WEBVTT - | Ep 68 | Haters Gonna Hate

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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<v Speaker 1>podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Welcome to another episode

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<v Speaker 1>of Reasonably Shady. I am Giselle Bryant. What's up? What's up? Everyone?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Robin Dixon. Thank you. Yes, people have been listening,

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<v Speaker 1>and thank you so much. Oh my gosh. We have

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<v Speaker 1>these meetings with Black Effect and they tell us our

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<v Speaker 1>numbers like how may people download? And like y'all be

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<v Speaker 1>listening in I totally appreciated. I feel like, um, y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all must like us or something. Somebody likes us, clearly,

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<v Speaker 1>somebody I don't know, a lot of people hate us though,

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<v Speaker 1>but somebody likes us. Yes, indeed. Okay, First, thanks, First

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<v Speaker 1>November twenty six is our live show in in y C,

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<v Speaker 1>New York. Yes, I'm so excited for New York City. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>Reasonably Shady live show. The reason why I'm bringing up

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<v Speaker 1>again is because we've just found out that there was

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<v Speaker 1>like a glitch with buying our tickets. So if you

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<v Speaker 1>try to buy the tickets and it set sold out,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not it's about to be, so you can go

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<v Speaker 1>back and get your ticket, get your tickets City Winery. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and the live show. If anyone is like, well, why

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<v Speaker 1>would I want to just sit and watch someone like

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<v Speaker 1>do a podcast, It's not what you're imagining. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, it's it's not just Gisell and I

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<v Speaker 1>sitting on the couch talking like. It's very interactive. Clearly,

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<v Speaker 1>we have the meet and greet option. Yes, um, we

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<v Speaker 1>want to meet everyone. We want to take a picture

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<v Speaker 1>with you, we want to fill your energy. We might

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<v Speaker 1>you know, definitely allow you all to ask questions in

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<v Speaker 1>the audience. We're gonna have the games. Um. Just it's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be very lively and exciting and entertaining. Additionally, if

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<v Speaker 1>you can't come to New York City, if you're not

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<v Speaker 1>in New York City, UM, for people outside of that area,

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<v Speaker 1>you can also purchase the live stream the digital experience.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're having the reasonably Shady digital experience. You can

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<v Speaker 1>live stream it. Um. You can also purchase the option

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<v Speaker 1>for a virtual meet and greet with us. How do

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<v Speaker 1>how do they get to that? How do they buy that?

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<v Speaker 1>That is on moment dot co, moment, dot ceo, slash,

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<v Speaker 1>reasonably shady, yes, moment dot co, not Calm dot com

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<v Speaker 1>dot co, um so Moment dot CEO slash Reasonably Shady.

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<v Speaker 1>You can go there and sign up for the digital

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<v Speaker 1>experience UM and there's a different a few different options,

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<v Speaker 1>whether it's the meat and greet, a merch bundle yes,

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<v Speaker 1>merch yes, and the actual streaming experience Yes. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>love all that. So November, get your life with me

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<v Speaker 1>and rob it and and be clear if you're coming,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're in the building, you might be called up

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<v Speaker 1>on stage like that's just how we're doing That's how

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<v Speaker 1>we're doing this. Absolutely, and I wish we could, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>what we need to find like some feedback from our

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<v Speaker 1>first show, Like our first show in Maryland, Silver Spring,

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<v Speaker 1>it was like amazing that everyone had such a good

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<v Speaker 1>time that left. They were so happy like people. The

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<v Speaker 1>feedback was awesome. So you know, hopefully we need we

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<v Speaker 1>we might need to dig that up and read some

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<v Speaker 1>some feedback. Yes for sure, for sure. All right, it

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<v Speaker 1>is time for our Reasonably Shady Moment of the week.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm first, first, Okay, I'm first, okay, So okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>have to like paint the picture. Okay, So if you

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<v Speaker 1>are Bravo talent, I can just speak for Bravo UM.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, before I get my reasonably shady moment.

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<v Speaker 1>I do want to shout out my daughter, Grace Giselle

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<v Speaker 1>Bryant her birthday. Yeah, her real name is Giselle. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted somebody else to be named Giselle. Her birthday

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<v Speaker 1>just passed, and I just want to wish her happy birthday.

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<v Speaker 1>She turned eighteen. Oh my god, I I know it

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<v Speaker 1>makes me sad you having to do. And I did

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<v Speaker 1>tell her. I was like, Grace, you're like, you're old

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<v Speaker 1>enough now that you can legally leave my house and

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<v Speaker 1>go be on your own. And she's like, I ain't

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<v Speaker 1>going nowhere, and you right, She was like, mom, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have enough money for that was, no, you do not,

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<v Speaker 1>So she's going nowhere. Happy birthday, Yes, happy birth So

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<v Speaker 1>crazy because I just recently saw a clip and they

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<v Speaker 1>showed flashbacks to like season one. Yes, they were so little,

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<v Speaker 1>so okay, seven so she was like eleven maybe yeah

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<v Speaker 1>when we were filming that, I think she was ten

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<v Speaker 1>and the twins were eight, so yeah, they were young.

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<v Speaker 1>They're growing up um in front of everybody's eyes, and

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<v Speaker 1>it makes me sad, and let's move on. It's to see,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, So I'm gonna give you my reasonably shading

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<v Speaker 1>moment of the week. I'm gonna trying to make it

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<v Speaker 1>as quick as possible because it irritated the f out

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<v Speaker 1>of me. So, um, if you're a Bravo talent, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and let's say they want you to come to New

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<v Speaker 1>York to work on something or do press or whatever. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>this is kind of how it goes. Right. There's car

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<v Speaker 1>service that picks you up from your house, takes you

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<v Speaker 1>to the airport or the chain station. The car service

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<v Speaker 1>picks you up from there, takes you to the hotel.

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<v Speaker 1>The car service the next day, we'll you up and

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<v Speaker 1>then take you where you need to be. Right, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of car service, but that's just it is

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<v Speaker 1>what it is. So last week there was a Bravo

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<v Speaker 1>talent who was traveling and it was not me, but

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<v Speaker 1>the car service had my number for her. So they

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<v Speaker 1>were calling me telling me that they were at my

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<v Speaker 1>house to pick me up. Then they were calling me

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<v Speaker 1>telling me that they were at the airport to take

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<v Speaker 1>me to my hotel all night long, and I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know who was connected to all night long, Like what

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<v Speaker 1>time this was, like eleven eleven thirty at nine pm

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<v Speaker 1>pm Because she flew in from this is it was.

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<v Speaker 1>I found out it was for Alexia. I was coming

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<v Speaker 1>in from Miami. Alexei as a housewife on the Housewives

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<v Speaker 1>in Miami. She was going into New York. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>she got in like around eleven. I knew her whole

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<v Speaker 1>schedule because they've been calling me so and and go

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<v Speaker 1>to bed at eight. I was yes. So the next

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<v Speaker 1>day they still calling me because of course she's got

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<v Speaker 1>a go from her hotel to whatever she's gonna do

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<v Speaker 1>in the city. So um. Finally it's said when they

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<v Speaker 1>texted me her name and I was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>this is Alexey. I call Alexey. I'm like, girl, you

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<v Speaker 1>in New York. Yeah, your car services been calling me

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<v Speaker 1>for two days and I don't appreciate it. We're laughing.

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<v Speaker 1>So the shady moment is, I think, to the production

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<v Speaker 1>company who set this up, Yeah, someone clearly got your

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<v Speaker 1>numbers mixed up, Like, yes, your names aren't even anywhere close. No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we we do. We are on this show

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<v Speaker 1>that we did together. But like it was a good

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<v Speaker 1>key key but not really because I didn't think it

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<v Speaker 1>was funny. She laughed. I didn't think it was funny, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's probably like in New York wondering like, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>this car services not calling me because the car services

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<v Speaker 1>they call you when they're like the cars dispatch or

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<v Speaker 1>nearly send the text the car has been dispatched, the

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<v Speaker 1>cars outside the car, and then the driver like because

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<v Speaker 1>all of that and it's not for you. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>was angry, frustrated, Alex See. Yeah, I hope you traveled safely. Honey. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all ruin Gizell's beauty sleep. She's ugly today, y'all. I

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<v Speaker 1>got bags on the eyes and everything is so ugly.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, what is your shady moment? Okay, so my

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<v Speaker 1>shady moment? You know, I shared this on my Instagram.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like we talked about this all the time

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<v Speaker 1>because it doesn't stop. But um, you know, okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>let's first say, the Real Housewives of Time, it gets

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<v Speaker 1>back on eight o'clock on Sunday. What you're talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>I know what I'm saying now that we're back on

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<v Speaker 1>thing you know, the social media giants? Yes, okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you were like doing a promo for the show. No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all know we're back on eight o'clock Sundays. Yes, so yes,

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<v Speaker 1>So now that the show is on and people are watching, um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we're getting everybody in their mama and their

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<v Speaker 1>opinions coming at us on social media. And Okay, it's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>If you don't like me, fine, that's you know, what

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<v Speaker 1>can I do about it? If you think I was wrong? Fine?

