1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:01,840 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,280 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time. 3 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:10,840 Speaker 1: Y'all don't know y'all bad at all at all. Soon 4 00:00:13,400 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 1: given the. 5 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:50,880 Speaker 3: Black busy listening to me, I don't joy, Yah, yeah, joy. 6 00:00:59,040 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 3: You gotta use that. 7 00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 4: You love. 8 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:31,839 Speaker 5: Turn you gotta turn. You can. 9 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 3: To turn the mouth. 10 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 1: Turn you probably got to turn mouth, turn out the 11 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 1: water the water jump. 12 00:01:55,840 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 6: Come come on, you're think, uh huh, I sure will. 13 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 6: Good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice. Come on, 14 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:11,640 Speaker 6: digney now want and only see Harvey got a radio show. 15 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 6: Five things that I know successful people have to do 16 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 6: to be successful. The principles are the same. You can 17 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:23,280 Speaker 6: apply it to anything, you know, if you want to 18 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:26,239 Speaker 6: be happily married, you know, whatever it is. The principles 19 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:29,400 Speaker 6: of success are the same. There are a series of 20 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 6: things that you have to do. You cannot skip the 21 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:34,919 Speaker 6: steps of success. If you do, you're going to have 22 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:38,640 Speaker 6: to go back and step on them anyway. So here's 23 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 6: here's here's a part man that I want you all 24 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:45,800 Speaker 6: to understand about me and and and and about how 25 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 6: to look at it. You know, you you cannot underestimate 26 00:02:55,120 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 6: faith and prayer, You just can't. You cannot underestimate the 27 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:06,919 Speaker 6: power of faith and the power of prayer. 28 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 2: See for me. This is just for me. 29 00:03:10,919 --> 00:03:13,079 Speaker 7: Now, this ain't in the scripture nowhere. This is just 30 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 7: something I discovered. What prayer did for me was was 31 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 7: it tied me to my creator. 32 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:23,919 Speaker 2: It gave me a sense. 33 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:27,400 Speaker 7: And I'm describing it this way, but I'm telling you 34 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:30,640 Speaker 7: it's deeper than this. But it gave me a sense 35 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 7: that I wasn't alone, and at actuality I wasn't. But 36 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 7: prayer helped connect me to the power source that was 37 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:48,840 Speaker 7: available to me to get through, get around, or get 38 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 7: over whatever it was that was in the way, whether 39 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 7: it was just a period I stretched, I had to 40 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:58,440 Speaker 7: go through hard work, It had to period I had 41 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 7: to go through to learn some lessons, some periods I 42 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:04,120 Speaker 7: had to go through from having to pay for some 43 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:05,440 Speaker 7: of the mistakes I've made. 44 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:06,880 Speaker 2: Whatever the case may be. 45 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 7: Prayer gave me a decided advantage, especially oh here we go, 46 00:04:18,200 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 7: especially over my enemies. Now, the majority of people in 47 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:25,680 Speaker 7: my life that were my enemies. I didn't want them 48 00:04:25,760 --> 00:04:30,200 Speaker 7: to be my enemies, make no mistake about this. But 49 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 7: through the thing called life, some things went down. Some 50 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:35,960 Speaker 7: things happened from here and then went over here and 51 00:04:36,240 --> 00:04:40,599 Speaker 7: that way, and a person became my enemy. The majority 52 00:04:40,640 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 7: of enemies I have came out of nowhere. I have 53 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:47,640 Speaker 7: no reason to even see why they are my enemies. 54 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:51,640 Speaker 7: But you know, life goes on, man. It happens from 55 00:04:51,680 --> 00:04:54,240 Speaker 7: time to time. Some people just won't let it go. 56 00:04:54,960 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 7: See some people, in their quest to do something to 57 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:02,920 Speaker 7: you or to make you pay, they just won't let 58 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:06,360 Speaker 7: it go. What may cause you some discomfort, and some 59 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:08,920 Speaker 7: of it may be lies about you and all of 60 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 7: this and all of that, but that that can't prohibit 61 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:16,080 Speaker 7: you from going forward. So what I'm saying is prayer 62 00:05:17,040 --> 00:05:20,360 Speaker 7: gave me the strength, wisdom understanding the carriage to either 63 00:05:20,440 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 7: go through it, go around it, or go over it. 64 00:05:26,080 --> 00:05:31,120 Speaker 2: But it happened. I do not know how I could 65 00:05:31,160 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 2: have made it without faith and without prayer. It would have. 66 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:41,040 Speaker 7: Something would have got me. YouTube would have got me. 67 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 7: The bloggers would have got me. My partners that I 68 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:50,800 Speaker 7: grew up with, that used to laugh behind my back, 69 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 7: they would have got me. My friend that went over 70 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:58,080 Speaker 7: my mother's house one time and told her, you know 71 00:05:58,200 --> 00:06:01,160 Speaker 7: what Steve's problem is, he out there telling them jokes. 72 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:02,880 Speaker 2: He just lazy. He don't want to work. 73 00:06:04,080 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 1: That would have got me. 74 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:07,480 Speaker 2: They didn't know. 75 00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:10,600 Speaker 7: I ain't really mad at them because they was just 76 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 7: all they was doing was based in their conversations and 77 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 7: passing judgment based on what they knew, based on what 78 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 7: they believed. 79 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:23,680 Speaker 2: They didn't believe I was gonna make it. But that's 80 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 2: them though. 81 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 7: If it was not for faith, which is the belief 82 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:30,920 Speaker 7: in things that you cannot see, I wouldn't have made 83 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:35,280 Speaker 7: it because I would have listened to everybody else who 84 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 7: didn't see me get in here and went along with it. 85 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:41,719 Speaker 2: And then prayer. 86 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:45,120 Speaker 7: Oh my goodness, man, how many times has prayer bailed 87 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 7: me out? Prayer has bailed me out, press still bailing 88 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:54,160 Speaker 7: me out. Tell you the truth, man, quiet as it's 89 00:06:54,200 --> 00:07:01,760 Speaker 7: kept prayer, that connection to your heavenly Father, that connection 90 00:07:01,960 --> 00:07:05,039 Speaker 7: to your creator, that connection to that source of power 91 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 7: and inspiration, that connection of never feeling that you were alone. 92 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:12,000 Speaker 7: You know, I was watching the Bishop Jakes on TV 93 00:07:12,200 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 7: yesterday and it was a repeat and one of the 94 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 7: things he was talking about, well, let me just get 95 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 7: to the gist of it. I was going through a 96 00:07:24,720 --> 00:07:28,760 Speaker 7: portion of my life and I went through it for 97 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:31,640 Speaker 7: some years, y'all. I had gotten myself into a jam 98 00:07:32,080 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 7: that lasted for years. I'm telling you, for years, with 99 00:07:37,640 --> 00:07:39,960 Speaker 7: some serious consequences to follow. 100 00:07:40,640 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 2: For years. And I was so busy looking at where 101 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:49,320 Speaker 2: I was at. 102 00:07:51,320 --> 00:07:55,040 Speaker 7: I was sulking sometimes, Man, i'd get on the radio, Man, 103 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:56,120 Speaker 7: I'd be just done. 104 00:07:56,760 --> 00:07:59,280 Speaker 2: I was sulking. My my. 105 00:08:01,640 --> 00:08:04,880 Speaker 7: Spirit had gotten low. I had gotten tired of the fight, 106 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:09,360 Speaker 7: and I would come on some mornings, man, and I 107 00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 7: would try try not to let on, but I was hurting. 108 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 7: I was because I had been in for years. Man, 109 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:18,440 Speaker 7: I had been in this thing for years, and one 110 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 7: thing I was doing. I was so busy looking at 111 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:24,240 Speaker 7: where I was at. And when I was watching Bishop Jakes, 112 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:33,679 Speaker 7: he preached this sermon. He was talking about so busy 113 00:08:33,920 --> 00:08:35,240 Speaker 7: looking at where you at. 114 00:08:37,160 --> 00:08:38,359 Speaker 2: That you don't. 115 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:45,160 Speaker 7: Even realize that God has been with you the entire time. 116 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:50,839 Speaker 7: And you know what, Man, just yesterday, just yesterday, I 117 00:08:50,960 --> 00:08:54,920 Speaker 7: heard this and I text him. I text Bishop Jakes, 118 00:08:55,040 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 7: and I thanked him because it was an old message 119 00:08:57,400 --> 00:09:01,120 Speaker 7: I could tell. And I called him up and I said, Man, 120 00:09:01,280 --> 00:09:03,160 Speaker 7: thank you so much. I was just watching you on 121 00:09:03,280 --> 00:09:07,079 Speaker 7: TV and you told me, Man, something that I that 122 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:11,560 Speaker 7: I'll always remember that whatever you're going through, that He's 123 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:15,160 Speaker 7: there with you the whole time. But see when sometimes 124 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:17,120 Speaker 7: when you're so busy looking at where you at, you 125 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:20,840 Speaker 7: don't even notice where he is. And see sometimes, Man, 126 00:09:20,960 --> 00:09:23,760 Speaker 7: that that helped me, and that's going to help me 127 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:26,439 Speaker 7: in the future to realize that what I'm going through, 128 00:09:26,520 --> 00:09:29,280 Speaker 7: that he's there. He's there with me, and he gonna 129 00:09:29,320 --> 00:09:32,040 Speaker 7: protect me, and he ain't gonna let my enemies overcome me, 130 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:34,839 Speaker 7: and he ain't gonna let nobody overtake me, and he 131 00:09:34,880 --> 00:09:37,240 Speaker 7: ain't gonna let me go under because he's there. 132 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:40,280 Speaker 2: It's just you can't be so busy looking at where 133 00:09:40,280 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 2: you at that you don't take notice of where he at. 134 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:46,160 Speaker 7: God is always there, He's always available, and the best 135 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 7: way to tap into that and know it is you 136 00:09:48,360 --> 00:09:52,440 Speaker 7: got to pray. Prayer has changed my life. Prayer can 137 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 7: change your life. You can become something if you just pray. 138 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:03,880 Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen, the time is here. 139 00:10:03,920 --> 00:10:07,640 Speaker 7: Another day has arrived, another blessing, another gift from God. 140 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:11,480 Speaker 2: Man just keeps doing it over and over and over 141 00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:15,920 Speaker 2: and over and over and over and over and over and. 142 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:21,280 Speaker 7: Over again and again and again and again, once again, 143 00:10:21,720 --> 00:10:24,320 Speaker 7: once again, one more time, or what. 144 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 2: Repeated me? 145 00:10:27,240 --> 00:10:31,840 Speaker 7: Same son, come up every day, same son ain't never late. 146 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:35,560 Speaker 7: Come up, right, man, I'm amazed. Well, I'm gonna leave 147 00:10:35,600 --> 00:10:37,240 Speaker 7: y'all alone with it. I'm gonna let y'all feel how 148 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:39,640 Speaker 7: you wanna feel. I've been trying for the past few 149 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:43,000 Speaker 7: months here, seemed like it just stuck with a lot 150 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:45,960 Speaker 7: of people. Some people just ain't gonna come along. He'll 151 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:47,800 Speaker 7: be all right, don't feel better about yourself. 152 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:51,559 Speaker 2: God is good. That's for show. That's a fact, period. Okay. 153 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:54,320 Speaker 7: Steve Harvey on the Show, Shelly Strawberry calling for real 154 00:10:54,360 --> 00:10:55,679 Speaker 7: Mississippi Monica Jr. 155 00:10:55,760 --> 00:10:57,440 Speaker 2: The legend that is nephew Tommy. 156 00:10:58,200 --> 00:11:03,719 Speaker 7: Well, Junior, you look a little spride this morning, but 157 00:11:03,880 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 7: I think it's from. 158 00:11:06,320 --> 00:11:09,720 Speaker 2: I think it's from you. You trying to get better. 159 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:11,240 Speaker 2: What's what's going on? 160 00:11:12,040 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 8: You know? 161 00:11:12,400 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 9: Unc let me let's just address this. You know, Mother's 162 00:11:15,160 --> 00:11:17,040 Speaker 9: Day and Happy Mother's Day again? 163 00:11:17,120 --> 00:11:17,959 Speaker 1: Is Shirley a caller? 164 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:18,439 Speaker 5: You know? 165 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:21,559 Speaker 9: Mother's Day is for mother's that means people who have 166 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:26,000 Speaker 9: brought life to this earth. That's Mother's Day. We're not 167 00:11:26,160 --> 00:11:29,480 Speaker 9: wishing you happy pet Mother's Day. Now, you're taking it 168 00:11:29,559 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 9: too far. People want us to tell them Mother's Day 169 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 9: because they they dog is they son? We're not doing that. 170 00:11:37,520 --> 00:11:41,559 Speaker 9: We're not doing pet Mother's Day. It's for mother's Just 171 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:42,840 Speaker 9: because you put a shirt on. 172 00:11:42,960 --> 00:11:46,439 Speaker 10: This dog, don't make him human. I'm sorry, put shoes 173 00:11:46,559 --> 00:11:46,880 Speaker 10: on him. 174 00:11:47,040 --> 00:11:49,320 Speaker 1: I don't care what you're they not doing the same thing. 175 00:11:50,400 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 9: Let me ask you so when you help this dog 176 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:56,559 Speaker 9: do this homework, let me let me add nothing. When 177 00:11:56,760 --> 00:11:59,400 Speaker 9: when you take this dog down to the vet, the 178 00:11:59,520 --> 00:12:04,959 Speaker 9: bill a the same when the dog was sick. It's 179 00:12:05,040 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 9: not We're not doing pet Mother's Day. We're not doing it. 180 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:13,280 Speaker 7: You ain't made birth, Yes, gave them, bought another life 181 00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:14,439 Speaker 7: to this earth. 182 00:12:16,280 --> 00:12:18,839 Speaker 2: You are not a mother. 183 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:24,000 Speaker 7: We are not honoring you because you have and I'm 184 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:25,960 Speaker 7: gonna say this as carefully as I can. 185 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:29,840 Speaker 2: A damn dog that was as careful. 186 00:12:30,840 --> 00:12:34,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a fair baby. Fair baby. 187 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:36,599 Speaker 7: Ain't what that is. 188 00:12:37,880 --> 00:12:38,640 Speaker 2: You ain't no mother. 