WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Disorder In The Court

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<v Speaker 1>The second date of d A true romantic person can

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<v Speaker 1>make a date night out of literally any situation, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's why for their third wedding anniversary, Brook and her

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<v Speaker 1>husband emptied the septic tank together at her parents log cabin,

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<v Speaker 1>which set the mood just right. I hope you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>go rolling around in the mud.

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<v Speaker 2>If you know what, I get your waiters on, Honey,

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<v Speaker 2>it looks like there's a clog.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's how her son Alder came to be. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>ever tell him.

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<v Speaker 3>The tree roots that were causing the problems.

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<v Speaker 1>Our listeners. Jeremy says he came up with a pretty

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<v Speaker 1>unique date idea that he doesn't think has ever been

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<v Speaker 1>done before. And I'm wondering, Jeremy, was raw sewage involved

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<v Speaker 1>in your date night? Or are you not as romantic

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<v Speaker 1>as Brook is?

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe not as romantic as all that.

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<v Speaker 3>Get there someday.

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<v Speaker 1>To a spy. But tell us about the lady that

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<v Speaker 1>you met. What's her name?

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<v Speaker 4>Sure, her name's Tessa. We met through a dating app,

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<v Speaker 4>like a lot of people my age do.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, how long did you guys like text or DM

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<v Speaker 2>before you met up?

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<v Speaker 4>We were like talking for about like three to four weeks.

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<v Speaker 4>Wore on app. I've been single for a little bit

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<v Speaker 4>and we really connected over true crime podcasts. I'm really

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<v Speaker 4>into it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so not so much like raw sewage as like

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<v Speaker 1>human blood and internal organs. See, it's still sexy in

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<v Speaker 1>a way.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's gross.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So you both bonded over true crime?

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<v Speaker 3>How do you make a date out of that?

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<v Speaker 1>Though?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you gonna listen to a podcast together?

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<v Speaker 4>Actually that's where this is going. So you know, since

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<v Speaker 4>we're both into true crime, I have this idea of like,

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<v Speaker 4>why don't we just go to the courthouse, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>and like just fit in on like actual trial.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, Oh my god. You know, real trials

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<v Speaker 3>are real boring.

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<v Speaker 1>Alexis just first thought. Guy wants to take you to

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<v Speaker 1>a courthouse sexy.

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<v Speaker 3>Or no, not sexy? No, what if the guy's a lawyer?

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to say, Rich, wait, what's the case?

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<v Speaker 5>Like?

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<v Speaker 3>Am I into it?

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<v Speaker 1>Like the drama?

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<v Speaker 3>You know?

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<v Speaker 1>The person on trial?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>What was it?

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<v Speaker 2>Like?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it was actually really boring?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, how long did you guys stay?

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<v Speaker 4>We sat in on one trial and it wasn't like

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<v Speaker 4>obviously like a murder case or something really huge. It

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<v Speaker 4>was just domestic assault kind of thing, and that was boring.

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<v Speaker 3>It's depressing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like you're on a first date talking about relationships

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<v Speaker 2>and then you're seeing the worst of the worship.

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<v Speaker 1>On the bright side, it makes you look really really

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<v Speaker 1>good as an option romantically. It's like, at least it

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't be that bad. At least I'm on this side

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<v Speaker 1>of the jail. Celler. They stayed through the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 4>We like hopped around, you know, like we actually sat

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<v Speaker 4>in another one and again it was just like a

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<v Speaker 4>traffic violation, so nothing exciting going on there.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's like three hours, like, yeah he was jaywalking.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, this is hot.

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<v Speaker 4>We went to the cafeteria in the courthouse and we

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<v Speaker 4>just had some lunch.

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<v Speaker 1>I've actually heard doing the segment what you at the

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<v Speaker 1>Courthouse that the that the caffetiers are pretty fire, Like

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<v Speaker 1>they have nachos and pizza slices and stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, pretty fire for like stadium fereuntains.

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<v Speaker 1>Again, like people can make a romantic date of anything.

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<v Speaker 3>You're on a date. What was her reaction, Well.

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<v Speaker 4>She seemed to be like kind of bummed out and everything,

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<v Speaker 4>like she was on her phone quite a bit. I

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<v Speaker 4>guess you didn't find it as interesting as well. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>it's like, not my fault, I would courthouse has had

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<v Speaker 4>more stuff going on. I can't control that, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>So you needed to be more.

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<v Speaker 3>Like murder entertainment like they do on podcasts and TV.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know what I'm saying. Iron It's like you

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<v Speaker 1>like true crime podcasts, but you don't like true crime

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<v Speaker 1>like in real life. Well, I hope you went on

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<v Speaker 1>Yelp and left a bad review for Where's the romantic

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<v Speaker 1>atmosphere in here?

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<v Speaker 3>Were you guys able to get back on track?

