WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Check Marks The Spot

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<v Speaker 1>Second date of date? How soon is too soon to

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<v Speaker 1>ask someone to move in with you?

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<v Speaker 2>WHOA, that's a huge question.

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<v Speaker 1>It is the first twenty minutes of a date too early.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna go out on a limb there, Jeff and say.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, absolutely, wow, Judge, Okay, Okay. That has nothing to

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<v Speaker 1>do with our listener Corey in his date. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>a personal question that I've been having for myself. But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm curious to your horra's thoughts on it. Corey. And

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<v Speaker 1>your opinion is twenty minutes too early to hand someone

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<v Speaker 1>the key to your apartment?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Why Corey?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, just trying to get an idea of the type

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<v Speaker 1>of dater or you. Are you a snails paced type

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<v Speaker 1>of guy? Or jumping to love quickly? Feel like he's

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<v Speaker 1>twenty four minutes? Okay? Yeah, you like to play it medium, gotcha?

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<v Speaker 1>But uh, tell us about the date that you went

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<v Speaker 1>on recently. Who's the girl you met?

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<v Speaker 3>I met a girl named Melanie, Okay, and honestly, she's

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<v Speaker 3>the prettiest girl I've ever gone out with.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I must feel good. I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, and dating is hard, I mean a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't meet people easy, so I tried these apps,

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<v Speaker 3>and I think most of them don't work. But I

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<v Speaker 3>did get to talking to Melanie, and she has curly

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<v Speaker 3>blonde hair, and she's like the perfect height.

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<v Speaker 2>What is the perfect tight? I'm just curious for.

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<v Speaker 1>You, different for everyone, you know, like five three, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's perfect.

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<v Speaker 3>And I really liked that she didn't have fake eyelashes.

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<v Speaker 1>Not perfect anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, those can.

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<v Speaker 3>Be a lot, because I just think, you know, the

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<v Speaker 3>fake eyelashes are just a big red flag that.

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<v Speaker 1>You so far or you may not know this, but

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<v Speaker 1>Alexis does have giant fake eyelashes that she wears into

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<v Speaker 1>work every single day.

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<v Speaker 2>What's the red flag about him?

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<v Speaker 3>They're fake? And like, but I just like a girl

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<v Speaker 3>to be like her natural self, you know, as if

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<v Speaker 3>she's getting.

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<v Speaker 1>Highlights, because no, let's just physical stuff. Tell us about

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<v Speaker 1>the date that you went on. Where did you take her?

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<v Speaker 5>Well?

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<v Speaker 3>I found a neat place to go to dinners because

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<v Speaker 3>I thought, you know, we'd had some good food and

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<v Speaker 3>talk and I thought everything had gone well, and then

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<v Speaker 3>I got uncomfortable. I wasn't sure, so I googled, like,

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<v Speaker 3>how do you know if you had the perfect date?

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<v Speaker 2>Is this? After we dealt with the date when you're

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<v Speaker 2>googled or.

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<v Speaker 1>You're googling this at the table.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, like the next day.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, the next day you were really went.

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<v Speaker 3>So there were four questions and I went through them.

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<v Speaker 3>So like the first one says was I comfortable and

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<v Speaker 3>and I was, like, you know, I had a really

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<v Speaker 3>good chair, So I was physically comfortable, means.

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<v Speaker 2>Emotionally, I think comfortable sharing right with her and being yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>I would say yes, I was not ten. I mean

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<v Speaker 3>I'm obviously a little nervous, but I thought I was

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<v Speaker 3>comfortable all right.

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<v Speaker 1>So out of four, let's check on that one.

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<v Speaker 3>And then the next one is did I laugh? And

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I never had like the huge Big Bang

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<v Speaker 3>Theory kind of laugh, but I chuckled.

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<v Speaker 1>You laugh big at the Big Bang Theory?

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<v Speaker 3>Huh oh Yeah, that show is a knee slapper.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Now you say that, I don't think that you've laughed

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<v Speaker 2>with us once.

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<v Speaker 1>I know we're not making any any Big Bang Theory.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah no, I just don't think we're funny. But you

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<v Speaker 1>did laugh with her at all?

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<v Speaker 2>He giggled.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, yeah I did, and so I think that's a pass.

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<v Speaker 3>I go check mark on.

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<v Speaker 1>That one, Okay, what's next?

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<v Speaker 3>And then it's did she ask me any questions?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh?

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<v Speaker 2>Huh?

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<v Speaker 3>So she did, like I ordered chicken with no onions

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<v Speaker 3>and she was like, wow, so you really don't like onions.