189 00:12:38,760 --> 00:12:40,880 Speaker 7: Though it might be a third baby, We'll give you that. 190 00:12:41,080 --> 00:12:45,600 Speaker 7: It's a fair baby. It's it's a doll baby. Yeah, 191 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:52,199 Speaker 7: it's a cabbage patch baby. It's a Barbie doll. It's 192 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:58,040 Speaker 7: a g I Joe. You because you own one, not 193 00:12:58,200 --> 00:13:01,880 Speaker 7: a mother. Yeah, stay is set aside for those who 194 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:05,520 Speaker 7: have given birth. It brought a life to the earth. 195 00:13:06,040 --> 00:13:06,480 Speaker 2: That's it. 196 00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:11,400 Speaker 7: Given birth, that's it. We not nothing else. Feel how 197 00:13:11,520 --> 00:13:12,320 Speaker 7: you want to feel. 198 00:13:12,480 --> 00:13:16,240 Speaker 9: Yeah, you ain't wish me and Sparky or happing Mother's Day? 199 00:13:16,440 --> 00:13:18,559 Speaker 9: Hell no sparking, no spark. 200 00:13:20,600 --> 00:13:23,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, I got news for you. Sparky didn't. Didn't give 201 00:13:24,040 --> 00:13:27,319 Speaker 2: your ass happy mother. That's who your issue need to 202 00:13:27,360 --> 00:13:28,640 Speaker 2: be with with Sparky. 203 00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:37,319 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not doing this man, all right, all right, 204 00:13:37,760 --> 00:13:39,880 Speaker 1: coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we 205 00:13:39,920 --> 00:13:42,199 Speaker 1: will hear from the nephew if he runs that prank 206 00:13:42,360 --> 00:13:47,920 Speaker 1: back right after this. You're listening morning show. It is 207 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:50,280 Speaker 1: time now for the nephew to run that prank back. 208 00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:51,199 Speaker 1: What you got nef? 209 00:13:51,640 --> 00:13:56,600 Speaker 11: Can you breastfeed my baby? Can you breastfeed my baby? 210 00:13:57,440 --> 00:13:59,720 Speaker 11: I answer the question, answer the question. 211 00:13:59,840 --> 00:14:03,120 Speaker 2: Let's call hello man. 212 00:14:03,280 --> 00:14:09,240 Speaker 12: Uh yeah, this hey hey man, uh amen, this this 213 00:14:09,480 --> 00:14:15,480 Speaker 12: this this uh and uh huh this who this man? 214 00:14:16,520 --> 00:14:19,160 Speaker 8: Yeah, it gave me your phone number. I know you 215 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:20,960 Speaker 8: don't numb me, but gave me your number. 216 00:14:21,680 --> 00:14:24,640 Speaker 13: Yeah he talking about on the south side. 217 00:14:25,040 --> 00:14:29,240 Speaker 8: Yeah yeah, yeah, from the south side. He uh, he 218 00:14:29,360 --> 00:14:30,120 Speaker 8: gave me your number. 219 00:14:30,200 --> 00:14:30,360 Speaker 4: Man. 220 00:14:30,360 --> 00:14:32,600 Speaker 8: I'm going through some things. I thought you might be 221 00:14:32,800 --> 00:14:35,680 Speaker 8: to help me out, man, because uh, well see. 222 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:37,640 Speaker 2: To my girl. 223 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:41,320 Speaker 8: And I don't know, man, I think just In left. 224 00:14:41,600 --> 00:14:41,800 Speaker 2: You know. 225 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:45,440 Speaker 8: And uh, she hadn't left me here with the kids, 226 00:14:45,680 --> 00:14:49,800 Speaker 8: you know, and I trying to I don't think coming back. 227 00:14:51,480 --> 00:14:54,040 Speaker 13: My man, my man, I feel for you. But but 228 00:14:54,760 --> 00:14:56,200 Speaker 13: why you why why are you telling me this? 229 00:14:56,920 --> 00:14:57,120 Speaker 2: See? 230 00:14:58,840 --> 00:15:03,080 Speaker 8: Uh see many, I haven't got these kids by myself. 231 00:15:03,360 --> 00:15:03,520 Speaker 5: You know. 232 00:15:03,600 --> 00:15:06,840 Speaker 8: My little boy he three, but my little girl, man, 233 00:15:06,960 --> 00:15:09,960 Speaker 8: she just she just two months old. Man, you know. 234 00:15:10,160 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 2: And I'm. 235 00:15:12,200 --> 00:15:14,040 Speaker 8: The reason why I got your number because I think 236 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:17,200 Speaker 8: you might get to help me because I I'm just 237 00:15:17,320 --> 00:15:20,040 Speaker 8: going through this. It's just hard right now. 238 00:15:20,160 --> 00:15:21,480 Speaker 4: Brother, dog? 239 00:15:22,480 --> 00:15:23,080 Speaker 13: How many help you? 240 00:15:23,160 --> 00:15:23,320 Speaker 8: Dog? 241 00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:25,360 Speaker 13: I got kids of my own? Dog? 242 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:26,640 Speaker 4: How man help you? 243 00:15:27,720 --> 00:15:27,880 Speaker 2: Well? 244 00:15:27,960 --> 00:15:31,520 Speaker 8: See that that's what I'm saying. Now, ain't you ain't 245 00:15:31,520 --> 00:15:33,520 Speaker 8: you married to to me? 246 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:35,480 Speaker 14: Yeah? 247 00:15:35,880 --> 00:15:36,360 Speaker 5: My wife? 248 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:38,120 Speaker 15: How you know my wife? 249 00:15:38,200 --> 00:15:38,400 Speaker 2: Dog? 250 00:15:39,120 --> 00:15:42,080 Speaker 8: See know what I'm saying. I mean I kind of 251 00:15:42,160 --> 00:15:46,960 Speaker 8: know y'all y'all before through him and uh, but she 252 00:15:47,160 --> 00:15:49,560 Speaker 8: hit the deal man. Like like I said, I got 253 00:15:49,640 --> 00:15:52,280 Speaker 8: my kids, man, my my my little boy three, but 254 00:15:52,440 --> 00:15:54,120 Speaker 8: my little girl ain't but two months. Man. 255 00:15:55,400 --> 00:15:56,600 Speaker 5: How many kids y'all got? 256 00:15:57,160 --> 00:15:57,320 Speaker 4: Man? 257 00:15:57,400 --> 00:16:00,720 Speaker 13: We got three kids? Man, I gotta ten year old, 258 00:16:00,840 --> 00:16:03,200 Speaker 13: eight yo old and a six month old. I'm trying 259 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:06,000 Speaker 13: to I really don't know what you ask him, asking me, man, 260 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:08,280 Speaker 13: I got my own family that gotta take care of. You, 261 00:16:08,400 --> 00:16:12,440 Speaker 13: asking me for help. I mean, what is it you need, man? 262 00:16:13,600 --> 00:16:16,200 Speaker 4: And what I'm trying to do with this year. I'm 263 00:16:16,280 --> 00:16:19,280 Speaker 4: trying to get my little my little girl taking care 264 00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:20,320 Speaker 4: of man, like I'm said. 265 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 8: Then ran off man and then left. But I don't think. 266 00:16:28,440 --> 00:16:30,200 Speaker 4: I don't think coming back. 267 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:38,560 Speaker 8: I don't think she's coming back. But I need some help. 268 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:41,520 Speaker 8: I need some help from your wife. 269 00:16:42,760 --> 00:16:45,400 Speaker 4: I need her to come by the house today. Can 270 00:16:45,520 --> 00:16:46,640 Speaker 4: you do you think? 271 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:48,800 Speaker 5: What do you need come at. 272 00:16:48,680 --> 00:16:49,160 Speaker 1: Your house for? 273 00:16:50,320 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 4: Because the baby, the baby, the baby needs some milk. 274 00:16:55,760 --> 00:16:55,960 Speaker 5: Man. 275 00:16:56,000 --> 00:16:57,880 Speaker 13: We got a couple of canser, we got a couple 276 00:16:57,880 --> 00:17:00,080 Speaker 13: of cans and so formulas and something in here we 277 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:02,280 Speaker 13: can drop off to you. Man, But I ain't coming 278 00:17:02,360 --> 00:17:02,800 Speaker 13: to your house. 279 00:17:02,840 --> 00:17:03,040 Speaker 4: Dog. 280 00:17:06,000 --> 00:17:07,160 Speaker 13: You more than happy to have these. 281 00:17:07,440 --> 00:17:09,640 Speaker 12: You have these cans, but I can't be having. 282 00:17:09,440 --> 00:17:11,800 Speaker 13: My wife at your house. Dog got all kids. 283 00:17:12,560 --> 00:17:13,520 Speaker 5: I understand that. 284 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:15,840 Speaker 8: But the baby needs to milk. 285 00:17:15,880 --> 00:17:16,840 Speaker 5: That's what I need. 286 00:17:17,080 --> 00:17:20,040 Speaker 4: I need to come by and feed the baby. 287 00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:20,920 Speaker 15: Dog. 288 00:17:21,040 --> 00:17:23,760 Speaker 13: I just told you to come by drop off a 289 00:17:23,800 --> 00:17:25,840 Speaker 13: couple of cans and milk. But I mean, I don't 290 00:17:25,840 --> 00:17:27,399 Speaker 13: even know you like that, player. I ain't about to 291 00:17:27,560 --> 00:17:29,280 Speaker 13: just have my wife come into your damn house. 292 00:17:29,640 --> 00:17:32,960 Speaker 4: I don't know you, but I need her to come 293 00:17:33,040 --> 00:17:34,720 Speaker 4: by and see the baby. 294 00:17:34,800 --> 00:17:38,040 Speaker 13: Man, dog, what a hell? You can't feed your baby? 295 00:17:41,000 --> 00:17:41,639 Speaker 13: Come by. 296 00:17:43,160 --> 00:17:43,760 Speaker 5: The baby? 297 00:17:44,720 --> 00:17:46,800 Speaker 4: What you want to? Want to come out of your 298 00:17:46,840 --> 00:17:49,080 Speaker 4: house and do what I want. 299 00:17:50,560 --> 00:17:51,240 Speaker 5: The baby? 300 00:17:52,119 --> 00:17:56,920 Speaker 13: I told you off you lost your mind. I don't 301 00:17:56,920 --> 00:17:58,480 Speaker 13: know you to be talking about my wife coming to 302 00:17:58,560 --> 00:18:02,480 Speaker 13: your house, breast seeing your baby, matter effect stuff? 303 00:18:02,840 --> 00:18:04,919 Speaker 15: You get my number? Who the hell is anyway? 304 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:07,760 Speaker 13: I don't stop thinking about it? No right say, dog, 305 00:18:07,960 --> 00:18:11,480 Speaker 13: don't call me with this dog? Is you talking about 306 00:18:11,560 --> 00:18:12,919 Speaker 13: breast seeing your baby? 307 00:18:13,200 --> 00:18:15,160 Speaker 8: Why would you do this? Now? 308 00:18:15,400 --> 00:18:17,600 Speaker 5: Why would you? Why would you the babies? 309 00:18:17,800 --> 00:18:19,800 Speaker 4: Why would you come between the baby's health? 310 00:18:20,000 --> 00:18:20,879 Speaker 8: Why are you doing that? 311 00:18:21,800 --> 00:18:22,000 Speaker 5: Dog? 312 00:18:22,160 --> 00:18:24,399 Speaker 13: I'll tell you what, dog, Bring your baby over here, 313 00:18:24,800 --> 00:18:27,360 Speaker 13: you and the baby come over here. Bring your baby 314 00:18:27,400 --> 00:18:29,920 Speaker 13: baby over here. And when and when you get here, 315 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:32,960 Speaker 13: as soon as you pull out it, I'm gonna knock 316 00:18:33,000 --> 00:18:35,600 Speaker 13: your teeth down your throat. Now, come on over. 317 00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:36,320 Speaker 15: We're gonna be here. 318 00:18:36,440 --> 00:18:40,119 Speaker 13: We're gonna be all day after. Don't do don't do this. 319 00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:43,120 Speaker 4: Don't let your go and stuff come between your baby's help. 320 00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:46,639 Speaker 13: I'm just trying to God, how you gonna call me 321 00:18:46,720 --> 00:18:47,800 Speaker 13: talking about my wife? 322 00:18:47,880 --> 00:18:52,200 Speaker 15: Breast feed your baby? I'll sip you know what? Hold on? 323 00:18:52,640 --> 00:18:57,720 Speaker 15: Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. 324 00:18:58,200 --> 00:18:58,600 Speaker 5: Hold on? 325 00:19:02,920 --> 00:19:03,280 Speaker 7: What's up? 326 00:19:03,359 --> 00:19:03,639 Speaker 13: Baby? 327 00:19:04,600 --> 00:19:06,200 Speaker 7: You know and her husband? 328 00:19:07,240 --> 00:19:09,440 Speaker 13: You don't know them. My wife don't know you, and 329 00:19:09,520 --> 00:19:09,960 Speaker 13: I don't know you. 330 00:19:10,080 --> 00:19:12,119 Speaker 5: Eating change? 331 00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:14,360 Speaker 8: Do you know what name? 332 00:19:15,040 --> 00:19:17,119 Speaker 13: Supposedly he live on the south Side, He know us, 333 00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:21,760 Speaker 13: you don't know him eating. Hold on, I don't know you. 334 00:19:22,720 --> 00:19:23,199 Speaker 13: I don't know. 335 00:19:24,840 --> 00:19:26,480 Speaker 8: What this is. 336 00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:30,920 Speaker 13: On another line, talking about his wife left him with 337 00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:34,240 Speaker 13: the two kids. He wants you to come to his 338 00:19:34,440 --> 00:19:37,000 Speaker 13: crib if presfeed his baby. 339 00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:40,520 Speaker 15: Baby, don't baby do trip? 340 00:19:40,520 --> 00:19:40,879 Speaker 8: I got this. 341 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:42,320 Speaker 16: I'm gonna hogh let you in a minute. 342 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:48,639 Speaker 13: We don't do We don't know who did you? 343 00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:50,520 Speaker 12: Calling me from your address? 344 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:53,440 Speaker 4: What more things I want to say to you? 345 00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:58,400 Speaker 13: Better be saying your address. That's what you better be saying. 346 00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:03,520 Speaker 4: From the Harvey Morning Show. 347 00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:10,479 Speaker 8: You just got my Ain't this up? 348 00:20:12,200 --> 00:20:12,959 Speaker 5: Hit this bottom? 349 00:20:13,800 --> 00:20:16,360 Speaker 8: Uh you man? 350 00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:22,720 Speaker 13: Come on dog then? Uh Tommy dog dog, You about 351 00:20:22,720 --> 00:20:28,760 Speaker 13: to get your whipped Tommy whoever somebody's getting there. 352 00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:32,119 Speaker 15: Whooped me. 353 00:20:35,119 --> 00:20:35,239 Speaker 5: All. 354 00:20:37,359 --> 00:20:41,159 Speaker 8: You gotta tell me what ill the baddest radio show in. 355 00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:43,360 Speaker 13: The light Steve Harvey Morning Show? 356 00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:44,000 Speaker 4: You did hear? 357 00:20:46,280 --> 00:20:46,399 Speaker 17: Uh? 358 00:20:47,040 --> 00:20:47,280 Speaker 4: Man? 359 00:20:47,920 --> 00:20:48,600 Speaker 5: Y'all got me. 360 00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:51,479 Speaker 8: All right? 361 00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:52,680 Speaker 17: Thank you? 362 00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:56,480 Speaker 1: Coming up next to his ask the clo you're listening 363 00:20:56,800 --> 00:21:00,399 Speaker 1: to Harvey Morning Show? Coming up at the top of 364 00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:04,600 Speaker 1: the hour. In entertainment news, Anita Baker canceled her concert 365 00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:09,480 Speaker 1: in Atlanta. Whoopy Goldberg is over being married, she says, 366 00:21:09,520 --> 00:21:12,560 Speaker 1: after trying it three times. Bill Maher believes that Donald 367 00:21:12,600 --> 00:21:15,640 Speaker 1: Trump is crazy. And we'll talk about all of these 368 00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:17,680 Speaker 1: stories at the top of the hour, but right now 369 00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:21,160 Speaker 1: it is time to ask this blo. This is from 370 00:21:21,280 --> 00:21:24,240 Speaker 1: Teresy and Hanover Teresy says, my husband and I are 371 00:21:24,359 --> 00:21:27,960 Speaker 1: dating the same lady. I found out when he called 372 00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:30,919 Speaker 1: her and his picture flashed across her across her screen, 373 00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:33,560 Speaker 1: and she said that's him and told me that's the 374 00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:36,159 Speaker 1: guy she's been seeing. Do I have the right to 375 00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:40,680 Speaker 1: be mad or question my man's going on? 376 00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:43,040 Speaker 2: You don't here We're going. 377 00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:47,200 Speaker 7: This was another one of these new norms that these 378 00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:49,440 Speaker 7: two were hairts. And when you write me and you 379 00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:52,879 Speaker 7: won't me to make sense of it. You and your hud, 380 00:21:53,960 --> 00:22:02,320 Speaker 7: your husband are dating the same woman. It's a lot 381 00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:05,920 Speaker 7: you were with her the phone. 382 00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:09,000 Speaker 2: Ring his picture flashed across the streeed. 383 00:22:09,720 --> 00:22:17,720 Speaker 7: She sings, that's him, So now she already No, she 384 00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:22,960 Speaker 7: dating two people, a man and a woman. You are 385 00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:28,280 Speaker 7: married to a man dating a woman. Your husband, I 386 00:22:28,400 --> 00:22:31,120 Speaker 7: guess he's the more normal. I guess that's what you're 387 00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:32,879 Speaker 7: gonna try to tell us. And let I don't know, 388 00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:39,480 Speaker 7: he got a wife an a side. All y'all crazy, 389 00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:44,720 Speaker 7: all y'all crazy, I have no I have no advice 390 00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:47,399 Speaker 7: for you. Should you be made. Yeah, you're going in 391 00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:50,760 Speaker 7: there and confronting. I was with her and your picture 392 00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:53,840 Speaker 7: came up, What the hell are you doing? And then 393 00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:56,520 Speaker 7: he'll turn around and go, what the hell you do? 394 00:22:58,119 --> 00:23:00,920 Speaker 7: And then y'all call up and ass cut a shoe, 395 00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:06,840 Speaker 7: and you gonna find out she all want even want you? Wow, 396 00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:11,879 Speaker 7: yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, see she's not gonna pick either. 397 00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:12,560 Speaker 13: By uh huh. 398 00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:16,600 Speaker 1: All right. Next is Joanna and Farmer's Brand, who says, 399 00:23:16,680 --> 00:23:20,240 Speaker 1: my husband hired young black twins to cut our lawn 400 00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:23,560 Speaker 1: and they work with their shirts off. This bothers my 401 00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:27,639 Speaker 1: husband and he hates on them the whole time. I 402 00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:30,080 Speaker 1: want to pay the boys and he said I was flirty. 403 00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:34,000 Speaker 1: Should we hire a new lawn crew oooie. 404 00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:36,359 Speaker 2: And bought rips? 405 00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:40,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah. 406 00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:44,119 Speaker 7: You don't cut your grass with your shirt off unless 407 00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:48,920 Speaker 7: you know better. That's the only room, Julia, you cut 408 00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:49,560 Speaker 7: your grass? 