1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: I listen to The Black Guy Who Tips podcast because 2 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:05,080 Speaker 1: Rod and Karen. 3 00:00:06,360 --> 00:00:09,200 Speaker 2: Hey, welcome to another episode of The Black Guy Tips. 4 00:00:09,720 --> 00:00:12,399 Speaker 2: I'm your host Rod, joined us always by my co 5 00:00:12,480 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 2: host Karen, and we are joined by a first time 6 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:20,600 Speaker 2: guest on our podcast. Yes, but we've heard her many 7 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 2: times on Three Guys On. You might know her as 8 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:28,840 Speaker 2: stand up comedian twenty nineteen NBC National Stand Up Comedy 9 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 2: Competition winner of All Over the World, and she hosts 10 00:00:34,440 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 2: Debatable af on her on Instagram and stuff. 11 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:40,639 Speaker 1: It's Frankie French. What's going on? Frankie? 12 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:42,760 Speaker 3: Hey? What's up? 13 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 1: How you doing? 14 00:00:44,640 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 2: You for having me? 15 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 3: I love you guys, so. 16 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:51,360 Speaker 1: We love you too. We haven't really gotten to talk 17 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 1: much and all that type of stuff. 18 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 2: We follow you on you know, like Facebook and all that, 19 00:00:56,440 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 2: and then we listen to you on Three Guys On 20 00:00:58,320 --> 00:01:03,640 Speaker 2: and all that stuff. So with the quarantine where everyone's 21 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:06,280 Speaker 2: at home, so now we've finally been able to like 22 00:01:06,319 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 2: sit down and be like, let's go through our list 23 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:09,440 Speaker 2: of people we want to get on the show to 24 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:12,200 Speaker 2: we never have and you're one of the people. Cam 25 00:01:12,319 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 2: came in the other like the other day of just 26 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:16,200 Speaker 2: like we need to get Franky on. I was like, 27 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:19,480 Speaker 2: that's what I'm saying, and so so thank you for 28 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:20,000 Speaker 2: coming on. 29 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:24,039 Speaker 3: I think pretty smart. I love you too. 30 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 4: Oh my god, look hey everybody, that's what's up. 31 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 2: How you been getting along in the quarantine? 32 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:34,680 Speaker 3: Oh my god? 33 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:42,320 Speaker 4: Surprisingly my husband and daughter are still alive. Every it's 34 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 4: like every I say, like three days. With my husband, 35 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 4: I just want to choke the life out of them. 36 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 4: But my daughter we can go probably about like every 37 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 4: seven days. 38 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 1: And then I'm like, you know, what does who say? 39 00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 3: You know, it's been wild. 40 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:01,640 Speaker 4: You know, I won, like you mentioned, I won the 41 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:05,760 Speaker 4: NBC opportunity, which was huge or you know, which was 42 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:10,839 Speaker 4: scaled to be huge, and I relocated to la right 43 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:15,200 Speaker 4: January twentieth. I moved out there and the plan, you know, 44 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 4: was to get settled and then my husband and daughter 45 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:20,400 Speaker 4: would follow like six eight months something like that. And 46 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 4: if I'm being honest, I was so consumed with work 47 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 4: when I got there, because I was doing a lot 48 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 4: of things I had never done before, you know, like 49 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:31,880 Speaker 4: heavily enmeshed in network dealings and you know, going to 50 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 4: auditions for acting opportunities, which I had never really done, 51 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:39,399 Speaker 4: you know, in any real sense. So taking acting classes, 52 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 4: like just doing all these different things, and so I 53 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:44,800 Speaker 4: wasn't really watching. 54 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:46,320 Speaker 3: The news that much. 55 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 4: You know, I wasn't staying as plugged in as I 56 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 4: should have been, Right, So I had come home when 57 00:02:54,120 --> 00:02:58,280 Speaker 4: Kobe passed away, I think, as with a lot of people. 58 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:02,360 Speaker 4: So where I was living, I was living maybe like 59 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:04,839 Speaker 4: ten minutes from where his helicopter went down. 60 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:07,520 Speaker 1: Oh wow, And. 61 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:10,680 Speaker 4: I remember that morning I walked out. There's this little 62 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 4: cafe not far from where I was living. They have 63 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 4: the best coffee, the best wayos run heros, and it's 64 00:03:17,960 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 4: like super cheap, right, and their avocados are amazing. 65 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:23,880 Speaker 3: So that was kind of like my little go. 66 00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:27,079 Speaker 4: To breakfast spot. So I was heading over there that morning. 67 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:30,760 Speaker 4: It was like nine in the morning, and I remember 68 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 4: walking and I was like, wow, it's really really foggy today, 69 00:03:34,560 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 4: is what I remember thinking, right, And I was like, 70 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 4: you can't you literally can't see anything, like even on 71 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 4: the ground, you can't see anything. So I went out 72 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 4: to have my braain and it was just an eerie 73 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 4: feeling in the air. 74 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 3: And when I got home, my roommate's daughter comes running 75 00:03:47,200 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 3: into my room. Oh my god, Kobe Bryant died and 76 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 3: I was like, I don't listen. 77 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:55,360 Speaker 4: There's some internet troll bull crap, like, don't listen to 78 00:03:55,400 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 4: that whatever. And then, as we all know, it turned 79 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 4: out to be true. And then you know, the news 80 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 4: broke about his daughter. I was just folded into like 81 00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:08,800 Speaker 4: I was crumbled. I guted, absolutely gutted, and I didn't 82 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 4: stop thinking about my baby. 83 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 3: So I came home like in the next couple of days. 84 00:04:13,240 --> 00:04:16,359 Speaker 4: You know, I came home just because I needed to 85 00:04:16,440 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 4: lay hands on my child, you know what I mean, 86 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:19,920 Speaker 4: you know that feeling where I don't know, I just 87 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 4: needed to see her, hug her and whatever, you know, 88 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:26,480 Speaker 4: just get that love and energy because I've been away 89 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 4: from them, you know, for like two months at that point. 90 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 3: Anyway, So I came home and still I hadn't really. 91 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 4: Been watching the news about Corona, you know, daily events. 92 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:40,279 Speaker 4: I'd been keeping pretty up to date with, but Corona 93 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:44,599 Speaker 4: wasn't really following because in my privileged American minds, right, 94 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:47,919 Speaker 4: you know, black people go through a lot in America, 95 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:52,039 Speaker 4: but on some level, we still are afforded a layer 96 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:57,240 Speaker 4: of privilege, right, right, So I'm thinking, well, yeah, this 97 00:04:57,320 --> 00:04:59,839 Speaker 4: has been bad in other countries, but this is a 98 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:03,840 Speaker 4: America We're gonna be perfectly fine, you know what I mean, right, 99 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:15,719 Speaker 4: not forgetting that there's a toddler driving the ship, that 100 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:18,320 Speaker 4: there was an infant baby person in. 101 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:21,919 Speaker 3: Charge of all of this ship. Right, So you know, 102 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:24,479 Speaker 3: my brain is thinking one thing, Oh, Obama's got it. 103 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:25,080 Speaker 1: We're good. 104 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 3: But you know, then they ain't even charge no more. 105 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 4: So I came home and then when I went back, 106 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 4: I was back in LA for about a week and 107 00:05:35,680 --> 00:05:37,039 Speaker 4: everything got really bad. 108 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:37,400 Speaker 3: You know. 109 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:40,320 Speaker 4: That's when they started talking about shutting the country down. 110 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:42,960 Speaker 4: So I got a little nervous thinking that they might 111 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:46,840 Speaker 4: stop domestic travel because they had just stopped international travel. 112 00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:48,839 Speaker 4: And I was like, you know, let me go home 113 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:52,080 Speaker 4: going quarantine for what two three weeks at. 114 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:58,240 Speaker 1: The most, right one. 115 00:05:58,160 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 3: Hundred and what days later, you know how I mean? 116 00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:06,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, man, it's crazy because like like California is one 117 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:08,679 Speaker 2: of the epicenters of it. But they have Governor Newsome 118 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:11,840 Speaker 2: and got you know, Newsom is pretty proactive, Like he's 119 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 2: like actively being like, we need to shut it down, 120 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 2: we need to be careful. They got the ship, they 121 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 2: got floated out there. They didn't turn out they didn't 122 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:23,120 Speaker 2: need at the time, but like he like that's uh, 123 00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:25,280 Speaker 2: it will seem like it would be a safe place 124 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 2: to be, but the cases keep going up there because 125 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:28,159 Speaker 2: don't nobody want to listen. 126 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:31,880 Speaker 3: This is the thing about California. 127 00:06:32,120 --> 00:06:36,239 Speaker 4: It's so easy breezy over there, like it's so chill, 128 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 4: you forget, like there could be zombies walking around and 129 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:40,159 Speaker 4: you would forget. 130 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:43,360 Speaker 3: I mean, everybody's so beautiful. 131 00:06:43,760 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 4: I literally ordered a lift and got in the car 132 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:50,680 Speaker 4: and heard like a Michelle and Brubley a song when 133 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 4: I got in because the driver was so fine. You know, 134 00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:59,719 Speaker 4: I just fall in love with my left driver. Everyone's 135 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:03,200 Speaker 4: so beautiful. Homeless people are coming up to me. I'm like, 136 00:07:03,200 --> 00:07:04,279 Speaker 4: what's up? Are you single? 137 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:04,920 Speaker 3: What's your deal? 138 00:07:05,279 --> 00:07:05,760 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? 139 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 4: So you forget that shit's bad, you know what I mean, 140 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 4: Like real quick and real easy. It's eat The landscape 141 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:15,640 Speaker 4: is good. I'm sitting in bumper to bumper traffic, but 142 00:07:16,280 --> 00:07:19,400 Speaker 4: I'm on the pch so the ocean is just you know, 143 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:21,960 Speaker 4: rolling to the left of me, you know what I mean. 144 00:07:22,000 --> 00:07:24,520 Speaker 3: And so I'm like, oh, I'm my top down. 145 00:07:24,680 --> 00:07:28,520 Speaker 4: I'm using my friends convertible BMW, so the top's down, 146 00:07:28,840 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 4: the music's blaring. 147 00:07:30,440 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 3: I'm having a great time, but I'm forgetting that. 148 00:07:33,160 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 4: I'm in like dead stop traffic, so you know, I 149 00:07:37,480 --> 00:07:39,400 Speaker 4: lay it's a whole other world. I don't know if 150 00:07:39,560 --> 00:07:41,640 Speaker 4: or when I'll even get back to that side of 151 00:07:41,680 --> 00:07:44,480 Speaker 4: the world I've been, you know, just hole up in 152 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 4: my house, no stage time at all. 153 00:07:48,520 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 3: You know. 154 00:07:48,840 --> 00:07:55,560 Speaker 4: People are trying to do online comedy shows, which is 155 00:07:55,600 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 4: my nightmare, you know, and maybe I'm just not a 156 00:07:57,800 --> 00:07:59,080 Speaker 4: good enough comic to do it. 157 00:07:59,760 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 3: You know. 158 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:02,680 Speaker 4: I'll say, I've had a couple of successful runs, but 159 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:04,720 Speaker 4: it's not the same for me. 160 00:08:04,840 --> 00:08:06,160 Speaker 3: It just really is not the same. 161 00:08:06,240 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 5: It's a different muscle. You can't huh, I said, I 162 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 5: feel like it's a different muscle. 163 00:08:13,280 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 3: I don't know what. 164 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:17,720 Speaker 4: The muscle is, but I'm not working. I don't know 165 00:08:17,840 --> 00:08:19,160 Speaker 4: how to exercise it. 166 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:19,840 Speaker 3: I don't know. 167 00:08:20,920 --> 00:08:21,840 Speaker 5: Girl, let me. 168 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:22,960 Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you like this. 169 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 4: The very first virtual or online show I did was 170 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 4: over Instagram. 171 00:08:28,880 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 3: Right. I bombed so hard. 172 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:40,839 Speaker 4: The audience was heckling me in the comments. 173 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:44,200 Speaker 3: Standing in a room. 174 00:08:44,040 --> 00:08:47,640 Speaker 4: By yourself, trying to entertain people that you can't see 175 00:08:47,760 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 4: or hear, but you can. 176 00:08:49,840 --> 00:08:57,200 Speaker 3: See their nasty ass comments scrolling up. I was like, 177 00:08:57,880 --> 00:08:58,400 Speaker 3: you want me. 178 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:02,960 Speaker 2: I can't even like when I go on like Facebook Live, 179 00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:06,640 Speaker 2: dor like sometimes I cook on Facebook Live and people 180 00:09:06,640 --> 00:09:08,960 Speaker 2: will come watch me cook or whatever, and I can't 181 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 2: even really keep up with the comments that well while 182 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:14,120 Speaker 2: I'm cooking. So I can't imagine trying to do stand 183 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:15,920 Speaker 2: up and keep up with the comments, because you know, 184 00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:18,959 Speaker 2: stand up in real life is instant feedback, right. 185 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:20,960 Speaker 1: I like the joke, I'm laughing. 186 00:09:21,200 --> 00:09:24,000 Speaker 2: I don't like the joke I'm saying nothing, but with 187 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:26,400 Speaker 2: the comments, I mean, they really sitting there typing this 188 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:29,640 Speaker 2: shit out and you never get the laughs if even 189 00:09:29,679 --> 00:09:30,679 Speaker 2: if you were doing well. 190 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:36,319 Speaker 4: I mean, so here's what I will say. I've been 191 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:39,840 Speaker 4: you mentioned Debatable AF. I've been doing that show for 192 00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:44,040 Speaker 4: let's see, I have ten episodes now, I think, no. 193 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:47,559 Speaker 2: Yeah, I have a ten or eleven episode audience. What 194 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:49,760 Speaker 2: Debatable AF is? 195 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 3: Oh yeah. 196 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:55,480 Speaker 4: So I don't know how you all feel, but I 197 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 4: am obsessed and I absolutely love the show Black AF. 198 00:10:00,520 --> 00:10:05,079 Speaker 4: Me too, And you know, I can't even say how 199 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:08,000 Speaker 4: wonderful it is. I really can't say enough about it. 200 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:09,120 Speaker 1: It's so beautiful, you know what. 201 00:10:09,320 --> 00:10:10,839 Speaker 2: Let's just go ahead and take a time out and 202 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:12,360 Speaker 2: talk about it, because I never get to talk about 203 00:10:12,360 --> 00:10:12,920 Speaker 2: it with anybody. 204 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:13,920 Speaker 1: Karen hasn't watched. 205 00:10:13,679 --> 00:10:16,839 Speaker 6: It yet, but that's ok. That's okay. 206 00:10:16,920 --> 00:10:21,360 Speaker 3: And the book Get Your Wife Together. I don't know 207 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:24,880 Speaker 3: what it's not okay. I have love for you in 208 00:10:25,000 --> 00:10:29,240 Speaker 3: my heart, but it's starting, you know, you know, you know. 209 00:10:29,480 --> 00:10:31,720 Speaker 6: I will go ahead and I'll tell the truth. 210 00:10:32,360 --> 00:10:35,840 Speaker 5: Roderick is blackening me, and Roderick is he he has 211 00:10:35,920 --> 00:10:38,640 Speaker 5: he's more connected to his woman's side than I am 212 00:10:38,960 --> 00:10:42,120 Speaker 5: because he watched Insecure and I didn't watch Insecure. He 213 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 5: watched Scandal and I didn't watch any of that Black People. 214 00:10:46,679 --> 00:10:49,080 Speaker 6: Was like, Karen, what is wrong? I was like, I 215 00:10:49,120 --> 00:10:49,640 Speaker 6: don't know. 216 00:10:50,120 --> 00:10:52,160 Speaker 2: And then Karen was lying at first because I would 217 00:10:52,160 --> 00:10:54,400 Speaker 2: watch some of the stuff like when I watch Girls 218 00:10:54,440 --> 00:10:56,480 Speaker 2: and when I watch like Curves. She'd be like, I 219 00:10:56,600 --> 00:10:58,400 Speaker 2: just see his white people stuff and I get up 220 00:10:58,440 --> 00:11:00,960 Speaker 2: and leave. And I was like, OK. But then explain 221 00:11:01,000 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 2: Insecure because you get up. 222 00:11:02,200 --> 00:11:03,200 Speaker 6: And leave during that too. 223 00:11:03,520 --> 00:11:05,120 Speaker 2: I feel like you're just like getting up and leave 224 00:11:05,240 --> 00:11:08,079 Speaker 2: during good programs, and you need to get on this. 225 00:11:10,000 --> 00:11:10,520 Speaker 6: Yeah, I have. 226 00:11:11,640 --> 00:11:13,640 Speaker 2: I have gotten her to sit down over the last 227 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:15,320 Speaker 2: couple of weeks and watch. 228 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:15,920 Speaker 1: Curb with me. 229 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 2: I do episode of two, so I've gotten her to 230 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:23,319 Speaker 2: start on curbyr enthusiasm. But yeah, black black as it 231 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:26,439 Speaker 2: really is and like that. 232 00:11:26,520 --> 00:11:28,679 Speaker 1: And like people be trying to write it off as white. 233 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:30,880 Speaker 2: People ship and I'm like, it's I mean, it is 234 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:33,760 Speaker 2: white people ship, but it's so good. Not all white 235 00:11:33,760 --> 00:11:37,120 Speaker 2: people shit is bad. Like Crve is so fucking funny. 236 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:40,720 Speaker 2: I really last, I laugh until I can't breathe sometimes 237 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:41,200 Speaker 2: so good. 238 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:42,920 Speaker 3: This is this is the thing. 239 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:47,880 Speaker 4: My husband, my husband sat, hold on, I have a 240 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:48,959 Speaker 4: child person walking in. 241 00:11:49,080 --> 00:11:52,600 Speaker 3: How can I help you? Child person? Oh? 242 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:56,040 Speaker 4: Tell daddy, I'm doing a podcast, and so I can't talk. 243 00:11:57,760 --> 00:11:59,360 Speaker 3: Hold on, do you if I take this call from 244 00:11:59,360 --> 00:11:59,720 Speaker 3: my husband? 245 00:11:59,800 --> 00:12:02,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're gon, We're gonna back. We got it. 246 00:12:02,720 --> 00:12:06,720 Speaker 3: Ok Sorry everyone, my conversation with my husband. What's up? 247 00:12:06,800 --> 00:12:11,240 Speaker 3: Hubs to happen? 248 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:11,520 Speaker 1: Half? 249 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:17,280 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, so get up? So yeah, yes, get all three. 250 00:12:17,440 --> 00:12:18,920 Speaker 4: I mean I need to just get a small thing 251 00:12:18,960 --> 00:12:21,680 Speaker 4: of the whopping cream, the long thing that happened happened, 252 00:12:21,679 --> 00:12:26,920 Speaker 4: then the organic vitamin D we need. Okay, love you bye, 253 00:12:27,040 --> 00:12:31,679 Speaker 4: and don't call me back. Okay, bye, get out of 254 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:37,280 Speaker 4: get out of my office. Okay, thank you for correcting me. 255 00:12:37,360 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 4: Get out of my office. I'm making French toast for lunch. Jeez, okay, goodbye, Hi, 256 00:12:44,640 --> 00:12:45,920 Speaker 4: I'm so sorry they. 257 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:50,040 Speaker 1: Don't want that. They don't want that. July fifth French toast. 258 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:54,400 Speaker 4: This is this is the thing I've been experimenting with 259 00:12:54,480 --> 00:12:57,960 Speaker 4: French toast. I really love oh franky French toes. 260 00:12:58,520 --> 00:13:03,000 Speaker 3: Yes, it's really good. So I was obsessed for a 261 00:13:03,120 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 3: while with Holla French toast right and hollo. 262 00:13:08,720 --> 00:13:11,040 Speaker 4: And there's a shot not too far from my house 263 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:16,040 Speaker 4: that has uh fresh hollow French toasts, Like I mean, sorry, 264 00:13:16,080 --> 00:13:17,320 Speaker 4: French hollow hollow bread. 265 00:13:17,760 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 1: They make it. 266 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:19,720 Speaker 3: You can get it that same day. 267 00:13:19,760 --> 00:13:22,440 Speaker 4: It's still kind of warm in the package, right, yeah, 268 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:25,679 Speaker 4: So I mean hallow French toast once is like, I'm 269 00:13:25,720 --> 00:13:27,200 Speaker 4: never going back. This is the only way to make 270 00:13:27,240 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 4: French toast. But my husband bought a low for French 271 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:34,560 Speaker 4: bread the last time I wanted to make French toasts 272 00:13:34,559 --> 00:13:36,920 Speaker 4: and I was like, this isn't Hollo bread and he 273 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:38,559 Speaker 4: was like, Babe, I feel like it'll hit and I 274 00:13:38,640 --> 00:13:41,439 Speaker 4: was like I don't think so. So anyway, long story short, 275 00:13:41,800 --> 00:13:45,840 Speaker 4: I make French bread. French toast blows doors off of everything. 276 00:13:46,040 --> 00:13:46,440 Speaker 3: It's so. 277 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:50,880 Speaker 4: I mean, I can't even get into it because in 278 00:13:50,960 --> 00:13:54,319 Speaker 4: the in the custard, and then when you cook it, 279 00:13:54,840 --> 00:13:57,280 Speaker 4: you cook it low and slow so it gets nice 280 00:13:57,280 --> 00:13:59,760 Speaker 4: and crispy outside and then the inside it's like a 281 00:13:59,800 --> 00:14:00,720 Speaker 4: little custard. 282 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:03,520 Speaker 3: It's like a little cinnamon vanilla custard on. 283 00:14:03,840 --> 00:14:05,719 Speaker 1: Oh it's so good alway. I love me. 284 00:14:06,200 --> 00:14:09,000 Speaker 2: I love me a good French toast too, because like, 285 00:14:09,080 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 2: I like it better than pancakes, and I like it 286 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:14,679 Speaker 2: better than waffles because waffles ain't nothing but syrup prisons, 287 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:19,000 Speaker 2: and I don't. I don't support the prison contacts. You 288 00:14:19,040 --> 00:14:22,480 Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, free the third free syrup deserved 289 00:14:22,480 --> 00:14:23,640 Speaker 2: to be free like the rest of us. 290 00:14:23,720 --> 00:14:28,120 Speaker 3: You know what I can't. 291 00:14:29,120 --> 00:14:30,840 Speaker 1: I'm just saying everybody. 292 00:14:30,600 --> 00:14:31,400 Speaker 6: Like that, they don't sell. 293 00:14:34,240 --> 00:14:37,640 Speaker 1: That's all they are. You're just locking up prisons, locking 294 00:14:37,720 --> 00:14:39,400 Speaker 1: your syrup up. Let it flow free. 295 00:14:40,400 --> 00:14:45,160 Speaker 2: So yeah, Black af is so good because it's so 296 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:47,760 Speaker 2: brilliant and we don't really have anything on TV like 297 00:14:47,840 --> 00:14:52,400 Speaker 2: it before. Because they've made the black people more relatable 298 00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:55,880 Speaker 2: and flawed and and that that adds to comedy. Like 299 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:58,040 Speaker 2: that's what I like about Curve is that Larry's not 300 00:14:58,200 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 2: right all the time. Sometimes he's a dick, but that's 301 00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:04,080 Speaker 2: what makes it funny, right, Well, all the time he's 302 00:15:04,120 --> 00:15:05,800 Speaker 2: a dick, and then sometimes he's a dick. 303 00:15:06,040 --> 00:15:07,000 Speaker 1: Sometimes he's a dick. 304 00:15:06,920 --> 00:15:08,920 Speaker 2: With a point, and sometimes he's a dick where he's 305 00:15:08,960 --> 00:15:12,200 Speaker 2: off in left field, right, And so that's how uh, 306 00:15:12,400 --> 00:15:14,440 Speaker 2: that's how I like black is Black af is because 307 00:15:14,960 --> 00:15:17,560 Speaker 2: it's in addition to just talking about blackness. 308 00:15:17,640 --> 00:15:19,320 Speaker 1: Every character on there has their hang ups. 309 00:15:19,360 --> 00:15:21,720 Speaker 2: You got the woke daughter and so, and she's woke, 310 00:15:21,800 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 2: but she ain't never lived no life, so of course 311 00:15:23,720 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 2: she thinks she got. 312 00:15:24,960 --> 00:15:25,840 Speaker 1: It all figured out. 313 00:15:26,280 --> 00:15:31,120 Speaker 2: You know, the biracial wife who's always trying to put 314 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:33,760 Speaker 2: on extra for blackness because she a little she's a 315 00:15:33,800 --> 00:15:36,240 Speaker 2: little insecure about her blackness. So now she wants to 316 00:15:36,360 --> 00:15:38,920 Speaker 2: do like all this black and black shit, and the 317 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:41,360 Speaker 2: fact that she wants to be like a boss in 318 00:15:41,480 --> 00:15:42,680 Speaker 2: real life, and she gave. 319 00:15:42,640 --> 00:15:44,720 Speaker 1: Up a career and her husband doesn't understand that. 320 00:15:44,960 --> 00:15:48,760 Speaker 2: Like all these little things that like combined that are 321 00:15:49,360 --> 00:15:52,880 Speaker 2: very serious issues, but they make it so funny and relatable. 322 00:15:53,040 --> 00:15:53,480 Speaker 1: I love it. 323 00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:56,840 Speaker 3: So this is a thing that struck me. 324 00:15:57,760 --> 00:16:01,080 Speaker 4: There are always I feel like black families on TV 325 00:16:01,320 --> 00:16:04,680 Speaker 4: have been put into a very specific mold and if 326 00:16:04,720 --> 00:16:07,520 Speaker 4: it doesn't fit into that mold or something or some 327 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:10,920 Speaker 4: reasonable facsimile of that mold, then we can't get with it. 328 00:16:11,080 --> 00:16:13,200 Speaker 3: I don't like it. This is black people don't act 329 00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:13,400 Speaker 3: like that. 330 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:16,960 Speaker 4: Here's the thing, though, and I've struggled with this my 331 00:16:17,080 --> 00:16:18,840 Speaker 4: whole life because of the way that I was raised 332 00:16:19,200 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 4: and where I was not not the way, but where 333 00:16:21,840 --> 00:16:24,720 Speaker 4: I was raised. I was literally the only black kid 334 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:27,320 Speaker 4: in my school for a long time, right, and then 335 00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:29,920 Speaker 4: you know, slowly but surely, a few trickles in. But 336 00:16:30,280 --> 00:16:31,800 Speaker 4: by the time I got to sixth grade, it was 337 00:16:31,880 --> 00:16:34,160 Speaker 4: me and two other black people, and we and the 338 00:16:34,240 --> 00:16:36,240 Speaker 4: three of us were the tallest in the school, you 339 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:41,160 Speaker 4: know what I mean, so very conspicuously black, so seriously, 340 00:16:41,280 --> 00:16:44,040 Speaker 4: so all the black shit came down to us, and 341 00:16:44,120 --> 00:16:46,520 Speaker 4: we were there were only three sixth grade classes, and 342 00:16:46,600 --> 00:16:49,760 Speaker 4: we were broken up and one in each class. Or 343 00:16:49,840 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 4: how about you put us all on the same class, 344 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:53,320 Speaker 4: you know what I mean, There's only three of us. 345 00:16:53,360 --> 00:16:54,920 Speaker 4: Can we all sit next to each other? 346 00:16:55,080 --> 00:16:55,440 Speaker 3: Please? 347 00:16:56,400 --> 00:16:56,600 Speaker 1: You know? 348 00:16:56,760 --> 00:16:58,520 Speaker 3: So that was my experience. 349 00:16:58,560 --> 00:17:01,200 Speaker 4: So even now today, my will joke that he's in 350 00:17:01,240 --> 00:17:09,359 Speaker 4: an interracial relationship, which I don't dispute, not that I 351 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:12,080 Speaker 4: think or act or want to be white, and that's 352 00:17:12,119 --> 00:17:14,200 Speaker 4: not at all what I'm saying. And please do not 353 00:17:14,320 --> 00:17:17,000 Speaker 4: at me, because I will hurt your feelings in the 354 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:18,159 Speaker 4: blackest of ways. 355 00:17:18,720 --> 00:17:19,280 Speaker 3: That's said. 356 00:17:20,600 --> 00:17:23,600 Speaker 4: That said, the things that I'm into, you know, the 357 00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:25,920 Speaker 4: way that I vibe, it's just a little different. It's not, 358 00:17:26,160 --> 00:17:29,320 Speaker 4: you know, not completely form, but a little different. So 359 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:34,200 Speaker 4: when I watch Joy on Black Afly and I'm not biracial, 360 00:17:34,400 --> 00:17:38,639 Speaker 4: well according to my ancestry, I'm weirdly twenty five percent Irish. 361 00:17:38,840 --> 00:17:42,920 Speaker 3: What but anyway, we're not even gonna get into weird. 362 00:17:44,960 --> 00:17:48,480 Speaker 2: Weird in the way we all are coincidentally a little 363 00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:50,879 Speaker 2: bit got a little bit of it a minute this 364 00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:53,760 Speaker 2: don't Yeah, yeah. 365 00:17:53,640 --> 00:17:55,320 Speaker 1: We all got a little a little half and half 366 00:17:55,400 --> 00:17:56,560 Speaker 1: in our coffee first. 367 00:17:59,520 --> 00:18:01,560 Speaker 3: And not choice anyway. 368 00:18:03,080 --> 00:18:05,560 Speaker 4: So all of that said, I relate to her and 369 00:18:05,680 --> 00:18:09,000 Speaker 4: that I've always had that challenge of proving my blackness 370 00:18:09,400 --> 00:18:11,240 Speaker 4: and people telling me, you know, black people tell me 371 00:18:11,280 --> 00:18:13,320 Speaker 4: I'm not black enough. White people are clearly saying I'm 372 00:18:13,359 --> 00:18:16,040 Speaker 4: not white, you know. So I've never I've always been 373 00:18:16,280 --> 00:18:18,399 Speaker 4: lived in this kind of weird limbo you know what 374 00:18:18,440 --> 00:18:20,360 Speaker 4: I mean, and didn't understand it. So I'm like well, 375 00:18:20,960 --> 00:18:24,480 Speaker 4: everybody in my house is black everyone, you know, for 376 00:18:24,560 --> 00:18:26,560 Speaker 4: the most part, my family's predominantly black. 377 00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:29,040 Speaker 3: I don't understand why I'm not accepted anywhere. 