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<v Speaker 2>Ever?

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<v Speaker 4>Not really? I mean that I suggested, like, hey, do

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<v Speaker 4>you want to go like see a movie or something? Instead?

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<v Speaker 4>It was still early afternoon, so we had the whole day,

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<v Speaker 4>and she's like, oh, I got the single one on

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<v Speaker 4>later day with my friends, so I'm not available.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean after a few hours you kind of that's

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<v Speaker 1>your window.

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<v Speaker 3>Well interesting you suggested another activity where you just sit and.

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<v Speaker 4>Not talk again. I'm now just seeing that.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, clearly a few regrets. Looking back on your date,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, how did it end?

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<v Speaker 4>I just kind of petered out, you know, just said

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<v Speaker 4>all right, well, I'll catch you later, just like I

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<v Speaker 4>catch on the cheek and I haven't really gotten I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>she's kind of responded my text, but very short answers,

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<v Speaker 4>not really engaging, you know, kind of putting off another date.

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<v Speaker 4>So I just I need to kind a winner back.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you guys have any ideas, like date night ideas

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<v Speaker 4>or something.

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<v Speaker 3>I was going to ask you what you do differently

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<v Speaker 3>if you got another chance.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think we'd obviously go to the courthouse again

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<v Speaker 4>unless there's something really juicy, no, thank you. You know

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<v Speaker 4>what if it had been like one of those Netflix

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<v Speaker 4>true crime stories that we happen to be like a

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<v Speaker 4>part of that history, that would have been a game changer.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't think.

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<v Speaker 1>That happens at the local court, but at least now

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<v Speaker 1>we have something to work with. We're going to google

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<v Speaker 1>some of the biggest crimes that have happened locally in

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<v Speaker 1>our area and maybe we can send you to one

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<v Speaker 1>of those court cases to get her on the phone.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's just go with drinks. Maybe you guys should just

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<v Speaker 3>go get drinks.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll start with drinks, then we'll build up to the

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<v Speaker 1>really romantic stuff and we'll do your second date update

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<v Speaker 1>right after this.

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<v Speaker 4>Cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on, Wow, what a great idea for a first date.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're into true crime, just head right to the

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<v Speaker 1>source and bring your special lady down to the courthouse

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<v Speaker 1>so the two of you can laugh and make fun

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<v Speaker 1>of the criminals being prosecuted for low level misdemeanors and

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<v Speaker 1>then share a hot kiss during the sentences?

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<v Speaker 5>Is that probation and they didn't get to the sentencing

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<v Speaker 5>party before?

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<v Speaker 3>That's why they didn't kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying, where's that suggestion in Cosmo Magazine's Hot

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<v Speaker 1>Date Night tips?

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<v Speaker 5>It's probably there, probably because that's really where Jeremy took

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<v Speaker 5>Tessa the other day for their first meetup, because the

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<v Speaker 5>two of them bonded over true crime documentaries while they

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<v Speaker 5>were talking online and thought it might be fun to show.

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<v Speaker 1>Up to a real one. They quickly realized court isn't

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<v Speaker 1>quite as exciting as it seems on the Netflix shows

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<v Speaker 1>and Judge Judy, so the romance never really materialize and

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<v Speaker 1>he's just really hoping for a redo num right, Jeremy.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's exactly right, I'm hoping for I don't think

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<v Speaker 4>you should beat yourself up over this, though, because it

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<v Speaker 4>was I mean, Tessa was into it too, like it

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<v Speaker 4>was your decision together.

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<v Speaker 3>It sounds like to go to it. So maybe she's

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<v Speaker 3>having the same.

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<v Speaker 2>Regret right now, like, ah, we would have done something different,

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<v Speaker 2>it would have worked out, but we did it. Should

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<v Speaker 2>call him back, I know, because because they had bad vibes,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like the vibes could never get on, so

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<v Speaker 2>you just you don't want to call people back after that.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she needs a little nudge from us.

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<v Speaker 4>Yea.

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<v Speaker 1>Possibly she fell in love with the defendant, those bad boys.

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<v Speaker 1>They always three years for him to get out.

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<v Speaker 3>The bailiffs.

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<v Speaker 1>Make good money.

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<v Speaker 4>That better not. It happened that bailiff was at least sixteen, So.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, Alexis. But we'll see what Tessa has to say.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in a call her number right now, right all right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully she answers. Let's see, hopefully she's not missing.

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<v Speaker 4>Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey is this Tessa? Yes, Tessa? What's up? My name

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<v Speaker 1>is jeff from a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning and a podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>She's really familiar with podcasts.

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<v Speaker 3>You want to bring that up.

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<v Speaker 2>What show are you calling from?

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<v Speaker 1>It's called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't I don't know what that is.

