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Speaker 1: I think my wife cheated on me. Now she's refusing

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Speaker 1: a portunity test for our child. In air quotes our innocent.

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Speaker 1: My male forty four wife Cynthia forty one female, and

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Speaker 1: I have been married for almost fifteen years.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: I raised I raised her older children as my own.

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Speaker 1: We have two kids together and one that she just

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from Miserable Streets seven seven

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Speaker 1: seven on the oar slash. Okay, storytime saw a bread

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Speaker 1: it So back in twenty fourteen, we had a huge

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Speaker 1: crisis due to her infidelity. You see, her affair partner

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Speaker 1: was her supervisor, and I only found out when she

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Speaker 1: was abruptly fired and the company filed a case against

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Speaker 1: her for allegations that I won't discuss you no.

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Speaker 2: Whoa mysterious undiscussable allegations.

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Speaker 1: Okay, her supervisor was a co defendant. She had to

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Speaker 1: come clean about the whole thing, including she had an

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 1: I completely lost all trust in her. I requested paternity

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Speaker 1: tests on our kids together. They are mine, got a

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: I eventually forgave her and tried to move on because

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Speaker 1: the pain of breaking up our family and not seeing

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Speaker 1: the kids every day was unbearable. We had a very

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Speaker 1: good run. Until now our relationship felt stronger. The Spicy

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Speaker 3: Oh literally as you said, until now, Awkward Turtle hit

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Speaker 3: us with ninety five bucks in the tip link Turtle,

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Speaker 3: Awkward Turtle says, Happy New Year's guys.

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Speaker 2: I think you guys maybe turtlely enough for the Turtle Club.

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Speaker 2: Now I lock turtles. That is one of my resolutions

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Speaker 2: to become more turtlely. Ooh allah.

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Speaker 1: A hurdle of some kind, that's a great, great resolution.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm trying to get my urdle on dun in

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Speaker 2: two five. Yeared it up? Yeah, bearded up, baby eared

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Speaker 2: it interred it? Yurd it? What you do? What eared it?

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Speaker 1: Because the story story, the SoC with Journle, so uh,

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Speaker 1: the spicyy was great. I felt like she was the

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Speaker 1: happy that I had given us another chance.

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Speaker 2: This is gonna end so well.

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Speaker 1: Years ago, her best friend Dana female forty two, cut

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Speaker 1: me and our older kids everywhere. Cynthia expressed sadness about

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Speaker 1: it for years and often talked about Dana like a

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Speaker 1: true sister. When my wife got pregnant with this last baby,

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Speaker 1: she got very depressed about everything.

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Speaker 2: Uh.

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Speaker 1: Dana was her go to person in case of emergency.

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Speaker 1: So I so I thought that maybe some type of

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Speaker 1: willing to talk poll chat contact Dana or nah, contact

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Speaker 1: or contact or not contact or not. I'm curious to

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Speaker 1: I digress, pulls up, pulls up. To my surprise, she

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Speaker 1: was interested. Okay, the conversation wasn't what I expected. She

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Speaker 1: called me a flying monkey. She called you a what

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Speaker 1: had me young? And she called me a flying called,

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Speaker 1: which again means someone that helps exacerbate, someone who.

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Speaker 2: Helps the wicked witch from the Wizard of Oz.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we go, thank you, uh, and said and said

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Speaker 1: feeling like a tool, always having to do favors and

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Speaker 2: Oh that's dude. What is she just like giving her

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Speaker 2: stuff all the time? She's like up? What is this friendship?

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Speaker 1: She keeps changing her identity to get more out of

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Speaker 1: other people. Dana mentioned having attempted a slow fade, but

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Speaker 2: I didn't know this. I didn't know Gary was sent.

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Speaker 1: To make me tired, sent by my wife to talk

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Speaker 2: Hey, buddy, maybe get it back on the rails. Dude,

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Speaker 2: what are you doing?

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Speaker 1: What is wrong with everyone in Opie's life? This is

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Speaker 1: his whole circle is poisoned.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I know Gary can be intense, but never like this.

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Speaker 1: He works in it, So the spyware apart is not

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Speaker 1: entirely impossible. He's hacking the mainframe. Dana and Gary never

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Speaker 2: She sent me evidence, the course cap number and receipts.

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Speaker 3: Okay, sounds like she's got She's got receipts, she's got evidence.

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Speaker 2: Does your wife suck? Yes? Is that? Is that what

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Speaker 2: we're looking at right now? And not in the good

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Speaker 1: For the record, Hey, I'm hurt because not only did

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Speaker 1: but he actually got into a serious situation and it

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Speaker 2: I confronted him and he said that he was just

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Speaker 1: Sorry, I was just trying to spine your friend for you.

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Speaker 2: My bad, my bad partner, pfect. I'm sure a flawless impression.

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Speaker 3: Gary, Stop it, Come on, Gary, tighten up.

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Speaker 2: Gary, be like the snail, which is great.

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Speaker 1: I confronted my wife and she said she was desperate

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Speaker 1: because Dana had always been her main support system. This

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Speaker 1: did it for me. I don't care how many times

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Speaker 1: other things. Why did best friends from childhood break it

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Speaker 2: Of his friendship.

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Speaker 3: Hiding things potentially is up on the list of things

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Speaker 3: that might be why you are speaking intelligent words.

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Speaker 1: The fact that Cynthia managed to get Gary to do

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Speaker 3: Wait, do we know what Gary did that was illegal?

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Speaker 3: This is still the unspoken work situation.

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Speaker 1: Unspoken work situation. He, as far as we know from

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Speaker 1: the words of the story, he threatened installing spyware. Maybe

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Speaker 2: Laws right now. Yeah, just saying that not good. Just

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Speaker 2: even saying that you might do it not great. You

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Speaker 2: have great teeth. By the way, Hey, thanks John, You're welcome.

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Speaker 4: John kot like that, like a good smile, Like, what

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Speaker 3: Everybody my mom said, John looks like thor So tell

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Speaker 2: Everybody tell Johnny looks like thor I'll take it. I'll

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Speaker 2: take it. We also got very least I'll take Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's got beautiful locks.

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Speaker 4: Yes, but we got eighty eight contact twelve percent.

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Speaker 3: Now I think you need to con just to get

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Speaker 1: M I was gonna say no, but maybe Chap will

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Speaker 2: We'll see. So.

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Speaker 1: Also, during our entire conversation, Dana insisted that Cynthia is

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Speaker 1: disgusted that not only my wife had been using her

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Speaker 1: make matters worse. If she knew that my wife had

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Speaker 1: So I talked to Cynthia about it, and I told

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Speaker 2: I have a trade proposal. Talk to me. I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: trade you what I thought was gonna happen, Yes, for

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Speaker 2: what I'm thinking now is gonna happen. Please please, She'd

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Speaker 2: She'd be cheating.

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Speaker 1: She'd be cheating with that man. I just thought, Hey,

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Speaker 1: that's a trade. Perprosal Then what's what do I get?

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Speaker 2: Time about what?

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Speaker 3: I think my My previous theory was that she was

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Speaker 2: pro quo? Oh baby? Well?

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Speaker 1: Also now I feel that maybe her depression over Dana

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Speaker 2: What are you the police jobs? If you've got nothing

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Speaker 2: to hide, you can't mind me searching? Go ahead? I mean,

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Speaker 2: but like low key though Loki though, if you know

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Speaker 2: the baby's his, what's the problem. And to that point,

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Speaker 2: it goes on to say she's threatened to divorce me.

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Speaker 2: That's awful suspicious now, isn't it?

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Speaker 1: And did before she finds the truths before he finds

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Speaker 1: she gave birth. I refused a drive her to the

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Speaker 1: an acting cooperative. She tried to deny Dana's complaints to

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Speaker 1: keeping secrets, but he's denying ever sleeping with her.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna say that that's a lie. WHOA, Gary's lying crazy.

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Speaker 4: Oh, they're all telling the truth here, guys. Everyone's honest

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, the lies from before, they don't cow, they don't.

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Speaker 1: Yes, this is a joke that history cannot predict the future, right, No,

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Speaker 1: it never does.

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Speaker 2: history never repeats itself. That's what they always say. That's

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Speaker 3: That's what I and I only know what they say

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Speaker 2: And type in okay, story time anxiety going, Am I right?

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Speaker 2: Poof? Poof gone, You're always right woof. But these statements

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Speaker 1: It's exactly it, right, But question, dear Dakota in this

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Speaker 1: She said divorce, Hey, you know what? You know what, Hey, yeah,

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Speaker 1: But let's get some sna for some lawyers investigating this,

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Speaker 1: Well, obviously, Opie says. My family knows that we are

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Speaker 2: M Yes, great reasons.

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Speaker 3: No, doctor, I can't even think of something dumb enough

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Speaker 2: That doesn't make any sense. It's just we can't.

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Speaker 1: And also if I did it, I'm divorcing you.

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Speaker 2: Girl. You're not helping in yourself. Does it make any sense?

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Speaker 2: Golly well?

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Speaker 1: We do have some comments here, comment number one, Even

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Speaker 1: and Dana was right when she called you an enabler.

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Speaker 1: Reply from op Why would a reply from another commenter,

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Speaker 1: If I had a history of cheating and my husband

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Speaker 1: shady bee whoa comment number two request for a judge

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Speaker 1: even without her. Someone replies, can you just cut a

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Speaker 1: three not the ahole. Your marriage is over, regardless of

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Speaker 2: Get divorced. Could we also pull Oh this one? I

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Speaker 1: Actually I want to pull about so yeah, that that's

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Speaker 1: gonna be unanimous. The one we're thinking of, Yes, but

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying right, right, given the assumption

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Speaker 3: I don't think so.

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Speaker 2: Let's let's pull it. Ah, but it's a tricky one's trick.

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Speaker 2: The baby didn't do anything wrong, help life or not?

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Speaker 3: A pollet so that I'd be like, Gary can help you.

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Speaker 2: His kid, that would we at least need to say that.

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Speaker 2: We at least need to say that. Pole there it is,

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Speaker 2: check it out.

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Speaker 1: Chat So not the ahol, your marriage over, regardless of

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Speaker 1: the vision or not. Get divorced, get rid of Gary too.

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Speaker 1: Come at number four. Your marriage is over, dude, Get

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Speaker 1: a divorce that sounds like us and that's it.

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Speaker 2: That is the end. Your marriage is over, dude, Get

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Speaker 1: So far just a handful of votes, but everyone's saying nah.

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Speaker 1: I was gonna say, I would maybe call the doctor

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Speaker 2: Did get the opportunity test of right.

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Speaker 1: I guess I just think once it's over, out of

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Speaker 2: But yeah, and then tell Gary about it so you

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I gotta say from the perspective of, like, I

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Speaker 3: you're a terrible person. And you've got a weird investigation

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Speaker 3: at work. That's so terrible. I can't even talk about

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Speaker 3: it on the internet. You've got a weird case. Why

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, weird case. Why why is he around type stuff?

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Speaker 2: Yes? I want to sing.

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Speaker 1: The rest of the stream is shut down, video shut down.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I think from my perspective, I would probably be like,

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Speaker 3: I would feel like such, I don't know, and the

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Speaker 3: I would just feel like a chump. I would feel

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Speaker 2: And we think the baby is not his. I think

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Speaker 1: Dude, I don't even know if it's Gary's one hundred percent,

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Speaker 2: That's even worse. That is even worse. You try to say, John,

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Speaker 2: somebody you know exploring all so she dude.

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Speaker 4: Can you imagine could you imagine the plot twist if

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Speaker 2: She's exploring all the options. I'm dead. But that's the

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Speaker 2: end of that story. That's a mess. It's a mess.

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Speaker 2: I mean it's a mess. Sorry, Op, that sucks. That's

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, we we are making jokes, but on a

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Speaker 2: Should I check for an update? Oh's take a big, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: take a big, take a bak. In the meantime, you

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Speaker 2: I think we did in the super chat? For sure

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Speaker 2: Over? Actually what pieceia? Oh? Yeah, why are you give

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Speaker 3: That was an unrelated face. My face went I my

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Speaker 1: I was my brains disappeared, fix mixed.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for the two dollars.

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Speaker 1: I get my axe in six days. Yes, what a

444
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Speaker 1: way to start off. The twenty twenty five started with

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Speaker 1: an axe d Thank you for the four dollars and

446
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Speaker 1: your little lemon buddy, uh d, thank you for being a.

447
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Speaker 2: Member for one month.

448
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Speaker 3: Uh Lord macfart, but the a is a four. Thank

449
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Speaker 3: you for the two dollars. A man of culture, a

450
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Speaker 3: button down.

451
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Speaker 4: With maybe it's maybe it's not bigfore, maybe it's big Fort.

452
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Speaker 2: It could be mcfort, but I'm gonna say it's mcfart.

453
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Speaker 3: With are yes, thank you, thank you, my lord, and

454
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Speaker 3: Josephine Medolo Burquist says, well, I say, first thanks for

455
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Speaker 3: the twenty seven speedish croner.

456
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Speaker 2: The we do, the we Do. The clip is in

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Speaker 2: discord cool. I can't wait to watch join the discord.

458
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Speaker 2: I hit that I still haven't even hit it again.

459
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Speaker 3: I hit that little noise so perfectly, making a little

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Speaker 3: noise here. Hai, okay, all right, I.

461
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Speaker 2: Think that's it.

462
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Speaker 4: There is no update, no update, this happened. This happened

463
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Speaker 4: actually a month ago. Whoa, so this is fresh?

464
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Speaker 2: Pretty yoursence? No update. I won't have to check in

465
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Speaker 2: in the new year.

466
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Speaker 4: Wait, let's see, let's see m No no update. But

467
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Speaker 4: you know what's really funny? What the guy who the

468
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Speaker 4: guy guy the game? No no, they who come to your

469
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Speaker 4: marriages over dude, get over, get a divorced, get over

470
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Speaker 4: like ten k uplotes.

471
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Speaker 2: That was like a thousand voices in agreement. That's the

472
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Speaker 2: top comment of I mean funny. You know it's even funnier.

473
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Speaker 3: Lord mcphart has confirmed that it's fart Yoh.

474
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Speaker 2: Yes, oh, I kind of love it, man, gotta love it.

475
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Speaker 1: Also to respond to quickly and making Jackson, does I

476
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Speaker 1: get a free membership? You probably did, because people are

477
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Speaker 1: just dropping gifted memberships and the more active in chat

478
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Speaker 1: you are, YouTube does them out to the most active.

479
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Speaker 2: That's right, that's what they do. What you gotta do

480
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Speaker 2: is check in and send us you a little whos

481
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Speaker 2: do that? Uh? And Christine d says, so glad you're back.

482
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Speaker 2: I've been having withdrawal from you, guys. I was having

483
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Speaker 2: withdrawal from the stream as well.

484
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Speaker 1: Dakoda and I were literally texting and he's like, I

485
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Speaker 1: cannot wait to get back.

486
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Speaker 6: To the stream, back on it.

487
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Speaker 2: I use the Little Sam's Room, do that?

488
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Speaker 5: Oh?

489
00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:09,920
Speaker 2: The little tinkle Town. They use the Pepe Poopoo room.

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Speaker 1: Hey, you need to bring your don't you hold that

491
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Speaker 1: wiener on us? I got it's reserved for Sam. Yeah, right,

492
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Speaker 1: Sam dicken hands, Okay.

493
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Speaker 2: Don't do it?

494
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Speaker 3: Well, are you just gonna walk away and show your

495
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Speaker 3: and then I just walk I'll just walk over.

496
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Speaker 1: God, did you have any get okay story times for us,

497
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Speaker 1: any over break or anything?

498
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Speaker 2: I do have a crazy okay story kind of.

499
00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:40,400
Speaker 3: It was like because I read I just I finished

500
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Speaker 3: The Alchemist, which I don't know if anyone's read that book.

501
00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:43,760
Speaker 2: I need to read that.

502
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Speaker 3: It's like a it's this crazy book kind of about

503
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Speaker 3: like destiny and like manifesting and like super classic. Yeah,

504
00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:51,960
Speaker 3: it's like and it's what Yeah, the guy who wrote it,

505
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:54,399
Speaker 3: it's like a crazy you know, best selling and it's like,

506
00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:55,880
Speaker 3: of course he wrote this book and like no one

507
00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:58,080
Speaker 3: wanted to read it at first, and then it's you know,

508
00:26:58,160 --> 00:27:02,520
Speaker 3: became this huge hit, right Just like I basically finished

509
00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:04,280
Speaker 3: reading that book, and I happened to run into a

510
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:06,880
Speaker 3: guy I went to school with on my flight back

511
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Speaker 3: Saint Louis that I hadn't seen in like ten years.

512
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Speaker 3: Oh my god, And like we hadn't really kept in

513
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 3: touch at all, Like we had not spoken in like

514
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Speaker 3: a decade.

515
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:16,520
Speaker 2: I had no idea what was going on with him.

516
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:18,800
Speaker 2: I think it went to cool for like business, and

517
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:20,399
Speaker 2: he told me that he just got his MFA for

518
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:25,200
Speaker 2: screenwriting for writing comedy Last Person on Earth. I would

519
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:28,520
Speaker 2: be like, oh, like, I just I just didn't expect it.

520
00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:31,280
Speaker 2: He was always funny, yeah, but I just didn't expect

521
00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:34,920
Speaker 2: him to like be involved in the entertainment industry at all.

522
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Speaker 5: Yeah.

523
00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:37,960
Speaker 3: And his whole mission is he wants to bring back

524
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Speaker 3: like the classic comedy vibes of like the the most

525
00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:44,720
Speaker 3: elite era, because it's like the comedy movie is dead

526
00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:45,280
Speaker 3: right now.

527
00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:45,720
Speaker 2: Yeh.

528
00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:49,280
Speaker 3: There's like Game Night came out like five years ago.

529
00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 3: I thought that was a really solid, felt like a classic.

530
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Speaker 2: And then like you nodding your head, Well have you

531
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Speaker 2: seen that one?

532
00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:05,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I've seen it. Great movie, great movie, great movie.

533
00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:09,920
Speaker 1: But you're right, like it feels like comedies nowadays feel

534
00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:10,679
Speaker 1: very like cheap.

535
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:13,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, like it's just yeah, just formulating out there.

536
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, so I but I ended up running into

537
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Speaker 3: him before our flight.

538
00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:20,199
Speaker 2: Well really we had a connecting. We had two flights.

539
00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:22,480
Speaker 3: I saw him while I was on the phone getting

540
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 3: on the first fight, and I was like, well, I

541
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:25,359
Speaker 3: know he's gonna be at my game for sure.

542
00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:26,520
Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, I know who that.

543
00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:29,360
Speaker 3: Is so I'll run into him at the next airport

544
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:33,239
Speaker 3: and then so yeah, I mean we're we turned out

545
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:36,399
Speaker 3: the place I just moved in. We're essentially neighbors. He

546
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:39,080
Speaker 3: lives like maybe like ten minutes away. Whoa, And it's

547
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:41,720
Speaker 3: like so you know, yeah we're gonna I mean, who knows.

548
00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:44,760
Speaker 3: But it's like just one of those things where it's like,

549
00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 3: oh wow, like my.

550
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Speaker 1: I wouldn't say it's strange, but just like, yeah, people

551
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:51,920
Speaker 1: like dripped apart or it's like, yeah, ten years and how.

552
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:54,040
Speaker 2: Close frowns were you in high school?

553
00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:58,520
Speaker 1: In high school, like, I mean, we weren't like strangers, yeah,

554
00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:00,640
Speaker 1: but we were probably tightest when we were like in

555
00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:03,600
Speaker 1: like the elementary school like middle school there. Okay, yeah,

556
00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:06,360
Speaker 1: that's that's a long time of separation.

557
00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:07,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

558
00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:09,480
Speaker 1: No, like as adults, we have not met each other

559
00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:12,280
Speaker 1: at all, which is like' only known each other as kids.

560
00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:15,160
Speaker 1: It's kind of low key like meeting them for the

561
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Speaker 1: first time all over again. Yeah as an adult, right,

562
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Speaker 1: I mean it does. Yeah, so so that was kind

563
00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:21,800
Speaker 1: of crazy.

564
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 2: That is wild.

565
00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:26,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, walking on we were sharing okay, Dakota's okay

566
00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:28,680
Speaker 1: story time of running into his someone he hasn't seen

567
00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:29,280
Speaker 1: in ten years?

