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Speaker 1: Second date of date? How soon is too soon to

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Speaker 2: WHOA, that's a huge question.

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Speaker 1: It is the first twenty minutes of a date too early.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna go out on a limb there, Jeff and say.

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Speaker 1: Yes, absolutely, wow, Judge, Okay, Okay. That has nothing to

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Speaker 1: do with our listener Corey in his date. It's just

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Speaker 1: a personal question that I've been having for myself. But

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Speaker 1: I'm curious to your horra's thoughts on it. Corey. And

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Speaker 1: your opinion is twenty minutes too early to hand someone

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Why Corey?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just trying to get an idea of the type

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Speaker 1: twenty four minutes? Okay? Yeah, you like to play it medium, gotcha?

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Speaker 1: But uh, tell us about the date that you went

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Speaker 1: on recently. Who's the girl you met?

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Speaker 3: I met a girl named Melanie, Okay, and honestly, she's

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Speaker 3: the prettiest girl I've ever gone out with.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I must feel good. I don't.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, and dating is hard, I mean a lot.

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Speaker 3: I don't meet people easy, so I tried these apps,

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Speaker 3: and I think most of them don't work. But I

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Speaker 3: did get to talking to Melanie, and she has curly

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Speaker 2: What is the perfect tight? I'm just curious for.

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Speaker 1: You, different for everyone, you know, like five three, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: And I really liked that she didn't have fake eyelashes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, those can.

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Speaker 1: You so far or you may not know this, but

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Speaker 1: Alexis does have giant fake eyelashes that she wears into

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Speaker 2: What's the red flag about him?

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Speaker 3: They're fake? And like, but I just like a girl

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Speaker 1: Highlights, because no, let's just physical stuff. Tell us about

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Speaker 1: the date that you went on. Where did you take her?

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 3: I found a neat place to go to dinners because

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Speaker 3: how do you know if you had the perfect date?

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Speaker 2: Is this? After we dealt with the date when you're

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Speaker 1: You're googling this at the table.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, like the next day.

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Speaker 1: Okay, the next day you were really went.

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Speaker 3: So there were four questions and I went through them.

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Speaker 3: So like the first one says was I comfortable and

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Speaker 2: Emotionally, I think comfortable sharing right with her and being yourself.

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Speaker 3: And then the next one is did I laugh? And

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Now you say that, I don't think that you've laughed

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Speaker 1: I know we're not making any any Big Bang Theory.

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Speaker 2: He giggled.

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah I did, and so I think that's a pass.

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Speaker 3: And then it's did she ask me any questions?

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Speaker 2: Huh?

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Speaker 3: So she did, like I ordered chicken with no onions

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Speaker 2: Sounds like a big conversation.

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Speaker 1: He's like, I don't answer those questions on the first date. Okay?

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Speaker 3: And then the very last one was after the date,

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Speaker 3: do you feel excited? And it'said, excited means you want

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Speaker 3: It'll be fine tomorrow. But and I did Celtics excited

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Speaker 3: I don't know what happened.

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean you sound like a pretty analytical guy.

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Speaker 4: Like talk about your interests or make jokes? Were you

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Speaker 4: self deprecating it all? I just think it's important to

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Speaker 1: Did you bring any like flair to the date, like

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Speaker 2: Wait a minute, that's flair. Would be one of those

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Speaker 3: We just had dinner. There was no fingers thing. I mean.

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Speaker 2: To do the fingers chicken with no onions? Is that

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Speaker 1: She does the hand motion and she's like, where did

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Speaker 1: My goodness, could sparks something? So how long has it

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Speaker 3: It's been like five days?

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right? And no response at all.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I'm thinking. Maybe she didn't feel as

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Speaker 2: Maybe man, Brook is yawning.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Brook can't stand to be on the phone.

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Speaker 2: You can't see.

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Speaker 1: Anyway. You can tell Brooke is really invested in this.

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Speaker 1: When we come back, we're gonna call Melanie, not you.

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Speaker 2: It's just early, that's all.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna do our best for you. I promise when

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Speaker 1: okay thing anyone listening to me second date update? If

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Speaker 2: It, that would be a good idea job.

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Speaker 1: Well, then maybe they could have checked each other's boxes together.

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Speaker 2: Maybe she's a box checker too, could.

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Speaker 1: Be because Corey says he doesn't date a lot, but

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Speaker 2: Yeah that's the mel Yeah, got confused.

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Speaker 1: For a second. But the thing about Melanie is she's

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Speaker 1: a second. Corey, how you feeling, Oh?

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Speaker 3: Well, nervous.

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Speaker 4: You know, we readed a lot on her like physical appearance.

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Speaker 4: What did you like about her personality?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean she's honestly, she's the best person I've

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Speaker 1: Oh, don't tell me much.

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Speaker 4: I feel like, why for a guy who's like looking

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Speaker 2: You know, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Brooks was trying to figure out something that she can

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Speaker 2: Oh, she's trying to try to get the romance out

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Speaker 3: You know, I don't know. She's kind and she's nice

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Speaker 2: All right, So.

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Speaker 1: Don't force Brooke to make you find things about her

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Speaker 1: That's totally accepted.

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Speaker 4: We're calling this person. It's good to know we're calling

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Speaker 2: Kind of nice, if they mean to us, absolutely and

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Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, we're all going to put on our best, kind,

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Speaker 5: So?

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Speaker 2: All right? You got this luddy, Here we go.

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Speaker 5: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hey is this Melanie? Yes, Hey, Melanie, what's up? You're

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Speaker 2: Hi, Hey, Melanie, how you doing?

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Speaker 4: The show.

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, I know.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, what do you know?

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Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, you can't believe you guys are calling me.

