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Speaker 1: Ooh baby, that's called timing, my friends, and this comes

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Speaker 1: from mediocre blue Jay five five five, who says, my

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Speaker 1: wife had two kids before we got married, and they

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Speaker 1: have an actively involved father. We have had two children

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Speaker 1: of our own. My wife is a terrible driver, but

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Speaker 1: she refuses to acknowledge this. She has been in multiple

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Speaker 2: She's a crappy driver. Oh my god, that's not great.

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Speaker 3: That's yeah, stay off the road.

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Speaker 4: Stay off the road, get a chauffeur, or you know,

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Speaker 1: Love that she will do stuff like reach into the

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Speaker 4: My god, I'm just imagined she's like, hold on a minute,

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Speaker 2: I don't know about you, guys. That was always like

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Speaker 4: Yeah, especially or like when I'm watching movies where characters

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Speaker 2: Yes, and Sometimes there's not.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes they're just like having a conversation.

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Speaker 5: I'm like, look at the road, Yeah, a lot of

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Speaker 4: And they don't actually have a car accident. They're just

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Speaker 3: Like, this is not safe.

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Speaker 2: I was.

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Speaker 1: I was talking about like basically getting in trouble on

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Speaker 2: Rear foy mirror, like turn around.

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Speaker 1: I never even considered that. Now I'm gonna think about

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Speaker 2: Deal with it.

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Speaker 1: She got t boned in August of last year because

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Speaker 1: put the car in park. Oh my god, thankfully, only

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Speaker 5: It was terrible for her.

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Speaker 2: But it was more the kid.

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Speaker 5: Which one would you pick?

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Speaker 3: I mean it was her fault.

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Speaker 1: I mean if if, if you have to pick one,

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Speaker 3: I was about to say, I was like, she could

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Speaker 1: But no, yeah, no, like adults, but the adult I guess.

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Speaker 3: The person at fault, I mean anyone.

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Speaker 1: It's a crazy hypothetical. So thankfully only she was injured.

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Speaker 1: All four kids were in the car.

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Speaker 2: I've had it.

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Speaker 1: I told her that she is welcome to endanger herself

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, what's what's going on here? My wife had

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Speaker 2: We have two children.

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, so he probably doesn't have as close a

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Speaker 4: Just say you're welcome to endanger yourself, but don't endanger

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Speaker 1: You're like, listen, if you want to be crazy in

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Speaker 1: But I told her that if she ever decided to

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Speaker 2: To drive my kids in the car.

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Speaker 1: That's true. We've we've seen how it's worked for Sam. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Now, Save her boy. She started crying and said she

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Speaker 1: I asked her how exactly she took her hands off

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Speaker 2: She said that I'm treating her like an idiot.

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Speaker 3: It's not treating you like an idiot.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I am. My children have to be safe.

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Speaker 1: Look when it comes to the point where children are

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Speaker 2: People's feelings are kind of irrelevant. Oh yeah, there you go.

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Speaker 2: I offer to pay for uber.

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Speaker 4: Why It's like it's like if she like loved cooking,

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Speaker 4: Oh, the axe is on his side too, because like,

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Speaker 2: Exactly. Yeah, everyone, everyone's, everyone's kids are.

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Speaker 3: Being endangered except for the life.

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Speaker 1: Hide your kids from your wife because she's driving out here.

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Speaker 2: That's pretty good. Her gotta found myself on the back.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes her parents have threatened to stop helping her pay

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Speaker 2: Four children. I guess could do some any financial age

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Speaker 2: To divorce you.

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Speaker 1: Oh and as part of the divorce, make it so

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I think that's fair because she's actively again she's actively

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Speaker 3: Then yeah, you should there should be consequences for that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, given the X everything that's on the same page

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Speaker 1: Two, there is a perfectly reasonable alternative of her.

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Speaker 1: It's like it's like if someone is like addicted to

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Speaker 2: This solution is right in front of our frickin' faces.