378 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:32,240 Speaker 4: So when I when I see black af I'm like, oh, 379 00:18:34,160 --> 00:18:36,280 Speaker 4: I one hundred percent relate. 380 00:18:36,440 --> 00:18:39,280 Speaker 3: Even the way you see how me and my daughter are, like, 381 00:18:39,400 --> 00:18:42,960 Speaker 3: we are very close. We talk about literally everything. 382 00:18:43,600 --> 00:18:47,000 Speaker 4: So there's certain conversations and there's certain ways that we 383 00:18:47,119 --> 00:18:50,800 Speaker 4: joke with each other that traditionally Black parents we don't, 384 00:18:51,800 --> 00:18:53,200 Speaker 4: you know, they don't do that. 385 00:18:53,359 --> 00:18:56,640 Speaker 3: Like I call her a dick probably two three times 386 00:18:56,680 --> 00:18:58,680 Speaker 3: a day. I'm like, you know what, you're being a dick, 387 00:18:59,160 --> 00:18:59,320 Speaker 3: you know. 388 00:18:59,480 --> 00:19:01,600 Speaker 4: And she can call out on my ship too, and 389 00:19:01,680 --> 00:19:05,000 Speaker 4: it's it's like that because she's a human person, you 390 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:08,520 Speaker 4: know what I mean. So I've always enjoyed the way 391 00:19:08,640 --> 00:19:11,119 Speaker 4: that she thinks, and I've never stifled that. I've never 392 00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:14,760 Speaker 4: told her, you know, like you know, don't speak until 393 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:18,240 Speaker 4: spoken to. When I was little, my mom got my 394 00:19:18,320 --> 00:19:19,840 Speaker 4: opinion when she gave it to me, you know what 395 00:19:19,880 --> 00:19:22,520 Speaker 4: I mean, Like I didn't. I wasn't allowed to think. 396 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:26,240 Speaker 3: You have feelings, you have thoughts, you have an opinion, 397 00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:28,600 Speaker 3: you have an opinion. What I give it to you, like, 398 00:19:28,680 --> 00:19:31,520 Speaker 3: that's right. I grew up so with her. It's very 399 00:19:31,600 --> 00:19:31,840 Speaker 3: much that. 400 00:19:32,440 --> 00:19:36,800 Speaker 2: And like seeing seeing the show dynamic, like this is 401 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:41,359 Speaker 2: a rich black family, like they're established. He writes for 402 00:19:41,480 --> 00:19:45,920 Speaker 2: a living, you know, like his wife writes a book 403 00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:48,480 Speaker 2: during the course of the show and all this stuff. 404 00:19:48,560 --> 00:19:52,080 Speaker 2: So like that, I think when people think black experience, 405 00:19:52,160 --> 00:19:53,879 Speaker 2: a lot of times they want to see like middle 406 00:19:53,920 --> 00:19:57,240 Speaker 2: class to lower class black experience, like you know, they're 407 00:19:57,280 --> 00:19:59,720 Speaker 2: like more comfortable with that, or they want to see 408 00:19:59,800 --> 00:20:03,359 Speaker 2: like the Cosbys or like the fresh Prince of bel Air, 409 00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:07,640 Speaker 2: like his the you know that family, Uncle Phil's family, 410 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:10,639 Speaker 2: Like they like this kind of clean richness. And so 411 00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:13,000 Speaker 2: he's kind of like, no, we're rich, but we're kind 412 00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:16,760 Speaker 2: of shitty people like like we're not like mad Men shitty. 413 00:20:16,840 --> 00:20:19,360 Speaker 2: But like my kids, Cus, it's not a big deal. 414 00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:21,680 Speaker 2: They're gonna get you fine, my kids, my kids. I 415 00:20:21,720 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 2: don't need to teach my kids respectability because my kids aren't. 416 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:27,000 Speaker 2: I'm not worried about my kids like fucking up their 417 00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:31,080 Speaker 2: lives because of whatever. And and then just creatively the 418 00:20:31,160 --> 00:20:34,160 Speaker 2: story arc like every story, every title being because of slavery. 419 00:20:34,720 --> 00:20:38,760 Speaker 2: And then it's because it's so true. It's so because 420 00:20:38,760 --> 00:20:41,120 Speaker 2: it's so true all the issues that we have, whether 421 00:20:41,160 --> 00:20:44,760 Speaker 2: it be colorism, whether it be like him feeling like 422 00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:47,480 Speaker 2: materialistic but then wanting to make like a statement with 423 00:20:47,560 --> 00:20:50,240 Speaker 2: his clothes, but then getting getting real insecure when white 424 00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:53,160 Speaker 2: people like the shit, like like the chain where he's like, yeah, 425 00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:55,159 Speaker 2: water's changed so that I can like show people that 426 00:20:55,320 --> 00:20:57,200 Speaker 2: you know where we come from. I'm not doing this 427 00:20:57,240 --> 00:20:58,720 Speaker 2: blah blah blah. And then when the white people are like, 428 00:20:58,760 --> 00:21:00,520 Speaker 2: I love that change, he's like, IM gonna get rid 429 00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:02,639 Speaker 2: of this chain. I'm gonna sell this change is wacky 430 00:21:02,880 --> 00:21:05,280 Speaker 2: right right, Like I love that kind of shit because 431 00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:08,440 Speaker 2: you know, it's it is the dichotomy of blackness. It 432 00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:10,080 Speaker 2: is the kind of ship that we think about all 433 00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:13,480 Speaker 2: the time. We're always in our head. And the creative 434 00:21:13,760 --> 00:21:17,280 Speaker 2: arc of making it a film project for his daughter 435 00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:19,560 Speaker 2: to get into college, like the when you finish the 436 00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:21,840 Speaker 2: whole thing, it's almost like a movie. It's almost like 437 00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:24,400 Speaker 2: a two and a half hour just one complete movie 438 00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:28,399 Speaker 2: or something, as opposed to just this project that's or 439 00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:30,679 Speaker 2: four hour movie I'm sorry as a call, as opposed 440 00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:32,600 Speaker 2: to just like an episodic thing. And I heard they 441 00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:35,360 Speaker 2: got renewed for season two already, so I can't wait. 442 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:38,840 Speaker 4: I love it, so I love Right before we came 443 00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:40,640 Speaker 4: down here, I was watching the show like that's I've 444 00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:43,160 Speaker 4: watched it now, front to back. I can't even count 445 00:21:43,240 --> 00:21:46,200 Speaker 4: how many times. Yes, you've never seen like all the 446 00:21:46,320 --> 00:21:47,240 Speaker 4: things that you just said. 447 00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:48,520 Speaker 1: What's your favorite episode? 448 00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:50,879 Speaker 5: Uh? 449 00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:56,760 Speaker 3: My favorite obviously Episode five is Everybody. 450 00:21:57,000 --> 00:22:01,520 Speaker 1: Oh man, yes, I mean you can't it's so it's 451 00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:02,400 Speaker 1: just so good. 452 00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:08,800 Speaker 3: But I also love Honestly, every episode for me is fantastic. 453 00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:12,680 Speaker 4: There's something different in every episode that I'm just like, ah, 454 00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:17,119 Speaker 4: Like the episode where they go to dinner with their 455 00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:19,679 Speaker 4: liberal friend, yes and. 456 00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:20,560 Speaker 1: They fleg phono. 457 00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:25,359 Speaker 3: Oh and because that's me and my husband. That is 458 00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:30,520 Speaker 3: like we that to us one hundred you comfort us 459 00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:33,560 Speaker 3: like we might be right, but you come for our family. 460 00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:37,040 Speaker 4: We're gonna ship all over you in in the most 461 00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:40,640 Speaker 4: polite way, exactly literally exactly like that, We're gonna cram 462 00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:42,359 Speaker 4: everything into your cram hall like that. 463 00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:46,920 Speaker 2: It was so dope and like it was hop Yeah, 464 00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:51,560 Speaker 2: it was such a flex out of nowhere, like they 465 00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:54,640 Speaker 2: like because they haven't been the whole episode and they 466 00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:58,040 Speaker 2: get to that last like five minutes and the white 467 00:22:58,040 --> 00:22:59,879 Speaker 2: people try to like have a little bit of like, 468 00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:02,080 Speaker 2: you know, try to flex on them a little bit, 469 00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:03,680 Speaker 2: like yeah, we can go to the Lakers game, and 470 00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:05,919 Speaker 2: then they just like aty ten like yeah, we can 471 00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:07,920 Speaker 2: get courts seat, you know, I know, Shaq, we could 472 00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:10,000 Speaker 2: you know, Like it's just like, oh, we can take a. 473 00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:12,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I love that. 474 00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:15,240 Speaker 2: My I think my favorite right now might be the 475 00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:18,520 Speaker 2: Father's Day episode where you're basically talking about how like 476 00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:21,200 Speaker 2: fathers ain't ship and and we get a wrong we 477 00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:23,640 Speaker 2: get a bad stigma as black man blah blah blah. 478 00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:26,240 Speaker 1: But then he tries to coach his his little league 479 00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:27,960 Speaker 1: team and he is a shitty parent. 480 00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:35,000 Speaker 3: Absolute war. 481 00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:37,480 Speaker 1: Oh man. 482 00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:42,920 Speaker 3: But I mean I can go episode by episode by episode, 483 00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:43,280 Speaker 3: like I. 484 00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:47,159 Speaker 4: Said, like, I just wrote a pilot. Oops, I don't know, 485 00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:48,280 Speaker 4: I lost you, guys. 486 00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:49,200 Speaker 1: We're still here. 487 00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:50,720 Speaker 6: We see you, we see you. 488 00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:53,760 Speaker 3: I don't know if she can hit one second. I 489 00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:55,560 Speaker 3: don't know what I did. Give me one second. 490 00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:59,480 Speaker 4: Okay, all right, I just started a pilot right before 491 00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:03,240 Speaker 4: Rona hit, Like, I finished it literally the day before 492 00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:08,000 Speaker 4: I flew back to be Quarantine. And it's based on 493 00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:11,920 Speaker 4: my real life. But the lead character the title of 494 00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:17,000 Speaker 4: the show is called by Felicia b I Felicia, and 495 00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:20,960 Speaker 4: it's about a by black woman who's recently divorced, has 496 00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:24,840 Speaker 4: a daughter. It was married to a very wealthy man 497 00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:27,879 Speaker 4: who has now left her with nothing. Why because she's 498 00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:29,880 Speaker 4: a piece of shit. She doesn't have custody of her kid. 499 00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:32,080 Speaker 4: I mean, she's just kind of a garbage human. 500 00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:33,320 Speaker 3: But she's really not right. 501 00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:38,000 Speaker 4: But you see these layers, like she's so layered and awful, 502 00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:41,000 Speaker 4: and then as the season, you know, kind of goes on, 503 00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:43,879 Speaker 4: you kind of peel those layers back and realize, Oh, 504 00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:47,760 Speaker 4: she's not awful, she's just really damaged and here's why, 505 00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:50,399 Speaker 4: and here's here. You know, she's got a fear of 506 00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:53,520 Speaker 4: redemption and all these other things. So, like you mentioned before, 507 00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:56,480 Speaker 4: I really love characters that are humans. 508 00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:59,639 Speaker 1: We never and the thing is, we don't really get that. 509 00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:03,320 Speaker 2: Like there's so many shows where there's just like some 510 00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:05,680 Speaker 2: fucking white dude who's kind of a piece of shit, 511 00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:09,760 Speaker 2: but we but we but the viewer is never questioned 512 00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:13,080 Speaker 2: about rooting for him, right, whether it's Tony Soprano, whether 513 00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:16,320 Speaker 2: it's Don from Mad Men, whether it's like the dude 514 00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:19,480 Speaker 2: from the Blacklist, like there's infinite amount of shows in 515 00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:23,480 Speaker 2: all areas breaking bad where it's just like this person's 516 00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:26,679 Speaker 2: life was fine. They're like they he could have been 517 00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:29,600 Speaker 2: a rich science teacher who you know, his friends bailed 518 00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:31,880 Speaker 2: him out from his cancer treatments, or he could sell 519 00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:34,159 Speaker 2: math and he decides to sell math and we have 520 00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:36,200 Speaker 2: to deal with that for six But when it's like 521 00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:37,439 Speaker 2: a black character that has that. 522 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:40,600 Speaker 1: Flaw, like the people, people come down on this so differently. 523 00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:44,040 Speaker 2: Like I remember when Scandal started and people were just 524 00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:47,920 Speaker 2: being like, uh, why why she got to be sleeping 525 00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:50,560 Speaker 2: with the president? He's married and shit, And I'm just like, nigga, 526 00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:53,120 Speaker 2: why Tony Soprano gotta be cheating on his wife? 527 00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:55,560 Speaker 1: Who gives a fuck? Is it a compelling show or not? 528 00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:56,440 Speaker 1: So I love that. 529 00:25:56,560 --> 00:25:59,640 Speaker 2: And then I also like the idea of peeling back 530 00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:02,680 Speaker 2: the layers of damage because I think that's how you 531 00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:05,440 Speaker 2: get empathy, right, and so when you have that empathy, 532 00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:08,240 Speaker 2: that's that tells you why you root for a person. 533 00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:12,080 Speaker 2: And then also just and on a comedic level, it's 534 00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:14,280 Speaker 2: more fun to play with people who are kind of wrong. 535 00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:17,800 Speaker 1: It's just like the character that is always right and 536 00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:18,760 Speaker 1: they're always the victim. 537 00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:21,919 Speaker 2: Of every situation in the world, like it's not as 538 00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:25,000 Speaker 2: good as the character kind of like fucks up sometimes, 539 00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:26,160 Speaker 2: you know, And those. 540 00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:28,920 Speaker 5: Characters are boring because people claim they won't that, but 541 00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:30,080 Speaker 5: they don't watch that shit. 542 00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:32,800 Speaker 6: So I don't believe none of y'all. I don't believe 543 00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:34,760 Speaker 6: you right now. 544 00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:38,879 Speaker 4: And you made a good point, right I think oftentimes 545 00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:41,800 Speaker 4: black characters don't get that space. We're either one thing 546 00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:46,040 Speaker 4: or another ether the you know, gang bang and that 547 00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:49,080 Speaker 4: you hate, or where the savior of the world, you know, 548 00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:54,160 Speaker 4: and really pure. And I think that, you know, it's 549 00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:55,119 Speaker 4: a magical. 550 00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:56,639 Speaker 3: Negro syndrome, you know what I mean. It's like we 551 00:26:56,960 --> 00:27:00,440 Speaker 3: can be a we're very layered creatures for humans, you 552 00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:02,520 Speaker 3: know what I mean. So I made it. I did 553 00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:03,080 Speaker 3: a roast. 554 00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:06,080 Speaker 4: I also have a show called French Rows that's typically 555 00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:08,040 Speaker 4: on Fridays at nine, and we just did a roast 556 00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:11,240 Speaker 4: of another roast of America and I hosted it as 557 00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:16,639 Speaker 4: an alien. So I had an alien what is it 558 00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:20,560 Speaker 4: called snap filter while I was doing the show, and 559 00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:24,040 Speaker 4: it was it was very hilarious. And one of the 560 00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:26,560 Speaker 4: jokes I made is about was about racist and I 561 00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:28,360 Speaker 4: can't remember it now. At the point of the joke 562 00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:31,359 Speaker 4: was that, you know, it's the race war is funny 563 00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:33,600 Speaker 4: to me as an alien, because there's only one race 564 00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:37,480 Speaker 4: on Earth, which is humans. And you know, and I 565 00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:39,879 Speaker 4: know for a fact that they're all the same on 566 00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:41,320 Speaker 4: the inside because I've opened. 567 00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:42,520 Speaker 3: Many of them, you know what I mean. 568 00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:49,919 Speaker 2: So yeah, it's that like that's like, that's that's interesting too, 569 00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:53,200 Speaker 2: because like, what is the difference when you're doing like 570 00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:57,920 Speaker 2: debatable af or where you're doing French rows and when 571 00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:01,199 Speaker 2: you're doing like stand up online on. 572 00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:04,000 Speaker 1: Zoom, Like, like, what's the difference for you? 573 00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:10,560 Speaker 4: Well, I love having conversations. I thoroughly enjoy conversations like 574 00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:14,520 Speaker 4: this right now, this is my space building talking with people. 575 00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:18,160 Speaker 4: I love ideas, I love thoughts, I love thought provoked, 576 00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:21,240 Speaker 4: you know, provoking thoughts. I just really enjoy the engaging 577 00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:25,000 Speaker 4: with people, right I think those are are our most 578 00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:29,280 Speaker 4: important moments. They lend space for inspiration, they lend space 579 00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:32,560 Speaker 4: for collaboration, and they just lend a space for you 580 00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:35,199 Speaker 4: to learn and engage and get into another human right 581 00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:37,399 Speaker 4: and also allow them into you and into your space. 582 00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:40,480 Speaker 4: So I think those are our most important moments. And 583 00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:43,920 Speaker 4: I'm comfortable engaging in a conversation, whether it's being watched 584 00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:50,080 Speaker 4: not fascatable, AF is successful and I feel comfortable in 585 00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:55,360 Speaker 4: that space because again, it's a conversation, right, French Roast 586 00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:59,080 Speaker 4: is a comedy show, but it's a roast show, so 587 00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:03,480 Speaker 4: we're not We don't necessarily need an audience for kind 588 00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:05,960 Speaker 4: of that back and forth, because stand up is also 589 00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:09,000 Speaker 4: a conversation if you think about it. I'm on stage 590 00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:12,760 Speaker 4: and even though the people aren't saying anything, they're responding 591 00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:16,480 Speaker 4: to our conversation with laughter or even you know, you're 592 00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:19,280 Speaker 4: so crazy, you know, quit yell out. But it is 593 00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:21,520 Speaker 4: it's a vibe, it's a hole back and forth. It's 594 00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:23,800 Speaker 4: a give and take. When you're on stage. There's an 595 00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:26,760 Speaker 4: energy and a rhythm to that. And you know, when 596 00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:28,720 Speaker 4: you get to that place where you're just kind of 597 00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:32,520 Speaker 4: giving your jokes and delivering on muscle memory and you're 598 00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:35,320 Speaker 4: just in the flow of that moment, it's amazing. There's 599 00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:38,680 Speaker 4: nothing compared to it unless you do music, and then 600 00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:42,240 Speaker 4: maybe that's a good comparison. But with French Roast, I 601 00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:46,440 Speaker 4: don't need an audience for that, or with Debatable doesn't 602 00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:48,960 Speaker 4: need an audience. You can just kind of deliver your 603 00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:52,160 Speaker 4: jokes and we're in on a dais. You know how 604 00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:54,160 Speaker 4: roaster are set up. You have the host, then you 605 00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:56,240 Speaker 4: have the dais, and you have the person being or 606 00:29:56,320 --> 00:30:00,240 Speaker 4: thing being roasted. Right, so everyone on the dais we 607 00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:02,760 Speaker 4: haven't heard each other's jokes yet, so we're all laughing. 608 00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:06,840 Speaker 3: Oh, you know, groat shows are like blah blah blah 609 00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:08,480 Speaker 3: blah blah blah blah ha ha ha ha ha ha 610 00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:11,239 Speaker 3: blah blah blah blah blah blah blah haha. It's very 611 00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:13,800 Speaker 3: you know, you're not really laughing while the person's delivering 612 00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:16,680 Speaker 3: the joke. It's not. It's less of a conversation and 613 00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:19,120 Speaker 3: more of a PowerPoint presentation. 614 00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:23,000 Speaker 2: And what topics have you done for Debatable AF so far? 615 00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:24,400 Speaker 2: Which topics have you done for? 616 00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:28,320 Speaker 3: Oh my goodness, wow, so debatable? 617 00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:33,200 Speaker 4: So basically I've been playing with Debatable since episode one. 618 00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:37,240 Speaker 4: So initially it was a platform. So my my team 619 00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:39,920 Speaker 4: had been kind of pounding. You're like, Frankie, you gotta 620 00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:42,000 Speaker 4: stay rovant. You gotta find something to do during the 621 00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:44,600 Speaker 4: during the downtime, or you're just gonna get lost in 622 00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:46,880 Speaker 4: the shuffle and you'll have to like rebuild your career 623 00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:48,720 Speaker 4: and blah blah blah. So I'm like okay, and I 624 00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:50,280 Speaker 4: couldn't think of anything to do. I was like, I'm 625 00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:54,600 Speaker 4: not just gonna start going online and doing some dumb. 626 00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:55,320 Speaker 3: Ass that's not me. 627 00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:58,360 Speaker 4: I'm not gonna do TikTok dances, not gonna say anything 628 00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:01,560 Speaker 4: wrong with it, but I'm not doing just anything for likes. 629 00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:04,120 Speaker 4: I don't care about getting likes like that. So I 630 00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:06,200 Speaker 4: need to be inspired, as what I kept telling people. 631 00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:09,080 Speaker 4: Then I saw a debatable I'm sorry, I saw a 632 00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:11,840 Speaker 4: black AF and then I saw how much controversy was 633 00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:15,280 Speaker 4: around it, and people were upset, like really split down 634 00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:16,000 Speaker 4: the middle, like. 635 00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:17,560 Speaker 3: This isn't black AF. 636 00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:21,240 Speaker 4: And then some ignorant mofos were like, I can't believe 637 00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:23,240 Speaker 4: they got this girl playing his wife. 638 00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:24,160 Speaker 3: And she's not even black. 639 00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:28,080 Speaker 1: I saw that who that woman. 640 00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:34,480 Speaker 4: Said, that's the pinnacle of blackness. That's Quincy Jones's daughter. 641 00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:37,959 Speaker 4: He is the sound your mama and daddy had. They 642 00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:43,400 Speaker 4: made you listening to Quincy Jones music, and guarantee you 643 00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:46,480 Speaker 4: wouldn't be here if it wasn't for Rashida, you know 644 00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:50,760 Speaker 4: what I mean, Like she's blackness, that's you know, so 645 00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:55,120 Speaker 4: just on that, you know, I was, so I posted 646 00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:57,160 Speaker 4: when I was like, Hey, would any comics like to 647 00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:00,960 Speaker 4: go on a zoom with me and debate the show? 648 00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:01,640 Speaker 5: Right? 649 00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:03,640 Speaker 3: And I was like, ooh, what if I name a 650 00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:04,640 Speaker 3: debatable AF. 651 00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:06,760 Speaker 4: And I was like, oh, this is something I could 652 00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:08,880 Speaker 4: do weekly and we can just talk one episode a 653 00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:10,560 Speaker 4: week or whatever and then do the same thing with 654 00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:11,520 Speaker 4: season two comes out. 655 00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:16,280 Speaker 3: But it got not old. The show just kind of evolved. 656 00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:19,080 Speaker 4: Really quick, right, So the first episode is all about 657 00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:22,560 Speaker 4: the bas Olaf, the second episode there's. 658 00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:26,880 Speaker 3: Hints of it, but then every other episode I just 659 00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:27,320 Speaker 3: picked like. 660 00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:31,200 Speaker 4: Current topics and different things, and now we have the 661 00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:35,840 Speaker 4: show formatted like kind of down. So the first twenty 662 00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:38,200 Speaker 4: minutes of the show, I pick a heavy topic like 663 00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:42,600 Speaker 4: race relations or the me Too movement or whatever relevant 664 00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:46,160 Speaker 4: that's going on currently, and then the second half we 665 00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:49,720 Speaker 4: do a relationship topic, like something like deal breakers. And 666 00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:54,000 Speaker 4: then the very last question we do is a moral conundrum, 667 00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:58,560 Speaker 4: which are very fun, like there's one are you guys 668 00:32:58,640 --> 00:32:59,959 Speaker 4: familiar with the shopping cart thing? 669 00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:02,080 Speaker 1: No, what's the shopping cart theory? 670 00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:08,720 Speaker 4: Oh my goodness, okay, I have to read it to you, okay, 671 00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:13,680 Speaker 4: because it's so bananas. And so this is the kind 672 00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:17,960 Speaker 4: of thing that we would debate shopping cart theory. Okay, 673 00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:19,840 Speaker 4: let me just pull it up really quick. Okay, Well, 674 00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:25,320 Speaker 4: the shopping cart is the ultimate litmus test for whether 675 00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:27,440 Speaker 4: a person is capable of self governing. 676 00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:29,840 Speaker 3: To return the shopping cart. 677 00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:33,000 Speaker 4: Is an easy, convenient task, and one which we all 678 00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:36,840 Speaker 4: recognize as the correct, appropriate thing to do. To return 679 00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:40,680 Speaker 4: the shopping cart is objectively right. There are no situations 680 00:33:40,800 --> 00:33:43,800 Speaker 4: other than dire emergencies, in which a person is not 681 00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:48,560 Speaker 4: able to return their card. Simultaneously, it is not illegal 682 00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:52,200 Speaker 4: to abandon your shopping cart. Therefore, the shopping cart presents 683 00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:55,480 Speaker 4: itself as the apex example of whether a person will 684 00:33:55,520 --> 00:33:58,040 Speaker 4: do what is right without being forced to do it. 685 00:33:58,560 --> 00:33:59,680 Speaker 3: No one will punish you for. 686 00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:02,600 Speaker 4: Not turning the shopping cart. No one will find you 687 00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:05,720 Speaker 4: or kill you for not returning the shopping cart. You 688 00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:09,000 Speaker 4: gain nothing by returning the shopping cart. You must return 689 00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:11,560 Speaker 4: the shopping cart out of the goodness of your own heart. 690 00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:15,000 Speaker 4: You must return the shopping cart because the right thing 691 00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:18,080 Speaker 4: to do, because it is correct. A person who is 692 00:34:18,239 --> 00:34:21,520 Speaker 4: unable to do it is no better than an animal, 693 00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:25,120 Speaker 4: an absolute savage, who can only be made to do 694 00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:28,560 Speaker 4: what is right by threatening them with a law and 695 00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:31,719 Speaker 4: the force that stands behind it. The shopping cart is 696 00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:35,320 Speaker 4: what determines whether a person is a good or bad 697 00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:37,160 Speaker 4: member of society. 698 00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:39,799 Speaker 1: That's deep. 699 00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:40,319 Speaker 6: How deep? 700 00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:41,440 Speaker 3: Like how deep is that? 701 00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:45,040 Speaker 1: That is deep? I mean as shopping cart returners. 702 00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:48,840 Speaker 2: Like you know, I do feel strongly about this, and 703 00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:51,359 Speaker 2: I do hate when I see an abandoned shopping car 704 00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:53,200 Speaker 2: in the middle of. 705 00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:56,440 Speaker 5: Because I'm like, somebody, car, you're gonna fuck it up, 706 00:34:56,520 --> 00:34:57,640 Speaker 5: scratch and you're gonna lose. 707 00:34:57,480 --> 00:34:58,040 Speaker 1: A tail light. 