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Speaker 1: listening to the voice, Come on dig me NW one

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Speaker 1: and only. Steve Harvey got a radio show. Man, oh man,

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Speaker 1: oh man. You know what y'all. I mean, really, the

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Speaker 1: goodness of God is overwhelming if you think about it,

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Speaker 1: through this moment. First of all, this too shall pass.

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Speaker 1: But also secondly, remember man, ain't everything else that you've

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Speaker 1: gone through that seems so insurmountable at the time, didn't

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Speaker 1: of them. Oh please, No, I've been guilty of it

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Speaker 1: But it's the trick of the enemy. The enemy tricks

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Speaker 1: But by the grace of God. Boy, that's my testimony today.

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Speaker 1: That's how I feel like starting this show off this morning.

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Speaker 1: Can you come down here and put your minor and

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Speaker 1: thus making the ones who do a lot more important.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, all right, thank you for that life lesson.

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Speaker 1: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, the

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, player, player, No, I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what you mean. Player out. No, just

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Speaker 1: just gotta be a funeral. This This is this is church.

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Speaker 1: You know, that don't make sense? Who's this again? I mean,

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Speaker 1: I mean, how do you how do you relate to this?

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Speaker 1: What kind of that? But that's what Choppa was. That's

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Speaker 1: won't y'all I get all of them to the family.

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Speaker 1: Y'all call the family. Y'all killing that yourself? Man, I won't.

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Speaker 1: bottom and let him know. I Chopper water what kind

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Speaker 1: This is Chopper you talking about man. Bring y'all to

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Speaker 1: We want to have a Chopper at the club. Well

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Speaker 1: we didn't know him all man, y'all full of well

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Speaker 1: What this about Chopper though? And then I'm writing about Chopper.

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Speaker 1: You'll break Chopper to that club? Y'all tripping, man, I

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Speaker 1: moving tall. If y'all want to clays in front of

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Speaker 1: the town of y'all call the family, y'all selling you this? Look,

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Speaker 1: I got one more thing I want to say. I

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Speaker 1: don't even know you well what what? What this is? Nephew,

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Speaker 1: Timmy from the Steve hobb And Morning Show. You just

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Speaker 1: This one's from Zoe and Louisiana. Zoe writes, my mother

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Speaker 1: has been married to my stepfather for seven years, but

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Speaker 1: That is a question. Well, I don't think you should.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you saw it. What business is it of yours?

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Speaker 1: I'm just trying to figure it out. But this is

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Speaker 1: seven years. You walked in and you saw her in

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Speaker 1: Mama just catching up, that's all, That's what's what. But

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Speaker 1: this is life. All is what you ain't gonna ever do.

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Speaker 1: I remember one time my brothers was talking to me.

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Speaker 1: And what he tripping forth? Is he that big of

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Speaker 1: I ain't he one one man? They smell so good.

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Speaker 1: I didn't judge you. I thought you was vegan. You

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Ella in Kansas. Ella says, I'm a

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Speaker 1: Every time I huh, go ahead, every time I turn around,

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Speaker 1: What please, hell down? Summer down? Yeah, yeah, too much,

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Speaker 1: he don't. It's too much. Go allen. You can stop

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Speaker 1: y'all key, y'all get you know. Look, look, look, look, look,

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Speaker 1: you know you're old. You need some activities. Well you

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Speaker 1: know what he ain't for you? Then gone back. You

425
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Speaker 1: like being single, you're sixty six, go ahead, and he's

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Speaker 1: sixty six. He finn't get this right though. She just

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Speaker 1: wants him to simmer down. Load and five ain't no

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Speaker 1: simming down. So that's it. Leave him. She can't handle him.

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Speaker 1: She wanted him to simmer down. Yeah, but I'm but

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you not now, because I got a

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Speaker 1: lot of friends, and I know you don't had many

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Speaker 1: discussions about these pills. Listen to me. You build up

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Speaker 1: a tolerance. If you keep on, you're gonna build up

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Speaker 1: a tolerance. What used to be one peal gonna have

435
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Speaker 1: to be two pell And if you're getting the prescription,

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Speaker 1: feel appeals his expensive there's two thousand dollar appeals now, cheriance. Yeah,

437
00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:12,879
Speaker 1: he gonna keep on. He's gonna buy himself now, he

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Speaker 1: gonna mess around. He gonna buy himself out the situation.

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Speaker 1: That's an expensive hap price his ass right on out.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, you got it. Hang on in there, ella, man,

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Speaker 1: he got it out all right. Here we go Shandersia

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00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:41,040
Speaker 1: and Lexington says, I'm twenty seven years old and I'm

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Speaker 1: dating a man that just got married. He was a

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Speaker 1: single dad when we met, and he never told me

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Speaker 1: he was getting married. The wife moved in with him,

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Speaker 1: and he introduced me as the babysitter. I love his kid,

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Speaker 1: and I think I can remain professional and keep the job.

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00:27:57,119 --> 00:28:02,320
Speaker 1: Should I quit or stay? Girl, It's no way you're

449
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Speaker 1: gonna be able to keep this up. You think that

450
00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:08,320
Speaker 1: woman is a fool. You think she ain't gonna know.

451
00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:12,800
Speaker 1: You think the dude you're dating is that brilliant? His

452
00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:19,959
Speaker 1: dumbass talking about you the babysitter. What what the babysitter?

453
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Speaker 1: She gonna get tired and looking at the babysitter, look

454
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Speaker 1: like you. You gonna get tired of being the babysitter.

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00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:34,840
Speaker 1: He gonna leave something somewhere. This is this is a

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Speaker 1: disaster waiting to happen. This kid don't say something, Mama

457
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 1: when you ain't here, Daddy be coming back home. They

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00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:52,080
Speaker 1: being the dead room, all right, thank you, feel coming

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00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:53,680
Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour. We got some

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Speaker 1: entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening, okay.

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Speaker 1: So t I went off um after comedian Lauren Knight

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00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:10,360
Speaker 1: made a joke about the sexual assault allegations. Lauren said

463
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Speaker 1: that she clapped back because TI heckled her over and over.

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Speaker 1: Take a listen to TI first, and then take a

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Speaker 1: listen to Lauren's explanation was it is nothing to George before. No, No,

466
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Speaker 1: I stand on what I said. If you're a comedian

467
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Speaker 1: eings up for jokes about me all day and I've

468
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:43,120
Speaker 1: been laughing at some of it, nothing's off limits, nobody's special,

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Speaker 1: and please don't walk upon me again. I'm mad, dangerous.

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00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:47,760
Speaker 1: This is not rat beef. I am not little flip.

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Speaker 1: I ain't got no problem with TiO. Okay, what's going

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Speaker 1: on in the commented world, and I ain't time. Everybody's

473
00:29:57,480 --> 00:30:04,479
Speaker 1: so sensitive, little tense out there? What's going on? King

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Speaker 1: of Comedy? Yeah, well, wow, here's my take on it

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Speaker 1: right here. I did understand that t I was heckling

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Speaker 1: the girl. That's what that's that's not even that's what

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Speaker 1: she said. That's not what we do in comedy. Never

478
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Speaker 1: in my entire career been heckled by a comedian that

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00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:31,720
Speaker 1: was sitting in the audience. I've never had a comedian

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Speaker 1: heckle me. But that's but but you can't bring that

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Speaker 1: element to the game because we don't. We really don't

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Speaker 1: do beef very very nine. And you see two comedians

483
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Speaker 1: going at it, but we very rarely ever do beef

484
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Speaker 1: just any wrapped we we we we can't do that. Uh. Secondly,

485
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Speaker 1: to go up on the stage snatch the mic from

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Speaker 1: the girl all is here, that's just that's just not

487
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Speaker 1: how it's done. Man. You know the girl on stage,

488
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Speaker 1: You didn't got up out your seat. You you going

489
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Speaker 1: back and forth with her. And I could tell by

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Speaker 1: the reaction of the audience this was a very uncool moment.

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Speaker 1: There was no last going back and forth, and so

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Speaker 1: I just think it was an uncool last moment, a

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00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:25,120
Speaker 1: really really uncool last moment for curs coming. I see,

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Speaker 1: is it true what she said? Nothing's awful limits urge, nephew,

495
00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:35,160
Speaker 1: I mean, you're not special? Is that true what she said?

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00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:38,760
Speaker 1: As a comedian, Steve Guys, it depends on the comedian.

497
00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:42,920
Speaker 1: To our comedian Sam Kennison, nothing was off limits, including

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Speaker 1: the Lord God Almighty. I mean, there's some cats that

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00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:48,960
Speaker 1: do believe that whatever they do is right. There are

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Speaker 1: limitations for me. You have a line, Timmy, you got

501
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Speaker 1: a line. You guys got do y'all have a line? Always? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I mean my line is the edge of that stage

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Speaker 1: and you've been walking answer. That's when my landing did

504
00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:05,160
Speaker 1: not walk up. I just meant in your routine out

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Speaker 1: of yes, I'm sorry. You can't talk to ain't management.

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Speaker 1: You can't talk to I am that's whe all. I

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Speaker 1: am on our sure wheel. I am ain't manage. Oh no,

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Speaker 1: you know what like I mean, I think I think

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Speaker 1: he was out of line on this one. He really was.

510
00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:30,560
Speaker 1: He was out of line on this one. You may

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Speaker 1: not have liked what the girl said, right, And is

512
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Speaker 1: it changing? Is it starting to change? Of course, political

513
00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:45,920
Speaker 1: correctness has changed comedy forever now now is you can't

514
00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 1: talk about nothing I don't want you to talk about.

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Speaker 1: So that's what it's about. Oh huh, I see. But

516
00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:57,280
Speaker 1: the number one the number one thing that never got bridge.

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00:32:57,400 --> 00:33:02,480
Speaker 1: Comedians always respected the art form of each other. If

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Speaker 1: that's what you're gonna talk about, that's on you. I've

519
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:09,800
Speaker 1: had the poor comedians all stage behind the stage and say, hey,

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00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:14,800
Speaker 1: look if you continue down that line of joking with

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00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:18,960
Speaker 1: me and you can't work together, so their content to

522
00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 1: give them a yeah, because if if I'm the headliner

523
00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:25,600
Speaker 1: and you on my show and you out there in

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Speaker 1: front of me doing some stuff that's that's not and

525
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Speaker 1: I mean real vile, real vile. I'll come and speak

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Speaker 1: to you and give you a chance to fix it.