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<v Speaker 3>And I mean she asked me other stuff too.

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<v Speaker 1>It's deep. She wants to get to know you.

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<v Speaker 2>Sounds like a big conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, I don't answer those questions on the first date. Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that the whole list?

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<v Speaker 3>And then the very last one was after the date,

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<v Speaker 3>do you feel excited? And it'said, excited means you want

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<v Speaker 3>to sing a bop or dance, or you call a

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<v Speaker 3>friend and if you feel that way, don't worry about it.

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<v Speaker 3>It'll be fine tomorrow. But and I did Celtics excited

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<v Speaker 3>like I did, and I called a friend and then

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<v Speaker 3>but then tomorrow came and uh, and she's not texting

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<v Speaker 3>me back. I'm like, I'm excited, but maybe she isn't.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what happened.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I mean you sound like a pretty analytical guy.

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<v Speaker 4>Were you able to come off you think as natural

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<v Speaker 4>and show off like some personality on the date?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, like, how would you do that? Like, what

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<v Speaker 3>do you mean know, did you.

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<v Speaker 4>Like talk about your interests or make jokes? Were you

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<v Speaker 4>self deprecating it all? I just think it's important to

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<v Speaker 4>make some sort of emotional connection with someone.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you bring any like flair to the date, like

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<v Speaker 1>something a little bit out of the box. I've maybe

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<v Speaker 1>tried the disappearing finger trick on her.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait a minute, that's flair. Would be one of those

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<v Speaker 2>hand buzzers.

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<v Speaker 3>We just had dinner. There was no fingers thing. I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>To do the fingers chicken with no onions? Is that

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<v Speaker 2>not blair enough?

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<v Speaker 1>She does the hand motion and she's like, where did

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<v Speaker 1>your finger go?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>My goodness, could sparks something? So how long has it

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<v Speaker 1>been since you and Melanie went on that date?

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<v Speaker 3>It's been like five days?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right? And no response at all.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's what I'm thinking. Maybe she didn't feel as

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<v Speaker 3>excited as I did.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe man, Brook is yawning.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Brook can't stand to be on the phone.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't see.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway. You can tell Brooke is really invested in this.

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<v Speaker 1>When we come back, we're gonna call Melanie, not you.

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<v Speaker 5>Man.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just early, that's all.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna do our best for you. I promise when

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<v Speaker 1>we try and get your second date update right after this. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>okay thing anyone listening to me second date update? If

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<v Speaker 1>only our man Corey would have brought his checklist along

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<v Speaker 1>on the date with him instead of waiting until afterwards

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<v Speaker 1>to do.

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<v Speaker 2>It, that would be a good idea job.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, then maybe they could have checked each other's boxes together.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe she's a box checker too, could.

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<v Speaker 1>Be because Corey says he doesn't date a lot, but

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<v Speaker 1>he managed to lock down a dinner with a woman

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<v Speaker 1>named Melanie.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah that's the mel Yeah, got confused.

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<v Speaker 1>For a second. But the thing about Melanie is she's

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<v Speaker 1>our natural no fake eyelashes and the perfect height of

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<v Speaker 1>five foot three. He couldn't think of any missteps or

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<v Speaker 1>mistakes or missed opportunities that happened during the date. The

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<v Speaker 1>only is him missing her after it's all over. So

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to try and reconnect them here in just

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<v Speaker 1>a second. Corey, how you feeling, Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, nervous.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, we readed a lot on her like physical appearance.

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<v Speaker 4>What did you like about her personality?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean she's honestly, she's the best person I've

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<v Speaker 3>gone out with.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, don't tell me much.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like, why for a guy who's like looking

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<v Speaker 4>for naturelle?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Brooks was trying to figure out something that she can

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<v Speaker 1>steal from you to put into her next anniversary card

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<v Speaker 1>to her husband.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, she's trying to try to get the romance out

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<v Speaker 2>of him. I see, I see. I like that.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I don't know. She's kind and she's nice

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<v Speaker 3>and I like that about her.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, So.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't force Brooke to make you find things about her

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<v Speaker 1>personality that you will if you like her for her looks.

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<v Speaker 1>That's totally accepted.

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<v Speaker 4>We're calling this person. It's good to know we're calling

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<v Speaker 4>a kind, nice person. You know, this will make it

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<v Speaker 4>go easier for us, even we.

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<v Speaker 1>Have been mean if they were not.

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<v Speaker 2>Kind of nice, if they mean to us, absolutely and

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<v Speaker 2>be mean back.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Yeah, we're all going to put on our best, kind,

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<v Speaker 1>nice faces for this phone call and try and get

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<v Speaker 1>you a second day. You ready, I think?