568
00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, and oh and the reason I brought out

569
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:35,000
Speaker 3: to the Alchemist is because I actually had moved my

570
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:37,280
Speaker 3: flight back a day. So if I hadn't done that,

571
00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:38,680
Speaker 3: I would have never ran into him. I would have

572
00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:40,160
Speaker 3: never reached out to him. I would have never talked

573
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Speaker 3: to him.

574
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Speaker 1: And also if I hadn't become a person who like

575
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:44,960
Speaker 1: because part of me was nervous, I was like, Oh,

576
00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:46,080
Speaker 1: I haven't seen that guy in ten years.

577
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:46,960
Speaker 2: Should I talk to him?

578
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:49,280
Speaker 3: But then another part of my brain was like, yeah,

579
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:51,040
Speaker 3: you one hundred percent should talk to that guy.

580
00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:55,800
Speaker 2: Like what and yeah? So I don't know.

581
00:29:56,000 --> 00:30:00,360
Speaker 3: Things had lined up right, And now I.

582
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:00,880
Speaker 2: Have an old friend who who's a comedy writer.

583
00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:04,000
Speaker 1: Not to get to woo woo with you, but just

584
00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 1: to share a very quick thing of my own. I

585
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:08,920
Speaker 1: woke up one day in the Bay Area and I

586
00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:12,520
Speaker 1: was like, I have to move to LA, And then

587
00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:15,280
Speaker 1: moved to LA. A mutual friend who also moved to

588
00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:20,760
Speaker 1: LA that knew Sam, introduced me to Sam. There you go,

589
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:22,240
Speaker 1: because I was in LA.

590
00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:22,760
Speaker 2: Dude.

591
00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:25,560
Speaker 3: The only reason that I'm even here is because this

592
00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:28,800
Speaker 3: guy went to college.

593
00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:29,760
Speaker 2: Right.

594
00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:31,520
Speaker 4: I want to call it, Yeah, I want to call

595
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Speaker 4: it no.

596
00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:35,360
Speaker 2: But it's because you went with this college.

597
00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:38,480
Speaker 3: There's only one guy who lives in this like it's

598
00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:39,720
Speaker 3: not a part of the show.

599
00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:42,600
Speaker 2: And you were, oh, so.

600
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 4: The connection is it's it's very kind of that's just

601
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 4: la small world.

602
00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:51,000
Speaker 3: I like, also no big world. Lots of people. I've

603
00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:52,600
Speaker 3: met a lot of people out here that I never

604
00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:56,080
Speaker 3: see ever yet. So it's crazy. It's just crazy how

605
00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:58,680
Speaker 3: many things have lined up for this is to have

606
00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:00,960
Speaker 3: come together exactly in the way that it has.

607
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Speaker 4: You know, do you know what he's talking about, John,

608
00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:05,720
Speaker 4: I'm just trying to do you know, go to China

609
00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:08,280
Speaker 4: heat like the connection from.

610
00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 2: The school that you went to where you met.

611
00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:15,560
Speaker 4: Well his Christian, Yeah, yes, Christian is my Well I

612
00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:16,280
Speaker 4: went to high school.

613
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:17,560
Speaker 2: I went to high school with Christian.

614
00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, but Christian and I became roommates in college, right right,

615
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:24,440
Speaker 4: right right? I mean I did meet Sam a couple

616
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:27,080
Speaker 4: of times, yeah, through Christian, but also through another mutual

617
00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:28,720
Speaker 4: friend because they were in like the sand Front group

618
00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 4: at in their high school, which yeah, okay cool, But

619
00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 4: through Christian is how I you know, got to see Sam.

620
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:40,640
Speaker 2: Alt right and this guys here look at him, is

621
00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:44,480
Speaker 2: how I met everyone here. It's a little crazy, just

622
00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:47,960
Speaker 2: saying it is Crazy's cool. Alchemist read the Alchemist's school stuff.

623
00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:49,320
Speaker 2: Everything is written with the same.

624
00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:54,480
Speaker 1: Hand, Caitlyn Caitlin van Campen, thanks for the five books

625
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:56,720
Speaker 1: on the tip link where we save that thirty percent.

626
00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:58,480
Speaker 2: Love to have you all back.

627
00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:04,280
Speaker 1: Finally, listening to Tyler's new album, favorite favorite song, go,

628
00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:06,240
Speaker 1: Mine's Nooid for sure, Happy New.

629
00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:07,640
Speaker 2: Year's so good.

630
00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:12,400
Speaker 3: I would say sticky, but I'm gonna say it's probably Judy.

631
00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 1: Hmm, I might. It's changing for me right now at

632
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:19,040
Speaker 1: this moment. It's probably balloon.

633
00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:23,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, he just goes so he gets so raw on

634
00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:25,760
Speaker 3: Judy he does, and I'm just like.

635
00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:30,600
Speaker 4: Cry mind's balloon as well. Yeah, it's like a balloon

636
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:32,480
Speaker 4: the double check it balloon ship.

637
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:34,880
Speaker 3: We need to get Tyler's take on that though, because

638
00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:37,719
Speaker 3: he literally like guessed when he dropped Egor. He's like,

639
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 3: they're gonna like this one first, but then a couple

640
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:41,800
Speaker 3: of years go by, they're gonna all like New Magic

641
00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:44,040
Speaker 3: wand and that's exactly what happened. Dude.

642
00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:47,520
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but Matt, I can't even. I can't even,

643
00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:49,880
Speaker 1: I can't even. I gotta release the video. That mean

644
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:50,840
Speaker 1: to cot a recorder together.

645
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 2: I did we soon next month.

646
00:32:54,960 --> 00:33:00,280
Speaker 1: True brizzle dizzle drizzle, bizzle, brizzle drizzle. I said it right,

647
00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:05,360
Speaker 1: you having a stronk over there than the five bucks,

648
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:09,360
Speaker 1: all the best from Bristol UK. I am already slightly

649
00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:10,600
Speaker 1: wasted on champagne.

650
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:13,760
Speaker 2: Let's go. I am here just to say love your vibe.

651
00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:18,760
Speaker 1: I hope you explode everywhere in twenty twenty five. Oh god, hold,

652
00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:22,200
Speaker 1: oh god.

653
00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:24,920
Speaker 2: No where you don't do it like that. Don't do

654
00:33:24,960 --> 00:33:27,560
Speaker 2: it like what I met my body. Yeah, well you

655
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:30,720
Speaker 2: did it with your hands. Yeah. See the screen ends

656
00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 2: here and then it was like, oh it was my abdominal.

657
00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:40,080
Speaker 1: Actually clip clip it or we'll see, we'll see clipping

658
00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:42,280
Speaker 1: someone will someone will pull it up in discord checking

659
00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:44,440
Speaker 1: other donos here good.

660
00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:52,560
Speaker 4: Also, speaking of donos, let's let's because it will be

661
00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:54,400
Speaker 4: most if you guys want to We're not gonna stop you.

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Speaker 4: I'm not gonna say don't do it.

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Speaker 1: Well, I guess what whatever gets added can be added

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Speaker 1: to the next podcast.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if you guys are tuning in. We

666
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Speaker 4: are ending the stream a little early, or not necessarily

667
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:08,279
Speaker 4: a little early, but around seven our time, because of

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00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:11,080
Speaker 4: the New Year. You can't keep us until the New

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Speaker 4: Year's guys. Sorry, that's just yes.

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Speaker 2: Is there a way to turn off?

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Speaker 4: I don't think so. Okay, I mean I think I

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00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:25,560
Speaker 4: actually mm hmm I can turn it off. But I mean,

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Speaker 4: does that that means we're gonna stop the donations and

674
00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:30,880
Speaker 4: I want them to keep donating. I'm not gonna I'm

675
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:32,680
Speaker 4: not gonna give you the guy. I'm not gonna like, no,

676
00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:34,400
Speaker 4: you guys can't do it. You guys can't do it.

677
00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:35,520
Speaker 4: You'll just go to the next stream.

678
00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:40,840
Speaker 3: Maybe imagine the dragons, y'all are gonna these balls?

679
00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:42,719
Speaker 2: That was That was pretty quick. That was pretty quick.

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Speaker 3: Uh, I just imagine filling up the God damn it.

681
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:52,359
Speaker 2: I know now I can't. Everything I say is wrong now.

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Speaker 1: Uh, you're having a strong Yes, everyone's having a strong

683
00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:02,719
Speaker 1: Just say imagine like the next stream is gonna like

684
00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:05,960
Speaker 1: automatically start at eight hours from all the donations they're

685
00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:11,719
Speaker 1: about to come in. Yeah, yeah, okay, Justine, I hear you.

686
00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:15,840
Speaker 1: We won't turn off the donation caps, but uh, doon

687
00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:18,360
Speaker 1: if you could maybe pin in the chat, remove the

688
00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:21,920
Speaker 1: link and they be like, hey, donations are U offer

689
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:24,279
Speaker 1: this one they'll be applied to the next one, just

690
00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:24,880
Speaker 1: so everyone knows.

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Speaker 4: I don't want the donation now because we just hit

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Speaker 4: five hundred likes. Oh yes, we could spin that wheel.

693
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:38,359
Speaker 1: So guys, Justino, uh yeah, Kristen, uh what you guys

694
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Speaker 1: have lives outside of this.

695
00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:40,600
Speaker 2: It is hard to believe.

696
00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 1: But a little bit, just somewhat, only a responsible amount

697
00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:47,720
Speaker 1: of life, just a tweet.

698
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 2: itIt just enough life to get by, that is right

699
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:55,319
Speaker 2: to get by, life to get a little bye. And

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00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 2: we are now going to spin that wheel.

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Speaker 3: Yoa one of those hit Oh hey, we got five

702
00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:05,719
Speaker 3: new members.

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00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:10,919
Speaker 4: There we go, there we go, and this message, there

704
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:11,200
Speaker 4: we go.

705
00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:15,200
Speaker 3: And if you're a lurker, now's the time to spam

706
00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:19,000
Speaker 3: comment because those new memberships go to our most active

707
00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:21,400
Speaker 3: participants in the chat.

708
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:26,000
Speaker 2: Talk about it. Talk that talk, talk that talk, and

709
00:36:26,040 --> 00:36:27,799
Speaker 2: that's all you have to do is talk that talk.

710
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:30,279
Speaker 2: You can get a free membership. Dude.

711
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:32,239
Speaker 1: Imagine if I talked with my best friend and I

712
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:35,480
Speaker 1: just randomly got something cool, dude, Like.

713
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Speaker 2: It just fell out of the sky. It's just into

714
00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:39,719
Speaker 2: your hands. That'd be cool, dude.

715
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Speaker 3: Imagine, Like, did you ever have I had this fantasy

716
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Speaker 3: when I was a kid, I wanted a meteor to

717
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Speaker 3: land in my backyard.

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Speaker 2: MM.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if it's because I like E T

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Speaker 1: or like what I mean. It's very it's very reasonable.

721
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Speaker 2: Just wanted a space rock to land in my backyard.

722
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Speaker 2: It's I love it. I love it, to be honest

723
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Speaker 2: with you, but I do it. Did you? Why why

724
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Speaker 2: did that happen into me? John? Why did that happen

725
00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:07,160
Speaker 2: to me? Why did I want that? I don't know why?

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Speaker 2: Creative want that? Your creative spaceboy, you're creative spaceboy. No,

727
00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 2: I can't say that.

728
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Speaker 1: The inner working Dakota's mind are currently in a nick,

729
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Speaker 1: my ladies and gentlemen. He's having a few strongks today

730
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Speaker 1: on the New Year's stream.

731
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Speaker 2: We got five.

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Speaker 3: And having a strong please calldulence.

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Speaker 2: Yes, five gifted uh put koda day, having a strong

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Speaker 2: called the bungolate Ah.

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Speaker 1: Alright, guys, signing off in the comments, by the way,

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Speaker 1: I do get the get those free gifted get those

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Speaker 1: gifted memberships.

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Speaker 4: The gifted membership up you guys. And then there's five

739
00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:56,759
Speaker 4: gifted memberships right there.

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Speaker 2: There we go. There we mother freaking go and.

741
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Speaker 4: Speak of gifted memberships. We're getting more donation.

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Speaker 2: Ellie thanks for the five bucks. Did y'all get a

743
00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:08,680
Speaker 2: new wheel yet, because if you haven't replaced the physical

744
00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:12,960
Speaker 2: wheel yet, don't because reasons I don't know.

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Speaker 1: That's I don't want to ever replace the physical wheel. Oh,

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00:38:17,000 --> 00:38:19,279
Speaker 1: it will never will never replace the physical wheel. Well,

747
00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:23,920
Speaker 1: we'll replace another physical wheel, yes, because guys, it is

748
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Speaker 1: we'll never.

749
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Speaker 2: Go digital on the wheel.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, we like the physical wheel. It's just

751
00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:31,280
Speaker 4: that wheel is its last legs. Literally, you have a feeling.

752
00:38:31,360 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 4: I know why Ellie's asking this. So, guys, there may

753
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Speaker 4: or may not be a place with more room that

754
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Speaker 4: or may or may not be moving a studio one

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Speaker 4: set up into studio two.

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Speaker 2: Who knows. Whatever, what if there's a big Oh, oh,

757
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:52,320
Speaker 2: I know what you're talking about. I want that wheel.

758
00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:55,560
Speaker 2: I want that big wheel. How big are we talking?

759
00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:55,759
Speaker 4: Like?

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00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:59,200
Speaker 2: We're talking big? We're talking? We're talking, we're talking.

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Speaker 1: Oh are we talking?

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00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:09,920
Speaker 2: That's so big? Wow?

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00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:13,800
Speaker 3: That's it's so big. It can't even get into focus.

764
00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:14,440
Speaker 3: It blurs.

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Speaker 2: We we can't. There's two.

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Speaker 3: It takes up too much of the visual frame. The

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00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 3: camera sensors. The sensors don't even know what to do

768
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:26,160
Speaker 3: with something light years to spin. Okay, I mean, I want.

769
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Speaker 4: To get stand up and put in all my like

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00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:30,080
Speaker 4: like I want that wheel of fortune.

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00:39:30,600 --> 00:39:33,799
Speaker 2: I want a Prices Right wheel. I want like a

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Speaker 2: game game show song.

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00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:40,040
Speaker 3: Let's build a Prices Right wheel out of wood, out

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Speaker 3: of wood and.

775
00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 1: Gum, make it real heavy. And I'm trying to literally

776
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Speaker 1: find one right now, there's not one.

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00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:47,879
Speaker 2: Oh yeah.

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00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:53,919
Speaker 3: Josephine also says John Fry having strong please call Bongolans.

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Speaker 2: Any other know.

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Speaker 3: I believe so, I believe that's all on the next story.

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00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:09,520
Speaker 4: But again, guys, like I said, the donations, we love you,

782
00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:12,959
Speaker 4: we appreciate it, Big Wheel, but we still are ending

783
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Speaker 4: this stream at seven on the dot.

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00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:18,680
Speaker 2: This is true or you know whatever wherever we're at.

785
00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:21,279
Speaker 3: And with that in mind, did y'all know there's a

786
00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:23,200
Speaker 3: Spider Man villain named Big Wheel.

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Speaker 2: Is he a big wheel? He's got one?

788
00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:31,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's like in it.

789
00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:32,120
Speaker 2: You guys want to see it.

790
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:37,400
Speaker 1: Let's see it before Dakota's last shiny object before we get.

791
00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:46,920
Speaker 2: Into the next story. Baby, he's that. Oh I've seen that. Yeah,

792
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:48,920
Speaker 2: it's big Wheel.

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00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:53,600
Speaker 4: It's big Wheel with his big He's in a big wheel.

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Speaker 2: This way big Yeah. See look at him? How big

795
00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:01,480
Speaker 2: that wheel.

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00:41:01,160 --> 00:41:03,520
Speaker 1: Is I mean that, I will say it's a big wheel,

797
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:07,440
Speaker 1: but like I feel like if Spider Man just goes

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00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:11,800
Speaker 1: on the side, it's kind of game over.

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Speaker 2: You know, because like if you're if you're.

800
00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:17,600
Speaker 1: In front of what if you just just topple the wheel?

801
00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:23,520
Speaker 2: Guys, stop bullying Big Wheel. This is why he didn't

802
00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:28,440
Speaker 2: make it. He did not are like lego lego arms.

803
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:30,840
Speaker 2: What are you gonna do with those? He was he

804
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:34,480
Speaker 2: was trying something new. Guys. You know, every time, you know,

805
00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:39,920
Speaker 2: in fifty years, people look at Big Wheel like that,

806
00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:43,759
Speaker 2: I had that ready. Wow, oh wow, No, it's just me.

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00:41:43,960 --> 00:41:46,799
Speaker 4: It's it's him looking at you, guys. That's that's it's

808
00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:47,520
Speaker 4: him judging you.

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00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:52,200
Speaker 2: Guys. Do what do you say me for? He said? Florida.

810
00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:57,240
Speaker 2: I like Ryan Gosling. I love Ryan Gosling.

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Speaker 4: Pretty attractive, he's great and were great though, what.

812
00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 1: Give me back my picture? Give me back my picture?

813
00:42:06,600 --> 00:42:09,040
Speaker 1: We already we already did our shiny objects.

814
00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:13,120
Speaker 2: We can't have two. You have my fiance, my fiance's boss.

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00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:17,919
Speaker 1: I'm finally ready for once, right rightly words, okay, here

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00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:23,960
Speaker 1: we go. My fiance's uh, my fiance's boss wife. Wait, boss,

817
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:27,719
Speaker 1: why bosses? Yeah, I don't know why did Yeah, we

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Speaker 1: have the apostrophe over.

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Speaker 2: Here, but okay, perfect.

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Speaker 1: My fiance's boss's wife is a liah. I refuse to

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Speaker 1: have her at my wedding.

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Speaker 2: Cheating involved boss's wife.

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00:42:37,960 --> 00:42:41,200
Speaker 1: Oh no, uh me twenty eight female and my fiance

824
00:42:41,320 --> 00:42:43,879
Speaker 1: is twenty nine male. Got engaged in July of this year.

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00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:47,440
Speaker 4: Hold on, we just got the gifted memberships, h.

826
00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:53,000
Speaker 2: Awkward turtle with the fifty new babies.

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Speaker 4: What well, so I won't add the thirty more because

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Speaker 4: if I had the thirty more mons, I think it

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00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:04,560
Speaker 4: goes past seven. So you make the log So I'm

830
00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:05,759
Speaker 4: gonna write that down.

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00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:08,040
Speaker 2: We are logging. We are, we are in the thirty

832
00:43:08,040 --> 00:43:09,719
Speaker 2: more minute limits. I can't now.

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00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:14,040
Speaker 1: I'm having a strong thirty minutes awquaturtle.

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00:43:14,360 --> 00:43:18,319
Speaker 4: Wow, that's that's probably the most gifted subs I've ever seen.

835
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Speaker 1: I think that's literally the limit. I don't know if

836
00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:24,200
Speaker 1: it's humanly possible to give more gifted memberships.

837
00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:30,600
Speaker 2: And you heard them, folks challenge accepted. Wow, No, we will.

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00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:36,080
Speaker 6: We will recode YouTube in order to donate more gifted memberships.

839
00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:40,319
Speaker 6: So we will hack it to the YouTube servers, hack

840
00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:43,200
Speaker 6: the main frame and deploy the code.

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00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:45,760
Speaker 2: I have nanobots for this occasion.

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00:43:45,960 --> 00:43:50,759
Speaker 4: I'm going to extend the goal, yes, but again I'm

843
00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:52,879
Speaker 4: not going to add the thirty more minutes. Oh yeah,

844
00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:55,680
Speaker 4: extend it just to like seven on the dot. So

845
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:57,839
Speaker 4: I'm going to extend the goal. I love that, I mean,

846
00:43:59,120 --> 00:44:01,080
Speaker 4: and we'll add the thirty more ites to next stream.

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00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:04,480
Speaker 2: Double. That's a two for one. And guess what awkward

848
00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:09,040
Speaker 2: turtle deserves it. I want to see nothing but turtle turtles.

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00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 2: I heard turtle in the turtle for the next twenty

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Speaker 2: four hours.

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00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:17,319
Speaker 4: But also, if you guys do if you guys keep going,

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00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:19,600
Speaker 4: it will be on fifteen minutes. Oh okay, yeah, if

853
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:23,000
Speaker 4: you guys keep going, it'll be fifteen minutes. Come on, Yes,

854
00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:26,000
Speaker 4: let's keep going, keep doing it. Yes, yes, but we'll

855
00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:29,320
Speaker 4: again add those thirty minutes awkward Turtle to the next stream.