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Speaker 5: I don't really know what's happening, but I did receive

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Speaker 5: a text, wait, from minutes ago from Corey.

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Speaker 2: He texted he what what? What did he say?

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Speaker 5: He kind of just like warned me that no, you

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Speaker 2: Yeah wait wait wait wait wait.

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Speaker 1: You just ruined it. That's the whole point.

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Speaker 2: I know, but that might be good for her. That

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Speaker 1: Of supposed to give her a heads up.

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Speaker 5: I don't know what's going on. I just he just

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Speaker 5: told me, you guys are gonna call me, So okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: So what we're doing here is called a second date update.

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Speaker 1: That's where we try and help listeners who've been out

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Apparently it's not because he had the wrong phone number.

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Speaker 2: He said, you haven't texted him.

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Speaker 1: Back in like five days.

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Speaker 5: I haven't.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, that's okay.

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Speaker 1: You're allowed to not call someone back. But it would

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Speaker 5: Okay, So we were talking about TV and he got

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Speaker 5: just said, Helen Hunt is so unappreciated.

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Speaker 2: Helen Hunt. Do you remember her?

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Speaker 4: She was like a nineties actress that was in a

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Speaker 5: You cannot bring Big Bank Theory up. He brought a

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Speaker 4: But don't you kind of like, hi, when people dork

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Speaker 4: he finally found something to show you that, yeah, fun.

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Speaker 5: It wasn't that. I honestly, I like a little bit

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Speaker 3: OK.

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Speaker 2: So he was too excited.

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Speaker 1: When we talked to him, he did not seem soonper

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Speaker 4: Show.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good point.

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Speaker 6: He's too excited about Well, let's put that into the test,

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Speaker 6: because I gotta let you know, Melanie that Corey's actually

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Speaker 5: No, he's not.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how this works. That is wild, Corey. What

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Speaker 1: do you think about what she said? That you're too

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Speaker 2: I am still in shocked.

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Speaker 3: I don't understand. Honestly, I was just trying to be nice,

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Speaker 2: I'm glad he said it.

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Speaker 4: I didn't want to say it, but like after your

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Speaker 1: Broke. Apparently you were wrong. Apparently he was way over

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Speaker 3: This is confusing.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you can help clear it up for him, Melanie,

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Speaker 1: because I don't think it's matching with what you said.

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Speaker 1: Is the right guy?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? And you you are so nice. It was just

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Speaker 3: I can tone it back if you want.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I would like if you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just hear how he said that guy, you'll be

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Speaker 3: I mean, I get it. I can get excited about things, but.

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Speaker 5: It's just like a little.

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Speaker 5: Okay, well you know what, Yeah, you're telling a little crazy.

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Speaker 5: So just suddle yourself right way you're.

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Speaker 5: He's getting a little looked up. I can kind of

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Speaker 1: Okay, maybe can you tone it down a little bit

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Speaker 1: when you talk to her? Here happened?

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Speaker 3: Okay, I've been told that. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: I think this is the first time I tell you that.

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Speaker 3: This is why dating so hard. You never know what

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it is shocking.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I will say, Melanie, in Corey's defense, he's

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Speaker 5: I get that. I just for my personal preference, I

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's something that Corey can work on. He can

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Speaker 1: it sound like a cartoon. Care Corey, can you talk

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Speaker 3: I'm not sure I agree with what you said. I

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Speaker 2: So I was joking. That was me, Corey. I was

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Speaker 1: Well, now's your chance, Corey to talk to Melanie a

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Speaker 3: Melanie would be a little Quietermorry, can I just think?

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Speaker 3: Really pretty?

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Speaker 2: Do you hear that Melanie's sweet?

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Speaker 1: What other calm things would you like to say to her?

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Speaker 3: Okay, can we try this again?

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Speaker 1: Are you feeling the growth here already? Melanie? I think

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Speaker 1: we're taking steps towards a calmer, more even keel version

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Speaker 5: Well, I know that's what you're hearing, but you guys,

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Speaker 5: that's not what I'm hearing.

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's still too intense for you.

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Speaker 2: How are you meeting men that are more calmness? I

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Speaker 5: Okay, this is my truth and I'm living in it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, bro keep your judgments over there. It's fascinating, Melanie.

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Speaker 1: We all respect you and what you want for yourself.

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Speaker 1: That's totally up to you. But we would love to

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Speaker 1: dime if you're up for it. If not, that's okay, please.

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Speaker 5: You know, if they just get the off this air,

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Speaker 5: we can try, we can try again.

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Speaker 1: All right. Well, I want to be excited for you, Corey,

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Speaker 1: this is good. Hoorray, don't test there. Let's let's try

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Speaker 3: Hooray.

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Speaker 1: Congratulations Corey, you're now finally ready to date a real woman.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I feel like this is what would happen if MPR

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Speaker 4: I know, brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: So if they actually do end up going out on

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Speaker 2: Couple, are we making a bet right now?

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying she is going to own him. Oh,

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Speaker 1: he's okay with it though, totally sound desperate to do

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Speaker 2: It's what some men want.

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Speaker 1: It's going to be a situation where she's not only

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Speaker 2: Is this your guys, This fantasy or no? I can't

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Speaker 1: I think it's fantasy maybe, but that might not work

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Speaker 2: But hey, it's still a relationship, and that means we're

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Speaker 4: We never said we guarantee a healthy relationship, or we

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Speaker 1: It's just a date. We try to hook you up.

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Speaker 1: That's the bottom line, okay, and we are willing to

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Speaker 1: go to any lengths to make it happen. It's right.

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Speaker 2: Read the small print.

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Speaker 1: People email the show, we'll call that person. Wasn't calling

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Speaker 2: Brooking and Jeffrey in the morning