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Speaker 1: Wind down and Michael Cochlin and I have heard radio podcast.

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Speaker 1: It's our first recording International house, Crazy, so insane and sweet.

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Speaker 1: Easton is slumber partying it with us. It's um, I

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Speaker 1: know you guys are listening to this Monday morning, but

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Speaker 1: real time right now for us. It's a nasty thunderstorm

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Speaker 1: outside and but I kind of love it. I love

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Speaker 1: Michael's yawning. So this is gonna be a great episode. No,

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Speaker 1: I just I had love a good thunderstorm. I'm scared

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Speaker 1: to drive in thunderstorms, but I like being at home

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Speaker 1: in the screen and porch. I think, yes, driving in

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Speaker 1: a thunderstorm isn't fun, but being in the car, like

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Speaker 1: when you're a kid and your parents are driving the thunderstorm,

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Speaker 1: it's just something cozy about it, so cozy I'll never forget.

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Speaker 1: I know Katherine's listened to this. So I was in

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Speaker 1: a car. We were going to pick up a dog,

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Speaker 1: and dog, um the boxer that I had. Channas had

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Speaker 1: more dogs and I can't remember. This is where dogs

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Speaker 1: come to pass on no stop but no. So I

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Speaker 1: we were going to pick up this dog and Katherine

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Speaker 1: was driving, and it started to get like this really

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Speaker 1: scary looking weather where it was like you're on the expressway,

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Speaker 1: what do you do? So I'm like Catherine ball over

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Speaker 1: and I was like screaming a passenger. It was the passenger,

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Speaker 1: Why are you freaking out so much? Because there was

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Speaker 1: about to be a tornado? Like it was a funnel cloud.

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Speaker 1: It was terrifying. So we pulled over and went into

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Speaker 1: a gas station. But that's just my biggest did you

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Speaker 1: spot the funnel cloud? Okay, I swear it's in the

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Speaker 1: five coming our way. We gotta get off. No, I truly,

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Speaker 1: I'm obviously a big fan of Twister, but no, I

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Speaker 1: literally you know, remember that one time to where the

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Speaker 1: sirens were going off and I wouldn't go get I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't go to CVS. I mean technically you shouldn't anyways

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Speaker 1: because the are going off, But no, I mean I

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Speaker 1: just I don't know. I get really scared thunderstorms when

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Speaker 1: I'm driving. I mean, you just had to come out

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Speaker 1: and run out of our room and like screamed for

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Speaker 1: me and say, Michael, is our window going to cave in?

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Speaker 1: Well it was doing that, Like, yeah, there's just thunder

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Speaker 1: I know. I love it though, it's very crazy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's really a hidden that's around in the house. So

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to catch them. But the move has been

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Speaker 1: so exciting. Yeah, and not going on. Yeah, it's been fun.

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Speaker 1: It's been stressful, but it has been fun, even though

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Speaker 1: we still have so much more to do. And poor

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Speaker 1: Easton sleeping on so our producer Amy was like, we'll

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Speaker 1: put Eastern up in a hotel and like, no, Easton

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Speaker 1: has to stay with us. But then now he's literally

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Speaker 1: sleeping on the ground, mattress on the ground. He did

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Speaker 1: you see how I put the headboard though, so it

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Speaker 1: kind of feels like he's he's gonna be real bad.

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Speaker 1: It's an optical illusion. Yeah, it totally is. But we're

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Speaker 1: happy are here Eastern things. Yes, having any other way,

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Speaker 1: but no, it's really it's interesting. It's it's feels weird

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Speaker 1: to be in the house. A lot of people have

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Speaker 1: asked about the leak. Um if the leak has been

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Speaker 1: fixed again. I find out about business in our life

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Speaker 1: via my friends and family members because they text me

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Speaker 1: about there's a leak in your house. I'm like, how

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Speaker 1: do you even know? And then even though this has

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Speaker 1: happened a thousand times, Oh, Jane instagramed, Uh so, yeah,

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Speaker 1: so I guess you instagram. You know. Well, people say that,

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Speaker 1: you know, you have to be really careful of mold,

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Speaker 1: and so that freaks me out because I don't want

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Speaker 1: because mold can make you so sick kids, adults, so

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Speaker 1: I'm fearful of that. So a lot of people were like,

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Speaker 1: make sure you check because mold can grow so incredibly fast.

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Speaker 1: So that was one of their main concerns. And then

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Speaker 1: they said that maybe the flashing wasn't right in the windows.

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Speaker 1: So what did the builders say? It was the windows.

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Speaker 1: So they fixed it that night and then the window

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Speaker 1: company came out the next day just to make sure.

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Speaker 1: Oh so they didn't repatch it. No, they did repatch it.

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Speaker 1: Oh they did. Okay, So I was, okay, we're gonna

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Speaker 1: be okay, We're not going to drown in a house. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but it's it's it's been cool. It's uh, you know,

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Speaker 1: it's it's a change being back here. We do miss

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Speaker 1: our little, you know, a little humble house in Los Angeles.

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Speaker 1: And when Jolie has to the other night, Jolie was

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Speaker 1: being a complete b word and having to send her

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Speaker 1: to the Beautiful Baby, having to send her to her

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Speaker 1: going up and down, up and down the stairs was interesting.