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Speaker 1: We got you on Thursday, Yes, and we added a

857
00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:35,160
Speaker 1: little bit of time to this one.

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00:44:35,719 --> 00:44:37,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think does that.

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00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:39,399
Speaker 4: I think I can make it to seventh on the Dot.

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00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:42,960
Speaker 4: I'll make it to seven on the Dot because it's

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00:44:42,960 --> 00:44:45,120
Speaker 4: the new year. But also we'll add to thirty more

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00:44:45,120 --> 00:44:49,239
Speaker 4: minutes to Thursday. There we got today, So sorry for

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00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:51,160
Speaker 4: the interruption, John, You're all good to go now all.

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Speaker 1: Good sentence number two. We got a baby, so we

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Speaker 1: immediately started playing running back. So h Me twenty female

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Speaker 1: and my fiancee twenty nine male got engaged of in

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Speaker 1: July of this year. We immediately started planning, booked a

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00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:06,280
Speaker 1: venue and are slowly getting things into place. We're pretty

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00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:08,480
Speaker 1: mutual on the guest list, as we have both met

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00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:12,560
Speaker 1: each other's friends and family, bar the extended family of

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00:45:12,680 --> 00:45:15,640
Speaker 1: mine because it's basically the size.

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Speaker 2: Of a medium army.

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Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from WINNI friend on the

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Speaker 1: r slash Okay story time set about it. So the

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Speaker 1: conversation has brought up a few times of work colleagues

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Speaker 1: coming to the wedding. He's met a fair few of

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Speaker 1: mine through small events and after work drinks, and I've

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Speaker 1: met a few of his and similar situations, including his

879
00:45:34,160 --> 00:45:40,799
Speaker 1: managing director maybe the evil boss, the final boss potentially.

880
00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:43,759
Speaker 1: I have never met his MD's wife, but I know

881
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:47,280
Speaker 1: she also works at his business. She's head of accounting,

882
00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:51,160
Speaker 1: but seems to think she's a chief operating officer despite

883
00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:54,319
Speaker 1: that not be in her position. Yeah, go back to

884
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:57,840
Speaker 1: your numbers book, lady, no, your place that so no

885
00:45:58,040 --> 00:46:02,600
Speaker 1: PCE saying count these nuts.

886
00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:12,439
Speaker 2: I like it that, I know. I just I don't

887
00:46:12,520 --> 00:46:14,040
Speaker 2: know why I said it that way.

888
00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:16,600
Speaker 3: I mean, I just clearly this is going to be

889
00:46:16,760 --> 00:46:19,640
Speaker 3: the antagonist of the story because this is the horrible

890
00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:23,759
Speaker 3: boss's wife. But I was just like, yeah, go back

891
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:29,040
Speaker 3: to your numbers book, lady, because he's an accountant. Accountants

892
00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:32,280
Speaker 3: are important, though we need accountants.

893
00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:34,719
Speaker 2: No, because I can't do that.

894
00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:39,840
Speaker 1: Let there be anarchical math chaos suit. John is back

895
00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:41,480
Speaker 1: and it's twenty twenty.

896
00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:49,160
Speaker 2: Five, not yet almost for something still reasy. Yeah, yeah,

897
00:46:49,200 --> 00:46:49,640
Speaker 2: thanks for.

898
00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:51,440
Speaker 6: That.

899
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:53,400
Speaker 4: I'm here for many Sure everyone's in line.

900
00:46:53,640 --> 00:46:57,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, wait, I gotta put this back on. There we go.

901
00:46:57,719 --> 00:47:00,040
Speaker 2: Everything is right right, all right, getting back to it.

902
00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:02,839
Speaker 1: So I've heard things about I've heard things about her

903
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:05,239
Speaker 1: from what I gather, she's not the nicest woman. And

904
00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:07,719
Speaker 1: it's not because she's a tough boss. She's very much

905
00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:10,799
Speaker 1: a person that is do as I say, not as

906
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:11,239
Speaker 1: I do.

907
00:47:11,960 --> 00:47:13,120
Speaker 2: Gotta love those kind of people.

908
00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:15,400
Speaker 1: On top of this, I have never once had a

909
00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:18,000
Speaker 1: conversation with her, And even at one point I saw

910
00:47:18,040 --> 00:47:21,799
Speaker 1: my fiance in town and said hi, and she was there,

911
00:47:21,840 --> 00:47:25,040
Speaker 1: and she didn't even acknowledge me. He says it's because

912
00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:26,880
Speaker 1: she didn't know who I was. But the fact that

913
00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:29,239
Speaker 1: I walked out to him and kissed him should have

914
00:47:29,320 --> 00:47:30,479
Speaker 1: been a big enough hint.

915
00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:34,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's not even a hint. That's like a big

916
00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:35,160
Speaker 3: flashing sign.

917
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:35,520
Speaker 1: Hey.

918
00:47:35,600 --> 00:47:39,680
Speaker 2: Maybe she was like, Oh, that's a mistress I'm gonna disrespect.

919
00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:42,680
Speaker 2: Could have could be see that would be a g move.

920
00:47:42,719 --> 00:47:46,400
Speaker 1: Maybe Now for the story that has made me point

921
00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:52,319
Speaker 1: blank not want her at the wedding. Around the pandemic

922
00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:56,239
Speaker 1: times after the second lockdown, my fiance was asked to

923
00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:57,600
Speaker 1: go out and meet some clients.

924
00:47:57,840 --> 00:47:59,160
Speaker 2: One of his clients were.

925
00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:01,439
Speaker 1: Based in my hometown, so I asked if I could

926
00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:03,959
Speaker 1: go with him so I could visit my mom. We

927
00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:06,920
Speaker 1: were driving around to get some breakfast from McDonald from

928
00:48:07,800 --> 00:48:09,160
Speaker 1: unnamed fast food place.

929
00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:13,600
Speaker 2: Yes, and unnamed red and yellow establishment. It was the

930
00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:14,360
Speaker 2: first word of the.

931
00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:17,480
Speaker 1: Next live guys, I've tried it wasn't ready and I

932
00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:20,799
Speaker 1: got caught on Around about when we went to pull off,

933
00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:22,480
Speaker 1: we got stuck in fifth gear, so we had to

934
00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:24,839
Speaker 1: call a mechanic to come grab the car as the.

935
00:48:24,800 --> 00:48:26,600
Speaker 2: Gear selector cable had broken.

936
00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:29,040
Speaker 1: He called his bosses to let them know that he

937
00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:31,160
Speaker 1: wasn't going to be able to drive out that day.

938
00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:33,440
Speaker 1: His CEO is fine with it because you know, if

939
00:48:33,480 --> 00:48:35,480
Speaker 1: these things happened, and let him take the day off.

940
00:48:36,120 --> 00:48:39,480
Speaker 1: Whilst we were waiting for the toe vehicle, his CEO

941
00:48:40,000 --> 00:48:42,839
Speaker 1: must have told his wife what had happened. I think

942
00:48:42,840 --> 00:48:46,400
Speaker 1: for some reason she didn't believe my fiance, so not

943
00:48:46,600 --> 00:48:48,719
Speaker 1: long after that, he got a call from her and

944
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:51,480
Speaker 1: she was asking where exactly he was.

945
00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:57,000
Speaker 2: Uh.

946
00:48:55,600 --> 00:49:01,440
Speaker 1: My fiance, very confused, told her and asked her why,

947
00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:05,080
Speaker 1: of which she had no reason to call, and then

948
00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:07,839
Speaker 1: hung up. We were both so puzzled, but didn't think

949
00:49:07,920 --> 00:49:10,879
Speaker 1: much of it. Fast forward, the tow van came and

950
00:49:11,000 --> 00:49:13,480
Speaker 1: he dropped us at the car and the car back

951
00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:16,759
Speaker 1: to our house. Not even fifteen minutes after being in

952
00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:20,600
Speaker 1: this house, the CEO called and asked him to go

953
00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:23,239
Speaker 1: into the office because they needed.

954
00:49:22,920 --> 00:49:23,840
Speaker 2: Him in work.

955
00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:27,760
Speaker 1: Again, this is weird, but my fiance caught the tram

956
00:49:27,800 --> 00:49:30,960
Speaker 1: into work and left me confused as to what was

957
00:49:31,040 --> 00:49:34,200
Speaker 1: going on. An hour or so later, he called me

958
00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:36,719
Speaker 1: up and I could tell he was raging. He told

959
00:49:36,719 --> 00:49:38,839
Speaker 1: me that his boss and his wife called him into

960
00:49:38,840 --> 00:49:42,920
Speaker 1: a meeting to interrogate him. Because they didn't believe his

961
00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:47,440
Speaker 1: car wasn't drivable. He was so insulted, rightfully so that

962
00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:50,279
Speaker 1: he asked why they'd ever think that he'd lie about that.

963
00:49:50,719 --> 00:49:53,280
Speaker 1: We were in a time where people would use having

964
00:49:54,600 --> 00:49:57,319
Speaker 1: the sickness of the pandemic as a get out of

965
00:49:57,719 --> 00:50:00,200
Speaker 1: jail as a get out of jail card for work

966
00:50:00,320 --> 00:50:03,080
Speaker 1: so often that if he really wanted to, he'd just

967
00:50:03,160 --> 00:50:05,400
Speaker 1: have to call in and say that. If he didn't

968
00:50:05,440 --> 00:50:09,040
Speaker 1: want to work, he told them, he told me. The

969
00:50:09,040 --> 00:50:12,640
Speaker 1: managing director's wife told him that she walked from their

970
00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:16,239
Speaker 1: house with their dogs to our exact spot where we'd

971
00:50:16,239 --> 00:50:19,319
Speaker 1: broken down and didn't see us, so she.

972
00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:21,160
Speaker 2: Knew he was lying.

973
00:50:23,440 --> 00:50:28,400
Speaker 1: Wow, literally took her dogs to walk to the spot

974
00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:32,319
Speaker 1: where his car broken down and was like, actually, I

975
00:50:32,440 --> 00:50:34,319
Speaker 1: didn't do there, So like you're like a totally like

976
00:50:34,360 --> 00:50:35,720
Speaker 1: a liarn I got you.

977
00:50:36,200 --> 00:50:38,560
Speaker 2: Like, if your car's not working, why aren't you in it?

978
00:50:39,560 --> 00:50:39,759
Speaker 3: Udo?

979
00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:44,680
Speaker 2: I don't know that I got me? I mean, am

980
00:50:44,680 --> 00:50:46,880
Speaker 2: I wrong? Is that not? What she's saying? Is your

981
00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:47,760
Speaker 2: refrigerator running?

982
00:50:48,719 --> 00:50:48,959
Speaker 5: Yeah?

983
00:50:49,880 --> 00:50:52,640
Speaker 2: Good? That's what they always say. Good.

984
00:50:55,920 --> 00:50:58,400
Speaker 1: It was at this point I heard his voice crack

985
00:50:59,120 --> 00:51:02,360
Speaker 1: and I knew he was a whole new level of angry.

986
00:51:03,320 --> 00:51:08,040
Speaker 2: I'm really mad. Gosh, my guys stunning.

987
00:51:09,239 --> 00:51:12,279
Speaker 1: I then started to get angry because they'd pushed him

988
00:51:12,280 --> 00:51:14,920
Speaker 1: to that, and he then went on to tell me

989
00:51:15,080 --> 00:51:17,920
Speaker 1: they threatened to fire him if they found out he

990
00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:20,719
Speaker 1: was lying, and then sent him off his way.

991
00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:22,279
Speaker 2: To work for the rest of the day.

992
00:51:23,600 --> 00:51:27,160
Speaker 1: Wow, now, ladies, I know you can relate when I

993
00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:31,000
Speaker 1: tell you, there's no feeling that matches the maternal rage

994
00:51:31,040 --> 00:51:33,080
Speaker 1: of wanting to protect a loved one that's been hurt.

995
00:51:33,520 --> 00:51:35,360
Speaker 1: In that moment, I was ready to go into his

996
00:51:35,400 --> 00:51:39,000
Speaker 1: office and throw hands with his bee, but I reframed.

997
00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:41,879
Speaker 1: I spoke with him and calmed him down because they

998
00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:45,719
Speaker 1: really weren't worth rising to. I made him put in

999
00:51:45,840 --> 00:51:48,760
Speaker 1: rioting that he won't be going out to visit clients

1000
00:51:48,840 --> 00:51:51,439
Speaker 1: free of charge anymore, and he is to be paid

1001
00:51:51,480 --> 00:51:54,560
Speaker 1: additional by the mile, and they would have to supplement

1002
00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:57,840
Speaker 1: for the business expense of the car insurance, of which

1003
00:51:58,000 --> 00:52:00,160
Speaker 1: I think they threw him a bit because he was

1004
00:52:00,160 --> 00:52:04,279
Speaker 1: their only sales runner, but they did agree. Fast forward again,

1005
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:06,800
Speaker 1: My fiance and is Empdy talked things out after he

1006
00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:08,920
Speaker 1: realized that he was telling the truth, and his boss

1007
00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:14,440
Speaker 1: apologized you think his wife would apologize, But did she, Dakota.

1008
00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:17,560
Speaker 1: Do we think the wife, who after the CEO said

1009
00:52:17,560 --> 00:52:19,640
Speaker 1: it was fine, was like no, no, no, no, no, we need

1010
00:52:19,640 --> 00:52:20,680
Speaker 1: to torture you.

1011
00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:21,320
Speaker 2: You're a liar.

1012
00:52:21,480 --> 00:52:23,279
Speaker 1: Do you think she's gonna be like, you know what,

1013
00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:25,560
Speaker 1: my bad. You were totally in the right and that

1014
00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:26,480
Speaker 1: was totally my fault.

1015
00:52:27,200 --> 00:52:29,240
Speaker 2: Nah, because she's gonna be like, oh, I walked past

1016
00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:32,800
Speaker 2: your car. It looked fine. Dog, I've seen your car.

1017
00:52:32,960 --> 00:52:34,320
Speaker 2: It looks drivable.

1018
00:52:34,480 --> 00:52:38,080
Speaker 1: You're not only lying in front of God, You're lying

1019
00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:40,280
Speaker 1: in front of my dogs.

1020
00:52:41,520 --> 00:52:42,080
Speaker 2: Not the dogs.

1021
00:52:42,080 --> 00:52:42,960
Speaker 4: Those are my dogs.

1022
00:52:43,080 --> 00:52:48,480
Speaker 2: How the dogs dare you? Uh? No, not at all.

1023
00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:51,560
Speaker 1: I got curious as to how she saw us, and

1024
00:52:51,640 --> 00:52:54,400
Speaker 1: after going to his mv's house once, I decided to

1025
00:52:54,680 --> 00:52:58,040
Speaker 1: bring up Google maps how long it would take to

1026
00:52:58,239 --> 00:53:01,600
Speaker 1: walk from their house to there's the spot we broke down.

1027
00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:05,799
Speaker 1: We're doing some some uh investigation.

1028
00:53:05,160 --> 00:53:08,560
Speaker 3: Over here, doing some high school math problems where it's

1029
00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:12,040
Speaker 3: like if the distance between point A and point B is.

1030
00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:15,359
Speaker 2: Relative to blah blah blah. It's been a long time,

1031
00:53:15,520 --> 00:53:16,160
Speaker 2: I don't remember.

1032
00:53:16,400 --> 00:53:18,400
Speaker 4: It's like I'm like, oh, who would do that in

1033
00:53:18,400 --> 00:53:20,440
Speaker 4: a math equation? And like Oh, now I'm the person

1034
00:53:20,440 --> 00:53:21,440
Speaker 4: in the math equation.

1035
00:53:21,520 --> 00:53:23,439
Speaker 2: Yeah right, And guess how long it was to Koda.

1036
00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:26,920
Speaker 2: I don't know. Two hours. Oh, she didn't do that.

1037
00:53:27,080 --> 00:53:30,279
Speaker 1: It would take two hours. And you'll want to know

1038
00:53:30,520 --> 00:53:33,440
Speaker 1: how long we were waiting for recovery.

1039
00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:35,200
Speaker 2: Folks, forty five minutes.

1040
00:53:35,719 --> 00:53:39,520
Speaker 1: M Yeah, there was no way she walked to us,

1041
00:53:39,880 --> 00:53:44,480
Speaker 1: not unless she's the bloody flash. After I found out

1042
00:53:44,520 --> 00:53:47,640
Speaker 1: she lied, I despised her for having the audacity to

1043
00:53:47,680 --> 00:53:50,520
Speaker 1: call my man a liar when she stood there made

1044
00:53:50,600 --> 00:53:56,439
Speaker 1: him feel like crap, all whilst flying herself. So now

1045
00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:58,960
Speaker 1: you know the backstory, you can understand why I don't

1046
00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:00,480
Speaker 1: want her near my wedding.

1047
00:54:01,400 --> 00:54:02,759
Speaker 2: It makes sense. It makes sense.

1048
00:54:03,280 --> 00:54:05,239
Speaker 1: I told my fiance I didn't want it there based

1049
00:54:05,239 --> 00:54:08,000
Speaker 1: on that story, the fact that she's never apologized, and

1050
00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:09,960
Speaker 1: the fact that I've never spoken to her, and that

1051
00:54:10,040 --> 00:54:12,799
Speaker 1: she's a horrible human. He told me that he just

1052
00:54:12,840 --> 00:54:15,440
Speaker 1: wants me to suck it up because basically he wants

1053
00:54:15,440 --> 00:54:18,520
Speaker 1: his boss there and she won't let him come if.

1054
00:54:18,360 --> 00:54:22,080
Speaker 2: She isn't invited. It is the boss's why.

1055
00:54:22,000 --> 00:54:26,600
Speaker 3: Why do you want your boss there? Be Let's be real,

1056
00:54:27,200 --> 00:54:28,760
Speaker 3: why do you want your boss at your wedding.

1057
00:54:29,480 --> 00:54:30,480
Speaker 2: I have.

1058
00:54:32,680 --> 00:54:35,799
Speaker 3: No desire for any of my boss I mean, well

1059
00:54:35,840 --> 00:54:43,960
Speaker 3: except for with some exception. Yeah, maybe with some exception. Now, actually,

1060
00:54:44,320 --> 00:54:46,640
Speaker 3: now I can think there's only there's three. Okay, I

1061
00:54:46,640 --> 00:54:49,319
Speaker 3: guess I'm not a good sample size. I'm not a

1062
00:54:49,360 --> 00:54:55,600
Speaker 3: good sample for this because bosses. Yes, technically yes.

1063
00:54:56,000 --> 00:54:58,319
Speaker 1: Well what's what's what's the percentage though? How many total

1064
00:54:58,360 --> 00:54:59,200
Speaker 1: bosses are we talking?

1065
00:54:59,239 --> 00:55:01,480
Speaker 3: Oh that's like even that's like maybe ten percent of

1066
00:55:01,520 --> 00:55:04,160
Speaker 3: my boss Okay, so only only ten percent passing?

1067
00:55:04,239 --> 00:55:07,319
Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, that's that's still you know, pretty low, pretty low,

1068
00:55:07,400 --> 00:55:10,800
Speaker 1: So still passing. I mean, but this boss in the

1069
00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:16,680
Speaker 1: whole list of our our husband to be's bosses. Point

1070
00:55:16,719 --> 00:55:19,520
Speaker 1: point being your own wedding is not the time to

1071
00:55:19,560 --> 00:55:21,040
Speaker 1: try to be like I'm gonna get in good with

1072
00:55:21,080 --> 00:55:21,640
Speaker 1: the company.

1073
00:55:22,480 --> 00:55:25,840
Speaker 2: Like, just have your wedding for yourself. Just enjoy.

1074
00:55:26,000 --> 00:55:28,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, and if he has a terrible wife, don't invite

1075
00:55:28,200 --> 00:55:28,640
Speaker 3: your boss.

1076
00:55:28,920 --> 00:55:33,560
Speaker 2: Don't do it. Sophie account Kean, what what watch your mouth?

1077
00:55:33,680 --> 00:55:36,120
Speaker 2: Watch his mouth? Of what would everyone say? Everyone's saying?

1078
00:55:36,200 --> 00:55:37,880
Speaker 2: Tread carefully to go to what did I do? I

1079
00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:45,000
Speaker 2: don't know? Oh? I see what did I say? What

1080
00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:48,080
Speaker 2: should we should tell? Or should we torture torture?

