1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,000 Speaker 1: My brother in law just told my wife that he 2 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:07,840 Speaker 1: is in love with her. Love wins. Apparently it does. 3 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:12,680 Speaker 2: This comes from Anxious Breath fifteen ninety six, who says, anyway, yesterday, 4 00:00:12,720 --> 00:00:15,320 Speaker 2: my brother in law, out of the blue, asks my 5 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:17,720 Speaker 2: wife if she can meet him for lunch. Let's just 6 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 2: say salad isn't the only thing he's going to be 7 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:24,079 Speaker 2: eating her. Awesome, thanks, sam O come just connecting the 8 00:00:24,120 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 2: dots for everyone. 9 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:27,840 Speaker 1: There is something that he needs to talk to her about. 10 00:00:28,080 --> 00:00:30,880 Speaker 2: My wife tells me about it before accepting, and asks 11 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:33,479 Speaker 2: if it might have something to do with my sister. 12 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:36,879 Speaker 2: Maybe they are having problems and he wants to discuss 13 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:39,960 Speaker 2: with another woman. I find it odd, but I tell 14 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:42,440 Speaker 2: her to go and find out. And so, to be clear, 15 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 2: I'm double checking myself here, there's Opie and Opie's brother 16 00:00:46,479 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 2: in law who is married to his sister. 17 00:00:49,560 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 3: Yep, and the brother in law is confronting Opie's wife 18 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:54,640 Speaker 3: about something at lunching that we don't know about. 19 00:00:54,640 --> 00:00:57,280 Speaker 2: We don't, we don't know, we don't, We're not sure. 20 00:00:57,560 --> 00:01:00,480 Speaker 2: So she accepts and they meet for lunch a place 21 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 2: near her office. 22 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 1: The next day. That's where he tells her that he 23 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:05,319 Speaker 1: is in love with her. 24 00:01:05,680 --> 00:01:09,119 Speaker 3: All they get close enough for him to be in love. 25 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:13,840 Speaker 3: Maybe he's just crazy crazy in love. Ooh, we've seen 26 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:17,039 Speaker 3: crazy people. We've seen crazy people be crazy. You know, 27 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:19,480 Speaker 3: there are people that are in love with people they've 28 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:22,480 Speaker 3: never met. This might support us the Swifties. True, that 29 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:24,479 Speaker 3: is true. They do love her, love her. 30 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 2: But he lays it on thick, how beautiful she is, 31 00:01:27,319 --> 00:01:29,840 Speaker 2: how she makes him feel, how he would treat her 32 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:33,000 Speaker 2: if she were his, how it was love at first sight, 33 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:36,320 Speaker 2: blah blah blah. Mind you. The man is married to 34 00:01:36,560 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 2: my sister and has two kids. That's crazy. Also, the 35 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:43,400 Speaker 2: brother in law is like double offending. Ope, you try 36 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 2: to steal my wife and you try to cheat on 37 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:46,639 Speaker 2: my sister. 38 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:50,200 Speaker 3: Bro man is risking it all to throw it down. 39 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 3: Michael love romantic. He and my wife had a friendly relationship. 40 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 3: Our family see each other often as we are close family. 41 00:01:58,120 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 3: He does text her frequently, but there was nothing overly sexual. 42 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 2: Is there anything underlea sexual? Like like, oh you're your 43 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 2: sweet potato? Mash was to die though, Oh mash yours 44 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 2: sweet potato? 45 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 1: Oh God, those damps. 46 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 2: My brother in law text and calls my mom too, 47 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 2: So none of us thought anything of it. He was 48 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 2: basically texting everyone the same. I want to stop for 49 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:27,440 Speaker 2: a moment and emphasize that my wife is not cheating 50 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 2: on me with him. My wife and I share an 51 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:31,400 Speaker 2: iPad and I see every one of her texts from there. 52 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:33,720 Speaker 2: We are also looking at each other's phones all the time, 53 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:36,239 Speaker 2: so none of that is going on. So she doesn't 54 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:40,919 Speaker 2: let him finish, Deep walks out and calls me immediately 55 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 2: to tell me what happened. While she is on the 56 00:02:43,000 --> 00:02:45,400 Speaker 2: phone with me, the text from him start he didn't 57 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:48,640 Speaker 2: meet it. He thinks it's only infatuation. Blah blah blah. 58 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:50,880 Speaker 1: That's just because it didn't work. Yeah, you put it 59 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:53,880 Speaker 1: on the line and he struck out. Thing boil. 60 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 3: Also, I gotta say props to Opie's wife for directly 61 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 3: after hearing this going to the partner. 62 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:05,000 Speaker 2: Well, and she also like informed him like from day one, 63 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:07,200 Speaker 2: she was like, look look at these weird Why does 64 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:08,080 Speaker 2: he want to meet with me? 65 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:12,359 Speaker 3: What's going on? So exactly like the over. 66 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:12,520 Speaker 1: The top community. 67 00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:14,120 Speaker 3: I don't know if it's over the top, but like 68 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:16,640 Speaker 3: the the communicating before, it's a problem. 69 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:18,919 Speaker 1: Great idea, brilliant, perfectly executed. 70 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:21,000 Speaker 2: She leaves work early to come home and talk to 71 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:23,240 Speaker 2: me about this, and her phone is blowing up the 72 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 2: entire time with calls and texts from him. I tell 73 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 2: her to answer, and she put me on speaker so 74 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:32,160 Speaker 2: I can hear. He's crying, begging not to tell my sister, begging, begging. 75 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 2: Apparently when we were together this past weekend, he thought 76 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 2: that she was flirting with him, and he thought they 77 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 2: had a moment when they were alone in our kitchen. Now, 78 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 2: my wife is a major ballbuster, and I suppose I 79 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 2: can see how it can be taken. 80 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:45,640 Speaker 1: It's flirting. 81 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:48,320 Speaker 2: So she's razzing him, you know whatever, right, And he's like, oh, 82 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:49,680 Speaker 2: she's in she's into me. 83 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 1: The classic, Oh she's talking to me, let's be into me. 84 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 1: She's in love with me. 85 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:58,840 Speaker 2: He asks if she told me to which I answer yes, 86 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 2: as I'm on this be so he's like, hey, did 87 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 2: you tell my brother? And he's like yes, every single 88 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 2: word of this boom. Then he starts begging me. This 89 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 2: went on for a while, begging oh, to not say anything. 90 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 2: So his sister dude, which dude, well, like, why does 91 00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 2: he have loyalty to you? 92 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 1: Exact guy that tried to steal his wife, his sister. Bro. 93 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 2: Literally, he is wrong to OPI the most, and he's 94 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:28,800 Speaker 2: now begging him. 95 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 1: Es get ready for the hammer. 96 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:32,719 Speaker 4: Baby. 97 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:36,680 Speaker 1: My main question was whether he had cheated on my 98 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:37,480 Speaker 1: sister before. 99 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:41,159 Speaker 3: That is because if he's putting it all on the 100 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 3: line for someone that he knows could get him in trouble, 101 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 3: did he throw out his line for someone he knew 102 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:49,040 Speaker 3: we'd keep it quiet. 103 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:52,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, like an easier you know, an easier thing. He 104 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 2: said no and swore on his kids lives. It's just 105 00:04:56,560 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 2: my wife, he said, I should understand. 