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Speaker 1: You know, I never thought I would miss square feet,

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Speaker 1: but I missed fourteen ft. It's like, wow, we really

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Speaker 1: the I was telling Julie this the other day. I

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Speaker 1: was like, I miss kind of that comfy, cozy feeling. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we're you're you're kind of on top of each other

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Speaker 1: and everyone. You just feel kind of connected and yeah,

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Speaker 1: because there's nowhere else to go. Yeah, last night we're

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Speaker 1: leaving and supper butts, welcome to the Cossin House. Is

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Speaker 1: that a way to start it off? Our second night

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Speaker 1: now sleeping? Sleeping? Oh, way to just start a good

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Speaker 1: time coming on? But that's inevitable. Not all relationships are perfect. No,

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Speaker 1: So anyways, you said you wanted to bring something up,

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Speaker 1: So there's something interesting and we'll get back more on

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Speaker 1: the move and everything. But so I was at by

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Speaker 1: the way you're talking in a very like jazzy like.

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Speaker 1: So anyways, that's just I think it's I think part

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Speaker 1: my voice carries, right, it has, you know, so it

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Speaker 1: carries even if I'm trying to be quiet. Maybe it's

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Speaker 1: just naturally fallen into the smooth jazz. I need your

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Speaker 1: energy to be a little more up there. But do

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Speaker 1: you want me await the kids? They're sleeping, Okay, alright,

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Speaker 1: So anyway, so something I wanted to bring up, which

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Speaker 1: I thought this this topic is of sensitive nature, and

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Speaker 1: I don't I'm not trying to ruffle any feathers and

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Speaker 1: piss anybody off. This is just me being curious about

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Speaker 1: be like, hey we need this later, Hey I need

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Speaker 1: home depot. Five hours later he comes home and I

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Speaker 1: in plumbing. There's nothing to do in plumbing. I'll never

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Speaker 1: new grill for the house. And I asked a gentleman.

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Speaker 1: I was like, Hey, is there anyone in the grill

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Speaker 1: there Sarah and it was a gentleman. Okay, I mean

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Speaker 1: was just Sarah. His name is Sarah, and uh was

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Speaker 1: he being a Sarah or was he a Sarah? Justs Hey, Mike, Like,

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Speaker 1: so I have a friend named Stacy. He's very straight Stacy.

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Speaker 1: So is this a straight Stacy or no? This is

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Speaker 1: a from my perspective, because they also had a pride

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Speaker 1: no issue at all. I was like, hey, Sarah, you

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Speaker 1: I just I didn't know you're saying them though? Is

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Speaker 1: that people already take that offensively saying them, Uh, what

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Speaker 1: So even no matter how people are so hypersensitive about

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Speaker 1: Well that but that's that's my thing of just saying,

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Speaker 1: that's up to Sarah, right, So how but how do

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Speaker 1: yes sir. And so it's just one of those things

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Speaker 1: of what does he or she like? How does how

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Speaker 1: does it just a random person someone like me or

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Speaker 1: someone like you or someone like Easton how do we

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Speaker 1: approach that or how do what's the what's the correct way? Like?

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Speaker 1: What what? I'm even hypersensitive when you say a random person,

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Speaker 1: So they're not a random So that's that's I'm just random.

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Speaker 1: It could be another it could be someone else who's transitioning.

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Speaker 1: Random persons, you just pick them out of a hat.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't matter. We should get Caitlyn Jenner on the show.

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Speaker 1: We should or someone that has either is transitioning like

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Speaker 1: that would be a very interesting conversation because it's a

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Speaker 1: great idea. Honey, we I think a lot of people

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Speaker 1: maybe want to know that because that is more of

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Speaker 1: an ongoing not ongoing. How do I say that? That's

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Speaker 1: you have to be so politic like I don't want

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Speaker 1: how you choose your words right, right, And that's all

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Speaker 1: it is. It's it's it's an ongoing transition for people.

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Speaker 1: Where it's we're more aware of it, right because people

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Speaker 1: being more open and honest about it. But why do

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Speaker 1: you have to identify as one or the other? I

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Speaker 1: guess that's my question. Why can't you just say thank you? Like,

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Speaker 1: why do I have to identify them? Yeah, like why

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Speaker 1: does it have to be one or the other? It doesn't,

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Speaker 1: It doesn't, but that I'm not saying it does. I'm

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Speaker 1: but there are are summer boxes now available Mom's Baby's

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Speaker 1: Box dot com. But we were outside talking, she was

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Speaker 1: giving me some boxes and this guy pulls up in

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Speaker 1: his car and he's like, hey, have you seen my

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Speaker 1: dog Willow or something? And you were out there with us,

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Speaker 1: but I had I had either just come outside or

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Speaker 1: I just pulled up. No, that's what it was. I

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Speaker 1: just pulled up. I just pulled up and I was

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Speaker 1: getting out of the car and you guys were talking

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Speaker 1: to him, and he was like in like a dope

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Speaker 1: range rover or something. I think the sun was shining

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Speaker 1: only on him. It was cloudy everywhere else in l

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Speaker 1: A that day, and he just I mean talking about world.

