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Speaker 3: I refuse to attend my sister's wedding because she gave

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Speaker 3: my seat to her dog.

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Speaker 4: That dog can play basketball. Show some respect, rip What

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Speaker 4: did you say?

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Speaker 5: Said rip?

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Speaker 3: Oh? I, twenty four female, have always been close with

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Speaker 3: my older sister, twenty nine female. She's getting married next

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Speaker 3: month and for the last year she's been planning what

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Speaker 3: she calls her dream wedding. A few weeks ago, she

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Speaker 3: sent out the final seating chart. I noticed my name

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Speaker 3: wasn't on it. At first, I thought it was a mistake,

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Speaker 3: so I called her. She laughed and told me she

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Speaker 3: had made a small adjustment. Apparently, her golden retriever Max

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Speaker 3: is going to be sitting at the family table during

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Speaker 3: the reception. Since there wasn't enough room, she removed my

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Speaker 3: seat and moved me to the table in the back

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Speaker 3: with some of her coworkers that I've never met.

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Speaker 4: That's actually the most wild thing I've ever heard.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we have heard a lot of crazy stuff. On

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Speaker 5: the show. This is one of the most unhinged things

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Speaker 5: I think anyone could possibly do.

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Speaker 3: And to put her with like strangers.

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Speaker 5: Don't you put your dog with your coworkers? Hear they

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Speaker 5: would love that, They.

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Speaker 4: Would like, Oh, look at the cute this dog is.

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Speaker 3: I thought she was joking. She wasn't. By the way,

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Speaker 3: sbmit your own stories, go to the r slash okay

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Speaker 3: storytime subreddit. I'm Savannah, I'm Sophia, I'm Dakota, and we

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Speaker 3: are here to give some good advice Goofi Lee, but

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Speaker 3: we don't have all the answers. You only tell you

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Speaker 3: what we would do, But let us know what you

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Speaker 3: would do down in the comments. So p says I

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Speaker 3: told her it was pretty insulting to prioritize a dog

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Speaker 3: over her own sister. She said Max is basically family

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Speaker 3: and that I was being dramatic because I'd still be

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Speaker 3: at the wedding.

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Speaker 4: So the basically is a keyword here. We're gonna take

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Speaker 4: apart that sentence, and if you take out and highlight basically,

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Speaker 4: you'll find that the dog is not actually related to you,

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Speaker 4: because it's a dog. What it's crazy.

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Speaker 3: Things got worse when she posted a photo of Max's

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Speaker 3: custom tuxedo on social media with the caption can't wait

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Speaker 3: for my favorite family member to sit with us on

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Speaker 3: the big day?

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Speaker 1: All right?

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Speaker 5: Okay? Also, if he's got on a tucks, there's nothing

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Speaker 5: you can do about it. I'm sorry, it's a.

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Speaker 4: Dog in a tux How long do we actually think

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Speaker 4: that this golden, this big old golden Retriever baby is

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Speaker 4: actually gonna sit in that chair?

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Speaker 3: That is very true. Maybe one second a bunch of

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Speaker 3: people tagged me and started asking if I had been replaced.

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Speaker 3: I told my sister that if she genuinely thought her

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Speaker 3: dog deserved my spot at the family table, and she

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Speaker 3: clearly didn't care whether I was there or not, I

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Speaker 3: said I wouldn't be attending fair I mean, yeah, I

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Speaker 3: think that is a totally reasonable reaction to someone replacing

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Speaker 3: you with the dog. Do your parents know about this?

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Speaker 3: Like I would be like, hey, by the way, i

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Speaker 3: won't be sitting with you because the dog took my place.

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Speaker 3: I'm actually in the back now. Yeah, Table number twenty three.

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Speaker 3: Is everyone okay with this? Are we just gonna let it?

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Speaker 3: Everyone's just cool with this? That the dog took my place.

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Speaker 3: How about the dog sits on the floor like a dog.

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Speaker 4: And I'll take it on the chair like a human.

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Speaker 3: And then they put the dog up to he also

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Speaker 3: get my plate? Is he taking my plate as well?

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Speaker 4: Guys, this is just like the movie Beethoven. Never saw it,

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Speaker 4: but I know he was walking all over that table

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Speaker 4: so much mayhem.

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Speaker 5: Why they name the dog Beethoven, dude, I looked it

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Speaker 4: It has nothing to do with the plot.

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Speaker 3: What Beethoven?

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Speaker 4: He's just his name is Beethoven, and he like makes

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Speaker 5: Should have named him Barkthoven.

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Speaker 3: Barkthoven, but they didn't. Now my parents are furious, Okay, cool,

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Speaker 3: they think I'm causing unwait what no, not, Cole. Now

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Speaker 3: my parents are furious. They think I'm causing unnecessary drama

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Speaker 3: and should just go to support her. He doesn't want

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Speaker 4: She clearly doesn't want me there. She replaced me with

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Speaker 3: Parents are while too, My sister says, I'm trying to

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Speaker 3: make her wedding about me.

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Speaker 4: You're trying to make your wedding about the dog.

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Speaker 3: Some friends think I'm justified. Others think skipping the Weddy

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Speaker 3: Noboddy is an overreaction. Am I the a hole?

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Speaker 4: No, not at all.

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Speaker 3: She replaced Do she put you in the back and siblings?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Is it just replaced with the various dogs?

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Speaker 3: Different dogs there?

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Speaker 4: We have the God Retriever here, the tea over there,

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Speaker 4: well right there it was a Bomberanian German shepherd.

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Speaker 3: Put that in the back. That goes in the back

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Speaker 3: with Opie.

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Speaker 4: He's with there with the coworkers.

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Speaker 3: They're with the border collies over there, Like what are

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Speaker 3: you doing? Op I mean not opeating.

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Speaker 4: The whole wedding has been replaced by dog Beto And in

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Speaker 4: the corner.

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Speaker 5: They walked down the aisle. Dude, wait, pastor goes side.

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Speaker 3: Note. Have you guys ever watched the America America's Caught Talent,

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Speaker 3: The one with the dog that sings. That's my guidance

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Speaker 3: counselor from middle school the dog. Yes, actually it's her

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Speaker 3: twin sister. I was like, oh, is that mister crazy. No,

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Speaker 3: that's her twin sister who taught her dog how to sing. Now,

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Speaker 3: I tell you what, that dog could take my seat

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Speaker 3: at the wedding. Now that's a dog who's earned his place.

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Speaker 3: There is an update here to make it clear, I

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Speaker 3: will not be attending the wedding. But the good news

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Speaker 3: is my sister did apologize to me, and she realized

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Speaker 3: she was in the wrong. She offered to give me

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Speaker 3: my assigned seat back, but I've decided I won't go

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Speaker 3: despite these changes. Now you're the.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, your sister just apologized. Yes, it's so stupid that

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Speaker 4: she did that in the first place, but the fact

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Speaker 4: that she was, like, even with her parent, with your

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Speaker 4: parents on her side, she's still realized, oh, yeah, that's

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Speaker 4: kind of crazy. I shouldn't have done that. Please come back,

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Speaker 4: You'll have a place, And you're like no.

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Speaker 2: The more I'm thinking about it, though, I think just

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Speaker 2: the principle of like even ever being considered to be

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Speaker 2: removed from the family table for your dog, that's the

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Speaker 2: so stupid that I don't even think if you come

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Speaker 2: that you should have known you were wrong as soon

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Speaker 2: as you have the idea to do that.

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Speaker 4: I do agree. I think I still if like my

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Speaker 4: sibling genuinely apologized, I personally would probably still go. But

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Speaker 4: I also understand being so mind boggled by that decision

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll be like, I'll go to your dog's wedding.

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Speaker 5: How about that?

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Speaker 4: And you'll sit on the floor.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And everyone says on the floor, and I'll get

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Speaker 3: the chair. That's an insane way to look at this.

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Speaker 3: I just don't understand what is actually wrong with her.

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Speaker 4: I really don't know.

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Speaker 3: That's the end of that store. And we got another

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Speaker 3: woman coming ride it. My mother is suddenly getting married

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Speaker 3: just months before my own wedding. Oh come on, I

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Speaker 3: eighteen female, am engaged to my fiance eighteen male.

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Speaker 4: Okay, let's slow down.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, whoa, oh, come on, oh, come on now.

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Speaker 5: Oop, I'm going on style.

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Speaker 4: Let's let's pull a closure ears. It's pull mama Mia,

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Speaker 4: and you.

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Speaker 3: Don't get married. Didn't give me time to close my ears.

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Speaker 4: Close your let's say, Sophie. Sophie realized she was too young.

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Speaker 4: You could too, and then your mom could have your wedding.

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Speaker 4: Meryl Streep can get married.

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Speaker 3: No she can't. So for some context, both mother and

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Speaker 3: father were not part of my family. At four months old,

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Speaker 3: my great aunt gained custody of me, and her and

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Speaker 3: I consider both as my mom. My biological father came

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Speaker 3: into my life a few years ago. I'm supposed to

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Speaker 3: fly across the country sometime soon to meet him in person.

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Speaker 3: I do believe I have a better relationship with him

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Speaker 3: than my biological mother. He told me from the get

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Speaker 3: go that he wants to try and be in my life,

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Speaker 3: but won't force me either, and I liked having that option. Nice,

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Speaker 3: showing potential. Yes, he tells everyone that I'm his daughter,

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Speaker 3: which I don't mind.

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Speaker 4: Ohoo, truth, it's true.

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Speaker 3: She's spitting facts.

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Speaker 4: She's my daughter, and that's it.

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Speaker 5: That's his speech at the wedding, she's my daughter.

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Speaker 3: What he's like the dogs clap, yeah, oh.

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Speaker 4: No, He's like, I don't mind.

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Speaker 3: I don't mind if my bio mother calls me her

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Speaker 3: all my nerves. My cousin, who I call mom all

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Speaker 3: My bio mother lives in a different state from where

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Speaker 4: That's a low, that's a load you don't come back from.

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Speaker 5: Talk about getting nickeled and dime.

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Speaker 4: Ah, that's so sad, that's really sad. Well, could you

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Speaker 4: and she's still She's like, look how much money I have?

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Speaker 4: Keep telling me yeah? And what else?

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Speaker 3: What else? Year you get into?

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Speaker 5: She walks around. It sounds like Christmas time. Just jingle jingle, jingle,

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Speaker 4: I didn't take anything from you.

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Speaker 5: It's like uh in Robin Hood.

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Speaker 3: last year, I had to stay home and take care

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Speaker 3: a message from my bio mother, asking why I didn't

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Speaker 3: I was just supposed to know that. Why didn't you

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Speaker 4: Sales, No one is a flock of chickens. No one

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Speaker 4: But she did that, Now you gotta give a new phone.

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Speaker 3: Any accomplishments I had made and my family had posted about,

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Speaker 3: What really sent me over the edge was that she

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Speaker 3: My fiance proposed in January and I was so happy

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Speaker 4: Like, who's sending us congratulations? And how does she know?

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Speaker 3: How did she get that number?

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Speaker 4: Who is this?

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Speaker 3: I texted her and said thank you and left it

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Speaker 4: I'm not responding to that. Yeah, no, I'm asleep.

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Speaker 3: I didn't see until eight am when I woke up.

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Speaker 3: She said, not to be rude, but as an adult,

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Speaker 4: Girl, What are you talking about? What are you literally?

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Speaker 2: She's on some kind of something right now. She saw stuff.

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Speaker 2: She was slapping a bag of boxed wine.

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Speaker 5: Last night.

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Speaker 3: I was trying to call you and you were not

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Speaker 3: I miss you and I want to have effin FaceTime

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Speaker 3: with you. Oh love you?

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Speaker 1: You answer me?