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<v Speaker 1>But like this woman literally, Lee literally told me she

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<v Speaker 1>hoped I die. I want you to read it? Can

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<v Speaker 1>you read it? I'll read it. It's first of all,

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<v Speaker 1>people are like, what what what is she saying? Because

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<v Speaker 1>because she can't even put so this is the funny part,

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<v Speaker 1>because she's censoring the word bitch right by writing uppercase

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<v Speaker 1>b h I I so you know who who knows

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<v Speaker 1>what that is? I don't know, but I'm assuming just

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<v Speaker 1>giving what she's saying that she's censoring the word bitch right.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like, you are holy enough to not curse

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<v Speaker 1>at me, right, censor the word bitchy, but then tell

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<v Speaker 1>me I hope you die and sane right? Insane? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>So are we giving her name? Okay, what's her name?

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<v Speaker 1>Her name is Nicki Edwards? Oh my gosh. And then

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<v Speaker 1>someone comments, so I gotta read it so before before

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<v Speaker 1>I read it? Huh, someone comment I posted this on

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<v Speaker 1>my Instagram and someone commented that they grew up with her.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh lovely, I grew up with her. I cannot believe

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<v Speaker 1>that you know whatever? Anyway? So I mean, do you

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<v Speaker 1>want to read this? Yes? So Nikki Edwards's gonna read

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<v Speaker 1>this in Nicky's voice? Yes, reading in Nicki's voice said

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<v Speaker 1>you low down, red, nasty b I you wrong for

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<v Speaker 1>not inviting Wendy and her kids? What you what do

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<v Speaker 1>you have against her? Because she dark skinned? And how

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<v Speaker 1>the hell you gonna as another bit to bring her kids?

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you die, bitch? How crazy is that? How

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<v Speaker 1>are you writing that? Who writes that? Who actually? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>I just need I need an explanation, right from people

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<v Speaker 1>who do this, from people who like send hate on Instagram,

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<v Speaker 1>for people who even like spew negativity, Like why why

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<v Speaker 1>there's so there's so many questions there? First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>there's thousands over the time that I ignore. Right, Also,

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<v Speaker 1>like this is not like oh my god, I got

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<v Speaker 1>one hate, No, and I'm and I'm upset about it.

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<v Speaker 1>But when you tell me I hope you die, That's

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<v Speaker 1>when I'm like, all right, your ass is going on blast. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I got to show the world that this

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<v Speaker 1>is the crazy ship that I received, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, and that I received too. Yeah, And I

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<v Speaker 1>know you're unfortunately, I know you do, right, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just like, enough is enough? Um? So, question number one?

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<v Speaker 1>When you watch these shows and so so people out here?

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<v Speaker 1>Who are who are listening? Um? You know, if you

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<v Speaker 1>have these emotional reactions to a reality show and you

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<v Speaker 1>feel they need to go on social media and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>go to someone's page and call them out their name

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<v Speaker 1>and or whatever, or even go on like these sites

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<v Speaker 1>and just speaking negativity? Um. Question number one, do you

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<v Speaker 1>realize that when you're watching a show that this stuff

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<v Speaker 1>has happened months and months and months ago? Right? That's

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<v Speaker 1>number one? Number one? Number two? Question number two? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you not a human? Because what human is perfect? And

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<v Speaker 1>you don't does what you consider the perfect thing? You are?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying so so for me, she according to your standards? Right,

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm like, who how do I And I always said,

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<v Speaker 1>like what are y'all watching? Like? How do you not

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<v Speaker 1>see people argue? Like literally argue? And who in they

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<v Speaker 1>write mind turns around to someone they just argued with

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<v Speaker 1>and nicely speak to them. I don't know. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>there any human that can do that, especially if it's

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<v Speaker 1>someone that like you have like argued with over for

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<v Speaker 1>over a year and you've never and you have not

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<v Speaker 1>been friends with for over a year. I'm like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't understand, Like, which, what are y'all not comprehending? Like

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<v Speaker 1>we weren't friends to begin with, we didn't have a

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<v Speaker 1>good relationship to begin with. Well, we just argued. They

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<v Speaker 1>literally didn't show everything. She called me the devil, but whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>we just argued, and who when they read mind turns

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<v Speaker 1>around and says, hey, girl, what you're doing next week?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't get it. You want you want to come

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<v Speaker 1>to my event? I'm having a little a little get together,

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<v Speaker 1>a little gathering, right, yeah, no, but anyway, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not even here to like explain my point. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just here. I'm just so confused. I'm like, how can

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<v Speaker 1>something like that get people so upset when you literally

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<v Speaker 1>just watched us argue to the point where they're they're there,

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<v Speaker 1>they just had to go on social media, go to

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<v Speaker 1>your page and tell you that they want you to

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<v Speaker 1>die insane, right, Which, like so anyway, people who do this, like,

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<v Speaker 1>can y'all just email us tell us why y'all do this?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you really want me to die? Like? Do you

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<v Speaker 1>really want me to die over reality? Like that? Make you? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Would that have made her feel good if I died

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<v Speaker 1>of a heart attack the next day? I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I don't know, but I mean, how do

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<v Speaker 1>you put that energy out there? Right? How do you

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<v Speaker 1>even put that in your head? Like? What is happening? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>So if if you are because somebody said, oh I

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<v Speaker 1>grew up with her, that's not even a fake page, right,

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<v Speaker 1>that's like that's your real page, that's your real thoughts. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're real crazy, So I I so we're asking if

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<v Speaker 1>you have fallen short of the glory of God and

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<v Speaker 1>sent some hatred via social media, stand up, email us

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<v Speaker 1>and tell us why why did you do that? Why

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<v Speaker 1>did you go on social media? You need to tell

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<v Speaker 1>somebody to die? Jump off a cliff. I hope your

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<v Speaker 1>house burns, Like, tell us what in you made you

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<v Speaker 1>do that? You know I've actually received all of that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>me too, That's how that's how I can run it

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<v Speaker 1>down because I get it all. Yeah, I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>get it all, um, but yes, let us know why

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<v Speaker 1>the hatred is spewing on social media that you contributed to.

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<v Speaker 1>If you didn't do it, or don't Asia, I'm telling

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<v Speaker 1>you right now, don't don't send us an email talking

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<v Speaker 1>about well, one of my girlfriends told me she did this. No, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it has to be you. You did it and you

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<v Speaker 1>want to But if somebody has insight, if they can

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<v Speaker 1>say I don't do it, but my my cousin does,

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<v Speaker 1>like if they have inside, I'm because I'm because I'm baffled.

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<v Speaker 1>I am. I amuddled, like perplexes, like I just don't understand,

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<v Speaker 1>Like people trust me when I tell you, releasing negative

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<v Speaker 1>and toxic energy from your life is so freeing. It's

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<v Speaker 1>so free. And the part that I hate this is

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<v Speaker 1>what I really hate. So Like, I want to go

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<v Speaker 1>on my Instagram and enjoy my Instagram, right. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to look at my Instagram and my feed and the

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<v Speaker 1>people that I want to look at I want to receive,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I want to communicate with the positive people

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<v Speaker 1>on my page. I don't want to have to filter

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<v Speaker 1>through the nasty, toxic stuff that I don't even care

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<v Speaker 1>to not I don't I don't care if you don't

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<v Speaker 1>like me, so I don't even care to know about that.

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<v Speaker 1>So I limit Now I have to limit my comments.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm only right now and it's said that I

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<v Speaker 1>have to do this, so I limit my comments. So

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<v Speaker 1>the only people that can comment on my page are

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<v Speaker 1>people that I follow or that follow me. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>same thing. So and I've also limited my mentions, so

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<v Speaker 1>the only people that can at me in a in

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<v Speaker 1>another post or a story are people that I follow. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I like that, but so I've had so now I've

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<v Speaker 1>had to restrict my access to the public right or

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<v Speaker 1>the public access to me, because I don't necessarily want

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<v Speaker 1>this negative stuff, this negative energy in my in my world.

