Speaker 1: Wind down and Michael Cochlin and I have heard radio podcast.
Speaker 1: It's our first recording International house, Crazy, so insane and sweet.
Speaker 1: Easton is slumber partying it with us. It's um, I
Speaker 1: know you guys are listening to this Monday morning, but
Speaker 1: real time right now for us. It's a nasty thunderstorm
Speaker 1: outside and but I kind of love it. I love
Speaker 1: Michael's yawning. So this is gonna be a great episode. No,
Speaker 1: I just I had love a good thunderstorm. I'm scared
Speaker 1: to drive in thunderstorms, but I like being at home
Speaker 1: in the screen and porch. I think, yes, driving in
Speaker 1: a thunderstorm isn't fun, but being in the car, like
Speaker 1: when you're a kid and your parents are driving the thunderstorm,
Speaker 1: it's just something cozy about it, so cozy I'll never forget.
Speaker 1: I know Katherine's listened to this. So I was in
Speaker 1: a car. We were going to pick up a dog,
Speaker 1: and dog, um the boxer that I had. Channas had
Speaker 1: more dogs and I can't remember. This is where dogs
Speaker 1: come to pass on no stop but no. So I
Speaker 1: we were going to pick up this dog and Katherine
Speaker 1: was driving, and it started to get like this really
Speaker 1: scary looking weather where it was like you're on the expressway,
Speaker 1: what do you do? So I'm like Catherine ball over
Speaker 1: and I was like screaming a passenger. It was the passenger,
Speaker 1: Why are you freaking out so much? Because there was
Speaker 1: about to be a tornado? Like it was a funnel cloud.
Speaker 1: It was terrifying. So we pulled over and went into
Speaker 1: a gas station. But that's just my biggest did you
Speaker 1: spot the funnel cloud? Okay, I swear it's in the
Speaker 1: five coming our way. We gotta get off. No, I truly,
Speaker 1: I'm obviously a big fan of Twister, but no, I
Speaker 1: literally you know, remember that one time to where the
Speaker 1: sirens were going off and I wouldn't go get I
Speaker 1: wouldn't go to CVS. I mean technically you shouldn't anyways
Speaker 1: because the are going off, But no, I mean I
Speaker 1: just I don't know. I get really scared thunderstorms when
Speaker 1: I'm driving. I mean, you just had to come out
Speaker 1: and run out of our room and like screamed for
Speaker 1: me and say, Michael, is our window going to cave in?
Speaker 1: Well it was doing that, Like, yeah, there's just thunder
Speaker 1: I know. I love it though, it's very crazy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's really a hidden that's around in the house. So
Speaker 1: I'm trying to catch them. But the move has been
Speaker 1: so exciting. Yeah, and not going on. Yeah, it's been fun.
Speaker 1: It's been stressful, but it has been fun, even though
Speaker 1: we still have so much more to do. And poor
Speaker 1: Easton sleeping on so our producer Amy was like, we'll
Speaker 1: put Eastern up in a hotel and like, no, Easton
Speaker 1: has to stay with us. But then now he's literally
Speaker 1: sleeping on the ground, mattress on the ground. He did
Speaker 1: you see how I put the headboard though, so it
Speaker 1: kind of feels like he's he's gonna be real bad.
Speaker 1: It's an optical illusion. Yeah, it totally is. But we're
Speaker 1: happy are here Eastern things. Yes, having any other way,
Speaker 1: but no, it's really it's interesting. It's it's feels weird
Speaker 1: to be in the house. A lot of people have
Speaker 1: asked about the leak. Um if the leak has been
Speaker 1: fixed again. I find out about business in our life
Speaker 1: via my friends and family members because they text me
Speaker 1: about there's a leak in your house. I'm like, how
Speaker 1: do you even know? And then even though this has
Speaker 1: happened a thousand times, Oh, Jane instagramed, Uh so, yeah,
Speaker 1: so I guess you instagram. You know. Well, people say that,
Speaker 1: you know, you have to be really careful of mold,
Speaker 1: and so that freaks me out because I don't want
Speaker 1: because mold can make you so sick kids, adults, so
Speaker 1: I'm fearful of that. So a lot of people were like,
Speaker 1: make sure you check because mold can grow so incredibly fast.
Speaker 1: So that was one of their main concerns. And then
Speaker 1: they said that maybe the flashing wasn't right in the windows.
Speaker 1: So what did the builders say? It was the windows.
Speaker 1: So they fixed it that night and then the window
Speaker 1: company came out the next day just to make sure.
Speaker 1: Oh so they didn't repatch it. No, they did repatch it.
Speaker 1: Oh they did. Okay, So I was, okay, we're gonna
Speaker 1: be okay, We're not going to drown in a house. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but it's it's it's been cool. It's uh, you know,
Speaker 1: it's it's a change being back here. We do miss
Speaker 1: our little, you know, a little humble house in Los Angeles.
Speaker 1: And when Jolie has to the other night, Jolie was
Speaker 1: being a complete b word and having to send her
Speaker 1: to the Beautiful Baby, having to send her to her
Speaker 1: room over and over again and assisting her in that
Speaker 1: going up and down, up and down the stairs was interesting.
Speaker 1: You know, I never thought I would miss square feet,
Speaker 1: but I missed fourteen ft. It's like, wow, we really
Speaker 1: don't need that much. It's okay, Yeah, it was great
Speaker 1: and I kind of miss I missed that, I missed
Speaker 1: the I was telling Julie this the other day. I
Speaker 1: was like, I miss kind of that comfy, cozy feeling. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're you're you're kind of on top of each other
Speaker 1: and everyone. You just feel kind of connected and yeah,
Speaker 1: because there's nowhere else to go. Yeah, last night we're
Speaker 1: leaving and supper butts, welcome to the Cossin House. Is
Speaker 1: that a way to start it off? Our second night
Speaker 1: now sleeping? Sleeping? Oh, way to just start a good
Speaker 1: time coming on? But that's inevitable. Not all relationships are perfect. No,
Speaker 1: So anyways, you said you wanted to bring something up,
Speaker 1: So there's something interesting and we'll get back more on
Speaker 1: the move and everything. But so I was at by
Speaker 1: the way you're talking in a very like jazzy like.