527
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Speaker 1: But if you tell me this how I work, then

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Speaker 1: you won't be working with me no more. Because when

529
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Speaker 1: you get after the audience as mad as hell, ah

530
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Speaker 1: dog dog, I've had an audience. Tell me I'm talking

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Speaker 1: about when I was major. I'm talking about after the

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Speaker 1: Kings of Comedy, still selling out arenas Steve. If you

533
00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:59,360
Speaker 1: wasn't coming out here next we went home, changes the

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Speaker 1: mood and everything, Yeah, yeah, absolutely, all right, let's get

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Speaker 1: to this next story. Um, Jada Pinkett Smith. If you

536
00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:13,320
Speaker 1: guys haven't heard Jada Pinkett Smith, UM doesn't think it

537
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:16,239
Speaker 1: was necessary for Will to get physical in order to

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Speaker 1: defend her at the Oscars, and she says they're both

539
00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:23,239
Speaker 1: in agreement. That will overreacted. Now. This is according to

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00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:26,759
Speaker 1: US Weekly. A source told the magazine she is not

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Speaker 1: one of those women who needs protecting talking about Jada now, um,

542
00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:33,600
Speaker 1: and he didn't need to do what he did. She

543
00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:37,360
Speaker 1: didn't need protecting. She's not a wallflower, the source continued.

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00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:41,080
Speaker 1: She's a strong woman, an opinionated woman, and she can

545
00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:45,440
Speaker 1: fight her own battles, but she will stand by him.

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00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:57,799
Speaker 1: Excuse all of it, girl, Pause, Jada, I don't need protecting.

547
00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:02,040
Speaker 1: I'm a strong woman. I'm not a wall flower. I'm

548
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:05,560
Speaker 1: an opinionated woman. I'm an opinion But at the Oscars,

549
00:35:05,800 --> 00:35:09,800
Speaker 1: none of that was on display. All I saw was

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00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:15,320
Speaker 1: the delicate wallflower with an expression on her face that says,

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00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:19,440
Speaker 1: I need and want somebody to do something for me.

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00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:23,920
Speaker 1: That's what it said there. And when it came on stage,

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00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:26,279
Speaker 1: all the lights because he was laughing at first two.

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00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:29,080
Speaker 1: He looked over there and saw that her feelings were hurt. Well,

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Speaker 1: all right, all right, coming up, thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Coming up, we'll have more of a Steve Harvey Morning Show,

557
00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:41,680
Speaker 1: and we'll talk about Paula Patton frying chicken. Right, after

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Speaker 1: this what you're listening to? Show? Actress Paula Patton recently

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00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:52,440
Speaker 1: shared her mom's fried chicken recipe on Instagram. Oh lord,

560
00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:55,360
Speaker 1: and in case you missed it, in the video, Paula

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Speaker 1: makes a couple of questionable moves. First of all, she

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00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:03,400
Speaker 1: didn't wash the long enough. Then she put the unseasoned

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Speaker 1: chicken in the flower, and then she sees in the

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Speaker 1: chicken while it was frying in the grease. Wow season grease. Yeah,

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00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 1: you also talk about mit s. Surely one other bad

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Speaker 1: cook does not release you from me. You've never fried chicken? Really,

567
00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:39,759
Speaker 1: no chicken? All right? Now? Listen to this. Reactions to

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Speaker 1: her video were so bad that Paula had to respond,

569
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Speaker 1: take a listen. I just wanted to respond and say, listen,

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Speaker 1: I get it. It might look crazy. It is the

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Speaker 1: way we do it. My mom taught me. It is

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Speaker 1: my mom's recipe. I do believe in washing the chicken.

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Speaker 1: And maybe where the video was edited, it looks like

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Speaker 1: I don't wash it long enough. But I definitely do

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Speaker 1: because I feed it to myself and I fitted to

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00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:03,279
Speaker 1: his whole school that that's I made. I made it

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00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:06,439
Speaker 1: for his school. Um. But anyways, it's all good because

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00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:08,799
Speaker 1: everybody's got their own way of making things. And I'll

579
00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:15,040
Speaker 1: take suggestions. We're gonna give you some pad Hold hold on,

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00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:17,879
Speaker 1: I'm looking at the video right now. Let me ask

581
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Speaker 1: you a question. The chicken that's on the stove when

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Speaker 1: uh huh, when didn't start frying in the grease? Just

583
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:33,799
Speaker 1: getting seasoned? Yeah? Right, she was gonna get the point

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Speaker 1: to me if the grease wasn't hot enough to fry

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00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:39,760
Speaker 1: the chickenish you it ain't. As soon as you dropped

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00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:43,359
Speaker 1: that chicken in, you got damn did get back? Yeah? Yeah,

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00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:48,200
Speaker 1: even I know that. How many years did Robbin eat

588
00:37:48,360 --> 00:37:52,200
Speaker 1: chicken like this? But you noticed they she did say

589
00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:53,920
Speaker 1: no about the kids at the school. They didn't They

590
00:37:53,920 --> 00:37:59,359
Speaker 1: didn't get back a good report. The kids didn't say

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00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:05,000
Speaker 1: M's recipe. That's how she does it. So hey, well, Paula,

592
00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:08,840
Speaker 1: we got the season the chickenfour We put it in

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Speaker 1: the flower. Yeah, I like Paula. Patt need to call

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00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:18,680
Speaker 1: Paula flowers. The flower has some seasoning in it. No,

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00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:23,040
Speaker 1: some seasoning can even go in the flower. It's just

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00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:30,280
Speaker 1: that's the whole concept between behind shaking bake. Some season

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00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:33,440
Speaker 1: is in the flower. Yeah, but that's not what had

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00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:38,280
Speaker 1: happened right here. Yeah, he's standing over that grease sprinkling.

599
00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:40,959
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you right now, don't try that, y'all.

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Speaker 1: What you saw do that? That's not how you coming up.

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Speaker 1: Coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour, we're

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Speaker 1: gonna check Steve's voicemail eight seven seven twenty nine Steed,

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Speaker 1: right after this you're listening show. All right, guys, it

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00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:00,600
Speaker 1: is timing how to check Steve's voicemail. If you would

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00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:03,040
Speaker 1: like to leave Steve a boy'smail, call him eight seven

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Speaker 1: seven twenty nine Steed eight seven seven twenty nine, Steven,

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00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:08,759
Speaker 1: you could hear your message on the air with us.

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Speaker 1: All right, Stevie, you're ready to check your messages. Let's

609
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Speaker 1: go to Tennessee and we can talk to we can

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Speaker 1: hear from Shanda. Hello, Steve, this is Senda from smarta

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Speaker 1: Tennessee Colin to let you know I saw your nephew

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00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:24,960
Speaker 1: this weekend and he was great. I think he would

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00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:27,400
Speaker 1: be very proud of it. Hope y'all have a wonderful

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Speaker 1: week and so I listening. Bye bye, oh Nashville, Nashew, Tennessee. Sorry,

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00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 1: what'd you do this weekend? Though I did Nashville, Tennessee.

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00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:43,120
Speaker 1: I did Zany's comics. Okay, it like you said, it

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00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:46,160
Speaker 1: was off the chain of Steve. I'm trying to tell

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Speaker 1: you your boys a b siut here, man, I'm not

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Speaker 1: lying to you. Man, roll up on you one day now,

620
00:39:51,920 --> 00:39:57,279
Speaker 1: keep saying please roll up? You want to open up

621
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Speaker 1: in this week? Hey, don let me spine after after

622
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Speaker 1: I open. What is your ass gonna do? I'm just okay,

623
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Speaker 1: I'm just trying to let you know. Now you know

624
00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:14,080
Speaker 1: the country game has changed. What's been changed? I mean

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Speaker 1: is who I'm take a joke? Open all right, Nashville.

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Speaker 1: This is from Nashville. That's opening cold. At the same time,

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Speaker 1: let's hear from Henry from Nashville. Steve. Hey, Steve, this

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Speaker 1: is Henry from Nashville. Man, your nephew showed out here.

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Speaker 1: I'm on April first. I mean, this dude imitated you

630
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Speaker 1: to the fullest. Man. He is hilarious. Hey, God, bless you,

631
00:40:44,040 --> 00:40:47,000
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. You've been a mentor in my life, even

632
00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:49,920
Speaker 1: I haven't met you in person. So keep up the

633
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:52,440
Speaker 1: good work you and the crew. Thank you all right

634
00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:55,560
Speaker 1: here me thank you once again. A large part I'm

635
00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:58,440
Speaker 1: starting to understand what's going on out here with him

636
00:40:58,520 --> 00:41:04,799
Speaker 1: now killing he imitated you to the footes he being

637
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:09,080
Speaker 1: your nephew as one way as one way to have

638
00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:16,120
Speaker 1: good ass show, as one damn way to have a

639
00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:22,279
Speaker 1: good ass show. Be me. I'm good. I'm gonna walk

640
00:41:22,360 --> 00:41:24,040
Speaker 1: up and catch his ass say it at one time,

641
00:41:24,200 --> 00:41:26,439
Speaker 1: walk out that while doing it. I wish you would.

642
00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:29,480
Speaker 1: We've all seen it. I wish you would. He nailed it. Steve,

643
00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:33,000
Speaker 1: all right, this call is from New York City. Come

644
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:35,759
Speaker 1: on in, Steve and the crew. I am calling to

645
00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:38,840
Speaker 1: say thank you, Steve, thank you for all you have

646
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:41,360
Speaker 1: given to us. I think God for giving you the

647
00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:44,480
Speaker 1: talents and gifts to have brought so many of us

648
00:41:44,520 --> 00:41:47,960
Speaker 1: so much Jordan entertainment over the years. I've learned so

649
00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:51,600
Speaker 1: much from listening to you, and I've been a fan

650
00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:54,759
Speaker 1: of yours since the beginning of your career. But I

651
00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:57,919
Speaker 1: love the way that you love on your family, how

652
00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 1: you helped so many people, and I truly believe that

653
00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:04,799
Speaker 1: you do understand the principle and the old adage that's

654
00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:07,640
Speaker 1: to who much is given, much is required. I just

655
00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:11,120
Speaker 1: love you guys, period. But people doing what you're doing,

656
00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:18,279
Speaker 1: God blast in Jesus name a man a man all

657
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:23,799
Speaker 1: the credit, glory and honor to God. I am who

658
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:26,760
Speaker 1: I am, but by the grace of God, let us continue.

659
00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:29,960
Speaker 1: Shirley all right, birthday shout up? Call it with a

660
00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:33,279
Speaker 1: birthday shout out. It stays. However, it is Pabrickan from

661
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:39,080
Speaker 1: mc calm, Mississippi. I'm Lunny Robinson's first cousin. My birthday

662
00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:42,359
Speaker 1: is April to seventh, and I'll be a seventy two

663
00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:46,880
Speaker 1: year old diva. I really enjoy your aspirational messages in

664
00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:49,320
Speaker 1: the morning, and sometimes I want to give you a

665
00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:51,640
Speaker 1: pil because you are really thought of. But I just

666
00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:53,800
Speaker 1: love it and I love the line so that you

667
00:42:53,920 --> 00:42:57,799
Speaker 1: provide and make God blessing. I'm Pabricking from a Calm, Mississippi,

668
00:42:58,120 --> 00:43:01,760
Speaker 1: and I'll be seventy two year old diva April to seventh.