708 00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:02,240 Speaker 2: I actually like a few sometimes I return someone else's 709 00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:04,960 Speaker 2: lose cars because I just think of all the things 710 00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:06,960 Speaker 2: that could go wrong where it's just like that could 711 00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:09,680 Speaker 2: fuck somebody's car up or whatever. 712 00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:10,200 Speaker 5: You know. 713 00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:12,160 Speaker 1: But but it is weird though, because if. 714 00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:15,040 Speaker 2: You ever talk to anyone that works there, they almost 715 00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:18,080 Speaker 2: sometimes seem surprised when you're a person that takes care 716 00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:19,960 Speaker 2: of When you're like, oh, y'all bring the cart back, 717 00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:21,600 Speaker 2: They're like, what who does that? 718 00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:23,960 Speaker 1: So it must not happen all the time. 719 00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:24,080 Speaker 5: You know. 720 00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:28,440 Speaker 4: Now, everyone that I've talked to about this, they are 721 00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:33,040 Speaker 4: all cartturners, shopping cart returners. I am not, and let 722 00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:39,240 Speaker 4: me meet, I'm not an habitual not returner. 723 00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:40,319 Speaker 3: Here. Here's the thing. 724 00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:46,400 Speaker 4: I don't believe it will. I put it up on 725 00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:51,839 Speaker 4: the sidewalk or up on so that it doesn't hit 726 00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:54,560 Speaker 4: anyone's car. That's if I park far away. 727 00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:56,520 Speaker 3: I usually park. There's never where I live. 728 00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:59,839 Speaker 4: There's some never parking spaces, and there's the shopping cart 729 00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:01,480 Speaker 4: turn from where I park. 730 00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:04,239 Speaker 3: Way far from. So a lot of times I'm like, oh, 731 00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:06,279 Speaker 3: and I'll leave it there and I'm like, fuck it. 732 00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:08,120 Speaker 3: It's fine. It's up on the ferb. It's not gonna 733 00:36:08,160 --> 00:36:08,640 Speaker 3: run into. 734 00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:11,120 Speaker 6: Anything, or I consider it out of return. 735 00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:13,320 Speaker 1: As wild as that makes, I do not consider that 736 00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:15,840 Speaker 1: a return. No, only a return is a return. 737 00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:20,600 Speaker 2: Parents trying to be nice and great on the curve 738 00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:22,480 Speaker 2: because you're on the show and she likes you and stuff. 739 00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:24,880 Speaker 1: But that's not we know that's not a return. 740 00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:26,759 Speaker 6: It's not rolling into nobody's ship. 741 00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:27,320 Speaker 5: Not. 742 00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:28,560 Speaker 6: Fuck, I don't nobody's call. 743 00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:31,719 Speaker 2: What if a storm comes and the wind knocks it 744 00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:33,200 Speaker 2: lose Karen, Okay, it's not in. 745 00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:35,200 Speaker 1: The oh it tips it over, it's not in the 746 00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:36,680 Speaker 1: secure up on the. 747 00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:38,120 Speaker 3: Sidewalk, it's not going anywhere. 748 00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:40,800 Speaker 4: And another thing I do if I see an elderly 749 00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:44,160 Speaker 4: or disabled person I will always take their card and 750 00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:47,200 Speaker 4: return it for them every single time, always, always, always, 751 00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:48,399 Speaker 4: no matter what I'm doing. 752 00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:52,160 Speaker 3: So I have park return etiquette. 753 00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:54,800 Speaker 1: I guess you just don't. You don't do it for yourself. 754 00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:58,320 Speaker 4: America and Ship's rough, and I need this to be 755 00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:02,000 Speaker 4: as being as possible. That's you usually how I'm. 756 00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:04,520 Speaker 2: Also I'm also black in America. Last time I checked, 757 00:37:04,560 --> 00:37:05,799 Speaker 2: and I'll be returning them cards. 758 00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:09,200 Speaker 3: So you know what I'm saying, don't you get no 759 00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:10,360 Speaker 3: car return past? 760 00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:12,920 Speaker 1: I do. I do it honestly. 761 00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:16,040 Speaker 2: I do it the honor the ancestors. You know, my 762 00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:20,520 Speaker 2: grandma's card, you know, Ship, we used to beat the 763 00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:21,800 Speaker 2: car in long history. 764 00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:23,000 Speaker 6: We used to be the car. 765 00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:26,239 Speaker 1: We used to beat the card. Okay, so we and. 766 00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:36,680 Speaker 3: Lyrics come on. 767 00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:44,560 Speaker 2: Grandma's hands return that car on Sunday morning. Yes, yeah, 768 00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:47,680 Speaker 2: I'm just saying we used to. My grandma used to 769 00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:49,600 Speaker 2: return the cards. So you know, I just do it 770 00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:51,440 Speaker 2: out of respect for the ancestors, you know. 771 00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:53,319 Speaker 1: So oh you know what, and that. 772 00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:55,759 Speaker 6: Might be why I always make you do the quarter things, 773 00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:57,200 Speaker 6: because we downstairs. 774 00:37:56,719 --> 00:37:59,000 Speaker 1: They niggas shot there so they'd be like. 775 00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:01,680 Speaker 6: Yeah yeah, because she. 776 00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:04,879 Speaker 4: And I the reason that all these and at all 777 00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:08,520 Speaker 4: the I always return my card, but they they also 778 00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:09,799 Speaker 4: make it more convenient for me. 779 00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:10,200 Speaker 3: To do that. 780 00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:13,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, like I said, it's I never even thought about 781 00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:17,359 Speaker 2: thought about it before. Like I'm sure over the course 782 00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:19,239 Speaker 2: of my mini christ to the grocery store there has 783 00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:21,640 Speaker 2: there's been times where I haven't returned the card. I 784 00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:24,800 Speaker 2: mean that had that had to happen, But I just 785 00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:27,160 Speaker 2: I've always tried to make a point of return it. 786 00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:30,680 Speaker 5: And the reason why I bring up all the sweetie 787 00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:33,400 Speaker 5: is because I remember we down south, so we've never 788 00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:35,279 Speaker 5: heard of this quarter in the in the in the 789 00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:39,440 Speaker 5: grocery cart thing, So when they first started popping up, 790 00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:40,480 Speaker 5: I would be angry because. 791 00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:42,000 Speaker 6: I was like, I don't got no goddamn quarter, Like 792 00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:42,840 Speaker 6: this is stupid. 793 00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:47,479 Speaker 4: Yeah, but that's also the other problem. I never have cash. 794 00:38:47,600 --> 00:38:51,200 Speaker 4: I never have changed, Like, oh, it's very rare, very rare. 795 00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:53,560 Speaker 4: So when you do have to put the quarter in, 796 00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:55,719 Speaker 4: that is absolutely inconvenient. 797 00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:58,799 Speaker 3: And guess what, I want my damn quarterback. So I'm 798 00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:00,479 Speaker 3: gonna return the question. 799 00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:02,480 Speaker 1: The thing for me is like this explained. 800 00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:05,640 Speaker 2: This is why I said COVID is gonna win, because 801 00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:08,479 Speaker 2: the we were like if you would have told people 802 00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:10,480 Speaker 2: you need to wear a mask, so they don't get it. 803 00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:14,280 Speaker 2: Everybody in America would have a mask because everyone's so selfish. 804 00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:16,839 Speaker 1: But when they started saying, well the mask is really 805 00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:19,680 Speaker 1: so other people don't get it. Motherfuckers. Was walking out 806 00:39:19,680 --> 00:39:19,799 Speaker 1: of the. 807 00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:22,839 Speaker 2: House like, fuck everybody, that's not me. Okay, I'm about 808 00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:24,240 Speaker 2: to go call on babies. 809 00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:28,680 Speaker 3: Now that's wild. I don't roll like that. I'm a 810 00:39:28,840 --> 00:39:29,640 Speaker 3: mask up glove. 811 00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:32,600 Speaker 4: I don't play with me, give me my six feet 812 00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:35,239 Speaker 4: like I don't play with the I don't play with 813 00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:39,480 Speaker 4: the COVID rules, right, not even I was at the deli, 814 00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:43,719 Speaker 4: and I'm very respectful of other people I'm talking about, 815 00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:47,080 Speaker 4: like if I would stop and let you go ahead 816 00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:49,560 Speaker 4: and go so as not to violate your space. Right, 817 00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:52,120 Speaker 4: So I'm standing there. I had just got my delly 818 00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:54,759 Speaker 4: ticket because no one at the counter. Everything is wide open. 819 00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:57,040 Speaker 4: It's just my husband and I were standing next to 820 00:39:57,080 --> 00:39:59,920 Speaker 4: each other. We're waiting patiently. Over here, they helping them 821 00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:04,680 Speaker 4: other person. Right, White lady walks up with her husband. 822 00:40:04,960 --> 00:40:07,839 Speaker 4: He's still standing back six feet away from the from 823 00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:10,600 Speaker 4: me and my husband and the young person whoever they 824 00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:11,520 Speaker 4: were helping over here. 825 00:40:11,800 --> 00:40:13,719 Speaker 3: He's standing back she walks up. 826 00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:16,640 Speaker 4: I kid, you not remember, I said, this is wide open, 827 00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:19,640 Speaker 4: many areas for you to walk up and look in 828 00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:22,319 Speaker 4: the case. I'm not even standing all the way up 829 00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:23,960 Speaker 4: to the case. You can even walk in front of me. 830 00:40:24,400 --> 00:40:28,360 Speaker 3: She stands up, and it's right here, leaned over my shoulder. 831 00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:33,600 Speaker 3: I said, see that face you had to I said, 832 00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:38,000 Speaker 3: I'm gonna need you to back up. She said. I said, yes, ma'am, 833 00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:40,560 Speaker 3: give me my six fucking feet. Back the fuck up. 834 00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:42,080 Speaker 3: You don't have to be rude about it. 835 00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:44,960 Speaker 4: I said, no, no, no, no, I said, you were 836 00:40:45,040 --> 00:40:47,759 Speaker 4: rude when you invaded my space. Don't sit and try 837 00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:50,279 Speaker 4: to turn this around on me, I said the first time. 838 00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:54,240 Speaker 4: First off, you're in on my person. I can feel 839 00:40:54,239 --> 00:40:56,879 Speaker 4: you touching me. Okay, that's number one. That's where you're wrong. 840 00:40:57,000 --> 00:40:59,000 Speaker 4: First two, I say, hey. 841 00:40:59,040 --> 00:40:59,400 Speaker 3: Back up. 842 00:40:59,640 --> 00:41:02,680 Speaker 4: You look at me like so now, Yes, I said 843 00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:04,359 Speaker 4: the fuck word. I'm gonna say that a lot. Now 844 00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:05,880 Speaker 4: you need to back the fuck up and give me 845 00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:08,200 Speaker 4: my six feet. You don't have to be rude. 846 00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:11,640 Speaker 3: No, we're not gonna play the throw the rock. Had 847 00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:14,239 Speaker 3: your hand game. You started this. You don't get to 848 00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:15,400 Speaker 3: now tell me. 849 00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:18,600 Speaker 4: So that thing, that that mask thing now that's we 850 00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:22,360 Speaker 4: need to protect each other, right, just so protect That's 851 00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:23,920 Speaker 4: not It's just it's just. 852 00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:27,719 Speaker 2: So weird because I do feel like if the news 853 00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:30,520 Speaker 2: would have said, listen, wear a mask and you won't 854 00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:33,400 Speaker 2: get it, all these motherfuckers will have these masks on 855 00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:35,000 Speaker 2: like they they like. 856 00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:38,279 Speaker 1: It's honestly just that they told them. Two things that 857 00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:38,840 Speaker 1: they learned. 858 00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:42,760 Speaker 2: One that the mask doesn't necessarily stop you from getting 859 00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:44,960 Speaker 2: it with one hundred percent, you know, like accuracy. 860 00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:45,200 Speaker 3: Right. 861 00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:47,759 Speaker 2: Once they found out like, well it's only like thirty 862 00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:50,480 Speaker 2: percent and unless everybody wear them, then they were like 863 00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:50,840 Speaker 2: fuck it. 864 00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:51,080 Speaker 3: Right. 865 00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:53,439 Speaker 2: The second thing is when they found out black people 866 00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:56,120 Speaker 2: was dying from the shit. Man, these motherfuckers are like, oh, 867 00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:57,120 Speaker 2: mask all. 868 00:41:57,560 --> 00:41:59,640 Speaker 6: And they wanted to open up the economy and all 869 00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:00,279 Speaker 6: that blue shit. 870 00:42:00,320 --> 00:42:03,120 Speaker 5: And they've done studies to show they was like the 871 00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:05,399 Speaker 5: bulk of the people not wearing it as younger people. 872 00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:07,600 Speaker 5: This is what a lot of states are saying. Younger people. 873 00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:09,479 Speaker 1: They was like, older people are. 874 00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:11,719 Speaker 5: Like, no, motherfucker, we don't get it because we know 875 00:42:11,800 --> 00:42:13,919 Speaker 5: we're closer to death. The younger people think we're gonna 876 00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:16,040 Speaker 5: live forever. Old people like, look, I could die tomorrow. 877 00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:18,600 Speaker 5: I could break a hip for getting the spacer bass bill. 878 00:42:18,960 --> 00:42:20,480 Speaker 5: I'm not trying to pull out no money in the 879 00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:23,880 Speaker 5: fucking four one K. So we're like nah niggas, And 880 00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:26,120 Speaker 5: you know, the young people are like, whoa go there 881 00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:28,839 Speaker 5: for having forever throwing corona parties to see who gonna 882 00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:31,080 Speaker 5: catch it first and all that other bullshit. 883 00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:37,279 Speaker 3: Exactly. But I mean, I don't get I don't get nah, 884 00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:37,960 Speaker 3: I don't get it. 885 00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:41,840 Speaker 4: I want, regardless of who is protecting, I want the 886 00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:45,760 Speaker 4: mask on for my safety, for your safety. 887 00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:48,000 Speaker 3: I just want I want it on too. I don't 888 00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:49,400 Speaker 3: want to freeze. 889 00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:54,040 Speaker 4: And I was, and if we're being honest, I'm actually 890 00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:58,560 Speaker 4: enjoying the social distancing too. I like the fact that 891 00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:01,320 Speaker 4: we're getting each other's space when we're out in public. 892 00:43:02,040 --> 00:43:05,239 Speaker 4: I like the fact that we're not shaking hands like 893 00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:09,360 Speaker 4: I don't you know, being in an industry, you know, 894 00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:11,919 Speaker 4: and if you guys ever do any live shows, people 895 00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:14,520 Speaker 4: want to meet you after, you know, and I'm not 896 00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:22,880 Speaker 4: going to meeting fans love it, But everybody's hand isn't shakeable. 897 00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:25,759 Speaker 3: And you but you have to shake everyone's hand, and people. 898 00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:32,320 Speaker 4: Will come and shake your hand. They be damp, cold, 899 00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:35,120 Speaker 4: everybody's fluids and juices all over you. 900 00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:39,040 Speaker 3: I like that we're elbow listen. 901 00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:43,800 Speaker 2: As as an introvert, this is my heaven, okay, because 902 00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:46,719 Speaker 2: now the mask has made it so that you have 903 00:43:46,880 --> 00:43:50,239 Speaker 2: to stop and think and consider if your small talk 904 00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:53,399 Speaker 2: is fucking worth it. And it's such a small thing 905 00:43:53,600 --> 00:43:56,920 Speaker 2: to happen in life because it's frustrating to talk with 906 00:43:57,040 --> 00:43:59,920 Speaker 2: a mask on, but it is knocked out. Like ninety 907 00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:03,799 Speaker 2: seven percent of pointless conversations from my life people had 908 00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:06,040 Speaker 2: that mask on. They'd be like, I'm not even gonna 909 00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:07,480 Speaker 2: ask this nigga how the weather it is. I'm not 910 00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:09,800 Speaker 2: even gonna ask the It's a lot quieter. 911 00:44:09,840 --> 00:44:11,239 Speaker 5: And I don't know if people realize this as you 912 00:44:11,320 --> 00:44:14,320 Speaker 5: walk around, unless people are talking to the immediate people around, 913 00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:15,400 Speaker 5: it is a lot quiet. 914 00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:16,239 Speaker 3: He still asked me. 915 00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:18,520 Speaker 1: The other day. We was in the store and I 916 00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:21,000 Speaker 1: had on a T shirt. I can't remember what it said, 917 00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:23,680 Speaker 1: but this dude that worked that was like, hey man, 918 00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:26,360 Speaker 1: I like that shirt, and he had like his. 919 00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:28,680 Speaker 2: He pulled his mask down to do it, and I 920 00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:31,279 Speaker 2: was just like, Yeah, I'm gonna pretend that I'm just 921 00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:34,239 Speaker 2: over here twelve feet away with my mask on. And 922 00:44:34,320 --> 00:44:36,360 Speaker 2: I'm just gonna hey, thanks Bud. I gave my thumbs 923 00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:39,680 Speaker 2: up and just kept walking cause it's just so much easier. 924 00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:41,080 Speaker 1: It's so easy. 925 00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:43,200 Speaker 2: If I wouldn't have had no mask on, I would 926 00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:44,600 Speaker 2: have had to be like, hey man, thanks Doug. 927 00:44:44,800 --> 00:44:47,480 Speaker 1: Where you get that shirt from? Nope? He just I 928 00:44:47,600 --> 00:44:50,279 Speaker 1: like your shirt, and I got kept walking. 929 00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:52,920 Speaker 2: I love it knowing the people at publish, they like 930 00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:55,160 Speaker 2: offer to take your buggy out, and I hate that 931 00:44:55,719 --> 00:44:57,759 Speaker 2: because then when they take your buggy out, there also 932 00:44:57,840 --> 00:44:58,440 Speaker 2: want to talk to you. 933 00:44:58,520 --> 00:45:00,200 Speaker 1: When they push you to so house, what what do 934 00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:00,640 Speaker 1: you do for it? 935 00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:02,160 Speaker 6: Some of them don't give you a choice. They won't 936 00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:04,040 Speaker 6: even ask. They just stop walking beside. 937 00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:05,680 Speaker 2: And yeah, and you put me in a bad position 938 00:45:05,719 --> 00:45:07,759 Speaker 2: because now I gotta like ask your ass to not 939 00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:09,560 Speaker 2: do this job, you know what I mean. 940 00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:12,600 Speaker 1: And but they don't even ask anymore. They don't even 941 00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:14,120 Speaker 1: they don't want to go outside with you. They don't 942 00:45:14,120 --> 00:45:16,879 Speaker 1: want to catch your COVID. I fucking love this shit. 943 00:45:17,560 --> 00:45:19,480 Speaker 2: We want to I want to keep the mask after 944 00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:22,560 Speaker 2: it's gone, after coronavirus going. I'm keeping my mask because 945 00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:24,120 Speaker 2: I don't want to do this shit no more. 946 00:45:24,760 --> 00:45:27,480 Speaker 5: And it wouldn't surprise me if if people just keep 947 00:45:27,520 --> 00:45:29,959 Speaker 5: their mask around for the next quote unquote outbreak, because 948 00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:31,520 Speaker 5: nobody really knows because we don't. 949 00:45:31,760 --> 00:45:34,520 Speaker 6: This country doesn't handle it well, So who knows what 950 00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:36,440 Speaker 6: the next thing is going to be? 951 00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:46,640 Speaker 4: First off, Trump, idiot, ask this put a whole team 952 00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:52,920 Speaker 4: in place for this exact reason, for. 953 00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:54,920 Speaker 6: Literally decase of experience. 954 00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:59,160 Speaker 3: You said while he was in office, it could be 955 00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:02,000 Speaker 3: five years, it could be ten years, he called it. 956 00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:03,719 Speaker 1: He called it. 957 00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:07,960 Speaker 3: We don't know when. Just in case, we should have a. 958 00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:12,120 Speaker 4: Team of people that's looking out and checking data and 959 00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:17,280 Speaker 4: watching trends to see when and if diseases and pandemics 960 00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:21,120 Speaker 4: and viruses are arising in other places in the world, 961 00:46:21,480 --> 00:46:25,040 Speaker 4: and then we can use that same team to prevent 962 00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:29,160 Speaker 4: it from spreading too badly in America. And what an 963 00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:36,759 Speaker 4: idiot do We're gonna get rid? We don't need it. 964 00:46:37,160 --> 00:46:42,680 Speaker 4: It's irrelevant, it's fake news. What you the thing that 965 00:46:42,760 --> 00:46:46,880 Speaker 4: would have stopped this because Obama made it. You lied 966 00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:49,800 Speaker 4: and pretended like it wasn't worth it, disbanded it, and 967 00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:53,360 Speaker 4: now over one hundred and fifty thousand Americans. 968 00:46:54,840 --> 00:46:57,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, and the thing is the people did you know 969 00:46:57,760 --> 00:47:00,360 Speaker 5: he disbanded They was like yeah, we lived in like 970 00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:03,320 Speaker 5: a big ass book, like we actually left him like 971 00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:06,560 Speaker 5: step by step all how to even if we went there. 972 00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:09,480 Speaker 6: Oh No, he's that. 973 00:47:09,600 --> 00:47:11,640 Speaker 1: Nigga is all people. That. 974 00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:14,480 Speaker 2: Nigga is everybody that has ever gotten a job when 975 00:47:14,520 --> 00:47:16,640 Speaker 2: you go through that orientation that you first get. 976 00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:18,279 Speaker 1: And you know you don't read that ship. You know 977 00:47:18,320 --> 00:47:18,879 Speaker 1: what I'm talking about. 978 00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:21,360 Speaker 2: He's just but he's doing that with the presidency, you 979 00:47:21,440 --> 00:47:23,680 Speaker 2: know what I mean, Like every everyone has had things 980 00:47:23,680 --> 00:47:25,760 Speaker 2: where you like Nigga, I've been in account before. Okay, 981 00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:28,720 Speaker 2: yeah yeah, best practices. All right, well thanks for the training. 982 00:47:28,840 --> 00:47:29,960 Speaker 2: I'm about to go do the job. 983 00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:34,040 Speaker 3: He's acting like his brief things are the terms and agreements? 984 00:47:34,280 --> 00:47:38,720 Speaker 3: Yes his phone? Yes, agreed? 985 00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:42,200 Speaker 1: Agreed? Can I can I? Yes? 986 00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:42,960 Speaker 6: I take the cookie? 987 00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:45,239 Speaker 1: Can I crush these candies or not? This is what 988 00:47:45,440 --> 00:47:46,320 Speaker 1: is wrong with his phone? 989 00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:51,200 Speaker 3: Like that's what he's doing. Like Nigga, this, I feel 990 00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:55,000 Speaker 3: like you should read every line. 991 00:47:55,120 --> 00:47:58,880 Speaker 1: You know. It's like, you know, not not not that 992 00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:01,440 Speaker 1: I know people take it very seriously. I'm not saying shitn't. 993 00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:05,560 Speaker 2: But it's like when people complain about like Facebook tracks 994 00:48:05,680 --> 00:48:08,520 Speaker 2: my my privacy and when I go on another site, 995 00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:10,240 Speaker 2: they know what I've been looking at and they advertise 996 00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:12,640 Speaker 2: it to me, and I'm kind of like, but niggas, Facebook, 997 00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:16,960 Speaker 2: you knew when you no one doesn't know now, so 998 00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:20,520 Speaker 2: you can't be like, I can't believe this shit. 999 00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:26,160 Speaker 3: We'll forget Facebook. It's the Internet, yes, every. 1000 00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:29,280 Speaker 1: Everything on it's the phone in your podcast. 1001 00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:34,360 Speaker 4: Facebook just leverages the data. That's the only difference. Everything 1002 00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:35,719 Speaker 4: that same thing. 1003 00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:38,160 Speaker 1: All the ship knows all the shit we do. 1004 00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:40,560 Speaker 2: That's You're like, you have the group on app on 1005 00:48:40,640 --> 00:48:42,719 Speaker 2: your phone and you go out to eat the group 1006 00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:44,120 Speaker 2: on Apple will be like, you know, you could have 1007 00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:46,120 Speaker 2: got twenty dollars off, Like all. 1008 00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:49,279 Speaker 1: The ship knows the ship so so like it's like 1009 00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:50,480 Speaker 1: the people that still get. 1010 00:48:50,400 --> 00:48:53,279 Speaker 2: Quote unquote outraged about that, and I'm like, man, I 1011 00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:54,400 Speaker 2: lost that outrage in. 1012 00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:57,239 Speaker 1: Like two thousand and six dollars. I'm over that. I 1013 00:48:57,400 --> 00:48:59,319 Speaker 1: know what it is now. Every time I download the app, 1014 00:48:59,320 --> 00:49:01,560 Speaker 1: I'm like, this ship know when I jack off. I'm sorry. 1015 00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:06,560 Speaker 4: The bottom line, all the stuff it knows, all the 1016 00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:08,680 Speaker 4: things you do, it already knows. I'm just like, you 1017 00:49:08,800 --> 00:49:11,759 Speaker 4: know what, as long as it's letting me, well, I 1018 00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:13,879 Speaker 4: guess I guess this is legal it's how I look 1019 00:49:13,880 --> 00:49:16,719 Speaker 4: at it. I'm allowed to smoke with I. 1020 00:49:19,200 --> 00:49:22,160 Speaker 2: Know, like I can't wait till you know, I'm just 1021 00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:25,080 Speaker 2: gonna wait on the class action lawsuit settlement letter that 1022 00:49:25,160 --> 00:49:27,319 Speaker 2: I get. Oh yeah, you know, twenty years from now, 1023 00:49:27,360 --> 00:49:30,040 Speaker 2: I get seventy six cents in the mail for a check. 1024 00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:33,000 Speaker 2: Because Alexa was always listening to me, and it knew 1025 00:49:33,040 --> 00:49:34,760 Speaker 2: when I was fucking Okay, we get. 1026 00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:39,440 Speaker 4: It right, Alexa was masturbating to yours right, Alexa, what 1027 00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:43,360 Speaker 4: that's not a LEXI was just an electronic points. 1028 00:49:43,440 --> 00:49:45,880 Speaker 3: Turns out Alexa was a whole ass dude. 1029 00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:53,320 Speaker 1: Yeah right, so everybody jack off Alessa's like ten thirty 1030 00:49:53,360 --> 00:49:56,200 Speaker 1: times for your session. Oh it new, Wow, this thing 1031 00:49:56,400 --> 00:49:56,680 Speaker 1: is good. 1032 00:49:59,040 --> 00:50:01,840 Speaker 3: Stirst play. Let's just start playing Marvin Gay at ten 1033 00:50:01,880 --> 00:50:03,200 Speaker 3: to fifteen for no reason. 1034 00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:06,680 Speaker 2: That's that's the ship I keep thinking about because you know, 1035 00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:10,800 Speaker 2: like Facebook does the targeted ads, and you know, I'm like, 1036 00:50:11,040 --> 00:50:12,960 Speaker 2: I look at porn on the same computer that I 1037 00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:15,400 Speaker 2: fucking do everything else on. So like if I go 1038 00:50:15,480 --> 00:50:17,120 Speaker 2: to Amazon and I look at something and I go 1039 00:50:17,239 --> 00:50:20,279 Speaker 2: to Facebook, it's like, look at this Amazon ad, you know, like, oh, 1040 00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:22,400 Speaker 2: you sure you don't want to get that t shirt right, 1041 00:50:22,760 --> 00:50:26,640 Speaker 2: but then like sometimes it'll be it'll it'll like combine 1042 00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:30,000 Speaker 2: things on the algorithm. And I remember one time, one 1043 00:50:30,080 --> 00:50:32,359 Speaker 2: time I was up late, way late at night, It's 1044 00:50:32,400 --> 00:50:34,360 Speaker 2: like three in the morning. I went on my Facebook 1045 00:50:34,600 --> 00:50:36,759 Speaker 2: and one of the ass was were T shirts, but 1046 00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:39,640 Speaker 2: all the T shirts was art of like that of 1047 00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:43,840 Speaker 2: Velma from Scooby Doo, but it was it was like 1048 00:50:44,080 --> 00:50:45,680 Speaker 2: all these sexual physicians. 1049 00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:50,520 Speaker 1: She had a fat ass like yeah. I was like, okay, 1050 00:50:50,880 --> 00:50:53,360 Speaker 1: But the thing was, how did it know? 1051 00:50:53,840 --> 00:50:55,520 Speaker 6: You know what I mean? I was like, that's like 1052 00:50:55,640 --> 00:50:58,600 Speaker 6: you like T shirts and you like combined. 