Speaker 1: So anyways, that's just I think it's I think part
Speaker 1: of me is trying to be quiet because the kids
Speaker 1: are sleeping. So it's like I'm trying to keep because
Speaker 1: my voice carries, right, it has, you know, so it
Speaker 1: carries even if I'm trying to be quiet. Maybe it's
Speaker 1: just naturally fallen into the smooth jazz. I need your
Speaker 1: energy to be a little more up there. But do
Speaker 1: you want me await the kids? They're sleeping, Okay, alright,
Speaker 1: So anyway, so something I wanted to bring up, which
Speaker 1: I thought this this topic is of sensitive nature, and
Speaker 1: I don't I'm not trying to ruffle any feathers and
Speaker 1: piss anybody off. This is just me being curious about
Speaker 1: this topic. So I was at home Depot like the
Speaker 1: second day we got here, because I needed every single
Speaker 1: day since we like moved into this house, because I'll
Speaker 1: be like, hey we need this later, Hey I need
Speaker 1: a screwdriver, Hey I need and this is sorry to
Speaker 1: cut you off, but he'll say, hey, I'm going to
Speaker 1: home depot. Five hours later he comes home and I
Speaker 1: was like, do you just stand in every single aisle
Speaker 1: and go I kind of do. It's like when you
Speaker 1: go to the grocery store and you don't really know
Speaker 1: what you're gonna get, you so you just kind of
Speaker 1: meander down every aisle. I was. I'm kind of that
Speaker 1: way at home deepot. I'm like, I know I only
Speaker 1: need this in this, but let me take a look
Speaker 1: in plumbing. There's nothing to do in plumbing. I'll never
Speaker 1: do anything in plumbing, but let me do just take
Speaker 1: a look see if there's anything I need. So I
Speaker 1: was in home depot and I had to get a
Speaker 1: new grill for the house. And I asked a gentleman.
Speaker 1: I was like, Hey, is there anyone in the grill
Speaker 1: section that can help me? They're like, yeah, Sarah's over
Speaker 1: there and can give your hands. Said okay, great, So
Speaker 1: I walk over. You're telling this story, yeah, because I
Speaker 1: think I think it's interesting. So I walked over and
Speaker 1: there Sarah and it was a gentleman. Okay, I mean
Speaker 1: it looked like, talked like, walked like a male at
Speaker 1: a five o'clock shadow, mustache and all. But his name
Speaker 1: was just Sarah. His name is Sarah, and uh was
Speaker 1: he being a Sarah or was he a Sarah? Justs Hey, Mike, Like,
Speaker 1: so I have a friend named Stacy. He's very straight Stacy.
Speaker 1: So is this a straight Stacy or no? This is
Speaker 1: a from my perspective, because they also had a pride
Speaker 1: pin on there. I come deep a vest was someone
Speaker 1: who was transitioning maybe into a woman. So I mean
Speaker 1: no issue at all. I was like, hey, Sarah, you
Speaker 1: know whatever, and so this is where like even just
Speaker 1: saying it now like her at our time, do do
Speaker 1: I say she? Because like and when I when I
Speaker 1: think I wanted to thank her or him, I want,
Speaker 1: I want to say like yes ma'am or yes sir,
Speaker 1: and I didn't know what to say. We're just like
Speaker 1: I was just like, yes, Sarah, thank you, and she
Speaker 1: or he was very very helpful and it was great,
Speaker 1: and it was it was out of It wasn't me
Speaker 1: by being naive. It was just me being maybe hyper
Speaker 1: sensitive because I didn't want to offend them in any way.
Speaker 1: I just I didn't know you're saying them though? Is
Speaker 1: that people already take that offensively saying them, Uh, what
Speaker 1: do you mean? So you're I don't want to offend them.
Speaker 1: So even no matter how people are so hypersensitive about
Speaker 1: this topic to the big you're just calling us them.
Speaker 1: Well that but that's that's my thing of just saying,
Speaker 1: but I also don't want to I don't want me
Speaker 1: to make the decision whether it's a he or she,
Speaker 1: that's up to Sarah, right, So how but how do
Speaker 1: I know? Like so it wasn't like a Stacy like
Speaker 1: where he wasn't like like Stacy is like very your
Speaker 1: football player Stacy. So it wasn't like he was looks
Speaker 1: like he was transitioning to be a girl. Yes, okay,
Speaker 1: so like the hair that said, yes, it definitely looked
Speaker 1: at but you knew it was a man. So your
Speaker 1: question is what how do you say because you because
Speaker 1: because we do say thank you, ma'am, thank you sir.
Speaker 1: So it's like, what do you say just can you
Speaker 1: just say just thank you? Yes? Yes. But that's that's
Speaker 1: why what made me think about this whole topic, because
Speaker 1: you said we we always say kind of yes sir,
Speaker 1: yes ma'am to people, and you know we've we talked
Speaker 1: about on a show about having the kids say yes ma'am,
Speaker 1: yes sir. And so it's just one of those things
Speaker 1: you just brought up the conversation topic in my head
Speaker 1: of what does he or she like? How does how
Speaker 1: does it just a random person someone like me or
Speaker 1: someone like you or someone like Easton how do we
Speaker 1: approach that or how do what's the what's the correct way? Like?
Speaker 1: What what? I'm even hypersensitive when you say a random person,
Speaker 1: So they're not a random So that's that's I'm just random.
Speaker 1: It could be another it could be someone else who's transitioning.
Speaker 1: Random persons, you just pick them out of a hat.
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter. We should get Caitlyn Jenner on the show.
Speaker 1: We should or someone that has either is transitioning like
Speaker 1: that would be a very interesting conversation because it's a
Speaker 1: great idea. Honey, we I think a lot of people
Speaker 1: maybe want to know that because that is more of
Speaker 1: an ongoing not ongoing. How do I say that? That's
Speaker 1: you have to be so politic like I don't want
Speaker 1: to say anything wrong. You have to be careful with
Speaker 1: how you choose your words right, right, And that's all
Speaker 1: it is. It's it's it's an ongoing transition for people.