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Speaker 4: I was supposed to respond at three am.

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Speaker 3: Oh I forgot. I set my alarm to answer you.

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Speaker 3: Oh wait, no, that was for school wild. I then

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Speaker 4: This is so weird.

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Speaker 2: Make up your mind, fellas, I'm placing a prop bet.

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Speaker 2: I'm putting all my money on inebriated.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, if she's texting at three am, yeah sounds

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Speaker 3: Which that is weird to say to your forty year

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Speaker 3: can't wait. I've been planning my wedding since I was

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Speaker 3: as my mother. I don't know how to tell her

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Speaker 4: I don't think you literally owe her anything.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't owe her anything. I think you should

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Speaker 3: by the way, I wrote a speech, but it's for

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and then if she like reacts poorly ahead of time,

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Speaker 4: then you know, okay, well you're no longer invited.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you got to you gotta be like, what I'm

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Speaker 2: I about to tell you is unchangeable, and if you

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Speaker 5: It, I don't think you can beat the wedding. You're

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Speaker 4: You're not my mom.

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Speaker 3: There's an update. So one thing I forgot to mention.

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Speaker 3: She does everything I do. I pierced my nose and

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Speaker 3: two days later she pierced her nose. I pierced my cartilage,

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Speaker 3: and she did it right after. She might have just

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Speaker 2: You know, you should do you should post a photoshop

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Speaker 2: of getting like one of those subdermal implants. That's like

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Speaker 2: a like a dough like a doughnut on your forehead

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Speaker 2: and see if she goes after that and juck.

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Speaker 4: Stuff into your eyes. Oh yeah, to make it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I saw a guy at he was very nice. I

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Speaker 4: and I saw this guy who was completely tatted head

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Speaker 5: That is pretty crazy. Did you just say head to foot, yeah,

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Speaker 4: You know, he's tattoes.

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Speaker 3: That's why she left it out.

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Speaker 5: He was not tettoed.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he was tattooed on his not tettoed.

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Speaker 5: Sorry, my mistake, My mistake, My bad, God, my bad.

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Speaker 3: She saw one of my tattoos that I got my

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Speaker 6: Now.

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Speaker 3: Can't show off any of the new tattoos I have gotten,

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Speaker 3: My cousin and I got a matching mother and daughter

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Speaker 4: Oh god.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, as I got a call for my half brother

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Speaker 4: Why are we comparing also through eighteen? They're also eighteen?

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Speaker 4: Is really not stable? I would show of best. I

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Speaker 3: Oh wait, it gets so much better than that. My

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Speaker 3: at me and says, oh, yeah, by the way, your

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Speaker 4: She really copies everything. Where did she find that guy?

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Speaker 3: I asked her? When is it? Apparently it's a few

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Speaker 3: it's almost a fourteen hour drive and the gas. But

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Speaker 3: on top of that, it's too close in date to

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Speaker 3: to do. You don't have to go, Yeah, you know,

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Speaker 3: to go. You don't even know the guy?

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Speaker 5: Like what?

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Speaker 6: What?

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 4: Really don't even know her. You don't know her, and

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Speaker 4: everything that you do know about her is that she's crazy.

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Speaker 3: They're not good things that you know. So I would

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Speaker 3: just be like, eh, actually, Ema, I can't make it,

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Speaker 3: and she can call you and complain they and come

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Speaker 3: blah blah.

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Speaker 4: Blah, and you can say I'm sorry. I'll be like,

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Speaker 4: oh no, oops, didn't work out.

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Speaker 2: She can call you at three thirty five in the

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Speaker 2: that she actually went to call her sister.

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Speaker 3: And she replaced your seat with the dog.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Verdict not the a hole. What kind of mom competes

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Speaker 3: with their childe Date two. I talked to my fiance

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Speaker 3: and we came up with the game plan. A small

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Speaker 3: important group of people we have in our lives are

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Speaker 3: going to go to the courthouse later this year, and

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Speaker 3: we are going to get our marriage certificate.

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Speaker 4: I don't think that you need to invite your mom

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Speaker 4: and you don't need this lady.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she just petes against you. Like what mom does

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Speaker 3: that to her own child?

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Speaker 5: I mean athletes, okay, athletes. I somebody trying to put

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Speaker 2: And she's been gone, she'd be gone for eighteen years, okay,

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Speaker 2: and now she's coming back.

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Speaker 5: She's like, I want to I wanna light up a

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Speaker 4: You need to go to the Olympics, and I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: help you get there.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm just kidding. She seems like she'd light a

445
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Speaker 5: fire under you literally to keep her.

446
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Speaker 3: Shelf warb and then light one under her because she

447
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Speaker 3: likes you did it first. SHE'SAI, wait, that looks fun.

448
00:17:46,040 --> 00:17:49,879
Speaker 3: My turn now. So for one, I'm married before my

449
00:17:49,920 --> 00:17:52,880
Speaker 3: biological mother. We just want to get married. We could

450
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Speaker 3: really care less about having a big wedding, but he

451
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Speaker 3: did give me the option of throwing a big wedding

452
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Speaker 3: in three to five years with all of our family

453
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Speaker 3: and friends. I agreed with it because I still want

454
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Speaker 3: to experience a wedding. Yeah, that's true. Because you said

455
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Speaker 3: you've been planning your wedding since you were nine.

456
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Speaker 4: I'm gonna be so forur real, I feel like you

457
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Speaker 4: don't need it. I just feel like you can wait.

458
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Speaker 4: What unless you're right of the military, you could.

459
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Speaker 2: Be It's funny to be like, I've been planning this

460
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Speaker 2: wedding since I was nine.

461
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Speaker 5: Yeah, And like normally it'd be like, oh, that's crazy,

462
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Speaker 5: do ear.

463
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Speaker 4: We want If you feel like this is the time

464
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Speaker 4: to do it, go do it. I just also would say,

465
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Speaker 4: if you want a wedding in three to five years,

466
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Speaker 4: you could also just wait.

467
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Speaker 2: Yeah, think about how cool would be if you spent

468
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Speaker 2: eighteen years planning your wedding.

469
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Speaker 4: I really feel like if you guys waited for the

470
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Speaker 4: three to five years and then had that big wedding

471
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Speaker 4: that you always wanted, it would probably be better.

472
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Speaker 3: I've also decided that she probably wouldn't be invited to either,

473
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Speaker 3: just because I don't want her to bring me down.

474
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Speaker 3: I don't know if I'm going to my biological mother's wedding,

475
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Speaker 3: but that's a later problem. I don't know if I'll

476
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Speaker 3: ever have a good relationship with her, But right now,

477
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Speaker 3: I'm just going to enjoy what I have with the

478
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Speaker 3: people I love the most, and that's the right answer opening.

479
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Speaker 4: And there we go, and I agree.

480
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Speaker 3: There's no need for drama, no need for that, especially

481
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Speaker 3: if it's like your own mom who literally abandoned you

482
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Speaker 3: and then came back and stole your money.

483
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Speaker 4: That was wild, stole your spare change, literally stole coins

484
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Speaker 4: from like a seven year old, like stealing candy from

485
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Speaker 4: a baby, except stealing money from your piggy bank.

486
00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:19,680
Speaker 3: But that is the end of that story.

487
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Speaker 6: My boyfriend's family excluded me. Now they're inviting me back.

488
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Speaker 3: I like to introduce you to my book. Too little,

489
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Speaker 3: too late.

490
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Speaker 6: I've never really had a family, and it breaks my heart.

491
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Speaker 6: I had an exceptionally difficult childhood and have struggled into adulthood,

492
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Speaker 6: successful now with friends and a boyfriend, but still filled

493
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Speaker 6: lonely without a family. My boyfriend, who I live with,

494
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Speaker 6: invited me to Christmas this year at his parents' house,

495
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Speaker 6: checked in with his parents, and then asked me if

496
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Speaker 6: I would like to join them. I was so happy

497
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Speaker 6: that this year I wouldn't have to dread Christmas. A

498
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Speaker 6: couple of days later, he told me his family had

499
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Speaker 6: retracted the invite because his sister thinks it should only

500
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Speaker 6: be family. He has since had talks with all of

501
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Speaker 6: his family about how much it has hurt me and

502
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Speaker 6: what they have done, how I will be all alone

503
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Speaker 6: and I'm so devastated about it, how I have never

504
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Speaker 6: had family. They literally said, it's none of our concern.

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Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, how long have they been dating? Keon

506
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Speaker 6: Bud how long have they been dating?

507
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Speaker 1: They have been dating doesn't say?

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Speaker 6: You might get that answer soon, Hold on time, hold

509
00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:26,680
Speaker 6: on to your breeches, your canory. I've always been nice

510
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Speaker 6: to them. I'm not a bad person. I love their son,

511
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Speaker 6: and I have a good job and an education. I

512
00:20:32,119 --> 00:20:34,439
Speaker 6: don't know what else they want. By the way, we

513
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Speaker 6: want you to know this comes from ex mus advice

514
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Speaker 6: throwaway on our favorite subreddit. And you know what that's called.

515
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Speaker 6: I am Riley Wilson, I'm spin.

516
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Speaker 1: On, I'm ke as Opie says.

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Speaker 6: I don't understand how they can be so cold as

518
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Speaker 6: to say they don't care at all that I'll be alone.

519
00:20:50,560 --> 00:20:52,639
Speaker 6: My boyfriend is going to tell them he is spinning

520
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Speaker 6: Christmas with me. Instead of them today, which I am

521
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Speaker 6: so touched by. But at the same time, I know

522
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Speaker 6: he's only doing it because he feels good. He says

523
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Speaker 6: that on Christmas Day he'll call his mother and that

524
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Speaker 6: she and him will both be so upset that they're

525
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Speaker 6: not spending Christmas together. But that was her decision. She

526
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Speaker 6: could have told her daughter that it was too late,

527
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Speaker 6: that they had already been invited, and that Christmas is

528
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Speaker 6: a time be caring about others. I know that my

529
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Speaker 6: boyfriend is going to be the one who feels hard

530
00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:22,960
Speaker 6: done by, though, he will just feel sorry for himself

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Speaker 6: all day because he can't be with his family. He

532
00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:29,240
Speaker 6: has always had a family, always had everything he's ever wanted.

533
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Speaker 6: He doesn't understand how upsetting this is for me, So

534
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Speaker 6: is it worth it? Should I just really let him

535
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Speaker 6: do this, knowing he doesn't understand why this is important

536
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Speaker 6: to me and that he just feels like a little

537
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Speaker 6: boy taken away from his parents. Or should I resign

538
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Speaker 6: to be alone and miserable?

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Speaker 1: Dang, when you put it? When do you put it

540
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Speaker 1: like that?

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Speaker 6: I don't note. I have, of course, realized that having

542
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Speaker 6: no plans for Christmas could be the ideal time to

543
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Speaker 6: help those less fortunate than me. But all of the

544
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Speaker 6: charity opportunities in my city are already full of volunteers.

545
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Speaker 6: Although that is a wonderful thing. Of course, bro just

546
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Speaker 6: show up. The list was full, But I'm here to help.

547
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Speaker 3: Oh, like show up to I thought you might show

548
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Speaker 3: up to like the family party if.

549
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Speaker 6: They got enough volunteer. Show up as one of those

550
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Speaker 6: less fortunate.

551
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Speaker 3: No one says you can't show up as less fortunate

552
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Speaker 3: that we are.

553
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Speaker 6: They gonna check my ID?

554
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Speaker 3: What are you gonna ask my annual income?

555
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Speaker 6: I left it at home. I'm at not my home.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I mean, truly, it is the holidays, and if

557
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Speaker 1: they it is their place and it's just for family. Unfortunately,

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Speaker 1: I kind of understand both sides of like do you

559
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Speaker 1: want to go but you don't want to be alone

560
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Speaker 1: and miserable? But what would you what would you have

561
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Speaker 1: done if you weren't dating this guy?