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<v Speaker 1>We're on radio, We're on podcasts or on YouTube. We're

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<v Speaker 1>all over the place.

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<v Speaker 3>You should listen.

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<v Speaker 6>Radio still exists.

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<v Speaker 5>That hurt.

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<v Speaker 3>That hurt, Tessa, that was like right in my heart. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>that was not called for.

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<v Speaker 1>And yes it does. That was a first degree stabbing

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<v Speaker 1>in public. But that's also why we have a podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>We're going to forgive you though, if you can give

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<v Speaker 1>us some answers that we've been looking for to help

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<v Speaker 1>out our listener named Jeremy.

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<v Speaker 6>Wait, Jeremy the guy I went on a day with.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right, you do remember why did he call you? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>because he had a well, I can't even say he

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<v Speaker 1>had a great time. He he told us that you

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<v Speaker 1>two met up the other day at a courthouse for

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<v Speaker 1>a date, and even he admits that maybe it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>the best date idea.

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<v Speaker 2>You thought it was a good idea going in as well,

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<v Speaker 2>right to do the courthouse thing since you both like

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<v Speaker 2>true crime?

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<v Speaker 6>He said, well, okay, so just for doing this. I

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<v Speaker 6>definitely was open to the idea because we certainly have

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<v Speaker 6>the podcasting in common. But yeah, I mean it was

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<v Speaker 6>pretty snoozefest.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll admit he feels really bad that he went through

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<v Speaker 1>with that, and wants to switch things up for another

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<v Speaker 1>meetup something more exciting. Uh, I mean sensing some hesitation

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<v Speaker 1>though from you.

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<v Speaker 6>It sounds like he didn't give you all the details.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean he said, you guys went and ate in

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<v Speaker 2>the cafeteria. Was that lame because that sounds kind of lame.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean that was like probably the least concerning part

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<v Speaker 6>of the day. Lunch was fine.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh there was a concerning part.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, what was that?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know if I was going to get him

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<v Speaker 6>in trouble. But the minute we got there, he was

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<v Speaker 6>like immediately like, oh, let's go to the third floor.

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<v Speaker 6>And I was like, oh, have you been here before?

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<v Speaker 6>Do you like do this often?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 6>And he's like, I've been here before. I was involved

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<v Speaker 6>in a Ponzi scheme when I was younger, so I

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<v Speaker 6>had a trial up on the third floor. I know

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<v Speaker 6>that they do some good trials up there.

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<v Speaker 1>Scammer. We didn't get that detail when we talked to him.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, And it is honest, but he's so casually dropped

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<v Speaker 3>it like it didn't mean anything to him.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I mean I guess like he kind of explained

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<v Speaker 6>that like he got accused that he wasn't convicted of anything.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 6>He just was like, yeah, I know my way around

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<v Speaker 6>since I've been here before.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so he was innocent. So is it just that

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<v Speaker 2>history that turned you off?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, you want to talk about history. So the first

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<v Speaker 6>trial was boring, so we left and he was like,

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<v Speaker 6>let's go down the hallway to this other room. He's like,

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<v Speaker 6>I know this fun. I had to go to this trial.

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<v Speaker 3>For a different reason.

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<v Speaker 1>He's had to go to court multiple times.

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<v Speaker 6>God, because he was caught passing bad check and it's all.

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<v Speaker 3>For like, boy doesn't have a lot of money.

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<v Speaker 1>So is that something that turns you on or turns

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<v Speaker 1>you on? Because now I'm kind of getting interested because.

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<v Speaker 6>I was like, oh, so you've been to court twice

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<v Speaker 6>and he's like, oh yeah, on my twenties, I like

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<v Speaker 6>found myself in the court system quite a bit. He's like,

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<v Speaker 6>I even got wrongly accused of simple assault in a

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<v Speaker 6>park fight.

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<v Speaker 1>What what?

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<v Speaker 2>It's never good when the person's always wrongly accused, Like

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<v Speaker 2>if it's like you're.

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<v Speaker 3>Multiple over and over again.

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<v Speaker 2>At some points, the accusations were probably.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like he's just in the wrong place at

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<v Speaker 1>the wrong time all the time. Every place.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm like, maybe there should be a podcast about him,

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<v Speaker 6>like we're doing it right now.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh no, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Gotta tell you Jeremy's been there.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, Tessa, there he is.

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<v Speaker 2>Man.

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<v Speaker 3>That sounds like a hardened criminal.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not breaking the law right now, I promise you that.

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<v Speaker 4>And as I said before, I had a pretty wild

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<v Speaker 4>time in my teens in my twenties, but that's all

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<v Speaker 4>in the past. And change man. Yeah, I am a

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<v Speaker 4>changed man. And I mean I was honest with you,

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<v Speaker 4>and I let that part of my life available to you.