106 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 3: He was he was actually thinking about his other families, kids' 107 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:03,240 Speaker 3: lives that he doesn't talk about. 108 00:05:03,320 --> 00:05:05,360 Speaker 1: All right, right, right yet. 109 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:14,720 Speaker 2: My practice practice, yes, sir, So I'm done listening at 110 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:16,800 Speaker 2: that point, and told him that I wasn't going to 111 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:19,360 Speaker 2: do anything tonight and I would call him tomorrow. Let's 112 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 2: put on our conspiracy theory has like, what do we 113 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:23,600 Speaker 2: think Op is going to do? 114 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:27,040 Speaker 1: Is he going to out his brother in law? For sure? 115 00:05:27,480 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 4: Yeah? 116 00:05:27,880 --> 00:05:30,240 Speaker 3: There is not well because I mean I would be 117 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:33,800 Speaker 3: very surprised if he didn't, because if I was confirmed, 118 00:05:33,880 --> 00:05:37,839 Speaker 3: if you were in a situation, dude was cheating on 119 00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:43,080 Speaker 3: my sister with my girlfriend and or wife. I am 120 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:47,400 Speaker 3: in a heartbeat ratting that dude out. Dude, heartbeat, not 121 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:51,800 Speaker 3: even a thought in my mind, coming with a ferocious philosophy. 122 00:05:51,839 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, dude, I'm sending it in the family 123 00:05:53,880 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 3: group chat. Yeaham putting him on blast. Your career is over? 124 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:01,320 Speaker 3: Do you think he deeper in the conspiracy theory plot? 125 00:06:01,520 --> 00:06:05,480 Speaker 3: Do you think he keeps pushing and tries to push 126 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 3: the sister to divorce? Like, No, I would just the information, 127 00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 3: not you him. Oh does OP? 128 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:16,720 Speaker 1: Do you think? Oh? Does O p push? 129 00:06:16,839 --> 00:06:19,480 Speaker 2: Does he basically go to his sister not only reveals 130 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:22,120 Speaker 2: the truth, but keep on her until she divorces? 131 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:25,159 Speaker 1: Oh? He try to push for divorce? I don't think so. Yeah, 132 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:27,359 Speaker 1: honestly I do that. I don't think so. 133 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 3: I mean, because what I would do is I would 134 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:31,880 Speaker 3: just say, here's the information, do with it what you will. 135 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:33,600 Speaker 2: You know what's best for your family. That's what you 136 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:36,159 Speaker 2: would do, would O. I'm gonna say, Oh, he's like me, 137 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:38,480 Speaker 2: he might be going crazy. Let's get back to reality 138 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:42,120 Speaker 2: and find out. That's where we are right now. And 139 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 2: I really don't know what to do. My wife says, 140 00:06:44,200 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 2: drive over there right now and tell my sister. But 141 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:48,919 Speaker 2: the idea of wrecking my sister's family is killing me. 142 00:06:48,960 --> 00:06:51,360 Speaker 2: All right, Maybe maybe Sam is right, maybe I'm totally wrong. 143 00:06:51,440 --> 00:06:53,560 Speaker 2: Think about what it will do to my nieces, it 144 00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:55,360 Speaker 2: just makes me want of vomit. I know the right 145 00:06:55,400 --> 00:06:57,240 Speaker 2: thing to do is to tell my sister, but I'm 146 00:06:57,279 --> 00:07:00,240 Speaker 2: also thinking about my wife as well. It's not her fault, 147 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 2: but there is sure to be resentment toward her family. 148 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 2: Even if my sister didn't divorce him and they reconcile, 149 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:08,960 Speaker 2: I can't see how we are ever together again like 150 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 2: we were before, if at all, Because I mean, at 151 00:07:11,480 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 2: the end of the day, this is still his nieces 152 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:14,560 Speaker 2: and nephew's father. 153 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:18,400 Speaker 3: He'll be involved, but the nieces and nephews don't have 154 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:20,880 Speaker 3: to know this, Like why would they have to know? 155 00:07:21,040 --> 00:07:21,720 Speaker 1: They don't have to know. 156 00:07:21,880 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 3: I think it's on the parents to tell the nieces 157 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 3: and nephews. Really, the only people that should be informed 158 00:07:28,120 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 3: of what OP knows is the sister is the sisters. 159 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:35,160 Speaker 3: That's the only person that needs to know. And then 160 00:07:35,200 --> 00:07:37,960 Speaker 3: once that person knows, that person can choose to do 161 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:40,600 Speaker 3: with that information as they will. That is correct, But 162 00:07:40,680 --> 00:07:43,320 Speaker 3: this whole episode can tear my family apart. I don't 163 00:07:43,360 --> 00:07:45,880 Speaker 3: give a crap about him. He tried to destroy my family, 164 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 3: but I do care about everyone else. I do not 165 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 3: know what to do. Any advice would help, Ladies and gentlemen. 166 00:07:51,040 --> 00:07:54,840 Speaker 1: We have a big, fat, juicy update coming up next Thick, 167 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:59,040 Speaker 1: But revisiting what we said a minute ago, you're still 168 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:01,240 Speaker 1: in the same mindset of like, tell the sister. My 169 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 1: mind has not changed since sixty seconds ago. 170 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:07,239 Speaker 3: I am still about telling the sister. 171 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 1: She is the person that needs to know. And yeah, 172 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:11,480 Speaker 1: no one else in the family. No, no, because. 173 00:08:13,760 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 3: The only person that needs to know and can effectively 174 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:18,200 Speaker 3: do something in this situation is the sister. 175 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:19,640 Speaker 1: Are you gossiping if it's the truth? 176 00:08:19,840 --> 00:08:23,320 Speaker 3: Yes, most gossip is the truth, just shared with people 177 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 3: that don't benefit or get hurt. 178 00:08:25,960 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 4: And if it is a lie, there's still some truth 179 00:08:28,840 --> 00:08:29,080 Speaker 4: in it. 180 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 3: Every there's an old Russian saying within every lie, there's 181 00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:34,200 Speaker 3: a little bit of a lie. 182 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 4: What I thought it was a little bit of the truth. 183 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:38,880 Speaker 3: Which is, if there's two lies, is that truth? Is 184 00:08:38,880 --> 00:08:41,280 Speaker 3: there a lie about the lie? You're lying about lying? 185 00:08:41,520 --> 00:08:42,319 Speaker 3: Are you telling the truth? 186 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:45,000 Speaker 1: You're just double lying, You're lying about lying. You're telling 187 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 1: the truth. 188 00:08:45,440 --> 00:08:49,320 Speaker 4: There's like two murderers equal no murderers in that case. 189 00:08:49,360 --> 00:08:50,320 Speaker 4: That's what that feels like. 190 00:08:50,440 --> 00:08:52,800 Speaker 1: That's not at all what that is. That's one hundred 191 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:53,439 Speaker 1: percent what it is. 192 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:56,679 Speaker 2: Because hey, John, I'm lying to you right now. Your 193 00:08:56,760 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 2: hair is no blonde. 194 00:08:59,080 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 1: That's incorrect. 195 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 3: Lying to you right now, you're lying about lying is 196 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:05,320 Speaker 3: like I just I just lied initially, but I told 197 00:09:05,320 --> 00:09:05,760 Speaker 3: the truth. 198 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:07,320 Speaker 1: No, dude, you're just crazy. 199 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:08,040 Speaker 4: That's what it is. 200 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:09,319 Speaker 1: You're just crazy. 201 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:11,840 Speaker 3: I actually don't even know if that's the Russian saying 202 00:09:12,440 --> 00:09:15,439 Speaker 3: oh no sorry in any sorry fuck in every joke 203 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 3: there's a little bit of a joke, basically saying like 204 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:20,280 Speaker 3: there's truth at the core and every joke. 205 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:22,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what I was trying to say. 206 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:27,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I've always to say it. Anyways, screw these Okay, 207 00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:29,160 Speaker 1: we got we got real family. 208 00:09:30,280 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 4: Give me give me one second cooking over there. 209 00:09:33,480 --> 00:09:35,600 Speaker 1: We don't know what he's cooking on though, it's going 210 00:09:35,679 --> 00:09:36,240 Speaker 1: to be a surprise. 