669
00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:05,399
Speaker 1: So which my happy birthday, Goydbye. What's her name? Miss

670
00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:10,480
Speaker 1: sau some about his first cousin, though from missus who

671
00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:15,840
Speaker 1: headed Lonnie Robertson. I see I wrote that I couldn't

672
00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:17,960
Speaker 1: get her name. I know she is seventy to you

673
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:21,880
Speaker 1: old divas out of mccollo, Mississippi. So happy, happy, birthday

674
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:25,840
Speaker 1: to you everything, But who the hell is Lonny Robbishly

675
00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:31,720
Speaker 1: my first cousin, and Lonny Lonnie was born before nineteen seventy.

676
00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:40,720
Speaker 1: I'm telling Nni Lonnie all right in Lonnie Cage range

677
00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:44,760
Speaker 1: your criminals from Cleveland. Thank you, thank you to our callers.

678
00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:46,719
Speaker 1: Coming up next, it is a nephew with the frank

679
00:43:46,760 --> 00:43:51,280
Speaker 1: phone call for today. Right after this, you're listening Steve

680
00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:55,640
Speaker 1: Hardy Morning Show. Coming up at the top of the hour.

681
00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:58,800
Speaker 1: Right about four minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for today,

682
00:43:58,920 --> 00:44:03,600
Speaker 1: and the subject is is stotting Thursday? Got that thought

683
00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 1: love Thursday? Yes, we'll get into that in just a bit,

684
00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:11,160
Speaker 1: because right now it is time for the nephew and

685
00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:14,120
Speaker 1: today's praying phone call. What you got for us? Neft today?

686
00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:19,239
Speaker 1: I'm gonna try to be stupid. That's like, yeah, you

687
00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:22,920
Speaker 1: will sit like breathing. Yah, y'all. Hey, let me warn you.

688
00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:26,640
Speaker 1: Buckle up, y'all, Finn to see something. Go ahead time,

689
00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:34,359
Speaker 1: I'm stupid, Okay, gonna stride. It's bad with me. Let

690
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:36,880
Speaker 1: me know what you think, but I'm gonna give it

691
00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:39,400
Speaker 1: a shot. Here it is this right here is Sarah

692
00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:45,600
Speaker 1: get mother, Sarah Get mother got dog, if you would

693
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:52,000
Speaker 1: h Yeah, Roger, can I speak to Roger? Yes, Roger,

694
00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:54,560
Speaker 1: Hey this Calvin Man. How you doing. I go to

695
00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:57,920
Speaker 1: the same church y'all go too, Okay. I got your

696
00:44:58,000 --> 00:44:59,640
Speaker 1: number from one of the guys at the church. Man.

697
00:44:59,880 --> 00:45:01,399
Speaker 1: They told me that if I wanted to talk to y'all,

698
00:45:01,600 --> 00:45:03,200
Speaker 1: I could reach out to you or whatever. How you

699
00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:05,440
Speaker 1: doing today? I'm good, man, I'm good. I can help

700
00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:08,040
Speaker 1: your your wife, man. Does she I'm not trying to

701
00:45:08,040 --> 00:45:10,480
Speaker 1: be disrespectful anything, but she seems to be real fit?

702
00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:12,799
Speaker 1: Does she? Does she work out all the time? Yeah?

703
00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:14,759
Speaker 1: She go to January once in a while. Bro. Yeah,

704
00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:16,959
Speaker 1: who who is this? Bro? Like I said, I didn't,

705
00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 1: Calvin Man, we go to the same church. Listen, me

706
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:22,160
Speaker 1: and my wife been trying for a long time, man,

707
00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:26,000
Speaker 1: to actually have some kids. And to be honest with you,

708
00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:29,000
Speaker 1: Roger Man, it just ain't happening, Dog. I mean, we've

709
00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:32,040
Speaker 1: been trying and trying. But what I'm trying to do

710
00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:35,120
Speaker 1: now is just find another type of way to make

711
00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:38,880
Speaker 1: this happen. Now, you say your wife is in good condition, right,

712
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:42,200
Speaker 1: My wife is in good condition. Brother. What did she

713
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:44,120
Speaker 1: got to do with your trying to have a baby.

714
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:47,840
Speaker 1: She You know, now, y'all already got kids, don't you.

715
00:45:47,960 --> 00:45:50,080
Speaker 1: Y'all got like from what the brother the Church told me,

716
00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:51,920
Speaker 1: y'all got three kids right there? We got three. I

717
00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:55,759
Speaker 1: got two boys in the girl. Okay, here's what I'm

718
00:45:55,760 --> 00:45:58,480
Speaker 1: trying to do, man, I was hoping that I could

719
00:45:58,560 --> 00:46:02,920
Speaker 1: find somebody, a female that would be a good seagant

720
00:46:03,080 --> 00:46:06,719
Speaker 1: mother or what you know. What I'm saying is like

721
00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:09,239
Speaker 1: because my wife, I mean, you know, we want to

722
00:46:09,280 --> 00:46:12,120
Speaker 1: have kids, man, we want to have hold on, brother,

723
00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:15,160
Speaker 1: you just said you're looking for a seragant mother. And

724
00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:18,239
Speaker 1: the brother the church told you to call me, well, no, no, no,

725
00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:21,640
Speaker 1: anybody tell me to actually call you. I asked them

726
00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:24,239
Speaker 1: about you and your wife. You know, I asked him

727
00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:26,680
Speaker 1: for your phone number so I can actually call you myself. Man,

728
00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:29,000
Speaker 1: wait a minute, So you've been you've been I and

729
00:46:29,120 --> 00:46:32,600
Speaker 1: my wife. No, no, no, no, no, no, I ain't been.

730
00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:35,680
Speaker 1: You're looking at it wrong. Listen. What I was saying

731
00:46:35,680 --> 00:46:39,080
Speaker 1: is that your wife just seems like a healthy, healthy person.

732
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:41,560
Speaker 1: I want to be able to have a healthy child. Man,

733
00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:45,439
Speaker 1: I really do, man, that me and my wife. We listen,

734
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:48,839
Speaker 1: you called me about my wife and you want her

735
00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:50,839
Speaker 1: to be a Seragant mother for you. I don't even

736
00:46:50,840 --> 00:46:53,719
Speaker 1: know while be on the phone. Brother, here's the real deal, man,

737
00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:57,200
Speaker 1: me and my wife we can't have kids. We tried

738
00:46:57,320 --> 00:47:01,000
Speaker 1: and tried and tried, and you know, biologically, we've just

739
00:47:01,160 --> 00:47:03,080
Speaker 1: been going through it and going through it man. And

740
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:06,400
Speaker 1: I was just you know, I've seen your wife. She healthy.

741
00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:08,880
Speaker 1: I see y'all a church all the time. And I

742
00:47:09,080 --> 00:47:12,240
Speaker 1: was just like, reach it out, man, maybe somebody wouldn't

743
00:47:12,239 --> 00:47:15,840
Speaker 1: mind being the Saragan mother for for for me and

744
00:47:15,920 --> 00:47:18,760
Speaker 1: my wife so we can have a child. I'll figured

745
00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:24,040
Speaker 1: it Saragan mother, I mean dog. Hold on them, brothers.

746
00:47:24,480 --> 00:47:26,520
Speaker 1: You calling me to see if my wife can be

747
00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:29,360
Speaker 1: a Seragan mother to your child. Dog. And I know

748
00:47:29,520 --> 00:47:33,839
Speaker 1: it's crazy. It's crazy and and I think you lost

749
00:47:33,880 --> 00:47:36,839
Speaker 1: your mind. Brother. Out of all the members in the church,

750
00:47:36,880 --> 00:47:40,680
Speaker 1: you're calling me to get my wife to have your baby. Dog.

751
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:44,120
Speaker 1: I know it sounds crazy, man, I don't know, but

752
00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:47,920
Speaker 1: I ignorant. Brother. I'm sorry you sound ignorant. You man.

753
00:47:47,960 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 1: There's so many place to go at doctor baby. I

754
00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:51,839
Speaker 1: can take you down to the County Court. I can

755
00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:53,840
Speaker 1: show your kids needed a doctor. Next, you can go

756
00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:56,560
Speaker 1: to Africa like like like all the restaurants, people gonna

757
00:47:56,560 --> 00:47:59,319
Speaker 1: find your baby. You're gonna call me and my wife.

758
00:47:59,400 --> 00:48:02,080
Speaker 1: It's twenty as the members in this church. You know

759
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:06,040
Speaker 1: how stupid you say? Brother? No, brother, brother, man, listen, man,

760
00:48:06,160 --> 00:48:08,920
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to come across like that. Man, how

761
00:48:08,960 --> 00:48:10,680
Speaker 1: are you trying to come across? Brother? You didn't done

762
00:48:10,719 --> 00:48:12,640
Speaker 1: it to hear me out, man, I don't want you

763
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:16,320
Speaker 1: to go ahead, brother, go ahead, man, Okay, we're looking

764
00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:18,640
Speaker 1: for a Sarah grand mother. We look, we've seen you

765
00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:21,400
Speaker 1: your wife, and we thought she'd be a great Sarah

766
00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:23,480
Speaker 1: good mother. And I know it sounds crazy for me

767
00:48:23,560 --> 00:48:25,400
Speaker 1: to pick you out of all the people that go

768
00:48:25,480 --> 00:48:28,280
Speaker 1: to the church. I understand that, man, I do. But listen,

769
00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:31,640
Speaker 1: we would love for your wife to be the seagant mother.

770
00:48:31,960 --> 00:48:35,279
Speaker 1: And we're willing to pay for this. Man, But listen

771
00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:37,840
Speaker 1: to them if you don't mind. We don't want to

772
00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:40,879
Speaker 1: do this with no test tubes and all that way.

773
00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:44,399
Speaker 1: They mixed my seed with her with with with her egg.

774
00:48:45,080 --> 00:48:48,600
Speaker 1: We want to do this naturally, war war war, you

775
00:48:50,040 --> 00:48:53,680
Speaker 1: just said. Man, you gotta understand a real man want

776
00:48:53,719 --> 00:48:55,880
Speaker 1: to do. I want to do and realistically, you know

777
00:48:55,920 --> 00:48:59,880
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I'm just saying, are you telling me

778
00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:02,200
Speaker 1: that you want to have sex with my wife? But

779
00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:04,000
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, you know you don't you want

780
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:06,839
Speaker 1: to lose all my Christianity right now? Brother? You want

781
00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:08,480
Speaker 1: to have a baby the real way, though, you know

782
00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:10,360
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I don't give a damn having this

783
00:49:10,440 --> 00:49:12,080
Speaker 1: fake way. You tell me you want to lay down

784
00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:15,520
Speaker 1: in a ball my wife, But dum you already got

785
00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:18,000
Speaker 1: three kids. Think about the people that can't have it.