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Speaker 1: I mean, he was handsome and so way. No, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: So he's like, do you know where your dog Willow? Like,

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Speaker 1: have you seen my dog Willow? I don't know if

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Speaker 1: that was the name, but I saw two speechless grown

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Speaker 1: women acting like thirteen year old girls. No. No, We're like,

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Speaker 1: oh no, you lost your dog. We're so sorry. And

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Speaker 1: I think the dog was like three legged rescue that

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Speaker 1: you know, no, but he was just like so concerned

444
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Speaker 1: and we're like, oh, I'm We're so sorry. And then honey,

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Speaker 1: have you seen a dog running around? And you know,

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Speaker 1: Mike's like no, but you know, man, we'll be looking

447
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Speaker 1: for it. That was Jane's way of trying to include me,

448
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Speaker 1: and on this conversation was hey, oh honey, honey your home.

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Speaker 1: Oh by the way, that this lovely man is looking

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Speaker 1: for his dog. And I into the window and see

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Speaker 1: this what this guy looks like. And I was just

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Speaker 1: like okay. And so he drives away and I was like,

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Speaker 1: that was a it was a really nice car. I

454
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Speaker 1: really liked that car. And he was like, but I

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Speaker 1: couldn't find the words. I was just saying, that was

456
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Speaker 1: a really nice he was that was a really nice,

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Speaker 1: gorgeous car. And well, it's funny because you and Sarah

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Speaker 1: do you want of you you didn't really know what

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Speaker 1: to say, and so I said for you. I literally

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Speaker 1: said it for you guys. I was like, look, he

461
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Speaker 1: was handsome. I get it, Like it's okay, Like I

462
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Speaker 1: said it for you guys, and then you kind of

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Speaker 1: loosened up like yeah, he kind of was. But then

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Speaker 1: we're like willow, willow willo. Yeah. That was that was

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Speaker 1: the one day. I mean he left you speechless. We

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Speaker 1: were just like that nice, nice car. He's like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: he was handsome, Like yeah, okay, that's I mean, that's

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Speaker 1: the thing is So that's circling back. I think it's

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Speaker 1: just one of those things where it's if it's an

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Speaker 1: instance like that where you're just right and you and I.

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Speaker 1: You and I have talked about this like early on

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Speaker 1: with everything that we've been through, you know, and you

473
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Speaker 1: worried about me looking at people or whatever it may be.

474
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Speaker 1: I'm like, and we finally were able to get to

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Speaker 1: a place where I had the conversations like, look, attractive

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Speaker 1: people exist in this world, like you said, if it's

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Speaker 1: something that just platonically happens where you look up and

478
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Speaker 1: someone's in front of you a Starbucks or or whatever,

479
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Speaker 1: but if you seek it out or rubber neck. That's different.

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Speaker 1: That's disrespectful. That's um, what's the word I'm looking for,

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Speaker 1: Um objectifying, you know what I mean? That's objectifying when

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Speaker 1: you when you hold that, that gives that long. So

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Speaker 1: it's then instagram objective objectifying or people objectify themselves on Instagram.

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Speaker 1: That's the whole thing about it. Yeah, So I mean again,

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Speaker 1: I think it's a relationship by relationship basis. Ultimately, I

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Speaker 1: don't see the reason why people would have to follow

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Speaker 1: those kind of people. Eastern. Do you follow any attractive

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Speaker 1: women on Instagram? I've follow some women who art I

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Speaker 1: admire another Janna Kramer your intertractive women, Janna Kramer, I

490
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Speaker 1: follow you, right, But what does your wife feel about that?

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Speaker 1: I mean before, when we were dating, in the early

492
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Speaker 1: stages of dating, I was following some some ladies that

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Speaker 1: just look nice. And I also told me she didn't

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Speaker 1: like that, and so I didn't followed them. Yes, and

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Speaker 1: I can understand that. So Tor, that's what a man

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Speaker 1: should do if you feel uncomfortable, and if you're feeling insecure,

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Speaker 1: it's okay to say, hey, this makes me uncomfortable, knowing

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Speaker 1: that you're looking at right, And I think that's that's

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Speaker 1: within anyone's boundaries of their relationship. It's one thing if

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Speaker 1: Tory or somebody else was like, I want you off

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Speaker 1: social media, like I don't want you to. I don't

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Speaker 1: want you have any social media. Or you can't follow

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Speaker 1: any girls, you can't follow any girls at all. My

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Speaker 1: friend or she's my friend, or I like this actress

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Speaker 1: because whatever, you know what I mean, not because they're

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Speaker 1: putting themselves out there, but because you know whatever. So again,

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Speaker 1: she's within her boundaries to address that. Anybody is, as

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Speaker 1: long as you're not trying to control again, then having

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Speaker 1: social media at all. It's very interesting, but it was interesting.

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Speaker 1: Before we move on to the next thing, though, I

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Speaker 1: want to talk about the sheets on that bed. You know,

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Speaker 1: we're trying to get all the rooms together, decorating bed sets,

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Speaker 1: side tables, all that stuff, but we don't have your

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Speaker 1: bed frame up yet, but we have your bed sheets

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Speaker 1: on the bed. That's the one thing we knew we

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Speaker 1: the Brooklyn and sheets. Uh. They're amazing. They are basically

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Speaker 1: Michael was like, man, the sheets are amazing. What are they?