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Speaker 1: Aleric an idiot. I don't think I am. My children

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Speaker 4: So doesn't matter if you've done you didn't do it

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Speaker 4: Here we go, Wait, so this is so she was

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Speaker 4: I was like, Wow, he sucks, but you no contextually

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Speaker 4: I mean, either way, it doesn't really make a difference

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Speaker 1: Why would you be so fixated on this?

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Speaker 2: Your life, your life for driving. Yeah, when you could

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Speaker 4: Yeah, if I if I was cooking and every time

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Speaker 4: You don't, Okay, yeah yeah. And my other option is

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Shouldn't someone do your laundry?

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Speaker 5: Just saying if we're going by that washing machine, so

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Speaker 5: So if we're going buy that logic so much, should

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Speaker 4: But no one's offered that in this scenario. Someone's offered

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I've asked people to do that and they still

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Speaker 4: Well, because I don't trust I don't trust your clothes.

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Speaker 5: Out you know, I really like my clothes.

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Speaker 2: There's nothing wrong.

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Speaker 4: With your clothes, but the vibes of your clothes don't

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Speaker 1: I feel like saying the vibes wash your clothes are

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Speaker 5: A no no no like the like the bobs of

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Speaker 5: your clothes are colorful. How do you know that?

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Speaker 4: What I mean, I'm saying that the vibes of your

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Speaker 5: Oh, my clothes in the washingchine have bad vibes. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: just said that. You just said, ceol.

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Speaker 1: The spiritual the spiritual aura, the washing machine and the

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Speaker 3: Don't match up. That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 5: So maybe someone should help putting them in there.

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Speaker 2: It is so important, not just kidding.

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Speaker 1: Oh boy, yes, so, yes, I heard it. Yes, getting

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Speaker 1: back to it, We're we're in agreement with Opie doing this. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: And then we have someone that would like to give

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Speaker 2: Let's go. So comments.

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Speaker 2: M Joker says, not the ahole.

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Speaker 1: I remember your last post, lost post to protect yourself

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Speaker 2: I can't believe it happened this quickly. I'm glad none

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Speaker 1: M Joker says in response, I definitely understand that has

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Speaker 2: I'm just done. Wow Wow stuff her knee says.

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Speaker 2: He's a lost cause.

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Speaker 1: They need to permanently take away her license, which I

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Speaker 1: Let the ex husband know your plans in the situation

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Speaker 1: as well. I'm sure he's going to want.

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Speaker 2: To push forward on his custody fight as well after this.

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Speaker 1: If her parents are still on your side, make sure

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Speaker 1: And a friend doll says, not the a whole. You

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Speaker 2: I think I'm feeling the same, but you know, agreed,

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Speaker 2: might not be feeling the same. Is this collar? Whoa

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Love bubbles, bubbles, let's freaking go hell love bubbles, love bubbles.

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Speaker 2: Hey, what's good? Okay?

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Speaker 7: So, because the video is lagging, so I can't even

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, but you can hear us. Everything's good?

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Speaker 1: Oh and if you're watching the YouTube the YouTube blags,

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Speaker 2: It might get complexing to the brain.

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Speaker 1: So, uh, talking about the story Opie made the ultimatum

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Speaker 2: Do you agree with that?

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Speaker 7: Like at some points it's like sometimes you're just real

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Speaker 2: Stop.

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Speaker 1: stop doing this. Do you do you like do almost

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Speaker 1: like a light ultimatum where if like, hey, if you

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Speaker 1: keep doing this, then you know, we'll break it off,

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Speaker 1: or like, what do you think is a good approach

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Speaker 1: generally for like approaching a partner with something like this.

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Speaker 7: Definitely Opay did the good thing about talking to them

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Speaker 7: about it first. I mean they had to talk to

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Speaker 7: them multiple times, but definitely communication is top its key.

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Speaker 7: Ultimatums are hard, but at that point Opie really had

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Speaker 7: to do one.

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Speaker 6: Like it wasn't even just her life at risk.