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<v Speaker 1>So then you have the people that go in your

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<v Speaker 1>in my d M s and saying bitch, now, how

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<v Speaker 1>you gonna turn your comments off? You know you was wrong?

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<v Speaker 1>So how you go throw your comments off? Like? What

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<v Speaker 1>the what the what part of I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you? Do you not understand? I don't understand

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<v Speaker 1>these see what I hear are crazy and it's really

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<v Speaker 1>saying and it's crazy. I said on the show, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't give up if you think I'm horrible. Yes, I'm petty.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I don't give up. I don't need you to

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<v Speaker 1>call to my paget. I don't need a hundred people

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<v Speaker 1>to come from page and tell me I was wrong. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>now I do. I do like how garcell has handled

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<v Speaker 1>some things. Garcella's on the Real Housewives. She's got more

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<v Speaker 1>um class than look. Just just a tad, just a tad,

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<v Speaker 1>not much garcell anyway. So, so there was an incident

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<v Speaker 1>Beverly Hills. It had to do with UM, Garcella's son,

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<v Speaker 1>and Garcella felt like Diana, who was another cast mate,

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<v Speaker 1>had bought box to target Garcelle and Garcella's son, which

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think she went to that extent. I think

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<v Speaker 1>Diana did. But I'm just gonna mind my business, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so Garcelle. So there was an investigation, So Diana said,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm hiring lawyers because these people got a whole lot

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<v Speaker 1>of money to spend on some lawyers. Because I would

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<v Speaker 1>have been like, but Diana's like, I'm listening. I'm rich.

0:17:30.600 --> 0:17:33.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm a rich bitch. So I'm I got some lawyers

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<v Speaker 1>on retainer. And they did an investigation and they found

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<v Speaker 1>the person that UM I guess disseminated the box or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Anyway, I don't even know if they

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<v Speaker 1>said that that was the person that disseminated the box.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just a person that a person, Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, so Garcella. They asked Garsela like, well, how

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<v Speaker 1>do you feel about Diana's investigation? And Garcella with her,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, very classy self. She was like, what who

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<v Speaker 1>Garza Diana. Oh, yeah, I have my own investigation going.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't really care about that one, you know. I was like, yes, Garcelle, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>but even further what I appreciated that Garcela did. And

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<v Speaker 1>I have felt this way. I haven't done it, but

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<v Speaker 1>I have felt this way. So their season is now over,

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<v Speaker 1>they have gotten through the reunion. It's over there on

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<v Speaker 1>hiatus until they start, you know, filming again. And she said,

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<v Speaker 1>she tweeted, guys seasons over. I appreciate you all watching.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm done with y'all right, and I'm taking a breath,

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<v Speaker 1>taking a break. And I appreciate that something and and

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<v Speaker 1>and I want to say if she has been pushed

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<v Speaker 1>to the point via social media that she feels like

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<v Speaker 1>she needs to take a break, y'all leave alone. Just

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<v Speaker 1>leave Hallel alone, yes, robbing alone, right, leave us alone.

0:18:45.119 --> 0:18:49.440
<v Speaker 1>Like we're here, we're we're on a show about our lives,

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<v Speaker 1>about our real lives, about our real interactions with real people,

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<v Speaker 1>and we go through ups and downs as we're here

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<v Speaker 1>for you're also you know, you hope to be entertained

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<v Speaker 1>by it. But it what I think a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>the fans don't realize is they're gonna harass us to

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<v Speaker 1>the point where we're just gonna sit there and braid

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<v Speaker 1>each other's hair. Okay, that's not happening. I'm on. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying but that I feel like that. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like you can watch some of the shows and

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<v Speaker 1>you or some of the people on some of the

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<v Speaker 1>shows and see that that's what's going on. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean? Like they like people are are

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<v Speaker 1>afraid to really say how they feel or how they

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<v Speaker 1>what they're really thinking. They don't want to push buttons.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, that's when they get called on hot mics,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, they say how they really feel on

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<v Speaker 1>a hot mic because they're not they're too chicken to

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<v Speaker 1>say it on air, on in front of a camera.

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<v Speaker 1>But people are about to get their wish of all

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<v Speaker 1>going bye bye and the people as Elon Musk because

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<v Speaker 1>you now, oh yeah, yeah, I want to have people

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<v Speaker 1>who have a check verified check on Twitter. You want

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<v Speaker 1>them to pay monthly right first of its twenty dollars

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<v Speaker 1>and eight dollars. Listen, take my check and take me

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<v Speaker 1>off right. I mean, if you want me to pay

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<v Speaker 1>to be on Twitter, you out of your mind that

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<v Speaker 1>when's the last time you sent a tweet? Not recently exactly?

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, you know me, I'm like, good, get me. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, let me let me. I don't mind

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<v Speaker 1>just going to I don't I never go on Twitter.

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<v Speaker 1>Well if if so, but I want I want a

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<v Speaker 1>the rationale behind this, Like he says that Twitter's in

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<v Speaker 1>the hole and he needs to make some money. No, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and just why did he buy it? Why did you

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<v Speaker 1>buy it? And so if because I had thought about

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<v Speaker 1>it and I was like, okay, So so when we

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<v Speaker 1>became Housewives Bravo or whatever, our pr are marketing verified

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<v Speaker 1>us and we all we all got to check which,

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, who gives you about this check? But whatever?

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<v Speaker 1>I think, well I think it. Lets like the people

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<v Speaker 1>who are looking for you or your page. They know, like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this is really her. Okay, so are they gonna They're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna uh sen bravo and invoice for this eight dollars

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<v Speaker 1>a month. That don't want to charge me, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>because he was not paying any money, not paying eight cents.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not paying a g to because this is a

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<v Speaker 1>vehicle that trashes me. So I want to pay to

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<v Speaker 1>stay and get trash. No thank you, no, no thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>I know. And I'm like, how is this going to work?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know. We'll see if that actually happens.

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<v Speaker 1>Um which but which is so crazy also about Twitter,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm hearing that the employees are literally working like

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<v Speaker 1>NonStop round the clock, sleeping and sleeping mags on the

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<v Speaker 1>floor in the office because because he, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>they are like he took over and now there's like

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<v Speaker 1>so much that he's demanding to be done. And and

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<v Speaker 1>then I think people are hoping that they don't get fired.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently he's you know, going to get rid of a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of people. So I don't know, it's a whole mask.

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<v Speaker 1>Ellen Musk reportedly plans to eliminate about thirty d jobs

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<v Speaker 1>at Twitter. Amounting to half of the company's workforce. So

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<v Speaker 1>that's according to various reports here this morning. Most aims

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<v Speaker 1>to make the announcement in an effort to bring down

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<v Speaker 1>costs following his four billion dollar acquisition. You know what, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>when we get off this pod, yeah, I might just

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<v Speaker 1>delete my Twitter page. I mean, but like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>don't make a difference to me. I don't even don't

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<v Speaker 1>delete it. But there's somebody that's unemployed that he can't hire,

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<v Speaker 1>who needs a job. His name is Kanye, So just

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<v Speaker 1>go elon, call your boy. Yeah, he needs a job.

0:22:31.920 --> 0:22:35.320
<v Speaker 1>Kanye got what he wanted, which is what to be broke.

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<v Speaker 1>He wanted to be released from Adidas, and he was released, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't think he wanted the rest of the

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<v Speaker 1>bank to kick him out. Letsiaga gap um Now. Now

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<v Speaker 1>Kim looks at him and she says, nanny, nanny boo boo,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you know what I mean, he doesn't want all that.

0:22:52.600 --> 0:22:55.600
<v Speaker 1>Chris Jenner is like, it's about damn time. But anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like if we talk about Kanye right now,

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<v Speaker 1>like by the time this podcast airs is going to

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<v Speaker 1>be like a whole different story. So it's like there's

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<v Speaker 1>no point and even talk about hell no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't need to talk about Okay, I do want

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about take Off? Oh my god? Yeah, who

0:23:11.600 --> 0:23:14.840
<v Speaker 1>is the third of the me goes? It's Offset Quavo

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<v Speaker 1>and take Off? Who was shot by random bullet? I

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<v Speaker 1>believe they're not intended for him? How do how do

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<v Speaker 1>we get this to in? It's like really sad because

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<v Speaker 1>I was like at a bowling alley, a bowling alley.

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<v Speaker 1>We can't you can't even go to a bowling alley.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, and I know, you know, the investigation is

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<v Speaker 1>still going on. We're still getting the details of what happened.