786
00:49:18,719 --> 00:49:21,719
Speaker 1: Doctor baby, Man, take your darn. Ain't gonna doctor damn

787
00:49:21,760 --> 00:49:24,880
Speaker 1: baby because you didn't go sit down, psychiatric problem. I

788
00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:26,680
Speaker 1: don't want to have your baby. Do you know what

789
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:30,600
Speaker 1: you sound like? Don't crazy? I know it sounds crazy. Man.

790
00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:34,560
Speaker 1: I don't you get my number? Man? It means you

791
00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:36,800
Speaker 1: get my number. I got your number for one of

792
00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:38,680
Speaker 1: the brothers at the church. Now listen, I'm gonna just

793
00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:40,800
Speaker 1: be real with you like a man. I wanted to

794
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:43,040
Speaker 1: come at you first and talk to you like a

795
00:49:43,160 --> 00:49:46,279
Speaker 1: man and see you know if you was cool with

796
00:49:46,440 --> 00:49:49,719
Speaker 1: the proposition. But look, come Sunday, I'm gonna go to

797
00:49:49,800 --> 00:49:52,239
Speaker 1: your wife and just talked on what I'm just gonna go.

798
00:49:52,320 --> 00:49:53,920
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna talk to your wife and see if

799
00:49:53,960 --> 00:49:56,520
Speaker 1: you lost your mind. I told you to answer no

800
00:49:56,920 --> 00:49:58,879
Speaker 1: naysam me gonna go around me and ask which Ry'm

801
00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:01,719
Speaker 1: gonna do. Talk to my wife? You call my right now?

802
00:50:02,920 --> 00:50:04,839
Speaker 1: You called my wife. I'm gonna tell you what's really

803
00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:07,560
Speaker 1: gonna happen. You call my wife wife next Sunday. I

804
00:50:07,680 --> 00:50:11,360
Speaker 1: never didn't go through this. I'm talking to her next Sunday,

805
00:50:11,480 --> 00:50:13,680
Speaker 1: Next Sunday. I'm an whoop ya. You're ain't gonna do

806
00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:16,280
Speaker 1: nothing to me. I'm an whoop your man and my wife?

807
00:50:16,440 --> 00:50:19,000
Speaker 1: Who the time for time too? You ain't You ain't

808
00:50:19,040 --> 00:50:21,360
Speaker 1: gonna stand in the middle of this. I'm having the

809
00:50:21,400 --> 00:50:24,360
Speaker 1: middle of this. Low man, you talk to my Wife's

810
00:50:24,400 --> 00:50:26,359
Speaker 1: next thing you want to I got one more thing

811
00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:28,200
Speaker 1: I want to say to you. Man, Is you listening

812
00:50:28,239 --> 00:50:31,120
Speaker 1: to me? Say? What the you gotta say? You can

813
00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:34,879
Speaker 1: get off my phone. This is nephew tim Me from

814
00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:38,080
Speaker 1: the Steve Hobby Morning Show. You just got pranked by

815
00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:49,080
Speaker 1: your homeboy? What this is? Who this is this? Listen?

816
00:50:49,280 --> 00:50:51,680
Speaker 1: Who was this man? This nephew tim Me man from

817
00:50:51,719 --> 00:50:55,400
Speaker 1: the Steve Hobby Morning Show. Your home boy got me

818
00:50:55,560 --> 00:51:01,319
Speaker 1: to frank phone. Call you man, I'm over here, man,

819
00:51:01,920 --> 00:51:08,719
Speaker 1: my head is spinning. Man, got me, brother, I'm ready

820
00:51:08,760 --> 00:51:12,440
Speaker 1: to fight, brother. I got one more thing, as big

821
00:51:12,520 --> 00:51:16,040
Speaker 1: dog man, what is the baddest I'm talking about the

822
00:51:16,200 --> 00:51:20,120
Speaker 1: baddest radio show in the plan Man to Steve Harvey

823
00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:23,319
Speaker 1: Morning show Man, y'all got me this morning? Man? Got

824
00:51:23,400 --> 00:51:28,080
Speaker 1: me man, I think I was. I think I did.

825
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:36,640
Speaker 1: We agree? As the Flying Colors, Yeah, I stupid, your stupid. Yeah,

826
00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:44,000
Speaker 1: as the old Church Swung Go. He never faired me. Yeah,

827
00:51:47,160 --> 00:51:57,640
Speaker 1: whoa whoa can't turn round? He never faired me. Yeah

828
00:51:58,800 --> 00:52:02,360
Speaker 1: that's you. When you try to be stupid, you have

829
00:52:02,760 --> 00:52:08,840
Speaker 1: never failed. Yeah, all right, the doors are open. That

830
00:52:09,000 --> 00:52:14,400
Speaker 1: might be one today Charlotte, North Carolina. Five shows. You

831
00:52:14,480 --> 00:52:17,799
Speaker 1: want to see stupid at his best see stay, Come

832
00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:20,799
Speaker 1: on and get your ticket. There's by fifty something tickets left.

833
00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:27,280
Speaker 1: Two Fridays. Who sadday? Ain't just one Sunday? Pretty much gone,

834
00:52:27,760 --> 00:52:32,600
Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. Stupid is on the Wayne Darling, North

835
00:52:32,840 --> 00:52:37,720
Speaker 1: Carolina gone. In Spanish, that's audio. Yeah, after the Hamilton

836
00:52:37,760 --> 00:52:40,080
Speaker 1: a year in town. Come hang out with your boss.

837
00:52:40,480 --> 00:52:44,160
Speaker 1: Come on, Tasia, I'm on my way. My tag can

838
00:52:44,239 --> 00:52:46,800
Speaker 1: prosing ticket. Just just let that be see. I know

839
00:52:47,120 --> 00:52:52,080
Speaker 1: Paula Pat can't all right? Thank you, nephew with everything

840
00:52:52,239 --> 00:52:57,799
Speaker 1: is Strawberry letter up next subject dotting Thursday. We'll get

841
00:52:57,880 --> 00:53:02,239
Speaker 1: into it right after this. You'reless. Steve Harvey Morning Show

842
00:53:03,600 --> 00:53:06,200
Speaker 1: time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need

843
00:53:06,239 --> 00:53:10,279
Speaker 1: advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more. Please

844
00:53:10,320 --> 00:53:13,040
Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry letter to Steve Harvey FM and click

845
00:53:13,160 --> 00:53:16,719
Speaker 1: submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live

846
00:53:16,880 --> 00:53:18,600
Speaker 1: on the air, just like we're going to read this

847
00:53:18,719 --> 00:53:21,279
Speaker 1: one right here, right now, and you never know, it

848
00:53:21,320 --> 00:53:24,279
Speaker 1: could be yours. It could be yours. Buckle up and

849
00:53:24,360 --> 00:53:25,920
Speaker 1: hold on tight. We got it for you here. It

850
00:53:26,080 --> 00:53:31,799
Speaker 1: is Strawberry Letter, subject dotting Thursday. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm

851
00:53:31,840 --> 00:53:34,400
Speaker 1: a forty eight year old married woman and I've been

852
00:53:34,480 --> 00:53:37,520
Speaker 1: married since I was twenty two years old. My husband

853
00:53:37,640 --> 00:53:40,040
Speaker 1: is three years my senior, and he swept me off

854
00:53:40,120 --> 00:53:43,080
Speaker 1: my feet right after I finished college. I had three

855
00:53:43,160 --> 00:53:46,280
Speaker 1: kids for him and they are grown. We traveled together

856
00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:49,680
Speaker 1: and we enjoy life as much as possible, but I

857
00:53:49,760 --> 00:53:52,000
Speaker 1: wish my husband was a little more involved in the

858
00:53:52,120 --> 00:53:55,520
Speaker 1: church than he is. We had our wild times and

859
00:53:55,719 --> 00:53:58,120
Speaker 1: I even smoked weed a few times after I had

860
00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:01,440
Speaker 1: my last child. There's nothing left for me in the streets,

861
00:54:01,480 --> 00:54:04,400
Speaker 1: and I'm a homebody now. I want my husband at

862
00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:07,280
Speaker 1: home with me, but he's still out in the streets.

863
00:54:07,440 --> 00:54:10,720
Speaker 1: And I call it Thursday, and I call Thursdays stotting

864
00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:14,120
Speaker 1: Thursday because he bar hops with his friends that he's

865
00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:17,640
Speaker 1: known since high school every Thursday night. I thought we

866
00:54:17,719 --> 00:54:20,239
Speaker 1: were on the same spiritual journey for the past three

867
00:54:20,320 --> 00:54:22,640
Speaker 1: or four years, and I had high hopes that he

868
00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:25,400
Speaker 1: would stop going to the club, but he has not.

869
00:54:25,920 --> 00:54:28,560
Speaker 1: He has no problem going to Bible study one night,

870
00:54:29,000 --> 00:54:32,080
Speaker 1: then drinking and smoking hookah in the club the next night.

871
00:54:32,400 --> 00:54:35,200
Speaker 1: He doesn't even come home from work on Thursdays. He

872
00:54:35,360 --> 00:54:38,120
Speaker 1: heads over to Happy Hour and eats dinner, then he

873
00:54:38,200 --> 00:54:40,680
Speaker 1: goes to a ghetto bar and lounge, where he stays

874
00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:43,960
Speaker 1: until it closes. He comes in smelling like sweat and

875
00:54:44,080 --> 00:54:47,040
Speaker 1: weed mixed with cologne, and he climbs in the bed

876
00:54:47,120 --> 00:54:49,000
Speaker 1: with me and I have to fight him off of

877
00:54:49,120 --> 00:54:51,759
Speaker 1: me until he falls asleep. I told him, if he

878
00:54:51,880 --> 00:54:54,759
Speaker 1: keeps choosing the club over me and his faith, he

879
00:54:54,800 --> 00:54:58,239
Speaker 1: should stop pretending to be saved. I begged him to

880
00:54:58,400 --> 00:55:00,960
Speaker 1: go to counseling at church with me. But he doesn't

881
00:55:00,960 --> 00:55:03,520
Speaker 1: think he's got a problem. I am so worried that

882
00:55:03,640 --> 00:55:07,200
Speaker 1: a female thought might tempt him into doing something he's

883
00:55:07,239 --> 00:55:09,920
Speaker 1: not ready for. I feel like my husband and my

884
00:55:10,120 --> 00:55:13,400
Speaker 1: marriage might be slipping away. How can I keep my

885
00:55:13,560 --> 00:55:17,600
Speaker 1: husband out of the streets. Well, I mean, quite frankly,

886
00:55:17,760 --> 00:55:19,840
Speaker 1: I don't know that you can keep him out of

887
00:55:19,880 --> 00:55:22,719
Speaker 1: the streets. I mean, he has to want that, and

888
00:55:22,920 --> 00:55:25,520
Speaker 1: he does want it for six nights of the week.