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Speaker 7: It was consistently happening for some reason with kids in

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Speaker 7: the car.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and it was just weird.

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Speaker 6: To see that.

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Speaker 7: I mean, I'm a child who just happened to be

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Speaker 7: in like ninety seven percent of my mom's car accidents

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Speaker 7: somehow surviving. I don't know if that was the universe

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Speaker 7: saying hey, we like you or dang, we.

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Speaker 3: Missed the first one.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, definitely the first one.

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Speaker 1: I was also about to say, hopefully, hopefully this story

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Speaker 1: was was was not with you involved?

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Speaker 6: Oh no, this wasn't my story.

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Speaker 2: Very good.

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Speaker 6: Okay, that's those kids were still kicking it.

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Speaker 2: But there we go, let's go it was.

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Speaker 7: It's definitely important that you talk to your partner because

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Speaker 7: partner friend sometimes dog all the things in between, like

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Speaker 7: these are lives and yeah, even just an ultimatum. I

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Speaker 7: think it was a couple of weeks ago, Riley had

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Speaker 7: put up something in the community post and in discord, like, hey,

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Speaker 7: what are your biggest pet peeves? This this or this

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Speaker 7: and it's just like pet peeves get really really frustrating

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Speaker 7: to the point that it's just like all right, stop

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Speaker 7: or I'm a leaf.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's it's honestly a thing of like it's

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Speaker 1: it might not be the pet peeva itself of like

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Speaker 1: you know, leaving dishes out or whatever. It's really the

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Speaker 1: respect of like, hey, if your partner comes to you communicate,

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Speaker 1: it's like, hey, this is something that bothers.

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Speaker 2: Me, and there's like at least.

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Speaker 1: Not like signs of improvement and like working on it

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Speaker 1: and like actually caring. That's like just disrespecting your partner

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Speaker 1: at the end of the day at that point.

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Speaker 7: So exactly, I imagine if in Sofia's case, just your

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Speaker 7: sibling doing it over and over again. I'm sure by now,

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Speaker 7: like Sam would have a shoeprint on his head if

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Speaker 7: he kept doing something over and over again to anoy Sofia.

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Speaker 1: That's right, yea, yeah, you don't listen. You guys don't

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Speaker 1: want to smoke with Sofia.

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Speaker 3: You don't want it.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm telling you. Love Bubbles, it was lovely

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Speaker 1: chatting with you. Thanks for Thanks for chatting, and have

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Speaker 1: a great rest of your day.

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Speaker 5: I do have one question. Okay, go ahead, Love Bubbles

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Speaker 5: your Discord profile pic. Is you in a rooster? You

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Speaker 5: have a pet rooster?

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Speaker 3: I do not.

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Speaker 7: I have pet quails, but that was the closest thing

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Speaker 7: I could find, and they're much quieter than a rooster,

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Speaker 7: but it matches for the parakeet.

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Speaker 2: Have you eaten like people eat like quail eggs? Right?

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Speaker 2: Have you eaten a quail egg?

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Speaker 6: I have not.

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Speaker 7: My mom is on that road where she like lives

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Speaker 7: by it, just saying like it's amazing.

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Speaker 6: You have to try it. But I'm like, Mom, they're

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Speaker 6: staring at me. I can't do this.

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Speaker 2: I can't do it. Wow.

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Speaker 1: That's incredible, Love Bubbles, thank you so much for chatting

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Speaker 1: with me. Great to put a voice to the name

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Speaker 1: for such an incredible community member.

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Speaker 2: So thanks for chatting.

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Speaker 6: Thank you, Thank you Until next.

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Speaker 2: Time, of course. Uh my, very good. Good point.

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Speaker 1: Good point about like even outside of like danger scenarios,

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Speaker 1: when someone just keeps when a partner just keeps doing something,

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Speaker 1: they're not respecting you at a certain point, you know,

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Speaker 1: it's like it goes beyond the like the pet peeve

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Speaker 1: or like whatever they considerate.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, inconsiderate absolutely,