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Speaker 2: Wait, he broke up with you with a letter, not

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Speaker 2: I'm sure it's too long, but what are some of

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Speaker 1: First of all, he tried to isolate me with the letter.

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Speaker 1: Now what he meant by that was for an entire year,

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Speaker 1: that's where I went back to. But you're my husband

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Speaker 4: Because I'm your wife number one. I know it's a controversial,

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, no, no, she's talking about the TikTok, Bitch.

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Speaker 3: I came over. One day, I came over his house

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Speaker 3: I'm walking I'm walking around his room, gathering all my

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Speaker 3: he's putting mascara on his eyelash in a stroking motion.

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Speaker 3: I said, nigga, live, well not he about to say

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Speaker 3: you a story, she said. I I know that this.

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Speaker 2: Nigga says, oh no, no, no, not mine in that

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Speaker 4: Oh man, you a dumb ass, But it wasn't when

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Speaker 3: I am enraged at this point. Now I'm like, no,

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Speaker 3: niggas stopped playing with me. I know it's not yours. WTF.

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Speaker 3: I immediately start grabbing my clothes paster, because now all

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Speaker 3: I want to do is get the fuck out of there.

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Speaker 3: The next thing I hear is Google Translate talking saying

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Speaker 3: in proper in the proper English voice, No, baby, it

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Speaker 3: was before you.

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Speaker 2: So now we arguing be a Google.

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Speaker 3: Translate because Nigga, I just cleaned your house a couple

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Speaker 4: Just imagine this setting the scene visual this is crazy

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Speaker 4: like and you hand the phone.

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Speaker 2: No, no, that bad. That's I know this did good,

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Speaker 3: And now we're arguing be a Google Translate, cause nigga,

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Speaker 3: I just cleaned your house a couple of days ago,

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Speaker 3: and now you're trying to tell me I.

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Speaker 2: I must didn't see it when I was cleaning.

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Speaker 3: And it's not his job to go through his part

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Speaker 3: of his apartment to ensure I'm not upset from the

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Speaker 3: things I find from previous relationships. But damn I am

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Speaker 3: thought to type it out to make sure you understand.

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Speaker 2: And two, now I gotta wait on you to type

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Speaker 2: your damn response out.

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Speaker 3: Did this has to be the stupidest, craziest shit I

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Speaker 3: Fast forward a week later, I've pacified myself into saying,

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Speaker 3: maybe he was telling the truth.

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Speaker 2: Jody My Jody. So, oh, oh, maybe he was telling

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Speaker 2: the truth. I am tripping. Where where am I where?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 3: I'm back at his house in his bed, Jody my Jody.

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Speaker 3: So we are covered up, watching a movie and talking.

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Speaker 3: So of course we are using the Google Translate on

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Speaker 3: his phone, and as I'm typing my part, his WhatsApp

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Speaker 3: is just steady.

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Speaker 2: Bing bing bing old baby.

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 3: I said, fuck this translate and I tapped it when

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Speaker 3: I say holes galore and every conbo was straight French.

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Speaker 3: But what I did understand is baby and kissy face

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Speaker 3: emojis to death.

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Speaker 2: Coming from and kiss. So I say, what's this? Why

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Speaker 2: are you calling all these host baby? He says?

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Speaker 3: The convos in French? Are he says, the convos in French?

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Speaker 3: Why are you assuming? I said, assume I know what

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Speaker 3: baby looks like. It translates about the same. So we

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Speaker 3: get into it, and mind you, we are still using

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Speaker 3: Google Translate. I go back to the WhatsApp and bitch

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Speaker 3: it log down.

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Speaker 4: I thought, it's fucked up that you're going through this.

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Speaker 2: But Dan, this is girl niggas.

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Speaker 3: They don't speak English, cheat too, So she said, so

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Speaker 3: we get into it, and mind you, we are still

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Speaker 3: using Google Translate. I go back to the WhatsApp and bitch,

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Speaker 3: it's logged out. I get up yet again. I'm leaving

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Speaker 3: because what the fuck you log out for? If I'm

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Speaker 3: assuming now you look guilty as fuck?

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Speaker 2: He goes. He goes. They're all back home, so it

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Speaker 2: doesn't matter. I can't see them. I just see you, nigga. Bet.

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Speaker 3: I'm throwing on my clothes and I'm like, fucking done.

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Speaker 3: I deleted his number right then and there and hit block.

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Speaker 3: He sees it and barricades me in his apartment, snatches

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Speaker 3: my phone and won't give it back. So now we

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Speaker 3: are fighting over my phone because he is mad that

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Speaker 3: I deleted his number. He is steady trying to call

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Speaker 3: his phone from my phone to be able to unblock it,

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Speaker 3: and I just really wanted to go. Granted, he's six'

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Speaker 3: two And i'm five, four and he is solid and

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Speaker 3: refusing to let me out of his apartment UNTIL i

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Speaker 3: basically get the fuck over.

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Speaker 2: It i'm, like how the fuck did this?

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Speaker 4: Go so?