1053 00:50:58,760 --> 00:50:59,920 Speaker 1: I was like, I wouldn't wear it. 1054 00:51:00,719 --> 00:51:04,279 Speaker 3: He's like, yeah, T shirt right. 1055 00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:07,480 Speaker 6: He was like if people would look at me when maybe. 1056 00:51:07,960 --> 00:51:10,719 Speaker 1: I was like, how did it know? I wasn't even 1057 00:51:10,840 --> 00:51:13,960 Speaker 1: like like mad at it. I was just like, this 1058 00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:20,200 Speaker 1: is exactly the height. It knew. It knew. I'll tell 1059 00:51:20,239 --> 00:51:20,480 Speaker 1: you what. 1060 00:51:24,760 --> 00:51:25,080 Speaker 3: It knew. 1061 00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:27,239 Speaker 2: It knew not to show me, Daphney. I'll put it 1062 00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:30,080 Speaker 2: that way, Okay, it knew enough. 1063 00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:31,719 Speaker 3: It was. 1064 00:51:33,760 --> 00:51:36,360 Speaker 5: Oh man, all right, Roger gonna be out there solving 1065 00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:42,239 Speaker 5: the mysteries. Listen, okay, if she want, Okay, I will 1066 00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:43,160 Speaker 5: get to the bottom of this. 1067 00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:44,120 Speaker 1: If you know what I'm saying. 1068 00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:49,480 Speaker 2: Okay, I want to I'll be one of those meddling kids. 1069 00:51:50,800 --> 00:51:53,720 Speaker 2: All right, we got we got all kinds of news happening. 1070 00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:56,040 Speaker 1: So what we do here? 1071 00:51:56,200 --> 00:51:59,680 Speaker 2: We talk about coronavirus news to open the show, and 1072 00:51:59,760 --> 00:52:03,200 Speaker 2: we don't have a theme song per se, but we 1073 00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:07,080 Speaker 2: go look up random songs on Spotify by searching coronavirus 1074 00:52:07,600 --> 00:52:10,320 Speaker 2: and we play one. We don't know what's gonna be, Like, 1075 00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:14,359 Speaker 2: we've never heard the song before, so this is new 1076 00:52:14,600 --> 00:52:22,200 Speaker 2: for used. Today's selection is gonna be Let's see, how 1077 00:52:22,280 --> 00:52:28,520 Speaker 2: about what young lo five? The name of the song 1078 00:52:28,680 --> 00:52:33,200 Speaker 2: is sick Night COVID nineteen coronavirus. All right, let's see. 1079 00:53:04,880 --> 00:53:10,200 Speaker 4: It was stuck in between stations, yes, right, like trying 1080 00:53:10,200 --> 00:53:13,839 Speaker 4: to like it's not clear the station. 1081 00:53:14,080 --> 00:53:17,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think this is. It's like when you you're 1082 00:53:17,080 --> 00:53:18,600 Speaker 1: messing with the nom You're like, I think this is 1083 00:53:18,719 --> 00:53:19,560 Speaker 1: chemical brothers. 1084 00:53:19,680 --> 00:53:20,920 Speaker 2: Wait what is? No? 1085 00:53:21,920 --> 00:53:22,279 Speaker 3: I can't. 1086 00:53:22,760 --> 00:53:24,400 Speaker 1: I don't know that the story. 1087 00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:26,279 Speaker 2: I'm gonna fast forward a little bit and see if 1088 00:53:26,280 --> 00:53:27,400 Speaker 2: it's ever any words. 1089 00:53:33,040 --> 00:53:35,480 Speaker 1: No, this is just a horrible loaf I be from 1090 00:53:35,560 --> 00:53:36,680 Speaker 1: somebody that needs to go. 1091 00:53:36,800 --> 00:53:41,480 Speaker 4: Basically, you basically have to mainline ecstasy to listen to 1092 00:53:41,560 --> 00:53:42,840 Speaker 4: that ship, like that's some ship. 1093 00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:51,320 Speaker 3: Like, God, are you rolling? I'm like soul? 1094 00:53:52,680 --> 00:53:58,440 Speaker 6: God, am I high? Are you high? I see colors? 1095 00:53:58,920 --> 00:54:04,279 Speaker 6: My god, I can feeling Floyd through me. Oh yes, yeah, 1096 00:54:04,400 --> 00:54:05,640 Speaker 6: that's what I'm here right now. 1097 00:54:06,480 --> 00:54:08,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, color green. 1098 00:54:11,520 --> 00:54:15,239 Speaker 2: We need some like phone, We need phone falling from 1099 00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:17,920 Speaker 2: the ceiling onto us, and like balloons and ship and 1100 00:54:18,280 --> 00:54:20,200 Speaker 2: glow sticks to even listen to this. 1101 00:54:20,520 --> 00:54:22,359 Speaker 1: All right, let's get into the coronavirus news. 1102 00:54:23,560 --> 00:54:28,080 Speaker 2: Our man, one of the most adorable men in politics, 1103 00:54:29,280 --> 00:54:34,920 Speaker 2: Herman Kaine aka Black Walnut, is receiving treatment for coronavirus 1104 00:54:35,480 --> 00:54:36,800 Speaker 2: at an Atlanta hospital. 1105 00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:42,279 Speaker 6: He probably took that picture doing the thing that. 1106 00:54:43,320 --> 00:54:48,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, the rally in TUSA. He was sitting with the blacks, 1107 00:54:49,280 --> 00:54:51,880 Speaker 2: and he took pictures. No one was wearing a mask 1108 00:54:53,040 --> 00:54:56,600 Speaker 2: because you know, that's what that's what, that's what people 1109 00:54:56,600 --> 00:54:58,719 Speaker 2: who don't believe in themselves do wear a mask. 1110 00:54:58,800 --> 00:54:59,760 Speaker 1: Apparently I guess. 1111 00:54:59,600 --> 00:55:00,480 Speaker 6: I'm not strong enough. 1112 00:55:00,600 --> 00:55:01,759 Speaker 1: Yeah, so he. 1113 00:55:03,880 --> 00:55:08,480 Speaker 2: He tweeted out how he is, like you know, like, 1114 00:55:08,600 --> 00:55:11,200 Speaker 2: don't wear a mask, don't worry about it, blah blah blah, 1115 00:55:11,360 --> 00:55:13,759 Speaker 2: and then took pictures and then of course he went 1116 00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:17,200 Speaker 2: to the hospital Wednesday after he developed symptoms serious enough 1117 00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:19,040 Speaker 2: that he required hospitalization. 1118 00:55:19,280 --> 00:55:20,920 Speaker 1: He did not require a respirator. 1119 00:55:21,280 --> 00:55:23,759 Speaker 2: He is a work awake and alert, according to a 1120 00:55:23,840 --> 00:55:26,880 Speaker 2: statement that was at least Thursday. But I don't know 1121 00:55:26,960 --> 00:55:29,759 Speaker 2: if he's out of the hospital yet. I don't know 1122 00:55:29,960 --> 00:55:31,719 Speaker 2: if he still doesn't need a respirator. 1123 00:55:31,880 --> 00:55:34,560 Speaker 6: And I think they said that he survived cancer or 1124 00:55:34,600 --> 00:55:35,200 Speaker 6: some shit like that. 1125 00:55:35,400 --> 00:55:37,920 Speaker 5: Oh god, it's one of those things where you already 1126 00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:41,800 Speaker 5: in the demographic and you survived cancer. If I'm not mistaken, 1127 00:55:41,840 --> 00:55:43,040 Speaker 5: I think that's what they were saying, like he s 1128 00:55:43,120 --> 00:55:43,840 Speaker 5: a vived something. 1129 00:55:44,320 --> 00:55:48,840 Speaker 6: And so I'm like, word, okay, oh god, this is in. 1130 00:55:48,840 --> 00:55:51,759 Speaker 4: The best called what your black ass gets. This is 1131 00:55:51,960 --> 00:55:57,880 Speaker 4: exactly what your dumb black ass. You are the epitome 1132 00:55:58,680 --> 00:56:03,640 Speaker 4: of dumb and black. Like, why what in all everything 1133 00:56:04,000 --> 00:56:09,960 Speaker 4: about you is incorrect? You are black, sir, Okay, you're black. 1134 00:56:10,320 --> 00:56:14,520 Speaker 4: We are predisposed to being germophobes. Off break iw that's 1135 00:56:14,640 --> 00:56:17,759 Speaker 4: just nasty. That's just how we roll. We like shit 1136 00:56:17,880 --> 00:56:20,680 Speaker 4: covered up, we like shit washed up. And you're telling 1137 00:56:20,719 --> 00:56:24,320 Speaker 4: people don't worry about wearing a mask and compounding the 1138 00:56:24,400 --> 00:56:26,480 Speaker 4: fracture with you just being at a Trump rally. 1139 00:56:27,120 --> 00:56:29,600 Speaker 3: I'm a broadbo to you. I am black. 1140 00:56:29,680 --> 00:56:32,359 Speaker 4: Coronavirus got it write this time. Corona got it right 1141 00:56:32,920 --> 00:56:34,840 Speaker 4: this time, Like you know, let me get this nigga 1142 00:56:34,840 --> 00:56:35,600 Speaker 4: he think it ain't real. 1143 00:56:35,880 --> 00:56:37,759 Speaker 3: Thank you, Coronavirus. I appreciate you. 1144 00:56:38,000 --> 00:56:41,160 Speaker 2: Oh and then he's still tweeting, or at least someone's 1145 00:56:41,160 --> 00:56:44,360 Speaker 2: tweeting from his account. The latest tweet is more discovered 1146 00:56:44,360 --> 00:56:48,799 Speaker 2: about the positive results of hydroxy Chloyd Queen, which has 1147 00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:52,799 Speaker 2: been disproven by the FDA, disproven by all scientists. Doctor 1148 00:56:52,840 --> 00:56:56,120 Speaker 2: Fauci said, don't use it. The CDC stopped the study 1149 00:56:56,200 --> 00:56:58,600 Speaker 2: on it and said it's not it definitely. 1150 00:56:58,200 --> 00:57:00,600 Speaker 1: Will kill you. And this nigga is ill tweeting that 1151 00:57:00,680 --> 00:57:03,560 Speaker 1: out while in the hospital. This is insane. 1152 00:57:06,440 --> 00:57:09,880 Speaker 3: It's not you, it's not insane. It's part for the course. 1153 00:57:10,280 --> 00:57:15,480 Speaker 4: It's scary because the scary thing is there are people 1154 00:57:16,440 --> 00:57:20,480 Speaker 4: who aren't even not forget educated, who don't have enough 1155 00:57:20,600 --> 00:57:24,680 Speaker 4: common sense to listen to what Trump and his acolytes 1156 00:57:24,760 --> 00:57:27,760 Speaker 4: say and understand that it's false, that it it can't 1157 00:57:27,800 --> 00:57:31,440 Speaker 4: possibly be true that whatever they's I've never seen anything 1158 00:57:31,560 --> 00:57:33,840 Speaker 4: like it. It's like a it's literally like a cult. 1159 00:57:33,920 --> 00:57:37,680 Speaker 4: It really is like a anything. He says, like, well, 1160 00:57:38,000 --> 00:57:42,320 Speaker 4: Trump said, but but but Trump, He's I've never seen 1161 00:57:42,920 --> 00:57:47,240 Speaker 4: I watch and I just look like this white niggas 1162 00:57:47,280 --> 00:57:50,040 Speaker 4: lion though like he's these are lies. 1163 00:57:51,360 --> 00:57:54,280 Speaker 1: He I think they. 1164 00:57:54,720 --> 00:57:57,040 Speaker 2: I honestly don't put it past him in order to 1165 00:57:57,160 --> 00:58:00,760 Speaker 2: try to like make this COVID nineteen sit not looked 1166 00:58:00,800 --> 00:58:03,760 Speaker 2: that bad. I wouldn't put it pass him that Herman 1167 00:58:03,840 --> 00:58:05,080 Speaker 2: Kane could be in the hospital right. 1168 00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:08,000 Speaker 1: Now in a ventilator, like they wouldn't. They wouldn't tell us, 1169 00:58:08,120 --> 00:58:10,680 Speaker 1: They wouldn't tell us he could. 1170 00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:14,720 Speaker 6: We wouldn't know what that he died. He honestly car if. 1171 00:58:14,600 --> 00:58:16,959 Speaker 2: He died, I think they were weekends at Bernie's ass 1172 00:58:17,440 --> 00:58:19,000 Speaker 2: and just tried him back out to one of these 1173 00:58:19,080 --> 00:58:21,200 Speaker 2: things with some shades on it be like see Herman's 1174 00:58:21,240 --> 00:58:24,640 Speaker 2: fine fucking fliling about and whatnot, because I think they're 1175 00:58:24,720 --> 00:58:26,280 Speaker 2: that dedicated to the fucking line. 1176 00:58:28,520 --> 00:58:29,320 Speaker 3: Now, I'm not even. 1177 00:58:29,120 --> 00:58:32,800 Speaker 4: Gonna lie I would actually find that hilarious. I'm sorry, 1178 00:58:32,840 --> 00:58:34,320 Speaker 4: I know that well. 1179 00:58:34,400 --> 00:58:37,160 Speaker 1: No, I have always said, I have always. 1180 00:58:36,880 --> 00:58:38,160 Speaker 3: Said Herman Kane. 1181 00:58:38,840 --> 00:58:42,400 Speaker 2: Herman Kane is one of the most adorable politicians that 1182 00:58:42,520 --> 00:58:48,040 Speaker 2: America has because he's stupid and also ineffective, you know 1183 00:58:48,080 --> 00:58:51,040 Speaker 2: what I'm saying. So like there's like there's a there's 1184 00:58:51,040 --> 00:58:56,320 Speaker 2: an ineptitude to his belligerence, to his malignancy that allows 1185 00:58:56,360 --> 00:58:58,080 Speaker 2: me to be able to laugh at him. You know, 1186 00:58:58,320 --> 00:59:01,160 Speaker 2: Like this nigga called himself black Walnut, you know what 1187 00:59:01,200 --> 00:59:04,640 Speaker 2: I mean? He like he was, Yes, that's his nicknames, 1188 00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:06,640 Speaker 2: and he called himself that. He's like, you know, oh, 1189 00:59:06,760 --> 00:59:09,480 Speaker 2: black Walnut. He cheated on his wife with a white 1190 00:59:09,520 --> 00:59:12,720 Speaker 2: woman and that's how his fucking campaign and everybody forgets that. 1191 00:59:13,120 --> 00:59:15,560 Speaker 2: He did an interview one time where he was running 1192 00:59:15,560 --> 00:59:17,480 Speaker 2: for president and he was in the lead, and they 1193 00:59:17,600 --> 00:59:19,560 Speaker 2: interviewed him in like sixty minutes and they asked him 1194 00:59:19,560 --> 00:59:23,240 Speaker 2: about some international politics and this nigga was lying. He 1195 00:59:23,400 --> 00:59:25,320 Speaker 2: was like me taking a test I didn't study for. 1196 00:59:25,480 --> 00:59:27,640 Speaker 2: He just made shit up. They're like, so, what do 1197 00:59:27,720 --> 00:59:30,240 Speaker 2: you who's the leader of Libya? And he's like, yeah, 1198 00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:32,040 Speaker 2: I remember that Libyaya. 1199 00:59:32,200 --> 00:59:34,320 Speaker 6: He probably couldn't put down on the map Libya. 1200 00:59:35,040 --> 00:59:35,520 Speaker 1: Let's see. 1201 00:59:36,000 --> 00:59:41,640 Speaker 2: Uh no, see that's no, see that's Liberia Libya what 1202 00:59:42,680 --> 00:59:44,720 Speaker 2: is And then like he was stalling and shit, we 1203 00:59:44,840 --> 00:59:46,720 Speaker 2: did a whole episode about this. We probably talked about 1204 00:59:46,720 --> 00:59:48,560 Speaker 2: the shit for an hour, but he did a whole 1205 00:59:48,760 --> 00:59:50,920 Speaker 2: He started stalling and doing little shit that you do 1206 00:59:50,960 --> 00:59:52,040 Speaker 2: when you when you trying to make. 1207 00:59:52,000 --> 00:59:53,840 Speaker 1: Up a lot. He was like getting some way. He's like, oh, 1208 00:59:53,920 --> 00:59:55,360 Speaker 1: let me get a sip of this water real quick. 1209 00:59:55,840 --> 01:00:05,360 Speaker 1: Mm hmmm, I'm gonna get right okay, So right, yeah, 1210 01:00:05,720 --> 01:00:09,480 Speaker 1: let me take my friend. I got you coming up here. 1211 01:00:09,600 --> 01:00:13,080 Speaker 1: Let me just take my phone with me. Okay, how 1212 01:00:13,120 --> 01:00:13,440 Speaker 1: about this? 1213 01:00:13,800 --> 01:00:16,760 Speaker 2: Can I down a friend? Can I down a friend 1214 01:00:17,000 --> 01:00:20,080 Speaker 2: on this one? Okay, let's poll the audience. Can we 1215 01:00:20,160 --> 01:00:24,960 Speaker 2: poll the audience multiple they they they take two off 1216 01:00:25,000 --> 01:00:27,560 Speaker 2: the board, okay, and then I guess between the last 1217 01:00:27,640 --> 01:00:29,120 Speaker 2: two left on who's the leader. 1218 01:00:29,440 --> 01:00:31,720 Speaker 1: So like he was adorable because I knew he was 1219 01:00:31,760 --> 01:00:32,280 Speaker 1: never gonna win. 1220 01:00:32,880 --> 01:00:34,840 Speaker 2: So and then he had the nine to nine to 1221 01:00:34,960 --> 01:00:38,640 Speaker 2: nine plan because he sold Pete Sun and shit, now 1222 01:00:38,720 --> 01:00:43,440 Speaker 2: he got COVID nine nine nineteen and he in the hospital. 1223 01:00:44,080 --> 01:00:45,600 Speaker 1: It's so it's it's he. 1224 01:00:45,880 --> 01:00:47,640 Speaker 2: I mean, I hope he don't die for real. I 1225 01:00:47,720 --> 01:00:51,200 Speaker 2: know he a coon, but like he's such an adorable coon. 1226 01:00:51,240 --> 01:00:53,200 Speaker 2: I hope he don't die. Like he not a he 1227 01:00:53,360 --> 01:00:57,120 Speaker 2: not like a Jason Wentlock of you know, like he's 1228 01:00:57,160 --> 01:00:58,840 Speaker 2: not like a he don't have this active hate of 1229 01:00:58,880 --> 01:01:00,840 Speaker 2: black people in the way that out of the others, 1230 01:01:00,880 --> 01:01:05,520 Speaker 2: you know, being cards and you know, so you support. 1231 01:01:05,200 --> 01:01:07,760 Speaker 4: Trump, that's enough of an active hate of black people 1232 01:01:07,840 --> 01:01:11,360 Speaker 4: for me. That is the part of Trump. For me, 1233 01:01:12,320 --> 01:01:14,480 Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I actually know what rewind. 1234 01:01:14,560 --> 01:01:15,240 Speaker 3: I'm not sorry. 1235 01:01:15,640 --> 01:01:18,160 Speaker 4: Trump is a hard line for me. It's a hard line. 1236 01:01:18,200 --> 01:01:21,120 Speaker 4: He's he's not and that it isn't even the word 1237 01:01:21,200 --> 01:01:24,240 Speaker 4: to define him. He shouldn't be where he's at, should 1238 01:01:24,360 --> 01:01:26,480 Speaker 4: not be. It defiles the office. 1239 01:01:26,960 --> 01:01:30,240 Speaker 3: It's it's just despicable, disgusting, and it's embarrassing as a country. 1240 01:01:30,520 --> 01:01:32,800 Speaker 3: It's embarrassing. You know. 1241 01:01:33,120 --> 01:01:38,439 Speaker 1: My question is this, how responsible for Trump is Herman Kane. 1242 01:01:41,120 --> 01:01:44,400 Speaker 4: It's not about how responsible he is, because who gives 1243 01:01:44,440 --> 01:01:45,760 Speaker 4: this ship? Who's responsible for him? 1244 01:01:45,800 --> 01:01:46,800 Speaker 3: At this point? Or I do? 1245 01:01:47,000 --> 01:01:47,320 Speaker 1: I can't. 1246 01:01:47,640 --> 01:01:49,520 Speaker 2: I want all of them to die, all the people 1247 01:01:49,600 --> 01:01:52,400 Speaker 2: responsible I have to burn in hell, all the people 1248 01:01:52,600 --> 01:01:55,840 Speaker 2: that are Activeness is a difference. 1249 01:01:56,160 --> 01:01:58,920 Speaker 1: Like it might seem it might seem like a small difference. 1250 01:01:58,760 --> 01:02:01,360 Speaker 2: But big ask different to me, Like some of these 1251 01:02:01,400 --> 01:02:05,360 Speaker 2: niggas like Nick McConnell is mich McConnell is active, being 1252 01:02:05,480 --> 01:02:08,880 Speaker 2: Carson is dangerous he has power. Herman Kane is so 1253 01:02:09,240 --> 01:02:11,800 Speaker 2: on the outs with these niggas, he like wanta be 1254 01:02:11,920 --> 01:02:12,400 Speaker 2: cool with them. 1255 01:02:12,480 --> 01:02:13,600 Speaker 1: They don't even fuck with him. 1256 01:02:13,760 --> 01:02:16,560 Speaker 2: They don't give him no positions, they don't like he 1257 01:02:16,760 --> 01:02:19,080 Speaker 2: just like he's just a whack nigga for no reason, 1258 01:02:19,200 --> 01:02:19,760 Speaker 2: you know what I mean? 1259 01:02:19,880 --> 01:02:20,840 Speaker 1: But it's. 1260 01:02:22,960 --> 01:02:23,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1261 01:02:23,280 --> 01:02:25,880 Speaker 3: But here's the thing, though I don't disagree with with that. 1262 01:02:26,200 --> 01:02:26,520 Speaker 3: I don't. 1263 01:02:26,760 --> 01:02:30,040 Speaker 4: Yes, it's important to differentiate or to understand who's responsible 1264 01:02:30,120 --> 01:02:32,680 Speaker 4: for him. But at this point, and when I said 1265 01:02:32,720 --> 01:02:35,919 Speaker 4: it doesn't matter, is because it doesn't. He's he's there, 1266 01:02:36,040 --> 01:02:39,360 Speaker 4: he's causing, He's already the cancer is already spread, it's 1267 01:02:39,440 --> 01:02:42,520 Speaker 4: metastasized because the whole body. So who get a fuck? 1268 01:02:42,600 --> 01:02:44,800 Speaker 4: Which thing we ate that got us here? How do 1269 01:02:44,920 --> 01:02:47,960 Speaker 4: we eradicate it? How do we eradicate it? How do 1270 01:02:48,080 --> 01:02:50,280 Speaker 4: we get healthy again? And how do we get rid 1271 01:02:50,360 --> 01:02:53,960 Speaker 4: of all of this everything that could have possibly touched. 1272 01:02:53,800 --> 01:02:56,680 Speaker 3: This thing to make it that way? 1273 01:02:57,080 --> 01:02:59,280 Speaker 1: I agree, it's over. 1274 01:02:59,440 --> 01:03:02,960 Speaker 3: It's too now. Who's responsible for him? All of us 1275 01:03:03,040 --> 01:03:06,040 Speaker 3: are now, Let's all work the fuck together and get 1276 01:03:06,080 --> 01:03:08,080 Speaker 3: that idiot out. This should have never happened. 1277 01:03:08,320 --> 01:03:09,760 Speaker 1: I shouldn't have ever happened. 1278 01:03:11,000 --> 01:03:13,160 Speaker 3: And now we're here. We're here. 1279 01:03:15,440 --> 01:03:18,720 Speaker 1: Did Frank you for I heard a dollar? 1280 01:03:20,080 --> 01:03:22,560 Speaker 3: Do you understand what I'm saying? My family, we are 1281 01:03:22,920 --> 01:03:25,720 Speaker 3: and I'm not. It's not just me. Millions of Americans 1282 01:03:25,760 --> 01:03:28,960 Speaker 3: are going through that, you know what I mean? 1283 01:03:29,640 --> 01:03:33,920 Speaker 4: Everything, our whole everything was very tenuous, just because of 1284 01:03:33,960 --> 01:03:36,320 Speaker 4: the trajectory of my career and a lot of other things. 1285 01:03:36,360 --> 01:03:39,960 Speaker 4: My husband's been crazy banana supportive, even when he probably 1286 01:03:40,000 --> 01:03:40,640 Speaker 4: should have been like. 1287 01:03:40,720 --> 01:03:43,280 Speaker 3: Bitch, you don't need to get a day job, like 1288 01:03:43,360 --> 01:03:45,200 Speaker 3: he has been like, no, I believe in you. 1289 01:03:45,880 --> 01:03:48,760 Speaker 4: And though Heaven's opened up, I won NBC and ship 1290 01:03:48,920 --> 01:03:51,240 Speaker 4: was off to the races, and. 1291 01:03:51,320 --> 01:03:54,600 Speaker 3: Then the world ended and so that little bit aheadway 1292 01:03:54,680 --> 01:03:56,640 Speaker 3: we made we lost everything again. 1293 01:03:56,760 --> 01:03:59,680 Speaker 4: Literally we lost everything. So we're back in a position 1294 01:04:00,120 --> 01:04:02,360 Speaker 4: trying to rebuild, and we have no way to rebuild, 1295 01:04:02,400 --> 01:04:02,640 Speaker 4: Like how. 1296 01:04:02,600 --> 01:04:03,640 Speaker 1: Am I going to get a job. 1297 01:04:05,400 --> 01:04:05,560 Speaker 2: Work? 1298 01:04:06,000 --> 01:04:09,360 Speaker 4: Absolutely, And that's a position that most Americans are in it. 1299 01:04:09,560 --> 01:04:11,600 Speaker 4: So I'm at the point where I'm like, fuck that 1300 01:04:11,880 --> 01:04:17,520 Speaker 4: burn all this ship down and let's start over. We 1301 01:04:17,640 --> 01:04:20,800 Speaker 4: are also not thriving, and there's no reason why we can't. 1302 01:04:21,280 --> 01:04:25,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, all not. There shouldn't be homelessness, There shouldn't be poverty. 1303 01:04:25,640 --> 01:04:28,640 Speaker 4: None of that should should exist, none of it, and 1304 01:04:28,720 --> 01:04:30,480 Speaker 4: the and the and the way that people want to 1305 01:04:30,520 --> 01:04:34,200 Speaker 4: hold on to their superiority and their supremacy, and these 1306 01:04:34,240 --> 01:04:35,880 Speaker 4: positions baffling to me. 1307 01:04:36,880 --> 01:04:38,800 Speaker 3: I would rather everyone living. 1308 01:04:38,720 --> 01:04:43,240 Speaker 4: A mediocre middle class life than people living so extravagantly 1309 01:04:43,360 --> 01:04:43,920 Speaker 4: and people. 1310 01:04:43,760 --> 01:04:52,280 Speaker 1: Living uh oh, Frankie FROs uh there. I think the 1311 01:04:52,360 --> 01:04:54,880 Speaker 1: Internet might have cut Frankie off. She was getting too real. 1312 01:04:55,480 --> 01:04:57,560 Speaker 2: It was started to turn to some socialism, and the 1313 01:04:57,600 --> 01:04:58,960 Speaker 2: white man tried to shut her down. 1314 01:04:59,760 --> 01:05:00,920 Speaker 1: That's oh that she is. 1315 01:05:01,880 --> 01:05:06,080 Speaker 4: Okay, you back now, I'm not turning into socialism. My 1316 01:05:06,600 --> 01:05:10,120 Speaker 4: only points though, is there's no there's so much suffering. Yeah, 1317 01:05:10,160 --> 01:05:12,240 Speaker 4: and not saying that Trump is solely. 1318 01:05:12,040 --> 01:05:16,880 Speaker 3: Responsible for it, but he has definitely magnified, ithacerated. He 1319 01:05:17,000 --> 01:05:19,760 Speaker 3: exacerbated it even and he don't care like he's gotten 1320 01:05:19,840 --> 01:05:22,000 Speaker 3: rid of I know this show always when we have 1321 01:05:22,200 --> 01:05:24,960 Speaker 3: like people on for uh that we haven't talked to 1322 01:05:25,000 --> 01:05:26,800 Speaker 3: it about, it always turns it us being like fucked 1323 01:05:26,800 --> 01:05:27,400 Speaker 3: Trump for a hour. 1324 01:05:27,480 --> 01:05:29,480 Speaker 1: But whatever, it's my favorite song. 1325 01:05:30,480 --> 01:05:35,320 Speaker 2: He he exacerbated, He exacerbated it right, because even with 1326 01:05:35,480 --> 01:05:37,320 Speaker 2: this bell out that people were supposed to get where 1327 01:05:37,640 --> 01:05:40,680 Speaker 2: regular people got a twelve hundred dollars check at Best. Right, 1328 01:05:41,200 --> 01:05:44,880 Speaker 2: And if you look at the transfer of wealth for 1329 01:05:45,040 --> 01:05:47,200 Speaker 2: the programs that were supposed to help small businesses, it 1330 01:05:47,280 --> 01:05:50,200 Speaker 2: mostly went to these big ass rich businesses. Right, So 1331 01:05:50,360 --> 01:05:53,680 Speaker 2: nobody like business is still closing. They care about the economy. 1332 01:05:53,720 --> 01:05:55,800 Speaker 2: When they say the economy, they just mean them, them 1333 01:05:55,840 --> 01:05:56,520 Speaker 2: and their friends. 1334 01:05:56,600 --> 01:05:57,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I mean. 1335 01:05:57,680 --> 01:05:58,960 Speaker 3: Like the thing that kills me. 1336 01:05:59,840 --> 01:06:04,400 Speaker 2: The thing that kills me is seeing Trump be exactly 1337 01:06:04,520 --> 01:06:07,320 Speaker 2: what they said Hillary Clinton was to see Trump be 1338 01:06:07,400 --> 01:06:10,400 Speaker 2: what they accused Obama being, right, Like everything they say 1339 01:06:10,520 --> 01:06:13,200 Speaker 2: that these other people are Trump is that, and they 1340 01:06:13,280 --> 01:06:14,040 Speaker 2: don't seem as. 1341 01:06:14,000 --> 01:06:16,280 Speaker 1: Outraged about that. Like they're still more. 1342 01:06:16,200 --> 01:06:19,840 Speaker 2: Worried about Joe Biden coming into office, and like we 1343 01:06:19,960 --> 01:06:22,080 Speaker 2: need to make sure I'll never vote for him. 1344 01:06:22,080 --> 01:06:24,560 Speaker 1: I'll vote for Kanye West before I vote for And. 1345 01:06:24,600 --> 01:06:27,560 Speaker 2: You're like, my nigga, Trump is worse than just like 1346 01:06:27,640 --> 01:06:30,680 Speaker 2: if Joe Biden fucked Kanye West and they had a baby, 1347 01:06:30,880 --> 01:06:32,400 Speaker 2: it would be better than Trump. 1348 01:06:32,600 --> 01:06:34,120 Speaker 1: Like Trump is that bad. 1349 01:06:34,240 --> 01:06:38,400 Speaker 2: He's already the fucking worst. So it's frustrating to watch people. 1350 01:06:38,400 --> 01:06:40,720 Speaker 2: And yeah, it's you know, even with Herman Kaine, you know, 1351 01:06:40,840 --> 01:06:42,360 Speaker 2: like We've had a run a joke for years that 1352 01:06:42,440 --> 01:06:46,600 Speaker 2: he is the adorable Black Republican because he's you know, 1353 01:06:46,840 --> 01:06:47,760 Speaker 2: he never got. 1354 01:06:47,640 --> 01:06:48,280 Speaker 1: Close to power. 1355 01:06:48,600 --> 01:06:51,200 Speaker 2: But yeah, even with a person like Herman Kaine going 1356 01:06:51,240 --> 01:06:54,360 Speaker 2: to that rally, like either with me or against me 1357 01:06:54,440 --> 01:06:57,080 Speaker 2: at this point, like, how can you not be how 1358 01:06:57,120 --> 01:06:58,920 Speaker 2: can like all them black people at the rally, How 1359 01:06:58,960 --> 01:07:02,760 Speaker 2: can you not be like incensed at this point? How 1360 01:07:02,800 --> 01:07:05,360 Speaker 2: can you even be there with no mask on, knowing 1361 01:07:05,440 --> 01:07:08,439 Speaker 2: that if you you are much more likely to die 1362 01:07:08,520 --> 01:07:10,840 Speaker 2: of that shit than the other people in the fucking 1363 01:07:10,840 --> 01:07:12,600 Speaker 2: arena with you, and they don't care about your life. 1364 01:07:12,600 --> 01:07:14,920 Speaker 2: They're using you as a fucking token, you know what 1365 01:07:15,000 --> 01:07:16,680 Speaker 2: I'm saying. So I definitely understand. 1366 01:07:18,040 --> 01:07:20,720 Speaker 4: But see that that's because one of the most coveted 1367 01:07:20,800 --> 01:07:25,480 Speaker 4: things in American society is white approval. That is one 1368 01:07:25,520 --> 01:07:29,120 Speaker 4: of the most coveted things for everyone for whatever reason, 1369 01:07:29,560 --> 01:07:33,280 Speaker 4: because white society, you know, traditionally has. 1370 01:07:33,240 --> 01:07:35,760 Speaker 3: Been put on a pedestal. You get more of white. 1371 01:07:35,600 --> 01:07:38,000 Speaker 4: People approve you, you get you know, you're happier white people, 1372 01:07:38,040 --> 01:07:40,000 Speaker 4: you can make more money. All of these things we 1373 01:07:40,080 --> 01:07:44,080 Speaker 4: associate with the approval of white people. Right, So, even 1374 01:07:44,200 --> 01:07:47,600 Speaker 4: though we are in a horrible season. Even though all 1375 01:07:47,640 --> 01:07:50,800 Speaker 4: of those things are true, there are still black people like, well, 1376 01:07:51,440 --> 01:07:54,320 Speaker 4: I mean, but if he wins, I want to be 1377 01:07:54,400 --> 01:07:54,960 Speaker 4: on the right. 1378 01:07:54,920 --> 01:07:56,320 Speaker 3: Side, right all that shit? 1379 01:07:57,880 --> 01:07:58,080 Speaker 6: Yeah? 1380 01:07:59,400 --> 01:08:01,640 Speaker 3: Oh shit? Can we never say her name? Can we 1381 01:08:01,800 --> 01:08:03,600 Speaker 3: just call her troubladyite again? 1382 01:08:08,120 --> 01:08:08,360 Speaker 1: Again? 1383 01:08:08,520 --> 01:08:12,880 Speaker 3: She's just a horrific Where are your parents? 1384 01:08:13,200 --> 01:08:19,519 Speaker 4: And you know that the NAACP that came out and 1385 01:08:19,600 --> 01:08:22,520 Speaker 4: supported her when she tried to sue that school for racist. 1386 01:08:22,360 --> 01:08:25,160 Speaker 3: Yeah and she won doesn't exist. 1387 01:08:25,720 --> 01:08:26,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I mean. 1388 01:08:26,800 --> 01:08:29,160 Speaker 2: And the thing is, I feel like in a way, 1389 01:08:29,479 --> 01:08:32,839 Speaker 2: she's living in her own penalty, her own karmic penalty, 1390 01:08:32,920 --> 01:08:35,640 Speaker 2: because every time you look at her hair, you can 1391 01:08:35,720 --> 01:08:38,679 Speaker 2: see there's no connection to the black community with that woman, 1392 01:08:39,160 --> 01:08:42,400 Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Because no, no, no black 1393 01:08:42,479 --> 01:08:46,479 Speaker 2: women vote at ninety per clips for the Democrats, So 1394 01:08:46,760 --> 01:08:48,960 Speaker 2: like what shock could she even fucking. 1395 01:08:48,760 --> 01:08:52,120 Speaker 1: Go to to get Like she can't walk in no stops. 1396 01:08:53,240 --> 01:08:57,640 Speaker 3: No never, like whatever unless she goes in disguise. 1397 01:08:57,520 --> 01:08:59,640 Speaker 2: Right, And she's too racist to look at her at 1398 01:08:59,640 --> 01:09:02,560 Speaker 2: a fucking inhertatorial so you know, she didn't clicking on 1399 01:09:02,680 --> 01:09:03,559 Speaker 2: new YouTube links. 1400 01:09:03,680 --> 01:09:05,760 Speaker 1: She just suffering in silence over there. 1401 01:09:05,680 --> 01:09:08,040 Speaker 6: And just crispy as fun Yeah, she going over super cut. 1402 01:09:08,080 --> 01:09:10,400 Speaker 6: They just washing the ship and buy the sining. I 1403 01:09:10,479 --> 01:09:11,400 Speaker 6: asked out the door. 1404 01:09:14,160 --> 01:09:14,800 Speaker 3: A super cut. 1405 01:09:16,360 --> 01:09:19,200 Speaker 6: Yeah, like you know, they was like, yeah, you'll be 1406 01:09:19,240 --> 01:09:24,559 Speaker 6: all right. They strided death and she's just walking under 1407 01:09:26,439 --> 01:09:29,599 Speaker 6: there's no moisture nine and you know she paid probably 1408 01:09:29,600 --> 01:09:30,400 Speaker 6: one hundred dollars in. 1409 01:09:30,400 --> 01:09:32,880 Speaker 1: Them like a broom. Right they get giving her that 1410 01:09:33,200 --> 01:09:35,200 Speaker 1: that purtplus like it's terrible. 1411 01:09:35,240 --> 01:09:37,760 Speaker 6: Come on, Washing Gold, get the hell out of here, and. 1412 01:09:37,840 --> 01:09:43,880 Speaker 2: Other coronavirus news Vanilla Ice. This idiot he throw he 1413 01:09:44,000 --> 01:09:47,479 Speaker 2: threw a Fourth of July concert. He said, we didn't 1414 01:09:47,520 --> 01:09:52,800 Speaker 2: have coronavirus in the nineties, but we have it now. 1415 01:09:53,000 --> 01:09:57,240 Speaker 3: Donning what what do you what? I'm sure came so 1416 01:09:57,360 --> 01:09:58,320 Speaker 3: he should have been fine. 1417 01:09:58,800 --> 01:10:04,160 Speaker 2: Update they cancel the concert. Shut up, Yeah, I guess 1418 01:10:04,200 --> 01:10:11,040 Speaker 2: they said, all right, stop everybody go home. Elaborate everybody, 1419 01:10:11,280 --> 01:10:14,920 Speaker 2: all right, stop take your ass home. Everybody, you're not about. 1420 01:10:14,640 --> 01:10:15,120 Speaker 1: To come home. 1421 01:10:16,880 --> 01:10:18,200 Speaker 6: Locking the doors, y'all gotta go. 1422 01:10:19,040 --> 01:10:21,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, they stopped this ship. Wow, they canceled it for 1423 01:10:21,960 --> 01:10:22,559 Speaker 1: some reason. 1424 01:10:22,640 --> 01:10:25,519 Speaker 3: They said Ice concert, though. 1425 01:10:25,439 --> 01:10:26,680 Speaker 6: Who is about take this? 1426 01:10:26,760 --> 01:10:29,640 Speaker 1: Apparently I'm gonna tell you who going the white supremacist. 1427 01:10:29,840 --> 01:10:33,400 Speaker 2: Okay, that's the only people that who's left as a fan. Okay, 1428 01:10:33,720 --> 01:10:35,760 Speaker 2: sug Knight should have went ahead and just let him go, 1429 01:10:36,120 --> 01:10:41,840 Speaker 2: Okay said my office all was off from nine to 1430 01:10:41,920 --> 01:10:43,040 Speaker 2: you know what, don't even worry about it. 1431 01:10:44,240 --> 01:10:48,680 Speaker 1: He was trying right. I can't believe this, man. I 1432 01:10:48,760 --> 01:10:49,080 Speaker 1: don't know. 1433 01:10:49,280 --> 01:10:49,760 Speaker 3: I didn't know. 1434 01:10:50,640 --> 01:10:51,519 Speaker 1: I don't know what. 1435 01:10:52,439 --> 01:10:54,799 Speaker 4: I didn't even know Vanilla Ice was even a thing anymore. 1436 01:10:54,840 --> 01:10:57,960 Speaker 4: Your name is Robert van Winkle, right, like, mister van Winkle, 1437 01:10:58,080 --> 01:10:59,360 Speaker 4: can you please sit the fuck down? 1438 01:11:00,160 --> 01:11:03,880 Speaker 2: Like honestly, ever since he ruined Ninja Turtles two, I 1439 01:11:04,040 --> 01:11:05,519 Speaker 2: knew something was up with this dude. 1440 01:11:07,720 --> 01:11:12,120 Speaker 1: Something was up. Dog, I have yes, I have not 1441 01:11:12,280 --> 01:11:14,040 Speaker 1: fun with this dude, says Ninja Turtles too. 1442 01:11:14,160 --> 01:11:14,280 Speaker 3: Man. 1443 01:11:14,360 --> 01:11:16,160 Speaker 1: I was like, what the fuck is this concert doing? 1444 01:11:16,560 --> 01:11:21,640 Speaker 1: In the third act, had all them black people with 1445 01:11:21,800 --> 01:11:23,880 Speaker 1: him and ship them? No, you know those black people 1446 01:11:23,960 --> 01:11:25,439 Speaker 1: was just like the Funky Bunch. They was just dead 1447 01:11:25,479 --> 01:11:25,920 Speaker 1: to get paid. 1448 01:11:25,960 --> 01:11:28,439 Speaker 6: They it was Markey Mark and the Funky Bunch. We 1449 01:11:28,520 --> 01:11:30,000 Speaker 6: have the Funky Bunch just disappeared. 1450 01:11:30,080 --> 01:11:31,679 Speaker 1: We never even heard about the Funky Bunch? 1451 01:11:31,760 --> 01:11:33,599 Speaker 2: What day up to Marky markin talking about you care 1452 01:11:33,600 --> 01:11:36,200 Speaker 2: about black lives? Mattering, I wish the Funky Bunch would 1453 01:11:36,200 --> 01:11:36,600 Speaker 2: have been like this. 1454 01:11:36,800 --> 01:11:38,719 Speaker 1: You you never called me back. 1455 01:11:38,600 --> 01:11:41,640 Speaker 6: Mark, They're gonna do it behind the scenes, called the 1456 01:11:41,720 --> 01:11:42,680 Speaker 6: Funky Bunch, right. 1457 01:11:42,960 --> 01:11:44,360 Speaker 1: I want yes, that's what we need. 1458 01:11:45,160 --> 01:11:50,160 Speaker 3: I will be here for yes to know. I need 1459 01:11:50,240 --> 01:11:52,200 Speaker 3: to know who was in the Funky Bunch, and I 1460 01:11:52,360 --> 01:11:53,719 Speaker 3: was like, Funky Bunch member. 1461 01:11:53,600 --> 01:11:56,760 Speaker 2: Names, Yes, the Funky Bunch behind the music v H 1462 01:11:56,880 --> 01:12:01,880 Speaker 2: one somebody, Uh what are they? 1463 01:12:02,000 --> 01:12:04,320 Speaker 1: Let's see Funky Bunch members. I'm googling them right now. 1464 01:12:04,400 --> 01:12:07,120 Speaker 2: I want to know the I want to who the 1465 01:12:07,160 --> 01:12:09,400 Speaker 2: fuck are these dudes and what happened to them? Because 1466 01:12:10,120 --> 01:12:13,400 Speaker 2: I know my man, my man, Mark Warbert never looked 1467 01:12:13,439 --> 01:12:16,680 Speaker 2: out for them. Mm hmm this I'm mad that this 1468 01:12:16,720 --> 01:12:20,120 Speaker 2: ship came up in Google. So, uh, the Funky Bunch 1469 01:12:20,200 --> 01:12:25,880 Speaker 2: members because people, Okay, So Anthony Thomas from at nineteen 1470 01:12:25,920 --> 01:12:29,400 Speaker 2: eighty nine and nineteen ninety three, Hector Borrows from nineteen 1471 01:12:29,400 --> 01:12:31,240 Speaker 2: eighty nine nineteen ninety Oh wait all of them was 1472 01:12:31,280 --> 01:12:32,439 Speaker 2: from nineteen eight nine ninety three. 1473 01:12:32,840 --> 01:12:36,400 Speaker 3: Uh, he's aren't even recognizable names like that. They didn't 1474 01:12:36,400 --> 01:12:38,439 Speaker 3: know this, that was it. They were the Funky Bunches 1475 01:12:38,439 --> 01:12:38,840 Speaker 3: of Oats. 1476 01:12:39,000 --> 01:12:43,280 Speaker 1: They were They was just some niggas he knew that 1477 01:12:43,600 --> 01:12:44,240 Speaker 1: that's what they're. 1478 01:12:44,080 --> 01:12:46,800 Speaker 4: Gonna do a tour with Hallingoas is the Funky Bunch 1479 01:12:46,880 --> 01:12:49,519 Speaker 4: and Hollandoaks are gonna do a revival tour and they're 1480 01:12:49,560 --> 01:12:51,240 Speaker 4: gonna call it Funky Bunches of Oats. 1481 01:12:51,640 --> 01:12:54,360 Speaker 2: He played ball, He played ball of Daine said like 1482 01:12:54,400 --> 01:12:57,240 Speaker 2: three times and these and then it was like, y'all 1483 01:12:57,320 --> 01:12:59,720 Speaker 2: niggas want to be in the in a group with us? 1484 01:13:00,160 --> 01:13:00,280 Speaker 3: Uh? 1485 01:13:01,120 --> 01:13:05,120 Speaker 1: This is that picture? Wait, one of the funky bunches 1486 01:13:05,160 --> 01:13:05,719 Speaker 1: of white dudes. 