Speaker 1: Where it's we're more aware of it, right because people
Speaker 1: are speaking out a bit about it. People are are
Speaker 1: being more open and honest about it. But why do
Speaker 1: you have to identify as one or the other? I
Speaker 1: guess that's my question. Why can't you just say thank you? Like,
Speaker 1: why do I have to identify them? Yeah, like why
Speaker 1: does it have to be one or the other? It doesn't,
Speaker 1: It doesn't, but that I'm not saying it does. I'm
Speaker 1: just saying it sparked my curiosity on someone in that situation,
Speaker 1: who's transitioning, What what they prefer like? What? Like? What? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Just what would they prefer? Like? What would offend them?
Speaker 1: What wouldn't? Like would if someone's in transition, would they
Speaker 1: be offended if you said sir? Wouldn't addressed like a female?
Speaker 1: If I said sir even though his or her name
Speaker 1: was Sarah and look like here she was transitioning? Or
Speaker 1: would they be offended if I said, ma'am, even though
Speaker 1: he or she looks like a male, but the name
Speaker 1: is Sarah. Uh here is a certain way they probably
Speaker 1: like whatever. So it's just it's just one of the
Speaker 1: things I'm just curious because because I want to be
Speaker 1: sensitive to people's feelings, because I want to be able
Speaker 1: to call them what they want to be called, because
Speaker 1: they deserve that, you know, whoever, and I say they
Speaker 1: as whoever is transitioning, deserve to be called whatever they
Speaker 1: want to be called. So it's just it's but like
Speaker 1: you said, I think it's a great idea to get someone,
Speaker 1: whether it's a Caitlyn Jenner or someone who is in transition,
Speaker 1: to come on and talk about it, so to just
Speaker 1: to educate, because that's a lot of us aren't educated. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I know that's true. And a lot of people too.
Speaker 1: We had, um, we had a gig guy come up
Speaker 1: to us saying that we should talk about this. So
Speaker 1: I think that's definitely an interesting topic that we should
Speaker 1: talk about. Yeah, I think so too. I'm curious to
Speaker 1: people's opinions too, So email at wind down at my
Speaker 1: heart radio dot com. Good topic, Thank you, and then
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Speaker 1: a lot of my Instagram direct messages and this um girl,
Speaker 1: Tori wrote me, and she goes Janna, I have a
Speaker 1: suggestion of a topic for wine Down. I'd love to
Speaker 1: hear what you, Mike and his friends have to say
Speaker 1: about this. My friends and I have dealt with our
Speaker 1: boyfriends following so many hot sexy girls on Instagram. It
Speaker 1: really makes us feel uncomfortable and self conscious. Obviously, we
Speaker 1: have all talked to our boyfriends and they'll say they
Speaker 1: deleted them, or we'll delete them and slowly follow some back.
Speaker 1: What are your thoughts on this interesting floor is yours?
Speaker 1: Don't go? Go right ahead? Said, and my friends like
Speaker 1: what my friends think of it? Yeah? I mean what
Speaker 1: you know, we can say like maybe what Ethan thinks
Speaker 1: of it? You know? Um? Okay, okay, since you're trying
Speaker 1: to find your words. What if what if I on
Speaker 1: my Instagram? You went on my page and I followed
Speaker 1: a bunch of sexy guys that were, you know, sexy
Speaker 1: and had their shirt off a lot descriptive, and you know,
Speaker 1: you're on my phone or you're seeing my Instagram and
Speaker 1: you're seeing me going through my feed and it's all
Speaker 1: these sexy guys. Would something come up for you? Are
Speaker 1: they sexy? They're sexy? Like they're they're they're like, you know, sexy. Okay,
Speaker 1: I got like, like what you know? Uh, Like I
Speaker 1: was gonna name someone, but like you, I don't need
Speaker 1: to name anybody. So I'm just saying, you know, I
Speaker 1: don't know. No, but I'm just saying, damn it, Tory, no,
Speaker 1: um no no no. But but how would that make
Speaker 1: you feel, so I think it's a double standard, And
Speaker 1: unfortunately that's what I think this is. The Instagram thing
Speaker 1: is a double standard because I think it's guys are
Speaker 1: like whatever, like, yeah, I'm following this sexy workout model.
Speaker 1: But if a girl was to be following that sexy
Speaker 1: workout guy, is that a double standard? Is that okay?
Speaker 1: Should you be following people that you are looking at
Speaker 1: in a sexy way and thinking, wow, they're sexy when
Speaker 1: you're in a relationship? What are you? Why are you
Speaker 1: grinning like that they're smiling? Um? First, I mean life
Speaker 1: is a double standard. I mean there's so many double
Speaker 1: standards and it's not fair. And to truthfully answer your question, yes,
Speaker 1: like you know, I don't have any social media. If
Speaker 1: I've looked over while you're going through your feet and
Speaker 1: I just saw shirtless guys left and right, then they'll
Speaker 1: be like what, like what isnt this? Do you have
Speaker 1: following that you know? And I think the same breath
Speaker 1: for guys where it's like like why why would you
Speaker 1: follow this Instagram model? Does she promote something that you like?
Speaker 1: Does like does she have a political view that you like? No? No,
Speaker 1: she's just half naked, right, so there's no like, there's
Speaker 1: no there's no other reason to follow somebody like that
Speaker 1: other for other than the intrigue, the aesthetic intrigue of it.
Speaker 1: So so in Tori's thing, does she have a point
Speaker 1: to be upset? And yeah, because if if that's how
Speaker 1: it makes her feel and that's you know, then she
Speaker 1: has the right to feel that way, and she has
Speaker 1: the right to tell him like, look, this makes me
Speaker 1: feel uncomfortable. Now there are I'm sure there are relationships
Speaker 1: just like you know, if we talk to people that
Speaker 1: have an open relationship or this or that, Okay, if
Speaker 1: that works for them, fine. There's probably some people that
Speaker 1: they don't care who the other one follows because their
Speaker 1: relationship is fine, there's no issues or whatever, and they
Speaker 1: just mind their own business and they follow who they
Speaker 1: want to follow. So I'm not I'm not sitting here
Speaker 1: saying that nobody should do that, because there's relationships that
Speaker 1: probably both of them do it and they're fine with it.