409 00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:50,639 Speaker 17: No, sir? 410 00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:52,720 Speaker 2: Do you cut it with no shirt on? 411 00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:54,720 Speaker 1: No, sir, I don't even cut it. 412 00:23:56,240 --> 00:24:01,639 Speaker 2: Oh a law LR coming up? 413 00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:03,120 Speaker 1: What's that means? 414 00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:12,600 Speaker 2: Cover a little rich rich? Cut your grass? 415 00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:12,880 Speaker 17: Boy? 416 00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:22,639 Speaker 2: No, I'm bad, I'm bad. I'm sorry oversight. Well, the 417 00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:27,080 Speaker 2: people that cut your grass that they had their shirt No, sir, No, 418 00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:27,920 Speaker 2: he can't come. 419 00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:30,920 Speaker 1: Out here with that. No, what's wrong? This is a 420 00:24:31,000 --> 00:24:33,720 Speaker 1: hot day and he's working hard and he doesn't want 421 00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:34,840 Speaker 1: to get his shirt off. 422 00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:35,280 Speaker 2: Sweaty. 423 00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:37,560 Speaker 1: I didn't see the co name at all times. 424 00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:42,560 Speaker 2: I wish my landscape cool woodcut uh grass? They shirt off. 425 00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:45,600 Speaker 7: I'll be out there for Thember. They laughing, So Dad, 426 00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:51,200 Speaker 7: it would be entertainment from man. 427 00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:58,159 Speaker 2: What's so what? You don't ain't nothing? Michelle Holly, Hell, no, 428 00:24:58,400 --> 00:24:59,800 Speaker 2: no shirt cooky. I'll be out there. 429 00:24:59,800 --> 00:25:05,280 Speaker 1: Last all right. Next one, Olanda and Baltimore says, my 430 00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:07,239 Speaker 1: boyfriend and I were in the club and he got 431 00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:10,520 Speaker 1: smart with the bouncer and the bouncer slapped him. She 432 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:15,080 Speaker 1: was embarrassed, Yeah he was. Don't play with me. He 433 00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:18,400 Speaker 1: was embarrassed, but not as much as I was. There's 434 00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:21,159 Speaker 1: no way that I can keep dating him. How do 435 00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:23,400 Speaker 1: I break up with him without hurting him? 436 00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:27,480 Speaker 7: You ain't gonna hurt him near as much as that 437 00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:32,640 Speaker 7: bouncer did. See you gotta stop worrying about his feelings. 438 00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:35,640 Speaker 7: But see hear what you didn't put in this letter 439 00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:41,800 Speaker 7: that I'm really cuted after the bouncer slapped him, exactly 440 00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:43,200 Speaker 7: what did he do? 441 00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:44,280 Speaker 1: Exactly? 442 00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:47,960 Speaker 17: No? No, no, he did. 443 00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:50,960 Speaker 2: No, he did something. It wasn't towards a bouncer. Is 444 00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:55,280 Speaker 2: his reaction? Could have slap? I got. 445 00:25:58,119 --> 00:25:59,520 Speaker 1: She said, he whimper? 446 00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:04,840 Speaker 7: Did he tear up? He held his face though? 447 00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:07,360 Speaker 2: Did he tell y'all to go in there and let's 448 00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:09,560 Speaker 2: get in the car, were getting out of here? That's crazy? 449 00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:11,240 Speaker 1: He order some drinks? 450 00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:14,040 Speaker 2: Did he did? 451 00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:14,119 Speaker 11: He? 452 00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:14,720 Speaker 2: Did he go? 453 00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:14,879 Speaker 8: And? 454 00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:17,359 Speaker 7: Did did y'all go inside? And he had and he 455 00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:21,000 Speaker 7: tried to act like ain't nothing happened. Was he sitting 456 00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:23,360 Speaker 7: there just stirring his drink the whole time. 457 00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:24,119 Speaker 2: Just looking at it? 458 00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:29,960 Speaker 7: You can't you can't you dash after the bouncer slapped him. 459 00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:32,239 Speaker 7: That's why she's gonna you gotta just break up with him. 460 00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:35,240 Speaker 7: But he ain't fucking First of all, First of all, 461 00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:39,200 Speaker 7: two weeks he points got bad judgment because whatever made 462 00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:43,240 Speaker 7: the bounce of slap him, he had coming. 463 00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:44,959 Speaker 2: Post man. 464 00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:51,640 Speaker 7: Secondly, you don't you don't you already don't. He lacks judgment, 465 00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:56,680 Speaker 7: fine off at the wrong wall. So yeah, it's just 466 00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:58,600 Speaker 7: gonna break up with him. You're gonna hurt him a 467 00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:00,760 Speaker 7: little bit, but he used to be it hurt. He's 468 00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:01,880 Speaker 7: a hurtle type. 469 00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:03,439 Speaker 2: All right. 470 00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:09,000 Speaker 1: Last one, Clo, Last one. This is this is from 471 00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:21,040 Speaker 1: Big Sexy in Montgomery. He screamed, Big Sexy in Montgomery. 472 00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:23,240 Speaker 1: Last one, Steve said, I'm married to a woman that 473 00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:26,520 Speaker 1: is always on the phone. If she's not talking on 474 00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:29,399 Speaker 1: the phone, she's playing her games or looking on social media. 475 00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:32,239 Speaker 1: I've asked for more of her talk, more time with her, 476 00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:35,680 Speaker 1: but she's addicted to her phone. How do I get 477 00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:40,560 Speaker 1: my wife back? I don't know, You don't know. 478 00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:46,720 Speaker 2: No, I came a lot though. Yeah, that's that's yeah, 479 00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:48,679 Speaker 2: this is normal. That's all. 480 00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:51,639 Speaker 1: So you don't know what he should do, Clo. 481 00:27:56,600 --> 00:28:02,840 Speaker 7: The next question, I'm the chief love officers, Chief tech officers. 482 00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:06,159 Speaker 2: I don't know nothing about tech. I don't know, but 483 00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:06,480 Speaker 2: I don't know. 484 00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:08,320 Speaker 7: If you can get a chip removed out the phone, 485 00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:10,400 Speaker 7: get her Wi Fi block, I don't know what take 486 00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:11,240 Speaker 7: I don't know. 487 00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:17,520 Speaker 2: I don't know. Obviously, obviously it's more interesting than you are. 488 00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:22,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's asked for more time with her, but she 489 00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:24,480 Speaker 1: says she's addicted to her phone. I guess is like 490 00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:25,679 Speaker 1: any other addictions. 491 00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:27,920 Speaker 2: I mean, it's a lot of people that's like that. 492 00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:30,680 Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, bonalat. 493 00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:33,520 Speaker 1: So you don't know what to tell him? 494 00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:35,320 Speaker 18: No, I don't. 495 00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:35,640 Speaker 19: I don't. 496 00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:37,760 Speaker 2: I don't have to worry about stuff like that. Should 497 00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:38,720 Speaker 2: I don't? 498 00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:42,800 Speaker 1: You know he's wife you're dealing with. 499 00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:45,120 Speaker 2: Oh no, no, no no, no, no, no no no. 500 00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:48,600 Speaker 2: My wife talked to me all the damn time. Have 501 00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:50,200 Speaker 2: to fake like I'm sleep. 502 00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:51,920 Speaker 1: Oh I got the opposite. 503 00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:57,360 Speaker 2: I direct too much, damn time. I don't have. 504 00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:07,160 Speaker 1: Well, well, okay, hopefully their marriage will survive. Coming up next, 505 00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:14,400 Speaker 1: So Collot, the top of the hour was for you 506 00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:17,200 Speaker 1: right after this. Oh, it's going to be one of 507 00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:23,800 Speaker 1: those days you're listening hard morning show. Well, according to 508 00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:27,320 Speaker 1: MSN dot Com, Anita Baker, fans in Atlanta were upset 509 00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:31,040 Speaker 1: this past Saturday when Anita canceled her show. The doors 510 00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:34,560 Speaker 1: to Anita State Farm Arena show opened to guests at 511 00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:37,040 Speaker 1: six pm and lights were expected to go down at 512 00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:41,680 Speaker 1: seven pm, but it never happened due to late unforeseen circumstances. 513 00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:46,040 Speaker 1: Tonight's and Evening with Anita Baker event featuring eight time 514 00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:49,800 Speaker 1: Grammy Award winning superstar Anita Baker, set to take place 515 00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:53,440 Speaker 1: at State Farm Arena has been canceled, was the message 516 00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:57,520 Speaker 1: the email sent out to ticket holders less than fifteen 517 00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:01,560 Speaker 1: minutes before she was expected to grace this stage. Purchasers 518 00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:05,080 Speaker 1: were guaranteed a full refund at first and out for 519 00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:08,280 Speaker 1: a confusion and disappointments spilled out into the public from 520 00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:12,160 Speaker 1: concert gores. However, compassion and grace were soon expressed by 521 00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:15,720 Speaker 1: fans who simply wanted to know just was Anita doing okay? 522 00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:16,520 Speaker 1: Was she all right? 523 00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:19,320 Speaker 17: So yeah you go. 524 00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:23,360 Speaker 1: Here's here's a question. Though, you guys perform all the 525 00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:26,560 Speaker 1: time on stage, have you ever had to cancel a 526 00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:30,760 Speaker 1: show so close to showtime? Have you ever had to 527 00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:31,080 Speaker 1: do that? 528 00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:31,400 Speaker 2: Guy? 529 00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:37,960 Speaker 7: Steve No No, all my years from stand up, I 530 00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:42,360 Speaker 7: missed two shows, one because of the plane couldn't make 531 00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:45,000 Speaker 7: it to Birmingham. I missed the first show. I ended 532 00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:50,040 Speaker 7: up doing the last two and then a show in Knoxville. 533 00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:53,479 Speaker 7: I didn't make it too old time because the car 534 00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:55,320 Speaker 7: broke down. When I was with Luther. 535 00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:57,600 Speaker 2: Luther's voice went out while he was on stage into 536 00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:01,240 Speaker 2: the first song. Yeah Yeah. 537 00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:04,360 Speaker 11: We was in Detroit and he said he said, oh no, 538 00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:07,200 Speaker 11: I can't do it tonight, and came back two weeks later. 539 00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:09,120 Speaker 11: Then people don't want their money back at all. Luther 540 00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:10,200 Speaker 11: came back two weeks later. 541 00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:14,200 Speaker 2: Wait by yeah, home run here knocked it on the 542 00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:15,600 Speaker 2: park at the park. 543 00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:18,240 Speaker 11: Wow, I told but told me, But you got to 544 00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:20,040 Speaker 11: tell some new jokes because they already told you, already 545 00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:21,400 Speaker 11: told them two weeks ago. 546 00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:26,040 Speaker 2: I said, well, I be don go. I'm the only 547 00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:26,840 Speaker 2: one gotta change. 548 00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:31,040 Speaker 1: But you rose. 549 00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:36,360 Speaker 7: Thinking about him, got to he didn't change songs. Right, 550 00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:42,959 Speaker 7: that's the difference between comedy and yeah they come here. 551 00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:43,880 Speaker 7: It hits the comedy. 552 00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:45,960 Speaker 2: You can't do that. Hell all right? 553 00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:49,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, they never said what was wrong with Anita, so 554 00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:50,040 Speaker 1: it was. 555 00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:51,440 Speaker 2: To be upset about that though. 556 00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:56,480 Speaker 7: Yeah, you send the email out fifteen minutes before we'll 557 00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:56,960 Speaker 7: go get that. 558 00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:04,920 Speaker 2: They already I'm in the venue waiting mom. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah. 559 00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:07,880 Speaker 1: This one lady. She went off on TikTok on social 560 00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:10,720 Speaker 1: media talking about Anita Bay and I. 561 00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:13,720 Speaker 7: Was like, well, first of all, you don't even know 562 00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:17,120 Speaker 7: what happened, you know. Yeah, well she doesn't have an 563 00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:18,520 Speaker 7: im castling show. 564 00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:24,080 Speaker 1: Yeah no, no right. In other news, HBO's real time 565 00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:26,760 Speaker 1: host Bill Maher thinks Donald Trump is crazy. During a 566 00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:30,520 Speaker 1: recent CBS interview, Bill Maher said, the liberals irritate him, 567 00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:33,680 Speaker 1: but the Conservatives alarm him. Take a listen. 568 00:32:35,120 --> 00:32:40,040 Speaker 19: They're very alarming. They're extremely alarming, more alarming. 569 00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:42,400 Speaker 1: What do you say to your critics, though, who say? 570 00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:43,600 Speaker 1: Then you should just focus on. 571 00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:46,400 Speaker 9: Them, Bill, If they're more alarming to you than the left, 572 00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:48,880 Speaker 9: and why not shine the spotlight on them only. 573 00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:52,640 Speaker 19: The truth isn't one sided like that. The Democrats constantly 574 00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:58,800 Speaker 19: are running against Trump with the idea you people out 575 00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:02,880 Speaker 19: there couldn't shall vote for this guy, and people are saying, 576 00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:06,880 Speaker 19: watch me, hauld my beer, watch me to vote for 577 00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:11,400 Speaker 19: him again, instead of just saying, oh, he's lying. We 578 00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:14,280 Speaker 19: know he's a liar. He's Donald Trump. He can't help himself. 579 00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:18,280 Speaker 19: He's crazy. I mean, I think literally crazy. I think 580 00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:22,520 Speaker 19: there's a kind of a level of malignant narcissism which 581 00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:26,640 Speaker 19: is not just a personality quirk. It's diagnosable and he 582 00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:27,480 Speaker 19: suffers from it. 583 00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:34,320 Speaker 1: Oh okay. Trump, of course, has repeatedly lashed out at 584 00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:35,680 Speaker 1: Bill Maher, calling him. 585 00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:37,080 Speaker 2: The worst, the worst. 