1487 01:13:10,360 --> 01:13:12,760 Speaker 3: He's making a side face that lets you know he's 1488 01:13:12,960 --> 01:13:13,439 Speaker 3: very cool. 1489 01:13:14,120 --> 01:13:18,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, these look like a smurf, very cool. And the 1490 01:13:18,800 --> 01:13:21,360 Speaker 2: black dudes all look like theytes. 1491 01:13:21,640 --> 01:13:24,559 Speaker 6: They like the hostages. Oh, this is very ninety. Them 1492 01:13:24,640 --> 01:13:29,320 Speaker 6: hats oversized coats. 1493 01:13:29,479 --> 01:13:32,840 Speaker 1: Is that a Malcolm X hat is? It's like it's 1494 01:13:32,920 --> 01:13:34,559 Speaker 1: like not even a Malcolm X hat. 1495 01:13:34,640 --> 01:13:38,280 Speaker 2: The next ass was in like the black dudes look 1496 01:13:38,320 --> 01:13:40,400 Speaker 2: like the black dudes have on some version of almost 1497 01:13:40,479 --> 01:13:41,680 Speaker 2: like a Malcolm X hat but. 1498 01:13:44,439 --> 01:13:44,879 Speaker 3: Nipples. 1499 01:13:44,960 --> 01:13:46,800 Speaker 1: Right, Really, I did not know that. 1500 01:13:47,560 --> 01:13:50,320 Speaker 6: Oh is that a cross? What's happening to here? 1501 01:13:51,200 --> 01:13:52,840 Speaker 3: I don't know what these hats are. I don't know 1502 01:13:52,920 --> 01:13:53,400 Speaker 3: what they are. 1503 01:13:53,840 --> 01:13:56,200 Speaker 1: The rig the black and the green. 1504 01:13:56,760 --> 01:13:58,680 Speaker 5: Oh you know where they bought them at. They got 1505 01:13:58,760 --> 01:14:02,120 Speaker 5: them at the flea markets wat meat. Well, you know 1506 01:14:02,200 --> 01:14:03,160 Speaker 5: when you walk in there and. 1507 01:14:04,000 --> 01:14:04,599 Speaker 6: They had the ship. 1508 01:14:04,680 --> 01:14:09,519 Speaker 1: You don't know your boy like they look like it? 1509 01:14:10,600 --> 01:14:13,879 Speaker 5: Oh my godmmbers only jean jackets. 1510 01:14:13,960 --> 01:14:14,840 Speaker 1: What is happening to here? 1511 01:14:16,760 --> 01:14:19,519 Speaker 3: People used to dress like that. That is so terrible. 1512 01:14:19,760 --> 01:14:21,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I used to be one of them, 1513 01:14:21,920 --> 01:14:24,880 Speaker 2: me do I mean that was I definitely dressed that 1514 01:14:25,080 --> 01:14:26,120 Speaker 2: terribly before. 1515 01:14:26,120 --> 01:14:28,160 Speaker 1: I had a whole outfit. I had a fit, Okay. 1516 01:14:28,600 --> 01:14:30,880 Speaker 2: I thought you couldn't tell me my green outfit, gene 1517 01:14:30,920 --> 01:14:34,120 Speaker 2: outfit wasn't it wasn't dripped, okay, you could not tell 1518 01:14:34,240 --> 01:14:36,479 Speaker 2: me I wasn't killing it. I used to be ironing 1519 01:14:36,560 --> 01:14:38,599 Speaker 2: my outfit, laying on my bed before the first day 1520 01:14:38,640 --> 01:14:41,720 Speaker 2: of school, like I'm gonna kill these holes tomorrow and 1521 01:14:41,840 --> 01:14:44,719 Speaker 2: this green caneo. Okay, couldn't tell me nothing. 1522 01:14:45,080 --> 01:14:51,559 Speaker 3: That is so funny the nineties as on his left 1523 01:14:51,640 --> 01:14:56,439 Speaker 3: teddy right yeah, almost right now? A little bit it? 1524 01:14:57,280 --> 01:15:03,080 Speaker 1: Oh damn hold on, well google Mark nipples man, Mark 1525 01:15:03,120 --> 01:15:05,400 Speaker 1: Wahlberg got three nipples? How did you even know this? 1526 01:15:06,600 --> 01:15:10,800 Speaker 3: I'm Mark? 1527 01:15:12,720 --> 01:15:13,800 Speaker 1: Okay? Yeah. 1528 01:15:13,880 --> 01:15:16,080 Speaker 5: Back in my Jerry curR days, you couldn't tell me 1529 01:15:16,240 --> 01:15:18,640 Speaker 5: ship boy, I had that ween wind breaker this. 1530 01:15:18,680 --> 01:15:26,120 Speaker 2: Swoosh, you know, I see he got a phantom nipple. Wow, 1531 01:15:26,160 --> 01:15:28,639 Speaker 2: we got a phantom nipple situation over here, y'all. 1532 01:15:30,160 --> 01:15:32,040 Speaker 6: Know, I like Justin Beaver. 1533 01:15:33,280 --> 01:15:35,519 Speaker 2: This is a long time ago. He probably got nipple 1534 01:15:35,560 --> 01:15:37,519 Speaker 2: surgery by now. It's probably not no more. 1535 01:15:38,640 --> 01:15:39,519 Speaker 6: No it's gone now. 1536 01:15:40,320 --> 01:15:44,560 Speaker 1: Uh no, here's here. This is it's still growing in. 1537 01:15:44,760 --> 01:15:45,080 Speaker 3: You know what. 1538 01:15:45,400 --> 01:15:45,960 Speaker 1: I love this. 1539 01:15:46,240 --> 01:15:51,400 Speaker 2: Okay, Mark, love yourself. Okay, don't let these people say 1540 01:15:51,560 --> 01:15:55,320 Speaker 2: you right, you might not even be Mark Wahlberg if 1541 01:15:55,439 --> 01:15:58,000 Speaker 2: one for this nipple. This might be the difference between 1542 01:15:58,080 --> 01:15:58,640 Speaker 2: you and. 1543 01:16:00,680 --> 01:16:00,960 Speaker 1: The other. 1544 01:16:01,280 --> 01:16:03,400 Speaker 2: You learned to love yourself with your third nip on 1545 01:16:03,479 --> 01:16:06,840 Speaker 2: these other motherfuckers. You could have been zac Efron and 1546 01:16:07,320 --> 01:16:09,560 Speaker 2: and and not loved yourself, and then you wouldn't have 1547 01:16:09,600 --> 01:16:10,479 Speaker 2: never been the biggest star. 1548 01:16:10,640 --> 01:16:15,840 Speaker 1: So I don't know how Frankie knew that, but thank you, 1549 01:16:16,280 --> 01:16:16,720 Speaker 1: thank you for. 1550 01:16:18,240 --> 01:16:20,400 Speaker 4: I used to be I used to be obsessed with 1551 01:16:20,560 --> 01:16:24,160 Speaker 4: Mark Warberg. I used to just think he was the 1552 01:16:24,439 --> 01:16:26,200 Speaker 4: epitome of hotness. 1553 01:16:26,439 --> 01:16:29,160 Speaker 3: I know, uh, I know where I went wrong. Everyone 1554 01:16:29,240 --> 01:16:29,680 Speaker 3: already know. 1555 01:16:31,120 --> 01:16:33,719 Speaker 4: And I used to date a guy because he looked 1556 01:16:33,760 --> 01:16:36,880 Speaker 4: like Mark Wahlberg. So I know, I used to know 1557 01:16:37,040 --> 01:16:40,080 Speaker 4: most Mark Warburg facts. I actually spent the night at. 1558 01:16:40,000 --> 01:16:42,639 Speaker 1: His house once when I lived in l a Frankie tails. 1559 01:16:44,280 --> 01:16:49,840 Speaker 3: That's a whole other story. I mean, it wasn't anything scandalous. 1560 01:16:50,040 --> 01:16:53,360 Speaker 3: Did we almost do it? Yes, that was the plan. 1561 01:16:53,640 --> 01:17:00,519 Speaker 4: But his cousin, who I was not interested in the 1562 01:17:00,600 --> 01:17:04,719 Speaker 4: whole situation, and it didn't go down. 1563 01:17:05,360 --> 01:17:08,120 Speaker 1: Mark would like he don't sleet with black people. I'm scared. 1564 01:17:08,240 --> 01:17:10,840 Speaker 1: I'm a little skeptical of him, him and his funky 1565 01:17:10,880 --> 01:17:17,880 Speaker 1: bunch ways. I hold on, you broke up a little bit. 1566 01:17:17,920 --> 01:17:18,320 Speaker 2: What do you say. 1567 01:17:18,640 --> 01:17:20,280 Speaker 3: I mean he was cool to me. I don't know. 1568 01:17:21,920 --> 01:17:24,080 Speaker 3: I don't know what his racial history is. Well, he 1569 01:17:24,200 --> 01:17:25,280 Speaker 3: did beat the agent man. 1570 01:17:25,360 --> 01:17:27,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to see some proof. I won't see 1571 01:17:27,360 --> 01:17:30,160 Speaker 2: Mark Wahlbert black ladies. If you had to take with 1572 01:17:30,240 --> 01:17:33,000 Speaker 2: Mark Wahlbert right into the show, The Blackouts is a gmail. 1573 01:17:35,240 --> 01:17:38,759 Speaker 2: Let's get to the bottom of this. Let's get some Marky. 1574 01:17:38,840 --> 01:17:42,640 Speaker 2: Mark tells, Okay, we need to know. Let's see what 1575 01:17:42,720 --> 01:17:44,479 Speaker 2: else is happening in the news. I'm gonna get out 1576 01:17:44,479 --> 01:17:47,160 Speaker 2: of coronavirus news and get to some other news. Kanye 1577 01:17:47,320 --> 01:17:51,040 Speaker 2: West went on Twitter and announced it his he's running 1578 01:17:51,080 --> 01:17:55,960 Speaker 2: for president, which there's all sorts of reasons that it 1579 01:17:56,080 --> 01:17:58,920 Speaker 2: is almost impossible for me. I don't even think he's 1580 01:17:58,920 --> 01:18:03,080 Speaker 2: get on the ballot in fire different stage zero. He 1581 01:18:03,200 --> 01:18:06,720 Speaker 2: has no party affiliation. It's just literally a tweet, but 1582 01:18:06,840 --> 01:18:09,559 Speaker 2: it was enough to melt the whole fucking world down 1583 01:18:09,720 --> 01:18:12,960 Speaker 2: and make people feel like he's gonna split the black vote, 1584 01:18:13,000 --> 01:18:15,360 Speaker 2: which low key is racist. 1585 01:18:16,520 --> 01:18:20,920 Speaker 1: Uh right, And we were not. 1586 01:18:21,080 --> 01:18:22,400 Speaker 3: Talking about voting for Kanye. 1587 01:18:22,520 --> 01:18:24,640 Speaker 1: I was at the last Yeah, he wasn't on he 1588 01:18:25,840 --> 01:18:30,880 Speaker 1: discussion that that also, it is so fucking racist to 1589 01:18:31,040 --> 01:18:34,080 Speaker 1: say that black people just gonna be like Kanye West. 1590 01:18:34,240 --> 01:18:35,559 Speaker 1: I can't control myself. 1591 01:18:36,360 --> 01:18:36,920 Speaker 3: I meant to go. 1592 01:18:37,320 --> 01:18:37,840 Speaker 1: I meant to go. 1593 01:18:38,320 --> 01:18:40,160 Speaker 2: I meant to go vote for the person that was 1594 01:18:40,160 --> 01:18:41,960 Speaker 2: gonna help me get better rights in the job and 1595 01:18:42,040 --> 01:18:42,880 Speaker 2: all this other stuff. 1596 01:18:43,000 --> 01:18:46,439 Speaker 1: But you know what, it's Kanye West. I love his shoes. 1597 01:18:46,640 --> 01:18:50,160 Speaker 3: Like they left this christy piece of chicken on top 1598 01:18:50,200 --> 01:18:51,280 Speaker 3: of it, you have. 1599 01:18:55,640 --> 01:18:56,719 Speaker 1: I showed up and they. 1600 01:18:58,120 --> 01:19:01,360 Speaker 2: Let me put my photoouns down and go ahead, vote 1601 01:19:01,920 --> 01:19:04,400 Speaker 2: you fucking racy piece of ship like even and it 1602 01:19:04,520 --> 01:19:06,080 Speaker 2: was And the thing that was killing me is because 1603 01:19:06,080 --> 01:19:07,400 Speaker 2: you would you know, you would think it would be 1604 01:19:07,439 --> 01:19:08,400 Speaker 2: like republican racist. 1605 01:19:08,560 --> 01:19:11,000 Speaker 1: It was a lot of liberal white people like if I. 1606 01:19:11,080 --> 01:19:12,800 Speaker 2: Better than not see anyone vote for Kanye West, I 1607 01:19:12,880 --> 01:19:14,880 Speaker 2: just want to go on each person page like, suck 1608 01:19:15,240 --> 01:19:17,639 Speaker 2: my dick, you racist dummy. 1609 01:19:17,880 --> 01:19:18,880 Speaker 1: No one's gonna vote for this. 1610 01:19:19,000 --> 01:19:21,200 Speaker 2: If anyone's gonna vote for him, it'll be like the 1611 01:19:21,360 --> 01:19:24,479 Speaker 2: cool white people that think like voting for Jill Stein 1612 01:19:24,640 --> 01:19:26,559 Speaker 2: was a good move, or it's not gonna be black 1613 01:19:26,600 --> 01:19:28,000 Speaker 2: people for sure. 1614 01:19:29,760 --> 01:19:31,799 Speaker 1: Anyway, this nigga running, I don't care. 1615 01:19:33,320 --> 01:19:36,479 Speaker 3: At the fee of people. It's the Jill Stein voters that. 1616 01:19:38,320 --> 01:19:38,600 Speaker 1: Come on. 1617 01:19:40,240 --> 01:19:43,400 Speaker 2: Maron giving away to vote for no reason. She want 1618 01:19:43,479 --> 01:19:46,360 Speaker 2: every state, all the states that the three states that 1619 01:19:46,520 --> 01:19:49,840 Speaker 2: Hillary needed had them fucking Jill Stein voters and a 1620 01:19:49,920 --> 01:19:52,000 Speaker 2: bigger number than the margin of defeat. 1621 01:19:52,479 --> 01:19:56,280 Speaker 1: So, yeah, suck my dick. Y'all are terrible, Ye. 1622 01:19:57,320 --> 01:19:59,360 Speaker 3: So I put a lot of the blame at the 1623 01:19:59,360 --> 01:20:01,040 Speaker 3: feet of those a lot. 1624 01:20:00,960 --> 01:20:03,960 Speaker 2: Of that, A lot somebody was And then the other thing, 1625 01:20:04,520 --> 01:20:07,479 Speaker 2: because there's this thing that people do now where they 1626 01:20:07,560 --> 01:20:10,320 Speaker 2: try to turn everything to like a big fast conspiracy. 1627 01:20:10,840 --> 01:20:14,240 Speaker 2: So that people were like, because I said, look in 1628 01:20:14,320 --> 01:20:19,000 Speaker 2: a nation where we've been gas lit and we're paranoid 1629 01:20:19,120 --> 01:20:20,960 Speaker 2: now after all the ship we've been through in the 1630 01:20:21,040 --> 01:20:24,439 Speaker 2: last three and a half years, Kanye West running is 1631 01:20:24,720 --> 01:20:28,000 Speaker 2: just in this polarized environment is just enough for some 1632 01:20:28,160 --> 01:20:28,679 Speaker 2: of y'all. 1633 01:20:28,560 --> 01:20:31,240 Speaker 1: Expiraling to this, Like and what if he wins? 1634 01:20:32,160 --> 01:20:34,560 Speaker 2: We said, don't take Trump serious either, and it's like, 1635 01:20:35,120 --> 01:20:37,840 Speaker 2: this is not the same thing. He didn't go through 1636 01:20:37,920 --> 01:20:41,559 Speaker 2: any primaries. He hasn't done a single debate, he hasn't 1637 01:20:41,680 --> 01:20:45,880 Speaker 2: like this is such a like goofball right moment on 1638 01:20:46,520 --> 01:20:49,880 Speaker 2: July fucking four, you didn't even buy his last album. 1639 01:20:50,040 --> 01:20:51,679 Speaker 2: Let's all calm the fuck down. 1640 01:20:52,360 --> 01:20:54,719 Speaker 6: You don't like his wife's family. What are we talking about? 1641 01:20:55,600 --> 01:21:00,439 Speaker 2: But someone responded and said, right, because what if he's 1642 01:21:00,520 --> 01:21:03,519 Speaker 2: doing this, it's a distraction from what's really happening. 1643 01:21:03,760 --> 01:21:05,680 Speaker 1: And I was like, no, nigga, his life is a 1644 01:21:05,760 --> 01:21:08,839 Speaker 1: distraction every day, Like this isn't special. 1645 01:21:08,960 --> 01:21:11,599 Speaker 2: This is is Kanye on July fourth, July fifth, It'll 1646 01:21:11,600 --> 01:21:14,840 Speaker 2: be some lovea bullshit wait July six, Like, you can't 1647 01:21:14,880 --> 01:21:17,639 Speaker 2: get this dude that much. He's trying to help He's 1648 01:21:17,680 --> 01:21:20,479 Speaker 2: trying to help Trump win. He don't give He's trying 1649 01:21:20,479 --> 01:21:22,280 Speaker 2: to help Kanye get attention. 1650 01:21:22,720 --> 01:21:25,799 Speaker 1: That's what he do. So it was trash anyway. 1651 01:21:25,840 --> 01:21:29,519 Speaker 3: Good luck to him, no bad luck bad look, I 1652 01:21:29,560 --> 01:21:30,400 Speaker 3: wish him bad luck. 1653 01:21:30,560 --> 01:21:33,000 Speaker 2: Can't wait to hear his platform, you know, go to 1654 01:21:33,080 --> 01:21:37,639 Speaker 2: his website, see what his uh see what his campaign 1655 01:21:37,760 --> 01:21:38,400 Speaker 2: slogans are. 1656 01:21:39,200 --> 01:21:42,160 Speaker 1: Who designs that? You know, buy some of his trash. 1657 01:21:45,000 --> 01:21:48,120 Speaker 4: That's my promise twenty one. What are you talking about? 1658 01:21:48,200 --> 01:21:53,000 Speaker 4: Kane ship dumb ass down. That's that's his whole campaign, 1659 01:21:53,080 --> 01:21:53,679 Speaker 4: that's his start. 1660 01:21:53,800 --> 01:22:02,920 Speaker 1: In the end of his campaign, Kanyema. 1661 01:22:00,360 --> 01:22:02,840 Speaker 3: Sparah comes back like you get your. 1662 01:22:02,800 --> 01:22:05,080 Speaker 1: Black ass down him off to the bay stage. 1663 01:22:05,960 --> 01:22:09,160 Speaker 4: I ain't saying nothing when you married that damn girl, 1664 01:22:09,439 --> 01:22:10,479 Speaker 4: you ain't nothing about that ship. 1665 01:22:10,560 --> 01:22:11,400 Speaker 3: But I had to come back to. 1666 01:22:14,800 --> 01:22:17,120 Speaker 5: And the Tesla dude supported him, so you know it's 1667 01:22:17,160 --> 01:22:19,280 Speaker 5: more behind you know, behind that. He's like a real 1668 01:22:19,400 --> 01:22:20,400 Speaker 5: living lex luthor. 1669 01:22:20,640 --> 01:22:23,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, Elon much he can't trust him. He's a super villain. 1670 01:22:23,400 --> 01:22:25,200 Speaker 6: Ain'ty dog like he just be doing whatever. 1671 01:22:25,439 --> 01:22:27,719 Speaker 1: But he's so rich though that he just be doing whatever. 1672 01:22:27,840 --> 01:22:30,679 Speaker 1: It's not even like a plan to his ship. Elon 1673 01:22:30,840 --> 01:22:31,679 Speaker 1: must just be out. 1674 01:22:31,520 --> 01:22:35,200 Speaker 2: Here fucking trying to you know, fucking grimes naming his 1675 01:22:35,360 --> 01:22:38,360 Speaker 2: kids at the algebraic equations like, why do we take 1676 01:22:38,439 --> 01:22:39,519 Speaker 2: him serious because he's rich? 1677 01:22:39,640 --> 01:22:40,400 Speaker 1: Who kids? A fuck? 1678 01:22:41,760 --> 01:22:42,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't care. 1679 01:22:43,040 --> 01:22:44,519 Speaker 4: I know a lot of rich idiots. I know a 1680 01:22:44,600 --> 01:22:48,040 Speaker 4: lot of people with multiple degrees that are fucking morons. 1681 01:22:48,479 --> 01:22:50,960 Speaker 4: I know people that dropped out of school that are geniuses. 1682 01:22:51,120 --> 01:22:54,840 Speaker 4: So you know you ain't wealthy. It means nothing out there. 1683 01:22:54,920 --> 01:22:57,360 Speaker 3: It means something went right enough in your life that 1684 01:22:57,479 --> 01:22:59,599 Speaker 3: you made a lot of money. That's what that means. 1685 01:23:02,040 --> 01:23:05,519 Speaker 1: Now, Frankie, do you sleep in your house with your 1686 01:23:05,600 --> 01:23:07,040 Speaker 1: bedroom door open? Or close? 1687 01:23:08,920 --> 01:23:10,639 Speaker 3: What bedroom door open? 1688 01:23:11,000 --> 01:23:13,520 Speaker 4: I am not giving an open invitation to the monsters 1689 01:23:13,560 --> 01:23:14,920 Speaker 4: are insane. 1690 01:23:15,240 --> 01:23:18,800 Speaker 2: Absolutely we close it here too. Now the other question 1691 01:23:19,240 --> 01:23:23,840 Speaker 2: a new, a new question has come up because scientists 1692 01:23:23,880 --> 01:23:28,960 Speaker 2: have proven that if you go to sleep in your 1693 01:23:29,000 --> 01:23:31,760 Speaker 2: house and you want better sleep, you should. 1694 01:23:31,560 --> 01:23:32,400 Speaker 1: Make it cold. 1695 01:23:34,360 --> 01:23:37,720 Speaker 2: My house is always freezing ours as well, and we 1696 01:23:37,840 --> 01:23:40,400 Speaker 2: do sleep. We do sleep well around here. I don't mean, 1697 01:23:41,640 --> 01:23:43,000 Speaker 2: I don't mean the brag, but we. 1698 01:23:43,120 --> 01:23:45,400 Speaker 6: Do sleep well because then if you get hot and 1699 01:23:45,439 --> 01:23:46,080 Speaker 6: you just kick. 1700 01:23:45,960 --> 01:23:50,200 Speaker 1: The covers off, right, So yeah, it helps your body 1701 01:23:50,240 --> 01:23:54,160 Speaker 1: create melowtonin and you end up. 1702 01:23:55,880 --> 01:23:59,679 Speaker 2: Sleeping better because your temperature natural our body temperature naturally 1703 01:23:59,720 --> 01:24:01,800 Speaker 2: dec used a night, which singles our body to increase 1704 01:24:01,840 --> 01:24:05,679 Speaker 2: melatonin production. A cool room will help the cool cool 1705 01:24:05,720 --> 01:24:07,920 Speaker 2: the body so that our body temping tore drops quicker 1706 01:24:08,280 --> 01:24:10,920 Speaker 2: and our melotonin production increases. 1707 01:24:12,479 --> 01:24:14,879 Speaker 1: So it looks like all three of us are cold sleepers. 1708 01:24:15,280 --> 01:24:17,519 Speaker 2: But I did see a few people when I shared 1709 01:24:17,560 --> 01:24:20,560 Speaker 2: this article that said that like, nah, I sleep with 1710 01:24:20,640 --> 01:24:21,840 Speaker 2: it hot, and I just don't. 1711 01:24:21,920 --> 01:24:23,599 Speaker 1: I just want to know who hurt you, that's all. 1712 01:24:25,080 --> 01:24:26,920 Speaker 6: And somebody talk about a chat. Yeah, well people with 1713 01:24:27,000 --> 01:24:30,000 Speaker 6: hot flashes. Yeah, our flashes ain't no. 1714 01:24:30,120 --> 01:24:30,240 Speaker 2: You know. 1715 01:24:30,320 --> 01:24:32,320 Speaker 5: I used to think my mom was a lunatic when 1716 01:24:32,360 --> 01:24:34,280 Speaker 5: I was a child because she was just burst out 1717 01:24:34,280 --> 01:24:36,519 Speaker 5: in the sweat, take it all off, lay on the floor, nigga. 1718 01:24:36,360 --> 01:24:38,000 Speaker 6: My bo's wrong with you? And I realized that she 1719 01:24:38,080 --> 01:24:39,040 Speaker 6: was going through many balls. 1720 01:24:40,800 --> 01:24:45,800 Speaker 3: Cat said that she's an open door sleeper. If I 1721 01:24:45,920 --> 01:24:48,400 Speaker 3: leave my door open, it's like I'm one hundred percent 1722 01:24:48,560 --> 01:24:53,000 Speaker 3: certain that murderers and vampires are gonna get into my 1723 01:24:53,120 --> 01:24:56,080 Speaker 3: house and they're gonna come right straight to my room 1724 01:24:56,080 --> 01:24:58,280 Speaker 3: because the door is gonna be open. Okay, this is 1725 01:24:58,320 --> 01:24:59,960 Speaker 3: exactly where they're gonna murder me. 1726 01:25:00,080 --> 01:25:01,360 Speaker 6: Better question, do you lock it? 1727 01:25:03,280 --> 01:25:04,080 Speaker 3: No? That's weird. 1728 01:25:04,680 --> 01:25:08,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, but she has a child, don't I don't think 1729 01:25:08,160 --> 01:25:10,519 Speaker 1: people with kids locked the door. I don't think any 1730 01:25:10,560 --> 01:25:11,800 Speaker 1: of them would we locked it. 1731 01:25:12,760 --> 01:25:15,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, my daughter's got text door and I don't care 1732 01:25:15,240 --> 01:25:18,960 Speaker 4: where is if. My husband and I are like, hmm, 1733 01:25:19,080 --> 01:25:21,080 Speaker 4: should we She's immediately like. 1734 01:25:21,439 --> 01:25:23,439 Speaker 3: And he put it in. Let me open the door, 1735 01:25:23,720 --> 01:25:26,960 Speaker 3: like I don't care what the time of day that is. 1736 01:25:27,439 --> 01:25:30,639 Speaker 4: She instantaneously knows and she's opening that door, and we're 1737 01:25:30,760 --> 01:25:33,320 Speaker 4: just like, come on, dog, I don't need you to 1738 01:25:33,400 --> 01:25:35,560 Speaker 4: get out. Yes, it's twelve in the afternoon, and no, 1739 01:25:35,600 --> 01:25:37,519 Speaker 4: we probably shouldn't be but naked in the middle of 1740 01:25:37,600 --> 01:25:38,320 Speaker 4: the bed, but. 1741 01:25:38,360 --> 01:25:39,760 Speaker 3: I need you out of my room right now. 1742 01:25:40,240 --> 01:25:45,479 Speaker 1: Right. I'm just saying, let's see the family of Korean Gains. 1743 01:25:45,640 --> 01:25:46,400 Speaker 1: You remember her. 1744 01:25:46,520 --> 01:25:50,240 Speaker 2: She was killed by the police. It was she was 1745 01:25:50,320 --> 01:25:55,080 Speaker 2: on Facebook live. Facebook cut the feed by because the 1746 01:25:55,120 --> 01:25:57,360 Speaker 2: police asked them to, and then they went in there 1747 01:25:57,360 --> 01:25:58,200 Speaker 2: and shot up the house. 1748 01:25:58,240 --> 01:26:00,120 Speaker 1: They killed her. They actually shot her child. 1749 01:26:01,840 --> 01:26:02,280 Speaker 6: Years ago. 1750 01:26:03,439 --> 01:26:05,800 Speaker 1: Karen Games, this is maybe like two or three years 1751 01:26:05,840 --> 01:26:13,799 Speaker 1: ago at least. Well, okay, so twenty sixteen in Baltimore County. 1752 01:26:15,200 --> 01:26:18,599 Speaker 2: She was having like I can't remember if they had 1753 01:26:18,680 --> 01:26:20,599 Speaker 2: like a I think they had a warrant for arrest 1754 01:26:20,680 --> 01:26:23,280 Speaker 2: because of like a traffic stop or something or something 1755 01:26:23,400 --> 01:26:23,560 Speaker 2: like that. 1756 01:26:23,800 --> 01:26:25,960 Speaker 1: Like it was just something weird and. 1757 01:26:26,040 --> 01:26:29,320 Speaker 3: So something benign and simple, nothing. 1758 01:26:30,200 --> 01:26:34,639 Speaker 2: Right, And so they came to our house and they 1759 01:26:34,800 --> 01:26:37,840 Speaker 2: were it was an hour's long standoff. She was on 1760 01:26:38,000 --> 01:26:41,839 Speaker 2: insta Facebook live showing people like this is what's happening. 1761 01:26:42,040 --> 01:26:46,240 Speaker 2: I'm in the house with my child, and they asked 1762 01:26:46,360 --> 01:26:49,840 Speaker 2: Facebook the police to turn off her feed so people 1763 01:26:49,840 --> 01:26:52,479 Speaker 2: couldn't see what was happening live. They basically and they 1764 01:26:52,560 --> 01:26:54,760 Speaker 2: knew she was armed as well. So then they came 1765 01:26:54,840 --> 01:26:57,400 Speaker 2: in the house, they shot her. They shot so many bullets, 1766 01:26:57,400 --> 01:27:00,400 Speaker 2: they end up shooting her child. They did and killed 1767 01:27:00,400 --> 01:27:03,120 Speaker 2: the child, but they did injure the child. 1768 01:27:04,360 --> 01:27:06,320 Speaker 1: And then when they I. 1769 01:27:06,400 --> 01:27:11,200 Speaker 3: Do remember this, you very beautiful young mother. I remember that. 1770 01:27:11,439 --> 01:27:12,240 Speaker 3: I remember now. 1771 01:27:12,439 --> 01:27:14,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, she's one of those She's one of those 1772 01:27:14,720 --> 01:27:17,400 Speaker 2: women that I mean, there's so many people that have 1773 01:27:17,439 --> 01:27:19,479 Speaker 2: been killed by the police, and you know, different ones 1774 01:27:19,600 --> 01:27:22,640 Speaker 2: like affect people differently. But I don't know why, but 1775 01:27:22,800 --> 01:27:25,920 Speaker 2: her face just fucking I can never get it out 1776 01:27:25,960 --> 01:27:27,439 Speaker 2: of my head, you know what I mean. 1777 01:27:27,560 --> 01:27:30,519 Speaker 1: It's been years, but it's like it's almost like you 1778 01:27:30,560 --> 01:27:31,280 Speaker 1: could have known her. 1779 01:27:31,400 --> 01:27:33,200 Speaker 2: I guess you could feel that way about any of them, 1780 01:27:33,240 --> 01:27:35,240 Speaker 2: but something specifically about her. 1781 01:27:35,360 --> 01:27:37,880 Speaker 1: Just feel like you could have known Korean games. 1782 01:27:37,680 --> 01:27:44,880 Speaker 4: And Tamyr rights for yeah, yeah, yeah, Tamyr watching that, 1783 01:27:45,760 --> 01:27:47,760 Speaker 4: I think I can't even count in the number of 1784 01:27:47,840 --> 01:27:51,559 Speaker 4: times I watched that video because it's so you as 1785 01:27:51,600 --> 01:27:55,120 Speaker 4: you're watching it. Oh, I see is a little a 1786 01:27:55,240 --> 01:27:58,200 Speaker 4: baby playing, a kid playing, right, but I see, you know, 1787 01:27:58,360 --> 01:28:04,080 Speaker 4: and then to see him so quickly seconds driver, no conversation, 1788 01:28:04,320 --> 01:28:05,479 Speaker 4: bang bang, and he's. 1789 01:28:05,360 --> 01:28:11,320 Speaker 1: Dead, and I'm like, I don't Yeah, it's so weird, man. 1790 01:28:11,479 --> 01:28:12,760 Speaker 1: But yeah. 1791 01:28:12,920 --> 01:28:18,240 Speaker 2: So Originally, originally a grand jury awarded the family thirty 1792 01:28:18,280 --> 01:28:21,479 Speaker 2: eight million dollars, but then a year later the decision 1793 01:28:21,600 --> 01:28:24,519 Speaker 2: was reversed by Baltimore County Circuit Court judge. 1794 01:28:25,240 --> 01:28:27,400 Speaker 1: But then this week. 1795 01:28:29,200 --> 01:28:32,160 Speaker 2: A recent rule essentially says the judge is wrong, especially 1796 01:28:32,200 --> 01:28:35,240 Speaker 2: the pros court ruled to reinstate the thirty eight million 1797 01:28:35,280 --> 01:28:38,200 Speaker 2: dollar verdict awarded to them in the civil suit. Games 1798 01:28:38,240 --> 01:28:40,519 Speaker 2: was shot and killed by Baltimore for yeah, So it 1799 01:28:40,680 --> 01:28:43,720 Speaker 2: just goes back into how how she passed and all 1800 01:28:43,800 --> 01:28:46,560 Speaker 2: this stuff. So I'm glad that they're getting money, but 1801 01:28:46,720 --> 01:28:48,280 Speaker 2: money isn't going to bring her back. 1802 01:28:48,360 --> 01:28:51,000 Speaker 1: But it's really the closest thing, doesn't. 1803 01:28:52,680 --> 01:28:55,320 Speaker 3: Right, you know, And we're not We're not replaceable like that, 1804 01:28:55,640 --> 01:28:59,040 Speaker 3: you know. And I don't understand why we well, we 1805 01:28:59,160 --> 01:29:02,240 Speaker 3: understand why this whole thing like this has been debilitating, 1806 01:29:02,880 --> 01:29:04,840 Speaker 3: you know, for me and as well as a lot 1807 01:29:04,920 --> 01:29:07,080 Speaker 3: of Americans, mainly Black Americans. 1808 01:29:07,120 --> 01:29:10,439 Speaker 4: I know that I haven't been super friendly with my 1809 01:29:10,840 --> 01:29:13,960 Speaker 4: white friends. And it's not because you know, I now 1810 01:29:14,080 --> 01:29:15,160 Speaker 4: don't like my white friends. 1811 01:29:15,200 --> 01:29:17,600 Speaker 3: It's just they don't understand. And I don't feel like 1812 01:29:17,800 --> 01:29:21,360 Speaker 3: sharing my pain with them because it's too it's too much. 1813 01:29:21,400 --> 01:29:22,040 Speaker 3: It's not for you. 1814 01:29:22,240 --> 01:29:24,600 Speaker 4: So you know, I know when I talk to my 1815 01:29:24,720 --> 01:29:28,240 Speaker 4: black friends that we're talking on the same playing field, 1816 01:29:28,240 --> 01:29:31,000 Speaker 4: We're coming from the same level, we're feeling the same thing. 1817 01:29:31,479 --> 01:29:35,280 Speaker 4: When when my white friends are calling and asking questions, 1818 01:29:35,680 --> 01:29:37,000 Speaker 4: it feels like you're observing. 1819 01:29:37,560 --> 01:29:40,000 Speaker 3: It feels like you're looking for absolution. I can't give 1820 01:29:40,040 --> 01:29:42,320 Speaker 3: that to you, you know. I had a discussion. 1821 01:29:43,280 --> 01:29:45,360 Speaker 2: I had a discussion the other day with a person 1822 01:29:45,479 --> 01:29:48,200 Speaker 2: where I shared an article on Facebook, and it was 1823 01:29:49,120 --> 01:29:52,479 Speaker 2: about Beyonce and her mama, Mama Tina. 1824 01:29:53,120 --> 01:29:55,280 Speaker 1: She been going on the internet defending Beyonce. 1825 01:29:55,160 --> 01:29:57,639 Speaker 6: Lately, she's like, my baby, ain't got your saying nothing, 1826 01:29:57,680 --> 01:29:58,360 Speaker 6: but I'm tired of you. 1827 01:29:58,800 --> 01:29:59,639 Speaker 1: She's tired of the shit. 1828 01:30:00,000 --> 01:30:02,080 Speaker 2: A lot of people coming from Beyonce out of nowhere, 1829 01:30:02,479 --> 01:30:04,680 Speaker 2: when Beyonce is one of those people that actually does 1830 01:30:04,760 --> 01:30:08,720 Speaker 2: try to help people like Dollar, I get the whole 1831 01:30:08,800 --> 01:30:11,080 Speaker 2: arguments against capitalism and stuff, but you're not gonna change 1832 01:30:11,080 --> 01:30:15,519 Speaker 2: it by chastising Beyonce, like that's not gonna change the system. 1833 01:30:15,560 --> 01:30:17,200 Speaker 1: If you want change the system, change the system. And 1834 01:30:17,240 --> 01:30:20,200 Speaker 1: then not to mention that's like we give such a 1835 01:30:20,280 --> 01:30:22,160 Speaker 1: pass to white capitalists that. 1836 01:30:22,320 --> 01:30:24,800 Speaker 2: Have much more money in being richer much longer and 1837 01:30:24,960 --> 01:30:27,519 Speaker 2: somehow we but we come for like the niggas that 1838 01:30:27,640 --> 01:30:28,160 Speaker 2: just have money. 1839 01:30:28,200 --> 01:30:30,240 Speaker 1: For five minutes, we're like, you need to give it up. 1840 01:30:30,360 --> 01:30:30,559 Speaker 3: Sis. 1841 01:30:30,720 --> 01:30:34,360 Speaker 1: Okay, first of all, we not gonna like what I just. 1842 01:30:34,400 --> 01:30:38,080 Speaker 2: Got this money, so and I'm actually trying, like Elon Musk, 1843 01:30:38,080 --> 01:30:40,880 Speaker 2: ain't giving no motherfucking money Black lives matter or bailing 1844 01:30:40,920 --> 01:30:41,360 Speaker 2: nobody out. 1845 01:30:41,400 --> 01:30:43,479 Speaker 1: They don't give a fuck about us. Jeff Bezos ain't 1846 01:30:43,520 --> 01:30:46,760 Speaker 1: doing shit like shit, she don't even own the means of. 1847 01:30:46,760 --> 01:30:49,439 Speaker 2: Production like these. She actually made it through her fucking 1848 01:30:49,840 --> 01:30:51,200 Speaker 2: wits and talented. 1849 01:30:51,200 --> 01:30:51,400 Speaker 1: Shit. 1850 01:30:51,439 --> 01:30:53,280 Speaker 2: Anyway, I don't want to turn this into a Beyonce 1851 01:30:53,400 --> 01:30:56,000 Speaker 2: stand moment, but I will, but I don't want to. 1852 01:30:56,840 --> 01:31:01,000 Speaker 2: My point was the person was like, uh, someone one 1853 01:31:01,040 --> 01:31:02,960 Speaker 2: of her fans was defending her, and that was like, listen, 1854 01:31:03,040 --> 01:31:06,200 Speaker 2: if Beyonnest it was just only about getting money, she 1855 01:31:06,280 --> 01:31:11,519 Speaker 2: wouldn't even be talking about race because you make this yeah, 1856 01:31:11,680 --> 01:31:15,840 Speaker 2: like not self titled, but Lemonade. Lemonade was one of 1857 01:31:15,920 --> 01:31:20,479 Speaker 2: her lowest selling albums compared to the other albums, But 1858 01:31:20,880 --> 01:31:22,960 Speaker 2: a lot of that's because white people get offended when 1859 01:31:22,960 --> 01:31:25,160 Speaker 2: you talk about race. She didn't say anything on that 1860 01:31:25,320 --> 01:31:28,640 Speaker 2: album that was controversial or fucked up or any of 1861 01:31:28,720 --> 01:31:30,840 Speaker 2: that stuff. But white people get this ship in their 1862 01:31:30,960 --> 01:31:33,719 Speaker 2: chests where it's like, no, you can't be talking about 1863 01:31:34,760 --> 01:31:38,120 Speaker 2: police cars and you know, I like Negro noses. 1864 01:31:37,800 --> 01:31:40,000 Speaker 1: And shit that you know, what about my nose? Okay, 1865 01:31:40,120 --> 01:31:41,280 Speaker 1: what about Anglo noses? 1866 01:31:41,600 --> 01:31:41,880 Speaker 3: And so. 1867 01:31:44,640 --> 01:31:47,479 Speaker 2: Right, And so this person, you know, well meaning person 1868 01:31:47,560 --> 01:31:49,160 Speaker 2: I only know them through Facebook for a couple of 1869 01:31:49,200 --> 01:31:54,240 Speaker 2: years of a white person was like, well, it's really 1870 01:31:54,280 --> 01:31:57,600 Speaker 2: an album about a woman and going you know, like 1871 01:31:58,120 --> 01:32:01,200 Speaker 2: going through this situation with this man and and like 1872 01:32:01,479 --> 01:32:04,439 Speaker 2: really coming to value herself and blah blah blah said yeah, 1873 01:32:05,000 --> 01:32:08,240 Speaker 2: but it's also a very black album. It's a black 1874 01:32:08,760 --> 01:32:11,360 Speaker 2: woman album. It's an album I think. You know, he's 1875 01:32:11,439 --> 01:32:13,360 Speaker 2: he's like, you know, I feel that it's like an 1876 01:32:13,439 --> 01:32:16,080 Speaker 2: album for feminine people because he's gay and whatnot. And 1877 01:32:16,200 --> 01:32:18,519 Speaker 2: I was like, it is for feminine people, and it 1878 01:32:18,640 --> 01:32:21,240 Speaker 2: is for black people, but it's specifically for black women, 1879 01:32:21,360 --> 01:32:24,240 Speaker 2: like you can get their lives to that album. 1880 01:32:24,000 --> 01:32:26,439 Speaker 6: And more than any other group, not trying to be funny, 1881 01:32:26,479 --> 01:32:27,080 Speaker 6: more than any of. 1882 01:32:27,080 --> 01:32:30,400 Speaker 2: The Remember the Visual Album when on HBO, like that 1883 01:32:30,479 --> 01:32:33,599 Speaker 2: shit is all black women daughters of the Dust imagery. 1884 01:32:34,160 --> 01:32:36,479 Speaker 2: You had a fucking I think she even had the 1885 01:32:36,560 --> 01:32:38,559 Speaker 2: mother so many people killed by the police in there. 1886 01:32:39,040 --> 01:32:41,880 Speaker 2: Serena Williams is in there, like it's a black woman 1887 01:32:42,320 --> 01:32:45,160 Speaker 2: album and celebration. It doesn't mean there's nothing for anyone 1888 01:32:45,240 --> 01:32:50,000 Speaker 2: else any of that stuff. So, but this person wouldn't 1889 01:32:50,080 --> 01:32:50,280 Speaker 2: let it. 1890 01:32:50,400 --> 01:32:50,960 Speaker 5: Go, you know. 1891 01:32:51,760 --> 01:32:54,040 Speaker 2: And it was to the point where I was just like, 1892 01:32:54,280 --> 01:32:57,840 Speaker 2: you know what, it's not it's more so that you 1893 01:32:58,040 --> 01:33:01,080 Speaker 2: won't that you won't let this thing be because they 1894 01:33:01,120 --> 01:33:04,120 Speaker 2: brought up like well I think it was beat Miller 1895 01:33:04,280 --> 01:33:07,320 Speaker 2: or not Bett Miller Barbara streissing like Barbara streisand did 1896 01:33:07,360 --> 01:33:08,960 Speaker 2: an album where she kind of leaning to her Jewish 1897 01:33:09,040 --> 01:33:10,800 Speaker 2: roots and stuff, and I was like, being Jewish in 1898 01:33:10,920 --> 01:33:13,400 Speaker 2: America is not the same as being black. 1899 01:33:13,479 --> 01:33:17,080 Speaker 1: Like the Jewish people can be accepted into whiteness. 1900 01:33:17,560 --> 01:33:19,519 Speaker 2: They if they can't be accepted into whiteness, they can 1901 01:33:19,600 --> 01:33:22,960 Speaker 2: at least be accepted into not blackness, which every minority 1902 01:33:22,960 --> 01:33:25,120 Speaker 2: group except black people can be a part of. 1903 01:33:25,560 --> 01:33:27,760 Speaker 6: And so I was like, this is different, and they 1904 01:33:27,800 --> 01:33:30,640 Speaker 6: don't have the same history in America, right, And so. 1905 01:33:31,040 --> 01:33:32,400 Speaker 2: It got to the point where I was just like, 1906 01:33:32,880 --> 01:33:36,360 Speaker 2: let's just not be friends because honestly, like it's that 1907 01:33:36,600 --> 01:33:38,679 Speaker 2: level of shit that I'm trying to cut from my life. 1908 01:33:38,800 --> 01:33:41,640 Speaker 2: If you don't get it, if you can't or if 1909 01:33:41,680 --> 01:33:43,719 Speaker 2: you don't understand, you don't get it, which is fine, 1910 01:33:43,800 --> 01:33:45,360 Speaker 2: like you don't have to understand thing comes out of 1911 01:33:45,360 --> 01:33:47,120 Speaker 2: my mouth, but if you can be like, well, I 1912 01:33:47,200 --> 01:33:50,360 Speaker 2: just don't understand that, it's not for me to understand. 1913 01:33:50,040 --> 01:33:50,519 Speaker 6: And move on. 1914 01:33:50,800 --> 01:33:52,120 Speaker 5: The thing is they wouldn't let it go. But they 1915 01:33:52,120 --> 01:33:54,000 Speaker 5: wouldn't let it go out of their privilege. They wouldn't 1916 01:33:54,080 --> 01:33:57,360 Speaker 5: like it wasn't like it was agreed disagree. It was 1917 01:33:57,439 --> 01:33:58,960 Speaker 5: like you bought shit up and they just wanted to 1918 01:33:59,080 --> 01:33:59,439 Speaker 5: argue the. 1919 01:33:59,479 --> 01:34:01,800 Speaker 2: One because when I brought up that being Jewish is different, 1920 01:34:01,840 --> 01:34:05,400 Speaker 2: there was like basically on something like I'm offended. Don't 1921 01:34:05,439 --> 01:34:08,520 Speaker 2: don't bring up being Jewish because you know anti Semitism 1922 01:34:08,600 --> 01:34:09,080 Speaker 2: around the world. 