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Speaker 1: I was like babies at the bok Linnen sheets. He

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Speaker 1: You know, I had a therapy session and I said,

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Speaker 1: sometimes I feel like a fraud. Sometimes I feel like

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Speaker 1: we give all this relationship advice, but then yeah, we

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Speaker 1: don't listen to our own advice. And I started to

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Speaker 1: just like cry, and you know, she said to me,

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Speaker 1: she goes, do you think that I do it perfect?

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Speaker 1: She was, I'm a therapist and my husband and I

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Speaker 1: just had a huge fight two nights ago, and those

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Speaker 1: thoughts always go through my head while I'm telling my

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Speaker 1: patients to say this and to do this, but yet

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Speaker 1: I'm not doing it. So but for me, for some reason,

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Speaker 1: I just struggle with that because I think, all right,

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Speaker 1: we're just how are we giving advice when we have

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Speaker 1: we're still so aft? Do you know the old saying

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Speaker 1: those who can't teach, that's the same for reason. Okay,

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Speaker 1: but first of all, side sidebar, how much do you

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Speaker 1: love that this new therapist got personal with you? And yeah,

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Speaker 1: she was great. I really liked her a lot. It

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Speaker 1: was you know, I definitely liked her more than my

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Speaker 1: last therapist I had in l A just because I

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Speaker 1: like to have that kind of cross talk and that

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Speaker 1: we were able to have an actual conversation where it

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Speaker 1: didn't feel like a therapist, just being like, so, how

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Speaker 1: does that make you feel? It's She was like, yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: my husband and I we got into a huge fight

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Speaker 1: before we had this big supper club dinner and we

571
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Speaker 1: had to figure out how to reconnect and it wasn't

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Speaker 1: until you know, one of us really owned our stuff

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Speaker 1: and that, you know. So it was just it was

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Speaker 1: nice to be able to have that kind of conversation

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Speaker 1: with someone who can relate. Yeah, are bad. I mean

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Speaker 1: I get what you're saying about the feeling of being

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Speaker 1: a fraud, But again, how many times have we disclaimed

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Speaker 1: we're not experts, we don't have this figured out, you know,

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Speaker 1: and we're not necessarily teaching. We're just sharing it has

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Speaker 1: and has not worked for us, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: I don't I don't think of ourselves as teachers. I

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Speaker 1: think we're just we're a resource and a platform for

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Speaker 1: people to not feel alone and all the crap that

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Speaker 1: they have to go through, you know, and it's they

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Speaker 1: have the same effect on us everyone that listens to this,

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00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 1: you know, and all the comments and and support and

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00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 1: questions and all that helps us not feel so alone

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Speaker 1: and all the ft up stuff that we deal with.

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Speaker 1: Um No, but it was rough and to be our

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Speaker 1: second night in the house together and and have a

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Speaker 1: blow up like we did. I mean, it's been a

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Speaker 1: long time since it got like that, you know, and

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Speaker 1: that was really hard. I mean both of us were

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Speaker 1: heartbroken this morning over it. And you know, I do

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Speaker 1: want to say I commend you and appreciate you and

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Speaker 1: your ability to meet me in a good place when

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Speaker 1: I got home today, you know, because in the past

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Speaker 1: that wouldn't always happen. It would, you know, want some person.

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Speaker 1: Usually you wouldn't be ready because it was me that

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Speaker 1: had to come back and you know, initiate the connection

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Speaker 1: and the reconnection or the apology. But I appreciate you

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Speaker 1: being willing to listen, oh, on your side of things,

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Speaker 1: and then for us to try to move forward. What's

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Speaker 1: going on right now? Oh No, I'm just saying no,

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Speaker 1: I agree. Yeah, it's just it's just it was just

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Speaker 1: so sad. But Nashville just holds a lot of energy,

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Speaker 1: so we're trying to bring in new energy. It's just

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Speaker 1: very hard because, like my therapist said, it's very you know,

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Speaker 1: grieving isn't a straight line. It's kind of like a

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Speaker 1: corkscrew and you kind of go in and out of

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Speaker 1: the the corkscrew and it's um. It's just it's hard,

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Speaker 1: especially coming back into the place of the the explosion, right. So,

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Speaker 1: I think it's you know, trying to go through those

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Speaker 1: feelings and figure it out in a healthy space can

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Speaker 1: be kind of hard, you know. I think it was

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Speaker 1: my therapist. I think it's my therapist that said this

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Speaker 1: in my men's group or something one time, and it

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Speaker 1: was like, you wouldn't expect somebody who just lost lost

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Speaker 1: their mother, or lost a child, or lost a loved

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Speaker 1: one like to a death. You wouldn't expect them to

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Speaker 1: rush their grieving process, would you. You know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: No matter when it was, no matter if it was

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Speaker 1: years down the road, months down the road, or a

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Speaker 1: few days later. Like you, people are able to usually

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Speaker 1: with stuff like that, be able to understand instantly where

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Speaker 1: you know, with this situation that stuff can kind of

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Speaker 1: come out of left field with you know, the scars

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Speaker 1: and in our history. So you know, that's something that

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Speaker 1: I kind of thought of earlier today, was remembering what

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Speaker 1: my therapist said of you know, I wouldn't I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: rush you if you were talking about a loved one.