211 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:37,440 Speaker 4: You know what I like? 212 00:09:37,640 --> 00:09:42,679 Speaker 1: What you like? I I cannot lie the Canady. I 213 00:09:43,320 --> 00:09:43,960 Speaker 1: you know what I like? 214 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:45,000 Speaker 4: Russian sing? 215 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:51,440 Speaker 1: What? Get on with it? Good job, all right, let's 216 00:09:51,440 --> 00:09:54,600 Speaker 1: get in the reality. So onto the update. Everyone that 217 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 1: told me last night that I couldn't wait to tell 218 00:09:57,200 --> 00:09:58,760 Speaker 1: my sister was right. 219 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:00,880 Speaker 2: A little after twelve last night, I got a call 220 00:10:00,920 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 2: from my sister and says that she has to tell 221 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:07,600 Speaker 2: me that my wife tried to begin an affair with 222 00:10:07,840 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 2: her husband. The classic classic, the classic reverse. 223 00:10:15,720 --> 00:10:18,240 Speaker 1: Who know, Oh, you know. 224 00:10:18,200 --> 00:10:19,920 Speaker 3: He's playing a good game. He's playing a good game. 225 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:22,240 Speaker 3: We know he's his time is up, and so he's 226 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:25,120 Speaker 3: just trying to extend his time. He's he's fighting and 227 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 3: he's playing. He's playing a game. So he tried to 228 00:10:28,400 --> 00:10:31,000 Speaker 3: pin it on her. I told her that's not the case, 229 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:33,120 Speaker 3: and I will be right over. So I get on 230 00:10:33,160 --> 00:10:35,720 Speaker 3: the phone, Wake my mother and father and tell them 231 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:38,360 Speaker 3: what's going on. Wake my younger brother and tell him. 232 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 1: So. So, now that they're coming for you, you gotta 233 00:10:41,320 --> 00:10:44,079 Speaker 1: get every you gotta like yo yo yo, tip off everybody. Hey, 234 00:10:44,080 --> 00:10:46,960 Speaker 1: everyone get on my side. Now our armada is going 235 00:10:47,000 --> 00:10:47,240 Speaker 1: to come. 236 00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:50,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, Because I feel like in these family matters, whoever 237 00:10:50,760 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 4: here's news first, believes it first. Yeah, And you have 238 00:10:53,559 --> 00:10:55,000 Speaker 4: to you have to be well, there's a. 239 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:57,920 Speaker 3: True thing where it's like, uh, the lies travel ten 240 00:10:58,040 --> 00:11:00,760 Speaker 3: times as as quickly as the true, and so like 241 00:11:00,840 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 3: you need to make sure the truth gets out. 242 00:11:02,559 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 1: You get Yeah, one hundred percent. 243 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:07,280 Speaker 2: My mom and dad head to my sisters to sit 244 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:09,640 Speaker 2: with their kids, and my brother comes to our house 245 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:11,839 Speaker 2: to sit with ours, and my wife and I head over. 246 00:11:12,040 --> 00:11:13,920 Speaker 2: My sister is out on the front porch with my 247 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:16,560 Speaker 2: brother in law. When we get there, he looks beaten. 248 00:11:16,600 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 2: He knows we have texts and voicemail. 249 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:23,400 Speaker 1: Bro. Bro is cooked. He's absolutely cooked. He's this idiot. 250 00:11:23,440 --> 00:11:27,200 Speaker 1: He's like he's digging his own gray. I mean, he's 251 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:29,280 Speaker 1: already like absolutely aft. 252 00:11:29,559 --> 00:11:32,720 Speaker 2: But it's so crazy because once the wife then finds 253 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 2: out that he said that lie to get out of 254 00:11:34,920 --> 00:11:38,800 Speaker 2: it and try to frame Opie's wife, who is totally innocent, Yeah, 255 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:42,480 Speaker 2: she's gonna be even more furious. Yeah, I mean yeah, 256 00:11:42,480 --> 00:11:44,720 Speaker 2: he was trying to do a Hail Mary. Yeah, absolutely 257 00:11:45,280 --> 00:11:45,760 Speaker 2: hail Mary. 258 00:11:45,800 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 1: Here. I really don't know what he was hoping to accomplish, 259 00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:48,839 Speaker 1: neither do I. 260 00:11:48,679 --> 00:11:50,880 Speaker 3: I actually think I have an idea what he was 261 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:53,080 Speaker 3: hoping to accomplish that we have seen before. If he 262 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 3: felt like he had like his wife under his thumb, 263 00:11:55,760 --> 00:11:58,840 Speaker 3: he could basically say, isolate from all of your family, 264 00:11:58,840 --> 00:12:01,120 Speaker 3: don't listen to what they have to say, but he 265 00:12:01,160 --> 00:12:01,920 Speaker 3: obviously doesn't. 266 00:12:02,200 --> 00:12:05,559 Speaker 1: It's tragic, but that does happen, and that does happen. 267 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:06,240 Speaker 1: We have seen it. 268 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:09,480 Speaker 2: My wife gives my sister her phone. She sees the texts, 269 00:12:09,640 --> 00:12:13,200 Speaker 2: listens to the voicemails, and starts sobbing before she can 270 00:12:13,240 --> 00:12:16,280 Speaker 2: say anything. My brother in law is a firefighter, a big, 271 00:12:16,280 --> 00:12:18,920 Speaker 2: tough guy, so this is a scene. My sister is 272 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:21,920 Speaker 2: pretty tough. She tells him to stop it, pack a 273 00:12:21,960 --> 00:12:26,840 Speaker 2: bag and go, bless old ass. She can't stand to 274 00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:29,520 Speaker 2: look at him. There's more begging, but she has no 275 00:12:29,640 --> 00:12:32,040 Speaker 2: patience for it, so my sister walks off to talk 276 00:12:32,040 --> 00:12:34,400 Speaker 2: with my wife. I see them hugging, so at least 277 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:36,640 Speaker 2: I feel like they are okay. They have actually been 278 00:12:36,640 --> 00:12:40,440 Speaker 2: friends since college. I met my wife through my sister, 279 00:12:40,640 --> 00:12:43,040 Speaker 2: so she was friends with the sister first. 280 00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:47,200 Speaker 1: Sophia, get up your game? Where's my wife? Tavia? Where's 281 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:48,720 Speaker 1: your hot guy friends for her? Today? 282 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:51,959 Speaker 3: I am literally bringing hot guys in this house at 283 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:56,120 Speaker 3: all hours of the day. Tavia just has very particular tastes, 284 00:12:56,320 --> 00:12:58,400 Speaker 3: very particular tastes, very particular so hot. 285 00:12:58,440 --> 00:13:02,280 Speaker 2: I'm find to find him, find some meals to acquiesce 286 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:03,400 Speaker 2: to her, to her palate. 287 00:13:04,160 --> 00:13:07,920 Speaker 1: There you go, so okay, let me get to try it. 288 00:13:09,040 --> 00:13:12,000 Speaker 1: Sure it was No. 289 00:13:11,800 --> 00:13:14,720 Speaker 2: I'm not even going there. They are tight my sister 290 00:13:14,760 --> 00:13:23,360 Speaker 2: and my wife. Okay, anyways, we're now really getting back. Whoa, 291 00:13:24,400 --> 00:13:28,199 Speaker 2: I'm dropping it now. I'm throwing down the hammer. Thought 292 00:13:28,320 --> 00:13:31,120 Speaker 2: of this wrecking her friendship has been weighing on me. 293 00:13:31,400 --> 00:13:34,559 Speaker 2: This leaves me with my brother in law. He's broken, 294 00:13:35,000 --> 00:13:39,240 Speaker 2: so I feel more sympathy than anger. God stop laughing. 295 00:13:40,520 --> 00:13:43,079 Speaker 2: He feels that he's sorry. He just couldn't help it. 296 00:13:43,080 --> 00:13:44,800 Speaker 2: It's not hard to fall in love with my wife, 297 00:13:44,800 --> 00:13:47,680 Speaker 2: so I get it. But dang mane, that's cute. 298 00:13:47,679 --> 00:13:48,720 Speaker 1: That's cute. G It's cute. 299 00:13:48,760 --> 00:13:51,600 Speaker 2: He eventually picks himself up and leaves, so we're there 300 00:13:51,679 --> 00:13:54,280 Speaker 2: all night. My sister starts asking my wife why her 301 00:13:54,320 --> 00:13:57,000 Speaker 2: husband would think any of this would work out. He 302 00:13:57,120 --> 00:13:59,360 Speaker 2: had to have some reason to believe that she felt 303 00:13:59,360 --> 00:14:02,240 Speaker 2: the same way. My sister says that they haven't been 304 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:05,080 Speaker 2: having problems. Everything was as it had always been. My 305 00:14:05,120 --> 00:14:08,480 Speaker 2: wife is crying at this point and says, there's nothing 306 00:14:08,520 --> 00:14:11,040 Speaker 2: you haven't seen. She gives my sister her phone again 307 00:14:11,320 --> 00:14:14,600 Speaker 2: and they read every text ever sent over the past 308 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:18,040 Speaker 2: two years. Nothing there. My wife was just herself. She 309 00:14:18,120 --> 00:14:20,680 Speaker 2: has a playful personality and so does my brother in law, 310 00:14:20,720 --> 00:14:22,480 Speaker 2: so they tease each other. She does the same to 311 00:14:22,560 --> 00:14:25,160 Speaker 2: my mom and younger brother as well. The only thing 312 00:14:25,200 --> 00:14:27,520 Speaker 2: she could think of was that moment in the kitchen 313 00:14:27,640 --> 00:14:31,800 Speaker 2: this past weekend that he referenced what exactly we didn't 314 00:14:31,840 --> 00:14:33,680 Speaker 2: hear the exact rundown? 315 00:14:33,720 --> 00:14:37,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, was there something where he's like, that's a 316 00:14:37,360 --> 00:14:42,200 Speaker 3: saw and it talks. It was firefire buddies while they 317 00:14:42,280 --> 00:14:44,760 Speaker 3: getting hot and greased steps, sliding down that. 318 00:14:44,640 --> 00:14:48,720 Speaker 2: Pole baby oil. Yeah, bid, and likely she was you bro. Well, 319 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:52,280 Speaker 2: they both went to the fridge at the same time. 320 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:55,080 Speaker 1: And then their hands touched as they were going into 321 00:14:55,080 --> 00:14:57,840 Speaker 1: the fridge, and they playfully jostled for who would get 322 00:14:57,840 --> 00:15:00,000 Speaker 1: there first. Oh not you, not you. 323 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:02,080 Speaker 2: It out of my waist, he let her win, but 324 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:05,400 Speaker 2: he reaches around her waist to get a beer slowly, 325 00:15:05,680 --> 00:15:08,120 Speaker 2: and she did feel the way he did it was 326 00:15:08,120 --> 00:15:14,320 Speaker 2: a little inappropriate. So he's kind of like feeling that 327 00:15:14,440 --> 00:15:18,560 Speaker 2: waste look good, looks kind of like a weird. 