0:23:39.040 --> 0:23:44.840
<v Speaker 1>Apparently there was some words exchange, but like a bowling alley,

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<v Speaker 1>a bowling alley, And it's like, why do we need

0:23:48.400 --> 0:23:50.600
<v Speaker 1>to carry around guns? Right? Why do we need to

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<v Speaker 1>do that? Right? Why do we need to kill like

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<v Speaker 1>so because somebody said something, you don't like you want

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<v Speaker 1>to kill him? I don't. It's just like in a

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<v Speaker 1>like who were the shots intended for? Too? Like that's

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<v Speaker 1>that's a good question, you know what I mean, like

0:24:04.480 --> 0:24:08.200
<v Speaker 1>you really intended to kill this person? Because I I've

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<v Speaker 1>seen videos where like it's like a group of people,

0:24:10.920 --> 0:24:13.840
<v Speaker 1>and they're around and they're you know, just kind of talking,

0:24:14.359 --> 0:24:16.840
<v Speaker 1>and it's so weird. It's like, how do we go

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<v Speaker 1>How do we skip the the fist part? No one

0:24:20.480 --> 0:24:23.480
<v Speaker 1>fights anymore like their fists that doesn't happen how anymore?

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<v Speaker 1>How do you literally go from words? They weren't even

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<v Speaker 1>screaming like they weren't. It didn't sound like an argument

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<v Speaker 1>to me. It was just kind of like some like

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<v Speaker 1>hey man, get on out here with that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>stuff like that. How do you go from that? Two gunshots? Right?

0:24:36.200 --> 0:24:39.480
<v Speaker 1>Like where's the fist? The cut? The pulling out of

0:24:39.520 --> 0:24:43.480
<v Speaker 1>hair to kicking or something something? If you really are

0:24:43.520 --> 0:24:46.600
<v Speaker 1>are you know that upset? I just I just it's

0:24:46.640 --> 0:24:49.160
<v Speaker 1>just gotta end. We gotta do better. There's no reason

0:24:49.200 --> 0:24:51.160
<v Speaker 1>for people to be walking around with these guns. Everybody

0:24:51.200 --> 0:24:53.960
<v Speaker 1>is strapped up. Why. I don't know. Can we just

0:24:54.000 --> 0:24:56.840
<v Speaker 1>go back to living our lives peacefully? Yeah? I don't know.

0:24:56.960 --> 0:24:59.080
<v Speaker 1>I know one thing. Like the more of the stuff happens.

0:25:00.040 --> 0:25:01.960
<v Speaker 1>I feel sorry for my kids because they're not going

0:25:01.960 --> 0:25:06.639
<v Speaker 1>to have anywhere near a childhood or you know, like

0:25:06.800 --> 0:25:09.720
<v Speaker 1>memories like I had, you know what I mean? There,

0:25:10.040 --> 0:25:13.439
<v Speaker 1>their father is not letting them go anywhere. I know

0:25:13.480 --> 0:25:15.560
<v Speaker 1>that for sure. Okay, you know what I mean. Let

0:25:15.680 --> 0:25:17.840
<v Speaker 1>let the boys leave the house a little bit. It's

0:25:17.880 --> 0:25:20.600
<v Speaker 1>scary though. It's scary, but you know, honestly, my kids

0:25:20.640 --> 0:25:22.960
<v Speaker 1>probably don't want to leave the house. They see the

0:25:23.040 --> 0:25:25.760
<v Speaker 1>stuff and they and they don't. They want no parts. Yes,

0:25:26.080 --> 0:25:28.919
<v Speaker 1>And on top of that, shoot Lebron James Son was

0:25:29.800 --> 0:25:32.840
<v Speaker 1>in Maryland recently playing a basketball games, like a high

0:25:32.840 --> 0:25:37.400
<v Speaker 1>school exhibition game, and folks started running because apparently there

0:25:37.440 --> 0:25:38.840
<v Speaker 1>was a gun. I don't know, I don't know if

0:25:38.840 --> 0:25:41.520
<v Speaker 1>it's there or whatever, but you know, someone saw it.

0:25:41.600 --> 0:25:46.640
<v Speaker 1>Someone saw the gun and people start running like that's scary.

0:25:46.720 --> 0:25:48.359
<v Speaker 1>It was a two day tournament and they had to

0:25:48.400 --> 0:25:52.240
<v Speaker 1>cancel the whole thing for two days. So like, you

0:25:52.280 --> 0:25:54.840
<v Speaker 1>don't even give these boys apportunity to play do something

0:25:54.920 --> 0:25:57.639
<v Speaker 1>that they love to do because people have guns and

0:25:57.640 --> 0:25:59.680
<v Speaker 1>they potentially might shoot somebody. Like this is a mess.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody stopped. Yeah. I've literally been in a youth basketball game.

0:26:03.200 --> 0:26:05.280
<v Speaker 1>I think this was my kids were in. I think

0:26:05.359 --> 0:26:08.120
<v Speaker 1>Corey was in fourth grade. We were at a tournament,

0:26:08.200 --> 0:26:10.639
<v Speaker 1>local tournament and it brought like a lot of teams

0:26:10.640 --> 0:26:15.480
<v Speaker 1>from all over New York, New Jersey, you know, Georgia, Virginia, whatever,

0:26:16.160 --> 0:26:20.920
<v Speaker 1>And literally one of the coaches gets into it with

0:26:21.720 --> 0:26:25.520
<v Speaker 1>um a spectator and pulls the gun out the coach.

0:26:26.040 --> 0:26:28.920
<v Speaker 1>The coaches strapped out. Yes, it was like an assistant

0:26:28.960 --> 0:26:34.280
<v Speaker 1>coach pulls a gun out. What yes, where was this?

0:26:34.280 --> 0:26:37.200
<v Speaker 1>This was right down in jessip and that it was

0:26:37.240 --> 0:26:42.159
<v Speaker 1>a big, huge basketball tournament. The people playing it was

0:26:42.320 --> 0:26:46.320
<v Speaker 1>fourth graders on the court playing. Okay, that's insane because

0:26:46.400 --> 0:26:50.880
<v Speaker 1>at a basketball game, nothing is that that stressful or

0:26:51.000 --> 0:26:53.640
<v Speaker 1>upsetting that you need to end it with a gunshot.

0:26:53.840 --> 0:26:57.320
<v Speaker 1>But imagine so much happens, like with referees, Like people

0:26:57.320 --> 0:27:01.119
<v Speaker 1>get mad at referees and the referees and then shoot

0:27:01.119 --> 0:27:03.040
<v Speaker 1>the referee might go to their car and get their guns.

0:27:03.119 --> 0:27:06.240
<v Speaker 1>Like it's just it's horrible. I just I don't understand.

0:27:06.440 --> 0:27:09.800
<v Speaker 1>I wish it would stop. But you know, my condolences

0:27:09.880 --> 0:27:12.639
<v Speaker 1>to take off his family and friends and everyone in

0:27:12.640 --> 0:27:15.800
<v Speaker 1>the music industry morning this. It's like, but I don't

0:27:15.800 --> 0:27:17.199
<v Speaker 1>want to hear it. I just I don't want to

0:27:17.240 --> 0:27:19.680
<v Speaker 1>hear this anymore. No, it's it's got to stop. But okay,

0:27:19.720 --> 0:27:23.679
<v Speaker 1>but on another note with offset, because right before this happened,

0:27:23.720 --> 0:27:28.800
<v Speaker 1>I was actually intrigued with Offset and just I don't

0:27:28.800 --> 0:27:31.960
<v Speaker 1>think I've ever heard him talk, right, I know, you know,

0:27:32.440 --> 0:27:36.439
<v Speaker 1>and it kitden't like all of that. I know the songs, right,

0:27:36.560 --> 0:27:40.439
<v Speaker 1>I knew one word out of that whole lyric, but

0:27:40.480 --> 0:27:42.440
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to hear him talk. So I was scrolling

0:27:42.480 --> 0:27:46.240
<v Speaker 1>through HBO and he has a show called The Hype, Carli,

0:27:46.320 --> 0:27:48.160
<v Speaker 1>have you seen the Hype? I haven't seen it? Okay,

0:27:48.200 --> 0:27:52.480
<v Speaker 1>So The Hype is similar to Project Runway, and it's

0:27:52.600 --> 0:27:55.840
<v Speaker 1>a competition show in which kids are not kids, but

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<v Speaker 1>like designers are making streetwear. Okay. Now I didn't know

0:28:00.680 --> 0:28:03.200
<v Speaker 1>street where it was the thing, right, Okay, but streetwear,

0:28:03.359 --> 0:28:04.760
<v Speaker 1>I mean I knew streetwear it was the thing, but

0:28:04.800 --> 0:28:07.080
<v Speaker 1>I didn't know it was like a thing like think thing,

0:28:07.160 --> 0:28:09.480
<v Speaker 1>Like we got competitions over who has the best streetwear.