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Speaker 1: If you're grieving a loved one, Grief is grief. It's

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Speaker 1: the same across the board. So there's no difference really

634
00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:25,000
Speaker 1: between it's just the subject of what you're grieving. So

635
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:27,759
Speaker 1: it's you know, and by no means am I trying

636
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 1: to rush you? It was I trying to rush you,

637
00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:32,239
Speaker 1: And I don't think you have that that thought of

638
00:35:32,560 --> 00:35:35,600
Speaker 1: me trying to do that. But like I said earlier today,

639
00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:40,760
Speaker 1: when we're trying to reconnect, is I need to be

640
00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:45,960
Speaker 1: better at dissecting kind of how you're feeling or what's

641
00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:49,080
Speaker 1: coming out of your mouth and being like, okay, this

642
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 1: this seems familiar. I know this pattern. But that's also

643
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:55,719
Speaker 1: not a job to have to read me the line. No,

644
00:35:55,840 --> 00:36:00,640
Speaker 1: and I'm not saying it is. But I can be

645
00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:02,440
Speaker 1: better at that. I can be more conscious of that

646
00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:08,239
Speaker 1: and if I'm not the ultimate thing is allow you

647
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 1: the space and latitude to handle it however you need

648
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:15,240
Speaker 1: to handle it. If that means get angry, you get angry.

649
00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 1: If that means get upset, that means if you even

650
00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:21,719
Speaker 1: you have to vent and say something mean, give you

651
00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:24,840
Speaker 1: the latitude and grace to do that and be your

652
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:31,400
Speaker 1: your steady support. Yeah, you know, but because ultimately you

653
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:33,719
Speaker 1: should say this is how I'm feeling, and this is

654
00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:36,760
Speaker 1: what But sometimes people can't deliver it hatway all the time.

655
00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:41,200
Speaker 1: So no, and nor should you be expected to, especially

656
00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:45,360
Speaker 1: when we just get back. You know, it would be

657
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 1: different if this was if we're in l A right

658
00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:50,640
Speaker 1: now and it happened like that kind of out of

659
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:53,960
Speaker 1: nowhere on a topic, or you ask some questions about

660
00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:57,440
Speaker 1: nothing relevant, then that would probably would have been a

661
00:36:57,440 --> 00:37:04,520
Speaker 1: bigger issue. But it's completely understandable here. You know fresh,

662
00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:08,640
Speaker 1: Yeah it's super fresh, But it's just you know, that's

663
00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:11,080
Speaker 1: anyone who's in my position, whether it the male or

664
00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:14,799
Speaker 1: the female, you know you need to do a better

665
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:18,920
Speaker 1: job than I do in those situations because my defense

666
00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:25,319
Speaker 1: is to attack back. That is just my how I've

667
00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:28,080
Speaker 1: been my whole life is when I feel attacked, I

668
00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:33,719
Speaker 1: attacked back, and I attacked harder. Yeah, you're well, so

669
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:35,719
Speaker 1: it's you know, it's not something I'm proud of. And

670
00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:39,600
Speaker 1: more times than not, I handle it the incorrect way.

671
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:41,640
Speaker 1: And there are those times that I do handle it

672
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:43,759
Speaker 1: the correct way. And we just had one recently in

673
00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:48,640
Speaker 1: l A, you know, and it's it's funny. I was

674
00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:51,879
Speaker 1: at my twelfth step meeting earlier today. It's the same

675
00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:54,560
Speaker 1: one that I used to go to when we're in Nashville,

676
00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 1: and I saw some guys that remembered me and that

677
00:37:58,120 --> 00:38:00,840
Speaker 1: I remembered them, and I was talking to one of

678
00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:03,879
Speaker 1: them after, and you know, I shared about the stuff

679
00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:05,760
Speaker 1: that kind of we went through last night in the meeting,

680
00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:10,239
Speaker 1: and it was the same guy that I still remember

681
00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:13,200
Speaker 1: him saying this a couple of years ago in a

682
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 1: meeting at the same place in Nashville, and he was like,

683
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:21,040
Speaker 1: I'm so tired of saying I'm sorry, and not not

684
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 1: for what he did to cause the riff in the relationship,

685
00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:28,200
Speaker 1: not the infidelity, not for saying sorry for the big stuff.

686
00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:31,480
Speaker 1: It's I'm sorry sorry. I'm tired of saying sorry for

687
00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:35,320
Speaker 1: making things worse. And I told him that today I

688
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:39,319
Speaker 1: was like, dude, I remember you saying years ago, and

689
00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:41,799
Speaker 1: I was like, that's how I felt today. I was like,

690
00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:45,040
Speaker 1: I am, I'm tired of saying sorry for I'm sorry

691
00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:47,480
Speaker 1: for not handling this better, I'm sorry for reacting, I'm

692
00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:49,719
Speaker 1: sorry for saying this is this thing me, And I'm

693
00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:55,040
Speaker 1: sorry for you know that. You know. So it's ultimately

694
00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:58,680
Speaker 1: it's because I don't want you to not feel safe.

695
00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:00,440
Speaker 1: I want you to feel safe and why won't you

696
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:04,240
Speaker 1: feel that I'm your rock? But also for me, I'm tired.