328 00:15:18,520 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 1: Weird move man. Yeah, that's that's like, that's like the 329 00:15:21,920 --> 00:15:24,120 Speaker 1: classic oh let me touch your waist to move you 330 00:15:24,200 --> 00:15:27,520 Speaker 1: over here. Yeah, you're oh mini golf like, oh no, 331 00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:31,280 Speaker 1: here's here's the right position man on it with someone. 332 00:15:32,240 --> 00:15:38,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, especially if it's your bricket what your yeah, your 333 00:15:38,640 --> 00:15:43,280 Speaker 3: brother in law's wife law. Sorry, yes, your sister law. 334 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:44,360 Speaker 3: It's your sister in law. 335 00:15:44,480 --> 00:15:45,880 Speaker 1: It's your sister in law. Come on, bro. 336 00:15:46,200 --> 00:15:48,200 Speaker 2: She says she should have called him out on it, 337 00:15:48,240 --> 00:15:49,760 Speaker 2: but she didn't want to make it a big thing, 338 00:15:49,840 --> 00:15:54,960 Speaker 2: which honestly I understand understand because like sometimes like things happen, happened. 339 00:15:57,040 --> 00:15:57,520 Speaker 4: Slip. 340 00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:01,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, the classic feels maybe the fact that she didn't 341 00:16:01,880 --> 00:16:02,720 Speaker 2: give him hope. 342 00:16:02,760 --> 00:16:04,760 Speaker 1: My sister doesn't blame her, so at least. 343 00:16:04,520 --> 00:16:07,480 Speaker 3: That's but that is the craziest like like that that 344 00:16:07,640 --> 00:16:09,840 Speaker 3: one instance is what you brush. 345 00:16:09,680 --> 00:16:12,440 Speaker 2: Someone's waste with your hand and you are the statched 346 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:15,480 Speaker 2: wayte playfully jostle for a fridge. 347 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:17,880 Speaker 1: My god. So then my sister starts going through his 348 00:16:17,920 --> 00:16:20,320 Speaker 1: MacBook to see what else she doesn't know about. She's 349 00:16:20,440 --> 00:16:21,480 Speaker 1: angry and frantic. 350 00:16:21,520 --> 00:16:24,360 Speaker 2: At this point, she guesses the password Wow, wait, I'm 351 00:16:24,360 --> 00:16:27,400 Speaker 2: in wait, yes, deleted. 352 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:29,680 Speaker 1: Text, deleated text. We haven't looked at those yet, deleted texts? 353 00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:32,960 Speaker 3: And on this computer are we going to see deleted 354 00:16:32,960 --> 00:16:34,280 Speaker 3: text that incriminate the wife. 355 00:16:34,320 --> 00:16:37,120 Speaker 1: We could be I don't think so though, but for 356 00:16:37,240 --> 00:16:39,760 Speaker 1: the purposes of the conspiracy, yes, I think something's going 357 00:16:39,840 --> 00:16:41,240 Speaker 1: to happen. I think something's going to happen. 358 00:16:41,360 --> 00:16:44,840 Speaker 2: She guesses the password, starts searching, and finds a lot 359 00:16:44,880 --> 00:16:49,000 Speaker 2: of pictures of my wife on that computer. They went 360 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:53,280 Speaker 2: back years and always isolated onjust her. We had gone 361 00:16:53,320 --> 00:16:56,040 Speaker 2: as couples to the Caribbean a few years earlier. She 362 00:16:56,120 --> 00:16:59,160 Speaker 2: wore a bikini. She usually doesn't, but since it was 363 00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:03,200 Speaker 2: adults only, she did. There were probably fifty pictures of 364 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:07,040 Speaker 2: her in that bathing suit in this photo album. Whoa 365 00:17:07,600 --> 00:17:08,400 Speaker 2: okay stalker? 366 00:17:09,119 --> 00:17:09,399 Speaker 1: Yeah? 367 00:17:09,520 --> 00:17:14,080 Speaker 3: Like massively basically built this up all on his head 368 00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:15,280 Speaker 3: for years. 369 00:17:15,440 --> 00:17:18,920 Speaker 2: So he's been secretly snapping these four years business. Now 370 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:22,080 Speaker 2: he snapped him. I thought it was like a post 371 00:17:22,119 --> 00:17:25,040 Speaker 2: on the photos. He snapped them secretly. 372 00:17:25,160 --> 00:17:26,440 Speaker 1: He secretly took the pictures. 373 00:17:26,920 --> 00:17:30,480 Speaker 2: I didn't realize so much either, Right, does this now 374 00:17:30,760 --> 00:17:32,800 Speaker 2: enter restraining order territory? 375 00:17:33,000 --> 00:17:35,960 Speaker 1: This has taken a creepy turn. I will update when 376 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:38,280 Speaker 1: I have more. We have some relevant comms to dive into, 377 00:17:38,280 --> 00:17:41,959 Speaker 1: but that's exact question. Should he get arressed, obsessed? He's obsessed. 378 00:17:42,119 --> 00:17:46,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's he's clearly by what he confessed, and that 379 00:17:46,760 --> 00:17:51,800 Speaker 2: small of an inn for him to literally risk everything 380 00:17:51,840 --> 00:17:55,119 Speaker 2: and completely blow up his life, he's not in his 381 00:17:55,280 --> 00:17:55,840 Speaker 2: right mind. 382 00:17:56,160 --> 00:17:58,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I would be worried. Yes, I would be worried 383 00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:01,280 Speaker 1: and and fire off the restraining order. 384 00:18:01,520 --> 00:18:04,640 Speaker 2: You think, I think potentially, Yeah, I would like because 385 00:18:05,119 --> 00:18:08,359 Speaker 2: I think because he he does have if this was 386 00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:13,399 Speaker 2: just like a random stalker creepo, the restraining order could possibly. 387 00:18:12,960 --> 00:18:14,440 Speaker 1: Piss someone off and make them mad. 388 00:18:14,600 --> 00:18:17,439 Speaker 2: Ope, and the sister and the wife, they all have 389 00:18:17,520 --> 00:18:19,400 Speaker 2: the leverage of Like, he probably still wants to see 390 00:18:19,400 --> 00:18:21,359 Speaker 2: his kids and like be involved in the family. 391 00:18:21,720 --> 00:18:25,840 Speaker 3: So yeah, and if if OP gets that restraining order, 392 00:18:26,160 --> 00:18:28,000 Speaker 3: does that prevent him from seeing the kids? 393 00:18:28,359 --> 00:18:30,400 Speaker 1: I don't know. No, that's not what I was saying. 394 00:18:30,800 --> 00:18:34,359 Speaker 2: I was saying he was probably more likely not guaranteed, 395 00:18:34,400 --> 00:18:37,080 Speaker 2: but more likely to behave so that way he can 396 00:18:37,119 --> 00:18:39,640 Speaker 2: get favorable access to like his kids and a divorce 397 00:18:39,640 --> 00:18:41,359 Speaker 2: and things like that and not be too crazy. And 398 00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:43,560 Speaker 2: if there's a restraining order, he's probably like, Okay, let 399 00:18:43,600 --> 00:18:45,520 Speaker 2: me just accept this and not try to break it. 400 00:18:45,680 --> 00:18:48,119 Speaker 2: Possibly there's more, there's more of a chance that he'll 401 00:18:48,200 --> 00:18:49,360 Speaker 2: respect it because there's. 402 00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:53,040 Speaker 3: A yeah, I'm I was thinking, uh, if you get 403 00:18:53,080 --> 00:18:56,000 Speaker 3: the restraining order, that will make it very hard for 404 00:18:56,080 --> 00:18:58,600 Speaker 3: him to see his kids, and it's like he's lost everything. 405 00:18:58,680 --> 00:19:02,720 Speaker 2: So but the restrain order is on his sister in law, 406 00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:05,440 Speaker 2: who he wouldn't really have to Like, he could probably 407 00:19:05,480 --> 00:19:09,000 Speaker 2: see his kids at his ex soon to be ex 408 00:19:09,040 --> 00:19:10,359 Speaker 2: wife's house where the. 409 00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:13,040 Speaker 1: Hope's wife is in president. 410 00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:16,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's true, that's true. I I just imagine 411 00:19:16,840 --> 00:19:19,479 Speaker 3: what I could limit it. I I think it could. 412 00:19:19,800 --> 00:19:22,480 Speaker 3: I could, it could limit it. And also in the 413 00:19:22,520 --> 00:19:26,480 Speaker 3: divorce context, like he probably if he has a restraining order, 414 00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:28,960 Speaker 3: is he going to get access to his kids in 415 00:19:29,000 --> 00:19:31,919 Speaker 3: the divorce? I see what You're most most likely not. 416 00:19:32,080 --> 00:19:34,719 Speaker 3: She'll have full cost and can choose when to let 417 00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:36,760 Speaker 3: him have it. But it's like, I guess I wouldn't 418 00:19:36,840 --> 00:19:40,440 Speaker 3: file for a restraining I wouldn't file for a restraining 419 00:19:40,680 --> 00:19:43,880 Speaker 3: order yet. It's very creepy and I think it's it's 420 00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:48,000 Speaker 3: almost there. But in my like, if if this was me, 421 00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:51,080 Speaker 3: I would I would probably talk with the sister in law. 422 00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:53,760 Speaker 3: Yeah maybe maybe I would be like talk to her 423 00:19:53,800 --> 00:19:55,440 Speaker 3: and be like, hey, like I want to I feel 424 00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:57,960 Speaker 3: a little bit unsafe, but I also want to work 425 00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:00,280 Speaker 3: with you to make sure that your family. 426 00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:03,680 Speaker 2: Feels Yeah, I think it's fair if if ultimately Opie's 427 00:20:03,680 --> 00:20:04,720 Speaker 2: wife wants. 428 00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:07,680 Speaker 1: It, get it. Yeah, you know what exactly, But if 429 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:08,160 Speaker 1: she has to. 430 00:20:08,119 --> 00:20:10,440 Speaker 3: Believe you want it, get it. But I think like 431 00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:12,880 Speaker 3: maybe factoring in the sister in laws a good idea. 432 00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:15,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, you were saying the restraining order might come up 433 00:20:16,040 --> 00:20:19,879 Speaker 2: in like the court case of the divorce, yea, and 434 00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:22,439 Speaker 2: be a reason for him not to It's not the 435 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:25,040 Speaker 2: fact that she might be in close vicinity to the 436 00:20:25,400 --> 00:20:28,560 Speaker 2: nieces and nephews that he couldn't enter that restraining order 437 00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:31,520 Speaker 2: force field, which may be also a thing. It could 438 00:20:31,560 --> 00:20:33,520 Speaker 2: also be a thing too. Let's get too some Malvin comments. 