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<v Speaker 4>And I thought you might connect and be sympathetic because

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<v Speaker 4>you're into true crime. But I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>That's a lot. That's a lot like how did you

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<v Speaker 6>get reformed? Did you get some sort of help or

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<v Speaker 6>therapy or something, because that seems extreme to go through.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't quite believe that you're fully changed. I mean,

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<v Speaker 6>do people ever really change?

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<v Speaker 4>WHOA Wow, that's a very cynical view of things, and

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<v Speaker 4>it seems very judgmental of you right now.

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<v Speaker 6>Actually, I've never been arrested for anything, so I can't

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<v Speaker 6>imagine your pleasure.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's a good point. Some people completely change around.

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<v Speaker 4>I think.

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<v Speaker 1>I did.

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<v Speaker 3>A guy that was a convicted grand theft auto.

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<v Speaker 1>He had that and that was It's not something that

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<v Speaker 1>most people bragging about.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just saying it didn't divine who he was. He

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<v Speaker 3>made a bad choice when he was young, like that happens.

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<v Speaker 3>He had a pretty good explanation for everything.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you still with him?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 1>Weird? Why not the grand theft auto?

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<v Speaker 2>Guy?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean there was some other Maybe you should practice

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<v Speaker 1>what you preach, Brooke.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't break up with him because of his felony.

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<v Speaker 1>Overall, Tessa, it sounds to me like Jeremy is being

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<v Speaker 1>upfront with you, at least about his past. He's not

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<v Speaker 1>trying to hide it from you. He's putting it all

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<v Speaker 1>out there.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm literally broadcasting it on the radio now. Apparently.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and listen, anyone on the run would not go

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<v Speaker 2>to the courthouse, Okay, if he was wanted for something,

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<v Speaker 2>that's not what he would do.

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<v Speaker 6>Sure, yeah, but how do I know that? I don't

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<v Speaker 6>know that for sure. Like maybe he's like going to

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<v Speaker 6>these courtrooms to like learn about how he can be

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<v Speaker 6>better at crime.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know how you approach every man is there's

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<v Speaker 4>a potential that things can go bad.

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<v Speaker 6>Therefore, not every man a beating has committed a Ponzi

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<v Speaker 6>scheme and try things so some works.

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<v Speaker 1>And in his defense, he was absolved of every crime

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<v Speaker 1>he got accused of so until proven guilty. And I

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<v Speaker 1>would like to give him the chance to prove just

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<v Speaker 1>how boring he really is by sending you on another

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<v Speaker 1>date with him, and we would pay for it.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what, I'm never going to jump in here.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to go ahead and pass myself. Oh he's

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<v Speaker 4>very judgemental.

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<v Speaker 1>Bad boy jumping into saying I don't play by the

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<v Speaker 1>rules of the radio anymore. I want to do it

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<v Speaker 1>my way.

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<v Speaker 6>Thank you for declining me, because I was about to.

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't want to have to hurt your feelings, but

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<v Speaker 6>you just showed your Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>Look at that. A guy commits a few, several dozen

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<v Speaker 1>crimes in his life and suddenly he's labeled a bad guy. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess dismissed.

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<v Speaker 3>We need a gavel.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have a gavel. I have a tape dispenser

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<v Speaker 1>in here. So the court dismissed. That just broke the

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<v Speaker 1>tape dispenser. Look what you did, Jeremy. You broke my

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<v Speaker 1>tape dispens put his wanted poster on our wall to.

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<v Speaker 4>The tap.

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<v Speaker 1>Rook Jeffrey in the morning. You know, I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 1>think about what would have made that courtroom date even

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<v Speaker 1>worse than it already was. Is there anything worse than

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<v Speaker 1>admitting to all the times you've ever had to make

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<v Speaker 1>an appearance in the courtroom before that moment?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean, if you're at the place where it happened,

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<v Speaker 3>how could it not be top of mind?

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<v Speaker 1>For Yeah, I've been here many times. It brings back

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<v Speaker 1>so many happy memories for me.

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<v Speaker 3>Actually used the bathroom on the second floor much nicer.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe if the guy at the metal detector was like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh hey, Bob, good to see you again. You forgot

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<v Speaker 1>these and handsy, some like iron knuckles, then it could

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<v Speaker 1>have been worse.

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<v Speaker 3>Iron knuckles. I think that's what you means.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well, Ard Streets Brass doesn't do the trick on

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<v Speaker 1>this body. But I mean, other than that, I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's safe to say courtroom first date. Cross that one

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<v Speaker 1>off of your date list. Ideas, Yeah, if anyone else

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<v Speaker 1>is thinking about it, there, yeah, there's.

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<v Speaker 3>One guy that's like, dang it huge.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know what, whatever your first date is, whether

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<v Speaker 1>it was romantic or just super boring, we want to

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