697
00:39:04,360 --> 00:39:07,799
Speaker 1: I'm tired to saying sorry. I'm tired to be saying

698
00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:14,040
Speaker 1: sorry to Can you just be nice? It would be nice.

699
00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:19,239
Speaker 1: But you know, the the optimistic part of me is,

700
00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:21,840
Speaker 1: like we talked about earlier, I mean, we wish this

701
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:24,399
Speaker 1: didn't have to happen at all. I know, I kind

702
00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:29,000
Speaker 1: of made the comment about it being inevitable because we

703
00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:30,680
Speaker 1: didn't really know how much weight it was going to

704
00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:33,680
Speaker 1: carry until we were in it, and unfortunately we got

705
00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:41,440
Speaker 1: in it like that, you know. So now that it

706
00:39:41,520 --> 00:39:46,399
Speaker 1: happened as quickly as it did, the silver lining from

707
00:39:46,560 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 1: from my point of view is, Okay, this will help me.

708
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:53,160
Speaker 1: I can learn from this. This will help me a

709
00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:58,000
Speaker 1: lot moving forward to consider, you know, to be consistent

710
00:39:58,120 --> 00:40:03,840
Speaker 1: and vigilant and staying steady, not putting myself in a

711
00:40:03,840 --> 00:40:06,919
Speaker 1: position where I have to say sorry for anything new,

712
00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:11,600
Speaker 1: and just creating safety for you in a place that

713
00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:18,600
Speaker 1: you didn't feel safe for a long time. Hm. Well,

714
00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:24,560
Speaker 1: I'll drink to that. I would like that. Hey, let's

715
00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:29,000
Speaker 1: lighten it up a little bit. Give me a parent confession.

716
00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:41,200
Speaker 1: Apparent apparent confession. Mm hmm. Today's parent confession. This week's

717
00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:44,440
Speaker 1: parent confession. We should do it every week. This week's

718
00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:52,200
Speaker 1: parent confession is you know, I'll say I was just

719
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:55,960
Speaker 1: saying I actually had mine is so bad. I had

720
00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:57,960
Speaker 1: one that I was gonna like even bring up to you,

721
00:40:58,000 --> 00:41:02,040
Speaker 1: pat like naturally. The other day I was gonna say, hey,

722
00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:06,160
Speaker 1: I was like kind of really short with Jolie, like

723
00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:09,960
Speaker 1: really short with her, and I got mad at her

724
00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:12,880
Speaker 1: really quick. The other day. I don't remember what for.

725
00:41:14,320 --> 00:41:16,440
Speaker 1: It was just she was, you know, she's in her

726
00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 1: three nager stage where it's just challenges everything, and with

727
00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:22,799
Speaker 1: the all the movie and everything, it was one of

728
00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:26,479
Speaker 1: those that afterwards, I felt like bad, I felt sad,

729
00:41:27,239 --> 00:41:30,040
Speaker 1: and it really it actually really bothered me. I'm like

730
00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:32,000
Speaker 1: my sweet girl was just trying to figure things out,

731
00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:34,719
Speaker 1: and I was just I was short with her, and

732
00:41:34,760 --> 00:41:37,000
Speaker 1: it really made me sad. It makes me sad right now.

733
00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:43,200
Speaker 1: I don't know you can do better. I mean you

734
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:46,720
Speaker 1: can well honestly. I mean that's why I like tonight

735
00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:48,600
Speaker 1: when I was giving her bath and she like, I

736
00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:52,319
Speaker 1: did better tonight. You know I did better tonight. And

737
00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:56,000
Speaker 1: I didn't get mad at her. I didn't, you know,

738
00:41:57,880 --> 00:42:01,319
Speaker 1: at all. I just, you know, her thing to kind

739
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:04,600
Speaker 1: of stop for her. What she does to make us

740
00:42:04,680 --> 00:42:07,759
Speaker 1: stop asking her to do what we want is she's like,

741
00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:12,799
Speaker 1: well I want to hug, right and the other the

742
00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:15,360
Speaker 1: other night when I was short with her, I was like, no, Jolie,

743
00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:16,919
Speaker 1: we have to do this. You know. It's like she's

744
00:42:16,960 --> 00:42:21,280
Speaker 1: asking for a hug m hm. And tonight I got stopped.

745
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:23,919
Speaker 1: Every time she wanted to hug. I was like, Okay,

746
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:26,600
Speaker 1: come me, baby, go give me hug. So I just

747
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:32,000
Speaker 1: I didn't I made it for it tonight. But yeah,

748
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:34,439
Speaker 1: I think every parent can relate to that though, where

749
00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:36,920
Speaker 1: you just it's a long day and you just want

750
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:38,319
Speaker 1: to go to bed. You just want to put them

751
00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:42,400
Speaker 1: in their bed and so you're not alone in that feeling.

752
00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:43,960
Speaker 1: I'm sure a lot of other people have felt the

753
00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:49,319
Speaker 1: same way. Yeah, I'm sure what was yours. Julie felt

754
00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:54,200
Speaker 1: today at school and I laughed inside because she was

755
00:42:54,280 --> 00:42:56,920
Speaker 1: making such a brat and she fell, and I was like,

756
00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:02,520
Speaker 1: that's what you get. Yeah. But then I felt bad

757
00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:04,839
Speaker 1: afterwards because I think she was embarrassed. So I think

758
00:43:04,840 --> 00:43:07,000
Speaker 1: she started I know, then I felt bad. I didn't.