Speaker 1: But majority speaking, yes, I think it's an issue because
Speaker 1: what's the point. Well, going back to you know, your
Speaker 1: page when we first started dating, I mean, you were
Speaker 1: following really pretty girls. Why is that really a problem? Though?
Speaker 1: It's not are you really following? Do guys really follow
Speaker 1: the pretty girls because they get that endorphin hit of
Speaker 1: usci sexy for a second while you're while you're swiping through. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think it's just something to look at because I mean,
Speaker 1: you know, you go through that stuff so quick, right,
Speaker 1: and so you just go and scroll and scroll and scrolling,
Speaker 1: and you see it, okay, and then you go that
Speaker 1: keep going, go the next thing, whether a news thing,
Speaker 1: whether the sport thing with it, whether it you know,
Speaker 1: an attractive woman, whatever it may be. Like people, that's
Speaker 1: just people are in our generation scroll, you know, so
Speaker 1: back when I have social media before you and I
Speaker 1: like even but you know what I mean, like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, in my opinion, in our opinion,
Speaker 1: we don't think there's a place for it. And I
Speaker 1: think Tori has a reason or has a legitimate it.
Speaker 1: You know, she's allowed to be upset by it. But
Speaker 1: here's to switch it though, So you're not allowed to
Speaker 1: look at an attractive person when they walk by. I'm
Speaker 1: not saying that. It's kind of the same as Instagram.
Speaker 1: You can't control if someone attractive walks by you. If
Speaker 1: you just happen to if you happen to we walk
Speaker 1: in one direction, another attractive person is walking in the
Speaker 1: opposite direction. You can control who you follow on social media.
Speaker 1: You can control who you look at on social media,
Speaker 1: So I think that's a difference. One is a natural occurrence.
Speaker 1: One is something that is in your hands. What do
Speaker 1: you think about guys that look at other girls when
Speaker 1: they're with their girlfriends or wives, because that is that
Speaker 1: is the number one thing that makes me so annoyed
Speaker 1: when guys do that, because it's just guys. When a
Speaker 1: girl walks with a guy, they're not staring at the
Speaker 1: other guy. But when when you're telling me what that
Speaker 1: when you've dated people in the past and you're with them,
Speaker 1: if he's saw an attractive man, I don't not when
Speaker 1: I'm like holding the person's hand and walking through them
Speaker 1: all like this just happened the other day and I'm walking,
Speaker 1: Oh no, it was in the airport and this guy
Speaker 1: was with with his wife or girlfriend, whoever it was,
Speaker 1: and he's stairs and I'm like, sure me, or maybe
Speaker 1: you're staring to me. You weren't there. I was struggling
Speaker 1: by myself. So it just that just bothers me because
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't like that for the girl, And
Speaker 1: I'm like, why are you looking? Why are you looking
Speaker 1: at someone else? How much do you want to just
Speaker 1: blow his spot up in that moment? Oh more than anything?
Speaker 1: Like why are you looking at me? And it's not
Speaker 1: because I'm whatever, Like he doesn't freaking know I'm Alex
Speaker 1: from One Tree Hill like he you're regardless of your career,
Speaker 1: you're a beautiful woman. But I'm just saying I don't
Speaker 1: like it when a guy does that because I think
Speaker 1: it's so disrespectful to the girl that he's standing next
Speaker 1: to you. If he wasn't walking next to his significant
Speaker 1: other and he looked at you, would that be an issue.
Speaker 1: Maybe he's just looking, like to see where he's going.
Speaker 1: So now it's it's now it's he's just looking at
Speaker 1: something past. I still don't think you should. I still
Speaker 1: I just feel like, when if you're in a relationship
Speaker 1: and you're married, you should. You shouldn't be walking around
Speaker 1: and looking. If you happen to look up and you're
Speaker 1: at a Starbucks and you look in line, I'm looking
Speaker 1: at Eastern right now? O. Hey given it like a
Speaker 1: little nod. But when they blatantly are walking and kind
Speaker 1: of look to you renecking, then yeah, in no way.
Speaker 1: But I feel like a lot of married men and
Speaker 1: in relationship people guys do that. It's so obvious. I mean,
Speaker 1: I've keep doing it before, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: And you're like, I'm just looking, But I mean it's
Speaker 1: just I think it's just a guy thing. I'm not
Speaker 1: like trying to like throw you under the rug. I
Speaker 1: just think it's a it's a double standard guy thing.
Speaker 1: And I don't understand. And if the guy's point of
Speaker 1: either like, oh, we're just looking, you're telling you're telling
Speaker 1: me that there aren't women out there that have done
Speaker 1: the same thing. I don't think it's obvious because you
Speaker 1: guys are just better at it. Sure, there was one
Speaker 1: time that I did a bad job one time, and
Speaker 1: you probably can name that. One time I did a
Speaker 1: really bad job. Were we together? We were together and
Speaker 1: I did a really bad job of it, a terrible job.
Speaker 1: Where was it? You know? It was an l A.
Speaker 1: I don't remember who was it. He was trying to
Speaker 1: find his dog Jason what No, No, remember the guy
Speaker 1: that was going down the street in his car. That
Speaker 1: is the one time I did it wrong that was
Speaker 1: funny because I called you all out. You're right, But
Speaker 1: that's the thing, like that was the one time I
Speaker 1: did it wrong. So I was with my girlfriend, Sarah,
Speaker 1: Sarah Boyd, who is you know, one of my dearest friends.
