you. No, no, no,

601
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:52,960
Speaker 1: just Zell pushed me to be better. And she's the

602
00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:56,400
Speaker 1: only one out out of my parents who has spoken

603
00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:59,680
Speaker 1: into my life to really push me to go to

604
00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:03,000
Speaker 1: another the level I preached UM at a conference at

605
00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:05,520
Speaker 1: my home church one day and I thought I killed

606
00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:08,879
Speaker 1: that John. I mean, I thought Star Wars The Force

607
00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:11,840
Speaker 1: was with and Giselle. We got in a car and

608
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:17,440
Speaker 1: Giselle was like, you have really stopped growing? Do you

609
00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:20,640
Speaker 1: really think this the best that you can do? I

610
00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 1: was high level offended, but it really seriously but didn't

611
00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:28,880
Speaker 1: really go to another point. And then when uh, this

612
00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:33,160
Speaker 1: herschel Walker video went virable, I saw Giselle maybe a

613
00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:35,719
Speaker 1: week after that, and she said, this is your vein.

614
00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 1: Why did you leave that? You need to stay in

615
00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:41,840
Speaker 1: what it is that you're good at and be your best.

616
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:46,560
Speaker 1: And a lot of people, uh don't really have authentic

617
00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:49,360
Speaker 1: friends that can push you to be better. Uh. And

618
00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:53,400
Speaker 1: so the thing that I value about Giselle, She's always

619
00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:56,520
Speaker 1: pushed me to be better, even if she's pushing me

620
00:37:56,600 --> 00:38:01,000
Speaker 1: over the cliff without a parachute. Okay, we're gonna leave

621
00:38:01,040 --> 00:38:02,960
Speaker 1: it at that. That was such a nice way to end.

622
00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:05,680
Speaker 1: I want everybody know Jamal Bryant is one of my

623
00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:08,719
Speaker 1: favorite people on earth. Oh that's nice. Yes, one of

624
00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:13,440
Speaker 1: my favorite people on earth. Don't do that because not

625
00:38:13,640 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 1: one of not one of Don't that. You're not the

626
00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:19,439
Speaker 1: I have that. Don't do that. Don't do that because

627
00:38:19,560 --> 00:38:23,600
Speaker 1: rapping is sitting now, you're okay, I have I have

628
00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:30,640
Speaker 1: Grace Angel and they're my favorite people. Jali, it's okay.

629
00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:33,520
Speaker 1: I can say that you you are in the top five. Okay,

630
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:38,440
Speaker 1: a favorite people. But I have three kids, I have

631
00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:42,360
Speaker 1: three kids, three kids. I have two parents. I have

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Speaker 1: three kids. I have two parents. Yes, so you you

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Speaker 1: beat out one parent. Yeah, good jeez. Anyway, thank you

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Speaker 1: for letting me come on the show. Yes, and we're

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Speaker 1: gonna send you a reasonably sad shady sweatshirt. We would

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Speaker 1: like to you for you to wear it Sunday morning church.

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Speaker 1: We want to see us represented as you preach the

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Speaker 1: Gospel of the Lord. Wouldn't that be beautiful? I'm aware

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Speaker 1: from Bible study. Okay, thanks, Okay, on that now we

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Speaker 1: will we will let you go. We know that you're

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Speaker 1: very busy. Love you to death, not Rob, but I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna speak for myself. Love you to death, Jamal Bryant.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Jamal, it's been a pleasure. It has been

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Speaker 1: a pleasure. We appreciate your work in the community and

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Speaker 1: we do miss you up. That was actually that was

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Speaker 1: my last question. So Jamal did um he took me

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Speaker 1: around the world, like we went to Egypt with Greece,

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Speaker 1: we went to here, Africa, we went to Why didn't

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Speaker 1: you take me to Wakanda? Like what in our relationship

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Speaker 1: didn't allow you to take me to Wakanda. I couldn't

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Speaker 1: find the flight. Had I found the flight showed you

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Speaker 1: would have been there. Okay, that's gonna be our next trip.

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Speaker 1: He's taking me to get some I got to get

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Speaker 1: my vibranika, all right, and goodbye. Thank you, Jamal. Oh

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Speaker 1: my gosh, that's your ma. Brian is a man. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I would say, um, you definitely probably get about thirty

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Speaker 1: you shadiness from him, no forty. Yes, he's extremely shady. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: but but people don't know how shady he is. Right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's funny. He's a I was going to talk about

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Speaker 1: this while we were on Jamal reads like a book

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Speaker 1: a week, so he's very smart. He's very well read.

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Speaker 1: He loves using his big words. But then he also

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Speaker 1: that makes for a great pastor. Yeah, you know, because

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Speaker 1: you want to You don't want to sit there and

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Speaker 1: just be bored. Gonna be entertained as well. This is

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Speaker 1: true to get the word and be entertained. So that's awesome.

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Speaker 1: So that was But I appreciate him taking time out

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Speaker 1: of his busy day to talk to us, and I

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Speaker 1: appreciate his perspective on haters, like the haters are not

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Speaker 1: coming and burn the blogger steaks in our yard. It's

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Speaker 1: just a blogger. If all we got to be worried

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Speaker 1: about is a blogger, we are good. That's bob right,

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Speaker 1: It's funny. But anyway, I don't never forget to live

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Speaker 1: your life either reasonable or shady. We're both reasonably shady.

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