759
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:13,799
Speaker 1: I laughed internally. I was like, uh huh, I know,

760
00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 1: so that's and she kind of looked and I was like,

761
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:18,439
Speaker 1: baby girl, it's okay. So the second I felt that

762
00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:21,120
Speaker 1: I went straight to it was it was a split

763
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:24,600
Speaker 1: second that you deserved it too, to oh you. And

764
00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:26,600
Speaker 1: I saw her look when she saw miss Holly, and

765
00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:29,399
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, baby, honey, it's okay. People fall

766
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:31,239
Speaker 1: the time, Honey, it's all right, get back up, you

767
00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:34,920
Speaker 1: got it. Yeah. That was the first kind of notice

768
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:38,080
Speaker 1: of her feeling like she was embarrassed, which then made

769
00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:40,600
Speaker 1: me want to cry and then also feel bad about

770
00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:42,360
Speaker 1: the fact that I just laughed her two seconds earlier

771
00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:46,680
Speaker 1: because she was just being such a brat, And I'm like, oh,

772
00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:51,359
Speaker 1: foret horrible. I mean, I love it, but the whole

773
00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:55,719
Speaker 1: embarrassed feeling is. I mean, I'll to this day, we'll

774
00:43:55,760 --> 00:43:58,200
Speaker 1: not forget the day that my brother, it was his

775
00:43:58,360 --> 00:44:03,120
Speaker 1: fifth grade recital at his school or they or the

776
00:44:03,160 --> 00:44:06,560
Speaker 1: play that they do for the parents and everybody else.

777
00:44:07,120 --> 00:44:13,040
Speaker 1: My brother stepped onto the stage and he fell. It's

778
00:44:13,040 --> 00:44:16,799
Speaker 1: not funny to it to this day. I mean, my

779
00:44:16,840 --> 00:44:19,400
Speaker 1: brothers in fifth grade, which means I was in second grade,

780
00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:22,359
Speaker 1: and I remember this like it was yesterday. It's been

781
00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:25,400
Speaker 1: the one memory that has stood with me since growing

782
00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:29,440
Speaker 1: up because my my brother, who I love more than anything,

783
00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:34,120
Speaker 1: he tripped. He had this cowboy hat on. The cowboy

784
00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:37,279
Speaker 1: hat fell off of him. Everyone started laughing, and I

785
00:44:37,320 --> 00:44:39,319
Speaker 1: started crying because I felt so bad for him because

786
00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:41,960
Speaker 1: I knew how embarrassed he was. And I'm just picturing

787
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:45,440
Speaker 1: a little Dylan right now or nephew. Yeah, he's just

788
00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:48,719
Speaker 1: a little Steve. Yeah. So I just like, I will

789
00:44:48,840 --> 00:44:50,919
Speaker 1: never forget that. And I bet you my brother doesn't

790
00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:54,279
Speaker 1: even remember that, but I do. It's that where I

791
00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:57,120
Speaker 1: just remember. I know he was embarrassed. I could see

792
00:44:57,160 --> 00:44:58,920
Speaker 1: it in his eyes, and I started crying because I

793
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:01,360
Speaker 1: felt bad for him because I knew he was embarrassed

794
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:04,000
Speaker 1: and being embarrasses. So, I mean, my mom tripped on

795
00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:07,200
Speaker 1: the stairs going up rumor like one of those restaurants,

796
00:45:07,560 --> 00:45:09,839
Speaker 1: and she was she started started crying. It's like, it's

797
00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:13,400
Speaker 1: so so hard to be like the feeling of being embarrassed.

798
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:18,640
Speaker 1: You know, do you get embarrassed, like I really don't.

799
00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:21,200
Speaker 1: You don't when I was younger, Yeah, I mean everyone

800
00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:25,920
Speaker 1: younger gets embarrassed. But now you were embarrassed when you

801
00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:27,840
Speaker 1: couldn't figure out how to put the car seat or

802
00:45:27,880 --> 00:45:33,719
Speaker 1: the stroller thing together. That wasn't And I don't know

803
00:45:33,760 --> 00:45:36,759
Speaker 1: if that was embarrassment that maybe maybe that was the

804
00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:40,399
Speaker 1: closest to embarrass I felt in a long time, which

805
00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:44,840
Speaker 1: was just ridiculous. I looked like that dad who doesn't

806
00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:47,560
Speaker 1: have a clue. This is in l A. And I

807
00:45:47,640 --> 00:45:50,600
Speaker 1: have both kids and we're parking at Valet off of

808
00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:54,080
Speaker 1: Rodeo there. I think we're meeting you for lunch. Yeah,

809
00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:57,800
Speaker 1: we're meeting for lunch. And it was a new stroller

810
00:45:57,920 --> 00:46:00,799
Speaker 1: and I hadn't used it yet or know, I know,

811
00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:03,279
Speaker 1: it's one that we hadn't used in a while, and

812
00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:04,719
Speaker 1: so I was so used to the other one and

813
00:46:04,760 --> 00:46:07,840
Speaker 1: how it opened and clothes I was sitting there at Valet,

