Speaker 1: Second date up date. They say in life, when one
Speaker 1: door closes, another door opens, its positive outlook. That's great
Speaker 1: unless you have some type of door phobia.
Speaker 2: Oh god, oh god, if.
Speaker 1: You're scared to leave your house now because of all
Speaker 1: the random doors that are opening and closing in front
Speaker 1: of you.
Speaker 3: I really.
Speaker 1: But in the dating world, I think it's a little
Speaker 1: bit similar. When one date ghost is another date approaches.
Speaker 3: I was wondering why you're going with the ghost is stretched.
Speaker 1: She had to shoehorn the rhyme in there. But I
Speaker 1: think it works because that's what happened to one of
Speaker 1: our listeners, Chase recently. So Chase, welcome to the show.
Speaker 1: And before we get into it, what's your stance on doors? Anti,
Speaker 1: I'm a pro door j Okay, you're straight.
Speaker 3: They are great.
Speaker 1: We don't even need to talk about your date. If
Speaker 1: we want it, you could just focus on doors for
Speaker 1: the next seven minutes. Welcome are segment or doors. But honestly,
Speaker 1: let's hear about the woman that you went out with.
Speaker 1: What's her name, Tiffany?
Speaker 3: Tiffany? I mean, I don't know. Just the way he said,
Speaker 3: it sounds like you like Tiffany, obviously, what do you
Speaker 3: like about her.
Speaker 2: Well, you could say I used to like her.
Speaker 3: Oh oh, and why do you want to call her again?
Speaker 1: Yeah, what's going on?
Speaker 2: I don't Oh wait, I'm going to go there.
Speaker 1: I don't think you understand how the second dates work
Speaker 1: because we used to try and call the people that
Speaker 1: you went out with.
Speaker 2: All right, well, I guess I should start from the beginning.
Speaker 1: Yes, please, Tiffany.
Speaker 2: I met her online. She was pretty cute and I
Speaker 2: was excited to meet her. And first dates, I usually
Speaker 2: like to do activities rather than just sit around and
Speaker 2: have to talk. So I plan for us to play
Speaker 2: mini golf.
Speaker 1: I still want to do this date. I've never done
Speaker 1: a mini golf. That's so fun.
Speaker 3: It's a great first date.
Speaker 2: Well, I got there like fifteen minutes early. I went
Speaker 2: and got the clubs and balls and paid for us
Speaker 2: could both play.
Speaker 3: Oh that's awesome. So she can just show up and
Speaker 3: play and seven have to wait and all that.
Speaker 1: That's good, that's thoughtful, gentleman.
Speaker 2: Move right. So I'm sitting there and I'm waiting. Five
Speaker 2: minutes goes by after she's supposed to be there, ten minutes,
Speaker 2: fifteen minutes. Oh no, the ghost is so I text
Speaker 2: her I get ghosted. I texted her and she apologized
Speaker 2: she had to cancel for whatever reason I don't even remember.
Speaker 1: And you already bought the balls and the clubs and everything.
Speaker 2: Already had the balls and clubs. So yeah, that's where
Speaker 2: things got interesting.
Speaker 3: I don't like Tiffany either. Screwtivity.
Speaker 2: You guys got a family member pass away or something.
Speaker 1: We don't know. Mini golf takes precedence of her family members.
Speaker 1: Everybody knows this.
Speaker 3: That's like, excuse you're telling me that she doesn't text
Speaker 3: you until twenty minutes after she's supposed to be there,
Speaker 3: and it's a legit reason.
Speaker 1: So what do you do at that point?
Speaker 3: Chase?
Speaker 1: Do you do two rounds of golf by yourself?
Speaker 3: I would double club? Got two clubs?
Speaker 2: No, So yeah, I'm already frustrated about the cancelation and stuff.
Speaker 2: I go return the balls and clubs and get my
Speaker 2: money back.
Speaker 3: Sad moment, can you do?
Speaker 2: I was gonna ask that.
Speaker 1: The guy's like, no one's ever.
Speaker 2: There's like the sixteen year old kid working the counter,
Speaker 2: and he's like, oh, sorry, I can't give you your
Speaker 2: money back. So so I'm already frustrated or whatever, and
Speaker 2: I hate to be this guy, but I was like, okay,
Speaker 2: let me talk to the manager, like, oh man, oh.
Speaker 3: Wow, I mean the kid could barely drive. I kind
Speaker 3: of get it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, fix.
Speaker 1: I'm still kind of confused about how this is a
Speaker 1: second date, Like what are we doing here? Is we're
Speaker 1: getting there?
Speaker 2: We're getting there?
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: Then the manager finally comes over, and that's where the
Speaker 2: story takes the turn. And so the manager is this
Speaker 2: gorgeous woman.