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Speaker 3: Left so fast and with a NIGGA i don't even

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Speaker 3: understand to say the, Least it's, Over and, yes it

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Speaker 3: was definitely. Giving i've flown To africa and that nigga temper.

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Speaker 3: FLARED i wouldn't have ever been flying, back and yet

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Speaker 3: let him tell, It i'm the crazy.

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Speaker 2: One she.

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Speaker 3: Said she feels like had she let that nigga fly

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Speaker 3: her To, africa she feel.

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Speaker 2: Like she wouldn't have even been able.

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Speaker 3: To she wouldn't have gotten back To, america which lets me,

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Speaker 3: know outside of that nigga be in a, liar outside

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Speaker 3: of that nigga be in a, cheater you just got the,

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Speaker 3: slightest the slightest hint that he possibly could be abusive

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Speaker 3: to or.

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Speaker 2: Controlling, bitch don't you ever go back to that Non?

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Speaker 2: English what was the? Hint because he was barricading in black.

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Speaker 3: Barricaded, yeah he, barricaded the sashed the phone out her,

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Speaker 3: hand and she even her even mentioning the size difference

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Speaker 3: in the two of.

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Speaker 2: Them, bro she felt barricaded at his.

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Speaker 4: House you know WHAT i took from, this like it's

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Speaker 4: crazy because we see images like this in a movie so,

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Speaker 4: much someone trying to block the, door stop you while you're, moving.

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Speaker 2: Etc that.

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Speaker 4: It's almost, LIKE i don't, Know i've never gotten that

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Speaker 4: bad of an argument with my. Boyfriend but if that did,

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Speaker 4: happen imagine how used to Be like how toxicity translates to. Love,

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Speaker 4: yeah he not even be an abusive man more than he.

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Speaker 4: Thought that's what she, wanted not to let her.

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Speaker 2: Go you know What i'm. Saying, OKAY i have a

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Speaker 2: tox somewhere now with, HER i.

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Speaker 4: Believe but a lot of women be, like, No i'm,

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Speaker 4: done let me, go but they really want them to

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Speaker 4: get a.

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Speaker 2: Bag now here's my toxic take on.

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Speaker 3: This oh and weezy chake me If i'm.

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Speaker 2: Wrong the last email she, wrote they were just.

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Speaker 3: Fucking they were not when they were, not they were

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Speaker 3: not in a. Relationship she even was just SAYING i

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Speaker 3: would be open to a, relationship BUT i got him

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Speaker 3: by ten. YEARS i don't understand his, language AND i

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Speaker 3: would probably be embarrassed to even meet his. Family so

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Speaker 3: is it okay for me to keep fucking this man

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Speaker 3: THAT i don't?

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Speaker 2: Understand and you saying that you shouldn't even be mad

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Speaker 2: a part of me if you're. Not now here's the.

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Speaker 3: Thing if y'all had the conversation Through Google translate about

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Speaker 3: being exclusive and not fucking other, people, Sure but if

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Speaker 3: it wasn't the, conversation y'all weren't leading into getting into

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Speaker 3: anything exclusive or in a, relationship and you really were

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Speaker 3: just fucking him and having. FUN i think you getting

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Speaker 3: so upset about the mascara and you getting upset about

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Speaker 3: the other girls is a little nutty unless you were

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Speaker 3: fucking him.

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Speaker 2: Unprotected and Then i'm just gonna call you a stupid,

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Speaker 2: bitch because if.

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Speaker 3: You don't even understand this, man you're not gonna be

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Speaker 3: in a relationship with. Him to, me having unprotected sex

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Speaker 3: with a man that you don't see long, Term heaven

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Speaker 3: forbid you gotta have a baby with. Him but y'all

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Speaker 3: about to communicate cole parenting and raising a child Through Google.

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Speaker 2: Translate like my.

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Speaker 3: Advice to you last time was maybe if you liked,

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Speaker 3: him to get your ass on motherfucking uh. Uh you

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Speaker 3: know what's the thing that teaches you other? Languages du, lingo,

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Speaker 3: doolingo stop, it get your ass on the YouTube and

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Speaker 3: learn Some.

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Speaker 2: French we.

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Speaker 4: Will i'm not gonna hold you while you were reading.

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Speaker 4: IT i was just enjoying the. Mess one of the

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Speaker 4: THINGS i actually thought of, was, oh is there SOMETHING

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Speaker 4: i missed about them being?

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Speaker 2: Together, no they weren't literally her last last email literally

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Speaker 2: talked about NO i meant in the. Update, no there

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Speaker 2: was nothing of the update that.

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Speaker 4: They were even an interesting, thing, right because it's, like,

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Speaker 4: one you can get mad there's another woman in his,

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Speaker 4: life but two can you get mad if the way

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Speaker 4: you were talking a few weeks ago sounded like you

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Speaker 4: were completely? Disinterested SHOULD i stop? Fucking SHOULD i do?

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Speaker 4: This and also what if he basically was, Like, Oh

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Speaker 4: i'm enjoying my time with you. Here BUT i thought long,

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Speaker 4: term like you're not Learning, french so this ain't gonna

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Speaker 4: work out because assuming that he's Learning english on the

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Speaker 4: daily because he's working in The.