Speaker 1: And we actually are the co founders of the Mom's
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Speaker 1: but there are are summer boxes now available Mom's Baby's
Speaker 1: Box dot com. But we were outside talking, she was
Speaker 1: giving me some boxes and this guy pulls up in
Speaker 1: his car and he's like, hey, have you seen my
Speaker 1: dog Willow or something? And you were out there with us,
Speaker 1: but I had I had either just come outside or
Speaker 1: I just pulled up. No, that's what it was. I
Speaker 1: just pulled up. I just pulled up and I was
Speaker 1: getting out of the car and you guys were talking
Speaker 1: to him, and he was like in like a dope
Speaker 1: range rover or something. I think the sun was shining
Speaker 1: only on him. It was cloudy everywhere else in l
Speaker 1: A that day, and he just I mean talking about world.
Speaker 1: I mean, he was handsome and so way. No, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: So he's like, do you know where your dog Willow? Like,
Speaker 1: have you seen my dog Willow? I don't know if
Speaker 1: that was the name, but I saw two speechless grown
Speaker 1: women acting like thirteen year old girls. No. No, We're like,
Speaker 1: oh no, you lost your dog. We're so sorry. And
Speaker 1: I think the dog was like three legged rescue that
Speaker 1: you know, no, but he was just like so concerned
Speaker 1: and we're like, oh, I'm We're so sorry. And then honey,
Speaker 1: have you seen a dog running around? And you know,
Speaker 1: Mike's like no, but you know, man, we'll be looking
Speaker 1: for it. That was Jane's way of trying to include me,
Speaker 1: and on this conversation was hey, oh honey, honey your home.
Speaker 1: Oh by the way, that this lovely man is looking
Speaker 1: for his dog. And I into the window and see
Speaker 1: this what this guy looks like. And I was just
Speaker 1: like okay. And so he drives away and I was like,
Speaker 1: that was a it was a really nice car. I
Speaker 1: really liked that car. And he was like, but I
Speaker 1: couldn't find the words. I was just saying, that was
Speaker 1: a really nice he was that was a really nice,
Speaker 1: gorgeous car. And well, it's funny because you and Sarah
Speaker 1: do you want of you you didn't really know what
Speaker 1: to say, and so I said for you. I literally
Speaker 1: said it for you guys. I was like, look, he
Speaker 1: was handsome. I get it, Like it's okay, Like I
Speaker 1: said it for you guys, and then you kind of
Speaker 1: loosened up like yeah, he kind of was. But then
Speaker 1: we're like willow, willow willo. Yeah. That was that was
Speaker 1: the one day. I mean he left you speechless. We
Speaker 1: were just like that nice, nice car. He's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: he was handsome, Like yeah, okay, that's I mean, that's
Speaker 1: the thing is So that's circling back. I think it's
Speaker 1: just one of those things where it's if it's an
Speaker 1: instance like that where you're just right and you and I.
Speaker 1: You and I have talked about this like early on
Speaker 1: with everything that we've been through, you know, and you
Speaker 1: worried about me looking at people or whatever it may be.
Speaker 1: I'm like, and we finally were able to get to
Speaker 1: a place where I had the conversations like, look, attractive
Speaker 1: people exist in this world, like you said, if it's
Speaker 1: something that just platonically happens where you look up and
Speaker 1: someone's in front of you a Starbucks or or whatever,
Speaker 1: but if you seek it out or rubber neck. That's different.
Speaker 1: That's disrespectful. That's um, what's the word I'm looking for,
Speaker 1: Um objectifying, you know what I mean? That's objectifying when
Speaker 1: you when you hold that, that gives that long. So
Speaker 1: it's then instagram objective objectifying or people objectify themselves on Instagram.
Speaker 1: That's the whole thing about it. Yeah, So I mean again,
Speaker 1: I think it's a relationship by relationship basis. Ultimately, I
Speaker 1: don't see the reason why people would have to follow
Speaker 1: those kind of people. Eastern. Do you follow any attractive
Speaker 1: women on Instagram? I've follow some women who art I
Speaker 1: admire another Janna Kramer your intertractive women, Janna Kramer, I
Speaker 1: follow you, right, But what does your wife feel about that?
Speaker 1: I mean before, when we were dating, in the early
Speaker 1: stages of dating, I was following some some ladies that
Speaker 1: just look nice. And I also told me she didn't
Speaker 1: like that, and so I didn't followed them. Yes, and
Speaker 1: I can understand that. So Tor, that's what a man
Speaker 1: should do if you feel uncomfortable, and if you're feeling insecure,
Speaker 1: it's okay to say, hey, this makes me uncomfortable, knowing
Speaker 1: that you're looking at right, And I think that's that's
Speaker 1: within anyone's boundaries of their relationship. It's one thing if
Speaker 1: Tory or somebody else was like, I want you off
Speaker 1: social media, like I don't want you to. I don't
Speaker 1: want you have any social media. Or you can't follow
Speaker 1: any girls, you can't follow any girls at all. My
Speaker 1: friend or she's my friend, or I like this actress
Speaker 1: because whatever, you know what I mean, not because they're
Speaker 1: putting themselves out there, but because you know whatever. So again,
Speaker 1: she's within her boundaries to address that. Anybody is, as
Speaker 1: long as you're not trying to control again, then having
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Speaker 1: You know, I had a therapy session and I said,
Speaker 1: sometimes I feel like a fraud. Sometimes I feel like
Speaker 1: we give all this relationship advice, but then yeah, we
Speaker 1: don't listen to our own advice. And I started to
Speaker 1: just like cry, and you know, she said to me,
Speaker 1: she goes, do you think that I do it perfect?