586 00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:40,840 Speaker 7: Why See, if you're going to call a man the worst, 587 00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:43,600 Speaker 7: then why but if he calls him the worst, he 588 00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:47,440 Speaker 7: has a long list of why. You know, I just 589 00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:50,240 Speaker 7: I just think he's really spot on when he said 590 00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:53,080 Speaker 7: that if you think they're not going to vote for him, 591 00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:54,840 Speaker 7: because I can't believe you're going to vote for him, 592 00:33:54,840 --> 00:33:58,200 Speaker 7: they just go and watch me. And that's exactly what's happening. 593 00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:02,640 Speaker 7: And this race, this is extremely close. I mean, it's 594 00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:06,240 Speaker 7: not even a percentage point away, which is a sad, 595 00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:10,040 Speaker 7: sad statement for this country right here. 596 00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:12,839 Speaker 2: This is a this is we our country right here 597 00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:19,600 Speaker 2: at this point is just shameful at this point, it 598 00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:22,280 Speaker 2: really really is. It's just shameful. 599 00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:26,439 Speaker 7: It's ridiculous, man, that you can that you can put 600 00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:29,960 Speaker 7: forth this type of representation for your calls and your party. 601 00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:32,080 Speaker 2: And the only reason you can do that is because 602 00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:34,000 Speaker 2: you're fine with it, because that's how you really are. 603 00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:38,440 Speaker 1: And they walk amongst us, Yeah, finally, and entertainment no 604 00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:42,239 Speaker 1: where they live too. Whoopy Tobert has been married three 605 00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:46,279 Speaker 1: times and she is over marriage, she says. While doing 606 00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:49,560 Speaker 1: her press tour to promote a new memoir Bits in Pieces, 607 00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:53,280 Speaker 1: My Mother, My Brother and Me, journalist Chris Chris Wallace 608 00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:56,080 Speaker 1: asked Whoopy about her marriages. She said she does not 609 00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:59,560 Speaker 1: have energy for that kind of relationship. Whoopy went on 610 00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:02,279 Speaker 1: to say, when you're married to someone, you have to 611 00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:08,400 Speaker 1: be invested in how they're feeling. I am not, So 612 00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:11,640 Speaker 1: what do you believe is the key to a healthy, 613 00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:13,200 Speaker 1: long lasting relationship. 614 00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:18,080 Speaker 7: Come on, somebody that's been married three times, come on, 615 00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:24,080 Speaker 7: how you feel? I agree with what will be saying, 616 00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:29,520 Speaker 7: except you got to find someone who is worth being 617 00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:35,480 Speaker 7: the investment because the return is so valuable. That's the 618 00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:38,440 Speaker 7: only thing I can understand what she is because I 619 00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:41,600 Speaker 7: was sick of investing with a low return, and I'm 620 00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:44,400 Speaker 7: sure they might have felt the same way too. But 621 00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:48,719 Speaker 7: when you find somebody that's worth the investment because the 622 00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:53,239 Speaker 7: ROI the return on your investment is great, then it's 623 00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:54,320 Speaker 7: worth the investment. 624 00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:57,080 Speaker 2: And that's all it is. Just been making bad choices, 625 00:35:57,520 --> 00:35:57,839 Speaker 2: all right? 626 00:35:57,920 --> 00:36:01,120 Speaker 1: Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour. It's graduation season. 627 00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:06,759 Speaker 1: We'll talk about it right after this you're listening Morning show. Well, 628 00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:10,640 Speaker 1: student's graduation season. Whether you're graduating from high school or college, 629 00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:13,480 Speaker 1: it's a huge milestone in your life. This is a 630 00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:16,160 Speaker 1: time when students reflect on their time at school look 631 00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:20,160 Speaker 1: ahead to their future. So what advice would you give 632 00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:23,080 Speaker 1: a graduate? And part two of that question is what 633 00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:25,799 Speaker 1: advice can you give the soon to be empty nester 634 00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:28,920 Speaker 1: parents whose kids are going off to college. 635 00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:31,440 Speaker 7: Well, first of all, that empty nests ain't gonna stay 636 00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:33,040 Speaker 7: empty loan, get that out your mind. 637 00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:34,640 Speaker 2: They always and they. 638 00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:38,319 Speaker 7: Come back with old people, more people, mold people. Yeah 639 00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:41,160 Speaker 7: they have kids. Yeah, they come back with old people. 640 00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:44,400 Speaker 7: So get that out your head. My simple advice to 641 00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:49,520 Speaker 7: everybody graduating and follow your dream. Follow your dream because 642 00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:52,240 Speaker 7: your dreams may have nothing to do with your diploma. 643 00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:57,200 Speaker 7: And to get a diploma is a great accomplishment, it's 644 00:36:57,200 --> 00:37:00,760 Speaker 7: a it's magnificent. I applaud people who at their education. 645 00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:04,080 Speaker 7: I think it's notable. I think it's I think it's 646 00:37:04,239 --> 00:37:09,040 Speaker 7: really outstanding that you get education. Education is important in 647 00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:13,000 Speaker 7: so many areas of your life. I never ever knock education. 648 00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:16,040 Speaker 7: But after you get this degree, it will hang on 649 00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:21,920 Speaker 7: your wall and that's it. Nothing will matter after that 650 00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:25,680 Speaker 7: except what you do. And a lot of people have 651 00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:29,600 Speaker 7: degrees because you declared for a degree when you were younger, 652 00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:31,279 Speaker 7: three years. 653 00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:33,720 Speaker 2: Ago, two years ago, four years ago, you declared. 654 00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:37,080 Speaker 7: Now, as a full grown adult entering into the work world, 655 00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:39,759 Speaker 7: you now must be faced with the reality of this 656 00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:43,040 Speaker 7: is my life for real now and what you decided 657 00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:45,120 Speaker 7: on when you were younger four years ago may not 658 00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:45,520 Speaker 7: be the. 659 00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:46,160 Speaker 2: Route for you. 660 00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:51,000 Speaker 7: And it's okay, it's perfectly okay. But the fact that 661 00:37:51,120 --> 00:37:54,240 Speaker 7: you got a degree proves that you can accomplish a task. 662 00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:57,560 Speaker 7: And now once you know how to accomplish a task, 663 00:37:57,600 --> 00:38:01,000 Speaker 7: you can apply that to your life and get on 664 00:38:01,160 --> 00:38:04,440 Speaker 7: with it. So congratulations to everybody that's gotten an education, 665 00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:08,799 Speaker 7: everybody that's got those college degrees, high school diplomas. Now 666 00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:11,759 Speaker 7: it's down to business, because I will tell you right now, 667 00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:16,399 Speaker 7: as hard as it's been, as nothing compared to what's 668 00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:17,560 Speaker 7: going to go down. 669 00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:22,200 Speaker 2: Nothing, It ain't even close. It ain't even close. But 670 00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:25,439 Speaker 2: on the empty nestor's two different people. 671 00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:28,800 Speaker 11: Now after all them years gone by, with the kids, 672 00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:30,200 Speaker 11: there are the empty nestors. 673 00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:31,120 Speaker 2: Two different people. 674 00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:33,760 Speaker 7: When all the kids are gone, well, your life has changed, 675 00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:36,160 Speaker 7: and now there's an adjustment that's going to be made. 676 00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:40,759 Speaker 7: Because sometimes the kids were a welcome distraction, but now 677 00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:42,279 Speaker 7: that they are gone. 678 00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:43,120 Speaker 2: You will find out. 679 00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:45,400 Speaker 7: I know a guy that's struggling right now in his 680 00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:49,160 Speaker 7: marriage because they're an empty nestor. And now his wife 681 00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:53,000 Speaker 7: has no identity. She don't know what to do because 682 00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:57,759 Speaker 7: because that was her life, and now she's clinging and 683 00:38:57,920 --> 00:38:59,920 Speaker 7: he and he trying to help her find a hobby 684 00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:03,560 Speaker 7: and and it ain't working and they're struggling right now. 685 00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:08,840 Speaker 2: Wow, that's real. It's a sit doll, the empty message 686 00:39:09,320 --> 00:39:16,920 Speaker 2: right here. Yeah, it's a picture all right. 687 00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:19,600 Speaker 1: Coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour. We 688 00:39:19,680 --> 00:39:22,920 Speaker 1: will check your voicemail Steve eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve, 689 00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:27,480 Speaker 1: right after this listening and it's time now to check 690 00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:31,239 Speaker 1: Steve's voicemails eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve. If you 691 00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:33,839 Speaker 1: want to leave a message for Steve, you you might 692 00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:36,359 Speaker 1: want to call him and you can hear your call 693 00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:40,720 Speaker 1: on the air. Maybe, So are you ready, Steve, Yes, Okay, 694 00:39:40,840 --> 00:39:43,880 Speaker 1: we have called from We have a call from William 695 00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:44,920 Speaker 1: from North Carolina. 696 00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:46,120 Speaker 2: Hey, Steve. 697 00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:49,359 Speaker 16: This is William North Carolina. I just want black people 698 00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:52,239 Speaker 16: to wake up and realize that whether they know it 699 00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:55,640 Speaker 16: or not, they just renamed the schools in Virginia back 700 00:39:55,719 --> 00:39:59,399 Speaker 16: to Confederate soldiers and generals and stuff, but they don't 701 00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:02,200 Speaker 16: want to teach it history and stuff in schools. So 702 00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:06,240 Speaker 16: I'm just saying people, we need to wake up, start voting, 703 00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:09,240 Speaker 16: and watch cause they're trying to make it great again, 704 00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:11,759 Speaker 16: back to the times when they were on top and 705 00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:14,520 Speaker 16: we were fact struggling. That's all I want to say. 706 00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:18,479 Speaker 16: Y'all be blessed, love y'all firm whistler for twenty years 707 00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:19,879 Speaker 16: by Well, let. 708 00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:22,239 Speaker 2: Me tell you something, man, You're exactly right. That's what's 709 00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:22,640 Speaker 2: going on. 710 00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:29,120 Speaker 7: And they're reversing everything because this make America Great Again campaign. 711 00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:30,080 Speaker 2: The scary part. 712 00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:32,640 Speaker 7: That's why all you blacks who are talking about voting 713 00:40:32,680 --> 00:40:35,840 Speaker 7: for Trump, I don't even understand if you understand what 714 00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:41,680 Speaker 7: that mega hat means make America great again. They want 715 00:40:41,719 --> 00:40:44,360 Speaker 7: to take America back to a time when it was 716 00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:49,319 Speaker 7: greatest for them. That will not include you, as does 717 00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:54,760 Speaker 7: neither does today. So now when you see them reversing 718 00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:58,760 Speaker 7: the names of schools and putting Confederate names back on schools. 719 00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:02,719 Speaker 7: But you see them racing black history from schools. They're 720 00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:06,040 Speaker 7: starting at the educational level. Like I told you before earlier. 721 00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:10,040 Speaker 7: Education is important. But if you're not self educated about 722 00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:12,719 Speaker 7: who you are, you can lose your value and self love. 723 00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:15,440 Speaker 7: And that's what being one of our biggest problems as 724 00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:18,080 Speaker 7: a people. We don't know who we really are. We 725 00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:20,480 Speaker 7: do not know that we are from kings and queens. 726 00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:26,520 Speaker 7: We keep stopping at slavery, but if you knew your 727 00:41:26,560 --> 00:41:30,759 Speaker 7: real history, we are from the Valley of Kings, Yes, sir, 728 00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:36,040 Speaker 7: we are the original civilation to civilization. We are where 729 00:41:36,160 --> 00:41:42,920 Speaker 7: that mankind was created. Everybody in the Bible look like us. 730 00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:46,719 Speaker 7: Everybody they they don't want to tell you that, but 731 00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:50,000 Speaker 7: you can go back that far. All right, next caller, 732 00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:51,920 Speaker 7: all right, thank you. 733 00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:55,840 Speaker 1: William Chari from Philly has a question about addressing older 734 00:41:55,920 --> 00:41:57,840 Speaker 1: people respectfully. 735 00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:01,760 Speaker 10: Calling from Silly. 736 00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:04,960 Speaker 18: I just want to know at what age do you 737 00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:11,600 Speaker 18: continue to call someone miss or mister, Like like, if 738 00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:15,160 Speaker 18: I met you in personal, I would say mister Harvey, 739 00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:19,080 Speaker 18: but if I'm talking about you amongst friends, I'd be 740 00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:23,279 Speaker 18: like Steve. Steve had me cracking up. So what is 741 00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:28,600 Speaker 18: the appropriate age. Do you think to call someone mister 742 00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:30,040 Speaker 18: or missus? Thank you? 743 00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:32,759 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's great and what you're doing is 744 00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:35,759 Speaker 2: the right way. But like when I meet people who 745 00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:36,160 Speaker 2: are of. 746 00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:40,600 Speaker 7: My same age or older, I always refer to in 747 00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:47,200 Speaker 7: the sir, ma'am, mister missus, always out of respect because 748 00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:50,920 Speaker 7: they've been on this earth long enough they deserve respect. Now, 749 00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:53,040 Speaker 7: when you talk about me, your friend Steve had me 750 00:42:53,160 --> 00:42:56,440 Speaker 7: cracking up. That's cool, you know, it's cool. My name 751 00:42:56,480 --> 00:42:59,040 Speaker 7: is Steve Harvey or this is Steve Harvey Show, the 752 00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:02,880 Speaker 7: host of Showtime the apollow Steve Harvey, Steve Harvey, Shower, 753 00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:05,320 Speaker 7: Steve har ain't know it, ain't mister Steve Harvey. 