Speaker 3: Oh I did not.
Speaker 2: See this coming.
Speaker 3: And suddenly you don't have a complaint anymore, do you?
Speaker 3: Because what are you going to tell sexy manager? I
Speaker 3: just got stood up giving.
Speaker 2: My money back. It wasn't even really necessary. Actually, she
Speaker 2: was awesome and super friendly, gave me my money back
Speaker 2: right away, So that wasn't that part of the story
Speaker 2: wasn't even an issue anymore.
Speaker 1: So okay, so what did you do?
Speaker 3: Did you strike up a conversation with her? Is that
Speaker 3: who we're interested in? Now?
Speaker 2: Well? We were just kind of friendly and cordial to
Speaker 2: each other there. But at that point, you know, I
Speaker 2: took the money I spent on golf, and I went
Speaker 2: over to the bar and got myself a drink, and
Speaker 2: I was just kind of hanging out over there, okay.
Speaker 1: With the manager or by yourself.
Speaker 2: Well I was by myself, but then the manager actually
Speaker 2: approached me.
Speaker 1: Like it like, it's not a good look to have
Speaker 1: lonely men drinking in here. I better sit down next
Speaker 1: to me.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So she again apologized, you know, that I couldn't
Speaker 2: get my refunded first, and that she felt bad about
Speaker 2: what had happened and stuff, And so she gave me
Speaker 2: her business card that also had her personal cell phone
Speaker 2: number on it.
Speaker 3: Oh no, like she saw it opening, right, so like
Speaker 3: she must have been attracted to you, saw you sit
Speaker 3: in to buy her and alone, and was like, this
Speaker 3: is my chance.
Speaker 2: Well that's what I thought. That was that for that night.
Speaker 2: And then a few days later I was like, since
Speaker 2: I didn't get the golf, maybe I could meet you
Speaker 2: and we could do a round of golf together. So
Speaker 2: a few days later we played around of golf.
Speaker 3: Oh wait, so you texted her and you guys actually
Speaker 3: went out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well I met her at her work.
Speaker 1: She had the hook up.
Speaker 3: What's her name? I didn't even get the manager's name,
Speaker 3: did we.
Speaker 2: Her name is Kelly?
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, And so it was fun with Kelly I'm guessing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was awesome. We got through the round of
Speaker 2: golf and she got busy, and it was actually on
Speaker 2: one of her work days. We met up, and so
Speaker 2: she had to get back to work. But yeah, since then,
Speaker 2: I kind of haven't really heard from her. So that's
Speaker 2: the story I see.
Speaker 1: So now we're going to be calling Kelly the mini
Speaker 1: golf manager.
Speaker 2: Yes, Kelly the mini golf manager.
Speaker 3: Okay, and have you texted or called it all a
Speaker 3: little bit?
Speaker 2: But yeah, I haven't heard from her. Maybe it was
Speaker 2: a bad idea to meet her at her work, Like
Speaker 2: maybe I should have just been more forward her and
Speaker 2: asked her out somewhere else. I don't know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe she wasn't even thinking it was like a
Speaker 3: legit date or something. I don't know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, regardless, you can always bring the first girl
Speaker 1: back and make Kelly jealous. No, Yeah, it's a win
Speaker 1: or lose, buddy, this is a win. Well, I guess
Speaker 1: the other girl's not calling me.
Speaker 3: Back to Yeah, yeah, don't you don't want to get
Speaker 3: stood up twice Kelly play golf.
Speaker 1: Okay, We're gonna try and do our best to make
Speaker 1: sure that doesn't happen to Yeah, we got your back, Okay,
Speaker 1: because we're playing a song, We're gonna come back. We're
Speaker 1: gonna call Kelly and try and get you a second date.
Speaker 1: Update right after this.
Speaker 2: All right, all right, awesome things, guys, Hold on.
Speaker 1: Second date update When you asked to speak to the
Speaker 1: manager nine nine hundred and ninety nine times out of
Speaker 1: a thousand, and that encounters not gonna end in romance, No, no, no.
Speaker 1: But for one of our listeners, Chase, he's the one
Speaker 1: in a thousand wow, because he wanted to get a
Speaker 1: refund at the mini golf fund zone but ended up
Speaker 1: falling for the attractive manager who helped him.
Speaker 3: It's kind of cute, don't you think The timing is?
Speaker 1: Yeah, in like a weird, complaining type of way.
Speaker 3: I know, but hey, he switches to and he got
Speaker 3: his refund and.
Speaker 1: He got a date, a date with Kelly. The two
Speaker 1: of them actually ended up playing a round of golf
Speaker 1: together a few days later. But all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: now she's ghosting.
Speaker 3: Oh that sucks, and uh.