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<v Speaker 5>So?

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<v Speaker 2>All right? You got this luddy, Here we go.

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<v Speaker 5>Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey is this Melanie? Yes, Hey, Melanie, what's up? You're

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<v Speaker 1>on the radio right now with Brooke and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, Hey, Melanie, how you doing?

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<v Speaker 4>The show.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, okay, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wait, what do you know?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my gosh, you can't believe you guys are calling me.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't really know what's happening, but I did receive

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<v Speaker 5>a text, wait, from minutes ago from Corey.

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<v Speaker 2>He texted he what what? What did he say?

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<v Speaker 5>He kind of just like warned me that no, you

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<v Speaker 5>guys were going to do this.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah wait wait wait wait wait.

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<v Speaker 1>You just ruined it. That's the whole point.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, but that might be good for her. That

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<v Speaker 2>shows that he cares about you. And what did not

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<v Speaker 2>like surprise you with these types.

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<v Speaker 1>Of supposed to give her a heads up.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know what's going on. I just he just

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<v Speaker 5>told me, you guys are gonna call me, So okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 5>that's all said.

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<v Speaker 1>So what we're doing here is called a second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>That's where we try and help listeners who've been out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date to figure out the reason why they're

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<v Speaker 1>not getting a second meet up.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Apparently it's not because he had the wrong phone number.

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<v Speaker 2>He said, you haven't texted him.

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<v Speaker 1>Back in like five days.

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<v Speaker 5>I haven't.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, that's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>You're allowed to not call someone back. But it would

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<v Speaker 1>help him if he could get a reason or figure

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<v Speaker 1>out if something was wrong about the date, because he's

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<v Speaker 1>just unsure.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, So we were talking about TV and he got

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<v Speaker 5>really really excited about a TV show and I'm like, okay,

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<v Speaker 5>what is it? And He's like, it's an older TV

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<v Speaker 5>show and I'm not even remembering what it was because

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<v Speaker 5>I don't even know what it's all. And then he

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<v Speaker 5>just said, Helen Hunt is so unappreciated.

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<v Speaker 4>And haven't I thought you were going to say Big

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<v Speaker 4>Bang Theory because he brought up with us that he

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<v Speaker 4>was a fan of Big Bang Theory.

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<v Speaker 2>Helen Hunt. Do you remember her?

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<v Speaker 4>She was like a nineties actress that was in a

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<v Speaker 4>bunch of sitcoms.

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<v Speaker 5>You cannot bring Big Bank Theory up. He brought a

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<v Speaker 5>TV show I've never heard of, got very intense and animated.

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<v Speaker 5>He got very very excited about it, used his hands

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<v Speaker 5>a lot.

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<v Speaker 4>But don't you kind of like, hi, when people dork

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<v Speaker 4>out over things that they like, you know, he just

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<v Speaker 4>he finally found something to show you that, yeah, fun.

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<v Speaker 5>It wasn't that. I honestly, I like a little bit

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<v Speaker 5>more reserved men. I just do.

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<v Speaker 3>OK.

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<v Speaker 2>So he was too excited.

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<v Speaker 1>When we talked to him, he did not seem soonper

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<v Speaker 1>high energy.

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<v Speaker 4>Show.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's a good point.

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<v Speaker 6>He's too excited about Well, let's put that into the test,

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<v Speaker 6>because I gotta let you know, Melanie that Corey's actually

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<v Speaker 6>on the other line listening right now and wanting to

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<v Speaker 6>talk to you.

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<v Speaker 5>No, he's not.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's how this works. That is wild, Corey. What

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<v Speaker 1>do you think about what she said? That you're too

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<v Speaker 1>much for her? You're too animated.

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<v Speaker 2>I am still in shocked.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't understand. Honestly, I was just trying to be nice,

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<v Speaker 3>and I thought I was probably boring. I probably wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>exciting enough at all.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm glad he said it.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't want to say it, but like after your

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<v Speaker 4>review of the date, that's what it sounded like to me,

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<v Speaker 4>too waiting to say that I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Broke. Apparently you were wrong. Apparently he was way over

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<v Speaker 1>the top exciting.

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<v Speaker 3>This is confusing.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you can help clear it up for him, Melanie,

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<v Speaker 1>because I don't think it's matching with what you said.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you sure you're remembering the right.

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<v Speaker 1>Is the right guy?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? And you you are so nice. It was just

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<v Speaker 5>a little too much for me, and that's it. I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>with it right now. I mean, you put me on

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<v Speaker 5>the radio extreme.