1923 01:34:09,120 --> 01:34:13,960 Speaker 1: I was like, you brought that up. I wasn't even 1924 01:34:14,000 --> 01:34:14,800 Speaker 1: talking about that shit. 1925 01:34:14,880 --> 01:34:16,760 Speaker 2: You brought it up, and I'm just telling you it's 1926 01:34:16,800 --> 01:34:19,280 Speaker 2: different than being black, Like, this is not an insult 1927 01:34:19,280 --> 01:34:19,920 Speaker 2: the Jewish people. 1928 01:34:20,040 --> 01:34:22,480 Speaker 1: I'm definitely not no fucking anti Semite. 1929 01:34:22,120 --> 01:34:24,840 Speaker 5: So like, and this is not an oppression Olympic right, 1930 01:34:24,880 --> 01:34:27,000 Speaker 5: And I didn't call you racist when you told me 1931 01:34:27,040 --> 01:34:28,800 Speaker 5: her album wasn't just about being black. 1932 01:34:28,880 --> 01:34:31,040 Speaker 2: I didn't say that, So, like, where is this coming from? 1933 01:34:31,400 --> 01:34:33,439 Speaker 2: And it's that level of what I'm trying to express. 1934 01:34:33,680 --> 01:34:37,040 Speaker 2: It's the frustration with the effort. It's not about like 1935 01:34:37,200 --> 01:34:39,880 Speaker 2: I hate this white person now, it's just I'm black 1936 01:34:39,920 --> 01:34:43,080 Speaker 2: and I'm protecting my space, I'm protecting my peace. This 1937 01:34:43,200 --> 01:34:46,599 Speaker 2: amount of effort in a normal casual conversation, I would 1938 01:34:46,840 --> 01:34:47,840 Speaker 2: never have to. 1939 01:34:47,840 --> 01:34:49,479 Speaker 1: Expand that amount of effort with a black person. 1940 01:34:49,560 --> 01:34:49,600 Speaker 5: No. 1941 01:34:50,240 --> 01:34:53,240 Speaker 2: If I told you, like we could even disagree about 1942 01:34:53,240 --> 01:34:55,320 Speaker 2: shit with Beyonce, no one's gonna come from me, or 1943 01:34:55,320 --> 01:34:57,360 Speaker 2: something like, well, she's not about race. I mean, come on, 1944 01:34:57,600 --> 01:34:59,639 Speaker 2: black people are like, yeah, she's definitely a black woman 1945 01:35:00,040 --> 01:35:01,760 Speaker 2: that makes black art, you know what I'm saying. So 1946 01:35:02,320 --> 01:35:04,360 Speaker 2: that that's the kind of thing I think people are 1947 01:35:04,439 --> 01:35:06,960 Speaker 2: coming to a head with right now and their white 1948 01:35:07,000 --> 01:35:09,000 Speaker 2: friends and their white acquaintances. Man, a lot of people 1949 01:35:09,040 --> 01:35:10,479 Speaker 2: are starting to be like, I just don't want to 1950 01:35:10,479 --> 01:35:12,840 Speaker 2: put in that amount of time. And so that might mean, 1951 01:35:12,920 --> 01:35:15,240 Speaker 2: like Frankie said, you're talking to them a little bit less. 1952 01:35:15,439 --> 01:35:18,439 Speaker 2: You're talking about different shit. You know, Like, it's not 1953 01:35:18,880 --> 01:35:21,040 Speaker 2: I don't hate you, but I have to protect. 1954 01:35:20,720 --> 01:35:24,639 Speaker 3: Me, right, That's exactly right. I don't and I don't. 1955 01:35:24,800 --> 01:35:26,360 Speaker 3: You know, I have friends I've grown up with. 1956 01:35:27,280 --> 01:35:29,040 Speaker 4: Some of the people that have literally known me the 1957 01:35:29,120 --> 01:35:31,360 Speaker 4: longest in my life are my white friends because that's 1958 01:35:31,400 --> 01:35:34,240 Speaker 4: what I grew up around, right So, and it's not 1959 01:35:34,439 --> 01:35:37,240 Speaker 4: that they just don't understand. I grew up for the 1960 01:35:37,360 --> 01:35:39,920 Speaker 4: most part in rest in Virginia, And if you know 1961 01:35:40,000 --> 01:35:43,799 Speaker 4: anything about Resting, it's very much a kumba Ya society. 1962 01:35:43,800 --> 01:35:48,680 Speaker 4: It's very different than most other places in Virginia. And 1963 01:35:48,880 --> 01:35:51,840 Speaker 4: that the way we grew up is very much like 1964 01:35:51,920 --> 01:35:56,200 Speaker 4: a kumba ya kind of situation, Like you know, we 1965 01:35:56,400 --> 01:35:59,759 Speaker 4: don't see color, but that's bullshit, because the world does. 1966 01:36:01,360 --> 01:36:03,680 Speaker 1: Real quick. I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I was sorry to 1967 01:36:03,720 --> 01:36:05,760 Speaker 1: cut you off. Go ahead. You were talking about growing up. 1968 01:36:06,160 --> 01:36:09,719 Speaker 1: You were talking about growing up in the Virginia. 1969 01:36:11,000 --> 01:36:14,920 Speaker 3: Yeah. So so now we're adults, we've all branched off 1970 01:36:15,000 --> 01:36:16,080 Speaker 3: and had our own lives. 1971 01:36:16,240 --> 01:36:19,560 Speaker 4: But the place where that I'm in now, like you know, 1972 01:36:19,880 --> 01:36:22,439 Speaker 4: and and again, I grew up in my upbringing was 1973 01:36:22,560 --> 01:36:26,439 Speaker 4: so twisted and so weird in so many ways that 1974 01:36:27,560 --> 01:36:29,840 Speaker 4: you know, I had a very black upbringing, but it 1975 01:36:29,960 --> 01:36:32,759 Speaker 4: was heavily white influenced, Like it was just a very weird. 1976 01:36:32,880 --> 01:36:36,760 Speaker 4: Like in my house we were Muslim, you know what 1977 01:36:36,840 --> 01:36:39,080 Speaker 4: I mean, And we were a nation of its song 1978 01:36:39,160 --> 01:36:41,559 Speaker 4: for a minute. Then we were soony, like so many 1979 01:36:41,680 --> 01:36:44,760 Speaker 4: things that I went through and experience, and so I 1980 01:36:44,840 --> 01:36:47,439 Speaker 4: think I had maybe a wider view of kind of 1981 01:36:47,479 --> 01:36:50,800 Speaker 4: what the world was comparatively speaking to my friends in suburbia. 1982 01:36:51,600 --> 01:36:54,479 Speaker 4: And so now as adults, they don't get it. They're like, 1983 01:36:54,560 --> 01:36:58,720 Speaker 4: what's what's wrong, Frankie, we will We never had racism. 1984 01:36:58,560 --> 01:37:01,439 Speaker 3: I don't how we did. You all just didn't see 1985 01:37:01,479 --> 01:37:02,000 Speaker 3: it right. 1986 01:37:02,240 --> 01:37:05,160 Speaker 4: We did, But you don't remember the times I couldn't 1987 01:37:05,160 --> 01:37:07,200 Speaker 4: come in your house we wanted to put you know 1988 01:37:07,240 --> 01:37:08,880 Speaker 4: what I mean. You don't remember the times your parents, 1989 01:37:08,960 --> 01:37:10,920 Speaker 4: you're one of our friends' parents told them that they 1990 01:37:10,920 --> 01:37:12,559 Speaker 4: couldn't play with us because I was playing. 1991 01:37:12,840 --> 01:37:14,040 Speaker 3: You know what I mean. You don't remember that. 1992 01:37:14,120 --> 01:37:16,640 Speaker 4: You don't remember the time that the dorful little blond hair, 1993 01:37:16,720 --> 01:37:18,800 Speaker 4: blue eyed kid and kindergarten spat in my face and 1994 01:37:18,840 --> 01:37:19,960 Speaker 4: told me to go back to Africa. 1995 01:37:20,400 --> 01:37:22,479 Speaker 3: Y'all remember that, you know what I mean. But we're 1996 01:37:22,560 --> 01:37:24,240 Speaker 3: experience having the same experience. 1997 01:37:24,680 --> 01:37:27,960 Speaker 4: But we as black people, we learn how to pivot 1998 01:37:28,040 --> 01:37:30,679 Speaker 4: and duck and dodge and how to hold certain things 1999 01:37:30,760 --> 01:37:33,720 Speaker 4: in so as not to disrupt everyone's wonderful day. 2000 01:37:34,000 --> 01:37:36,200 Speaker 1: Right, They love you like. 2001 01:37:36,320 --> 01:37:39,400 Speaker 2: That's the thing about like down South and you have 2002 01:37:39,640 --> 01:37:44,200 Speaker 2: like the Confederates people and the people that have heritage 2003 01:37:44,200 --> 01:37:47,240 Speaker 2: over hate and all that stuff. But in general, even 2004 01:37:47,280 --> 01:37:49,599 Speaker 2: if you're not in one of these hardcore extreme people 2005 01:37:49,720 --> 01:37:53,000 Speaker 2: like that, you had those people white people down here, 2006 01:37:53,120 --> 01:37:56,000 Speaker 2: they all have connections to those people. So the difference 2007 01:37:56,040 --> 01:37:59,920 Speaker 2: between me and them is I've never loved the races, 2008 01:38:00,160 --> 01:38:04,080 Speaker 2: and a racism more importantly, a racist never loved me. 2009 01:38:04,840 --> 01:38:07,360 Speaker 2: That that's the hurdle that white people have to get over, 2010 01:38:07,680 --> 01:38:09,840 Speaker 2: is like I remember once I was talking to my 2011 01:38:09,920 --> 01:38:12,120 Speaker 2: friend Devin at the time when I had white friends, 2012 01:38:12,479 --> 01:38:17,840 Speaker 2: and he was like the white the white years. But 2013 01:38:17,960 --> 01:38:22,200 Speaker 2: when I yeah, the ten years I had white friends, uh, Devin. 2014 01:38:22,280 --> 01:38:23,000 Speaker 1: I remember once I. 2015 01:38:23,080 --> 01:38:27,320 Speaker 2: Was talking about going home to celebrate his grandfather's birthday, 2016 01:38:27,360 --> 01:38:29,760 Speaker 2: who was like old and shit, And then he thought 2017 01:38:29,760 --> 01:38:31,479 Speaker 2: it would be a cute story to tell me. And 2018 01:38:31,880 --> 01:38:34,280 Speaker 2: and literally this is why I say white people are 2019 01:38:34,320 --> 01:38:36,960 Speaker 2: mostly oblivious to race. They're not racist because they hate 2020 01:38:36,960 --> 01:38:39,120 Speaker 2: black people. They're racist because they don't think about us. 2021 01:38:39,439 --> 01:38:41,920 Speaker 2: So he thought he's telling the story that he told 2022 01:38:42,040 --> 01:38:43,920 Speaker 2: everyone that night. I'm sure he thought it was a 2023 01:38:44,520 --> 01:38:46,880 Speaker 2: you know, a good story, anecdotal story. 2024 01:38:47,160 --> 01:38:48,240 Speaker 1: So he goes, yeah. 2025 01:38:48,360 --> 01:38:51,760 Speaker 2: So I remember one time, as a prank, I told 2026 01:38:51,800 --> 01:38:53,840 Speaker 2: my grand they told my grandfather when I came over 2027 01:38:53,960 --> 01:38:56,439 Speaker 2: Christmas that I was dating a black girl. And then 2028 01:38:56,479 --> 01:38:58,839 Speaker 2: he pulled me in the bathroom and he was crying 2029 01:38:59,360 --> 01:39:01,599 Speaker 2: and he was and I said, what are you crying about? 2030 01:39:01,720 --> 01:39:04,040 Speaker 1: And he was like, yeah, you know, just you know, 2031 01:39:04,479 --> 01:39:06,040 Speaker 1: how can you be dating a black girl? 2032 01:39:06,080 --> 01:39:08,560 Speaker 2: Blah blah. And I was like, no, grandfather's just you know, 2033 01:39:08,720 --> 01:39:11,280 Speaker 2: it's just a whatever. And I was like, that's a 2034 01:39:11,439 --> 01:39:15,120 Speaker 2: fucking terrible story. Grandfather's racist. And he's like, yeah, but 2035 01:39:15,240 --> 01:39:18,160 Speaker 2: he's old, blah blah blah. And I was like, bruh, 2036 01:39:18,520 --> 01:39:22,080 Speaker 2: I don't know your grandfather. Fuck your grandfather, you know what. 2037 01:39:22,080 --> 01:39:24,400 Speaker 1: I mean, Like, like, what do you want me to say? 2038 01:39:24,560 --> 01:39:27,599 Speaker 1: Because I know you, I have to accept him. Fuck him. 2039 01:39:27,760 --> 01:39:30,559 Speaker 1: He's the fucking enemy. I don't know what this nigga's 2040 01:39:30,560 --> 01:39:32,679 Speaker 1: done to black people when in his prime. 2041 01:39:32,840 --> 01:39:35,920 Speaker 2: Okay, now that he old and reckless, I'm supposed to 2042 01:39:36,000 --> 01:39:38,240 Speaker 2: let it go. I'm never letting it go. So it's 2043 01:39:38,360 --> 01:39:41,680 Speaker 2: that connection because at that moment, I'm realizing, Oh, your 2044 01:39:41,760 --> 01:39:45,519 Speaker 2: grandfather has also sat you on his knee, He's bought 2045 01:39:45,560 --> 01:39:46,720 Speaker 2: you birthday presents. 2046 01:39:46,479 --> 01:39:47,000 Speaker 1: Y'r whole life. 2047 01:39:47,280 --> 01:39:51,320 Speaker 2: He's fucking like come to see you graduate. Like it's 2048 01:39:51,400 --> 01:39:53,760 Speaker 2: different from me. He wouldn't do those things for me. 2049 01:39:54,040 --> 01:39:56,560 Speaker 2: So I don't even have the conflicting you know what 2050 01:39:56,640 --> 01:39:59,120 Speaker 2: I'm saying, like point of view of like but Grandpa 2051 01:39:59,360 --> 01:40:01,519 Speaker 2: Eddie loved me to him, Like no, this niggas trash, 2052 01:40:01,600 --> 01:40:02,599 Speaker 2: get them out of here. 2053 01:40:03,760 --> 01:40:07,080 Speaker 4: Right exactly exactly right, and and they and they don't 2054 01:40:07,120 --> 01:40:08,240 Speaker 4: think about things like that. 2055 01:40:08,439 --> 01:40:09,800 Speaker 3: You know what I mean, Why the fuck are you? 2056 01:40:09,920 --> 01:40:10,960 Speaker 3: Why what makes you so. 2057 01:40:11,080 --> 01:40:14,040 Speaker 4: Motherfucking comfortable excuse my language, that you think you could 2058 01:40:14,040 --> 01:40:15,240 Speaker 4: come to my black ass face? 2059 01:40:15,280 --> 01:40:17,200 Speaker 3: And some of that racist asked, why the fuck do 2060 01:40:17,240 --> 01:40:18,080 Speaker 3: you think I want to hear that? 2061 01:40:18,640 --> 01:40:18,800 Speaker 5: You know? 2062 01:40:19,160 --> 01:40:21,040 Speaker 3: And and and here here's the thing. 2063 01:40:21,280 --> 01:40:23,320 Speaker 4: This is the thing a black women I think can 2064 01:40:23,400 --> 01:40:26,640 Speaker 4: relate to this most is that when we speak up 2065 01:40:27,120 --> 01:40:30,679 Speaker 4: and when we say calm a calm down, don't don't 2066 01:40:30,720 --> 01:40:35,320 Speaker 4: get angry. I had a girl early on in this panic. 2067 01:40:35,840 --> 01:40:38,000 Speaker 4: I want to read you these text messages so I 2068 01:40:38,080 --> 01:40:41,640 Speaker 4: don't get them wrong. But early on in this pandemic, 2069 01:40:41,760 --> 01:40:46,760 Speaker 4: she reached out to me, and she said, reached out 2070 01:40:46,800 --> 01:40:50,599 Speaker 4: to me asking me to perform on a show right now. 2071 01:40:50,840 --> 01:40:54,439 Speaker 3: Mind you, this is at the height of the George 2072 01:40:54,640 --> 01:40:58,840 Speaker 3: Floyd b LM waves. So I don't know about you guys, 2073 01:40:59,000 --> 01:41:00,879 Speaker 3: but kind of right after. 2074 01:41:00,760 --> 01:41:05,439 Speaker 4: That George Floyd news, it was the visual I still 2075 01:41:05,479 --> 01:41:07,560 Speaker 4: haven't watched the video of him. I can't watch it. 2076 01:41:08,280 --> 01:41:12,000 Speaker 4: It rips out my soul. Right, So I haven't sat 2077 01:41:12,040 --> 01:41:14,600 Speaker 4: and watched the whole video I heard. I saw like 2078 01:41:14,680 --> 01:41:16,960 Speaker 4: a snippet of him crying for his mom. 2079 01:41:17,439 --> 01:41:18,200 Speaker 3: That was it for me. 2080 01:41:18,360 --> 01:41:20,720 Speaker 4: I can't do it. And so it was kind of 2081 01:41:20,840 --> 01:41:23,800 Speaker 4: right at the beginning of that, and she messages me 2082 01:41:24,120 --> 01:41:28,720 Speaker 4: asking me to do the show with her, and I'm 2083 01:41:28,760 --> 01:41:31,000 Speaker 4: trying to find the text so I can get it right. 2084 01:41:32,520 --> 01:41:33,880 Speaker 3: But oh, here it is. 2085 01:41:34,000 --> 01:41:34,519 Speaker 1: I found it. 2086 01:41:36,200 --> 01:41:38,479 Speaker 3: Oh wait, that's not it. Hold on a second. 2087 01:41:38,920 --> 01:41:43,000 Speaker 4: But she didn't even understand why her asking me to 2088 01:41:43,080 --> 01:41:47,519 Speaker 4: do this show was inappropriate, you know. And I'm like, 2089 01:41:48,200 --> 01:41:53,000 Speaker 4: and I say to her, I say to her, you know, 2090 01:41:55,600 --> 01:41:59,280 Speaker 4: right now, the only shows I'm doing are BLM related shows. 2091 01:41:59,479 --> 01:42:01,360 Speaker 4: If it's giving the charity, than those are the charity. 2092 01:42:01,479 --> 01:42:06,400 Speaker 4: Those are the only charity shows I'm doing. And she responds, well, yeah, 2093 01:42:06,640 --> 01:42:08,880 Speaker 4: I had to plan this a few weeks ago, very national, 2094 01:42:08,920 --> 01:42:10,960 Speaker 4: and I have been planning this for weeks and then 2095 01:42:11,040 --> 01:42:13,240 Speaker 4: this came up and I thought about canceling. But then 2096 01:42:13,240 --> 01:42:15,240 Speaker 4: I'm like, now I've been planning it, so I thought 2097 01:42:15,280 --> 01:42:17,000 Speaker 4: I just like kind of throw it, sprinkle some in 2098 01:42:17,520 --> 01:42:19,000 Speaker 4: a little and I said, you know, I said, you 2099 01:42:19,040 --> 01:42:20,800 Speaker 4: don't even see what's wrong with what you just said, 2100 01:42:20,880 --> 01:42:25,040 Speaker 4: you think you're helping, right, but you're gonna sprinkle some BLMN. 2101 01:42:24,560 --> 01:42:25,440 Speaker 3: As an afterthought. 2102 01:42:25,720 --> 01:42:25,880 Speaker 1: Right. 2103 01:42:27,120 --> 01:42:28,800 Speaker 3: Why would you think you could say that to me? 2104 01:42:28,960 --> 01:42:31,280 Speaker 3: Why would you think that that would be okay? Why 2105 01:42:31,320 --> 01:42:34,759 Speaker 3: would you think I would go, oh, you are okay, great? 2106 01:42:35,280 --> 01:42:39,360 Speaker 4: Tell me you can't be that lot with an issue 2107 01:42:39,479 --> 01:42:42,960 Speaker 4: that's about my life. This is about my life, my safety. 2108 01:42:43,160 --> 01:42:45,639 Speaker 4: I have a black ass daughter that I'm raising who's 2109 01:42:45,720 --> 01:42:48,800 Speaker 4: also gay, So let's think about what her life's gonna be. 2110 01:42:48,960 --> 01:42:49,000 Speaker 5: Like. 2111 01:42:49,400 --> 01:42:51,479 Speaker 4: She's the one she comes, she has come into our 2112 01:42:51,600 --> 01:42:55,960 Speaker 4: room three in the morning bawling, feeling unsafe. Why because 2113 01:42:55,960 --> 01:42:58,280 Speaker 4: she's worried about the fucking cops coming in our house 2114 01:42:58,520 --> 01:43:01,400 Speaker 4: and murdering her and her family. So, no, white girl, 2115 01:43:01,439 --> 01:43:04,240 Speaker 4: I don't have a fuck about your show for Habitat 2116 01:43:04,320 --> 01:43:04,919 Speaker 4: for Humanity. 2117 01:43:05,080 --> 01:43:06,160 Speaker 3: I don't give a fuck about it. 2118 01:43:07,040 --> 01:43:12,640 Speaker 1: Sorry, and you also do you also? I remember on 2119 01:43:12,720 --> 01:43:14,120 Speaker 1: three g O they were talking about it. Yah. 2120 01:43:14,160 --> 01:43:17,639 Speaker 2: You also had to deal with like a comedy club 2121 01:43:17,800 --> 01:43:20,400 Speaker 2: right in the in the DC area, like because they 2122 01:43:20,479 --> 01:43:23,679 Speaker 2: weren't stepping up and being like black lives matter and whatnot? 2123 01:43:23,760 --> 01:43:25,400 Speaker 4: Right, you know? 2124 01:43:25,680 --> 01:43:27,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, So here here's the thing. 2125 01:43:28,000 --> 01:43:30,599 Speaker 4: So I'll tell you guys now, because pretty much everyone 2126 01:43:30,680 --> 01:43:32,760 Speaker 4: knows I was pregnant at the start of. 2127 01:43:33,000 --> 01:43:39,240 Speaker 3: The lockdown and I had a miscarriage recently. Okay, I'm 2128 01:43:39,320 --> 01:43:39,800 Speaker 3: okay now. 2129 01:43:40,000 --> 01:43:43,720 Speaker 4: I was very, very depressed, uh, and it was very difficult, 2130 01:43:44,160 --> 01:43:45,760 Speaker 4: but I kept it to myself and I kept it 2131 01:43:45,840 --> 01:43:50,080 Speaker 4: on Facebook. Why, because we're working to eradicate racism. I 2132 01:43:50,160 --> 01:43:53,720 Speaker 4: don't want to divert attention about what's going on with 2133 01:43:53,840 --> 01:43:57,160 Speaker 4: me away from anyone's you know, forward motion. 2134 01:43:57,320 --> 01:43:59,000 Speaker 3: So I never posted about it. I just kind of like, 2135 01:43:59,040 --> 01:44:02,479 Speaker 3: in these situations, tell people about it, right, So that 2136 01:44:02,680 --> 01:44:04,080 Speaker 3: was that was the one thing. 2137 01:44:07,160 --> 01:44:12,920 Speaker 2: She follows again, Uh, one second, hopefully it's just delayed 2138 01:44:13,000 --> 01:44:14,800 Speaker 2: on the internet on her side, I think it is. 2139 01:44:15,520 --> 01:44:16,360 Speaker 3: Sorry, I'm back. 2140 01:44:16,960 --> 01:44:19,160 Speaker 4: So so yeah, So I was pregnant at the start, 2141 01:44:19,200 --> 01:44:21,120 Speaker 4: so I couldn't really go out and put my body 2142 01:44:21,160 --> 01:44:24,000 Speaker 4: on the line because my immune system was compromised, right, 2143 01:44:24,640 --> 01:44:26,680 Speaker 4: So you know, I was thinking and just kind of 2144 01:44:26,760 --> 01:44:29,519 Speaker 4: watching things and looking at the clubs that we work in, 2145 01:44:30,200 --> 01:44:32,479 Speaker 4: and everyone, every single one of the most exception of 2146 01:44:32,560 --> 01:44:36,360 Speaker 4: one that's beer baron DC Commedy Law, but their manager 2147 01:44:36,479 --> 01:44:40,920 Speaker 4: was very vocal, but everyone else silent, not a word, 2148 01:44:42,000 --> 01:44:44,800 Speaker 4: And for me, that's not acceptable, you know, and are 2149 01:44:44,880 --> 01:44:48,639 Speaker 4: there bigger fights to fight? Absolutely, But again I'm that's 2150 01:44:48,680 --> 01:44:49,360 Speaker 4: not my space. 2151 01:44:49,840 --> 01:44:49,960 Speaker 1: You know. 2152 01:44:50,000 --> 01:44:52,160 Speaker 4: I'm not a super political person in the sense of 2153 01:44:52,560 --> 01:44:55,080 Speaker 4: being able to really get into the trenches and have intelligent, 2154 01:44:55,160 --> 01:44:57,639 Speaker 4: articular conversations to really affect change. 2155 01:44:57,760 --> 01:45:00,960 Speaker 3: I'm working to change that, but that's not currently my space. 2156 01:45:01,360 --> 01:45:04,120 Speaker 3: But my space is entertainment. I do know about that. 2157 01:45:04,280 --> 01:45:05,240 Speaker 3: I do know what's going on. 2158 01:45:05,400 --> 01:45:09,040 Speaker 4: I do see the racism within the industry. So yes, 2159 01:45:09,160 --> 01:45:10,600 Speaker 4: I spoke up about it. 2160 01:45:10,760 --> 01:45:12,439 Speaker 3: I named names. 2161 01:45:12,479 --> 01:45:14,560 Speaker 4: A lot of people were very upset, a lot of 2162 01:45:14,640 --> 01:45:18,080 Speaker 4: comics were very nervous and back to you, Oh well, yeah, 2163 01:45:18,280 --> 01:45:20,560 Speaker 4: I don't want to associate with And my whole thing is, 2164 01:45:20,600 --> 01:45:24,720 Speaker 4: there's this weird I don't know what it is in comedy, 2165 01:45:24,840 --> 01:45:26,040 Speaker 4: or maybe it's just entertainment. 2166 01:45:26,560 --> 01:45:29,559 Speaker 3: Black people, black folks, black folks, black folks. 2167 01:45:29,680 --> 01:45:33,960 Speaker 4: We are valuable. Please know that you are valuable, not 2168 01:45:34,080 --> 01:45:36,240 Speaker 4: even and I'm not even talking about monetarily, yes, we 2169 01:45:36,320 --> 01:45:42,040 Speaker 4: are monetarily valuable. I'm talking about just your humanity is valuable. Please, 2170 01:45:42,160 --> 01:45:46,480 Speaker 4: I beg you, I implore you. Don't sacrifice it for anything. 2171 01:45:47,400 --> 01:45:50,519 Speaker 4: There is nothing that exists on this planet that's worth 2172 01:45:50,600 --> 01:45:55,000 Speaker 4: sacrificing your humanity and it's so bizarre and entertainment how. 2173 01:45:55,479 --> 01:45:59,519 Speaker 3: And I've done it. I'm not leaving myself unscathed in this. 2174 01:45:59,600 --> 01:46:02,960 Speaker 4: I said openly, I have done it where I won't 2175 01:46:03,000 --> 01:46:05,439 Speaker 4: say anything about a certain thing because I don't want 2176 01:46:05,479 --> 01:46:06,639 Speaker 4: to mess up my career. 2177 01:46:06,680 --> 01:46:09,320 Speaker 3: I don't want to lessen my opportunities. And I just 2178 01:46:09,439 --> 01:46:11,200 Speaker 3: got to a plant. I'm like, you know what, fuck that, 2179 01:46:12,280 --> 01:46:12,519 Speaker 3: look it. 2180 01:46:12,640 --> 01:46:15,040 Speaker 4: Take it in my career is what I can sacrifice 2181 01:46:15,479 --> 01:46:17,200 Speaker 4: for some for one thing to be a little bit 2182 01:46:17,240 --> 01:46:18,400 Speaker 4: better for black people. 2183 01:46:18,920 --> 01:46:22,200 Speaker 3: Fucking take it. Take it. Because this is true. 2184 01:46:23,200 --> 01:46:26,880 Speaker 4: The comedy clubs are there in their practices, as you 2185 01:46:27,040 --> 01:46:30,000 Speaker 4: we mentioned earlier, and I've mentioned probably several times since 2186 01:46:30,320 --> 01:46:33,360 Speaker 4: I won't stand up NBC right. There were a number 2187 01:46:33,400 --> 01:46:36,400 Speaker 4: of people on UH in that competition, one of them 2188 01:46:36,439 --> 01:46:39,080 Speaker 4: being a young white girl who's very funny, who I 2189 01:46:39,240 --> 01:46:41,040 Speaker 4: like a lot, you know as a person, she's, from 2190 01:46:41,080 --> 01:46:42,639 Speaker 4: what I know of her, wonderful person. 2191 01:46:43,680 --> 01:46:46,000 Speaker 3: We went to an event together. 2192 01:46:46,400 --> 01:46:52,960 Speaker 2: UH, getting a little bit of choppiness on the internet again, 2193 01:46:55,760 --> 01:46:56,320 Speaker 2: Start about that. 2194 01:46:57,120 --> 01:46:57,679 Speaker 1: The white girl. 2195 01:47:00,560 --> 01:47:03,240 Speaker 4: So we're at NAKA, We're at this bus. It's one 2196 01:47:03,280 --> 01:47:05,360 Speaker 4: of the largest events where. 2197 01:47:05,240 --> 01:47:06,200 Speaker 3: You get booked for. 2198 01:47:07,800 --> 01:47:10,200 Speaker 4: Colleges, right, And there's a lot of different people that 2199 01:47:10,280 --> 01:47:11,880 Speaker 4: have a lot of different booths. One of the booths 2200 01:47:12,080 --> 01:47:14,240 Speaker 4: is a major club in LA and it just so 2201 01:47:14,400 --> 01:47:16,960 Speaker 4: happened the owner was there working the booth. She's talking 2202 01:47:17,000 --> 01:47:18,760 Speaker 4: to all of us. I didn't even know who she was. 2203 01:47:18,840 --> 01:47:21,400 Speaker 4: I had actually been talking to her earlier in the day. 2204 01:47:21,479 --> 01:47:24,040 Speaker 4: We had built a great rapport, had a nice conversation 2205 01:47:24,560 --> 01:47:26,880 Speaker 4: kept the movies. When I saw her later and was reintroduced, 2206 01:47:26,920 --> 01:47:28,240 Speaker 4: I was like, Oh, I didn't realize you owned a 2207 01:47:28,240 --> 01:47:31,160 Speaker 4: club whatever, blah blah blah. So we're all talking in 2208 01:47:31,320 --> 01:47:37,000 Speaker 4: that conversation. She books the young white girl spots at 2209 01:47:37,080 --> 01:47:42,559 Speaker 4: the club, right, and then turns to me and basically 2210 01:47:42,640 --> 01:47:43,759 Speaker 4: tells me I need to audition. 2211 01:47:46,400 --> 01:47:51,599 Speaker 3: And it was so blatant. It was so blatant. 2212 01:47:51,680 --> 01:47:54,040 Speaker 4: I was just standing there and I'm looking around, no 2213 01:47:54,240 --> 01:48:00,240 Speaker 4: one saying anything, and I'm standing there. Ultimately, when I did, 2214 01:48:00,280 --> 01:48:03,120 Speaker 4: I just I just didn't. I didn't ever send her anything. 2215 01:48:03,160 --> 01:48:04,880 Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm good, I don't need to work at 2216 01:48:04,880 --> 01:48:09,120 Speaker 4: that club. But this is just an example of I'm 2217 01:48:09,200 --> 01:48:12,720 Speaker 4: the winner of this thing. You're booking her because she's 2218 01:48:12,760 --> 01:48:15,679 Speaker 4: a finalist I actually wanted. And I'm still not good 2219 01:48:15,800 --> 01:48:18,680 Speaker 4: enough for you to book me off of that, I 2220 01:48:18,880 --> 01:48:21,160 Speaker 4: still need to work hard, I do an extra. 2221 01:48:21,000 --> 01:48:24,000 Speaker 3: Step and do another thing. Now I don't. 2222 01:48:24,200 --> 01:48:26,519 Speaker 4: I'll never work at your club again, even when I'm 2223 01:48:26,520 --> 01:48:28,439 Speaker 4: at a level, because I will be even when I'm 2224 01:48:28,439 --> 01:48:32,040 Speaker 4: at a level where you're buying for my it will 2225 01:48:32,160 --> 01:48:32,719 Speaker 4: never happen. 2226 01:48:33,320 --> 01:48:35,880 Speaker 2: Ever, It's like that year, I think it was it 2227 01:48:35,920 --> 01:48:40,080 Speaker 2: American Idol. Did Ruben Stutter win American Idol? Yes he did, 2228 01:48:40,280 --> 01:48:42,840 Speaker 2: But then Clay whatever his name, came in second, and 2229 01:48:42,960 --> 01:48:46,519 Speaker 2: then he he's the one that booked all the concerts, 2230 01:48:46,560 --> 01:48:49,120 Speaker 2: and and ship They're just like, I mean, cool, cool, 2231 01:48:49,200 --> 01:48:50,639 Speaker 2: that's that's nice to be a black guys. 2232 01:48:51,040 --> 01:48:53,719 Speaker 1: Uh, can you move up for this? Like man, uh, Clay, 2233 01:48:53,920 --> 01:48:54,479 Speaker 1: come on out. 2234 01:48:54,560 --> 01:48:56,639 Speaker 2: And then that that was the guy who took off 2235 01:48:56,680 --> 01:48:58,439 Speaker 2: because they were like, at the end of the day, 2236 01:48:58,479 --> 01:48:59,200 Speaker 2: you feel black. 2237 01:49:00,240 --> 01:49:02,000 Speaker 3: Right at the end of the day, you're still black, 2238 01:49:02,360 --> 01:49:02,519 Speaker 3: you know. 2239 01:49:02,640 --> 01:49:05,720 Speaker 4: So when I saw the comedy clubs just quiet first, 2240 01:49:05,800 --> 01:49:08,600 Speaker 4: I made a post about it, and you know, and 2241 01:49:09,680 --> 01:49:11,760 Speaker 4: I made a little placard that I posted with the 2242 01:49:11,920 --> 01:49:13,479 Speaker 4: caption just saying, you know, I know a lot of 2243 01:49:13,560 --> 01:49:17,240 Speaker 4: comics won't like this or comment or will pretend like 2244 01:49:17,320 --> 01:49:19,519 Speaker 4: they don't see it out of fear. And that's fine, 2245 01:49:20,120 --> 01:49:22,800 Speaker 4: but we when things open back up, are you gonna 2246 01:49:22,840 --> 01:49:23,960 Speaker 4: go back working in these clubs? 2247 01:49:23,960 --> 01:49:25,400 Speaker 3: I don't give a fuck about you. We know that 2248 01:49:25,479 --> 01:49:25,880 Speaker 3: they don't. 2249 01:49:26,280 --> 01:49:29,080 Speaker 4: But now, at the most pivotal moment, the most on 2250 01:49:29,520 --> 01:49:33,080 Speaker 4: all hands on deck moment, they're silent. You can't even 2251 01:49:33,280 --> 01:49:36,320 Speaker 4: just make an obligatory post Black lives matter. You can't 2252 01:49:36,360 --> 01:49:39,760 Speaker 4: even say it. Really, they tellt me everything that I 2253 01:49:39,760 --> 01:49:41,360 Speaker 4: need to know, and I will never work with you 2254 01:49:41,920 --> 01:49:46,759 Speaker 4: under any circumstances. So I'm named names, and people will, well, 2255 01:49:46,840 --> 01:49:49,080 Speaker 4: Frankie don't work those clubs, so she's bitter and angry. 2256 01:49:49,400 --> 01:49:51,760 Speaker 4: No I'm not, because I named clubs that I love, 2257 01:49:52,439 --> 01:49:55,160 Speaker 4: that are embedded in my heart, that are my home, 2258 01:49:56,000 --> 01:49:57,080 Speaker 4: and I called them out. 2259 01:49:56,960 --> 01:49:59,800 Speaker 3: Too, because you're no one's exempt. You're not exempt because I. 2260 01:49:59,880 --> 01:50:03,479 Speaker 2: Like, and honestly like, from a comedian's perspective, it's more 2261 01:50:03,600 --> 01:50:06,599 Speaker 2: risky to mention the clubs you don't work at from 2262 01:50:06,640 --> 01:50:09,080 Speaker 2: a comedian because then they're like, we'll never fucking work 2263 01:50:09,120 --> 01:50:09,360 Speaker 2: with you. 2264 01:50:09,479 --> 01:50:10,960 Speaker 1: You ain't never getting up in here now. 2265 01:50:12,080 --> 01:50:15,280 Speaker 4: Right exactly, And so after that post, I followed it 2266 01:50:15,360 --> 01:50:17,840 Speaker 4: up with a video and that's where I actually named names. 2267 01:50:18,479 --> 01:50:20,360 Speaker 3: And then Randolph came. 2268 01:50:20,400 --> 01:50:23,519 Speaker 4: Behind and he made a post speaking to that right. 2269 01:50:24,200 --> 01:50:27,840 Speaker 4: And then one of the club owners finally commented and 2270 01:50:28,080 --> 01:50:30,000 Speaker 4: was just like, well, you know, I think that we 2271 01:50:30,160 --> 01:50:32,960 Speaker 4: do a really good job. And I responded, I said, no, 2272 01:50:33,080 --> 01:50:35,640 Speaker 4: you don't. You absolutely do not. You don't have a 2273 01:50:35,720 --> 01:50:37,440 Speaker 4: track record of inclusivity. 2274 01:50:37,520 --> 01:50:38,000 Speaker 3: You don't. 2275 01:50:38,720 --> 01:50:40,680 Speaker 4: Well, Frankie, you know when you reached out to me, 2276 01:50:40,920 --> 01:50:42,680 Speaker 4: I responded, right when you reached out to me the 2277 01:50:42,720 --> 01:50:44,920 Speaker 4: other day, I responded right away. What she was doing 2278 01:50:45,000 --> 01:50:48,280 Speaker 4: in that moment was trying to call me out, saying like, well, 2279 01:50:48,720 --> 01:50:50,760 Speaker 4: you reached out to me, you didn't get what you want, 2280 01:50:50,880 --> 01:50:53,120 Speaker 4: and now you're better. And I responded, I said no, 2281 01:50:53,240 --> 01:50:55,320 Speaker 4: I said, I reached out to you out of cowardice 2282 01:50:55,360 --> 01:50:58,200 Speaker 4: because I was a coward and I wanted to push 2283 01:50:58,320 --> 01:51:01,280 Speaker 4: my show forward and I thought that that would be 2284 01:51:01,760 --> 01:51:04,240 Speaker 4: the best platform to do it. I said, but Alison, 2285 01:51:04,560 --> 01:51:07,960 Speaker 4: I thought better of it, and I actually responded to you, 2286 01:51:08,040 --> 01:51:10,360 Speaker 4: you know what, never mind, I found a plate at 2287 01:51:10,360 --> 01:51:12,600 Speaker 4: home for my shelf, So don't try to calm me 2288 01:51:12,720 --> 01:51:14,920 Speaker 4: out and think that I don't. You can't call me 2289 01:51:14,920 --> 01:51:17,840 Speaker 4: out because I'll say my own shit. I absolutely reached 2290 01:51:17,840 --> 01:51:21,160 Speaker 4: out to you. I did, and then I thought better 2291 01:51:21,280 --> 01:51:24,479 Speaker 4: of it because I was being a punk and a coward. 2292 01:51:25,000 --> 01:51:26,000 Speaker 3: That's what cowards do. 2293 01:51:26,520 --> 01:51:28,880 Speaker 4: Even though I knew who you were, I still reached 2294 01:51:28,920 --> 01:51:32,200 Speaker 4: out because I wanted something. I wanted something, but I 2295 01:51:32,280 --> 01:51:34,760 Speaker 4: thought only you could get. No, that's not true. I'm 2296 01:51:34,800 --> 01:51:36,120 Speaker 4: gonna just keep working over here. 2297 01:51:36,760 --> 01:51:40,000 Speaker 2: And she all this, and she still could have just 2298 01:51:40,120 --> 01:51:43,280 Speaker 2: been like, you know what, Frankie, You're right, black lives matter. 2299 01:51:43,360 --> 01:51:45,720 Speaker 2: We're gonna put up the post today, and all of 2300 01:51:45,760 --> 01:51:49,360 Speaker 2: this could have been avoided Like this, It's still in resistance. 2301 01:51:49,960 --> 01:51:52,640 Speaker 2: This is the resistance of even picking the side of 2302 01:51:52,760 --> 01:51:57,440 Speaker 2: saying black lives matter, not black lives better, or black supremacy. 2303 01:51:57,520 --> 01:52:00,680 Speaker 2: Shot to Terry Crews, not even though, idiot, those are 2304 01:52:00,960 --> 01:52:03,920 Speaker 2: those are the next steps. Okay, those Terry Crews, I 2305 01:52:04,080 --> 01:52:06,760 Speaker 2: appreciate you giving away the game. Okay, we haven't made 2306 01:52:06,760 --> 01:52:09,160 Speaker 2: it that far yet. That is the ultimate goal. We 2307 01:52:09,240 --> 01:52:12,040 Speaker 2: are gonna trick these black white people and then knowing 2308 01:52:12,120 --> 01:52:14,800 Speaker 2: that our lives are better and that we are Black 2309 01:52:14,840 --> 01:52:17,240 Speaker 2: supremacy is the only way. But before we get there, 2310 01:52:17,400 --> 01:52:21,000 Speaker 2: we need to matter. And so to think that that 2311 01:52:21,160 --> 01:52:24,160 Speaker 2: is such a controversial thing in a club that would 2312 01:52:24,240 --> 01:52:26,519 Speaker 2: book you in a club that would want you to 2313 01:52:26,600 --> 01:52:29,559 Speaker 2: be on their stage, want you to entertain, you tame people, 2314 01:52:29,840 --> 01:52:32,479 Speaker 2: want you to bring your black fans in there, you 2315 01:52:32,560 --> 01:52:35,080 Speaker 2: know what I mean? Like these like the same club 2316 01:52:35,680 --> 01:52:37,880 Speaker 2: is like, wait, your life matters. I don't know about 2317 01:52:37,880 --> 01:52:41,479 Speaker 2: that one dog. That's a lot, you know now, So 2318 01:52:41,760 --> 01:52:42,960 Speaker 2: you know, I'm. 2319 01:52:42,920 --> 01:52:45,800 Speaker 3: Still working on that. That's not a dropped project, you know. 2320 01:52:45,840 --> 01:52:49,960 Speaker 4: I'm actually have partnered with a group of comics and 2321 01:52:50,040 --> 01:52:53,360 Speaker 4: other influencers, some people and the DC government to build 2322 01:52:53,400 --> 01:52:57,519 Speaker 4: a whole coalition to eradicate exactly that, starting with the 2323 01:52:57,560 --> 01:53:00,479 Speaker 4: comedy clubs, but ideally throughout the entertainment. And it's a 2324 01:53:00,560 --> 01:53:04,479 Speaker 4: lot bigger than just this conversation. That wasn't just talk, 2325 01:53:04,520 --> 01:53:07,960 Speaker 4: It wasn't just a moment of anger. It's something that historically, 2326 01:53:08,400 --> 01:53:10,400 Speaker 4: this is the thing that I think people forget a 2327 01:53:10,520 --> 01:53:11,679 Speaker 4: lot with America. 2328 01:53:12,560 --> 01:53:14,599 Speaker 3: America, no matter. 2329 01:53:14,479 --> 01:53:16,720 Speaker 4: What your relationship is with it, no matter how you 2330 01:53:16,840 --> 01:53:22,760 Speaker 4: feel about it, it was built on racism. Racism is 2331 01:53:23,000 --> 01:53:27,519 Speaker 4: sewn into the fabric of the whole system that is America. 2332 01:53:28,160 --> 01:53:32,519 Speaker 4: So you can't say, America without racism, it's the same thing. 2333 01:53:33,240 --> 01:53:38,000 Speaker 4: And historically, everyone, including some of us black folks, have 2334 01:53:38,240 --> 01:53:42,400 Speaker 4: worked very hard to keep racism in place. You know 2335 01:53:42,479 --> 01:53:44,439 Speaker 4: why do black people do it again? I think it's 2336 01:53:44,720 --> 01:53:47,599 Speaker 4: the discomfort with change. I think it's wanting to be accepted. 2337 01:53:47,960 --> 01:53:50,600 Speaker 4: We're never going to be accepted black folks, okay, not 2338 01:53:50,920 --> 01:53:55,040 Speaker 4: like that. We have our own independent individual value, which 2339 01:53:55,080 --> 01:53:58,479 Speaker 4: is a beautiful thing. And my friend, a white friend 2340 01:53:58,520 --> 01:54:00,280 Speaker 4: of mine, told me a long time ago, said, you 2341 01:54:00,360 --> 01:54:02,479 Speaker 4: know why it's harder for you in the industry, Frankie, 2342 01:54:03,880 --> 01:54:06,839 Speaker 4: He said, because you are not beholden to your paycheck, 2343 01:54:07,479 --> 01:54:10,560 Speaker 4: and that scares white people. My white friend told me this, 2344 01:54:11,200 --> 01:54:14,920 Speaker 4: and I never thought about that. I said, huh, I said, 2345 01:54:15,040 --> 01:54:18,479 Speaker 4: you know what that's act Because I will this mouth 2346 01:54:19,240 --> 01:54:19,680 Speaker 4: says what. 2347 01:54:19,800 --> 01:54:20,240 Speaker 3: It wants you. 2348 01:54:20,479 --> 01:54:24,040 Speaker 4: You will never control. I won't be beholden to anything 2349 01:54:24,160 --> 01:54:26,920 Speaker 4: or anyone. I can't live my life like that. I 2350 01:54:27,040 --> 01:54:28,840 Speaker 4: have to be free to be who I am. I 2351 01:54:28,920 --> 01:54:30,439 Speaker 4: need to be free to say what I want to say. 2352 01:54:30,720 --> 01:54:34,120 Speaker 4: And if the thing's coming out of my especially if 2353 01:54:34,160 --> 01:54:36,800 Speaker 4: it has to do with my innate human rights, you 2354 01:54:36,880 --> 01:54:39,760 Speaker 4: want me to shut up. You got me fucked up. 2355 01:54:39,800 --> 01:54:42,520 Speaker 4: With somebody completely different. You're not gonna stop me from 2356 01:54:42,560 --> 01:54:43,520 Speaker 4: talking about my rights? 