0:28:09.800 --> 0:28:13.280
<v Speaker 1>Streetwearing my mind is like baggy cargo paints and a hoodie?

0:28:13.440 --> 0:28:15.760
<v Speaker 1>Right yeah, so what is streetwear exactly? So you need

0:28:15.800 --> 0:28:19.359
<v Speaker 1>to watch. So Offset is one of the judges. It's

0:28:19.359 --> 0:28:24.560
<v Speaker 1>actually I think his show Marnie who Martie Stopped Something

0:28:25.000 --> 0:28:28.520
<v Speaker 1>isr is Beyonce. I can't pronounce her last name, and

0:28:28.520 --> 0:28:32.359
<v Speaker 1>I love this woman. Hi My name is Martie Santa Fonte.

0:28:32.520 --> 0:28:36.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm a stylist and costume designer. She is Beyonce stylist,

0:28:37.880 --> 0:28:39.240
<v Speaker 1>and Martie is the one that always has like a

0:28:39.280 --> 0:28:42.640
<v Speaker 1>top knot, white lady blonde hair, top knot. And I'm

0:28:42.680 --> 0:28:46.280
<v Speaker 1>talking about that was stalin Michelle Obama years ago. Um,

0:28:46.400 --> 0:28:48.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't know how you go from Michelle Obama to Beyonce.

0:28:48.920 --> 0:28:51.640
<v Speaker 1>I mean she did the whole homecoming white lady was

0:28:51.680 --> 0:28:54.320
<v Speaker 1>I know Michelle Obama had heard style. This was a

0:28:54.320 --> 0:28:58.000
<v Speaker 1>white lady, blonde hair with top knot. She's not Michelle

0:28:58.160 --> 0:29:01.959
<v Speaker 1>Obama's vibe, but I can be then, yes, they can

0:29:02.000 --> 0:29:04.360
<v Speaker 1>switch off. But she did the whole Coachella thing, the

0:29:04.440 --> 0:29:08.360
<v Speaker 1>whole that whole thing anyway. Um, and and another girl

0:29:08.400 --> 0:29:10.880
<v Speaker 1>who I don't I don't know who she is anyway,

0:29:10.960 --> 0:29:15.160
<v Speaker 1>long story short, Offset is smart artick you lit. I

0:29:15.200 --> 0:29:17.560
<v Speaker 1>mean he does say the word um yeah, man, that's

0:29:17.600 --> 0:29:20.280
<v Speaker 1>real hard. Yeah, that's that's that's fire. Yeah. I mean

0:29:20.280 --> 0:29:23.200
<v Speaker 1>he does a lot of that. But like, I am

0:29:23.320 --> 0:29:26.680
<v Speaker 1>very impressed with him, and I see now why him

0:29:26.720 --> 0:29:30.720
<v Speaker 1>and CARDI are married. Yeah, oh really I do, because

0:29:30.720 --> 0:29:33.000
<v Speaker 1>I was like, Okay, he got some swag with him

0:29:33.040 --> 0:29:35.840
<v Speaker 1>he's cleaned himself up. He's a nice looking guy and

0:29:35.960 --> 0:29:40.080
<v Speaker 1>I see it. Yeah. Yeah. And and you know Marnie,

0:29:41.520 --> 0:29:43.760
<v Speaker 1>I like her too, so you know she's also intriguing

0:29:43.800 --> 0:29:46.200
<v Speaker 1>for the whole show. Okay, Yeah, I don't know a

0:29:46.280 --> 0:29:49.840
<v Speaker 1>lot about the Mean Goes either, but outside of their music. So,

0:29:50.320 --> 0:29:54.120
<v Speaker 1>but but I'm sure they're all extremely intelligent. I feel

0:29:54.160 --> 0:29:57.880
<v Speaker 1>like anyone to be First of all, can you can

0:29:57.920 --> 0:30:00.080
<v Speaker 1>you rap? Like? You know what I'm saying, Like I

0:30:00.120 --> 0:30:04.320
<v Speaker 1>just try to in the kitchen, right, that's not it's

0:30:04.560 --> 0:30:09.040
<v Speaker 1>that actually requires a lot of not just talent, but intelligence, yes,

0:30:09.240 --> 0:30:11.760
<v Speaker 1>to be able to wrap. Um, and I think people

0:30:11.760 --> 0:30:14.360
<v Speaker 1>don't give them credit for that. Um. So I'm sure

0:30:14.400 --> 0:30:17.120
<v Speaker 1>they are all quite intelligent. But um, it's good to

0:30:17.160 --> 0:30:19.880
<v Speaker 1>see them do like see him doing something other things. Yeah,

0:30:19.920 --> 0:30:22.719
<v Speaker 1>and they're on I think season two now. Um, I

0:30:22.760 --> 0:30:24.960
<v Speaker 1>just I started watching it. I started from the beginning

0:30:24.960 --> 0:30:29.800
<v Speaker 1>season one. I'm actually loving the designers. They're all pretty young.

0:30:30.400 --> 0:30:33.360
<v Speaker 1>They're on their grind, you know. It's it's nice to

0:30:33.360 --> 0:30:35.760
<v Speaker 1>see that they they're honing their craft, like they know

0:30:35.800 --> 0:30:40.680
<v Speaker 1>how to sew all that. Okay, so what is streetwear? Yeah,

0:30:40.720 --> 0:30:43.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm still confused as to what exactly streetwear is, but

0:30:43.720 --> 0:30:50.000
<v Speaker 1>it consists of some sort of hoodie, a a baggy pant.

0:30:50.920 --> 0:30:53.600
<v Speaker 1>For the girls, you might get a hoodie that's like cropped,

0:30:54.000 --> 0:30:57.880
<v Speaker 1>or you might get a tank top. Situation, um, you know,

0:30:57.880 --> 0:31:00.760
<v Speaker 1>when they have challenges or whatever. But it's I'm enjoying it.

0:31:01.040 --> 0:31:05.000
<v Speaker 1>So it's more just okay, street where actually a category

0:31:05.040 --> 0:31:07.680
<v Speaker 1>of clothing or are we just saying it's just it is? Okay, Carly,

0:31:07.760 --> 0:31:10.680
<v Speaker 1>So it is. Yes, it's most definitely, and you have

0:31:10.720 --> 0:31:12.840
<v Speaker 1>to be like relevant, you know, sometimes they have to

0:31:12.880 --> 0:31:16.920
<v Speaker 1>like rep for their um where they're from. One girl

0:31:16.920 --> 0:31:18.880
<v Speaker 1>who's from Kentucky, she decided to make a band a

0:31:19.120 --> 0:31:23.280
<v Speaker 1>red bandana jacket there in l A. Well, no, no,

0:31:23.880 --> 0:31:26.200
<v Speaker 1>you got sent home as soon as she made it.

0:31:26.240 --> 0:31:29.800
<v Speaker 1>I was like, you're going home? Yes, first of all, girl,

0:31:30.160 --> 0:31:33.240
<v Speaker 1>you're from Kentucky, Like, how does it make no sense?

0:31:33.680 --> 0:31:37.000
<v Speaker 1>But anyway, I'm enjoying it. Thank you. Offset. I totally

0:31:37.480 --> 0:31:40.680
<v Speaker 1>appreciate who and what he is. And Marnie, anytime you

0:31:40.680 --> 0:31:42.920
<v Speaker 1>want to, like give me a Beyonce styling of the day,

0:31:43.080 --> 0:31:46.400
<v Speaker 1>feel free Okay, yes, all right, I'm gonna look her up. Yeah,

0:31:46.400 --> 0:31:59.440
<v Speaker 1>she's a bad one, so Julia Roberts posted something the

0:31:59.480 --> 0:32:03.080
<v Speaker 1>other day and she said, and I'm gonna read what

0:32:03.160 --> 0:32:08.160
<v Speaker 1>she posted. Are you ready? She revealed that the late

0:32:08.240 --> 0:32:12.360
<v Speaker 1>Martin Luther King Jr. And his wife Coreti Scott King.