754 00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:07,000 Speaker 2: I understand that. 755 00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:10,160 Speaker 7: But now it troubles me when young people don't talk 756 00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:13,520 Speaker 7: to me, ain't Steve, because I be going like, damn dog, 757 00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:16,839 Speaker 7: do you not see me standing here? But this gray 758 00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:21,520 Speaker 7: stubble on my face? Do you not see me standing here? 759 00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:25,200 Speaker 7: And and just you know, but that comes from home training. 760 00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:27,200 Speaker 7: You happen to have it, and most people don't. 761 00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:29,520 Speaker 1: Right, Thank you, mister Steve. 762 00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:32,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, and Shirley, that's for the rest of the day. 763 00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:34,600 Speaker 2: It'll be mister Steve and. 764 00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:40,200 Speaker 1: Mister, mister Tommy. 765 00:43:40,560 --> 00:43:44,400 Speaker 2: Mister nephew, how it's gonna sound with. 766 00:43:46,400 --> 00:43:48,160 Speaker 9: I know I'm about to say you, and I know 767 00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:51,120 Speaker 9: I ain't gonna get missed my name. I don't even ask, 768 00:43:51,600 --> 00:43:55,680 Speaker 9: don't mister. I'm the youngest here. I know I can't 769 00:43:55,719 --> 00:43:56,120 Speaker 9: answer that. 770 00:43:56,600 --> 00:44:08,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's miss Carl to you, okay, misht This 771 00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:12,399 Speaker 1: coming up next, it is mister nephew, Tommy's prank phone call. 772 00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:18,839 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Hard Morning show. Coming up 773 00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:21,319 Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, right about four minutes after, 774 00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:24,000 Speaker 1: it's my strawberry letter for today and the subject is 775 00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:27,359 Speaker 1: my wife used to keep herself up. We'll get into 776 00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:29,359 Speaker 1: that find out what that's all about just a few 777 00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:32,880 Speaker 1: because right now it is time for the nephew and 778 00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:34,640 Speaker 1: today's prank phone call. What you got? 779 00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:37,360 Speaker 2: We're gonna go down to the cemetery. Anybody want to 780 00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:39,320 Speaker 2: go with me? We're going down to the cemetery the 781 00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:40,200 Speaker 2: hard No for me. 782 00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:44,000 Speaker 11: No, no, not goingyll know when you know y'all ain't 783 00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:45,120 Speaker 11: know to go park in the cemetery. 784 00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:46,360 Speaker 2: What's your girl, y'all ain't gonna do that? 785 00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:53,080 Speaker 7: Well, no, we're not white, No to do what in 786 00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:59,120 Speaker 7: a movie at the cemetery. Yeah, the one place I'm 787 00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:02,120 Speaker 7: trying to Lord always. 788 00:45:02,400 --> 00:45:05,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean a lot of kids just go down there. 789 00:45:05,239 --> 00:45:08,480 Speaker 7: And you know, if I'm in the car the wind 790 00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:11,719 Speaker 7: the cemetary, if a leaf blow across that wind ship, 791 00:45:11,960 --> 00:45:15,120 Speaker 7: all hell will break out. Net I'm telling him, can't 792 00:45:15,160 --> 00:45:20,400 Speaker 7: nothing happened. No, right, I'm way too damn scared for that, 793 00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:23,360 Speaker 7: you know how we are? 794 00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:24,000 Speaker 3: All right? 795 00:45:24,160 --> 00:45:24,359 Speaker 17: Dad? 796 00:45:25,280 --> 00:45:26,239 Speaker 2: Alright, this is right here. 797 00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:29,920 Speaker 11: This is called tombstone Toomstone, tombstone. 798 00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:31,160 Speaker 2: All right, let's go care thom. 799 00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:34,600 Speaker 15: Funeral Home. Miss Kendrick, Hey, man, I. 800 00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:36,920 Speaker 5: Got we got a problem with the Ciller home. The 801 00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:39,640 Speaker 5: man taw something y'all gonna mess around and put the 802 00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:42,439 Speaker 5: wrong name on my tomb and will is a date 803 00:45:42,680 --> 00:45:44,680 Speaker 5: and we got a problem. We gotta get rich tofied Man. 804 00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:46,120 Speaker 5: Y'all can hold hold. 805 00:45:46,000 --> 00:45:48,880 Speaker 15: On, hold on, man, calm down. First of all, what 806 00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:49,560 Speaker 15: is your name? 807 00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:53,600 Speaker 5: My name is Richie Man. But y'all, I can't understand 808 00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:55,960 Speaker 5: a funeral home making these kind of mistakes. You know, 809 00:45:56,239 --> 00:45:58,160 Speaker 5: that don't make no sense. How long have y'all even 810 00:45:58,239 --> 00:46:00,320 Speaker 5: been in the business, will be doing something like this? 811 00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:02,000 Speaker 15: So this is a family business. 812 00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:03,439 Speaker 13: We've been doing this forty plus years. 813 00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:05,600 Speaker 5: Ah ain't ynall making mistakes like this? Man? 814 00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:06,480 Speaker 8: What what? 815 00:46:06,800 --> 00:46:07,359 Speaker 5: What's the problem? 816 00:46:07,400 --> 00:46:08,040 Speaker 13: What's the mistake? 817 00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:09,640 Speaker 15: What's what mistake do you think we made? 818 00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:13,279 Speaker 5: Okay, look, man, we're bearing Mi Auntie two weeks ago. 819 00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:15,160 Speaker 5: Her name is Rose Up. 820 00:46:15,520 --> 00:46:16,279 Speaker 15: Okay, all right? 821 00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:18,880 Speaker 5: What do you spell? Our name is r O s 822 00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:22,279 Speaker 5: e t t A. Y'all got r O z e 823 00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:26,800 Speaker 5: t t a. She was born twne the eight nineteen 824 00:46:26,960 --> 00:46:31,560 Speaker 5: forty eight. Y'all got August to six, nineteen forty y'all 825 00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:34,040 Speaker 5: got the dates mixed up, and y'all got her name 826 00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:36,200 Speaker 5: mixed up. And what we ain't finna do is have 827 00:46:36,440 --> 00:46:39,920 Speaker 5: Mia Auntie rested in peace with the wrong stuff on 828 00:46:40,000 --> 00:46:42,919 Speaker 5: her tomb saw no Firsman, calm down? 829 00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:45,160 Speaker 15: Where you keep getting at me? I can't no way 830 00:46:45,200 --> 00:46:46,360 Speaker 15: I can help you if you getting at me? 831 00:46:47,040 --> 00:46:49,080 Speaker 5: I mean, what fikes the problem? 832 00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:49,319 Speaker 8: Damn? 833 00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:49,520 Speaker 5: Man? 834 00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:49,799 Speaker 17: Why? 835 00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:51,000 Speaker 5: I can check the paperwork. 836 00:46:51,280 --> 00:46:54,120 Speaker 15: I can check the paperwork and see what the problem is. Now, 837 00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:56,040 Speaker 15: if you who gaves me the wrong information, your family 838 00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:58,319 Speaker 15: gave me the wrong information, then we just put down 839 00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:00,839 Speaker 15: where we were given. And if we gotta change something, 840 00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:02,600 Speaker 15: we'll change it. But it's gonna cost you some more. 841 00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:04,359 Speaker 5: Mind, I'm not y'all. 842 00:47:04,680 --> 00:47:05,120 Speaker 8: We live. 843 00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:08,360 Speaker 5: We're not paying another damn damn to that funeral, not 844 00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:11,840 Speaker 5: another damn dam The stuff gonna get changed on that 845 00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:14,760 Speaker 5: damn tool store, and we're not paying for none. Nona 846 00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:16,400 Speaker 5: say it in this. I'm over that up. 847 00:47:16,440 --> 00:47:17,000 Speaker 4: I'm decided. 848 00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:19,960 Speaker 15: I'm saying we can help you out. I can help you. 849 00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:23,200 Speaker 14: But if you gave me the wrong information, that's only you. 850 00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:23,800 Speaker 13: Why didn't do that? 851 00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:24,279 Speaker 4: That's so as you. 852 00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:27,080 Speaker 5: But we ain't gave you the wrong information. I'm gonna 853 00:47:27,080 --> 00:47:29,120 Speaker 5: tell you that right hand. What is your name? 854 00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:30,000 Speaker 4: Turn on? 855 00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:31,600 Speaker 5: What is your name? 856 00:47:31,960 --> 00:47:33,080 Speaker 13: My name is Kendrick. 857 00:47:33,320 --> 00:47:36,560 Speaker 5: Okay, Kendrick. Let me tell you something. If this don't 858 00:47:36,600 --> 00:47:39,520 Speaker 5: get changed, body name, Me and some of my cousin 859 00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:41,440 Speaker 5: are finna come out there and start digging up bout it. 860 00:47:41,560 --> 00:47:44,600 Speaker 15: Oh no, y'all not coming over here and digging up nothing, 861 00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:46,000 Speaker 15: y'all my play. 862 00:47:46,080 --> 00:47:48,040 Speaker 14: He will disrespect my family and come over here. 863 00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:48,799 Speaker 15: You're gonna get up. 864 00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:51,319 Speaker 5: What we're gonna dig up somebody that y'all gonna if 865 00:47:51,640 --> 00:47:54,440 Speaker 5: y'all gonna get director found on my head tombstone, because. 866 00:47:54,520 --> 00:47:56,520 Speaker 15: It's not gonna be none of that. I'm not having 867 00:47:56,560 --> 00:47:58,600 Speaker 15: you coming over here. We're gonna sense the problem and 868 00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:00,759 Speaker 15: check the paperwork and I can get back to you. 869 00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:02,719 Speaker 15: That's what I can do. But you ain't digging up nothing. 870 00:48:03,080 --> 00:48:08,719 Speaker 5: If my hand tonstall me and my cousin is coming 871 00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:10,680 Speaker 5: out there digging them some of them, damn damn about it. 872 00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:13,160 Speaker 5: Until y'all get this damn thing fixed, I'm. 873 00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:16,960 Speaker 15: Gonna be nobody coming over there and I'm nothing. Wait 874 00:48:16,960 --> 00:48:20,200 Speaker 15: a minute, hold on, see what now I'm getting excited 875 00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:22,520 Speaker 15: to come. Man, Let me just talk to you like 876 00:48:22,600 --> 00:48:25,560 Speaker 15: a man. Listen, what I'm saying, is you in that 877 00:48:26,080 --> 00:48:29,920 Speaker 15: the family fills out the paperwork, put the name in 878 00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:33,000 Speaker 15: the first date on there. If it is incorrect, it 879 00:48:33,120 --> 00:48:34,879 Speaker 15: has to be fixed. I have to call the man 880 00:48:34,960 --> 00:48:37,640 Speaker 15: out here to fix you, and that's gonna cast some money. 881 00:48:37,680 --> 00:48:38,560 Speaker 14: I have to pay him. 882 00:48:38,960 --> 00:48:41,799 Speaker 15: All I'm saying is if that is the case, if 883 00:48:41,840 --> 00:48:44,360 Speaker 15: the paperwork is incorrect, it's not on us, and I 884 00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:46,719 Speaker 15: might have to charge you a little extra money just 885 00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:47,680 Speaker 15: so I can get it taken. 886 00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:51,239 Speaker 5: Care to get charged none. We ain't got no more money, man, 887 00:48:51,640 --> 00:48:54,200 Speaker 5: we ain't got no more money. Got charge alarmney had 888 00:48:54,280 --> 00:48:56,080 Speaker 5: to bear in my honey, we ain't got no more. 889 00:48:56,200 --> 00:48:58,120 Speaker 5: Let me tell you. I'm gonna tell you one more time, 890 00:48:58,560 --> 00:49:02,239 Speaker 5: mister Kendrick. Alright, don't see a child. I'm coming out 891 00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:04,480 Speaker 5: there this evening, and look at my handy tomb so off. 892 00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:07,560 Speaker 5: I'm coming out there now. If the dinner and the 893 00:49:07,719 --> 00:49:11,520 Speaker 5: name ain't fixed, I promise you so help me. I'm 894 00:49:11,520 --> 00:49:14,040 Speaker 5: finnah start digging up about it. And if your answers 895 00:49:14,080 --> 00:49:15,880 Speaker 5: out there, I'm gonna put you in one of them 896 00:49:15,920 --> 00:49:17,200 Speaker 5: holes down and dug up. 897 00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:19,480 Speaker 14: Now, I'll tell you what, virgie, You're not gonna put 898 00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:20,440 Speaker 14: me in no hole. 899 00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:21,759 Speaker 4: Man like I say it. 900 00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:24,920 Speaker 15: I tell you, I'm trying to talk to you and 901 00:49:25,080 --> 00:49:27,600 Speaker 15: tell you what the deal is and how we will 902 00:49:27,640 --> 00:49:29,680 Speaker 15: get this fix. Won't nobody come out. 903 00:49:29,560 --> 00:49:30,560 Speaker 16: Here and dig it up nothing? 904 00:49:30,840 --> 00:49:31,879 Speaker 4: I'll be cast some loss. 905 00:49:31,920 --> 00:49:34,279 Speaker 5: So I bet you, I bet you I'm digging up 906 00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:36,440 Speaker 5: a home and I'm putting your it if you don't 907 00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:38,000 Speaker 5: fix my hand and tombs on, and we. 908 00:49:38,080 --> 00:49:40,239 Speaker 15: Both going in the damn hole. That's what's gonna happen. 909 00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:43,279 Speaker 5: We're both going in that head because somebody I want 910 00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:45,719 Speaker 5: to fix, mess around and put the wrong date. You 911 00:49:45,840 --> 00:49:48,120 Speaker 5: want to put the juns on my hand and man 912 00:49:48,280 --> 00:49:50,520 Speaker 5: row and everything that I. 913 00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:51,879 Speaker 15: Don't even answer the damn phone. 914 00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:53,560 Speaker 14: Let my uncle get it kissed. 915 00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:58,239 Speaker 8: Regard fix nothing. 916 00:49:58,480 --> 00:49:59,760 Speaker 13: Me and you yelling at each other. 917 00:50:00,400 --> 00:50:03,319 Speaker 15: We mean, we don't do this. Yelling at each other 918 00:50:03,640 --> 00:50:06,120 Speaker 15: is not gonna fix the problems. I'm I still have 919 00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:07,840 Speaker 15: to do a step here. I have to look at 920 00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:08,520 Speaker 15: this paperwork. 921 00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:10,160 Speaker 5: So where is you gonna look at it? 922 00:50:10,239 --> 00:50:10,399 Speaker 8: Then? 923 00:50:10,560 --> 00:50:12,359 Speaker 15: Whether you keep yelling now, I don't even have time 924 00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:14,200 Speaker 15: to go over the paperwork. Every time I get ready 925 00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:15,399 Speaker 15: to look at something, you're yelling in my head. 926 00:50:15,600 --> 00:50:18,040 Speaker 5: When you say this to you one more time, I'm coming. 927 00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:20,759 Speaker 5: I'm gonna come out there right now. That's what I'm 928 00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:21,160 Speaker 5: gonna tell you. 929 00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:23,680 Speaker 14: Know what We're to come on in God, try to 930 00:50:23,880 --> 00:50:26,719 Speaker 14: talk nice to you. Tell you what I told you 931 00:50:26,840 --> 00:50:28,920 Speaker 14: that this is a family business, and you just respecting me. 932 00:50:29,120 --> 00:50:32,000 Speaker 14: Now you come out here, you ain't no because we 933 00:50:32,120 --> 00:50:33,440 Speaker 14: both going it over day. 934 00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:35,000 Speaker 15: That's what I'm trying to tell you right now. 935 00:50:42,880 --> 00:50:45,359 Speaker 5: Is on my way because I guarantee you y'all gonna 936 00:50:45,400 --> 00:50:45,640 Speaker 5: tell you. 937 00:50:45,800 --> 00:50:48,680 Speaker 14: I'm gonna bring no, Then bring no. You ain't no, 938 00:50:48,800 --> 00:50:51,000 Speaker 14: cause I'm laughing for a car. I'm digging a bout 939 00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:52,279 Speaker 14: seven holes out this day. 940 00:50:52,880 --> 00:50:55,080 Speaker 5: When they get ready, they sail kiss on the tombs. 941 00:50:55,800 --> 00:50:56,960 Speaker 5: They're gonna fail it right. 942 00:50:57,280 --> 00:50:59,000 Speaker 4: Oh well then come off. 943 00:50:59,320 --> 00:51:02,680 Speaker 5: You wasn't no cushings. I got something I need to 944 00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:06,080 Speaker 5: tell you. Yes, you got to say you listening to 945 00:51:06,200 --> 00:51:06,919 Speaker 5: me can't drink. 946 00:51:07,560 --> 00:51:09,120 Speaker 15: You got to say regard. 947 00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:11,880 Speaker 8: Its new temmy. 948 00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:14,920 Speaker 5: You just got breaked by your secretary with. 949 00:51:18,440 --> 00:51:22,880 Speaker 8: No right. 950 00:51:23,160 --> 00:51:25,880 Speaker 13: Man, you tell me how about. 