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<v Speaker 3>I can tone it back if you want.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I would like if you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, just hear how he said that guy, you'll be

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<v Speaker 2>asleep if you tone it back anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I get it. I can get excited about things, but.

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<v Speaker 5>It's just like a little.

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<v Speaker 3>Not to date me.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, well you know what, Yeah, you're telling a little crazy.

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<v Speaker 5>So just suddle yourself right way you're.

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<v Speaker 1>Saying right now, he's sounding crazy.

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<v Speaker 5>He's getting a little looked up. I can kind of

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<v Speaker 5>hear it in his voice.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, maybe can you tone it down a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>when you talk to her? Here happened?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I've been told that. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>I think this is the first time I tell you that.

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<v Speaker 3>This is why dating so hard. You never know what

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<v Speaker 3>people want.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it is shocking.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I will say, Melanie, in Corey's defense, he's

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<v Speaker 4>listening to you, he's taking in what you're he's not

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<v Speaker 4>he's not even upset about what you said.

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<v Speaker 5>I get that. I just for my personal preference, I

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<v Speaker 5>just like don't want to be with somebody that's that

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<v Speaker 5>animated and like so out of control like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it's something that Corey can work on. He can

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<v Speaker 1>take some classes or something before the date. She makes

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<v Speaker 1>it sound like a cartoon. Care Corey, can you talk

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<v Speaker 1>to her in a calm, controlled manner to prove to

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<v Speaker 1>her that you're the man she wants you to be.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not sure I agree with what you said. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know that I need to be on medication or

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<v Speaker 3>you're pushing back against.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was joking. That was me, Corey. I was

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<v Speaker 2>joking about being sedated.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, now's your chance, Corey to talk to Melanie a

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<v Speaker 1>little improved to her that you're the right guy.

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<v Speaker 3>Melanie would be a little Quietermorry, can I just think?

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<v Speaker 3>Really pretty?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you hear that Melanie's sweet?

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<v Speaker 1>What other calm things would you like to say to her?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, can we try this again?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you feeling the growth here already? Melanie? I think

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<v Speaker 1>we're taking steps towards a calmer, more even keel version

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<v Speaker 1>of Corey here.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I know that's what you're hearing, but you guys,

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<v Speaker 5>that's not what I'm hearing.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it's still too intense for you.

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<v Speaker 2>How are you meeting men that are more calmness? I

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<v Speaker 2>know I don't understand.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, this is my truth and I'm living in it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, bro keep your judgments over there. It's fascinating, Melanie.

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<v Speaker 1>We all respect you and what you want for yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>That's totally up to you. But we would love to

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<v Speaker 1>send you out on another date with Corey on our

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<v Speaker 1>dime if you're up for it. If not, that's okay, please.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, if they just get the off this air,

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<v Speaker 5>we can try, we can try again.

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<v Speaker 1>All right. Well, I want to be excited for you, Corey,

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<v Speaker 1>but I feel like that would backfire against us. So

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<v Speaker 1>this is good. Hoorray, don't test there. Let's let's try

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<v Speaker 1>it a little try a little lighter, Corey.

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<v Speaker 3>Hooray.

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<v Speaker 1>Congratulations Corey, you're now finally ready to date a real woman.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like this is what would happen if MPR

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<v Speaker 2>did second dates.

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<v Speaker 4>I know, brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>So if they actually do end up going out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date and being a.

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<v Speaker 2>Couple, are we making a bet right now?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying she is going to own him. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>he's okay with it though, totally sound desperate to do

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it took to get into her good graces.

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<v Speaker 2>It's what some men want.

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<v Speaker 1>It's going to be a situation where she's not only

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<v Speaker 1>wearing the pants in the relationship, but the overcoat and

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<v Speaker 1>the socks and the shoes too. She's in a little

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<v Speaker 1>control and there's going to be a tiny little man

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<v Speaker 1>quietly stirring a pot of soup in the corner.

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<v Speaker 2>Is this your guys, This fantasy or no? I can't

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<v Speaker 2>tell what you want.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's fantasy maybe, but that might not work

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<v Speaker 1>for the average person.

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<v Speaker 2>But hey, it's still a relationship, and that means we're

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<v Speaker 2>a success. What I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 4>We never said we guarantee a healthy relationship, or we

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<v Speaker 4>didn't guarantee partnerships.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just a date. We try to hook you up.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the bottom line, okay, and we are willing to

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<v Speaker 1>go to any lengths to make it happen. It's right.

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<v Speaker 2>Read the small print.

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<v Speaker 1>People email the show, we'll call that person. Wasn't calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back?

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<v Speaker 2>Brooking and Jeffrey in the morning