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Speaker 1: Paramour silling to you.

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Speaker 2: We're about to get into Ryan Rose is also more

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Speaker 2: of those D twenty three tickets for you to win.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I need to bring in the back room. Mikayla.

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Speaker 2: This might be interesting for you because you've got that

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Speaker 2: real interesting uh wow opening line from the guy that

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Speaker 2: was creepy and yeah, I think made people not want

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Speaker 2: to be on some.

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Speaker 1: Still thinking about that line and the line he said one.

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Speaker 3: If you're regularly taking birth control, you should match with me.

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Speaker 1: That's what the guy said as an opening line on

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Speaker 1: Hinge with people. Yeah, it was Hinge Hinge. Well, Erica etin.

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Speaker 1: You might want to meet her, Mikaela. I'm excited. She's

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Speaker 1: an online dating coach.

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Speaker 2: Everybody's excited. Hello, online dating coach, Erica ed.

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Speaker 1: How you doing.

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Speaker 3: I'm great, I'm glad you found me.

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Speaker 1: Well, we listen this guy.

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Speaker 2: We have a couple of staff members here who are

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Speaker 2: single and looking and are on different dating apps, and

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Speaker 2: it's really astonishing how tricky it can be and how

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Speaker 2: difficult it can be for starters. One of the pickup

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Speaker 2: lines that we heard here from a guy that was

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Speaker 2: reached out to Mikaela on Hinge was just weird and

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Speaker 2: creepy and you know, kind of made her run the

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Speaker 2: opposite direction.

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Speaker 1: So do you what do you? What do you do?

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Speaker 1: What is your work?

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Speaker 3: Okay, so a good question. So I'm an online dating coach.

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Speaker 3: I help people with all aspects of online dating. So

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Speaker 3: think your profile, your pictures, the messaging, what do you

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Speaker 3: say all the way to the point of the first date,

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Speaker 3: because that is where people struggle. And you know, it's

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Speaker 3: not rocket science on how to send a good message

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Speaker 3: or not, but when it comes down to it, people

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Speaker 3: seem to lose common sense sometimes. And so I guide

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Speaker 3: people through that process because I really just want to

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Speaker 3: get them on dates.

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Speaker 2: And is the biggest or most important thing to do

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Speaker 2: out of the gate, just coming up with that initial

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Speaker 2: way of connecting.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I put people on what I call how are

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Speaker 3: you cleansed? I don't allow hey, how are you? How's

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Speaker 3: your day? How's it going? All you can do is

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Speaker 3: read the profile, find something anything in the profile you

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Speaker 3: want to comment on, and ask a question about it.

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Speaker 3: So like, for example, I just wrote for someone this morning.

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Speaker 3: A guy said he was a pilot, and as you know,

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Speaker 3: I suggested to her to write, were you one of

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Speaker 3: those kids? Who was always playing with Foy airplanes. Like,

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Speaker 3: that's cute. It shows that you read the profile and

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Speaker 3: it gets the conversation started.

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Speaker 2: I like that, because how are you doing what was

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Speaker 2: your daily I'm not so benign, right, But here's the thing, So, Perkat,

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Speaker 2: let's say that one of us has your assistance and

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Speaker 2: your expertise helping us along.

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Speaker 1: Will I be a worst performer without you?

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Speaker 2: I worry that, like, Okay, well my game's going to

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Speaker 2: go not as strong once you aren't with me.

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Speaker 3: Well, welso, way you can learn from everything I do.

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Speaker 3: So I do I consorder my work. So for some people,

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Speaker 3: I do their work with them, which is coaching. So

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Speaker 3: they'll actually get on a zoom with me. They'll share

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Speaker 3: their screen and I will watch them swipe and I

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Speaker 3: will give very direct feedback when we're doing that. Why

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Speaker 3: are you picking this person? Why aren't you picking this person? Right?

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Speaker 3: And then for some people, as crazy as this sounds,

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Speaker 3: they do hire me to actually do the legwork of

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Speaker 3: the online dating for them. They want to go on

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Speaker 3: the dates that they don't want to do that work.

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Speaker 3: And so many people get stuck in the you know,

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Speaker 3: in the texting game, and they can't actually get on

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Speaker 3: the date. I try to keep that conversation as short

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Speaker 3: as possible because ultimately I just want to give people opportunities.

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Speaker 3: I want to put them on dates. So if they're smart,

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Speaker 3: even when we're working together, they take all of the

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Speaker 3: tools that I provide. I give a lot of tips

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Speaker 3: all of those on their own, great.

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Speaker 2: And you must check in with people when there's success.

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Speaker 2: It's got to feel pretty good if you help them out.

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Speaker 3: It does feel pretty good. The most frustrating part of

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Speaker 3: my job, though, is that people love telling me when

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Speaker 3: they go on bad dates, and I won't really hear

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Speaker 3: the goods. So I encourage people to tell me the

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Speaker 3: good But if I'm going to give you one tip

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Speaker 3: get to the date, just say to the other person, Hey,

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Speaker 3: I'm really enjoying our conversation. Where should we go from here?

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Speaker 3: You will have a mob where should we go?

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Speaker 2: That's a good thing for us to use in our

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Speaker 2: meetings sometimes because they go long as.

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Speaker 3: Well through all of that.

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Speaker 1: That's a great it's a great way of saying it.

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Speaker 1: I love Eric is here.

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Speaker 2: You can go on Instagram at a little nudge at

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Speaker 2: a little nudge on Instagram, and she can help you

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Speaker 2: out when it comes to the dating uh mikail, Hopefully

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Speaker 2: you glean a little something there. I think somebody did. Oh,

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Speaker 2: I know, I wanted to ask you. We liked this one.

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Speaker 2: This is when we saw ranked as a great opening

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Speaker 2: line on a dating app. Okay, what's your go to appetizer?

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Speaker 2: And when are we splitting it this weekend? Is that

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Speaker 2: too forward?

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Speaker 3: I love it. It's it's a horrible it's a little forward.

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Speaker 3: And I would only write that if somebody actually mentioned

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Speaker 3: food in their profiles. Again, I mean, you want to

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Speaker 3: comment on something someone has written because it shows that

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Speaker 3: you actually read the profile. But what you just said

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Speaker 3: is clever and cute and still better than how's it going?

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Speaker 2: Yes, thank you for coming on. I think we all

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Speaker 2: feel better about ourself right now. Okay, you take care

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Speaker 2: and good luck. I think the appetizer line people should

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Speaker 2: write it down and use it.

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Speaker 1: I love you, I love it.

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