2357 01:54:43,760 --> 01:54:46,640 Speaker 3: And how dare you? How stupid are you fellow comedians 2358 01:54:47,080 --> 01:54:48,720 Speaker 3: that you don't want me to speak up for you? 2359 01:54:48,840 --> 01:54:50,160 Speaker 3: This is for us, right? 2360 01:54:51,280 --> 01:54:51,400 Speaker 6: You know? 2361 01:54:51,600 --> 01:54:54,040 Speaker 4: Yes, I'm talking about black comedians, but my I was, 2362 01:54:54,120 --> 01:54:56,760 Speaker 4: and I said, and my white counterparts, I'm talking to 2363 01:54:56,800 --> 01:54:59,360 Speaker 4: you too. Are you gonna still work in these establishments 2364 01:54:59,400 --> 01:55:01,800 Speaker 4: while you're running around down the street with your Black 2365 01:55:01,880 --> 01:55:04,000 Speaker 4: Lives Matter signs? Are you going to go back and 2366 01:55:04,040 --> 01:55:06,200 Speaker 4: work in these establishments and tell your black counterparts that 2367 01:55:06,240 --> 01:55:07,440 Speaker 4: are not good enough and fuck them? 2368 01:55:08,480 --> 01:55:10,520 Speaker 3: I would hope not, but I'm pretty sure you will. 2369 01:55:11,120 --> 01:55:14,440 Speaker 4: So if black lives are mattering, let's let them matter 2370 01:55:14,720 --> 01:55:16,839 Speaker 4: through all platforms, through all mediums. 2371 01:55:16,880 --> 01:55:19,840 Speaker 3: It should matter across the board, right, you know? 2372 01:55:19,920 --> 01:55:21,959 Speaker 4: And I think I just think it's silly and embarrassing 2373 01:55:22,040 --> 01:55:25,360 Speaker 4: and sad when and I and the funnier part is 2374 01:55:25,960 --> 01:55:29,280 Speaker 4: the main people coming like getting giving me sub backlash. 2375 01:55:29,280 --> 01:55:32,200 Speaker 4: And when I say sub backlash, I mean making posts 2376 01:55:32,240 --> 01:55:33,720 Speaker 4: or tweets related to. 2377 01:55:33,760 --> 01:55:36,080 Speaker 3: What I'm talking about, but not saying my name. Were 2378 01:55:36,160 --> 01:55:41,080 Speaker 3: other black women? What which I found I was absolutely 2379 01:55:41,200 --> 01:55:45,880 Speaker 3: about I've never had that was a baffled, but you're 2380 01:55:45,880 --> 01:55:46,640 Speaker 3: shaking your head. 2381 01:55:46,880 --> 01:55:49,160 Speaker 6: It's it's a little bit of jealousy. It's a little 2382 01:55:49,200 --> 01:55:51,800 Speaker 6: bit of pigmy, you know, not tell me fun. It's like, oh, 2383 01:55:52,080 --> 01:55:53,600 Speaker 6: if she don't want to be down, I'm down. 2384 01:55:53,880 --> 01:55:57,880 Speaker 2: Because what was their argument. I'm just trying to understand, like, 2385 01:55:57,920 --> 01:56:00,520 Speaker 2: whoa what were they saying was the problem? I just 2386 01:56:00,560 --> 01:56:02,560 Speaker 2: don't understand where what they think you did wrong? 2387 01:56:03,800 --> 01:56:04,320 Speaker 3: Well, one of the. 2388 01:56:04,400 --> 01:56:06,760 Speaker 4: Posts was just like, you know, she was saying, I 2389 01:56:07,280 --> 01:56:09,520 Speaker 4: work at one of these one of these clubs. Never 2390 01:56:09,600 --> 01:56:11,720 Speaker 4: said my name, mind you, I work at one of 2391 01:56:11,760 --> 01:56:13,920 Speaker 4: these clubs. And I'm just gonna say right now, they 2392 01:56:14,040 --> 01:56:15,400 Speaker 4: do care about black life. 2393 01:56:16,120 --> 01:56:19,280 Speaker 3: I work there. They treat me like family. And but bitch, 2394 01:56:20,320 --> 01:56:24,640 Speaker 3: you could die today. You could get murdered and stopped by. 2395 01:56:24,560 --> 01:56:29,360 Speaker 4: The police today. Guess what will happen tomorrow. They will 2396 01:56:29,440 --> 01:56:32,680 Speaker 4: continue to go on the same way that they were going. 2397 01:56:33,200 --> 01:56:35,000 Speaker 4: And you know what that same club did the very 2398 01:56:35,080 --> 01:56:38,720 Speaker 4: next day, one of the owners posted, now, mind you, 2399 01:56:38,840 --> 01:56:41,000 Speaker 4: she made this whole long post and then at the 2400 01:56:41,200 --> 01:56:43,720 Speaker 4: end does throw a dig at me, like and next 2401 01:56:43,760 --> 01:56:47,080 Speaker 4: time someone tells you, you know that these clubs aren't 2402 01:56:47,080 --> 01:56:48,040 Speaker 4: saying black lives matter. 2403 01:56:48,160 --> 01:56:50,840 Speaker 3: You should be upset. You should consider the source. 2404 01:56:51,280 --> 01:56:54,120 Speaker 4: Bitch, my reputation is queen. I don't know what we 2405 01:56:54,320 --> 01:56:56,120 Speaker 4: considered the source. What the fuck you mean by that? 2406 01:56:56,600 --> 01:56:56,800 Speaker 1: Wow? 2407 01:56:56,840 --> 01:56:57,560 Speaker 3: But here's the thing. 2408 01:56:57,760 --> 01:57:01,160 Speaker 4: The very next day that same club, one of the 2409 01:57:01,280 --> 01:57:04,600 Speaker 4: owners posted something about their support for Trump. 2410 01:57:05,160 --> 01:57:07,960 Speaker 3: So, bitch, how what does that tell you? 2411 01:57:08,040 --> 01:57:10,080 Speaker 4: Because I know you had a conversation with them, You 2412 01:57:10,160 --> 01:57:12,840 Speaker 4: worked this, so you talk to them before you made 2413 01:57:12,880 --> 01:57:15,320 Speaker 4: this post. And I know that because you didn't mention 2414 01:57:15,400 --> 01:57:16,960 Speaker 4: the name of the club, because I'm sure they asked 2415 01:57:17,000 --> 01:57:19,520 Speaker 4: you not to because they don't want your black ass 2416 01:57:19,600 --> 01:57:22,680 Speaker 4: representing them. But they'll let you fill it out there 2417 01:57:22,800 --> 01:57:25,400 Speaker 4: for the other comics to eat up, you know, and 2418 01:57:25,760 --> 01:57:27,800 Speaker 4: eat our you know, eat up and eat ourselves up 2419 01:57:28,200 --> 01:57:30,520 Speaker 4: and scrap and fight over it. One, I'm not gonna comment. 2420 01:57:30,560 --> 01:57:32,040 Speaker 4: I'm not gonna like it, I'm not gonna hate it. 2421 01:57:32,120 --> 01:57:33,960 Speaker 4: I'm just you don't exist. You're irrelevant. 2422 01:57:34,360 --> 01:57:36,960 Speaker 3: Two, the very next day, one of the owners posts 2423 01:57:36,960 --> 01:57:39,960 Speaker 3: about their their Trump support. What does that doesn't say 2424 01:57:40,000 --> 01:57:43,600 Speaker 3: anything to you? They could give two bucks about your 2425 01:57:43,640 --> 01:57:45,960 Speaker 3: black They don't care about your black ass, and they 2426 01:57:46,040 --> 01:57:49,760 Speaker 3: made it very plain and very simple. Facts, nigger, Hey 2427 01:57:50,000 --> 01:57:53,560 Speaker 3: Trump Now that's the resistance. 2428 01:57:53,720 --> 01:57:56,000 Speaker 2: That's what a resistance for the idea, even say a 2429 01:57:56,080 --> 01:57:58,800 Speaker 2: Black Lives Matter comes from, is because all you're doing 2430 01:57:58,920 --> 01:58:01,120 Speaker 2: is saying you're picking aside. You know this is this 2431 01:58:01,280 --> 01:58:04,560 Speaker 2: is the same ironically, this is the same reasoning for 2432 01:58:04,720 --> 01:58:10,040 Speaker 2: why I'm like for Beyonce's lemonade is revolutionary to so 2433 01:58:10,120 --> 01:58:12,080 Speaker 2: many people. It's not about her coming out saying fuck 2434 01:58:12,120 --> 01:58:14,640 Speaker 2: white people. All she said was I love black people. 2435 01:58:15,400 --> 01:58:18,000 Speaker 2: That to a lot of people is like the line. 2436 01:58:18,040 --> 01:58:20,400 Speaker 2: They're like, no, fuck Frankie. She wants us to say 2437 01:58:20,480 --> 01:58:23,800 Speaker 2: we love black people. No, absolutely not. And the fact 2438 01:58:23,840 --> 01:58:25,680 Speaker 2: think that there's other black people that will come out 2439 01:58:25,680 --> 01:58:29,280 Speaker 2: and be like, yeah, they treat me well, So. 2440 01:58:31,120 --> 01:58:32,920 Speaker 1: We think, like what kind of shit is that? 2441 01:58:33,200 --> 01:58:33,280 Speaker 5: Right? 2442 01:58:33,360 --> 01:58:35,960 Speaker 6: Because it's always one of the things, Like I said, 2443 01:58:35,960 --> 01:58:38,520 Speaker 6: it's like a pick me. I'm the good one. You 2444 01:58:38,640 --> 01:58:39,800 Speaker 6: know you're always going to get. 2445 01:58:40,480 --> 01:58:42,880 Speaker 5: If you don't want her, I'll be more than happy 2446 01:58:43,240 --> 01:58:45,760 Speaker 5: to be your affirmative action. I'll be more than happy 2447 01:58:45,920 --> 01:58:47,960 Speaker 5: to be like the one negro to make it into 2448 01:58:48,040 --> 01:58:49,480 Speaker 5: the room. Because why whiteness. 2449 01:58:49,720 --> 01:58:52,960 Speaker 2: I was listening to a podcast. There's this thing that happened. 2450 01:58:53,000 --> 01:58:55,760 Speaker 2: We're so off tangent. But this is the show now. 2451 01:58:57,320 --> 01:59:01,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I'm not. 2452 01:59:01,400 --> 01:59:02,839 Speaker 3: Done, saying I'm still. 2453 01:59:05,240 --> 01:59:06,000 Speaker 1: We're almost done. 2454 01:59:06,400 --> 01:59:07,760 Speaker 6: We're gonna give it to you so she could make 2455 01:59:07,800 --> 01:59:08,520 Speaker 6: the French toast. 2456 01:59:08,720 --> 01:59:11,120 Speaker 1: We know the French toast is not gonna make itrself. 2457 01:59:15,880 --> 01:59:17,680 Speaker 3: Oh thank you. She's just letting me know she's free 2458 01:59:17,760 --> 01:59:18,360 Speaker 3: to hang out with me. 2459 01:59:18,680 --> 01:59:25,480 Speaker 1: Okay, awesome, we'll hang out, all right, I love you. 2460 01:59:25,560 --> 01:59:25,760 Speaker 6: Bye. 2461 01:59:27,160 --> 01:59:27,720 Speaker 3: It's very. 2462 01:59:33,240 --> 01:59:33,280 Speaker 5: No. 2463 01:59:34,600 --> 01:59:36,440 Speaker 1: She lets you know her because she still loves me. 2464 01:59:36,680 --> 01:59:38,880 Speaker 1: Her calendar availability what. 2465 01:59:40,440 --> 01:59:42,600 Speaker 3: I know. You're thirteen, Get the hell out of my road. 2466 01:59:45,320 --> 01:59:47,240 Speaker 6: Fifteen, she's fourteen and a half. 2467 01:59:47,760 --> 01:59:54,160 Speaker 4: Okay, hello, she's still the sweetest baby human and I 2468 01:59:54,280 --> 01:59:54,520 Speaker 4: love it. 2469 01:59:54,800 --> 01:59:55,480 Speaker 3: Well, here's the thing. 2470 01:59:55,560 --> 01:59:58,040 Speaker 1: You're so lucky. You're so lucky because. 2471 01:59:58,040 --> 02:00:01,520 Speaker 2: Second all these alls and she's so sweet. Now you're 2472 02:00:01,560 --> 02:00:02,960 Speaker 2: gonna try to tell us what's wrong with her. Now 2473 02:00:02,960 --> 02:00:04,280 Speaker 2: you're gonna try to tell us what's wrong with her. 2474 02:00:04,320 --> 02:00:05,040 Speaker 1: Not you're out the room. 2475 02:00:07,200 --> 02:00:08,880 Speaker 3: I was hoping she's stayed so she can hear it, 2476 02:00:08,960 --> 02:00:12,080 Speaker 3: so I said to my black face. But I've been 2477 02:00:12,120 --> 02:00:15,080 Speaker 3: trying to I trying to hang out with. 2478 02:00:15,080 --> 02:00:17,640 Speaker 4: This motherfucker for like two weeks, and she's been getting 2479 02:00:17,640 --> 02:00:21,200 Speaker 4: me the cold shoulder. Now when I'm busy and I'm 2480 02:00:21,280 --> 02:00:22,280 Speaker 4: doing something. 2481 02:00:22,200 --> 02:00:24,240 Speaker 1: Oh, now you want to hang out? 2482 02:00:24,840 --> 02:00:26,200 Speaker 3: Look, but she did you hear the. 2483 02:00:26,240 --> 02:00:28,920 Speaker 4: Way she phrased me. She said, Oh, I'm free now 2484 02:00:29,360 --> 02:00:34,400 Speaker 4: to hang out. You've been free, We've been in the house. 2485 02:00:36,600 --> 02:00:38,680 Speaker 4: All you have to do is control all delete, close 2486 02:00:38,720 --> 02:00:39,480 Speaker 4: out of your computer. 2487 02:00:39,560 --> 02:00:42,440 Speaker 3: Bitch like we've had, yes, ample. 2488 02:00:42,280 --> 02:00:46,920 Speaker 1: Time out telling the truth on them. M tell the truth. 2489 02:00:46,960 --> 02:00:47,960 Speaker 1: Shame the devil. 2490 02:00:49,200 --> 02:00:49,880 Speaker 3: Kids. Thank you. 2491 02:00:51,680 --> 02:00:53,640 Speaker 4: I'm trying to I'm trying to share my story with 2492 02:00:53,720 --> 02:00:55,440 Speaker 4: the world right now, nigga, Like what you trying to. 2493 02:00:57,000 --> 02:00:58,440 Speaker 3: Try to stop my broth you work for? 2494 02:00:58,920 --> 02:01:04,160 Speaker 1: Then she said, I'm on her Instagram right now. She 2495 02:01:04,240 --> 02:01:07,320 Speaker 1: said something. She said the comedy club always treated her good. 2496 02:01:07,840 --> 02:01:10,560 Speaker 1: So I don't know. I don't know. Maybe it's Frankie 2497 02:01:10,560 --> 02:01:12,920 Speaker 1: that's crazy. I don't Maybe we've just been talking about nothing. 2498 02:01:12,960 --> 02:01:15,680 Speaker 2: But but I was listening to this podcast because it 2499 02:01:15,800 --> 02:01:19,160 Speaker 2: was it blew up online Barstool Sports. They're run by 2500 02:01:19,240 --> 02:01:22,760 Speaker 2: scud Dave Portnoy, and they found some old videos of 2501 02:01:22,880 --> 02:01:28,280 Speaker 2: him being against Kaepernick and rapping along to rap songs 2502 02:01:28,320 --> 02:01:29,440 Speaker 2: and saying the N word with. 2503 02:01:29,560 --> 02:01:34,400 Speaker 1: The rap song, and so the videos, of course went viral. 2504 02:01:34,480 --> 02:01:37,280 Speaker 2: These are four or five year old videos, and people 2505 02:01:37,440 --> 02:01:40,640 Speaker 2: was like, you know, cancel him, basically like just look, 2506 02:01:40,720 --> 02:01:41,640 Speaker 2: look he said this at. 2507 02:01:41,600 --> 02:01:43,840 Speaker 1: One point in time. Now I will say this, I'm 2508 02:01:43,880 --> 02:01:47,200 Speaker 1: not very I love this movement of being. 2509 02:01:47,120 --> 02:01:48,760 Speaker 2: Petty and getting the white people out the pay It's 2510 02:01:48,800 --> 02:01:51,040 Speaker 2: so funny to me, Like, it don't matter how small 2511 02:01:51,080 --> 02:01:52,400 Speaker 2: the shit is, I just be wanting to see if 2512 02:01:52,440 --> 02:01:54,200 Speaker 2: it will work. Like at this point, I'm not even 2513 02:01:54,560 --> 02:01:57,120 Speaker 2: trying to turn it into like some racial avengure shit. 2514 02:01:57,400 --> 02:01:59,120 Speaker 2: I really am at the point where some of these 2515 02:01:59,160 --> 02:02:01,200 Speaker 2: grievouses are so small that I'm just like, I wonder 2516 02:02:01,240 --> 02:02:03,240 Speaker 2: if they can wonder if they can pull this one off. 2517 02:02:03,520 --> 02:02:07,200 Speaker 2: And so this was one of those like he's rich, 2518 02:02:07,320 --> 02:02:09,400 Speaker 2: he owns all his own shit. There's really no one 2519 02:02:09,480 --> 02:02:12,200 Speaker 2: to quote unquote cancel him. Maybe you could go to 2520 02:02:12,280 --> 02:02:14,760 Speaker 2: his advertiser or something. But it was like in the 2521 02:02:14,840 --> 02:02:16,800 Speaker 2: past when they brought up these things, he's always been like, 2522 02:02:16,920 --> 02:02:19,400 Speaker 2: I'm rich and I'm white, and y'all can't do shit. 2523 02:02:19,520 --> 02:02:22,400 Speaker 2: Stop trying to cancel me, right, And so when they 2524 02:02:22,480 --> 02:02:24,840 Speaker 2: brought it up this time, he was like, uh, did 2525 02:02:24,920 --> 02:02:25,640 Speaker 2: he doubled down? 2526 02:02:25,720 --> 02:02:25,840 Speaker 3: Right? 2527 02:02:26,040 --> 02:02:29,320 Speaker 1: I'm rich, This is cancel culture. You know this is 2528 02:02:29,480 --> 02:02:30,960 Speaker 1: it's just a joke. I want to take a joke. 2529 02:02:31,280 --> 02:02:35,440 Speaker 2: But now, because he's tried to diversify his staff in 2530 02:02:35,520 --> 02:02:37,520 Speaker 2: the last four or five years, there's a bunch of 2531 02:02:37,560 --> 02:02:41,040 Speaker 2: fucking black people that worked there. So the black people 2532 02:02:41,080 --> 02:02:43,240 Speaker 2: came out and was like, hey, man, fuck that, like 2533 02:02:43,360 --> 02:02:46,400 Speaker 2: you can't just be out here saying like well, they 2534 02:02:46,400 --> 02:02:48,360 Speaker 2: didn't even say it that forcefuately, but they were basically like, 2535 02:02:48,480 --> 02:02:50,400 Speaker 2: we're black and you're putting us in a bad position 2536 02:02:50,520 --> 02:02:53,040 Speaker 2: because now everybody wants to know how we can work 2537 02:02:53,080 --> 02:02:54,520 Speaker 2: for a guy like you who. 2538 02:02:54,440 --> 02:02:57,080 Speaker 1: Won't even apologize for saying the fucking N word, Like 2539 02:02:58,000 --> 02:02:58,840 Speaker 1: how you know? 2540 02:02:59,000 --> 02:03:01,560 Speaker 2: And these are people that I'm assuming over the last 2541 02:03:01,720 --> 02:03:04,840 Speaker 2: month or two, I would guess the black shows on 2542 02:03:04,880 --> 02:03:07,360 Speaker 2: the Barstool Network have been talking about I don't know, 2543 02:03:08,120 --> 02:03:12,680 Speaker 2: George Floyd, systemic racism, so not even they look like 2544 02:03:12,760 --> 02:03:16,200 Speaker 2: some fucking cowwards because you know, you said all this 2545 02:03:16,280 --> 02:03:17,760 Speaker 2: shit when it was out in the world, like we 2546 02:03:17,880 --> 02:03:19,440 Speaker 2: need to change this, we need to do this, But 2547 02:03:19,560 --> 02:03:21,760 Speaker 2: then when it came down to your workplace, you're now 2548 02:03:21,840 --> 02:03:23,280 Speaker 2: you got to be like, well, you know, Dave's a 2549 02:03:23,360 --> 02:03:24,280 Speaker 2: nice guys. 2550 02:03:24,560 --> 02:03:26,240 Speaker 1: I think it's just a missing right. 2551 02:03:26,320 --> 02:03:29,520 Speaker 3: So here, I'm not doing that. I'm not doing that. 2552 02:03:29,680 --> 02:03:31,680 Speaker 4: I'm not doing Like I said, this is the thing 2553 02:03:31,760 --> 02:03:34,160 Speaker 4: that I know about myself, and I can't speak for everyone, 2554 02:03:34,240 --> 02:03:35,360 Speaker 4: but I know that I have talent. 2555 02:03:35,440 --> 02:03:36,840 Speaker 3: I know that I have thoughts. I know that I 2556 02:03:36,920 --> 02:03:39,440 Speaker 3: have ideas, and I know that the things that I 2557 02:03:39,640 --> 02:03:40,680 Speaker 3: produce are interesting. 2558 02:03:41,240 --> 02:03:44,160 Speaker 4: So to me, that says you, I don't give a 2559 02:03:44,200 --> 02:03:47,680 Speaker 4: shit about working your shitty clubroom because I'm going to. 2560 02:03:47,880 --> 02:03:49,640 Speaker 3: Write my own ticket for my own thing. 2561 02:03:49,800 --> 02:03:54,160 Speaker 4: I firmly believe that Debatable AF is doing great, but 2562 02:03:54,480 --> 02:03:56,640 Speaker 4: you know, I'm working to do something else with that 2563 02:03:56,760 --> 02:03:58,280 Speaker 4: that I can't talk about just yet. 2564 02:03:58,880 --> 02:04:02,440 Speaker 3: But that alone is just one idea I wrote. Like 2565 02:04:02,480 --> 02:04:03,440 Speaker 3: I said, I wrote a pilot. 2566 02:04:04,040 --> 02:04:05,640 Speaker 4: I sent it to a couple of people, a couple 2567 02:04:05,680 --> 02:04:09,240 Speaker 4: of industry people who are now like very interested in 2568 02:04:09,360 --> 02:04:12,400 Speaker 4: reading black writing. And one of them said came back 2569 02:04:12,640 --> 02:04:15,680 Speaker 4: like literally that night and was like, this is the 2570 02:04:15,760 --> 02:04:17,520 Speaker 4: best thing I've read in pilot season. 2571 02:04:18,480 --> 02:04:20,440 Speaker 3: I haven't read anything that that was. It's goin. 2572 02:04:20,520 --> 02:04:23,280 Speaker 4: I said, well, here's the gag. That's my very first 2573 02:04:23,320 --> 02:04:25,880 Speaker 4: script that I've ever written. I have no training, I 2574 02:04:25,960 --> 02:04:28,200 Speaker 4: have no education in writing. I just knew what I 2575 02:04:28,280 --> 02:04:32,040 Speaker 4: wanted to see and I put it onto paper. And 2576 02:04:32,080 --> 02:04:34,680 Speaker 4: I'm not saying that to tout about how great I am. 2577 02:04:35,200 --> 02:04:39,520 Speaker 4: My point is that you will never sacrifice your career 2578 02:04:39,720 --> 02:04:41,960 Speaker 4: when you have a brain and a mind and ambition. 2579 02:04:42,560 --> 02:04:45,959 Speaker 3: Okay, you don't have to sit back and eat anyone's 2580 02:04:46,000 --> 02:04:48,840 Speaker 3: garbage and eat their shit and accept. 2581 02:04:48,680 --> 02:04:52,240 Speaker 4: Bullshit from anyone when you have your own abilities and talent, 2582 02:04:52,560 --> 02:04:55,320 Speaker 4: because you know what, I know enough people just in 2583 02:04:55,480 --> 02:04:58,160 Speaker 4: the world that if I really really felt like it, 2584 02:04:58,480 --> 02:05:00,600 Speaker 4: I could get a whole team together and dot my 2585 02:05:00,800 --> 02:05:04,040 Speaker 4: pilot myself. If I really felt like if I really 2586 02:05:04,160 --> 02:05:06,520 Speaker 4: put the elbow grease into it, if I have to 2587 02:05:06,600 --> 02:05:11,400 Speaker 4: do it, then that's what I'll do. And people will fall, 2588 02:05:11,720 --> 02:05:13,680 Speaker 4: you know, love it and watch it, and it'll get 2589 02:05:13,680 --> 02:05:14,840 Speaker 4: a fund Do you know what I'm saying? 2590 02:05:14,880 --> 02:05:17,280 Speaker 3: Regardless, speak up. 2591 02:05:17,560 --> 02:05:21,240 Speaker 2: That's what this podcast is really, That's what this podcast 2592 02:05:21,280 --> 02:05:24,400 Speaker 2: has really been. Like Karen and I built this ourselves, 2593 02:05:24,600 --> 02:05:27,240 Speaker 2: and then we have support from people that you know, 2594 02:05:27,480 --> 02:05:30,160 Speaker 2: pay to listen to our premium stuff. But that all 2595 02:05:30,240 --> 02:05:32,400 Speaker 2: those people supporting us have given us the ability to 2596 02:05:32,440 --> 02:05:34,760 Speaker 2: say no to things. They've given us the ability to 2597 02:05:34,880 --> 02:05:37,320 Speaker 2: negotiate like this seasons. 2598 02:05:36,880 --> 02:05:40,040 Speaker 6: Given us power more more than you guys will we 2599 02:05:40,240 --> 02:05:40,560 Speaker 6: ever know. 2600 02:05:40,680 --> 02:05:42,800 Speaker 5: I know you guys love us and support us, but 2601 02:05:43,360 --> 02:05:45,280 Speaker 5: you know out of a lot of black love and 2602 02:05:45,320 --> 02:05:48,080 Speaker 5: support that all white listeners to support too, but out 2603 02:05:48,120 --> 02:05:50,160 Speaker 5: of black dollars, which a lot of people would tell 2604 02:05:50,200 --> 02:05:53,320 Speaker 5: you is not valuable and don't matter, and that black 2605 02:05:53,320 --> 02:05:54,360 Speaker 5: people don't support ship. 2606 02:05:54,640 --> 02:05:57,320 Speaker 6: Nigga, I am a living a witness. That's not true. 2607 02:05:57,480 --> 02:06:00,960 Speaker 2: But it's also because we have we have the voice 2608 02:06:01,000 --> 02:06:03,120 Speaker 2: we have, and it drew black people because they were like, 2609 02:06:03,720 --> 02:06:05,720 Speaker 2: we don't hear this. We don't get to hear this everywhere, 2610 02:06:06,160 --> 02:06:08,640 Speaker 2: you know, because if you're working for a different company, 2611 02:06:08,680 --> 02:06:10,160 Speaker 2: they might come in and, hey, can you tone it 2612 02:06:10,240 --> 02:06:12,640 Speaker 2: down a little bit on the Black Lives Matter thing? 2613 02:06:12,760 --> 02:06:15,160 Speaker 1: It's getting a little controversial and we want to sell 2614 02:06:15,240 --> 02:06:15,680 Speaker 1: these ads. 2615 02:06:15,840 --> 02:06:18,440 Speaker 5: No, you know, you talked about Treyvon Martin for three 2616 02:06:18,520 --> 02:06:20,600 Speaker 5: days straight. We're tired of it, Like, don't bring up 2617 02:06:20,600 --> 02:06:22,760 Speaker 5: Trump no more? Can you can you tone down to Trump? Right? 2618 02:06:23,120 --> 02:06:25,080 Speaker 2: This episode wasn't very funny. It's just an how we're 2619 02:06:25,080 --> 02:06:27,240 Speaker 2: talking about Trump. I'm like, it was hilarious to us, 2620 02:06:27,400 --> 02:06:29,440 Speaker 2: so we like that. We don't have to do that, 2621 02:06:29,560 --> 02:06:32,480 Speaker 2: and then we get in situations like lately, you know 2622 02:06:32,720 --> 02:06:34,520 Speaker 2: a lot of these outlets and stuff are reaching out 2623 02:06:34,560 --> 02:06:36,880 Speaker 2: to us now because you know, suddenly white people realize 2624 02:06:36,960 --> 02:06:41,440 Speaker 2: racist Israel, and so now now everybody's like, what about 2625 02:06:41,440 --> 02:06:41,760 Speaker 2: this deal? 2626 02:06:41,840 --> 02:06:42,560 Speaker 1: What about that deal? 2627 02:06:42,600 --> 02:06:44,040 Speaker 2: And we've been able to kind of look at them 2628 02:06:44,080 --> 02:06:47,280 Speaker 2: and be like, nah, we're good with this, or you know, 2629 02:06:47,440 --> 02:06:50,800 Speaker 2: we'll consider that. But that like that is because we 2630 02:06:50,960 --> 02:06:53,840 Speaker 2: don't we don't cut our voice off. And the only 2631 02:06:53,920 --> 02:06:56,680 Speaker 2: thing I want to say about this show, So the show, 2632 02:06:56,800 --> 02:06:59,040 Speaker 2: I think it's called two Bigs Podcasts or something. 2633 02:06:59,080 --> 02:06:59,920 Speaker 1: It's on this network. 2634 02:07:00,080 --> 02:07:04,880 Speaker 2: Barsteel Barsteel has a very it has a reputation because 2635 02:07:04,920 --> 02:07:06,480 Speaker 2: I don't listen to all their shows, but it's a 2636 02:07:06,520 --> 02:07:09,440 Speaker 2: reputation for very very like white bro do bro kind 2637 02:07:09,480 --> 02:07:13,880 Speaker 2: of things, right, And so this black show brings they 2638 02:07:13,920 --> 02:07:16,960 Speaker 2: bring all the black people, the minorities that work there, 2639 02:07:17,240 --> 02:07:19,920 Speaker 2: and they get on one episode together and they talk 2640 02:07:20,000 --> 02:07:23,720 Speaker 2: about how they feel about their boss essentially having these 2641 02:07:23,800 --> 02:07:25,520 Speaker 2: videos saying the N word and all this stuff. 2642 02:07:26,200 --> 02:07:29,760 Speaker 1: And I thought it was a really good episode. 2643 02:07:30,440 --> 02:07:33,880 Speaker 2: But I don't think they picked the titles for their episode, 2644 02:07:34,440 --> 02:07:38,160 Speaker 2: because the title of the episode was now it's gonna 2645 02:07:38,200 --> 02:07:41,839 Speaker 2: get extremely real, which if you look at that acronym, 2646 02:07:41,880 --> 02:07:45,240 Speaker 2: it's nigger, right, And. 2647 02:07:45,360 --> 02:07:47,360 Speaker 6: Then yeah, you could, like I don't think nobody. 2648 02:07:47,600 --> 02:07:50,360 Speaker 2: And then maybe like twenty to thirty minutes in or something, 2649 02:07:50,400 --> 02:07:53,840 Speaker 2: there's this weird advertisement that's not really an advertisement, that's 2650 02:07:53,920 --> 02:07:57,400 Speaker 2: just like a bunch of racist stereotypes of like, you know, black. 2651 02:07:57,320 --> 02:08:00,480 Speaker 1: Come on down to the coon joke, like some type 2652 02:08:00,480 --> 02:08:03,880 Speaker 1: of weird like get your watermelon and chicken here or whatever. 2653 02:08:04,040 --> 02:08:07,120 Speaker 1: And I'm like, right, I don't have to. I don't 2654 02:08:07,160 --> 02:08:09,000 Speaker 1: know if that was if they no one on the 2655 02:08:09,040 --> 02:08:11,920 Speaker 1: show talked about it. It wasn't really it didn't really 2656 02:08:11,960 --> 02:08:13,400 Speaker 1: make sense to being in it. 2657 02:08:13,480 --> 02:08:16,440 Speaker 2: So I don't know if some editor that edits the 2658 02:08:16,520 --> 02:08:19,320 Speaker 2: podcast threw it in there as a joke or whatever, 2659 02:08:19,600 --> 02:08:22,640 Speaker 2: But I like, I just kept thinking, like and keep 2660 02:08:22,680 --> 02:08:24,920 Speaker 2: in mind, this was not a bad conversation. I listened 2661 02:08:24,920 --> 02:08:28,120 Speaker 2: to the whole thing very nuanced. They're very like, you know, 2662 02:08:28,520 --> 02:08:30,400 Speaker 2: I understand they're getting check from the dude. So they 2663 02:08:30,440 --> 02:08:32,520 Speaker 2: spoke up in a way that I thought, you know, 2664 02:08:32,640 --> 02:08:34,520 Speaker 2: if he takes it personally, y'all might get fired. I 2665 02:08:34,560 --> 02:08:37,360 Speaker 2: don't know, but I thought it was pretty nuanced, pretty 2666 02:08:37,440 --> 02:08:41,920 Speaker 2: understanding all things considered, and I still felt like they 2667 02:08:42,080 --> 02:08:46,120 Speaker 2: put them out there like the tokens, because you know, 2668 02:08:46,240 --> 02:08:49,240 Speaker 2: either you token on yourself with that nigga shit, or 2669 02:08:49,400 --> 02:08:51,600 Speaker 2: you let someone do it to you and then you 2670 02:08:52,080 --> 02:08:52,960 Speaker 2: you have here. 2671 02:08:53,360 --> 02:08:54,920 Speaker 3: Here's my issue with all of that. 2672 02:08:55,640 --> 02:08:58,080 Speaker 4: Stop asking me how I feel about my white ass 2673 02:08:58,120 --> 02:09:01,360 Speaker 4: boss's racism as the other white people here, talk to 2674 02:09:01,520 --> 02:09:04,520 Speaker 4: them about it. They're the ones that's making this okay. 2675 02:09:05,000 --> 02:09:09,200 Speaker 4: Obviously I don't like it, okay, clearly, I don't want 2676 02:09:09,520 --> 02:09:12,919 Speaker 4: to sit and be in a space where there's active racism. 2677 02:09:13,000 --> 02:09:13,600 Speaker 3: I don't like it. 2678 02:09:14,080 --> 02:09:16,800 Speaker 4: So why why isn't his white ass here? Why aren't 2679 02:09:16,840 --> 02:09:19,440 Speaker 4: my other white counterparts here? And why aren't we they 2680 02:09:19,560 --> 02:09:21,520 Speaker 4: being held accountable? Why aren't we asking them? 2681 02:09:21,800 --> 02:09:23,440 Speaker 3: How does that? How does that make you feel? What 2682 02:09:23,560 --> 02:09:26,080 Speaker 3: do you think you can do different? What could be changed? Well, 2683 02:09:26,080 --> 02:09:26,920 Speaker 3: you know, ask them. 2684 02:09:27,160 --> 02:09:28,840 Speaker 4: These are the ones that need to When my white 2685 02:09:28,880 --> 02:09:31,840 Speaker 4: friends come to me looking for absolution, I tell them, 2686 02:09:31,960 --> 02:09:36,200 Speaker 4: go talk to your white ass Mammy and Pappy, go 2687 02:09:36,400 --> 02:09:36,920 Speaker 4: talk to them. 2688 02:09:37,480 --> 02:09:41,400 Speaker 3: I can't give you the answers about racism. It's very simple. 2689 02:09:41,800 --> 02:09:44,960 Speaker 3: I'm a human person, you're a human person. Treat me 2690 02:09:45,040 --> 02:09:47,960 Speaker 3: with fucking respect. That's it, and that's all. 2691 02:09:48,120 --> 02:09:51,280 Speaker 2: And as a black person I did as a black person, 2692 02:09:51,360 --> 02:09:54,760 Speaker 2: I did appreciate them doing that sode because I more 2693 02:09:54,840 --> 02:09:57,000 Speaker 2: than white people, I actually care how the black people 2694 02:09:57,040 --> 02:10:00,320 Speaker 2: that work their feel I don't like others, like for 2695 02:10:00,440 --> 02:10:03,280 Speaker 2: the white people to be educated, like maybe they should 2696 02:10:03,280 --> 02:10:04,320 Speaker 2: go talk to some white people. 2697 02:10:04,560 --> 02:10:06,320 Speaker 1: But me, as a black person, I'm like, how the 2698 02:10:06,360 --> 02:10:07,280 Speaker 1: fuck y'all dealing with this? 2699 02:10:07,440 --> 02:10:09,600 Speaker 2: Cause I don't know what I would do in a 2700 02:10:09,680 --> 02:10:12,400 Speaker 2: situation like that shorter quitting, Like what the fuck is 2701 02:10:12,440 --> 02:10:15,040 Speaker 2: there for me to do? And I understand there's financial 2702 02:10:15,080 --> 02:10:17,040 Speaker 2: reasons you might not be able to just quit on 2703 02:10:17,120 --> 02:10:19,120 Speaker 2: a dime, but like, I don't know how I don't 2704 02:10:19,160 --> 02:10:22,600 Speaker 2: quit if my boss is out here being like, fuck 2705 02:10:22,720 --> 02:10:25,240 Speaker 2: y'all cancel culture, y'all ain't about to y'all ain't about 2706 02:10:25,240 --> 02:10:25,680 Speaker 2: to get me out. 2707 02:10:25,680 --> 02:10:27,600 Speaker 1: I was like, no, dag, you offended me in my 2708 02:10:27,720 --> 02:10:30,200 Speaker 1: cancel culture. Am I a person? I'm a fucking human being. 2709 02:10:30,520 --> 02:10:33,240 Speaker 2: And now that dude, the boss dude did an issue 2710 02:10:33,280 --> 02:10:37,280 Speaker 2: a different and like an actual apology later, But it 2711 02:10:37,440 --> 02:10:39,280 Speaker 2: just I don't know when you see that title for 2712 02:10:39,360 --> 02:10:42,440 Speaker 2: that episode, whether they chose it or not. When you 2713 02:10:42,560 --> 02:10:45,040 Speaker 2: hear that that add inserted it to it, it just 2714 02:10:45,160 --> 02:10:49,280 Speaker 2: kind of undercuts every fucking thing that happened on the show. 2715 02:10:49,400 --> 02:10:53,800 Speaker 4: Point those two things alone diminish that whole episode for me. Yeah, 2716 02:10:53,800 --> 02:10:56,400 Speaker 4: because you really put any care and thought into it. 2717 02:10:56,520 --> 02:10:59,720 Speaker 4: This isn't really about getting real. You're you're trying to 2718 02:11:00,160 --> 02:11:03,680 Speaker 4: making a mockery of these people and whatever pain their experience, right, 2719 02:11:04,560 --> 02:11:07,360 Speaker 4: and this is the experience of black people in America. 2720 02:11:07,840 --> 02:11:08,960 Speaker 3: Wherever we go. 2721 02:11:09,560 --> 02:11:12,240 Speaker 4: We have to deal with that every step that we 2722 02:11:12,400 --> 02:11:15,680 Speaker 4: take in America. We are dealing with that constantly. You 2723 02:11:15,760 --> 02:11:19,400 Speaker 4: know what, well, how often do you experience racism every day? 2724 02:11:20,520 --> 02:11:25,000 Speaker 4: Okay that I am in existence in the world in America, 2725 02:11:25,400 --> 02:11:27,000 Speaker 4: that's how often I'm experiencing it. 2726 02:11:27,240 --> 02:11:30,360 Speaker 3: But again, black folks, we all know we have to 2727 02:11:30,440 --> 02:11:31,800 Speaker 3: stuff it and push it down. 2728 02:11:32,080 --> 02:11:34,280 Speaker 2: And if you saw me as an equal, if you 2729 02:11:34,360 --> 02:11:36,200 Speaker 2: saw me as valuable, if you saw me as the 2730 02:11:36,240 --> 02:11:39,360 Speaker 2: same as your other employees, you wouldn't trot me out 2731 02:11:39,800 --> 02:11:40,000 Speaker 2: like that. 2732 02:11:41,520 --> 02:11:43,400 Speaker 3: And that's the other point. 2733 02:11:43,600 --> 02:11:44,320 Speaker 1: That's the other point. 2734 02:11:44,320 --> 02:11:47,400 Speaker 4: You wouldn't even I wouldn't even be in this position. Actually, 2735 02:11:47,600 --> 02:11:50,880 Speaker 4: rewind further than that once. Here's I'm a very firm 2736 02:11:50,960 --> 02:11:54,560 Speaker 4: believer in change. Okay, I believe. And if you guys 2737 02:11:54,640 --> 02:11:57,320 Speaker 4: don't mind, actually have an episode of a podcast that 2738 02:11:57,400 --> 02:11:59,320 Speaker 4: I did with with these other people that I'd like 2739 02:11:59,400 --> 02:12:00,760 Speaker 4: to share with your if that's okay. 2740 02:12:01,560 --> 02:12:02,160 Speaker 1: What's the name of it? 2741 02:12:02,360 --> 02:12:04,280 Speaker 4: And it's well, the name of the show was gonna 2742 02:12:04,280 --> 02:12:06,040 Speaker 4: put the link in the comments to the link of 2743 02:12:06,080 --> 02:12:09,440 Speaker 4: the name of the show is Comedians for Hire, okay, 2744 02:12:10,040 --> 02:12:12,880 Speaker 4: And I did an episode with them, and the title 2745 02:12:12,960 --> 02:12:16,120 Speaker 4: is it says about winning stand up NBC, right, But 2746 02:12:16,280 --> 02:12:18,760 Speaker 4: that's not really what it's about. It's about me healing 2747 02:12:18,960 --> 02:12:21,400 Speaker 4: from the trauma of sex abuse when I was a 2748 02:12:21,520 --> 02:12:23,760 Speaker 4: kid and confronting that. 2749 02:12:24,120 --> 02:12:29,040 Speaker 3: And and so I have this theory about survival. 2750 02:12:29,640 --> 02:12:31,720 Speaker 4: And I know you're wondering how I'm bouncing to all 2751 02:12:31,720 --> 02:12:33,400 Speaker 4: these different places, but they all tie into no. 2752 02:12:33,440 --> 02:12:35,520 Speaker 1: I trust you, I trust you. I notice is going somewhere. 2753 02:12:36,400 --> 02:12:40,320 Speaker 4: Have I have this belief about survival, right, And we 2754 02:12:40,440 --> 02:12:44,320 Speaker 4: always tell especially black women, you're a survivor. You a survivor, girl, 2755 02:12:44,400 --> 02:12:47,400 Speaker 4: y'all gonna survive this somewhere, you'll survive. And there's a 2756 02:12:47,520 --> 02:12:49,240 Speaker 4: there's a reality. 2757 02:12:48,800 --> 02:12:50,400 Speaker 3: To that that that most of us. 2758 02:12:50,760 --> 02:12:52,760 Speaker 4: I really haven't heard anyone else really say this, but 2759 02:12:52,920 --> 02:12:55,320 Speaker 4: most of us ignore, and that is that we don't 2760 02:12:55,400 --> 02:12:58,880 Speaker 4: all make it. Just because I'm alive and I'm breathing 2761 02:12:58,920 --> 02:13:02,360 Speaker 4: and I'm talking doesn't mean that I survived, okay, And 2762 02:13:02,840 --> 02:13:04,640 Speaker 4: what happened to me actually killed me. 2763 02:13:05,040 --> 02:13:07,480 Speaker 3: I was dead for a long long time, a long 2764 02:13:07,560 --> 02:13:08,960 Speaker 3: period of my life, right. 2765 02:13:09,120 --> 02:13:13,040 Speaker 4: And didn't know it, and thought that me holding on 2766 02:13:13,200 --> 02:13:15,000 Speaker 4: and me getting to the next minute meant that I 2767 02:13:15,160 --> 02:13:17,560 Speaker 4: was surviving it. No, what it meant is that I 2768 02:13:17,640 --> 02:13:21,000 Speaker 4: was dragging around a dead corrodin carcass and not able 2769 02:13:21,080 --> 02:13:23,800 Speaker 4: to move my life forward. And when I confronted those 2770 02:13:23,880 --> 02:13:26,680 Speaker 4: things and heal from that, I was able to resurrect 2771 02:13:26,800 --> 02:13:29,960 Speaker 4: myself better than I was before. And that's a story 2772 02:13:30,040 --> 02:13:32,160 Speaker 4: that we need to talk to black people about. Really, 2773 02:13:32,200 --> 02:13:35,240 Speaker 4: everybody needs to hear that story. We don't always survive. 2774 02:13:35,480 --> 02:13:38,240 Speaker 4: And you know what, that's okay. You know, because I 2775 02:13:38,400 --> 02:13:41,000 Speaker 4: was sitting and I would look at other people surviving 2776 02:13:41,600 --> 02:13:43,880 Speaker 4: and making it and not understand, well, why am I 2777 02:13:43,960 --> 02:13:45,360 Speaker 4: strong enough to survive like that? 2778 02:13:45,920 --> 02:13:46,880 Speaker 3: Why can't I survive? 