889
00:55:25,719 --> 00:55:29,000
Speaker 1: I mean, your only issue is Thursday that you talk

890
00:55:29,080 --> 00:55:31,719
Speaker 1: about the problem is you want your husband to do

891
00:55:31,920 --> 00:55:34,040
Speaker 1: like you and be a homebody like you, and be

892
00:55:34,680 --> 00:55:38,480
Speaker 1: at home and go on your same spiritual journey. You

893
00:55:38,560 --> 00:55:40,960
Speaker 1: want him to do that every day all day. But

894
00:55:41,800 --> 00:55:44,359
Speaker 1: don't you think he needs some time to himself as

895
00:55:44,480 --> 00:55:48,799
Speaker 1: his wife. I mean, he's not the home body you are.

896
00:55:49,000 --> 00:55:52,640
Speaker 1: It's not like you know, you don't know his every

897
00:55:52,760 --> 00:55:55,360
Speaker 1: move on Thursday nights because you told us all of

898
00:55:55,440 --> 00:55:58,640
Speaker 1: it about the hookah and his high school friends, all

899
00:55:58,719 --> 00:56:01,400
Speaker 1: of that. I mean, I agree, he probably does smell

900
00:56:01,480 --> 00:56:04,120
Speaker 1: like smoke weed and cologne if he's been out all night,

901
00:56:04,239 --> 00:56:07,080
Speaker 1: so he probably does need to get his butt in

902
00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:11,239
Speaker 1: the shower before joining you in bed. But really, I

903
00:56:11,400 --> 00:56:13,840
Speaker 1: think what you need to do is relaxed and let

904
00:56:13,960 --> 00:56:16,680
Speaker 1: this man have a little fun one night of the week.

905
00:56:16,800 --> 00:56:20,080
Speaker 1: You gotta stop nagging him even goes to Bible study

906
00:56:20,280 --> 00:56:22,799
Speaker 1: one of those nights. Not a lot of husbands will

907
00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:25,560
Speaker 1: do that. I think maybe you need to start getting

908
00:56:25,600 --> 00:56:29,279
Speaker 1: out more, and you know, stop nagging your husband about this.

909
00:56:29,520 --> 00:56:31,960
Speaker 1: I mean, you didn't say that he treats you badly

910
00:56:32,080 --> 00:56:34,120
Speaker 1: or anything like this. You just say he goes to

911
00:56:34,239 --> 00:56:37,279
Speaker 1: the club on Thursday nights. Come on, lady, come on now,

912
00:56:37,880 --> 00:56:42,360
Speaker 1: that's not so bad, Steve, I must say show. I

913
00:56:42,600 --> 00:56:49,840
Speaker 1: am completely amazed at your response. Oh my god, the

914
00:56:50,160 --> 00:56:53,640
Speaker 1: growth in you as a woman, and I've watched it

915
00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:59,360
Speaker 1: after twenty two years, is absolutely phenomenal. I don't know

916
00:56:59,480 --> 00:57:03,640
Speaker 1: who this woman was reading this Strawberry letter. This certainly

917
00:57:04,320 --> 00:57:08,680
Speaker 1: is not the Shirley straw This is my answer. This

918
00:57:09,120 --> 00:57:13,960
Speaker 1: is my answer. The Shelly Strawberry that I knew twenty

919
00:57:14,120 --> 00:57:18,320
Speaker 1: two years ago would have never responded to this twenty

920
00:57:18,360 --> 00:57:24,240
Speaker 1: two years Shirley twenty okay, But I'm just I'm complimenting

921
00:57:24,280 --> 00:57:29,600
Speaker 1: you on your growth, but you don't want it because

922
00:57:29,640 --> 00:57:31,760
Speaker 1: you are tight because you think it's a criticism, but

923
00:57:31,840 --> 00:57:33,720
Speaker 1: it's not. But I just don't know the woman that

924
00:57:33,800 --> 00:57:36,120
Speaker 1: I'm doing the Strawberry letter with no more. We may

925
00:57:36,200 --> 00:57:38,320
Speaker 1: have to change the name of the letter from Strawberry.

926
00:57:40,280 --> 00:57:47,360
Speaker 1: I don't know, just the damn letter with her and met. Uh.

927
00:57:47,640 --> 00:57:50,880
Speaker 1: This is an amazing letter because I'm not really sure

928
00:57:51,600 --> 00:57:54,560
Speaker 1: if this woman understands what the problem is. You forty

929
00:57:54,560 --> 00:57:57,880
Speaker 1: eight years old, you've been married twenty six years, um

930
00:57:58,400 --> 00:58:01,840
Speaker 1: to this man. You're you're ain't said y'all had no problems.

931
00:58:02,920 --> 00:58:05,440
Speaker 1: He's three years older than you. He's fifty one. You

932
00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:10,760
Speaker 1: forty eight, Uh, didn't know. Your concern is I wish

933
00:58:10,840 --> 00:58:12,919
Speaker 1: my husband was a little more involved in the church

934
00:58:13,040 --> 00:58:16,960
Speaker 1: that he is. Okay, that's that's okay, that's fair. We

935
00:58:17,160 --> 00:58:20,200
Speaker 1: had our wild times and then here you go with

936
00:58:20,320 --> 00:58:23,640
Speaker 1: some information we don't need. You said, I even smoked

937
00:58:23,720 --> 00:58:26,200
Speaker 1: weed a few times after I had my last child,

938
00:58:26,880 --> 00:58:30,040
Speaker 1: the last wait that long started trying weed for anyway.

939
00:58:30,120 --> 00:58:32,080
Speaker 1: That ain't my business. But you made it man, because

940
00:58:32,080 --> 00:58:34,280
Speaker 1: you put it in the letter. Had nothing left for

941
00:58:34,360 --> 00:58:36,480
Speaker 1: me in the streets, and I'm a home body now

942
00:58:37,680 --> 00:58:42,320
Speaker 1: and I want my husband home with me. Well, see

943
00:58:42,440 --> 00:58:46,680
Speaker 1: here's the problem. You made a change that your husband

944
00:58:47,040 --> 00:58:52,040
Speaker 1: wasn't quite in line with. Y'all didn't discuss we're gonna

945
00:58:52,080 --> 00:58:56,919
Speaker 1: stop going out in the streets. You decided you hadn't

946
00:58:56,960 --> 00:59:00,920
Speaker 1: had enough, he didn't, and now you called in Thursdays

947
00:59:01,640 --> 00:59:05,400
Speaker 1: foughting Thursday. You got a husband that's fifty one years

948
00:59:05,440 --> 00:59:08,560
Speaker 1: old that bab hops with his friends that he's known

949
00:59:08,640 --> 00:59:11,640
Speaker 1: since high school every Thursday night. That right there, in

950
00:59:11,760 --> 00:59:16,760
Speaker 1: itself is a little crazy because at fifty one you

951
00:59:16,920 --> 00:59:21,200
Speaker 1: still bar hopping. That's a little odd to me. That's

952
00:59:22,680 --> 00:59:26,320
Speaker 1: fifty one. I don't know when bab hopping should stop.

953
00:59:27,480 --> 00:59:30,840
Speaker 1: I'm thinking it can't extend no where where. What's the

954
00:59:30,920 --> 00:59:33,680
Speaker 1: age limit for bar hopping? Tommy, that is something? That

955
00:59:34,840 --> 00:59:39,040
Speaker 1: is something, Yeah, and it references to stuff like that.

956
00:59:39,160 --> 00:59:42,720
Speaker 1: I go to Tommy Junior. You agree, yes about thirty seven,

957
00:59:42,840 --> 00:59:45,040
Speaker 1: but I will give you up to forty. All right,

958
00:59:45,120 --> 00:59:47,360
Speaker 1: hang on, Steve, we'll have part two of your response

959
00:59:47,440 --> 00:59:50,480
Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour Today's

960
00:59:50,520 --> 00:59:54,080
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letters subject thotting Thursday. We'll get back into it

961
00:59:54,280 --> 00:59:59,160
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening Steve Harpy Morning Show. All right,

962
00:59:59,240 --> 01:00:02,320
Speaker 1: come on, Steve Let's recap today's Strawberry Letter, the subject

963
01:00:02,400 --> 01:00:05,320
Speaker 1: thoughting Thursday. Well, we got a funny and gear old

964
01:00:05,400 --> 01:00:08,360
Speaker 1: woman that's been married to her husband since they was

965
01:00:08,400 --> 01:00:11,160
Speaker 1: twenty two years old. He's fifty one, she's forty eight,

966
01:00:13,240 --> 01:00:17,200
Speaker 1: and they have children, and they used to enjoy their

967
01:00:17,240 --> 01:00:20,360
Speaker 1: little street life. But after her third child, and she

968
01:00:20,520 --> 01:00:22,840
Speaker 1: smoked a little weed. But now she's tired of that

969
01:00:23,520 --> 01:00:26,440
Speaker 1: and she's a home body nine. She wants her husband

970
01:00:27,000 --> 01:00:29,000
Speaker 1: to be at home with me, but he's still out

971
01:00:29,040 --> 01:00:31,640
Speaker 1: in the streets. And she calls him thoughting Thursday because

972
01:00:31,720 --> 01:00:35,120
Speaker 1: every Thursday he bab hopped with his friends. That's known

973
01:00:35,240 --> 01:00:38,560
Speaker 1: since high school, bob hopping at fifty one and way

974
01:00:38,960 --> 01:00:42,480
Speaker 1: late in the game, you long in the tooth. You

975
01:00:42,640 --> 01:00:44,360
Speaker 1: this ain't this ain't what you do when you're in

976
01:00:44,440 --> 01:00:46,520
Speaker 1: the club. Got your suit on. They don't even wet

977
01:00:46,600 --> 01:00:49,680
Speaker 1: suits the clubs. No moment. He ain't he out of line,

978
01:00:49,760 --> 01:00:56,120
Speaker 1: He out of pocket? Okay. And then she said, I

979
01:00:56,320 --> 01:00:59,080
Speaker 1: thought we were on the same spiritual journey for the

980
01:00:59,160 --> 01:01:02,920
Speaker 1: past three or four years. Where are your thought wrong?

981
01:01:04,720 --> 01:01:09,880
Speaker 1: You thought he didn't think that, And so now I

982
01:01:10,080 --> 01:01:12,840
Speaker 1: had high hopes that he would stop going to the club.