1081
00:55:48,600 --> 00:55:50,319
Speaker 4: I like, let's let's see, let's give him a little

1082
00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:51,880
Speaker 4: We're just gonna have We're just gonna edge you a

1083
00:55:51,960 --> 00:55:56,000
Speaker 4: little bit, No till your im We're just gonna.

1084
00:55:55,840 --> 00:55:58,080
Speaker 1: Edd you a little bit, just a little bit, because

1085
00:55:58,120 --> 00:56:02,279
Speaker 1: it's fun. One you're good, by the way?

1086
00:56:03,719 --> 00:56:11,319
Speaker 2: Is he is? He? Really? But he got there? No,

1087
00:56:11,680 --> 00:56:14,799
Speaker 2: don't do that. Don't be doing that. Got him.

1088
00:56:16,120 --> 00:56:17,960
Speaker 4: I can't take him anywhere, I can't take anything.

1089
00:56:19,040 --> 00:56:20,920
Speaker 2: What do you say? Are you thinking about the same thing.

1090
00:56:21,840 --> 00:56:23,000
Speaker 2: Let's leave the people wondering.

1091
00:56:23,040 --> 00:56:26,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, let's leave us during now so confused.

1092
00:56:26,680 --> 00:56:29,560
Speaker 1: Opie said, that's stupid. He's a grown man who can

1093
00:56:29,560 --> 00:56:32,600
Speaker 1: do what he wants. Uh oh, And if either of

1094
00:56:32,600 --> 00:56:34,680
Speaker 1: them need an explanation, they are welcome to talk to

1095
00:56:34,719 --> 00:56:35,160
Speaker 1: me about that.

1096
00:56:35,920 --> 00:56:37,160
Speaker 2: My fiance then got.

1097
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Speaker 1: Mad and told me he wouldn't be able to invite

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00:56:39,640 --> 00:56:42,680
Speaker 1: anyone from his work if they didn't come. I asked why,

1099
00:56:42,719 --> 00:56:45,799
Speaker 1: and he said it would be awkward in work. Afterwards,

1100
00:56:47,200 --> 00:56:50,239
Speaker 1: I told him if it's awkward, then that's down to

1101
00:56:50,320 --> 00:56:53,120
Speaker 1: his boss's wife, not us, and that she shouldn't be

1102
00:56:53,160 --> 00:56:57,160
Speaker 1: such an ahole. And you know what, ladies and gentlemen,

1103
00:56:57,320 --> 00:57:01,239
Speaker 1: you shouldn't be an a whole because you can listen

1104
00:57:01,239 --> 00:57:06,719
Speaker 1: to full episodes with stories like this. Just go to Spotify,

1105
00:57:06,760 --> 00:57:09,160
Speaker 1: Apple podcast, or your favorite podcast player and search.

1106
00:57:09,480 --> 00:57:11,839
Speaker 2: Okay, story time. Don't be an ahole, guys, that's all

1107
00:57:11,840 --> 00:57:13,640
Speaker 2: you gotta do. Don't do it, and then you get

1108
00:57:13,640 --> 00:57:17,280
Speaker 2: the no a whole seal of approval. Everyone wants that

1109
00:57:17,400 --> 00:57:21,440
Speaker 2: John John himself. Everyone's been saying, what is it the.

1110
00:57:23,960 --> 00:57:27,040
Speaker 4: Is this the strong stream? Like everyone's losing it.

1111
00:57:27,360 --> 00:57:31,440
Speaker 1: I like how you went. Everyone's been saying, have you

1112
00:57:31,560 --> 00:57:33,520
Speaker 1: been doing this all day two through your country?

1113
00:57:33,560 --> 00:57:33,720
Speaker 4: Oh?

1114
00:57:33,760 --> 00:57:36,240
Speaker 2: You look like the the what's it called? Uncle Sam?

1115
00:57:36,400 --> 00:57:36,880
Speaker 2: Uncle Man?

1116
00:57:37,080 --> 00:57:42,760
Speaker 3: Beautiful, Joe beautiful? Did you just drop beautiful Joe oh Man?

1117
00:57:43,000 --> 00:57:47,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know who that is. Wow. Actually, maybe we're.

1118
00:57:47,160 --> 00:57:54,080
Speaker 1: Not gonna let's talk about the story here. Dakota. I'm

1119
00:57:54,080 --> 00:57:55,040
Speaker 1: thinking everyone sucks her.

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00:57:55,080 --> 00:57:58,840
Speaker 2: Do you agree? Because fiance was like, I can invite

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00:57:58,880 --> 00:58:01,040
Speaker 2: whoever I will. I'm gonna at my boss and everyone

1122
00:58:01,040 --> 00:58:03,000
Speaker 2: will be awkward. If I don't invite everyone.

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00:58:03,240 --> 00:58:05,120
Speaker 3: I do kind of get that where it's like it

1124
00:58:05,160 --> 00:58:07,800
Speaker 3: could be awkward. It depends on the company, depends on

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00:58:07,840 --> 00:58:08,320
Speaker 3: what kind.

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00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:10,840
Speaker 2: Of job it is. We don't really know anything about it.

1127
00:58:10,840 --> 00:58:16,560
Speaker 2: He's in sales. It can get very clicky. Like to earlier,

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00:58:16,720 --> 00:58:18,800
Speaker 2: there is definitely like a go ahead.

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00:58:19,000 --> 00:58:22,040
Speaker 1: I was just gonna say, uh, hey, this is your wedding,

1130
00:58:22,480 --> 00:58:24,440
Speaker 1: do we need to use it for it sounds like

1131
00:58:24,480 --> 00:58:28,160
Speaker 1: he's like politicking with it with the company, and it's like,

1132
00:58:28,240 --> 00:58:29,680
Speaker 1: you know what, just enjoy the day.

1133
00:58:29,760 --> 00:58:33,280
Speaker 3: Maybe yeah, it's like, but then if you do have

1134
00:58:33,320 --> 00:58:35,520
Speaker 3: friends that you want from your job, that you're like

1135
00:58:35,640 --> 00:58:37,840
Speaker 3: that you would want there, then it does make it

1136
00:58:37,880 --> 00:58:40,160
Speaker 3: hard because if you don't want the boss feeling like

1137
00:58:40,200 --> 00:58:42,320
Speaker 3: you don't like him, because then he's not gonna like you.

1138
00:58:42,520 --> 00:58:45,040
Speaker 3: It's just like, it's a fact you never want your

1139
00:58:45,080 --> 00:58:47,240
Speaker 3: boss to not like you because it's gonna make your

1140
00:58:47,320 --> 00:58:50,880
Speaker 3: job more miserable. Like that's just the way of the

1141
00:58:51,080 --> 00:58:54,360
Speaker 3: that's the natural order of things. But I don't think

1142
00:58:55,080 --> 00:58:57,840
Speaker 3: necessarily the problem here isn't even the boss.

1143
00:58:57,840 --> 00:58:58,560
Speaker 2: It's his wife.

1144
00:58:59,640 --> 00:59:02,280
Speaker 3: So if you can find I have a contingency that

1145
00:59:02,400 --> 00:59:07,080
Speaker 3: somehow keeps the wife from like becoming like the coo

1146
00:59:07,200 --> 00:59:10,040
Speaker 3: of the wedding, or should I say the fake coo

1147
00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:12,640
Speaker 3: of the wedding, She's like, I have some numbers to

1148
00:59:12,680 --> 00:59:15,120
Speaker 3: crunch here, let's really crunch the numbers.

1149
00:59:14,800 --> 00:59:18,280
Speaker 2: On your wedding. You know what, she's the looks she's

1150
00:59:18,320 --> 00:59:21,800
Speaker 2: calling right now and we just hung up. She's the CFO.

1151
00:59:22,080 --> 00:59:29,640
Speaker 2: She fake officer. Yeah, she fake CFO. She fake officer, chief,

1152
00:59:29,680 --> 00:59:32,640
Speaker 2: fake officer, c che.

1153
00:59:33,240 --> 00:59:36,440
Speaker 1: But honestly, okay, you know what, even the boss aside,

1154
00:59:36,600 --> 00:59:39,040
Speaker 1: I feel like the way that.

1155
00:59:40,520 --> 00:59:43,320
Speaker 2: Her fiance is communicating it sucks.

1156
00:59:44,520 --> 00:59:47,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, like it's very much not like, hey,

1157
00:59:48,240 --> 00:59:52,320
Speaker 1: I totally get your perspective, but it'll it'll literally make

1158
00:59:52,400 --> 00:59:55,040
Speaker 1: my work life a living hell, like is you know,

1159
00:59:55,080 --> 00:59:56,480
Speaker 1: could we find some sort of compromises.

1160
00:59:56,480 --> 00:59:59,360
Speaker 2: She's like, I'm gonna buy it, And no, I don't

1161
00:59:59,360 --> 01:00:00,640
Speaker 2: get what you say. Do we did?

1162
01:00:00,640 --> 01:00:04,040
Speaker 3: He say that he would compromise, so yeah, by not

1163
01:00:04,080 --> 01:00:05,720
Speaker 3: inviting anyone from his job.

1164
01:00:06,120 --> 01:00:06,840
Speaker 2: Okay, here we go.

1165
01:00:06,920 --> 01:00:09,880
Speaker 1: So, uh, the line was my fiance then got mad

1166
01:00:09,960 --> 01:00:12,480
Speaker 1: and told me he won't be able to invite anyone

1167
01:00:12,480 --> 01:00:14,959
Speaker 1: from his work if they didn't come. I asked why,

1168
01:00:15,040 --> 01:00:18,440
Speaker 1: and he said it would be awkward in work after.

1169
01:00:19,760 --> 01:00:24,400
Speaker 3: So not so no, and it didn't compromise, got mad

1170
01:00:24,480 --> 01:00:27,560
Speaker 3: and then use that as his reason for being mad,

1171
01:00:27,880 --> 01:00:28,240
Speaker 3: Like I.

1172
01:00:28,160 --> 01:00:31,840
Speaker 1: Think he could have he could have still like gotten

1173
01:00:31,880 --> 01:00:35,160
Speaker 1: what he wanted, but been more empathetic in the common

1174
01:00:35,200 --> 01:00:38,440
Speaker 1: and at least heard OPR and communicated it in a

1175
01:00:38,480 --> 01:00:38,959
Speaker 1: better way.

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01:00:39,080 --> 01:00:42,280
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, at least yeah, yeah, yeah, he definitely could

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01:00:42,280 --> 01:00:42,520
Speaker 3: have not.

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01:00:42,640 --> 01:00:46,640
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, that seems not very positive. I think

1179
01:00:46,680 --> 01:00:49,000
Speaker 2: everyone sucks here. But the story over, I think no,

1180
01:00:49,080 --> 01:00:50,120
Speaker 2: I think that's yeah.

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01:00:50,240 --> 01:00:53,800
Speaker 1: Still warton sill warton ok so Obie says. He then

1182
01:00:53,840 --> 01:00:57,120
Speaker 1: switched on me and said it was my fault and

1183
01:00:57,160 --> 01:00:59,360
Speaker 1: that I was being too stubborn and I should just

1184
01:00:59,440 --> 01:01:02,120
Speaker 1: let her come to the wedding. I've held my ground

1185
01:01:02,120 --> 01:01:04,480
Speaker 1: and said no, but now I feel bad because, just

1186
01:01:04,560 --> 01:01:08,360
Speaker 1: like me, he's stubborn. He said he won't invite anyone

1187
01:01:08,360 --> 01:01:11,480
Speaker 1: from his work who who we actually would want there

1188
01:01:11,600 --> 01:01:14,200
Speaker 1: because I don't want his boss's wife there and I

1189
01:01:14,240 --> 01:01:16,160
Speaker 1: don't want him to do that. I don't know what

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01:01:16,200 --> 01:01:18,560
Speaker 1: to do because he does have some lovely colleagues, but

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01:01:18,600 --> 01:01:20,240
Speaker 1: I can't stand his boss's wife.

1192
01:01:21,080 --> 01:01:28,280
Speaker 2: Am I the a hole? Is OPV a hole? Actually? Yeah,

1193
01:01:28,280 --> 01:01:30,440
Speaker 2: everyone sucks about Ope, That's what I meant to say earlier.

1194
01:01:30,520 --> 01:01:33,040
Speaker 3: I don't know why is op so concerned about it,

1195
01:01:34,280 --> 01:01:37,120
Speaker 3: like the boss. I mean, it's not even OP doesn't

1196
01:01:37,160 --> 01:01:39,920
Speaker 3: work there. Op didn't have to go into the office

1197
01:01:39,960 --> 01:01:42,960
Speaker 3: and be accused of being a liar. OPS just caught

1198
01:01:43,000 --> 01:01:45,680
Speaker 3: up on the fact that the wife hasn't apologized, which

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01:01:46,600 --> 01:01:49,320
Speaker 3: who cares her apology would be meanless because she probably

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01:01:49,320 --> 01:01:50,040
Speaker 3: wouldn't even mean it.

1201
01:01:50,200 --> 01:01:54,440
Speaker 2: True. To play Devil's advocate, I would say, it's.

1202
01:01:54,280 --> 01:01:57,040
Speaker 1: Like, hey, you don't want someone you don't like her,

1203
01:01:57,120 --> 01:01:59,400
Speaker 1: you feel brings negative energy to you at your wedding.

1204
01:02:00,480 --> 01:02:02,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, but if it also means you can't have all

1205
01:02:02,600 --> 01:02:04,240
Speaker 3: the people that you do like at your wedding at

1206
01:02:04,280 --> 01:02:06,680
Speaker 3: the same time, that's.

1207
01:02:06,560 --> 01:02:08,200
Speaker 2: The thing is because it is it is true.

1208
01:02:08,240 --> 01:02:11,560
Speaker 3: If you don't invite your what your your boss to

1209
01:02:11,600 --> 01:02:13,640
Speaker 3: your wedding and then he finds out it's because you

1210
01:02:13,680 --> 01:02:17,680
Speaker 3: hate his wife, dude, your days are.

1211
01:02:17,680 --> 01:02:20,320
Speaker 2: Numbered now should we do? Especially in sales?

1212
01:02:20,960 --> 01:02:25,680
Speaker 1: In sales, dude, you're just this company where literally the

1213
01:02:25,760 --> 01:02:27,880
Speaker 1: CEO is like, oh no, that's totally fine, no worries,

1214
01:02:27,920 --> 01:02:29,840
Speaker 1: and then the wife got in his ear and.

1215
01:02:29,720 --> 01:02:32,240
Speaker 2: He's like, come down here right now. Yeah, you might

1216
01:02:32,240 --> 01:02:33,880
Speaker 2: be fired if.

1217
01:02:33,800 --> 01:02:35,160
Speaker 1: You finds out you don't like his wife. It's you're

1218
01:02:35,160 --> 01:02:39,080
Speaker 1: getting squeezed out. So I think I think you just

1219
01:02:39,120 --> 01:02:43,080
Speaker 1: got to swallow it. Swallow that just because it's so irrelevant.

1220
01:02:43,240 --> 01:02:45,960
Speaker 1: Just like she'll be lost in the shuffle. Put her

1221
01:02:46,000 --> 01:02:48,520
Speaker 1: in the back, yeah, wherever she is, just get her

1222
01:02:48,560 --> 01:02:49,480
Speaker 1: away from you.

1223
01:02:49,480 --> 01:02:51,760
Speaker 2: You have control over that. I would assume that's true.

1224
01:02:51,800 --> 01:02:54,200
Speaker 2: That's true. It's not like she's going to be front

1225
01:02:54,280 --> 01:02:54,960
Speaker 2: and center.

1226
01:02:55,240 --> 01:02:58,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, and if she does try to be, then you

1227
01:02:58,080 --> 01:03:01,880
Speaker 1: can make a you know, make it an issue, you

1228
01:03:01,880 --> 01:03:03,520
Speaker 1: can press the issue then.

1229
01:03:03,840 --> 01:03:06,400
Speaker 2: But until then, just ignore. She doesn't even exist.

1230
01:03:07,240 --> 01:03:10,080
Speaker 3: It's all the other guys that won't be able to

1231
01:03:10,120 --> 01:03:12,680
Speaker 3: come because of the politics, because yeah, that is politics,

1232
01:03:13,040 --> 01:03:17,520
Speaker 3: but like it's also just the reality of like yeah,

1233
01:03:17,880 --> 01:03:20,160
Speaker 3: especially just because I'm thinking of the sales jobs that

1234
01:03:20,200 --> 01:03:22,840
Speaker 3: I've had, and it is it's like it's if you

1235
01:03:22,920 --> 01:03:25,960
Speaker 3: get on people's bad sides, like it.

1236
01:03:26,040 --> 01:03:28,080
Speaker 2: Sucks, Yeah, your job gets worse.

1237
01:03:28,280 --> 01:03:29,840
Speaker 4: A lot of people in the comments are just like,

1238
01:03:29,960 --> 01:03:32,440
Speaker 4: let it go for the day, Just let it go.

1239
01:03:32,400 --> 01:03:36,160
Speaker 2: For the day. I yeah, I need to finish this

1240
01:03:36,240 --> 01:03:36,600
Speaker 2: story here.

1241
01:03:36,680 --> 01:03:42,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, someone said that Op's being really petty, but I

1242
01:03:42,520 --> 01:03:43,000
Speaker 4: don't know.

1243
01:03:43,760 --> 01:03:45,640
Speaker 3: I don't even know if petty's the right word.

1244
01:03:46,200 --> 01:03:47,720
Speaker 1: Well, let's see, we've got we got a little bit

1245
01:03:47,760 --> 01:03:50,320
Speaker 1: on the story left, or some relevant commentars on my

1246
01:03:50,440 --> 01:03:53,280
Speaker 1: side who might have their own take comment number one.

1247
01:03:53,720 --> 01:03:56,200
Speaker 1: Inviting someone who is consistently cold and rude to your

1248
01:03:56,240 --> 01:03:59,880
Speaker 1: fiancee to your wedding may have unintended consequences. Think of

1249
01:04:00,080 --> 01:04:03,080
Speaker 1: out how their behavior could impact your fiance's work environment

1250
01:04:03,120 --> 01:04:06,360
Speaker 1: and relationships with colleagues, including the MD, in the long run.

1251
01:04:06,440 --> 01:04:07,040
Speaker 2: That's so funny.

1252
01:04:07,040 --> 01:04:10,080
Speaker 1: I thought they were saying the opposite, Like think about

1253
01:04:10,120 --> 01:04:12,880
Speaker 1: how it might make you know, like ope feel to

1254
01:04:12,880 --> 01:04:14,720
Speaker 1: have someone at their wedding, But they're like, no, think

1255
01:04:14,800 --> 01:04:18,560
Speaker 1: about fiance's work life, like being ruined for the rest

1256
01:04:18,560 --> 01:04:19,000
Speaker 1: of his day.

1257
01:04:19,000 --> 01:04:21,360
Speaker 2: You career with the money, you can't mess the money up,

1258
01:04:22,160 --> 01:04:26,040
Speaker 2: can't mess the money up over because then person's winning.

1259
01:04:26,600 --> 01:04:28,400
Speaker 2: All this goes back to like there's this weird like

1260
01:04:28,440 --> 01:04:30,440
Speaker 2: circles all the way back around, and if you like

1261
01:04:30,640 --> 01:04:33,120
Speaker 2: make all these decisions over one person who you don't

1262
01:04:33,160 --> 01:04:37,000
Speaker 2: want to be around, they're actually they're still winning. They're

1263
01:04:37,080 --> 01:04:39,120
Speaker 2: still they're they're.

1264
01:04:38,920 --> 01:04:41,400
Speaker 3: Impacting your life so much that now you're making decisions

1265
01:04:41,520 --> 01:04:43,160
Speaker 3: just based upon their existence.

1266
01:04:44,120 --> 01:04:48,800
Speaker 1: Like this is impossible for me, wow, Opie says, or

1267
01:04:48,880 --> 01:04:51,680
Speaker 1: a commenter says, it's possible. That you may not even

1268
01:04:51,680 --> 01:04:54,040
Speaker 1: interact with the MD's wife during the wedding, and she

1269
01:04:54,080 --> 01:04:56,640
Speaker 1: may not even attend the ceremony. So ask yourself, is

1270
01:04:56,680 --> 01:05:00,840
Speaker 1: standing firm on inviting her really worth potent actually jeopardizing

1271
01:05:00,880 --> 01:05:04,440
Speaker 1: your fiance's work life and causing him undue stress and anxiety.