0:32:12.480 --> 0:32:16.280
<v Speaker 1>But we love paid the hospital bill for her birth

0:32:16.760 --> 0:32:22.960
<v Speaker 1>when her parents couldn't afford it. So I said to myself,

0:32:23.960 --> 0:32:28.000
<v Speaker 1>But I had so many questions. First of all, how

0:32:28.040 --> 0:32:30.920
<v Speaker 1>old is Julia Roberts? When was she born? Ji, I

0:32:30.920 --> 0:32:33.360
<v Speaker 1>don't know. Carl is gonna tell us? Okay, what's what's

0:32:33.360 --> 0:32:36.080
<v Speaker 1>the story on this? Okay, No, I'm she I don't know.

0:32:36.160 --> 0:32:40.240
<v Speaker 1>For whatever reason, she decided to tell this to us. Now,

0:32:40.680 --> 0:32:45.080
<v Speaker 1>Julia Roberts and pretty Woman was twenty years ago. You

0:32:45.120 --> 0:32:47.720
<v Speaker 1>didn't want to lead with that when you first came

0:32:47.920 --> 0:32:51.600
<v Speaker 1>into relevance. You didn't want to say, hey, by the way,

0:32:51.800 --> 0:32:54.959
<v Speaker 1>the great Martin Luther King and Coreti Scott King paid

0:32:55.040 --> 0:32:58.200
<v Speaker 1>for me to be born. Basically, you didn't want to

0:32:58.280 --> 0:33:02.360
<v Speaker 1>lead with that. That that is so interesting. It's random. Yes,

0:33:02.640 --> 0:33:06.080
<v Speaker 1>it's very random, so interesting, and I want to know, like, Okay,

0:33:06.120 --> 0:33:08.680
<v Speaker 1>where were she born? I guess it's Mississippi. Is something

0:33:08.760 --> 0:33:12.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. And the question is who was how

0:33:12.640 --> 0:33:15.840
<v Speaker 1>did that happen? Like is it was that Corretta and

0:33:16.320 --> 0:33:20.680
<v Speaker 1>Martin's like uma? Was that their their charity that they

0:33:20.720 --> 0:33:24.200
<v Speaker 1>were in hospitals helping out new newborn moms. It was

0:33:24.240 --> 0:33:26.280
<v Speaker 1>a charity. Okay. So we just got the story from Carl.

0:33:26.560 --> 0:33:28.840
<v Speaker 1>If y'a couldn't here, we're gonna tell you I'm a story. Okay.

0:33:28.880 --> 0:33:33.800
<v Speaker 1>So Julia Roberts mother had a theater school and she

0:33:33.840 --> 0:33:38.200
<v Speaker 1>would let Martin and Coretta Scott King's children participate in

0:33:38.200 --> 0:33:43.320
<v Speaker 1>the theater school. So in order I guess to pay this,

0:33:43.600 --> 0:33:45.720
<v Speaker 1>maybe they couldn't. Maybe the black kids couldn't go to

0:33:45.760 --> 0:33:49.040
<v Speaker 1>theater school because they were black. Okay. So when she

0:33:49.120 --> 0:33:52.600
<v Speaker 1>was pregnant with Julia and this was a giftback, So

0:33:52.640 --> 0:33:54.720
<v Speaker 1>Martin Luther King decided, Okay, I'm gonna give back because

0:33:54.760 --> 0:33:56.440
<v Speaker 1>you helped me. You you allowed my kids to go

0:33:56.480 --> 0:33:59.080
<v Speaker 1>to theater school and they're black, and I'm gonna help

0:33:59.120 --> 0:34:04.640
<v Speaker 1>you by paying for Julie Roberts birth. That's insane, it's amazing,

0:34:05.160 --> 0:34:09.880
<v Speaker 1>it is beyond amazing. Yes, but like, why, Julia Roberts

0:34:10.040 --> 0:34:12.640
<v Speaker 1>did you save this story? Why didn't I know this

0:34:12.719 --> 0:34:14.840
<v Speaker 1>a long time? She might have said it before and

0:34:14.840 --> 0:34:19.160
<v Speaker 1>when she didn't, she did not say this it's new information.

0:34:19.200 --> 0:34:21.680
<v Speaker 1>This is t okay. She spilled the tea and we

0:34:21.840 --> 0:34:24.960
<v Speaker 1>know who paid for her to be brought into this world. Wow,

0:34:26.200 --> 0:34:30.600
<v Speaker 1>is special. She is like, she's like a treasure. She's like, yeah,

0:34:30.640 --> 0:34:33.160
<v Speaker 1>a U s treasure. Yes. So, if if any white

0:34:33.200 --> 0:34:37.239
<v Speaker 1>actors actresses have any tidbits of information about Martin Luther King,

0:34:37.280 --> 0:34:39.879
<v Speaker 1>tell us now, don't let me wait twenty years for this,

0:34:40.360 --> 0:34:44.160
<v Speaker 1>okay and the end. That's awesome to know that like

0:34:44.400 --> 0:34:46.000
<v Speaker 1>Martin Luther King, you know, he was a black man

0:34:46.080 --> 0:34:50.799
<v Speaker 1>fighting for equality for black people. But they also, you know,

0:34:50.920 --> 0:34:53.719
<v Speaker 1>just because Julie Roberts parents were white, they weren't like,

0:34:53.719 --> 0:34:57.160
<v Speaker 1>oh no, we're not gonna you know, so they were

0:34:57.239 --> 0:34:59.360
<v Speaker 1>just you know, I feel like he lived by the

0:34:59.360 --> 0:35:03.600
<v Speaker 1>principles by which he preached. Yes, injustice anywhere is justice,

0:35:03.800 --> 0:35:10.480
<v Speaker 1>injustice everywhere? That it injustice somewhere is injustice everywhere? Yeah, okay,

0:35:10.560 --> 0:35:14.759
<v Speaker 1>so black girls and black boys, yes, a little white girls. What?

0:35:14.960 --> 0:35:16.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what? So we have I have a

0:35:16.640 --> 0:35:19.879
<v Speaker 1>diep up on our I have a dream. Yes, we got,

0:35:20.000 --> 0:35:21.839
<v Speaker 1>we got, We're gonna do some homework. Wait, wait minute,

0:35:21.840 --> 0:35:26.759
<v Speaker 1>we'll be ready for February black January, we'll be ready

0:35:26.800 --> 0:35:29.600
<v Speaker 1>for quotes in January. Oh my god, speaking of so,

0:35:29.640 --> 0:35:33.760
<v Speaker 1>first of all, y'all like elections, Yes, let's not forget

0:35:33.800 --> 0:35:36.399
<v Speaker 1>to talk about that. No, we're not. Okay, all right,

0:35:36.400 --> 0:35:40.080
<v Speaker 1>If you haven't voted early yet, then like, um, time

0:35:40.120 --> 0:35:43.560
<v Speaker 1>is running out and the big day is tomorrow tomorrow, yes,

0:35:43.640 --> 0:35:47.279
<v Speaker 1>big days tomorrow, November eight. Please vote. There's no reason

0:35:47.360 --> 0:35:49.239
<v Speaker 1>for you not to vote. Why are you not going

0:35:49.280 --> 0:35:52.000
<v Speaker 1>to vote? Right? I saw a woman on TV talking

0:35:52.000 --> 0:35:54.080
<v Speaker 1>about she wasn't want to vote. This was Oh my god,

0:35:54.400 --> 0:35:57.160
<v Speaker 1>it was. It was DC. They were talking about the mayor, um,

0:35:57.239 --> 0:35:59.440
<v Speaker 1>the election for the new mayor, whatever's going on in DC.

0:36:00.000 --> 0:36:02.560
<v Speaker 1>And they're like, you know, what are your issues with DC?

0:36:02.800 --> 0:36:05.000
<v Speaker 1>And she's like the crime. You know, everyone is like

0:36:05.040 --> 0:36:07.200
<v Speaker 1>the crime, the crime, the crime. And she's and they're like, well,

0:36:07.239 --> 0:36:08.359
<v Speaker 1>are you going to vote? She's like, I'm not going

0:36:08.400 --> 0:36:10.480
<v Speaker 1>to vote. I'm not going to vote because it never changes,

0:36:10.600 --> 0:36:14.880
<v Speaker 1>nothing changes. Okay, I just want to let y'all know.

0:36:15.120 --> 0:36:19.080
<v Speaker 1>I just Bryant took her daughter, Grace Bryant, to vote,

0:36:19.320 --> 0:36:22.120
<v Speaker 1>so we did early voting. It was Grace's first time

0:36:23.000 --> 0:36:26.160
<v Speaker 1>that she was capable and able to vote, and um,

0:36:26.239 --> 0:36:29.239
<v Speaker 1>it was a celebration up in there. They were so

0:36:29.320 --> 0:36:31.920
<v Speaker 1>excited that it was Grace's first time. They gave her

0:36:31.920 --> 0:36:34.960
<v Speaker 1>a standing ovation and everybody was super happy. I did

0:36:35.080 --> 0:36:36.799
<v Speaker 1>have to have poor with her ballot, but that's not

0:36:36.840 --> 0:36:40.239
<v Speaker 1>the point. She You know, she felt like she contributed.