439 00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:36,040 Speaker 1: It sounds like the families hang out a lot. 440 00:20:36,160 --> 00:20:37,680 Speaker 2: It does. That is true. That is a good point. 441 00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:40,639 Speaker 2: But onto some relevant comments. Mace One says, the fact 442 00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:43,600 Speaker 2: that you casually said you wouldn't do anything tonight and 443 00:20:43,640 --> 00:20:45,879 Speaker 2: you would call him tomorrow and not tell your sister 444 00:20:45,960 --> 00:20:49,680 Speaker 2: asap is highly suspect. I can't imagine a situation where 445 00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:52,919 Speaker 2: any man would want to have lunch with my wife alone, 446 00:20:53,040 --> 00:20:55,840 Speaker 2: to share something with her and I'd be okay with that. 447 00:20:56,119 --> 00:20:59,760 Speaker 2: You really said wait until tomorrow after he professes there 448 00:20:59,800 --> 00:21:03,040 Speaker 2: undying love to your wife. Something is afoot and there's 449 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:05,800 Speaker 2: more to the story that you're not sharing. I mean, 450 00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:08,680 Speaker 2: what if they want to plan a surprise party? So 451 00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:10,920 Speaker 2: the commentor Mace one is saying. 452 00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:14,040 Speaker 4: Why didn't you like confront him right away instead of 453 00:21:14,080 --> 00:21:14,879 Speaker 4: waiting till tomorrow. 454 00:21:15,520 --> 00:21:17,640 Speaker 2: So when he called, he's like, hey, let's get lunch tomorrow. 455 00:21:17,720 --> 00:21:19,399 Speaker 2: It just needs to be the two of us alone. 456 00:21:19,520 --> 00:21:21,560 Speaker 2: He's like, you should have like stopped it right then 457 00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:25,320 Speaker 2: and there no like what if they're planning a surprise party. 458 00:21:25,440 --> 00:21:30,040 Speaker 3: Or like, like like I think a reasonable expectation would 459 00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:31,560 Speaker 3: be like, oh, they're just friends and they want to 460 00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:32,280 Speaker 3: get That's. 461 00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:34,359 Speaker 2: What I'm saying, Like, I feel like your relationship should 462 00:21:34,359 --> 00:21:37,320 Speaker 2: have trust to the degree where it's like if that happens, 463 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:40,400 Speaker 2: you're like not really worried or like if anything comes 464 00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:42,280 Speaker 2: into your mind like, oh, this is irrational because I 465 00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:44,680 Speaker 2: trust I trust my partner so much. So Mace won, 466 00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:48,680 Speaker 2: maybe you need to check your own relationships, bro. Anyways, Yeah, oh, 467 00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:51,600 Speaker 2: p responds, We are all pretty close. My sister and 468 00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:54,040 Speaker 2: my wife are college friends and we are family. I 469 00:21:54,080 --> 00:21:56,600 Speaker 2: know this guy. Well, he's not a stranger. I just 470 00:21:56,640 --> 00:21:59,640 Speaker 2: needed some time to process. My whole life just changed. Yeah, 471 00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:02,920 Speaker 2: I don't think there's Yeah, I think they executed it perfectly. 472 00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:06,520 Speaker 1: Dude. Reddit can be pretty all like one. 473 00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:12,480 Speaker 3: Just shut down no cot Yeah, then I think often 474 00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:16,320 Speaker 3: responses are way more nuanced than the Reddit comments suggest. 475 00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:21,359 Speaker 2: But yo yo yo Damn says he does text her frequently, 476 00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:25,000 Speaker 2: but there was nothing overly sexual. So since the constant 477 00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:27,720 Speaker 2: text to your wife from your sister's husband were only 478 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:29,480 Speaker 2: a bit sexual, is. 479 00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:31,280 Speaker 1: What I said. I was like, what does that mean? 480 00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:33,840 Speaker 2: Anyways, I can't believe you didn't go straight to your 481 00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:38,000 Speaker 2: sisters tell her and beat his ass. Honestly, I was 482 00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:42,960 Speaker 2: reading the text weren't overly sexual as there was basically 483 00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:44,680 Speaker 2: nothing sexual unless you're like I. 484 00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:47,359 Speaker 3: Feel really stretched. Yeah, yeah, I think there was banter, 485 00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:52,480 Speaker 3: but there was no news. Well she's not like that extreme, 486 00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:57,199 Speaker 3: but like there's but there was no mention of of 487 00:22:58,080 --> 00:23:01,080 Speaker 3: like oh h what are you wearing? It's like you're 488 00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:02,600 Speaker 3: an idiot. No, you're an idiot. 489 00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:04,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, No, like I'm stroking my meat right now? 490 00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:10,119 Speaker 2: Yah yeah yeah, or nothing nothing even remotely close to it, 491 00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:12,879 Speaker 2: like it might be like, hey, we're gonna be uh 492 00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:14,879 Speaker 2: going to dinner and make sure you're not late, like 493 00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:15,440 Speaker 2: you know. 494 00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:19,919 Speaker 1: I might be late because you rot dog me. 495 00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:24,639 Speaker 2: No, why are we going to the absolute furthest extremes. 496 00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:27,600 Speaker 2: I wish you would have just said flirty, light simple 497 00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:31,919 Speaker 2: like like basically, I think my interpretation of this is 498 00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:35,040 Speaker 2: you would have to like really read into. 499 00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:37,399 Speaker 1: The text even find like light and breathing. 500 00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:43,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, my god, guys hoop, he responds, the text never 501 00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:43,880 Speaker 2: cross the line. 502 00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:45,120 Speaker 1: Ah, I was right. 503 00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:47,600 Speaker 2: I see all of them, and he knows that we 504 00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:49,679 Speaker 2: are family, and it never occurred to me or my 505 00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:52,120 Speaker 2: wife that things could take this turn. Like I said, 506 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:54,400 Speaker 2: my wife is a ball buster and she treated him 507 00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:55,760 Speaker 2: like a brother, like family. 508 00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 1: So they're they're they're they're close friends. They're joking around. 509 00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:01,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, they're friends, they're family're joking around, they're like, ah, 510 00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:02,199 Speaker 2: there has in each other. 511 00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:03,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, bus. 512 00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:07,199 Speaker 2: I have shared with my wife many of your comments. 513 00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:10,000 Speaker 2: It makes me feel better that virtually everyone here holds 514 00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:13,800 Speaker 2: her blameless as we should. It makes her feel better, 515 00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:17,639 Speaker 2: so thank you. Unfortunately, the mess continues. My sister agreed 516 00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:19,679 Speaker 2: to talk to her husband last night and let him 517 00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:22,639 Speaker 2: explain she puts my wife on FaceTime during this conversation, 518 00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:26,040 Speaker 2: so there will be no lying. I'm listening in as well. 519 00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:29,200 Speaker 2: Off camera is Opie's wife, like does does the. 520 00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:31,800 Speaker 3: I think it's like a FaceTime the three way call 521 00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:34,320 Speaker 3: with Rupe's wife and. 522 00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:37,320 Speaker 2: Only op is off camera. Yeah, so yeah, that makes sense. 523 00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:40,479 Speaker 2: My sister is also recording the whole thing. Also smart. 524 00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:44,680 Speaker 2: He admits he's been obsessing with my wife for years. Oh, 525 00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:47,800 Speaker 2: it started the day he met her. My wife and 526 00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:49,720 Speaker 2: I were dating at the time, but he met my 527 00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:52,120 Speaker 2: wife before he met me. Like I said, my wife 528 00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:55,199 Speaker 2: and sister are longtime friends, and my sister wanted to 529 00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:58,040 Speaker 2: introduce her boyfriend to her friends. He thought it was 530 00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:01,200 Speaker 2: only physical for a while, but over time he knew 531 00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:04,760 Speaker 2: it was more. My sister nearly kicks him out right there, 532 00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:07,800 Speaker 2: but listens a little more, and she eventually asks what 533 00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:10,840 Speaker 2: made him think that my wife would leave me for him. 534 00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:14,560 Speaker 2: He answers that there's obviously mutual attraction, and he figured 535 00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:16,880 Speaker 2: it would begin as an affair and then things would 536 00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:17,880 Speaker 2: progress from there. 