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Speaker 3: STATES i also want to tell you how ignorant she,

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Speaker 3: sounds only Because i'm looking back at her last. Email

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Speaker 3: she said he invited me To South, africa but then

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Speaker 3: in this update she calling Him nigerian. Bitch nigeria is

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Speaker 3: In West. Africa Is South africa in a completely different part.

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Speaker 2: Calling you To South.

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Speaker 4: AFRICA a lot Of nigerians like traveling, man but.

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Speaker 2: She made it seem like that's where he's.

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Speaker 3: From she, said, however he has invited me back home

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Speaker 3: To South. AFRICA i don't know about LIKE i don't

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Speaker 3: know maybe that could be my, Ignorance but, bitch is

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Speaker 3: He South, african which is his own? Word is He

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Speaker 3: nigerian because you calling him A nigerian in this in this?

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Speaker 4: Email, yeah But South africans Speak english like apparently only

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Speaker 4: eight which is also. Weird, well No South africans speak

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Speaker 4: full On zulu Or.

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Speaker 3: African well it's, not it's Not african or she, said

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Speaker 3: his language Is.

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Speaker 4: French that's What i'm, Saying SO i DON'T i don't

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Speaker 4: think He's South. AFRICAN i don't, know, Child that's WHAT

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Speaker 4: i mean by. That if he Was South, african the

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Speaker 4: chance of him only speak like speaking like.

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Speaker 3: Well first of, all be very, Clear french isn't Even

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Speaker 3: that's What i'm.

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Speaker 2: Saying that's What i'm. Saying so let me. Even here's

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Speaker 2: the thing too.

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Speaker 3: About that, Right, Congo, Senegal cameroon And molly Speak French Ivory.

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Speaker 2: Coast maybe she Means. NIGE i don't. Know she Says

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Speaker 2: South africa in the first.

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Speaker 3: Email, listen ALL i know is we have to get

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Speaker 3: to a point where we have a. Globe well that, too,

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Speaker 3: bitch y'all know geography is not but your problem.

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Speaker 4: Just maybe living In South. Africa but that sounds like

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Speaker 4: He's segalese Or congolese or.

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Speaker 3: Something whatever he. Is she don't know how to talk to.

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Speaker 3: Him she, mad did he a? Liar but, also, girl

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Speaker 3: you were just having a whole dilemma as to what

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Speaker 3: you should do with, him because you really just like

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Speaker 3: that you're getting dicked down and that nigga cooked for.

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Speaker 2: YOU i think that's the. PROBLEM a lot of us

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Speaker 2: get into these, little.

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Speaker 3: Real, casual real real flirty time, situationships and then when

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Speaker 3: we realized we're not the only, one we blow the fucking.

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Speaker 2: Casket SO i think there's a few things.

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Speaker 4: Here and this is what loneliness and not dating other

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Speaker 4: people attributes. To no, shade because maybe you. Aren't so

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Speaker 4: WHEN i was, YOUNGER i dated This russian. Nigga he's

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Speaker 4: really From, moldova but for, y'all This. Russian SO i was,

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Speaker 2: Shit.

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Speaker 4: Whatever when he approached me one day and, SAID i

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Speaker 4: feel like you don't really like, me AND i was

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Speaker 3: HIM i was going crazy about him breaking up with. Me,

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Speaker 3: basically he was saying to, me, LIKE i really want

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Speaker 3: like you have that lust for.

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Speaker 2: Now you wanted you to be, ubsessed.

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Speaker 4: Bitch AND i. WAS i was obsessed with the chicken.

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Speaker 4: SOUP i was obsessed with the. SAKE i was obsessed

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Speaker 4: with the.

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Speaker 4: Was he taught me and my mama how to cook

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Speaker 4: Go AND i remember if any was going in on

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Speaker 4: me back, then he was, like, girl you just don't

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Speaker 4: want to let this nigga go because he's doing all

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Speaker 4: of the things that make you feel like you have a,

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Speaker 4: boyfriend and so it just satisfies the. Itch you not

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Speaker 4: dating other niggas because you got him around to eat

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Speaker 4: and fuck, you don't really like.

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Speaker 2: Him but he's just feeling the.

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Speaker 4: Place oh the way that she sounded from that last, email,

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Speaker 4: bitch if you really like a, nigga you're finna take

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Speaker 4: night classes to Learn.

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Speaker 2: FRENCH i. AGREE i said. THAT i, said if you

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Speaker 3: Language but yet you CALL i mean to block him

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Speaker 3: overseeing him text other women and finding a Mess.

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Speaker 2: Kara but he's not your exclusive.

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Speaker 3: Partner y'all aren't together and you literally are just getting

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Speaker 2: Him, girl you might be. CRAZY i ain't gonna hold,

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Speaker 2: you but you know, what this is my final piece of.

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Speaker 4: Advice this is a testimony to no matter how old you,

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Speaker 4: i meet his mama and blah blah. Blah this is

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Speaker 4: a testimony, that no matter how old you, are sometimes

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