814
00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:11,920
Speaker 1: I got Jolie's like crying, like wanting something. I've Jason

815
00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:14,799
Speaker 1: the car seat. There's like four cars lined up behind

816
00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:16,520
Speaker 1: me waiting for this a hole to get out of

817
00:46:16,520 --> 00:46:18,640
Speaker 1: the way so they can park their car. And I'm

818
00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:22,080
Speaker 1: sitting here trying to like pull the cars at the

819
00:46:22,160 --> 00:46:24,160
Speaker 1: stroller apart. And I was like, I could not figure

820
00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:26,200
Speaker 1: it out. And I was just like every car behind

821
00:46:26,239 --> 00:46:28,239
Speaker 1: me is like, oh, dad has his first day with

822
00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:31,279
Speaker 1: the kids by himself. He can't handle it, you know.

823
00:46:31,360 --> 00:46:34,239
Speaker 1: So yes, I think that was embarrassment because I was like,

824
00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:36,680
Speaker 1: and even though no one was saying anything, I just

825
00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:38,480
Speaker 1: wanted to look at every car is like, I know

826
00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:44,279
Speaker 1: what I'm doing. I'm actually a great father. I can

827
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:52,359
Speaker 1: sac o. I hope people get that reference better better.

828
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:57,680
Speaker 1: So you've been embarrassed, Yes, I know, I know you're

829
00:46:58,080 --> 00:47:02,400
Speaker 1: I know yours. That is a story that will be

830
00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:05,759
Speaker 1: taking to the grave even maybe I could tell it.

831
00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:09,640
Speaker 1: Do I say it? Because it's so embarrassing. It's probably

832
00:47:09,640 --> 00:47:11,920
Speaker 1: the most It is by far the most embarrassing thing

833
00:47:11,960 --> 00:47:15,240
Speaker 1: I've ever been through my entire life. And I've always

834
00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:16,799
Speaker 1: said I would take it to my grave, but now

835
00:47:16,840 --> 00:47:19,080
Speaker 1: I feel like, maybe I should take it to the

836
00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:21,239
Speaker 1: Do I take it to the grave? No, I think

837
00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:26,520
Speaker 1: you should. If Mark was here, he'd be like, Wow, Danna, Dad,

838
00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:29,400
Speaker 1: Papa Mark. Yeah, I think you should tell the people

839
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:33,520
Speaker 1: that you will produce the heck out of it. But

840
00:47:33,520 --> 00:47:36,719
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm embarrassed. I'm actually like genuinely embarrassed.

841
00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:39,880
Speaker 1: Do you do you get embarrassed? Do I get embarrassed

842
00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:45,839
Speaker 1: all the time? Really? I mean, I haven't had a situation.

843
00:47:46,360 --> 00:47:48,839
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think the last time I actually got embarrassed.

844
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Speaker 1: You know, I get embarrassed when I say things that

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Speaker 1: I don't mean. So if I'm talking to some more diiffer,

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Speaker 1: I'm playing a show and I say something trying to

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Speaker 1: be funny and it's not funny, I get embarrassed. That's

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Speaker 1: when That's when I get embarrassed. So that's that is

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Speaker 1: that is where I come. Then I just shut up

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Speaker 1: by you laughing. You know what I'm talking about? What

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Speaker 1: you're talking about? Yeah, But yeah, I don't. I just

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Speaker 1: don't know what I would get embarrassed about. Like, I

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Speaker 1: don't really get nervous. I'm really embarrassed. That's just kind

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Speaker 1: of how I've been since I've been an adult. But anyways,

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Speaker 1: so back to your story. Please tell the people, Yes,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, just be ready for for our

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Speaker 1: our boy over there at US Weekly. I mean, if

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Speaker 1: you want that to be the headline please by all

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Speaker 1: means you're right, I'm not gonna say it. People are

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Speaker 1: gonna be dying to hear it now. I'm not ready.

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Speaker 1: It's so bad Eastan is about to get this story

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Speaker 1: behind the scenes. I just don't think because we think

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Speaker 1: they'd actually run that. Probably I would. That's so embarrassing. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'd probably Wait. Okay, man, we're talking about a tease.

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Speaker 1: What we did te I mean it's tease. Maybe I'll

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Speaker 1: talk her into it next week. I don't think it's

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Speaker 1: gonna happen because that. Okay, Can we take a break

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Speaker 1: because now I'm getting nervous and embarrassed? All right, take

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Speaker 1: you guys have had some good takeaways, some good laughs,

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Speaker 1: and learned something along the way for this podcast. And uh,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm not going to bust my bubble on

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Speaker 1: the most embarrassing story, but it's it's that bad. But

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Speaker 1: maybe if you guys send me in your most embarrassing stories,

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Speaker 1: courage to actually tell my story. Yeah, send some of

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Speaker 1: your stories. They can be anonymous obviously, and we love

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Speaker 1: to read some of those and to try to boost

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Speaker 1: stand up because you guys are going to want to

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Speaker 1: has been great there because I got chance and waffles.

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Speaker 1: Just laying by my feet, just hanging out. Kids are upstairs.

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Speaker 1: They went straight to bed. They did They did great,

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Speaker 1: no struggle all right now Mom wants to get to bed.

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Speaker 1: I love you,