1272
01:05:04,800 --> 01:05:07,520
Speaker 1: Consider what's more important to you being right or ensuring

1273
01:05:07,560 --> 01:05:10,040
Speaker 1: your fiance's happiness and well being. Do you want him

1274
01:05:10,080 --> 01:05:12,520
Speaker 1: to be calling you every week anxious and upset because

1275
01:05:12,520 --> 01:05:15,480
Speaker 1: of the uncomfortable work environment you've created. Take a step

1276
01:05:15,480 --> 01:05:17,520
Speaker 1: back and think about the potential long term effects of

1277
01:05:17,560 --> 01:05:20,160
Speaker 1: your decision. Is inviting someone who is route to your

1278
01:05:20,160 --> 01:05:23,760
Speaker 1: fiance really worth the risk? I understand your reason, and

1279
01:05:23,920 --> 01:05:27,040
Speaker 1: my petty self would would call her lie out, But

1280
01:05:28,280 --> 01:05:31,200
Speaker 1: him having a job is worth more than calling her

1281
01:05:31,200 --> 01:05:34,200
Speaker 1: out that I'm still undecided.

1282
01:05:34,200 --> 01:05:36,160
Speaker 2: But that's convincing argument. But we're gonna get into comment

1283
01:05:36,200 --> 01:05:37,479
Speaker 2: to number two. Hmm.

1284
01:05:38,160 --> 01:05:41,280
Speaker 1: If your fiance won't stand up and have a firm

1285
01:05:41,320 --> 01:05:44,400
Speaker 1: professional boundary with these people, I don't think you should

1286
01:05:44,440 --> 01:05:45,440
Speaker 1: be fighting that battle.

1287
01:05:45,800 --> 01:05:49,600
Speaker 2: This is sticky. I do understand where you're coming from.

1288
01:05:50,440 --> 01:05:52,000
Speaker 2: Nice I did effort to go to nice.

1289
01:05:52,800 --> 01:05:57,120
Speaker 1: I wouldn't want them to be there either. Why why

1290
01:05:57,240 --> 01:06:00,520
Speaker 1: is your fiance hell bent on having them there? Image

1291
01:06:00,560 --> 01:06:03,520
Speaker 1: slash promo seems like too much, So we've got kind

1292
01:06:03,520 --> 01:06:04,760
Speaker 1: of like one take from each side.

1293
01:06:04,800 --> 01:06:09,040
Speaker 3: I can answer that, and it's it's because it's not

1294
01:06:09,160 --> 01:06:12,920
Speaker 3: in a vacuum. It's like he because if you invite

1295
01:06:13,400 --> 01:06:17,080
Speaker 3: everyone but your boss, your boss can find out your

1296
01:06:17,080 --> 01:06:20,800
Speaker 3: boss is gonna and then that impacts your work. I

1297
01:06:20,800 --> 01:06:23,080
Speaker 3: don't even think it's about like making it himself look

1298
01:06:23,080 --> 01:06:25,960
Speaker 3: good or getting a promotion. It's literally just if we

1299
01:06:26,040 --> 01:06:29,320
Speaker 3: don't invite him, we can't invite the rest of my

1300
01:06:29,600 --> 01:06:32,400
Speaker 3: friends from work, who I would assume you'd want to

1301
01:06:32,440 --> 01:06:33,120
Speaker 3: be at your wedding.

1302
01:06:33,360 --> 01:06:35,920
Speaker 2: Okay, I think I've finally reached my decision.

1303
01:06:35,920 --> 01:06:37,680
Speaker 1: There's a little bit left on the story, but I

1304
01:06:37,720 --> 01:06:42,800
Speaker 1: will say, invite the wife, put her in the back,

1305
01:06:42,840 --> 01:06:46,240
Speaker 1: and build it so she can't be in there.

1306
01:06:47,000 --> 01:06:51,320
Speaker 2: In theory, we should absolutely just kick the wife out. Sorry,

1307
01:06:51,320 --> 01:06:53,280
Speaker 2: I just had a brain blast. Go ahead, blast me,

1308
01:06:54,560 --> 01:06:56,640
Speaker 2: just yo yo.

1309
01:06:56,680 --> 01:07:01,480
Speaker 4: Brame blast Are you saying blast me?

1310
01:07:01,840 --> 01:07:02,400
Speaker 2: Blast me?

1311
01:07:02,600 --> 01:07:06,720
Speaker 3: You have to sit down with your friends from work

1312
01:07:07,160 --> 01:07:09,520
Speaker 3: and be like, I need you guys to run point

1313
01:07:09,560 --> 01:07:12,439
Speaker 3: on the boss's wife, keep her distracted, keep her away

1314
01:07:12,480 --> 01:07:13,280
Speaker 3: from my wife.

1315
01:07:13,600 --> 01:07:17,240
Speaker 2: If you see Boss's wife, if you see the coo.

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01:07:17,000 --> 01:07:20,560
Speaker 1: Trying to get involved with the wedding business, yeah, get

1317
01:07:20,640 --> 01:07:21,480
Speaker 1: in the middle of it.

1318
01:07:21,680 --> 01:07:25,000
Speaker 3: Distract her, get her somewhere else. Yes, I was gonna

1319
01:07:25,000 --> 01:07:26,240
Speaker 3: say the homies.

1320
01:07:25,960 --> 01:07:28,720
Speaker 4: Like, even at your wedding, you're gonna be having so

1321
01:07:28,720 --> 01:07:33,480
Speaker 4: many other people surrounding you that she'd probably just not

1322
01:07:33,600 --> 01:07:36,800
Speaker 4: even be visible, like you'll probably see her like Okay,

1323
01:07:36,800 --> 01:07:38,840
Speaker 4: I don't get it, Like next thing, Yeah, I'd be

1324
01:07:38,840 --> 01:07:39,480
Speaker 4: so distracted.

1325
01:07:39,640 --> 01:07:43,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think again theory kick her out, but just

1326
01:07:43,320 --> 01:07:47,640
Speaker 1: the pure reality, all of the little bits and pieces

1327
01:07:47,920 --> 01:07:51,720
Speaker 1: of context in this situation, I think ultimately it would

1328
01:07:51,760 --> 01:07:54,919
Speaker 1: be better off to just invite her and again, do

1329
01:07:55,080 --> 01:07:59,440
Speaker 1: everything you can. To Dakota's point, get the homies in involved,

1330
01:07:59,480 --> 01:08:00,240
Speaker 1: help her in.

1331
01:08:00,240 --> 01:08:02,560
Speaker 2: The back, whatever the case might be, to have her

1332
01:08:02,720 --> 01:08:03,280
Speaker 2: out of her way.

1333
01:08:03,400 --> 01:08:04,919
Speaker 4: So it's one of those things that just bite your tongue.

1334
01:08:05,040 --> 01:08:05,880
Speaker 4: It's literally just bite.

1335
01:08:05,720 --> 01:08:09,240
Speaker 1: Your and but also to fiance communicate with ope better

1336
01:08:09,320 --> 01:08:11,640
Speaker 1: because I think you were a little nasty.

1337
01:08:12,440 --> 01:08:16,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I think that's the best we can do here. Yeah,

1338
01:08:16,920 --> 01:08:22,000
Speaker 3: it sounds I'm I I christened that entire plan. I

1339
01:08:22,080 --> 01:08:23,840
Speaker 3: green light, I green light that plan.

1340
01:08:24,080 --> 01:08:24,720
Speaker 2: Blast me.

1341
01:08:25,080 --> 01:08:27,439
Speaker 1: All right, let's get into the third comment comment to

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01:08:27,479 --> 01:08:31,800
Speaker 1: number three, invite suit John, Uh, invite them and put

1343
01:08:31,840 --> 01:08:33,920
Speaker 1: them at a table, buy the kitchen at reception.

1344
01:08:34,000 --> 01:08:34,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, put it.

1345
01:08:34,439 --> 01:08:37,200
Speaker 1: Put him next to the bathroom with the with the

1346
01:08:37,200 --> 01:08:41,080
Speaker 1: the doors that like fly open, you know once on

1347
01:08:41,280 --> 01:08:42,160
Speaker 1: the bungee.

1348
01:08:41,840 --> 01:08:43,400
Speaker 2: Hinges getting a hit. Yeah.

1349
01:08:43,520 --> 01:08:47,960
Speaker 1: Comment number four, man for your fiance, psych invite the troll.

1350
01:08:48,240 --> 01:08:50,599
Speaker 1: When she tries to congratulate you look her up and

1351
01:08:50,640 --> 01:08:52,759
Speaker 1: down and walk off.

1352
01:08:53,000 --> 01:08:55,120
Speaker 2: But I'm just a petty bach.

1353
01:08:57,160 --> 01:09:00,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just give her the look at luberly. Yeah,

1354
01:09:00,720 --> 01:09:01,639
Speaker 3: I'd be proud of me too.

1355
01:09:04,640 --> 01:09:09,000
Speaker 2: See. And that's it. That's the end of the story. Goodbye,

1356
01:09:08,800 --> 01:09:09,679
Speaker 2: See John.

1357
01:09:09,680 --> 01:09:11,040
Speaker 4: Could you read the title one more time because we

1358
01:09:11,080 --> 01:09:13,200
Speaker 4: had a lot of like yes at the very beginning.

1359
01:09:13,320 --> 01:09:16,320
Speaker 1: So that is a great thing to call. And guys,

1360
01:09:16,400 --> 01:09:18,559
Speaker 1: Keanus so genius and beautiful and I love him.

1361
01:09:19,600 --> 01:09:22,120
Speaker 2: We're gonna read it one more time. Love you getting

1362
01:09:22,200 --> 01:09:23,240
Speaker 2: a clean take here?

1363
01:09:23,280 --> 01:09:25,200
Speaker 4: Wait wait wait, wait, let me get that all cleared.

1364
01:09:25,240 --> 01:09:27,040
Speaker 4: I mean, we don't even need this, but just to

1365
01:09:27,040 --> 01:09:28,559
Speaker 4: make it official, go for it.

1366
01:09:30,240 --> 01:09:33,320
Speaker 1: My fiance's boss's wife is a liar, and I refuse

1367
01:09:33,400 --> 01:09:34,400
Speaker 1: to have her at my wedding.

1368
01:09:34,760 --> 01:09:39,760
Speaker 2: I refuse. Let's see it perfect boom cool, and I'll

1369
01:09:39,800 --> 01:09:42,880
Speaker 2: leave a little comment for that. A Yo, we got it, baby,

1370
01:09:42,880 --> 01:09:45,440
Speaker 2: all right, that's the end of that story. A ya, yay,

1371
01:09:45,680 --> 01:09:47,120
Speaker 2: we did it. We did it.

1372
01:09:47,320 --> 01:09:49,960
Speaker 3: We got him, We got him, Ladies and gentlemen, we

1373
01:09:50,040 --> 01:09:51,479
Speaker 3: got we got him.

1374
01:09:51,720 --> 01:09:56,479
Speaker 2: And do we have any we read Caitlin, but we do.

1375
01:09:58,200 --> 01:10:02,519
Speaker 3: Miguel Crisp. Oh, thank you for the twenty bucks. I

1376
01:10:02,600 --> 01:10:05,120
Speaker 3: just wanted to wish my beautiful friend a happy birthday.

1377
01:10:05,479 --> 01:10:10,439
Speaker 3: Princess julian Julianne Nicole friends now for twenty seven years.

1378
01:10:10,479 --> 01:10:13,200
Speaker 3: I can't wait to see you tonight and celebrate it

1379
01:10:13,400 --> 01:10:18,200
Speaker 3: into the new year. Julianne, You're beautiful every way inside

1380
01:10:18,400 --> 01:10:19,080
Speaker 3: and out.

1381
01:10:19,320 --> 01:10:24,120
Speaker 2: Dude, A donation to shout out your friends. Dude. Our

1382
01:10:24,120 --> 01:10:31,160
Speaker 2: community is the je Julianne June. I need a dang it.

1383
01:10:31,200 --> 01:10:35,240
Speaker 2: Where's it going? It's disappearing. We all need to life. Brain.

1384
01:10:35,720 --> 01:10:40,960
Speaker 5: We need the Miguel to my Julianne, Yes, the peanut

1385
01:10:41,000 --> 01:10:45,759
Speaker 5: to my butter uh brain blush, yeah a brain blast,

1386
01:10:48,760 --> 01:10:52,240
Speaker 5: EMONI Campion, thanks for the two dollars.

1387
01:10:52,479 --> 01:10:55,639
Speaker 3: Put boss's wifey at the kids table. Farthest away. Yeah,

1388
01:10:55,680 --> 01:10:58,240
Speaker 3: Baker the impromptu babysitter.

1389
01:10:58,320 --> 01:11:00,320
Speaker 2: That's great. I love that idea. Uh.

1390
01:11:00,680 --> 01:11:04,960
Speaker 1: Josephine, thanks for the twenty seven Swedish growner Strong Stream

1391
01:11:05,360 --> 01:11:10,120
Speaker 1: has the Gang smelling burnt toast.

1392
01:11:10,160 --> 01:11:13,120
Speaker 2: I don't smell burnt toast. I just smell pennies. Oh

1393
01:11:13,280 --> 01:11:16,000
Speaker 2: oh right, Yeah.

1394
01:11:15,439 --> 01:11:18,160
Speaker 3: That's another one that you'll smell, I think.

1395
01:11:18,720 --> 01:11:22,200
Speaker 1: Kristen McIntosh, thank you, You're welcome.

1396
01:11:22,560 --> 01:11:27,799
Speaker 4: Here we go nights Rush Cushing, Cush Cushing, Nelda Evans.

1397
01:11:27,840 --> 01:11:30,960
Speaker 2: Marriage is the number one cause of divorce. That's true.

1398
01:11:31,000 --> 01:11:34,280
Speaker 2: You can't so funny. I have marriage without divorce. That's

1399
01:11:34,360 --> 01:11:35,280
Speaker 2: so funny to me.

1400
01:11:35,320 --> 01:11:37,880
Speaker 1: I don't know why that's funny, because it's hilarious, because

1401
01:11:37,880 --> 01:11:39,679
Speaker 1: my because my nana's funny.

1402
01:11:40,320 --> 01:11:41,920
Speaker 2: That's your nana. Yeah, it is.

1403
01:11:42,640 --> 01:11:45,160
Speaker 3: I can't help it. I always blow up her spot

1404
01:11:45,200 --> 01:11:48,040
Speaker 3: every time she does it, and I don't I I

1405
01:11:48,080 --> 01:11:50,160
Speaker 3: just had to. You literally were like, she's so funny,

1406
01:11:50,160 --> 01:11:51,360
Speaker 3: and I'm like, she is, isn't.

1407
01:11:51,760 --> 01:11:52,000
Speaker 5: Wow?

1408
01:11:52,160 --> 01:11:55,280
Speaker 4: I can see we got your humor from Ah.

1409
01:11:55,320 --> 01:11:59,200
Speaker 2: Yes, it's genetic. It's genetics. That's a funny family.

1410
01:11:59,760 --> 01:11:59,880
Speaker 3: Uh.

1411
01:12:01,640 --> 01:12:05,120
Speaker 1: Mirandi Joe, thanks for the two dollars. Love you guys,

1412
01:12:05,120 --> 01:12:08,080
Speaker 1: Happy new Year, Happy newer to you, Mirandy.

1413
01:12:07,760 --> 01:12:10,960
Speaker 2: Miranda, Mirandi, Miranda.

1414
01:12:11,160 --> 01:12:13,599
Speaker 1: One more shout out today and shout out again, Awkward

1415
01:12:13,640 --> 01:12:19,559
Speaker 1: Turtle for fifty gifted memberships. Like what if you got

1416
01:12:19,560 --> 01:12:22,599
Speaker 1: a gifted membership from uh anyone today?

1417
01:12:22,840 --> 01:12:23,559
Speaker 2: Let us know in the.

1418
01:12:23,560 --> 01:12:30,800
Speaker 3: Chat called on you most thank you. But she you

1419
01:12:30,840 --> 01:12:31,759
Speaker 3: can pop in again?

1420
01:12:33,120 --> 01:12:36,360
Speaker 2: All right? I think do we need that's it? Also

1421
01:12:36,720 --> 01:12:40,360
Speaker 2: everyone's like he needs a nap. No, I don't.

1422
01:12:40,520 --> 01:12:43,720
Speaker 1: Hey, Hey, this is a strong stream. We're doing what

1423
01:12:43,720 --> 01:12:46,800
Speaker 1: we're supposed to do. There's just a lot of.

1424
01:12:47,000 --> 01:12:49,400
Speaker 2: Uh, you know, the suits and the change.

1425
01:12:49,439 --> 01:12:52,000
Speaker 1: I don't have my on. This is when I wear

1426
01:12:52,000 --> 01:12:55,360
Speaker 1: this suit with my chain and my the one ring,

1427
01:12:55,479 --> 01:12:57,840
Speaker 1: all the power of the ring also erupting the.

1428
01:12:58,120 --> 01:12:59,080
Speaker 2: You know, dispute it.

1429
01:12:59,680 --> 01:13:02,760
Speaker 4: Toda has been in Missouri for for a bit and

1430
01:13:03,080 --> 01:13:04,439
Speaker 4: you know his brain was off.

1431
01:13:04,760 --> 01:13:07,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, my brain was off for like ten days. So brain,

1432
01:13:08,240 --> 01:13:09,720
Speaker 2: we're a little we're getting back into it. It's like

1433
01:13:09,800 --> 01:13:12,200
Speaker 2: riding a bicycle. Doctors had to reset me. They pressed

1434
01:13:12,240 --> 01:13:13,040
Speaker 2: that brain.

1435
01:13:12,760 --> 01:13:15,360
Speaker 4: That brain, that brain needs a little recharge. He'll come

1436
01:13:15,400 --> 01:13:16,479
Speaker 4: back next year stronger.

1437
01:13:16,560 --> 01:13:29,120
Speaker 2: Cross initiate brain blast sequence, initiate fart. I thought I

1438
01:13:29,280 --> 01:13:32,559
Speaker 2: was being shut with mine. Dude. Wow, dude, I love it.

1439
01:13:34,120 --> 01:13:35,880
Speaker 2: Lord mcphart in the chat.

1440
01:13:35,960 --> 01:13:37,639
Speaker 1: You know what I think I did, guys, I think

1441
01:13:37,680 --> 01:13:39,480
Speaker 1: I suit John Dakota.

1442
01:13:40,200 --> 01:13:42,479
Speaker 2: I think that's what I did. I think I infected him.

1443
01:13:42,760 --> 01:13:50,519
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, Oh, Wes Lane, thank you for the twenty bucks.

1444
01:13:51,000 --> 01:13:51,639
Speaker 2: Hi, y'all.

1445
01:13:52,400 --> 01:14:00,800
Speaker 3: H Wesley Happy News, I mean happy, it says.

1446
01:14:00,520 --> 01:14:03,439
Speaker 2: Say happy news. We have to give him that one. Happy.

1447
01:14:05,400 --> 01:14:07,280
Speaker 2: What do you want me to say it? Happy News

1448
01:14:07,360 --> 01:14:08,080
Speaker 2: Year's Eve?

1449
01:14:10,120 --> 01:14:14,920
Speaker 3: Happy New Year's Eve. Been way too busy to catch

1450
01:14:14,960 --> 01:14:16,680
Speaker 3: a live in a while, but happy to bring in

1451
01:14:16,720 --> 01:14:17,040
Speaker 3: the new.

1452
01:14:17,000 --> 01:14:27,160
Speaker 2: Year with my favorites. Sparklehart, happy News, years hurt, Happy

1453
01:14:27,200 --> 01:14:31,599
Speaker 2: News Year's Eve. That was not my fault.

1454
01:14:31,880 --> 01:14:37,040
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, that's Dakota's innocent, that accused of acquitted of alt.

1455
01:14:36,800 --> 01:14:37,920
Speaker 2: And I think that's all.

1456
01:14:38,800 --> 01:14:42,160
Speaker 1: The next one is Wesleyansky goes, guys, I'm stupid.

1457
01:14:43,200 --> 01:14:46,400
Speaker 2: No, you're not. That's amazing.

1458
01:14:46,840 --> 01:14:49,880
Speaker 4: You're just helping our case today because we can't think stream.

1459
01:14:49,960 --> 01:14:53,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's you're you're hey. You guess what you made

1460
01:14:53,120 --> 01:14:55,920
Speaker 1: the stream better and more entertaining. That's what I'm gonna

1461
01:14:55,920 --> 01:14:58,280
Speaker 1: say tonight when it hits me. I'm gonna say Happy

1462
01:14:58,320 --> 01:14:59,040
Speaker 1: News Years.