Speaker 1: We need to figure out why.
Speaker 3: I think he maybe I think you may be onto something. Honestly,
Speaker 3: that like meeting her on her day at work, was
Speaker 3: the bad call.
Speaker 2: I hope. No, I just thought that'd be a nice way.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 2: She kept saying she was so bad I didn't get
Speaker 2: to play golf, so I was like, oh, we can
Speaker 2: play golf.
Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, yeah, I get it. But most people
Speaker 1: don't want to have a first date at the place
Speaker 1: where they're Yeah.
Speaker 3: Well, it's like she made the opening. He took the opening,
Speaker 3: and then now maybe it wasn't as hot as it could.
Speaker 1: Have been, or maybe just a really bad golfer. But
Speaker 1: hopefully we'll get an answer from her. I'm going to
Speaker 1: call her number right now and we'll see what she
Speaker 1: has to say. You ready, I'm ready, all right? Go Hello,
Speaker 1: Hey is this Kelly? It is Hey Kelly. I was
Speaker 1: hoping I could play a round of mini golf for
Speaker 1: a party of four coming up soon for free.
Speaker 3: Wait for free?
Speaker 1: You do that?
Speaker 4: No, I'm not for free. You have to pay your manager.
Speaker 1: I'd like to speak to your manager. What if the
Speaker 1: four people who want to play work for a radio
Speaker 1: show called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: I'm just still sure that you're gonna have to pay.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry off the credit card you just pulled?
Speaker 3: The dude, you know who we are.
Speaker 1: Made my skin cross and she said no, So Kelly, look,
Speaker 1: we're doing something called a second date update.
Speaker 3: Okay, has nothing to do with us playing golf at
Speaker 3: your establishment.
Speaker 1: But one of our listeners played golf at your establishment recently,
Speaker 1: and you actually played with him. You remember, Chase, I do.
Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, this is weird. Wait, wow, I'm a little confused.
Speaker 2: Well, we're just sorry.
Speaker 1: Chase told us about the two of you guys hanging out,
Speaker 1: how you met and that whole story, and he felt
Speaker 1: like the two of you had a nice little connection
Speaker 1: when you played golf together. But afterwards he's a little
Speaker 1: bit confused about why you're not responding anymore.
Speaker 3: I mean, from his side of things, it felt like
Speaker 3: you were pretty into him. You know. He told us
Speaker 3: about how you approached him at the bar, like gave
Speaker 3: him your personal cell phone number and card, and.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we heard his side of it. We'd like to know, like,
Speaker 1: what was your impression of Chase.
Speaker 4: You know, I don't think he really knew that the
Speaker 4: person that he was dealing with, the young kid he
Speaker 4: was dealing with, came back and said, hey, listen, this
Speaker 4: guy got stood up money back. So I felt bad for.
Speaker 3: Him, Like right at the beginning there when he asked
Speaker 3: for his money back stood him up, the sixteen year.
Speaker 1: Old, the teenager that helped him, He went back.
Speaker 3: And ran it on Chase too good drama for the teenager.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, I mean I felt bad, so I gave
Speaker 4: him his money back, and I saw that he went
Speaker 4: to go get a drink, so I thought I'd get
Speaker 4: him a drink because that's like the worst feeling in
Speaker 4: the world happened to me.
Speaker 1: You know, you guys have great customer service over please
Speaker 1: cry again. I'm sure they don't get many returns or refunds.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but did you think he was cute? I mean
Speaker 3: while he was crying, he wasn't crying. Was he crying?
Speaker 3: And he didn't say that, No.
Speaker 4: He wasn't crying.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 4: He just seemed like just a nice guy who got
Speaker 4: let down. Yeah, So, like, I mean, I gave him
Speaker 4: my card just because, like, like I told that for him,
Speaker 4: and like if he needed anything else or it's coming
Speaker 4: back again, maybe I could help him out with the date.
Speaker 1: You know, Okay, but he told us that you actually
Speaker 1: did end up playing around a golf with him?
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, because he ended up checks me the next
Speaker 4: day and so I didn't know if I don't know,
Speaker 4: I didn't know if it was like a date or not. Okay,
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. I wasn't really sure. I
Speaker 4: didn't know if you just wanted to be friends.
Speaker 3: Okay, he didn't make it, but it sounds like you
Speaker 3: were maybe open to it if it was a date, right,
Speaker 3: Like are you single?
Speaker 4: I mean I am single, yes, but like I was
Speaker 4: open to it. I mean it was fine, It was
Speaker 4: nice at first, and then things got a little weird.
Speaker 4: So I just preferred not to answer him.
Speaker 1: What, yeah, do you mind telling us what was weird?