983
01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:17,160
Speaker 1: But he has not. He has no problem going to

984
01:01:17,280 --> 01:01:20,800
Speaker 1: Bible study one night, then drinking and smoker who could

985
01:01:20,840 --> 01:01:24,720
Speaker 1: in the club the next night. Lady, that's really normal.

986
01:01:26,280 --> 01:01:29,560
Speaker 1: I don't know where the shock is for you. I

987
01:01:29,800 --> 01:01:32,000
Speaker 1: can't tell you the people that go to Bible study

988
01:01:32,680 --> 01:01:41,200
Speaker 1: choir rehearsing prap me but sad to get him. I

989
01:01:41,400 --> 01:01:44,040
Speaker 1: can't tell you the people that can't hardly get up

990
01:01:44,440 --> 01:01:47,200
Speaker 1: to attend service in the morning and get their roll

991
01:01:47,360 --> 01:01:50,760
Speaker 1: on to getting that choir because of what happened Saturday night.

992
01:01:51,600 --> 01:01:55,240
Speaker 1: So it ain't just your husband. Please don't stop thinking

993
01:01:55,240 --> 01:01:57,800
Speaker 1: because you went to Bible study one night, then drinking

994
01:01:57,800 --> 01:01:59,800
Speaker 1: a smoker who get in the club the next night.

995
01:02:00,360 --> 01:02:03,880
Speaker 1: He don't even come home from work on Thursdays. That nah,

996
01:02:04,120 --> 01:02:06,400
Speaker 1: here we go. He don't even come home. I ain't

997
01:02:06,440 --> 01:02:08,120
Speaker 1: even swinging by the house because he don't want to

998
01:02:08,160 --> 01:02:11,560
Speaker 1: hear your mouth. So he goes straight from he can't

999
01:02:11,640 --> 01:02:18,880
Speaker 1: wait to Thursday. Him and his boy Thursday, Thursday, bigger.

1000
01:02:18,960 --> 01:02:24,680
Speaker 1: This Saturday, man, we're gonna go down. Hell man. He

1001
01:02:24,840 --> 01:02:29,000
Speaker 1: head over the happy hour, He eat dinner, and then

1002
01:02:29,120 --> 01:02:32,120
Speaker 1: he goes to a ghetto bar and a lounge where

1003
01:02:32,160 --> 01:02:35,760
Speaker 1: he stays until it closed. Now, lady, I don't know.

1004
01:02:37,400 --> 01:02:39,720
Speaker 1: I'm gonna save my answer for the anyway, he comes

1005
01:02:39,800 --> 01:02:43,360
Speaker 1: in smelling like sweating weed mixed with cologne. He climbs

1006
01:02:43,400 --> 01:02:45,240
Speaker 1: in the bed with me and I have to fight

1007
01:02:45,360 --> 01:02:49,400
Speaker 1: him off until he falls asleep because he's coming home.

1008
01:02:49,480 --> 01:02:53,240
Speaker 1: He drunk and he's still smoking. Wee, see you stopped

1009
01:02:53,240 --> 01:02:57,880
Speaker 1: smoking weed. No, he kept smoking weed and he drinking

1010
01:02:59,640 --> 01:03:03,280
Speaker 1: so and he doing anphetamine and a barbituit and he's

1011
01:03:03,320 --> 01:03:05,960
Speaker 1: coming in the house with that mix. That's like when

1012
01:03:06,040 --> 01:03:09,600
Speaker 1: people drank a tequila and Red Bull, vodka and red Bull.

1013
01:03:10,080 --> 01:03:14,960
Speaker 1: That's an upper anna down. The red Bull is an anphetamine,

1014
01:03:15,040 --> 01:03:17,960
Speaker 1: means it amps you up. Red Bull amps you up.

1015
01:03:18,480 --> 01:03:22,240
Speaker 1: The vodka is a depressant, a ball bituate. That's how

1016
01:03:22,320 --> 01:03:27,160
Speaker 1: you know the difference. Barbituates take you down. A phetamines

1017
01:03:27,280 --> 01:03:30,360
Speaker 1: amps take you up. Now you to mix the two.

1018
01:03:31,200 --> 01:03:34,480
Speaker 1: Now he coming there and his brain fall asleep. I

1019
01:03:34,600 --> 01:03:36,600
Speaker 1: told him, if he keeps choosing the club over me,

1020
01:03:36,840 --> 01:03:39,280
Speaker 1: I told him, if he keeps choosing the club over

1021
01:03:39,440 --> 01:03:43,040
Speaker 1: me and his faith, he should stop pretending to be saved.

1022
01:03:43,480 --> 01:03:47,760
Speaker 1: That's not an ultimatum. See, I was waiting on you

1023
01:03:47,840 --> 01:03:50,120
Speaker 1: to say, if he keeps choosing the club over me

1024
01:03:50,240 --> 01:03:53,520
Speaker 1: and his faith, I'm leaving you said. I told him,

1025
01:03:53,560 --> 01:03:56,080
Speaker 1: if he keeps choosing the club over me and his faith,

1026
01:03:56,360 --> 01:04:01,320
Speaker 1: he should stop pretending to be saved. He he might

1027
01:04:01,440 --> 01:04:07,360
Speaker 1: not be pretending to be saved. Hello, we are all sinners,

1028
01:04:08,360 --> 01:04:13,560
Speaker 1: saved by grace. Because you saved, don't mean you don't sin.

1029
01:04:15,840 --> 01:04:17,840
Speaker 1: You know on a horle who you thinking had his

1030
01:04:17,960 --> 01:04:21,440
Speaker 1: perfect life? He ain't. I begged him to go to

1031
01:04:21,560 --> 01:04:23,640
Speaker 1: counseling that church with me, but he don't think he

1032
01:04:23,720 --> 01:04:27,000
Speaker 1: got a problem. I'm so worried that a female might

1033
01:04:27,160 --> 01:04:30,080
Speaker 1: tempt him into doing something he's not ready for. What

1034
01:04:30,240 --> 01:04:33,000
Speaker 1: did you just say? Wait a minute home, let me

1035
01:04:33,080 --> 01:04:38,120
Speaker 1: back that lineup. I'm so worried that a female fought

1036
01:04:38,720 --> 01:04:42,400
Speaker 1: might tempt him into doing something he's not ready for.

1037
01:04:42,760 --> 01:04:46,360
Speaker 1: What you mean he ain't ready for? And where do

1038
01:04:46,440 --> 01:04:49,520
Speaker 1: you get this? I'm worried that a female might tempt him.

1039
01:04:49,640 --> 01:04:54,200
Speaker 1: What you think happening at the club every Thursday they

1040
01:04:54,360 --> 01:04:57,960
Speaker 1: go and die? Now for temptation? They going to that

1041
01:04:58,080 --> 01:05:02,160
Speaker 1: ghetto club for us, They're going down to that ghett

1042
01:05:02,160 --> 01:05:07,880
Speaker 1: old club to drink, get high. It ain't just dudes

1043
01:05:08,000 --> 01:05:11,440
Speaker 1: at that club. Lady, I'm just gonna be real with

1044
01:05:11,560 --> 01:05:14,760
Speaker 1: you so you can stop all this. I'm worried that

1045
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Speaker 1: a female thought might tempt him into doing something he

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01:05:17,640 --> 01:05:24,520
Speaker 1: ain't ready for. Lady, I feel like my husband and

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01:05:24,680 --> 01:05:27,000
Speaker 1: my marriage might be slipping away. How can I keep

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Speaker 1: my husband out of the streets. You can't. Your husband

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01:05:29,280 --> 01:05:31,480
Speaker 1: have to want to come out of the streets. But

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Speaker 1: he old, or he didn't even look good down there

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01:05:33,560 --> 01:05:37,280
Speaker 1: no more. But I'll tell you what could show enough

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01:05:37,320 --> 01:05:40,600
Speaker 1: break it up. I'm not saying you ought to do this,

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01:05:40,800 --> 01:05:43,320
Speaker 1: but if you popped up down there after get old club,

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Speaker 1: little rue at a change everything that there never be

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Speaker 1: the same. I don't suggest you do that because he

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Speaker 1: he ain't gonna he really ain't gonna like you. Then

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Speaker 1: at least he tried to climb in bed with you.

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Speaker 1: He come in on Thursday. If you go down, then

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Speaker 1: he ain't gonna touch you again. That's the damn show.

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Speaker 1: Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey

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01:06:07,760 --> 01:06:10,400
Speaker 1: FM and Instagram and Facebook, and check out the Strawberry

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Speaker 1: Letter podcast on demand now coming up at forty six

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Speaker 1: minutes after the album, got some sports talk from Junior.

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Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show time

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Speaker 1: now for Junior and Sports Talk. What you got junior, Oh, Shirley,

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Speaker 1: let's just go ahead and say a prayer for all

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Speaker 1: the Laker fans. They have been officially eliminated from the playoffs.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. Lord. I'm so sick of hearing about the

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Speaker 1: Lakers on Sports Center. Just go on and lose get

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Speaker 1: out well. Well, man, I'm tired of this. Man. I

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01:06:44,480 --> 01:06:48,000
Speaker 1: love Lebron, Man, I love Westbrook, but man, I'm tired

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Speaker 1: of here about the damn Lakers. They might get in

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01:06:50,200 --> 01:06:55,680
Speaker 1: they time day out, the day out. It's officials. Ain't

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Speaker 1: even the damn playoffs. Man, yeah, oh man, it's crazy.

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Speaker 1: And also in sports and something we gotta talk about

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01:07:02,400 --> 01:07:04,200
Speaker 1: this about a couple of weeks ago, Will Smith slap

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Speaker 1: Priss brock Well now have transferred to sports Michael Coo

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Speaker 1: Me from France slapt Raphael need and Crop after losing

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Speaker 1: a match. Now he walked up to the net. As

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Speaker 1: soon as he gets to the net, he reaches across

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Speaker 1: and slaps him dead in the face. And once again,

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Speaker 1: there was nothing that happened. Now, I'm tired of people.

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01:07:25,720 --> 01:07:28,880
Speaker 1: That's getting slapped not doing nothing. I think right now

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Speaker 1: you need to find sports where ain't too many black

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Speaker 1: people in it. If you're gonna start slapping because somebody

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Speaker 1: go react, I'm just letting you know. You might want

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Speaker 1: to slap somebody that's playing soccer or cricket with something.

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Speaker 1: Something slapped the Lord's cricket. They got that little triangle

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Speaker 1: shape back. Somebody got the tennis man. I got a

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Speaker 1: tennis trash. Yeah, that's all I came out there with.

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01:07:54,760 --> 01:07:57,720
Speaker 1: I got three of me in my bad Yeah. And

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Speaker 1: you ain't you now now one just just the whole

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01:08:01,400 --> 01:08:06,080
Speaker 1: side of your look like a waff. Find out why

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01:08:06,160 --> 01:08:10,720
Speaker 1: he fly? Why did he dost you lose? You lose?