562
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Speaker 6: Disagree?

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Speaker 1: I mean, this is the time to spend spend it

564
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Speaker 1: together and you know, share, But I don't know, some

565
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Speaker 1: people just don't want to do that.

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Speaker 6: This is really really upsetateing. What do you what are

567
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Speaker 6: you doing Wednesday night? Yah?

568
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Speaker 3: I don't know if I did this. I'd get so young.

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Speaker 6: What do Wednesday night?

570
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Speaker 1: I don't know yet.

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Speaker 6: Why you wanna wanna get dinner?

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Speaker 1: Sure?

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Speaker 6: Oh wait, wait wait my girlfriends just tex. You can't

574
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Speaker 6: come with us anymore. Okay, you were not coming anymore.

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Speaker 1: I respect that.

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Speaker 6: See if that happened to me, I'd be hurt.

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Speaker 3: I'd be hurt. I'd be like, what why? They we're

578
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Speaker 3: all friends?

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Speaker 1: Plans change? I respect that, I will.

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Speaker 3: I would be upset. Well whatever, it's not like I'm

581
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Speaker 3: part of the relationship, So I guess go have a date.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna make new plans.

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Speaker 2: Riley.

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Speaker 6: I know that if this was my family, they wouldn't

585
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Speaker 6: do this stuff.

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Speaker 1: You know what, It's probably different for me because when

587
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Speaker 1: it comes to the holidays, not the best time for me.

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Speaker 3: There's always different people at my holiday parties. Fun isn't Yeah,

589
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Speaker 3: I mean nobody makes them feel left out. Everyone who

590
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Speaker 3: comes in there like what did I just walk into?

591
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Speaker 3: We're like, yeah, at it.

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Speaker 6: I really like the suggestion a few of you gave

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Speaker 6: about him spending part of the day with his family

594
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Speaker 6: and part of the day with me. When I suggested

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Speaker 6: it this morning, he was keen to spend at least

596
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Speaker 6: half of the day. There After showing him this thread,

597
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Speaker 6: he refused to tell them anything other than that he

598
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Speaker 6: will be spending the whole day with me. That makes

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Speaker 6: me feel really valuable to him, and he isn't just

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Speaker 6: doing this to placate me. So thank you guys for

601
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Speaker 6: your excellent points, which I think have been better than

602
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Speaker 6: any I have been able to make, and explaining what

603
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Speaker 6: this means. I would still like to feel more comfortable

604
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Speaker 6: if he spent part of the day with them, and

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Speaker 6: he appreciates that and says he will consider it at

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Speaker 6: a later date, but for now, he wants to make

607
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Speaker 6: the point that he's hurt by what they did, and

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Speaker 6: I'm a part of his family tool. I couldn't ask

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Speaker 6: for more in the situation. He has just headed over

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Speaker 6: to their house. I hope it goes okay, and I

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Speaker 6: hope that in a couple of days it can all

612
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Speaker 6: be sorted out and we can make the best of

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Speaker 6: a bad situation. Savannah, you think the family can make

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Speaker 6: the best out of this bad situation. The family, yeah,

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Speaker 6: you think, oh, maybe we were wrong, maybe we're being

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Speaker 6: just silly.

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Speaker 3: I doubt they're gonna be like, oh, yeah, we're wrong.

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Speaker 3: But the thing is everyone has their own family dynamics,

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Speaker 3: so like trying to force yourself into I don't think

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Speaker 3: she's trying to force herself into it, though. I think

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Speaker 3: she's like I understand, like she wants him to go.

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Speaker 3: She's like, no, you should. It's your family. You do

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Speaker 3: what you need to do because it's a holiday, you

624
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Speaker 3: should spend it with your family. And she's like, I

625
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Speaker 3: just don't have that, and I don't want to take

626
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Speaker 3: that away from you. If you do have it, of

627
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Speaker 3: course I would love to spend it with your family.

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Speaker 6: I don't want you to be like me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And so I don't think that she's trying to

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Speaker 3: like persuade him either way, Like she really is giving

631
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Speaker 3: him his decision and he is mad enough to make it.

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Speaker 3: So you really a problem.

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Speaker 1: If I were Opie's boyfriend, I'd fight for that. She'd

634
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Speaker 1: be like yeah, no, yeah, I'd be like, no, she's coming,

635
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Speaker 1: Why why is she not coming? This is dumb? She's coming.

636
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Speaker 3: Yeah, you just want me to leave her at home alone.

637
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Speaker 3: I'll be like, well, it's just family, and.

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Speaker 1: Exactly, she's my family.

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Speaker 6: I'm coming, We're coming.

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Speaker 1: Well not like that, yes, like that.

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Speaker 6: Do says reminds me of another story where the OPSGF

642
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Speaker 6: try to force herself into a family events because she

643
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Speaker 6: grew up in orphan and only dated OP because she

644
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Speaker 6: thought she was getting in stuff family.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, see no, that's like rama Bond.

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Speaker 1: I don't know when you when you do the what

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Speaker 1: Riley did earlier is again you invited me and said

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Speaker 1: it was okay, and then said I couldn't come because

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Speaker 1: that's the excuse is it's just a family affair. Annoying.

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Speaker 1: It's very stupid and like, okay, I was all excited.

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Speaker 3: I don't think they'll try to be mean in the

652
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Speaker 3: sense that like they don't like her and they're trying

653
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Speaker 3: to come up with them excuse. Just be like, actually,

654
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Speaker 3: it's just family.

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Speaker 1: I think he's only excuse that you can't add like,

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Speaker 1: oh we're I can full capacity. Yeah, we don't have

657
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Speaker 1: an extra chair for you.

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Speaker 4: It's there.

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Speaker 3: If they don't want her there because of some weird reason,

660
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Speaker 3: and this is just their excuse, that's a different thing

661
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Speaker 3: we're dealing with.

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Speaker 6: Hello again. I had quite a few people request an

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Speaker 6: update on my original posts, so here it is. First,

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Speaker 6: it made me realize I was not crazy. Secondly, it

665
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Speaker 6: gave my boyfriend the understanding that not everything his parents

666
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Speaker 6: say is indisputable gospel, and most importantly, it inspired me

667
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Speaker 6: to be as nice as possible about the situation, even

668
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Speaker 6: though that it was quite difficult. So after this post,

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Speaker 6: our plan was that he will explain to his family

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Speaker 6: that it was wrong to treat me that way and

671
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Speaker 6: that even if I'm not a part of their family,

672
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Speaker 6: I am still a part of his and he still

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Speaker 6: wanted to spend the day with me, so he would

674
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Speaker 6: not be there for Christmas at all that day.

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Speaker 1: That makes sense.

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Speaker 3: They're not training him really with respect either by saying no,

677
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Speaker 3: your significant other can't come. If it was like maybe

678
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:14,480
Speaker 3: a first time meeting type thing, then yeah, I'd be like, actually, no,

679
00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:16,399
Speaker 3: this is just gonna be family. But they've been together.

680
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 3: I'm sure they know because this is your second date,

681
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:22,080
Speaker 3: there should be here. Yeah, Like I understand that because

682
00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:23,560
Speaker 3: it's like the stranger whatever.

683
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Speaker 6: But it's not that.

684
00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:26,680
Speaker 3: But it's not that they know you, so I don't

685
00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:27,600
Speaker 3: understand the big deal.

686
00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:30,280
Speaker 6: But whatever, here it is Taylor Coo. Ever since I've

687
00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 6: been twenty ish, x mess has been pretty lonely because

688
00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:36,840
Speaker 6: my ex's family stopped getting together regularly, and my family

689
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:39,960
Speaker 6: stopped making plans more than briefly stopping in to see

690
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Speaker 6: each other sometimes. If I'm lucky, say the cow, I'm

691
00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:45,199
Speaker 6: so sorry, drop down where you're from. I think my

692
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:46,320
Speaker 6: family's looking to adopt.

693
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Speaker 1: Aw, that's like my Christmas. Like what that's like my Christmas.

694
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Speaker 6: Looking to adopt. Honestly, perhaps naively, we expect it. At

695
00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:56,080
Speaker 6: this point they would see reason and he would be

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Speaker 6: able to offer to spend part of the day with

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Speaker 6: them and part of it with me. Unfortunately, this did

698
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:05,160
Speaker 6: not happen, and they simply responded with lies and guilt trips,

699
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:08,679
Speaker 6: and so to make the point, he did not spend

700
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Speaker 6: any of the day there.

701
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Speaker 1: What a couple of grinches, you know, and scrooges.

702
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:16,800
Speaker 6: Yeah, and Jack Frost's Jack Frost cold hearted people.

703
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, grampuses.

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Speaker 3: It sucks that, you know, they can't just be happy

705
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:22,720
Speaker 3: for him. They have to find some sort of thing

706
00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:26,119
Speaker 3: to be angry or have an unjustified explanation.

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Speaker 6: Initially, I was furious at them because his parents' response

708
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:32,280
Speaker 6: was that, in spite of the fact that they had

709
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Speaker 6: invited me, they strongly believed that Christmas was for family only,

710
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Speaker 6: and that's how they were raised.

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Speaker 1: I'm showing them every Christmas movie ever.

712
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:44,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, literally, what's the confounds of a Christmas movie? Keon?

713
00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:48,360
Speaker 3: Like everyone comes in no matter what, and everyone's like celebrated.

714
00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:49,920
Speaker 1: Depends on your views on Christmas?

715
00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:51,960
Speaker 6: Uh, die Hard? Why is that a Christmas movie?

716
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Speaker 1: Because they have Christmas music, it's during the holidays, they

717
00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:56,840
Speaker 1: say Merry Christmas, and everyone's happy at the end of it.

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Speaker 6: I thought there was like a few more other things

719
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Speaker 6: other than.

720
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Speaker 1: The people who got unlived. But they were mean people.

721
00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:01,880
Speaker 3: So it's fine.

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Speaker 6: What how do you even raise a child that way? Remember,

723
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:08,600
Speaker 6: little to me, always look both ways when crossing the road,

724
00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 6: don't accept candy from strangers, and always exclude those who

725
00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:15,320
Speaker 6: aren't blood related from Christmas dinner. When he pointed out

726
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Speaker 6: to them that that was a blatant lie, as when

727
00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:21,760
Speaker 6: he first suggested inviting me, they immediately accepted and then

728
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 6: even said we could host it at our house and

729
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:27,280
Speaker 6: they would come to us, his mother simply said, I

730
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Speaker 6: don't know why I said that. It makes me so

731
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Speaker 6: angry that they would lie like this. What they were

732
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Speaker 6: saying was the case, then they would never have invited

733
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Speaker 6: me and never had to retract the invite but I

734
00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:40,840
Speaker 6: thought about what you guys said and decided to calm

735
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Speaker 6: down and just thank my boyfriend for standing up to

736
00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:46,800
Speaker 6: me instead of telling him how upset I was at them.

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Speaker 6: On Christmas Eve, he went to see them, and they

738
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Speaker 6: put a lot of effort into guilt tripping him, saying

739
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Speaker 6: things like it won't be the same without you, and

740
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:58,120
Speaker 6: you're really upsetting your mother. Gues whose fault that is

741
00:29:58,280 --> 00:29:58,960
Speaker 6: your mom's?

742
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Speaker 5: Your mom is called what's up with this guilt trip?

743
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:07,240
Speaker 1: It's the holidays, happy guilt tripping, happy guilt tripping days.