951 00:51:29,080 --> 00:51:30,120 Speaker 5: Me? Lay you got you? 952 00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:33,640 Speaker 8: Man? Man Old he was supposed to be ahead today. 953 00:51:35,640 --> 00:51:36,920 Speaker 15: I knew something was funny. 954 00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:40,879 Speaker 4: Oh man, man, you got me, But I wasn't gonna 955 00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:41,640 Speaker 4: do a over. 956 00:51:41,520 --> 00:51:44,400 Speaker 13: Yo today trying to dig all. 957 00:51:44,719 --> 00:51:46,719 Speaker 5: Hey, man, I gotta ask you one more thing. What 958 00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:50,239 Speaker 5: is the baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio. 959 00:51:50,080 --> 00:51:53,680 Speaker 15: Show in the lamb, the Steve Harvey Morning. 960 00:51:53,480 --> 00:52:04,360 Speaker 11: Show, y'all Toomstown. I don't I don't't tell me no, No, 961 00:52:04,960 --> 00:52:09,640 Speaker 11: I'm really not my head. I want all my name 962 00:52:09,719 --> 00:52:13,120 Speaker 11: on man, Thomas Nephew time in my on, the whole thing, 963 00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:16,160 Speaker 11: covered all the way through right all the way around 964 00:52:16,200 --> 00:52:16,920 Speaker 11: the backside. 965 00:52:17,080 --> 00:52:19,120 Speaker 2: Just you know, think, man, look good. 966 00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:22,799 Speaker 1: It's expensive. Yeah, I know you got money. I don't 967 00:52:22,880 --> 00:52:23,680 Speaker 1: leave money for all it. 968 00:52:25,080 --> 00:52:28,719 Speaker 11: Yeah, I'm gonna eat up all that money. I'm along 969 00:52:28,760 --> 00:52:30,160 Speaker 11: with Steve and I've been eat up all that. 970 00:52:30,239 --> 00:52:32,960 Speaker 1: Money, all your money while you right now. 971 00:52:33,400 --> 00:52:34,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't. 972 00:52:34,480 --> 00:52:36,640 Speaker 11: Realize that I'm finna eat up all that money. I'm 973 00:52:36,680 --> 00:52:38,839 Speaker 11: looking around seeing who deserves it and who don't. Yeah, 974 00:52:38,880 --> 00:52:40,239 Speaker 11: we're finish party with this here, bro. 975 00:52:40,880 --> 00:52:44,920 Speaker 7: I'm gonna send y'all something and you gonna understand why 976 00:52:45,040 --> 00:52:46,560 Speaker 7: my philosophy is this way. 977 00:52:46,840 --> 00:52:47,680 Speaker 2: I get to you right now. 978 00:52:47,800 --> 00:52:52,000 Speaker 11: Nephew Thomas House Party Comedy Jam is jumping off June fifteenth. 979 00:52:52,120 --> 00:52:56,040 Speaker 11: That's in Dallas, Texas. That is Saturday, June fifteen at 980 00:52:56,080 --> 00:52:59,160 Speaker 11: the Majestic. Tickets are on sale right now. Nephew Thomas 981 00:52:59,640 --> 00:53:02,640 Speaker 11: House Party Comedy Jam. All you brothers out there, all 982 00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:05,560 Speaker 11: you fathers out there, all my Kappa brothers out there, 983 00:53:05,640 --> 00:53:06,320 Speaker 11: come hang out with you. 984 00:53:06,440 --> 00:53:06,600 Speaker 13: Boy. 985 00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:10,000 Speaker 11: Were putting it down Saturday night alone with my man 986 00:53:10,080 --> 00:53:12,320 Speaker 11: Tony Robbins. I got Dominique in the billing. They funny 987 00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:12,719 Speaker 11: at all. 988 00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:15,719 Speaker 2: Get out. Nephew Thomas House Party Comedy Jam live in. 989 00:53:15,880 --> 00:53:21,040 Speaker 11: Person at the Majesty, Dallas, Texas, Saturday night, June fifteen. 990 00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:27,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, Nephew, on the way, thank you, coming 991 00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:30,880 Speaker 1: up at coming up next. Today's Strawberry Letter and the 992 00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:34,440 Speaker 1: subject is my wife used to keep herself up. My 993 00:53:34,600 --> 00:53:37,879 Speaker 1: wife used to keep herself up. Wow, we'll get into 994 00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:39,720 Speaker 1: that and find out what that's all about. 995 00:53:40,160 --> 00:53:40,759 Speaker 2: Right after this. 996 00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:45,800 Speaker 1: You're listening Hard Morning Show. It is time now for 997 00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:50,400 Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, 998 00:53:50,520 --> 00:53:53,520 Speaker 1: parenting and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve 999 00:53:53,560 --> 00:53:57,160 Speaker 1: HARVEYFM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could 1000 00:53:57,200 --> 00:53:59,879 Speaker 1: be reading your letter live on the air like we're 1001 00:53:59,880 --> 00:54:01,840 Speaker 1: going to read this one right here, right now, and 1002 00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:03,360 Speaker 1: you never know, it could be yours. 1003 00:54:04,040 --> 00:54:05,920 Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight. 1004 00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:08,560 Speaker 2: We got it for you here. It is Strawberry letta. 1005 00:54:08,719 --> 00:54:12,640 Speaker 1: Thanking if you subject my wife used to keep herself up. 1006 00:54:13,160 --> 00:54:16,480 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been married for thirteen years and 1007 00:54:16,600 --> 00:54:19,279 Speaker 1: my wife and I work from home. I do food 1008 00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:21,680 Speaker 1: deliveries two nights a week just so I can get 1009 00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:24,000 Speaker 1: out of the house and give her some space. She 1010 00:54:24,160 --> 00:54:27,320 Speaker 1: goes walking with ladies in our neighborhood to give me space. 1011 00:54:28,760 --> 00:54:30,879 Speaker 1: I love that she's lost weight and kept it off, 1012 00:54:30,960 --> 00:54:33,319 Speaker 1: and so have I. We don't have sex as much 1013 00:54:33,320 --> 00:54:35,479 Speaker 1: as we used to, but when we do, we still 1014 00:54:35,560 --> 00:54:39,399 Speaker 1: have the best chemistry. Everything would seem to be great 1015 00:54:39,480 --> 00:54:42,080 Speaker 1: with us, but it's not because my wife has let 1016 00:54:42,120 --> 00:54:44,960 Speaker 1: herself go in a lot of ways. I know you're 1017 00:54:45,000 --> 00:54:47,239 Speaker 1: going to say I'm being petty and I might be 1018 00:54:47,360 --> 00:54:50,280 Speaker 1: the one with the problem, but check this out. Whenever 1019 00:54:50,400 --> 00:54:52,719 Speaker 1: my wife and I are about to be intimate, I 1020 00:54:52,960 --> 00:54:55,440 Speaker 1: encourage her to take a nice bubble bass to get 1021 00:54:55,480 --> 00:54:57,759 Speaker 1: in the mood. I have to do that for more 1022 00:54:57,840 --> 00:55:01,400 Speaker 1: reasons than one. When she's going walking with the other ladies, 1023 00:55:01,480 --> 00:55:03,920 Speaker 1: I suggest that she wear a baseball cap instead of 1024 00:55:04,000 --> 00:55:07,160 Speaker 1: her hairscarf that she wears to bed every night. I 1025 00:55:07,400 --> 00:55:10,800 Speaker 1: ordered her exercise clothes so she will stop walking in 1026 00:55:10,880 --> 00:55:13,640 Speaker 1: my big T shirt and her old jogging pants with 1027 00:55:13,840 --> 00:55:16,520 Speaker 1: holes in them. I want her to present herself better 1028 00:55:16,640 --> 00:55:19,320 Speaker 1: than that when she's waving at our neighbors as she 1029 00:55:19,440 --> 00:55:22,200 Speaker 1: walks by. I have asked her if she realizes her 1030 00:55:22,320 --> 00:55:24,400 Speaker 1: nails are grown out and need to be redone, and 1031 00:55:24,520 --> 00:55:27,160 Speaker 1: she's told me that they're fine since she doesn't have 1032 00:55:27,320 --> 00:55:30,480 Speaker 1: plans to go anywhere. Same with the toenails, because she 1033 00:55:30,600 --> 00:55:34,239 Speaker 1: stopped trimming them herself. Maybe I'm being too hard on her. 1034 00:55:34,360 --> 00:55:36,359 Speaker 1: But I want her to be my cute, sexy wife 1035 00:55:36,400 --> 00:55:39,080 Speaker 1: at all times. And if I have to keep reminding 1036 00:55:39,120 --> 00:55:42,480 Speaker 1: her to do certain things to maintain herself, it's a problem. 1037 00:55:43,200 --> 00:55:45,279 Speaker 1: Why do I have to tell her to bathe? Am 1038 00:55:45,320 --> 00:55:48,600 Speaker 1: I wrong for how I feel? Please help? Well, No, 1039 00:55:48,800 --> 00:55:50,920 Speaker 1: you're not wrong. How you feel is how you feel. 1040 00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:55,279 Speaker 1: And if your wife is not bathing bathing, you have 1041 00:55:55,400 --> 00:55:58,400 Speaker 1: an obligation as her husband to tell her period. I mean, 1042 00:55:58,800 --> 00:56:02,800 Speaker 1: that's not being paddy. Now why she's not bathing is 1043 00:56:02,840 --> 00:56:06,440 Speaker 1: a whole other issue. It sounds like just plain laziness 1044 00:56:06,920 --> 00:56:11,680 Speaker 1: at this point. She works from home now see, and 1045 00:56:11,960 --> 00:56:14,680 Speaker 1: has nowhere to go, so she doesn't feel the need 1046 00:56:14,840 --> 00:56:17,440 Speaker 1: or the purpose of doing anything like getting dressed or 1047 00:56:17,480 --> 00:56:20,200 Speaker 1: getting her hair done or getting her nails done. That 1048 00:56:20,400 --> 00:56:23,080 Speaker 1: requires a lot of effort for nowhere to go and 1049 00:56:23,239 --> 00:56:25,719 Speaker 1: nothing to do. And I'm just going to say she's 1050 00:56:25,800 --> 00:56:28,120 Speaker 1: stuck right now. She really is. She's kind of in 1051 00:56:28,239 --> 00:56:31,920 Speaker 1: a rut. She's stuck. But she has to remember that 1052 00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:36,719 Speaker 1: men have egos, they're visual, so please, you know, this 1053 00:56:36,920 --> 00:56:41,480 Speaker 1: could lead into other things like, you know, causing him 1054 00:56:41,520 --> 00:56:43,520 Speaker 1: to cheat or giving him a reason to cheat, and 1055 00:56:43,600 --> 00:56:47,080 Speaker 1: that's what you don't want him to do. Not keeping 1056 00:56:47,120 --> 00:56:50,160 Speaker 1: yourself is reason enough for some men not to cheat 1057 00:56:50,200 --> 00:56:52,880 Speaker 1: if you don't keep yourself up. Marriage is work, we 1058 00:56:53,040 --> 00:56:55,160 Speaker 1: all know that, and part of that work is not 1059 00:56:55,400 --> 00:57:00,279 Speaker 1: letting yourself go. So you husband, I need you to 1060 00:57:00,360 --> 00:57:03,560 Speaker 1: start planning some date nights, some dinners out, get back 1061 00:57:03,640 --> 00:57:06,560 Speaker 1: to doing things with friends outside of the house, so 1062 00:57:06,719 --> 00:57:09,040 Speaker 1: your wife will have a reason to get dressed and 1063 00:57:09,200 --> 00:57:11,319 Speaker 1: start feeling good about herself again. 1064 00:57:11,760 --> 00:57:18,400 Speaker 2: Steve, Wow, Surely, great answer, great answer, great answer. 1065 00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:23,000 Speaker 7: I am going to disagree with damn near everything you 1066 00:57:23,200 --> 00:57:26,920 Speaker 7: said because I think we need to have a counter 1067 00:57:27,080 --> 00:57:30,880 Speaker 7: to this. Surely, your answers are always pretty much close 1068 00:57:30,920 --> 00:57:34,240 Speaker 7: to the vest, and you know you're more. You know, 1069 00:57:35,560 --> 00:57:38,760 Speaker 7: you know you try to be more. I guess diplomatic 1070 00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:44,000 Speaker 7: in your responses. On the other hand, that ain't my job. 1071 00:57:46,040 --> 00:57:47,120 Speaker 7: That ain't my job. 1072 00:57:48,000 --> 00:57:51,200 Speaker 2: So I will show you what my job is. 1073 00:57:51,840 --> 00:57:52,600 Speaker 1: Do your job. 1074 00:57:54,280 --> 00:57:56,680 Speaker 7: I've been married thirteen years and my wife and I 1075 00:57:56,840 --> 00:57:59,880 Speaker 7: work from home. So he do food deliveries two nights 1076 00:58:00,120 --> 00:58:02,680 Speaker 7: week so he can give his wife some space, and 1077 00:58:02,800 --> 00:58:05,640 Speaker 7: she go walking in the daytime with her ladies to 1078 00:58:05,760 --> 00:58:10,640 Speaker 7: give him some space. Since they work from home. They 1079 00:58:10,800 --> 00:58:17,440 Speaker 7: tied each other yeah, see that space. Even though everybody 1080 00:58:17,600 --> 00:58:20,960 Speaker 7: needs space. I don't care who you are, everybody needs space. 1081 00:58:22,120 --> 00:58:25,640 Speaker 7: But you're trying to get out of the man, and 1082 00:58:25,840 --> 00:58:28,440 Speaker 7: she trying to get out of that. And I understand 1083 00:58:28,520 --> 00:58:30,920 Speaker 7: that because y'all working from home, y'all around each other 1084 00:58:31,000 --> 00:58:31,640 Speaker 7: all the time. 1085 00:58:32,960 --> 00:58:33,200 Speaker 2: Eh. 1086 00:58:35,080 --> 00:58:38,160 Speaker 7: Now she goes walking with the ladies in our neighborhood 1087 00:58:38,200 --> 00:58:40,520 Speaker 7: to give me space. And I love the fact that 1088 00:58:40,600 --> 00:58:42,840 Speaker 7: she's lost weight and kept it off, and so have I. 1089 00:58:44,520 --> 00:58:47,120 Speaker 7: We don't have sex like we used to. Nobody does, sir, 1090 00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:53,120 Speaker 7: but we still have the best chemistry. Everything would seem 1091 00:58:53,280 --> 00:58:54,880 Speaker 7: to be great with us, but it's not. 1092 00:58:56,120 --> 00:58:56,920 Speaker 1: And why is it not? 1093 00:58:57,520 --> 00:59:00,440 Speaker 7: Because my wife to let herself go in a lot 1094 00:59:00,480 --> 00:59:03,560 Speaker 7: of ways. Let me stop right here. If a man 1095 00:59:04,200 --> 00:59:08,640 Speaker 7: writes into a radio show, he and his wits in. 1096 00:59:11,080 --> 00:59:16,240 Speaker 7: Men don't write in seeking help unless they really need help. 1097 00:59:17,240 --> 00:59:21,760 Speaker 2: He over this here, this little routine she pulling. He 1098 00:59:21,920 --> 00:59:22,640 Speaker 2: done with her. 1099 00:59:24,480 --> 00:59:27,000 Speaker 7: Now, Like he said, some people be talking about, well, 1100 00:59:27,080 --> 00:59:29,200 Speaker 7: you got to be the problem. You love your wife 1101 00:59:29,280 --> 00:59:30,800 Speaker 7: the way she is. I don't know who keep telling 1102 00:59:30,840 --> 00:59:33,160 Speaker 7: you all that, you know, especially when women say a 1103 00:59:33,240 --> 00:59:35,480 Speaker 7: man have to take me as I am. No, he 1104 00:59:35,720 --> 00:59:39,880 Speaker 7: don't that ain't in our book nowhere. Whenever my wife 1105 00:59:39,920 --> 00:59:42,080 Speaker 7: and I about to be intimate, I encourage her to 1106 00:59:42,160 --> 00:59:44,200 Speaker 7: take a nice bubble bath to get in the mood. 1107 00:59:44,520 --> 00:59:47,080 Speaker 2: I have to do that for more reasons than one. 1108 00:59:47,400 --> 00:59:49,960 Speaker 2: Now he's trying to be nice right here. 1109 00:59:51,920 --> 00:59:55,040 Speaker 7: I try to encourage her to take a bubble bath 1110 00:59:55,160 --> 00:59:58,600 Speaker 7: to get in the mood for more reasons than one. Now, 1111 00:59:58,680 --> 01:00:02,400 Speaker 7: a man don't want to out it wife, But we 1112 01:00:02,520 --> 01:00:03,680 Speaker 7: all know what that means. 1113 01:00:06,360 --> 01:00:12,840 Speaker 2: You you done walked? Come on now, friction, Come on now, 1114 01:00:12,960 --> 01:00:13,920 Speaker 2: you up in hill. 1115 01:00:17,400 --> 01:00:17,560 Speaker 19: Lot? 1116 01:00:17,680 --> 01:00:23,440 Speaker 2: It got hot? All right? 1117 01:00:23,600 --> 01:00:28,280 Speaker 1: Hang on your response? Uh uh? Coming up on twenty 1118 01:00:28,400 --> 01:00:33,000 Speaker 1: three minutes after today's Strawberry letter, subject my wife used 1119 01:00:33,000 --> 01:00:35,360 Speaker 1: to keep herself up. We'll get back into it right 1120 01:00:35,400 --> 01:00:40,479 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening morning show, all right, Come on, Steve, 1121 01:00:40,560 --> 01:00:43,560 Speaker 1: let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject is my wife 1122 01:00:44,240 --> 01:00:45,520 Speaker 1: used to keep herself up? 1123 01:00:46,280 --> 01:00:46,600 Speaker 2: All right. 1124 01:00:46,640 --> 01:00:48,120 Speaker 7: This is a letter about a man who won't been 1125 01:00:48,160 --> 01:00:50,360 Speaker 7: married thirteen years, and they work from home, so they 1126 01:00:50,440 --> 01:00:51,440 Speaker 7: run each other all the time. 1127 01:00:51,520 --> 01:00:52,440 Speaker 2: They need some space. 1128 01:00:52,840 --> 01:00:55,600 Speaker 7: He makes food deliveries twice a week at night to 1129 01:00:55,680 --> 01:00:57,480 Speaker 7: give her some space, and she go walking with the 1130 01:00:57,560 --> 01:01:02,200 Speaker 7: ladies in the neighborhood. Give him some space. Everybody needs space. Uh, 1131 01:01:02,400 --> 01:01:04,840 Speaker 7: you know, when they intimate, they don't have sex like 1132 01:01:04,920 --> 01:01:07,560 Speaker 7: they used to. But when they intimate, the chemistry still there. 1133 01:01:09,200 --> 01:01:12,040 Speaker 7: And then I say, you know, but now here go 1134 01:01:12,160 --> 01:01:15,480 Speaker 7: the problem. Whenever we about to be intimate, I encourage 1135 01:01:15,480 --> 01:01:17,880 Speaker 7: her to take a bubble bath to get in the mood. 1136 01:01:19,240 --> 01:01:21,520 Speaker 7: I have to do that for more reasons than one. 1137 01:01:22,360 --> 01:01:24,040 Speaker 7: First of all, let me tell you something. Men don't 1138 01:01:24,080 --> 01:01:27,040 Speaker 7: need a bubble bath to get in the mood. Something 1139 01:01:27,120 --> 01:01:32,640 Speaker 7: is wrong here, Something is wrong. I ain't ever got 1140 01:01:32,720 --> 01:01:34,360 Speaker 7: ready to go in there and say, baby, you won't 1141 01:01:34,440 --> 01:01:36,400 Speaker 7: go on in there and take a bubble bath now, 1142 01:01:38,080 --> 01:01:40,440 Speaker 7: because I don't need nothing to cause you to change 1143 01:01:40,520 --> 01:01:44,000 Speaker 7: your mind. If we here now, it looks like it's 1144 01:01:44,040 --> 01:01:49,400 Speaker 7: popping off. In the words of Marvin Gate, let's get 1145 01:01:49,480 --> 01:01:55,760 Speaker 7: it home, baby, Come on all right now. Now you 1146 01:01:55,880 --> 01:01:57,760 Speaker 7: have to encourage her to take a nice bubble bath 1147 01:01:58,080 --> 01:02:01,080 Speaker 7: for more reasons than one, because she y'all walking with 1148 01:02:01,200 --> 01:02:03,640 Speaker 7: them ladies, see friction? 1149 01:02:05,600 --> 01:02:11,360 Speaker 2: Are you free now here? We are? We need to 1150 01:02:11,400 --> 01:02:12,160 Speaker 2: get in this water. 1151 01:02:13,920 --> 01:02:18,240 Speaker 7: Then, he says, I suggest she wear a baseball cap 1152 01:02:18,520 --> 01:02:22,880 Speaker 7: on her head instead of that hassk off that she 1153 01:02:23,000 --> 01:02:25,040 Speaker 7: wear the bed every night. And hold on, Hold up now, 1154 01:02:25,600 --> 01:02:28,600 Speaker 7: now this scarf is doing double duty. We all know 1155 01:02:28,720 --> 01:02:33,160 Speaker 7: about that scarf. It's y'all's favorite. It's the one you 1156 01:02:33,280 --> 01:02:37,360 Speaker 7: won't It's a silk scarf, keeps your hand place and 1157 01:02:37,480 --> 01:02:38,600 Speaker 7: keeps it from breaking off. 1158 01:02:40,280 --> 01:02:42,560 Speaker 2: But you can't wear it that night and all day too, 1159 01:02:42,600 --> 01:02:46,480 Speaker 2: and then wrap it in a night This too much 1160 01:02:48,120 --> 01:02:50,120 Speaker 2: back in the day when you had the sofa ad 1161 01:02:50,280 --> 01:02:52,360 Speaker 2: and the glover's main you know, stuff like that. 1162 01:02:53,120 --> 01:02:56,400 Speaker 7: You know it's tied right here, this thing bergamont Ulch 1163 01:02:56,440 --> 01:02:57,520 Speaker 7: machine pro line. 1164 01:02:58,120 --> 01:03:02,280 Speaker 2: You know, it just was just wrong. It was just wrong, 1165 01:03:02,920 --> 01:03:05,240 Speaker 2: you know, sporting waves all this here. 1166 01:03:07,280 --> 01:03:10,200 Speaker 7: Now, I ordered her some expensive I ordered her some 1167 01:03:10,320 --> 01:03:12,720 Speaker 7: exercise clothes so she can stop walking in my big 1168 01:03:12,880 --> 01:03:16,680 Speaker 7: T shirt and old jogging pants with holes in them. 1169 01:03:16,840 --> 01:03:19,160 Speaker 7: Because I want her to present herself better than that 1170 01:03:19,280 --> 01:03:21,560 Speaker 7: when she waving at our neighbors as she walked by. 1171 01:03:22,000 --> 01:03:25,480 Speaker 7: Because a man's job is to protect and provide. He 1172 01:03:25,640 --> 01:03:30,320 Speaker 7: protected his image, her image. He provides her with new 1173 01:03:30,560 --> 01:03:33,360 Speaker 7: workout clothes so she can walk by and look more decent. 