537 00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:21,199 Speaker 3: He thought it out, I mean, but there was no 538 00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:24,240 Speaker 3: mutual attraction. I want to know why he thought there was. 539 00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:27,200 Speaker 3: The one waste touch that you did in the kitchen. 540 00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:31,480 Speaker 2: He's he's taking every single because remember their whole relationship, 541 00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:35,400 Speaker 2: they were very like you know, they were, they were bantering, 542 00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:38,920 Speaker 2: they were like friends. So he mistook the friendship as 543 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:40,800 Speaker 2: something more a thousand. 544 00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:42,800 Speaker 1: Times more than what it actually was in reality. 545 00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:44,880 Speaker 2: My wife and sister explode at that point, a lot 546 00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:47,160 Speaker 2: of cussing, a lot of screaming. Phone call is over, 547 00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:49,560 Speaker 2: and my wife hangs up because at this point she 548 00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:52,600 Speaker 2: is concerned for me. She's shaken and distraught and assures 549 00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:55,400 Speaker 2: me the attraction was one sided. I never thought it wasn't. 550 00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:58,359 Speaker 2: Even if she did find him physically attractive, I know 551 00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:03,359 Speaker 2: that she would never act on it. Security, trustcurity, and security. 552 00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:05,240 Speaker 3: And like, your partner is going to find other people 553 00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:09,600 Speaker 3: physically attractive. It's like that's that, that is being a human. 554 00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:12,640 Speaker 1: It is a requisite for finding their partner. 555 00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:16,159 Speaker 3: Attracted exactly exactly. So it's like that that is fine. 556 00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:20,000 Speaker 3: What's not fine is having that an affair exactly. 557 00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:23,000 Speaker 2: She's just not the type. Early on in our relationship, 558 00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:26,080 Speaker 2: she caught me admiring her as she was dressing, asked 559 00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:28,560 Speaker 2: if I liked what I saw before her face turned 560 00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:31,200 Speaker 2: cold and told me to never f up or I'd 561 00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:34,960 Speaker 2: never see it again. Damn, she meant it. She's serious 562 00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:37,040 Speaker 2: about trust. So basically both of them are like, we 563 00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:38,879 Speaker 2: would never cheat on each other, and we both feel 564 00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:39,840 Speaker 2: confident and trustful. 565 00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:40,639 Speaker 1: Let's go, let's go. 566 00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:43,560 Speaker 2: Anyway, I knew my brother in law was a little cocky, 567 00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:47,040 Speaker 2: but my god, I never knew he thought that highly 568 00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:49,440 Speaker 2: of himself to be able to pull off something like this. 569 00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:52,199 Speaker 2: I talked to my sister later on, and she is 570 00:26:52,400 --> 00:26:55,960 Speaker 2: contacting the lawyer Monday to see what steps she can 571 00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:59,120 Speaker 2: take to limit his exposure to her kids. As far 572 00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:01,560 Speaker 2: as she concerned, he is detached from. 573 00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:03,160 Speaker 1: Reality, I mean kind of like it. 574 00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:06,000 Speaker 2: And that's all I have for now. I'll update once 575 00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:08,359 Speaker 2: the dust settles a little bit and there are some 576 00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:10,120 Speaker 2: more relevant comments here. 577 00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:12,280 Speaker 3: I don't know if I've learned anything that has like 578 00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:15,840 Speaker 3: changed my mind on the situation. Yeah, I feel I 579 00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:18,719 Speaker 3: feel like I thought he was unhinged before this update. 580 00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:21,640 Speaker 1: Well, I think now we were. We were discussing like, oh, 581 00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:24,600 Speaker 1: does the like getting a restraining order or any other 582 00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:28,360 Speaker 1: like legal action now possibly affect access to the kids. 583 00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:29,879 Speaker 1: That might be bad for the kids. But I think. 584 00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:32,760 Speaker 3: Sounds like the sistern in law wants that access to 585 00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:36,040 Speaker 3: be restricted. So if you want the restraining order, it 586 00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:37,760 Speaker 3: will still ask the sister a lot, if you like, 587 00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:39,040 Speaker 3: do you want me to get a restraining order? 588 00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:40,679 Speaker 1: And if so, then do so? 589 00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:43,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, Well it's yeah, and it sounds like just in general, 590 00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:47,760 Speaker 2: the restraining order for Opie's wife aside, she's just trying 591 00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:51,080 Speaker 2: to figure out by any means, how can I limit 592 00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:52,600 Speaker 2: access to him to my kids? 593 00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:53,040 Speaker 1: Now? 594 00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:55,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, before like wa official divorce. And I keep saying 595 00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:57,240 Speaker 2: sister in law, I mean Opie's sister. 596 00:27:57,200 --> 00:27:59,080 Speaker 1: Opie's sister, Yes, Opie's sister. 597 00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:01,919 Speaker 2: Relevant comments Paul and Via says, my wife and I 598 00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:04,280 Speaker 2: were talking about this, and that's what we thought. You 599 00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:06,480 Speaker 2: wanted to start an affair and then go from there. 600 00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:09,639 Speaker 2: There was no way to recover from asking your sister 601 00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:11,080 Speaker 2: in law to have an affair. 602 00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:12,440 Speaker 1: If the feeling. 603 00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:14,840 Speaker 2: Isn't mutual, you gotta you gotta really be ready to 604 00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:15,399 Speaker 2: put it. 605 00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:17,240 Speaker 1: All on the line. 606 00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:20,880 Speaker 2: Yep, Like, honestly, if you're gonna do it, if you're 607 00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:23,520 Speaker 2: gonna do it, you literally gotta be like, go ahead, 608 00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:27,000 Speaker 2: tell tell the wife, because like I have accepted that all. 609 00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:31,080 Speaker 2: But he's he's like, so detached dilutionality. And that's already 610 00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:34,600 Speaker 2: such a I mean again, even if you find them attractive, 611 00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:39,920 Speaker 2: even if you have true, deep romantic feelings for that person, like, 612 00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:44,120 Speaker 2: it is damn near evil to to like do it 613 00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:45,240 Speaker 2: this way, to act. 614 00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:47,520 Speaker 3: Well, I think it's like it's one thing. It's just 615 00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:52,600 Speaker 3: there's there's multiple boundaries that you're crossing, exactly like you're 616 00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:56,760 Speaker 3: you're you're not only crossing the boundary of husband and wife, 617 00:28:56,800 --> 00:28:58,960 Speaker 3: you're crossing the boundary of brother and sister. 618 00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:01,480 Speaker 1: Right, it's like when you have multi. 619 00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:03,560 Speaker 3: But hey, we've read stories where people have done it before, 620 00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:05,000 Speaker 3: so it's not like it can't happen. 621 00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:07,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, this is true. 622 00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:10,560 Speaker 2: You have torched everything incredibly high risk gambit with low 623 00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:11,520 Speaker 2: success potential. 