744
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Speaker 6: This too, I find ridiculous, as they are the ones

745
00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:12,680
Speaker 6: who caused the upset and could have not let this

746
00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:15,640
Speaker 6: situation happen at all. The worst part of this was

747
00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:18,680
Speaker 6: it completely worked on my boyfriend. He told me about

748
00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:21,400
Speaker 6: midnight on Christmas Eve that he was thinking about going

749
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Speaker 6: over there for the part of the day because he

750
00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:26,600
Speaker 6: didn't want to upset his family. We had discussion about

751
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Speaker 6: how he is a man now and should not take

752
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Speaker 6: everything his parents say as a fact and analyze the

753
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Speaker 6: situation launchically.

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Speaker 6: Mom, do you remember that day you realize what your

758
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 6: parents say was in a fact, it took till college

759
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Speaker 6: for me to figure that out. My mom she sent

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Speaker 6: me with a ton a ton of vitamins. What kind

761
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Speaker 6: of vitamins she was in her vitamin bag, dude, she

762
00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:56,200
Speaker 6: was like B twelve three D three, like all this stuff.

763
00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 6: She sent me with, like a lot of expensive vitamins.

764
00:30:58,280 --> 00:30:59,720
Speaker 6: And then she was like, hey, you taking them? And

765
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Speaker 6: I was like every time I felt bad, like, I

766
00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:03,680
Speaker 6: was like, yeah, I'll take it off and I want

767
00:31:03,720 --> 00:31:05,239
Speaker 6: to get some of them on the call with their

768
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:07,880
Speaker 6: like drink them. But then I realized I didn't have

769
00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 6: to keep basking her for him. I was like, ah,

770
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Speaker 6: I just won't keep up with this, mom. I'm sorry,

771
00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 6: you shouldn't spend lots of money on vitamins for me,

772
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Speaker 6: your mom.

773
00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:16,560
Speaker 4: Said, my mom will do that.

774
00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:18,320
Speaker 6: Yeah, we're not doing that anymore.

775
00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 3: My mom will like buy me stuff and then be like, oh,

776
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 3: you should do this, you should do this, and I'm

777
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:24,520
Speaker 3: like I don't want to do that, and she's like, okay,

778
00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:27,720
Speaker 3: well you hate me, like should and then no, should

779
00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:30,160
Speaker 3: be like she'll get mad and she'll be like, okay, whatever,

780
00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:32,040
Speaker 3: I guess you don't appreciate it. I'm like, no, it's

781
00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:33,920
Speaker 3: just I don't. I don't know. I don't want to do.

782
00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:35,160
Speaker 1: I'm a college kid.

783
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 3: It's like when when she got me a Snorkelean set

784
00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:42,440
Speaker 3: for for Christmas, and I was like, yeah, She's like, yeah,

785
00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:44,720
Speaker 3: you can snorflant there. He said, no, I can't. Actually,

786
00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 3: the water's disgusting West Virginia. No here in California. She

787
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:52,120
Speaker 3: wants me to go snor clean And I said, first

788
00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:54,880
Speaker 3: of all, the water's disgusting and it's also freezing.

789
00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 1: And what You're like, where at the pool?

790
00:31:57,480 --> 00:31:59,040
Speaker 3: Yeah? I was like I don't know where to go?

791
00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:01,200
Speaker 6: Like what, there's no fish out here?

792
00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:03,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like okay, thanks.

793
00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:07,200
Speaker 6: I had pointed out that his family had brought this

794
00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:10,840
Speaker 6: on themselves and could have easily still had him at Christmas,

795
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:15,880
Speaker 6: either by not retracting my invint reinstating it if they

796
00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:19,160
Speaker 6: really valued having him there that much. The fact is

797
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:21,880
Speaker 6: that my boyfriend behaves like a child when it comes

798
00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 6: to his parents is very worrying to me. But he

799
00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:28,000
Speaker 6: still behaved like an adult and stood true to his word,

800
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:30,640
Speaker 6: spinning Christmas with me well, you know, that's why you

801
00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:32,440
Speaker 6: have a boyfriend. It's like a testro see how he

802
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:35,040
Speaker 6: does with the parents. Can't stand up to him? All right,

803
00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:36,400
Speaker 6: that's now ex boyfriend.

804
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:37,840
Speaker 3: Well, I don't know, I don't.

805
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:39,000
Speaker 1: I think it depends on the case.

806
00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:41,479
Speaker 6: But yes, if he is, if he cannot have a

807
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:44,600
Speaker 6: spine against his parents, that should not be, so you

808
00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:45,280
Speaker 6: should stay well.

809
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:47,440
Speaker 3: Against his parents. I thought you meant against her.

810
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:48,880
Speaker 6: No, no, no, I was saying.

811
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:51,680
Speaker 1: Against his in this scenario. Yeah.

812
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:55,120
Speaker 6: So the happy ending is that we did indeed spend

813
00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:56,080
Speaker 6: Christmas together.

814
00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:57,480
Speaker 1: What movies did you watch?

815
00:32:57,800 --> 00:33:00,440
Speaker 6: With plenty of good wishes from our friends who knew

816
00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:03,040
Speaker 6: what was going on. His best friend's family hosted us

817
00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:06,160
Speaker 6: for Christmas Eve dinner, which was very sweet. Dude, Why

818
00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:07,440
Speaker 6: couldn't you guys just do that?

819
00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:09,440
Speaker 5: Friends always come through, They really do.

820
00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:12,480
Speaker 3: True, and like your family's bothering you, friends will always

821
00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:12,800
Speaker 3: come through.

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Speaker 1: It's like, cut over, it's my friend's family. Does they

823
00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:17,040
Speaker 1: say come to ours for Christmas?

824
00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:17,240
Speaker 3: Oh?

825
00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:18,200
Speaker 1: Say, it's very sweet.

826
00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:19,800
Speaker 3: My family advites anyone. They're like, oh, you don't have

827
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Speaker 3: to come on over.

828
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Speaker 6: That's how Christmas should be.

829
00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:26,000
Speaker 1: That's just anything though, that's the spirit of Christmas, Yes,

830
00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:28,920
Speaker 1: and not buying gifts from all the big companies.

831
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Speaker 6: I bought us both amazing ones easy, inspired by a

832
00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:36,440
Speaker 6: comment on original post suggesting we get sweet pjs and

833
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:39,920
Speaker 6: make his sister jealous of our sweet pjs. We made

834
00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:43,000
Speaker 6: amazing breakfast and exchange stockings.

835
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Speaker 3: Cute.

836
00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 6: We're not religious, but we do live close to an

837
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 6: amazing cathedral, like world famous, amazing. We're very lucky, so

838
00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:54,080
Speaker 6: we went there for carols and it was very beautiful.

839
00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:55,960
Speaker 1: This was Carly's family for me when I went up

840
00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:57,320
Speaker 1: for the holidays. Too, very sweet.

841
00:33:57,320 --> 00:34:00,239
Speaker 6: I almost win my joke there. We're not really religious.

842
00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:03,080
Speaker 6: Soaking his dishes mmmm, locked and loaded.

843
00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 1: That's what God he's like.

844
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:08,839
Speaker 6: Yeah, he cooked us an amazing dinner. We loved all

845
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:12,040
Speaker 6: the suggestions of getting Chinese food or pizza delivered, but

846
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:14,840
Speaker 6: stuck to the roast turkey in the end, and he

847
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:17,840
Speaker 6: is an excellent cook. We exchanged gifts and watch some

848
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:20,920
Speaker 6: Christmas movies on our projector. He has gone to his parents'

849
00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:23,719
Speaker 6: house for Boxing Day. I don't know how they have

850
00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:26,200
Speaker 6: treated him today, and I don't expect he will tell

851
00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:28,960
Speaker 6: me anything, because he will protect me from anything bad

852
00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:31,120
Speaker 6: they say, which I appreciate.

853
00:34:30,680 --> 00:34:31,440
Speaker 1: They are British.

854
00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:32,279
Speaker 6: I knew what I called it.

855
00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:33,839
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, Boxing Day.

856
00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:36,560
Speaker 6: Inspired by all of your messages which told me to

857
00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:40,400
Speaker 6: be gracious and kind, I bought them a nice Christmas

858
00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:42,680
Speaker 6: present which he is taken to them today and I

859
00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:44,680
Speaker 6: hope they see it as a peace offering.

860
00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:48,880
Speaker 1: Oh he's unliving them with kindness, yeah, and the Christmas spirit.

861
00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:50,319
Speaker 6: That's what Savannah does with me.

862
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:52,880
Speaker 3: I do with everyone. I'll be nice and then you

863
00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:54,560
Speaker 3: can feel bad on your own. I don't need to

864
00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:55,719
Speaker 3: remind you. You already know you.

865
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Speaker 6: F to up. It was some stalking gifts, Yeah, he

866
00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:00,520
Speaker 6: literally and he gave me a whole spiel year about

867
00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:02,759
Speaker 6: how I didn't do this thing, and it turned out

868
00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:04,560
Speaker 6: it was him who didn't do it, and I just

869
00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:05,359
Speaker 6: I just took it.

870
00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 1: Any you do give him banana bread and.

871
00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 6: Me like, you're really gonna bring that open note.

872
00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:09,680
Speaker 1: Canada's Bucking Day too.

873
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:11,640
Speaker 3: I knew I didn't do it, but I was like, oh,

874
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:12,480
Speaker 3: maybe I don't know.

875
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:14,879
Speaker 6: I'm sorry, I'm sorry I messed up.

876
00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:17,279
Speaker 1: I like how Riley literally went to everyone for that

877
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:20,320
Speaker 1: and it was it was pretty funny.

878
00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:22,520
Speaker 6: And you know what happens, Yeah, it does happen.

879
00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:23,399
Speaker 3: You just want to know.

880
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:27,480
Speaker 6: I hope that this has established some boundaries and what

881
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 6: is an acceptable way to treat their son's partner. And

882
00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:32,160
Speaker 6: if they open their family to me at some point

883
00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:35,120
Speaker 6: in the future, I will welcome them with open arms.

884
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:37,560
Speaker 6: Update too, Do you think it gets worse?

885
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:40,680
Speaker 1: I think they're gonna get They're gonna rescend the package

886
00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:42,279
Speaker 1: or the gift that Opie got.

887
00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:44,759
Speaker 6: Oh no, I don't know.

888
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:47,040
Speaker 3: I don't think that they'll be that petty. Do you

889
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:47,400
Speaker 3: think so?

890
00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:47,880
Speaker 4: Really?

891
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:49,480
Speaker 1: I mean they were petty in the first place, of

892
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 1: trying to guilt trip Opie, Opie's boyfriend.

893
00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:52,480
Speaker 6: This is true.

894
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:54,880
Speaker 1: If they can do that, they can do anything that

895
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:56,919
Speaker 1: is true. And I don't mean that in a good way.

896
00:35:57,120 --> 00:35:59,960
Speaker 6: Update too, As I mentioned, my boyfriend spent the day

897
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:02,799
Speaker 6: after Christmas with his family. Boxing Day. I sent a

898
00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:05,440
Speaker 6: present for them along with him, a nice cookbook. He

899
00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:08,880
Speaker 6: came home that evening with about a billion presents that

900
00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:11,640
Speaker 6: they had gotten him, not unusual for him, so at

901
00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:14,680
Speaker 6: least they weren't making a point there or at whatever.

902
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:18,000
Speaker 6: And also a present they got me. I was pretty surprised,

903
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:18,520
Speaker 6: to be honest.

904
00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:20,680
Speaker 3: Was it the cook they just rewrapped?

905
00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:22,120
Speaker 4: It and gave it all.

906
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:26,120
Speaker 6: I thought they maybe got a last minute gift when

907
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:28,799
Speaker 6: they realized I had gotten them a present, But upon

908
00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:31,640
Speaker 6: opening it, that clearly wasn't the case. You will all

909
00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:33,759
Speaker 6: think I'm a loser if I say what it is.