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01:08:11,160 --> 01:08:12,920
Speaker 1: You know, it's just too much of just going Oh,

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now, can't slap us in freeze

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Speaker 1: tag Jack's. You can't slap us in none of these sports.

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Speaker 1: It's a lot of sports that black people. Yeah, a

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Speaker 1: lot of sports black people you can't you can't get

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Speaker 1: You can't slap us in school. It's just too many

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Speaker 1: things just getting away with it and people that's getting

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Speaker 1: slapped just taking it. We have got to stop. Did

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Speaker 1: somebody go somebody's gonna fight back. Tell you everybody, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they don't know. Shot last shot don't lasts low enough

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Speaker 1: for you to get off the tennis court. It don't

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Speaker 1: last that long. How long? Not just net it don't no, No,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna have them. The next match gonna be delayed.

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Speaker 1: They're not starting no time. I can promise you that

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01:08:54,920 --> 01:08:56,960
Speaker 1: if it was started, if if it was supposed to

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Speaker 1: start a fault, it's probably gonna be about seven thirty

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Speaker 1: eight pho they get. But we're gonna be in stance.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna be everywhere on this court because we're just

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Speaker 1: not walking away nor more people. Yeah so I was

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Speaker 1: in basketball, now, okay, you can't do that violence, all right,

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Speaker 1: thank you Junior. Coming up at the top of the hour,

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Speaker 1: What simple struggle did you go through as a kid

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01:09:19,680 --> 01:09:22,160
Speaker 1: that your child will never have to go through? Think

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01:09:22,200 --> 01:09:24,519
Speaker 1: about that and we'll talk about it when we come back.

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Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening to show question for you guys.

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Speaker 1: What simple struggle? Just a struggle that you went through

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01:09:35,800 --> 01:09:38,600
Speaker 1: as a kid that your child will never have to

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01:09:38,680 --> 01:09:46,639
Speaker 1: go through. Do you wish they did? Huh? Childhood wasn't

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Speaker 1: close to mind, nothing like it. Yeah, okay, For instance,

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Speaker 1: there was a post on Facebook that said, um, there

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Speaker 1: was an old picture of an old school tape deck,

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01:09:56,880 --> 01:09:59,280
Speaker 1: you know, with the tape all unwound. It was messed

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01:09:59,360 --> 01:10:02,720
Speaker 1: up in everything and the kid and the caption was,

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Speaker 1: my kids will never know this struggle trying to hand

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Speaker 1: to take back together and get pen and get number

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Speaker 1: two pencils right side of that. Why so yeah, So

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01:10:16,560 --> 01:10:18,720
Speaker 1: that's why we asked the question, what struggle did you

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Speaker 1: go through as a kid? Um, you know that you're

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01:10:22,360 --> 01:10:24,479
Speaker 1: your kids now don't have to go through it. I

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01:10:24,560 --> 01:10:27,080
Speaker 1: don't know nothing about coming in when the street lights

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01:10:27,240 --> 01:10:29,160
Speaker 1: is on. They don't know nothing about taking the damn

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01:10:29,280 --> 01:10:33,400
Speaker 1: god and child down't know nothing about and ship now,

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01:10:33,400 --> 01:10:35,479
Speaker 1: don't know nothing about no damn go out there, come

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01:10:35,520 --> 01:10:38,120
Speaker 1: sweep out the damn garage. They don't know nothing about that.

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01:10:38,240 --> 01:10:40,280
Speaker 1: Go out there and change your all with your daddy.

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01:10:40,600 --> 01:10:44,040
Speaker 1: They don't know none of that. Man, get up under

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01:10:44,080 --> 01:10:46,320
Speaker 1: that car, change you all with your daddy. Man, Please

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01:10:47,800 --> 01:10:51,000
Speaker 1: two age you're doing everything, man, or just something as

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01:10:51,040 --> 01:10:54,880
Speaker 1: simple as walk over and change the channel on the teeth.

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01:10:55,920 --> 01:10:59,479
Speaker 1: Ain't no remote, ain't no remote. You're the remote. We

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01:10:59,600 --> 01:11:02,760
Speaker 1: were the just the antenna. How about this right here,

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01:11:03,400 --> 01:11:07,720
Speaker 1: I'm in here in the bathroom. Oh yeah, one bathroom?

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01:11:08,120 --> 01:11:10,880
Speaker 1: Yeah that damn dare I never know what that is?

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01:11:13,320 --> 01:11:18,200
Speaker 1: He and in coffee cans and man, wait, we can't eat.

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Speaker 1: We could need for our friend's house. None of that, Shirley,

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01:11:23,040 --> 01:11:25,240
Speaker 1: did you hear what he said? Let's back up? What

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01:11:26,920 --> 01:11:31,559
Speaker 1: in a coffee? Can you got me on this one? Yeah?

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01:11:31,600 --> 01:11:36,880
Speaker 1: We don't know that struggle. Why thirteen of us in

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01:11:37,000 --> 01:11:41,280
Speaker 1: one bathroom? We all can't get in there? Oh? Is

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01:11:41,320 --> 01:11:45,240
Speaker 1: it the same can an? You got to risk the

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Speaker 1: can out? Not? How about the bathroom? The bathroom ain't

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Speaker 1: in the house. How about that one? We ain't with

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01:11:57,120 --> 01:12:00,920
Speaker 1: you on that? Were't there? I got the outside down

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01:12:00,960 --> 01:12:02,600
Speaker 1: the step. Man, I had to get a flash like

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Speaker 1: to go to bathroom when it was dog man. Please,

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01:12:06,120 --> 01:12:08,680
Speaker 1: my kids never know none this man. My kids got

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Speaker 1: their own room with their own bathroom in it. Yeah

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01:12:11,640 --> 01:12:18,920
Speaker 1: what then TV? Own phone? We had one thirteen inch

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01:12:19,040 --> 01:12:21,720
Speaker 1: color TV, and I can assure you it did not

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01:12:21,840 --> 01:12:27,639
Speaker 1: belong to me, so you couldn't watch the only time

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01:12:27,840 --> 01:12:30,040
Speaker 1: I could watch what I wanted to watch was when

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Speaker 1: my mom and daddy went shopping on Saturday mornings and

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Speaker 1: me and my nephew was in front of that TV.

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01:12:35,600 --> 01:12:40,040
Speaker 1: It was cartoon heaven. Yeah, what was your favorite cartoons?

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Speaker 1: I'll say, I'll say, I'll say, I'll say something that

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01:12:46,920 --> 01:12:50,120
Speaker 1: was my dude right there. That the rooster man with

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Speaker 1: everything to me at the mass dog man that kept

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Speaker 1: getting jerked on that chain. That was my dude right there,

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Speaker 1: I'll say, I'll say, I'll say, shut up, son. Yeah,

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01:13:07,800 --> 01:13:10,559
Speaker 1: and he loved that little that little chick that had

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01:13:10,600 --> 01:13:15,200
Speaker 1: the little genius ass boyd Miss person, oh, miss person.

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Speaker 1: And that was every Saturday for you, every Saturday, man,

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Speaker 1: unless they made me go shopping, which I liked too,

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01:13:25,200 --> 01:13:28,040
Speaker 1: but go hill shut. Did you have to clean up

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01:13:28,080 --> 01:13:31,600
Speaker 1: on Saturday? Oh yeah, yeah, everybody got to clean up.

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Speaker 1: Sweep down the steps, mop the flow, and sweep down

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01:13:36,360 --> 01:13:41,360
Speaker 1: the driveway and sweep out the garage. Man, sadday was busy.

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01:13:41,439 --> 01:13:46,439
Speaker 1: I ain't get through the about one o'clock. Yeah. Then

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01:13:46,560 --> 01:13:48,160
Speaker 1: I had to be there when they came with the

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01:13:48,240 --> 01:13:50,479
Speaker 1: groceries because we gotta take the groceries all the way up.

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01:13:50,520 --> 01:13:53,760
Speaker 1: Saycause my mama didn't care bag. Ever, your mama don't

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01:13:53,840 --> 01:13:56,880
Speaker 1: care bags, Your mama picking point, Get your ass out here.

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Speaker 1: I love it. I love it. Thing sounds so mean,

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01:14:02,920 --> 01:14:08,519
Speaker 1: don't I know. All Right, we'll be back with more

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Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up, and twenty

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Speaker 1: minutes right after this you're listening to say Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Former President Barack Obama was back at the White House

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Speaker 1: on Tuesday to celebrate the Affordable Care Act. The former

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Speaker 1: president noted that the healthcare plan, referred to as Obamacare

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01:14:28,960 --> 01:14:33,200
Speaker 1: by opponents, is pretty darn popular twelve years after it

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Speaker 1: was passed into law. Take a listen to former President

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Speaker 1: Barack Obama either jokingly or mistakingly calling President Biden. You'll

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01:14:42,400 --> 01:14:52,400
Speaker 1: see Vice President Biden, vice President. That wasn't joke. That

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01:14:52,600 --> 01:15:00,960
Speaker 1: was all set up, was it? Was it? Yeah? It

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Speaker 1: was yeah? Okay, But you know what about the Obamacare.

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01:15:08,400 --> 01:15:14,040
Speaker 1: You know, Republicans stopped talking about repealing and replacing Obamacare

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01:15:14,080 --> 01:15:17,479
Speaker 1: because it was just too good. Yeah, and they couldn't

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Speaker 1: get the constituents to go along with it. And you, right, Shirley,

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01:15:21,960 --> 01:15:24,920
Speaker 1: they had nothing to replace it. You better tell the truth,

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01:15:25,320 --> 01:15:29,400
Speaker 1: Shirley Strawberry. And here we are twelve years later, Steve,

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01:15:31,800 --> 01:15:39,280
Speaker 1: absolutely great assurance. Right, you ain't never had the Affordable

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01:15:39,360 --> 01:15:44,800
Speaker 1: Care Act, remains President Obama's most notable US achievement during

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Speaker 1: his presidency. So there you go, and President Biden just

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01:15:49,479 --> 01:15:51,960
Speaker 1: wanted to acknowledge that. All right, coming up at thirty

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01:15:52,000 --> 01:15:53,880
Speaker 1: three minutes after the hour, we'll do a round it.

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01:15:53,960 --> 01:15:59,840
Speaker 1: Would you rather right after this? You're listening, all right, guys?