1174 01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:36,840 Speaker 7: I have asked her if she realizes that her nails 1175 01:03:36,920 --> 01:03:40,200 Speaker 7: have grown out and they need to be redone. She 1176 01:03:40,440 --> 01:03:43,040 Speaker 7: told me they find since she don't have plans to 1177 01:03:43,200 --> 01:03:47,280 Speaker 7: go anywhere, Sureley said, And then she said same with 1178 01:03:47,400 --> 01:03:52,960 Speaker 7: the toeenails. Because she stopped trimming herself. Shirley said, she's lazy. 1179 01:03:53,720 --> 01:03:59,920 Speaker 7: This is not lazy. This is trifling. There's a different, 1180 01:04:00,000 --> 01:04:08,040 Speaker 7: it's between lazy and trifling. Then she said, maybe we 1181 01:04:08,200 --> 01:04:10,240 Speaker 7: ought to take out on date night. 1182 01:04:10,480 --> 01:04:11,320 Speaker 2: Anybody taking her? 1183 01:04:11,360 --> 01:04:16,920 Speaker 7: No, damn well, you got these claws on your hands 1184 01:04:17,000 --> 01:04:20,640 Speaker 7: and feet, you looking like an ego snatching a fish 1185 01:04:20,720 --> 01:04:21,400 Speaker 7: up out of lake. 1186 01:04:22,240 --> 01:04:24,280 Speaker 2: And now you think I'm finna get you dressed up 1187 01:04:24,320 --> 01:04:28,680 Speaker 2: and we going somewhere. We ain't gonna know where. I'm 1188 01:04:28,680 --> 01:04:31,440 Speaker 2: gonna tell you what's really wrong. Maybe I'm being too hard. 1189 01:04:31,320 --> 01:04:32,919 Speaker 7: On her, but I want her to be my cute, 1190 01:04:32,960 --> 01:04:35,240 Speaker 7: sexy wife at all times, and I have to keep 1191 01:04:35,320 --> 01:04:38,200 Speaker 7: reminding her to do certain things to maintain herself as 1192 01:04:38,280 --> 01:04:41,160 Speaker 7: a problem, Why do I have to tell her to bathe? 1193 01:04:42,600 --> 01:04:45,720 Speaker 7: Am I wrong for how I feel? Please help? No, 1194 01:04:45,920 --> 01:04:48,720 Speaker 7: you're not wrong for how you feel. Everybody want the 1195 01:04:48,800 --> 01:04:52,840 Speaker 7: girl to be fresh. Most men's wives are cleaner than them. 1196 01:04:54,640 --> 01:04:57,680 Speaker 7: Most women that I've seen and met, they really in 1197 01:04:57,760 --> 01:05:01,520 Speaker 7: the up take, care of their business. Women for the 1198 01:05:01,600 --> 01:05:03,560 Speaker 7: most part, man, they know how to put it on. 1199 01:05:04,800 --> 01:05:08,600 Speaker 7: I very rarely see women that ain't trying to do right. 1200 01:05:08,760 --> 01:05:10,800 Speaker 7: I just don't yours. 1201 01:05:10,880 --> 01:05:11,640 Speaker 2: Then gave up. 1202 01:05:13,160 --> 01:05:16,640 Speaker 7: To say ladyness just trifling, and she being a little 1203 01:05:16,640 --> 01:05:19,160 Speaker 7: bit trifling right now. But I'm gonna tell you what 1204 01:05:19,280 --> 01:05:25,600 Speaker 7: the real reason is. Shirley says she's stuck. She's not stuck. 1205 01:05:27,280 --> 01:05:34,040 Speaker 7: She has taken him and the marriage for granted. And 1206 01:05:34,240 --> 01:05:37,439 Speaker 7: that is what I talk to women about all the time. 1207 01:05:38,040 --> 01:05:40,360 Speaker 7: The thing that hurts a man most of all is 1208 01:05:40,440 --> 01:05:45,520 Speaker 7: when we get taken for granted and we are not appreciated. Now, 1209 01:05:45,560 --> 01:05:48,000 Speaker 7: if you got a man that's out here working, you 1210 01:05:48,120 --> 01:05:50,720 Speaker 7: got a man buying you new exercise coach. You got 1211 01:05:50,760 --> 01:05:52,800 Speaker 7: a man in here wanting you to take a bath, 1212 01:05:52,920 --> 01:05:56,280 Speaker 7: reminding you to clip your toenails, to clip your This 1213 01:05:56,520 --> 01:05:59,959 Speaker 7: man is doing all he can. But you are sitting 1214 01:06:00,160 --> 01:06:04,640 Speaker 7: up there thinking, you my husband, you ain't going nowhere. 1215 01:06:06,280 --> 01:06:09,680 Speaker 7: So now you've taken your marriage and your man for granted. 1216 01:06:10,680 --> 01:06:11,200 Speaker 2: Come on here. 1217 01:06:12,280 --> 01:06:15,680 Speaker 7: And so now once you take us for granted and 1218 01:06:15,800 --> 01:06:19,120 Speaker 7: you stop showing appreciation, you stop fixing up the package, 1219 01:06:19,880 --> 01:06:23,560 Speaker 7: Well I got news for you, oh, I'm gonna tell 1220 01:06:23,560 --> 01:06:25,520 Speaker 7: you right now, he looking around. He ain't just wrote 1221 01:06:25,560 --> 01:06:28,640 Speaker 7: this letter because he trying to stop the wandering eyes 1222 01:06:28,720 --> 01:06:31,400 Speaker 7: he got. Because he looking round, he's seeing what put 1223 01:06:31,440 --> 01:06:35,560 Speaker 7: together look like. Y'all got ig, sir? Just hit that 1224 01:06:35,640 --> 01:06:41,200 Speaker 7: little circle that say search Lord Hemberson. That's what he's seeing, 1225 01:06:41,560 --> 01:06:43,560 Speaker 7: all right, And that's what your comments. 1226 01:06:45,480 --> 01:06:48,520 Speaker 2: Are you gonna lose health? Period? Yeah? 1227 01:06:48,600 --> 01:06:51,120 Speaker 1: Post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harve 1228 01:06:51,320 --> 01:06:53,760 Speaker 1: FM on Instagram and Facebook, and check out the Strawberry 1229 01:06:53,840 --> 01:06:57,760 Speaker 1: Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app. Free Never sounded 1230 01:06:57,840 --> 01:07:00,760 Speaker 1: so good. You can download it today now. Coming up 1231 01:07:00,760 --> 01:07:03,040 Speaker 1: in forty six minutes after the hour, we got Junior 1232 01:07:03,120 --> 01:07:07,360 Speaker 1: and Sports Talk right after this. You're listening Save Hardy 1233 01:07:07,440 --> 01:07:11,200 Speaker 1: Morning Show. It is time now for junior and sports talk. 1234 01:07:11,240 --> 01:07:12,160 Speaker 1: What you got junior? 1235 01:07:12,360 --> 01:07:12,919 Speaker 2: All right, Charley? 1236 01:07:13,080 --> 01:07:14,840 Speaker 9: But first we two and a half way two and 1237 01:07:14,880 --> 01:07:17,760 Speaker 9: a half weeks away from Kars five k running for 1238 01:07:17,880 --> 01:07:20,040 Speaker 9: a walk. I need everybody down at the market Hunt 1239 01:07:20,120 --> 01:07:22,440 Speaker 9: Hill Bridge down in Dallas, Texas, Okay. 1240 01:07:22,800 --> 01:07:24,919 Speaker 1: Race starts at eight on Saturday, June first. 1241 01:07:25,480 --> 01:07:27,880 Speaker 9: If you have sickle celles, sickle cell trade, you need 1242 01:07:28,000 --> 01:07:29,320 Speaker 9: to be at this walk. So you can see the 1243 01:07:29,360 --> 01:07:30,400 Speaker 9: people in your community. 1244 01:07:30,640 --> 01:07:31,680 Speaker 1: You need to know your people. 1245 01:07:31,800 --> 01:07:33,440 Speaker 9: You need to meet all your sickle celle eighties and 1246 01:07:33,520 --> 01:07:35,320 Speaker 9: brothers and sisters. You need to know all of them, 1247 01:07:35,360 --> 01:07:38,320 Speaker 9: your cousins. Get on down there. Register at kirs Hope 1248 01:07:38,360 --> 01:07:38,720 Speaker 9: dot org. 1249 01:07:38,800 --> 01:07:39,680 Speaker 3: That's k I E R. 1250 01:07:39,880 --> 01:07:42,240 Speaker 1: S Hope dot org. See you June first. 1251 01:07:42,480 --> 01:07:45,040 Speaker 9: All right, here we go OKC in Dallas one hundred 1252 01:07:45,080 --> 01:07:49,080 Speaker 9: to ninety six. OKC pulls it off. SG had thirty 1253 01:07:49,120 --> 01:07:51,120 Speaker 9: four points, eight rebounds, and five assists. 1254 01:07:51,160 --> 01:07:54,760 Speaker 10: Luka Dodgers had a triple double with eighteen, twelve and twelve. 1255 01:07:55,320 --> 01:07:57,040 Speaker 3: Uh you know FKC came. 1256 01:07:56,960 --> 01:07:59,200 Speaker 10: Back from fourteen down to ty this series at two too. 1257 01:07:59,280 --> 01:08:01,080 Speaker 1: What a good game. It was great. But let's get 1258 01:08:01,080 --> 01:08:03,080 Speaker 1: to the game. Let's see how today. 1259 01:08:03,600 --> 01:08:06,880 Speaker 7: Who did you say had the points in the beginning? 1260 01:08:06,960 --> 01:08:07,440 Speaker 2: I missed that. 1261 01:08:07,920 --> 01:08:11,120 Speaker 1: Oh it's g A. That's theft for shot Gilges Alexander. 1262 01:08:11,480 --> 01:08:13,280 Speaker 2: Well, you probably need to say that. I don't know 1263 01:08:13,360 --> 01:08:14,360 Speaker 2: what you heard talking about. 1264 01:08:14,360 --> 01:08:16,680 Speaker 1: I thought you from about everybody just called this his 1265 01:08:16,760 --> 01:08:19,240 Speaker 1: name so long. I'm sorry, but he's the leading scorer 1266 01:08:19,320 --> 01:08:20,360 Speaker 1: on Oklahoma forst. 1267 01:08:20,160 --> 01:08:23,320 Speaker 11: Caster know that kind of stuff, spts, you don't know 1268 01:08:23,840 --> 01:08:26,960 Speaker 11: that kind of stuff. What s g A mean he knows. 1269 01:08:28,479 --> 01:08:31,280 Speaker 9: Let's get to the game. Boston falls to Cleveland one 1270 01:08:31,320 --> 01:08:32,840 Speaker 9: on nine to one or two, they take a three 1271 01:08:33,000 --> 01:08:34,639 Speaker 9: to one lead in the series. 1272 01:08:34,920 --> 01:08:36,760 Speaker 1: Uh, did we start packing it up? 1273 01:08:36,840 --> 01:08:37,000 Speaker 8: Now? 1274 01:08:37,439 --> 01:08:39,519 Speaker 2: You said Boston falls to Cleveland. 1275 01:08:39,560 --> 01:08:41,960 Speaker 1: Now I said Boston b Cleveland. Cleveland falls Boston. 1276 01:08:42,200 --> 01:08:45,000 Speaker 7: That ain't what you said, But I know what you meant. 1277 01:08:45,080 --> 01:08:50,320 Speaker 7: You said, Boston falls to Cleveland. I'm sorry Cleveland faster 1278 01:08:50,360 --> 01:08:52,120 Speaker 7: Boston one on nine to one. I guess I'm wrong 1279 01:08:52,160 --> 01:08:59,560 Speaker 7: about that too, hung tummy falling off Now, No, I 1280 01:08:59,640 --> 01:09:02,200 Speaker 7: was talking. He went from high level sports cast and 1281 01:09:02,320 --> 01:09:04,000 Speaker 7: all of a sudden, bad information. 1282 01:09:04,200 --> 01:09:06,360 Speaker 2: I'm here for the old I'm. 1283 01:09:06,400 --> 01:09:08,960 Speaker 1: Austin beats Cleveland one on NW, one on two. They 1284 01:09:09,080 --> 01:09:10,800 Speaker 1: take a three to one lead in the series. Do 1285 01:09:10,920 --> 01:09:12,320 Speaker 1: you feel we need to pack it up now? 1286 01:09:12,520 --> 01:09:15,519 Speaker 7: Well, see Donovan Mitchell didn't play, He didn't play. They 1287 01:09:15,680 --> 01:09:18,599 Speaker 7: was hanging in there. But I watched it too this year, 1288 01:09:18,840 --> 01:09:21,639 Speaker 7: but I wasn't sad, or though he wasn't sad about 1289 01:09:21,840 --> 01:09:23,519 Speaker 7: being sad about it like that. 1290 01:09:24,479 --> 01:09:28,120 Speaker 9: Well, tonight we got the Paces and Knicks, Timberwolves, and Nuggets. 1291 01:09:28,200 --> 01:09:31,280 Speaker 9: But this tonight is also the start of the w NBA. 1292 01:09:31,560 --> 01:09:34,160 Speaker 9: The first game starts tonight. You have the Liberty and 1293 01:09:34,200 --> 01:09:36,920 Speaker 9: the Mystics, the Fever and the Sun. We have the 1294 01:09:37,040 --> 01:09:40,400 Speaker 9: Mercury and the Aces, the Lynx and the Storms. Starting 1295 01:09:40,439 --> 01:09:43,880 Speaker 9: off the season for the w NBA. Britney Grinder will 1296 01:09:43,960 --> 01:09:46,320 Speaker 9: be out. She has a fractured toe, so this is 1297 01:09:46,360 --> 01:09:47,960 Speaker 9: gonna be their first They show pictures of them on 1298 01:09:48,040 --> 01:09:48,599 Speaker 9: the plane too. 1299 01:09:48,680 --> 01:09:51,439 Speaker 1: Man, they was on the plane they first charted flight. 1300 01:09:51,600 --> 01:09:52,160 Speaker 2: Now he on there. 1301 01:09:52,200 --> 01:09:53,679 Speaker 1: They just having a good time on the plane. 1302 01:09:53,720 --> 01:09:53,840 Speaker 17: Now. 1303 01:09:54,040 --> 01:09:55,479 Speaker 9: But you still got to play the game. So I'll 1304 01:09:55,560 --> 01:09:57,599 Speaker 9: let y' all know how that first game turns out. 1305 01:09:57,640 --> 01:10:00,280 Speaker 9: We'll see what Kaitlyn Clark does in her debut. I 1306 01:10:00,320 --> 01:10:02,400 Speaker 9: don't know if I can't tell you how she gonna 1307 01:10:02,400 --> 01:10:03,639 Speaker 9: do because it is the WNBA. 1308 01:10:03,760 --> 01:10:06,080 Speaker 1: Just ain't college. Everybody good int the WNBA. 1309 01:10:06,280 --> 01:10:08,519 Speaker 2: Well, she gonna do well, But it's a different game. 1310 01:10:08,840 --> 01:10:09,719 Speaker 2: Speed is different. 1311 01:10:09,800 --> 01:10:13,519 Speaker 1: Yahya. There you go, Shirley, thank you. Coming up at 1312 01:10:13,560 --> 01:10:15,599 Speaker 1: the top of the hour, a man on social media 1313 01:10:15,680 --> 01:10:17,880 Speaker 1: needs some advice, Steve. He says, my daughter is getting 1314 01:10:17,960 --> 01:10:20,600 Speaker 1: bad dating advice from her cousin. We'll talk about it 1315 01:10:20,800 --> 01:10:27,320 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening, Harvey Morning show. All right, 1316 01:10:27,400 --> 01:10:30,840 Speaker 1: so this is from Dwayne on Steve Harvey FM. Dwayne says, 1317 01:10:31,040 --> 01:10:34,560 Speaker 1: I overheard my daughter and her cousin discussing dating, and 1318 01:10:34,840 --> 01:10:38,639 Speaker 1: I was disturbed about the advice that was being given. Apparently, 1319 01:10:38,920 --> 01:10:41,240 Speaker 1: my daughter, who was in her first year of college, 1320 01:10:41,400 --> 01:10:45,559 Speaker 1: was given off bougie and exclusionary behavior. Her cousin said 1321 01:10:45,600 --> 01:10:48,719 Speaker 1: that instead she should be open to going out with anyone, 1322 01:10:48,920 --> 01:10:52,120 Speaker 1: because hey, at least it's a free meal, right. I 1323 01:10:52,160 --> 01:10:54,479 Speaker 1: don't know which is worse, being viewed as a bougie 1324 01:10:54,520 --> 01:10:57,320 Speaker 1: snob or being encouraged to just go out with anyone 1325 01:10:57,479 --> 01:11:01,360 Speaker 1: for anything. I know, I wasn't supposed to eavesdrop, but 1326 01:11:01,600 --> 01:11:03,719 Speaker 1: it's hard to bite my tongue on this one. Should 1327 01:11:03,720 --> 01:11:05,600 Speaker 1: I say something or should I let it go? 1328 01:11:05,880 --> 01:11:06,080 Speaker 2: Yeah? 1329 01:11:06,400 --> 01:11:09,000 Speaker 7: Yeah, you should definitely say something, because see what we've 1330 01:11:09,040 --> 01:11:11,719 Speaker 7: got to stop and keep presenting to our young girls 1331 01:11:11,960 --> 01:11:16,040 Speaker 7: is it's not buogy of being a snob. It's called standards, 1332 01:11:16,600 --> 01:11:20,160 Speaker 7: and it's okay to have some See what they do now, 1333 01:11:20,439 --> 01:11:24,800 Speaker 7: is they got it where young girls can't even have standards. 1334 01:11:24,880 --> 01:11:27,799 Speaker 7: If you got standards, then all of a sudden, you bullgey, 1335 01:11:28,000 --> 01:11:30,080 Speaker 7: you snop me girl. This is a free meal. I 1336 01:11:30,120 --> 01:11:33,200 Speaker 7: don't need no damn free food. My daddy feeds me 1337 01:11:33,320 --> 01:11:37,760 Speaker 7: at the house. Ladies, you don't need free food. If 1338 01:11:37,840 --> 01:11:39,960 Speaker 7: it didn't got that bad for you, you need to 1339 01:11:40,080 --> 01:11:41,599 Speaker 7: get into a shelter or something. 1340 01:11:42,080 --> 01:11:44,040 Speaker 2: You going out just cause it's some free food. 1341 01:11:44,120 --> 01:11:46,120 Speaker 7: I'm gonna go out to a meal with somebody that 1342 01:11:46,240 --> 01:11:49,960 Speaker 7: ain't no good, that wants to use me for one purpose, 1343 01:11:50,360 --> 01:11:52,200 Speaker 7: so I can find a way to get this free 1344 01:11:52,320 --> 01:11:55,600 Speaker 7: food and then avoid him. Man, miss me, Man, have 1345 01:11:55,720 --> 01:11:57,760 Speaker 7: a talk with your young sister, because she will get 1346 01:11:57,800 --> 01:12:00,439 Speaker 7: an idea of what love is from you more so 1347 01:12:00,600 --> 01:12:01,439 Speaker 7: than what's out there. 1348 01:12:02,840 --> 01:12:06,480 Speaker 1: All right, all right, we have a Leonard on Facebook. 1349 01:12:07,160 --> 01:12:09,439 Speaker 1: We do have time for another one, he says. We 1350 01:12:09,560 --> 01:12:11,920 Speaker 1: all know. Mother's Day was this past Sunday, and I 1351 01:12:12,160 --> 01:12:16,960 Speaker 1: laid it out for my wife, Tommy and Junior. She 1352 01:12:17,160 --> 01:12:20,240 Speaker 1: is an amazing mother to our kids. I really put 1353 01:12:20,320 --> 01:12:23,640 Speaker 1: some thought into her gift and she loved it. That 1354 01:12:23,880 --> 01:12:27,720 Speaker 1: being said, now Father's Day is coming in June, and 1355 01:12:27,920 --> 01:12:30,519 Speaker 1: I started to feel a bit played over the last 1356 01:12:30,560 --> 01:12:33,320 Speaker 1: couple of years. That's because she'll ask me what I 1357 01:12:33,360 --> 01:12:36,439 Speaker 1: would like and I tell her, but I still always 1358 01:12:36,520 --> 01:12:39,639 Speaker 1: end up getting a gift card at low's or home depot, 1359 01:12:39,960 --> 01:12:43,200 Speaker 1: which essentially tells me, I love you, Now get to 1360 01:12:43,320 --> 01:12:45,760 Speaker 1: work on the house. Is it wrong for me to 1361 01:12:45,840 --> 01:12:48,920 Speaker 1: have growing feelings of bitterness about this? How should I 1362 01:12:49,000 --> 01:12:49,400 Speaker 1: handle this? 1363 01:12:50,200 --> 01:12:50,400 Speaker 2: Yes? 1364 01:12:50,640 --> 01:12:58,519 Speaker 7: We all been about Father's already, know it's coming. Nothing 1365 01:13:00,000 --> 01:13:06,799 Speaker 7: not a thing? Yeah trifling? Yeah yeah yeah, by your own. 1366 01:13:06,760 --> 01:13:11,080 Speaker 11: Father's Day gift, man, celebrate yourself, that's what you do. 1367 01:13:11,439 --> 01:13:14,040 Speaker 2: Already know what I want for Father's Day? What do 1368 01:13:14,120 --> 01:13:14,439 Speaker 2: you want? 1369 01:13:14,920 --> 01:13:16,640 Speaker 7: I'm just gonna put it out there. I'll tell you 1370 01:13:16,720 --> 01:13:18,639 Speaker 7: off the air, but I already know what I want. 1371 01:13:19,680 --> 01:13:19,800 Speaker 17: Now. 1372 01:13:19,920 --> 01:13:23,920 Speaker 2: She's done some amazing stuff for me, but my kids don't. 1373 01:13:25,200 --> 01:13:26,160 Speaker 2: And all I'm working. 1374 01:13:26,760 --> 01:13:28,680 Speaker 7: I just want to send a message out to the 1375 01:13:29,479 --> 01:13:34,439 Speaker 7: can we got the level of triflingness over the years 1376 01:13:34,800 --> 01:13:40,680 Speaker 7: that my children have exhibited the level of triflingness with 1377 01:13:40,960 --> 01:13:47,000 Speaker 7: no longer no longer be accepted. What No, I'm not 1378 01:13:47,120 --> 01:13:49,960 Speaker 7: gonna accept it because now I'm gonna take your birthday 1379 01:13:50,720 --> 01:13:53,960 Speaker 7: and treat you the same way you treat me on my. 1380 01:13:54,120 --> 01:13:58,360 Speaker 2: Birthday and on Father's Day as good as damn Dad. 1381 01:13:58,520 --> 01:14:03,320 Speaker 7: As I didn't been, you would think, come on, they 1382 01:14:03,360 --> 01:14:08,080 Speaker 7: would all get together and buy something that's worth for 1383 01:14:08,280 --> 01:14:14,960 Speaker 7: damn just something. But you know, I'll tell you what's 1384 01:14:15,000 --> 01:14:18,400 Speaker 7: trifling about Father's Day. You know, Mother's Day they have 1385 01:14:18,479 --> 01:14:21,799 Speaker 7: a whole isle full of card. Father's Day is two columns, 1386 01:14:22,640 --> 01:14:27,000 Speaker 7: not it is? It is two columns. Yeah, I'm telling y'all, 1387 01:14:27,040 --> 01:14:29,400 Speaker 7: y'all don't even pay no attention. It ain't but two columns. 1388 01:14:29,760 --> 01:14:35,320 Speaker 7: I didn't got the same damn card before, a duplicate. 1389 01:14:37,160 --> 01:14:39,519 Speaker 7: I didn't got the same damn card before. 