910
00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:36,719
Speaker 6: But basically, it was a piece of kitchen equipment i'd

911
00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:39,239
Speaker 6: admired at their house and they had bought me my

912
00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:43,000
Speaker 6: own that was even nicer than theirs. Oh dang air

913
00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:45,520
Speaker 6: fryer or an ice machine.

914
00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:50,319
Speaker 3: I thought, a really nice spoon holder, nice knife spoon holder. Yeah,

915
00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:53,480
Speaker 3: I like kind of talked about like she admired it.

916
00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:55,600
Speaker 3: Like if I saw something like pretty, I'd be like,

917
00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:57,840
Speaker 3: oh my god, I love the spoon holder. It's so pretty.

918
00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:00,640
Speaker 3: Make a spoon holder are nice?

919
00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:02,640
Speaker 6: What do you mean you have drawers for that?

920
00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:03,200
Speaker 2: No?

921
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:08,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, put them inholder when you're like cooking like stuff

922
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:10,400
Speaker 3: and then like you're mixing up whatever, then you like

923
00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:11,000
Speaker 3: set it down.

924
00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:12,600
Speaker 4: Spoon holder. It holds your spoon.

925
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:14,279
Speaker 3: You don't put it back in the drawer now you

926
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:15,600
Speaker 3: just everything's blue.

927
00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:16,160
Speaker 6: I do.

928
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:17,800
Speaker 1: But it was like a really fancy whisk.

929
00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:19,000
Speaker 6: I don't know what it is.

930
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:22,640
Speaker 3: She should say, this does make me hungry.

931
00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:25,600
Speaker 6: So I thought that was really nice and thoughtful and

932
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:28,080
Speaker 6: a good sign. It pretty much kept quiet about what

933
00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:31,319
Speaker 6: the reaction i'd been about him going through but not

934
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:33,880
Speaker 6: going to their Christmas. But he did mention to our

935
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:37,840
Speaker 6: friends that they had kept making snide comments, and so

936
00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:40,919
Speaker 6: he had made snide comments in return. I didn't ask

937
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:43,719
Speaker 6: for details because I figured he was protecting me and

938
00:37:43,760 --> 00:37:46,000
Speaker 6: I didn't want to get more upset. Yesterday, he was

939
00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:48,120
Speaker 6: going over there to pick up some furniture they don't

940
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:51,759
Speaker 6: need anymore, which they are giving us, So I decided

941
00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:54,440
Speaker 6: to go to to show them I want to make

942
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:56,760
Speaker 6: an effort and that I am grateful for the help

943
00:37:56,800 --> 00:37:58,839
Speaker 6: they have given us with our house. They gave us

944
00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:01,160
Speaker 6: about half of her friend sure when we moved in

945
00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:03,799
Speaker 6: ages ago. On the way, wait, they lived together and

946
00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:04,640
Speaker 6: they still don't want.

947
00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:06,120
Speaker 3: You being there, That's what I'm saying.

948
00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:09,640
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's crazy. On the way, I asked them what

949
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:12,719
Speaker 6: level of dislike I could expect, and he said they

950
00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:16,440
Speaker 6: weren't very happy about a relationship at the moment, which

951
00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:19,719
Speaker 6: to me really pissed me off, because hello, it's a

952
00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:22,440
Speaker 6: great relationship. He behaved the way you should behave in

953
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:25,719
Speaker 6: a relationship, not going back on your word and not

954
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:29,080
Speaker 6: doing things I hurt your partner, but I decided to

955
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:32,799
Speaker 6: still be kind anyway. His mom was really nice to

956
00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:35,160
Speaker 6: me and acted normal. Do we believe them?

957
00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:38,520
Speaker 3: No, I mean, I don't think everything's set in stone, like, no,

958
00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:41,960
Speaker 3: everyone's over it the end. I think there's some I

959
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:44,200
Speaker 3: don't know. The water is still muddy.

960
00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:44,759
Speaker 1: Mm hmm.

961
00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:48,319
Speaker 3: I don't know how to fix that because I feel

962
00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:51,280
Speaker 3: like you shouldn't keep like sucking up to the family. Yeah,

963
00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:52,879
Speaker 3: I feel like that's not going to be a good

964
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:54,520
Speaker 3: thing to do, like not a great habit.

965
00:38:54,719 --> 00:38:55,719
Speaker 1: Or she's like a pushover.

966
00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:58,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, like having to please them and then everything's good.

967
00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:00,960
Speaker 3: Like you shouldn't do that. But I also don't think

968
00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:03,120
Speaker 3: that you need to like go overboard and call them

969
00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:04,760
Speaker 3: out and be mean and whatever.

970
00:39:05,080 --> 00:39:10,120
Speaker 6: Oh, mommy, mommy, I am so sorry. I'm so sorry, Mommy, Mommy,

971
00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:13,319
Speaker 6: she didn't do that. I'm mommy mommy because she doesn't

972
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 6: have a mother and that would be her soon to

973
00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:16,319
Speaker 6: be mother one day.

974
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:19,239
Speaker 5: Figie pudding, Oh, the piggie pudding was so good.

975
00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:22,759
Speaker 6: Thank you for the chocolate. Wait, wait was the fruitcake? Oh,

976
00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:24,799
Speaker 6: thank you for the fruitcake. I appreciate it.

977
00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:27,080
Speaker 3: Oh, mommy, mommy, mommy, mommy.

978
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:29,520
Speaker 6: Also, someone pissed me off recently. They said that British

979
00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:32,719
Speaker 6: accents are very similar similar to Southern accents, and it

980
00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:33,680
Speaker 6: pissed me off.

981
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:38,080
Speaker 3: We are not the same similar in like IPA.

982
00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:40,560
Speaker 6: I don't know. I did speak to someone and boy

983
00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:42,719
Speaker 6: and they were like, oh, are you from Britain? And

984
00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:44,120
Speaker 6: I'm like, no, I'm Southern.

985
00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:47,480
Speaker 3: There is like the twin kind of If you studied

986
00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:51,080
Speaker 3: IPA at the International Phonetic Alphabet, you know they are

987
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:51,840
Speaker 3: kind of similar.

988
00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:53,839
Speaker 6: Did you actually learn the row alphabet too?

989
00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:54,160
Speaker 3: No?

990
00:39:54,440 --> 00:39:55,040
Speaker 4: I learned.

991
00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:57,560
Speaker 3: Shut up. I learned both, but I had to learn

992
00:39:57,600 --> 00:39:59,520
Speaker 3: a whole bit ip a whole different language. You have

993
00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:01,000
Speaker 3: to take voice addiction as an actor.

994
00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:02,920
Speaker 6: What's the biggest planet in the socialism?

995
00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:04,600
Speaker 3: I didn't need to know that. That's never going to

996
00:40:04,640 --> 00:40:06,200
Speaker 3: come up in my life. When am I going to

997
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:07,920
Speaker 3: go to a planet other than this one?

998
00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:10,120
Speaker 6: We had a chat and a drink together while my

999
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:13,040
Speaker 6: boyfriend was helping his dad with this computer. His dad

1000
00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:15,319
Speaker 6: didn't give me a hug or a hello like he

1001
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:18,320
Speaker 6: usually does, or really say anything to me or whatever.

1002
00:40:18,520 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 6: I tried and made sure to thank him very much

1003
00:40:21,239 --> 00:40:24,120
Speaker 6: for the furniture. The sisters weren't there, so that's the

1004
00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:26,440
Speaker 6: end of the update. I'm going to a big family

1005
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:29,120
Speaker 6: event of theirs in a few weeks, which I'm nervous about,

1006
00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:32,360
Speaker 6: but also excited to meet the extended family. We says

1007
00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:35,000
Speaker 6: are keen to meet me too, so wish me luck.

1008
00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:36,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, good luck.

1009
00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:38,799
Speaker 3: I think it'll be good. I think just give it time.

1010
00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:41,600
Speaker 3: Sometimes people are a little afraid, maybe they don't agree

1011
00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:44,560
Speaker 3: with the relationship, and then in time you prove him wrong.

1012
00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:45,680
Speaker 3: That's all you can do.

1013
00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:47,960
Speaker 6: You know how long it takes the baked potato.

1014
00:40:47,880 --> 00:40:50,160
Speaker 3: Like, well, it depends how you bake it, but I

1015
00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:52,520
Speaker 3: would say an hour takes time.

1016
00:40:52,680 --> 00:40:57,799
Speaker 6: My fiance canceled our engagement because I refuse to apologize

1017
00:40:57,840 --> 00:40:58,439
Speaker 6: to his mother.

1018
00:40:58,840 --> 00:40:59,319
Speaker 3: That's shit.

1019
00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:02,600
Speaker 6: What done? Me and my fiance We're excited about buying

1020
00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:05,200
Speaker 6: an apartment together. He was very happy about it, and

1021
00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:07,000
Speaker 6: he promised me you would take it.

1022
00:41:07,040 --> 00:41:07,360
Speaker 5: Take what.

1023
00:41:07,600 --> 00:41:10,359
Speaker 6: The apartment was in a good location, closer to where

1024
00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:12,200
Speaker 6: he wanted to be, and we both thought it was

1025
00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:14,160
Speaker 6: a good deal. By the way, this comes from do

1026
00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:16,359
Speaker 6: swimming three six two and if you want to your

1027
00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:18,560
Speaker 6: own stories, you know where to go. Hope he says

1028
00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:22,000
Speaker 6: we are both new to buying apartments, but his parents

1029
00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:26,080
Speaker 6: have experiences buying multiple houses and apartments before.

1030
00:41:25,880 --> 00:41:31,160
Speaker 4: Money, multiple apartments before I'm about to just got my one,

1031
00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:31,800
Speaker 4: could on hundreds?

1032
00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:32,080
Speaker 3: Have one?

1033
00:41:32,080 --> 00:41:33,960
Speaker 1: Looks like they play it like monopoly.

1034
00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:35,600
Speaker 4: And you get an apartment, and you get an apartment.

1035
00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:37,000
Speaker 6: What's the best part in a monopoly?

1036
00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:39,160
Speaker 5: Go Pasco, She's not wrong.

1037
00:41:40,360 --> 00:41:40,800
Speaker 3: Land on go?

1038
00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:41,799
Speaker 4: Do you play that rule?

1039
00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:43,320
Speaker 6: No, one hundred, it's two hundred.

1040
00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:44,799
Speaker 4: I love know when you land on go.

1041
00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:45,920
Speaker 1: No, I don't play that role.

1042
00:41:45,960 --> 00:41:47,680
Speaker 4: Oh I love playing the rule where you if you

1043
00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:49,200
Speaker 4: land on go, you get four hundred.

1044
00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:50,520
Speaker 6: I feel like they just made that to make you

1045
00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:50,879
Speaker 6: feel warm.

1046
00:41:50,920 --> 00:41:52,719
Speaker 1: Give me the blue. I like the blue, even though

1047
00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:54,759
Speaker 1: everyone says it's too like it's like not the best

1048
00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:56,279
Speaker 1: one strategically, But I like the blue.

1049
00:41:56,360 --> 00:41:58,120
Speaker 6: It's the red and orange that's the best.

1050
00:41:58,280 --> 00:41:59,120
Speaker 1: The orange, Tennessee.

1051
00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:00,759
Speaker 6: The red and orange is like where you want to

1052
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 6: be working.

1053
00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:02,840
Speaker 4: You guess plan that if you land on like free

1054
00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:05,960
Speaker 4: parking the whole time you've been putting. Anytime someone gets taxes,

1055
00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:07,279
Speaker 4: you put in the middle. And then if you land

1056
00:42:07,280 --> 00:42:08,279
Speaker 4: on free parking, it all the money.