0:36:41.080 --> 0:36:43.160
<v Speaker 1>She felt like a person. Yeah, I feel like I

0:36:43.200 --> 0:36:45.480
<v Speaker 1>remember the first time I voted, and it was definitely

0:36:45.680 --> 0:36:48.879
<v Speaker 1>significant and I felt, you know, like I was doing

0:36:48.920 --> 0:36:52.040
<v Speaker 1>something right. But that's nice that they acknowledged that they did.

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<v Speaker 1>They were they were so excited, and um, we have

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<v Speaker 1>a significant governoratorial governor ratep goobernatorial race here in the

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<v Speaker 1>state of Maryland, and we are pulling for Westmore. So

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<v Speaker 1>when I see west when he wins, because he's going to,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna tell him that Grace's first vote was for him.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yes, that's really nice. Yeah I think so. Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>So with that being said, if you're in Maryland, please

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<v Speaker 1>vote for Westmore. Okay. He's an amazing, amazing, amazing person,

0:37:22.000 --> 0:37:23.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, I mean, and I know we need more

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<v Speaker 1>than just an amazing person to run our state. Um,

0:37:26.560 --> 0:37:30.480
<v Speaker 1>but I know that he's super qualified and capable to

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<v Speaker 1>do it, and he has great people around him. So

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<v Speaker 1>please vote for Westmore. It's very important. And I know

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people are like, oh, yeah, what's this

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<v Speaker 1>going to get it? What's this going to get it? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's want to take cannot take it for granted,

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<v Speaker 1>because I really I felt like years ago we took

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<v Speaker 1>it for granted that Hillary Clinton was going to win.

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<v Speaker 1>And we all, you know, we all the Democrats received

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<v Speaker 1>the shock of our lives when Trump won. So so

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<v Speaker 1>let's not take it for granted. And please show up

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<v Speaker 1>and vote for Westmore, um if you want to sport

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<v Speaker 1>the Democrats. And and a little bit on that note,

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<v Speaker 1>and I I hate to bring this up, but we

0:38:06.560 --> 0:38:09.400
<v Speaker 1>have to bring this up because we can't stick our

0:38:09.440 --> 0:38:12.680
<v Speaker 1>heads in the sand. Speaking of Trump, one of these

0:38:12.800 --> 0:38:20.239
<v Speaker 1>Trumpers decided to go to Nancy Pelosi's house in San Francisco.

0:38:21.680 --> 0:38:25.279
<v Speaker 1>She was not there, but her husband was, and this

0:38:25.360 --> 0:38:31.239
<v Speaker 1>man beat Peter Pelosi with a hammer practice skull. I

0:38:31.280 --> 0:38:36.920
<v Speaker 1>think um injured his torso horrible. This has got to stop.

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<v Speaker 1>Just because you have different political views than somebody else

0:38:39.880 --> 0:38:43.000
<v Speaker 1>does not mean that they should be harmed. We have

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<v Speaker 1>to respect each other's different views the end, it's disgusting.

0:38:49.440 --> 0:38:53.320
<v Speaker 1>It's beyond disgusting, disgusting. Yeah, and I can't. I would

0:38:53.440 --> 0:38:55.520
<v Speaker 1>hate to think. And you know, I'm gonna speak for

0:38:55.560 --> 0:38:59.080
<v Speaker 1>my children, my um for us, or for our children

0:38:59.280 --> 0:39:02.200
<v Speaker 1>to fee feel like they're going to be hurt physically

0:39:02.200 --> 0:39:04.880
<v Speaker 1>because I have different political views than the next person.

0:39:05.280 --> 0:39:07.640
<v Speaker 1>Like that should never happen like that, That's not what

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<v Speaker 1>America is about. No, that's not what our country is about.

0:39:11.160 --> 0:39:13.480
<v Speaker 1>That's what other countries are about. Like, that's not what

0:39:13.719 --> 0:39:16.520
<v Speaker 1>That's not what this country is about. It just so

0:39:17.400 --> 0:39:20.640
<v Speaker 1>it's heartbreaking. It's heartbreaking to see where we are. It's

0:39:20.680 --> 0:39:23.920
<v Speaker 1>so crazy. You I I know when I was like younger,

0:39:24.040 --> 0:39:26.280
<v Speaker 1>maybe in high school, and when I thought about the future,

0:39:27.040 --> 0:39:30.919
<v Speaker 1>I didn't envision this. I didn't envision our country being

0:39:31.120 --> 0:39:34.640
<v Speaker 1>like I feel like we're we've gone so far backwards.

0:39:35.400 --> 0:39:37.920
<v Speaker 1>And I did not picture that as an adult I

0:39:37.960 --> 0:39:41.560
<v Speaker 1>would be seeing times like this in America. Now. It's

0:39:41.680 --> 0:39:45.640
<v Speaker 1>it's it's bad. Okay. So on another note, happier note, Robin,

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<v Speaker 1>We've got to talk about our toxic traits. It's a

0:39:49.239 --> 0:39:52.360
<v Speaker 1>people pull a question. And if you have a toxic trade,

0:39:52.800 --> 0:39:55.440
<v Speaker 1>please send us a little email as to what it is,

0:39:55.440 --> 0:39:59.400
<v Speaker 1>because they're typically very funny. Is your toxic trade? So,

0:39:59.400 --> 0:40:02.319
<v Speaker 1>so what is your toxic trait? Okay? So, but like

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<v Speaker 1>what might be toxic to someone else, right, might not

0:40:07.000 --> 0:40:12.040
<v Speaker 1>be toxic. Okay. For instance, you probably hate the fact

0:40:12.080 --> 0:40:16.319
<v Speaker 1>that I'm like energetic and happy like most of the time. No,

0:40:16.520 --> 0:40:21.399
<v Speaker 1>that's yes, that's not toxic. No, okay, So I don't

0:40:21.440 --> 0:40:24.400
<v Speaker 1>have any toxic traits. No, I'm just going to tell you,

0:40:24.440 --> 0:40:27.719
<v Speaker 1>like sounds perfect, you don't have any? Yeah, okay. So

0:40:27.719 --> 0:40:31.000
<v Speaker 1>so first, also funny, somebody commented on one of my

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<v Speaker 1>um on Instagram posts. It's like not related to the post,

0:40:34.480 --> 0:40:37.960
<v Speaker 1>but it was like, by the way, Wan's toxic traite

0:40:38.440 --> 0:40:43.799
<v Speaker 1>is walking away from difficult conversations. Oh and I'm like,

0:40:43.960 --> 0:40:46.799
<v Speaker 1>you're absolutely right, Like that's that's what he does. Like

0:40:46.840 --> 0:40:49.560
<v Speaker 1>when he doesn't want to talk about something, he just

0:40:49.600 --> 0:40:52.200
<v Speaker 1>walks away. He walks away. That would irritate the heck.

0:40:52.640 --> 0:40:55.560
<v Speaker 1>So they said that because they saw him do it

0:40:55.560 --> 0:40:57.719
<v Speaker 1>on the show. They actually we've seen him do a

0:40:57.800 --> 0:41:03.040
<v Speaker 1>multiple time, maybe four over the seven seasons. Yes, okay,

0:41:03.040 --> 0:41:06.600
<v Speaker 1>so wait, so I have a question that wait, has

0:41:06.760 --> 0:41:09.720
<v Speaker 1>have you all had a conversation. He was walking away

0:41:09.800 --> 0:41:11.359
<v Speaker 1>and you got up and you jumped on his back.

0:41:12.040 --> 0:41:13.960
<v Speaker 1>You will not leave, and you tackle him and you

0:41:14.000 --> 0:41:15.919
<v Speaker 1>throw him on the ground and you head to him.

0:41:16.280 --> 0:41:19.640
<v Speaker 1>You're a bad less than to me, No, because I

0:41:19.719 --> 0:41:22.799
<v Speaker 1>know how to so, so I know how to deal

0:41:22.880 --> 0:41:24.480
<v Speaker 1>with it, right, how do you deal with it? So

0:41:24.520 --> 0:41:26.839
<v Speaker 1>the way I deal with it, I let him walk away. Yeah,

0:41:27.160 --> 0:41:29.720
<v Speaker 1>I let him stew in his thoughts and his feelings,

0:41:30.280 --> 0:41:33.160
<v Speaker 1>and then I just wait, how wait? How long we wait?