Speaker 1: She was, I'm a therapist and my husband and I
Speaker 1: just had a huge fight two nights ago, and those
Speaker 1: thoughts always go through my head while I'm telling my
Speaker 1: patients to say this and to do this, but yet
Speaker 1: I'm not doing it. So but for me, for some reason,
Speaker 1: I just struggle with that because I think, all right,
Speaker 1: we're just how are we giving advice when we have
Speaker 1: we're still so aft? Do you know the old saying
Speaker 1: those who can't teach, that's the same for reason. Okay,
Speaker 1: but first of all, side sidebar, how much do you
Speaker 1: love that this new therapist got personal with you? And yeah,
Speaker 1: she was great. I really liked her a lot. It
Speaker 1: was you know, I definitely liked her more than my
Speaker 1: last therapist I had in l A just because I
Speaker 1: like to have that kind of cross talk and that
Speaker 1: we were able to have an actual conversation where it
Speaker 1: didn't feel like a therapist, just being like, so, how
Speaker 1: does that make you feel? It's She was like, yeah, no,
Speaker 1: my husband and I we got into a huge fight
Speaker 1: before we had this big supper club dinner and we
Speaker 1: had to figure out how to reconnect and it wasn't
Speaker 1: until you know, one of us really owned our stuff
Speaker 1: and that, you know. So it was just it was
Speaker 1: nice to be able to have that kind of conversation
Speaker 1: with someone who can relate. Yeah, are bad. I mean
Speaker 1: I get what you're saying about the feeling of being
Speaker 1: a fraud, But again, how many times have we disclaimed
Speaker 1: we're not experts, we don't have this figured out, you know,
Speaker 1: and we're not necessarily teaching. We're just sharing it has
Speaker 1: and has not worked for us, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: I don't I don't think of ourselves as teachers. I
Speaker 1: think we're just we're a resource and a platform for
Speaker 1: people to not feel alone and all the crap that
Speaker 1: they have to go through, you know, and it's they
Speaker 1: have the same effect on us everyone that listens to this,
Speaker 1: you know, and all the comments and and support and
Speaker 1: questions and all that helps us not feel so alone
Speaker 1: and all the ft up stuff that we deal with.
Speaker 1: Um No, but it was rough and to be our
Speaker 1: second night in the house together and and have a
Speaker 1: blow up like we did. I mean, it's been a
Speaker 1: long time since it got like that, you know, and
Speaker 1: that was really hard. I mean both of us were
Speaker 1: heartbroken this morning over it. And you know, I do
Speaker 1: want to say I commend you and appreciate you and
Speaker 1: your ability to meet me in a good place when
Speaker 1: I got home today, you know, because in the past
Speaker 1: that wouldn't always happen. It would, you know, want some person.
Speaker 1: Usually you wouldn't be ready because it was me that
Speaker 1: had to come back and you know, initiate the connection
Speaker 1: and the reconnection or the apology. But I appreciate you
Speaker 1: being willing to listen, oh, on your side of things,
Speaker 1: and then for us to try to move forward. What's
Speaker 1: going on right now? Oh No, I'm just saying no,
Speaker 1: I agree. Yeah, it's just it's just it was just
Speaker 1: so sad. But Nashville just holds a lot of energy,
Speaker 1: so we're trying to bring in new energy. It's just
Speaker 1: very hard because, like my therapist said, it's very you know,
Speaker 1: grieving isn't a straight line. It's kind of like a
Speaker 1: corkscrew and you kind of go in and out of
Speaker 1: the the corkscrew and it's um. It's just it's hard,
Speaker 1: especially coming back into the place of the the explosion, right. So,
Speaker 1: I think it's you know, trying to go through those
Speaker 1: feelings and figure it out in a healthy space can
Speaker 1: be kind of hard, you know. I think it was
Speaker 1: my therapist. I think it's my therapist that said this
Speaker 1: in my men's group or something one time, and it
Speaker 1: was like, you wouldn't expect somebody who just lost lost
Speaker 1: their mother, or lost a child, or lost a loved
Speaker 1: one like to a death. You wouldn't expect them to
Speaker 1: rush their grieving process, would you. You know what I mean?
Speaker 1: No matter when it was, no matter if it was
Speaker 1: years down the road, months down the road, or a
Speaker 1: few days later. Like you, people are able to usually
Speaker 1: with stuff like that, be able to understand instantly where
Speaker 1: you know, with this situation that stuff can kind of
Speaker 1: come out of left field with you know, the scars
Speaker 1: and in our history. So you know, that's something that
Speaker 1: I kind of thought of earlier today, was remembering what
Speaker 1: my therapist said of you know, I wouldn't I wouldn't
Speaker 1: rush you if you were talking about a loved one.
Speaker 1: If you're grieving a loved one, Grief is grief. It's
Speaker 1: the same across the board. So there's no difference really
Speaker 1: between it's just the subject of what you're grieving. So
Speaker 1: it's you know, and by no means am I trying
Speaker 1: to rush you? It was I trying to rush you,
Speaker 1: And I don't think you have that that thought of
Speaker 1: me trying to do that. But like I said earlier today,
Speaker 1: when we're trying to reconnect, is I need to be
Speaker 1: better at dissecting kind of how you're feeling or what's
Speaker 1: coming out of your mouth and being like, okay, this
Speaker 1: this seems familiar. I know this pattern. But that's also
Speaker 1: not a job to have to read me the line. No,
Speaker 1: and I'm not saying it is. But I can be
Speaker 1: better at that. I can be more conscious of that
Speaker 1: and if I'm not the ultimate thing is allow you
Speaker 1: the space and latitude to handle it however you need
Speaker 1: to handle it. If that means get angry, you get angry.
Speaker 1: If that means get upset, that means if you even
Speaker 1: you have to vent and say something mean, give you
Speaker 1: the latitude and grace to do that and be your
Speaker 1: your steady support. Yeah, you know, but because ultimately you
Speaker 1: should say this is how I'm feeling, and this is
Speaker 1: what But sometimes people can't deliver it hatway all the time.
Speaker 1: So no, and nor should you be expected to, especially
Speaker 1: when we just get back. You know, it would be
Speaker 1: different if this was if we're in l A right
Speaker 1: now and it happened like that kind of out of
Speaker 1: nowhere on a topic, or you ask some questions about
Speaker 1: nothing relevant, then that would probably would have been a
Speaker 1: bigger issue. But it's completely understandable here. You know fresh,
Speaker 1: Yeah it's super fresh, But it's just you know, that's
Speaker 1: anyone who's in my position, whether it the male or
Speaker 1: the female, you know you need to do a better
Speaker 1: job than I do in those situations because my defense
Speaker 1: is to attack back. That is just my how I've
Speaker 1: been my whole life is when I feel attacked, I
Speaker 1: attacked back, and I attacked harder. Yeah, you're well, so
Speaker 1: it's you know, it's not something I'm proud of. And
Speaker 1: more times than not, I handle it the incorrect way.