1057
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:10,600
Speaker 1: If you want to make the game quicker, he is, Oh, yeah.

1058
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:13,400
Speaker 4: Money goes real quick. We always end up out of money.

1059
00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:15,760
Speaker 6: Well, I assume they would help him check all the costs.

1060
00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:18,759
Speaker 6: He was going to write the contracts, but suddenly he

1061
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:21,720
Speaker 6: said it was too expensive, even though he never really

1062
00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:26,200
Speaker 6: checked everything out fully before promising me. This felt strange

1063
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:30,840
Speaker 6: because his family is experienced, and he seemed confident at first,

1064
00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:33,799
Speaker 6: but then backed off when I asked him why the

1065
00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:36,759
Speaker 6: sudden change. He blames me for not being done with

1066
00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:39,480
Speaker 6: the university and wanting to save up more money. But

1067
00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:42,600
Speaker 6: this was never a problem at first. After a few

1068
00:42:42,600 --> 00:42:45,280
Speaker 6: more questions, he told me that he took some advice

1069
00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:48,160
Speaker 6: from his parents. I told him, if they were experienced,

1070
00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:51,840
Speaker 6: why didn't they check properly before. I was confused, since

1071
00:42:51,960 --> 00:42:54,640
Speaker 6: he already spoke to his parents and they agreed that

1072
00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:57,080
Speaker 6: he would buy it without a problem.

1073
00:42:57,320 --> 00:43:00,640
Speaker 4: I don't actually see why he's doing this yet. He

1074
00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:03,040
Speaker 4: could have just said, hey, like, we looked through it

1075
00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:05,080
Speaker 4: and it you know, I don't think we can swing

1076
00:43:05,120 --> 00:43:05,560
Speaker 4: it yet.

1077
00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:06,360
Speaker 6: This is odd.

1078
00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:07,160
Speaker 4: This is odd.

1079
00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:09,480
Speaker 6: I shook it off and told him I was okay,

1080
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:12,160
Speaker 6: waiting to search again in a few months. It was

1081
00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 6: just an apartment, of course, I was frustrated and told

1082
00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:17,279
Speaker 6: him that that was not okay, that he made a

1083
00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:21,319
Speaker 6: decision with them without including me. Yeah, right after he

1084
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:24,920
Speaker 6: called off the deal, his mother started messaging me. She wrote,

1085
00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:27,000
Speaker 6: trying to calm me down.

1086
00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:28,280
Speaker 3: Girl, who's not calm?

1087
00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 6: Turn out best thing to say right after. You're acting

1088
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:32,959
Speaker 6: just like your mom.

1089
00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:35,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, you hit him with that or this one.

1090
00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:37,279
Speaker 6: This one. Hear me out here. Oh my god, she's

1091
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:39,600
Speaker 6: acting just like my ex whenever she was on her period.

1092
00:43:39,719 --> 00:43:41,640
Speaker 1: Now calm down, Now, calm down.

1093
00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:42,440
Speaker 4: I'm a little.

1094
00:43:42,200 --> 00:43:45,200
Speaker 6: Teafirt, saying she thought I was upset or angry about

1095
00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:48,319
Speaker 6: the apartment situation, even though I was calm and had

1096
00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:51,400
Speaker 6: spoken with my fiance directly. She said she did not

1097
00:43:51,560 --> 00:43:54,399
Speaker 6: want conflict and wanted to make peace, and that there

1098
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:58,319
Speaker 6: were plenty of apartments nearby. Those apartments were too far

1099
00:43:58,400 --> 00:44:01,760
Speaker 6: from both my job and so there was no point,

1100
00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:04,400
Speaker 6: I replied, calmly. I told her I was not angry

1101
00:44:04,560 --> 00:44:07,040
Speaker 6: or upset, that me and my fiance had talked and

1102
00:44:07,040 --> 00:44:09,160
Speaker 6: that I did not see the problem, but she kept

1103
00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:13,400
Speaker 6: insisting she thought I was mad. I kindly explained that

1104
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:16,160
Speaker 6: I was not, that me and my fiance already spoke

1105
00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:18,799
Speaker 6: about it. I told her. I know she as a

1106
00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:21,319
Speaker 6: mother cares for him, but we are both grown ups

1107
00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:23,719
Speaker 6: and know what to do. She's trying to row you up.

1108
00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:27,279
Speaker 4: Yeah, She's like, you're so angry, calm down. And he's like,

1109
00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:30,239
Speaker 4: I'm fine. We's trying to work through it. And she's like, oh,

1110
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:32,640
Speaker 4: my goodness, you're shouting at me. And he's like, we're

1111
00:44:32,640 --> 00:44:34,680
Speaker 4: texting right now. What do you mean I'm shouting? And

1112
00:44:34,680 --> 00:44:36,879
Speaker 4: she's like, this is getting a little too much.

1113
00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:38,080
Speaker 5: Stop being so mad.

1114
00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:38,640
Speaker 3: Oh you're mad.

1115
00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:39,440
Speaker 4: Ope' sick. I'm'm mad.

1116
00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:39,960
Speaker 5: Why you're mad?

1117
00:44:40,040 --> 00:44:40,560
Speaker 4: You're mad?

1118
00:44:40,600 --> 00:44:41,520
Speaker 1: Now you're making me mad.

1119
00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:42,160
Speaker 4: I'm mad.

1120
00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:42,880
Speaker 1: She's doing it.

1121
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:45,279
Speaker 5: Wow, she's actually she's a genus, so good at her job.

1122
00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:46,600
Speaker 1: She called it as she sees it.

1123
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:50,200
Speaker 6: Katie Pollitzen, excuse you, sir. What does Opie still being

1124
00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:53,240
Speaker 6: in UNI have anything to do about finding apartment?

1125
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:55,960
Speaker 4: So I don't think op he is paying or either

1126
00:44:56,080 --> 00:44:58,280
Speaker 4: a lot or or any I'm not sure.

1127
00:44:58,400 --> 00:44:59,880
Speaker 6: We don't. That's what we can assume.

1128
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:04,719
Speaker 4: So I think he's just kind of asserting his financial

1129
00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:07,400
Speaker 4: nominante of the situation. She's not helpful for anyone.

1130
00:45:07,480 --> 00:45:08,160
Speaker 1: Two more left.

1131
00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:09,360
Speaker 4: I'm all right, it's all yours.

1132
00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:12,520
Speaker 1: Hey, it's keon the Silly's Goose. We're going to get

1133
00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:14,520
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1134
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1135
00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:23,040
Speaker 6: After three days, she reacted with confusing emojis thumbs up, sad, angry,

1136
00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:25,960
Speaker 6: laughing to a message I had not even opened yet.

1137
00:45:26,200 --> 00:45:29,160
Speaker 6: What then deleted those reactions When I saw it, I

1138
00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:31,720
Speaker 6: did not really know what to say. My fiance told

1139
00:45:31,760 --> 00:45:34,840
Speaker 6: me that what I wrote to his mother was unacceptable,

1140
00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:38,120
Speaker 6: but he never explained why. I do not understand how

1141
00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:41,279
Speaker 6: she or he thought I was mad or disrespectful when

1142
00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:44,200
Speaker 6: I wasn't. You accused me right away. She sent a

1143
00:45:44,280 --> 00:45:47,640
Speaker 6: third message, accusing me of being disrespectful. She said my

1144
00:45:47,680 --> 00:45:51,920
Speaker 6: messages were unacceptable and that I was misunderstanding things, implying

1145
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:54,960
Speaker 6: I was sending hostile messages, which I wasn't. I was

1146
00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:57,959
Speaker 6: polite and honest. She said things like he is too

1147
00:45:58,040 --> 00:46:01,560
Speaker 6: young to get married there and other negative comments about

1148
00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:05,840
Speaker 6: our relationship. Timeline Spy, having being married quickly herself, feels

1149
00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:06,719
Speaker 6: some sort of way about that.

1150
00:46:06,800 --> 00:46:09,080
Speaker 1: We're also she's definitely the type of person to read

1151
00:46:09,080 --> 00:46:10,600
Speaker 1: in between the lines of text.

1152
00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:13,480
Speaker 4: Oh well, yeah, she's like reading into things that aren't.

1153
00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:14,719
Speaker 1: Why are you angry? Why are you angry? I would

1154
00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:15,880
Speaker 1: just call it like, hey, I'm not angry.

1155
00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:18,440
Speaker 4: No, she is causing problems because she doesn't want you

1156
00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:20,480
Speaker 4: guys to get married. He thinks she getting married too young,

1157
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:24,120
Speaker 4: and she's like, I'm gotta those seeds of discold. It's working.

1158
00:46:24,239 --> 00:46:25,120
Speaker 1: She's doing a great job.

1159
00:46:25,239 --> 00:46:27,880
Speaker 6: Also brought up old stuff that had nothing to do

1160
00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:30,840
Speaker 6: with this. We already spoken about it and had cleared

1161
00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:33,760
Speaker 6: the air, but she brought up for the third time.

1162
00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:36,120
Speaker 6: She kept posting pictures of him for three days in

1163
00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:39,200
Speaker 6: a row, explaining how well behaved and respectful he is

1164
00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:41,600
Speaker 6: and how she is the reason behind his manners.

1165
00:46:41,760 --> 00:46:44,640
Speaker 4: I'm so confused by her behavior, I would be Do

1166
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 4: you like Verry Bamboozled?

1167
00:46:46,160 --> 00:46:47,080
Speaker 6: Do you like Dominic Flick?

1168
00:46:47,280 --> 00:46:47,440
Speaker 3: No?

1169
00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:49,839
Speaker 6: Well, there's a song by him called Mama's Boy.

1170
00:46:50,239 --> 00:46:54,920
Speaker 4: I know how's it go by? Just like them I

1171
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:58,080
Speaker 4: heard every day every day. It haunts me in my dreams.

1172
00:46:58,480 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 6: You know, I still have things you that haunts me

1173
00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:02,920
Speaker 6: in my dreams. What and I love that we've kind

1174
00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:04,640
Speaker 6: of traumatized each other in a.

1175
00:47:04,640 --> 00:47:05,840
Speaker 4: Way that's concerning.

1176
00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:08,880
Speaker 6: I repeatedly told my fiance how hard I was, and

1177
00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:11,120
Speaker 6: he never stood up for me, as he knows I

1178
00:47:11,160 --> 00:47:14,759
Speaker 6: never disrespect anyone. Instead, he sided with her and said

1179
00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:16,520
Speaker 6: there was no misunderstanding.

1180
00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:18,960
Speaker 4: I think this is a sign that maybe this is

1181
00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:20,600
Speaker 4: not the person that we want to get married to.

1182
00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:23,719
Speaker 4: If he's behaving like this right now, little concerning I

1183
00:47:23,719 --> 00:47:24,319
Speaker 4: don't think I would.

1184
00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:24,600
Speaker 1: I would.

1185
00:47:24,640 --> 00:47:27,160
Speaker 4: I think I would see myself out m mmmm, dip

1186
00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:28,560
Speaker 4: my tea and head out.

1187
00:47:28,680 --> 00:47:32,200
Speaker 6: Instead, he shared all of our private messages with his

1188
00:47:32,360 --> 00:47:36,440
Speaker 6: mother and family, Oh, including things I told him about

1189
00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:38,880
Speaker 6: how I felt, which made me feel betrayed.

1190
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:39,640
Speaker 1: That makes sense.

1191
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:42,279
Speaker 6: Gosh. When I tried to reach out, he ignored my

1192
00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:43,560
Speaker 6: calls and messages.

1193
00:47:43,680 --> 00:47:45,000
Speaker 1: Oh so he's immature.