1463
01:14:59,800 --> 01:15:03,120
Speaker 2: I I'm gonna look at you like like Ryan Gosling

1464
01:15:03,400 --> 01:15:07,400
Speaker 2: when everyone walks in, I'm gonna go Happy News Year's Eve.

1465
01:15:07,439 --> 01:15:10,880
Speaker 1: Before we get into this next story, I'm debating. There's

1466
01:15:11,040 --> 01:15:15,439
Speaker 1: this uh little there's this like event that's happening tonight

1467
01:15:15,760 --> 01:15:19,880
Speaker 1: obviously overlapping, and I'm thinking about obviously going to our

1468
01:15:20,040 --> 01:15:23,200
Speaker 1: party here, but then maybe also going there as well.

1469
01:15:23,760 --> 01:15:26,600
Speaker 3: In my head, this other event is like a wizard's

1470
01:15:26,600 --> 01:15:30,120
Speaker 3: gathering where like the planets and the moon and a

1471
01:15:30,120 --> 01:15:31,160
Speaker 3: certain star are.

1472
01:15:31,200 --> 01:15:34,799
Speaker 1: Lining and it's like guilty. I don't know if anyone's

1473
01:15:34,800 --> 01:15:38,960
Speaker 1: familiar with the Witcher, but no, yeah, is it a movie?

1474
01:15:39,880 --> 01:15:42,400
Speaker 1: It's a book series and also video games and probably

1475
01:15:43,040 --> 01:15:44,160
Speaker 1: also a TV series.

1476
01:15:44,640 --> 01:15:46,959
Speaker 2: Is probably it is the tav I was gonna.

1477
01:15:46,720 --> 01:15:48,640
Speaker 3: Say a movie, but then I realized that there is

1478
01:15:48,680 --> 01:15:50,200
Speaker 3: a TV show about the Witcher.

1479
01:15:50,560 --> 01:15:52,400
Speaker 2: And only the first season is good. I can assume

1480
01:15:52,479 --> 01:15:56,520
Speaker 2: some TV some TV for season. But I will.

1481
01:15:57,880 --> 01:16:01,960
Speaker 1: Talk to you gentlemen about that later. Anyway, Happy News Years.

1482
01:16:02,080 --> 01:16:04,479
Speaker 1: We got a news story. My oh wait, my husband,

1483
01:16:04,520 --> 01:16:07,160
Speaker 1: my husband, thank you, there we go. My husband forgot

1484
01:16:07,200 --> 01:16:10,400
Speaker 1: to r SCP to his cousin's wedding. Now he's blaming me.

1485
01:16:11,040 --> 01:16:15,160
Speaker 2: Hey you my secretary. No, no, you my cousin. Look

1486
01:16:15,200 --> 01:16:15,839
Speaker 2: in the mirror.

1487
01:16:17,320 --> 01:16:21,200
Speaker 1: My thirty three female husband's thirty five male cousin is

1488
01:16:21,240 --> 01:16:24,320
Speaker 1: getting married. And we received our invitations about three months ago.

1489
01:16:24,880 --> 01:16:27,360
Speaker 1: The invite was addressed to our entire family, and when

1490
01:16:27,400 --> 01:16:30,680
Speaker 1: you go online to RCPs, it lists each of our

1491
01:16:30,760 --> 01:16:34,360
Speaker 1: names individually, mine, my husbands, and our two daughters. You

1492
01:16:34,400 --> 01:16:38,360
Speaker 1: can check off who you are rsvping for. By the way,

1493
01:16:38,439 --> 01:16:45,120
Speaker 1: this comes from RSVR RSV pissed off. Whoa nicey r

1494
01:16:45,200 --> 01:16:46,439
Speaker 1: slash okay story times.

1495
01:16:46,479 --> 01:16:50,000
Speaker 2: Hey it easy, you'll be yay. Come on.

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01:16:51,400 --> 01:16:54,040
Speaker 1: As soon as I received the invite, I went online

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01:16:54,080 --> 01:16:57,280
Speaker 1: to RSVP. There was a section four advice to the

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01:16:57,320 --> 01:17:01,360
Speaker 1: couple and another four song request smart idea. I checked

1499
01:17:01,360 --> 01:17:04,600
Speaker 1: all our names and filled everything out immediately. However, my

1500
01:17:04,720 --> 01:17:08,160
Speaker 1: husband said he needed time to think about the advice

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01:17:08,280 --> 01:17:12,759
Speaker 1: he wanted to give and the songs he wanted to request.

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01:17:13,120 --> 01:17:15,879
Speaker 1: We can't just RSVP now, we gotta really think about

1503
01:17:16,280 --> 01:17:19,719
Speaker 1: these extra boxes, the optional boxes we got to fill in, right.

1504
01:17:19,840 --> 01:17:21,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't want to answer wrong.

1505
01:17:21,800 --> 01:17:24,760
Speaker 1: Of course, we don't want to fail, right all right,

1506
01:17:24,880 --> 01:17:26,920
Speaker 1: No big deal, I'll wait for him to figure it out.

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01:17:27,280 --> 01:17:29,200
Speaker 1: But later that night I wanted to ask if we

1508
01:17:29,200 --> 01:17:32,160
Speaker 1: could finish the RSVP together, but he got frustrated at me,

1509
01:17:33,080 --> 01:17:36,840
Speaker 1: and he got frustrated and snapped at me like, God, no, I.

1510
01:17:36,800 --> 01:17:39,240
Speaker 2: Haven't had time to think about it. Please don't rush me.

1511
01:17:40,200 --> 01:17:43,439
Speaker 2: I need time. I need time. I have a lot

1512
01:17:43,439 --> 01:17:49,960
Speaker 2: of thoughts. I need time for these thoughts. I gotta

1513
01:17:50,000 --> 01:17:52,040
Speaker 2: build up to the brain blest.

1514
01:17:52,560 --> 01:17:55,599
Speaker 3: Imagine this whole story is just because the husband's too

1515
01:17:55,600 --> 01:17:58,200
Speaker 3: scared to admit he doesn't know what an RSVP stands for.

1516
01:17:58,479 --> 01:18:03,680
Speaker 2: Like slee googling, I don't know what an r s

1517
01:18:03,760 --> 01:18:06,559
Speaker 2: v P stands for. I think it's like French or something. No,

1518
01:18:06,760 --> 01:18:13,679
Speaker 2: you got reserve send very promptly, that's what it is.

1519
01:18:14,080 --> 01:18:17,160
Speaker 2: I don't know. I just realized. I was like, yeah,

1520
01:18:17,320 --> 01:18:19,120
Speaker 2: I bet he doesn't even know what that stands for.

1521
01:18:19,160 --> 01:18:21,320
Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh, that's me. I don't know what

1522
01:18:21,360 --> 01:18:24,040
Speaker 2: that stands for. I know what it means. I know

1523
01:18:24,120 --> 01:18:31,200
Speaker 2: it's send me back this card with your information. It's French. Okay,

1524
01:18:31,320 --> 01:18:38,559
Speaker 2: please respond, Yeah, but what are you doing? John? Where? Oh? John?

1525
01:18:38,840 --> 01:18:41,320
Speaker 2: Joying to stand up worked out.

1526
01:18:40,920 --> 01:18:44,120
Speaker 1: Because you all know my knee situation with Riley. Yes,

1527
01:18:44,360 --> 01:18:47,599
Speaker 1: last night a dude, but now my legs are jelly.

1528
01:18:47,720 --> 01:18:47,960
Speaker 2: Wait.

1529
01:18:48,520 --> 01:18:51,160
Speaker 3: I need to turn you on to a program that

1530
01:18:51,320 --> 01:18:52,479
Speaker 3: could help you with that turn.

1531
01:18:53,080 --> 01:18:58,959
Speaker 4: It's Oh, yeah, buddy, it's respond, It's respond play.

1532
01:19:00,080 --> 01:19:05,720
Speaker 2: The RESPONSEI who plays? Oh, It's like respond please if

1533
01:19:05,760 --> 01:19:06,160
Speaker 2: you please?

1534
01:19:06,600 --> 01:19:10,559
Speaker 1: Right all, think I don't know anything I know play anyway,

1535
01:19:10,600 --> 01:19:13,760
Speaker 1: We're gonnat back to the story. So I decided to

1536
01:19:13,840 --> 01:19:16,799
Speaker 1: leave it alone because since he can be dramatic sometimes

1537
01:19:16,880 --> 01:19:19,639
Speaker 1: and pick your battles and whatnot. Three weeks have passed by,

1538
01:19:19,680 --> 01:19:21,680
Speaker 1: and I started to feel stressed because the rs VP

1539
01:19:21,920 --> 01:19:25,320
Speaker 1: the Response the Response deadline was approaching.

1540
01:19:27,560 --> 01:19:27,760
Speaker 2: John.

1541
01:19:27,960 --> 01:19:30,479
Speaker 1: Every time I asked about him, he still wasn't ready,

1542
01:19:30,520 --> 01:19:32,200
Speaker 1: saying that he hadn't had time.

1543
01:19:32,000 --> 01:19:34,120
Speaker 2: To really sit down and finger about it yet.

1544
01:19:34,760 --> 01:19:36,840
Speaker 1: Eventually I told him I was going to r VP

1545
01:19:37,000 --> 01:19:39,200
Speaker 1: for myself and the kids and that he could do

1546
01:19:39,320 --> 01:19:41,479
Speaker 1: what and he could do his whenever he was ready.

1547
01:19:41,920 --> 01:19:43,920
Speaker 1: I hated the feeling of nagging him about it, and

1548
01:19:43,960 --> 01:19:46,240
Speaker 1: I didn't want to do it anymore. He agreed and

1549
01:19:46,280 --> 01:19:47,360
Speaker 1: said that he would.

1550
01:19:47,200 --> 01:19:49,280
Speaker 2: Take care of it. Well.

1551
01:19:50,479 --> 01:19:53,720
Speaker 3: He meant that in like the New York Tony soprano way, Yeah,

1552
01:19:55,800 --> 01:19:58,599
Speaker 3: what's doing a gab the penguin?

1553
01:20:00,160 --> 01:20:02,320
Speaker 2: Damn it? Yeah? Actually yeah, kind of a little bit.

1554
01:20:02,320 --> 01:20:05,800
Speaker 1: Had to watch that show distractions. Two weeks went by

1555
01:20:05,840 --> 01:20:08,160
Speaker 1: and the deadline passed. I was at his cousin's bridal

1556
01:20:08,160 --> 01:20:11,759
Speaker 1: shower when she said I'm so sorry that your husband

1557
01:20:11,840 --> 01:20:15,400
Speaker 1: isn't coming to the wedding. I immediately realized he had

1558
01:20:15,439 --> 01:20:22,080
Speaker 1: forgotten to RSVP. No to respond response, I sighed and

1559
01:20:22,120 --> 01:20:25,479
Speaker 1: told her he probably just forgot. She looked at me

1560
01:20:25,520 --> 01:20:28,320
Speaker 1: a bit strangly and strangely and confused as to why

1561
01:20:28,360 --> 01:20:32,439
Speaker 1: I didn't r RSVP for him along with the kids.

1562
01:20:33,040 --> 01:20:36,080
Speaker 1: I explained the situation, but it felt like she didn't

1563
01:20:36,120 --> 01:20:40,880
Speaker 1: really believe me. Yeah, trying to turn because that would

1564
01:20:40,920 --> 01:20:41,519
Speaker 1: be crazy.

1565
01:20:41,640 --> 01:20:45,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, and everyone thinks that she's, oh god, just lying

1566
01:20:46,000 --> 01:20:47,360
Speaker 2: about it. Well.

1567
01:20:47,439 --> 01:20:49,720
Speaker 1: Later that night, my husband got a message from his

1568
01:20:49,840 --> 01:20:53,200
Speaker 1: cousin the bride, asking if what I told her at

1569
01:20:53,200 --> 01:20:56,680
Speaker 1: the bridal shower was true. He admitted that he had

1570
01:20:56,680 --> 01:21:00,360
Speaker 1: forgotten to RSVP. She said that she hadn't realized it

1571
01:21:00,400 --> 01:21:03,080
Speaker 1: was just an oversight and assumed that he genuinely couldn't

1572
01:21:03,120 --> 01:21:05,519
Speaker 1: come because of his job, which sometimes requires him to

1573
01:21:05,560 --> 01:21:08,559
Speaker 1: travel on weekends. When her wedding is. She then mentioned

1574
01:21:08,600 --> 01:21:11,160
Speaker 1: that since it had been over a week since the deadline,

1575
01:21:11,240 --> 01:21:14,840
Speaker 1: they had already submitted the numbers to the caterer and

1576
01:21:14,880 --> 01:21:15,879
Speaker 1: signed the contract.

1577
01:21:16,000 --> 01:21:19,479
Speaker 3: Okay, but that's not a big deal. I that's honestly

1578
01:21:19,520 --> 01:21:22,040
Speaker 3: not a big deal. No, you bring a lunch.

1579
01:21:23,280 --> 01:21:25,439
Speaker 2: But what about your seat? Are you bringing you? Are

1580
01:21:25,520 --> 01:21:29,000
Speaker 2: you bringing a lawn chair? Bring a lunch. I guarantee

1581
01:21:29,000 --> 01:21:32,960
Speaker 2: you that they can bring one more chair, right, chairs

1582
01:21:32,960 --> 01:21:35,880
Speaker 2: are expensive? You bring one more chair. No, I'm talking

1583
01:21:35,920 --> 01:21:38,320
Speaker 2: about him. Oh yeah, yeah, he has a chair.

1584
01:21:38,840 --> 01:21:40,280
Speaker 3: There's no way they're gonna be like I'm sorry, sir,

1585
01:21:40,400 --> 01:21:44,240
Speaker 3: No chairs allowed. You can't have any outside food, beverage

1586
01:21:44,280 --> 01:21:46,200
Speaker 3: or chair entered the premises.

1587
01:21:47,040 --> 01:21:49,519
Speaker 2: No way. We'll see, we'll see, we'll see.

1588
01:21:49,840 --> 01:21:52,599
Speaker 1: She also said she hadn't made the seating chart yet,

1589
01:21:52,600 --> 01:21:55,439
Speaker 1: but couldn't guarantee they could adjust the dinner arrangements at

1590
01:21:55,439 --> 01:22:04,479
Speaker 1: this point, Okay, I told my husband not to make

1591
01:22:04,520 --> 01:22:07,320
Speaker 1: her go through all that trouble because he forgot to RCP.

1592
01:22:07,920 --> 01:22:10,280
Speaker 1: He insisted that he wasn't gonna miss his cousin's wedding

1593
01:22:10,320 --> 01:22:13,280
Speaker 1: and asked why I just didn't RSVP for him? If

1594
01:22:13,320 --> 01:22:15,280
Speaker 1: I knew he was going to miss the deadline.

1595
01:22:17,080 --> 01:22:20,559
Speaker 2: Dude, No ways, you know I'm missingcompetent. Why did you

1596
01:22:20,640 --> 01:22:23,479
Speaker 2: let me do that? Why did you let me what?

1597
01:22:23,640 --> 01:22:27,519
Speaker 2: You put me in charge of? Mail? Oh? Boy, I

1598
01:22:27,640 --> 01:22:28,120
Speaker 2: told him.

1599
01:22:28,200 --> 01:22:31,839
Speaker 1: I didn't realize he had forgotten until his cousin mentioned

1600
01:22:31,840 --> 01:22:34,680
Speaker 1: it at the bridal shower, and by then it was

1601
01:22:34,720 --> 01:22:37,639
Speaker 1: too late. He still thinks I should have reminded him

1602
01:22:37,680 --> 01:22:39,880
Speaker 1: more and that I'm purposely being an a hole to

1603
01:22:39,920 --> 01:22:44,880
Speaker 1: prove my point. Bro, you said like you kept getting like, oh.

1604
01:22:44,560 --> 01:22:50,000
Speaker 2: Please stop reminding me. Please wait wait wait I'm confused. Wait,

1605
01:22:50,000 --> 01:22:50,800
Speaker 2: I'm confused now.

1606
01:22:50,840 --> 01:22:55,519
Speaker 1: So basically what the wife and kids are they RSVP'd yes.

1607
01:22:57,120 --> 01:23:01,280
Speaker 1: What happened was the husband uh uh op was like, hey,

1608
01:23:01,280 --> 01:23:03,040
Speaker 1: go ahead and r VP I've already done us in

1609
01:23:03,080 --> 01:23:04,880
Speaker 1: the kids. He's like, no, no, no, I need more

1610
01:23:04,920 --> 01:23:08,600
Speaker 1: time for my advice and my musical suggestions. And she

1611
01:23:08,680 --> 01:23:11,200
Speaker 1: kept reminding him, minding. She's like, you know what, fine,

1612
01:23:11,400 --> 01:23:14,599
Speaker 1: I'll stop reminding you. Just get it done. And then

1613
01:23:15,000 --> 01:23:17,400
Speaker 1: weeks go by and then the cousin's like, oh, so

1614
01:23:17,439 --> 01:23:19,960
Speaker 1: sorry that your husband can't make it. That's that's too bad.

1615
01:23:20,200 --> 01:23:23,360
Speaker 1: And then she's like he forgot guys. Just so, he's

1616
01:23:23,400 --> 01:23:24,200
Speaker 1: just got rat brain.

1617
01:23:24,400 --> 01:23:26,840
Speaker 3: Uh, he's got brain and he's trying to make it

1618
01:23:26,840 --> 01:23:27,479
Speaker 3: his wife's fault.

1619
01:23:27,600 --> 01:23:31,000
Speaker 2: Yes, what then, what a dumb thing to do? Yes? Yes, yes,

1620
01:23:31,200 --> 01:23:33,800
Speaker 2: and not ride a touty brain? Okay, No, he would

1621
01:23:33,800 --> 01:23:39,280
Speaker 2: have read a touty he's got doud and read it.

1622
01:23:39,479 --> 01:23:41,360
Speaker 3: He would have signed that cod he read it. He

1623
01:23:41,400 --> 01:23:42,920
Speaker 3: would have signed that card. He would have sent the bank,

1624
01:23:43,000 --> 01:23:49,320
Speaker 3: he would have signed say it in red. Yeah, redd

1625
01:23:49,520 --> 01:23:53,240
Speaker 3: y man. But now he's worried he'll look stupid.

1626
01:23:53,280 --> 01:23:54,880
Speaker 1: If I go to the wedding with our kids and

1627
01:23:54,960 --> 01:23:57,479
Speaker 1: without him, people start asking why he couldn't make it?

1628
01:23:57,920 --> 01:23:59,519
Speaker 2: So am I the a hole?

1629
01:23:59,640 --> 01:24:03,200
Speaker 1: We have an update? Can we really quickly answer? Is

1630
01:24:03,360 --> 01:24:05,439
Speaker 1: OPI the ahle or not? If she goes to the money.

1631
01:24:05,520 --> 01:24:07,679
Speaker 3: Honestly, if you knew your husband was that dumb, yeah

1632
01:24:07,720 --> 01:24:10,439
Speaker 3: you are. No, of course you're not. No, of course

1633
01:24:10,479 --> 01:24:10,760
Speaker 3: you're not.

1634
01:24:11,520 --> 01:24:14,840
Speaker 1: He is the one that messed up. How does he

1635
01:24:14,920 --> 01:24:18,200
Speaker 1: not understand that? Cassie O'Brien says, he's an adult, right

1636
01:24:18,920 --> 01:24:19,919
Speaker 1: right exactly.

1637
01:24:20,080 --> 01:24:23,120
Speaker 3: It's like, so, I'm sorry husband for trusting you to

1638
01:24:23,800 --> 01:24:28,200
Speaker 3: literally just write, click a button, write something down or

1639
01:24:28,360 --> 01:24:28,960
Speaker 3: no was it.

1640
01:24:28,960 --> 01:24:32,200
Speaker 2: It was like it was online click dude. Oh oh,

1641
01:24:32,280 --> 01:24:33,639
Speaker 2: but Dakota, you forget.

1642
01:24:34,800 --> 01:24:37,400
Speaker 1: He had to figure out what sage wisdom am I

1643
01:24:37,479 --> 01:24:40,839
Speaker 1: going to share? And what what what song of the century?