2779 02:13:47,000 --> 02:13:49,480 Speaker 4: It's because I was dead the whole time and didn't 2780 02:13:49,560 --> 02:13:52,080 Speaker 4: know it, and no one ever told me that I 2781 02:13:52,160 --> 02:13:52,800 Speaker 4: could come back. 2782 02:13:53,320 --> 02:13:56,280 Speaker 3: I had to learn that all by myself, right. 2783 02:13:56,560 --> 02:13:59,680 Speaker 4: So I like sharing that podcast episode with people because 2784 02:13:59,680 --> 02:14:02,200 Speaker 4: I think it's very germane to what's happening right now 2785 02:14:02,360 --> 02:14:06,080 Speaker 4: in America. America is carrying around a dead carcass of 2786 02:14:06,200 --> 02:14:08,520 Speaker 4: its former self and it doesn't want to let it go. 2787 02:14:09,080 --> 02:14:11,520 Speaker 4: And you have to let go of the whole system, 2788 02:14:11,960 --> 02:14:14,480 Speaker 4: the whole thing. So when you are in a company 2789 02:14:15,280 --> 02:14:18,560 Speaker 4: and you someone shows a mirror of yourself to you 2790 02:14:19,200 --> 02:14:21,800 Speaker 4: and you say, yeah, that's right, I said it, that 2791 02:14:21,960 --> 02:14:24,320 Speaker 4: tells me you are more concerned with your ego than 2792 02:14:24,760 --> 02:14:28,160 Speaker 4: human than the human lives that you are disregarding and 2793 02:14:28,320 --> 02:14:29,120 Speaker 4: suck your ego. 2794 02:14:29,480 --> 02:14:29,760 Speaker 3: Okay. 2795 02:14:30,240 --> 02:14:33,680 Speaker 4: Like I said, I'm a firm believer in second chances. 2796 02:14:33,760 --> 02:14:36,680 Speaker 4: That's because I've had two, three, four, five, six chances. 2797 02:14:37,200 --> 02:14:41,840 Speaker 4: So that being said, we have opportunities. Everything in life 2798 02:14:41,920 --> 02:14:45,440 Speaker 4: is a learning a learning opportunity. You have an opportunity, sir, 2799 02:14:46,000 --> 02:14:47,760 Speaker 4: to look at your behavior and say, you know what, 2800 02:14:49,320 --> 02:14:52,760 Speaker 4: I see how that could be hurtful and and and 2801 02:14:53,240 --> 02:14:54,440 Speaker 4: if you don't know what to say, you know what, 2802 02:14:54,560 --> 02:14:55,440 Speaker 4: I don't know what to say. 2803 02:14:55,520 --> 02:14:57,160 Speaker 3: Right now, I'm gonna sit with this. 2804 02:14:58,480 --> 02:15:01,040 Speaker 4: I'm gonna confirm with people's smarter than me that can 2805 02:15:01,120 --> 02:15:04,360 Speaker 4: help me process this, say that it's okay to say I. 2806 02:15:04,480 --> 02:15:07,760 Speaker 3: Don't know, but don't tell me. Yeah, that's right. And 2807 02:15:07,880 --> 02:15:10,520 Speaker 3: then later because the world blows up, you want to 2808 02:15:10,560 --> 02:15:12,280 Speaker 3: now come and tell me, well, you know what I. 2809 02:15:12,400 --> 02:15:15,600 Speaker 4: Care about black lives. No, you don't, because caring about 2810 02:15:15,600 --> 02:15:17,960 Speaker 4: a life is a very easy thing to do. If 2811 02:15:17,960 --> 02:15:20,760 Speaker 4: I made a statement about disabled people years ago and 2812 02:15:20,880 --> 02:15:23,480 Speaker 4: someone comes to me, which I probably very well did, 2813 02:15:23,520 --> 02:15:25,600 Speaker 4: and I'm sure it will come out, and someone comes 2814 02:15:25,600 --> 02:15:27,560 Speaker 4: to me and shows me a video of me doing 2815 02:15:27,640 --> 02:15:29,680 Speaker 4: something inappropriate like that, guess what I'm gonna say? 2816 02:15:29,720 --> 02:15:31,160 Speaker 1: Oh damn wow. 2817 02:15:31,840 --> 02:15:34,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, I was in my twenties. I was a young 2818 02:15:34,240 --> 02:15:38,440 Speaker 4: fucking idiot, right, and that's wrong. Let me think about this, 2819 02:15:38,640 --> 02:15:40,480 Speaker 4: Let me think about myself for a minute. I forgot 2820 02:15:40,520 --> 02:15:41,240 Speaker 4: i'd even done that. 2821 02:15:41,760 --> 02:15:44,080 Speaker 3: And let me come at you real from a real place, 2822 02:15:44,240 --> 02:15:47,640 Speaker 3: a real understanding, and real care. Yeah that's the action. 2823 02:15:47,840 --> 02:15:51,760 Speaker 4: Take some action, that's taking accountability. I recently I have 2824 02:15:51,840 --> 02:15:54,880 Speaker 4: a problem with my anger, Okay, and I recently got 2825 02:15:54,960 --> 02:15:57,280 Speaker 4: really out of pocket with my husband and he was 2826 02:15:57,680 --> 02:15:58,640 Speaker 4: beyond up self like. 2827 02:15:58,800 --> 02:16:01,400 Speaker 3: It was like we about divorced type of set right, 2828 02:16:02,400 --> 02:16:06,560 Speaker 3: And I was so wrapped up in my anger and 2829 02:16:06,760 --> 02:16:10,480 Speaker 3: so married to that anger, I didn't care about anything else. 2830 02:16:10,840 --> 02:16:13,520 Speaker 4: And like I just stated, I've been working on myself. 2831 02:16:13,560 --> 02:16:15,720 Speaker 4: I've been trying to get better, but I have never 2832 02:16:15,880 --> 02:16:16,840 Speaker 4: addressed my anger. 2833 02:16:16,960 --> 02:16:17,400 Speaker 3: I haven't. 2834 02:16:17,960 --> 02:16:20,560 Speaker 4: And until that critical moment, I literally have to sit 2835 02:16:20,640 --> 02:16:23,760 Speaker 4: back and say, you know what, I am not as 2836 02:16:24,200 --> 02:16:27,400 Speaker 4: healed as I thought that I was right, you know, 2837 02:16:27,600 --> 02:16:30,240 Speaker 4: I had to take accountability for that. And we've had 2838 02:16:30,320 --> 02:16:34,440 Speaker 4: that argument in smaller increments over the last few years, 2839 02:16:34,800 --> 02:16:36,920 Speaker 4: but this one was substantial enough where I said, you 2840 02:16:37,000 --> 02:16:40,920 Speaker 4: know what, all of these times that we've talked, I 2841 02:16:41,040 --> 02:16:42,840 Speaker 4: have never addressed my anger issues. 2842 02:16:42,920 --> 02:16:43,320 Speaker 1: I haven't. 2843 02:16:43,959 --> 02:16:46,160 Speaker 4: I get mad, and then you know, when I get 2844 02:16:46,240 --> 02:16:48,720 Speaker 4: mad to a certain point, I go blind with anger. 2845 02:16:48,840 --> 02:16:50,959 Speaker 4: Not like I don't start breaking shitter or hitting people 2846 02:16:51,000 --> 02:16:53,520 Speaker 4: or anything like that, but anything is liable to come 2847 02:16:53,560 --> 02:16:55,960 Speaker 4: out of my mouth, right, you know, which is a 2848 02:16:56,040 --> 02:16:58,040 Speaker 4: lot of times just as bad. But you know what, 2849 02:16:58,120 --> 02:17:00,160 Speaker 4: it isn't It isn't okay. I don't have the right 2850 02:17:00,280 --> 02:17:02,840 Speaker 4: to do that because I'm angry, yep, you know. 2851 02:17:02,959 --> 02:17:04,760 Speaker 3: And I don't have the right to hold on to 2852 02:17:04,840 --> 02:17:08,320 Speaker 3: that because I never learned how to process my anger. 2853 02:17:08,560 --> 02:17:10,240 Speaker 3: So now I have to learn how to process that. 2854 02:17:11,200 --> 02:17:13,880 Speaker 2: And the thing with anger is like anger is like, uh, 2855 02:17:14,400 --> 02:17:16,280 Speaker 2: it almost makes you feel like you're not alone because 2856 02:17:16,280 --> 02:17:18,120 Speaker 2: it's a thing you can always have, you know what 2857 02:17:18,160 --> 02:17:20,520 Speaker 2: I mean, Like if I don't got nothing. 2858 02:17:20,320 --> 02:17:22,760 Speaker 1: Else, I still got this grudge, I still got this anger. 2859 02:17:22,800 --> 02:17:26,200 Speaker 2: I still got So we we fine, we over here together, 2860 02:17:26,320 --> 02:17:28,520 Speaker 2: but it's not really company and it pushes people away. 2861 02:17:28,840 --> 02:17:33,039 Speaker 2: But also, like when you talked about surviving, it's also 2862 02:17:33,120 --> 02:17:35,879 Speaker 2: that thing where it keeps you from even imagining being 2863 02:17:35,920 --> 02:17:39,200 Speaker 2: able to thrive, right because you're only surviving and you 2864 02:17:39,280 --> 02:17:42,480 Speaker 2: think and it's like surviving becomes a goal like for you, 2865 02:17:43,320 --> 02:17:46,960 Speaker 2: the fucking the limit of the floor, like like okay, 2866 02:17:47,080 --> 02:17:51,039 Speaker 2: you're still breathing, congratulations, as opposed to like, yo, I'm 2867 02:17:51,160 --> 02:17:54,119 Speaker 2: I'm making my dreams come true. I'm accomplishing things, I'm 2868 02:17:54,160 --> 02:17:57,320 Speaker 2: creating things like, So you can't get stuck on that surviving. 2869 02:17:57,320 --> 02:17:59,120 Speaker 2: And yeah, people do put that out as a standard 2870 02:17:59,160 --> 02:18:01,560 Speaker 2: for black women because so much of black women's lives 2871 02:18:02,040 --> 02:18:05,080 Speaker 2: is about surviving the abuse of other people, right, whether 2872 02:18:05,120 --> 02:18:06,760 Speaker 2: it be the men in their lives, whether it be 2873 02:18:07,200 --> 02:18:09,959 Speaker 2: white racist, all this shit, you know, as a as 2874 02:18:10,000 --> 02:18:12,200 Speaker 2: a by woman, you have to deal with people's uh, 2875 02:18:12,400 --> 02:18:14,520 Speaker 2: you know, biphobia and all this ship too. So it's 2876 02:18:14,600 --> 02:18:17,039 Speaker 2: like all these extra levels are just like, well, at 2877 02:18:17,080 --> 02:18:19,880 Speaker 2: least you're still alive. It's like, well, nigga, I'm not. 2878 02:18:21,040 --> 02:18:23,800 Speaker 2: You know, I've been over here slowly dying every fucking day. 2879 02:18:23,879 --> 02:18:24,120 Speaker 3: I'm not. 2880 02:18:24,280 --> 02:18:27,120 Speaker 1: I'm not living. You know, this isn't living. So I 2881 02:18:27,240 --> 02:18:27,600 Speaker 1: love that. 2882 02:18:27,840 --> 02:18:31,160 Speaker 2: And yeah, everything you said about that anger stuff too, 2883 02:18:31,200 --> 02:18:32,920 Speaker 2: it will come and get you cause if you don't, 2884 02:18:33,480 --> 02:18:35,520 Speaker 2: if you don't address it, it'll get you one way 2885 02:18:35,600 --> 02:18:37,440 Speaker 2: or the other, and you will lose shit. You will, 2886 02:18:37,560 --> 02:18:39,120 Speaker 2: like you said, you can lose your marriage, you can 2887 02:18:39,200 --> 02:18:41,520 Speaker 2: lose your connection with your family, You can lose a 2888 02:18:41,560 --> 02:18:43,080 Speaker 2: bunch of shit behind that anger. 2889 02:18:43,600 --> 02:18:46,920 Speaker 1: If it's not you know at least understood where it's 2890 02:18:46,920 --> 02:18:49,200 Speaker 1: coming from and how to, like you know, how to 2891 02:18:49,360 --> 02:18:51,560 Speaker 1: how to how to use it, and how to also 2892 02:18:51,840 --> 02:18:53,800 Speaker 1: like diffuse it sometimes. 2893 02:18:54,120 --> 02:18:59,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, and bigger, bigger than that, It's about being accountable 2894 02:18:59,200 --> 02:19:01,800 Speaker 3: for yourself and your behavior, you know what I mean. 2895 02:19:01,920 --> 02:19:04,000 Speaker 3: I've allowed myself to act. 2896 02:19:03,840 --> 02:19:07,160 Speaker 4: Out through my anger for years because I didn't I 2897 02:19:07,320 --> 02:19:08,680 Speaker 4: wasn't paying attention to it. 2898 02:19:09,160 --> 02:19:10,320 Speaker 3: I didn't think that it was. 2899 02:19:10,320 --> 02:19:12,840 Speaker 4: A problem because no one was really checking me on it, 2900 02:19:13,640 --> 02:19:16,760 Speaker 4: you know, until here recently when my husband was like, wait, 2901 02:19:16,959 --> 02:19:20,360 Speaker 4: pump your breaks, bitch, you are tripping and not literally 2902 02:19:20,400 --> 02:19:21,520 Speaker 4: it didn't call me a bit. 2903 02:19:25,400 --> 02:19:26,960 Speaker 3: I did just say you still a lot, right? 2904 02:19:27,080 --> 02:19:27,240 Speaker 1: Yeah? 2905 02:19:27,879 --> 02:19:30,240 Speaker 2: Anyway, so that niggas did that wasn't him getting that 2906 02:19:30,680 --> 02:19:31,400 Speaker 2: that half and half. 2907 02:19:31,520 --> 02:19:33,520 Speaker 1: That's not him. That's another dude, right. 2908 02:19:34,520 --> 02:19:38,680 Speaker 4: But my point though is that even though I speak 2909 02:19:38,920 --> 02:19:43,440 Speaker 4: on other people's accountability, trust and believe, I look at 2910 02:19:43,480 --> 02:19:45,600 Speaker 4: my own accountability too. You can come to me and 2911 02:19:45,720 --> 02:19:48,840 Speaker 4: be like, you know what you fucked up, and here's 2912 02:19:48,879 --> 02:19:50,960 Speaker 4: where you fucked up. I'm gonna look at it. 2913 02:19:51,080 --> 02:19:54,040 Speaker 3: I may not agree every single time, yes, but for 2914 02:19:54,120 --> 02:19:55,840 Speaker 3: the most part, I am going to look at and 2915 02:19:55,920 --> 02:19:57,800 Speaker 3: be like, Okay, you know what, and I'm gonna listen 2916 02:19:58,280 --> 02:19:59,840 Speaker 3: and I'm going to do my best to learn and 2917 02:20:00,120 --> 02:20:00,760 Speaker 3: try to do better. 2918 02:20:01,200 --> 02:20:04,480 Speaker 2: And honestly, it'll give you the tunes to check yourself like, 2919 02:20:04,800 --> 02:20:07,959 Speaker 2: because it's like a lot of people think the goal 2920 02:20:08,240 --> 02:20:10,000 Speaker 2: is to have a bunch of people around them that 2921 02:20:10,160 --> 02:20:12,640 Speaker 2: check them, and I'm like, nigga, that's worked for them. 2922 02:20:12,800 --> 02:20:14,320 Speaker 1: I don't want to be work for. 2923 02:20:14,440 --> 02:20:17,280 Speaker 2: Another nigga Like I'm if I can avoid it, I'm 2924 02:20:17,280 --> 02:20:19,240 Speaker 2: gonna try to do it myself so that I don't 2925 02:20:19,280 --> 02:20:21,000 Speaker 2: have to be like you know, like I know dudes 2926 02:20:21,040 --> 02:20:23,040 Speaker 2: will be like I keep black women around me, you know, 2927 02:20:23,200 --> 02:20:24,040 Speaker 2: to keep me in line. 2928 02:20:24,040 --> 02:20:26,560 Speaker 1: I'm like, Nigga, that's work. Who want to be around 2929 02:20:26,600 --> 02:20:28,000 Speaker 1: a person that gotta keep in line? 2930 02:20:28,120 --> 02:20:30,560 Speaker 2: Like I don't want to put your buggy up at 2931 02:20:30,600 --> 02:20:34,879 Speaker 2: the motherfucking store away Caron. 2932 02:20:35,480 --> 02:20:38,440 Speaker 5: I was gonna say to piggyback on what you were saying, Sweety, 2933 02:20:38,440 --> 02:20:42,840 Speaker 5: when you were talking about anger, as I gotta say this, 2934 02:20:42,920 --> 02:20:45,280 Speaker 5: when it comes to black women, a lot of Black 2935 02:20:45,320 --> 02:20:50,920 Speaker 5: women are mad, and as the poet Slone said, we had. 2936 02:20:50,800 --> 02:20:53,560 Speaker 6: A right to be mad, and our anger is justified. 2937 02:20:54,360 --> 02:20:58,520 Speaker 5: Just because your anger is justified does not mean that 2938 02:20:58,680 --> 02:21:01,840 Speaker 5: anger needs to be targeted that everybody and everything around 2939 02:21:01,920 --> 02:21:04,080 Speaker 5: you just be have because you have the right to 2940 02:21:04,200 --> 02:21:07,480 Speaker 5: be mad. And also it's one of those things where 2941 02:21:08,160 --> 02:21:12,320 Speaker 5: our anger could be so focused on, particularly towards black men, 2942 02:21:13,040 --> 02:21:15,760 Speaker 5: that some black women will not look at their anger 2943 02:21:15,879 --> 02:21:19,359 Speaker 5: as anger because it's targeted towards another. 2944 02:21:19,200 --> 02:21:23,519 Speaker 6: Party, right, right, So since it's targeted towards. 2945 02:21:23,280 --> 02:21:27,000 Speaker 5: Another party, I don't have any accountability and responsibility, And 2946 02:21:27,160 --> 02:21:27,840 Speaker 5: I can speak. 2947 02:21:27,680 --> 02:21:30,959 Speaker 6: For myself at growing up the way I did as 2948 02:21:31,000 --> 02:21:31,440 Speaker 6: a child. 2949 02:21:32,280 --> 02:21:34,560 Speaker 5: A lot of Black people don't really talk to their 2950 02:21:34,640 --> 02:21:37,720 Speaker 5: children about emotions, how to control them, what to do 2951 02:21:37,879 --> 02:21:39,000 Speaker 5: with them, the. 2952 02:21:40,720 --> 02:21:41,520 Speaker 6: Proper way to. 2953 02:21:42,640 --> 02:21:45,320 Speaker 5: View them, because there are a lot of parents that 2954 02:21:45,400 --> 02:21:51,160 Speaker 5: are emotionally damaged. They got anger issues, sadness issues, depression issues, 2955 02:21:51,560 --> 02:21:54,560 Speaker 5: and they cannot equip you for something that they haven't 2956 02:21:54,600 --> 02:21:57,760 Speaker 5: dealt with themselves. So a lot of times it takes 2957 02:21:57,840 --> 02:22:00,240 Speaker 5: you healing in order to heal somebody else. And I'm 2958 02:22:00,280 --> 02:22:03,800 Speaker 5: speaking from personal experience, and so for me, it took 2959 02:22:03,879 --> 02:22:07,320 Speaker 5: me becoming an adult to realize that my anger was 2960 02:22:07,360 --> 02:22:08,039 Speaker 5: out of control. 2961 02:22:09,200 --> 02:22:09,400 Speaker 2: You know. 2962 02:22:10,000 --> 02:22:13,200 Speaker 6: Like the thing is, it's okay to feel these things, and. 2963 02:22:13,400 --> 02:22:16,879 Speaker 5: We live in a society where everybody is told all 2964 02:22:16,959 --> 02:22:19,280 Speaker 5: feelings are justified and all feelings are right. 2965 02:22:20,680 --> 02:22:21,720 Speaker 6: That's not always true. 2966 02:22:22,240 --> 02:22:25,200 Speaker 5: You are allowed to feel the feelings, but then you 2967 02:22:25,280 --> 02:22:28,359 Speaker 5: need to analyze those feelings, use your critical thinking skills. 2968 02:22:28,640 --> 02:22:31,640 Speaker 5: Is this feeling justified? And act yourself why am I 2969 02:22:31,760 --> 02:22:34,040 Speaker 5: feeling this way? And what am I going to do 2970 02:22:34,200 --> 02:22:37,640 Speaker 5: with these emotions? Because once you get to the point 2971 02:22:37,680 --> 02:22:40,200 Speaker 5: where you challenge yourself to say what am I going 2972 02:22:40,280 --> 02:22:41,439 Speaker 5: to do with these emotions. 2973 02:22:41,520 --> 02:22:43,000 Speaker 6: That's when the action changes. 2974 02:22:43,280 --> 02:22:46,040 Speaker 5: That's when you begin to challenge yourself and also quit 2975 02:22:46,120 --> 02:22:50,080 Speaker 5: blaming other people for your anger. And that's the biggest thing, 2976 02:22:50,160 --> 02:22:53,199 Speaker 5: because I was angry that anytime anybody ever did anything. 2977 02:22:54,080 --> 02:22:55,760 Speaker 6: There was some things that happened to me years ago. 2978 02:22:55,920 --> 02:22:57,920 Speaker 5: I was just angry at the world, just at the 2979 02:22:57,959 --> 02:23:01,119 Speaker 5: world period, and did want to any accountable deal responsibility 2980 02:23:01,160 --> 02:23:03,120 Speaker 5: for my actions. And if you got hurt, you just 2981 02:23:03,200 --> 02:23:06,160 Speaker 5: got hurt. But the thing is, hurt people hurt people 2982 02:23:06,280 --> 02:23:09,880 Speaker 5: quote unquote creache. But that's a true thing. Because you hurt, 2983 02:23:10,120 --> 02:23:12,880 Speaker 5: you're hurting other people, and that person is hurting somebody 2984 02:23:12,920 --> 02:23:15,360 Speaker 5: else when nobody heals in this process, and you just 2985 02:23:15,400 --> 02:23:17,440 Speaker 5: got a whole bunch of hurt people walking around. 2986 02:23:18,959 --> 02:23:23,360 Speaker 4: I tell that's a common conversation that I have with 2987 02:23:23,480 --> 02:23:26,240 Speaker 4: my daughter over the years when she would get upset. 2988 02:23:26,840 --> 02:23:30,480 Speaker 4: And a lot of times kids, especially black kids, it's 2989 02:23:30,560 --> 02:23:34,560 Speaker 4: not taught, but it's instilled in the way that we're raised. 2990 02:23:34,560 --> 02:23:36,520 Speaker 4: A lot of times, like you were saying, that we're 2991 02:23:36,560 --> 02:23:39,200 Speaker 4: not allowed to have emotions or process certain things. 2992 02:23:39,560 --> 02:23:41,840 Speaker 3: And so when we get older, we think growing up 2993 02:23:42,200 --> 02:23:44,280 Speaker 3: it is equated to being disrespectful. 2994 02:23:44,320 --> 02:23:46,000 Speaker 4: Well, now I'm an adult, so I could say shit, 2995 02:23:46,120 --> 02:23:48,119 Speaker 4: fuck ass balls and tell you to go to hell. 2996 02:23:48,440 --> 02:23:51,480 Speaker 4: And that's not true. That's not what growing up is. 2997 02:23:51,920 --> 02:23:55,200 Speaker 4: You just feel the freedom to finally express yourself. So 2998 02:23:55,600 --> 02:23:58,320 Speaker 4: with my daughter, what I've done with her her whole life. 2999 02:23:58,760 --> 02:24:01,920 Speaker 4: When she gets angry upset because she gets angry and show, 3000 02:24:02,120 --> 02:24:03,960 Speaker 4: you know, suck her teeth or roll her eyes, I 3001 02:24:03,959 --> 02:24:06,240 Speaker 4: don't whoop her ass. I don't cuss her out, I 3002 02:24:06,320 --> 02:24:07,400 Speaker 4: don't call her out her name. 3003 02:24:07,640 --> 02:24:08,920 Speaker 3: That's all I say. I said, stop. 3004 02:24:09,520 --> 02:24:11,560 Speaker 4: I said, come back all the way back here, all 3005 02:24:11,640 --> 02:24:13,680 Speaker 4: the way back in my room. Have a seat, have 3006 02:24:13,760 --> 02:24:16,920 Speaker 4: a seat, sit down. And I say, I know that 3007 02:24:17,000 --> 02:24:19,760 Speaker 4: you're angry right now, and I know that you're angry 3008 02:24:19,920 --> 02:24:23,880 Speaker 4: at me. But and I say, and you have a 3009 02:24:24,040 --> 02:24:26,840 Speaker 4: right to all of that anger. You can feel however 3010 02:24:27,000 --> 02:24:28,560 Speaker 4: you want to feel. But you know what you do 3011 02:24:28,720 --> 02:24:29,560 Speaker 4: not have the right to do. 3012 02:24:30,080 --> 02:24:32,080 Speaker 3: You don't have the right to be disrespectful to me. 3013 02:24:32,920 --> 02:24:34,720 Speaker 4: So what I need you to do is get up 3014 02:24:35,280 --> 02:24:38,400 Speaker 4: without rolling your eyes, without sucking your teeth, don't slam 3015 02:24:38,560 --> 02:24:40,800 Speaker 4: my door, don't you know, don't do any of those things. 3016 02:24:41,120 --> 02:24:43,959 Speaker 4: Go into your room and think about yourself, and when 3017 02:24:44,000 --> 02:24:47,040 Speaker 4: you're ready to come back and have a conversation with me, 3018 02:24:47,160 --> 02:24:50,840 Speaker 4: let's talk about it every single time, without fail. I 3019 02:24:50,840 --> 02:24:53,560 Speaker 4: don't even have to go back and remind her. Sometimes 3020 02:24:53,600 --> 02:24:55,959 Speaker 4: it's very quick. Sometimes it's in ten to fifteen minutes. 3021 02:24:56,200 --> 02:24:58,560 Speaker 4: Other times it's the next day. But at some point 3022 02:24:58,640 --> 02:25:00,920 Speaker 4: she will always come back and say, you know what, mommy, 3023 02:25:01,200 --> 02:25:03,320 Speaker 4: I thought about what we were talking about. 3024 02:25:03,520 --> 02:25:07,280 Speaker 3: And you were right, or I disagree. And here's why. 3025 02:25:08,600 --> 02:25:11,440 Speaker 3: You know what she does. She's a thinking human person, 3026 02:25:11,920 --> 02:25:14,440 Speaker 3: and she knows how to process and go through and 3027 02:25:14,520 --> 02:25:15,080 Speaker 3: come through. 3028 02:25:15,040 --> 02:25:17,880 Speaker 1: Her and express herself. You know what I mean, Because 3029 02:25:17,920 --> 02:25:18,400 Speaker 1: that's the thing. 3030 02:25:19,400 --> 02:25:21,960 Speaker 2: All that stuff is just a shortcut for expression, right, 3031 02:25:22,400 --> 02:25:25,160 Speaker 2: rolling my eyes, slamming the door, all this shit is 3032 02:25:25,600 --> 02:25:27,760 Speaker 2: it's something inside I want to get out, but I'm 3033 02:25:27,800 --> 02:25:30,040 Speaker 2: getting it out through these passive aggressive means. And so 3034 02:25:30,600 --> 02:25:33,480 Speaker 2: you're allowing her that time to be like, listen, I'm 3035 02:25:33,600 --> 02:25:35,480 Speaker 2: giving you because what happens a lot of times the 3036 02:25:35,560 --> 02:25:37,959 Speaker 2: parents is that do the opposite, which is I'm shutting 3037 02:25:37,959 --> 02:25:41,120 Speaker 2: your shit down. You're upset. You no longer have a 3038 02:25:41,200 --> 02:25:43,480 Speaker 2: right to express yourself. You know, you no longer have 3039 02:25:43,560 --> 02:25:45,440 Speaker 2: a right to an opinion. You just now do what 3040 02:25:45,520 --> 02:25:48,080 Speaker 2: the fuck I say, and that's it. But you have 3041 02:25:48,200 --> 02:25:50,480 Speaker 2: to make the child feel like they part of the 3042 02:25:50,680 --> 02:25:53,560 Speaker 2: equation because when they get out, when you get out 3043 02:25:53,560 --> 02:25:56,760 Speaker 2: into the world, it's even bigger than family. When you 3044 02:25:56,840 --> 02:25:59,879 Speaker 2: get out into the world, you don't have the autonomy anymore. 3045 02:26:00,160 --> 02:26:03,560 Speaker 2: And so you find yourself saying, the comedy club treats 3046 02:26:03,640 --> 02:26:05,640 Speaker 2: me good. I don't know what the hell is wrong 3047 02:26:05,760 --> 02:26:09,560 Speaker 2: with Frankie. Like, you find yourself shrinking yourself down because 3048 02:26:09,600 --> 02:26:12,160 Speaker 2: your parents shrank you down. So that's that's how you 3049 02:26:12,280 --> 02:26:14,600 Speaker 2: learn to survive. That's how you learned to cope. But 3050 02:26:14,800 --> 02:26:16,959 Speaker 2: I think part of that thriving isn't like you got 3051 02:26:17,080 --> 02:26:18,680 Speaker 2: to come in here and agree with me, is come 3052 02:26:18,720 --> 02:26:20,400 Speaker 2: in here and explain it. You know, my dad used 3053 02:26:20,440 --> 02:26:23,680 Speaker 2: to do this thing where I call my dad the detective, 3054 02:26:24,160 --> 02:26:26,920 Speaker 2: cause I mean, yeah, we did get whoopings though, but 3055 02:26:27,879 --> 02:26:30,680 Speaker 2: he would be like, he would like talk to us 3056 02:26:30,959 --> 02:26:33,440 Speaker 2: and go through the fucking steps of how you fucked up. 3057 02:26:33,920 --> 02:26:37,320 Speaker 2: And now it's like it's benefited me so much because 3058 02:26:37,600 --> 02:26:39,360 Speaker 2: I'm sure it's because of why I do what I 3059 02:26:39,440 --> 02:26:42,879 Speaker 2: do right, Like I'm funny in that way, I'm thoughtful, 3060 02:26:42,920 --> 02:26:44,959 Speaker 2: in that way, I can break down a conversation and. 3061 02:26:45,040 --> 02:26:46,360 Speaker 1: Fucking bullet points easily. 3062 02:26:46,720 --> 02:26:48,480 Speaker 2: But it's because of all those times where I was 3063 02:26:48,560 --> 02:26:51,360 Speaker 2: really just trying to talk to him and relay, like 3064 02:26:51,520 --> 02:26:53,800 Speaker 2: this is where I'm coming from, you know, whether I 3065 02:26:53,840 --> 02:26:55,400 Speaker 2: got in trouble or not. I remember, we're talking to 3066 02:26:55,959 --> 02:26:58,520 Speaker 2: hit a kid because he talked about my mama on 3067 02:26:58,640 --> 02:27:01,280 Speaker 2: a bus, and so he was supposed to get that 3068 02:27:01,360 --> 02:27:04,400 Speaker 2: as that's how I felt. Okay, so that's that was 3069 02:27:04,520 --> 02:27:07,520 Speaker 2: my point of view. Okay, that was so. But but 3070 02:27:07,680 --> 02:27:10,040 Speaker 2: I got kicked off the bus because of that, and 3071 02:27:10,320 --> 02:27:12,520 Speaker 2: uh what I told him, I and uh, there's some 3072 02:27:12,640 --> 02:27:15,920 Speaker 2: other some other things too, like I got kicked off 3073 02:27:15,959 --> 02:27:19,000 Speaker 2: the bus on like a Friday, and then uh that 3074 02:27:19,160 --> 02:27:21,280 Speaker 2: weekend we went to the parking play basketball. 3075 02:27:21,440 --> 02:27:24,920 Speaker 1: We had cookies and ice cream. I had the time 3076 02:27:25,040 --> 02:27:29,160 Speaker 1: of my life. Everyone, Yes, I did. And then Sunday night, 3077 02:27:29,959 --> 02:27:33,080 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, by the way, uh, now that 3078 02:27:33,200 --> 02:27:33,720 Speaker 1: we've had. 3079 02:27:34,000 --> 02:27:37,560 Speaker 2: You know, cookies and ice cream and many cakes, I 3080 02:27:37,640 --> 02:27:39,600 Speaker 2: don't I need to ride to school, you know, And 3081 02:27:39,680 --> 02:27:42,800 Speaker 2: so he was. He was extremely pissed to find out, 3082 02:27:43,200 --> 02:27:45,039 Speaker 2: you know, three hours before he had to wake up 3083 02:27:45,080 --> 02:27:46,800 Speaker 2: and take me to school or whatever anyway. 3084 02:27:47,040 --> 02:27:50,920 Speaker 1: So but I remember him like sitting me down. 3085 02:27:50,800 --> 02:27:53,040 Speaker 2: To break it down, like, okay, so here were your 3086 02:27:53,120 --> 02:27:55,920 Speaker 2: options on how you could have handled that without getting 3087 02:27:55,920 --> 02:27:58,760 Speaker 2: a physical altercation with this kid because people are gonna 3088 02:27:58,760 --> 02:28:02,200 Speaker 2: say fucked up shit to you, and I can't justify 3089 02:28:02,360 --> 02:28:05,760 Speaker 2: you hitting people, your young black boy. This is something 3090 02:28:05,800 --> 02:28:07,840 Speaker 2: that could literally fuck your whole life up. You whooped 3091 02:28:07,840 --> 02:28:09,120 Speaker 2: this kid's ass, and then all of a sudden they 3092 02:28:09,160 --> 02:28:10,840 Speaker 2: decide the police are involved or something. 3093 02:28:11,240 --> 02:28:13,080 Speaker 1: You can literally go to jail. They don't see you 3094 02:28:13,160 --> 02:28:13,720 Speaker 1: the way I see you. 3095 02:28:14,240 --> 02:28:16,760 Speaker 2: But it's like he took me through the mental steps 3096 02:28:16,800 --> 02:28:18,400 Speaker 2: of like, here's how you could have handled it here, 3097 02:28:18,680 --> 02:28:19,600 Speaker 2: and what about this here? 3098 02:28:19,640 --> 02:28:22,080 Speaker 1: You could have de escalated with this, well why you know, 3099 02:28:22,160 --> 02:28:23,720 Speaker 1: why didn't you walk away at this point? 3100 02:28:23,840 --> 02:28:24,000 Speaker 3: You know? 3101 02:28:24,160 --> 02:28:26,600 Speaker 2: And he was right at the end of the day. 3102 02:28:26,680 --> 02:28:28,959 Speaker 2: But he made me go through the fucking process before 3103 02:28:29,000 --> 02:28:32,160 Speaker 2: my assover. He made me go through the process mentally, 3104 02:28:32,560 --> 02:28:35,560 Speaker 2: And I think that's the thing, like slowing that mind 3105 02:28:35,680 --> 02:28:37,880 Speaker 2: down for that kid and being like, go through the 3106 02:28:37,920 --> 02:28:41,040 Speaker 2: processes because you need that shit later in life, you do. 3107 02:28:41,400 --> 02:28:44,160 Speaker 6: And for me, y'all, I'm not gonna lie. 3108 02:28:44,760 --> 02:28:49,720 Speaker 5: Rodrick used to get on my nerves because the same 3109 02:28:49,800 --> 02:28:52,360 Speaker 5: thing he's talking about is how he used to challenge me, 3110 02:28:52,400 --> 02:28:55,360 Speaker 5: and he used to make me angry because it would 3111 02:28:55,520 --> 02:29:00,640 Speaker 5: cause me to have to analyze and think and challenge myself. 3112 02:29:01,160 --> 02:29:03,320 Speaker 5: And if I bought it to him and I couldn't 3113 02:29:03,360 --> 02:29:05,440 Speaker 5: explain it to him, it was like, do it again. 3114 02:29:05,600 --> 02:29:08,640 Speaker 5: I said no, no, no, until it makes sense to you, 3115 02:29:08,920 --> 02:29:12,360 Speaker 5: do it again. But it was challenging me to actually 3116 02:29:12,440 --> 02:29:16,480 Speaker 5: apply myself so that I understood the situation, because sometimes 3117 02:29:16,560 --> 02:29:19,720 Speaker 5: children don't actually understand everything that's happening around them, and 3118 02:29:19,800 --> 02:29:20,400 Speaker 5: that's an adult. 3119 02:29:20,520 --> 02:29:21,760 Speaker 6: That's your job to. 3120 02:29:21,959 --> 02:29:25,080 Speaker 5: Explain the bigger picture to them so that they can 3121 02:29:25,160 --> 02:29:27,640 Speaker 5: make the best educated decision when you're not there. 3122 02:29:27,920 --> 02:29:30,160 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm a liver, So I just want to understand, 3123 02:29:30,640 --> 02:29:32,120 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. It's not like I want 3124 02:29:32,120 --> 02:29:33,120 Speaker 2: to tell you right or you're wrong. 3125 02:29:33,200 --> 02:29:34,880 Speaker 1: I just want to know. Like if you come to 3126 02:29:34,920 --> 02:29:37,000 Speaker 1: me and be like I'm angry, I'm like, why you 3127 02:29:37,080 --> 02:29:37,520 Speaker 1: know what I mean? 3128 02:29:37,840 --> 02:29:39,000 Speaker 6: That was not that I'm mad. 3129 02:29:39,360 --> 02:29:42,240 Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, so how do we get here? 3130 02:29:42,360 --> 02:29:44,400 Speaker 2: How do we you know, like, because we can't resolve 3131 02:29:44,440 --> 02:29:46,120 Speaker 2: a thing, we don't know where it came from, you know, 3132 02:29:46,200 --> 02:29:48,360 Speaker 2: what I mean. But those are the tools you learned 3133 02:29:48,400 --> 02:29:50,960 Speaker 2: so early in life. Look, we did talk forever. I 3134 02:29:51,080 --> 02:29:52,520 Speaker 2: know we've had a good time. 3135 02:29:55,760 --> 02:29:58,720 Speaker 6: They look for everybody looking for French toes everything else. 3136 02:29:58,840 --> 02:29:59,840 Speaker 6: We got you tied of. 3137 02:30:00,360 --> 02:30:03,200 Speaker 2: Your daughter has freed her schedule, her very busy schedule 3138 02:30:03,240 --> 02:30:04,040 Speaker 2: to hang out with you. 3139 02:30:04,400 --> 02:30:04,879 Speaker 6: And I know. 3140 02:30:07,240 --> 02:30:08,680 Speaker 3: You wasn't doing nothing, no way. 3141 02:30:09,080 --> 02:30:12,119 Speaker 1: We have been very selfish with the time. Okay, I've 3142 02:30:12,120 --> 02:30:13,800 Speaker 1: seen her coming in and checking to be like, is 3143 02:30:13,840 --> 02:30:14,400 Speaker 1: it time yet? 3144 02:30:14,640 --> 02:30:17,320 Speaker 3: So she just recently got up and left. She was 3145 02:30:17,360 --> 02:30:18,280 Speaker 3: sitting here the whole time. 3146 02:30:19,879 --> 02:30:24,959 Speaker 4: Welles ago. Well we'll appreciate you, Frankie, and we'll definitely. 3147 02:30:25,320 --> 02:30:29,120 Speaker 4: This is wonderful, absolutely, and I know it. 3148 02:30:29,280 --> 02:30:31,560 Speaker 2: Was for the people that haven't that have been listening 3149 02:30:31,600 --> 02:30:32,920 Speaker 2: for a long time. We didn't get to all our 3150 02:30:32,959 --> 02:30:36,200 Speaker 2: segments and all that stuff. But honestly, it's days like this. 3151 02:30:36,400 --> 02:30:38,520 Speaker 2: Today is just like, man, let's just talk and hang out. 3152 02:30:40,720 --> 02:30:43,240 Speaker 4: And yes, I'm not goodness, I have to tell someone 3153 02:30:43,360 --> 02:30:45,880 Speaker 4: here one day. Yeah, well some good I have some 3154 02:30:46,000 --> 02:30:48,640 Speaker 4: good ones I've got have been in the vault. Well, listen, 3155 02:30:48,680 --> 02:30:51,080 Speaker 4: I have this whole idea we're gonna have you back. 3156 02:30:51,120 --> 02:30:52,000 Speaker 4: But I have this whole idea. 3157 02:30:52,080 --> 02:30:53,760 Speaker 2: We do a segment on the show called White People 3158 02:30:53,879 --> 02:30:56,520 Speaker 2: News and we go through all the like white celebrity 3159 02:30:56,560 --> 02:30:58,800 Speaker 2: goss of stuff, and I figure you probably know some 3160 02:30:58,879 --> 02:31:01,240 Speaker 2: of these people and have good gossip. 3161 02:31:03,720 --> 02:31:04,680 Speaker 6: Just do a white people stake. 3162 02:31:05,120 --> 02:31:08,640 Speaker 1: We're gonna have to do. So, yes, let's do it, 3163 02:31:08,840 --> 02:31:10,560 Speaker 1: all right, We're gonna we'll invite you back. 3164 02:31:11,640 --> 02:31:14,000 Speaker 2: Thank you, guys, Thank you everybody out there for listening 3165 02:31:14,720 --> 02:31:17,280 Speaker 2: Frankie telling where to find you and and all the 3166 02:31:17,360 --> 02:31:17,920 Speaker 2: things that you do. 3167 02:31:18,800 --> 02:31:19,640 Speaker 3: Oh my goodness. Yeah. 3168 02:31:19,720 --> 02:31:23,119 Speaker 4: So you can just follow me on Instagrams, probably where 3169 02:31:23,160 --> 02:31:25,680 Speaker 4: I'm most active, so that's probably the best place to 3170 02:31:25,800 --> 02:31:28,400 Speaker 4: catch me at Frankie French f r A, n q 3171 02:31:28,720 --> 02:31:32,280 Speaker 4: I f r E n c H or my Debate 3172 02:31:32,360 --> 02:31:36,360 Speaker 4: show and that's at Debatable A f Underscore Live and 3173 02:31:36,480 --> 02:31:39,440 Speaker 4: you can see. So I'm very excited. I'll be announcing 3174 02:31:39,560 --> 02:31:44,080 Speaker 4: later today. But we just confirmed Michelle Botel Oh okay 3175 02:31:44,320 --> 02:31:46,640 Speaker 4: again for the next Debatable AF which I haven't even 3176 02:31:46,680 --> 02:31:50,800 Speaker 4: announced publicly yet. But so we're doing a special taping 3177 02:31:51,640 --> 02:31:59,520 Speaker 4: at noon. Yeah, it's gotta be a special private taping 3178 02:31:59,560 --> 02:32:01,560 Speaker 4: at noon. It's gonna be a close loop. And then 3179 02:32:01,800 --> 02:32:04,800 Speaker 4: that night at seven I'll do a watch party and 3180 02:32:04,879 --> 02:32:08,600 Speaker 4: then people can donate to one of the frontline uh, 3181 02:32:09,120 --> 02:32:11,440 Speaker 4: one of the funds to help frontline protesters. 3182 02:32:11,840 --> 02:32:12,120 Speaker 1: Dope. 3183 02:32:13,040 --> 02:32:15,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's gonna be dope. You guys are getting the exclusives, 3184 02:32:15,200 --> 02:32:16,359 Speaker 4: so make sure you follow. 3185 02:32:16,240 --> 02:32:18,960 Speaker 1: And look, we broke it. 3186 02:32:19,080 --> 02:32:23,879 Speaker 2: We broke Jamail Hill News last week, breaking Frank Fresh News. 3187 02:32:24,040 --> 02:32:26,720 Speaker 5: Okay, this is what we did, had the blackout tips. Okay, 3188 02:32:26,800 --> 02:32:29,920 Speaker 5: the world the World's most Dangerous podcast. 3189 02:32:30,000 --> 02:32:33,920 Speaker 1: Not just kidding. Thank you, Thank you everybody for listening. 3190 02:32:34,360 --> 02:32:39,039 Speaker 1: We'll be back tomorrow Tuesday. We have Jail Covid schedule 3191 02:32:39,120 --> 02:32:42,840 Speaker 1: as a guest. I will you know he doing He's 3192 02:32:42,840 --> 02:32:43,920 Speaker 1: doing big things out here. 3193 02:32:44,840 --> 02:32:50,119 Speaker 3: I know. Both were just like taking off. I was like, yeah, 3194 02:32:50,120 --> 02:32:50,959 Speaker 3: my nigga need to sit. 3195 02:32:50,920 --> 02:32:55,760 Speaker 1: Down for COVID. Came through, like y'all calm down, calm down, 3196 02:32:55,879 --> 02:32:56,880 Speaker 1: I got this. I got this. 3197 02:32:57,040 --> 02:33:01,080 Speaker 3: Okay, COVID. I'm like, COVID, my nigga here, Black Lives Night. 3198 02:33:03,280 --> 02:33:07,760 Speaker 2: They COVID definitely don't believe COVID. They don't COVID don't 3199 02:33:07,760 --> 02:33:08,880 Speaker 2: support black lives at all. 3200 02:33:09,400 --> 02:33:11,920 Speaker 5: Cod COVID is the only thing that true to don't 3201 02:33:11,959 --> 02:33:13,879 Speaker 5: see race, color, creed or religion. 3202 02:33:14,000 --> 02:33:17,800 Speaker 1: I think COVID racist. I think COVID might be racist right. 3203 02:33:19,800 --> 02:33:21,040 Speaker 1: But yeah, we'll be back tomorrow. 3204 02:33:21,200 --> 02:33:23,240 Speaker 6: Until then, I of you, I love you too. 3205 02:33:23,440 --> 02:33:23,600 Speaker 3: Why