1194
00:47:45,160 --> 00:47:49,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, what wold, dude, He's proven his mom is right.

1195
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:51,520
Speaker 4: He is too young to get married. He's acting like

1196
00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:54,800
Speaker 4: a toddler. I just want to play MinC Craft, play Minecraft,

1197
00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:57,560
Speaker 4: and you're trying to talk to me about apumments too expensive.

1198
00:47:57,600 --> 00:48:01,040
Speaker 6: Get job. Here was a direct example of one of

1199
00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:02,920
Speaker 6: the messages his mother wrote to me.

1200
00:48:03,160 --> 00:48:08,359
Speaker 4: She said, yeah, being disrespectful by accusing us, you misunderstand

1201
00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:10,280
Speaker 4: everything and you're sending wrong signals.

1202
00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:14,120
Speaker 6: I never accused her of anything. I was simply explaining

1203
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:17,200
Speaker 6: my feelings and confusion. I said that we are grown

1204
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 6: ups and these are small conflicts that we can solve

1205
00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:23,239
Speaker 6: by ourselves. He told me he was waiting for me

1206
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:26,239
Speaker 6: to call and blamed me for delays. But I was

1207
00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:28,840
Speaker 6: waiting for him to communicate clearly. Dude, if you can't

1208
00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:31,239
Speaker 6: communicate correctly, yeah, he's blaming you.

1209
00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:32,680
Speaker 4: That's done. It's done here.

1210
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:36,960
Speaker 6: Yeah, honestly go apartment renting, searching for yourself.

1211
00:48:37,040 --> 00:48:38,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, and with your mummy.

1212
00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:42,279
Speaker 6: He admitted that they read the messages with their own intentions,

1213
00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:44,880
Speaker 6: but he still sided with his mother. Now he has

1214
00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:47,799
Speaker 6: been silent for ten days. We got an up date.

1215
00:48:48,080 --> 00:48:52,400
Speaker 4: Genuinely, we're done if my partner gives me the silent

1216
00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:56,319
Speaker 4: treatment for ten days when they're like gaslighting me over

1217
00:48:56,400 --> 00:49:00,600
Speaker 4: responses that we're never disrespectful. I was never angry, and

1218
00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:03,200
Speaker 4: they're actively trying to make me mad.

1219
00:49:03,360 --> 00:49:03,719
Speaker 3: I'm out.

1220
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:05,200
Speaker 4: I'm saying, Okay, you know what.

1221
00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:06,000
Speaker 3: Have a good life.

1222
00:49:06,239 --> 00:49:09,560
Speaker 6: Jaylee Thomas even says mom is losing her baby boy

1223
00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:11,320
Speaker 6: Opie stole her baby.

1224
00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:14,120
Speaker 4: Absolutely, I mean, she said, oh, I don't. I don't

1225
00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:15,360
Speaker 4: think you're ready to get married.

1226
00:49:15,520 --> 00:49:16,640
Speaker 6: Yeah, no, I agree.

1227
00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:18,680
Speaker 5: It's super weird, very weird.

1228
00:49:18,719 --> 00:49:21,600
Speaker 6: She's not ready to let go. I think they scared

1229
00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:22,960
Speaker 6: him away from buying an apartment.

1230
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:25,960
Speaker 4: Do you think like the parents told him, you know,

1231
00:49:26,080 --> 00:49:28,399
Speaker 4: like kind of changed their mind and told them, hey,

1232
00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:30,280
Speaker 4: don't What was the conversation they had.

1233
00:49:30,239 --> 00:49:33,160
Speaker 6: Mom, I'm looking for apartments with girlfriend. The parents have

1234
00:49:33,280 --> 00:49:35,520
Speaker 6: not approved their relationship for a while. They said, this

1235
00:49:35,600 --> 00:49:37,200
Speaker 6: is their moment. If you're going to get an apartment

1236
00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:38,560
Speaker 6: or buy one, you need someone that has a good

1237
00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:41,839
Speaker 6: credit score. And it looks like your girlfriend isn't out

1238
00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:45,400
Speaker 6: a university yet, so so I'm gonna rect and it's

1239
00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:48,120
Speaker 6: gonna cost this much for bills, this deposit and just

1240
00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:50,000
Speaker 6: set a lot of numbers to them.

1241
00:49:50,360 --> 00:49:52,240
Speaker 4: They were just like, when there's a one in the twos,

1242
00:49:52,320 --> 00:49:53,319
Speaker 4: and of course the.

1243
00:49:53,360 --> 00:49:56,239
Speaker 5: Fifty sixes, and don't forget to carry the.

1244
00:49:56,200 --> 00:49:58,000
Speaker 4: Tins if I don't even know if you look at

1245
00:49:58,000 --> 00:50:01,759
Speaker 4: the I ues, He's like, what's the I use Like,

1246
00:50:02,080 --> 00:50:04,280
Speaker 4: I don't worry, it's it's all rents.

1247
00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:07,080
Speaker 6: Talk buying an Apartment's crazy update. Since my last post,

1248
00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:09,680
Speaker 6: a lot has happened. Oh boy, any thoughts.

1249
00:50:10,000 --> 00:50:10,680
Speaker 4: Maybe broke up?

1250
00:50:10,719 --> 00:50:13,560
Speaker 1: Okay, Gean, Maybe he comes to the census, But I

1251
00:50:13,640 --> 00:50:14,719
Speaker 1: think he gets a breakup.

1252
00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:18,200
Speaker 6: After a long silence, he finally called me to say

1253
00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:19,359
Speaker 6: he wants to break up.

1254
00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:21,759
Speaker 1: Oh he wants to? Or does his mommy want him to?

1255
00:50:21,920 --> 00:50:23,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's like I talked to my mommy and she

1256
00:50:23,320 --> 00:50:25,520
Speaker 4: said that we have to pick up mind you, guys,

1257
00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:26,960
Speaker 4: we are halfway through right now.

1258
00:50:27,080 --> 00:50:28,319
Speaker 3: Oh?

1259
00:50:28,360 --> 00:50:31,080
Speaker 6: No, He said he had been waiting two weeks for

1260
00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:33,359
Speaker 6: me to call his mother, but I had already tried

1261
00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:36,640
Speaker 6: twice to reach out before and after she sent that message,

1262
00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:39,879
Speaker 6: accusing me of being controlling and disrespectful. I told him

1263
00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:42,200
Speaker 6: I tried to communicate, but he didn't answer my calls.

1264
00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:44,080
Speaker 6: He asked why I involved in my parents, and I

1265
00:50:44,080 --> 00:50:46,720
Speaker 6: explained it was because he wasn't answering me and shut

1266
00:50:46,719 --> 00:50:49,800
Speaker 6: me down with phrases like if you can't see it yourself,

1267
00:50:49,880 --> 00:50:52,400
Speaker 6: then I can't help you. My parents were supportive and

1268
00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:55,640
Speaker 6: told him he could talk to them if something happened

1269
00:50:55,640 --> 00:50:58,719
Speaker 6: between us that we couldn't resolve. He kept insisting that

1270
00:50:58,840 --> 00:51:01,720
Speaker 6: I should have called his parents and said his mother

1271
00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:05,040
Speaker 6: was crying over the situation. I hate his mom, So

1272
00:51:05,200 --> 00:51:07,799
Speaker 6: finally I called his parents to clear things up and

1273
00:51:07,840 --> 00:51:11,960
Speaker 6: explained my side calmly and honestly. Unfortunately, his mother was

1274
00:51:12,000 --> 00:51:15,239
Speaker 6: cold and rude, blaming me and holding on to old

1275
00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:18,279
Speaker 6: issues we had discussed multiple times. I told her I

1276
00:51:18,320 --> 00:51:20,600
Speaker 6: didn't want a war and that if she saw me

1277
00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:23,719
Speaker 6: as family, why I send a heart but never call

1278
00:51:23,920 --> 00:51:26,320
Speaker 6: or text or say she was hurt. I was busy

1279
00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:28,560
Speaker 6: with my sick father at the time. When I asked

1280
00:51:28,560 --> 00:51:30,840
Speaker 6: what the solution was, she said it was up to

1281
00:51:30,880 --> 00:51:33,920
Speaker 6: my fiance, which felt unfair since the problem was mainly

1282
00:51:33,960 --> 00:51:36,680
Speaker 6: between me and her. I also asked to speak to

1283
00:51:36,719 --> 00:51:38,920
Speaker 6: his father, but she didn't let me. At first, I

1284
00:51:38,960 --> 00:51:42,520
Speaker 6: insisted since he read the messages and thought the same.

1285
00:51:42,680 --> 00:51:45,480
Speaker 6: He wasn't aware of what was said and told me

1286
00:51:45,560 --> 00:51:48,359
Speaker 6: it was up to my fiance and me to resolve it.

1287
00:51:48,480 --> 00:51:51,200
Speaker 6: He didn't even know that his wife wrote that I

1288
00:51:51,520 --> 00:51:53,880
Speaker 6: was disrespectful. He doesn't know what's happening.

1289
00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:57,279
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, this is the end of the relationship. He

1290
00:51:57,320 --> 00:52:00,520
Speaker 4: doesn't care about you. He only cared about what his

1291
00:52:00,520 --> 00:52:01,279
Speaker 4: mom says about you.

1292
00:52:01,520 --> 00:52:04,640
Speaker 6: I called my fiance again to try and talk as adults,

1293
00:52:04,680 --> 00:52:07,440
Speaker 6: but he was closed off and overwhelmed. He brought up

1294
00:52:07,520 --> 00:52:10,440
Speaker 6: old arguments like me being mad about the ring or

1295
00:52:10,480 --> 00:52:13,120
Speaker 6: apartment and feeling pressured by the idea that if we

1296
00:52:13,200 --> 00:52:16,400
Speaker 6: didn't get married over my graduation, it would be over.

1297
00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:19,440
Speaker 6: We all had agreed on that timeline, but now he

1298
00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:22,160
Speaker 6: said he felt pressured. I told him we've been engaged

1299
00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:25,560
Speaker 6: almost three years, so how was that pressure. He also

1300
00:52:25,600 --> 00:52:29,040
Speaker 6: seemed upset. I was angry about his dishonesty regarding the

1301
00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:32,560
Speaker 6: ring status. I told him it's not about material things,

1302
00:52:32,600 --> 00:52:35,399
Speaker 6: but honestly matters to me, since he kept mentioning it's

1303
00:52:35,480 --> 00:52:38,040
Speaker 6: on its way. He told me that I didn't believe

1304
00:52:38,080 --> 00:52:40,400
Speaker 6: in him, and he wanted to do things at his

1305
00:52:40,440 --> 00:52:43,319
Speaker 6: own pace. I told him that I've been waiting for

1306
00:52:43,360 --> 00:52:45,560
Speaker 6: three years for something to happen, for us to at

1307
00:52:45,640 --> 00:52:48,800
Speaker 6: least start planning. All I hear is once I graduate,

1308
00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:51,479
Speaker 6: we can start. It's being engaged is a whole time

1309
00:52:51,560 --> 00:52:52,280
Speaker 6: you're in college.

1310
00:52:52,560 --> 00:52:53,120
Speaker 4: I can't.

1311
00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:56,200
Speaker 6: At the end, he seemed lost for words and just

1312
00:52:56,320 --> 00:52:58,600
Speaker 6: wanted to leave. He said I was making things up

1313
00:52:58,640 --> 00:53:00,680
Speaker 6: in my head, and I told him I was laughing

1314
00:53:00,719 --> 00:53:05,000
Speaker 6: because I thought it was ridiculous to end things over misunderstandings.

1315
00:53:05,120 --> 00:53:09,280
Speaker 6: You guys aren't even on the same reality, cosmic of reality.