Speaker 1: And there are those times that I do handle it
Speaker 1: the correct way. And we just had one recently in
Speaker 1: l A, you know, and it's it's funny. I was
Speaker 1: at my twelfth step meeting earlier today. It's the same
Speaker 1: one that I used to go to when we're in Nashville,
Speaker 1: and I saw some guys that remembered me and that
Speaker 1: I remembered them, and I was talking to one of
Speaker 1: them after, and you know, I shared about the stuff
Speaker 1: that kind of we went through last night in the meeting,
Speaker 1: and it was the same guy that I still remember
Speaker 1: him saying this a couple of years ago in a
Speaker 1: meeting at the same place in Nashville, and he was like,
Speaker 1: I'm so tired of saying I'm sorry, and not not
Speaker 1: for what he did to cause the riff in the relationship,
Speaker 1: not the infidelity, not for saying sorry for the big stuff.
Speaker 1: It's I'm sorry sorry. I'm tired of saying sorry for
Speaker 1: making things worse. And I told him that today I
Speaker 1: was like, dude, I remember you saying years ago, and
Speaker 1: I was like, that's how I felt today. I was like,
Speaker 1: I am, I'm tired of saying sorry for I'm sorry
Speaker 1: for not handling this better, I'm sorry for reacting, I'm
Speaker 1: sorry for saying this is this thing me, And I'm
Speaker 1: sorry for you know that. You know. So it's ultimately
Speaker 1: it's because I don't want you to not feel safe.
Speaker 1: I want you to feel safe and why won't you
Speaker 1: feel that I'm your rock? But also for me, I'm tired.
Speaker 1: I'm tired to saying sorry. I'm tired to be saying
Speaker 1: sorry to Can you just be nice? It would be nice.
Speaker 1: But you know, the the optimistic part of me is,
Speaker 1: like we talked about earlier, I mean, we wish this
Speaker 1: didn't have to happen at all. I know, I kind
Speaker 1: of made the comment about it being inevitable because we
Speaker 1: didn't really know how much weight it was going to
Speaker 1: carry until we were in it, and unfortunately we got
Speaker 1: in it like that, you know. So now that it
Speaker 1: happened as quickly as it did, the silver lining from
Speaker 1: from my point of view is, Okay, this will help me.
Speaker 1: I can learn from this. This will help me a
Speaker 1: lot moving forward to consider, you know, to be consistent
Speaker 1: and vigilant and staying steady, not putting myself in a
Speaker 1: position where I have to say sorry for anything new,
Speaker 1: and just creating safety for you in a place that
Speaker 1: you didn't feel safe for a long time. Hm. Well,
Speaker 1: I'll drink to that. I would like that. Hey, let's
Speaker 1: lighten it up a little bit. Give me a parent confession.
Speaker 1: Apparent apparent confession. Mm hmm. Today's parent confession. This week's
Speaker 1: parent confession. We should do it every week. This week's
Speaker 1: parent confession is you know, I'll say I was just
Speaker 1: saying I actually had mine is so bad. I had
Speaker 1: one that I was gonna like even bring up to you,
Speaker 1: pat like naturally. The other day I was gonna say, hey,
Speaker 1: I was like kind of really short with Jolie, like
Speaker 1: really short with her, and I got mad at her
Speaker 1: really quick. The other day. I don't remember what for.
Speaker 1: It was just she was, you know, she's in her
Speaker 1: three nager stage where it's just challenges everything, and with
Speaker 1: the all the movie and everything, it was one of
Speaker 1: those that afterwards, I felt like bad, I felt sad,
Speaker 1: and it really it actually really bothered me. I'm like
Speaker 1: my sweet girl was just trying to figure things out,
Speaker 1: and I was just I was short with her, and
Speaker 1: it really made me sad. It makes me sad right now.
Speaker 1: I don't know you can do better. I mean you
Speaker 1: can well honestly. I mean that's why I like tonight
Speaker 1: when I was giving her bath and she like, I
Speaker 1: did better tonight. You know I did better tonight. And
Speaker 1: I didn't get mad at her. I didn't, you know,
Speaker 1: at all. I just, you know, her thing to kind
Speaker 1: of stop for her. What she does to make us
Speaker 1: stop asking her to do what we want is she's like,
Speaker 1: well I want to hug, right and the other the
Speaker 1: other night when I was short with her, I was like, no, Jolie,
Speaker 1: we have to do this. You know. It's like she's
Speaker 1: asking for a hug m hm. And tonight I got stopped.
Speaker 1: Every time she wanted to hug. I was like, Okay,
Speaker 1: come me, baby, go give me hug. So I just
Speaker 1: I didn't I made it for it tonight. But yeah,
Speaker 1: I think every parent can relate to that though, where
Speaker 1: you just it's a long day and you just want
Speaker 1: to go to bed. You just want to put them
Speaker 1: in their bed and so you're not alone in that feeling.
Speaker 1: I'm sure a lot of other people have felt the
Speaker 1: same way. Yeah, I'm sure what was yours. Julie felt
Speaker 1: today at school and I laughed inside because she was
Speaker 1: making such a brat and she fell, and I was like,
Speaker 1: that's what you get. Yeah. But then I felt bad
Speaker 1: afterwards because I think she was embarrassed. So I think
Speaker 1: she started I know, then I felt bad. I didn't.