1644
01:24:41,000 --> 01:24:43,559
Speaker 1: You know, music connects us together. It's the most important thing.

1645
01:24:44,000 --> 01:24:48,280
Speaker 1: What what sounds? Can I suggest to just make this

1646
01:24:48,360 --> 01:24:49,439
Speaker 1: the greatest wedding of all time?

1647
01:24:49,720 --> 01:24:53,920
Speaker 2: Banana phone? Can I? Can I just say Dakota that

1648
01:24:53,960 --> 01:24:56,000
Speaker 2: you cannot rush perfection? Yeah, it's true.

1649
01:24:56,680 --> 01:25:01,680
Speaker 3: And this was his magnum opus was his playlist recommendations

1650
01:25:01,680 --> 01:25:02,520
Speaker 3: on the RSVP.

1651
01:25:02,760 --> 01:25:04,639
Speaker 2: Oh god, he just you opened his room.

1652
01:25:04,680 --> 01:25:06,759
Speaker 3: He's got like the board with like the red string

1653
01:25:06,800 --> 01:25:09,719
Speaker 3: that does everything together, and it's just to like different

1654
01:25:09,800 --> 01:25:12,120
Speaker 3: vibe playlists that like Spotify put together.

1655
01:25:12,600 --> 01:25:15,160
Speaker 2: And he's just like, I'm almost there. Just give me

1656
01:25:15,200 --> 01:25:17,880
Speaker 2: one more day. I'm almost there. I'm one lead away

1657
01:25:17,880 --> 01:25:21,200
Speaker 2: from pinning it down. Don't understand how close I am.

1658
01:25:21,479 --> 01:25:25,719
Speaker 1: But there is an update where the fallout will be revealed.

1659
01:25:26,120 --> 01:25:29,200
Speaker 1: Maybe so update. I didn't realize this would get so

1660
01:25:29,240 --> 01:25:31,479
Speaker 1: many comments, but I've been reading through them all and.

1661
01:25:31,479 --> 01:25:35,040
Speaker 2: Want to answer a few common questions. What I say

1662
01:25:36,280 --> 01:25:37,160
Speaker 2: You're tired? John?

1663
01:25:37,280 --> 01:25:40,920
Speaker 1: Shut up for those saying I would have just RSVP'd

1664
01:25:41,000 --> 01:25:43,200
Speaker 1: and let him fill it out later. I didn't realize

1665
01:25:43,200 --> 01:25:45,719
Speaker 1: you could do that when we got married ten years ago.

1666
01:25:45,800 --> 01:25:47,880
Speaker 1: We didn't have a wedding website or anything like that.

1667
01:25:48,000 --> 01:25:51,120
Speaker 1: We had people RCP by cards, through cards by mail.

1668
01:25:51,520 --> 01:25:54,160
Speaker 1: I figured that once you submitted the RCP, that's it.

1669
01:25:54,280 --> 01:25:56,360
Speaker 1: You can't go back and add to it. I'm looking

1670
01:25:56,360 --> 01:25:58,880
Speaker 1: at the wedding website now, and whilst it doesn't allow

1671
01:25:59,000 --> 01:26:02,160
Speaker 1: us to RCP anymore, it does let us edit the

1672
01:26:02,200 --> 01:26:06,080
Speaker 1: information in it. But again, I genuinely had no idea

1673
01:26:06,160 --> 01:26:09,800
Speaker 1: this was possible. If I had remembered that he had

1674
01:26:09,800 --> 01:26:12,720
Speaker 1: an RSVP'd, I would have done it myself. But I

1675
01:26:12,800 --> 01:26:16,479
Speaker 1: actually forgot because of the next point, which is for

1676
01:26:16,479 --> 01:26:22,160
Speaker 1: those asking if he had ADHD, Yes he does, but

1677
01:26:22,240 --> 01:26:24,680
Speaker 1: so do I and both of our kids.

1678
01:26:25,080 --> 01:26:28,439
Speaker 2: We met in an ADHD support group in college.

1679
01:26:28,760 --> 01:26:31,360
Speaker 3: So I think, uh, given that, I think I need

1680
01:26:31,400 --> 01:26:34,720
Speaker 3: to clarify because I feel like it could be really

1681
01:26:34,760 --> 01:26:38,640
Speaker 3: easy to interpret me saying rat brain as like a dismerchment.

1682
01:26:39,720 --> 01:26:43,080
Speaker 3: It's more just like I consider rat I have rat brain. Yeah,

1683
01:26:43,320 --> 01:26:49,120
Speaker 3: I'm a rat brain. Rat tutti Yeah, no, But it's

1684
01:26:49,200 --> 01:26:51,839
Speaker 3: just like it's rat brain is like, you're just doing something.

1685
01:26:51,680 --> 01:26:54,120
Speaker 2: Then you're doing something else, and then it's like and

1686
01:26:54,120 --> 01:26:56,599
Speaker 2: then you'll go over and every memory you've ever had,

1687
01:26:56,640 --> 01:26:58,160
Speaker 2: and your whole life is gone.

1688
01:26:58,200 --> 01:27:02,719
Speaker 1: Where's the cheese because you're busy getting cheese somewhere else.

1689
01:27:03,439 --> 01:27:05,920
Speaker 3: As soon as you lose sight of the cheese, it's

1690
01:27:05,960 --> 01:27:08,400
Speaker 3: onto the next piece of cheese. Let me just stand up,

1691
01:27:08,920 --> 01:27:13,960
Speaker 3: rat brain, Yeah, stand up, stand up.

1692
01:27:14,240 --> 01:27:17,960
Speaker 2: You said it. See this is rat brain. No wait,

1693
01:27:18,120 --> 01:27:23,320
Speaker 2: you didn't do the thing it is? Uh yeah, who

1694
01:27:24,040 --> 01:27:30,400
Speaker 2: where the invisible suspenders? You gotta you gotta, you gotta.

1695
01:27:33,880 --> 01:27:36,599
Speaker 2: We'll practice that. We'll practice that well.

1696
01:27:37,640 --> 01:27:40,360
Speaker 1: But the reason I was so anxious as a deadline

1697
01:27:40,360 --> 01:27:43,240
Speaker 1: approach is because I know how easiest, how easy it

1698
01:27:43,280 --> 01:27:45,439
Speaker 1: is to forget things like rs vps when you have

1699
01:27:45,680 --> 01:27:48,679
Speaker 1: adhd an Yeah that rhymed. I reminded him every time

1700
01:27:48,920 --> 01:27:51,639
Speaker 1: I remembered it was due. But after we agreed he'd

1701
01:27:51,640 --> 01:27:56,000
Speaker 1: be responsible for us. But after we agreed he'd be

1702
01:27:56,080 --> 01:27:59,080
Speaker 1: responsible for his I eventually stopped reminding him and then

1703
01:27:59,160 --> 01:28:01,840
Speaker 1: forgot about it. Can letely he did say he would

1704
01:28:01,840 --> 01:28:05,679
Speaker 1: handle it, just saying for those asking why his cousin

1705
01:28:05,760 --> 01:28:07,040
Speaker 1: just can't add one more person.

1706
01:28:07,360 --> 01:28:10,639
Speaker 2: She definitely can, but she made it clear to him

1707
01:28:10,800 --> 01:28:11,040
Speaker 2: that it.

1708
01:28:11,000 --> 01:28:14,200
Speaker 1: Would involved several extra steps and possibly an additional fee

1709
01:28:14,479 --> 01:28:19,080
Speaker 1: since the deposit is based on a percentage of the total.

1710
01:28:19,800 --> 01:28:22,519
Speaker 1: It's more about her having to deal with older people

1711
01:28:22,600 --> 01:28:26,639
Speaker 1: and people overseas not rcping than adding them last minute.

1712
01:28:26,720 --> 01:28:29,120
Speaker 1: She's trying to ensure her parents, the groom's parents, and

1713
01:28:29,160 --> 01:28:32,840
Speaker 1: immediately family members are all factored into the equation. When

1714
01:28:32,920 --> 01:28:37,040
Speaker 1: she checked the RCP lists, my husband's RCP automatically showed

1715
01:28:37,120 --> 01:28:40,080
Speaker 1: up as no on her end because he.

1716
01:28:40,040 --> 01:28:40,879
Speaker 2: Missed the deadline.

1717
01:28:40,880 --> 01:28:42,400
Speaker 1: So it's like, hey, because he didn't fill it out,

1718
01:28:42,560 --> 01:28:46,639
Speaker 1: the website just pass it as no and didn't realize

1719
01:28:46,720 --> 01:28:50,519
Speaker 1: it was in oversight. For those saying I should, although

1720
01:28:50,560 --> 01:28:53,720
Speaker 1: it should say like didn't respond, but I digress. For

1721
01:28:53,760 --> 01:28:55,719
Speaker 1: those saying that I should have told the cousin exactly

1722
01:28:55,760 --> 01:28:58,880
Speaker 1: what happened, I did exactly as it happened.

1723
01:29:00,280 --> 01:29:01,000
Speaker 2: She didn't believe me.

1724
01:29:02,640 --> 01:29:05,559
Speaker 1: And for those also suggesting that I remind him that

1725
01:29:05,640 --> 01:29:09,960
Speaker 1: I'm not his mom, I did and he agreed. He

1726
01:29:10,000 --> 01:29:11,479
Speaker 1: told me he would handle.

1727
01:29:11,280 --> 01:29:12,479
Speaker 2: It himself exactly.

1728
01:29:12,920 --> 01:29:16,400
Speaker 1: For those asking if he does this loot or if

1729
01:29:16,439 --> 01:29:19,120
Speaker 1: he has other redeeming qualities and this is just a

1730
01:29:19,120 --> 01:29:22,760
Speaker 1: one off thing. He has ADHD and he is so forgetful,

1731
01:29:22,920 --> 01:29:25,160
Speaker 1: but so am I. There are things he excels at

1732
01:29:25,160 --> 01:29:28,200
Speaker 1: that I struggle with. For example, my ADHD sometimes causes

1733
01:29:28,240 --> 01:29:30,840
Speaker 1: me to forget that I left things on or open.

1734
01:29:31,360 --> 01:29:33,920
Speaker 1: It could be something simple like leaving the microwave or

1735
01:29:33,920 --> 01:29:36,360
Speaker 1: a fridge door open, or something more dangerous like leaving

1736
01:29:36,400 --> 01:29:39,759
Speaker 1: the dove on. This got worse for me after having kids.

1737
01:29:39,800 --> 01:29:41,880
Speaker 1: There are definitely a few times when he picks up

1738
01:29:41,880 --> 01:29:44,599
Speaker 1: my slack just as I pick up his. We both

1739
01:29:44,680 --> 01:29:47,240
Speaker 1: understand that sometimes we can't help it and try not to.

1740
01:29:47,320 --> 01:29:48,200
Speaker 2: Judge each other for it.

1741
01:29:48,439 --> 01:29:51,559
Speaker 1: He absolutely has redeeming qualities. So for instance, he works

1742
01:29:51,560 --> 01:29:54,080
Speaker 1: from home during the week, and this is on top

1743
01:29:54,320 --> 01:29:57,360
Speaker 1: of the kid's school stuff and doctor's appointments. He's the

1744
01:29:57,439 --> 01:30:01,000
Speaker 1: primary parent for those responsibilities. That takes such a load

1745
01:30:01,080 --> 01:30:03,439
Speaker 1: off because he's so good at it and our kids

1746
01:30:03,560 --> 01:30:04,880
Speaker 1: are his everything.

1747
01:30:05,000 --> 01:30:07,560
Speaker 2: Wow, it's gotta be hard to do that with ADHD.

1748
01:30:07,680 --> 01:30:10,680
Speaker 3: When your your your work life, your private life or

1749
01:30:10,800 --> 01:30:12,400
Speaker 3: your work life or your personal life, and your family

1750
01:30:12,400 --> 01:30:15,519
Speaker 3: life are all taking place in the exact same area.

1751
01:30:15,680 --> 01:30:17,880
Speaker 2: It's a lot. That's yeah, a lot, and I like

1752
01:30:18,000 --> 01:30:20,519
Speaker 2: the I like her.

1753
01:30:20,640 --> 01:30:22,639
Speaker 1: You know, they're giving it up and and and it's

1754
01:30:22,720 --> 01:30:24,760
Speaker 1: it's it seems like they do have a true partnership,

1755
01:30:24,760 --> 01:30:27,479
Speaker 1: you know, and they're helping each other, uh, with their

1756
01:30:27,479 --> 01:30:28,360
Speaker 1: strengths and weaknesses.

1757
01:30:28,479 --> 01:30:29,240
Speaker 2: I like it. I like it.

1758
01:30:29,880 --> 01:30:32,080
Speaker 1: Well. When we got pregnant, we made a pack to

1759
01:30:32,200 --> 01:30:36,120
Speaker 1: use all the attention we have, despite our attention deficit,

1760
01:30:36,240 --> 01:30:40,519
Speaker 1: every last downs to put our kids first and ourselves last.

1761
01:30:41,120 --> 01:30:45,160
Speaker 1: He's held up his end of that bargain, unfortunately. I

1762
01:30:45,200 --> 01:30:47,760
Speaker 1: love him with all my heart, and he is a

1763
01:30:47,800 --> 01:30:50,400
Speaker 1: good partner most of the time. Most of the time

1764
01:30:50,479 --> 01:30:54,360
Speaker 1: I'm not babying him, and he's perfectly rational, but sometimes

1765
01:30:55,080 --> 01:30:55,479
Speaker 1: he just.

1766
01:30:55,479 --> 01:30:58,000
Speaker 2: Has his moments. This is one of those moments.

1767
01:30:59,000 --> 01:31:01,120
Speaker 1: And you can have one of those moments there, I say,

1768
01:31:01,640 --> 01:31:04,000
Speaker 1: a good moment when you realize that you can listen

1769
01:31:04,080 --> 01:31:06,160
Speaker 1: to full episode, full episodes with stories just like this

1770
01:31:06,840 --> 01:31:10,720
Speaker 1: on our podcast. Just go to Spotify, Apple Podcast, or

1771
01:31:10,720 --> 01:31:13,479
Speaker 1: your favorite podcast platform and search Okay story Time.

1772
01:31:13,360 --> 01:31:17,960
Speaker 2: And it'll be right there. Wow, full episodes for you. Wow.

1773
01:31:18,560 --> 01:31:21,280
Speaker 3: You know, I really like the way that you're talking

1774
01:31:21,360 --> 01:31:21,840
Speaker 3: right now.

1775
01:31:22,000 --> 01:31:27,679
Speaker 2: I like the way that you're talking me too. But Dakota.

1776
01:31:28,240 --> 01:31:35,920
Speaker 2: Everyone likes everyone. Everyone likes everyone. The suits. It's the

1777
01:31:36,160 --> 01:31:39,679
Speaker 2: suit ladies and gentlemen.

1778
01:31:39,760 --> 01:31:43,080
Speaker 1: But before we get into we have we have more

1779
01:31:43,120 --> 01:31:49,439
Speaker 1: of the story. I feel like this is a case

1780
01:31:49,479 --> 01:31:52,439
Speaker 1: of it is what it is. Yeah, seems like they

1781
01:31:52,479 --> 01:31:56,320
Speaker 1: have a good partnership. It was an honest mistake. He

1782
01:31:56,400 --> 01:32:00,120
Speaker 1: has adhd everyone. We all have our faults. We all

1783
01:32:00,120 --> 01:32:02,840
Speaker 1: slip up sometimes. It just happened to be a slip

1784
01:32:02,920 --> 01:32:03,559
Speaker 1: up with the wedding.

1785
01:32:04,640 --> 01:32:06,080
Speaker 3: No, it sounds like he was just wound up in

1786
01:32:06,120 --> 01:32:10,200
Speaker 3: that moment where it's like that she even thinking about

1787
01:32:10,280 --> 01:32:12,280
Speaker 3: doing the RSVP right now is going to make my

1788
01:32:12,320 --> 01:32:13,440
Speaker 3: brain explode.

1789
01:32:13,600 --> 01:32:14,439
Speaker 2: I can't do it.

1790
01:32:14,760 --> 01:32:17,320
Speaker 3: It's I just do it right now, Like I literally

1791
01:32:18,400 --> 01:32:21,600
Speaker 3: going to curl up into a ball and stop existing

1792
01:32:22,600 --> 01:32:25,400
Speaker 3: if I even try to sign that rsup right now.

1793
01:32:25,439 --> 01:32:27,879
Speaker 1: It's trying no reason, trying to make the perfect playlist,

1794
01:32:27,920 --> 01:32:30,280
Speaker 1: you know, it's yea trying to have the perfect advice

1795
01:32:30,280 --> 01:32:30,679
Speaker 1: for a wedding.

1796
01:32:30,720 --> 01:32:32,679
Speaker 2: I mean, hey, that's all older. And then the rat

1797
01:32:32,760 --> 01:32:36,160
Speaker 2: brain probably just took over and he just forgot and

1798
01:32:36,200 --> 01:32:38,120
Speaker 2: probably thought about it at one point where it was

1799
01:32:38,320 --> 01:32:41,679
Speaker 2: entirely inconvenient and he is not anywhere nearby the place

1800
01:32:41,680 --> 01:32:43,680
Speaker 2: where he could even do it. That's what when I

1801
01:32:43,680 --> 01:32:45,200
Speaker 2: forget stuff like that, that's how it happens to me.

1802
01:32:45,240 --> 01:32:47,400
Speaker 3: It's like I'll be somewhere else and I'll be like, oh, yeah,

1803
01:32:47,439 --> 01:32:49,439
Speaker 3: that thing I can do that's like on the other

1804
01:32:49,479 --> 01:32:51,360
Speaker 3: side of town right now, that I forgot to do

1805
01:32:51,479 --> 01:32:54,960
Speaker 3: two days ago. Like I can't do it right now

1806
01:32:55,040 --> 01:32:57,840
Speaker 3: because I'm not there, Like, but I should do it later.

1807
01:32:58,160 --> 01:33:02,240
Speaker 1: To your point, Dakota, guy, if I, if I dare,

1808
01:33:02,800 --> 01:33:06,240
Speaker 1: I might add a John's Golden rule to the list

1809
01:33:06,840 --> 01:33:16,560
Speaker 1: of Sam's Golden rules. You're allowed one stupid pass. Uh,

1810
01:33:16,760 --> 01:33:22,200
Speaker 1: let me a little bit more. There's one stupid pass.

1811
01:33:22,880 --> 01:33:25,400
Speaker 2: Uh. Maybe like a month, a quarter, a month, quarter,

1812
01:33:25,360 --> 01:33:27,599
Speaker 2: a month. Let's do a month month. Let's let's be fair,

1813
01:33:27,760 --> 01:33:29,200
Speaker 2: at least one month. One month.

1814
01:33:29,320 --> 01:33:30,720
Speaker 4: Dakota used his last night.

1815
01:33:31,080 --> 01:33:31,760
Speaker 2: I've used like.

1816
01:33:31,840 --> 01:33:35,280
Speaker 3: Five of them in the last couple hours.

1817
01:33:34,040 --> 01:33:38,479
Speaker 2: Oh what Oh for sleeping on the floor.

1818
01:33:38,640 --> 01:33:40,800
Speaker 4: No, you got locked out of the apartment on the

1819
01:33:40,840 --> 01:33:41,400
Speaker 4: first night.

1820
01:33:41,560 --> 01:33:44,360
Speaker 2: Oh my god, it was so dumb. It wasn't the apartment. No,

1821
01:33:44,400 --> 01:33:47,200
Speaker 2: it was all right, quick, Okay, story time.

1822
01:33:47,400 --> 01:33:50,639
Speaker 1: Can we can we finish the story because we have

1823
01:33:50,680 --> 01:33:52,840
Speaker 1: to tell that yeah, let's do Okay, let's finish this

1824
01:33:52,880 --> 01:33:55,639
Speaker 1: real quick. So for those saying I should let him

1825
01:33:55,680 --> 01:33:58,040
Speaker 1: go in my place with the kids, oh wow, and

1826
01:33:58,080 --> 01:34:01,200
Speaker 1: take the day for himself, That's exactly what I'm.

1827
01:34:01,040 --> 01:34:06,400
Speaker 2: Gonna do, yes for myself for myself. Sorry, running it back.