Speaker 4: There's some things like you all have played mini golf,
Speaker 4: I'm assuming. Yeah, so there is a bridge. This was
Speaker 4: like probably on the fourth fold of the bridge. And
Speaker 4: he's like, do you ever like after work bring your
Speaker 4: dates back here and like fool around under the bridge?
Speaker 4: And I'm like, what.
Speaker 1: Hooking up on the golf course.
Speaker 3: Get any asterturf rug.
Speaker 1: I'm curious? Have you don't.
Speaker 3: Ask that you don't do that?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 4: So I said no, I don't and brushed it off.
Speaker 2: But right, that.
Speaker 3: Would just be him like trying to be flirty and failing.
Speaker 4: I would assume if it happened once, I would understand,
Speaker 4: but it did not like everything he encountered. After that,
Speaker 4: He's like, do you ever make out with anybody behind
Speaker 4: the windmill? Can you around like behind the clown head
Speaker 4: or like on the octopus or you know what I mean.
Speaker 4: It's weird, weird.
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, not everything's many on the mini
Speaker 1: golf course.
Speaker 3: But are you talking about the little tiny pencils? Do
Speaker 3: those turn you on to Yeah?
Speaker 1: Totally?
Speaker 3: Well, I mean that's too bad, and you weren't able
Speaker 3: to like be like, hey man, knock it off.
Speaker 4: I know what I did is I pretended to get
Speaker 4: a text message because that's on my work and said, oh,
Speaker 4: they haven't.
Speaker 3: I don't blame you for that one.
Speaker 1: I don't know if we all if he's done, we
Speaker 1: are sorry that that happened to you. And I'm also
Speaker 1: sorry to tell you that Chase is actually on the
Speaker 1: other line listening and he wants to talk to you,
Speaker 1: don't four golf course Chase. Hey, Kelly, Hi, Okay, were
Speaker 1: you listening to what she said?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: I was, okay.
Speaker 3: Do you have some like self reflections on that one explanation?
Speaker 2: I mean I was just playing around. I guess like yes,
Speaker 2: Like I said, at the time when we started playing,
Speaker 2: I didn't really know much about Kelly except for she
Speaker 2: worked at a mini golf place.
Speaker 1: So that's what you asked. You can't think of anything
Speaker 1: else to ask her than behind that thing.
Speaker 3: That's not a get to know you question. I need
Speaker 3: to know you questions like you know, what hobbies do
Speaker 3: you you have brothers?
Speaker 1: Well, hooking up on a golf course could be a
Speaker 1: hobby for something.
Speaker 3: I think you owe her apology, Chase.
Speaker 2: You're probably right. I'm sorry this whole time, Like I
Speaker 2: now that I've heard your side and I explained my
Speaker 2: side of the story is just kind of this weird thing,
Speaker 2: like is it a date? Is it not a date?
Speaker 2: So yeah, I was like, hey, you ever make out
Speaker 2: behind the clown yet? So you're trying to.
Speaker 3: Set the tone like why are you saying it again?
Speaker 4: It's very accurate.
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know. I don't think I'm the
Speaker 2: only one who's ever walked past the bridge at a
Speaker 2: mini golf place and be like, hey, if I had
Speaker 2: to hide somewhere on a mini golf course to do
Speaker 2: a little risky business, that you know, a nice time
Speaker 2: to go in there.
Speaker 3: Initially, at places called family fun set.
Speaker 1: I think I get where he's coming from.
Speaker 3: Now, he's trying to be funny and honest. I think, Kelly,
Speaker 3: I mean you liked him before he did all that
Speaker 3: weird questioning.
Speaker 4: I felt sorry for him. I'm not really quite sure
Speaker 4: that I actually like him.
Speaker 1: Oh, well, do you feel sorry enough for him to
Speaker 1: give him one more chance at another date? And maybe
Speaker 1: after that second date you'll start to like him and
Speaker 1: we would pay for it.
Speaker 4: I'm going to say that I'm sorry, but I do
Speaker 4: not want to go on a second date, even.
Speaker 1: If it's an after hours date at the mini golf course.
Speaker 1: You can show him what really happens behind the giant shoe?
Speaker 2: Are you guys.
Speaker 4: Saying that makes my skin crawl?
Speaker 3: Like do people really.
Speaker 4: Want to like hook up on a mini golf course?
Speaker 2: Well? I think about that sometimes.
Speaker 1: So it's sounding like a no from Kelly there.
Speaker 3: But it sounds like Chase, you found yourself a new
Speaker 3: mini golf partner in Jeff, Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you and I can go, or we might feel
Speaker 1: bad enough for you to send you out on a
Speaker 1: hity date with Alexis. She's done stuff on many courses.
Speaker 3: Before anything with the town anything Brook and Jeffrey in
Speaker 3: the morning,