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01:16:00,080 --> 01:16:04,320
Speaker 1: Time now for would you rather? Would you rather be

1212
01:16:04,520 --> 01:16:07,760
Speaker 1: stuck on an island for eternity all on your own,

1213
01:16:08,040 --> 01:16:10,479
Speaker 1: all on your own, or would you rather be stuck

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01:16:10,560 --> 01:16:16,040
Speaker 1: on an island for eternity with someone you hate? Mh yeah,

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01:16:16,120 --> 01:16:18,479
Speaker 1: give me b I'm gonna go with be because me

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01:16:18,560 --> 01:16:20,360
Speaker 1: and me and me and him gonnahead to work through

1217
01:16:20,400 --> 01:16:23,680
Speaker 1: somethings so we can survive his things. I'm about to

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01:16:23,800 --> 01:16:27,439
Speaker 1: talk to I hope it's of me and huh yeah

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01:16:27,720 --> 01:16:33,840
Speaker 1: really working out? Yeah, be be for me. I'm gonna

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01:16:33,920 --> 01:16:37,840
Speaker 1: drive myself crazy about my damn Now, I got to be.

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01:16:38,280 --> 01:16:41,160
Speaker 1: I'm on an island. Now tell me with all those

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01:16:41,240 --> 01:16:45,560
Speaker 1: people in your head, man, please, I got through. I

1223
01:16:45,640 --> 01:16:47,400
Speaker 1: got to do be. I got to have somebody I

1224
01:16:47,439 --> 01:16:49,080
Speaker 1: can talk to you, even we don't like it till

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01:16:49,120 --> 01:16:52,680
Speaker 1: I got to have somebody. All right, Take it back

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01:16:52,760 --> 01:16:55,439
Speaker 1: to your school days. Would you rather be prom king

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Speaker 1: or valedictorian. Oh okay, v Victoria. That would have ruined

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Speaker 1: my whole high school experience. All that study and this stuff,

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01:17:13,439 --> 01:17:16,439
Speaker 1: well younger stuff, I'd have missed trying to get this

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Speaker 1: A on this test. I don't give a damn by

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01:17:19,800 --> 01:17:22,040
Speaker 1: no A on no tests. Man. I gotta get out here,

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01:17:22,400 --> 01:17:30,600
Speaker 1: learn these social skills. All a's. Yeah, do you know

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Speaker 1: what that would have took out of me? Man? In

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01:17:38,640 --> 01:17:40,880
Speaker 1: order for me to get all a's in high school,

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Speaker 1: I'd have had to sell my bike. I'd have had

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01:17:44,560 --> 01:17:49,880
Speaker 1: to withdrawal from all extra curriculum axctivities. I'd have to

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01:17:50,000 --> 01:17:57,880
Speaker 1: stop playing sports. I'd had to what else I gotta give?

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01:17:58,120 --> 01:18:01,559
Speaker 1: I couldn't have no girlfriend. I didn't have a whole

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01:18:01,640 --> 01:18:03,880
Speaker 1: lot of success then, but most of my time with

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01:18:04,040 --> 01:18:09,160
Speaker 1: women was spent trying the success ratio that wasn't high

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01:18:09,320 --> 01:18:12,320
Speaker 1: at all, but the effort I had to put in

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01:18:12,800 --> 01:18:21,160
Speaker 1: just to talk to one junior started on. Yeah, it's

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01:18:21,240 --> 01:18:25,400
Speaker 1: prom season right now? Yeah I was. I was. That's

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01:18:25,439 --> 01:18:28,040
Speaker 1: a touch of subject. I was a runner up from

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01:18:28,160 --> 01:18:33,240
Speaker 1: I didn't win. I couldn't get black vote back then

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01:18:35,960 --> 01:18:41,519
Speaker 1: lost Tommy, I lost. I lost. They wasn't voting yeah,

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01:18:41,560 --> 01:18:43,600
Speaker 1: but you wasn't the school. But but see Timmy you

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01:18:43,920 --> 01:18:47,280
Speaker 1: he was after me using school white kids. Yeah, but

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01:18:47,520 --> 01:18:49,400
Speaker 1: but but I couldn't get the black kids to vote.

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Speaker 1: That was my problem. Look at things change. We're voting now,

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Speaker 1: We're voting now. Yes, we are voting now. All right, um,

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Speaker 1: all right, well, thank you guys. That's today's round of

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Speaker 1: would you rather? Coming up at forty nine minutes after

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Speaker 1: it's the last break of the day, and we'll have

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Speaker 1: some closing remarks for you right after this. You're listening

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Speaker 1: to show. All right, here we are, guys, our last

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Speaker 1: break of the day on this Thursday. Wow, what a thursday.

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Speaker 1: It has been a great Thursday. I learned how to

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Speaker 1: fry chicken. That's what I learned today. No, she needs

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Speaker 1: to start somewhere, y'all leave her. Thank you, thank you,

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Speaker 1: thank you. Hey. We do want to remind people Steve

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Speaker 1: that tomorrow our special guests will be beautiful the talented

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Speaker 1: Tony Braxton. Tony Braxton will be your special guest coming

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Speaker 1: on to talk about her brand new movie on a

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Speaker 1: Lifetime called Fallen Angels Murder Club. So stay tuned for that.

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Speaker 1: Look out for it. Cool, all right, girl, Tony you're

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Speaker 1: turning to says, yes, I'm sorry. You know, Um, I

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Speaker 1: wanted to finish up yesterday I was talking about fatherhood

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Speaker 1: and I'm talking to men, and I'm not talking down

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Speaker 1: to men because I haven't always been the father that

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Speaker 1: I am today. I haven't always been the man I

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Speaker 1: am today, So please understand. I understand it's a process.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I was listening to Bishop T. D.

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Speaker 1: Jake's online the other day. I don't know a father

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Speaker 1: that can get it one hundred. He says. It's almost

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Speaker 1: impossible for a father to get it one hundred because

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Speaker 1: if you are the especially if you are the main

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Speaker 1: bread winner of the house, if you're out there trying

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Speaker 1: to make the bread, then you're not there, and not

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01:21:01,439 --> 01:21:05,760
Speaker 1: being there causes so many problems for the wife, for

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Speaker 1: the child, for the mother, for whoever the situation is. Now.

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Speaker 1: If you're there all the time, then you don't have

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Speaker 1: the role of breadwinner, and that creates another problem. Look,

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Speaker 1: you can be married to a woman that makes more

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Speaker 1: money than you. There's no shame in that. That's honor.

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Speaker 1: That's okay, we're not talking about that. But if that

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Speaker 1: bugs you, we have a problem. If that bugs her.

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Speaker 1: We have a problem. But if you're a man at

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Speaker 1: the house and you're not doing anything to contribute to

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Speaker 1: the overall well being of that family, we have a problem.

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Speaker 1: It's hard to be a man. And this is not

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Speaker 1: in comparison to being a woman, because I have no

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Speaker 1: data on that. I have no expertise in it at all.

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Speaker 1: As a matter of fact, I have no idea how

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Speaker 1: they do it, giving birth, making every human being that's

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Speaker 1: on this earth, raising them, taking care of them, standing

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Speaker 1: by their man, being a mama, being a wife. I

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Speaker 1: have no idea, but I do know what it is

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Speaker 1: to be a man. I know everything about manhood. I'm

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Speaker 1: sixty five years old. You can't sitting me down and

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Speaker 1: teach me a lesson about manhood. No, you can't. I'm

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Speaker 1: an expert at this. I've been through every up and

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Speaker 1: down you can be. I'm a sixty five year old

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Speaker 1: black man. I was raised in segregation. What you're going

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Speaker 1: to tell me? I understand difficulties, hardship, hard times, but fellas,

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Speaker 1: it is our job. Once we become a parent, once

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Speaker 1: we father a child, we have a responsibility that comes

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Speaker 1: with that, and it's major and God does not release

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Speaker 1: us from that responsive ability. I'm telling you he don't.

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Speaker 1: That is no way you can ignore your responsibility with

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Speaker 1: a child and expect to find joy, peace of mind,

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Speaker 1: happiness and success off somewhere else. It's not going to happen.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. That's not my rule. I didn't make that one. Help.

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Speaker 1: That's not my rule. That is the way it is.

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Speaker 1: I am imploring fathers. I am begging fathers, I really

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Speaker 1: am man. I am begging fathers to get active in

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Speaker 1: your child's life. Being present for your son is imperative.

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Speaker 1: Being present for your daughter is imperative. So many adult

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Speaker 1: women are suffering hurt today because they never had a

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Speaker 1: snapshot of view of what a man's love really looks like.

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Speaker 1: And they've been stumbling through their life trying to get

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Speaker 1: it right because they never saw somebody treat their mother

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Speaker 1: the right way. It is imperative that you get in

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Speaker 1: them daughters live, that you show them that a man's

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Speaker 1: love has nothing to do with physicality, that a man's

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Speaker 1: love is honor, respect, taking care of protection, listening, solving problems.

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Speaker 1: That's what manhood is. It is imperative, father that you

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Speaker 1: get in these boys live, because your boy's gonna be

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Speaker 1: one of two types of men. He gonna go and

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Speaker 1: be a good man, or he's gonna grow and be

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Speaker 1: a bad man. Whatever the example is in front of

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Speaker 1: him most of the time is the pattern of behavior

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Speaker 1: that he will duplicate. It works just like that, Man

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Speaker 1: and Fellas. It ain't about how much money you've got. Now.

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Speaker 1: I know there are some women who are making it

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Speaker 1: about that, and I'm asking you women to listen to me.

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Speaker 1: You got to stop that. Because your man is behind

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Speaker 1: on child support, or your man ain't up to date

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01:24:51,080 --> 01:24:53,840
Speaker 1: with child support, and you denying him access to his

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Speaker 1: children until he catch up on them payments, You're messing

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Speaker 1: it up for your child. You're messing it up for

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Speaker 1: you child. Your child don't need a payment. Your child

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Speaker 1: needs that father figure. Your child needs the ability to say,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna call my daddy. Your child needs the ability

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Speaker 1: to say I'm gonna tell my daddy, I'm gonna go

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Speaker 1: get my daddy. That's what your child needs. Now. You

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01:25:18,080 --> 01:25:20,200
Speaker 1: may not need that for him as a man, but

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Speaker 1: your child will forever need that. Don't take that from

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Speaker 1: me and Fellas. I don't care where you're sitting with

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Speaker 1: your money. I don't care where you're sitting, with your

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Speaker 1: job position or whatever. Get on that phone and get

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01:25:31,400 --> 01:25:34,960
Speaker 1: a relationship with your child. It is your duty, it

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01:25:35,160 --> 01:25:38,599
Speaker 1: is your honor, and it is a privilege. But above

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Speaker 1: all else, God ain't letting you go. You gotta get

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01:25:41,680 --> 01:25:44,120
Speaker 1: it right, fellas. I'm sorry. He ain't gonna let you

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01:25:44,200 --> 01:25:45,720
Speaker 1: prosper on the other side of the town if you

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01:25:45,760 --> 01:25:48,120
Speaker 1: ain't doing your business on the right side of town.

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Speaker 1: Those are my clothes remarks. Hey, listen to everybody talk

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Speaker 1: to God today. He would love to hear first. For

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