1316
00:53:09,360 --> 00:53:13,200
Speaker 4: It's not a misunderstanding at this point, he's willfully choosing

1317
00:53:13,400 --> 00:53:15,600
Speaker 4: to not understand you, the blind one.

1318
00:53:15,600 --> 00:53:17,960
Speaker 6: His launch kid is why are you involving your parents?

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00:53:18,000 --> 00:53:20,680
Speaker 6: After I involved my parents, Only my mommy can get

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00:53:20,680 --> 00:53:21,279
Speaker 6: involved in the.

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00:53:21,320 --> 00:53:24,920
Speaker 4: Real relationship for real. He's like, we why didn't you

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00:53:24,960 --> 00:53:27,279
Speaker 4: talk to my mommy? She's gonna get mad at you.

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00:53:27,280 --> 00:53:29,239
Speaker 1: Why don't you talk to her your mommy talk to

1324
00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:30,520
Speaker 1: my mommy and they can figure it out.

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00:53:30,760 --> 00:53:33,879
Speaker 6: Right, This is so weird. Everyone spam dump him right now?

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00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:34,600
Speaker 4: Dump him.

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00:53:34,719 --> 00:53:36,600
Speaker 6: Everyone spam, prevorce, dump him and run.

1328
00:53:37,320 --> 00:53:39,440
Speaker 4: Dump him. Dump his mommy.

1329
00:53:39,640 --> 00:53:40,959
Speaker 1: I need that. Ask my mommy if that's okay.

1330
00:53:41,239 --> 00:53:43,400
Speaker 4: She doesn't like you in your stinky.

1331
00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:45,799
Speaker 6: I reminded him that his father agreed with me that

1332
00:53:45,920 --> 00:53:49,080
Speaker 6: his wife was sensitive and it was all a misunderstanding.

1333
00:53:49,160 --> 00:53:51,560
Speaker 6: I told him what he did was unjust and could

1334
00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:54,680
Speaker 6: have been resolved by simply asking, my love, can you

1335
00:53:54,719 --> 00:53:57,120
Speaker 6: explain what happened between you and my mother?

1336
00:53:57,400 --> 00:53:59,880
Speaker 4: And you know what that my love would have solved everything.

1337
00:54:00,040 --> 00:54:02,959
Speaker 6: I said I would sleep peacefully knowing I did nothing wrong,

1338
00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:05,400
Speaker 6: but he would live with the loss of me and

1339
00:54:05,480 --> 00:54:08,080
Speaker 6: my family who loved him deeply. He said he was

1340
00:54:08,080 --> 00:54:11,359
Speaker 6: barely sleeping. He made his decision clear. I removed all

1341
00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:15,000
Speaker 6: pictures and nicknames on Instagram and unfriended him on Facebook.

1342
00:54:15,040 --> 00:54:17,600
Speaker 6: He removed me from his Instagram and the pictures, but

1343
00:54:17,760 --> 00:54:19,879
Speaker 6: hasn't removed anything on Facebook yet.

1344
00:54:19,960 --> 00:54:22,040
Speaker 4: Oh good, good, you know what, There's still a chance

1345
00:54:22,160 --> 00:54:24,080
Speaker 4: the Instagram cleanse.

1346
00:54:24,400 --> 00:54:26,799
Speaker 6: He sent a message to my parents saying the relationship

1347
00:54:26,880 --> 00:54:30,520
Speaker 6: is over because his boundaries were crossed. Here's what confuses me.

1348
00:54:30,600 --> 00:54:31,520
Speaker 1: This is what confuses you.

1349
00:54:31,600 --> 00:54:31,839
Speaker 3: Now.

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00:54:31,920 --> 00:54:34,759
Speaker 6: Okay, he didn't remove my siblings from his Facebook. He

1351
00:54:34,800 --> 00:54:38,160
Speaker 6: didn't remove my love as my nickname. He didn't remove

1352
00:54:38,200 --> 00:54:40,880
Speaker 6: me from his other Instagram account. He didn't remove my

1353
00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:44,760
Speaker 6: father on Facebook, but sent the breakup message via text?

1354
00:54:45,080 --> 00:54:46,200
Speaker 1: Was it his mommy?

1355
00:54:46,840 --> 00:54:49,560
Speaker 4: He texted you, No, did mommy get in there?

1356
00:54:49,920 --> 00:54:53,600
Speaker 6: He sent the breakup message to my mother on Facebook,

1357
00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:54,960
Speaker 6: but then blocked her.

1358
00:54:55,040 --> 00:54:56,360
Speaker 1: Why would he send it to your mom?

1359
00:54:56,640 --> 00:54:59,640
Speaker 6: My mom blocked his mother after hearing the relationship ended.

1360
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:02,520
Speaker 6: Still has our pictures on Facebook. I'm waiting for him

1361
00:55:02,560 --> 00:55:05,080
Speaker 6: to send the ring back. We've broken up multiple times now.

1362
00:55:05,200 --> 00:55:08,120
Speaker 6: Sometimes he acts like he still cares, but then shuts

1363
00:55:08,160 --> 00:55:11,080
Speaker 6: down communication or pushes me away. He says he feels

1364
00:55:11,120 --> 00:55:14,080
Speaker 6: pressured and overwhelmed, and I get mad at him over

1365
00:55:14,160 --> 00:55:17,560
Speaker 6: small things. He keeps bringing up old problems, even though

1366
00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:20,279
Speaker 6: he said he wasn't looking back. The last time this

1367
00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:24,240
Speaker 6: kind of serious breakup happened was also due to a misunderstanding.

1368
00:55:24,360 --> 00:55:27,440
Speaker 6: Oh I begged him and begged his mother. After a

1369
00:55:27,640 --> 00:55:30,760
Speaker 6: long conversation for a week, he admitted he was wrong

1370
00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:34,560
Speaker 6: and misunderstood things. So I feel lost. What should I do?

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00:55:34,560 --> 00:55:37,120
Speaker 6: Do you think he'll regret it or come back? I

1372
00:55:37,160 --> 00:55:40,000
Speaker 6: really tried my best, and I really tried to find

1373
00:55:40,040 --> 00:55:42,440
Speaker 6: the wrong in this breakup. We got a little bit

1374
00:55:42,480 --> 00:55:44,600
Speaker 6: left here. Do you think he's gonna regret it?

1375
00:55:44,760 --> 00:55:46,359
Speaker 1: I don't care, and you should neither.

1376
00:55:46,600 --> 00:55:49,239
Speaker 4: Let him truly, let him come back and grovel at

1377
00:55:49,280 --> 00:55:51,319
Speaker 4: your feet, and then you get to say no, I'm

1378
00:55:51,360 --> 00:55:53,399
Speaker 4: not taking you back. There is only a limit. There

1379
00:55:53,440 --> 00:55:57,640
Speaker 4: is a I give everyone breakup, get back together, pass.

1380
00:55:57,480 --> 00:55:59,480
Speaker 1: On what grounds? What do you mean like they break

1381
00:55:59,560 --> 00:56:00,440
Speaker 1: up like like.

1382
00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:02,560
Speaker 4: My point is not like everyone should break up and

1383
00:56:02,560 --> 00:56:04,440
Speaker 4: get back together. My point is that if you do

1384
00:56:04,560 --> 00:56:08,000
Speaker 4: more than one, you should not be having a relationship

1385
00:56:08,040 --> 00:56:08,560
Speaker 4: with that person.

1386
00:56:08,719 --> 00:56:11,040
Speaker 6: How old is this guy, Keon Kean bought. How old

1387
00:56:11,120 --> 00:56:13,240
Speaker 6: is he? I'm going to guess she's about to graduate.

1388
00:56:13,400 --> 00:56:15,400
Speaker 6: She's anywhere from twenty three to twenty six, and I

1389
00:56:15,480 --> 00:56:18,040
Speaker 6: want to say, this guy's anywhere from twenty six to

1390
00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:19,319
Speaker 6: twenty eight, twenty nine.

1391
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:21,080
Speaker 4: I don't know. He sounds like a little baby.

1392
00:56:21,200 --> 00:56:24,120
Speaker 6: Yeah, if we actually looked at him through emotional clothing.

1393
00:56:24,640 --> 00:56:26,400
Speaker 6: He is in a diaper and has a bottle on

1394
00:56:26,480 --> 00:56:27,000
Speaker 6: his left hand.

1395
00:56:27,120 --> 00:56:29,560
Speaker 4: If you were wearing clothing based off of his emotions,

1396
00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:33,080
Speaker 4: what would I wear based off clothing? Board shorts, board.

1397
00:56:32,840 --> 00:56:35,399
Speaker 1: Shorts, Yeah, skinny jeans.

1398
00:56:35,239 --> 00:56:38,920
Speaker 4: You'd be wearing board shorts, boat shoes, it's coming so clearly.

1399
00:56:38,719 --> 00:56:40,240
Speaker 1: And a little bucket hat as a baby.

1400
00:56:40,440 --> 00:56:42,839
Speaker 4: No, this is just what I emotionally were.

1401
00:56:43,280 --> 00:56:45,239
Speaker 6: I was hoping I'd wear like a full suit and

1402
00:56:45,239 --> 00:56:46,160
Speaker 6: I'd look like a gentleman.

1403
00:56:46,239 --> 00:56:50,759
Speaker 1: You're wearing like skater brand shirts like DC or ME.

1404
00:56:51,280 --> 00:56:57,160
Speaker 6: No, rightly, you're wearing glasses, a ponytail, a cardigan. Anything

1405
00:56:57,200 --> 00:56:58,960
Speaker 6: that looks you makes you look like a librarian.

1406
00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:00,359
Speaker 4: That is my emotional stak Kean.

1407
00:57:00,400 --> 00:57:03,200
Speaker 6: You're wearing a grass skirt and a coconut bikini.

1408
00:57:03,520 --> 00:57:04,680
Speaker 4: He's doing a little dance.

1409
00:57:04,760 --> 00:57:06,440
Speaker 1: I'm happy. I'm happy that's what you envision.

1410
00:57:06,680 --> 00:57:08,319
Speaker 6: I'm gonna get you on my cart one day.

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00:57:08,400 --> 00:57:09,080
Speaker 4: You just sit there.

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00:57:09,480 --> 00:57:12,600
Speaker 6: I only understood that he was confused about things he

1413
00:57:12,680 --> 00:57:14,640
Speaker 6: made up in his head, and I told him, you

1414
00:57:14,760 --> 00:57:17,640
Speaker 6: can't save someone who doesn't want to be saved. My

1415
00:57:17,800 --> 00:57:20,840
Speaker 6: heart is breaking into pieces since I know that I

1416
00:57:20,960 --> 00:57:23,560
Speaker 6: didn't do anything wrong. I tried to fix it since

1417
00:57:23,600 --> 00:57:25,640
Speaker 6: the day it happened, and all I got was I

1418
00:57:25,800 --> 00:57:28,880
Speaker 6: waited for someone from you to call my mother and

1419
00:57:29,040 --> 00:57:31,400
Speaker 6: check up on her, but he didn't bother to check

1420
00:57:31,480 --> 00:57:33,800
Speaker 6: up on my father. By the way, he was also sick.

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00:57:33,720 --> 00:57:35,760
Speaker 4: For real little I do not care about this band,

1422
00:57:36,320 --> 00:57:37,920
Speaker 4: and I think you need to let him go.

1423
00:57:38,320 --> 00:57:40,160
Speaker 6: Say the car. My ex removed me on Facebook but

1424
00:57:40,480 --> 00:57:43,000
Speaker 6: still has all my close and extended family as friends.

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00:57:43,320 --> 00:57:44,360
Speaker 4: Ooh, that's weird.

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Speaker 6: That is weird. And guys, thanks for watching. If you

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