624 00:29:11,760 --> 00:29:17,040 Speaker 1: It's it's high risk, low reward. I guess technically it 625 00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:19,520 Speaker 1: is high risk, high reward technically, if we want to 626 00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:22,120 Speaker 1: get technical about it. But he would have done this 627 00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:25,040 Speaker 1: sooner or later, with or without the kitchen incident. Great point, 628 00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:28,080 Speaker 1: Opie says. He had made comments to me many times 629 00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:30,760 Speaker 1: through the years that my wife was out of my league. 630 00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:35,520 Speaker 1: I would just laugh and agree, she is. I guess 631 00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:40,120 Speaker 1: he thought his gamble was not so high high value man. 632 00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:42,920 Speaker 1: You know obviously I deserve your wife. 633 00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:45,200 Speaker 2: I listened to some podcasts, and after I listen, I 634 00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:47,680 Speaker 2: realized I'm the greatest guy in the earth. 635 00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:51,320 Speaker 1: I'm so Sigma. There's no way she could possibly not. 636 00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:53,800 Speaker 3: Be just we want to be with fade a boy 637 00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:56,680 Speaker 3: like you, which she could have an elf Sigma wolf 638 00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:57,240 Speaker 3: like me. 639 00:29:57,560 --> 00:30:02,280 Speaker 2: You admitted that that that she's out of your league. Bro, 640 00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:04,840 Speaker 2: she's in my league because I'm such a Sigma, and 641 00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:07,040 Speaker 2: I know it. I know I would never say she's. 642 00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:10,120 Speaker 1: Out of actually out of all leagues, out of all leagues. 643 00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:13,680 Speaker 1: I am in the space league. I'm not human. I 644 00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:14,480 Speaker 1: am a god. 645 00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:18,880 Speaker 2: I have come to destroy the human race, improv all right? 646 00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:22,600 Speaker 2: But Sam, have come to destroy the human race? 647 00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:22,920 Speaker 1: Oh? 648 00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:25,160 Speaker 4: I think said the US was like, whoa. 649 00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:28,880 Speaker 2: That includes uteruses? The human race does? But Sam, yep? 650 00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:33,280 Speaker 2: But Riley, But we have a final update. Grow up 651 00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:38,000 Speaker 2: because we have real serious issues to be reading and 652 00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:41,000 Speaker 2: dissecting with the amazing Okay. 653 00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:47,239 Speaker 1: Fam here, Riley, my god show some decor. Is there 654 00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:50,440 Speaker 1: an update? Yes, there is, I'm gonna read it right 655 00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:51,760 Speaker 1: now in your face holes. 656 00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:54,320 Speaker 2: This is likely to be my final update, as they 657 00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:57,760 Speaker 2: don't see much happening after this besides the divorce proceedings. 658 00:30:57,760 --> 00:30:59,720 Speaker 2: Thanks for all the comments. They have helped my wife 659 00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:01,280 Speaker 2: with of the guilt. Anyway. 660 00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:04,840 Speaker 1: My brother in law returned home yesterday, not because my 661 00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:08,360 Speaker 1: sister wants him back, but because she can't legally stop him, 662 00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:11,000 Speaker 1: so she hasn't been able to get those restrictions that 663 00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:13,760 Speaker 1: she wanted so far. The lawyer tells my sister that 664 00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:16,280 Speaker 1: since my brother in law's behavior over the past few 665 00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:19,160 Speaker 1: days have been documented, there is a good chance that 666 00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:21,800 Speaker 1: she will be granted full custody. He doesn't seem to 667 00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:24,200 Speaker 1: even want to fight her on that, even to make 668 00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:26,800 Speaker 1: him look ei the only thing he wants, Oh life, 669 00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:30,160 Speaker 1: let's freaking go. My sister will be fine. 670 00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:32,480 Speaker 2: Any love she had for him is gone, and she 671 00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:35,440 Speaker 2: doesn't seem broken up about it. The kids don't know 672 00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:38,080 Speaker 2: what happened yet, but my brother in law was never 673 00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:40,760 Speaker 2: around that much when the kids were home. He slept 674 00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:42,680 Speaker 2: as the fire station many nights and put in a 675 00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:45,240 Speaker 2: lot of overtime, so he was already not as involved 676 00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:45,920 Speaker 2: as father. 677 00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:46,840 Speaker 4: Bros Plottin. 678 00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:50,360 Speaker 2: Bros Plottin he used all that time away to hatch 679 00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:53,160 Speaker 2: his scheme, but it is certainly going to be hard 680 00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:56,360 Speaker 2: on them once they know what's going to happen, which 681 00:31:56,440 --> 00:31:59,160 Speaker 2: is the divorce. Many commenters have said that there must 682 00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:01,360 Speaker 2: be more women, but as far as we can tell, 683 00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:04,600 Speaker 2: there hasn't been. It's really just this obsession with my wife. 684 00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:07,360 Speaker 2: She has blocked his phone. But the same night he 685 00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:10,200 Speaker 2: returned home, he sends my wife an email from an 686 00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:11,440 Speaker 2: account that he just made. 687 00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:14,240 Speaker 3: Bro does not know when to stop. I feel like 688 00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:17,400 Speaker 3: it's not gonna be like I want your body email though. 689 00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:19,160 Speaker 3: I feel like it's gonna be something a little bit 690 00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:20,520 Speaker 3: more somber. 691 00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:21,640 Speaker 1: Really well. 692 00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:26,000 Speaker 2: Starts off with an apology, but then it took a turn. 693 00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:29,200 Speaker 2: Oh no, wait, seriously, he said he never got to 694 00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:34,479 Speaker 2: finish at the restaurant that day. What oh the restaurant 695 00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:36,440 Speaker 2: where he confesses his love to her. He didn't reach 696 00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:37,160 Speaker 2: full completion? 697 00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:40,239 Speaker 1: Why of his statement? How is he not like? How 698 00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:42,600 Speaker 1: is he not get getting it? I don't understand. How's 699 00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:43,160 Speaker 1: he not getting it? 700 00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:47,800 Speaker 2: Because he's deranged. Then he went on for paragraphs and 701 00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:51,640 Speaker 2: paragraphs about all the things he loves about my wife 702 00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:54,840 Speaker 2: and the desperation he felt that led him to do 703 00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:58,400 Speaker 2: what he did. He mentioned their mutual attraction again and 704 00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:01,200 Speaker 2: the sexual attention that he's all always felt between me. 705 00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:01,600 Speaker 1: Dude. 706 00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:05,920 Speaker 2: It's one away and ended with a rather large section 707 00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:09,600 Speaker 2: about me. Oh, let's just say, I don't know how 708 00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:12,360 Speaker 2: he had such a low opinion of me. He was 709 00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:15,920 Speaker 2: quite certain that I was not satisfying my wife properly. 710 00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:19,480 Speaker 1: Oh my. Anyway, we sent the email to my sister 711 00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:22,600 Speaker 1: and it will go to the lawyer. This guy is 712 00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:24,120 Speaker 1: not only released, but an idiot. 713 00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:27,479 Speaker 3: You know what what that brother in law not the 714 00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:30,680 Speaker 3: a hole for giving them more evidence in the divorce proceedings. 715 00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:34,680 Speaker 3: That's true, you have signed your own divorces. 716 00:33:34,680 --> 00:33:35,520 Speaker 1: That's not true. 717 00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:38,280 Speaker 2: Because he was into he thought that maybe this was 718 00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:41,720 Speaker 2: his true last final shot in his deranged. 719 00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:44,240 Speaker 3: Mind, I mean the tenidatest ranged mind. But in actuality, 720 00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:46,120 Speaker 3: he just made it easier for everyone. 721 00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:48,160 Speaker 1: He helped them by accident. Helped them by accident. 