Speaker 1: I laughed internally. I was like, uh huh, I know,
Speaker 1: so that's and she kind of looked and I was like,
Speaker 1: baby girl, it's okay. So the second I felt that
Speaker 1: I went straight to it was it was a split
Speaker 1: second that you deserved it too, to oh you. And
Speaker 1: I saw her look when she saw miss Holly, and
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, baby, honey, it's okay. People fall
Speaker 1: the time, Honey, it's all right, get back up, you
Speaker 1: got it. Yeah. That was the first kind of notice
Speaker 1: of her feeling like she was embarrassed, which then made
Speaker 1: me want to cry and then also feel bad about
Speaker 1: the fact that I just laughed her two seconds earlier
Speaker 1: because she was just being such a brat, And I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: foret horrible. I mean, I love it, but the whole
Speaker 1: embarrassed feeling is. I mean, I'll to this day, we'll
Speaker 1: not forget the day that my brother, it was his
Speaker 1: fifth grade recital at his school or they or the
Speaker 1: play that they do for the parents and everybody else.
Speaker 1: My brother stepped onto the stage and he fell. It's
Speaker 1: not funny to it to this day. I mean, my
Speaker 1: brothers in fifth grade, which means I was in second grade,
Speaker 1: and I remember this like it was yesterday. It's been
Speaker 1: the one memory that has stood with me since growing
Speaker 1: up because my my brother, who I love more than anything,
Speaker 1: he tripped. He had this cowboy hat on. The cowboy
Speaker 1: hat fell off of him. Everyone started laughing, and I
Speaker 1: started crying because I felt so bad for him because
Speaker 1: I knew how embarrassed he was. And I'm just picturing
Speaker 1: a little Dylan right now or nephew. Yeah, he's just
Speaker 1: a little Steve. Yeah. So I just like, I will
Speaker 1: never forget that. And I bet you my brother doesn't
Speaker 1: even remember that, but I do. It's that where I
Speaker 1: just remember. I know he was embarrassed. I could see
Speaker 1: it in his eyes, and I started crying because I
Speaker 1: felt bad for him because I knew he was embarrassed
Speaker 1: and being embarrasses. So, I mean, my mom tripped on
Speaker 1: the stairs going up rumor like one of those restaurants,
Speaker 1: and she was she started started crying. It's like, it's
Speaker 1: so so hard to be like the feeling of being embarrassed.
Speaker 1: You know, do you get embarrassed, like I really don't.
Speaker 1: You don't when I was younger, Yeah, I mean everyone
Speaker 1: younger gets embarrassed. But now you were embarrassed when you
Speaker 1: couldn't figure out how to put the car seat or
Speaker 1: the stroller thing together. That wasn't And I don't know
Speaker 1: if that was embarrassment that maybe maybe that was the
Speaker 1: closest to embarrass I felt in a long time, which
Speaker 1: was just ridiculous. I looked like that dad who doesn't
Speaker 1: have a clue. This is in l A. And I
Speaker 1: have both kids and we're parking at Valet off of
Speaker 1: Rodeo there. I think we're meeting you for lunch. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're meeting for lunch. And it was a new stroller
Speaker 1: and I hadn't used it yet or know, I know,
Speaker 1: it's one that we hadn't used in a while, and
Speaker 1: so I was so used to the other one and
Speaker 1: how it opened and clothes I was sitting there at Valet,
Speaker 1: I got Jolie's like crying, like wanting something. I've Jason
Speaker 1: the car seat. There's like four cars lined up behind
Speaker 1: me waiting for this a hole to get out of
Speaker 1: the way so they can park their car. And I'm
Speaker 1: sitting here trying to like pull the cars at the
Speaker 1: stroller apart. And I was like, I could not figure
Speaker 1: it out. And I was just like every car behind
Speaker 1: me is like, oh, dad has his first day with
Speaker 1: the kids by himself. He can't handle it, you know.
Speaker 1: So yes, I think that was embarrassment because I was like,
Speaker 1: and even though no one was saying anything, I just
Speaker 1: wanted to look at every car is like, I know
Speaker 1: what I'm doing. I'm actually a great father. I can
Speaker 1: sac o. I hope people get that reference better better.
Speaker 1: So you've been embarrassed, Yes, I know, I know you're
Speaker 1: I know yours. That is a story that will be
Speaker 1: taking to the grave even maybe I could tell it.
Speaker 1: Do I say it? Because it's so embarrassing. It's probably
Speaker 1: the most It is by far the most embarrassing thing
Speaker 1: I've ever been through my entire life. And I've always
Speaker 1: said I would take it to my grave, but now
Speaker 1: I feel like, maybe I should take it to the
Speaker 1: Do I take it to the grave? No, I think
Speaker 1: you should. If Mark was here, he'd be like, Wow, Danna, Dad,
Speaker 1: Papa Mark. Yeah, I think you should tell the people
Speaker 1: that you will produce the heck out of it. But
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm embarrassed. I'm actually like genuinely embarrassed.
Speaker 1: Do you do you get embarrassed? Do I get embarrassed
Speaker 1: all the time? Really? I mean, I haven't had a situation.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think the last time I actually got embarrassed.
Speaker 1: You know, I get embarrassed when I say things that
Speaker 1: I don't mean. So if I'm talking to some more diiffer,
Speaker 1: I'm playing a show and I say something trying to
Speaker 1: be funny and it's not funny, I get embarrassed. That's
Speaker 1: when That's when I get embarrassed. So that's that is
Speaker 1: that is where I come. Then I just shut up
Speaker 1: by you laughing. You know what I'm talking about? What
Speaker 1: you're talking about? Yeah, But yeah, I don't. I just
Speaker 1: don't know what I would get embarrassed about. Like, I
Speaker 1: don't really get nervous. I'm really embarrassed. That's just kind
Speaker 1: of how I've been since I've been an adult. But anyways,
Speaker 1: so back to your story. Please tell the people, Yes,
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, just be ready for for our
Speaker 1: our boy over there at US Weekly. I mean, if
Speaker 1: you want that to be the headline please by all
Speaker 1: means you're right, I'm not gonna say it. People are
Speaker 1: gonna be dying to hear it now. I'm not ready.
Speaker 1: It's so bad Eastan is about to get this story
Speaker 1: behind the scenes. I just don't think because we think
Speaker 1: they'd actually run that. Probably I would. That's so embarrassing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'd probably Wait. Okay, man, we're talking about a tease.
Speaker 1: What we did te I mean it's tease. Maybe I'll
Speaker 1: talk her into it next week. I don't think it's
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