0:41:33.280 --> 0:41:35.520
<v Speaker 1>Rob like days? It could be it could be the

0:41:35.560 --> 0:41:37.640
<v Speaker 1>next day, it could be it could be that, you know,

0:41:38.000 --> 0:41:40.359
<v Speaker 1>hours later, it could be the next day, because I

0:41:40.440 --> 0:41:45.200
<v Speaker 1>know he's always going to come back around. Oh, and

0:41:45.239 --> 0:41:48.719
<v Speaker 1>then we like so you know when you said and

0:41:48.880 --> 0:41:50.839
<v Speaker 1>I can't believe you. You know what I'm saying. So

0:41:51.040 --> 0:41:53.640
<v Speaker 1>he always brings it back up. You don't have to

0:41:53.640 --> 0:41:57.080
<v Speaker 1>bring it back up. I just ignore it. Wow, that

0:41:57.280 --> 0:42:00.719
<v Speaker 1>is okay. So my toxic trade is I would be like,

0:42:00.800 --> 0:42:02.960
<v Speaker 1>oh hey, oh no, you ain't walking away, right, and

0:42:03.000 --> 0:42:06.719
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna talk about this right now. That's my toxic right. Yeah. Yeah,

0:42:06.760 --> 0:42:08.920
<v Speaker 1>Like I know how to do like the reverse psychology

0:42:08.920 --> 0:42:12.239
<v Speaker 1>where I'm just and then I just wait and then

0:42:12.280 --> 0:42:14.280
<v Speaker 1>come back. So what so what happens in the reverse?

0:42:14.320 --> 0:42:16.160
<v Speaker 1>What if he says something to you that you don't

0:42:16.320 --> 0:42:21.320
<v Speaker 1>want to talk about. Um, I don't, Yeah, I don't. Um,

0:42:21.360 --> 0:42:23.399
<v Speaker 1>I don't walk away like I try to like talk

0:42:23.440 --> 0:42:26.640
<v Speaker 1>it out. I try to talk it out. But another

0:42:26.880 --> 0:42:29.200
<v Speaker 1>toxic trade of his is he cuts me off all

0:42:29.200 --> 0:42:32.280
<v Speaker 1>the time. So like you know, even if I'm talking

0:42:32.360 --> 0:42:34.160
<v Speaker 1>and then he cuts me off, and I'm like, you're

0:42:34.160 --> 0:42:37.440
<v Speaker 1>cutting me off, and then and then I try to

0:42:37.440 --> 0:42:39.440
<v Speaker 1>talk again and I'm like, you're cutting me off and

0:42:39.440 --> 0:42:41.520
<v Speaker 1>then and so he walks away and then he walks

0:42:44.880 --> 0:42:51.840
<v Speaker 1>So he does do things wrong, okay, and that's what

0:42:52.080 --> 0:42:56.120
<v Speaker 1>Like I cannot stand being cut off, Like no, like

0:42:56.160 --> 0:42:59.000
<v Speaker 1>when I feel like I'm I'm trying to that I'm

0:42:59.040 --> 0:43:01.560
<v Speaker 1>trying to have a civil conversation, like I'm literally just

0:43:01.600 --> 0:43:03.359
<v Speaker 1>trying to explain what's going on, and then I get

0:43:03.400 --> 0:43:06.000
<v Speaker 1>cut off in the person like they cut you off

0:43:06.040 --> 0:43:08.000
<v Speaker 1>because they don't want to hear what you have to say,

0:43:08.280 --> 0:43:11.760
<v Speaker 1>that because you're gonna hear what I have to say,

0:43:12.200 --> 0:43:15.399
<v Speaker 1>right wow? So so yeah, So anyway, so I thought

0:43:15.440 --> 0:43:17.840
<v Speaker 1>that was funny that it was like um on stocks,

0:43:18.200 --> 0:43:22.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm like you're so right. It is. Um, I think

0:43:22.400 --> 0:43:26.600
<v Speaker 1>my toxic traite and I think you kind of have

0:43:26.719 --> 0:43:33.120
<v Speaker 1>a same similar trait is like is it's weird. It's like, um,

0:43:33.160 --> 0:43:35.399
<v Speaker 1>it's like good and bad. It's like good for us,

0:43:36.160 --> 0:43:38.239
<v Speaker 1>but it can be bad for the people in the

0:43:38.239 --> 0:43:41.000
<v Speaker 1>receiving end. Like I literally just don't care, like I say,

0:43:41.360 --> 0:43:43.600
<v Speaker 1>I say the words I don't care often because I

0:43:43.800 --> 0:43:48.200
<v Speaker 1>really like, like I don't care about what someone thinks

0:43:48.200 --> 0:43:51.759
<v Speaker 1>of me, or I don't care you know, okay, like

0:43:51.800 --> 0:43:55.880
<v Speaker 1>if you call me, you know, fifty million whatever words

0:43:55.920 --> 0:43:57.719
<v Speaker 1>up my name, like I don't really care. But is

0:43:57.760 --> 0:44:00.839
<v Speaker 1>that a toxic traite? No, that's like survival, that's like

0:44:01.080 --> 0:44:04.399
<v Speaker 1>how we handle the bullshit. But for me, I think

0:44:04.400 --> 0:44:06.719
<v Speaker 1>it gets toxic when, like say I do have a

0:44:06.760 --> 0:44:12.200
<v Speaker 1>disagreement with someone because I don't care, like my I

0:44:12.280 --> 0:44:15.279
<v Speaker 1>become emotionally detached. So maybe the maybe the toxic trait

0:44:15.400 --> 0:44:19.800
<v Speaker 1>is that I am capable of becoming emotionally detached. Yes,

0:44:20.080 --> 0:44:23.080
<v Speaker 1>and I that's my toxic trait and I love it, right,

0:44:23.280 --> 0:44:25.480
<v Speaker 1>I think it's amazing. Right, It's like it's great, And

0:44:25.480 --> 0:44:27.759
<v Speaker 1>that's the thing I'm like, I wish I tell people

0:44:27.880 --> 0:44:31.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm like I wish you could like have this toxic

0:44:31.920 --> 0:44:35.760
<v Speaker 1>trait because then you won't like stew and like stress

0:44:35.760 --> 0:44:38.120
<v Speaker 1>over things all the time. You're not gonna sit around

0:44:38.360 --> 0:44:39.920
<v Speaker 1>you know why she say that? Why does she do that?

0:44:39.960 --> 0:44:41.440
<v Speaker 1>Why do you do that? Blah blah blah. Like I'm

0:44:41.480 --> 0:44:43.600
<v Speaker 1>literally type like I can emotionally detach and like I

0:44:43.600 --> 0:44:45.839
<v Speaker 1>would never have to speak to you again in my life.

0:44:46.560 --> 0:44:48.799
<v Speaker 1>I never see your face. Yeah, Like I don't need

0:44:48.840 --> 0:44:51.759
<v Speaker 1>the explanation. I don't know you said what she said? What? Okay? Bye?

0:44:51.800 --> 0:44:54.520
<v Speaker 1>We can okay, like in the story By and good.

0:44:55.000 --> 0:44:57.840
<v Speaker 1>But I think that becomes that can be toxic because

0:44:57.880 --> 0:45:01.920
<v Speaker 1>the person on the receiving end who may care and

0:45:01.960 --> 0:45:04.759
<v Speaker 1>they want to see that you care. It's like you

0:45:04.800 --> 0:45:07.640
<v Speaker 1>make it worse because you don't care because you literally

0:45:07.680 --> 0:45:09.840
<v Speaker 1>just cut them off and act like they never existed,

0:45:10.880 --> 0:45:12.960
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. I think it's better just

0:45:13.000 --> 0:45:15.640
<v Speaker 1>to cut them off, act like they didn't exist. That's yes,

0:45:15.920 --> 0:45:19.160
<v Speaker 1>I like that. It's been working for me very well. No, right, right,

0:45:19.200 --> 0:45:22.040
<v Speaker 1>but I just but I do think that that it works.

0:45:22.040 --> 0:45:24.960
<v Speaker 1>But then you have to like think about I don't know,

0:45:25.600 --> 0:45:28.919
<v Speaker 1>just to a degree, like you gotta show some sort

0:45:28.920 --> 0:45:32.520
<v Speaker 1>of emotions somehow. Okay, We're only gonna show emotions to

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