1828
01:34:07,120 --> 01:34:09,000
Speaker 1: For those saying I should let him go in place

1829
01:34:10,200 --> 01:34:14,320
Speaker 1: with the kids and take the day for myself, That's

1830
01:34:14,360 --> 01:34:17,679
Speaker 1: exactly what I'm gonna do. So basically, op is gonna

1831
01:34:17,680 --> 01:34:21,559
Speaker 1: give him her rcup. For those suggesting I shown this post,

1832
01:34:21,880 --> 01:34:23,880
Speaker 1: I did, but even before I did, he had already

1833
01:34:23,920 --> 01:34:26,519
Speaker 1: apologized for snapping at me. He was frustrated and embarrassed

1834
01:34:26,520 --> 01:34:28,800
Speaker 1: and unfortunately took it out on me. I've done the

1835
01:34:28,840 --> 01:34:31,240
Speaker 1: same to him before we both mess up, but he

1836
01:34:31,280 --> 01:34:33,719
Speaker 1: came to the conclusion on his own that he should

1837
01:34:33,760 --> 01:34:37,519
Speaker 1: have taken care of it and not blamed me. He's

1838
01:34:37,600 --> 01:34:40,280
Speaker 1: sorry and is making it up by buying me something

1839
01:34:40,320 --> 01:34:43,519
Speaker 1: expensive this week. Can't wait, little, And we have a

1840
01:34:43,520 --> 01:34:46,200
Speaker 1: few quick comments. Comment number one, not the a hole.

1841
01:34:46,280 --> 01:34:48,120
Speaker 1: Why do women have to bear the burden of remembering

1842
01:34:48,160 --> 01:34:51,080
Speaker 1: to remind their partners can be tasks true facts? On

1843
01:34:51,160 --> 01:34:53,880
Speaker 1: top of everything else involved in managing a household. This

1844
01:34:54,000 --> 01:34:58,960
Speaker 1: typically is defined as nagging quote unquote infuriating comment Number two,

1845
01:34:59,240 --> 01:34:59,880
Speaker 1: not the a hole.

1846
01:35:00,000 --> 01:35:01,360
Speaker 2: Your husband is an adult.

1847
01:35:01,920 --> 01:35:04,600
Speaker 1: He made a decision for himself, despite the many reminders

1848
01:35:04,600 --> 01:35:07,760
Speaker 1: and nagging. If he can't attend, it's his fault and

1849
01:35:07,840 --> 01:35:10,080
Speaker 1: should own up to his mistake and not hold you

1850
01:35:10,080 --> 01:35:11,920
Speaker 1: accountable for it, which he did at the end.

1851
01:35:12,240 --> 01:35:13,720
Speaker 2: Sorry, he's behaving like a man child.

1852
01:35:13,800 --> 01:35:16,000
Speaker 1: I hope this is an isolated issue and that he

1853
01:35:16,520 --> 01:35:19,640
Speaker 1: and not that he pushes the issue at his convenience

1854
01:35:19,680 --> 01:35:22,040
Speaker 1: and then blames you for his lack of self awareness.

1855
01:35:22,360 --> 01:35:23,040
Speaker 2: Coming number three.

1856
01:35:23,120 --> 01:35:25,240
Speaker 1: Let the man babe deal with his consequences on his

1857
01:35:25,280 --> 01:35:26,439
Speaker 1: own way way way.

1858
01:35:27,160 --> 01:35:27,559
Speaker 2: That was me.

1859
01:35:27,960 --> 01:35:30,479
Speaker 1: Uh, you reminded him multiple times and he was sniffy

1860
01:35:30,520 --> 01:35:33,599
Speaker 1: about it. Yours wife, not a secretary, not his event planner.

1861
01:35:33,880 --> 01:35:36,320
Speaker 1: Coming number four, What are you supposed to have done?

1862
01:35:36,560 --> 01:35:38,360
Speaker 1: He told you not to do it. This seems to

1863
01:35:38,360 --> 01:35:41,080
Speaker 1: be a situation where you cannot win. Sorry, he's a

1864
01:35:41,120 --> 01:35:43,559
Speaker 1: booty about stuff like this. I'm sure he has some

1865
01:35:43,600 --> 01:35:47,040
Speaker 1: good redeeming qualities, but this must be quite the pain

1866
01:35:47,400 --> 01:35:52,280
Speaker 1: in the booty. Indeed, but look at that brilliant resolution.

1867
01:35:52,439 --> 01:35:57,879
Speaker 1: Though Honestly, it's like, yeah, I don't know. He definitely

1868
01:35:58,000 --> 01:36:00,320
Speaker 1: was annoying, but I'm annoying.

1869
01:36:00,120 --> 01:36:02,479
Speaker 2: Too, and he can just take it.

1870
01:36:02,520 --> 01:36:04,439
Speaker 3: I'll have the day to myself and he can go

1871
01:36:04,479 --> 01:36:06,160
Speaker 3: to the wedding that he wants to go, do way more.

1872
01:36:06,080 --> 01:36:08,120
Speaker 1: Than me, and they'll take the kids as long as

1873
01:36:08,200 --> 01:36:11,800
Speaker 1: And it seems like OPI wasn't like like if op

1874
01:36:11,920 --> 01:36:15,080
Speaker 1: felt more strongly or feelings were more hurt, which you know, hey,

1875
01:36:15,120 --> 01:36:17,839
Speaker 1: we all got feelings too, that's okay. But I really

1876
01:36:17,960 --> 01:36:21,599
Speaker 1: liked the place that we ended at. OPI acknowledged his stuff.

1877
01:36:21,640 --> 01:36:26,880
Speaker 1: He apologized and acknowledged his stuff, and OPI said, hey,

1878
01:36:26,880 --> 01:36:28,320
Speaker 1: take my place in the wedding so you can see

1879
01:36:28,320 --> 01:36:28,960
Speaker 1: your cousin and.

1880
01:36:30,880 --> 01:36:31,880
Speaker 2: Happily ever after.

1881
01:36:32,040 --> 01:36:34,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like it's a great little microcosm of

1882
01:36:34,200 --> 01:36:38,920
Speaker 3: like how perspectives on relationships should be yes, because so

1883
01:36:38,920 --> 01:36:41,559
Speaker 3: many people, I think are like I've been guilty of

1884
01:36:41,560 --> 01:36:43,360
Speaker 3: this too. If it's like you're in a relationship with

1885
01:36:43,360 --> 01:36:45,800
Speaker 3: somebody and it's like something you realize like oh I

1886
01:36:45,800 --> 01:36:48,040
Speaker 3: don't really like that or ooh I don't really like this,

1887
01:36:48,439 --> 01:36:50,120
Speaker 3: and then it's just like, well, I guess I gotta

1888
01:36:50,120 --> 01:36:53,600
Speaker 3: find someone else. It's like in like a committed relationship.

1889
01:36:53,640 --> 01:36:58,440
Speaker 3: It's like you're gonna end up not liking certain aspects

1890
01:36:58,680 --> 01:37:03,679
Speaker 3: of the person you're with. Yes, like in every situation,

1891
01:37:03,960 --> 01:37:06,559
Speaker 3: like there's gonna be times where there's like it's there's

1892
01:37:06,560 --> 01:37:10,479
Speaker 3: friction and being able to just like you know, work

1893
01:37:10,560 --> 01:37:13,719
Speaker 3: through that instead of just being like, I can't believe

1894
01:37:13,800 --> 01:37:17,160
Speaker 3: this little baby man can't send an r s v P.

1895
01:37:17,640 --> 01:37:21,680
Speaker 2: I'm on r VP to his marriage. There you go.

1896
01:37:22,280 --> 01:37:26,080
Speaker 3: I I do not want to reserve ciavou play.

1897
01:37:26,240 --> 01:37:29,280
Speaker 2: I would like to see you gone. I would like

1898
01:37:29,680 --> 01:37:35,800
Speaker 2: I wish I had a mute button for you. Can

1899
01:37:35,880 --> 01:37:36,280
Speaker 2: I say?

1900
01:37:36,400 --> 01:37:40,479
Speaker 1: Can I say that Dakota's scronks on this stream have

1901
01:37:40,680 --> 01:37:42,520
Speaker 1: made it ten next more entertaining.

1902
01:37:45,120 --> 01:37:50,280
Speaker 4: But I'm in justin yeah, just having one.

1903
01:37:50,479 --> 01:37:56,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, it's you know, it's just one of those days.

1904
01:37:56,320 --> 01:37:59,400
Speaker 2: It's just one of those days. That's what I'm that.

1905
01:37:59,880 --> 01:38:02,400
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna channel this forever. I'm gonna have stronks

1906
01:38:02,439 --> 01:38:04,640
Speaker 2: every time I'm on stream. I love to get to

1907
01:38:04,680 --> 01:38:08,040
Speaker 2: the wisdom. It's like Yogi Bearra. Yeah, shout out to

1908
01:38:08,040 --> 01:38:09,559
Speaker 2: anyone who knows what I'm talking about. When I say

1909
01:38:09,640 --> 01:38:12,799
Speaker 2: Yogi Barra, I only know Yogi Bear Yogi bears. I'm sorry,

1910
01:38:13,040 --> 01:38:13,439
Speaker 2: that's why.

1911
01:38:13,960 --> 01:38:16,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh I see, I mean it's not Yogi, it's

1912
01:38:16,760 --> 01:38:19,080
Speaker 3: not it's what did you say, baseball?

1913
01:38:19,760 --> 01:38:25,640
Speaker 7: That's a baseball boy. Hey, boo boo, you want to

1914
01:38:25,640 --> 01:38:30,280
Speaker 7: commit petty theft again today? Okay boo boo, Oh, we're

1915
01:38:30,320 --> 01:38:34,559
Speaker 7: talking bears. We escaped from a laboratory Dakota. Why did

1916
01:38:34,640 --> 01:38:36,080
Speaker 7: do you sleep outside on.

1917
01:38:36,080 --> 01:38:39,800
Speaker 2: The I almost thought I was gonna have to so

1918
01:38:39,840 --> 01:38:43,200
Speaker 2: we well, no, because it's funny. Because so we we

1919
01:38:43,240 --> 01:38:47,519
Speaker 2: moved into this place and the land the thank you

1920
01:38:48,040 --> 01:38:49,720
Speaker 2: the last and guy told us there's some kind of

1921
01:38:49,800 --> 01:38:51,800
Speaker 2: zen garden somewhere, right. I don't know.

1922
01:38:51,840 --> 01:38:55,680
Speaker 3: I went, I walked down the stairwell to go to

1923
01:38:55,720 --> 01:38:58,600
Speaker 3: seven eleven, and I go outside and it puts me

1924
01:38:58,640 --> 01:39:00,040
Speaker 3: in the alleyway and I'm like, all right, well, what

1925
01:39:00,240 --> 01:39:04,320
Speaker 3: I guess I'll walk around the building right, and walking

1926
01:39:04,439 --> 01:39:07,280
Speaker 3: along the backside of the building, I can see like

1927
01:39:07,320 --> 01:39:10,360
Speaker 3: a secret looking stairwell that would take us to the

1928
01:39:10,439 --> 01:39:12,040
Speaker 3: zen garden. Because he said, he's like, I don't know,

1929
01:39:12,040 --> 01:39:14,000
Speaker 3: there's like a stairwell somewhere that takes you there. I've

1930
01:39:14,000 --> 01:39:16,759
Speaker 3: never seen it. And I saw one that looked sneaky,

1931
01:39:16,760 --> 01:39:19,080
Speaker 3: and I was like, oh, that might be it, and

1932
01:39:19,160 --> 01:39:21,040
Speaker 3: so I went to seven eleven and came back and

1933
01:39:21,080 --> 01:39:21,759
Speaker 3: I was looking.

1934
01:39:21,800 --> 01:39:23,280
Speaker 2: I was like, all right, so it's probably it could

1935
01:39:23,280 --> 01:39:24,000
Speaker 2: be in this door.

1936
01:39:24,439 --> 01:39:26,280
Speaker 3: And the door came out to like a lower garage

1937
01:39:26,360 --> 01:39:28,519
Speaker 3: level that I hadn't been in, and I'm like, a oh,

1938
01:39:28,520 --> 01:39:31,320
Speaker 3: there's nowhere to go. And then I go back to

1939
01:39:31,439 --> 01:39:33,120
Speaker 3: leave and there's like a coat there's like it's like

1940
01:39:33,160 --> 01:39:35,439
Speaker 3: one of those doors that has like the pin code

1941
01:39:35,439 --> 01:39:38,120
Speaker 3: on it where it's like like you gotta like and

1942
01:39:38,160 --> 01:39:41,360
Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't have a code for this code,

1943
01:39:41,400 --> 01:39:44,519
Speaker 3: and it's locked, and it's everything's gated. There's no way

1944
01:39:44,560 --> 01:39:47,880
Speaker 3: out of this garage, and I was I never received

1945
01:39:47,960 --> 01:39:51,320
Speaker 3: any pins for this door because we're not parking in

1946
01:39:51,400 --> 01:39:54,040
Speaker 3: this part of the garage. So there's just a random

1947
01:39:54,080 --> 01:39:57,080
Speaker 3: door right next to the elevator where if you walk

1948
01:39:57,200 --> 01:39:59,080
Speaker 3: through it and you don't have the code.

1949
01:39:58,760 --> 01:40:01,439
Speaker 2: You're just stuck in there unless someone gets you out.

1950
01:40:01,520 --> 01:40:04,760
Speaker 3: I called Keon and I called his sister because I

1951
01:40:04,840 --> 01:40:07,920
Speaker 3: was like, I hope I need someone to come unlock this.

1952
01:40:07,920 --> 01:40:08,439
Speaker 2: Door for me.

1953
01:40:08,760 --> 01:40:12,200
Speaker 3: Because it was also at this point, like well like ten,

1954
01:40:11,760 --> 01:40:13,160
Speaker 3: it was like.

1955
01:40:13,120 --> 01:40:13,519
Speaker 2: In the middle.

1956
01:40:13,600 --> 01:40:15,120
Speaker 3: It's like it very well could have just been like,

1957
01:40:15,160 --> 01:40:17,080
Speaker 3: I don't know, someone's just go have to wander in

1958
01:40:17,120 --> 01:40:20,679
Speaker 3: here on a Monday ten thirty on a Monday night,

1959
01:40:21,320 --> 01:40:24,200
Speaker 3: and luckily there was some random I could hear someone

1960
01:40:24,320 --> 01:40:26,400
Speaker 3: moving around in the lobby and I just started shaking

1961
01:40:26,400 --> 01:40:29,000
Speaker 3: the door, like in a way that made it sound

1962
01:40:29,080 --> 01:40:31,760
Speaker 3: not crazy, so like I just kind of rattled it

1963
01:40:31,800 --> 01:40:33,639
Speaker 3: a little bit, like I didn't want it to shake

1964
01:40:33,680 --> 01:40:35,160
Speaker 3: it to the point where the guys like I should

1965
01:40:35,200 --> 01:40:38,160
Speaker 3: not be letting whatever's on the other side of the door, right.

1966
01:40:38,600 --> 01:40:40,800
Speaker 2: It was just enough to be like, oh, is there

1967
01:40:40,800 --> 01:40:41,479
Speaker 2: someone on there?

1968
01:40:41,720 --> 01:40:42,960
Speaker 3: And then he let me in and I had to

1969
01:40:43,000 --> 01:40:45,080
Speaker 3: call Kona back and be like it's you don't have

1970
01:40:45,120 --> 01:40:46,480
Speaker 3: to come and he let me out.

1971
01:40:46,640 --> 01:40:48,640
Speaker 2: But I was stuck. I was fully stuck, and I

1972
01:40:48,640 --> 01:40:51,360
Speaker 2: couldn't believe it. I was I was outside myself.

1973
01:40:51,439 --> 01:40:53,080
Speaker 4: Keona, my sister, by the way, we didn't have a

1974
01:40:53,160 --> 01:40:56,879
Speaker 4: choice on our names. Keona was like, are you serious?

1975
01:40:56,960 --> 01:41:00,759
Speaker 4: The first night he gets locked out? The first night.

1976
01:41:01,080 --> 01:41:04,719
Speaker 2: I didn't get locked out of our place anything.

1977
01:41:04,800 --> 01:41:11,040
Speaker 4: I got locked into Sam's in the comments.

1978
01:41:09,960 --> 01:41:12,280
Speaker 2: Everyone say hi and hearts and drop it.

1979
01:41:14,840 --> 01:41:17,120
Speaker 4: He's in Mexico right now. He's having a good time

1980
01:41:17,200 --> 01:41:20,680
Speaker 4: in Mexico. Hey, aren't we having a good time here?

1981
01:41:20,720 --> 01:41:22,799
Speaker 4: We're having a better time here, Sam and Christian?

1982
01:41:23,960 --> 01:41:28,160
Speaker 2: Hey, key on comparison is the thief of joy? He

1983
01:41:28,240 --> 01:41:31,599
Speaker 2: said that, he said that we're in suits.

1984
01:41:31,640 --> 01:41:34,360
Speaker 4: Well, they're in suits and I'm looking all cheeked up

1985
01:41:34,360 --> 01:41:35,439
Speaker 4: on a yeah, what.

1986
01:41:35,320 --> 01:41:39,519
Speaker 2: Do you They're in suits and my asses? Great? Shut up?

1987
01:41:39,560 --> 01:41:42,720
Speaker 1: Ke Hey, what are you over there complaining about? We

1988
01:41:42,760 --> 01:41:45,440
Speaker 1: don't have the assets naturally?

1989
01:41:45,680 --> 01:41:48,719
Speaker 2: Yeah? You know what, we have to have this slice

1990
01:41:48,760 --> 01:41:55,599
Speaker 2: the cake right now? Hold on, come on, how does

1991
01:41:55,640 --> 01:41:59,479
Speaker 2: player name here? We go? See? I like see yes,

1992
01:41:59,560 --> 01:42:00,080
Speaker 2: let's see.

1993
01:42:00,160 --> 01:42:07,519
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah a second, because that tld R is blocking

1994
01:42:07,520 --> 01:42:09,000
Speaker 1: the good stuff jump.

1995
01:42:12,160 --> 01:42:14,280
Speaker 2: Jump job.

1996
01:42:15,000 --> 01:42:23,720
Speaker 4: Let me give you some god, uh where is it?

1997
01:42:25,280 --> 01:42:29,280
Speaker 2: Oh that's actually crazy, dude? Why rebound on? Why is

1998
01:42:29,280 --> 01:42:33,400
Speaker 2: there so much rebound? That's that's so much rebound? There's something.

1999
01:42:33,439 --> 01:42:35,479
Speaker 2: Whoever made those pants needs a raise.

2000
01:42:35,400 --> 01:42:38,799
Speaker 1: Dude, for real? That is that is lethal? That is lethal?

2001
01:42:39,160 --> 01:42:43,400
Speaker 1: My god. Well there we go cakes, ladies and gentlemen,

2002
01:42:43,960 --> 01:42:45,639
Speaker 1: and you know what else we're getting lads and gentlemen.

2003
01:42:46,240 --> 01:42:49,240
Speaker 2: That felt powerful. I was just like, keon, stand up

2004
01:42:49,320 --> 01:42:55,719
Speaker 2: and show your and you're like, okay, we got first,

2005
01:42:55,840 --> 01:42:56,280
Speaker 2: let met.

2006
01:42:56,520 --> 01:42:58,800
Speaker 3: No, the only reason that's okay is because it's keyon

2007
01:42:59,439 --> 01:42:59,800
Speaker 3: what is that?

2008
01:42:59,840 --> 01:42:59,960
Speaker 1: What?

2009
01:43:00,000 --> 01:43:02,840
Speaker 2: It's okay? But what it's because of a friend? No,

2010
01:43:02,880 --> 01:43:05,639
Speaker 2: we can you can put him in the spin Sigon.

2011
01:43:05,760 --> 01:43:08,000
Speaker 2: You can only snap at somebody to stand up and

2012
01:43:08,040 --> 01:43:10,639
Speaker 2: show their butt if you've known them for ten years

2013
01:43:11,040 --> 01:43:12,120
Speaker 2: and you're good friends.

2014
01:43:12,360 --> 01:43:13,639
Speaker 4: Riley does it to me all the time.

2015
01:43:14,200 --> 01:43:16,880
Speaker 2: Well, he's breaking mind. That's my golden rule. You've got

2016
01:43:16,880 --> 01:43:20,000
Speaker 2: your golden rule. I've got my golden rules. Sam's rule.

2017
01:43:20,880 --> 01:43:25,160
Speaker 2: It's on your backside. Oh it's golden. That's actually a

2018
01:43:25,160 --> 01:43:26,240
Speaker 2: good one. That's right, it's it