1390 01:14:41,120 --> 01:14:43,760 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, but. 1391 01:14:43,880 --> 01:14:46,920 Speaker 1: You're not trying to compare Father's Day to Mother's Day, now, 1392 01:14:47,000 --> 01:14:47,479 Speaker 1: are you. No? 1393 01:14:48,080 --> 01:14:53,120 Speaker 7: No, not at all, not at all, But damn, I 1394 01:14:53,360 --> 01:15:00,240 Speaker 7: just want to be in the vicinity. Quit having the day. Wait, okay, 1395 01:15:00,280 --> 01:15:04,400 Speaker 7: y'all doing us o father date, Stop having fall this date. 1396 01:15:04,640 --> 01:15:07,559 Speaker 1: We'll have more of this Steve Harvey Morning Show coming 1397 01:15:07,640 --> 01:15:11,840 Speaker 1: up twenty minutes after. Right after this, you're listening Steve 1398 01:15:12,000 --> 01:15:17,559 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. A San Francisco, California woman has been 1399 01:15:17,720 --> 01:15:22,240 Speaker 1: convicted of stealing over sixty thousand dollars in merchandise from 1400 01:15:22,320 --> 01:15:26,560 Speaker 1: the same Target store dozens of times by using the 1401 01:15:26,680 --> 01:15:31,000 Speaker 1: self checkout lanes. During the investigation, authorities followed and surveilled 1402 01:15:31,040 --> 01:15:35,800 Speaker 1: the suspect after leading Target with the unmade merchandise and 1403 01:15:36,120 --> 01:15:39,840 Speaker 1: observed her selling the stolen goods to anyone passing by. 1404 01:15:40,520 --> 01:15:42,920 Speaker 1: A trial by jury took place, and the woman was 1405 01:15:43,000 --> 01:15:46,000 Speaker 1: convicted of one felony count of grand theft and violation 1406 01:15:46,400 --> 01:15:49,879 Speaker 1: and fifty two misdemeanor counts of petty theft from target. 1407 01:15:50,280 --> 01:15:54,360 Speaker 1: She could be sentenced to three years in state prison. Wow, 1408 01:15:54,600 --> 01:15:57,680 Speaker 1: so she used the self checkout lane. We've kind of 1409 01:15:57,920 --> 01:16:01,000 Speaker 1: talked about this before. Do you guys use the self 1410 01:16:01,080 --> 01:16:03,280 Speaker 1: checkout laying at all or you go through a cashier? 1411 01:16:03,800 --> 01:16:06,439 Speaker 2: No, I'll use a self checkout line. They didn't have 1412 01:16:06,600 --> 01:16:08,400 Speaker 2: that one. I was going to the stuff. 1413 01:16:08,600 --> 01:16:10,880 Speaker 1: We're talking about today in twenty twenty four. 1414 01:16:11,040 --> 01:16:12,519 Speaker 2: Current He ain't been to the store. 1415 01:16:12,600 --> 01:16:17,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's right. You haven't been to the store this 1416 01:16:17,840 --> 01:16:20,160 Speaker 1: year one. And I've been to a store. 1417 01:16:20,360 --> 01:16:23,400 Speaker 7: I've been to Bass Pro shopping, but I check out 1418 01:16:23,439 --> 01:16:25,439 Speaker 7: in the back back there with the fishing stuff. 1419 01:16:25,520 --> 01:16:27,839 Speaker 2: I never go up to the front because you're famous. 1420 01:16:28,240 --> 01:16:31,080 Speaker 7: Well, I mean they've got cash register right there. Oh, 1421 01:16:31,600 --> 01:16:33,640 Speaker 7: at all bands Pro shops, I just check out in 1422 01:16:33,720 --> 01:16:34,479 Speaker 7: the fish department. 1423 01:16:34,520 --> 01:16:36,000 Speaker 1: I don't go with a live cashier. 1424 01:16:36,640 --> 01:16:39,960 Speaker 2: Okay, you've been to the grocery store. Uh, huh to do? 1425 01:16:40,120 --> 01:16:41,639 Speaker 1: What to get? 1426 01:16:42,920 --> 01:16:49,400 Speaker 2: That's what we do, all right, it's regular life. 1427 01:16:49,800 --> 01:16:54,160 Speaker 1: Right problems coming up with? Thirty three minutes after we 1428 01:16:54,280 --> 01:16:56,639 Speaker 1: I threw a play around and would you rather right 1429 01:16:56,720 --> 01:17:02,040 Speaker 1: after the you're listening morning show, it's time now for 1430 01:17:02,160 --> 01:17:06,280 Speaker 1: a round of would you rather? Would you rather accidentally 1431 01:17:06,600 --> 01:17:10,280 Speaker 1: call your partner by your ex's name or would you 1432 01:17:10,400 --> 01:17:13,360 Speaker 1: rather have your partner call you by their excess name? 1433 01:17:13,479 --> 01:17:13,960 Speaker 1: Which one? 1434 01:17:15,080 --> 01:17:18,720 Speaker 7: Oh, No, it's gonna work out way safer by savans name. 1435 01:17:19,280 --> 01:17:22,760 Speaker 2: It's gonna work out way really, Yeah, I would have 1436 01:17:22,840 --> 01:17:23,559 Speaker 2: to go to that route. 1437 01:17:23,840 --> 01:17:27,240 Speaker 1: I call your partner by your ex's name. 1438 01:17:27,640 --> 01:17:31,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, she can't holler somebody else names that can help. 1439 01:17:33,600 --> 01:17:36,400 Speaker 1: That part can out now, but you can call her 1440 01:17:36,560 --> 01:17:42,240 Speaker 1: by her by your exus. I'm like, are you gots insane? 1441 01:17:42,400 --> 01:17:42,720 Speaker 5: Right now? 1442 01:17:45,880 --> 01:17:51,080 Speaker 1: You can't call you name? What's gonna happen? Before have 1443 01:17:52,160 --> 01:17:55,640 Speaker 1: What's gonna happen if they do? She accidentally calls you? 1444 01:17:55,840 --> 01:17:56,120 Speaker 2: Started? 1445 01:17:56,479 --> 01:17:59,559 Speaker 10: We have questions when we start now, I'm like, say 1446 01:18:00,920 --> 01:18:01,719 Speaker 10: stuff happened. 1447 01:18:02,400 --> 01:18:05,479 Speaker 2: First of all, we don't finish. I ain't gonna just stop. 1448 01:18:07,360 --> 01:18:08,400 Speaker 1: You're talking about a. 1449 01:18:15,200 --> 01:18:15,680 Speaker 2: Stop it. 1450 01:18:18,080 --> 01:18:21,920 Speaker 1: Afterwards, then you'll deal with it. Come on see if 1451 01:18:21,960 --> 01:18:23,840 Speaker 1: you have a perplexed look on your face. 1452 01:18:24,000 --> 01:18:27,200 Speaker 2: What, No, it's just it just it can't happen that way. 1453 01:18:27,400 --> 01:18:28,120 Speaker 2: It just can't. 1454 01:18:28,400 --> 01:18:31,880 Speaker 7: I would rather call my ex's name, yeah, and just 1455 01:18:32,000 --> 01:18:37,640 Speaker 7: deal with that. No, well you know that's you asked them. 1456 01:18:37,640 --> 01:18:38,880 Speaker 7: Would you rather the three men? 1457 01:18:39,240 --> 01:18:39,479 Speaker 8: Yes? 1458 01:18:43,280 --> 01:18:45,400 Speaker 1: So you don't want to be called someone else's name? 1459 01:18:45,439 --> 01:18:45,760 Speaker 2: All right? 1460 01:18:47,320 --> 01:18:49,679 Speaker 1: Would you rather be the center of attention or would 1461 01:18:49,720 --> 01:18:59,439 Speaker 1: you rather go unnoticed? Hmmm? Like, well, Julia answer the question, Well, 1462 01:19:00,080 --> 01:19:01,320 Speaker 1: I'd rather go unnotice? 1463 01:19:02,400 --> 01:19:04,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I really. Okay. 1464 01:19:04,920 --> 01:19:06,560 Speaker 7: Well, hey man, I'm gona tell you right now, you 1465 01:19:06,600 --> 01:19:08,559 Speaker 7: can get off this radio. You can pack your little 1466 01:19:08,600 --> 01:19:10,479 Speaker 7: career on up. That ain't what we're doing over here. 1467 01:19:10,960 --> 01:19:12,920 Speaker 1: No, I'm just saying it's not like that. 1468 01:19:13,040 --> 01:19:19,080 Speaker 2: It's just like you know what it is. Yeah, well okay, 1469 01:19:20,280 --> 01:19:21,679 Speaker 2: so when you're going. 1470 01:19:24,320 --> 01:19:25,960 Speaker 1: You want to be the center of attention? 1471 01:19:26,520 --> 01:19:29,200 Speaker 2: Yes, oh we are. Yeah we do a show. Yeah 1472 01:19:29,240 --> 01:19:32,000 Speaker 2: you're gonna be there that now. But you need to 1473 01:19:32,040 --> 01:19:32,760 Speaker 2: make up your mind. 1474 01:19:32,880 --> 01:19:36,519 Speaker 1: Now, what was just was you rather? I'm just well 1475 01:19:36,560 --> 01:19:37,439 Speaker 1: I'm not real life? 1476 01:19:38,560 --> 01:19:44,800 Speaker 2: Yeah? Okay, what about you? Yeah? What you set of attention? Though? 1477 01:19:45,000 --> 01:19:45,720 Speaker 2: All day? Ain't that? 1478 01:19:45,840 --> 01:19:46,560 Speaker 7: Nothing do by that? 1479 01:19:47,840 --> 01:19:50,120 Speaker 1: But sometimes you don't want to just go unnoticed. 1480 01:19:50,520 --> 01:19:54,240 Speaker 7: I would love to go on there. Yeah, but if 1481 01:19:54,280 --> 01:19:56,599 Speaker 7: you stay unnoticed, you're gonna have to sell all this stuff. 1482 01:20:01,320 --> 01:20:12,759 Speaker 1: Famous fame has its privileges. All right, that's today's rounded, 1483 01:20:12,760 --> 01:20:14,920 Speaker 1: would you rather? Guys? Coming up at forty nine minutes 1484 01:20:15,000 --> 01:20:17,000 Speaker 1: after the hour, we'll have our last break of the 1485 01:20:17,080 --> 01:20:18,760 Speaker 1: day and we'll close out the show with one and 1486 01:20:18,880 --> 01:20:23,479 Speaker 1: only Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey 1487 01:20:23,560 --> 01:20:26,479 Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, guys, here we are last break 1488 01:20:26,640 --> 01:20:30,800 Speaker 1: of the day on this Tuesday, and Steve, before we 1489 01:20:30,880 --> 01:20:32,880 Speaker 1: get out of here, we did have another call. This 1490 01:20:33,040 --> 01:20:34,920 Speaker 1: one's from MD. Take a listen. 1491 01:20:35,640 --> 01:20:39,320 Speaker 17: My name is MD. I'm calling about the guy we 1492 01:20:39,560 --> 01:20:42,280 Speaker 17: talk about not to vote. You were all right, and 1493 01:20:42,400 --> 01:20:45,639 Speaker 17: you were being polite, says Ignorant. For me, he's stupid, 1494 01:20:45,800 --> 01:20:49,320 Speaker 17: playing stupid man, because I come here as a foreigner. 1495 01:20:49,640 --> 01:20:51,839 Speaker 17: And when I came here, I went back to school 1496 01:20:52,000 --> 01:20:57,280 Speaker 17: and I study modern history, rural history and nineteen history, 1497 01:20:57,400 --> 01:21:00,720 Speaker 17: and that's when I know about Malcolm X Martin, King, 1498 01:21:00,840 --> 01:21:05,600 Speaker 17: Luther Juner, and also Rosa Park and the history behind it. 1499 01:21:05,760 --> 01:21:05,920 Speaker 8: Man. 1500 01:21:06,600 --> 01:21:10,519 Speaker 17: And in ninety nine I get my citizenship and I 1501 01:21:10,680 --> 01:21:14,439 Speaker 17: start to vote from ever since man, voting, we have 1502 01:21:14,800 --> 01:21:15,400 Speaker 17: to vote. 1503 01:21:15,840 --> 01:21:16,439 Speaker 2: I went to the. 1504 01:21:16,520 --> 01:21:19,320 Speaker 17: Barber shop and I speak history, and these guys were 1505 01:21:19,360 --> 01:21:21,439 Speaker 17: looking at my life. Wait the hell, I say, get 1506 01:21:21,520 --> 01:21:23,400 Speaker 17: all these stuff from? And I said, man, you guys 1507 01:21:23,439 --> 01:21:26,280 Speaker 17: don't study history in high school. They'll be like no, 1508 01:21:26,800 --> 01:21:29,120 Speaker 17: I said, man, God, you guys missing out man, But 1509 01:21:29,640 --> 01:21:32,519 Speaker 17: love your show, Love the crew. Big up June on 1510 01:21:32,720 --> 01:21:36,040 Speaker 17: his point, Man, I like that. I'm from Jamaica, so 1511 01:21:36,160 --> 01:21:38,240 Speaker 17: you know it is. I know you guys talk about 1512 01:21:38,360 --> 01:21:40,800 Speaker 17: a stale all the time. Keep it up, man, you 1513 01:21:40,960 --> 01:21:41,559 Speaker 17: guys good. 1514 01:21:42,120 --> 01:21:46,240 Speaker 7: Yeah, you know man, indeed, you know what he said 1515 01:21:46,360 --> 01:21:49,479 Speaker 7: is so important, which leads to my closing remarks. You know, 1516 01:21:50,720 --> 01:21:55,040 Speaker 7: I've hated that this election has come because this election 1517 01:21:55,280 --> 01:21:58,479 Speaker 7: is the most decisive, divisive, divisive that. 1518 01:21:58,560 --> 01:21:59,360 Speaker 2: We've had ever. 1519 01:22:00,240 --> 01:22:04,920 Speaker 7: Every time Trump runs, it becomes divisive. You know, We've 1520 01:22:04,960 --> 01:22:09,880 Speaker 7: always had Republican presidents. We've had Nixon in my lifetime, 1521 01:22:10,080 --> 01:22:15,600 Speaker 7: We've had you know, the Bushes in my lifetime. You know, 1522 01:22:16,160 --> 01:22:20,680 Speaker 7: we've had Reagan in my lifetime. I've really really never 1523 01:22:20,880 --> 01:22:23,120 Speaker 7: really had a problem with them. You know, some of 1524 01:22:23,200 --> 01:22:27,599 Speaker 7: their policies were different, But I understand that it's gonna 1525 01:22:27,600 --> 01:22:31,640 Speaker 7: be some differences, but never before in my lifetime have 1526 01:22:31,800 --> 01:22:35,240 Speaker 7: I seen this, the types of people that come out 1527 01:22:35,320 --> 01:22:39,120 Speaker 7: the woodwork for Donald Trump, the people that he draw 1528 01:22:39,600 --> 01:22:43,040 Speaker 7: out from the shadows in this country. I'm really grateful 1529 01:22:43,080 --> 01:22:48,080 Speaker 7: to Donald Trump because he has exposed the underbelly of America, 1530 01:22:49,000 --> 01:22:52,320 Speaker 7: the one that slithers on the ground, that stays covered 1531 01:22:52,400 --> 01:22:55,320 Speaker 7: under the bushes and the grasses that's down there making 1532 01:22:55,400 --> 01:22:58,920 Speaker 7: all the snake bites and secret covert attacks. He's bought 1533 01:22:58,960 --> 01:23:03,080 Speaker 7: them all out. They front and centernine, and they try 1534 01:23:03,120 --> 01:23:05,720 Speaker 7: to come up with stuff. Every time somebody come up. 1535 01:23:05,720 --> 01:23:08,160 Speaker 7: They don't want to run. Here come the Tea Party, 1536 01:23:08,680 --> 01:23:12,559 Speaker 7: Here come Qanone, Here come all these groups. All these 1537 01:23:12,640 --> 01:23:15,920 Speaker 7: groups raise up. The militia shows up, the Proud Boys 1538 01:23:16,000 --> 01:23:21,080 Speaker 7: shows up, the Skinhead shows up, the National Party shows up. 1539 01:23:21,200 --> 01:23:24,680 Speaker 2: They just the Southern Evangelicals show up. 1540 01:23:25,120 --> 01:23:27,880 Speaker 7: And that was a little bit more surprising to me 1541 01:23:28,640 --> 01:23:32,280 Speaker 7: that I found out that this religious organization was really 1542 01:23:32,400 --> 01:23:36,960 Speaker 7: not religious at all, but political, That Southern Evangelicals were 1543 01:23:37,080 --> 01:23:40,560 Speaker 7: created to support slavery. See when I went to the 1544 01:23:40,640 --> 01:23:44,800 Speaker 7: slave castles in the outside of Ghana, which one of 1545 01:23:44,840 --> 01:23:49,160 Speaker 7: the most revealing moments, and I saw the dungeons in 1546 01:23:49,240 --> 01:23:51,760 Speaker 7: which they kept the slaves in for weeks before they 1547 01:23:51,840 --> 01:23:55,200 Speaker 7: put them on the ship. And each doorway that led 1548 01:23:55,280 --> 01:23:57,760 Speaker 7: to the following room, like they moved you from room 1549 01:23:57,800 --> 01:24:01,400 Speaker 7: to room, each doorway was a little bit more narrower 1550 01:24:01,479 --> 01:24:03,720 Speaker 7: than the other one, and they kept you in there 1551 01:24:03,800 --> 01:24:06,639 Speaker 7: until you lost enough weight, until you could go through 1552 01:24:06,680 --> 01:24:09,160 Speaker 7: a certain doorway. And if you couldn't fit through the doorway, 1553 01:24:09,560 --> 01:24:11,800 Speaker 7: then they kept you in this room until you lost 1554 01:24:11,920 --> 01:24:14,320 Speaker 7: enough weight. That way they knew how many people they 1555 01:24:14,360 --> 01:24:15,920 Speaker 7: could pack on the slave ship. 1556 01:24:16,600 --> 01:24:19,880 Speaker 2: I saw this. But in those dungeons there was a 1557 01:24:20,000 --> 01:24:22,880 Speaker 2: hole in the roof, and the hole in the roof 1558 01:24:23,320 --> 01:24:24,800 Speaker 2: was right under the church. 1559 01:24:25,880 --> 01:24:32,800 Speaker 7: Because they wanted to inundate the so called savages, the 1560 01:24:32,960 --> 01:24:37,439 Speaker 7: so called slaves, the so called Africans. They wanted to 1561 01:24:37,600 --> 01:24:41,920 Speaker 7: indicate them with their religion, and they were using Christianity. 1562 01:24:42,479 --> 01:24:47,920 Speaker 7: They were using Christianity to justify slavery. That's crazy. See 1563 01:24:48,320 --> 01:24:51,080 Speaker 7: Christianity is not a white religion in case that's That's 1564 01:24:51,120 --> 01:24:51,880 Speaker 7: not what I'm saying. 1565 01:24:52,439 --> 01:24:53,600 Speaker 2: But what this group of. 1566 01:24:53,680 --> 01:24:56,960 Speaker 7: Whites did in this country was they tried to make 1567 01:24:57,200 --> 01:25:01,040 Speaker 7: it a reason to just slavery. 1568 01:25:01,280 --> 01:25:03,040 Speaker 2: So when slavery came to America. 1569 01:25:03,160 --> 01:25:06,360 Speaker 7: Later on, when they were talking about fighting the Civil War, 1570 01:25:06,760 --> 01:25:11,959 Speaker 7: here came the Southern Evangelicals. They came to support slavery 1571 01:25:12,360 --> 01:25:15,599 Speaker 7: and their Christian organization and they exist today. So see, 1572 01:25:15,640 --> 01:25:19,320 Speaker 7: when you talking about not voting, are you serious? Do 1573 01:25:19,439 --> 01:25:21,840 Speaker 7: you understand what they're doing with this make America Great 1574 01:25:21,880 --> 01:25:25,799 Speaker 7: Again campaign? Tommy just sent me something where Lawrence Taylor, 1575 01:25:26,120 --> 01:25:29,599 Speaker 7: one of the greatest, if not the greatest, football player 1576 01:25:29,880 --> 01:25:32,920 Speaker 7: to ever play in the NFL. I've never seen a 1577 01:25:33,000 --> 01:25:36,920 Speaker 7: guy play the position of linebacker like Lawrence Taylor from 1578 01:25:37,000 --> 01:25:41,680 Speaker 7: the outside. Now, ray Lewis who another dude, but this boy, 1579 01:25:41,800 --> 01:25:46,479 Speaker 7: Lawrence Taylor. Yeah, and he's now a Trump supporter. And 1580 01:25:46,640 --> 01:25:50,280 Speaker 7: he was saying that he was never a Democrat. He's 1581 01:25:50,280 --> 01:25:52,640 Speaker 7: been a Democrat his whole life, never been a Republican. 1582 01:25:53,080 --> 01:25:56,679 Speaker 7: And now after meeting this man, he'll never vote Democrat again. 1583 01:25:57,040 --> 01:25:58,160 Speaker 2: Why? Why? 1584 01:25:58,680 --> 01:26:00,439 Speaker 7: And you know what's crazy to me, he is they 1585 01:26:00,479 --> 01:26:03,040 Speaker 7: go find all these black people. It's a good thing 1586 01:26:03,120 --> 01:26:05,479 Speaker 7: that Lawrence Taylor's one of the greatest football players. Other 1587 01:26:05,520 --> 01:26:11,080 Speaker 7: than that, irrelevant, Irrelevant could give less than a damn 1588 01:26:11,240 --> 01:26:14,400 Speaker 7: who Lawrence Taylor vote for. But to stand up and 1589 01:26:14,520 --> 01:26:17,240 Speaker 7: take your what little star power you do have and 1590 01:26:17,360 --> 01:26:20,280 Speaker 7: then give it to this man. Why why would you 1591 01:26:20,400 --> 01:26:23,479 Speaker 7: vote for Trump? Why would you never vote Democrat again 1592 01:26:23,560 --> 01:26:26,479 Speaker 7: after you met this man? What did Donald Trump say 1593 01:26:26,600 --> 01:26:29,720 Speaker 7: to you that was so convincing that he's right for 1594 01:26:29,840 --> 01:26:33,799 Speaker 7: black people? When all mega stands for is make America 1595 01:26:33,920 --> 01:26:37,320 Speaker 7: great again. When making America great again, they're talking about 1596 01:26:37,400 --> 01:26:39,639 Speaker 7: taking it back to a time where it was never 1597 01:26:39,720 --> 01:26:40,719 Speaker 7: good for black people. 1598 01:26:40,960 --> 01:26:43,080 Speaker 2: It ain't that good for us now, but let's get 1599 01:26:43,120 --> 01:26:43,639 Speaker 2: it back there. 1600 01:26:43,880 --> 01:26:46,160 Speaker 7: So now let's change the high school names back to 1601 01:26:46,320 --> 01:26:49,559 Speaker 7: all these Confederate generals, and let's get rid of black history. Adam, 1602 01:26:49,600 --> 01:26:54,880 Speaker 7: make America great again, y'all stupid, We got to vote, man. 1603 01:26:55,120 --> 01:26:57,200 Speaker 7: And if you send up here thinking that Trump's is 1604 01:26:57,280 --> 01:26:59,559 Speaker 7: for black you might be black for Trump, but Trump 1605 01:26:59,600 --> 01:27:00,720 Speaker 7: ain't for you, no black ass. 1606 01:27:00,960 --> 01:27:04,120 Speaker 2: You need to understand that. Okay, bye, y'all have a 1607 01:27:04,160 --> 01:27:04,719 Speaker 2: great thing. 1608 01:27:16,040 --> 01:27:16,320 Speaker 3: For all. 1609 01:27:16,360 --> 01:27:20,080 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Contests No purchase necessary, void wear prohibited. Participants 1610 01:27:20,160 --> 01:27:23,040 Speaker 1: must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1611 01:27:23,160 --> 01:27:26,920 Speaker 1: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey 1612 01:27:27,160 --> 01:27:31,080 Speaker 1: FM dot com. 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