722 00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:48,320 Speaker 3: Fair. 723 00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:49,680 Speaker 1: I'll give it to you. I'll give it to you. 724 00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:53,600 Speaker 1: It might be enough to get him removed from the house. Finally. 725 00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:56,400 Speaker 2: My wife isn't great, but she is doing better every day. 726 00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:59,080 Speaker 2: She does blame herself for being too comfortable around my 727 00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:01,400 Speaker 2: brother in law. She's always careful to set boundaries with 728 00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:02,880 Speaker 2: other men in case you haven't. 729 00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:03,680 Speaker 1: Figured it out already. 730 00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:06,440 Speaker 2: My wife is pretty stunning and gets a lot of 731 00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:09,400 Speaker 2: final attention. But with my brother in law, she felt 732 00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:12,759 Speaker 2: safe to be herself since he was family. Surely no 733 00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:16,799 Speaker 2: lines would be crossed. Surely, damn surely temple. 734 00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:18,960 Speaker 1: Oh pie's got it made in the shade. That's true. 735 00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:22,840 Speaker 1: And surely temples are not a real drink? What surely, 736 00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:25,879 Speaker 1: what surely wouldn't happen hilly Temple's are not a real drink. 737 00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:27,600 Speaker 1: It is a real drink. It's not a real drink. 738 00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:30,320 Speaker 1: What do you mean, virgin drink to drink? 739 00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:32,880 Speaker 2: But like, it's not an alcoholic it's a liquid that 740 00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:35,200 Speaker 2: you can But when we say drink, we refer to 741 00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:36,600 Speaker 2: a drink like like uh. 742 00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:38,280 Speaker 4: Not an alcoholic beverage. 743 00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:41,200 Speaker 2: There you go, yes, not a drink. Do we say 744 00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:43,560 Speaker 2: I'm going out? We say we're going out drinking. We're 745 00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:44,400 Speaker 2: not drinking water. 746 00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:47,799 Speaker 1: You literally just said drinking water. No, we say we're 747 00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:50,680 Speaker 1: going out drinking. When we use drink or drinking in 748 00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:53,560 Speaker 1: its own, the context is that it is a alcoholic beverage. 749 00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:55,920 Speaker 2: You have some water to drink, some water to drink. 750 00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:59,200 Speaker 2: You've now contextualized the drink. But if you use drink. Hey, 751 00:34:59,200 --> 00:35:01,120 Speaker 2: we're going out drink no context? 752 00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:06,000 Speaker 1: What are we doing? Aol? Of course? All right side 753 00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:18,160 Speaker 1: mancher right, Wow, you won got him? Damn okay, boom okay. 754 00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:20,720 Speaker 1: That's a great point. Surely no lines would be crossed. 755 00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:23,080 Speaker 2: She and my sister are cool and there doesn't appear 756 00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:25,200 Speaker 2: to be any resentment, so that makes me happy. We 757 00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:28,360 Speaker 2: will all be okay. It will just take time. Thanks 758 00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:31,080 Speaker 2: to all who commented and voice their support, and ladies 759 00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:33,520 Speaker 2: and gentlemen, let's close out with these relevant comments and 760 00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:35,759 Speaker 2: a decision four to seventy says, what a bomb he 761 00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:38,520 Speaker 2: threw in to blow everything up. Please take steps to 762 00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:41,600 Speaker 2: secure your home and your car. Recommend a restraining order 763 00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:44,360 Speaker 2: so he can't come around trying to explain or convince 764 00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:46,920 Speaker 2: or apologize to your wife. Hoping your sister can do 765 00:35:46,960 --> 00:35:48,759 Speaker 2: what she needs to be done and can move on 766 00:35:48,760 --> 00:35:50,840 Speaker 2: to a better life. Opie responds, I don't think my 767 00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:53,520 Speaker 2: brother in law is dangerous. Just conceded you never you 768 00:35:53,560 --> 00:35:54,240 Speaker 2: never thought. 769 00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:57,520 Speaker 3: You would do like you don't know how far someone 770 00:35:57,520 --> 00:35:58,880 Speaker 3: can go, like you didn't think you could go. 771 00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:01,960 Speaker 1: That's far. Yeah, he did so exactly. The guy was 772 00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:02,880 Speaker 1: quite a ladies man. 773 00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:05,600 Speaker 2: Before getting married and still got plenty of attention after 774 00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:07,240 Speaker 2: his ego is bruised. 775 00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:09,440 Speaker 1: But I do have cameras and it alone. 776 00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:12,799 Speaker 3: Oh so he was also hot who hottiesties? 777 00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:14,600 Speaker 1: And he's like of course, of course I got it's 778 00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:18,359 Speaker 1: gonna happen. And Opie's ugly, so the regular Joe just 779 00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:23,200 Speaker 1: like us. That's all right, h pH guys, Thanks buddy. 780 00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:25,759 Speaker 2: pH twelve twenty six says, thank you for sharing your 781 00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:28,640 Speaker 2: sad story. It has been helpful for me. My wife 782 00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:32,200 Speaker 2: has been casually pursued by a married member of my club, 783 00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:34,920 Speaker 2: and she is usually too surprised and modest to assume 784 00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:37,560 Speaker 2: what he's after. When he first started, my wife thought 785 00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:40,080 Speaker 2: it was just harmless banter, but I didn't and told 786 00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:42,520 Speaker 2: her I didn't think so. As it continued, she finally 787 00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:44,839 Speaker 2: realized I was right, so when I had to tell 788 00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:46,319 Speaker 2: him to knock it off. 789 00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:46,880 Speaker 1: She was relieved. 790 00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:50,080 Speaker 2: It took three incidents for him to finally get the message. 791 00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:53,080 Speaker 2: Opie responds with and closes out the story. My wife 792 00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:56,080 Speaker 2: is mad at herself because she is usually so careful. 793 00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:58,480 Speaker 2: She's had so many incidents when she was younger with 794 00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:03,920 Speaker 2: guys she was friendly with that ended up making unwanted advances, 795 00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:05,960 Speaker 2: and that is the end of the story here, that's 796 00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:10,120 Speaker 2: the end. So I think everything was pretty much done 797 00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:11,759 Speaker 2: exactly as it should have been. 798 00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:13,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, I would say probably. Yeah. 799 00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:17,440 Speaker 2: Really do you think the brother in law should have 800 00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:18,520 Speaker 2: done everything that he did? 801 00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:21,279 Speaker 1: Yes? I said what I said. I stand by it. 802 00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:32,040 Speaker 3: Everyone who is h jones cheating and transgressions against family. 803 00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:36,960 Speaker 2: No, I think that everyone who responded to the brother's 804 00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:42,360 Speaker 2: the initial craziness very well executed. Seems like everything everyone's 805 00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:45,800 Speaker 2: doing everything right and in the best possible place it 806 00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:46,279 Speaker 2: could be. 807 00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:51,200 Speaker 1: I agree Toda's Phil Bill our little little warm friend. 808 00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:56,799 Speaker 4: But one of those really does I have a face? 809 00:37:57,120 --> 00:38:00,640 Speaker 3: Apologize to Phil, apologie eyes to him? 810 00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:03,360 Speaker 1: Apologies? Do you mean it though so cute? You know 811 00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:06,479 Speaker 1: Bill is adorable? It was adorable worm i've ever seen. Yeah. Actually, 812 00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:12,240 Speaker 1: I wouldn't straight him out like that. I see why. 813 00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:17,920 Speaker 2: Honestly, I can't crochet. But the curvature, the wiggles are impressive. 814 00:38:17,960 --> 00:38:19,600 Speaker 1: The wiggles are impressive, very impressive. 815 00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:22,080 Speaker 2: So if you love us, make sure to subscribe We 816 00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:23,880 Speaker 2: love you and see it tomorrow.